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EPISODE 28 | AGENDAS AND DIFFERENT INSIGHTS
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In Episode 28 of the "Behind Like Likes" podcast, hosts Winter and Chy discuss the complexities of mainstream media and the everyday aspects of life, providing insights and catching up with each other.
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The little voice winter puts on when she mocks something is hilarious it deserves a montage 😂😂😂😂
Chy, baby, please practice not saying, “I don’t Know” after you voice your opinion. You do know. You are beautiful and you are smart. Don’t be afraid to own what you say, and don’t feel like you have to apologize for your opinion. When you say that, it invalidates your feelings. People online are going to do that, don’t do it to yourself. I love y’all 🥳❤️❤️❤️
I agree!
I love that Winter and Chy don't always have the same opinion on everything. I find myself agreeing with Chy a lot of the time and it's refreshing to hear two people say what they truly feel and not be scared of what others will think. Keep being true to yourselves and speaking your mind! My favorite podcast right now ❤️
Watching while trying to induce my labor🤭 I will neva miss the big sistas weekly talk
Aww congrats! Wishing you a safe delivery!
@@jaegonzales9137 thank you🫶🏼 they always coming w good vibes they better help me laugh this baby out🤣
Congratulations, ma! Im wishing you a safe delivery! 💙💗
Love thisssss 🥰🥰 praying for a healthy baby 🤞🏻
Safe delivery 🎉
Winter is so intelligent and insightful when it comes to certain topics. I appreciated her take on the gay subject lol
I did too, I been following Winter for a long time for this reason. I love chy as well even if I don’t agree w her!
Chys skin is EVERYTHING 😩😍
She is BEAUTIFUL!!
Seriously glowing!😊
Winter spoke facts on the Black LGBTQ community & hyper masculinity!! Appreciate you being educated and educating others!
Chy & Winter are both very observant ppl && I love that they as friends they can agree to disagree on topics/views and they don’t try and force views on one another .. ❤
As a long time member of the Roach Family I speak for all of us when I say we NEED more than forty minutes y’all 😂😂😂. I love watching yall this episode had me crying
I agree with Winter on the gay subject. I’ve seen plenty of shows and movies with gay white people.
We love the open and free flowing conversation from both you guys! Don’t ever feel like you should refrain from having a voice Chy , it comes with the territory and also people who know your heart will know it’s full of love. Keep being authentically yourselves , I will always keep tuning in to ‘Behind the Likes’ ❤
Thank you 🤍
Yes! I was just about to comment this and I’m glad Winter reaffirmed her. Like girl give your opinion! ❤
@@ChyFontenetteyou have a beautiful heart!!!
Wintrr is so smart. 💯
yes indeed
There has always been a stigma that black men can't be gay, especially if they're masculine. If you notice the media shining a light on gay masculine black men, it's because they exist and deserve the representation. I love you Chy, so this isn't shade. But I feel like you're just projecting since you made it clear that you're not attracted to feminine or queer men. Gay black masculine characters are not being pushed, and not every man wants to be feminine.
I understand that… and u know what I was thinking after the episode was that maybe I notice it more bc like u said I’m not really attracted to feminine male energy. Idk. I didn’t mean shade either when saying it. Thank u for still loving me 😩
@@ChyFontenettelol your good it’s ok to have opinions I don’t think anyone one took it personally. It makes good content and good conversation
@@ChyFontenetteI love this reply from you! Always will support you chy!
@@ChyFontenette I Believe Your 100% Right . There is an agenda to make black men weaker or humiliate there masculinity. Aka what Katt Williams came out about .
As a gay man, I do think in most shows, tokenism is a problem. Now, they try to shove all the things into one character its not about pushing an agenda. I do think they should show a diverse range of characters, especially if the show takes place in a diverse country like the us.
I completely agree. There 100% should be more inclusivity and representation with the LGBTQ+ community, but you can tell that these writers are just being lazy and throwing these characters in just to say they did. It feels fake
Chy I can understand what you’re trying to say about the whole “narrative to emasculate black men” however you really don’t know how to strongly support your argument. Winter is giving you valid examples, reasons, and points and you have no response… It comes off like you have a deeper issue with Black Men being gay than you’re saying and that’s okay but say it with your CHEST. I personally don’t understand why it’s such a big deal when there is STILL a large representation of Black people in general that’s vastly coming to the forefront, and the fact that historically Black Men despise/hate gay men, it sends people into an uproar but sugarcoating it with “they’re trying to spin this narrative.” ITS REPRESENTATION. being a black gay man myself, I can say companies are doing too much to show how “woke” they are, but at the same time watching people’s ugly reactions to it supports the point of why it’s needed. Period.
