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- Опубліковано 29 лют 2024
- This isn't the video we thought we'd be making when we set off on this trip!
The way we live and why we live this way is down to many family members never making it to retirement or when they do retire they are not healthy enough to enjoy it.
We now have to go through more tests and meetings with the hospital and choose the treatment that's best and in the long term we also need to work out how living in a van fits in with the future and what that will look like.
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Having known you two for quite sometime we can honestly say that between the pair of you, you’ll kick the crap out of it! Right behind you both. 💪❤
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You truly are the loveliest ladies in a van ❤❤❤❤❤
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Blessings to you guys also - so glad for your friendship and support of John & Mandy. Agree with you 💯- they will kick the crap out of this beast! 🤗
Hi, Emily and Lou, i am so pleased that you were both there when Mandy received her sad news and John
Hi John and Mandy
I worked for over 36 years at The Christie hospital in Manchester as a medical physicist. It is a cancer only hospital and so every patient there over all that time was in some way going what Mandy is going through now.
It is really important that you take the doctors and care specialists advice and follow your treatment and care regimes rigorously, try and link up with the groups that the hospital will give you leaflets on. However it is also really important that you don’t let the cancer eat up the rest of your life. In so far as your health will allow outside of the treatments and diagnostics get out and do all the normal things you do, continue to live, distract yourself from your own mind which can be cruel, think about and do other things together. None of us ever know how long we have, we could not wake up the next day. The cancer was there before you knew about it, you were living just fine, don’t let the knowledge that allows you to treat it become the knowledge that hurts you more than the cancer itself. The treatments get better every year so what allowed someone to survive 10 years in 2014 which we would only know about now would not be the current treatment regime. I wish you both all the strength to go through this together, cancer is a horrible word but around half of us will get it in our lifetime and it is all treatable to some extent. There are many awful illnesses for which there is no treatment and they are terminal in horrible ways. So please don’t think why me as you are in no way singled out by this prolific illness. It gets more prevalent as we cease dying early from other conditions like malaria, typhoid and cholera for example.
Well said.
So eloquently put, knowledgeable and thought provoking. So very true when you actually reflect that 'it' was there initially, only actually knowing 'its' there' takes over everything else...
Thank you, Stephen, for this valuable information and perspective!
Hey you lovely people ..... I was diagnosed 12 years ago with advanced prostate cancer and here I am still alive and kicking. Please don't be angry, it did nothing for me but the love and warmth of my wife and friends made all the difference. It would seem that having a "come what may" attitude has a more positive outcome rather than fretting at every turn.
Be strong and love each other well !
Oh sweetheart! I’m 54 and had cervical cancer in 2007, it’s utterly shit but doable. Huge hugs. xxx
I now have terminal Ovarian cancer but am about to start a van build after watching you two! xxx
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Karen sending hugs and empathy, I had ovarian and uterine cancer 4 years ago, it’s a sly beast. So glad to hear that you are doing the van build xxx
Think of you right at this moment.
My heart goes out to you both sending positive vibes from Scotland.💕💕💕
Keep positive keep van building
Do not worry about anyone else outside your family especially us subscribers. You are brave to share what is going on to educate and enlighten. Just know we are all behind you ❤❤❤
Know you have 55k subscribers who are right behind you sending you both lots of love, support and healing prayers!
Empathy guys ... get treated, rest and recover. Forget the fighting talk, it is about rest and recover! Thinking of you both. 💪❤
My mom had a stage 4 melanoma, at the age of 50. She died 44 years later, at the age of 94, and not from cancer. She got through, and I hope & believe that you will too. Sending love and courage, to both of you, in spades.
I had cancer in 2013, they kept discribing it as 'Agressive'. When I was told it was hectic. The fire alarm went off at the hospital, it was evacuated, and I was trying to take in the news I had just been given. I had so many questions, just take one day at a time, don't worry about other people, and look after yourself. I'm cancer free now and I'm sure you will be too. Big Love
Mandy, I am not sure when this was filmed and if you still have a few days to go before you get home but have you thought of phoning the MacMillan nurse at the hospital to discuss your worries and questions. They are amazing and will be a huge help and support, especially in your situation. Just ask the switchboard to put you through to the MacMillan nurse for the gynae department. It’s a lonely time without someone to lean on and they will be there for both of you. Best wishes and stay strong.
