What if you have other kids? Do you abandon your other kids to kill this guy? What if one of the kids needs you and now you are in prison and can't be there for them?
Yup, my ex straight up told me that she was going to wreck the car while calling the police and say I was hitting her while driving and then cause the accident. So even if I survived my life would be over. The psychological damage I endured during my time with her is incalculable. But the absolute worst part.. is in a truly self destructive and wholly shameful way I still love and miss her. Life sucks lol
@josephicenogle9443 No shame in loving someone. Love is attached to the good in the person, the bad is just there to deal with. I do hope you can get help and support to recover from her abuse and toxicity.
But you FORGET the fact that BIMBOS WON'T listen to you. Meaning to say that women that "are with toxic men" are ALSO toxic themselves for being & CONTINUING in that toxic relationship in the first place... THINK about that. ...IT takes 2 to tangle.... And f*** TOXIC FEMINISM...
@@pedrogallegos9545 of course there are toxic women. That's not what this is about. This is about recognising signs and protecting yourself. I don't understand why certain men get so butthurt over women looking out for other women.
How do you forgive someone after they ran over your foot intentionally ? It doesn’t seem like he had any good qualities. You can forgive but you should never forget how they hurt you.
Guys as well, I have been manipulated by a girl who was dating a guy in the group, he got the worst of it. Another guy got manipulated into helping her cheat on the guy she was dating, and he was the second guy she cheated with. We weren’t able to even talk to each other without fear that the manipulator could be checking over what we said. And the last victim of the manipulator, another female, ended up bullying the guy the manipulator manipulated into cheating. He thought she was doing no wrong. The few other people who was semi-close to the manipulator, immediately started demanding an apology or for the bullying to stop, they didn’t & we’ve kicked them out of the group, but seriously the guys got the most shit from it. I have lived in places where I have had to practice learning red flags since I was extremely young, and I didn’t see the signs properly. It happens, but luckily we all talked about it when we finally got space enough to talk all about it. We may not be able to get away from the ‘copycat’ of the manipulator that targeted the male friend, and they are invading things that they have agreed to do, but some of my newer friends are still with the ‘copycat’ and we are going to prove that they are being manipulative (hopefully).
Left it and had instint to know if nectone wss being set on me.none of them like to leave victim alive. If you can telm people.my sister same. I left it unbroken the last creep used meas his scape goat and after he git woman. And tell ither people to hate on me and his eoman.welcome to club as far as srcond chances .sister and person made sure i died. Ihavr one violent shspeshifterstalking me and sister making sure i cant talk. Even if you leave they wont give ul murder
That's what I was screaming in my head the whole time I watched this!!! Dont want to blame someone who was trying to help but come on man you're just gonna let a dude sit on her head?!?!?! If it's a matter of saving thier life MOVE THEM!!!!
A word of advice from experience: an abuser will promise the sun and the moon, they will also make threats of harm. They will never follow through with those promises, but they will always follow through with those threats. Take those threats seriously, know that that is the real them, and everything else is a lie, leave, and don’t ever go back. Never. Not once. Not ever. Don’t give them that opportunity to follow through on those threats. My heart breaks for that poor Mumma. Nobody gives you a handbook, navigating through those teen years is tricky, especially when there’s a boy involved.. you just have to do your best, and hope for the best. I’m so very, very sorry that every mother’s worst nightmare became a reality. And kudos to the detectives for taking this case so seriously. That person should never be out in the community again. People like him don’t change, that other young lady dodged a bullet.
At the hospital Klinger telling his girlfriend "now we can be together and she won't be between us anymore " Any girl with sound mind would have immediately run away from this monster!
Listening to him speak to intelligently and articulately and convincingly; one can understand how this young girl fell under his spell so completely. Personally I would be more interested in my studies at that age than to some boy, but that's just me.
@@ronniemead805 you say that, but it's so easy to become entranced w "romance" at that age--especially if he can woo you (read:manipulate) like he clearly could. I was a full-ride academic scholar and fell into such a relationship. it's a horrible thing.
My daughter went through a very similar experience but we were lucky and got her away from him after he kidnapped her and held her hostage at his mothers house. He tortured her, raped her , burnt her everywhere with a cigarette and lighter and the list goes on. All this happened while his mother was in the same house knowing what was going on in his bedroom. We looked for her for days , his mother telling us she wasn’t there when we were out looking for her. Once we threatened the mother with police being called he finally let her go. But that wasn’t the end, he stalked her , threatened her and us. An AVO was useless , he broke it so many times and was never locked up for it. We ended up having to relocate her to another state for her to feel safe. He went to jail for the kidnapping charge but was only sentenced to 3 months jail because my daughter was too scared to press further charges of the assaults she endured over a 18 month period. DV is rampant in Australia because the perpetrators know they wont do jail time.
