Ikr! Not to be mean or anything don't wanna offend anyone....but the thought of sleeping with that many people seems so dirty 🥲. Ew😔. Lol but just my opinion 🤷♀️ everyone is different 😅
same. at first I actually thought that the lowest was gonna be somebody who has never had sex and the next person would maybe have 3 and then the highest would be like maybe 20 but that seems a lot. I guess I'm living under a rock or smith
@3D Animation Geek not true. Extremely generalized Edit: to tall the ppl arguing with me, ask yourself: which countries does this "data" apply to? Yup. Just USA and uk or something. Nothing more 2nd edit: a lot of boys do it with each other too since they're so hormonal. Girls aren't as much like them. Also the countries where women DO have a lower age when they do it for the first time is because younger women are viewed by society to be more desirable than older women. And older men are more desirable than younger boys. This is why in some countries women have their first experience earlier than men. But again, it's still only applies to. Some countries.
@@ぼじん-o5r Nah they’re correct, there’s a lot of data proving that. On top of personal knowledge/experience . I can at least say in the US, Canada and Japan this has been the case for the past couple decades for a plethora of reasons.
It’s always the people w religious backgrounds that be the most thottiest people lol. They always break free in college. And then a little after. But literally who cares people should have sex without caring what others think I just hope they all have safe sex
@@A2Lettuce yeah, and I guess the numbers are a bit skewed here since the type of person who’d volunteer to participate in this video would probably have a significantly higher body count than others
@@Ray03595 Nah ,the minute they see that dude's Asian face ,they already made up their minds and it is OK to see and accept that everybody can have prejudices in the thought processes.Just don't say it out loud in person's face .
@@Flyhighman77 if you want to see racism everywhere, that is what you will see. Any logical person would rank a person who was in a relationship for over a decade as a person with a lower body count. But sure, better to just say they were all being racist, even the asian woman 🙄🙄
I met a girl who was 19 once who said her body count was 78.. I was pretty shocked considering my body count was at about 2 back then. I guess everyone is different. I just hope people are protecting themselves from stds.
Yeah makes me worry HOW YOUNG she have to been when she started. That's the biggest concern with that. Hopefully it IS that just slept with dozens of people a year not that her first time was at like 10
I was surprised the lowest was 13 but also that the highest was only 50... 13 already seems very high to me but given what I've heard other's say, 50 also seems pretty low to be number one.
As a 28 year old virgin hearing people are okay sleeping around so freely makes me feel like such a misfit. I imagine sex as something very vulnerable and emotional. I couldn’t just sleep around. 🤷🏼♀️ (Not trying to slut shame anyone. If it works for you then great. Just not for me!)
To the people who are surprised that everyone has such high numbers -- don't forget, they're from Southern California lmao. I imagine this video would be very different if everyone was from Indiana. Plus the types of people willing to do a video like this would probably put themselves out there more often, leading to more sex
@@melrhea12 not really . The culture from a conservative state a liberal state or states with big cities is extremely different . States that have big cities like , nyc , California, Florida, Vegas wont even be close to a state like Wisconsin, Utah, Indiana etc .
@@shaq9361 body counts don’t necessarily matter, but people who have STDS don’t just “seem dirty”. nobody is purposely sleeping with someone who has an STD lol
@@Ergenhae they don't necessarily matter to u is what you meant to say. They matter to others and you can tell if someone has high body count by the way they act, id rather not have sex if i have to use a condom, i don't feel anything so why bother.
13 at the lowest?!🤯 I have never even been attracted to 13 people. 50 is also extremely high, like where do you meet this many people or even find the time😳
me and my friends in our early 20s all have our body count under like 4 or 5 (mine is 2 and both have been the people i've been dating at the time). some of them are still virgins. not shaming anyone, just commenting this because i find it fascinating!
@@loquendo5249 just because someone sleeps around doesn't automatically mean they have stds. Being careful, using protection, knowing what to look out for is a thing. I find that people with higher body counts are more trust worthy because they know what to look out for. People with low body counts tend to be less careful, they feel "untouchable" if you know what I mean?
Lol why do some of them look offended when they are ranked lower? Having a lower body count isn’t something to be ashamed of and having a higher body count isn’t something to be proud of.
yeah we need to stop moralizing body counts all together. a super high or low body depending on your age can say a lot about a person but it doesn't define the type of person they are.
@@ninaaden8338 ok first of all I’ve never had sex but I don’t understand how you can judge someone just based off how many people they slept with. It literally says nothing about the person and sex shouldn’t be a thing to be ashamed of.
@@clauly_ having sex with someone whose name you don't even know is nothing to be ashamed of? Alright then. Keep that same energy for the casual sex crowd who shame celibate folk.
Damn, I'm nowhere near the league they are. Let's just say you can count my body count on one hand (that happens when one has been in a decade-long NOT open relationship).
@@didinkwocha294 As a person with a high number where I couldn’t even actually tell you the number… I can tell you that there is absolutely nothing in Oki’s physical image, demeanor, or personality that says he’s legitimately racking up those numbers. NOW as a professional poker player it’s certainly plausible that he’s paying for the cat🐱 he gets, which in that case does not get counted to your count in this context because all men would be significantly higher if they were willing and able to pay prostitutes and escorts.
@@drfcspezial8218 Huh? Why shouldn't SWers count just because it's transactional? Would you say a rich girl was still a virgin if she'd only been with a few male escorts? SWers are a risk for pregnancy and STIs like anyone else. I would think they should be counted if someone asks you how many people you've slept with.
I’m so confused I’m 20 and my body count is around 60 or so and I think that’s just a bit above average my older brother sleeps with a new girl each week 1 a week for the last 3 years or so so he has to be around 150-200
@@InternetAntagonist I heard somewhere the average amount of romantic partners a person has in life is 7, idk if that includes sex or actual relationships tho.
Oki saying that he was a “late bloomer” and lost it at 18, kind of bothers me. For one, there’s no required age someone should lose their virginity. I feel like by saying that that also puts pressure on people to lose their virginity in their teenage years. On another note, it’s so crazy when I hear about people’s body count. like personally i could never go over 3. not judging anyone because everybody has different views on what sex, virginity, and their body means to them. if you want to share that with multiple people, go ahead. of course with precautionary measures.
So let's say you fall in love with a person, have sex with them, and them they dump you. If it happens more than 3 times you'll just never have sex again? I mean, I don't like to have casual sex too, I don't want strangers to touch me and I think sex is something very intimate, but it just seems so weird to put a limit to something that's not predictable.
@@Beatriz-hs8eu hahaha! i understand where where you’re coming from and how that can be confusing. so when it comes to relationships, it’s something i take serious. which is why i’ve never been in one because im not looking for something temporary. my point is, i only want to share sexual experiences with people i have an intimate connection with. i prefer “giving” my virginity/body rather than “losing” it to someone. i know it’s a lot, but if im dating someone it’ll be awhile until i sexually explore with that person because i want to know you’re with me for ME and NOT just my body.