Chy, I love watching you give your thoughts every week and I’m so grateful your friendship with Winter has brought you on my radar. Following your insta and seeing your personality on the pod I KNOW that you always mean well. With that being said lol… as a black gay man from a rural-ish area growing up I haven’t had many places to look to for representation honestly. Not in real life at all and most of the movies, shows, and media that was shown of gay people had them being white. And even in those stories, most of them didn’t even have a happy ending (Milk) or they died (Brokeback Mountain) or were side characters (Mean Girls)… Not seeing yourself in media is sooo damaging. And like Winter said, it can lead black men to feeling like they can’t come out and like being down low is their only option. And I feel like that closeted mindset just sets us back as a (black) community. There have ALWAYS been gay black people. It’s one thing to know it in a *sense* and to theorize how many of them can be in sports or what have you but it’s another thing to see it. I personally think it’s a good thing for it to be normalized… it gives the younger folk a shot to see people like them or even not like them and it not outcast anyone, but include. People gon’ be gay regardless. The media can *push* the agenda about masculine/feminine/gay/straight/trans people all they want but that doesn’t change anything about who people are inside. I’ve seen almost nothing but straight relationships in real life and in media and I STILL turned out gay as hell lmao. I say all this with the utmost love and respect.. just wanted to give you some thoughts from someone who is gay AND black and has had a hard time finding where I belong in the world and wish that some of the stories about gay black men would have been around 10-15 years ago when I needed to see me in someone on screen.
I in NO way am trying to be disrespectful or get you to stop having your opinion Chy. You’re entitled to feel however you’d like. We appreciate you speaking your truth and speaking up for the black man✊🏽 much love
I hear & understand you. Thank you for sharing your prospective 💕💕
This!!
@@ChyFontenettegirl just be real. You don’t like gay people and it is very evident. You say homophobic stuff all the time but this episode was a mess.
@@KennedyAlexis-lo8hy I would hope that’s not true cause she’s ignorant asf if that’s the case 💯
I’ll never get tired hearing yall!!! ❤
Winter being knowing shit!!! I'm so proud of her knowledge and insight on LGBT matters.
We grew up seeing nothing but hetero stuff and do you see the gays complaining? I don’t see Chy complaining about all the lesbian stuff being pushed on our society. I’m glad she showed her true colors. For the first time I actually agree with Winter! Thank you Win. I hope I can continue watching this podcast bc Chy just blew me. She must have forgot yall have gay listeners smh
Literally.
Why tf would y’all be complaining about heterosexual shit being ‘pushed’ baby… that is how you got into this world say thank to your heterosexual parents you freak. That is the norm hun
The way Chy described the rolling over the feet sound sent me out of orbit. I rewound like 4 times
Chyyyy! Out here speaking facts
chy i understand what you’re saying completely.. i would say tho it’s not just black people that movie industries push different sexualities. i would say ever since the summer of 2020 every movie, show, commercial, pushes & opens the ideas of different sexualities & we aren’t always used to that because that’s not what we would watch on tv growing up. i think 2020 opened peoples eyes & personally i think scared a lot of things in the industry because they would have to include everyone from every background. i love you guy & yall should definitely talk about topics that shake the room. stay blessed !!
Winter… if you don’t want kids you take precautions. If you don’t, like Chy said, YOURE TRYING TO GET PREGNANT.
*willing (not trying)..
if it happens it happens...
@@AZilla520 I said what I said. Every human being who's taken a health class, knows all it takes is ONE time so you're really rolling the dice.
"Trying" to get pregnant is tracking ovulation and having sex unprotected during ovulation etc. Not taking precautions isn't trying to get pregnant it's just not preventing it either. So if it happens it happens if it doesn't it doesn't...ppl who are trying don't have that mind set because they are actively TRYING
@@britthall75If you don’t take precautions while having unprotected sex there’s a high risk to get pregnant. It’s reckless to do in a brand new relationship. She’s stated that she’s had abortions before… which I have no problem with. However it’s not a natural form of contraceptive and may lead to low probabilities of actually getting pregnant when she’s actually ready too. Winter verbatim said “I’m not trying.”
