7 Reasons Why SILENCE Is The Best Revenge For Narcissists

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    • @johnjennings9693
      @johnjennings9693 11 місяців тому

      Absolutely,

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  • @JackNance22
    @JackNance22 11 місяців тому +88

    100% truth. I'm grateful that the way to destroy narcissists is to simply ignore them, it doesn't get much easier than that.

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher 11 місяців тому +15

    The message the narc MUST hear loud and clear: "YOU are DEAD to ME."

  • @Marykatetalks789
    @Marykatetalks789 11 місяців тому +17

    They had zero problem abandoning me and abusing to their liking for 9years that I allowed! Now I’ve been silent for 10 years

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 11 місяців тому +23

    Silence is golden and it shows you are a wise person when you do that and the narcissists seek for attention and when we don’t give them any attention they get madder it’s our revenge towards them 💯💯

  • @GodspeedProductionsStopMotions
    @GodspeedProductionsStopMotions 11 місяців тому +16

    I'd also argue the best way to get a narc is to act friendly to them but then not show any anger/be indifferent to their mind games. Sometimes they get off on you hating them and then they will try to win over your friends/girlfriend/family in front of you just to make you mad. Why would you care what they do. They give 99% but your reaction is that final 1% to complete their goal of getting power over you, usually in the form of emotional control. It may seem like they have all the control but in reality, the fact that you have the final say gives you ALL the control. They think they have a slam dunk, you act indifferent, they are left confused disappointed and frustrated.

    • @robertogiovanelli1709
      @robertogiovanelli1709 11 місяців тому +1

      Truth. 👍👌

    • @msliberated3899
      @msliberated3899 10 місяців тому +4

      They get off on anything, and no one is hating them at all we just don’t want them around our prescience, space and etc. It’s useless to even consider or entertain them, because as soon as your energy is friendly around them then you will receive bad transferred energy by proxy. Run run run oh and by the way they can like that we’re “hating” in them, WE DONT CARE WHAT THEY THINK PERIODT! If I’m hater then I’m a hater, if I’m jealous then I’m jealous because to a narcissist they already made up I’m their bird brains that we are hatin, jealous, competitive, and every evil emotional feeling they have in their head whether your being friendly or not. Just move forward in life, don’t learn the hard way like me, and also who cares if they see your success or not just DONT CARE! ❤ Blessings

  • @lorraine4755
    @lorraine4755 11 місяців тому +13

    You are right silence is best, ignore the self-righteous, self-serving monsters.

  • @Unlockingparadoxes
    @Unlockingparadoxes 11 місяців тому +11

    Silence is golden

  • @vtjmproductionsusa2390
    @vtjmproductionsusa2390 11 місяців тому +20

    Silence to a narcissist is like taking the batteries out of the everready Bunny 🐰 Great video and Great content 👍

    • @RainbowBright33
      @RainbowBright33 11 місяців тому +5

      You can literally see it too. They ACTUALLY power down

    • @ChroniclesofAJ
      @ChroniclesofAJ 11 місяців тому +2

      yessss good way to put it

  • @cartierjener5472
    @cartierjener5472 11 місяців тому +17

    There's one thing I know about narcissism. It's not a subject you can talk about unless you have been a victim of a narcissist. Depending on the level of the narcissism will depend on the level of the pain your in as the victim. Being connected to a narcissist normally comes with betrayal , the betrayal is always next level, it can come in the form of a betrayal of trust or betrayal of infidelity. Either one whatever the betrayal it is of the worst kind. It's something that takes a long time to get over it creates self-doubt within yourself and destroys your self confidence. However if you want to look on the good side being with a narcissist has its great side. When it's great it's absolutely fantastic, in a relationship a narcissist will make you feel like the king or queen. Well that's when they're mask is on of course. Once All is Said and done and you can look back on it. You will be able to see the red flags that you missed, because you didn't want to leave the narcissist that made you feel so good. You will Finally realise that it takes two to tango and that the narcissist did not force you to stay in the relationship it was completely your choice to bend over backwards for the narcissist. Over time you'll look back and you'll be so glad your no longer with the narcissist and have a new life and for the first time, you know, that you will never, ever allow anyone to ever treat you like that ever ever again. And you'll know when you're over it, because you won't think about it anymore, you won't talk about it. If anything you'll just feel very sorry for that narcissist and hope that one day that they will find peace within themselves, hopefully they will find Jesus and be saved before they end up in the pit.❤ By the Jesus loves you he is coming soon Get Rapture Ready❤

  • @jacquelinepianto5087
    @jacquelinepianto5087 10 місяців тому +3

    Once you see their true nature, you RUN!!!!!!

