When A Full Staff Can't Redirect & She Refused Shoes To Go Outside! 👇🏾⬇️

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  • On this day, NOTHING WORKED! All residents were in activities but Mama wouldn't go in there to participate. While everyone was occupied, she wanted to shop in their rooms. I tried, along with staff, to get her shoes on to outside and burn some energy. However, Mama refused to put on shoes. She walked around and around INSIDE for hours. She woudn't stop to eat or anything else.
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  • @missbk66
    @missbk66 4 місяці тому +26

    Crystal you don't need the gym after seeing Mama Norma. 🏃🏽‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️‍➡️🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @tammyjohnson8156
    @tammyjohnson8156 4 місяці тому +13

    She getting her steps in. Hopefully she’ll sleep good tonight.

    • @LindaGilbreath
      @LindaGilbreath 4 місяці тому +2

      ❤you keep her up to par, and love it. I know its not easy.🥰

  • @Emme2975
    @Emme2975 4 місяці тому +14

    Not sure what meds she's taking but I ask her provider if there is something more they can give her for agitation. As they move through the different stages of dementia, their medication management may need to be adjusted to keep them safe.❤

  • @christyhawkins8449
    @christyhawkins8449 4 місяці тому +15

    Miss Anne was a lady I took care of. She would walk all day and night. When she got tired, she would lean when she walked but always refused to go to bed. She was a school teacher and would always correct you if you didn't use proper english😊

  • @heathkinn
    @heathkinn 4 місяці тому +16

    Omg girl!!!…i wouldnt be able to keep that pace up…theyd find me on the floor passed out from exhaustion😅
    God Bless You and your patients honey…i admire your courage and sensitivity towards your mama….your a blessing and a-good daughter❤❤

  • @cdmc965
    @cdmc965 4 місяці тому +18

    I see why you cant keep her at home not sure why others dont. Your mom is going to do just what she wants. She is safe. Best of all, she has plenty of places to walk.

  • @litacoleman2246
    @litacoleman2246 4 місяці тому +26

    God Bless You, I Loss my Mom on November, 2022. She had Dementia and Parkinson’s. You are A Wonderful Daughter ♥️

    • @nilkaarcher5783
      @nilkaarcher5783 4 місяці тому

      I lost my Mom September 29, 2023, stage 7 of Alzheimer, she was 97 I miss her everyday.

  • @jeanniefox3350
    @jeanniefox3350 4 місяці тому +7

    I think Ms. Norma is pulling the wool over your eyes 👀 she loves the thrill of the chase!🤣🫶🙏

  • @sharonburt5478
    @sharonburt5478 4 місяці тому +5

    Hello tell the facility to PUT GRIP SOCKS ON Mrs.Norma they should have those in there supply room keep Mrs.Norma from falling when she doesn't wear her shoes

    • @ellefont3813
      @ellefont3813 4 місяці тому

      Norma walks really well and it look like most of the floors are carpet. She’s good.

  • @lisaian1962
    @lisaian1962 4 місяці тому +5

    Young lady I've been following you with your mom God bless you I am a retired nurse of 30 + years and I've worked in alzheimer's unit or dementia unit this is one of the symptoms that people have with your mom's disease they call it the wandering affect where they walk and walk until they usually wear themselves out my prayers are with you this disease can be very very overwhelming for family and staff my prayers are for you this process is not an easy one so I'm asking God to give your mom the piece to slow down I'll give you the strength and the and the support that you need to get through this God bless you

  • @marthaharris8722
    @marthaharris8722 4 місяці тому +8

    There’s no way to keep her at home safely. 😎

  • @henriettagordon4341
    @henriettagordon4341 4 місяці тому +5

    Just as long as your mom is safe and getting her exercise in, God bless her she still can walk and her posture is great. My mother hasn't walked in 4 years and I thank God for the staff that do the best that they can to help her and help me. God Bless you and your Momma Loves you.

