Getting married in a few days💃❤️ and l don't take for granted all the knowledge I have been digging in from you guys for the past 5 years. It's more like y'all were brought forth in my life right when l needed you.I had the best single season,just by applying and acting on some of the wisdom you gave out.And now that marriage season is here🤗❤️,I know I will live the best out of it. Y'all amazing and thank you❤️❤️
Aesthetics✅ Quality✅ Looks✅ Content✅ Pls, I’m not even in a relationship but I desire to have this type of connection with someone’s son🙏🏽🤞🏽 I love you guys❤️
Everytime I come here I know that I'll be given a new tool to work with or be reminded of a tool I received before. Single 22 year old and absolutely blessed to have this information, I was in a relationship a few days ago and I noticed that I've gotten better at relationships since watching you guys and other Godly led couples. Thanks ♡
The podcast Mpoomy mentions at 6:01 about the psychologist making reference of your dream person as your nightmare is a Super Soul Conversations episode called Getting The Love You Want.
And I’m wondering why she doesn’t share the podcast lol thanks sis I’ve read that analogy somewhere would love to love to hear it again with more perspective
@@MsOwam she probably forgot where exactly she heard it from, which is natural especially if you listen to a lot of podcasts/if you've listened to it a while back
I love seeing young people in relationships grow. It's evident that it's possible. I got married at 19 and I wish I had this kind of platform to guide and encourage me. Today we have been together for 12 years. This was beautiful, you don't stop learning.❤️
I'am a young girl and listening to you guys I always desire a relationship that has a strong spiritual connection Thank you guys for so much transparency 👏👏❤ Use are such an inspiration to the youth out there , keep doing what you doing for the Lord 🙌🙌🙏
I am 17 but I have been following you guys from Zimbabwe and I just learn a lot about relationships from what you guys talk about it , I love it 🥰 never miss an episode
Thank you guys.. and I am 28 and this year we are five years in our marriage so yeh it's true that it gets sweeter at this stage. I am now waking up to my dream job and I always learn something.
I don't think I'll ever have the words to express how grateful I am to God for you guys and your work. There's a scripture that says people perish because of lack of knowledge. As a young person it's so easy to get in situations that aren't pleasant simply because we don't know. You guys give us an opportunity to know how to navigate through relationships from your personal experiences and God's word and I couldn't be more grateful. Thank you so much for allowing God to use you on such a powerful way. May He continue to give you the grace to keep on keeping on
fam can we please just take a moment and look at how stunning Mpoomy smile/teeth look💖💖💕💕, THANK YOU SO MUCH BRENDEN & MPOOMY FOR THE SEEDS YOU PLANTING IN OUR LIFES.
i honestly really enjoy how raw and authentic your content is, its much appreciated to hear the honest perspective of marriage and life as a whole from a young spiritually evolved couple, i often take alot from you guys that i can apply to my life even with me being at a completly differnt stage from you guys.
The five year mark is a real thing, we are on year 7 of marriage and we’ve gotten to such a great place since the fifth year, we understand each other so much even in the not so good moments. It honestly gets so good that you start to function like a pair of legs.
Mara guys the visual are clean yong !!!!! Before ke ya fere I just need to say aesthetically you gave us mollo but in the calmest way possible I can't even.
The honesty and wisdom you two possess is amazing. It’s so beautiful to watch how you articulate as clear as possible the reality of marriage and relationship in general. 😅the metaphors Brenden is sharing are relatable as well. You guys are such a blessing.We should embrace each season and the new individuals it requires us to be.Growth is not easy but necessary.
I can relate to the hardest part of being a parent and having to sort of put your career dreams and aspirations on hold. I thought there was something wrong with me. But slowly now I am trying to find a balance.
