Is A University Degree Useless?
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- Опубліковано 4 кві 2020
- Let's talk about university/college and whether or not I thought it was worth it.
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Should you go to college? Is college worth it? Is a college degree useless? - Навчання та стиль
Did you go to university? Why? Why not?
Yes because it's seems like the logical choice.
I did it, because first of all my university is public, is in my city, the tuition wasn't expensive and my expenses were low. Besides that, I love learning and my degree guarantees a job, I graduated years ago and guess what, I'm starting a new major, in another university in another city. This time I'm just enrolled because I love the major, I'm not even concerned about getting a job with that degree, but who knows. At the end, regardless the career path, the university shapes your mind in different way, no need to work on that field, though, but for sure it does bring benefits the fact that you have higher education.
I don’t see the link to the article you mentioned?
I study Pharmacy , I didn’t like it at first and I didn’t even know what I want and what are my goals. But at the Coronavirus situation, I believe I will help people in someway when I’m well educated and have the passion to specialize in Drug research department to make difference in the world. I want to be someone useful in community!! Lana, I’m truly happy from my deepest core in my heart to see you💕 you’re inspiring me so much.
No and i dont plan to
Anyone else experiencing a quarter life crisis in your 20's too? The lockdown made me realize how many career decisions I've made based on how others would perceive me.
It made me realize how passive I've been about big decisions like choosing a degree and I'm not even 20😬
EXACTLY
Here i am, having that crisis at 17
@@gonzalezgalerokatiamariana7167 I can definitely relate
Good luck with whatever you pursue
Bruh try 16
“Just because someone wants whats best for you doesn't mean that they actually know what's best for you”
It makes me realize how important it is that we do what's best for ourselves. I still struggle with that!
Or what you want.
Indeed , sadly many parents don't agree with this
I was 14 or 15 years old when I told my teachers, friends and parents I want to become an engineer. They all laughed at me for a number of years saying I'll never make it, I'm not smart enough, too much maths and it's too difficult. However, my heart and inner voice always said do engineering. Here I am studying engineering. My point is do what makes u happy. Don't be easily influenced by others. Thanks for reading
Note: I want to thank God for everything.
EESAA RASHID Thank you so much for this. I’m always struggling with not feeling smart enough.
There's not even that much math in it tbh
@@africanlily6107 At least you wanted to get into a field that actually pays off.
@@Yellow.1844 wait really?.. pls don't give me false hope🥺
@@nikkijp4120 well you have 5 very hard math courses in 4 years at my Uni (Canada) but the math you use in your engineering courses is not that hard, this is what I mean, if you manage to pass them with C's or D's it should be alright, it depends on the country and the program so you should look into it for yours don't take my words for it
Im 37 and going to U. for the first time...fall of 2020 for Classical piano, in Montreal. I'm pursuing my 20 year dream. All my classmates will be 18...lol! I used to be homeless...now I've turned my life around, teach music, and fortunate enough to have a great teacher who helped me pass the audition :0)
Brotha...much respect to you!!! Im 38 going back for my finance degree. I dont even care if they are younger. One thing they will see quickly is that this old man is coming to bring it.
The best thing college has taught me is to "learn how to learn" if that makes sense. In short, you can learn anything if you put forth the effort.
@@mbz205 old man? Bro you're 38 relax lol
@@m_b9892 lmao fr ppl rlly think 38 is not old old is like 60 to me either way UR NEVER TOO OLD FOR EDUCATION!!! do what u love man
I honor you for that. All the best in your life.
Don't count your life and experiences through age and numbers, that is a social construct and one that disables people. Keep going for your best life, wishing you good luck x
Lana : 18 is a really young age to be deciding what to do for the rest of your life
Me who's turning 18 : *Chuckles , I'm in Danger*
35 is a young age to decided what to do for the rest of your life
Yes, it's true but I believe that life is an advanture and everything is worth trying and always remember that always there is hope... 💙
Frankly, any age is too young to decide what to do for the rest of your life. Don't let your past dictate your future in a negative fashion.
Sometimes things don't go the way they plan. I went to a rubbish secondary school and got average grades for my GCSE. Went college and did a btec diploma as I didn't get a high grade to do A levels. Went uni and did a biomed science degree and thankfully got a first class. Now doing a masters in UCL at the moment. I could of applied to medicine but I was wondering if it's the right thing for me. Doctors are constantly busy and I noticed their personality are different because of this which I don't favour. Now my qualifications do give me a lot of job opportunities however I have an eye on one training program I want to get into. It's really competitive sadly and thankfully on my first application I got in the reserve list so I was close to an interview which I might still be called for if someone withdraws.
@@ssnabell she's damn right.
You neglected to mention that you were preferentially hired because you had a degree. Without which you would probably not have had a call back for an interview.
For those of us who are a little older, not having a degree is extremely frustrating when job hunting. Despite years of documented experience in a field, it is nearly impossible to be promoted or even change industries.
Current society demands that you have at least one degree before you can get past the automated resume discriminators.
A degree may not help you with achieving your dreams directly, but it will certainly help you have a career.
@@georgewashington7539 To be fair: A society needs good thinkers. If the universities made liberal arts hard like it used to be, you would have very few students studying in it and the degree would be useful again. Think about learning and reading Latin and Greek to study philosophy, this is fcking hard and your degree would at least proof that you are hard working.
