Introvert with an Extrovert Roommate

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  • What it's like having an extrovert roommate as an introvert.
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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  3 роки тому +474

    Share with your roomie
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    • @desireemariec1108
      @desireemariec1108 3 роки тому +2

      It only always ever makes sense Frank.
      This is funny! 😍 And you're scrappy and adorable as usual.✨

    • @ThisIsAnneleen
      @ThisIsAnneleen 3 роки тому

      Have you seen this video from TED-ed? It's about the accuracy of personality tests. They include the MBTI types as well...
      ua-cam.com/video/lN7Fmt1i5TI/v-deo.html

    • @mariek.474
      @mariek.474 3 роки тому

      @@ThisIsAnneleen Thanks for sharing, I really enjoyed Erme's book The Personality Brokers (and definitely recommend it) but didn't know about the lecture !

    • @dudeentreprenuer1502
      @dudeentreprenuer1502 3 роки тому +1

      Frank James I need your help to distroy a prejudice of MBTI society . The prejudice Is that rationals are best personality type . Feeling types are not known as good types and sensor types are also criticized , they are known for not being good for anything I think that all prejudices are unreal . Can you make a video on this topic .

    • @WillBlacksilver
      @WillBlacksilver 3 роки тому +1

      This sort of skit is good enough to be an ongoing drama! "16 Friends"...
      Frank: Maybe that's too much work? I'm going to politely ignore and stick to what I'm already doing.
      No problem!

  • @SSNNPBCC
    @SSNNPBCC 3 роки тому +4879

    "I feel like I can't leave my bedroom."-Super relatable

    • @idontkn0w104
      @idontkn0w104 3 роки тому +69

      This is literally me right now my mom's friends are here and I'm in my room watching this .

    • @achannel9598
      @achannel9598 3 роки тому +32

      I don't even have my own room ;-;
      Wifi don't connect in the bedroom either
      So i have to stay in the living room and it's awkward when there's guests and I'm considered rude to not greet them :I

    • @Kasumistern
      @Kasumistern 3 роки тому +2

      100%

    • @punn.t059taweesilp6
      @punn.t059taweesilp6 3 роки тому +16

      So me, my room literally my house 🤣

    • @achannel9598
      @achannel9598 3 роки тому +1

      @@punn.t059taweesilp6
      F

  • @giishaw92
    @giishaw92 3 роки тому +6018

    It's like that part in Harry Potter when he's like, "I'll be in my room, making no noise and pretending that I don't exist" except it's a personal choice.

    • @heyitsjeff8903
      @heyitsjeff8903 3 роки тому +197

      That's perfect

    • @saidaabdille8603
      @saidaabdille8603 3 роки тому +101

      Lol they could be like best friends

    • @heyitsjeff8903
      @heyitsjeff8903 3 роки тому +75

      @@saidaabdille8603 Yes. They'd just sit there. Without saying a word. 🤐

    • @ceetteet
      @ceetteet 3 роки тому +34

      Just like that...

    • @birb-hi9hy
      @birb-hi9hy 3 роки тому +29

      You are absolutely right

  • @elilopez427
    @elilopez427 3 роки тому +4387

    When guests come over, it’s a mad dash to get all the snacks I can and stay in my room until they leave. The worst part is when you realize you left your phone in the living room and they’re all there. That is true terror.

    • @kookiesensations4798
      @kookiesensations4798 3 роки тому +115

      I'm an extrovert...but this is me. I don't like huge gatherings or crowds. They scare the hell outta me. I got lost in one as a kid 😅 so lots of people around doesn't sit too well with me.

    • @lifeisgreat1713
      @lifeisgreat1713 3 роки тому +33

      Legit 1 Plummer or tech guy comes to my house I always stay in my room 🤙

    • @elin4673
      @elin4673 3 роки тому +75

      For survival purposes it is possible to be without the phone but not the snacks.

    • @yazajag
      @yazajag 3 роки тому +49

      You must never, ever, ever forget you phone! Lol.📱🥺

    • @Meow-nr4uh
      @Meow-nr4uh 3 роки тому +34

      Dude I got you. Try to sound like you have soar throat and say I'm not feeling to well im going to go lay down, I feel sick cough everyone will be saying they hope you feel better and you grab your phone and walk slowly to your room but if they ask you to go in to detail just point at your throat. Warning this may not work on someone who knows you SUPER well.... soooooooooo good luck

  • @junsjulywonpilsyonpilchany5241
    @junsjulywonpilsyonpilchany5241 3 роки тому +3794

    "When I don't reply, I'm not forgetting."
    How do I tell my friends and family that and not offend them? lol

    • @NatPatent
      @NatPatent 3 роки тому +191

      Says those words and then follow it with "You're not the only person I do this to, don't worry. I don't hate you I just don't like talking" and if they say something like "Then why are you talking to me right now?" Then they're not your friend.

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 роки тому +6

      @
      Jun's July* Wonpil's Yonpil* Chanyeol's Jagiya
      ua-cam.com/video/4F4qzPbcFiA/v-deo.html

    • @e.moon_
      @e.moon_ 3 роки тому +14

      hey myday! if u find an answer pls tell us lol

    • @bluefood6146
      @bluefood6146 3 роки тому +25

      I hate texting so I relate to this on a spiritual level

    • @ambergardener9114
      @ambergardener9114 3 роки тому +12

      It really depends on what type of friends you have and what type of person you are, but you can send them "sorry haha I fell asleep" (it's a song)
      I wouldn't send to my family though
      Idk, in general memes and songs are the way I communicate with my friends stuff I don't know how to communicate

  • @danidynamite2
    @danidynamite2 3 роки тому +2890

    Now we need an introvert with an extrovert roommate: covid edition. Where the extrovert is forced to stay indoors not socializing in person and freaking out over it and the introvert doesn't see why this is a problem cuz it's basically how we live anyway.

