I’m genuinely scared I will never find a boyfriend because I know most guys look at Instagram models all day so they have higher expectations that I can’t fulfill
Don’t worry, if he’s extremely superficial he probably won’t treat you right and doesn’t deserve you anyways! I‘m sure you will find someone who loves you because of you ^^
Jasmin And it’s sad because it is the only, THE ONLY thing that I have the best. I don’t like my face 😕 I have a tiny waist, I have a big butt (I don’t have a big breast but I love it) AND IT DOES NOT MATTER BECAUSE MY FACE IS NOT THAT PRETTY 😭 well I feel bad now
I realized that these girls are not altering their appearance because they want to look good for men. The real reason is that they want to look good for woman so that they can't compare their self or feel insecure about their appearance whenever they see women who they think have the features that they prefer for their self Sorry for the grammatical errors. I'm not fluent in english
It's known that woumen put makeup etc. To compete with ather woumen. Like s really extreme example. In prison woumen give plesure to officers for makeup, to get makeup. Not makeup and then seduce a man.
I feel like the word “allow” is the wrong word. Your partner can do whatever they want on social media because you don’t own them. But if they are doing something that makes you uncomfortable, that’s definitely a conversation you should have
@Marina Prp i don't know if you are multilingual or not but in different languages things do sound differently. even tho in english it's VERY clear what allowing and letting mean, in other languages might just translate to 'being okay with' or such. we never know
But if u r in a relationship and u r photoshopping then it should be something about mental issues. If a person is trying to keep pics in which she looks extremely different then that's wrong
It just shows us how people can slowly change their appearance without us really knowing and then we internalise it as the new "normal" without realising it. That's bad.
This actually amazed me to witness. I honestly thought that a slim waist is a MUST for guys, like my ex always pointed out my massive thighs, small boobs, and not having a dangerously slim waist but apparently not every guy..
I really liked how this video opened my eyes that boys don't care about such insignificant things like how thin is your waist or jaw, they didn't notice the difference and that's comforting
It's very weird how they say "As long as she is happy she can..." but the main and probably only reason she is doing it is because she isn't happy. Most of those girls have regular bodies and faces naturally, they were trained to dislike that about themselves. Companies don't sell if everyone is happy and their constantly changing beauty standards are easily attainable.
I appreciate this video. I'm not hating on ig girls because it's not really an individual problem. Sometimes I feel like guys expectations are unrealistic but then again, these guys actually seem to make me think different.
they are all sweethearts, but I´m a little bit sad that they think that is ok to models photoshop their photos, because "it´s their job', but they don´t understand that a lot of girls just compare themselves to this "natural" models and feel bad for not achieving this beauty standard...
The little bit of German coming through is so sweet! I'll definitely hit up that Boba Place when I get to Vienna again, Blueberry Cheesecake sounds delightful. Cheers from Upper Austria :)
Can't tell if they're putting up a slight front to sound better or not. I guess eitherway, it's still nice to hear a different perspective cuz I for sure know guys who point out the body proportions real quick. They notice the face first then the body and they laugh about it. OR sometimes they expect it out of real girls.
One of the things that gets me is that for those waists they change the way their RIBS look, so it's got to be impossible to look like that irl without dangerous surgery that removes something that protects your lungs Having a waist that is NOT like that means your body has better breath support and your lungs are more protected. I think it's really fucked that this has become a trend, and I look at these girls/women photoshopping their pics the same way I see photoshopping on billboards or magazine covers. I don't think as long as they are "happy" it's okay, because it is harmful if you don't realize what is going on for the pictures to look like that. Even if you do know it's not real, it still hurts to know that you will likely be compared to this standard of beauty, even if only subconsciously, bc this is clearly a widespread beauty standard that a lot of people have in their brains at least a little bit Also it occurred to me that I should point out that imho if the influencer is open about it and/or the person is not an influencer/public figure then that's a different thing. I was not talking about those people
Hiii 👋🏼 I just want to point out that makeup does play a big part in changing the appearance of ones face. Of course you cannot fake obvious photoshop and cosmetic enhancement with lipstick and contour etc. but when comparing 2 photos (one with and one without makeup) you have to take into account that everyone looks a little different barefaced vs full glam 😬
As a gay girl I can confirm that guy fall in love with girls smile. I mean I really attract to smile when girls smile their eyes are disappear, their teeth, their cheekbones and also dimple. UwU 😭
The girl with the eyebrows is born with that unibrow. She is a model and talks about her unibrow growing up, there is a video on UA-cam where she speaks of it.