Brian Riley I agree. People who say degrees are useless are bullshitting. Most jobs nowadays require at a least a undergraduate degree and going to grad school can lead to higher paying jobs.
"For those of us who are a little older, not having a degree is extremely frustrating when job hunting. Despite years of documented experience in a field, it is nearly impossible to be promoted or even change industries."
For sure!
So many job postings that I have seen want a degree but they don't even care what it is in. The postings often say 'Degree Required'. Not which field. No mention of Associate, Bachelor, Masters or PhD. Even for jobs that clearly after two months of doing the work you would be 90%+ up to speed and after six months it would be like you were there for years.
Many programmers, coders, and developers clearly show it is about skill, not education level but in so many other areas or fields, skill means little unless you have a degree so you can get past the first level of screening and actually meet the people in the department you are targeting.
@@georgewashington7539 I agree with you. Sorry for misreading your comment:)
I disagree and earning a degree may do some harm or benefit depending on circumstances. There's better alternatives such as professional certifications or trade school. Also, people need to understand if a degree will help them fulfill their vision. Some carreers it's mandatory to have a degree. People aren't fourtunate to spend a vast amount of money and waste time finding their passions. It's not worth the debt. I've climbed the ladder without a degree and helped my company scale its operations to be profitable, which lead to a acquisition from a private equity firm. Im a college dropout. I guess I'm lucky.
University dont really teach you much. Id say i learn more from the internet and books than from the class. But at the end of the day we all just need that one paper that can make it easier for us to survive. Never underestimate the power of certificate.
Yeah, but many guys who don't even speak English find jobs that pay quite well.
The power of a certificate is starting to diminish because of what you just said. Companies are now realizing that, 1. Everybody has a degree therefore the value has decreased and 2. More and more people are learning faster and gaining experience in a shorter time researching in the internet than spending 4 years learning worthless topics that will never be used in the job.
@@mle1872 , right. I hate the scams.
There's so much you can learn on the internet forsure! For free lol
Yeah, yeah, the mighty fucking white paper that they guve you so you could be someone's work slave.
I'm doing my masters in psychology, I'm gonna be a psychologist next summer. Five years ago, when I applied for uni, I did it because that was the only profession that interested me in the slightest. I always knew I'm never gonna be the classic therapist with a couch, but there are sooo many fields that I can work in with that degree. But even if I'll never use my diploma in my life for work, I learned sooo much that can't be taken away from me. I learned so much more about people, about myself. I learned how a scientist thinks: how I need to analyse things before I believe it, how I need to listen both proofs and disproof, how I need to change my mind if the proof says otherwise, how I need to adapt to changes. I learned that if I try hard enough with a program, every result can be significant, and that made me wary of sketchy studies. I learned to speak my mind in groups, I learned how to give a presentation. And I was around sooo many creative, bright minds that all wanted the same thing, to understand human nature. My psychology studies gave me a perspective that I'm so glad to have, and 100% worth it, even if I never use my degree again.
another woman studying psychology...blah
Do some research on introversion.
@joannadestiny oh, it's so good to hear for me as well :))
Honestly, me with philosophy.
Just wanted to tell you if the microchip will come in the future don't take it no matter what it will bring you to hell it is written in the bible.they will make it mandatory in the End and it will be either in the hand or the forehead no one will buy or sell without it. Suicide is not an option to avoid it because it brings to hell too. You have to trust in God because he will return again Jesus will take with him all the souls that believed in him.
He exists and loves you he cares so much. The prophecies are coming alive we are in the End times.
You're a very self aware woman. Nice to see fellow introverts who analyze and explore themselves to help others.
This was excellent. The message, cinematography, your voice. The whole package. I never feel like I've wasted my time after watching one of your videos which is what keeps me coming back again and again. Very rare nowadays.
Thank you so much!!
and she just sounds so Authentic! Really great voice.
Agreed.
Update: On october I start a new career at 31yo, I'm going back to college to study Software Development.
I spent 7.5 years in university for an architecture degree, needless to say I didn't like it very much but I had no idea what to do about myself so I just made the effort to finish it. I deeply regret it, worst about it is I can only blame myself for not leaving when I had the chance.
I've always wanted to make videogames, but people around me, my parents and society itself made me believe that was not a "secure" thing to do, back in 2008 there were no Videogame Design degrees anywhere in Spain, if you wanted to do that you had to study Computer Science and then learn by yourself, but I'd tell myself I was too bad at math to do that; things changed some years later when courses and degrees started popping up as the industry became stronger, but I felt it was too late for me to start all over again in my mid 20s.
Last couple years I've been feeling deeply disappointed with my life, I work as a "designer" in a company that sells urban furniture, and I really don't enjoy it, so I've been trying to learn programming and videogame design by myself, but I'm getting older and it's really hard to take everything in, specially considering everything I know about videogames is playing them way too much.
No one ever taught me to follow my intuition, we live in a culture of hard rationality that fucks up everything and everyone.
I'm in my 2nd year of architecture and i don't like it. I told my parents many times but they just don't get it. They think that i am just being ungrateful that i got the chance to go to a university but i don't know they just don't understand me. They always blame me. I live in a society where parents think that only they know the best for their children, they assume everything without even asking what we want.