Oki(also sound someone who does "oki" I do it all the time like that😂) but I agree with you like that's crazy..im 21 and still haven't done it...i mean im saving myself for marriage so I only could watch 50sec of this video lol
This is out of the norm for most Americans as well. I have only had 1 partner w/ whom I married & most of my friends male, female, gay, & straight have had less than 5 partners. What you see in media doesn’t speak for the whole of the US :)
@@kittensmitten4015 LOL the comment section says otherwise. I’m from LA and it is frowned upon to have a low body count maybe it’s different in other parts of US
@@kittensmitten4015 i think it’s a struggle as an Asian American cause on one side I do feel shamed for not having a high body count but at the same time if I do I get shamed by my Asian side for having an amount above 2 😅
@@guggvcjhh3713 On the east coast, body counts like this are sort of both unheard of and would probably lead to getting shamed. California on the other hand is way more relaxed about that kind of thing.
I had an Indian friend tell me about how in India, sex is a very taboo subject that people don't talk about much, despite the main religion in India being Hinduism which apparently embraces the human sexuality. Meanwhile, here in America the main religion is Christianity which beats people over the head with the idea that premarital sex is wrong and you have to stay a virgin until you're married, and yet American society is obsessed with sex and the word "virgin" is basically an insult especially to men
I’ll be 24 next month and I’ve only had one partner… But in my case, all throughout hs I thought I was asexual. It wasn’t until getting into my last relationship, that lasted for 4 years, that I realized I identified more as demisexual.
@@m.donez8 it means someone who only feels sexual attraction towards a person they have an emotional connection with, so the emotional connection is necessary to feel sexual attraction
When the guy said: " i was 18 and that was pretty late.." made me laugh so hard🤣🤣 i was 21 when i had sex for the first time. I think that shows how big of a presure people feel to "loose theyr virginity". Doesnt mean i didn't have a healty sex life before that.
@@shaq9361 Of course we can’t be sure, but it’s not that far fetched. There are more women than men and they do tend to be less promiscuous, especially outside of the western world. People are also probably less promiscuous overall in more conservative countries. Then we factor in opeople who waited till marriage,
Okay but can you make a Middle Ground episode out of this? Like people with high body count vs people with lowbody count? I think this topic is not enough discussed and still has so many stigmas, like girls need to have a low body count and if boys don't have a high one they failed their lives...
For those surprised at the high body counts - you have to keep in mind that people who are social enough to be casted in jubilee are likely to have higher numbers. The virgin friends I have would NEVER be found on a jubilee video. And my friends who would all have numbers in the high teens, twenties, or fifties.
The producers interviewed them all and asked for their body count before the video. They chose these people with these numbers. I wouldn't be surprised if there were plenty of people with smaller body counts that didn't make it
I feel like the people who would publicly reveal this info on UA-cam would have to be towards the higher end of the spectrum. No way these numbers are typical or average in the wider population.
I don't think Chris really even said anything to indicate he had a lot of bodies, makes me thing of how people oven view black men as inherently more sexual
i think it was also the fact he never had a committed relationship so he would have more "freedom" whereas they ranked oki way lower because he was committed to one person for 12 years
@@therealswarpath5434 it is for religious reasons NOT because my prospects of marriage isn't great. In my culture, you have sex only after marriage. Since I never wanted to get married, I kinda never thought about it.
It would've worked better to have people write down rankings then read them off bc once someone ranks themself that gives the people going after them an indication of their body count
Wow, I guess I don’t ask people’s body counts…But you’d have to dedicate a lot of time to develop connections with someone. That’s another full time job
That is so crazy. The way that our parent's generation tells it (I was born in 2000 by the way) they were a lot more conservative and we were the ones who let loose and go wild.
I honestly think it was because he said that he had never been in a relationship which would lead them to assume that he had more time to rack up a larger body count.
Here I am at 0 at 31. 0 cannot be my age if you're wondering what that is. It was and still continues to be my choice although I'll admit, it feels very difficult to keep at it at times. I've been offered to have sex with at least 17 different people, even though I haven't been actively looking for it. Having sex with no emotions is just not my cup of tea. I feel like it is something very sacred that you're only allowed to share with someone you hold very dear to your heart. I had people I really cherished and cared for, but I cannot do it with someone unless we're deep in love that we're married and decided to spend the rest of our lives together.
@@joaquinlopeztorres1071 Generally , a higher number of partners is correlated with a higher chance of catching an STI. That's why many sources, including the CDC, cite that the only true way to not catch any STI at all is abstinence, aka no sex
Unpopular opinion: I think it's perfectly reasonable to judge someone based off their body count when looking for a long term partner. Having a huge body count indicates that you either A) Treat your romantic partners as sex objects B) You are incapable of keeping a relationship and rush into them too fast C) You do not take sex seriously nor do you think it's a big deal or D) You mislead people you want to sleep with by manipulating their emotions
what does high body count mean to you tho, cuz im currently 16 and have a body count of 3 but 2 of them were both relationships of over a year and one of them was someone i had known for up to 4 years so whats up with that. some people that have high body counts for their age group arent specifically involved in hookup culture.
In my culture we believe when you sleep with someone you give a bit of something within yourself. Be it energy, soul, spiritual, emotional. Can leave you feeling drained... cant imagine doing that with 13- 50 randoms.
@@PinkRose169 Southern African (I hope culture is the right word but yes going off of the definition: the ideas, customs, and social behavior of a particular people or society).
If you're gonna sleep around with random people on a regular basis the least you could do is get tested regularly. There's nothing wrong with having a high bodycount. The only problem is having a high bodycount plus not using protection/getting tested.
At the end when they said "more sex means better sex", I think many, including myself, would also think that means better relationships. However, interestingly enough, studies show that the higher the body count, the more likely a relationship fails. Of course, correlation doesn't imply causation, but it is peculiar.
@@sola_a but just because someone’s body count is low doesn’t mean they don’t have a lot of sex..if they’re in a committed relationship then they would have the same “skills” as someone with a high count
At any point I wish they would have mentioned protecting yourself/wearing condoms. Having this many partners can be incredibly dangerous, and don’t tell me “I know I’m clean” you get tested the week after and 6 months after each partner? Then you don’t know you’re clean 🤷🏻♀️
@@xv9021 I wish so as well, it should be normalized a normal part of check ups! I didn’t admit I had new partners to My primary dr, and gyno didn’t even ask most of the time- I had to request sti tests
I'm so curious about the racial dynamics here. Pretty much all of them assumed the Black guy had the highest body count, and their rankings of him drove him to assume he was at the front of the pack too. I would bet money that they were acting, in part, on implicit biases regarding the hypersexuality of Black men.
@@wiseguy240Winston it could but that would seem very unlikely in comparison to the other option just because of his gender. In general there are much less guys waiting to have sex until marriage or having a low body count just because of society pressure on them which defines their masculinity by how many people they’ve slept with. Just on that reason alone, I would have guessed a male of any gender to have slept with lots of people rather than no one in this day and age if they claim not to have been in a relationship
Same but it’s not really a big deal since I’m surrounded by people in the same boat. We all busy doing school, work, university and living life. Don’t stress about it.
