Episode 63: Flea on What he Learned From his Relationships

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
  • For Episode 63 of the 5 Questions podcast, Dan Schawbel interviews bassist and co-founder of the Red Hot Chili Peppers, Flea, about the relationship he had with his mom affected future relationships, why his stepfather was a blessing and a curse, why he views his friends as his family, how vulnerability has been his strength and his best career advice.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 119

  • @annalouise53
    @annalouise53 4 роки тому +16

    "there are never good guys and bad guys. we're both" I LOVE THIS MAN

  • @tannerkillian
    @tannerkillian 4 роки тому +25

    Say anything you want, but seriously there is no person in the entertainment industry more pure and real and loving and kind and all the good things as Flea is. This is a standout human being even if you didn’t take his musical contributions into consideration!

    • @sect1359
      @sect1359 4 роки тому +2

      best commentary ever

    • @minichanz
      @minichanz 3 роки тому +1

      That's a brilliant comment

  • @garyarms6297
    @garyarms6297 4 роки тому +39

    There is never good guys and bad guys. There is always both.
    Wisdom...

  • @TheStarBlack
    @TheStarBlack 4 роки тому +31

    My god this is fascinating, I could listen to this all day. Flea is so full of hard earned wisdom. Great interviewer. Definitely getting the book.

  • @Jay-333
    @Jay-333 4 роки тому +41

    I love the way flea expresses himself, all from the heart,beautiful to listen too. Great questions too. 💚🎸🎺🎶

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 роки тому +6

      Me too and thank you for the support.

  • @matthewmoggridge5221
    @matthewmoggridge5221 4 роки тому +12

    I've read Flea's book and, to put it mildly, it's fantastic! Really. I've never read a book like it and I'm so glad he didn't go down the rock star memoir route. He's one of those people that I'd invite to my 'dream dinner party', such an inspiring individual. I wish him well for whatever he does in his life.

  • @dcross8034
    @dcross8034 2 роки тому +4

    Everytime Flea speaks I have more respect for him

  • @propjoe1060
    @propjoe1060 4 роки тому +4

    Flea is a wonderful human being. An example of someone who puts every ounce of what he can give into every performance. A legend.

  • @olivermcintyre2835
    @olivermcintyre2835 4 роки тому +69

    Sorry, but what a terrible way to phrase your first question. Did you read the book you're holding?

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 роки тому +4

      Oliver McIntyre after with you, I didn’t phrase it right

  • @MontyRoyal963
    @MontyRoyal963 2 роки тому +5

    When you get to know Flea he's the glue that held the RHCP together

  • @N8-justchillin
    @N8-justchillin 4 роки тому +20

    This book is fantastic. It was released in November 2019 recently.

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 роки тому

      It's a great book, thanks for commenting

  • @RajStarMusic
    @RajStarMusic 4 роки тому +8

    Dude what is up with this interviewer? Dude seemed like he didn't even read the book and tried to wing it. Very general questions and not really listening to what Flea is saying. Flea is a man who speaks from the heart with love.. loved to hear his authenticity!

  • @JohnWhite-xc3md
    @JohnWhite-xc3md Місяць тому

    Flea seems to be a very thoughtful, and down to earth guy. So glad he didn't become a casualty like so many others.

  • @liatus1146
    @liatus1146 4 роки тому +6

    Badass cheekbone you got there flea

  • @andrewcruz7595
    @andrewcruz7595 4 роки тому +29

    *guy's you should get this book it's interesting*

  • @ricchardo
    @ricchardo 3 роки тому +4

    It's interesting to hear what he said about his Mother. I'm going through a "Bad Patch" with mine now. I think our relationship was actually better when I was younger, Now I'm older I'm more aware of her faults and I'm more likely to tell her if I don't like something or I'm unwilling to tolerate it.

  • @allcapsbeats
    @allcapsbeats 4 роки тому +70

    "you've been doing drugs for 27 years"... wtf. Such an off putting way to start the interview.

    • @sandralee5106
      @sandralee5106 3 роки тому +2

      Couldn't agree with you more.

    • @73brook
      @73brook 3 роки тому +7

      He didn’t say that at all he said “for most of you life” and flea said “I haven’t done them for 27 years”

    • @allcapsbeats
      @allcapsbeats 3 роки тому +1

      @@73brook that's even worse 😂

    • @73brook
      @73brook 3 роки тому +2

      @@allcapsbeats no

  • @tomkirk6942
    @tomkirk6942 3 роки тому +5

    Wonderful book from a genuine human.