Dearest folk, you’re both very much in our thoughts and hearts and prayers at this time. Mandy, I know, only too well, the shock of a cancer diagnosis….those sleepless nights and anger, it’s all in the mix. You’ve got each other , you’ve got a lovely wee family and you’ve got the support of many many friends. Please hold onto those things in your darkest moments. God bless you both xx
Hi guys. I'm sorry to hear of Mandy's diagnosis. I volunteer for Maggie's Cancer support charity. They have centres attached to many hospitals up and down the UK. I strongly suggest dropping in as they will support both of you at this time. They offer advice as well. Maybe just have a cuppa and biscuit and chat with others on the same situation. Hoping for your prompt recovery.
Guys I’m so sorry to hear your sad news. Together you can beat this. My wife is 4 years in remission now, the only advice I’d give you is PLEASE don’t Google things just support each other and let the NHS do their thing.❤❤ God bless.
Dear, dear John & Mandy... wrapping you in light and love as you face this. You've got this!!! Much love from St. Augustine, FL USA
Oh no poor Mandy! Sending you both huge hug’s 🙏🏼 😘
I don’t know what to say, I am just so so sorry for you both, especially Mandy.
Just sat watching and crying with you both.
Stay strong and remember you’re loved so very much.
Thank you Emily and Louise for being there ..we follow them as well
Keep your chin up , sending love and hugs
Terrible news for you both, your family and friends. We hope that your treatment is fast and effective and you can get back to normality asap❤
Sending positive thoughts to you both ,you’re such a together couple big hugs to you both ❤
Oh Mandy and John, huge hugs to you both. You’ve got a huge support behind you ❤️ kick it’s arse Mandy! ❤️
I got diagnosed with breast cancer in October 2022 and still going through treatment. Been through chemotherapy, an operation, radiotherapy and now on immunotherapy.
The decision to not Google anything is honestly the best thing I ever did. My sister did and she was on top of that.
Your treatment plan will be unique to you. People will tell you about when they had cancer but it really is unique. Go with the advice of the doctors and be kind to yourself.
Yes I felt fine and thought I could not possibly have cancer. I still find it hard to believe that I have gone through what I have.
People are so kind and you will really find who your friends are.
Wishing you all the best but you will get through this.
In my thoughts ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your story, I’m so sorry your battle is still ongoing ❤️
@@johnmandy I remember having the same feelings that you are having now. It is a real rollercoaster with severe highs and lows but you can get through this. Onwards and upwards xx
I think everyone that follows you is sending you love and best wishes. There are no words any of us can give you to lesson the pain and distress you are currently in. You are in a position where you have no plan and not all the answers, and that’s what you both need.
Drive safely back home, sending you, your family love and best wishes. Xxx
I think that was the hardest thumbs up I have ever had to give. I’m a C Survivor. Utterly shit but as another has said, doable, even when times I thought it wasn’t … here I am. Sending you my grit, determination and positive healing vibes. ❤ As with all your followers … I’m just here ❤
Mandy turn to Jesus, he will walk you through this, praying for your healing and your salvation, the blessed assurance of God in the centre.
I've had cancer twice now. Stay positive! More people survive than don't. Brighter days will come ❤
This is the hardest point for you, the waiting room, not knowing the full picture so to speak; I know as I was diagnosed with breast cancer over 12 years ago, also had precancerous cervical cells before that. Take one day at a time and breathe, it is scary, but you will get through this. My thoughts are with you both and I wish you well.