@@angelarisha4110 You are right. If you know you don't like it find that which you have passion for and go for it, insist on it, it's YOUR life. We gotta understand our parents didn't have a choice most times, and getting a university degree was the exception, they could start working at age 16 and have a great life. Nowadays life is way more expensive and you go nowhere without higher education, which means the choices we make have a bigger impact on our future. Don't give up, you still have time to change your path and believe me, working 9 to 5 on an office job SUCKS, so you better be working on something you like or you will loose yourself eventually.
Believe me, you are NOT too old to change careers! I was an electrical engineer and I retrained myself to be a software engineer at the age of 40 by reading books. I got some good jobs as a software engineer and ended up making $95,000 a year back in the year 2000. That was by far the best money I have ever made in my life! Do it! Retrain yourself! You can make it happen if you want to!
I really feel you. It is my 8 years in uni for my Ph.D. and it is the last semester,. I still don't know if I can make it or not. I also regret that I did't quit when I have a chance and wasted so much time and money because I so much cared of what other would talk about me. I suffer with depression for more than 3 years and now confusing about my future asking myself everyday should I continue or should I quit. I don't know what to do any more.
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The way she talks is so relaxing wtf
It's therapeutic!
I agree
I graduated with a Bachelors in Pre-Med Biology believing I wanted to go to medical school, but i fell out of love with medicine. I’m now pursuing a Masters in Creative Writing because I want to write one day. I do believe however, that my interests will continue to change. For now, I just study and pursue what I like at the moment, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to be and do different things in one lifetime.
This is so true. "There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be and do different things in one lifetime". Sometimes I feel bad about this, as people thinks I am unfocused and that I will not succeed .. good advice dulce mata :)
Thanks really reading this re assured me in a way cause i am always changing interest amd i always have that fear and pressure myself to just figure. Everything out
stevie dore yeah, I used to always feel pressured in settling down with something but my interests are always changing, I want to do so many things and I feel its not fair that society makes us believe that one should choose one profession or one path in life and stick with it.
dafne 9 thanks! I feel bad at times too, but I always tell myself that society has no right to force us to stick to one thing forever, it is definitely good to explore many things, to try many things and to keep evolving:)
Same!
I went to university twice . I got degrees of Art & Economics. And now, I am working as a software engineer.
I’ve never regret my experience going to the universities. It is making my life rich.
Perhaps I am not answering your question but my dad passed away yesterday. My heart is sad. I feel like I have no air inside me. However, I have been in a long process now of reorganizing my life. Dad's death has been yet another push to clean up some more areas, weed out the unnecessary, and grow something more beautiful. It reaffirmed my pursuit of what gives meaning, what vibrates higher as opposed to what might be of interest but is of lower vibration. Your videos are always so on point. I appreciate that. Clarity at this time is much needed.
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and pain. May you move and gravitate towards the best of things that this life can offer. Be well. 🌞🌱🌷💕
I'm so sorry
@@Ayawahamin Your kind reply is much appreciated Ayamihāwin.
@@karinaleon2824 Thank you so much Karina.
@@williamb7275 ❤️
14 years ago, a teacher in my first year at a two years college talked about how it is possible for anyone to get a master's degree. So, later I got my diploma, then my engineering degree, then my first job, and finally, yesterday, I officially got my master's degree. It was a personal fulfillment more than a financial goal.
It seems like most people have to choose between stability and their passion. If they choose stability, they will be called a sell-out, and if they choose their passion, they will be called a lazy moocher. Either way, they will suffer. As for myself, I chose my passion for writing, already knowing perfectly well that I would probably never make a living pursuing such a passion. At the end of the day, we have to choose what will satisfy our spiritual needs, regardless of what others think. In some cases, that might mean living a life of poverty, self-isolation, and loneliness, three things that most people would like to avoid, but by choosing the alternative, you will never be aligned with who you truly are.
wholesome 👏
Be a copywriter
passion wins
I chose stability that will allow me to pursue my passion.
Damn... This is accurate.
_"Is My University Degree Useless?"_
Absolutely not! *There's a toilet paper shortage!*
XD
Hahaha!!! Hilarious!!!
😂
Very motivational!
Ahh, not really
People tend to mix up between getting Univerity "Education" and just getting a Degree. It all depends upon the individual's mindset and the reason WHY they choose to get into college/school.
University can be a good place to learn to socialize as adults, developing discipline and some work ethic, and being responsible overall. It can also be a good foundation to get structured knowledge. But the problem comes when people begin to associate their identity, worth, and eventually their life's destiny to a Degree.
Considering a degree as a "Must" for survival can really limit a person's potentials. It must always be taken as optional. If getting formal education serves you in whatever you want to pursue and pushes your growth, then go ahead and get the formal "Education".
But if your reasoning behind getting a degree is merely to get a job and just settle with it, not growing forward or exploring creative opportunities, then that's not going to take you too far.
Also, blindly following the education system without questioning and thinking independently might also greatly limit one's potential. It has its ups and downs. If you do choose to go for formal education, just be conscious and don't get hypnotized by the system.
I really agree with you
@@ichbinhier355 :)) 🙏
Even before going in, I would look up UA-cam videos on how many people the system screwed over. The video was really good in terms of laying everything out and analyzing life from multiple perspectives.