Women allow that stuff to happen to them then they play the victim card cause they make poor choices in men women are easy to manipulate that even there own tricks are not working that's there a bunch of cases like this smdh
@@artemiotorres92 That is the most ignorant, pig-headed, idiotic statement I've ever heard someone make regarding DV. Read some facts please, you are oozing idiocy.
Wow! Blame the victim eh. The parent above said that their daughter was kidnapped and tortured. And this happened while there was another person in that house, the boyfriend’s mother. Why blame the victim, and wash the hands of abusive men of their actions?
@@derekedwards811 he literally abused her and had threatened to run them off the road before. He was facing charges and they have proof of him lying. You actually think this was an accident? Lol
@@derekedwards811 there are just so many things you said that I need to counter but I don’t have the time or patience right now. But I will state that he, at that moment didn’t care if they both died. By some unfortunate divine intervention he was able to step out of that wreck and do what he did. He had many chances to stop what he was doing.
@@andrearedburn7345 women? Nah, the women that like men like this are damaged. Whether they had shiity neglectful parents or no/bad father figures. I wouldn't even date someone who smokes cigarettes. Let alone someone who speeds down the highway. There's nothing attractive about any of them.
I'm small, but if I heard someone screaming "get off me!" I would lunge and do everything in my power to stop the attacker. I'm not blaming the witnesses, but they should of been smarter than that and helped the poor girl. It's called the bystander effect I believe. That's what happened with the witnesses.
I feel that as a women, if I had heard this...I would be scared for my well being. If there were multiple people hearing this, I wouldn’t feel as much fear. But you just never know.
@@lcjones0519 She relapsed. Ask anyone who has dealt with addiction, each relapse carries a risk of death higher than the previous. She was at fault, to a degree. Had she not relapsed, she would've never been in the car.
@Christina Sornbutnark, that is so true. My dad beat my mom daily. He would stay out late and come home drunk, any little thing would set him off. I was 11 when she left him. I was the youngest of 4 at the time. She got married again and had my little sister 6 days after my 12th birthday. My soon to be my ex husband and I got married when I was 21 and he was 23. I told him from day 1 if he ever hit me that I’d be gone. He never hit me, he’s an alcoholic, wasn’t one when we got married. After being married for 35 years I finally left. I couldn’t handle who he turned into when he was drunk. This is my first time living alone. We have two daughters and he was amazing. After I had each one, he would get up when they woke up, told me to stay in bed and stay warm, I breastfeed both girls. I can honestly say that had he not started drinking, we would still be together. So, I watched it happen to my mom and said that would never happen to me. I did talk to my girls about it and I treat their husbands like my own son’s. I’m very proud of how they treat my girls. After my divorce is finalized, I will never date again. It’s been so long since my first date with my husband and I feel like I wouldn’t know who to trust. God bless the teenager girls that are starting the dating phase of their lives and keep them safe. ❤️
He intentionally went 120mph with her in the car, that's definitely intent to kill her. This gaslighting narcissist is gonna reap the rewards of more jail time if he gets his appeal. To Sammy's family, I am truly sorry for your loss. This guy has hung around enough inmates that told him a story, and now he's going to manipulate everything to get himself out, but God is on your family's side.
Exactly my thoughts. He is a narcissist who thinks he can talk his way out of jail. He will talk his way into a life sentence without possibility of parole
No, he's gonna file another appeal using his narcissism as grounds for a retrial.😒 I guarantee what happened was he starts talking to numerous convicts, hearing their lighter sentences (not everyone goes to prison for murder) shared his “story” comparing crimes/sentences, all while maintaining some bullshit narrative like he gave here, probably something to the extent of vehicular homicide/manslaughter downplaying the hell out of it so naturally they're all, “You need to appeal. Yeah you got screwed.” Never hearing the actual truth of what he really did.
Wait. No one got him off of her??? If I’m hearing her say get off me. And watching him sit on her face. I’m not gonna let it happen. He’s getting his @ss dragged off of her
“Doesn’t sound like my character” said from the guy who shared explicit photos of his underage girlfriend to his buddies...yeah you’re a real polished gentlemen, Ben 😑
And the possibility that that POS may have got her hooked on drugs/alcohol. HE has visible track marks on HIS arm’s, when he’s with her and they are smiling and visible track marks on his arm when the police took a photo of him. No disrespect meant to the victim. 💜 RIP Sammy 💜 Just something I noticed when looking at HIS ARM’S and pausing the video seeing visible track marks on HIS ARM’S.
I feel so bad for her friend Paige, you can tell she harbors a lot of guilt by cutting off Sam after she found out they got back together again. I hope she forgives herself.
@@mraymer6344 naah she doesnt have to hang around someone who keeps going back to their toxic ex, even if it's hard to get out of the abusive relationship. The toxicity of their relationship will spill all over, over time. sad but can't fix someone who isnt willing or unable
@Kristen Hotchkiss Pillow Pants ended our relationship and hurt me really bad. Luckily Lister Fiend didn't get to do any permanent damage like pp did. Women....
