@@andycostilla @timcobb1752 You've seen half the video, #1. #2, you apparently missed the part where she was complimenting how nice and respectful he was. But what REALLY gets me is that y'all will be pissy as hell if women are impressed by your STUFF and yet you're buying that sh*t for the EXPRESS PURPOSE of impressing us (and other people, obvs). If this girl HADN'T been impressed by all his crap, you'd have some OTHER girls thing to say about her. It's quite literally no-win. That's why so many of you are being left to the side of the road like the useless double-standard-having hypocrites you are. Women can and do make their own way without y'all now, which pisses y'all off even worse.
Yes! And hopefully he sees this. Because she is trash and didn’t mention anything about his personality. His eyes, his smile anything. She’s in it for the money and the security. Next.
@shoopdawhoop8730 lmao, she seemed like admiring his pure hearted Ness or his achievements. I haven't seen enough to come to a full conclusion, but the fact that bro took her home and did not show he moves differently than most people. I respect it
@@shoopdawhoop8730Yes, she sounds like a serious mistake. This guy needs to keep that stuff hidden on the very top shelf for ONLY the top shelf girls. She went home with him fully expecting to jump in bed. She doesn't pass the test.
Poor girl even specified the screen size. Her opinion of men was genuinely low though. Majority of men buy their own cars, make renovations, and go forward in development in general. It’s considered normal
Most people who watched this video don't realise who this person is, and that she is a massive whore and attention seeker, and that this is most probably fake.
@judo6506 replace that with "calling out toxic feminity" and your right. It's kind of convent that every toxic feminity tendency women have is just "misogyny" so women never have to deal with their shadow
@@Anonymous-411exactly, she's literally gushing over materials. I'll admit she _seems_ cute but everything she says is still baked in toxicity at it's core.
She was just so amazed at his accomplishments and was surprised at how respectful he was. She is so sweet. He sounds like a good man and she's a good woman.
I hope you realize that sounds like a very good man, hardworking and respectful. He's unconsciously showing you he can be a good provider. If you want something else you should make the first move.
@@robertblansett3431Dang… women just be doing the most for the littlest things… why they gotta ruin a good thing… not saying all women are like that I happen to be a women myself and a lot of other women are disappointing to be honest
The coolest part about this to me as a dad, is the fact that she felt it necessary to share this experience with her parents. Shows the child/parent relationship is in a great place!
Hardworking men sometimes don't have this type of wealth even still... i work my ass off but am stuck in a one bedroom apartment. This economy is shit.
He’s a man that has a purpose. He innovative and has motivation. He’ll never have to look for a job. People will come after him because he loves to work.
@@ZayxStNot a fair statement. If a man can’t financially make his woman feel safe how would things go ? Frankly true love is great and all but if the man is worth shit, doesn’t deserve a good chick anyways. On the side note, a real gold digger would not say she can start living just with one house and one car they would want a whole lot more 🤷🏻♂️ PS: no bias I am a man and I think if they keep on dating would’ve been a great and healthy relationship 🙌🏻
@parascitzo9455 yes, but she is obviously impressed by HIM, what he has accomplished and is doing. Having 1989 Toyota Corolla in beautiful shape and mint mechanical condition is a material thing... but not a reflection of a materialist desire. It does, demonstrate an unparalleled dedication to maintenance and care. Barn doors, l in your basement likewise, aren't a huge financial flex, but that he has done the work himself demonstrates he has skill, and she appreciates it, THAT is rare. They went out he showed her things, she appreciates the effort it takes to have those things, do those things, and doesn't scoff at it saying its "the bare minimum" or diminish him in anyway... it is totally refreshjng
The video at the end cuts off when she was talking about how respectful he was. You can hear it. So yes it’s 100% that she was shocked about a respectful put together guy. Hearing her talk about him made me tear up too. She found a rare gem. Guys forget how attractive competence and respect are to the majority of women.
@@ojhnny9223just because she brought that up doesn't mean she is thinking about that. The first thing she brought up was about the renovations he was doing by himself. The fact he has his car and house shows her he has his life together and that attracts people.
She was most impressed by the amount of money he had lol don't be fool, if he guy with less money show him renovations on a "ugly" house and pick her up an an older car im sure her attitude would be different.
He’s proud of what he built. Just wanted someone to say he did a good job. He picked you for a reason. Treat him good and he will treat you even better. Learn more about him not what he has. Show him a little respect . He will love you forever in Return. I’m 62 and passing from cancer. I only regret not finding that one person to love me for me.
@@cjmusselman7982 What unrealistic expectations do women have for men, that men do not equally, if not more egregiously hold also for women? In a world of 8.2 BILLION, things that are supposed to be "uncommon" or "rare" are not actually rare. I do not think its too much to ask for someone to have a job, take care of themselves and be polite and respectful. Everyone has preferences and thats fine. You will also unfortunately get fringe thinkers who want things theyve been TOLD about but never seen, because those type of people consume fake entertainment and media which have been altered, (Porn, edited pictures, movies, etc.) and have no grounding in reality.
ever hear Marilyn Monroe say “don’t you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty? You wouldn’t marry a girl just because she’s pretty, but my goodness, doesn’t it help?” If she was a gold digger she wouldn’t be telling her girls she’d want that money for herself Edit: guys i shouldn’t have to defend myself here. She very well could be a gold digger if she is that’s not cool but i don’t know for sure n I gotta support my girls. my intention is all peace n love with my comment
Yet she's already scheming with her friend on how she can take half of it away from him. Hopefully, he figures out how she's a dangerous addition to his life.
@@marcelowilliams4535bro it took me 7 women to find the right one. Not all women are the same… she sounds like my gf when I met her. I promise you 13 million women don’t think the same thing
He could have hundreds of thousands of dollars of debt. What are y'all talking about? 😂 Just because someone has a nice house and car doesn't mean they'll always have them.
He was preparing for when the right one was sent his way. Stayed in his own lane, focused on his goals and is preparing for when the right one arrives. The genuine excitement in her voice shows she sees what he has done and is here for it all of it. Pretty sure she would enhance his life with an attitude of gratitude like that
Mutual gratitude is the key foundation of a great relationship. My wife and I both were convinced that we were out of each other's league - and that helped us forge an amazing marriage.
Nah man. Enthusiasm for Lego is not the same as enthusiasm for improved living that would actually benefit a family. Nothing wrong with Lego but it doesn’t give our kids their own room or resale value on an investment like a house. It’s being responsible and capable that is the turn on.
@@V.Hansen.Being enthusiastic about something like Legos may not give you a better home or make it so you can get more money if you sell it. But think of what you will get if you share what you're enthusiastic about with your family. Not everything is about money.
Finally!!!! A lady who values a honest man!!!! She was not materialistic, but rather in awe of this gentleman’s determination to be independent. Ladies normally fall for aggressive imbeciles and then get surprised when these men turn out to be unkind and disrespectful. Finally!!!!!
Every time I come across this video, it cracks me up! I married a man like this: 1000 percent self-sufficient. He can do everything a human needs to do except surgery. He gardens, fixes our cars, builds walls, runs electricity, he paints, does roofing, cooks, bakes, sews, hunts, goes fishing, does laundry, brushes our daughters' hair, wrestles with our boys, changes diapers, etc... and he is kind, not just nice, he's genuinely kind and will come rescue whenever necessary. His parents were successful at raising boys into productive, generous, protective, supportive men who are fun to be around and have a strong work ethic who could absolutely choose to marry out of want rather than need. My brother is like this, too. Media does a good job of portraying the standard make as helpless and intellectually challenged, but fully capable men are everywhere. But, if you're not used to seeing that, particularly in someone under 30, it makes complete sense to be utterly amazed and sound baffled and bewildered. She's absolutely wondering how this is possible. It isn't about the car or the house. It's about how capable and responsible he is in order to have that car and to have that house that he is also remodeling all on his own. Being impressed is a natural response. Especially since most women find stability and security of paramount importance. ANYWAY... I love this video. She's so cute telling about her evening. She must often have animated stories for Mama to know she should pull out her phone. I'm so glad she did. It's a fun video!
Reading your blessing of a man is just truly beautiful 😍 I couldn't HELP but feel you called me single and ALONE in every partial sentence and word between each comma😂 but how beautiful U have it and how beautiful for your babies also!! They need that and seeing that between their parents makes it 1000000% more heart touching and beautiful ❤all the best lovely and god bless ❤from Australia 😊 Shay 🙂
Yes we want a fully adult Man not a child masquerading as a Man. Unfortunately, many Men have few practical skills, and lack purpose, direction, will, and work ethic.
@@stjepanlucic3922agreed. I feel shitty that thats what I notice but it does seem like all she sees is his nice house and his car. She was excited about how kind he was though.