    • @dharmadharma3960
      @dharmadharma3960 3 роки тому +82

      Lived it. Oh, the horror.....

    • @Jasmyn01
      @Jasmyn01 3 роки тому +186

      Literally me and my flatmate... in the end they went home to their parents because I couldn't provide them with enough socialisation. It was great because I had the house to myself! ^_^

    • @dryb3301
      @dryb3301 3 роки тому +13

      There is a video exactly showing that. Search. Sorry I don't have the link

    • @dryb3301
      @dryb3301 3 роки тому +14

      @@Jasmyn01 oh you lucky b...

    • @mustapha9918
      @mustapha9918 3 роки тому +39

      Not how it works. I m an extrovert. During covid, I m legit spending all my time calling and texting people. So basically I socialize A lot, just not in person. On the other hand my introvert friends tend to be more willing to socialize because they miss it.

  • @squeakyghost5471
    @squeakyghost5471 3 роки тому +500

    I started getting exhausted after the first three people listed.

  • @ChronosLawliet123
    @ChronosLawliet123 3 роки тому +1634

    The worst part is when you have to go to the bathroom, then everyone stares at you while you're wearing your comfy clothes like if nobody was in the house...

    • @linmonPIE
      @linmonPIE 3 роки тому +62

      I'm lucky the bathroom is in the back of the flat next to my room where no one can see me. Unfortunately you can still hear the toilet flush and water run throughout the flat because of the thin walls. I imagine my flatmate explaining the place is haunted.

    • @starshake8998
      @starshake8998 3 роки тому +20

      I hate this, too. I always seem to be a genuine hot mess when my roommate brings someone important -- like his mother or (god forbid) the landlord -- by without warning me. For me, this is more a problem of being a night owl who sleeps all day. If I were showered and dressed, I would be happy to greet his guests -- but I never am. #DaySleepingAmbivert 🤷‍♀️

    • @howtubeable
      @howtubeable 3 роки тому +17

      At least you're wearing comfy clothes. I visited a friend, and his roommate went from his bedroom to the bathroom stark naked. He didn't even acknowledge us.

    • @bbhdd6181
      @bbhdd6181 3 роки тому +3

      this gave me flashbacks

    • @FrauMarshmallow
      @FrauMarshmallow 3 роки тому +12

      Can’t relate. I would hold my pee as long as I can if there is no way to get to the bathroom without anyone recognizing me.

  • @sienna3059
    @sienna3059 3 роки тому +1563

    I have gone hours upon hours without food because I didn’t want to have to walk through the living room while there was company. I would literally rather STARVE than socialize.

    • @dharmadharma3960
      @dharmadharma3960 3 роки тому +75

      Yup, me too. Not "starve" but "STARVE."

    • @hasnainbangulzai6508
      @hasnainbangulzai6508 3 роки тому +10

      ha hah hah....😅😄😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @t.h.3570
      @t.h.3570 3 роки тому +45

      Same. Always. I will take a nap and wait for them all to leave so I can sneak downstairs and/or leave the house entirely to get food.

    • @emuriddle9364
      @emuriddle9364 3 роки тому +6

      Can relate 😎👍💯

    • @Minh4x
      @Minh4x 3 роки тому +4

      Same

  • @stellarheather
    @stellarheather 3 роки тому +673

    You have no idea how accurate the coming out of room at 5pm just to eat part is for me. And then going back to bed. 😆

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 роки тому +5

      @Stellar Heather Yes, we're impressed.

    • @speaktruth9989
      @speaktruth9989 3 роки тому +6

      Same. My mom thinks there’s something wrong with me and she actually yelled at me a couple hours ago because I never leave my room except once a day to eat. I’m scared. She seemed really angry. I dont know what will happen next.

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 роки тому +3

      @@speaktruth9989 Scary.

    • @Del_1710
      @Del_1710 3 роки тому

      Same

  • @r_r11111
    @r_r11111 3 роки тому +634

    "Actually ,most people don't know I have a roommate."
    So peaceful feeling of not being popular/ known.
    ONLY introvert can understand.

    • @senpai_nim375
      @senpai_nim375 3 роки тому +9

      True.

    • @plutoreturns9630
      @plutoreturns9630 3 роки тому +13

      Hmm. I'm an introvert but I'm quite known because people think of me as mysterious.

    • @imbored6135
      @imbored6135 3 роки тому +1

      The Police
      He didn’t even do that. He was just saying

    • @bunukalashrestha9575
      @bunukalashrestha9575 3 роки тому +2

      Soo true...I hate being known

    • @loljinvsbtsjin1968
      @loljinvsbtsjin1968 3 роки тому +4

      My parents' friends don't even know that I exist. They literally ask how my two siblings are and when my parents remind them that they have another daughter they're always in shock T-T

  • @akshaini.
    @akshaini. 3 роки тому +557

    Introvert with an extrovert roommate.That would be a nightmare come true.

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 роки тому +4

      You mean like this? ua-cam.com/video/Et9np876ptA/v-deo.html

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 роки тому +1

      @m g Thanks, kid.