Mandy I'm so so sorry to hear this, you deal with it the best way you can. And John I know how important it is for you to you to be as informed as possible to help Mandy both physically and mentally I also know that puts massive pressure on your shoulders but that's what we do for the people we love isn't it mate. Will keep you both in my thoughts daily
I was beginning to get really worried as we’d not heard from you Mandy, and the dreaded c word was on my mind…this bit is so hard, right at the beginning when your head is spinning or ready to explode. I had stage 3 bowel cancer 11 yrs ago, and chemotherapy, it’s a day by day thing, it’s too overwhelming otherwise. Love to you both, I just wish I could help in some way 🙏❤️❤️
Phew… some absolutely understandable raw emotions. Holding you both in our thoughts. It’s inspiring that despite this news you are thinking of others in sharing asking others to be aware of not just accepting our body’s changes. Not a great journey but one that together you are stronger and you are a great support network to each other. Hope you get back soon and the NHS does what it does best.
On no poor Mandy , love to you both Xxx
Mandy my heart goes out to you, I know how lonely and worrying 4am can be when you are going through the uncertainty of a cancer diagnosis and John, I feel your pain, I watched my husband go through exactly the same feelings. I hope I can share some hope - 8 years after surgery, chemotherapy, immunotherapy and radiotherapy I am here, healthy and making the most of every day. Stay positive and have faith in the fantastic treatments that are available. Sending you lots of love and all the strength I can muster - stay strong and believe in the positive xx
Sending huge love and best wishes. Our son was diagnosed with bowel cancer when he was just four and our world fell apart. He’s now 26 and I still remember the torrid time you go through at this stage of diagnosis. Stay strong; dig deep, you’ve got this guys ❤
Sending you so much love and healing wishes. Good to have a Google filter well done John x you guys are the best and we believe in you both so much ❤
Mandy I send you a virtual hug at the difficult time for you. I am the over thinking in my relationship and my partner has gone through cancer treatment as well. xx💓❤️
Sending massive love. Of all the YT people I have ever met you were some of the most welcoming and down-to-earth people. From the moment I met you two I felt accepted. I always love that about your channel that you put being real first before anything else. Take Care.
I don't know what to say about this video. Its just brought back so many memories about my mum and her cancer. I'm really upset for you both and I don't mind saying I've shed a couple or three of tears. Guys, to hell with the channel/content/videos. To hell with saying sorry about not letting subscribers know. YOU are the most important person Mandy and not this channel. Just get the treatment, get yourself back to normal and dont worry anything else. Chin up Mandy and grasp that Mancunian grit and fight like you never fought before. My Mum didn't fight. She just gave up and I spent each day knowing that if she'd seen about treatment she might still be here. You are made of stronger stuff Mandy. You will win. John, I know you'll be Mandy's rock no matter how hard and upsetting it is and I know from my own experience that finding the right words of support to say each day is the most diffiult thing. I'm thnking of you both, I'm sending you both all my love. Look after each other. I love you guys to bits . Much respect❤🙏-Kenny
Dearest Mandy and John please be assured of all our support and prayers.
Sending you both lots of love from both of us, think of you, and Mandy …. You CAN BEAT THIS XXXXX.
Keeping everything crossed for you Mandy xx
Stay strong and positive both of you.
Hi Mandy & John, you guys are strong and together you can do this, I was 27 years old when I was told that I was between stage 3 and 4 of Cervical cancer, I had to have a total hysterectomy, which threw me straight into menopause but anyway I'm 56 now, it is so important ladies to get regular checks, i know some of these tests are not nice, the doctors and nurses are very understanding, I understand your frustration, I have been there myself, and found it very easy to overthink things, anyway guys sorry for waffling, I'm right there with you, healings to you both, hang in there x
We are absolutely gutted to hear your news - such a shock for you both and for your daughter and for all of us who follow you. I’ve been crying with you 😢
The hardest part for you is the not knowing exact where you’re at with it all - we really feel for you having to drive back home with all this worry. We have never met you but we absolutely love watching your vlogs and we subscribe to Mandy’s channel too. You both are so lovely and genuine and our hearts go out to you ❤❤. Take good care driving home and good luck with the next stage of your treatment - we’ll be keeping everything crossed for you. Much love, John & Debs xx 😘😘
I am so sorry to hear your news. Once the NHS picks you up and takes you through this journey you will feel less anxious. I had cancer 7 years ago and understand the fear of that demon sitting on your shoulder. One big thing I learnt is that sadly cancer is a well trodden path and as such the NHS will steer you through.