@@TheMightyGoldenWesti wouldn’t call it gold digging, just because your tiktok addiction normalized the term “gold digging” doesn’t mean it is, she was proud of his accomplishments as a young man and looked up to his hobbies and his hard work in his personal life with his renovations, not at all gold digging
@@eddusii because he doesn't interact with women in real life, and the online garbage he consumes portrays women as monsters, which feeds his own confirmation bias about them.
@@dominiqueritchey6795 luck is a good thing to have, but it's a horrible investment strategy. Wives don't want luck, they require resources for the household. They tend not to do well with any competition to that.
On a sad country song, I saw a comment about a young guy who lived on his own in his own house, he was saying it’s hard to carry on in life much longer as his house doesn’t feel like a home still, women take men like this for granted, they’re “boring” I guess but damn we all deserve a happy life
@robburton3255. Absolutely agree. Those are the most important words that she said to describe him. If Reagan is able to visualize that, she may have a chance.
Lmao. These bots are crazy bro. Relax Guys. There’s millions of amazing people out there. I know you both wish you could be with this guy, but I promise you, there’s plenty of amazing options out there! 😅
@wps620 I love how men complain about women making their own money via work, spend all their time working and then cry when money is the only value they have to the women they choose 😅
Let’s analyze the clip real quick it seems like she’s more interested in what he has to offer. She never once mentioned if he was handsome or if he was intellectually, honest or morally good just “he has stuff” SUV House blah blah smh terrible and no one sees it is the worst part
@@robertwebb2865 The only image , a daughter will use to find her own man is her father. So work on yourself, show her how a good man should be, she will use your image to filter out the shitty man.
You need to find the original long video. She's a scank really. She said she's never dated a white guy before and she really thinks she's been missing out after dating this one and being treated right
You see something adorable, I see a vampire, sucking out the dude last dollar. Imagine someone says I could live here that achieved nothing to contribute to it and to methis is the definition of losing your own house after divorce. You people are simps.
She has seen losers and influencers wanna be. Then you see a good human that works hard and isn’t entitled and it looks like a miracle. I provide for myself but god is so nice to see another human making an honest living .
So having nice things makes a person a 'good human'? That's the problem right there. Most women will judge a man on how much money he has, rather than if he's kind or compassionate. Thus the reason why so many unkind Douchebag millionaire men have attractive women around them. The women encourage the wrong thing.
Say whatever negative stuff you want about her, she's clearly a keeper and is one hell of a woman. Some of you haven't been treated like dogshit by your "significant other," after working hard and putting in extreme amounts of effort and still not being appreciated. Women that appreciate the big things, cool. Women that appreciate the little things, the hardly noticeable things, truly phenomenal.
Haha crazy how people don’t see what’s really going on here. A man can fall in love with a poor wmen who has nothing and that man would protect hr and dye for hr. But the way wmen love is different. She falls in love with what can be provided for hr. And if a good providing man ends up losing everything (even due to dumb luck), he will more than likely lose her too. She will leave him. Great example is this video: His success brought her to tears. But her love and loyalty would bring him to tears. That’s the difference.
@@jameshunt4611Not red pill but I also couldnt help but notice that she mentioned his House and car but Not his character. Guess thats what getting dumbed without explaination multiple times does to people haha fml
Thank the lord for men like him who treated this woman with respect and honored her. He showed her a good life and let her dream.... Thank you for being a real man for this young lady!
When a man do the opposite of what you expect it really hits a spot that was never touched… reality of life when it happens to you. Got you feeling some type of way you never know you could feel… I’m happy for you
This is what decent men usually do, and they aren't that exclusive. But more often than not they are ignored for their mediocre looks, height, or money, or any other superficial parameters.
ur that naive bro? i feel bad for you. the entire video is about his lifestyle and how much money he has and how she can use that, she said absolutely nothing about morals or why it was nice that he didnt try to have sex with her.
You're completely misunderstanding the situation based on stereotypes. You're only discussing what you saw, without doing any research. In a 30-minute video, more than two-thirds of the time was spent on her talking about him, with the rest focusing on what he had. She was describing this to her mother, so of course she would mention his financial and asset status. Women very often struggle to secure even average-paying jobs in America, so it's understandable that they might seek a partner who can provide a life that's difficult to achieve on their own. It's hypocritical to criticize women for wanting a good life when everyone desires the same. Men have clear preferences for their ideal partners, so why can't women have the same? It's unfair to be selective about looks but not wealth. While you can't significantly change your appearance, wealth can change dramatically and quickly. This attitude reveals a lot about your character, and it isn't flattering.
Nothing good about this guy and what he's doing. He's using his assets to try to sleep with this woman. He's not trying to show her these things to make her his wife. He's showing her these things freaking bait her into the sack. This is the reality of certain men. If you're showing off your crap like that, you're a simple man and you're going to get simple tricks who cheat on you@@DT-hb3zu
@@LetFenrirSoloHerThe women struggling to make even average paying jobs in America. The dumbest thing I heard in a while. You clearly have no idea anything about America. Currently women actually on average earn more than men. Wow! What do you know. Only the high-end earning men will show on average like earn more. But most the times been working the same job as a woman. Does four times the amount of work in that job. Yet either makes the same or less than the female counterpart.
Nothing pure hearted about seeing what he’s built for himself and the life he lives and covering it for himself. She didn’t say nearly as much about the date itself or how he treated her as she did about the things I mentioned before and how it can be a better standard of living for her
Bro is so wise. He was showing his quality by his actions. Also showing he appreciates fine things hints he sees her in a similar light. The young lady is not just cute. She is precious, and the guy acted like he knew her worth. God bless them both.
Poor guy doesn't even know it yet, that she's mentally calculating how much half his shit will bank her! Believe me marriage is a legal contract to which the woman gets rewarded for breaking! 😂
Yeah, that usually ends with, "and he makes his own clothes, and there was a well in the middle of the floor. And he's got the cutest little dog! His van smells funny though."
@@ozgecko4050 ahhh people are so dumb my comment means that nobody has words to describes men loyalty if he’s real men and be loyal with her women the words I used isn’t enough to describe that men loyalty cause being loyal in 2024 nah it isn’t that easy bro think deeply man
@@ozgecko4050 that isn’t enough to describe a loyal men and when you understand what I’m trying to say you also don’t have words to describe your feelings
This is someone whos been raised to value things and respect peoples belongings. She seems an absolute sweetheart and glad she's linked up with a guy like she has!
Humbly and respectfully bro she is not respecting this man's belongings or the work that he's done. She said I can start living like this. Nothing about what she can contribute to him.Continuing to be this way, and if she don't get what she wants.She will burn everything To the ground.
Valuing things and people’s belongings doesn’t make you virtuous. How twisted are your values that you barely hear her speak about anything but what he’s built and owns and coveting those for herself but very little about who he is, how the date went, how she would even add to his life or support what he’s doing.
To all the folks saying she only complimented what he had, this is clearly a small clip out of a larger conversation. Hell it cuts off in the middle of her talking about how respectful he is. Half of this was talking about all the hard work he put into his basement. Barn doors are hard to install, the car requires hard work just to get, never mind maintaining it(which clearly he takes time to do since she chose the word “beautiful” to describe it). She’s complimenting his work ethic and the fact that of all this stuff he has, he’s still just a sweet respectful dude who wanted to share the fruits of his hard work with her…and clearly she appreciates it cuz she’s practically crying from how sweet and innocent it all was. And before you hop on the whole “i can get used to living like this” bit, thats called a joke. Plenty of men are just like him, plenty of girls are just like her. You’re just not used to hearing from the good ones because the bad ones are so much louder.
No one is perfect but it’s this kind of thought process that proves the point. The bad is so prevalent and vocal that when we hear of good we’re inclined to have misgivings, doubt, skepticism. We have little room in our hearts for good and we need to be more hopeful and pure. Optimism and joy are wonderful qualities.
I've seen the entre clip multiple times. She literally only remarks his material stuff and the fact that he is her first White dude. This clip isn't as cute or romantic as you think it is.
Why is everyone hating on her for appreciating what he’s done for himself. I don’t at all get “materialistic” from her. I think she likes how genuine and respectful he is. All the stuff is just a bonus. She was talking about his intentions and she emphasized how respectful he was, so clearly that’s why she values him. Because he’s taking care of himself and not trying to use her
I can live like this......that's the part I am rejecting her on. If she respects the money he makes then cool, but if she start asking for things constantly with the expectations of always getting a yes because he can afford it that's not cool. Lots of people men and women, get with someone who doesn't know how to manage money and expect to live the same way with 2 mouths to feed that they were living with one is an issue. It'll be like taking that jew SUV with the screen and buying a used one with no screen, taking that basement renovation and have it unfinished for ever, etc. split all the things he has in half.