Thank you guys for this amazing podcast, I started learning and maturing in my relationship the moment I realized that I should stop obsessing of the next step (marriage) whilst I still had a lot of changing and growing to do in the relationship. Now I understand how important the dating phase is or was to us and I am so thankful that we dated and still dating for the time that we did coz honestly the dating phase for us was needed. Not that we not gonna have challenges when we get married or anything but now because of the phase(dating) I feel that we have grown so much, so you guys are right we should never want to skip phases every phase is important.
so i am married to an older guy he doesn't listen to the podcasts for whatever reason but because of these podcasts i have taught him a lot especially communication, also managed to eliminate unnecessary fights (lol)because it was a mess, also i have learned to stop being anxious. i am relaxed now and enjoy our marriage with God in it. Learning a lot hey
@@phumzazozi6934 I workout and drink green tea and chamomile tea, cut off caffeine and do the dee if you get what I mean, and still learning n unlearning other habits
I have truly grown in many aspects from watching you guys...and made some tweaks here and there. Keep it up guys❤you are doing a great thing here. I have been with my high school sweetheart for 13 years!!!! This is still relevant to our marriage now
I need more black men to consume this kind of content ladies please share these video with the men you value and wanna see have healthy relationships and marriages 🙏🏽
God bless your ministry guys. May your cups always overflow. I speak Divine abundance, protection and guidance to you individually and as a family. We appreciate what you are doing. 🙏🏽💛
Firstly hi Mr & Mrs Ledwaba , Great show though, secondly wow my husband and I since day one we are just living in our own bubble. Everything in our 16 years in marriage I don’t wanna lie it’s been holiday mood . And what helps us was we knew what we wanted or I can my husband he was so specific from day one . And until today I myself growing inside my marriage wow and I thank and appreciate my partner so much . He was leading me and guiding me regardless I make mistakes there and there he never judged me and also do I . And again our marriage is been lead by God , where we are and what we have is God and I’m so grateful. My kids and my husband we living in the now even though life is life and marriage is marriage. Lastly very important marry your soulmate, partner, best friend you will never go wrong and again fall in love with good intentions the rest God will sort out the rest Amen .
Shooo! "How do you ensure that you don't short change your own life while still being responsible for all the things God has blessed you with" 😮 Brenden!. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and commiting to this platform seeing that platforms such as this awekho kangako and you guys just doing amazing in it. Nibahle! and may you guys stay blessed❤🙏🏾💎✨
A good listen ❤ in my opinion, make sure you've got a great bond with your husband/wife/partner before having a baby. We often think babies will save failing marriages/relationships
I love the truth and realness of this podcast. Marriage is exactly what you guys are talking about. We grow and learn each other more. I have being married for 9 years and is all good. We are really enjoying each other, after all the storms. 😂😂😂
Always looking forward to your videos. Thank you so much. I know you didn’t talk about singleness but I like how you said we need not to rush into the next season. Each season builds a certain trait that you might need for the next. It’s pretty lonely being single but I am encouraged to embrace it.♥️
Ok guys when you get time, I mean when you not really busy can we discuss Mrs. Mom's glow. As always very informative podcast may God continue to pour on you as you pour on us. Blessings upon blessings to you both and everyone around you.
As men we tend to get into marriage and cruise, believing that all is well just like you said Brenden and it is important for us to do a check-in every now and then. Siyabonga for your wisdom.
Yoh Mpoomy and Brenden always bring it. Thank you for good and meaningful content like this 🔥and like the comment said, I wish I could share with the whole world ✨absolute bliss you guys
I am only 23 I've been struggling to get the right guy for myself, sometimes I would cry and turn to think maybe something is wrong with me. After breaking up with the father of my child I was really broken n even now it's still hard to trust anyone in my space n my child's life as I stay with her. Watching your channels all the time helps me grow spiritually in the dynamic of the desire of wanting a relationship that will allow that person to easily connect with me. Coz at times I'd say maybe I am meant to be alone but sometimes it gets lonely as I want to settle, be married and find a place to belong in someone's world too.
Hi guys, silent long term subscriber here 🙈 but I’ve loved watching you guys evolve & im so happy for you for all you’ve achieved & been blessed with 🥰 Please could you give us the name of the podcast of the psychiatrist you quoted in the beginning Mpoomy. Thank you 🙏🏽
This is my second podcast watching and am so inspired guys am like where have you been guys🥰 am currently in my second year in dating and I've just learnt alot and I believe am in the right path for marriage🤗... Its amazing when God is the center of it all❤️
thank you so much for this conversation, Every season has its own purpose. this is such an important conversation. lessons and memories that you created will hold you and carry you at some point.