@@livinglife5295 I've never had any real friends since I was in 6th grade were I had to move cause my parents got divorced and when I moved I went to 3 different schools the 1 time I had to go to a new school cause I got expelled I also have very Bad social anxiety plus I have seizures since I was about 2 but they are VERY calm not aggressive 1 at all and haven't had 1 in seven months my life is just terrible
Currently at 0 and that probably won’t change soon. I’m just not looking for a girlfriend, and I’m especially not looking for a one-night stand or friend with benefits
Oki is older, considering he said he was single in his mid 20s and has been in a relationship for 12 years so I’m thinking 32-38. Not old, but old enough to be experienced lol.
@@zesantos2081 Ah, but the count is just a number. Do they even have names? Do they remember where they met, or what attracted them to each other? We don't know, of course, but simply reciting a number comes across as creepy -- like a serial killer keeping a trophy of their kills.
@@void__star yes I agree with you if they only know the number it's a bit disgusting, I assumed they remembered because if I need a bodycount I count by remembering
Not really think of the time span over the years. For example for the girl in the middle she started at 15 ish I believe she is currently past 20 years of age. That would mean on the high end a new person every 3 months and on the low end 2 - 3 people each year
I'm sad to say this, but I would actually be second. I was in a very bad mental state and I used sex as self harm because I allowed people to use and hurt me. I've never wanted to do any physical harm to myself but that really messed me up mentally. It's actually hurting me a lot right now in my relationship, because I don't have a healthy relationship with sex. I hope if there's anyone out there like me, that you get the help you need and it's not necessary to have this form of 'validation'.
I was about to comment this exact thing .. everyone in the comments is acting like it’s so weird to have so much “fun” with multiple people . Like no I was absolutely miserable doing that to myself, mainly because I thought I deserved it .
I am a 31 year old male still a virgin, never had a girlfriend or first kiss either. I was always too shy to approach girls and never had much of a social life throughout school just came home and played videogames. even when i studied in college and started working real jobs i would just come straight home, study and sit online on my laptop play some pc games or use AIM or SKYPE to message and talk to people, that was the extent of my outside communication. I also live with my parents and have never lived on my own before, my social anxiety and depression has gotten the best of me.
Same situation. I did tried but get rejected everytime no one really wants me and i cannot understand how people can get hookups so often its beyond me its like the are living in a diferent world. Im 33 and at this point i give up suffering from deppresion and the only thing keeping me here is to know the end of one piece.
A WIZARD! No, seriously, you can meet people through video games, too. I met my person through FFXIV at like three in the morning, lol. We're both disabled, so neither of us gets out much. He still lives at home, and my living situation is complicated (I'm also depressed and anxious, as well as having ADHD, autism, and pretty severe C-PTSD; he's anxious and doesn't normally approach anyone either). We're long distance, but we've spent a little over five weeks of the past 10 months together. It can happen! I hope you can find/have found someone who will meet you where you are!
i’m only ever surprised when i hear high body counts because i’m demisexual and its hard to imagine connecting with that many people in such a short amount of time lmao (fully respect what everyone does with their bodies though!)
Since your demi sexual have you never watched porn? I’m just asking since I know that being demisexual means you don’t feel any lust for people unless you actually have an emotional connection
Because you lack a real personality, Demi. How dare you make me look that up btw. You're not a sexuality, you're a person, thats just called being average. Mooost people, especially on the more feminine side of your spectrum, are majority attracted to people they have a bond with. Its called a relationship. Sexuality is not supposed to be a replacement for an actual personality.
I'm a straight dude but I can't see myself having a high body count either because I'm autistic and still have a hard time just making friends, let alone dating/sleeping with girls. I used to be really jealous of guys with high body counts but now I feel like sex is better in quality instead of quantity. I had my first relationship a year ago and to me that's way more special than hooking up or having a one-night stand. But I ain't the one to judge what others do with their sexuality as long as they got the three P's- Permission, Privacy, and Protection. If you got that, your sex life is nobody's business but yours and whoever you do stuff with.
No way. Either these people are lying or they specifically chose people with body counts this high. My friends and I are all mid 20s and none of us have a body count thats higher than like, 15. And that's pushing it. Most people are in the single digits.
The comments saying that these people are lying makes me laugh. If you live on campus at a big university it is so common for people to sleep around, especially at frat parties
13 being the lowest number definitely shocked me.. intimacy is so gross to me, I doubt I’ll ever even make it to 3 tbh 🤢 (the face being me imagining being with a bunch of people, not judging them! All the power to them! If it’s safe, legal and consensual then go for it.)
as someone with a body count of 47 at the age of 21 there are a variety of reasons for someone to have lots of sex. for me in high school i had a low self esteem due to having my first boyfriend leave me bc i wouldn’t have sex with him which led me down a rabbit hole. whatever works for you works and don’t devalue yourself bc you think your body count is too high or too low. just be safe and take care of yourself :)
my jaw dropped when 13 was revealed as the lowest number
SAME! 😂😂😂
Same!
For real wtf😳
ikr 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah these are clearly bragging numbers. With no way to double check them, you just can't trust "50"
why did i think the lowest number was gonna be like 5
i thought it would be lower than that, like 1
These people ate all above average in partners. 5 was a reasonable guess
I thought it'd be like 4 or 5 too
Same I was expecting them to put a virgin on here just to mess with them.
@@kaiaswrld they should have that would've been funny asf.
The fact that 13 is the lowest is insane to me.
@@mdu2486 I don't feel like it's "okay" people just do it anyway 😂 slut shaming is a thing always has been.
Agreed. 13 is high. I don’t even know 13 people I would want to sleep with.
My thoughts exactly.
Ikr! Not to be mean or anything don't wanna offend anyone....but the thought of sleeping with that many people seems so dirty 🥲. Ew😔. Lol but just my opinion 🤷♀️ everyone is different 😅
my mouth literally dropped i thought it was gonna be like 4 or something 💀
When I saw that 13 was the lowest number my jaw actually dropped 💀
I thought 13 would be the highest, and the other ones are between 6-11 and lowest would be 4 or something
It's simply insane
Like where do you find all these people who are willing to have sex with you😂
Same
same. at first I actually thought that the lowest was gonna be somebody who has never had sex and the next person would maybe have 3 and then the highest would be like maybe 20 but that seems a lot. I guess I'm living under a rock or smith
“For me it was 18, from what I understand pretty late” what 😳
Me: huh?
It's above the average age
@@petalchild barely
Yeah I lost mine at 13
@@MartaValentin3 wtf
The last person to rank them has an advantage because they hear how everyone ranks themselves
But in this case you can see how inaccurate the last dude's order was at the very end
@@boredbaddie Yeah well he must not have thought to pay attention to what everyone ranked themselves as
True indeed.