The amount of Boba Tea that has been consumed in this video is GOALS😭💕. THIS reminds me of me and my guy friends 😂😂💀. I love this video. ☺️. Do more videos!. I know damn well if it was me and them doing a video like this we would all be roasting them but still be nice. Definitely subscribing 💕
The brow one acc made me angry, she, obviously in the before was insecure about her brows (tweezing, makeup) and let them grow in the after, I think it looks beautiful and unique, don’t like how they all exclaimed it’s ugly I feel like that perpetuates girls having to look a certain way to be beautiful and I think it’s a bit hypocritical to say that about her brows but advocate ppl loving their natural beauty 🌚 we don’t enjoy girls tearing down other girls especially in front of guys, mhmm not cute 🥺 like idk how to feel about this or if I’m coming off as rude but along with her other videos I just thought it was like gonna show us the reality of instagram but this video in particular feels very “let’s tear these girls down in front of my guy friends 🤓”
May S that struck me too and I don’t even know why I’m watching this video as I struggle with body image issues but recently I’ve been listening to a lot of body positive things and everybody is beautiful and unique 💞🐝
I don't think they meant coming off as mean or somewhat rude and all but self care is a thing, and for most people body hair doesn't sound appealing which is understandable in some cases, but tbh you gotta still take care of your body and your appearance to enhance your natural beauty and that doesn't always mean makeup and all that just the basic hygiene and self care routine. And for real I don't think you would want to see every girl with bushy eyebrows walkin around. Yes to natural beauty girl but we still gotta treat ourselves like queens👑
OMG Clariz vor diesem Video dachte ich immer, dass du Amerikanerin wärst. Dann haben mich die Akzente deiner Freunde stutzig gemacht. Mega cool!!! Freu mich irgendwie, dass Deutschsprachige englische Videos (und auch so geile) machen. Luv u!!!
sometimes I wish more guy insta models did this much photo shop and surgery so they would understand why girlfriends do not like when guys look at and follow these women and do not see a big issue with this. It is actually damaging but I guess some guys won't care. Good to know they still see it though.
I used to be super insecure about my body bc of ig models. They had my dream body. My bf follows same ig models i do and he always tell me “they dont look like that!” , i started to watch videos like theese and it makes me fee better. Like i used to cry and starve cuz i wanted to look like them for what? For their photoshop skills??
Why these girls are forcing an unrealistic beauty standards on themselves and pressuring other girls out there to look like them meanwhile they don't even look like their own selves?! Like literally the way you look isn't everything and you don't need to be perfect for anybody because at the end of the day you are you and you know that if you faked it or not deep down you will know how you really look like , just accept yourself and believe that others will do too and if someone doesn't like u just because of u r not meeting that unrealistic shit then ditch their ass off , i hope that women out there can embrace the way they look and know that they are beautiful as a matter of fact and to not let anyone else make them think they aren't
I love how the guy on the right just goes; "Some of them are overdone and I don't like it, but as long as she is happy I don't care." I also love how they just switch drinks like it's the most normal thing in the world. If I tried doing that with most of my guy friends they'd be like; "Ew, germs, that's gross." Me; "Yet you guys make the grossest concoctions at lunch with your ranch and ketchup and stale bread and whatever else you can find."
This skyrocketed my confidence bc I've been self-conscious about my waist for the past year, but now I see that it's natural and I have something called ribs.
