Tackling the stigma that dads can’t handle "mommy business" | WWYD
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- Опубліковано 12 лис 2020
- A stay-at-home dad is at a restaurant with his daughter when two diners tell him he’s made an “unusual choice” to act as the primary caregiver for his daughter. #WWYD
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"shes going to learn not to settle for the next pretty boy thats says nice thing to her" FACTS!
Facts? Not at all.
@@julianfrederick9082 it is though
@@dolliexzo could you elaborate
@@julianfrederick9082 Women raised without good role models around them often do not properly understand the difference between being praised by a man cause he wants to get in their pants and someone who actually values and respects them. Therefore it is very common for such women to get trapped in toxic relationships once they become adults.
@@julianfrederick9082 There is no distinction between what ? Men that want to take advantage of women and men that actually like someone ? You can't seriously be saying that.
Also its not my problem if you can't understand "big words", I'll keep writing the same way I always do, thank you.
Ps: what the hell does atheism have to do with anything ? Where did that even come from lol. And as far as insults go, I give your attempt at it a 2.5/10, it was mildly hilarious but fails at its intent real bad so I'm afraid it's far from a passing grade.
Doesn’t a dad raising his children make him ya know A DAD?
Exactly-
Yes very much.
Yes
Yes
A loving one
Society constantly asks the question: “where are these kids’ dads? They need a father figure in their life” When a mother is raising her children alone, but when a father steps up and raises the children alone it’s considered emasculating and against gender norms. What a double standard
It’s so f*cked up because all of these poor kids can’t see or talk to their fathers and learn from them because in cultural/ society standards they’re constantly working
It’s humanity’s fault.
Oh yes and single moms are bashed, widows are forgotten, and single dads are seen as heroes. I have seen good and bad single parents.
@@MillennialMountainMama
When men do it, its seen more as "Babysitting " or if a mother is a b...while women get mocked for being all alone
Because you aren't a man worth anything if you can't keep a woman or partner in your life and children. It's not enough to be an amazing father you have to sacrifice everything to keep the mom around too no matter what.
First Lady was spitting some of the realest and deepest stuff. “She won’t settle for the next pretty boy who says nice things to her cause she’ll know her dad got her back.”
Right! IDK how all these people can just burst into motivational speeches like that out of the blue lol
@@RowingIsFun Good education, raised right by their own family members, forming friendships with the right people, a desire to engage in critical thinking on different subjects outside the bounds of their education, and a lot of thoughts that get bottled up inside because there's just no appropriate time or place to bring them up.
Why are you prejudging pretty boys?
@@zayteer1657shutup 🤣
Man: *takes care of his kid*
Idiots: That’s emasculating”
Man:*doesn't take care of his kid*
People: “He’s a deadbeat”
I'm sorry, I don't see the difference between people & idiots
You're proof you're not listening. This is about people viewing men staying at home taking care of children as emasculating and lazy, for which that is sexism, it's not about you and your child custody problems. You need to chill with that incel stuff.
@@BlankedOutSlate wow, sick roast. Aliens be laughing right now
ohhh the double standard i was molded by it, constantly breath it....love it
We never get the credit we deserve
that first woman is literally a QUEEN, period.
I cried at what she said
Without any Doubt
It's not a fairy world. Real world doesn't care about these opinions.
💯
If these women nowadays claiming queen left an right, I'm a need a Goddess .
Man, the psychologist may not have confronted the mean women, but his words and his warmth while saying it, made me almost cry.
He was amazing. He didn't care to confront the negative.... just to uplift the fellow man. And while that's not everyone's style, and not always the way to go.... it's his beautiful way.
Right it was so touching.... I feel sad for how many males can be afraid of confronting sexism when it's targeted toward them, And I am grateful to see support in the form of this video😢
I grew up with a pediatrician mom and a stay at home dad. Let me tell you, my dad is not only a fantastic cook, but also a champion of ballet buns. My dad might not be perfect, but he is an amazing dad.
Champion of ballet buns - love that!
Yes great fathers are everything!
What's unmanly about taking care of your kid?
Nothing.
Showing affection and not being the bread winner and apparantly not manly. Didn't know it was the 1950's....oh wait it's 2020 damn
@@somebodyoncetoldme2664 Not being the breadwinner is unmanly though.
Nothing, but some ppl are still living in the 1950’s and think women should always be kind and nurturing and men have no emotions apart from anger ig
Seriously dude, if it was so rewarding the mother would be doing it. Also why would the birthrate be plummeting?
I'll tell you honestly, as a female, there's nothing sexier than a man who is comfortable with his masculinity
I would agree if I was straight
100% correct!
Makes sense why sports players are the go-to (we slap butts in locker rooms consistently)
@@GymCritical It's so gay that it's straight
How about....MONEEYYYYYYYY
What’s the most shocking to me is that even the older generation cares less about the stereotypes of gender roles. That was the most wholesome thing ever.
These days, the ideals of hate and division are spread like gospel. Back then, it was a lot more of parents teaching their children to be good, kind people. And although things are objectively better today, we must weed out the division and keep everybody on one page.
I'm a daddy's girl. He's from where I learned that I wanted to become an aerospace engineer, and go to college to work on missles and spacecrafts. My mom never taught me such things. Dads are amazing!
So what did you end up doing?
My dad is an aerospace engineer! And he is my biggest hero and a wonderful influence on me growing up ♡ best of luck!