Damn you are pretty 👍
@@indeedConfirmed haha thank you (:
"Very late bloomer" because he lost his virginity at 18
Me, who lost his virginity at 23: "Yeah dude, so late"
@3D Animation Geek not true. Extremely generalized
Edit: to tall the ppl arguing with me, ask yourself: which countries does this "data" apply to? Yup. Just USA and uk or something. Nothing more
2nd edit: a lot of boys do it with each other too since they're so hormonal. Girls aren't as much like them. Also the countries where women DO have a lower age when they do it for the first time is because younger women are viewed by society to be more desirable than older women. And older men are more desirable than younger boys. This is why in some countries women have their first experience earlier than men. But again, it's still only applies to. Some countries.
@@ぼじん-o5r partially true
@@ぼじん-o5r that's actually very accurate.
I lost mine on my wedding night a couple weeks before turning 26 :)
@@ぼじん-o5r Nah they’re correct, there’s a lot of data proving that. On top of personal knowledge/experience . I can at least say in the US, Canada and Japan this has been the case for the past couple decades for a plethora of reasons.
The numbers at the end are pretty shocking to me. Do adults really have that much sex with that many different people?
Like dam numbers really be increasing weekly
changes for most regions i guess.
It’s always the people w religious backgrounds that be the most thottiest people lol. They always break free in college. And then a little after. But literally who cares people should have sex without caring what others think I just hope they all have safe sex
@@A2Lettuce yeah, and I guess the numbers are a bit skewed here since the type of person who’d volunteer to participate in this video would probably have a significantly higher body count than others
@@jisooinyourarea6751 I have a religious background/past. I'm not religious anymore and no, I don't have a sex life at all haha 🤡
Oki was the oldest and a poker player so you know he's got smooth moves. Surprised he was ranked so low.
People stereotyped based on looks
@@ilanywah he said he was in a 12 year relationship which threw a lot of them off. they were going by the information he presented them.
@@Ray03595 Nah ,the minute they see that dude's Asian face ,they already made up their minds and it is OK to see and accept that everybody can have prejudices in the thought processes.Just don't say it out loud in person's face .
@@Flyhighman77 if you want to see racism everywhere, that is what you will see. Any logical person would rank a person who was in a relationship for over a decade as a person with a lower body count. But sure, better to just say they were all being racist, even the asian woman 🙄🙄
@@Ray03595 yeah ,sure buddy .You are charles xavier so you must know what the f they were thinking ,right .
I met a girl who was 19 once who said her body count was 78.. I was pretty shocked considering my body count was at about 2 back then. I guess everyone is different. I just hope people are protecting themselves from stds.
Too bad there’s no protection against the emotional damage that comes with sleeping with a bunch of randos
Yeah makes me worry HOW YOUNG she have to been when she started. That's the biggest concern with that. Hopefully it IS that just slept with dozens of people a year not that her first time was at like 10
I was surprised the lowest was 13 but also that the highest was only 50... 13 already seems very high to me but given what I've heard other's say, 50 also seems pretty low to be number one.
@@Zoe-xb6jd there is, it's called being mature
@@sola_a being mature is realizing that meaningless sex isn’t worth the risk
Jubilee: Let's make a Cut video.
I thought it was Cut until I saw rhis
the whole episode screamed Cut.
cut makes me feel nauseous i cant even watch it, and this video made me feel the same
Soooo? It’s a video…. And account can make a similar video mate
Lmao so true
As a 28 year old virgin hearing people are okay sleeping around so freely makes me feel like such a misfit. I imagine sex as something very vulnerable and emotional. I couldn’t just sleep around. 🤷🏼♀️ (Not trying to slut shame anyone. If it works for you then great. Just not for me!)
You're not a misfit! There are more people like you then you realize! Most people I know are like this, including myself.
@@LisaR2392 well thats not a nice or necessary thing to say. pipe down or learn to give supportive comments without putting someone else down
@@LisaR2392 Rude..
@@LisaR2392 keep that to yourself
That's ok for you, you have to remember that everyone is different, and their feeling on sex for them is as valid for them as yours is for you
To the people who are surprised that everyone has such high numbers -- don't forget, they're from Southern California lmao. I imagine this video would be very different if everyone was from Indiana.
Plus the types of people willing to do a video like this would probably put themselves out there more often, leading to more sex
They also would have been hand selected by the producers for their body counts
Guarantee any other states would be the same if not close to the same average
@@melrhea12 not really . The culture from a conservative state a liberal state or states with big cities is extremely different . States that have big cities like , nyc , California, Florida, Vegas wont even be close to a state like Wisconsin, Utah, Indiana etc .
Lol plus people from indiana sleep with their family members so that doesn’t even count
I would think in other states there would be more since there isn't as much to do.
Saying 18 is a late bloomer is not healthy for your younger audience.
Offended much
I thought that too. Isn’t 18 the national average of the US?
Lmao ikr I'm 18 and I was like wtf are y'all doing 😀
I’m 23 and was like wtf. Lost virginity at 19 and that felt v young, looking back I was just a kid
Agreed
idc what your bodycount is but pleaseeee always be safe and get tested regularly
Yes I will
why have sex with someone if you think they're dirty? and bodycounts do matter
@@shaq9361 body counts don’t necessarily matter, but people who have STDS don’t just “seem dirty”. nobody is purposely sleeping with someone who has an STD lol
@@Ergenhae they don't necessarily matter to u is what you meant to say. They matter to others and you can tell if someone has high body count by the way they act, id rather not have sex if i have to use a condom, i don't feel anything so why bother.
@@shaq9361 🤨🤨🤨🤨
I always feel like a jubilee staff is high while coming up with these video ideas
or just watching Cut videos
@@snakemongoosepanther while high
27 year old virgin watching this like 🤔🤔
Really had to call me out like that.
I will be the same next year
And when they said that the age of 18 is a late bloomer, I’m guessing you went 😳😨🤔🥴😕🧐
That's very nice. I think it is better if you preserve this for a very special person who really means a lot for you.
@@june.w.1288 I hope that person is also waiting for him. ( Or me 😓😓). Coz it's by choice.
As an introvert I don't even know 13 people let alone want to be around that many at any given time! 🙎♂️
same i only have 1 and it’s my boyfriend of 2 and a half years like i would never personally be comfortable with anyone else even before meeting him
Same. I dint even go out
imagine being in the room with all of them lmao, nightmare
13 at the lowest?!🤯 I have never even been attracted to 13 people. 50 is also extremely high, like where do you meet this many people or even find the time😳
College
I have been attracted way way way more people, still that doesn't mean that the count has to be high. Mine is 4 lol
there's billions of ppl in the world, wdym where do they meet them?
@@kn4ot405 I don't interact with that many people😂
A bar in college or in spring break while on vacations
me and my friends in our early 20s all have our body count under like 4 or 5 (mine is 2 and both have been the people i've been dating at the time). some of them are still virgins. not shaming anyone, just commenting this because i find it fascinating!
this people prob have and std of something holly 50?!?!?
@@loquendo5249 hope they've used protection though...