He bought this house and its nice.An his car! Did you see his car, its brand new. She mentioned an praised what he had first,then she spoke of how it made her feel and she could get used to living like that...then and only then did she mention him, "an he is so respectful"
@@michaelvial125she brought up the house because he brought her to his house but wasn’t interested in sex. She praised how nice his house is because he’s been renovating it himself. It’s okay to like men for having their lives put together.
@@lyerliar-nt7xw what reason is there to live life if you aren't sharing it with people you love. I would trade absolutely not one thing for my life as a father. It is hard sometimes but nothing easy is really ever worth while.
The way she got choked up is wholesome af. Like she saw what a good man can be like. A responsible man who's just excited about a project, who was respectful to her, and didn't try anything fishy.
And im still waiting to see what a good woman can be like. Fawning over what material things I have, is that really the best they have to offer? You seem to think so.
@@TheMightyGoldenWest women like stability. We are the ones that create children and feel the most responsible for them normally. Bringing into the world a child in an unstable environment brings us no joy. Having a man that can help us bring stability and plans for a family is always welcome. Pregnancy and maternity are unstable grounds, mom and baby can die, become sick, develop PPD, have complications, etc. Having the reassurance that the man can provide, be a support and help is the biggest relief. We cannot do it all as women, we have many shoes to fill, and having a guy so ready to be a father reassures us that he will not leave to get milk in the future. It's biological.
@@TimBardos he saw the TikTok’s and ghosted her after seeing her red flags. First white guy, has baby daddy’s, shares more with TikTok then with him. Classic 304 behavior. She is learning herself the hard way that once you in the streets, you aren’t leaving.
@@anderstermansen130 She met a stand up guy, try to be that stand up guy 24/7 and your chances of meeting a lovely lass like her are way higher. Even if you don't have the car and house, have class.
@@ChichimonLeagues she seemed to appreciate him and want to be a part of his life. For someone who is killing it, that is t outside the realm of what he might want.
@@ChichimonLeaguesyeah, that gets you a down vote 🤡 maybe he could pull someone prettier or with a better body but what is that in the long run if you're trying to build a life? She's shocked and appreciative because up to this point in her life she hasn't seen this in a man. She probably dated smooth brains that think like you. He obviously liked her too because he wanted her to see what he was proud of.
I like how she was able to appreciate that man endlessly and recognized his talent and and the quality that he has. A lot of women would have take things for granted. edit: I don't see how she is a gold digger she was just appreciating how amazingly talented that man was and he was respectful. It is true that in the US with the expensive labor cost home renovation cost a fortune. He could make a lot of money if that's what he is doing for work and that's good for him. However, she what's excited because she can see the future with this guy . If his child want a swing, slide, treehouse trampoline, I bet you that guy can make it himself and save a lot of money too. The apartment that he was renovating in the basement could be a man cave, a in-law suites or a rental. Let's be real you can't raise no kid without no money. That guy is a husband material and would be a great father. If she thinks a 2021 car is brand new I do not consider her materialistic.
@@Drikkerbadevandyep, wake up people. She would probably not look at him twice if he was in an old car living in an apartment. Don't matter if in the future they could have all that, they want the work all done lol 😅
That is definitely attractive! Not talking about what what they have or what shallow thing they did. Showing someone else what they worked really hard on ❤
Wtf, she didn't once say anything that she liked about the guy! Only about all the stuff that she could get out of this😅 but I guess that's what sets a foundation. Men should be providers but if that's the case whatbdo men want?
Love it, as a 30 year old man with a daughter and loving wife... all we want as men is to be shown appreciation, even when my life sucks and my job was miserable (commercial fishing), them telling me they see my effort and they appreciated it... it literally is all a man needs is love
That's how i felt about my husband when we started dating too. He was a whole new breed of man, not bitter, jaded or depressing to be around, just focused on his life and building his future for the family he wanted.. i was a senior in college and it brought out the feminine side of me. I started packing lunches and waking up early to make breakfast. I would care for him when he's sick, take him on dates, make him homemade gifts etc.. not because he ever had to ask, but because i wanted to build a life with this man. To this day he doesn't lift a finger for things he wants and i dont lift a finger for anything i want.. we just living and loving ❤️
@@eskaban_edits_beats_and_more "Meaningless ... achievements" If you want to, you could learn how to create something with your hands too! It will make YOU love YOU more, and therefore have MORE to LOVE! Don't be bitter, be productive.
This girl’s reaction is so genuine! It’s nice to see someone so young realize she’s found a high-value man who will treat her right and provide for her. Her excitement about being with a guy who treats her respectfully and shows genuine interest is heartwarming. I personally respect this young lady for seeing through all the social media noise. Love it!
She didnt say anything about him other than what stuff he has until the last second and she only said one thing about him just so much about his expensive things
My favorite part it's when she said " I started to forget everything and was like wow i could start living like this " because nothing is settled in the apartment it's still in progress but seeing how respectful and how passionate is that man, she started to see her futur together, it's the type of relation i wish for everyone.
She has no future with that man, the fact she was in awe over a real man shows she’s been dating trash her whole life. Which unfortunately lowers her value ALOT.
Basically he’s a grown man and not a clout puppy and has his priorities straight which hell I think we all thought were extinct….huge respect to that guy fr, perfect example of self love and self worth
@@insidiousmaximusno she's used to dating bums who don't try or apply themselves. This is the first truly successful person she's dating and she's completely shocked to find out men like that are real.
I love the fact she sees he’s actually practical and doing things for himself rather than just the money. He’s a keeper and by the sounds of it she is too!
By the sound of what? She's legitimately only thinking about using his nice stuff, we get a single comment about the actual person she's supposedly in love with. Keeper? More like digger
@@PeachDragon_ he has practical nice things. Not gold digger nice things. Normal things that people have when they got their shit together and want to settle down and have kids and shit.
@@PeachDragon_ I would explain it to you but it seems someone else has already noticed what I did. Also the fact she was impressed that he was building his own apartment in his basement. The excitement over him not wanting to sleep with her but show her how he’s doing his own thing tells me that’s what she was happy about. Yes he has nice things and she mentioned that but she made it clear from the first few sentences that she was impressed by how together he was, not how much money he’s earned
@@Batdaaag26283 no that’s what you saw, the rest of us noticed how she was eluding to how he didn’t just want a ride and how he had his shit together, that instantly put her into trad wife mode
@@CarasGaladhonif she can add value to his life, fine. I don't think that's the case however. Statistics indicate she will get bored in a few years, divorce him and take his nice house with barn doors and any kids.
I respect this woman for seeing a real man and his accomplishments...
For seeing what he has.... What positive thing did she say about HIM? just his stuff. Learn to spot this before you lose everything.
@@timcobb1752you are correct... thanks brother...
@@andycostilla
@timcobb1752
You've seen half the video, #1. #2, you apparently missed the part where she was complimenting how nice and respectful he was. But what REALLY gets me is that y'all will be pissy as hell if women are impressed by your STUFF and yet you're buying that sh*t for the EXPRESS PURPOSE of impressing us (and other people, obvs). If this girl HADN'T been impressed by all his crap, you'd have some OTHER girls thing to say about her. It's quite literally no-win. That's why so many of you are being left to the side of the road like the useless double-standard-having hypocrites you are. Women can and do make their own way without y'all now, which pisses y'all off even worse.
Yeah, she will lock him down but still keep her sneaky link
@timcobb1752 she said he was respectful and innocent but yeah u right
Bro is just living his best life. Certified dad material.
When a 304 accidently gets treated like a lady 😂
@@YakmonSaysItLikeItIs Why is she a 304?
@@TheeSinnermanshe followed a man home on a forst date and agreed to go into a basement, either she is a 304 or she as brain damage
@@YakmonSaysItLikeItIsfacts.
She's going to pass. Travis just got a new dirt bike and a tribal sleeve tattoo 😳 Bros got no chance.
Bro has no enemies and is focused. A man of sheer will and dedication. We must stay focused
Lets hope he didnt just create one ;)
@@shoopdawhoop8730na let’s hope he didn’t get with her gold digger ass
Yes! And hopefully he sees this. Because she is trash and didn’t mention anything about his personality. His eyes, his smile anything. She’s in it for the money and the security. Next.
@shoopdawhoop8730 lmao, she seemed like admiring his pure hearted Ness or his achievements. I haven't seen enough to come to a full conclusion, but the fact that bro took her home and did not show he moves differently than most people. I respect it
@@shoopdawhoop8730Yes, she sounds like a serious mistake. This guy needs to keep that stuff hidden on the very top shelf for ONLY the top shelf girls.