Great video idea, but I assume their responses are biased cuz if they said something bad or wrong, there would be an outlash from the girls watching the video, so they can't completely be honest. Also they are commenting on pretty girls (irl) and a slightly prettier version of the pretty girl (photoshoped, plastic surgery)..so either way they all pretty =x=
I’m genuinely scared I will never find a boyfriend because I know most guys look at Instagram models all day so they have higher expectations that I can’t fulfill
Don’t worry, if he’s extremely superficial he probably won’t treat you right and doesn’t deserve you anyways! I‘m sure you will find someone who loves you because of you ^^
Are you not a Instagram Model too?! :O
@@hannah4107 those were really kind, wise words😔💕
Nemus Crawlingfoot no offense but what do you mean “normal” ones beauty is subjective poeple don’t just look “normal”
But on the other hand: do you want someone that's dumb enough to believe everything on instagram is real and natural?
The boys didnt care about waist, butt, breast, or plastic surgery only eye brows. LMFAO i love it!
Sums up the whole video hahah
eyebrows are one of my biggest insecurities haha
Jasmin And it’s sad because it is the only, THE ONLY thing that I have the best. I don’t like my face 😕 I have a tiny waist, I have a big butt (I don’t have a big breast but I love it) AND IT DOES NOT MATTER BECAUSE MY FACE IS NOT THAT PRETTY 😭 well I feel bad now
Not all boys are the same tho
these boys don't
These guys are extremely sweet tho
Totally
Its mango
+10 faith in men
Lol if these were my male friends they would’ve roasted everyone
thank u (:
I realized that these girls are not altering their appearance because they want to look good for men. The real reason is that they want to look good for woman so that they can't compare their self or feel insecure about their appearance whenever they see women who they think have the features that they prefer for their self
Sorry for the grammatical errors. I'm not fluent in english
your english is perfect
This is so true
Every time someone says sorry for their English, their English is great.
Nope. They are altering their appearance to make money. You do not need to sleep with men to make money, you just need to sell them a product.
It's known that woumen put makeup etc. To compete with ather woumen.
Like s really extreme example. In prison woumen give plesure to officers for makeup, to get makeup. Not makeup and then seduce a man.
Why do all three of your friends have a strong german accent lmao
HAHAHAHAHAH we all speak German 😂
nice 😂I'm from Austria
Xoxogossipgirl xoxo Since Clariz is from Austria I guess they are Austrian as well 🤣
@@ClarizMarielle excuse me?! 😂
Warum wusste ich das noch nicht hahaha
Also ist Luiz eine possibility??
I feel like the word “allow” is the wrong word. Your partner can do whatever they want on social media because you don’t own them. But if they are doing something that makes you uncomfortable, that’s definitely a conversation you should have
Probably a language barrier
@Marina Prp i don't know if you are multilingual or not but in different languages things do sound differently. even tho in english it's VERY clear what allowing and letting mean, in other languages might just translate to 'being okay with' or such. we never know
But if u r in a relationship and u r photoshopping then it should be something about mental issues. If a person is trying to keep pics in which she looks extremely different then that's wrong
It just shows us how people can slowly change their appearance without us really knowing and then we internalise it as the new "normal" without realising it. That's bad.
This actually amazed me to witness. I honestly thought that a slim waist is a MUST for guys, like my ex always pointed out my massive thighs, small boobs, and not having a dangerously slim waist but apparently not every guy..
Well he's a prick. You shouldn't have gotten any of those stupid comments from him because you're gorge, girl.
some guys also like big thighs, that’s why you should change yourself to fit one guy or one fad
milo what.....
@@Lyre206 pretty sure they're being sarcastic but idk
Bhabeygurl _ i think they meant shouldn’t 😅😂
I need your friends to replace the guys at my school
@you_ tube._koreankpopetc. they scream down the hallway and say yes sir every 3 seconds. That should say enough.
@Deleted Account It depends on the guy's personality. It might be that her friends are older and more matured that's why they prob made the kind cmts.
@miss a Haha my school mates were mean and immature. But I don't know if they still are. It's been 13 years.
the 'boba switch' so cute
I really liked how this video opened my eyes that boys don't care about such insignificant things like how thin is your waist or jaw, they didn't notice the difference and that's comforting
God I hate how comforting it is for me lol
I think it depends on the boys. Her friends were really wholesome. But remember not all boys and or men are like that
It's very weird how they say "As long as she is happy she can..." but the main and probably only reason she is doing it is because she isn't happy. Most of those girls have regular bodies and faces naturally, they were trained to dislike that about themselves. Companies don't sell if everyone is happy and their constantly changing beauty standards are easily attainable.