@@danssaddimple9133 x2
@@loquendo5249 just because someone sleeps around doesn't automatically mean they have stds. Being careful, using protection, knowing what to look out for is a thing. I find that people with higher body counts are more trust worthy because they know what to look out for. People with low body counts tend to be less careful, they feel "untouchable" if you know what I mean?
@@sola_a Makes sense but idk about trusting high body count ppl.. maybe if you know them for life?
Lol why do some of them look offended when they are ranked lower?
Having a lower body count isn’t something to be ashamed of and having a higher body count isn’t something to be proud of.
Having a high body count is also not something to be ashamed of
yeah we need to stop moralizing body counts all together. a super high or low body depending on your age can say a lot about a person but it doesn't define the type of person they are.
@@clauly_ that's what y'all say to comfort yourselves. 😂
@@ninaaden8338 ok first of all I’ve never had sex but I don’t understand how you can judge someone just based off how many people they slept with. It literally says nothing about the person and sex shouldn’t be a thing to be ashamed of.
@@clauly_ having sex with someone whose name you don't even know is nothing to be ashamed of? Alright then. Keep that same energy for the casual sex crowd who shame celibate folk.
I'm so glad they picked people with higher body counts so no one was the obvious virgin, it really showed gender, racial, and physical stereotypes
Thank you for this comment.
If u think this is a lot of partners ur clearly a little kid or something
Damn, I'm nowhere near the league they are. Let's just say you can count my body count on one hand (that happens when one has been in a decade-long NOT open relationship).
Ayo bro, love your work
These guys have to be in the upper tier though if they can come up with those numbers, as well as having to think who would have signed up.
And let’s just say that you can count my body count without any hands…
whats ur body count
@Fatima Arshed So you're a virgin?
please follow up with a lie detector test
I agree, I'm not sold on Oki's count.
Right. The fact that 50 was a cool rounded number. Either he stopped counting or he rounded up significantly.
I don't think he's lying. He's also the oldest out of all them. You can do a lot in such little time lol, I promise you.
@@didinkwocha294 As a person with a high number where I couldn’t even actually tell you the number… I can tell you that there is absolutely nothing in Oki’s physical image, demeanor, or personality that says he’s legitimately racking up those numbers. NOW as a professional poker player it’s certainly plausible that he’s paying for the cat🐱 he gets, which in that case does not get counted to your count in this context because all men would be significantly higher if they were willing and able to pay prostitutes and escorts.
@@drfcspezial8218 Huh? Why shouldn't SWers count just because it's transactional? Would you say a rich girl was still a virgin if she'd only been with a few male escorts? SWers are a risk for pregnancy and STIs like anyone else. I would think they should be counted if someone asks you how many people you've slept with.
My jaw kept dropping throughout the video. Especially, when the rating kept rising &’ when Sophia mentioned she lost her virginity at 13 or 14… 😳
Estas loco simplemante! Are people in America that promiscuous?
RIGHT
@@rodrozil6544 bro what
*14/15
I was 13 when I lost mine she was 11
I think I’ve just experienced something like a “culture shock”, cause it’s already rare in my country to have even two sexual partners.
I live in USA and I'm also shocked at the numbers. I wonder how scewed they are to average numbers.
I’m curious what country you’re from…
Where are you from?
I’m so confused I’m 20 and my body count is around 60 or so and I think that’s just a bit above average my older brother sleeps with a new girl each week 1 a week for the last 3 years or so so he has to be around 150-200
relatable
SINCE WHEN IS 18 LATE??????????
since maybe summer 2014( I had the same reaction)
@@frychip2686 isn't 18 the average???
fr i just turned 21 this halloween and im still a virgin
@@Lol-rv5bv happy belated birthday! :)
@@daniellapereira516 You’re my belated sister? ayy that’s wassup you too happy bday
i thought like over 5 bodies was a lot... crazy
I'm not saying his number can't be 50, but i don't think I could remember that huge amount of names unless I wrote them down somewhere
Idk he came off as someone who has a big ego i wouldn’t be surprised if he did
Nobody said he remembered the names
i stopped counting at like 3, and im pretty sure my count isn't even higher than 10. do ppl really care about this stuff so much?
right? how would you remember exactly how many people unless you're keeping track?
@@Ray03595 yeah they do. I don't want to know. The heart can't grieve what it doesn't know
My body count it 1…
And I’m quite happy with that tbh
Holy crap the lowest is 13?!?! Damn I didn’t know people actually slept around that much…
literally questioning myself if this video is legit or not
legit same but ig bc of american college? like its probs a lot more common in america/europe for this to be a thing? but like huuuhhhhh
@@InternetAntagonist I heard somewhere the average amount of romantic partners a person has in life is 7, idk if that includes sex or actual relationships tho.
I dont know enough girls to get 13 😂
Once when I was in tutions
I had 18 people in my class
One guy had slept with all the girls in my class except me and my then best frnd
"12 yr relationship ... Because he hasn't had a lot of time being monogamous"
Baby... people can do a whoooole lot within a month
Kinda gross
all I was thinking the whole time was 'religious conservative upbringing? yeah that guy is number 1'
@@Slishaj grose??
@@Slishaj speak for yourself
lol women
Oki saying that he was a “late bloomer” and lost it at 18, kind of bothers me. For one, there’s no required age someone should lose their virginity. I feel like by saying that that also puts pressure on people to lose their virginity in their teenage years. On another note, it’s so crazy when I hear about people’s body count. like personally i could never go over 3. not judging anyone because everybody has different views on what sex, virginity, and their body means to them. if you want to share that with multiple people, go ahead. of course with precautionary measures.
I 100% agree with what you said
So let's say you fall in love with a person, have sex with them, and them they dump you. If it happens more than 3 times you'll just never have sex again?
I mean, I don't like to have casual sex too, I don't want strangers to touch me and I think sex is something very intimate, but it just seems so weird to put a limit to something that's not predictable.
@@Beatriz-hs8eu hahaha! i understand where where you’re coming from and how that can be confusing. so when it comes to relationships, it’s something i take serious. which is why i’ve never been in one because im not looking for something temporary. my point is, i only want to share sexual experiences with people i have an intimate connection with. i prefer “giving” my virginity/body rather than “losing” it to someone. i know it’s a lot, but if im dating someone it’ll be awhile until i sexually explore with that person because i want to know you’re with me for ME and NOT just my body.
Oki(also sound someone who does "oki" I do it all the time like that😂) but I agree with you like that's crazy..im 21 and still haven't done it...i mean im saving myself for marriage so I only could watch 50sec of this video lol
thank you
50 oh yeah I barely talk to 50 strangers imagine having intimacy
50 sexual partners? That is crazy
Lol no it’s not
probably a lie, like there is no way
@@jony4t its not that odd
Mine is 41, I’m 26. I still think that’s a very ok number
@@jony4t dudes not that young tbh so i think its true.
This was OK, but you definitely need a much wider age range of your participants.