Well granted the cops didn’t know any of that at the time, they were just following protocol for a car accident. It’s up to the people at the scene ultimately to adjust to any issues like if he was on top of her to move him enough for her to breathe.
If this clown "doesn't remember anything", what the heck does he want a trial to 'tell his side of the story' for? According to you, you ain't got no story to tell. You said you don't remember a damn thing! Gross.
Right?? Amnesia is not a valid defense. At all. What a tool. He needs to spend some time in the law library there in prison. He'll get laughed out of court for that one, right back to his prison cell. Not to mention what you said!!! If you really didn't remember anything during - and for a period of time before and after- the accident, how the hell do you know what you did or didn't do??? This tool has been sitting in prison and between beatdowns been listening to too many jailhouse lawyers, lmao. The D.A. is going to have a field day with his "appeal".
In other words, by year four he had plenty of time to think of a storyline. He was feeling stir crazy being locked up all the time and wanted to use the daily trips to the court for entertainment and fresh free air. And because she was haunting his dreams and every waking hour, he figures he’d repay the debt by dragging her name and her memory through the mud just because he has nothing else better to do for the next 28 to 56 years.
To all the ladies, and especially the young ones: this is coming from a guy. A guy who loves you will not hurt you, both physically, and mentally, and also control your life. A guy who loves you trusts you to make the wise decisions and encourages you to have a life with your friends, while you are her mate for life at the same time. The only time a guy should touch you ladies is to kiss you, just because we love you. To hug you to feel your compassion and embrace and love. Okay.........and for intimacy if you know what I mean. Please do not think you are, "the one who can tame the beast". Every wild beast shows restraint at first, but even in a cage, his instincts will become evident over time. Even a caged tiger at the circus turns on their owner over time....... If a guy truly loves you, he will change eventually. If you do not see change, it doesn't mean you are the problem: it means you are not the one he wants to change for the better for.
I’m in tears, that she was alive after the accident and he smothered her. Abuse is so sad. Mental abuse can be so much worse then physical. May her family find peace.
I've been through Both! Ex husband was very abusive! My mother was extremely mentally and verbally abusive. However, I survived both who were suppose to love me-THEY DIDN'T.
My ex manipulated me and abused me mentally and physically. I now have his son and so scared of him to the point I have to put a restraining order on him and need therapy. Anyone els who goes through this or what I did is strong. Keep your head up girly or boy
@@brittanyjagielski7993 proud of you for getting out of that situation, it's so hard to leave often times and takes a lot of courage. I hope your worries get put at ease as time goes on and baby and you have a beautiful life
I know flipping bizarre. Yeah I'm telling the dispatcher he's sitting on her face purposely suffocating her, doing the right thing changes that right then and there I couldn't watch that.
Be strong for her . You all stand together , family & friends. Let this dum ass. Pay for what he did to a beautiful girl . To the D.A. Get this fool , God Bless y’all 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽.
I think they assumed he ended up there as the crash happened and then listened to the 911 operator to not move them. I still would’ve done it though. Poor girl
@@mmooraj you don't abuse gang members they find out your victim was a child and they will use you to get further up in rank by beating or killing you. He's famous for his crime too
I like the aunt’s quote at the end: “He’s not fighting broken people anymore. We’re strong now, so bring it on!” Thankfully his request to withdrawal the plea was denied.
Human demons are real, male and female. The Sucubus and the incubus. Be careful who the sex is had with. They have no soul and want them. Misery loves company... self love is the best love.
They would do it again. You gotta talk to them as much as you can about abuse and how these people will never change so they can remember that even as an adult
Show them stories like this. I've shown my son and my daughter so they know how to be treated and not, and how to treat other people and not. If anything goes wrong to know they always have me and a house they can hide in away from controlling abusers too (not the house where I live in case a low life came here too). I even told my sister she could stay in our rental when she moved in with a random she didn't even know. Honestly these people who think they own other people OMG there are so many of them conning people with pretty words and fake actions.
He intentionally killed Samantha and he knows it. It’s no coincidence she died in the exact manner in which he had threatened her many times. RIP Samantha
This is why I don't let my kids out of my sight and no phones etc. THis country is going to hell. Too many losers roaming around. We need to go back the olden days where kids got corporal punishment in school etc. Too much BS now.
I really hope that he's rotting in jail and nobody's giving him money in jail because I think people are able to give prisoners money so that they can buy snacks and whatever at a store inside the jail or maybe they order them in I don't know how it works. But I hope this clown has to do without. Or at the very least have to defend himself against bigger men that don't care to hear HIS sob story.