The first few people who was showed, had went on to college or university and ended up in massive debt. I am talking 30 - 40 k
The second part of half of the video showed someone like a mechanic. No debt, making 40 k a year and the mechanic just seemed happier.
This!!
"University can be a good place to learn to socialize as adults, developing discipline and some work ethic, and being responsible overall."
If you have already gotten that far and need to get a work ethic, socialization, and discipline then you have other issues.
You know, like you, your parents, the public K-12 system failing you.
This is an excellent, honest discussion. Your grounding in finance really lends your voice credibility. Your voice, itself, is really lovely. Great video.
Thanks a lot Scott!
You should definitely write a book !! I love the way you convey your ideas and you don't sugarcoat stuff 👌
Thanks a lot. One day :)
Well said!
If you have the possibility and freedom of choice, I would recommend to postpone the aspirations of getting an education. It’s a massive investment and you never know how you will feel 1-2 years into the education. Many programs teach to be an employee. But if you already have an education and think about doing something else, know that people will always give you extra points of approval because of it. Whether it’s in business or personal relationships.
Agree, from first hand experience.
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me postpone for how long? or just as long as you need?
@@Catherinep-tb4dn You cannot put time into discovering things that resonate with you. Postpone and seek for answers, not to go wild and party (like many do).
Lana thanks for making this video!! I think this is the video I suggested when you asked what type of videos we would like to see from you. This is important for all young people to see that university may not be the answer for them. And also it is cool to see your chosen career path which I’m guessing is UA-cam now? Nice job and keep it up!!
I’m super excited for this video, one of my biggest life fears is that finishing college isn’t going to be worth it and that years of hard work are going to amount to nothing!!
You're not alone in that!
Lana Blakely I’m glad to know I’m not alone!
Just wanted to tell you if the microchip will come in the future don't take it no matter what it will bring you to hell it is written in the bible.they will make it mandatory in the End and it will be either in the hand or the forehead no one will buy or sell without it. Suicide is not an option to avoid it because it brings to hell too. You have to trust in God because he will return again Jesus will take with him all the souls that believed in him.
He exists and loves you he cares so much. The prophecies are coming alive we are in the End times.
College is all about the degree program you choose. If job prospects are weak to nonexistent in a particular field, then that’s on you.
You can freelance learn ANYTHING you want, thanks to the internet and its infinite amount of information.
So, for example, a history buff doesn’t have to pursue a bachelor’s in History to study History. Outside of education, history degrees have weak job prospects.
Uhmm :/
You're amazing and your talk is so beautiful. I like when you say that everything is constantly... And I'm seventeen and I don't want after five years to say I chose the wrong path. This's telly scears me...
I love your videos, your energy, your pace of talking. It's soothing, and you have so much wisdom. So down to earth, humble. I appreciate you creating content and sharing valuable things you have learned. Thank you Lana!
Love your videos, i'm literally obsessed by your style and talking flow... Thank you for letting us reading your life's book
Always enjoying your wise reflections on topics. They're so inspirational. Stay safe.
just finished first time watching your video as a recommendation from UA-cam.
very thoughtful , well said Lana.
artistic, high quality, inspirational, simple, authentic, unique style & presentation, perception expanding.
Bless you my dear, keep shining.
I think this video and linked article literally changed me right now. I have been struggling with some fantasies for a while and this seriously put me down to earth. Thank you Lana. For everything. Greetings from Croatia :)
This is so helpful thank you, the world has always pushed me to follow the traditional path but I want to follow the unconventional and creative side of myself, it’s just scary when you feel like you might not succeed
I did go to University and now I am not using my degree whatsoever! I think that for young people, we are expected to do it because that is what society says, but the reality is that you should really know yourself and know what your true passion is in life before you decide what you are going to do. You have to decide WHAT your purpose is, and then decide the best plan of action to get there! Blessings to everyone!
I needed to hear this. I'm in my second semester already realizing this isn't what I want from life but simply the expectation of stability and things magically falling into place. My whole family including grandparents studied so this is their reality and obviously they want you to choose the path they know was successfull for them. But you have to make your own path even if that might take more effort or be less of a stable/secure path.
Your words have touched and spoke to me directly in many ways , it's true that we can trap ourselves in fantasies we keep fighting for but could turn out to be not what we really wanted , i think experience is the key to know ourselves and what we truly want .
I love your story time type videos keep making them
I have degrees in Economics, Business (MBA) and Psychology. I do not regret the effort or experience in completing these degrees. I started my university career at 26 after 7 years in USN.
Very true, but life back then was much more square and industry was still growing. Take young people like me and industry does not even make sense.
Did you study business and then psychology? How do you have both degrees?
@@Elif-ph2jg psychology then economics and business
Carl W Elliott and then you did a master?
@@carlwelliott6972 that's awesome. I'm questioning going myself, trying to keep an open mind. It's hard when everyone on UA-cam tells you not to go and your parents want you to go. I guess I have to figure it out for myself. Any advice?
I went to University on-and-off for a period of 9 years. I just couldn’t contain myself in that kind of schedule for an extended period. I always had the urge to go out there and do something, which pushed my graduation date even further away.
Looking back, I realize that I’m too undisciplined for school, and that’s okay. I’m 28 years old now and just started my YT channel a month ago. Better late than never, I suppose.