Not all dads are amazing lol but i get your point
This comment hit home tho because i want to got to university and become an aerospace engineer but the one stopping me is my horribly abusive dad and even when i got kicked out and went to my moms place he is still causing me horrible problems. Anyways seriously love and appreciate both your dad and your mom because your mom didnt teach you stuff your dad did but i bet she will support your decisions. It makes me happy seeing that the world still has good parents fr
Good for you and dad. Hope you are an aerospace engineer with a bright future.
That said, hope you realize your mom also put in effort too as a parent (unless she is not around for whatever reason). Even if she is just cook and clean....
The last woman made me cry. “When you die, people will forget you in a New York minute but she will remember him for the rest of her life”
Drops mic.
one of the things that made me madist as a stay at home dad is when people would see me with my kids and ask, "oh, are you baby sitting them today?" i be like, "no... i'm fathering them today... becuse i'm there father... and thats what we do."
@@christopherluvsaidan67 Cringe
And that's one of the (purely selfish) reasons people have children. Fear of being forgotten.
@@squirrel8185 bruh what the fuck
Judge Judy: “Fathers are not second class parents!”
I remember her saying that lol.
Link?
Praise be
Yeah saw that she was so mad.. And rightfully so
Most of them are
My father was a stay at home dad. He is a disabled war veteran. He taught me so many things and I can't thank him enough, he is the strongest man I have ever met. ❤️
I'M SOOOO SCARED OF A 20TH BOOSTER EXISTING! THE VACCINE EXISTING *RISKS* A 20TH BOOSTER EXISTING!!!!! HEEEEELP..... PLEASE..... *BECAUSE*
*vaccine existing* is to *20th booster*
AS
*Running a stop sign* is to *T-bone accident*
Or
*left side driving* is to *head-on collision*
Or
*Going the wrong way on a one way* is to *slow head-on collision*
Or
*going the wrong way* is to *spirally head-on collision*
Or
*Failing to signal* is to *getting rear ended*
Or
*not wearing a seatbelt* is to *death from an accident*
Or
*not wearing a helmet is to *death from an accident*
Or
*Leaving your headlights off* is to *crash from not seeing you*
Or
*Tailgating* is to *rear ending a person*
Or
*not having side mirrors* is to *changing lanes ingnoring a car there and crashing*
Or
*speeding* is to *rear ending a car or pedestrian*
Or
*Jaywalking* is to *getting run over*
Or
*drunk driving* is to *crashing*
Or
*putting poison in the hamburgers* is to *customers getting sick*
Or
*spraying cyanide in the air* is to *people breathing it and life ended from it*
Or
*leaving your door unlocked* is to *robbery*
Or
*Knocking over the cones* is to *getting other drivers confused and driving into dangerous unfinished parts of the road*
Or
*Not putting up a wet floor sign* is to *someone slipping and breaking their leg*
*Cooking bacon shirtles* is to *getting burned*
Or
*running with a knife* is to *it hitting someone else*
Or
*Shining a laser everywhere in the sky* is to *blinding an aircraft pilot*
Or
*firing a glok in random directions at the store* is to *someone getting injured*
Or
*putting dynamite in people's garages* is to *it blowing up*
Or
*Throwing a block down from a building* is to *it landing on someone's head*
HEEELP!! PLEASE, i am so worried!!!
I’m glad he taught you so much!
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Tell him I said thank you for his service
My dad died when I was 11. I was attached to his hip. I’m 32 now and till this day the 11 years I had with him nothing has matched that. He was amazing.
I'm sorry for your loss mate
i’m so sorry for your loss my man, condolences
Sorry for your loss Keyo ❤️ xx
I'm sorry for your loss.
I lost mine a few years ago and it still stings every day... but nothing is ever gonna change the fact, that he was your Dad and he loved you something fierce.
Fighting back tears reading this. My dad lost his dad at exactly 11 years old as well. My dad said they were so close and he was his everything. Unfortunately my dad did not give my brother and I the same relationship and bond and chose alcohol over us and it has affected my entire life. I’m 40 years old and I’m still dealing with the trauma of not having that bond. I envy those who have / had that (but not in a jealous way )
Laughing at stay-home-dads is just purely sexist, period.
@Platzpropeller it's sexist against women. It's perpetuating the idea that men are weak if they raise their children, implying that women are the weaker sex as this should only be a job for them, while men do the real work.
@Platzpropeller I was saying that to the person who said it wasn’t sexist because clearly they don’t believe sexism against men exists, as racism against white people doesn’t exist. I wasn’t agreeing or disagreeing, just telling them that even than, it would still be sexist against women. I’ve taken many women’s studies classes as electives, a lot of what you said is blatantly untrue based on accredited studies with many replications and empirical evidence. You did not need to write an (entirely wrong) essay lmao, good bye
@Platzpropeller women are denied a lot of jobs because employers expect them to get pregnant and take leave, even if unmarried. Women are also ridiculed for being stay at home (my mom was a stay at home mom so I should know). So don’t just pull facts out of your ass without doing research
Yes, my dad was a stay at home dad, he had to raise us when we were infants, to toddlers then as kids, while my mom worked.
@@Crustycats so your dad isnt a real man and hes lazy
My siblings and I were raised by a single father. My dad took me shopping for a prom dress, taught me how to walk in heels, talks to me about boy problems and even bought me my first training bra. If someone talked to my dad like that I would be furious. My dad takes pride in being both a dad and a mom. And he pulls all the ladies, no one should say that it’s not masculine to love and take care of your children.
That honestly sounds great.... my mom can’t even do that
My friend is the same. She has a mom but her dad helps her with "girly" stuff more.
My dad also raised me and my sister single handidly :>.