  • @mekad7900
    @mekad7900 4 місяці тому +6

    Norma getting her exercise and forcing you to participate 😆

  • @stara1968
    @stara1968 4 місяці тому +6

    Greetings👑 It shows you are an amazing daughter , you only want the best for Mama, and you are doing the best you can . Please remember to take care of yourself first so you will be able to take to take care of Mama.❤ yall🫂🙏🏾

  • @nilkaarcher5783
    @nilkaarcher5783 4 місяці тому +1

    My Mom was a sitter, she sat all day only got up to go to the bathroom. I take hats off to you Crystal, you are getting your daily steps in with your Mom. May God continue to give you the strength, the Patience and the Love towards your beautiful Mom. When she does not respond to you calling her Mom, call her by her full name, they always respond.

  • @lyzcairo1044
    @lyzcairo1044 4 місяці тому +5

    I am glad she's in a nice facility for your sake as well as hers. I would probably go nuts if it was me and my mom.

  • @sharonanderson9584
    @sharonanderson9584 4 місяці тому +3

    That’s a beautiful home for the elderly

  • @Jesus-Gal
    @Jesus-Gal 4 місяці тому +5

    I'm so sorry you can't keep Mrs Norma still enough to visit with her. I'll be praying for her peace and ability to enjoy you like you want to enjoy her. Take joy in these walks though, because we never know when they will cease!

  • @natraltj
    @natraltj 4 місяці тому +3

    Let that women workout her way of peace

  • @carolynda537
    @carolynda537 4 місяці тому +2

    She’s going to live along time walking like that. That is SOOO healthy for her body . AWESOME 💙🙏🏽🙌🏼🙌🏼🌷💞

  • @Slena55
    @Slena55 4 місяці тому +1

    Mama is a runner in a track star..

  • @Solutions3000
    @Solutions3000 4 місяці тому +3

    She gets her exercise, seemingly, regularly.

  • @charesseslaughter3778
    @charesseslaughter3778 4 місяці тому +7

    God bless you dear woman! My mom passed from Alzheimer’s in 2019 and I was her primary caregiver. She was a handful and she was not nearly as feisty or busy as Ms. Norma!!! I’m so grateful that she has you, and I pray God’s grace, strength and blessings over your life!

  • @isisqueen1801
    @isisqueen1801 4 місяці тому +3

    What did she do, for a living...She is definitely active!....

  • @rhondacook5115
    @rhondacook5115 4 місяці тому +4

    I really enjoy watching you care for your mom Crystal, I miss having the strength to care for the elderly, May GOD continue to shine his face upon you and Miss Norma, such a sweet beautiful lady, you and her.

  • @queensnowbunny5770
    @queensnowbunny5770 3 місяці тому +1

    Have you introduced her to a treadmill? She obviously LOVES to walk and I notice when she comes to an end, she turns around to continue to walk. And Bless you, you are a good daughter.

    • @divasanddementia4925
      @divasanddementia4925  3 місяці тому

      She a fall risk. She cannot get on a treadmill. If she were to fall and break a hip, it would be over.

  • @dorethaalbritton2237
    @dorethaalbritton2237 4 місяці тому +3

    Norma said you better come on better keep up you’re gonna get left

  • @psychologyeats
    @psychologyeats 4 місяці тому +2

    Maybe you could use a weighted blanket when you get her to sit?

  • @user-ue2jh4ng4y
    @user-ue2jh4ng4y 4 місяці тому +2

    Hi y’all better stop playing yall need to put momma in the Olympic because she’s not playing with that track 🗣️🤣🤣 her legs r feet r strong 💪 for her age 👀👀😉 that’s how she keeps her figure ❤

  • @lizabaizan9285
    @lizabaizan9285 4 місяці тому +3

    Do she take any medicine? I love her❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jayrick5276
    @jayrick5276 4 місяці тому

    She's definitely on the move. I love Miss Norma ❤❤❤❤

  • @gaylahall2880
    @gaylahall2880 4 місяці тому +3

    Praying for you Crystal and your mother. In the name of Christ Jesus! 🙏🏾✝️✝️✝️🙏🏾

  • @snowdrop290
    @snowdrop290 4 місяці тому +2

    Love your videos. May God, continue bless to you and your mother with peace. My mother die 23 years ago when I was 38. I would give anything to walk in circles with her today. Be blessed