    • @Saxinful
      @Saxinful 3 роки тому +12

      If you're friends it's not too bad! I'm the extrovert, but my introverted housemate has grown a lot of confidence from us living together :) just depends on the relationship

    • @jaminwaite3867
      @jaminwaite3867 3 роки тому +2

      I’ve had a terrible experience esp. when they don’t take COVID seriously

    • @akshaini.
      @akshaini. 3 роки тому +1

      @@jaminwaite3867 Yesss

  • @mrs.katsukibakugou115
    @mrs.katsukibakugou115 3 роки тому +613

    "Look who decided to come out of his room at 5pm"
    Wait...he leaves his room???

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 роки тому +31

      @Mrs.Katsuki Bakugou
      I guess he hasn't figured out how to give the Amazon drones precise delivery coordinates for his bedroom window......

    • @Citylight-yq8dp
      @Citylight-yq8dp 3 роки тому +2

      Sadly... some of us are too poor to have kitchenettes

    • @cyril3248
      @cyril3248 3 роки тому

      Wait, that's illegal

  • @raquelprado3265
    @raquelprado3265 3 роки тому +232

    "oh i forgot you were standing there"
    "I'm the only person you've been talking to"
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @miriamw.
    @miriamw. 3 роки тому +689

    "...some random guy I met at the bus stop in 2017..."
    Yep. I should be use to it, but it still surprises me when I send my husband to the store and he tells me he met a friend of a friend there, and oh by the way, they're stopping by later. 😯
    Off topic, have you listened to McCartney III yet?

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  3 роки тому +109

      i did listen to it!

    • @miriamw.
      @miriamw. 3 роки тому +10

      @@SeelenTaucher sure we get along great 🙂, but sometimes his extroversion gets a little out of hand (like inviting people over unexpectedly for example 😂)
      Most of the time I find it amusing, but sometimes it can be overwhelming.

    • @miriamw.
      @miriamw. 3 роки тому +2

      @@FrankJames 👍
      I have The Kiss of Venus is on repeat.

  • @chaoticbreeze6262
    @chaoticbreeze6262 3 роки тому +244

    When you're an introvert, who's an HSP and there's a party at home. 👁️👄👁️

    • @breeeeeaaathofthewild
      @breeeeeaaathofthewild 3 роки тому +14

      Yes. It is a rather terrible experience.

    • @chaoticbreeze6262
      @chaoticbreeze6262 3 роки тому +6

      @@SeelenTaucher yeah, exactly. Is home even a party place? Seeing it in virtuality also stresses me out a bit 😂. I mean parties would be fine... just without dozens of people, loud music and balloons.

    • @chaoticbreeze6262
      @chaoticbreeze6262 3 роки тому

      @@SeelenTaucher ay that seems like a very nice idea, it'd just be like dancing to your own beat 😍😂.

    • @chaoticbreeze6262
      @chaoticbreeze6262 3 роки тому

      @@SeelenTaucher the idea is amazing and the ambience is absolutely mesmerising... But the crowd is bothersome 😂.

    • @gemmadoyle3926
      @gemmadoyle3926 3 роки тому +2

      Nightmare!

  • @zoeallen6734
    @zoeallen6734 3 роки тому +586

    Trust me as an introvert I won't have an roommate. I WILL be living alone

    • @uMaud
      @uMaud 3 роки тому +18

      Oh me too, me too, just having any other living soul appart from my parents' (and that's because they know how to respect my boundaries) inside my vital space in my daily life is CLEARLY impossible for me to take.
      Especially if they're an extrovert of course.

    • @zoeallen6734
      @zoeallen6734 3 роки тому +6

      @@uMaud Right! What introvert think it was a good idea to have an roommate be an extrovert

    • @t.h.3570
      @t.h.3570 3 роки тому +17

      Sadly sometimes you don’t know what you are getting yourself into...and it’s all you can afford. Thankfully my extroverted roommates didn’t give me too much crap about it. But now that I have the option to live alone, I will ALWAYS make that choice.

    • @zoeallen6734
      @zoeallen6734 3 роки тому +4

      @@t.h.3570 Yeah, its better to have roommates so you can afford to live there. But if I have roommate they will at least be someone I'm used to or someone that will respect me as introvert,

    • @safroja369
      @safroja369 3 роки тому +1

      Me too

  • @chiarabonetti6391
    @chiarabonetti6391 3 роки тому +289

    “Most people don’t even know I have a rommate”
    Sounds like my sister’s friends who don’t believe I exist because they’ve never seen me😂

    • @superwholockfan2356
      @superwholockfan2356 3 роки тому +29

      My sister is an extrovert. She had friends come over all the time. Most of them didn't know I existed until I came down from my lair for food...

    • @iampidgeon6923
      @iampidgeon6923 3 роки тому +26

      My sisters friends have only ever seen me in 2019 and I coincidentally only came when she was either silent or talking about me. They probably think I'm just some sorta demon my little sister summons at will.

    • @speaktruth9989
      @speaktruth9989 3 роки тому +10

      My sisters friends don’t even know she has a sister lol They’ve never seen me

    • @m.i4359
      @m.i4359 3 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 3 роки тому +332

    this is why I get a single or a studio NO MATTER WHAT!!!! unnecessary small talk with roommates is a hell noo from me. Im getting goosebumps just thinking about it

    • @horseygirlsec25
      @horseygirlsec25 3 роки тому +35

      I am willing to spend the extra money per month to live by myself for this exact reason...

    • @uMaud
      @uMaud 3 роки тому +9

      My older cousin with, I think, 5 other roomates she even has to share the workplace with when I tell her basically what you've just said:
      Oh, you know, you're probably gonna change your mind, it's fun ! You just have to make some extra efforts to cohabitate, but you'll never get bored !
      Me: *Precisely.*

    • @t.h.3570
      @t.h.3570 3 роки тому +2

      Sounds like my literal nightmare. Goodness. Good for her but that’s a definite no for me.