Disagree bc if you have a huge age range ppl are going to focus on that more than any other factors.
oh that would be much more entertaining you’re right
@@kittensmitten4015 that's my point! Remember the Movie the 40 year old virgin? Age would make the body count more deceiving
@@enonek2960 oh I see! That’s a fair point :)
And from different cultures.
I think people who would be willingly to go on this show would be more likely to have a higher body count. In my opinion, lol.
Ngl I assume the oldest person has the highest body count
This made me realize how different American culture be from Asia.:. I’m shocked by these numbers
This is out of the norm for most Americans as well. I have only had 1 partner w/ whom I married & most of my friends male, female, gay, & straight have had less than 5 partners. What you see in media doesn’t speak for the whole of the US :)
@@kittensmitten4015 LOL the comment section says otherwise. I’m from LA and it is frowned upon to have a low body count maybe it’s different in other parts of US
@@kittensmitten4015 i think it’s a struggle as an Asian American cause on one side I do feel shamed for not having a high body count but at the same time if I do I get shamed by my Asian side for having an amount above 2 😅
@@guggvcjhh3713 On the east coast, body counts like this are sort of both unheard of and would probably lead to getting shamed. California on the other hand is way more relaxed about that kind of thing.
I had an Indian friend tell me about how in India, sex is a very taboo subject that people don't talk about much, despite the main religion in India being Hinduism which apparently embraces the human sexuality. Meanwhile, here in America the main religion is Christianity which beats people over the head with the idea that premarital sex is wrong and you have to stay a virgin until you're married, and yet American society is obsessed with sex and the word "virgin" is basically an insult especially to men
I’ll be 24 next month and I’ve only had one partner… But in my case, all throughout hs I thought I was asexual. It wasn’t until getting into my last relationship, that lasted for 4 years, that I realized I identified more as demisexual.
Hopefully this isn’t an ignorant question, but what does being demisexual mean? I’m genuinely curious :)
@@m.donez8 it means someone who only feels sexual attraction towards a person they have an emotional connection with, so the emotional connection is necessary to feel sexual attraction
@@Zedd... yeah i swear i only know all these terms from jubilee videos; they educate me on sex ed way more than school did
there’s so many sexuality’s I’m confused
@@tippedjelly9147 they're confused.
I love how no one had a real reason to put the redhead at 1 or 2… only that she is a redhead
Yeah ultra based
She ranked herself as no2 pretty early on so everyone who hadn’t voted yet followed her lead
I had her ranked second after the gay dude, just because she's a pretty woman
When the guy said: " i was 18 and that was pretty late.." made me laugh so hard🤣🤣 i was 21 when i had sex for the first time. I think that shows how big of a presure people feel to "loose theyr virginity". Doesnt mean i didn't have a healty sex life before that.
Just the tought of what is a lot of sex partner to one person? 8? 53 or 365? If i had been in this line i would have been number 2.
@@elisRocKing me at 19 with zero 👁👄👁
Just for a fyi Google says 6 is the average partners someone has in their life.
and google knows this how? people lie
I think those in a video for a famous channel would be more prone to lie
Was just about to google it lol
Probably only very open, extroverted people with high body count are willing to speak about this in a tv show, before the whole world.
@@shaq9361 Of course we can’t be sure, but it’s not that far fetched. There are more women than men and they do tend to be less promiscuous, especially outside of the western world. People are also probably less promiscuous overall in more conservative countries. Then we factor in opeople who waited till marriage,
Okay but can you make a Middle Ground episode out of this? Like people with high body count vs people with lowbody count? I think this topic is not enough discussed and still has so many stigmas, like girls need to have a low body count and if boys don't have a high one they failed their lives...
Great idea !
Oooo, I LOVE this idea
I think there is one, sex workers and virgins
This.
29 male virgin here watching how other people's body counts are and being surprised by the fact that their first time was 14-15
Did you make it? Did you become a wizard? Proud of you either way.
For those surprised at the high body counts - you have to keep in mind that people who are social enough to be casted in jubilee are likely to have higher numbers. The virgin friends I have would NEVER be found on a jubilee video. And my friends who would all have numbers in the high teens, twenties, or fifties.
The producers interviewed them all and asked for their body count before the video. They chose these people with these numbers. I wouldn't be surprised if there were plenty of people with smaller body counts that didn't make it
Red hair dude definitely lied at the end there bc he felt lame at the tail end of the ranking.
lmfao
They were all making it seem like being on the lower end was bad thing. I was confused why they all ranked themselves highly.
@@wittyusername9544 i think they forgot what they were ranking themselves as and just paid attention to "i'm number 1" lul
I’m like so far from any of these that I would be standing outside of whatever studio this was filmed in.
me at a 0 body count
I feel like the people who would publicly reveal this info on UA-cam would have to be towards the higher end of the spectrum. No way these numbers are typical or average in the wider population.
May not be average, but pretty typical.
@@melrhea12 no.
Where do you live? It's definitely average where I am. Dc metro
@@perdybirdie Canada
my body count is -2
how tf?
@@tier___839 Necrophilia?
@@nihility. :)
So does it mean that you're castrated?
Damn the people on your comment seem to be fun at parties 💀
idk why but i really need a jubilee x cut collab, it would be soo dope
i wonder if they secretly hate eachother lol
Or if they secretly love each other
I don't think Chris really even said anything to indicate he had a lot of bodies, makes me thing of how people oven view black men as inherently more sexual
especially considering he even up second to last when they originally placed him in 1
i think it was also the fact he never had a committed relationship so he would have more "freedom" whereas they ranked oki way lower because he was committed to one person for 12 years
I'm happy somebody else noticed it
He said he's forever single. Sounds like fuckboy energy
It's mainly bc he said he's never been in a relationship. So therefore having sex whenever with whoever
Shocked. I am 30 and STILL virgin.
Oof
are u in medical school or something
@@kimaya.3563 Lol, not technically but Adjacent.
@@therealswarpath5434 it is for religious reasons NOT because my prospects of marriage isn't great. In my culture, you have sex only after marriage. Since I never wanted to get married, I kinda never thought about it.
Either you're malaysian or Filipina
This shows how much black men are over-sexualized. They all ranking him number 1 and he ended up being number 4 🥴
Blame the media that they are making.
To be fair, he was the only one who had never been in a long-term relationship.
@@Beatness121 that’s not really an excuse
@@Youneedalex he shouldnt have set himself up, stop trying to make him into some poor victim, he did it to himself
@@Oversurge_ fair enough
purple shirt put himself at a 4, so did everyone, they ranked each other too. that gives away a lot
I had a gut feeling Oki would have the most, he’s just got that look in his eyes
Weird look
Someone’s gotta explain why he’s not wearing socks or shoes
he was probably wearing sandals or something.
Maybe wearing some kind of shoes that could mess up the white background or be pick up by the microphones setup
It would've worked better to have people write down rankings then read them off bc once someone ranks themself that gives the people going after them an indication of their body count
Wow, I guess I don’t ask people’s body counts…But you’d have to dedicate a lot of time to develop connections with someone. That’s another full time job
Don’t have to have a connection with someone to have sex with them.