Ayboh Mama Ledwaba ubuhle obungaka🙆🥰❤️(an I have been married for three years now yhoooooo I have a Testimony bt I love my Man 🥰) thank you guys God is using you for our generation an generation's to came .may God keep and protect you an ur family ❤️.
Getting married in a few days💃❤️ and l don't take for granted all the knowledge I have been digging in from you guys for the past 5 years. It's more like y'all were brought forth in my life right when l needed you.I had the best single season,just by applying and acting on some of the wisdom you gave out.And now that marriage season is here🤗❤️,I know I will live the best out of it. Y'all amazing and thank you❤️❤️
💐🤗😍
Congratulations Sis’🎊♥️
Congratulations Sis. All the best in your marriage. May it be blessed always🙏🏽💛
Congratulations 🎉 🎉💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
@@Kenolow.Motloung28 Thank you Mami❤️❤️
You two are far ahead of your peers👌🏾 Honestly your wisdom is divine. I learn a lot each time I listen to you! Thank you for being such a blessing!❤
I agree
Mpoomy is so pretty
Aesthetics✅
Quality✅
Looks✅
Content✅
Pls, I’m not even in a relationship but I desire to have this type of connection with someone’s son🙏🏽🤞🏽 I love you guys❤️
U guys deserve everything coming your way... May u grow older together with God.. Ur bigest fan
Everytime I come here I know that I'll be given a new tool to work with or be reminded of a tool I received before. Single 22 year old and absolutely blessed to have this information, I was in a relationship a few days ago and I noticed that I've gotten better at relationships since watching you guys and other Godly led couples. Thanks ♡
😍❤️👏🏽
Mpoomy used to sing from class to class back in Uni, such a bubbly soul. Love you guys so much
The podcast Mpoomy mentions at 6:01 about the psychologist making reference of your dream person as your nightmare is a Super Soul Conversations episode called Getting The Love You Want.
😘👌🏾you are Amazing♥️
Blessing to you sis for the plug 👏🏾
And I’m wondering why she doesn’t share the podcast lol thanks sis I’ve read that analogy somewhere would love to love to hear it again with more perspective
@@MsOwam she probably forgot where exactly she heard it from, which is natural especially if you listen to a lot of podcasts/if you've listened to it a while back
I love seeing young people in relationships grow. It's evident that it's possible. I got married at 19 and I wish I had this kind of platform to guide and encourage me. Today we have been together for 12 years. This was beautiful, you don't stop learning.❤️
I'am a young girl and listening to you guys I always desire a relationship that has a strong spiritual connection
Thank you guys for so much transparency 👏👏❤
Use are such an inspiration to the youth out there , keep doing what you doing for the Lord 🙌🙌🙏
Sis Mpoomy you became an older sister to me and I love you guys 🥺♥️you are paving a way to a young woman who loves God 🙏🏽
Truly is, couldn’t have said it any better ❤️👏🏻
Brenden's wisdom and honesty 🔥🔥 I like what he said about going back into a shell as part of growing to figure things out and the cocoon part.
I am 17 but I have been following you guys from Zimbabwe and I just learn a lot about relationships from what you guys talk about it , I love it 🥰 never miss an episode
I get Brendan's metaphors....severing the season you are in yelds results
Thank you guys.. and I am 28 and this year we are five years in our marriage so yeh it's true that it gets sweeter at this stage. I am now waking up to my dream job and I always learn something.