*(Quite a dark childhood wth our mother.)*
-He/They.
Oh boy...i start to love your father😍
If only my father was present in my life at least once a year...
I am a stay at home Dad and I can say I have never had a job more rewarding in my life.
That's so sweet
Aw
Amazing🎉
Aww
I’m unemployed for now. My father always work outside from home. Wish he would’ve stayed at home full time everyday and raised me. It’s an honorable job. More than just work.
I'm childfree but I love seeing stay-at-home dads because these are men who love their children and spending time with their children and didn't just have a kids to "spread their seed". They're actually being responsible for the human life they created. I also just love seeing them interact with their kids. I once saw a dad with 3 of his kids and when it was time to leave the park he just said "Come on buddy!" And it totally warmed my heart.
@paper plane “More a dad who cares about his family than someone who stays at home,” what? His role is worth less because be’s the primary caretaker of his and his wife’s children? Why? Is this your attitude towards the more common dynamic of a stay-at-home mom and an out-of-home dad? Her role means she cares less about her family because she’s not working outside? You’re ridiculous. 😂
@paperplane1471 listen there dimwit. Parenting isn't a _ucking competition. Doing one thing or another does not make you more or less of a father. Both are hard work and important thing in the story is the child- if it's happy then it's good.
When you equate having children to "just a hobby," hahaha
She said , “mr. mom” ... sis.... that’s called a DAD
Mr. Mom was an 80s movie about a stay at home dad, which was a radical idea at the time. But yes, that’s definitely what a dad is, too.
All I can think of is the song.
Ikr lol
@Adriano Castellano Though who wouldn't wanna marry a stay at home dad
one of the things that made me madist as a stay at home dad is when people would see me with my kids and ask, "oh, are you baby sitting them today?" i be like, "no... i'm fothering them today... becuse i'm there fother... and thats what we do."
Girls, learn from the first woman: Do not settle for the pretty boy who says nice things.
Thank u
Too late..
Yeah she had really good stuff to say
men should work. you really gonna let your wife bring in the income for you? LOL.
@@mega1chiken6dancr9 Why? Do you have any reason for that opinion other than being caught up in cultural expectations and not having the brain capacity to think past them?
My husband is a SAHD, and our home would cease to function without him. He does EVERYTHING in the house, and I do everything outside the house. For Saturday, we go out together for our morning "date" together to do grocery shopping since our kids are old enough to be left by themselves for several hours. For us, we have kind of a traditional 1950s marriage, but the gender roles are reversed and it happens to work for us.
“That is an honourable job” true words of wisdom!
Also a lot of people are unhappy in their jobs, I would just say they are jealous. There is nothing wrong with being a stay at home dad or mum. ♥️
When my daughter was young, I would take her to a local restaurant. All the waitresses knew she was my daughter, but would always comment, "oh, are you babysitting today?" I would reply, "no, I'm with my daughter."
I was a stay at home dad, my response to the "are you babysitting" question was "no I'm parenting, babysitters get paid and a day off"
That's so goddamn annoying
@Bullets in Bacon Grease i-
😉
@Bullets in Bacon Grease anybody can be a bad person at the same time anybody can be a good person. Color does not matter. Even if it is in a social experiment.
Imagine thinking caring for your own children is "not masculine" lmaoo
My dad must have been pretty masculine cause he left while my mom was still pregnant with me.
@@atmmachine11 Prolly gone to get milk for all those muscles, /s
@@atmmachine11 people don't mean that way , even though I don't support them , in just trying to say what they wanna say , they are saying that a dad should not take care of his children but a woman should the dad's obligation is to work and provide the money meanwhile the mother takes care of them. That's ridiculous
@@atmmachine11 owch that one hert to read.
I think that people who really do act in real life like the actresses and actresses who played the evil women and evil men should be shot. Less evil people in the world by executing evil people.
That first girl... just really cherished, and missed the time she could have had with her dad. Fills me with sorrow.
I was raised mainly by my father because of my mother’s mental illness. He would take me everywhere with him, on day trips and all sorts of things. He is a wonderful father and I would be very upset if someone treated him this way.
I’m a single dad , I’ve raised my daughter on my own since she was 3 1/2 months old , she’s now 9
thats a cakewalk wait till they are teens they will take a lot of years of your life lol
So true
Good Job bro :)
You are the best! 👏👏👏 ... be a loving one, you will have wonderful return for that! 🌹
Good job sir
Father: Takes care of his daughter and makes sure that she’s clean, healthy, fed, comfortable, and safe
Karens: *This is an Avengers level threat*
I’d have those Karens know, Mr. Mom is the highest rank anyone can have
@J K Apparently you know for certain that he doesnt have a wife who is making enough money,interesting.How do you know this?I would like to know.
@J K uhm... it is the man part... theyre talking about masculinity... so yeah they do have a problem with that IDIOT ._.
@J K Elaborate on the dumb shit you just said so I can further make fun of it.
@J K Soooo he doesn't have a wife or a husband that works? Hmmm please tell us more about how you can read minds.
I was raised by a single father. It was probably the best thing to happen to me he taught me what love was as well as he was there with me to talk about my problems and along with my grandma taught me what periods were and bought me my first products I needed when I was embarrassed. I wouldn’t be where I am today without my dad and if someone talked to my dad that way I would seriously be furious. I needed my dads love and perspective to be where I am today
She’s so 100%. I tell my coworkers my wife has the toughest job between us as she stays at home raising our kids.
You are a real man for recognising that.