Better as are to come, you will beat this. Your resilience and love will carry you through.
Sending positive thoughts and stay strong
So sorry to hear this horrible news, so brave of you to make this video with it being so raw ❤ Stay strong you are awesome Mandy, with so much love surrounding you. Sending love and positive thoughts as you both face another unexpected and difficult time. ❤️
Sorry to hear this news. My wife had Cancer. It was tough, but try to find positives when you can, It really will help. I will say, John don't forget to look after yourself. You'll focus on everything for Mandy (which is obvious) and its easy to forget about your own health (mentally also).
I wish you both all the best. Stay Strong🤛
Thank you so much for sharing - seeing you both in such pain is heart wrenching. I am just so thankful that you were bleeding and that made you go to the doctor and that enabled them to find this - hopefully very early. So many cancers are very treatable and this is one of them. Praying for your peace and rest during this stressful time, safe travels back to UK, quick and uncomplicated treatment, and full recovery! We all love you and you owe us nothing, but we feel so blessed to be included. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hi John & Mandy. With tears in my eyes I write. Mandy I wish you the best luck possible to fully overcome this. John will also need support at times to keep strong for you. I have been treated at The Christie for Melanoma. A couple of operations later and a course of treatment life goes on for me and the wife. Still able to go away in the Motorhome which we both dearly love. The Christie has made me feel really safe, the staff and support goes beyond words to describe. When I was first ‘told’ numb is a great word to describe your feelings. For me the situation was overtaken by determination, which makes such a difference. Yes those numb days will come and go. John I am sure will keep it under control! Bye for now Nigel & Glynis Bailey
Sorry to hear your news Mandy. I was told that I had finished the menopause. Then was still bleeding so went to my gynacologist who sent me for a scan then I was referred to a gynacologist surgeon who did a D&C. I was to go back to him in 4 weeks but he called me in and I was told I had stage 4 endometrial cancer. Straight away had a full hysterectomy with everything taken away; ovaries, fallopian tubes, cervix. Then chemo and radiotherapy. Treatment finished December 2022 and have a blood test and check up every 4 months for the first 2 years with an annual scan, then after October it will go to every 6 months. It was a huge shock for me and hubby Steve. Take all the love and support you can as you will need it. Be strong through the ups and the downs ( you will have them) but you can beat this. Sending love
Aww Mandy I’m so so sorry, but as someone said this is the hardest part once you get a treatment plan and get your head right, you are such a strong woman. Sending love and strength x
So sorry to hear the gut wrenching news, you must be so worried. I hope the rest of the journey goes smoothly and the tests get done promptly, letting you know where you are at and exactly what you are dealing with in terms of surgery and further treatment. Love and hugs to you both xx
Watching you 2 talking about this was wanderfull. But watching you both holding hand and washing fingers means you both love each other
Best Regards Martin
My thoughts and prayers 🙏 ❤are with you Mandy and John ! God bless ❤️ 🙌 🙏 💖
I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I'm a born worrier just like you, Mandy, and I know my mind would be causing me so much turmoil. Please know that all of us who care for you both are with you both in this, and if collective well wishes count for anything, you WILL get through this. Stay strong, stay positive, and keep the faith . Safe journey home, and you'll be in my prayers 🙏 ❤️.
Fingers crossed all goes well for you Mandy
You've got this Mandy. One of the strongest women I've ever known. Your a fighter and you have an amazing man next to you. We are lucky to have an amazing NHS who will look after you both. Take care and I send you big hugs.xx
I am a sorry to hear this news. Mandy you’re a strong woman and if it can be beaten, you’ll beat it! All my sincerest best wishes.