“I remembered that this is the same person that hops”🥺😩❤️
Mpoomy you're the big sister I never had.. I thank God for your life ❤️🙏
Amen!! 🙏🏻❤️
I don't think I'll ever have the words to express how grateful I am to God for you guys and your work. There's a scripture that says people perish because of lack of knowledge. As a young person it's so easy to get in situations that aren't pleasant simply because we don't know. You guys give us an opportunity to know how to navigate through relationships from your personal experiences and God's word and I couldn't be more grateful. Thank you so much for allowing God to use you on such a powerful way. May He continue to give you the grace to keep on keeping on
Just finished it on Spotify and I still needed the visuals 🤣🙏🏽❤️
Same 😭❤️
About to run to Spotify now 😂🏃♀️
Ohhh family !!! What an episode .. bars on bars . Truth on truth ❤️
fam can we please just take a moment and look at how stunning Mpoomy smile/teeth look💖💖💕💕, THANK YOU SO MUCH BRENDEN & MPOOMY FOR THE SEEDS YOU PLANTING IN OUR LIFES.
i honestly really enjoy how raw and authentic your content is, its much appreciated to hear the honest perspective of marriage and life as a whole from a young spiritually evolved couple, i often take alot from you guys that i can apply to my life even with me being at a completly differnt stage from you guys.
Best believe I’ll watch it here and then go over to the apple podcast and download it!😍😍😍
Love the energy!! 😂👏🏻👏🏻
Brenden: How do you measure growth? You grow differently. Withdrawing is also growth. Introspection
The five year mark is a real thing, we are on year 7 of marriage and we’ve gotten to such a great place since the fifth year, we understand each other so much even in the not so good moments. It honestly gets so good that you start to function like a pair of legs.
What a beautiful reminder to embrace each and every season. Thanks for sharing yourselves with us🤎
Y’all really draw me in ,I find myself smiling and laughing along to your conversation🤣
Mara guys the visual are clean yong !!!!! Before ke ya fere I just need to say aesthetically you gave us mollo but in the calmest way possible I can't even.
This podcast was so authentic. Thank you. Learning immensely
"My first option is to always fix" absolutely love this. Awesome content guys. Thanks for not selling us dreams tlhe and keeping it real.
Mr Ledwaba was right Mpume is getting more and more beautiful each n every day WOW girl iGlow🥰💞
😂😂😂 we really do get the metaphors, and they are really good. That dream job analogy and getting paid your worth 👌🏾
The honesty and wisdom you two possess is amazing. It’s so beautiful to watch how you articulate as clear as possible the reality of marriage and relationship in general. 😅the metaphors Brenden is sharing are relatable as well. You guys are such a blessing.We should embrace each season and the new individuals it requires us to be.Growth is not easy but necessary.
I can relate to the hardest part of being a parent and having to sort of put your career dreams and aspirations on hold. I thought there was something wrong with me. But slowly now I am trying to find a balance.
I get Brenden's metaphors mahn 😂
Wow Mpumi! "The love of your life and your worst nightmare..." ❤️🔥🔥🔥
I felt that 😂😂😂
@@love_jae It hit hard 😂😂😂
Thank you guys for this amazing podcast, I started learning and maturing in my relationship the moment I realized that I should stop obsessing of the next step (marriage) whilst I still had a lot of changing and growing to do in the relationship. Now I understand how important the dating phase is or was to us and I am so thankful that we dated and still dating for the time that we did coz honestly the dating phase for us was needed. Not that we not gonna have challenges when we get married or anything but now because of the phase(dating) I feel that we have grown so much, so you guys are right we should never want to skip phases every phase is important.
Brenden gets so shy when Mpoomy gets a bit silly, it’s so funny to watch 🤣🤣🤣
I can attest to the 5 year mark...I've been married for almost 7 years and we've never been happier
Amen❤️❤️👏🏻👏🏻
What was your secret?
🙌may Gods grace keep your marriage and love growing even stronger with the years!
@@runner9528 Looking for the good in my husband because i loved him and i still do
I’m always in awe of the wisdom you two have accumulated over the years. One can only aspire to be just as wholesome 🤍
One thing about you is that you are an inspiration. Thank you for being real with us 🙏
so i am married to an older guy he doesn't listen to the podcasts for whatever reason but because of these podcasts i have taught him a lot especially communication, also managed to eliminate unnecessary fights (lol)because it was a mess, also i have learned to stop being anxious. i am relaxed now and enjoy our marriage with God in it. Learning a lot hey
If you don't mind sharing Anna, what steps did you take to eliminate anxiety?