@@nate2759 I'M SOOOO SCARED OF A 20TH BOOSTER EXISTING! THE VACCINE EXISTING *RISKS* A 20TH BOOSTER EXISTING!!!!! HEEEEELP..... PLEASE.....
1:39 John Quinones is so strong he can freeze time
[insert massive hoard of jojo references]
New/less Controversial Chuck Norris lol
ZA WARUDO! TOKI WO TOMAREEE!
MUDAMUDAMUDAMUDAMUDAMUDAMUDA!!
I have a friend, who wields a green Infinity Stone.
xD
A guy takes care of his kid, he's a wimp and a girlie man but if he wasn't taking care of his kid, you'd call him a deadbeat and a loser so which one is it? Should he take care of his kid or not? You can't have it both ways people.
ikr?? People are weird
@@phSyn yeah
Factual. Nice profile pic, by the way. Johnny English!
fully agree with this statement.
Everyone should take care of their children, no matter the gender!
Me and my siblings were raised by our single father. He passed away from Cancer in 2018 this was so touching to see! My dad played both rolls amazingly, always put us first and was the only support we ever needed! Dads can do it all! Props to single/stay at home parents!
U need a hug get over here
As a teen with a single father, this hits close to home😔 While he works very hard and has a job, I respect stay-at-home dads very much.
Beautiful, make sure he knows.
“our manhood is not defined by what we do, our manhood is defined by what we have within and how we express that to others.”
Wise words from a wise man.
Or manhood is defined by what we do = taking care of whom we love.
From a man who was too scared of saying in front of woman
@@sliat1981 I don't think he was scared. I think he knew that this was a battle he couldn't win because some people are beyond reason, so he made the wise choice of staying quiet.
@@joanneaugust1489 😅
@@sliat1981 a wise psychologist wouldn't bother to argue with empty can. Their job is to read how people thinks. And base on his reaction he's well experienced on that field and wouldn't bother argue
My Greatest Fear: *Hi I'm John Quiñones*
Edit: It hasn't happened yet, please pray it never happens
lol haha
Lol 😂
So true
John can freeze time and that scares me…
John quinones can stop all time so John Quinones = thanos?
I honestly had a tear with the first one..as being a single dad it hit different she has an amazing dad you could tell
FACTS AT 2:55
This is what daughters, need to be taught.
Same for sons aswell by their mothers.
Just because someone's "pretty" or "Popular" or whatever doesn't mean they should instantly jump to them and suck up to them. Know your self-worth and your own importance.
"I think it's wonderful" "I would've loved my father to stay at home with me" 🥺 same sis same
Omg I love your profile picture. It's so beautiful!!
@Bullets in Bacon Grease ???
Same. 😭
I'm glad he doesn't.....
When the first lady said,
"... And she's going to learn not to settle for the next pretty boy that says nice things to her, because she's going to know, 'my daddy's got my back'."
Queen.
*mic drop*
im saying bruh she was spitting point after point
Agree total mic jaw drop
She spits fire
Growing up, I have a stay at home Dad while Mom was out working. That shows me Fathers are capable to do Mother things and vice versa.
Stay at home dads are a win! I am glad more men are there for their children more and more, also giving mothers an opportunity to work as hard as they want. I am glad to see the push for women who are hard hard working and dads that are there for their children and families in a nurtured and supporting way. Mothers have good instincts naturally. I believe in this movement 🙌 🙏
they should recycle old plots and ideas. i don’t see anything wrong with it.
That would be a great idea because the plots are getting a little old so going back to the old ones would be good for a while
Exactly. Especially the wife beater and the pedo predator ones. That obnoxious pharmacist was good too lmao. Freaking hilarious.
@@AxxLAfriku lol cheater
i like to watch racist scene. Black vs white discrimination or asian vs white. I also love to watch foster kids who was mistreated by guardians.
Yeah it would be interesting to see the difference between how people responded then v.s. now.
“she’s gonna have self respect so she doesn’t settle for the next pretty boy she sees” 🧍🏽♀️🧍🏽♀️🧍🏽♀️
NOT YOU WITH YOUR OIKAWA PROFILE PIC AHIAJSKSKSKKS
@@XoAngelFanyXo u ok? Ya know it’s fine to be a normie but you don’t have to make fun of people who aren’t, you look stupid
@zahara Naqvi Ummm sis u need mental help?
Pfff, you out here with your oikawa pfp!!!
@Arianna Chavez first of all, I don’t watch haiyku, I’ve only watched like one episode and I only know like 2 characters, idek who Oikawa is. Second of all, I understand that but you see the problem is that these people were making fun of someone for simply their profile picture which wasn’t harmful in any way, and they had good intent. doesn’t anything about that seem unfair to you? Now I have better things to spend my time on than this and I’m sure you do too so bye bye
My dad is a stay at home dad. He worked nightshift for 10 years at a grueling factory while raising me and my sister to support my mom's dreams through college, and after everything she works her dream job and is making enough that my dad no longer needs to work! 5-6 years ago he was able to quit and raise my (now 5) year old sister while my mom worked. My parents love each other a lot and honestly stay at home dad's deserve upmost respect because it's the same as stay at home moms! My dad is amazing and he does everything for our family at home, my parents have it very even and I can tell they wouldn't want to trade it for the world. I hate when people sh*t on this kind of thing because honestly, why? It's really irritating
Edit: spelling error -_-
Both my parents raised me, and both of them had a job. My father was an university teacher and my mother worked in an office. I love them both.
I was raised by a child minder because both my parents worked. Age 9 my mother got ill and I had to raise my newborn half sister.