She went home with him fully expecting to jump in bed. She doesn't pass the test.
A geniune humble lady. Thats what men are looking for to share our lives with
Bet she never called him again.
Poor girl even specified the screen size.
Her opinion of men was genuinely low though. Majority of men buy their own cars, make renovations, and go forward in development in general. It’s considered normal
Most people who watched this video don't realise who this person is, and that she is a massive whore and attention seeker, and that this is most probably fake.
A geniune beta hunter
I genuinely want a lady like this for life partner.
The fact that she's stunned and appreciative of his hardwork , building stuff and being respectful... shows she's raised right.
Exactly. The amount of misogyny in this comment section is insane, I'm glad there's at least someone with a brain
@judo6506 replace that with "calling out toxic feminity" and your right. It's kind of convent that every toxic feminity tendency women have is just "misogyny" so women never have to deal with their shadow
Kimd of..... until she starts talking about the age of his car and how she "could live like this" 🙄
Nah, she just wants the stuff
Ya only caring about the material things ya she was raised right lmao stupid comment
She had her eyes opend by a real true and genuine man and it blew her mind in a good way
She was probably expecting him to be a jerk and harass her for sex but he was a normal decent responsible guy planning for the future.
He awoke her gold digger side.
Notice how she yapped on and on about materialistic items ?
@@tubester4567 and she sees his 2021 car and house - as she said " i cold start living like this" this says something
@@Anonymous-411exactly, she's literally gushing over materials. I'll admit she _seems_ cute but everything she says is still baked in toxicity at it's core.
She was just so amazed at his accomplishments and was surprised at how respectful he was. She is so sweet. He sounds like a good man and she's a good woman.
I disagree she's not ready I'm in a similar position to him. This video shows just how not ready she is the full video is much worse.
She is a gold digger
She was literally talking about how he's a gentleman find the full clip before you pass your judgment
@@ANARCHIST_the_answer nah she is just a gold digger talking about he has a new car and having a house and money
"I could start living like this" after she talks about his new car
I hope you realize that sounds like a very good man, hardworking and respectful. He's unconsciously showing you he can be a good provider. If you want something else you should make the first move.
Everything she can take in a divorce. Watch the rest of the videos
She likes him clearly, after a date, you don't pay attention 😂
She's taking the p/$$
She will cheat on him, not worth anything. Filth
She is just excited for her retirement plan
The way she’s so proud of him and praising him… he’s a hardworking man and she’s a noble woman 🫶🏻
In the other videos she makes fun of him after she broke up and got pregnant by a drug dealer and now she complains there are no good men
L££ch£s are truly disgusting. She’s drooling at the mouth because now she can live that delusional lifestyle by spending his hard earned money.
@@robertblansett3431Dang… women just be doing the most for the littlest things… why they gotta ruin a good thing… not saying all women are like that I happen to be a women myself and a lot of other women are disappointing to be honest
did u miss the part where its their first date
@@andrewhennessy620 this was 3 or 4 yrs old
The coolest part about this to me as a dad, is the fact that she felt it necessary to share this experience with her parents. Shows the child/parent relationship is in a great place!
Maybe talking with brother?
@@mulacula9540its a womans voice 😂
How do you know it's her mom?
Yeah I didn't tell my parents this much
Sorry, did you watch a different video?? Where did she say anything about parents??
Hard working men rarely get this kind of respect and admiration. It’s refreshing to see & hear.
Yea when they are with the wrong sh*tty women. Just like women too. Picking the wrong ones unfortunately and not being appreciated or respected.
Cause hard working men sometimes are creep or show off, thats when the respect dissappearing
Or they picked the wrong woman. Unfortunately like a lot of us do. Pick the wrong man or woman.
@@diahr9712so lazy mfs can't be creeps? We up😭
Hardworking men sometimes don't have this type of wealth even still... i work my ass off but am stuck in a one bedroom apartment. This economy is shit.
He’s a man that has a purpose. He innovative and has motivation. He’ll never have to look for a job. People will come after him because he loves to work.
The dude just brought the right woman into his life! That innocent rant of admiration is classic! You are meant for each other, have a happy life…
I feel bad for you.
Yeah she's attracted that he has a brand new car and his own house.
Bro deserves a real woman, not a gold digger.
He literally talked about his car his house and all his materialistic things. Definitely a keeper 🤡
@@ZayxStNot a fair statement. If a man can’t financially make his woman feel safe how would things go ? Frankly true love is great and all but if the man is worth shit, doesn’t deserve a good chick anyways. On the side note, a real gold digger would not say she can start living just with one house and one car they would want a whole lot more 🤷🏻♂️
PS: no bias I am a man and I think if they keep on dating would’ve been a great and healthy relationship 🙌🏻
don’t jump to conclusions that quickly, people gonna take advantage of you.
The fact that she talks about what he has, and does with respect and admiration, instead of entitlement as to what she deserved, sets her apart
She is a real one
Too bad most of the things she was talking about was materialistic. "Did you see his car??"
@@parascitzo9455so one thing
@@parascitzo9455notice she didn't say it's a Mercedes or a Porsche. She said it's a 2021 SUV with a screen.
@parascitzo9455 yes, but she is obviously impressed by HIM, what he has accomplished and is doing. Having 1989 Toyota Corolla in beautiful shape and mint mechanical condition is a material thing... but not a reflection of a materialist desire. It does, demonstrate an unparalleled dedication to maintenance and care. Barn doors, l in your basement likewise, aren't a huge financial flex, but that he has done the work himself demonstrates he has skill, and she appreciates it, THAT is rare. They went out he showed her things, she appreciates the effort it takes to have those things, do those things, and doesn't scoff at it saying its "the bare minimum" or diminish him in anyway... it is totally refreshjng
God I love how she’s brought to tears by how amazing this man was to her and himself
That’s literally not at all what she’s communicating. She is 100% talking about his stuff, and the kind of lifestyle she’d have if she was with him.
Dude stfu are you this socially incompetent? @@ajamico
@@ajamicoBingo.
The video at the end cuts off when she was talking about how respectful he was. You can hear it. So yes it’s 100% that she was shocked about a respectful put together guy. Hearing her talk about him made me tear up too. She found a rare gem. Guys forget how attractive competence and respect are to the majority of women.
She is mocking
Immense personality that girl has. Naturally funny and with timing. She's a keeper.
She is so aware of identifying a good situation
@@ojhnny9223just because she brought that up doesn't mean she is thinking about that. The first thing she brought up was about the renovations he was doing by himself. The fact he has his car and house shows her he has his life together and that attracts people.
She went into his basement on the first date.
Lolll the sad music added to this superficial crap just makes it more cringe 😆
She was most impressed by the amount of money he had lol don't be fool, if he guy with less money show him renovations on a "ugly" house and pick her up an an older car im sure her attitude would be different.
@@Blacklighttheshapeshifterattracts ppl for what?
He’s proud of what he built. Just wanted someone to say he did a good job. He picked you for a reason. Treat him good and he will treat you even better. Learn more about him not what he has. Show him a little respect . He will love you forever in Return. I’m 62 and passing from cancer. I only regret not finding that one person to love me for me.
God bless you
Holy crap bro that aches. Beautiful advice. I'm 62 and missed my chance too.
Be blessed my friend, God has the hardest task for his strongest soldiers. There is light at the end of the tunnel, stay strong
Well said my friend! Burn as bright as you can...for as long as you can!!
Love you, stay strong 💪
It becomes pure gold if she decides that she's interested in helping him and actually does. At that point their future will look golden.
if a woman helps of her own accord, without provication. shes a keeper
a match made in heaven❤
L££ch£s are truly disgusting. She’s drooling at the mouth because now she can live that delusional lifestyle by spending his hard earned money.
This Tiktok is parody. The man she's talking about doesn't exist; this is a parody of what women want in a man. Unrealistic expectations
@@cjmusselman7982 What unrealistic expectations do women have for men, that men do not equally, if not more egregiously hold also for women? In a world of 8.2 BILLION, things that are supposed to be "uncommon" or "rare" are not actually rare. I do not think its too much to ask for someone to have a job, take care of themselves and be polite and respectful. Everyone has preferences and thats fine. You will also unfortunately get fringe thinkers who want things theyve been TOLD about but never seen, because those type of people consume fake entertainment and media which have been altered, (Porn, edited pictures, movies, etc.) and have no grounding in reality.
That's what we called a real Man.. respect for that Brother 💪🏻
Hopefully this man is living a wonderful life without materialistic people leeching.