For example, if girl doesn’t want a STD but constantly having unprotected sex with randoms, you are inadvertently asking for it. No she wasn’t trying to get an STD but when you have unprotected sex there is a certain responsibility you have to have. That’s all i’m saying. I’m just trying to look out for the girl. 🤷🏽♂️
You tasted it?
Noo..
Oh, me either...
Chy is hilarious😂😂
I binge listened to 26 episodes over the weekend. Y'all are awesome!
no hate, i like chy but she kinda gives off slight homophobic vibes, sometimes maybe without even realizing it. but I appreciate winters take on it coming from a black man apart of the lgbtq community
Chey is legit so funny without trying bahahaha like girl please don’t try your discharge 😂😂😂😂😂
Not chy repeating the trainer story, never gets old though!! 😂😂😂 love it
I was just about to say didn’t she tell us this store last week?! 😂 ngl I be doing that toooo Lolol
Was it on the podcast or on winters live?
yea it was winters live hahaha i thought the same.
I was about to say, I’ve heard the story a couple days ago😂😂
There’s gay people in the world!! Hello? Black gay men at that. We deserve to be represented as well. What’s wrong with that? I agree with winter at 33:00
Really appreciated Wintrr take on the gay subject, & it is true gay representation for blacks hasn’t been covered enough vs others & not just in the stereotypical fashion everyone knows of gay black men
You guys are killing it!!! with the behind the likes i'm obsessed lowkey i wish it was longer. The work with the editing say less. I'm so excited for the merch! have a great day!
Times are different unfortunately , tiktok changed the game more than we’ve ever seen. It’s a bigger demon than even what the BBL era was on IG to us older gen z 😂 at least in middle school we still had justice, and Bethany Mota vids. I don’t see it regressing either , it’ll just turn deeper into a black mirror episode 😅
Winter and Chy are not only beautiful but the way they talk about topics are real and very entertaining. Wishing yall continued success and God bless both yall beautiful selves❤
Chy you and Winter always having me crack up, ya really a vibe. And when I found out you was an Aquarius I was like that’s why I like her ! Btw my birthday the day before yours ♒️
First time I didn't really have fun with the podcast. I was getting a little iffy about that topic it was kinda rubbing me the wrong way... thankful for you winter for always looking out for the lgbt community 😭😓
"so you did have gum" 😂😂😂😂😂
Wintr is so well spoken on this topic and it’s so appreciated ❤
has chy never read winters book?😂 because she doesn’t know a lot of the stories that winter has talked about in her book
She said she has
kudos to you Wintrr for really giving good insight into the the whole hypermasculinity black male narrative and speaking from a more educating place . i like co host but she has strong opinions with a homophobic undertone . (she’s entitled to that) but you’re insight overshadowed her ignorance ! kudos to you again girl !
Honestly there is an agenda to put gay something in everything. It’s literally in every show or movie. And sometimes them being gay is not even apart of the storyline that matters.
They put people being straight in every movie & every show. So what’s your point
@@Siouxnami my point is it’s not a story in a show that happens to have a Character that is gay or trans. It’s that they write every single storyline to be centered around a character’s “gayness”. And the rest of the plot comes second.
@@chellebelle210 what about rom coms? The story itself has to do with two characters falling in love. Thats the plot in movies. Thats straight. The plot is a straight couple being straight and falling in love. So whats he difference?? Is homosexual love somehow less complex of a plot than that?
It’s to push an agenda honestly. I’m Chy on this one.
@@leahdestiny9247 it’s to show representation. y’all only say this when it comes to this topic but at the same time want Black Representation but only how yall want to see it shown. It’s really showing the mindsets yall still have and yall don’t even realize it.