Your friends idea of comparing Western versus Eastern plastic surgery would be really interesting !!!
Girl let’s get some boba
Yes omg Id Love to
the guy on the extreme left is so cute im dying
Kayla Burris lmao yes
thats me! haha thank you!!
@T K. what's wrong with not wanting your girlfriend being practically naked on social media
thank u uu uu u
I appreciate this video. I'm not hating on ig girls because it's not really an individual problem. Sometimes I feel like guys expectations are unrealistic but then again, these guys actually seem to make me think different.
I was searching for this kind of comment !!!
They’re so respectful, we need more of this towards these sorts of subjects
they are all sweethearts, but I´m a little bit sad that they think that is ok to models photoshop their photos, because "it´s their job', but they don´t understand that a lot of girls just compare themselves to this "natural" models and feel bad for not achieving this beauty standard...
Guys: having high expectations of girls and women because of instagram
Me: having high expectations for a boyfriend because of anime guys
Mackenzie Thompson perfectly balanced, as all things should be.
That’s so me🤣🤣🤣
@Mackenzie Thompson
periodt 🙄💅🏼
+ for me its also anime WOmen 😀✌🏼
AHAHAHAHAH YES YESSS
Same 😂
this is such a good video idea! It was super entertaining too!
Thank u so much for watching and leaving a nice comment 🙈💗
should we do a pt2?
The little bit of German coming through is so sweet! I'll definitely hit up that Boba Place when I get to Vienna again, Blueberry Cheesecake sounds delightful. Cheers from Upper Austria :)
Yesss let me know if u like it 💝 just had a blueberry cheese cream today
Can't tell if they're putting up a slight front to sound better or not. I guess eitherway, it's still nice to hear a different perspective cuz I for sure know guys who point out the body proportions real quick. They notice the face first then the body and they laugh about it. OR sometimes they expect it out of real girls.
One of the things that gets me is that for those waists they change the way their RIBS look, so it's got to be impossible to look like that irl without dangerous surgery that removes something that protects your lungs
Having a waist that is NOT like that means your body has better breath support and your lungs are more protected. I think it's really fucked that this has become a trend, and I look at these girls/women photoshopping their pics the same way I see photoshopping on billboards or magazine covers. I don't think as long as they are "happy" it's okay, because it is harmful if you don't realize what is going on for the pictures to look like that. Even if you do know it's not real, it still hurts to know that you will likely be compared to this standard of beauty, even if only subconsciously, bc this is clearly a widespread beauty standard that a lot of people have in their brains at least a little bit
Also it occurred to me that I should point out that imho if the influencer is open about it and/or the person is not an influencer/public figure then that's a different thing. I was not talking about those people
Hiii 👋🏼 I just want to point out that makeup does play a big part in changing the appearance of ones face. Of course you cannot fake obvious photoshop and cosmetic enhancement with lipstick and contour etc. but when comparing 2 photos (one with and one without makeup) you have to take into account that everyone looks a little different barefaced vs full glam 😬
off topic but im simping over the one on the left in the blue hoodie
aww thank you! (:
The facts that they don’t see the difference at first glance blows my mind
To be fair... I wouldn’t really want my boyfriend thirst trapping on insta either lol :pp i think it’s more of to each their own in that regard.
I'm shocked that these boys don't look at the waist I- that made my cereal box bod feel a lot better 😂😂
Also, some of the girls had their eyes done. They get them turned upwards
As a gay girl I can confirm that guy fall in love with girls smile. I mean I really attract to smile when girls smile their eyes are disappear, their teeth, their cheekbones and also dimple. UwU 😭
Haha same with my Crushes their smiles always got me ☺️☺️
Im bi and i totally agree! With guys and girls nothing is more sweet and attractive than a genuine happy smile. And a laugh!