“Our manhood isn’t defined by what we do. PERIODT.” Tell em gramps 👏
one of the things that made me madist as a stay at home dad is when people would see me with my kids and ask, "oh, are you baby sitting them today?" i be like, "no... i'm fathering them today... becuse i'm there father... and thats what we do."
@@squirrel8185 you are awesomeee!!!
Except when men like to put make up on
@@zianathaya3837 I dont agree, makeup can be a creative outlet or a confidence booster for anyone. Sure it is seen as feminine in most cases in todays society but it actually used to be masculine a long time ago. Being comfortable with your masculinity means being able to do whatever you wanna do even if its seen as feminine. I think its so important to let go of toxic masculinity, we shouldnt try to push people to fit into boxes, we should try to embrace our differences as those define our individuality and make us special. Nobody actually wants a world where people are the same, that would be so boring...
@@squirrel8185 YES YOU’RE AN AWESOME FATHER IN THAT CASE
It’s kind of sad that dads being loving parents to their kids isn’t normal. People still call it “babysitting” when they watch their own kids.
lmao what? it is funny though. men should work. you really gonna let your wife bring in the income for you? LOL.
@@mega1chiken6dancr9 Why should men work? Is their Y chromosome going to quack away if they don't?
@@tara5938 because that's how life works
@@mega1chiken6dancr9 And who said that?
@@mega1chiken6dancr9 I would've much preferred a stay at home dad growing as opposed to the cocaine addicted one that was always in prison
My dad retired at 50 when I started university and my mom continued to work (and still does). Having my dad home full time has made our home more balanced, and stable. He is so dependable and the rock of our family! Whenever a child gets more time with dad than usual, it’s a great thing. I am now in my 30s and I can say that I have a healthy and realistic outlook on men because of my dad’s constant presence at home :)
I also know a family who kind of falls into this category. The dad does have another job, but he has a very small farm, so he's at home the entire time. The mum works in the city in a well-paid job. This is extra great in my opinion: Not only is the dad there for his kids 24/7, they also have gotten to know how a farm works and lived in contact with animals and nature from day one. Seems like a pretty amazing childhood to me.
Dad: *doesn't take care of kids*
Idiots: He's such a deadbeat.
Dad: *takes care of kids*
Idiots: You weren't supposed to do that.
I wish my father would've took care of me and my brother growing up. He was never around, and for the times he was, he basically didn't want to deal with us. He didn't have a job either.
@@trinitywidmann5866 my father was never home and when he was it was basically the same like he wasn't there but he did work ALOT and hard work. So I give him that, he did alot so I could have what I have now.
I always had a bit of resentment but now I understand fully. I love my father and I always try and be a better father to my child give them time and everything. I also teach them to be humble, nice, and I couldn't be more proud straight A student. You can always be a diff kind of parent, my mother was horrible 🤣 but I just take it as a lesson of someone I dont want to be.
I think people only call those people deadbeats when they are either never home or when they dont take care of their kids but also don’t work
#society
Men can't win in society, could they?
How to spot an WWYD scene:
- Loud conversations going on
- Saying “I can’t right now I will be back in a minute”
- Setting takes place in a diner (usually) or other places
- When the other actors walk away from the other actors
Hey are you a Christian and no hate I love everyone beacuse there still brother or sisters
At this point, I’ve watched so many of these videos I know all the actors. 😭😭
It’s happening in either New Jersey or New York
😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣
@@two-face1041 ikr
My dad was a stay at home dad. He'd go through fire for us. I trust him with everything. I learned so much from him!
When our kids were little, I worked and my husband stayed home with them. We really didn't want them in daycare and I just happened to make more. Him and our kids loved it. He is such a great father to our kiddos. The women around us had questions and the men were just miserable. They always treated him like he was less than a man because he took care of the kids. Honestly his time with the kids was full time and 100% harder than my job every could have been.
As a single, full-time dad, this hits me in the feels.
Well I think your amazing your a true man and I hope your proud of yourself and I hope your kids are too,well done and pay no attention to the haters
Yea it's really sad that Fathers are treaten like second class parents.
When I was a little girl I was also mainly raisen by my father and I didn't miss anything because he was like a King raising his Princess. I'm proud to have such a carrying father. So now I know a how a real man is like.
You go dad. ( not my dad but you know lol)
one of the things that made me madist as a stay at home dad is when people would see me with my kids and ask, "oh, are you baby sitting them today?" i be like, "no... i'm fathering them today... becuse i'm there father... and thats what we do."
@@squirrel8185 bro. People can be so dumb. My kids school call her mom first. They assume that’ since we’re not together, my daughter must live with her mom. It’s really frustrating. Her mom doesn’t even live in the same state. Some people think dads are secondary parents. Crazy.
"She's going to learn not to settle for the next pretty boy that says nice things to her, because she's going to know, 'my daddy's got my back'."
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That woman couldn’t have said a more true statement. My respect for her and the father are a billion percent
Rosie Rennie.....I guess people don't realise you're making a sexual innuendo here.
@@2eleven48 oh.. my... gosh. No stop.
Is this person serious right now
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To all stay at home dads: We (us kids who were raised by you primarily) love you, and you’re doing what a parent should do- the best thing for the kids. Dont listen to broken people who have no idea what parenthood should be like. Keep being awesome!!
There's so many children in the world with parents who are unkind to them, or don't even have any. One good, loving and supportive parent is better than none. When I was in school we had certain mornings called donuts for dad's and muffins for mom where kids would eat breast with their mom or dad, but kids who only had one parent and who wanted to attend both was always an admirable thing.