  • @Unlockingparadoxes
    @Unlockingparadoxes 11 місяців тому +14

    Be the best version of yourself that you can be and focus on and pursue your dreams peacefully and respectfully.

  • @Bxl19
    @Bxl19 11 місяців тому +21

    Silence is my favorite thing in the world once you give people your silence it will make them go crazy ladies and gentlemen give them your silence and watch how Berserk they will go

  • @michellesamantha6282
    @michellesamantha6282 11 місяців тому +14

    You are so helpful! You are appreciated ❤

  • @ljrockstar69
    @ljrockstar69 10 місяців тому +3

    Totally agree, stand up be firm and go no contact! These are sick, damaged individuals. Don't let them control you, move on , go no contact, block, block, and more block. This is how you win over the narcissist, keep busy, go on a trip, set new goal....don't let these narcissist take occupancy in your life!!

  • @Unlockingparadoxes
    @Unlockingparadoxes 11 місяців тому +7

    Believe in yourselves and each other and never give up on your dreams and aspirations and remember to be kind and uplifting to each other and open minded and genuine and respectful and humble. 💯❤️

  • @DestructiveBagel
    @DestructiveBagel 11 місяців тому +17

    Another fantastic piece you've brought to us, Joel. I legitimately had one of the narcissists refer to as "scary" at a job a couple years back. And notice how passive aggressive they act too. "We really like you but people think you're scary." Oh, I'm sorry, is it because I don't put up with people's BS and their stupidity? That's okay. I'd rather be considered a force to be reckoned with than a cowardly wimp who exists solely to please others; an ass-kisser, if you will. Will NEVER be that way! But I always try to treat those who align with my values and respect with the upmost kindness. Thank once again for your words of wisdom, Joel!

  • @amata620
    @amata620 11 місяців тому +9

    KEYWORDS: Dignity, Values, and Boundaries.. 🙌

  • @au7-721
    @au7-721 11 місяців тому +10

    Laughing at them and making fun of them also sends them off the deep end.

    • @QwertyS3
      @QwertyS3 11 місяців тому +2

      Actually no it doesn't, that may come back to haunt you if you do that if they record you or they tell everyone in your life that you're the crazy one

    • @MeatSuit-1926
      @MeatSuit-1926 2 місяці тому

      And also leads them to rage out and go wild!,☺️😂🧓🦁🙏👍

  • @fightingwarrior5893
    @fightingwarrior5893 10 місяців тому +2

    Shows them they can no longer try to control you. Manipulate you etc one day they’ll realize who and what they lost.

  • @marymotherofgod4861
    @marymotherofgod4861 11 місяців тому +2

    Move in silence peace is priceless

  • @dougholimon
    @dougholimon 11 місяців тому +7

    Loving the white board investment. 👌. ✌️ bro

  • @FellDestroyedMusic
    @FellDestroyedMusic 11 місяців тому +5

    THE RETURN OF THE WHITEBOARD
    yes!

  • @robiness5344
    @robiness5344 11 місяців тому +2

    When you block them but still leave you voicemails daily 🙄…zero boundaries

  • @ZE308AC
    @ZE308AC 11 місяців тому +5

    Give them the silent treatment and drive then crazy

  • @lightshinethindarkness
    @lightshinethindarkness 11 місяців тому +15

    Narcissistic demon spirit love control and power and manipulation

    • @wandasanders4924
      @wandasanders4924 11 місяців тому +4

      You are absolutely right, love controlling others. That DEMON CANT CONTROL ME.

  • @g.marion5888
    @g.marion5888 11 місяців тому +12

    Awesome post, Joel, thanks for pushing through the technical difficulties.

  • @brundamian5338
    @brundamian5338 11 місяців тому +7

    Majority of modern women have those characteristics…

  • @Unlockingparadoxes
    @Unlockingparadoxes 11 місяців тому +12

    Thank you for taking your time and energy to speak with us terryjoeljunior. We really appreciate you.

    • @Unlockingparadoxes
      @Unlockingparadoxes 11 місяців тому +4

      Thanks for re recording the video for us terryjoeljunior. Your a real one and a legend.