My dumb ass thought your comment was 20 years ago
@@Gnome0003 IM SCREAMING
>tfw have ugly teeth and no dimples
Who among here love how they shared and passed boba drink with each other?..so cuteee 😍
what I love abt this video is that they share the same drink and straw, that is something so precious abt them
i love how they randomly let out a super german “hääää“
hääää
This video idea is genius, your friends are hilarious 😂❤️
I would if we lived in the same state girl
Yeah, boys don't care bout waist, but they like the effect and whole expression. They just don't analyze details
i agree
Okey but can we talk how cute louis is😍
awww thanks
(:
i love how you analyze these manipulated images 💓 thank you for having this conversation
7:36 "cara delevingne on steroids" i've never laughed so loud
The girl with the eyebrows is born with that unibrow. She is a model and talks about her unibrow growing up, there is a video on UA-cam where she speaks of it.
The boys are all so sweet but Louis' super cute smiles hoarded my attention!
"she will go blind after changing her eye color."
"worth it, right?"
lmao it got me laughing
8:55 but u have to consider puberty too
*STRAIGHT OUT NOOOO*
made me laugh lol
The amount of Boba Tea that has been consumed in this video is GOALS😭💕. THIS reminds me of me and my guy friends 😂😂💀. I love this video. ☺️. Do more videos!. I know damn well if it was me and them doing a video like this we would all be roasting them but still be nice. Definitely subscribing 💕
I'm crushing hard on the one with black hoodie/sweatshirt.
please do another video with these amazing guys. I had so much fun watching this.
this is actually the cutest video I've ever fucking seen!! Saved to my 'the world sucks but here's good content' playlist
This is literally the best channel on UA-cam
I Love you 🍓❤️🙈
The brow one acc made me angry, she, obviously in the before was insecure about her brows (tweezing, makeup) and let them grow in the after, I think it looks beautiful and unique, don’t like how they all exclaimed it’s ugly I feel like that perpetuates girls having to look a certain way to be beautiful and I think it’s a bit hypocritical to say that about her brows but advocate ppl loving their natural beauty 🌚 we don’t enjoy girls tearing down other girls especially in front of guys, mhmm not cute 🥺 like idk how to feel about this or if I’m coming off as rude but along with her other videos I just thought it was like gonna show us the reality of instagram but this video in particular feels very “let’s tear these girls down in front of my guy friends 🤓”
it makes me so sad how little people commented on that
May S that struck me too and I don’t even know why I’m watching this video as I struggle with body image issues but recently I’ve been listening to a lot of body positive things and everybody is beautiful and unique 💞🐝
Yeah, I thought that was very sucky on their part. Made me think that this is not about awareness, but tearing other women down.
I don't think they meant coming off as mean or somewhat rude and all but self care is a thing, and for most people body hair doesn't sound appealing which is understandable in some cases, but tbh you gotta still take care of your body and your appearance to enhance your natural beauty and that doesn't always mean makeup and all that just the basic hygiene and self care routine. And for real I don't think you would want to see every girl with bushy eyebrows walkin around. Yes to natural beauty girl but we still gotta treat ourselves like queens👑
OMG Clariz vor diesem Video dachte ich immer, dass du Amerikanerin wärst. Dann haben mich die Akzente deiner Freunde stutzig gemacht. Mega cool!!! Freu mich irgendwie, dass Deutschsprachige englische Videos (und auch so geile) machen. Luv u!!!
sometimes I wish more guy insta models did this much photo shop and surgery so they would understand why girlfriends do not like when guys look at and follow these women and do not see a big issue with this. It is actually damaging but I guess some guys won't care. Good to know they still see it though.
the boba switch omggg ...wish to have such sweet guy friends like this
"Boba switch!" ahhh pre COVID times were good times.. lol
This video is very berry cute! I'm happy you're finally uploaded a new one.
When they said „Gute Nacht“ I was like wait a Minute did they really said that xD
wowowow these guys give me hope
14:04 "...sorry girl"
That sent-💀💀💀
Men be like “I don’t care about waist size” lesbians be like “H I P S”
16:00 THIS PART 🤩🤩
I know y’all are not passing around that one cup
I really liked seeing the guys' opions! They are so different than the female reactions to photoshopped pics
Lustig wie die Sichtweise von Männern ist. Außerdem, cool jemanden aus Wien auf Yt zu sehen. Ps:Bei Tea-plus is Matcha das BESTE!
girl your smile is (chef's kiss) stunning
nice content
awwww i really enjoyed this video i wish it had more views :( Please do more of this i enjoy it a lot!!