  • @saintcaine1fan
    @saintcaine1fan Рік тому +1

    Flea is awesome

  • @GebbzSteelo
    @GebbzSteelo 4 роки тому +6

    yo flea is very cool and a very humble student

  • @river7653
    @river7653 4 роки тому +11

    Can’t wait 🌶

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 роки тому +1

      It's going to be a great one!

  • @elbettto
    @elbettto 4 роки тому +2

    This guy is just amazing! So interesting listening to him! Flea, the only one!

  • @wirhannah
    @wirhannah 4 роки тому +2

    Such an astute guy, thanks for sharing this. The book is great too.

  • @graf7568
    @graf7568 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much, it is inspirational to hear this guy talk, thanks Flea

  • @twainjones
    @twainjones 3 роки тому +1

    What great views and values this man has ❤ A true legend

  • @anthonyingram6916
    @anthonyingram6916 3 роки тому +4

    Mister interview man needs a smack

  • @rossanamesias7815
    @rossanamesias7815 Місяць тому +2

    Podría escuchar a flea pordiempre amo a exte hombre el es genial un tipo fenomenal❤❤❤ su voz me transporta te amo flea❤❤❤

  • @leorubio5653
    @leorubio5653 4 роки тому +5

    What a Beautiful Soul!! :)

  • @agneskaszner8535
    @agneskaszner8535 4 роки тому +3

    What a beautiful man!!

  • @stillmaninmotion6081
    @stillmaninmotion6081 3 роки тому

    Flea is such a humble and nice guy

  • @Riff24
    @Riff24 4 роки тому +1

    ¡Que linda persona es Flea! :) Se siente la paz con solo escucharlo hablar.

  • @ManoloCaravia
    @ManoloCaravia 4 роки тому +3

    niice interview man, insteresting questions and answers!

  • @jamesm9170
    @jamesm9170 9 днів тому

    Thanks for sharing❤

  • @SurfahSistah
    @SurfahSistah 4 роки тому +4

    Flea is such an epic human ❤️

  • @billlummus6810
    @billlummus6810 3 роки тому +1

    With all your Being...........The only way to play.....

  • @whosoever5409
    @whosoever5409 4 роки тому +4

    this interviewer man lol

  • @BudFuddlacker
    @BudFuddlacker 2 роки тому +4

    Wow, what a terrible way to start off an interview. Flea was gracious, because he could’ve really torn you up on that

  • @rodricoarasa
    @rodricoarasa 4 роки тому +6

    Hey Dan! Was this recorded recently? Before or after the Chili Peppers announcement? Cheers!

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 роки тому +1

      Rodrigo Coarasa I conducted the interview over a month ago.

    • @davejohannes7694
      @davejohannes7694 4 роки тому +3

      @@DanSchawbel That could´ve been THE QUESTION.......

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 роки тому +2

      @@davejohannes7694 Agree!

  • @smatsri
    @smatsri 4 роки тому +4

    what am amazing atittude
    really inspiring

  • @DOTTIE25
    @DOTTIE25 4 роки тому +1

    Great interview!

  • @kovac8788
    @kovac8788 2 роки тому

    7:10 this is hapiness

  • @justinparkerthewildwolf6394
    @justinparkerthewildwolf6394 2 роки тому +4

    First thing the interviewer says is, so you've obviously been on drugs all your life and flea is like , no not for 27 years , way to do your research bro and your holding the book

  • @maggie7843
    @maggie7843 2 роки тому +2

    Yikes the start of this interview was painful to watch. Interviewer incorrectly interpreting book’s title. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @trishemerald2487
    @trishemerald2487 4 роки тому +4

    I am thisclose to getting my first tattoo... it's gonna be a Chilis one, esp now (JOHN)

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 роки тому

      cool

    • @ricchardo
      @ricchardo 3 роки тому

      Patricia, I want to tell you a story, When I was a child, I had a grandad, He was in the Army and fought in the second world war. It was (and is) very common for Soldiers to get Tattoos and he was no exception. By the time I knew him, He had left the army and ALL his Tattoos had faded, so much so that it was virtually impossible to tell what they were supposed to be. I suppose what I'm trying to say is that what might look like a Chili Pepper today, could more closely resemble a Willy tomorrow. Food for thought, I think you'll agree? 😂

    • @trishemerald2487
      @trishemerald2487 3 роки тому

      @@ricchardo my dad was a medic in the 3rd wave of Normandie.

  • @billepperson2662
    @billepperson2662 2 роки тому +2

    That guy couldn't have started this interview any worse... Jesus

  • @mikenewbold1699
    @mikenewbold1699 4 роки тому +32

    you've been doing drugs most of your life?. I actually havnt done drugs in 27 years. Hate interviews who don't do research

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 роки тому +7

      It was a mistake for sure, but after we got that question it was awesome!