It was a chaotic situation, the 911 operator Said not to move them and most of the time "normal" people can't even conceive that somebody would get up after a car crash and sit on the passengers face to kill them. It's so cruel and horrible they probably didnt even understand what they were seeing
No offense but I would have stopped him from being on her head... No matter what the 911 operator said or tell them he's sitting on her face suffocating her
191715261426152616% agree!!! I thought that was common sense. And if you see him sitting on her and he looks injured too(pretending), you tell the operator and let them know you have to move him, so she can BREATHE! I don’t get how they just say there, no matter what they were told-.-
The bystanders after the intentional crash heard her screaming “GET OFF ME” and didn’t think to tell the 911 dispatcher?! They didn’t say anything and they didn’t do anything to help her. That’s shocking. The dispatcher didn’t say to her her because he didn’t know she needed help!! I hope this tragedy will stay in our minds for the rest of our lives so that if we’re confronted with something like this we’ll all take it seriously and say something AND do something to help someone in need. I’d rather become a victim of the perpetrator than to live the rest of my life knowing that I did nothing to help a person who was being harmed. None of them even thought to tell the dispatchers what they were seeing and hearing? At the very least, say something!!
It is shocking how some people feel detached, like it's not there job or problem. I say they were cowards, it only would of taken one person to run over and help her.
Why didn’t they mention anything to the dispatcher? When did they first mention incriminating details? Why is the ‘detail’ that he was sitting on her head suffocating her not mentioned by the prosecution now? Was the “asphyxiation” due to internal injuries & only mentioned to make him look more guilty? I need more answers. These channels are very state, prosecution & police supporting…
I completely agree that we need to take our moral responsibility to other people seriously. I’m disgusted by those who only say or do something later, once it’s often too late!
All woman must make a decision to move away from this kind of furious boyfriend, or even after marrying, do not be afraid or shy to divorce him. Or, he must be willing to really change, or see a psychiatrist together. Do not just think nothing bad is ever gonna happen.
I just wanna know why she was smiling so, much while talking about all those bad things. Personally, I never smile when telling people about the sudden, tragic death of my daughter and only child. So it makes no sense to me when I see all these people smile like they do while talking about the bad times their loved ones experienced.
What a nasty piece of work. I lost my daughter in a car accident, her boyfriend let her drive, under the influence of alcohol, because they were celebrating coming to stay by me a week after the accident. I spoke to her 10pm that night, saying we can't wait to be together, I at that time, stayed in another state as her. I will always feel guilty by leaving her, I can just imagine what this family went through 😢 😢 😢
Not just the wrong guy, but a guy who isn’t fit to be a part of society. He should never be allowed to be around another woman again. I’m so glad he didn’t have a child. I couldn’t even fathom how he would’ve treated a kid. He’s a terrible human being and I’m glad Sam’s family is ready to fight for her. RIP beautiful soul
A beautiful soul, did you actually know her personally? If not STOP. Your comment makes it seem as if you're just trying to get likes and I hope others see it as what it is.
This is exactly what I thought! The woman who supposedly heard her yelling for help did what, ignore her??? Because she obviously didn't help. Plus the truck driver who saw him sitting on her. What dumbass continues to allow that to happen? Some things just aren't adding up.
Most likely is the "bystander effect." Bystander effect is a real psychological aspect of human behavior and it happens more often than you would think. A lot of psychological perceptions, decisions, and behaviour takes place in an instance. Factors such as the bystander’s emotional state, the nature of the emergency, and the presence of others can influence his or her ability to realize that something is wrong and that assistance is required. Sometimes their thoughts leads them to believe that if someone is already helping then they might not be needed because they might interfere, or the opposite, that if no one is helping then they question if what they perceive as someone needing help might be the wrong thought. So sometimes when the need for help is unclear, bystanders look to others for guidance and might not find it because others have the same unclear thoughts.
He deserves to be given the death penalty! How horrific for her family and friends. What a lost of a beautiful girl. I can’t imagine what she endured. Stay strong family! He will get his in prison.
She is the kind of person that I like to hang with, she was the type of person that make you laugh and forget your worries for a little while. My condolences and prayers for Sammie's family and friends.🙏
If an older man was romancing my teenage daughter he'd be warned to back off. I'll gladly make him eat lead if he came onto MY property to try and pull his abusive shit with my kid after that warning.
The fact that she was screaming get off of me tells it all. That’s why you should stay away from people who show you they don’t care about you at all. As soon as he saw a opportunity to take her life he took it which is completely disturbing because it shows who he really is and what he’s capable of. He didn’t care about the other woman. He wanted to end his life and hers too but once they lived he took hers then went to the other girl, who he probably emotionally destroyed. He’s obviously a monster in plain sight.
He didn't want to take his own life. No way. He probably planned where he would crash with her in the passenger seat. Might have even had extra protection in the driver's seat. This guy was diabolical...
Its a shame. She shoulda left but didnt. Let this be a lesson to all the young ladies in the world. Dont be stupid and stay with an abusive boyfriend/husband. You might end up dead.
Right!?!?!?! Like they literally said he walked around the car and sat on her. There is no way they didn't see that especially if they heard her screaming for him to get off!!!!!!