Chy: I’m doing dry January
Winter: Well, we did just drink the other day
Dead 💀
It doesn’t count, Chy. Start over 🤣
I just love me some Winter (love u too Chy) her mannerisms, humor, honesty are literally top teir. Cant wait for the merch to drop!❤
I love when chy says ‘me neither’ when she obviously did something 😂😂 me neither chy
Y’all are real as hell and that’s so hard to find these days!! Truly unapologetically yourselves. Love ittttt
I think Chy is a little off w/ this masculinity topic. Sexuality has nothing to do with being masculine or emasculating. I think there is a lot more straight representation than gay w/ any race. Just my opinion 😩🤍
I will never miss an episode . Lol
Winter is officially my celeb crush 😩🔥
Winter!!! I appreciate her perspective on the LGBTQ+ topic because she is absolutely right! There isn’t much representation for Black queer people. No offense to Chy but representation shouldn’t be an agenda The Color Purple was not pushing an agenda Cellie and Shug’s relationship was in the book.
Oh my God lmao winter! That response to fresh and fit is hilarious 😂😂😂 he cried into his pillow that night
Chy is glowing! Like a weight has been lifted off of her shoulders!
Screaming at 11:20! 💀💀
"You know statistic's say.......oh, whatever, I don't really know the statistic's"
Girl! 😂😂
I love Chy 😭😭😭 “you tasted it?” no 😐 “oh me neither “ 😭😭😭😭
Chy & Winter’s voices match them SO well lol
winter i love what you’re saying around 30:00 🥰 THANK YOU
I lovedddd this episode 😍🥰❤️ i really enjoy when u guys discuss controversial topics and debate about your opinions. Now I’m happy. 😊
Give it ten years, the media landscape and conversation will shift. Just look at how much has changed since 2013… can’t imagine what 2032 bring ! 💀💀(if we make it that far hhaa)
winters comebacks are CRAZY i love it😭😭😭 teach me ur ways
(I say this with love) Chy should reflect on her internal homophobia. The narrative is called inclusion and we need more of it actually. Let's normalize it. Ask yourself why it makes you feel so uncomfortable?
This! She can’t even hide it. She says a lot of stuff that’s homophobic af and I let it slide but she did too much this episode. Clearly her ex cheated on her with a man bc she seems hurt.
I need you to ask yourself why does everyone have to be comfortable with it? What we’re not gonna do is pretend like this is the norm. Most people are not gay. It’s unfair for you to expect everyone to be accepting and comfortable with something they are not used to.
Chy don’t worry, a lot of people agree with you, a lot of people think the same but don’t say anything, I understand what you were trying to convey some people may misunderstand but the ones that get it get it.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I feel like she beats around the bush too much like she obviously doesn’t think being gay is a good thing but is scared to say it out of fear of being cancelled
Facts
@@timi1486this!
Chy and Winter were made for each other! I will always support y’all❤️
Yes time for my favorite podcast!!
Leaving a negative review while sitting down is so me🤣🤣🤣
I’m gonna have to disagree with you chy, I think winter is right by this being a positive thing, maybe by your experience, the things that you watched tend to have more gay black men but I do think that this is a positive thing I feel like we have enough representation of very masculine, black men and no one has ever said anything about that. I really do think the black community even with my own and the Hispanic community really struggle with hyper masculinity in a negative way. I think this is something that other ethnicities need to do as well, but I think it’s a really good thing for the black community, and I hope it inspires other men to be comfortable, regardless of how they choose to live their life and it opens up masculine men to the idea that it’s okay to be gay or feminine.
Its so funny when y'all randomly start singing 😂
Please don’t stop i literally watch every week. We’re besties now.!!
Thanks for posting, ive been binge watching old episodes alll day!
Winterrrrr can you make a video about confidence and how to not let others take advantage of you and be a boss.Or like girl tips and how to be the best version of yourselff!!!❤❤
“And then Chy threw up ☺️ hehehe”
I love y’all! Cant wait to see the episode of cocktails with Heather!
i like the mics on the outside of yall versus between yall. i’m surprised it took too long to switch it up. but regardless obsessed with this podcast and i look forward to it each wednesday!!!!! ❤❤❤
I didn’t think I was into podcast, but I’m always throughly entertained by you both 😂. I like to think you guys are me if I got out of the house and socialized more. Just vibing, being goofy, and talking shit with your close friend(s).
Me if I didn’t smoke weed every day and had a friend 😂 I feel this! lol be living vicariously through them 🥰 & yesterday I watched their mukbang while I ate lmfaoo family dinner!