All you gotta do is open you legs.
For men, sex isn't really linked with emotions. And more and more women are starting to not need that link either.
Mhm sounds like another person’s prerogative. Not me tho, y’all be safe.
@@melrhea12 For a lot of people it's necessary.
@@Bribreezzzyy everyone is different
Fun fact: people are having less sex than ever before!
Though of course that doesn't get mentioned in videos like this...
Makes you wonder why, right?
Someone’s lying 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥲🥲🥲
That is so crazy. The way that our parent's generation tells it (I was born in 2000 by the way) they were a lot more conservative and we were the ones who let loose and go wild.
Divide the guys by 3. Maybe the tall guy isn't lying.
Speak for your self 😆
Definitely some lying in here. Most people I know, both guys and girls, don’t have a body count any higher than like 15 AT MOST (I’m in my mid-20s)
bro when i heard the LEAST was 13 im like 🤨
Kinda wish there had been more variety in the participants.
Its a stereotype how black men are assumed that they are hyper sexual beings
Was thinking the same thing
I honestly think it was because he said that he had never been in a relationship which would lead them to assume that he had more time to rack up a larger body count.
True
@@koolk2269 That could have meant he had a low body count too tho.
Here I am at 0 at 31. 0 cannot be my age if you're wondering what that is.
It was and still continues to be my choice although I'll admit, it feels very difficult to keep at it at times. I've been offered to have sex with at least 17 different people, even though I haven't been actively looking for it. Having sex with no emotions is just not my cup of tea. I feel like it is something very sacred that you're only allowed to share with someone you hold very dear to your heart. I had people I really cherished and cared for, but I cannot do it with someone unless we're deep in love that we're married and decided to spend the rest of our lives together.
Respect, I'm a Christian so im the same
Next let’s do STI count. And maybe a lie detector too.
ok so the first one was petty af. The second one i gotta agree
@@joaquinlopeztorres1071 How is it petty? It’s literally the consequence of having high body counts😂
@@theultimate6542 not if u practice safe sex...
@@joaquinlopeztorres1071 Generally , a higher number of partners is correlated with a higher chance of catching an STI. That's why many sources, including the CDC, cite that the only true way to not catch any STI at all is abstinence, aka no sex
@@goosebump91 u are totally right. But the original comment just sounded a bit petty idk, maybe it's just me
Now I'm wondering if this many partners is just normal. I was astonished to hear the lowest is 13.
“Spreading my wings” = “spreading my cheeks” lol 😂
True
More like “spreading my legs”
@@TJ-bd7et “spreading my cheeks” 😌😂
@@SimonLi Yeah, this was a lot better.
Apparently she walks with her wings...😂😂
Unpopular opinion: I think it's perfectly reasonable to judge someone based off their body count when looking for a long term partner. Having a huge body count indicates that you either
A) Treat your romantic partners as sex objects
B) You are incapable of keeping a relationship and rush into them too fast
C) You do not take sex seriously nor do you think it's a big deal
or D) You mislead people you want to sleep with by manipulating their emotions
You could do the same for a low body count though...
@@samtae6217 How
@@samtae6217 yes, how?
@@samtae6217 Would you trust a high body count wife if you had to stay overseas for a long period?
what does high body count mean to you tho, cuz im currently 16 and have a body count of 3 but 2 of them were both relationships of over a year and one of them was someone i had known for up to 4 years so whats up with that. some people that have high body counts for their age group arent specifically involved in hookup culture.
In my culture we believe when you sleep with someone you give a bit of something within yourself. Be it energy, soul, spiritual, emotional. Can leave you feeling drained... cant imagine doing that with 13- 50 randoms.
what is your culture?
@@PinkRose169 Southern African (I hope culture is the right word but yes going off of the definition: the ideas, customs, and social behavior of a particular people or society).
If you're gonna sleep around with random people on a regular basis the least you could do is get tested regularly. There's nothing wrong with having a high bodycount. The only problem is having a high bodycount plus not using protection/getting tested.
At the end when they said "more sex means better sex", I think many, including myself, would also think that means better relationships. However, interestingly enough, studies show that the higher the body count, the more likely a relationship fails. Of course, correlation doesn't imply causation, but it is peculiar.
Can you show us the studies? Sounds interesting
Of course it’s causation. Can you imagine marrying a girl who’d banged like 60 dudes and expecting her to settle into a life of monogamy?!😭LMAO!
@@poocrayon4588 if it were that high. The studies are like one vs 5 vs 10+
Someone who has painted 100 painting probably has better painting skills than someone who's only done like 3
@@sola_a but just because someone’s body count is low doesn’t mean they don’t have a lot of sex..if they’re in a committed relationship then they would have the same “skills” as someone with a high count
At any point I wish they would have mentioned protecting yourself/wearing condoms. Having this many partners can be incredibly dangerous, and don’t tell me “I know I’m clean” you get tested the week after and 6 months after each partner? Then you don’t know you’re clean 🤷🏻♀️
I got tested before the start of every semester in college, i wish it was mandatory for everyone else.
@@xv9021 I wish so as well, it should be normalized a normal part of check ups! I didn’t admit I had new partners to My primary dr, and gyno didn’t even ask most of the time- I had to request sti tests
If they paid any attention to how they all ranked themselves they would kind of get an idea of the final answer tbh
That only really works if you had the last or the penultimate last vote, which they did.
Ah yes, the "hypersexual Black male" stereotype. Its lovely to see the younger generations keep this tradition alive.
stereotypes are there for a reason
came down here just to search for this comment
He's been with 24 people, they're not wrong
You're the only one making this video about race, stop.
Why are u making this about race? I doubt you’re even black, so why do u care?
The fact that people have numbers in the double digits is a wild concept to me.
I'm so curious about the racial dynamics here. Pretty much all of them assumed the Black guy had the highest body count, and their rankings of him drove him to assume he was at the front of the pack too. I would bet money that they were acting, in part, on implicit biases regarding the hypersexuality of Black men.
If he was Asian or White they would have ranked him lower I bet.
I’m pretty sure they ranked him there because he said he’s never been in a relationship…
@@sachdalal1440 That could mean he's the lowest there though.
@@wiseguy240Winston it could but that would seem very unlikely in comparison to the other option just because of his gender. In general there are much less guys waiting to have sex until marriage or having a low body count just because of society pressure on them which defines their masculinity by how many people they’ve slept with. Just on that reason alone, I would have guessed a male of any gender to have slept with lots of people rather than no one in this day and age if they claim not to have been in a relationship
Always the victim.
Y'all just keep giving Aba & Preach free content.
And I love it.
The end results shocked me
I'm 20 and haven't had 1 serious relationship in my life and with my luck I never will I will die by myself virgin also lol but ya
My friend is like 23 or 24 and just got a gf. The key is to put yourself out there. It’s hard, but it’s worth it.
Same but it’s not really a big deal since I’m surrounded by people in the same boat. We all busy doing school, work, university and living life. Don’t stress about it.