  • @minichanz
    @minichanz 3 роки тому +5

    How embarrassing was that intro... "Umm, I can tell by your book cover you're a drug addict"... "umm nope"

    • @minichanz
      @minichanz 3 роки тому +1

      Have you heard of rhcp?

  • @irvingsherwood1234
    @irvingsherwood1234 2 роки тому

    Heard!

  • @brandonallison3784
    @brandonallison3784 2 роки тому

    ❤️

  • @Klesk1985
    @Klesk1985 3 роки тому

    E vero che sono persone con cui ho a che fare.. cmq purtroppo non è uno scherzo..

  • @3aw77
    @3aw77 4 роки тому

    Hey Dan is this available on Audiobooks

    • @raysherlock1053
      @raysherlock1053 4 роки тому +1

      Yes on audible and it's read by Flea. It's beautiful listening to him read the book himself

    • @3aw77
      @3aw77 4 роки тому +2

      Thank you very much @@raysherlock1053 .

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 роки тому

      Yes it is

  • @ricosadao828
    @ricosadao828 3 роки тому

    Did he cry again?

  • @sangimignano8975
    @sangimignano8975 4 роки тому

    Please buy my book

  • @biorebeca
    @biorebeca 4 роки тому +1

    Ladies and gentelmen: Michael Balzary ♥️

    • @minichanz
      @minichanz 3 роки тому

      Bahahahahahaha

    • @minichanz
      @minichanz 3 роки тому

      Best known for Back to the Future

  • @000slappydirk
    @000slappydirk 2 роки тому

    Well that was an awkward opening to the interview

  • @Papelito-bd6vq
    @Papelito-bd6vq 3 місяці тому

    Marry me Flea

  • @tesstikles3225
    @tesstikles3225 4 роки тому +3

    Flea talks about love and unity and all sorts of things but yet him and Anthony fired Josh just to take the abusive husband back ( John ) . Don't get me wrong I love John but he has quit twice on them. I guess his ego got the best of him and he couldn't believe the band continue to be successful without him.

    • @freebird1975
      @freebird1975 3 роки тому +3

      They were successful without John because people were still hooked on material John created. As good as Josh is, he could never elevate his creativity to the level needed to even come close to what John did for the band. Do you have the impression the rhcp where as successful in the past 10 years as they were in the 10 years prior? People were going nuts when they played old songs during their shows but didn't really respond too well to new material. I don't think there's anybody out there who could really replace John. I believe Josh always knew that he was not going to be part of the band forever, I think he knew John was eventually going to come back and he knew that Flea, Anthony and Chad would always choose John before Josh. Calling John the abusive husband is way out of line btw. John did what he thought was best for him and the band by leaving but making sure that the band had a good replacement (let's not forget that John was the one who gave Josh the opportunity in the first place) , now he's back with his family.

    • @masxn_t2276
      @masxn_t2276 2 роки тому

      Lmao you’re a fucking idiot. You don’t even deserve to “love John”.

  • @douglasheineckleaes1629
    @douglasheineckleaes1629 4 роки тому +3

    Man dude started the interview the worst way, dunno just saying.. good interview overral.

  • @aheli
    @aheli 2 роки тому

    Who is that homeless guy?

  • @knowledgewillincrease7508
    @knowledgewillincrease7508 4 роки тому

    what about his relationship with satan?

  • @giovannimanetti3747
    @giovannimanetti3747 2 роки тому

    Such a bad interview for a great book.
    Missed opportunity

  • @gabreallec.jacques9281
    @gabreallec.jacques9281 2 роки тому

    Sometimes experimental jazz is over people's heads. They pretend to understand it but.........
    I want to make a rhythm opera about dying a religious cult prisoner.

  • @chainedriderlmt3796
    @chainedriderlmt3796 4 роки тому

    Flea talking about profound meaning in their friendship and music, interviewer then likens it to being in a fraternity.. idiot... Thanks Flea ! 😎❤🤙

  • @paulmactavish3355
    @paulmactavish3355 3 роки тому

    PITTA SAD STOP COME PLAIN ÷**

  • @gregorygalyan3670
    @gregorygalyan3670 4 роки тому

    Flea looks sick man I hope he is okay

    • @deadeyes2803
      @deadeyes2803 4 роки тому +4

      not sick just old he is almost 60 years old

    • @angelotornetta4959
      @angelotornetta4959 4 роки тому +3

      57 he said it in the beginning

    • @DanSchawbel
      @DanSchawbel  4 роки тому +5

      He meditated before the interview and seemed overall healthy, just tired from the book tour.

    • @Melanindi
      @Melanindi 3 роки тому

      I thought he looked good.