Good luck with your passion ^ ^
I have a feeling that you gonna be a great writer one day sooo am gonna subscribe to your channel :)
I know how it feels cuz I'm following my dream too and I hope you reach yours
@@abrahiemdash7676 Appreciate it, man. *brofist* I hope you acheive your dream, too. :)
Elon Musk hated school rules are garbage disciplines.
FreelanceArt101 To be fair, he graduated from UPenn. Although he did drop out of Stanford later on.
You studied UA-cam?
Thanks for the article, i felt relieved reading it, as it says “happiness doesn’t work in the way most people think it does”, everyone should be aware of the difference between a fantasy and reality in terms of the dream career.
When I feel down you always have the right answer and you make me feel better all the times. Thank you for doing this.
I am currently a year from going to university and just as you said that being this young and choosing a path for the rest of your life in difficult and confusing but watching your video does give me a sense of relief to be honest that you do not always have to follow the path you once thought was right, but rather about how you feel at the moment - obviously after putting some thought into it.
I always loved school. It wasn’t until pre-med that I fell out of love with it. I fought to stay sane during that time. It’s hard losing the thing you’ve loved all your life.
Then I realized no one cared what I became, even my parents. Not really, not in the real sense. I’d have to live my life, not them. So I switched to psychology, a beautiful amalgamation of all my strengths. At the core of psychology is learning and health, the 2 ideas I adore most in the world.
Thank you, Lana ☺️ I’m a Canadian minimalist, and you remind me that there’s beauty in being quiet and reflective 🧘🏻♀️
Psychology is my favorite subject too! Power to you for following what lights you up
@@skybyun4536 Awww positive vibes
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I've read the article yesterday when you shared it through Instagram and it's one of the best things I've read ever.
Loved the video Lana!
This is the kind of conversation that one needs to have with oneself early on in life. Thank you :)
Great video!! I have much respect for your personal honesty and that you don't sugar coat life principles.
Thanks a lot Jared!
@@LanaBlakely My pleasure! Stay safe.
Lana, thank you so much for making this video, it was really comforting to hear those words because i went (& i'm still going through) the same exact thing ! At 18 i made a choice that wasn't based on what i truly wanted (i was still lost..18 is indeed a really young age to decide what to do with the rest of your life) so i went to med school because it's supposed to procure a descent life while also having a purposeful job (helping people , and doing a good thing for humanity ) but during those 7 years i went through hell and felt depressed all the tiiime because it wasn't something that i love, i was constantly questionning my choice , not being abIe to quit because i already went through half the path.. I graduated last year and i'm still having the same thoughts (i'm 26 now) i finally accepted that i can do it for a living and not consider my life 'wasted' because i might be helpful to people & make them feel better but i'm also still hoping that someday i'll be able to lead a fulfilling life aligned to my values & dreams by doing something else that i love alongside..i loved everything you said, it was so reassuring and i realized that i'm not the only one who's going through this so thank you ❤
You remind me of a childhood friend of mine. I like your videos and how serene and scenic they are! Wishing you all the best!
There is something calming and good in your videos. Thanks for making them
you deserve so much more subscribers
like you are one of the best youtubers .much love
I have two degrees - economics and finance. Now I work in digital marketing which requires no degree. I was better off not going. Would have saved me thousands of dollars
The greatest loss in High School and University is the time, though High School costs over 10k a year and University more. I'd rather have that money in the bank and learn something useful at a young age.
how did u get a job in digital marketing w/o a degree?
MrApplewine bro highschool is a must and plus it was a great experience but college is not a necessity in life so at least get highschool done
You’d be making more with your economics or finance degrees. That’s your choice you wanted to pursue a career that pays less, and no one else’s fault lol.
Srg720 Yeah you’re ignorant. College degrees increase lifetime earnings. And the more college one earns the more income they generate.
I love all the work you put onto your videos, I can always resonate so much with your life's experiences and your mindset. 💕💕
Wow, this was a great topic and an amazing video. Thank you very much..
I‘m having so much trouble with that inner voice. Especially the Quarantine situation led to me missing the path of my journey.. I really hope I‘ll be better.
Thanks for making videos, they have been very helpful
Wow.. your words are gold. You expressed what I think in such a reasonable way. I'm a nurse, 4 years studying a degree, 8 months working as a nurse and now I feel this is not for me. I feel like I have changed, I am not the same person. I chose nursing because I like taking care of people, I have a part of me that is very empathetic. When I was younger I thought I must save people, now I don't think like that anymore, obviously. I had such an obsessive personality. I went through a lot of anxiety and suicidal thoughts when I was a teenager (until I was 20), now thanks to God I am free of that. Because of these emotional problems, I searched stability as you said in the video, but now I feel stability and surviving are not enough, what about happiness? The same happened with a boyfriend I had. I was only focused on stability, what about happiness? What about the sparkles, the laughter, the joy of life? I think about these things because thanks to God my situation has improved a lot.