Mandy can I thank you for sharing your ‘niggles’ you have been having, the hip pain, the headaches because I have had the same. I had one of my ovaries removed due to polyps a few years ago, the other (which is on the side I get the hip pain) they didn’t remove. I have tonight after watching the video sent an e-consult to my gp. Again thank you, and I am sure you will beat this beast!! Your an amazing woman and have followed you and John for years quietly 😂 I only tend to comment on crafting channels and I also follow Camper Vides who I am glad where there to support you! You was meant to be there! Us Mancs are made of strong stuff! Sending much love and hugs ❤❤
The anger is understandable, I wasn’t angry at anyone in particular, just angry that it had happened. I still remember the numbness, the time standing still, having to stop working until after treatment. In that area I was lucky, it was caught early, so surgery was all that was required and they got it all with the first operation. Even after the treatment, you will need just as much support, because you no longer have the distraction of planning things around consultations and scans. You have a lot of time with just you and your thoughts. Its been over 2 years since my diagnosis and every once in a while, I find myself back in that moment when I was told. But I have done so much since then also. So when you get through it all, don’t feel too bad when you have to just let time stand still for a day or two to recharge. I have faith you will get through this. ❤
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Sorry to hear this crappy news. Mandy you’re a tough cookie and have no doubt you will beat this. Sending hugs from Wales 🏴
as a cancer survivor I'm sending you both all my best wishes and hope for the future. Its a daunting time but the doctors and everyone involved are so wonderfull and the recovery rate is very high so fingers crossed for a positive outcome. The anger is all part of the process and you will work through it. take care and try to stay positive 😁
I was 17 when my father was diagnosed with cancer. Keep your family and friends around you and focus on yourselves. UA-cam will always be here and so will your followers. Anger is a natural part of the process. Sending healing thoughts and strength to you both. -Amber
Dear John and Mandy. I’m so sorry to hear what you are going through and want to wish you all the best with your next steps. My 79yr old mother has chemo last year and the care and attention she was given at Blackpool Vic was incredible. Things have come on a long way in recent years and here’s hoping we will all be watching you both enjoy new travels and adventures before too long. Look after each other x
Oh dear lots of love from both of is . ❤
💞 my thoughts are winging through the ether to you both that the tests, care and treatment go smoothly and bring hope for healing. Take care on the road. Take care of selves... Peace. 💕🌹💞
Sending you both love and sympathies at this difficult time.
There is power in prayer so I will be going that 💜 keep your chin up as much as you can, the mind is a powerful tool 💜
Thinking about you Mandy and sending love to you. With John by your side giving you love and support I'm sure you will kick cancer's ass ❤️🥰
So sorry Mandy. I'm sending you and John all our best wishes. God bless you and I'm praying 🙏. Keep positive Mandy ❤
Warriors never surrender and neither will YOU two. WE thank YOU for sharing as YOU do and WE wish YOU the very best in these days to come. Nothing can stop hope and love. Thank you.
so hard to watch this guys without being emotional, so can only begin to imagine how your both feeling, you have lots of amazing friends and family so lean on them when you need it, praying for you both , keep each other safe. love to you both. x
This popped up on my feed,used to have a motorhome from 2005 to 2015 22 countries and I loved it.
So sad about your news ,my husband had his ♋️ cut out ,then my dad died from cancer .I done a 220 mile charity hike for the hospice . After watching this video I hope with all my heart ❤every thing goes 👍 with you,after watching couple your videos you are such a lovely down to earth couple. Debs xx 🤗
So sorry to hear this news , i have faith that Mandy will kick cancer ass!!!!
So sorry to hear your news, really hope the outcome will be good .
God Bless
So sorry to hear this news. My husband and I have been following your adventures. We just wanted to wish you all the very best as you get home and find out what is going in. We hope you will make a full recovery and can carry on travelling. Take care and look after yourselves.