Can we appreciate that the girl had headphones so she doesn’t have to listen things she’s not ready to hear.
I agree! 👍
I carry my headphones so i can avoid a lot of unnecessary situations.
yea they do that often with children who are under a certain age or who are not active participants in the dialogue. Well at least in all the videos I have seen
I play music really loud on my 350$ jbl I keep it loud so no one talks around or to me👍 anti social asf boi so anti I stop you're socializing boiiiiiiiiii
@@kekoasiversons350 hehehe
My daughter's mom passed away when mija was only 4. I raised her all on my own. Yes.. we can handle mommy business. I promise you I can be helping with math homework, baking cupcakes, arranging soccer practice and taking a business call... all at the same moment. Been there done that a thousand times..
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Thank you for your commitment to your daughter. She will have far more confidence in herself than daughters who grew up without the love and nurture of their parents. As a man, I congratulate the privilege of raising a future strong woman by yourself Sir.
Man you’re a beast, great job
@@joshythehand2960 well I think you gotta give yourself some more credit. You could have been a terrible father and she could have turned out completely different. I have no doubt she looked up to you and respected you for everything you did for her and I'm sure she still does. Being good may have been in her nature but it sure helped that she had a good role-model.
That’s good you take good care of her!
I'd love to have this kind of dad rather than a dad that doesn't care about his family. ✨️
It's my first time seeing this episode it made me really cry. I appreciate you guys making something like this. I'm a stay home dad my self i take care of my two kids. Its just hard hearing bad things coming from other people whose judging you because your not doing what most man does. How i wish someone would also say to me that I'm doing a great job. Thank you and Godbless you all
@Owen Cadavos I think it is sometimes harder for Dads being the parent who takes on the home responsibilities because it can be more isolating as there are not as many of you and you dont always get the same support from other stay at home mums networks...often because people are afraid of gossip if they look like they are too friendly with a stay at home Dad. It can be quite lonely I imagine.
Unfortunately, being a stay at home parent means no one ever tells you you are doing a good job, and that's no different if you are a woman. As a woman, especially a single mother, the world just wants to say you are useless and your children will be a disaster. You have to find the resilience and confidence in yourself that you know you do a good job, you have good priorities, you love your kids, discipline them when needed and take care of them and their home.
A man does what he needs to and takes the responsibilities that are best for the overall wellbeing of his whole family and it sounds to me that is exactly what you are doing. Do not let small minded fools get to you one bit...you need to stop caring what others think and care about what you think and your children need from you...and that is being the parent at home looking after their needs. That's a man. I wish you all the best and hope that you remember that what children value, whether you are the parent working at home or the parent working outside the home, is that you love them and are interested in them as people and give them the best attention you can give them whatever long or short time that is available to you.
@Ganjah MacK Good for you. You are absolutely right. It doesnt matter who stays and works in the home and who is working outside of it or how that balance is split...the priority is doing what works for your family unit for the best outcome for your children. Best of luck...you've got a long way to go if your little one is 3! Mine are grown up now, the worry never stops, but the broken sleep gets better!
Bless your heart, sir. As a daughter of a stay-at-home father, I'm here wholeheartedly telling you that you're doing such a great job, and you are more of a man for being such an amazing father to your children. Not every kid in this world is blessed to have incredible parents, but you chose to be there for your own children, that itself makes a whole lot of great difference. Always know that your children appreciates everything that you do for them. God bless you, sir! 💙💙
As a stay at home dad, i REALLY appreciate this video. I’ll be referring to it for those days that are difficult to get through, so thank you!
You can do it! Always Believe in yourself! Your kids will appreciate that !
It’s all fun and games till you see the daughter you raised get older and break her back to support a fucking man who’s at home not doing shit. It’s 2021 they said ? That’s the problem you guys want to twist genders.
stay home dad so your wife go outside and work??? dude your soooo f** pathetic id rather die than doing that
Umm... whats wrong with a father being there for his kid and spending time with them? And he is NOT pathetic, he is doing what works for his family, you got a problem with that? Whats wrong with his wife going out and working and him staying home? Its because of people like you that society thinks that dads can't take care of their kids, when they are extremely capable of doing it so keep your opinion to yourself and STOP shaming a dad who loves his family and is taking care of them.
I doubt myself when it comes to the ability to be a father. I scares the crap out of me. But brave men like you give me hope that I may be able to do it.
as a girl who was raised by a single dad, this hits close to home. my dad would braid my hair before school, he'd cook dinner for us every evening, he would paint my fingernails for me(he actually did my right hand for me a few days ago lol). stay at home dads and single dads are so underrated. they love the child just as much as any mother would, sometimes even more in cases where the mother is abusive. AND being a primary caregiver for a young child is a tough job, so not only do stay at home dads deserve respect, but so do stay at home moms.
Same here! Though it's my mom who taught me how to paint my nails 😅😅 But it's my dad who styles my hair when I was a kid. He's a great cook, carpenter, plumber, and heck he even did some of my school projects because he's an artist. I'm a proud daughter of a stay-at-home dad! 💙💙
W dad
I think gender isn't a defining factor of parenthood. Why? My parents both work and my mom was only good for cleaning the house, when I was 10 I started cleaning it, and now she's just here in this house to complain. My father despite his mental illness cooked at lunch, showed me how to handle bureaucracy, took care of minor repairing jobs and taught me, took care of bills too. My mom couldn't even braid my hair, I literally watched a UA-cam video because she didn't know how to, and never cared to learn.