I feel this career isn't for me. But now what am i supposed to do? Study another degree? Don't get me twisted, I like taking care of people, I like being with people but the shifts, the pressure, the medical procedures, the same routines, quite a few rigid minds...I don't like it. Sometimes you feel so alone. Being a nurse have given me something precious that I will never forget, that I will always carry with me, a experience that have enriched me in a way that I am so grateful for. But I believe I can't do this job forever or even for a year more. I want something that brings me happiness, some fresh air...I think about studying mental health nursing or I would like to work with children but not in a hospital, or even being an actress or a journalist. I don't know, It's a road I have to figure out. Do I stay in nursing but in another field or I quit nursing? I don't know
This video was everything I feel right now. I don't tell people how I feel because they don't understand me, they are all about money and success, oh fantastic you are a nurse, but deep inside I don't want to be in this place for a long time. People think I am childish, okay maybe but now I am happier than ever. I'm happy because I am trying to figure out my future. I think this change I feel in myself is because the anxiety and depression have been relieved from me. I feel that I am free and I feel the urge to enjoy everything outside these walls. Thank for your videos (sorry for my English)
Excellent video! Loved your b-rolls too!
I really love and enjoy your content. Please continue doing more of this. 🥰❤️
No, I went straight to full time work. Couldn’t be happier within myself. I’m financially in a good position, better than most who went to uni. Although people judge me because I don’t have a higher education, a degree.
dont listen to them... you have money and are happy with what you are doing, that's what matters...
I agree what do actually use from college?
What type of job ?
@@jamesmonto9562 gardening business
Grateful for your self-improvement videos !
I'm glad :-)
Hi Lana, thank you so much for this video. I really love how you gather your words, and the thing that it didn't have any background music makes it even like you're talking to each one of us. Keep it up!
Btw, can you make a video about shifting courses? What are your thoughts about it?
I really like the way you explain or talk about something, keep it up.
This was super helpful. I just finished my third year of a four year degree in Interior Design and since the end of even my first year I had begun questioning if this is what I wanted to do. And I have only begun to question it further, I still don't have an answer. But since I am almost finished, I figure finishing this degree is the best option while I try to figure out what it really is that I want to do. I have such a fascination for theatre and the musical arts but being 20 I feel too old to start...I think it's just a matter of sorting out all the things I am passionate about and really giving each of them a shot. Thank you for this video and all of your content! I always look forward to everything you create, very inspiring.
Mackenzie Cleaves hey i feel. Well I’m currently graduating as a science student as i aspired to be a doctor but then later on i realised I didn’t want it so i shifted to being a scientist but somewhere from the beginning i had this certain love for art and fashion and I really dig it ! Now that I’m goin to be 20 this year all i can think about is finishing my degree and shifting my path !
@@aakritichoudhary2211 Glad to hear someone else is in the same boat as me! Sometimes I feel alone in this. Thanks for sharing!
Your story is similar to mine. I'm about to finish my 3rd year in architecture and this major is definitely not for me. But I still don't know what I want to do so I'll just finish my college while figuring out what I want. I have always been good and enjoy drawing, painting, and solo sports. I also like dancing. With that many interests, I still need to find which one I want to pursue the most.
Sorry for my English. It's not my first language.
So you started your degree when you were 17?
I can empathize with you as I just finished my second year of a degree in film, sociology and politics, but in the back of my mind have been questioning it for a whole year now. I kept pushing those thoughts away saying it’ll all work out but I think the fact I’m still feeling the same way a year later is a sign that I need to change something. I’m interested in doing psychology but changing the course of your life is such a big decision it’s scary, so I don’t know whether to finish my current degree to at least have something and then change, or go back to square one now to save more time and money
Lana Blakely & Nathaniel Drew, definitely something else. All I can say is thank you.
2 of my favorite youtubers
I feel I am meditating when I am listening to your voice. Love your videos! 😊
I really love and appreciate your videos & been recommending your channel to a lot of friends , you deserve to be watched and heard ❤️
"people who follow their dreams weren't people like me" ooohhh soooo true sis!
Lana - please stay safe in these crazy times. The world needs you. ❤🙏
You too Nate!
You really inspire me by your videos and thoughts. Thank you!
Your thoughts on this are so profound and thoughtful!❤️
That’s so important: do what you love and not what people want you to do
I can relate 100% to this! I’m currently finishing my bachelors degree in teaching, but as I’m only doing this for stability and I’m not happy at all with it, I’m not going to do my masters. I really want to work as a musician in some form. Although I’m not sure where this path will take me and I’m really scared, I know that I have to do this for myself. Your video really encourages me so thank you!!
I can sort of relate in the fact that I'm now I'm my 3rd year of 4 for my BEd degree and having some doubts about it all 🙈 sadly it's at a point where it's affecting my academic performance but I'm working things through slowly during the lock down in the country
You are so authentic Lana!!! I love your videos!
I love your videos. Explains a lot of emotions and feeling I battle with on a daily
I've heard a lot of versions of this story, where someone decides their whole future at age 18 or so and fashions a degree program around their choice, and later, post-degree, realizes they actually want to do something completely different as a career. I had a similar experience, and as I understand, there are a lot of people not working in their original degree fields. Interesting hearing you take on this.
I noticed that you have the book Sapiens. I'm not into history books but that book is awesome. Also great video
Gotta love Yuval
Whoa,Lana,your comment section is amazing!So many people sharing their stories and perspectives!Thanks for creating such an environment for us)
I’m 20 right now.3rd year at university studying English philology. Picked the field because I knew that I would be okay teaching.Was lucky to get a job at the 2nd year. So now I’ve been teaching for almost 2 years and I feel absolutely okay with it.It is not THAT demanding, it’s meaningful and I feel like I matter by teaching my students how to manage their stress, attitude towards grading etc.I think I kinda have this stability you talked about. But as for my passion, I want to become a musician and now I am split between music and teaching trying to improve in both. My mind is constantly questioning everything and I sometimes feel a bit overwhelmed because I have to pursue both. As for Uni degree,I guess it is nice in terms of life skills, connections and conclusions you make throughout this period. But as for education part, it is not that great, especially, as someone said in comments below, with the influence of internet.