I love watching you interact with you guy friends ! Also I noticed an accent, are you from germany?
“I used to think guys only look at the waist” they do these guys are guilt different 😭 (I love it)
Peaple u r GERMAAAAN u cant trick me!
OMG Clariz you are so pretty ✨✨you definitely need no photoshop or surgery
More of this!! External opinions always bring us back to earth
13:03 I’m like who is gonna tell them they don’t get to say, they don’t allow anything they just have to accept it
Ive just started watching your videos and I'm in love with your personality! Keep it up, loving your content
I used to be super insecure about my body bc of ig models. They had my dream body. My bf follows same ig models i do and he always tell me “they dont look like that!” , i started to watch videos like theese and it makes me fee better. Like i used to cry and starve cuz i wanted to look like them for what? For their photoshop skills??
man i want more videos with these three omg
Bruh you’re all German too? I love it.
Why these girls are forcing an unrealistic beauty standards on themselves and pressuring other girls out there to look like them meanwhile they don't even look like their own selves?! Like literally the way you look isn't everything and you don't need to be perfect for anybody because at the end of the day you are you and you know that if you faked it or not deep down you will know how you really look like , just accept yourself and believe that others will do too and if someone doesn't like u just because of u r not meeting that unrealistic shit then ditch their ass off , i hope that women out there can embrace the way they look and know that they are beautiful as a matter of fact and to not let anyone else make them think they aren't
Is the left guy German?
We’re all German 😉❤️
Clariz oh lol, das war’s komplett
Clariz omg waaaas
Jaaaaa! Hahaha 😂
omg wär mir garnicht aufgefallen dass ihr alle deutsch seid :D aber jetzt machts iwie sinn 😂
Finallyyy! She‘s back ^^
Ugh I'm in love with the boy with the blue hoodie
Damn the boys are cute af
The guy in a white shirt, I CAN NOOOOT LMAO can we be friends already please 😂😂😭😭😂😭😂😭
lovely video
I love how the guy on the right just goes; "Some of them are overdone and I don't like it, but as long as she is happy I don't care." I also love how they just switch drinks like it's the most normal thing in the world. If I tried doing that with most of my guy friends they'd be like; "Ew, germs, that's gross."
Me; "Yet you guys make the grossest concoctions at lunch with your ranch and ketchup and stale bread and whatever else you can find."
Plz do more videos like this! Really loved the boys! ❤
loved how this video slowly turned into a "spot the difference" video.
Thank you for this video so much , I feel so pretty rn I was crying in the morning looking at the mirror thinking i am so ugly thank you so much
All your guy friends are so cute 😂👀but you gotta do more videos with them this is hilarious and entertaining 😁
Könntest du mal ein deutsches Video machen? Das war so lustig und gleichzeitig so informativ! Bitte mehr mit denen!❤❤❤
This skyrocketed my confidence bc I've been self-conscious about my waist for the past year, but now I see that it's natural and I have something called ribs.
Haha, they're so cute. They either didn't realise the difference or couldn't tell if it showed the same person.
Im jealous.
Where did u get ur boba from??? xD
I hear that german, so im confused at where u at!
Great video idea, but I assume their responses are biased cuz if they said something bad or wrong, there would be an outlash from the girls watching the video, so they can't completely be honest. Also they are commenting on pretty girls (irl) and a slightly prettier version of the pretty girl (photoshoped, plastic surgery)..so either way they all pretty =x=
I'm in love with the guy in the blue
aww thanks
Grrrr.... underated channel 😡
I just found your channel and I LOVE IT!
these guys seem so sweet aw
Part 2 coming soon
More videos with these guys
9:41 even I couldn't see a difference until she showed 😂
"who doesn't"
just the next guy *never*
Great focus group 👏🏾👏🏾😉. I too am interested in a video comparing western and eastern plastic surgery.
All y'all just swapping boba amongst each other with NO concerns over catching COVID whatsoever. That screams chaotic energy to me.
This was way before corona :o