*** READ THIS: I went to high school with this weirdo and they were dating during the time! He was the kind of kid that made jokes that no one thought was funny, and he talked too much. Sam Heller seemed like a nice girl, she seemed shy unless she was around her friends. Then she would act pretty goofy (in a non annoying or disruptive type of way it was cool). I had a study hall class with her. Ben Klinger was a pill head. Some of us would go over to the park right by LMH (Lancaster Mennonite HS) and sometimes he would just drive over by himself and try to include himself with the "cool kids" (a lot of people usually went over to the park after school). One day, when he was there, my 2 friends and I snuck in to his car and stole his Adderall. He would sell my friends and many other kids his Adderall because he was prescribed to it. Sometimes he would just hand them out for free to make friends. He was the type of person that cared about what everyone thought of him and always wanted to be included. He would make fun of other kids just to act "cool" even though no one thought it was humorous. It was more like, "Why is this dude here who invited him?" That was his type of personality. There was a time towards the very end of senior year (I was a grade above him) where Sam almost kinda stopped interacting with people it seemed like. I didn't really see her around as much as I did before. LMH was a small private school so it wasn't like there were a lot of faces around campus. We had chapel meeting before school some days where the entire school would sit and she usually sat with the same friends in the same spot. One of my best friends from high school was friends with her and they would be talking many times on the way to class because they had a class next to each other, so that's kinda how I know this stuff. Anyways, that Ben Klinger kid can't be trusted for shit and I guarantee he'll do the same to someone else, one day, if or when he gets out of prison. RIP Sam and condolences to her family for their loss.
Growing up in counties like yours and a lot around you- seemed to always produce couple nitwit douches like this- spoiled with lots of freedom to wreck havoc, parents $ bought them cars and whatever else to keep kid busy happy out of their face. Boredom, too much vacant time, empty roads/ valleys / parks- Idiots all over the place thinking consequences are other peoples problems.
I do not understand how the witnesses could not intervene when they heard her screaming and saying "get off me." I cannot even comprehend hearing that and not helping her. That poor poor girl. She was failed by so many adults.
@@helengormlie966 I agree but we also have to understand that at her age she lacked the reasoning and as a teenager when she started this relationship she was 15 years old. Teenagers have more synaptic connections than adults which make them impressionable as they’re building synapses which lead her to make unreasonable and poor decisions. Adults needed to take the reins as the same can be said to his parents/adults in his life.
I guess you didn't hear the parts about this nearly-adult _child_ refusing to listen to anyone. She knew what was "best" for herself. She was _wrong_ and the price was very high. _Take notes, angelina._ Your life is in your hands at all times.@@angelina-aisha
I've watched this case MANY times and find it very sad every time I watch it, no matter how many times I watch it. i understand this young girl. I was in a narcissistic relationship for six years and he ruined my life. stay safe and watch after your children.
What a tragic case, another young lady loses her life, and for what!? There's always signs, ladies. Please love yourselves, know that you don't need some loser to give you validation. Listen to your gut, and pay attention to the red flags. Don't allow anyone to put hands on you, nor mentally abuse you. You are worthy of happiness! This also goes for men, don't allow women to abuse you. You all deserve to be loved and respected.
@@dibel3669 your self respect should be worth more than dollars. You can make lots of money doing jobs that don't degrade you. And you might not want to think its degrading, but it is, so..
Sometimes daughters need to listen to your mothers, fathers and friends. You think that they don't understand, but they do. Your the one that doesn't understand because of your emotions.
@@kime6706 Not really. Too many variables. They are never going to go away. Are they taught or are they born to be a psychopath? They don't "feel" the way you or I do. Not all psychopath's kill. Some are indifferent to our social values and to anyone who stands in their way. Girl's need to be taught what a healthy relationship looks like and that they can't change someone just because they love them. First sign of cruelty, get out and leave them. It is that simple.
This girl had no chance. Where was her dad? The adults in her life failed her. This happens to many kids from broken homes. They end up with psychopaths and in toxic relationships.
My ex fiancé did this with me in car…drove into the oncoming lane. One of the scariest moments of my life. The feeling of helplessness is impossible to explain. Thankfully, I’m OK, and he got fat and lost most of his hair lol. Total psychopath. Married my husband last year, and we have a great life with our dogs. 💜 Ladies, you can’t fix them. When you see those red flags, RUN.
*I’d EPAR (read backwards) this lil’ CUTIE 😍!* *You know, hold her down using brute force and put it in her anigaV (read backwards). Give it to her AGAINST her will 😈. Give it to her like a REAL man should.*
Let me tell you something most people are cowards. You think people will help you and step in when they see something wrong happening. Nope most people won't!! Its extremely sad and makes me angry that the bystander didn't even try to stop it.
@@frenchvanilla7109 the bystander was on the phone with 911 and asked if he should move them and the operator said don't move them before could explain
I understand that 911 told the people not to do anything...and I am not blaming them at all...but if you heard her screaming and saw what they saw - I just don't understand, I guess. Maybe they were nervous it would burst into flames? I can't speak for them, but even in the call, you can tell those screams were more than just the accident.