    • @hasnainbangulzai6508
      @hasnainbangulzai6508 3 роки тому

      no i just only talk to them who i know hah

    • @laziness852
      @laziness852 3 роки тому +9

      Small talk + introvert + roommate = an absolute no

  • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
    @blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 роки тому +202

    Ah, roommates: can't live with 'em. Can't sell them to pirates.

    • @danidynamite2
      @danidynamite2 3 роки тому +12

      Can you sell them to non-pirates?

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 роки тому +15

      @@danidynamite2 That's a great question. I was leaning towards pirates because of the price, the cannibalism and the forced labor combined with a lack of sunblock. Who would you like to sell your roommate to?

    • @Κίκο-ξ3ε
      @Κίκο-ξ3ε 3 роки тому +11

      You. I like you.😂

    • @clara8789
      @clara8789 3 роки тому +3

      @@Κίκο-ξ3ε haha , same 😂😂🙌

    • @GoldenOwlEvents
      @GoldenOwlEvents 3 роки тому +5

      I love this. I'm using it. :D

  • @AbsintheReverie
    @AbsintheReverie 3 роки тому +116

    Also when you live by yourself never make the mistake I did by telling a friend your address. They were rude enough to show up one day completely unannounced. I was so angry and they couldn't understand that they had disrespected my privacy.

    • @conspiracypanda1200
      @conspiracypanda1200 3 роки тому +22

      This is why I am always vague about where I live. Not because I believe I will be targetted and robbed/attacked, but because someone with less boundaries might be in the neighbourhood one day and drop by to...ugh... _chat._

    • @robin-chat2812
      @robin-chat2812 3 роки тому +7

      People have to least text me first. A lady had a Christmas gift for me recently and wanted to come over. I hadn't showered yet (3pm). I said I have to shower first. Lol, asked what time she can come over next day

    • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
      @strivingfornewhorizons9281 3 роки тому +1

      Soo... You told them not to do it? Cause then they should respect it from now on

    • @Miluielle
      @Miluielle 3 роки тому +9

      I'm an extrovert but I would be put out if someone dropped by completely unannounced. Text or call first, that is manners, not an introvert/extrovert thing.

    • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
      @strivingfornewhorizons9281 3 роки тому +1

      @@Miluielle True - I don't know anybody who'd just visit me out of nowhere

  • @KingcoleIIV
    @KingcoleIIV 3 роки тому +75

    When I "don't reply" I'm not "forgetting" lmao damn this is truth right here.

  • @bekahwhit9786
    @bekahwhit9786 3 роки тому +57

    it was nice having an extroverted roommate because she was actually someone who didn't drain me. We could sit in comfortable silence for hours and if she needed to be with people she would find her friends and usually ask if I wanted to come, and I would depend on whether I felt up to it. We kind of helped each other, she helped me be a little more social and I helped her see that it was okay to spend time alone for yourself.

    • @jenniferprice9971
      @jenniferprice9971 3 роки тому +9

      Yeah. My best friend is an extrovert and it is wonderful having an extrovert being that understanding. My current roommates are also extroverts and while they want some social interaction from me because of my depression they still understand that there are going to be days that I don’t interact with them all that often.
      So while it can be almost end of the world as portrayed it’s not always that way and sometimes it can be quite harmonious.

  • @sachindharwal2878
    @sachindharwal2878 3 роки тому +88

    Who else loves his ways of showing different expression for different characters.
    Because I do.

  • @sushiiato
    @sushiiato 3 роки тому +31

    “They stay in our living room for hours like they’re holding the place hostage” that is so on point 😂😂

  • @PopoSimTalia
    @PopoSimTalia 3 роки тому +58

    But the real question!! had he managed to refil his bedroom snacks before the guest were let in?!?!
    I need to know!

    • @thediamondminecrafters4059
      @thediamondminecrafters4059 3 роки тому

      propably not since a guest was at the door when he was talking with his roomate

    • @senpai_nim375
      @senpai_nim375 3 роки тому

      Probably he already had them prepared just in case something like this happens.

    • @purityshallabide1645
      @purityshallabide1645 3 роки тому

      He'd have to have takeout delivered.. but at his window in a basket 🧺

    • @senpai_nim375
      @senpai_nim375 3 роки тому

      @@purityshallabide1645 Peak introvert behaviour

    • @Kharizmah
      @Kharizmah 3 роки тому

      I'm figuring he told his room mate to wait until he got upstairs to let the guest in. That's what I would do.

  • @WillBlacksilver
    @WillBlacksilver 3 роки тому +62

    INFJ : I like being alone... but I hate being lonely.

    • @brittanyparks8242
      @brittanyparks8242 3 роки тому +6

      Being lonely comes from not connecting well with others, not being alone. But I do understand I have a hard time forming good connection with the people around me.

    • @bizzarroworld1518
      @bizzarroworld1518 3 роки тому

      Yep

  • @cynthiajohnson9412
    @cynthiajohnson9412 3 роки тому +126

    Introvert: Has anyone ever asked you why I'm not hanging out with the group? Extrovert: No. Introvert: Sometimes I hate being right.

    • @Anonymous_Anon882
      @Anonymous_Anon882 2 роки тому +2

      They’ll feel the need to tell them all about you and how they think you’re a weirdo for grey-rocking them even if you’ll never actually meet them, still less have anything like a conversation with them.