Yup
Well, this girl is one of those
@@miguel190297yup
ever hear Marilyn Monroe say “don’t you know that a man being rich is like a girl being pretty? You wouldn’t marry a girl just because she’s pretty, but my goodness, doesn’t it help?” If she was a gold digger she wouldn’t be telling her girls she’d want that money for herself
Edit: guys i shouldn’t have to defend myself here. She very well could be a gold digger if she is that’s not cool but i don’t know for sure n I gotta support my girls. my intention is all peace n love with my comment
Run brother... all she remembers is what you own
That’s a man that values himself more than ever. Cherish that man
Edit: thank you to the people that can see the positive energy from her.
Yet she's already scheming with her friend on how she can take half of it away from him. Hopefully, he figures out how she's a dangerous addition to his life.
@@marcelowilliams4535Just because you had bad experiences doesn’t mean everyone else had😂
@@marcelowilliams4535bro it took me 7 women to find the right one. Not all women are the same… she sounds like my gf when I met her. I promise you 13 million women don’t think the same thing
@MrZaine97 7 so far! Just wait my boy
He could have hundreds of thousands of dollars of debt. What are y'all talking about? 😂 Just because someone has a nice house and car doesn't mean they'll always have them.
He was preparing for when the right one was sent his way. Stayed in his own lane, focused on his goals and is preparing for when the right one arrives. The genuine excitement in her voice shows she sees what he has done and is here for it all of it. Pretty sure she would enhance his life with an attitude of gratitude like that
Who's cutting onions here, I'm not crying
The right one is loneliness. Any other thing would ruin that guy's life
That's beautifully written!❤
Mutual gratitude is the key foundation of a great relationship. My wife and I both were convinced that we were out of each other's league - and that helped us forge an amazing marriage.
yeah, he will have that basement dungeon ready when the right one comes along... and is never heard from again. HAHA!
We all need a woman like this. Absolutely beautiful to hear and speak for all men. Go girl go. That's real girl.power.whst a Gem.
He was showing his enthusiasm. It doesn’t matter what you’re excited about. Being excited is a turn on for women.
Maybe there are SOME ground rules about where your enthusiasm should be directed.. but there's like only a handful of absolute no-goes, really.
@@angel_cat wym specifically?
Nah man. Enthusiasm for Lego is not the same as enthusiasm for improved living that would actually benefit a family. Nothing wrong with Lego but it doesn’t give our kids their own room or resale value on an investment like a house. It’s being responsible and capable that is the turn on.
@@V.Hansen.Being enthusiastic about something like Legos may not give you a better home or make it so you can get more money if you sell it. But think of what you will get if you share what you're enthusiastic about with your family. Not everything is about money.
@@TheFallenFaob not everything is about money except when you don’t have enough
A house that he's renovating himself, a car, and he's respectful? Lock that man down!
They b like but....
@@natedecoco615"But I don't like his shoes"
Everyones always so negative in these comments. :/
@@Bluewolf09 oh noo...
Nooo keep him free !!
Finally!!!! A lady who values a honest man!!!!
She was not materialistic, but rather in awe of this gentleman’s determination to be independent.
Ladies normally fall for aggressive imbeciles and then get surprised when these men turn out to be unkind and disrespectful.
Finally!!!!!
She was 100% materialistic, the heck you talkin about? And honest man? Do you know the guy?
Are you insane?
She saw: house, car, money. I am now interested in this man.
no she described he's car house and how he had bought his home so yh money aswell😂
lmao ALL women want is an honest man but y'all play too fucking much
She saw a gem in him. She saw that he can change her life and make it even better than before.
She is so cute. She appreciate what's important. I love her ! :D
Every time I come across this video, it cracks me up!
I married a man like this: 1000 percent self-sufficient. He can do everything a human needs to do except surgery. He gardens, fixes our cars, builds walls, runs electricity, he paints, does roofing, cooks, bakes, sews, hunts, goes fishing, does laundry, brushes our daughters' hair, wrestles with our boys, changes diapers, etc... and he is kind, not just nice, he's genuinely kind and will come rescue whenever necessary. His parents were successful at raising boys into productive, generous, protective, supportive men who are fun to be around and have a strong work ethic who could absolutely choose to marry out of want rather than need.
My brother is like this, too.
Media does a good job of portraying the standard make as helpless and intellectually challenged, but fully capable men are everywhere.
But, if you're not used to seeing that, particularly in someone under 30, it makes complete sense to be utterly amazed and sound baffled and bewildered. She's absolutely wondering how this is possible. It isn't about the car or the house. It's about how capable and responsible he is in order to have that car and to have that house that he is also remodeling all on his own. Being impressed is a natural response. Especially since most women find stability and security of paramount importance.
ANYWAY...
I love this video. She's so cute telling about her evening. She must often have animated stories for Mama to know she should pull out her phone. I'm so glad she did. It's a fun video!
Reading your blessing of a man is just truly beautiful 😍 I couldn't HELP but feel you called me single and ALONE in every partial sentence and word between each comma😂 but how beautiful U have it and how beautiful for your babies also!! They need that and seeing that between their parents makes it 1000000% more heart touching and beautiful ❤all the best lovely and god bless
❤from Australia 😊
Shay 🙂
As a man I can only dream about becoming a man like your husband. God bless him
Yes we want a fully adult Man not a child masquerading as a Man. Unfortunately, many Men have few practical skills, and lack purpose, direction, will, and work ethic.
There is only a few of you who can find us type. Glad he found someone to appreciate him. I’m still looking.
Good for you but honestly its not just the media. The pool right now is really that bad
The way she acknowledges him, thats all that a real man needs.
Barn doors!
Did we watch the same Video? All i See how fascinated she is of the things he has and none of the things was about the guy
Yeah, except she wasn't acknowledging HIM. She was acknowledging his THINGS. Huge difference.
@@stjepanlucic3922agreed. I feel shitty that thats what I notice but it does seem like all she sees is his nice house and his car. She was excited about how kind he was though.
Affirmative
If that man has a dog, makes sure no one kills it. He’s a man of sheer will and commitment
Something you know very little about
@@Elthenar who are you? 💀
@@thedonniechannel6314 A guy who knows the next line the movie, numnuts
@@Elthenar just got done squatting, so my brains working at like 10%
@@thedonniechannel6314 ROFL, I am literally about to turn of my computer and go to the gym.....for leg day. Pray for me sir
The more she talks, the more beautiful she becomes! One sweet woman!
those two are meant for eachother, he was respectful and welcoming, she was very noble and kindhearted
😂😂😂
Gold digging is noble?😂
@@TheMightyGoldenWesti wouldn’t call it gold digging, just because your tiktok addiction normalized the term “gold digging” doesn’t mean it is, she was proud of his accomplishments as a young man and looked up to his hobbies and his hard work in his personal life with his renovations, not at all gold digging
Yeah gold digging is noble lmao
@@Pnda_BearShe was talking about his brand new car and saying "I could start living like this"
A treat to see an honest woman appreciating a man’s achievements.
lol she was interested because he had things hahahha
You don't go outside much do you?
Why is it a treat?
We have loads of drunk girls that want a guy for his stuff on the east side of the pond
@@eddusii because he doesn't interact with women in real life, and the online garbage he consumes portrays women as monsters, which feeds his own confirmation bias about them.
You can tell the type of people she been with before by how she expresses her emotions and thoughts out loud.
It was her first white guy she said
@@tylerbroderick5029damn
@@tylerbroderick5029yeah where did she say that
@@tylerbroderick5029That makes no sense. She's white too
@@brandonjennen3673Find the whole video, this one's cut short. It is her first time with a white guy.
Nothing more beautiful than your significant other appreciating and getting excited over the same things.
There are parents that actually raise their children to be productive members of society.😂❤ She’s so cute.
Productove how?
Don’t see how renovating your own basement does a fucking thing for society but go off
@@PoutingScout sounds like your just a little jealous. 😂 it's OK one day you can do the same .
how does that make him jealous? it just makes him an idiot at comprehension
I knew, she has a beautiful soul! I can feel it
He sounds like a life worth living. May he end up with a happy family to go with it.
@@dominiqueritchey6795 he can't have both. It's very expensive.
@@davidtimus4026 maybe he'll be luckier than most.
@@dominiqueritchey6795 luck is a good thing to have, but it's a horrible investment strategy. Wives don't want luck, they require resources for the household. They tend not to do well with any competition to that.
On a sad country song, I saw a comment about a young guy who lived on his own in his own house, he was saying it’s hard to carry on in life much longer as his house doesn’t feel like a home still, women take men like this for granted, they’re “boring” I guess but damn we all deserve a happy life
@@cory123105 Exactly!
And he’s so respectful…
Hopefully some women can love and appreciate him like he deserves.
She better think twice about wasting her best years stringing men along and chasing a career.