@@johnnyflannigan136 I don't mean that as ill will towards the driver by any means, I just mean it as, it really is surprising he didn't see what was happening, guy literally on top of her.
@@HannahMattox They said he appeared unconscious. And the dispatcher told him not to move her. Pulling someone off her definitely would've moved her from his weight and the force of pulling. People have been paralyzed due to being moved after accidents by untrained individuals, that's precisely why they tell you not to move them. I can understand not wanting to be responsible for essentially ruining someone's entire life. Plus she was screaming so it's safe to assume she can breathe. Almost every person would assume you're all good if you can scream like that. I would just assume she's in pain and screaming what any person would scream if someone or something was on them.
@@minxymoo2325 I get that, and I know that part, but wasn't the guy, like... Sitting up? You'd think if he was sitting up, he was probably okay to just kinda scoot him off her face or whatever. It's been a while since watching this video so I'm a little fuzzy on all the details, but I mean, dang. He suffocated her because trying to kill her with the weight of a vehicle didn't "do the job" for him.
You can't blame yourself for walking away and not letting the bad decisions of another drag you into the nightmare they have created. My brother went down the rabbit hole of drugs and alcohol and was a violent, raging monster. The coroner believes that he took his own life. You can't help those who don't want to make better decisions for their lives. I miss the brother he was before the addictions but I have no guilt, only sorrow that he wasn't able to climb out of the hell his life had become.
He was always a bully and mean person. I can't believe I stumbled on this video, I went so school with them both, even rode on the same bus as him. Hes a predator. Always has been. I hope he never gets out.
@@TinFoilCat90 I don’t think the people should’ve been charged BUT it’s incredibly stupid of them not to get him off of her. She’s literally screaming get off me and her face is in the ground with a grown ass man on her head ... why would common sense not tell you to get him off ? If he made it clear that Ben was on her head they most likely would’ve told him to get him off her head.
@@blakeb9964 Dumb, beauty is subjective and she stated he was a great person to her initially but it fell apart over time. I don’t really think he’s ugly but I’ve dated uglier coz I thought they were good people lmao
I don't want to sound rude but it's not like she was beautiful tho...people always call someone who did something wrong ugly. I'm not defending him hell no what he did was fucked up but still i bet if he didn't do it no one would say a thing if he is ugly or not. He wasn't handsome and she wasn't beautiful just a normal looking girl.
@@Isus24-s8e there’s no reason for people to comment on people’s appearance if they did nothing wrong. So yes nobody would even say he’s ugly or handsome if he had not fucked up. What is your point that you are trying to make i’m quite lost there.
@@rarebreednoel id be getting charged for not listening to 911 than cuz no way am I going to be able to sleep soundly knowing I simply stood by and allowed a person to be killed... Shame on every one of those by standers and I invite anyone who was there thst nite to counter my argument...something tells me thst social media and other media outlets would blow the shit up out of me saving someone's life despite a 911 dispatchers orders... SMH 🤬🤬 Not at u hon smh at the bystanders
Parents, PRESS Charges and FOLLOW thru when your minor children are involved in an inappropriate relationship. Do whatever it takes to remove your child from the situation. Kicking your child will only make things worse.
Omg I can’t believe people stood by at an accident scene and did absolutely nothing to stop this guy sitting on the girl 🤬🤬🤦🏻♀️ seriously wtf. Come on this guy on the phone was a trucker why the hell would you watch him sit on this girls head. Omg listening to him on the phone makes me so angry ….. people have to understand that this guy had 4yrs sitting in prison to work on this story🤬🤬
This guy intentionally killed this poor girl. He drove at a high rate of speed and drove towards that guard rail which impaled her side of the vehicle....he knew what he was doing. The fact that he was able to walk around to her side of the car and sit on her head is a sure sign that he had a plan. He was wearing a seatbelt and basically made sure he’d walk away and she wouldn’t. Life in prison without the possibility of parole is what I’d see fit for this guy. Or the death penalty. And let’s not forget what he had saved in his phone in place of her name. May Samantha Rest In Peace and know she is loved and thought of each day by her family and friends and those of us that have heard her tragic story - let’s all remember what a sweet, fun young lady she was.
I grew up with this girl in high school. She was sweet and always hanging out with friends. She always tried to see the best in everyone. Some days I think about her and I am surprised how this story blew up to this day.
She and her mom sound quite trashy. A minor dating an adult and the mom knows about it? The daughter giving out house keys to a house that isn't even hers? The daughter supposedly getting pregnant? Thinking you're pregnant, as a teenager, for a guy you aren't even with? This just all screams trailer park trash even if they lived in a house.
You never drive recklessly even when you are alone. Driving recklessly indicates that you have no regard for life or else you're just an immature idiot. Even that is not an excuse. With Every Breath You Take I hope you remember that precious girl Sam. She never got the chance to fulfill her god-given dreams because of a hot-tempered idiot. Live with it Benjamin. I hope it haunts you everyday....💩
He's a narcissist. "Personality qualities include thinking very highly of oneself, needing admiration, believing others are inferior, and lacking empathy for others."