@@phumzazozi6934 I workout and drink green tea and chamomile tea, cut off caffeine and do the dee if you get what I mean, and still learning n unlearning other habits
I have truly grown in many aspects from watching you guys...and made some tweaks here and there. Keep it up guys❤you are doing a great thing here. I have been with my high school sweetheart for 13 years!!!! This is still relevant to our marriage now
❤️
The quality of this video 👌🏾🔥 you guys look cute, beautiful, gorgeous all in one😍😍
One thing about Mpoomy she talks about how her sexually life is lovely in almost all of the podcasts 😂.
Without saying da words
Thank you guys, Contentment is the word that came up after the podcast. I enjoyed it so much.
I need more black men to consume this kind of content ladies please share these video with the men you value and wanna see have healthy relationships and marriages 🙏🏽
God bless your ministry guys. May your cups always overflow. I speak Divine abundance, protection and guidance to you individually and as a family. We appreciate what you are doing. 🙏🏽💛
In two weeks if not less then a month we will be at 200 000 subbies. Can't wait to see what you guys will be doing for your celebration
"What you focus on grows" that spoke to me. Thank you guys ❤
This actually applies to life in general. 🥺🙌🏾
Yoh! Brenden though! 🙌🏾 “Not to short-change my life.” That’s an answer to my prayer about balancing career and being a mommy. Thank you
Firstly hi Mr & Mrs Ledwaba ,
Great show though, secondly wow my husband and I since day one we are just living in our own bubble. Everything in our 16 years in marriage I don’t wanna lie it’s been holiday mood . And what helps us was we knew what we wanted or I can my husband he was so specific from day one . And until today I myself growing inside my marriage wow and I thank and appreciate my partner so much . He was leading me and guiding me regardless I make mistakes there and there he never judged me and also do I . And again our marriage is been lead by God , where we are and what we have is God and I’m so grateful. My kids and my husband we living in the now even though life is life and marriage is marriage. Lastly very important marry your soulmate, partner, best friend you will never go wrong and again fall in love with good intentions the rest God will sort out the rest Amen .
The quality of these videos is insane. Loved it.
The wisdom that you sharee on this podcast is just 🤯😭❤ thank you. Love the insight u gave into the question at the end
Shooo! "How do you ensure that you don't short change your own life while still being responsible for all the things God has blessed you with" 😮 Brenden!. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and commiting to this platform seeing that platforms such as this awekho kangako and you guys just doing amazing in it. Nibahle! and may you guys stay blessed❤🙏🏾💎✨
Don't try and rush yourself out of a phase 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Brendon is really wise shem yaz…Thankful for you guys
The wisdom coming from you guys is so enriching. Thank you for this :)
Mrs mom is so beautiful yoh... I love it here honestly!!!
It's me gathering all my attention before watching because I know there's a lot I'll be learning. We love hearing from you 💜💜💜
A good listen ❤ in my opinion, make sure you've got a great bond with your husband/wife/partner before having a baby. We often think babies will save failing marriages/relationships
Hi Mpummy I just wanna ask. When Brenden was going through his dark moment and you were the light, wasn't he trying to shut your light?
“What you focus on grows”🙌
I love the truth and realness of this podcast. Marriage is exactly what you guys are talking about. We grow and learn each other more. I have being married for 9 years and is all good. We are really enjoying each other, after all the storms. 😂😂😂
Always looking forward to your videos. Thank you so much.
I know you didn’t talk about singleness but I like how you said we need not to rush into the next season. Each season builds a certain trait that you might need for the next. It’s pretty lonely being single but I am encouraged to embrace it.♥️
"Girl I don't do that, that ain't me!!! " 😂😂😂. Honesty is the bet policy, being a paid actor is work. This was such a beautiful podcast. Thank you ❤️
Absolutely admire you two💜
I relate to what Mpoomy is saying about becoming a parent
favourite thing for me "i remembered that this is the person that hops" wow guys
It’s so true about the 5year mark everything gets better honestly 🥰🥰🥰
Ok guys when you get time, I mean when you not really busy can we discuss Mrs. Mom's glow.