  • @Reab7RoverT
    @Reab7RoverT 11 місяців тому +4

    Heres is the best way to destroy the narcissist
    1. Wear a rosary around your neck and keep the bible open at psalms 91
    2. Overcome evil with good pray for them, cause they will change and leave you alone.
    3. If you don’t have the holy ghost or believe in him. Read the next step very carefully
    4. If you CONFESS with your (mouth) that “Jesus is lord” and believe in your (heart) that god Raised him from the dead you will be saved.
    5.he heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds.
    6.Christ in the mouth of a friend and stranger, Christ in all the hearts that love me.
    7. Step 6 can be used out in public and inside your home while praying in your bedroom.

    • @ShameTheSluts
      @ShameTheSluts 4 місяці тому

      Jesus is a metaphor for the enlightened man. So all your points make zero sense since you take jesus as a literal human being that existed 2000 years ago.

  • @speedy_rider4759
    @speedy_rider4759 11 місяців тому +7

    Thanks for doing the video a second time to get it right. I do appreciate you taking the time to do it right. Shows how you do things right , but it also shows you care. Thank you.

  • @1ofWesternkind
    @1ofWesternkind 11 місяців тому +4

    I respect you brother. May you be abundantly blessed always. I'm coming up after some narcs nearly took me down for the count. My comeback is going to be immaculate.

  • @theheat9073
    @theheat9073 11 місяців тому +9

    Awesome video Terry 👏🏾. I started practicing silence against the narcissism way more this year and have gotten best results. Only argue and fight back with them if your extremely cornered if not don’t respond or acknowledge them

  • @zippyz4170
    @zippyz4170 11 місяців тому +5

    We are so fucked as a society. We do it to the narcissists and the narcissists do it to us. In the end we all lose.

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 11 місяців тому +1

      That why I tell bro & sis to leave there community if you're trying to find a partner people you grew up with dont have you're best intrest in mind but if these narcs are constantly attack you're life u gotta move

    • @zippyz4170
      @zippyz4170 11 місяців тому +2

      @@kisigma1011 it's not just your community...its the culture of today. treating everyone as if they are a narc...no emotion, no details and only be surface level.

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 11 місяців тому

      @@zippyz4170 you're right about that no doubt once I sense that sign of no communication I know exactly what's going on.

  • @Sheik2791
    @Sheik2791 11 місяців тому +2

    I feel so much better since going no contact, got my energy back, been working on self improvement mentally and physically. I honestly think I'd never answer a hoover now since I learned who I was dealing with 🤢 now I find them repulsive and bottom of the barrel trash lol

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher 11 місяців тому +3

    I LOVE this video. If you have your stuff together and you are ON POINT, there is NO REASON to be dealing with ANYONE'S FOOLISHNESS.

  • @captaintrips6780
    @captaintrips6780 11 місяців тому +4

    This is the type of bloke you want in the trench beside you and this is how you should behave for the man beside you... and there are no atheists in foxholes Amen . And Stonewall I agree

  • @IncovenantwithJesusChrist
    @IncovenantwithJesusChrist 11 місяців тому +2

    "YOU HAVE TO KNOW" , I like the way you think....❤

  • @rapstar4575
    @rapstar4575 11 місяців тому +1

    Silence works 🎉😂❤

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 10 місяців тому +1

    I just am sad that so many people are suffering like I am😢 God bless you guys❤

  • @Polecat-qz5om
    @Polecat-qz5om 10 місяців тому +2

    It’s all gonna come back on them and their innocent children 😢

  • @Unlockingparadoxes
    @Unlockingparadoxes 11 місяців тому +3

    Companionship and genuine relationships with mutual benefits to both parties.

  • @nadinevanderpoorten7416
    @nadinevanderpoorten7416 11 місяців тому +5

    Every time I miss my ex, or think of him, Spirit reminds me of all the things they done to me and says to me: do I need to remind you of all the things they done to you?! Then I say to Spirit: I know.

    • @ShameTheSluts
      @ShameTheSluts 4 місяці тому

      Thats schizophrenia you mental fq

  • @Unlockingparadoxes
    @Unlockingparadoxes 11 місяців тому +2

    I hope that everyone has a great and memorable day today.

  • @lima4u
    @lima4u 11 місяців тому +2

    I needed to See and Hear this Video Working with Women in Construction will bring you down. You Are so Right on all Levels of Subject.