I thought the same. You'd think if they heard her screaming they'd go to her side to comfort her and they'd definitely see him on her and they could've stopped it. I wish we could've gotten more details from the witnesses. What did they think was happening, were they scared?
People are taught to avoid involvement at accident scenes, as they may face a lawsuit, etc. But this is at a whole different level. A guy sits on top of a young women's face and people on scene do NOTHING! What a world!
My 20 year old daughter is in a toxic relationship right now. I've done everything I can think of to get her away from him. She'll leave him for a few days and then go back. My heart aches for this mother, I'm scared this very well could be me. What do you do? Everytime I hear these stories I picture it happening to my daughter.
I went through something similar, this is what we did. Get family counseling & counseling for her independently with a counselor that specializes in abusive relationships & trauma bonding (likely the reason she keeps going back to him). If possible, move the whole family away or send her to relatives out of the area, a college in another state opposite side of country or even a inpatient mental health treatment facility to get couseling & recover from the abuse & take time for her to reset her mind & heal. Change all phone numbers & and emails. Go dark on social media accounts or delete them, even sites like LinkedIn, its too easy for him to access friends list, then cross reference friends' posts to find out where she is or follow you home from work. If you work for a company that has emoloyee profiles online, request they be removed for safety reasons. If she's working she needs to quit & find another job so he can't find her there to weasel is way back into her life. Forward all mail to a POB. Do not give out the new physical address to anyone; not even utility companies, banks, DMV, employers, old neighbors, etc. so the address doesn't end up listed online where he can find it. Anyone who gets the new phone or emails make sure they know exactly what is happening so they protect the information & don't fall for any sob story or threats he may make to make to get contact with her. Having to tell friends family emoloyers neighbors & it's a bit embarrassing to do but it has to be done. The more people that know the more people will keep eye out for anything suspicious & protect her. Also, changing vehicles it makes it harder for him to follow anyone in the family to keep tabs on her. Harder it is for him to find her, the more likely he will give up trying to find her. There's also several companies that continuously remove online data about you that was very convenient; it's been years & we still use that service. Also, enroll her in self-defense classes. Those classes will uplift her confidence that she can protect herself & teach her better awareness of her surroundings. You could even go with her activities together will enforce your bond with her & keep her mind & and body occupied so she isn't dwelling on the toxic relationship. Hopefully, that helps you & your daughter. I wish you the best, it's a long, arduous journey.
He’s got an excuse for EVERYTHING he’s listening to jailhouse lawyers who are telling him he could’ve got off LET HER RIP I hope he fights it and gets LIFE
The truck driver said he saw him sitting on her head and heard her screaming, a women who stopped heard her screaming "get off me" and said she saw him sitting on her head also and both stood there doing nothing while she suffocated to death. They didn't say to the 911 operator that one person was sitting on the others face suffocating them or I think the 911 might of gave different instructions. Its frustratingly horrifying.
21:45 *”As u can see in the photos, she wasnt afraid of me”* …yah bud, classic case of *DV!* All couples look happy in photos, but photos dont tell any “stories” & can be quite deceiving 🤦🏼♂️
He wouldn’t have to worry about it prison if it was my daughter. I’ll be the one in prison for getting rid of him.
For real. I can't see any other possible outcome for someone killing your kid, and I don't even have one.
I agree!
What if you have other kids? Do you abandon your other kids to kill this guy? What if one of the kids needs you and now you are in prison and can't be there for them?
@@ER1CxF This comment tho. I felt that. I don't have kids either and I feel ya 💯
I heard that...
Never get back in a car with someone who made you feel unsafe as a passenger. Not even once.
How does such a loser get with anyone is nuts....
EVER !
Yup, my ex straight up told me that she was going to wreck the car while calling the police and say I was hitting her while driving and then cause the accident. So even if I survived my life would be over. The psychological damage I endured during my time with her is incalculable. But the absolute worst part.. is in a truly self destructive and wholly shameful way I still love and miss her. Life sucks lol
@josephicenogle9443
No shame in loving someone. Love is attached to the good in the person, the bad is just there to deal with. I do hope you can get help and support to recover from her abuse and toxicity.
Let this be a lesson to young girls. You can't "change him". "Loving him" won't "make him better". Men like this are toxic. Horrendous. Evil.
But you FORGET the fact that BIMBOS WON'T listen to you.
Meaning to say that women that
"are with toxic men" are ALSO toxic
themselves for being & CONTINUING in that toxic relationship in the first place...
THINK about that.
...IT takes 2 to tangle....
And f*** TOXIC FEMINISM...
WHAT DOES IT say about women who cling onto toxic men?
100% agreed. He is disgusting.
@@pedrogallegos9545 No lol she was a minor and was naive. Abuse cycles involve the abused returning to the abuser for whatever reason.