@robburton3255. Absolutely agree. Those are the most important words that she said to describe him. If Reagan is able to visualize that, she may have a chance.
Lmao. These bots are crazy bro. Relax Guys. There’s millions of amazing people out there. I know you both wish you could be with this guy, but I promise you, there’s plenty of amazing options out there! 😅
@wps620 I love how men complain about women making their own money via work, spend all their time working and then cry when money is the only value they have to the women they choose 😅
@@coytle8860Men with money are chosen universally by all women. Pretending this is some sort of niche character trait is hilarious.
This girl is gold, her comic timing, is amazing, she has a real gift.
That's a young woman understanding how lucky she got in life and seems to appreciate it.
I'm ok with her. I approve her.
Agreed she's an astonished lady who understands what she found. That man must be something. Just hearing about him makes ME wanna meet him!
Like someone cares about your opinion? No one cares
@@yourdadow446 someone cares enough to comment on my opinion though..
Let’s analyze the clip real quick it seems like she’s more interested in what he has to offer. She never once mentioned if he was handsome or if he was intellectually, honest or morally good just “he has stuff” SUV House blah blah smh terrible and no one sees it is the worst part
@@darkcat5649at the end she talks about how respectful he was but it got cut off
This is a woman that’s never been with a good man but has a great father.
I pray that I'll be the type of father that ensures this will be my daughters first date. 😢🎉❤
@@robertwebb2865 Don’t think of it that way. Everyone goes through hardships. Just be there when they need it.
@@robertwebb2865 The only image , a daughter will use to find her own man is her father. So work on yourself, show her how a good man should be, she will use your image to filter out the shitty man.
In the full vid she says she's only dated black guys before this guy.
You need to find the original long video. She's a scank really. She said she's never dated a white guy before and she really thinks she's been missing out after dating this one and being treated right
The "I could start living like this" with hands on the hips is so freaking adorable
She’s already pretty much moved in at that stage he innocent game works everytime
She ment it the same way a Hermit Crab assesses a larger shell 😂
You see something adorable, I see a vampire, sucking out the dude last dollar. Imagine someone says I could live here that achieved nothing to contribute to it and to methis is the definition of losing your own house after divorce. You people are simps.
They broke up, she couldn't keep their personal life offline. Welcome to reality
@@mikelikesit2122 Really?
Why I deeply respect the guy, I‘m mich more happy to see there are women who respect and appreciate such men.
She doesn't at all, why isn't she talking about his character instead. No, she only wants his barn doors and car
She has seen losers and influencers wanna be. Then you see a good human that works hard and isn’t entitled and it looks like a miracle. I provide for myself but god is so nice to see another human making an honest living .
What makes someone a loser to you? As it seems by your comment that you believe that anyone of lower middle class or lower is one.
She's making fun of him. Barn doors, SUV with a screen, I can start living like this it's called sarcasm. She has a good sense of humor
The she will ruin it, like most modern vvomen like her😅
So having nice things makes a person a 'good human'? That's the problem right there. Most women will judge a man on how much money he has, rather than if he's kind or compassionate. Thus the reason why so many unkind Douchebag millionaire men have attractive women around them. The women encourage the wrong thing.
Say whatever negative stuff you want about her, she's clearly a keeper and is one hell of a woman. Some of you haven't been treated like dogshit by your "significant other," after working hard and putting in extreme amounts of effort and still not being appreciated. Women that appreciate the big things, cool. Women that appreciate the little things, the hardly noticeable things, truly phenomenal.
It's just what about him ??? Not what he does to showcase....
More ppl then you know brotha
What about her screams keeper? The stuff she is cataloging preparing for the divorce?
All things she never put a thought into................................................
Bruh she talked about his car and how nice it is the most. she's a keeper alright😂
Not only is he a keeper, but her showing genuine appreciation makes her a keeper too. These two are going to be great together.
Haha crazy how people don’t see what’s really going on here. A man can fall in love with a poor wmen who has nothing and that man would protect hr and dye for hr. But the way wmen love is different. She falls in love with what can be provided for hr. And if a good providing man ends up losing everything (even due to dumb luck), he will more than likely lose her too. She will leave him.
Great example is this video: His success brought her to tears. But her love and loyalty would bring him to tears. That’s the difference.
hell no.
She was going to his place for a hookup on a first date she is most certainly not a keeper
@@garydelong7750what in the redpill bullshit is this?
@@jameshunt4611Not red pill but I also couldnt help but notice that she mentioned his House and car but Not his character.
Guess thats what getting dumbed without explaination multiple times does to people haha fml
She was definitely impressed. The look of realization kicked in. She is so beautiful and sincere.
Thank the lord for men like him who treated this woman with respect and honored her. He showed her a good life and let her dream.... Thank you for being a real man for this young lady!
@@chrisgirone 🤢🤢
The fact she’s damn near crying when she says he’s so respectful is really saying something
She's crying becuse she sees a paycheck
She started crying about the big screen in the suv 🤡 your psychology sucks lol
Yes
Sir, self respect over rides any material form of currency❤ money comes and goes but good character withstands all tests of time!@@The.Right.one44
@@The.Right.one44 No, she sees a real independent real man
When a man do the opposite of what you expect it really hits a spot that was never touched… reality of life when it happens to you. Got you feeling some type of way you never know you could feel… I’m happy for you
This is what decent men usually do, and they aren't that exclusive. But more often than not they are ignored for their mediocre looks, height, or money, or any other superficial parameters.
@@psychomaniac4591 she was making fun of him when she said that. Not giving a compliment to his personality.
But what was the guy like ?.... Not his stuff.
Sad thing is, she’ll string him along keeping him in the “nice guy provider” category until she’s done “focusing on herself”.
ur that naive bro? i feel bad for you. the entire video is about his lifestyle and how much money he has and how she can use that, she said absolutely nothing about morals or why it was nice that he didnt try to have sex with her.
They belong together, absolute love, nothing else. Bro respects everyone. Cheers 🍻🫡 I salute both.
"He has possessions. That's so my type." ❤️
You're completely misunderstanding the situation based on stereotypes. You're only discussing what you saw, without doing any research. In a 30-minute video, more than two-thirds of the time was spent on her talking about him, with the rest focusing on what he had. She was describing this to her mother, so of course she would mention his financial and asset status. Women very often struggle to secure even average-paying jobs in America, so it's understandable that they might seek a partner who can provide a life that's difficult to achieve on their own. It's hypocritical to criticize women for wanting a good life when everyone desires the same. Men have clear preferences for their ideal partners, so why can't women have the same? It's unfair to be selective about looks but not wealth. While you can't significantly change your appearance, wealth can change dramatically and quickly. This attitude reveals a lot about your character, and it isn't flattering.
@@LetFenrirSoloHerI thought it was very good. He's a good man, that knows his goals with this girl. Provide. Not just sleep with and move on.
Nothing good about this guy and what he's doing. He's using his assets to try to sleep with this woman.
He's not trying to show her these things to make her his wife. He's showing her these things freaking bait her into the sack.
This is the reality of certain men. If you're showing off your crap like that, you're a simple man and you're going to get simple tricks who cheat on you@@DT-hb3zu
@@LetFenrirSoloHerThe women struggling to make even average paying jobs in America.
The dumbest thing I heard in a while. You clearly have no idea anything about America. Currently women actually on average earn more than men. Wow! What do you know.
Only the high-end earning men will show on average like earn more. But most the times been working the same job as a woman. Does four times the amount of work in that job. Yet either makes the same or less than the female counterpart.
You must have a low iq bro, the point was that he lacked sexual intentions when he brought her home. This was about his character not his possessions
Her story narration is impeccable. What a natural!
When a pure hearted lady meets a real man who respects and treats her well ❤
Nothing pure hearted about seeing what he’s built for himself and the life he lives and covering it for himself. She didn’t say nearly as much about the date itself or how he treated her as she did about the things I mentioned before and how it can be a better standard of living for her
@@julyanmathis434 *coveting it for *her*self... and you're absolutely right.
@@julyanmathis434Spot on, he's a means to an end for her to live the 'good life'
@@julyanmathis434I didn’t see that at all . Granted, most women are a f*****g nightmare, I just don’t think this was one of them.
This is so precious God bless her.
Bro is so wise. He was showing his quality by his actions. Also showing he appreciates fine things hints he sees her in a similar light. The young lady is not just cute. She is precious, and the guy acted like he knew her worth. God bless them both.
This girl has just found a real, honest and true man. Hope she keeps him and loves him as he deserves. Cause she is gonna be loved very much
Yea I'm gonna burst your bubble: she didn't.