Most of us experience these moments and only a few of us act on it like we should. This is how life is: stages. If we don't change ourselves, we're not going to succeed, and in some cases... evolve! You're lucky to have gone through your life changes early to get a good amount of experience from it without being too far behind from the societal norms of the digital world. I continue to enjoy the content you share. Thanks!
Fantasies are very real that we romanticize and entertain them. But you're so right. How many people change degrees or career paths.? We all reach different maturity levels and aren't ready untill late age sometimes.
I feel the same way as you Lana, and I am older and have been ignoring that little voice for the longest time, not daring to seek my path. Eventually, I started questioning everything. There is no guarantee that answers will come right away and that you´ll find your path immediately after years of doing what you thought you supposed to be doing and ignoring your inner voice. I am starting to get more clarity but it takes time and patience and a lot of self-love. With that in mind, even if you didn´t find your true calling yet, even with a corporate job, it is not that bad as long as you keep loving yourself. As long as you keep nurturing your mental and physical health. As long as you learn how to give back...
I agree 🌱
your videos are always so relaxing to watch.
Now that's the UA-cam videos we need. I love the content of this chanel & Im feeling super grateful that I found u . U inspired me a lot thanku for being here in the UA-cam community 🙏💙💜💙💜luv u .
I did the same! In Italy I went to University twice and switched major after one year. I'm still doing my Master's because my parents don't want me to pursue my creative career -- I feel like here in Italy the creative stuff is not accepted
I hope you all find your life path as soon as possible
I think as long as the creative way would be the happiest way to live for u, that's good (for happy I mean both genuine happiness from the work and the satisfaction from getting money and having better living standard)
How in the world did you become so wise at such a young age? I'm so grateful for your videos!
I was one of those perpetual students. I've attended about 10 or 11 universities, though I only have three degrees - an associate degree in electronic technology, a bachelor's in electrical engineering, and an MBA. I was lost when I was young, and I didn't care if I lived or if I died. I got my associate degree because my Dad forced me, although I had an absolutely terrific experience with that college, mostly because of all the friends I made there, and all the marijuana that we smoked, and all the incredibly good music that was coming out back then that we listened to. (Ever heard of the band Return to Forever?)
The rest of the universities I went to were out of my own choice. Like you, I went college to get a job and financial stability. I had no idea what to study. My only interest was playing guitar, but you can't make a living that way. You are going to laugh when you hear this, but I decided to study electrical engineering because I thought to myself that at least when I graduated I could make myself a free wah wah peddle. I was 27 years old when I got my bachelor degree, and I couldn't agree with you more that 18 is far too young to be deciding what you want to do for the rest of your life. (Although I still wasn't able to decide that when I was 23.)
My Dad has always had a huge influence on me. Later on in life he realized that he had made a mistake by forcing me to go to college, and he then suggested that I should take some courses just for fun. I thought that was a good idea because back then I loved learning new things. I took a graduate level course in linguistics that was absolutely fascinating. I took a course in the history of the Middle East which was also terrific. I took courses in the Chinese language, and in the history of China and Japan, and in east-west relations. All of these courses I took just for interest really enriched my mind and my life. Due to lack of interest and problems getting along with my coworkers, the longest I ever held a job was about 3 years, and I have been unemployed for long periods in my life. (The theatrics I had to go through to cover up the dreaded blank spots on my resume was a sight to behold!)
Now I am retired and I spend most of my time watching UA-cam videos on every subject under the sun. I only discovered UA-cam about 6 months ago and I am continually amazed at the huge variety of brilliant videos, friendliness, spirit of collaboration, and humility of UA-cam video makers!
"free wah wah peddle" 😂😂
beijing!!!
Thank you Lana, I really needed this video ❤️
Thanks for this Lana. Some of the things you brought up are really relevant for me at this stage in my life.
I think the world would not only be a better place, but even happier and more enjoyable. If people would listen to their heart.
"Make sure that you can stand behind the decisions that you make. Because that is your responsibility and no one else's." So good!! It's both liberating and scary to remember that I have the free will to follow that inner voice. It doesn't go away and keeps nudging me. Thank you for the video Lana and again, what a beautiful community you have down in the comments below
Good stuff, Lana. You should do more story-time videos.
Great video Lana, thanks so much for coming out and sharing your personal experience. For me I have to say I have reinvented myself so many time, going back to uni a number of times throughout my life to try to basically improve myself and the only way I new how was academically. Work I found was a means to survive and pay the bills. And that dictated the direction of my career.
"Not caring more about what other people think than what you think. That's freedom."
"You don't come into this life wanting to be anything other than happy."
~Demi Moore
"Walking Distance to the River walk"
AloysiaAndAvery, InITTogether
I went to university for my Bachelor degree (after obtaining my college degree) for almost a full shool year. I quit after 7 months, realizing that it would not add any value to my life. The course material was not related to the field I was studying and it felt like this wasn't meant for me. My mind was telling me to quit and so I did. I didn't regret abandoning university for a single day and am happy with my current life, enjoy the field I'm working in and don't have any debt.