  • @Genie06
    @Genie06 3 роки тому +50

    I still vividly remember the times someone unexpectedly came over and I got a huge adrenaline boost running up the stairs to my room so I could :
    A. Avoid any kind of social interaction
    B. Not have them see me in my pyjamas that I wear all day long

    • @plutoreturns9630
      @plutoreturns9630 3 роки тому +2

      Lol. I still dress well even when I know I'm not going to and don't want to see anyone all day, but we're all different xD

  • @ry8880
    @ry8880 3 роки тому +90

    This would my worst nightmare aka "I'm gonna die, bye world" 😂

    • @Anonymous_Anon882
      @Anonymous_Anon882 2 роки тому

      Speaking of which you’ve got to be careful what you do even in potential life-and-death situations. If you call an ambulance on a flatmate who appears to need medical help that action alone can end up being gossip two months later. It’s best to just keep that element of distance and let them die alone if it’s to die they’re going to do. Helping them will only lead to gossip by obnoxious ESTJs who owe you for weed.

  • @JournalingWithNadia
    @JournalingWithNadia 3 роки тому +46

    I need a two week notice for inviting people over 😅

    • @teresafinch7790
      @teresafinch7790 3 роки тому +4

      Wow, that's short notice. I was thinking two months, or maybe a bit longer, a year, two years, maybe, perhaps ten, never sounds good.

  • @PlatinumSpirit
    @PlatinumSpirit 3 роки тому +67

    When he rambled off the names of the SMALL group coming over...
    I shuddered and cringed at the mere thought of what a large group would look like🤭no thanks to more than 2 people but tbh 1 person still feels like a group sometimes🤫

    • @kayleemagoffin9573
      @kayleemagoffin9573 3 роки тому +7

      Yeah, I honestly prefer hanging out with only one person at a time if I am gonna do any hanging out at all. If a third person shows up, I typically shut down

    • @kaylawaters2691
      @kaylawaters2691 3 роки тому +1

      @@kayleemagoffin9573 When I have hung out with more than one person at a time, they chat away to each other about stuff I don't know about and can't relate to and then wonder why I'm quiet.

    • @plutoreturns9630
      @plutoreturns9630 3 роки тому

      Rekatavke
      EDIT: Somehow that's how I typed 'relatable'

  • @tikaardhany7568
    @tikaardhany7568 3 роки тому +234

    What is Olsen Twin quiz? 🤔

    • @mariek.474
      @mariek.474 3 роки тому +24

      this made me feel old haha

    • @nompachok2346
      @nompachok2346 3 роки тому +24

      You don’t know Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen?

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 роки тому +8

      @Tika Ardhany it's too horrible to talk about.

    • @calzoneyed
      @calzoneyed 3 роки тому +8

      I mean the Olsen Twins aren't really relevant anymore

    • @mariek.474
      @mariek.474 3 роки тому +18

      @@calzoneyed True but just like Britney's Toxic, they live in our memories. - people who were kids in the early 2000s

  • @elizychler9096
    @elizychler9096 3 роки тому +20

    This reminded me of a really embarrassing experience. There was a time when I woke up late and left my room to go to the kitchen, but I had no idea that my older brother (who is very extroverted) threw a BIG FORMAL PARTY and there are lots of people all over the house. I was still in my sleepwear with messy hair and standing awkwardly in the living room, while EVERYONE WAS STARING AT ME!!! They were all wearing formal attires and I looked like a zombie that crashed their party. I was so embarrassed that I ran back to my room, locked the door and hid under my blankets. When I asked my brother the next day, he said that he thought I wasn't home and was still at my friend's house. 😭

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh6004 3 роки тому +27

    "You're telling me you forgot to reply to my text because you were literally sending me a text?"
    Introvert roommate is just So. Done.

  • @colorsofavon934
    @colorsofavon934 3 роки тому +56

    You know it's going to be bad if Timmy's coming over.

  • @butterflywings7924
    @butterflywings7924 3 роки тому +25

    "oh comon , you alway forget to reply to my texts" " yea , when i don't reply ,im not forgetting"SAVAGE
    i wish i could say that to my parents , but i can't risk it

  • @rudig5698
    @rudig5698 3 роки тому +37

    I love your content, Frank, you’ve even inspired me to start my own UA-cam channel!🤗🧸

  • @probablynotasith5355
    @probablynotasith5355 3 роки тому +33

    INTJ: If you throw a party they will never find your body.

    • @Kharizmah
      @Kharizmah 3 роки тому

      My extrovert roommate threw a party while me and my other roommate were out of town. Property management told us they would have evicted us, but they knew 2 of us were out of town. (Not sure how they knew, maybe they guessed because it was a college town). Either way, she wasn't our roommate after we returned.

  • @ryanrengalota8270
    @ryanrengalota8270 3 роки тому +18

    why are extroverts like that? they do what i hate the most. it's like they're doing it on purpose and for fun.

    • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
      @strivingfornewhorizons9281 3 роки тому +1

      Same but the other way around😂

    • @Anonymous_Anon882
      @Anonymous_Anon882 2 роки тому

      I know what you mean. Sometimes it’s like they’re actually trying to do all the stereotypically-obnoxious things that socially-reserved people find incredibly annoying.

  • @yazajag
    @yazajag 3 роки тому +19

    "Hey, give us validation." Lmao at that and aunt Hilda refilling her oxygen tank. 🤣
    Anyone else here guilty of having room-snacks???
    👋🏽🍪🍫🍭☕🍷🧃🧁

  • @legolastheelf708
    @legolastheelf708 3 роки тому +17

    As an introvert, the worst thing that has happened to me yet was a situation where I sneaked into the bathroom naked, waiting for my clothes to dry out. And then, unexpected guests pop out and I realise I’m stuck naked in a room and there are guests I don’t want to talk to between me and my clothes

  • @AlexBlank
    @AlexBlank 3 роки тому +50

    This reminds me of when my mom's friends used to visit her when I was a kid, and I didn't leave my room because I didn't want them to ask me questions. I'm so happy I've never had an extroverted roommate so that this pattern didn't have to repeat itself.

