Fear of Engulfment (people getting too close) and Finding Your Soulmate - EFT Love Talk Q&A Show
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There are two universal fears that most people have:
1. The Fear of Abandonment (or Rejection)
2. The Fear of Engulfment (people getting too close)
Most everyone has one of these fears, at least to some degree. Some unlucky people have to deal with both.
Either one of these fears can have a huge impact on your love life and even prevent you from being with your soulmate!
The Fear of Engulfment tends to be the more subtle and confusing fear...
In this video we are going to talk about:
* What exactly the Fear of Engulfment is
* ALL the surprising ways the Fear of Engulfment impacts your search for love
* Where the Fear of Engulfment comes from
* How to heal it so that you feel open-hearted and comfortable with closeness and intimacy so that you can finally be with your soulmate!
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Awesome video ! Hit the spot the engulfment inner child spot got the message
I'm so glad that you found my video helpful! ❤️
I never had this issue until I endured a really toxic relationship. I've been single for 4 years now and I'm scared of this closeness.
Enduring a toxic relationship for a long time can have a major impact on us in a tragic way. It would be really important to heal what happened in that relationship so that it doesn't contaminate your future relationships and so you can stop feeling scared of being close to someone. This is necessary so that you can finally be able to have a loving, healthy relationship with your soulmate. 🧡
Thank you, Stefan, for this excellent video! 🙏
I unfortunately have this issue. I have constantly attracted superneedy people in every area of my life that suck the life out of me. So much so that I became physically ill at a very young age. And now I'm working on healing myself.
You are very welcome, I'm glad that you found my video helpful! I'm so sorry that you have this issue and the big impact that it has had on your life. The good news news is that it's very healable as I talked about in the video. ❤️
Me too! I want to not attract needy people no more
Thank you for this very informative video!😃 I have a fear of engulfment because my boundaries were often not respected when I was a kid. Could you make a video or provide some reasources for this inner child work that could help put that wall down? Thank you so much!
I'm so glad that you found my video helpful! The basic idea for the inner child work is that you have to heal representative memories in the following way:
1. Release the pain of the experience
2. Help your inner child stand up for herself in your imagination in a powerful way that she couldn't do originally so that she has the experience of successfully having boundaries.
3. Heal your internal parent so that s/he is now good with respecting your boundaries.
I would be happy to talk with you more about this in a free 20-minute Discovery Session. If you would like to do that, please contact me through my website:
single2soulmate.me
This is so interesting! But a question - Attachment theory explains the 'stonewalling' as a result of emotional neglect where the child was not allowed or rejected to express the need for closeness or it was ignored. You seem to have a different take on it or are these different things?
Yes, what you are describing is kind of the opposite of what I was talking about. The fear of engulfment leads to an avoidant attachment style due to not being allowed to have boundaries. Therefore, closeness doesn't feel safe. Does that make sense?
@@StefanEFT Yes, that does make sense! Thank you!
@pascalelzinga You're very welcome!