I also think that money does not always equal stability. It provides financial stability, but more in the form of a guarantee, as it provides a certain amount of income every month, when you have a job and are performing labour. but it definitely does not equal stability for me. An example of of stability would be working a weekday from 9 - 5 or working regular shifts. Stability also does not define anything else but stability in life and it doesn't mean it'll make a person happy. Some people define themselves as happy when having lots of money and posessions, others define themselves happy living remotely and enjoying a minimalistic life. This is personal for everybody.
I also think it's not a bad or scary thing to question the path you've taken. Even if it took multiple years of your life, you can still change the direction you're heading. If that's what makes a person happier, then it's actually worth thinking about it. It's better to have spent a few years getting to know yourself and understanding yourself, than living the rest of your life in misery and with regrets, thinking that you should've changed paths anyway all those years ago. You do not sweep those emotions under the rug either, as they'll actually be with you your entire life (both positive and negative) and they are valuable life lessons to be learned and to look back upon to learn new things from it, in order to carve out new paths towards your own destiny.
Listening to advice is good, but you eventually need to make your own decisions (on which you can weigh in the advice a person gives you). The only person that truly knows what's best for you, is yourself. Even if others frown upon it or do not agree with the decisions you make / you've made. The decisions need to make you happy as a person and you need to live with these decisions.
Nothing in life is a safe bet indeed, but you can make your bets on the options which you think are best. One thing I've learned is that achieving something in life makes a person happy, but that happiness is temporary and doesn't last forever. It's always a temporary feeling. Once you've achieved what you wanted you need to find the next thing which you want to achieve and start working on it, as that'll keep you motivated, challenged and happy throughout the process and give you an even happier feeling upon the moment of achievement. That's the constant process of achieving / evolving / bettering yourself.
P.S.: I really enjoy the music you're using for your videos. What are the artists / numbers you're using in the background music of your videos (it sounds like classical / light jazz)? It's always so calming / soothing and really a good match for a Sunday evening.
Hello, Lana!! Just found this youtube channel of yours and your video contents are amazing. They're interesting and you speak with so much wisdom. I think your intelligent and smart enough to skip a year in school. You're a great influecer and your voice is soothing!! More videos pleaseeee!! Life vids!!
such a great video! I studied culturology for 3 years, but found out that museums or event management are not what I'm into so I do understand what you mean.
I just started my youtube channel (talking about selfcare) and want to become a psychotherapist. not sure where life will lead me. but let's enjoy every moment & have a good time.
I never went to a university but I made more than my friends who did. I was a stupid free spirited kid in my early 20s and just enjoyed being immature . After I hit 26 I knew it was time to grow up and make something of myself or I would be living in mom and dads basement. My parents had friends who all had million dollar homes and they all had one thing in common...STOCKS .... So I learned from the best and became much better at it than them. The rest is history and I never have to worry about money again....Without God opening my eyes and giving me the chance of a lifetime....I would have ended up working for hourly wage.
“You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something - your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.”
~ Steve Jobs
I don't know why, but towards the end, it made me cry. Great work Lana!❤
Thank you so much for making this video!! I’m just right on the way of deciding whether I really need to continue on doing my bachelor, coz I’m feeling it’s not exactly what I want to do in life, it’s a really hard decision though.... but thanks for sharing these thoughts, it’s given me courage to look at this issue from a different perspective ❤️
The social connections and life experiences are valuable even if you don’t use your degree after university.
Sometimes I feel people make their passion their profession and when you have reached a point of burn out you'll start having existential crisis because if this is not what I am supposed to do then what is? The very things that ignited me now I get bored of it. So it's not necessary for you to choose profession which is your passion. You can always have two things running along.
I've been in a similar situation like yours, I saw myself working and having a career that I didn't wanted anymore, that totally loses the sense and I was actually realizing how empty it was, so I decided to quit, and also your video about you quitting your job helped me at that time. Fortunately I didn't had to spend years in the university to work as a model, but those last years doing it were enough to decide that I don't want to spend anymore my life time on it. I also couldn't imagine myself at university, wasting my time looking for a high payed job, so I dropped out the school. I needed a long period of time focus on myself, developing my self knowledge and evolving each day to finally be sure of what I wanna do. Eventually you realize that other harder questions will come, and you have to take a decision.
Just randomly saw this video and you are as close to me as I've come across. Like you, I skipped a grade so I had to decide what to study at 17 and all I had ever thought about was the classic "stable happy life working in high rise buildings". I studied commerce(finance) and LL.B (double degree) and I LOVED them (and therefore did really well). I worked at one of the Bulge bracket investment banks over summer and multiple other places and realised that all the money flowing into my bank account and despite the fact that I enjoyed it - didn't really fulfill me. I didn't feel like I was adding to this world in a tangible way that I could see. This lead me to Medicine. I am now 24 and in my Final year of medicine (Finished first degree at 20). Like you, I actually get excited to go to the hospital daily now and love studying medicine - the current coronavirus situation has, if anything, solidified my decision to leave a potentially very lucrative and high flying career for something I feel like is much better suited to me. Hope you continue thriving.