  • @yvettetoms5460
    @yvettetoms5460 4 місяці тому +1

    At least she's getting exercise.😊

  • @RhondaHicks-up6et
    @RhondaHicks-up6et 4 місяці тому +3

    God Bless you theres no way you could keep her at home because she just walks around and puts things in her pants for later lol !!! Altizimers is a cruel and awful disease shes such a beautiful woman too !! God Bless you both !!!❤❤

  • @dejavue54
    @dejavue54 4 місяці тому +1

    She getting plenty of exercise 😊

  • @jeninesmith3187
    @jeninesmith3187 4 місяці тому +4

    Do you have videos of her before she was diagnosed with dementia

  • @oldschoolallday100
    @oldschoolallday100 4 місяці тому +1

    she moves better than I do😂😂😂

  • @user-kn8jg6rj9e
    @user-kn8jg6rj9e 4 місяці тому

    Not one thing you can do just let her do her thing! Your doing your best ❤

  • @MindyAngelette
    @MindyAngelette 4 місяці тому

    I really love your personality! You don’t give up and you try to make the best of every situation! We need more people like this with their elderly parents. Some people have a bad experience with them and say well they don’t know me anyway and just stick them in a facility and move on. You make sure your mom is nicely dressed and even have earrings on. You probably are keeping her up the way she kept herself up when she was able. And I really appreciate that. I have seen some patients at rest home facilities that always look like it’s time to go to bed. You ma’am are a GREAT daughter! Keep up the great work and God bless you and your family! ❤❤

  • @Cookingkimsway
    @Cookingkimsway 4 місяці тому +1

    I use to work as a cna and the walkers as we call them will do this until they fall over their minds will not let them rest.

  • @paulineelliott99
    @paulineelliott99 4 місяці тому

    Mama not going outside leave her walk
    You see how strong she is that is from walking

  • @kimyouragreatcookauntbeeco2916
    @kimyouragreatcookauntbeeco2916 4 місяці тому

    Hello from Detroit, bless your heart and mama on the move💕

  • @evelyn7423
    @evelyn7423 4 місяці тому

    Hey hun has anybody checked the bottom of ur moms feet? She could have sores and due to her dementia she may not realize their there. God bless u hun u have the patients of a piece of coal turning into a diamond & the heart of a Saint🙏🙏🙏

  • @jessicag4297
    @jessicag4297 4 місяці тому +4

    When she does decide to sit/lay down, does she sleep for hours? Or does she take cat naps?

  • @jennahcollings1174
    @jennahcollings1174 4 місяці тому

    I love your nick name for her!❤. My Granny wouldn't be told anything! Couldn't keep her still for shit. Dr told her once she had alzheimer's and couldn't go home until she was back on her medication. All 4ft 11inches and 6 n half stone flew across his desk and popped him in the eye! He was absent from work for 3 day's coz it was swollen shut!😢

  • @roroharris6729
    @roroharris6729 4 місяці тому

    You are doing an amazing job ❤

  • @KristyRN
    @KristyRN 4 місяці тому

    I wish there was a way you could put a step tracker on her bet she walks miles a day if not more . I know miss Norma has a strong heart ! I know it isn’t realistic that you could keep a stepper on her but would be curious to see how many steps she takes in just one day

  • @lesliefrazier6424
    @lesliefrazier6424 4 місяці тому +4

    I was wondering did you ever find the guys remote. I love watching your videos you have your hands full God Bless you both.