Or she will cheat .. like normal
Poor guy doesn't even know it yet, that she's mentally calculating how much half his shit will bank her! Believe me marriage is a legal contract to which the woman gets rewarded for breaking! 😂
😂😂 he took 4 other girls there that same week
She will sleep with Tyrone and Chad first
Ngl. When you said he wanted to show you some renovations in his basement, my mind went in a completely different direction lmao.
Yes!!! ❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉
Same ... ON THE FIRST DATE!??!
Yeah, basements always trigger some alarms for me
I'm surprised I didn't think that way
Yeah, that usually ends with, "and he makes his own clothes, and there was a well in the middle of the floor. And he's got the cutest little dog! His van smells funny though."
He shows his prowess, his ability, while melting the heart of his prospective mate.
@@coreyk4218 Weirdo!
Bro not innocent he’s honest trustworthy loyal I don’t have words to describe that man ❤
Kinda sounds like you have at least 3 words to describe him......
"Honest, trustworthy, loyal"
You literally just used words to describe him
Used 1 more words than her:
"Money, please."
@@ozgecko4050 ahhh people are so dumb my comment means that nobody has words to describes men loyalty if he’s real men and be loyal with her women the words I used isn’t enough to describe that men loyalty cause being loyal in 2024 nah it isn’t that easy bro think deeply man
@@ozgecko4050 that isn’t enough to describe a loyal men
and when you understand what I’m trying to say you also don’t have words to describe your feelings
This is someone whos been raised to value things and respect peoples belongings. She seems an absolute sweetheart and glad she's linked up with a guy like she has!
Humbly and respectfully bro she is not respecting this man's belongings or the work that he's done. She said I can start living like this. Nothing about what she can contribute to him.Continuing to be this way, and if she don't get what she wants.She will burn everything To the ground.
Doesn't sound to bright. Goes to his basement on the first date? Glad my daughters know better😅
@@daytondane1617 exactly bro all i see is a women who wants things not a man.
Valuing things and people’s belongings doesn’t make you virtuous. How twisted are your values that you barely hear her speak about anything but what he’s built and owns and coveting those for herself but very little about who he is, how the date went, how she would even add to his life or support what he’s doing.
".. and he is so respectful." That's son-in-law quality right there
L££ch£s are truly disgusting. She’s drooling at the mouth because now she can live that delusional lifestyle by spending his hard earned money.
L££ch£s are truly disgusting. She’s drooling at the mouth because now she can live that delusional lifestyle by spending his hard earned money.
L££ch£s are truly disgusting. She’s drooling at the mouth because now she can live that delusional lifestyle by spending his hard earned money.
L££ch£s are truly disgusting. She’s drooling at the mouth because now she can live that delusional lifestyle by spending his hard earned money.
L££ch£s are truly disgusting. She’s drooling at the mouth because now she can live that delusional lifestyle by spending his hard earned money.
It keeps going...in my opinion..gets even better... she's a keeper
To all the folks saying she only complimented what he had, this is clearly a small clip out of a larger conversation. Hell it cuts off in the middle of her talking about how respectful he is. Half of this was talking about all the hard work he put into his basement. Barn doors are hard to install, the car requires hard work just to get, never mind maintaining it(which clearly he takes time to do since she chose the word “beautiful” to describe it). She’s complimenting his work ethic and the fact that of all this stuff he has, he’s still just a sweet respectful dude who wanted to share the fruits of his hard work with her…and clearly she appreciates it cuz she’s practically crying from how sweet and innocent it all was. And before you hop on the whole “i can get used to living like this” bit, thats called a joke. Plenty of men are just like him, plenty of girls are just like her. You’re just not used to hearing from the good ones because the bad ones are so much louder.
He's so clean...he could be a serial killer 😅
No one is perfect but it’s this kind of thought process that proves the point. The bad is so prevalent and vocal that when we hear of good we’re inclined to have misgivings, doubt, skepticism. We have little room in our hearts for good and we need to be more hopeful and pure. Optimism and joy are wonderful qualities.
I've seen the entre clip multiple times. She literally only remarks his material stuff and the fact that he is her first White dude. This clip isn't as cute or romantic as you think it is.
She would have no problem signing a prenup since she is so sweet and innocent.
He’s a keeper.
She too, if a woman sees you like she does, keep her.
But is she?
@@unknown.tv0436 Shes a gold digger
@@unknown.tv0436no she isn’t. She wouldn’t shut the fuck up about his material stuff.
@@unknown.tv0436no she’s not. She wasn’t impressed, she liked what he has.
Why is everyone hating on her for appreciating what he’s done for himself. I don’t at all get “materialistic” from her. I think she likes how genuine and respectful he is. All the stuff is just a bonus. She was talking about his intentions and she emphasized how respectful he was, so clearly that’s why she values him. Because he’s taking care of himself and not trying to use her
"did you see his car? its nice, its brand new."
I can live like this......that's the part I am rejecting her on. If she respects the money he makes then cool, but if she start asking for things constantly with the expectations of always getting a yes because he can afford it that's not cool. Lots of people men and women, get with someone who doesn't know how to manage money and expect to live the same way with 2 mouths to feed that they were living with one is an issue. It'll be like taking that jew SUV with the screen and buying a used one with no screen, taking that basement renovation and have it unfinished for ever, etc. split all the things he has in half.
He bought this house and its nice.An his car! Did you see his car, its brand new. She mentioned an praised what he had first,then she spoke of how it made her feel and she could get used to living like that...then and only then did she mention him, "an he is so respectful"
@@michaelvial125she brought up the house because he brought her to his house but wasn’t interested in sex. She praised how nice his house is because he’s been renovating it himself. It’s okay to like men for having their lives put together.
I’ve seen zero people “hate” in her. You younger people don’t know what hate really is.
I hope he kept her.. this right here
Ladies wise up because your competition it's making you look terrible... Praise this young gem of a woman
I pray that man has a long and happy life with a wife and kids who love and respect the shit out of him.
A true king
stop assuming everyone wants a wife and kids and just keep it to "happy life" however he chooses to define his happy life
@@lyerliar-nt7xw what reason is there to live life if you aren't sharing it with people you love. I would trade absolutely not one thing for my life as a father. It is hard sometimes but nothing easy is really ever worth while.
@@lyerliar-nt7xw who are you defending??
The way she got choked up is wholesome af. Like she saw what a good man can be like. A responsible man who's just excited about a project, who was respectful to her, and didn't try anything fishy.
And im still waiting to see what a good woman can be like. Fawning over what material things I have, is that really the best they have to offer? You seem to think so.
@@TheMightyGoldenWest The man went through a whole damn tour of his material possessions, and you blame her?
Choked up
On these nuts
Choked up on these nuts
@@TheMightyGoldenWest women like stability. We are the ones that create children and feel the most responsible for them normally. Bringing into the world a child in an unstable environment brings us no joy. Having a man that can help us bring stability and plans for a family is always welcome. Pregnancy and maternity are unstable grounds, mom and baby can die, become sick, develop PPD, have complications, etc. Having the reassurance that the man can provide, be a support and help is the biggest relief.
We cannot do it all as women, we have many shoes to fill, and having a guy so ready to be a father reassures us that he will not leave to get milk in the future. It's biological.
He's a hardworker. And a keeper.
how do you know he even exists?
Seems like she probably is too
@@TimBardos probably yes
@@TimBardosthis is the “my first white guy” chick. He found the moms tik toks and quit talking to her, rightfully so.
@@TimBardos he saw the TikTok’s and ghosted her after seeing her red flags. First white guy, has baby daddy’s, shares more with TikTok then with him. Classic 304 behavior. She is learning herself the hard way that once you in the streets, you aren’t leaving.
I love this girl 😍💕 #LoveThisGirl
He sounds like a man who was raised right and has his priorities straight. Shoutout to that dude. Props. Keep it up. Respect my dude. 🙏🙌💯
I just hope he has the experience to not be duped by bad women
Run brother... all she remembers is what you own
To bad she's trash
@@ankstuhful she's gonna his first lol she's to impressed by what he has.
@@TrueHelpTV Shut up TROLL
This is pure respect and admiation for a real man.
For what he brings to the table. Since when did women care for men for who they are? Thats right, never.
@@anderstermansen130 She met a stand up guy, try to be that stand up guy 24/7 and your chances of meeting a lovely lass like her are way higher. Even if you don't have the car and house, have class.
@@zoeybella234and what do i get in return? A 114% probability of getting dumped and ghosted anyways.
Its a game women likes to keep going.
@@anderstermansen130Nobody cares what you think about women. That's a you problem you need to resolve on your own. Choose better.
@@anderstermansen130at the very end of the video she says "and he was so respectful" in an admiring tone.
This is a man with lots of pride.
And all he wants is resoect!!
No he seen how excited she got over that new car and thought fuck this gold digger.