Dearest John and Mandy…. So sorry to hear this news. Please be positive my wife has been through the horrible Cancer and is still with us after 2 stressful years. There’s always hope. Thoughts and prayers with you both at this difficult time. 🙏 🙏
Mandy, bless your heart my darling. You've got this!!! You have John and a lovely family and thousands of friends to support you through this awful time. Stay strong my friend, we love you xxxx
Oh my gosh Mandy I can only imagine what you are going through You and John and family. Here's hoping they can nip it in the bud. Thinking of you. Sending huge hugs xx
Just remember you are strong, you will get through this, and I'm sure all your subscribers are sending you all the love and hope needed. All the best x
You are both in my thoughts and prayers, one day at a time. Sending you all my love
This too shall pass and stay strong! Praying for your speedy recovery🙏
Sending hugs and positive thoughts, lots of love Allison and Chris x
I'm am so sorry to hear this but as you said staying positive and my thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery you got this and we all send our best for you xx ❤❤
Oh Mandy and John, so sorry you're going through this. You've got this bird and you've got John with you all the way. Lots of love xxx
So sorry to hear, thoughts, prayers and best wishes to you both🤗
I’m sending you both all the love that my heart can muster, I’m so sorry you are going through such a difficult horrible situation please know although I am a stranger to you I truly send you my love and strength and know my thoughts are with you.
I’m so sorry Mandy
Love from Amanda xx
Every stage of what I have just watched takes me back to just under 2 years ago, when we were six months away from quitting our jobs and doing van life/ moving to portugal to suddenly get the shell shock news that my partner had cancer. I didn't even go to the bloody appointment with him because the specialist who suggested he get his 'lump' checked out said 1 in 20 is cancer so we were totally expecting no issues. He was in total shock when he walked in to what he thought would be a straightforward appointment to discuss getting this benign lump removed to find a macmillan nurse there. Blindsided. So, I totally understand where both your heads are right now. All I can say is it gets a little easier once you have more information - waiting for that information is torture. Wishing you all the best you will get through this with the love of your family and friends. We are out the other side and now sat in portugal :):) xx
Much love and best wishes for your diagnosis. Your a strong couple you’ll get through this together xxx
Sending Mandy all our best wishes and hope the treatment is successful. Hugs to John too of course, sharing this journey and supporting Mandy. Look after yourself too John.
Oh Mandy I am so sorry. Be brave. Sending very best wishes.
My heartfelt support to you both. I'm a three cancer diagnosis survivor so medicine today is wonderful. You will get through this with love and support of each other, family and friends.
Dear John and Mandy our thoughts are with you the shock of cancer is a big thing to deal with we both know u will get through this keep strong when I heard it upset me as I feel I have got to know you do my heart goes out to you all the best xxlove from us both
Sending lots of good wishes to you both and especially to Mandy. xx
Such devastating news for you Mandy. Look after Mandy John. Best wishes for a positive outcome.
O no words cannot express 😢sending hugs to you and also John ❤xx
I had cancer stage 3 plus.. 15 yrs later . Zapped n allsorts.. im still breathing. Mind over matter hun.. sending healing vibes . ❤
Mandy I wish you strength. It is a rollercoaster your on. The mechanics of it all is one part the psychology is not to be under estimated.
Don’t apologise for not reporting out to all your followers it is your live. !!
John having followed you both stay close, continue to express yourself. Having experienced something similar in our own family don’t google every situation is different and care is improving every day. With you in our thoughts, all the best. ❤
you'll be good Mandy...sending love to ya both...keep looking at the positives, despite what people say - WE HAVE AN AMAZING HEALTH SYSTEM and people get thru every day ...xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx i had cervical cancer 30yrs ago, removed and all good xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Thoughts and prayers and you are not alone. Treatment is ,as John says, so much more advanced. Xxxx
Don’t worry about anyone but yourself put yourself first and take care I am helping me friend at the moment she is having her 4th chemo on Thursday it’s about 8 hours every 3 weeks just take all the time you need and you have John and your family best wishes xx
What a difficult video this must have been for you to film and kudos to you both for sharing this unwanted journey as it will help others. I hope that you’ll soon find out the full diagnosis so you can move forward with your recovery, at the minute you’re stuck in limbo which is a frightening place to be. Take care.
Your both so brave & courageous beautiful souls for sharing this news...my heart is with you...stay close to each other & hug often...go kick this things ass...🌟💪🤞💞🧚♀️
Numb is an excellent description of how you feel when given the news. We were in Germany when phoned. Try to take one day at a time, stay as positive as you can, and try not to worry about what might or might not happen. I know easier said than done but it was the way we got through it. Also we found some people are better than others at dealing with it but it doesn’t mean they don’t care. Take care lots of hugs. xx