@@livinglife5295 I've never had any real friends since I was in 6th grade were I had to move cause my parents got divorced and when I moved I went to 3 different schools the 1 time I had to go to a new school cause I got expelled I also have very Bad social anxiety plus I have seizures since I was about 2 but they are VERY calm not aggressive 1 at all and haven't had 1 in seven months my life is just terrible
@@Fourtune1 what the hell is the point of that
@@bigred7312 I feel sorry for you.
This numbers are so high like wtf O_o I guess I'm a mormon or something now xDD
Currently at 0 and that probably won’t change soon. I’m just not looking for a girlfriend, and I’m especially not looking for a one-night stand or friend with benefits
These body counts are high. I’m not religious or anything but anything over 10 seems outrageous for them all being younger 👀
Don’t be so judgmental
Oki is older, considering he said he was single in his mid 20s and has been in a relationship for 12 years so I’m thinking 32-38. Not old, but old enough to be experienced lol.
Bruh anything over 5 is too much for me 😬
@@yolandastargaze4565 Anyone over 1 would be too much for me
Honestly feels a bit sociopathic to have a "body count".
honestly
Yes!
I think it's worse if you don't remember who you slept with
@@zesantos2081 Ah, but the count is just a number.
Do they even have names? Do they remember where they met, or what attracted them to each other?
We don't know, of course, but simply reciting a number comes across as creepy -- like a serial killer keeping a trophy of their kills.
@@void__star yes I agree with you if they only know the number it's a bit disgusting, I assumed they remembered because if I need a bodycount I count by remembering
I'm 20 and still a virgin cuz I never LOSE and never will...
Noice~ ok I’ll stela and use this comment whenever someone asks me about this subject, thx~ ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ
@@amyGurl8483 they stole it as well
I think I’m on the ace spectrum, so I’m sitting at a whopping 0 until I meet someone who I connect with on that level
Oi, those are some high numbers for such young people.
Not really think of the time span over the years. For example for the girl in the middle she started at 15 ish I believe she is currently past 20 years of age. That would mean on the high end a new person every 3 months and on the low end 2 - 3 people each year
No it’s not. It’s normal.
@@melrhea12 really depends where you're from
@@melrhea12 It's still gross and messed up
Jubilee's been giving me major Cut vibes recently...I need them to remain separate 👍🏾😭
I'm sad to say this, but I would actually be second. I was in a very bad mental state and I used sex as self harm because I allowed people to use and hurt me. I've never wanted to do any physical harm to myself but that really messed me up mentally. It's actually hurting me a lot right now in my relationship, because I don't have a healthy relationship with sex.
I hope if there's anyone out there like me, that you get the help you need and it's not necessary to have this form of 'validation'.
I was about to comment this exact thing .. everyone in the comments is acting like it’s so weird to have so much “fun” with multiple people . Like no I was absolutely miserable doing that to myself, mainly because I thought I deserved it .
I am a 31 year old male still a virgin, never had a girlfriend or first kiss either. I was always too shy to approach girls and never had much of a social life throughout school just came home and played videogames. even when i studied in college and started working real jobs i would just come straight home, study and sit online on my laptop play some pc games or use AIM or SKYPE to message and talk to people, that was the extent of my outside communication. I also live with my parents and have never lived on my own before, my social anxiety and depression has gotten the best of me.
Same situation. I did tried but get rejected everytime no one really wants me and i cannot understand how people can get hookups so often its beyond me its like the are living in a diferent world. Im 33 and at this point i give up suffering from deppresion and the only thing keeping me here is to know the end of one piece.
@@kerob-sx6kx lmfao same loool, the ending of one piece and other mangas is what fuels me.
A WIZARD! No, seriously, you can meet people through video games, too. I met my person through FFXIV at like three in the morning, lol. We're both disabled, so neither of us gets out much. He still lives at home, and my living situation is complicated (I'm also depressed and anxious, as well as having ADHD, autism, and pretty severe C-PTSD; he's anxious and doesn't normally approach anyone either). We're long distance, but we've spent a little over five weeks of the past 10 months together. It can happen! I hope you can find/have found someone who will meet you where you are!
“very late bloomer”
>18
i’m only ever surprised when i hear high body counts because i’m demisexual and its hard to imagine connecting with that many people in such a short amount of time lmao (fully respect what everyone does with their bodies though!)
we didn't ask and you're not quirky.
Since your demi sexual have you never watched porn? I’m just asking since I know that being demisexual means you don’t feel any lust for people unless you actually have an emotional connection
Because you lack a real personality, Demi. How dare you make me look that up btw. You're not a sexuality, you're a person, thats just called being average. Mooost people, especially on the more feminine side of your spectrum, are majority attracted to people they have a bond with. Its called a relationship. Sexuality is not supposed to be a replacement for an actual personality.
I'm a straight dude but I can't see myself having a high body count either because I'm autistic and still have a hard time just making friends, let alone dating/sleeping with girls. I used to be really jealous of guys with high body counts but now I feel like sex is better in quality instead of quantity. I had my first relationship a year ago and to me that's way more special than hooking up or having a one-night stand. But I ain't the one to judge what others do with their sexuality as long as they got the three P's- Permission, Privacy, and Protection. If you got that, your sex life is nobody's business but yours and whoever you do stuff with.
@@eighterthabest9024 that's a stereotype in order to shame feminine ppl into having less casual sex. Pls do better
Dang, are body counts usually this high?
No way. Either these people are lying or they specifically chose people with body counts this high. My friends and I are all mid 20s and none of us have a body count thats higher than like, 15. And that's pushing it. Most people are in the single digits.
@@CheeseWithMold mine is 60
@@CheeseWithMold These ppl are from la lol. Anything goes there
@@CheeseWithMold so the world does by your group of friends? Got it lol
@@CheeseWithMold mine is 27 and im also 23 yo., so it definitely seems normal.
this is a lot higher than i expected explains how sti's get spread so quickly jesus.
The comments saying that these people are lying makes me laugh. If you live on campus at a big university it is so common for people to sleep around, especially at frat parties
'very late bloomer at 18'
me a 21 yo virgin
You are probably a guy then
@@ashuranero5721 Nah, I was a virgin at 21, too. Probably still would be, had it not been taken without consent.
It must be interesting to want to get married one day in the future yet have video evidence that you were the village bicycle.
Village bicycle 😂😂
13 being the lowest number definitely shocked me.. intimacy is so gross to me, I doubt I’ll ever even make it to 3 tbh 🤢 (the face being me imagining being with a bunch of people, not judging them! All the power to them! If it’s safe, legal and consensual then go for it.)
How do people keep tracking of their body count after 20?
Virgin gang where you at??? 😂
i gotchu
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as someone with a body count of 47 at the age of 21 there are a variety of reasons for someone to have lots of sex. for me in high school i had a low self esteem due to having my first boyfriend leave me bc i wouldn’t have sex with him which led me down a rabbit hole. whatever works for you works and don’t devalue yourself bc you think your body count is too high or too low. just be safe and take care of yourself :)