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels 3 роки тому +19

    Snacks + naps. Relatable.

  • @obnoxiousweese
    @obnoxiousweese 3 роки тому +10

    "give us validation!" 😂

  • @DoodleDan
    @DoodleDan 3 роки тому +10

    1:46 well, I can finally use the covid card and tell everyone to stay 30m away from me or they'll die

  • @simranverma7829
    @simranverma7829 3 роки тому +11

    That's why we look for an introvert roomate.

    • @Anonymous_Anon882
      @Anonymous_Anon882 2 роки тому

      ISFJs, ENFJs and INFJs are the best type of roomies. If you’re stuck with ESFPs (especially international medical students), you’re going to have to invest in earplugs and plenty of snacks for your room.

  • @AuroraB-74
    @AuroraB-74 3 роки тому +13

    This is why I like living alone

  • @Progressivelyyou
    @Progressivelyyou 3 роки тому +9

    The ''Woah, I forgot you were standing there'' killed me hahaha

  • @TIJEY-BEG
    @TIJEY-BEG 3 роки тому +4

    I got some extroverted friends, and yes, I could never cohabit with them in one single house or flat. They even keep talking to me when I go to the toilet, no matter when there is a thick wall between us while keep talking to me.

  • @ingadysevn8ate
    @ingadysevn8ate 3 роки тому +6

    you’re literally the best youtuber for us - introverts. Thanks because it’s so god damn accurate

  • @ModestyG
    @ModestyG 3 роки тому +7

    I’m not old enough to live on my own but this was still relatable on a godly level, especially the part about “being trapped in your room” and everyone’s reactions when you finally go out to grab a snack or go to the bathroom

  • @fudgesolo6352
    @fudgesolo6352 3 роки тому +18

    “Next time just tell me in person so I can read social cues instead of words.” As an extrovert this is *exactly* why I hate texting😂

    • @uMaud
      @uMaud 3 роки тому +11

      But... what social clues ? 😂
      'Cause knowing how inexpressive introverts can be, your best chance at communicating efficiently with them is through words.
      Preferably written ones as it allows everyone to take more time to think about the best formulation. (proof: I myself rewrote that comment several times 😂)

    • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
      @strivingfornewhorizons9281 3 роки тому +1

      @@uMaud Body language. Mostly small things - do they look bored out of their minds, are they engaged in the conversation or do they only say "okay"/"mhm" whilst looking somewhere else, do they lean to one side or another, to me, backwards? Is their weight distributed on both legs or one, where do their toes point (-> to me? Somewhere else? Tells me if they wanna leave). Where do they look, do they fidget,...
      Trust me, there's enough😁
      I like both talking and writing. Talking cause it's more personal & I gain more energy, texting cause it's easier to think before I "speak" and it helps me on days where my social anxiety kicks in too hard (or during a pandemic...)

    • @mermaidismyname
      @mermaidismyname 3 роки тому +3

      This is the worst thing about the pandemic, all my social interaction is via text and I can't tell tone half the time

    • @plutoreturns9630
      @plutoreturns9630 3 роки тому +1

      Extroverts watch this channel?

    • @strivingfornewhorizons9281
      @strivingfornewhorizons9281 3 роки тому +1

      @@plutoreturns9630 We sure do! We're everywhere (especially during a pandemic)

  • @justellie4453
    @justellie4453 3 роки тому +7

    Roommate? I can't even handle having people live above and below me in my building,they think we all live toghether.. like family.

  • @blackdeath6666
    @blackdeath6666 3 роки тому +10

    As an introvert I hate having roommates in general so having an extrovert roommate would suck so much😅🤣

  • @Oishiahmmed
    @Oishiahmmed 3 роки тому +9

    😂😂 Free entertainment
    Just listen and chill

  • @StephanieJeanne
    @StephanieJeanne 3 роки тому +4

    That was me in my 20s-30s, living with a "social butterfly." Ugh! Another good one! 😀✌

  • @CarolLopes7
    @CarolLopes7 3 роки тому +9

    The good thing about living with my parents is that they're also introverts, they just make conversation with strangers on the street sometimes cause it's a "parents thing", but they never talk to them again so we never call anyone to come visit us :)

    • @Ali08
      @Ali08 3 роки тому +1

      Same here. Lol My mom appears extroverted but live a rather introverted life. My dad is definitely one but they manage social interactions well. We barely had social events at our house and I didn’t care for it and thank them for it. Now, my siblings on the other hand...😬

  • @ThirstyNici
    @ThirstyNici 3 роки тому +8

    Just sent this to my best friend (she’s an extrovert) because we want to move together (I’m an introvert), THIS VIDEO IS PERFECT HAHAH

    • @ThirstyNici
      @ThirstyNici 3 роки тому

      @Leemabari Beage xD u’re also an army?

  • @t.h.3570
    @t.h.3570 3 роки тому +5

    I felt this to the CORE of my being. Hence why I no longer have roommates. I didn’t want to go through this fun part again. lol. Let me introvert and hermit in peace! Just thankful the last time I had roommates, I at least had my own bathroom. I just needed to stock up on food so I wouldn’t have to leave anytime soon.