“So that wasn’t Spirit?” 😂😂🤣
Name a funnier duo!! How did y’all go from Stephen Hawkins to Rolling Ray I was screaming 😂
I can’t imagine chy fighting someone 🤣
Period wintrr!! U ate that woke sh*t!!! 100% right all facts
Facts
If seeing a big masculine black man be gay bothers you… that seems like something you need to think on. There are plenty of movies and shows with strong successful black men. But for some reason the gay ones stand out to you. You do realize there are a lot of big manly black men that are gay right?
I love this pod! Hope we get more and more episodes in 2024!
Winter! Can you speak on Keith Lee leaving the Bay Area early on his food tour? A lot of people are mad about him saying it’s not a place for tourists.. (he was also given shellfish from a Bay Area restaurant meanwhile hes allergic) your thoughts??
!!!!!
I cannot with winter haahhahahahahah "ok kung fu panda, get em!" and chy is fckn hilarious too 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀
I cant believe chy was showing us her fighting skills 😂😂😂😂 and i agree my niece is 11 and has all these skin care stuff .
I am so happy Wintrr made it clear to Chy that there needs to be more representation for African American gay actors/actresses on television. I believe Chy might just have a problem with seeing Gay black men, and she's uncomfortable with it, and I think this is sometimes where the animosity come from with black gay men towards some black women, its like there's just blatant ignorance wrapped in internal judgement that's not being owned. I also find it funny when a double minority group (African American & Gay) is finally making moves, and being represented and finally getting the recognition they deserve, its suddenly "Pushed onto the public" that's truly a copout, especially when there are so many tv shows and movies representing gay asians, gay Caucasians, etc. But its always when its finally time to normalise Black gay men on television its always a problem. That's why so many females walk around with DL men. Chy claiming she doesn't have a problem with it, then reiterating in many different ways that it actually does bother her while trying to sound politically correct was very telling. Girl that's why you stuttering trying to find the right words to say, because your not even comfortable with your own opinion on black gay men on television enough to just spit it out, and I wonder why. Like girl your trying to say the black gay man narrative is being pushed on the audience just because you see an influx of it on television when In reality it just means you haven't watched enough movies or tv shows with white gay men, especially when there are SO MANY. I am so happy Winter said all the things she said, cause it just seemed like Chy have/had deep rooted problems with seeing black gay men on tv. Don't be THAT person that's trying to sound non-judgmental but the more you speak its nothing but judgment. Girl just hope your man not DL.
Lmfaooo bro y’all crack me up. “Clear jelly … look at this !”
bro, the me, neither gets me every time 😂😂
we love your energy + sisterhood
Girl my niece wears makeup and this creams and serum. I wish she would just be a little girl. But I get where yall are coming from. Thought I was the only one who thought like that.
That’s baby making jelly discharge lol😂
Can someone explain to me why they say to go behind the likes podcast is that not on UA-cam and only a podcast or no
I love that jingle you had for chy! "Let's get into the advice with my friend ch y y y " ❤😂
I see what you are saying chy there is a narrative to emasculate men and specifically black men. I’m glad that you talked about that.
Randomly going mile for mile is hilarious 😭 they said fck going band for band.
Not me just digging into my sushi right when y'all started talking about discharge 😂😂😂😭 yum
“My child gonna be wearing shaq shoes” is fucking hilarioussss because facts!! 😂😂😂
I love it here
36:51 chy had some major and great points about masculinity being lost
Yall really be entertaining me while I cook and eat 🫶🏼 luv that
this ep feels like a fever dream🤣🤣🤣
Watching this while I get ready for haircut I love yall
Pinterest is always helpful with exploring new ideas/ aesthetics!
Chy comes off as really close minded. Especially when it comes to gay stuff.
It’s so ironic because hearing her talk sometimes, you wouldn’t think she would be so close minded.
Just because she doesn’t share the same or similar opinion as you doesn’t mean she’s close minded. Actually means… you are. LOL
I’m glad someone said this!! She definitely has homophobia in her. It shows every time they’re talking about gay/bi men
Yeah sounds like Chy is only comfortable with the idea of feminine gay men. Gay men exist is all ways, shapes, and forms… masculine as well. Don’t put them in a box
Chey “ratatata” 😂
@8:37 “Ok kung fu panda” lmaoo