She's beautiful inside and out!
she is pure materialist
Sir Simps-a-lot rides in on his mighty Steed.
He put in the work. He deserves all of it.
If he worked for it he deserves a lot better than her.
@@ChichimonLeagues she seemed to appreciate him and want to be a part of his life. For someone who is killing it, that is t outside the realm of what he might want.
@@ChichimonLeaguesyeah, that gets you a down vote 🤡 maybe he could pull someone prettier or with a better body but what is that in the long run if you're trying to build a life? She's shocked and appreciative because up to this point in her life she hasn't seen this in a man. She probably dated smooth brains that think like you. He obviously liked her too because he wanted her to see what he was proud of.
@@rnjesus9950She seemed to appreciate what he owned
@@RundfunkerOnline she seemed to appreciate what he built.
I like how she was able to appreciate that man endlessly and recognized his talent and and the quality that he has. A lot of women would have take things for granted.
edit: I don't see how she is a gold digger she was just appreciating how amazingly talented that man was and he was respectful. It is true that in the US with the expensive labor cost home renovation cost a fortune. He could make a lot of money if that's what he is doing for work and that's good for him. However, she what's excited because she can see the future with this guy . If his child want a swing, slide, treehouse trampoline, I bet you that guy can make it himself and save a lot of money too. The apartment that he was renovating in the basement could be a man cave, a in-law suites or a rental. Let's be real you can't raise no kid without no money. That guy is a husband material and would be a great father.
If she thinks a 2021 car is brand new I do not consider her materialistic.
Underrated comment
Dont forget the money
His quality? The only thing she mentioned was his ability to do the renovations himself. The rest was just coveting his posessions..
@@Drikkerbadevandyep, wake up people. She would probably not look at him twice if he was in an old car living in an apartment. Don't matter if in the future they could have all that, they want the work all done lol 😅
@@engenhokas69 yep and in USA unfortunately its the worst
The way she says "I know, but he had BARN DAAWWSSS" really gets me 😂😂
500th like
thats not how she said doors but mmk
More like baurn doours
That is definitely attractive!
Not talking about what what they have or what shallow thing they did. Showing someone else what they worked really hard on ❤
Respect and gratitude are incredible foundations for relationships. We used to know this.
Wtf, she didn't once say anything that she liked about the guy! Only about all the stuff that she could get out of this😅 but I guess that's what sets a foundation. Men should be providers but if that's the case whatbdo men want?
I remember.
There are real gentlemen out there. And respectful ladies. This is nice to see
She is so innocent and she recognizes the guy's work! She understands the efforts! Sweet video!
L££ch£s are truly disgusting. She’s drooling at the mouth because now she can live that delusional lifestyle by spending his hard earned money.
L££ch£s are truly disgusting. She’s drooling at the mouth because now she can live that delusional lifestyle by spending his hard earned money.
L££ch£s are truly disgusting. She’s drooling at the mouth because now she can live that delusional lifestyle by spending his hard earned money.
L££ch£s are truly disgusting. She’s drooling at the mouth because now she can live that delusional lifestyle by spending his hard earned money.
Love it, as a 30 year old man with a daughter and loving wife... all we want as men is to be shown appreciation, even when my life sucks and my job was miserable (commercial fishing), them telling me they see my effort and they appreciated it... it literally is all a man needs is love
That's how i felt about my husband when we started dating too. He was a whole new breed of man, not bitter, jaded or depressing to be around, just focused on his life and building his future for the family he wanted.. i was a senior in college and it brought out the feminine side of me. I started packing lunches and waking up early to make breakfast. I would care for him when he's sick, take him on dates, make him homemade gifts etc.. not because he ever had to ask, but because i wanted to build a life with this man. To this day he doesn't lift a finger for things he wants and i dont lift a finger for anything i want.. we just living and loving ❤️
Your husband inspires me
Why don't you start a podcast teaching women how to be happy ?
You should give seminars.
At 44, I'd like to think I'll have this one day #lifegoals
Thats beautiful. Im 40 and still trying to be that guy ❤
She's not only assessing his belongings, but actually recognise his achievements.
Well said
i rather be loved for me that for meaningless material achievements like a nice car or a renovated basement
She’s evaluating his character through how he takes care of his possessions.
@@eskaban_edits_beats_and_more "Meaningless ... achievements" If you want to, you could learn how to create something with your hands too! It will make YOU love YOU more, and therefore have MORE to LOVE! Don't be bitter, be productive.
This girl’s reaction is so genuine! It’s nice to see someone so young realize she’s found a high-value man who will treat her right and provide for her. Her excitement about being with a guy who treats her respectfully and shows genuine interest is heartwarming. I personally respect this young lady for seeing through all the social media noise. Love it!
She didnt say anything about him other than what stuff he has until the last second and she only said one thing about him just so much about his expensive things
Hypergamy at its finest
These replies are so blatantly wrong :/ wish people would make the effort to find out more than what a 30 second clip can provide.
She only talked about materials and you respect her for it? This world is so fake.
@@Love_N_Let_Live 😂
The giggle after “I could start living like this” when she realizes what she just said. 💜
My favorite part it's when she said " I started to forget everything and was like wow i could start living like this " because nothing is settled in the apartment it's still in progress but seeing how respectful and how passionate is that man, she started to see her futur together, it's the type of relation i wish for everyone.
I think it's not. she said all the good things and good life he has. so she said she could start to live like this.
She has no future with that man, the fact she was in awe over a real man shows she’s been dating trash her whole life. Which unfortunately lowers her value ALOT.
Basically he’s a grown man and not a clout puppy and has his priorities straight which hell I think we all thought were extinct….huge respect to that guy fr, perfect example of self love and self worth
Then what is he doing messing with this type of woman?😂
@@Baker.Matthew What "type" of woman????
She seems nice.
@@boblangdon5253 amazed by his "brand new suv", yeah that sounds great
@@boblangdon5253seems nice? She listing the guy's assets, as that is what has attracted her.
Not extinct, they just don’t go on the internet or socialize as much with us. Good on them
“You don’t go into basements on the first date Raegan” 😂😂😂
meanwhile the video " you two wouldn't be an incentive for a"
Hahahahahaha I was thinking the same thing
Luckily the barn doors wasn’t the last thing you saw
@@davidtrunk705well to be fair she hasn’t been down there when it’s finished yet….hes working on her pen area right now
I know but he has barn doors!
A girl that knows and understands what’s actually important in life
Having things lol
"...... and he was so respectful....." thats what she really appreciated ....
It sounded more like she appreciated what he owned
She appreciated a house and a nice car that's brand new.... She is a leech
That was the side note at the end of all the things the man owned
@@insidiousmaximusno she's used to dating bums who don't try or apply themselves. This is the first truly successful person she's dating and she's completely shocked to find out men like that are real.
@@seraphim9906sounds like your an excuse maker she clearly loves materials and i bet you do too and guess what your a dime a dozen
Sounds like a great man and a woman capable to appreciate and support his efforts. Best of luck to both.
He wanted to show her he can provide.What a sweet man.She is impressed in the right way.
And all she offers is used box. American men are winning !
@@Joey-wq7iwguys will literally do anything for a used xbo.. oh what i see
She is one in a million , I hope they see each other as the one.
I love the fact she sees he’s actually practical and doing things for himself rather than just the money. He’s a keeper and by the sounds of it she is too!
That’s LITERALLY all she saw. What??
By the sound of what? She's legitimately only thinking about using his nice stuff, we get a single comment about the actual person she's supposedly in love with.
Keeper? More like digger
@@PeachDragon_ he has practical nice things. Not gold digger nice things. Normal things that people have when they got their shit together and want to settle down and have kids and shit.
@@PeachDragon_ I would explain it to you but it seems someone else has already noticed what I did. Also the fact she was impressed that he was building his own apartment in his basement. The excitement over him not wanting to sleep with her but show her how he’s doing his own thing tells me that’s what she was happy about. Yes he has nice things and she mentioned that but she made it clear from the first few sentences that she was impressed by how together he was, not how much money he’s earned
@@Batdaaag26283 no that’s what you saw, the rest of us noticed how she was eluding to how he didn’t just want a ride and how he had his shit together, that instantly put her into trad wife mode
This is how you make women girls cry, with tears of overwhelming joy.
Money leech
Have things?
@@ShippostFlagyou’re delusional. Get back to your books
@@PurpJones be responsible, disciplined and competent. What else could we want in a husband and father?
@@CarasGaladhonif she can add value to his life, fine. I don't think that's the case however. Statistics indicate she will get bored in a few years, divorce him and take his nice house with barn doors and any kids.
"Wow, I can start living like this"
She got personal real quick...😂
Please appreciate his workmanship honestly we just want someone to acknowledge it