As always very informative podcast may God continue to pour on you as you pour on us. Blessings upon blessings to you both and everyone around you.
Y’all are truly thee example!! please keep on inspiring & blessing us with your journey, we grateful ❤️❤️🙏🏻✨
Mpoomy should work on radio, her voice is so soothing ☺️
Right ?
I love it as well, I enjoy listening to her
As men we tend to get into marriage and cruise, believing that all is well just like you said Brenden and it is important for us to do a check-in every now and then. Siyabonga for your wisdom.
This was definitely for me, especially on the growth part. Thank you
Yoh Mpoomy and Brenden always bring it. Thank you for good and meaningful content like this 🔥and like the comment said, I wish I could share with the whole world ✨absolute bliss you guys
Thank you so much for this eye opening podcast. Starting to embrace all seasons.
Superbalist is definitely my fighter. I don't know how much I've saved with their sales and offers. 🤩🤩🤩
Best online shopping experience!! 🥺😍😍
I am only 23 I've been struggling to get the right guy for myself, sometimes I would cry and turn to think maybe something is wrong with me. After breaking up with the father of my child I was really broken n even now it's still hard to trust anyone in my space n my child's life as I stay with her. Watching your channels all the time helps me grow spiritually in the dynamic of the desire of wanting a relationship that will allow that person to easily connect with me. Coz at times I'd say maybe I am meant to be alone but sometimes it gets lonely as I want to settle, be married and find a place to belong in someone's world too.
Back here to listen to this again😍😍😍
Brenden, you have a strong head on your shoulders 🙌 thanks guys for this!
I never know what to say man. Ya'll have a beautiful thing❤️😥 may God bless your family forever and always.. Thank you for changing my life
Enjoyed this episode! 😊
Love from Uganda 🧡
Brenden's wisdom 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
YOU GUYS ARE SUPER AMAIZING, I DONT KNOW HOW YOU DO IT BUT I BELIEVE GOD GAVE YOU A HUGE ROLL AND THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS PODCAST....
7 years of completion…. Mpoomy said 7… It has come full circle and I pray God just blesses your union all the more.
I love this!😍
The responsibility and change that comes with being married and having kids is inevitable.
Hi guys, silent long term subscriber here 🙈 but I’ve loved watching you guys evolve & im so happy for you for all you’ve achieved & been blessed with 🥰
Please could you give us the name of the podcast of the psychiatrist you quoted in the beginning Mpoomy. Thank you 🙏🏽
We all buzzing!! 😍❤️
Oprah’s Super Soul: Getting the love you want
@@MsOwam thank you!
Awwwwwww you guys are the best, may God continue to bless this union♥️
Worth watching, worth 26 minutes and more, worth my time and worth enjoying. Thank you for the amazing content.
This is my second podcast watching and am so inspired guys am like where have you been guys🥰 am currently in my second year in dating and I've just learnt alot and I believe am in the right path for marriage🤗... Its amazing when God is the center of it all❤️
I just noticed the matching cross tattoos...cute❤
Mpumi dropped out of uj when she was 21 and I’m at uj and 21.
God is that u speaking?👀👄
😂😂😂like God i see what you doing
🤣🤣🤣😂
Take all the signs you need sister!! 🤣🤣🤣
Lol Rest!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
Always find your content refreshing...thanks for sharing
I LOVE YOU GUYS . oh my word your vlogs always speak to Ntate Newman and I . you are our daily therapy nje . Stay blessed.
I keep learning...thank you so much
Really loved this! Thank you both - it's always insightful to have a perspective from both genders.
thank you so much for this conversation, Every season has its own purpose. this is such an important conversation. lessons and memories that you created will hold you and carry you at some point.
Ayboh
Mama Ledwaba ubuhle obungaka🙆🥰❤️(an I have been married for three years now yhoooooo I have a Testimony bt I love my Man 🥰) thank you guys God is using you for our generation an generation's to came .may God keep and protect you an ur family ❤️.