@@xandriecee6437 I can't say how lucky you are, cherish your dad
@@fable_enthusiast thank u! You are likewise lucky and blessed with your father. We are the living proofs of people who grew up under their father's love and care, and it's nothing to be ashamed of. It is an amazing thing. 💙
As someone who works with kids (at a daycare), hearing one of the "dads" say that taking care of kids is not a real job, I honestly got mad. And also, tell my grandmother and many of the women of her generation (she was born in the 1950s) that being a stay-at-home parent is not a real job and they'll get really pissed off.
the first girl needs to be protected at all cost!!
as someone whos dad only hurt and abused me and my siblings, seeing a dad like this makes me want to cry. I hope one day, all dad's can be this nurturing, because that is a true man.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
@@RemHayden1806 Thank you, but it made me strong, gave me strong morals of whats right and whats wrong, showed me exactly what I didnt wanna be, taught me sympathy for others, and I can spot a manipulate and abusive person a mile away. I can't undo the past but I can learn from my fathers mistakes and I think how we handle our problems is what defines us as people. I hope to make a difference in the world and change it for the better, even if others may call my generation childish and unrealistic, all we want is a change for the better and I know we'll make this a reality. I dont regret my past, and yes its hard, sometimes all I wish for was a loving dad because of how heavily it still affects me today, but I will overcome it just like I did him. I want to be a role model for others and show even if you have 19 years of heavy abuse and trauma you can overcome it and be happy. So if you or anyone else is struggling dont give up because we'll over come it together
@@RemHayden1806 Sorry for the speech😂 and thank you, it means a lot
@@AmandaSoonToBe no problem, I didnt really know what to say because I dont relate but I wanted to make you feel better.
@@RemHayden1806 that's ok, I'd rather you not relate to it😂 I had to come to terms with it myself a while ago in order to move on, Im doing really good now, Im happier, more successful at work, and Ive some great friends! Also Im very lucky and I have a wonderful mom who loves me💕so dont worry about me Im doing good ^~^
This kind of thing is sexist both ways. Saying men can not take care of a child like this because it's not manly along with saying childcare is the women's job. I can't believe people are truly like this
women are uniquely designed to better suited for caring for children and men are uniquely designed to be better suited for fighting the world to make money for their children. I agree with you, though, overall.
Sorry to burst your bubble, but men and women are not actually all that different. Money is something we created, making money is not inherent in our biology.
@@nybergsgarage How in the hell did you come to that conclusion? 😐
@@shayym0mma just some basic biological fact is all.
@@nybergsgarage How is it a “biological fact” when we’re talking about social behaviors? What biological component do women have-that men do not- that makes them “uniquely designed for caring for children”.
When my dad was alive he used to look after me and he showed me and taught me everything I know. How to respect people as I want to be respected
The first woman's words were filled with TRUTH...
I don’t get why people are always in everybody else’s business.
Same here.
Yeah same
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@Bullets in Bacon Grease my guy, it doesn't matter. People are people with human skin, human urges, human everything. Skin color doesn't mean shit.
@Bullets in Bacon Grease your mind is programmed to try to find shit in everything.
This was pleasantly refreshing to see so much genuine support for a stay at home father
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I give props to all stay at home dads, their teaching their kids the right treatment from a man.
The little girl said: I'm just here to eat tbh
The psychologist guy:
"Period!"
Me:
YASSSS PERIOD!!!
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I- 1.9k likes..... literally too much 😭❤️
SAME LMAO, I FUCKING SCREAMED!
@@littleroncito that's what we want 😌✨
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LITERALLY ME LMAOO
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I'm so close with my dad. My mom traveled for work and my dad was at home, he worked(mostly from home) and went to school. Even when my mom stopped traveling you don't get that time back. You learn so much from a present parent than an absent one. I'm thankful for what they provided growing up, but you can provide and still emotionally and physically check out.
There’s nothing that defines a man more, in my opinion, than the role he takes on with his children if he chooses to have them.
Being an active, positive part of your children’s lives goes so much further than financially providing for them. My sisters partner is a stay at home father, he’s not less of a man for not being the main breadwinner. He cares for the home they all live in, and the people in it. I have so much respect for him.
“Isn’t it emasculating”
No being a good father is the most manly thing you can do
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FACTS
out of all languages in this goddamn vaccum of space and time you chose to speak FACTS
120% agreed
Okay but seriously are we really going to pretend that being a stay-at-home dad isn't the coolest god damn job on the planet? Who wouldn't want to do that instead of going to work?
Anyone who thinks otherwise is just jealous that they can't get a deal like that.
Me: Sees dollar on floor and picks it up.
John Quinones: Hello, I’m John Quinones why did you steal that dollar?
You win the internet....
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OMG HILARIOUS!
@@skellingtonmeteoryballoon mp l
I literally think of this anytime i do anything in public
Rewatching this video for the 100th time and it still hits home. Because my dad stays at home taking care of me, my sister, and my disabled brother because he chose too. My parents are amazing my mom loves going to work because she knows that my dad can handle himself. Every family works differently and lives differently everyone should respect that dicison
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My dad did both, he worked full time and raised me all on his own as a single parent and he was awesome at it, honestly he was better than most mothers I know
Imagine actually being mad that a man is taking care of his own child.
but they mad when a man works all day and the mom takes care of the kid u can not win
@@2bstiff584 you can win. Just ignore those pesky haters and carry on. The words of a few strangers whine you’ll never see again mean nothing if they are nasty and unfounded. To hell with them honestly.