  • @qfee_1
    @qfee_1 3 роки тому +2

    I'm having a event in my house right now and I haven't eaten anything since morning (it's night rn) I guess I'll just starve to death bcs if I go get food they'll think I'm weird for staying in my room for so long

  • @kookiesensations4798
    @kookiesensations4798 3 роки тому +6

    "Some people don't even know I *have* a roommate"
    What Roommate? 👀

  • @Lucretciela
    @Lucretciela 3 роки тому +5

    It's some of the more subtle humor that makes me laugh, like how he always brings up "Timmy."

  • @fiorellalescano
    @fiorellalescano 3 роки тому +7

    I'm gonna see which Olsen twin I am. 😂
    Happy Festivus, Frank! 😁

    • @fiorellalescano
      @fiorellalescano 3 роки тому +2

      @@smalltownvvitch they're still young. :p

    • @fiorellalescano
      @fiorellalescano 3 роки тому

      @@SeelenTaucher well, I'm actually terrible at guessing this kind of things, but I did it well in this opportunity. Anyway, in my opinion, she looks like 10 years younger than she is.

  • @kristenw.4431
    @kristenw.4431 3 роки тому +2

    not me, an INFP, living with two extremely extroverted extroverts at Arizona State University LMFAO

  • @JaneTheOnly
    @JaneTheOnly 3 роки тому +3

    "Don't go to your room - give us validation!" is how I heard it in my head every time I tried to successfully sneak to the kitchen and back for a snack. #neveragain

  • @saidaabdille8603
    @saidaabdille8603 3 роки тому +6

    Naptime is the best time lol!

  • @kayleemagoffin9573
    @kayleemagoffin9573 3 роки тому +3

    Thankfully, I have a roommate who understands I have social anxiety and issues with too many people, and she is actually a lot more extroverted than I am. She claims to be an introvert, but she talks with people WAY more than I ever do and is constantly meeting with people.
    I don't know how to she manages to overbook herself with people, but at least she understands my situation.

  • @arifanasrin9989
    @arifanasrin9989 2 роки тому +2

    My parents think of me like a idiot because I don't like to talk with guests😭

  • @sachindharwal2878
    @sachindharwal2878 3 роки тому +3

    No long videos.
    No extra rubbish.
    To the point conversation.
    I love such things.

  • @MaserXIV
    @MaserXIV Рік тому +2

    When I was in college, for a year, I lived with three other people who threw parties almost every night. It was that year I learned to truly despise people. If I didn't have a mini-fridge, my own bathroom, and an electric kettle, I litterally wouldn't have survived. Went a number of nights hungry still, because god knows there was no way I was leaving my room.

  • @evalynbaun6672
    @evalynbaun6672 3 роки тому +3

    Imagine being in multiple group chats. I can even stay active in one...

  • @spodreman7732
    @spodreman7732 3 роки тому +2

    Out of people in general, I'm an introvert.
    Yet, out of all the introverts, I'm in extrovert.

  • @kalanaherath3076
    @kalanaherath3076 3 роки тому +6

    As a young INTP teen, my parents used to throw parties for my mom's sister's kids so the next time they threw a party, I labelled my bedroom door with a _"Monster in captivity, do not open"_ sign and locked it from the inside. I then remember a curious kid later trying to pry open the locked door while I was inside and I had to do my best guttaral monster voice and say _"Who are you? I can smell your fear!"_ prompting him to run away in shivering terror. As you might have already thought, the parties never happened again and the kids stopped coming. Good riddance

  • @missnobody3400
    @missnobody3400 3 роки тому +1

    Imagine being an introvert and you don't have a bathroom in your room and you have to go during a party or reunion and everyone sees you...

  • @leenbasha
    @leenbasha 3 роки тому +5

    I have nothing to say, just hope everyone is a having a nice day❤️

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 роки тому +1

      @Leen Basha You win the hair contest for today. That is really impressive.

    • @leenbasha
      @leenbasha 3 роки тому +1

      @@blackoceancreativeuniverse haha thank you!!! That's really sweet😊❤️

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 роки тому +1

      @@leenbasha I hope I am not wrong in guessing, but your hair looks South Asian. Is that correct? South Asians have some of the best hair.

    • @leenbasha
      @leenbasha 3 роки тому +1

      @@blackoceancreativeuniverse I'm actually Arab

    • @blackoceancreativeuniverse
      @blackoceancreativeuniverse 3 роки тому +1

      @@leenbasha I don't think I've seen a lot of long Arab hair. It's often covered.

  • @annawilhelm9697
    @annawilhelm9697 3 роки тому +2

    Well, look for an extrovert, who likes to plan, so you can talk about your schedules and there should be less problems, I guess. 🤔

  • @breeeeeaaathofthewild
    @breeeeeaaathofthewild 3 роки тому +3

    My sister and I, lol.
    She's ESFP* and I'm an INFP.

    • @heyitsjeff8903
      @heyitsjeff8903 3 роки тому +1

      I'm also INFP

    • @DEEPAKSV99
      @DEEPAKSV99 3 роки тому +1

      Looking at the spelling even after an edit, I wonder if you would be the ESFP 😅

    • @breeeeeaaathofthewild
      @breeeeeaaathofthewild 3 роки тому +1

      @@DEEPAKSV99 Haha oops, "ES*FP*" you're right. I'm sorry, I'm just a little stressed out and upset today, so I made many errors typing that, lol. My bad. :-)

    • @DEEPAKSV99
      @DEEPAKSV99 3 роки тому +1

      @@breeeeeaaathofthewild Understandable... Have a Great Day 🤗

    • @breeeeeaaathofthewild
      @breeeeeaaathofthewild 3 роки тому +1

      @@DEEPAKSV99 Thanks, you too :) 💕

  • @memyselfni4466
    @memyselfni4466 3 роки тому +1

    Hey extroverts watching, you're still awesome! 🥳
    Us introverts might not like social interaction at your parties... but those parties also mean we get to have cake 🎂
    We couldn't exist without extroverts like u!