  • @Cadetx99
    @Cadetx99 11 місяців тому +1

    I want people to remember it's never too late to learn about narcissistic people. We will in the age of the internet. Internet narcissism is at an all time high. Treat them how they treated you when they first found out or didn't find out about narcissistic online personalities. These people will come to your home and be nosey. I had to learn this in my late 20s the hard way on how narcissistic people operate. Forgive yourself for acting out and move on.rumination from your past is toxic always try to focus on the present. What can you do about your situation in the present day. A lot of these toxic people won't come with you to your life after a certain age. This goes for work place narcissist, family narcissist, friends, ex's.

  • @jessesantiago8473
    @jessesantiago8473 5 місяців тому

    Spot on with these true narcissist. Never knew of there crazy mentality and I'm currently dealing with one now🤬

  • @LukeHansen-t8h
    @LukeHansen-t8h 20 годин тому

    Another TJJ gem ❤

  • @Sigma_Syndrome
    @Sigma_Syndrome 11 місяців тому +4

    2nd take.. I’m pissed for you. Damn!

  • @katrinabutler1385
    @katrinabutler1385 11 місяців тому +2

    So true 👍🏾💯

  • @Metamorphosis318
    @Metamorphosis318 11 місяців тому +3

    This video made me smile. This is probably my favorite one you've created, and I love your content. Keep telling it like it is. Love the info ❤board too!

  • @msliberated3899
    @msliberated3899 10 місяців тому +1

    Silence is even better than success! In my opinion. Everything, I mean everything you said is correct 💯💯

  • @leonone7377
    @leonone7377 11 місяців тому +2

    Great video..theyre everywhere.

  • @paulinaguzmova44
    @paulinaguzmova44 11 місяців тому +4

    Joel, you are amazing for making these videos for us. Thanks a lot. This video is so valuable and educational. I love it.

  • @MrHDProd
    @MrHDProd 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you sir 🫡

  • @stacyq6350
    @stacyq6350 11 місяців тому +3

    Good Job with this video!👊💯 You're a good teacher, the white board makes it superb bro👏👏👏👏

  • @bobbyjj5372
    @bobbyjj5372 11 місяців тому +3

    Nice!

  • @tarawhite4419
    @tarawhite4419 10 місяців тому +1

    Never ignore small signs of coming betrayal

  • @multi_verse8636
    @multi_verse8636 11 місяців тому +3

    Sorry for your mic glad u did this video ❤️

  • @kryptonica
    @kryptonica 10 місяців тому +1

    It's the psychopaths that believe their own "game" and they play it better but the results are the same

  • @Sigma_Syndrome
    @Sigma_Syndrome 11 місяців тому +2

    Ur friggen hilarious dude 😅 the jump scares are priceless. And you’re getting witty as can be 😂💪🏻✝️

    • @Sigma_Syndrome
      @Sigma_Syndrome 11 місяців тому +1

      And where can I get those lil silky shirts. Trend setter! Haha

  • @martinamajakova2313
    @martinamajakova2313 11 місяців тому +1

    Thats exactlly what I choose to do go no contact and silent😊

  • @Brenda-t5r
    @Brenda-t5r Місяць тому

    I have a covert narc couple living next door. The man is bad enough, but his wife is worse! I can't stand having that woman anywhere near me. She treats me like I'm below her. And I have been very, very generous to her. But, lately.....SILENCE from me. Before they moved in, another female covert narc lived downstairs from me. Another headache. But the one that is here now...oh my God.

  • @marquinho999
    @marquinho999 11 місяців тому +1

    Just walk away, mate, but never come back. I always come back... 😂

  • @him9298
    @him9298 11 місяців тому +2

    Keep ,going

  • @lorenzonapturna58
    @lorenzonapturna58 5 місяців тому

    That shirt is smooth bro

  • @lolachlih3136
    @lolachlih3136 11 місяців тому +2

    This is 100% on point i had to go no control with alot of narcissist in my life and don't regret it one but only one I can't get rid of who is a narcissist is my kids father i need to co parent with him bc were through courts and its ordered bc he got his way with them but i wish i can just block him and be done ✔but i barely speak to him unless its about our children that's it all narcissist want sympathy or play the victim card but make you look like the bad person in the end thier sick mentally so giving the silent treatment is good! Another great informative video&thanks!

  • @Philb666666
    @Philb666666 8 місяців тому

    Wise observations - For a young guy you have a grasp of allot. There is a book called STFU thats shut the f up - it basically said the same thing as you have said - all great advice - just to add - sometimes it aint easy! but it has to be done. Thanks for you videos.