  • @mariecollins4063
    @mariecollins4063 4 місяці тому +1

    HELLO FAMILY 😊😊😊 SIS YOU HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF 👍👍👍IF YOU GET SICK YOU ARE NO GOOD FOR YOURSELF OR MOMS OR OTHERS 😇😇😇 YOU HAVE TO HAVE SOME ME TIME AND THAT'S A MUST 💯 PERCENT AS LONG AS MOMS MOVING😅😅😅WE KNOW SHE'S ALRIGHT ALRIGHT ALRIGHT AND I KNOW THE STAFF IS NOT GOING TO LET ANYTHING HAPPEN TO MOMS 😇😇😇

    • @divasanddementia4925
      @divasanddementia4925  4 місяці тому +1

      You are right! I am working on putting myself on a schedule. Burn out is real. Thank you! xo

  • @quieda3009
    @quieda3009 4 місяці тому

    They don't sit down. My father paced until he couldn't anymore. I just sat a crocheted until he was tired. I knew once he sat for 15 minutes he would sleep. It's apart of the disease

  • @earnellduhart8847
    @earnellduhart8847 4 місяці тому +2

    Since I have been on this journey with you and your mom, I 've noticed a difference in her weight with all the walking. Is my observation correct? Wouldn't that be an improvement in her heart health with the walking exercises she gets in ?😊

  • @user-rk5ou8st3n
    @user-rk5ou8st3n 4 місяці тому

    Keep up the good work

  • @milrehenry-hy6rq
    @milrehenry-hy6rq 4 місяці тому

    God Bless her and you love 🔥☝🏿🙌🏿🙏🏿❤️🥰👑☝🏿🔥

  • @NickyLo9464
    @NickyLo9464 4 місяці тому

    Ms. Norma would walk circles around me. 😂

  • @natraltj
    @natraltj 4 місяці тому +1

    She is in lockup in her mind

  • @lindapringle1376
    @lindapringle1376 4 місяці тому +2

    What does her Dr. Say about her getting some rest

  • @lisahaynes6685
    @lisahaynes6685 4 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ziggyc3004
    @ziggyc3004 4 місяці тому +2

    What time does she ever go to bed at night?

  • @Ambitious1987Girl
    @Ambitious1987Girl 4 місяці тому

  • @obliteratemypssy
    @obliteratemypssy 4 місяці тому +7

    Catch me if you can 😅

  • @sharonparis8916
    @sharonparis8916 4 місяці тому

    I wonder how many steps she gets in with her walking.

  • @glendareid2470
    @glendareid2470 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @judgejenny2251
    @judgejenny2251 4 місяці тому +1

    🤗🥰🙏❤️

  • @Lil_Lee1984
    @Lil_Lee1984 4 місяці тому +2

    I wonder if they have enough staff to assign someone to do one on one with her each shift. As a CNA I would love to walk around with her all day lol.

  • @theresawebb1968
    @theresawebb1968 4 місяці тому

    Just let her walk she"ll get tired.

  • @thedreamer7240
    @thedreamer7240 4 місяці тому

    Ms. Norma getting over 20, 000 steps a day.

  • @bettybelongia7213
    @bettybelongia7213 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤😊😊

  • @angelawilliams4483
    @angelawilliams4483 4 місяці тому +1

    😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

  • @empressbutterfly
    @empressbutterfly 3 місяці тому

    CBD GUMMIES WILL HELP HER RELAX...SHE WILL SIT EAT AND SLEEP....YOU WILL BE ABLE TO SIT WITH HER...HUGS❤

  • @dorethaalbritton2237
    @dorethaalbritton2237 4 місяці тому +1

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mrslross78
    @mrslross78 4 місяці тому

    Does she sleep through the night well after all that walking

  • @1teema
    @1teema 4 місяці тому

    Go sit down😅

  • @missjackie7983
    @missjackie7983 4 місяці тому +1

    Ive watched these for a while without sound and dub titles
    She wants to be LEFT ALONE!!!
    she gets aggravated with what feels like harassment, a camera stuck in her face, being forced to eat, to not enjoy walking without being questioned about every little thing.
    Perhaps more of your time could be spent with other family and friends instead of profiting off of your about to go off on you mom!!

    • @RottenPeach0
      @RottenPeach0 4 місяці тому

      Usually Ms. Norma is sitting down, relaxing & crystal comes bothering her, & she starts the walking.