  • @junsjulywonpilsyonpilchany5241
    @junsjulywonpilsyonpilchany5241 3 роки тому +6

    This is basically me with my family. I despise it when guests come over and they actually ask where am I or why am I not coming out of my room. The worst thing is that they go to my room, not knock, and just open the door to check on me. hkjhfakjhf

  • @NightWolfie
    @NightWolfie 3 роки тому +2

    As an introvert i have a roomate who is an extrovert and tbh its nice but sometimes it sucks

  • @stevethepaidintern196
    @stevethepaidintern196 3 роки тому +3

    I love when an extrovert just adopts an introvert and takes care of them mentally and socially (I wish an extrovert would adopt me too 😔)

  • @ladywholovescake8905
    @ladywholovescake8905 3 роки тому +1

    "Woah, I forgot you were standing there. I'm the only one in the room!" hahhahaha

  • @shadbadrkhan7413
    @shadbadrkhan7413 3 роки тому +2

    when U are both of them maybe 2 in 1s are reall

  • @MoltenMetalGod7
    @MoltenMetalGod7 3 роки тому +1

    man Frank's videos capture almost verbatim what goes through my introvert mind in most of these scenarios

  • @katrinamareen
    @katrinamareen 3 роки тому +1

    Try being an Introvert who seeks attention... Ill be up in my room with MY music playing, and coming out all in goth style to get a drink of water (but obviously taking the long way)... purposely ignoring the Hellos and smiles... just to go back to my room all happy with myself.

  • @simplytek9479
    @simplytek9479 3 роки тому +1

    As an INFJ who shared a college apparently with mostly extraverts, I vote that this video is spot on.

  • @Xaforn
    @Xaforn 3 роки тому +1

    Ugh both of my roommates in college were extroverts so I remember such issues, the only time I could rest was after class cause they were out socializing. Then I’d be up studying when they were asleep 😆, then I’d go to sleep about 4am if I was lucky and they were getting up to get ready when class didn’t start til 8-9, the vanity was unreal.

  • @devikagovila7513
    @devikagovila7513 3 роки тому +1

    One question... Are you an introvert???....if yes you make awesome content for us introverts out there.....a really big thanks

  • @chizera9931
    @chizera9931 3 роки тому +1

    Thank god my roommate is an INTJ and I'm an ENFP with introversion at 42-49% (depending on my mood) so we have silently agreed that our home is our safe haven and it's quite rare for us to have any guests over 🖤

  • @sadiasanjanariya2593
    @sadiasanjanariya2593 3 роки тому +1

    You know he plays all of the characters but it seems like even in the extrovert character he is an introvert...

  • @natbatlightwood5288
    @natbatlightwood5288 3 роки тому +1

    'They're holding my living room hostage.'
    A few weeks ago my mum invited one of her mates around to the house, very loud very annoying very drinky, and they kept mithering me to come down and meet him he kept asking them to go upstairs and get me it's like 'no, fuck off if i wanted to meet a stranger i would come down and meet a stranger.' Four hours i was hiding in my room, with no way to get a cup of tea.
    They're always trying to force me to mingle with their friends and i'm sat there like 'what about me makes you think i want to meet these people, why can't you just not just pretend i don't exist and not tell people about me.' Like for nearly three months they've been talking about how this one woman is dying to meet me and i'm sat there like 'why, all she knows about me is second hand information you have told her and you both usually embelish the details of what i'm like to such a degree that you're hardly talking about the same person.' Like just leave me alone, stop trying to force me into social situations.

  • @NWOLFF9719
    @NWOLFF9719 3 роки тому +1

    Bruh imagine having extrovert roommate,now during lockdown
    T.o.r.t.u.r.e

  • @nubianqueen0913
    @nubianqueen0913 3 роки тому +1

    Ugh that was my college days living in a dorm with an extroverted roommate! At least you have a room to go to. And yes she invited people over! One of her guest had the damn nerve to complain about my small TV! And kept going on and on about it!

  • @joumanah5336
    @joumanah5336 3 роки тому +1

    Why did he say, “I’m so sorry” when he told him it was Ashley? Is Ashley bad or something? Sorry, I’m learning English and I don’t get it.

  • @LaMonicaHill
    @LaMonicaHill Рік тому +1

    I don't really ever leave the room I'd tend to just stay there while everyone else is out in the living room partying and having fun and it's nothing against anyone what so ever, but it's just that I'm a introvert and I don't mind other's having fun while coped in my room to myself

  • @AlexG-jm7cd
    @AlexG-jm7cd 3 роки тому +1

    I'm an ENTP but i'm in my room all the time. I only go out to take a shower and refill food supplies. I'm always on my phone because real life is so boring.

  • @hollylynch9349
    @hollylynch9349 3 роки тому +1

    Introvert
    Reveal food supply
    Hates people coming over for a party
    Stays in bedroom to be avoid being looked at and having a chat with people
    I feel sorry for him
    Love these videos
    Comment if u are the introvert or extrovert

  • @turbofanlover
    @turbofanlover Рік тому +1

    As a highly introverted ISFP, I feel so sorry for all of my fellow introverts out there who have no choice but to have a roommate.

  • @aradhna7556
    @aradhna7556 3 роки тому +1

    No one:
    Literally no one:
    Me and other introverts: gotta have those bedroom snacks. 😜😉