  • @RonicaTravis-ok9cf
    @RonicaTravis-ok9cf 10 місяців тому

    WORD....this message is perfect....thank you

  • @niaholder9168
    @niaholder9168 11 місяців тому

    love this brother

  • @callmeda98
    @callmeda98 3 місяці тому

    Your channel is 🔥I've been binge watching your videos. Super entertaining bro keep it up

  • @user-gd7cu2cj6t
    @user-gd7cu2cj6t 11 місяців тому

    The " Silent Treatment" Is One Of A Narcissist's Favorite Weapon.

    • @scottoz7891
      @scottoz7891 11 місяців тому

      The first one was mind boggling..😮

  • @ericagardens1234
    @ericagardens1234 11 місяців тому +1

    great video Terry

  • @Alizay002
    @Alizay002 11 місяців тому +1

    New subscriber and my First time coming across your content. Nice blouse btw 💛

  • @tracy7799
    @tracy7799 11 місяців тому +1

    Grrrreat message as always TJ🥣

  • @gmoneydaprince8145
    @gmoneydaprince8145 11 місяців тому +1

    That good is so fly. Excellent information.

  • @sunmanjones6832
    @sunmanjones6832 11 місяців тому

    Thx for sharing brotherman

  • @laurabrewer5450
    @laurabrewer5450 4 місяці тому

    Absolutely love your content.

  • @thegameoflife2131
    @thegameoflife2131 11 місяців тому +1

    Great content
    When ur silent u fill ur cup and not keep it full not squander it on narcissist

  • @jemimashaw3878
    @jemimashaw3878 11 місяців тому

    You do this so well even second time round. Love u so much bro.

  • @MAJESTIC-GOLDEN-CHILD
    @MAJESTIC-GOLDEN-CHILD 10 місяців тому

    Got it !!! Thanks for this ???

  • @DailyRoyaltea
    @DailyRoyaltea 11 місяців тому +1

    Thanks 🙏 u Legend! It couldn’t of come at a better time! 😊🤟💪✅💯😇

  • @gwendolynhaggray8534
    @gwendolynhaggray8534 11 місяців тому

    Thanks Joel 💛💛💛💛💛

  • @ericagardens1234
    @ericagardens1234 11 місяців тому +1

    yep. i did this. cut them off

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 11 місяців тому

    Move the way I always move !

  • @abundancerelaxation199
    @abundancerelaxation199 11 місяців тому +1

    This video and your shirt 🔥🔥🔥

  • @JCream561
    @JCream561 11 місяців тому +1

    💯 can’t argue with ignant

  • @kenrowland7864
    @kenrowland7864 11 місяців тому +1

    Hey TJ that yellow satin shirt really shows off yer physique...love it man.👍

  • @simpleflight34
    @simpleflight34 11 місяців тому +1

    Glad you did the second take. This was excellent. So good. You really put things into prospective. Thank you so much. Yellow looks nice on you

  • @stephanieaggazzotti3323
    @stephanieaggazzotti3323 10 місяців тому

    We can see it coming!

  • @thankthelord2606
    @thankthelord2606 11 місяців тому

    This video really helps

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 10 місяців тому

    It's TRUE!

  • @kevinhanley6462
    @kevinhanley6462 11 місяців тому +1

    Well done for your presentation and clear explanation.

  • @gloriosatierra
    @gloriosatierra 11 місяців тому +3

    Narco land is real

  • @tonifool7423
    @tonifool7423 11 місяців тому

    You are 💯 MR JOEL.this is right on the mark.Thank u GODBLESS U

  • @abell509
    @abell509 11 місяців тому +1

    The 144 have more to focus on than petty revenge. As a member of the chosen ones, we acknowledge that all souls come from God and are ascending to return to God. We cannot raise our own frequency, much less guide others, if we turn our creative power of attention to the petty and the mundane. We guard our time and energy. We release those in our past to the violet flame and send them on their way with love and light because we are resilient and strong. We move forward in our sacred work. Energy flows where attention goes. Focus on revenge and reap the results at your own peril. Revenge is not a virtuous goal, it's a trap for a bruised ego. Heal and move on.

  • @steveroman3397
    @steveroman3397 11 місяців тому

    Good Brother - thank you for sharing the knowledge. Very well explained

  • @leasteel7926
    @leasteel7926 10 місяців тому

    Blessing to you an all looking an sounding good 😊👍

  • @ChroniclesofAJ
    @ChroniclesofAJ 11 місяців тому

    great video

  • @LulyNo1
    @LulyNo1 11 місяців тому

    Yes Boss you right 👊