So your self mood and behavior is formed by the external factor. Now how do we call this phenomena, I wish there was a video about it. Wait.. here it is.
@@FestiveScholar - lol! Good to know, we are alike in that way for sure. Have you heard about the scanner vs digger theory when it comes to people and their interests? Sounds like we are both scanners...i fish, cook, knit, write, game, and dabble in a bunch of hobbies. I blame the TX heat. 🤣🤣😋😉
This is what bugs me. I am intentionally looking for this theory and I could not access it. And yet random guys who are not benefiting from this information catch it randomly without being aware that they are holding diamond in the rough, pearls being cast to them and mistake it for the mud. Since 2015 I am spending weekly you tube patrols in order to learn about social anxiety - and yet this concept/ theory never came up in the search, not in any of millions of videos that I have seen ever mention this amazing discovery at all!! This makes me so angry I could scream! But I am pleased I have find it already. The closest information about this concept I discovered cca 6 months ago in this video, I'll need to go to this guy comments section now and introduce him with Looking glass Self - since he is in the dark too and suffers without this beneficial data for him: I'm sometimes afraid of going outside because I'm afraid that my neighbors are going to see me and then judge me for my yard not being good. I just assume people are judging me all the time. You bring a complaint to narcissist or something that's hurting you in any way - concern, pity, we always assume this is you judging us and telling us we have to be better. 🟥 Narcissists ALWAYS think you’re judging them I was in this head space of everyone thinks I'm weak and pathetic and they're judging me. I'm lashing out at people left and right. I had to call my buddies and you don't hate me, right? I'm convinced that I'm laughing stock everywhere because I feel like a failure all the time. This constant feeling of just everyone thinks you're not good enough, everyone thinks you're pathetic and I can't escape it. 🟥 Narcissists ALWAYS think you’re judging them It's insane that I have this strong emotional reaction to all this. It's why do I care so much about what people that I view as beneath me think of me. It does not make sense logically. And it makes me feel inferior on relying on the opinions of other people. But I can't escape it. The idea that anybody dislikes, judging me, or has an opinion about me that I don't like is actively distressing. 🟥 Narcissists ALWAYS think you’re judging them A lot of times in fairness I do deserve some of opinion. A lot of times some of these opinions are not even false. But just knowing that people have those ideas about me, those thoughts about me - I can't handle it. That someone hold opinion that I don't want them to have will make me self-destructive. It's so ridiculous saying it out loud. It's pathetic that I am having those reactions to the bunch of nobody's. All the time. 🟥 Narcissists ALWAYS think you’re judging them
I'm vibing to the beat in the background
So your self mood and behavior is formed by the external factor. Now how do we call this phenomena, I wish there was a video about it. Wait.. here it is.
Wow, was not expecting this after the Halloween decor videos!😮 I like these kind of videos. Communication is an art form for sure. 😋
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@@FestiveScholar - lol! Good to know, we are alike in that way for sure. Have you heard about the scanner vs digger theory when it comes to people and their interests? Sounds like we are both scanners...i fish, cook, knit, write, game, and dabble in a bunch of hobbies. I blame the TX heat. 🤣🤣😋😉
Thank you Sir Rick
You're welcome!
Great video and clear understanding
shad5236 thank you. I’m glad you enjoyed it!
I don't know how I got here but I appreciate the knowledge. Though the music is a bit distracting 😅
welcome to the channel!
This is what bugs me. I am intentionally looking for this theory and I could not access it.
And yet random guys who are not benefiting from this information catch it randomly without being aware that they are holding diamond in the rough, pearls being cast to them and mistake it for the mud.
Since 2015 I am spending weekly you tube patrols in order to learn about social anxiety - and yet this concept/ theory never came up in the search, not in any of millions of videos that I have seen ever mention this amazing discovery at all!!
This makes me so angry I could scream! But I am pleased I have find it already.
The closest information about this concept I discovered cca 6 months ago in this video, I'll need to go to this guy comments section now and introduce him with Looking glass Self - since he is in the dark too and suffers without this beneficial data for him:
I'm sometimes afraid of going outside because I'm afraid that my neighbors are going to see me and then judge me for my yard not being good. I just assume people are judging me all the time. You bring a complaint to narcissist or something that's hurting you in any way - concern, pity, we always assume this is you judging us and telling us we have to be better.
🟥 Narcissists ALWAYS think you’re judging them
I was in this head space of everyone thinks I'm weak and pathetic and they're judging me. I'm lashing out at people left and right. I had to call my buddies and you don't hate me, right? I'm convinced that I'm laughing stock everywhere because I feel like a failure all the time. This constant feeling of just everyone thinks you're not good enough, everyone thinks you're pathetic and I can't escape it.
🟥 Narcissists ALWAYS think you’re judging them
It's insane that I have this strong emotional reaction to all this. It's why do I care so much about what people that I view as beneath me think of me. It does not make sense logically. And it makes me feel inferior on relying on the opinions of other people. But I can't escape it. The idea that anybody dislikes, judging me, or has an opinion about me that I don't like is actively distressing.
🟥 Narcissists ALWAYS think you’re judging them
A lot of times in fairness I do deserve some of opinion. A lot of times some of these opinions are not even false. But just knowing that people have those ideas about me, those thoughts about me - I can't handle it. That someone hold opinion that I don't want them to have will make me self-destructive. It's so ridiculous saying it out loud. It's pathetic that I am having those reactions to the bunch of nobody's. All the time.
🟥 Narcissists ALWAYS think you’re judging them
my saviour thanks
why tf is ed sheran in the backgruond
heheh.
Thankyouuu for this! :)))
You're so welcome!
hi! really helpful video, thank you! Can you recommend me some movies that show and use the looking glass self?
This was so good!!!
Thanks for this awesome video. May I seek permission to use this in my class?
Sure!
Thanks for this great video! May I use it in my class?
Of course. Glad you enjoyed it!