Went through this when I became stay at home Dad. I had a brain injury that took me out of the workforce. I wanted to be a viable member of my family so I became a stay at home Dad. I don't know why so many of the guys I was friends with reacted so negatively. Six months later I only two friends I can really talk to. Thank God for the stay at home Dads support group where I live.
Bless your spirit. Your children appreciate you.
Wow. I'm so sorry. Humans can be monsters.
Don't be ashamed, its nothing wrong at all. The fact that your friends reacted negatively shows that they are not your true friends. Its like casting aside or being mad at your friend just bcoz he got into an accident and has been permanently disabled and can't work his dream job anymore. There are better people out there to be friends with, those who u can call friends instead of your these negative friends who don't deserve to be called friends. Don't bother them, u just do your thing and be a good daddy to your kids. U don't have to live according to society, just bcoz society is where men works and women stay at home, doesn't mean u have to follow. U live a life of yours not of the society's. All the best to u.
Awww well good for you. Who cares about your friends. Apparently they aren't good friends and don't understand your situation.
Well that was useful to find out which 2 friends were the real ones
As someone whose father wasn't involved, any man who cares for his kids like this automatically gets me all in my feels.
My daughter is closer to me than she is to her mom because of all of the love and time that I give her. Everyone realizes it, and treats me like a hero. I tell them that I owe it to her.
As someone who was raised by a stay-at-home dad, I have seen so many people with negative attitudes towards it and I loved all the support to him. I loved my dad's job: taking care of me!
Yup i agree
A man should Work and stay at home it's very possible there's no reason to sit on your ass all day
Could he not find work or did he work from home ?
Cuz i find it hard to believe a guy would want to voluntarily not work, unless their were issues.
@@Shtriga_34 not ur business
@@Shtriga_34 that's none of your business. Taking care of a child is work, it's a full time 24/7 job.
Ooooo this one is gonna piss me off. There are so many times my dad helped me out when my mom couldn’t.
most people dont have that experience, you are lucky
@Bullets in Bacon Grease u seem upset about it ... it’s a show move on
@Bullets in Bacon Grease majority of the USA is white wats ur point? lmfao
@Bullets in Bacon Grease if you want to see black and brown people portrayed as villians, just watch the news.
@Bullets in Bacon Grease someone's never seen the interracial couple episodes
Seeing my boyfriend with his son- the way he cares for his son and the way his son respects and loves and adores his dad is one of the most heart melting thing I’ve ever seen. Fathers are so important in children’s lives
My husband was a stay at home father until a few days ago. He’s incredible.
The first woman was preachin.
@Srjane Ac do you know that if you don't talk we don't have to hear your annoying sheit?
"Fathers are not second class parents" -
Judge Judy
@Ashley Lake I think he meant to say that -_-. Dont have to bully him for it.
I shouldn't have laughed this much
How dare these people. I love my dad! He may look tough but he’s the sweetest guy in the world
My adult son has 2 children and I am proud of him for many things, but I'm MOST proud of him for being a great dad. 💯%
Them actors to good man this shit be getting me mad 😂😂🤦🏾♂️
Right?
especially the little girl
Yes 😭😂😂
If y'all need ideas, here's one: we need one of someone making fun of someone with a disability but it's not a noticeable disability. I've had things like this happen to me with chronic pain and I think it could be interesting to see.
I have chronic pain (arthritis), I'd definitely like to see something like that. I've been denied elevator access and other accommodations because I don't have the "look".
My friend got made of for havig epilepsy I got into a fight with a girl over it she kept calling him braindead and claiming he wasnt capable of thought process because of having epilepsy several people came to defend my friend but this girl didnt stop she sent over 300 messages literally threatening him dissing him discriminating against him and bullying him and every other person who was involved in defending him. This would be a fantastic idea there are alot of illnesses diseases disabilities and medical conditions out there that people dont have control over and shouldnt be judged over they should also do a drug abuse one basically have someone who used to be a drug addict who's clean maybe have someone who knows their past and judges them for it I say that one too because there are soo many ex addicts that overcame a huge addiction but people get judgemental. Both of these would be fantastic topics to work with and hopefully give awareness to both. It would be good with ex addicts too because unfortunately some of the negative feedback they recieve causes them to revert back to those times in some cases it would be good to spread awareness for that too.
Well the thing is right now they can’t film anything right now because of coronavirus so they have to use what they have filmed before so it may not be the best. 🤷🏽♀️
@@sadiemailloux4804 they can do it after the fact. She wasnt meaning right now she just meant as a generalization they should do that topic
@@airbearbabiii ok I’m sorry.
I LOVE THE WAY YOU STARY AT HOME WITH HER ALL THE TIME.
My dad raised me from the time I was 4 to 8 years old while my mom was in the Navy. My dad didn't know how to do hair or dress me but he was there and supported me in anything I did...and at 32 years old I would give anything to have my dad back...but sadly we lost him to stage 4 cancer in 2020 ....he was stay at home dad and I honestly wouldn't have asked for it to be different ...only thing I would wish for is more time with him and for my 3 daughters to get more time with their amazing stay at home grandpa
Men can do anything women do, and women can do anything men can do. I'd be mad if I saw this going on fo sho
men don't give birth
Are you like 15? There’re plenty of jobs a woman can’t do simply because of physical and mental differences between men and women
@@Paris9309 really? Name one?
Michael Davidson could you. Name some
@@Fierclyfabulous lets start with mover and let’s say continue with ceo of Top banks , pilots and end with a president , I know you’re gonna say technically they’re allowed to do all that (I forgot Marine officer and more) but I never seen one doing it , except for pilots but percentage is just so tiny as my d*** in the winter morning