@@pedrogallegos9545 of course there are toxic women. That's not what this is about. This is about recognising signs and protecting yourself.
I don't understand why certain men get so butthurt over women looking out for other women.
Every girl that thinks they are in love with an abusive guy need to watch this.
Once a man disrespects you like that the first time, RUN.
The most biggest red flag
How do you forgive someone after they ran over your foot intentionally ? It doesn’t seem like he had any good qualities. You can forgive but you should never forget how they hurt you.
@@jorgemagana1349 he targeted her because she was young
A child**
Pleaseeeee
pay attention to red flags and LEAVE as soon as the first sign of abuse ladies, you never know how many psycho are out there!!
Your absolutely right. We always want to see the best in people and believe they will change but it’s not worth the risk.
Yea..true
Guys as well, I have been manipulated by a girl who was dating a guy in the group, he got the worst of it. Another guy got manipulated into helping her cheat on the guy she was dating, and he was the second guy she cheated with. We weren’t able to even talk to each other without fear that the manipulator could be checking over what we said.
And the last victim of the manipulator, another female, ended up bullying the guy the manipulator manipulated into cheating. He thought she was doing no wrong. The few other people who was semi-close to the manipulator, immediately started demanding an apology or for the bullying to stop, they didn’t & we’ve kicked them out of the group, but seriously the guys got the most shit from it.
I have lived in places where I have had to practice learning red flags since I was extremely young, and I didn’t see the signs properly. It happens, but luckily we all talked about it when we finally got space enough to talk all about it. We may not be able to get away from the ‘copycat’ of the manipulator that targeted the male friend, and they are invading things that they have agreed to do, but some of my newer friends are still with the ‘copycat’ and we are going to prove that they are being manipulative (hopefully).
Left it and had instint to know if nectone wss being set on me.none of them like to leave victim alive. If you can telm people.my sister same. I left it unbroken the last creep used meas his scape goat and after he git woman. And tell ither people to hate on me and his eoman.welcome to club as far as srcond chances .sister and person made sure i died. Ihavr one violent shspeshifterstalking me and sister making sure i cant talk. Even if you leave they wont give ul murder
As a survivor its not that easy because if it was these things would NEVER happen!
I understand not touching an injured person, but, if a witness says he heard her screaming for him to get off her, I would have had to move him.
That's what I was screaming in my head the whole time I watched this!!! Dont want to blame someone who was trying to help but come on man you're just gonna let a dude sit on her head?!?!?! If it's a matter of saving thier life MOVE THEM!!!!
@@stabwound5091 IKR, he could of at least went next to the car to make sure there ok, especially if someone’s screaming.
@@yaffimartin3104 YESS SHE COULD HAVE LIVED ;C
@@stabwound5091 SHE COULD HAVE LIVED
@@sachycardero3940 very sad! Ppl need to be smarter than this
A word of advice from experience: an abuser will promise the sun and the moon, they will also make threats of harm. They will never follow through with those promises, but they will always follow through with those threats. Take those threats seriously, know that that is the real them, and everything else is a lie, leave, and don’t ever go back. Never. Not once. Not ever. Don’t give them that opportunity to follow through on those threats. My heart breaks for that poor Mumma. Nobody gives you a handbook, navigating through those teen years is tricky, especially when there’s a boy involved.. you just have to do your best, and hope for the best. I’m so very, very sorry that every mother’s worst nightmare became a reality. And kudos to the detectives for taking this case so seriously. That person should never be out in the community again. People like him don’t change, that other young lady dodged a bullet.
Some amazing advice, thank you! 🙏🏻💕
Agreed, they will always follow through.😢
You are absolutely correct 100%.
At the hospital Klinger telling his girlfriend "now we can be together and she won't be between us anymore " Any girl with sound mind would have immediately run away from this monster!
But he loved her so much he killed for her!🙄
People have issues that effect them in ways sane people could never wrap their heads around
@@dawnbreak3299 Nicole Kissinger 2.0?
He is not a moron . He is a cunning , sly , devious minded psycho .
Taps Ars agreed it's a typo wanted to type monster but didn't realize it's was in auto type!
She was so young she was an empty vessel, moldable clay. A lot of people are.
Listening to the phone call, what An absolute psychopath.
Listening to him speak to intelligently and articulately and convincingly; one can understand how this young girl fell under his spell so completely. Personally I would be more interested in my studies at that age than to some boy, but that's just me.
@@ronniemead805 you say that, but it's so easy to become entranced w "romance" at that age--especially if he can woo you (read:manipulate) like he clearly could. I was a full-ride academic scholar and fell into such a relationship. it's a horrible thing.
@@ronniemead805 I agree with you my day was strict
@@edolux_. I hope you got over it and has made a success of your life. It is much harder today than it was when I was growing up. 🌹🌹🌹
So glad you enjoy shaming the dead
This is the type of person who should never see the daylight again.
@@kfuggigjfufufkgi9948 and you feel this way, why?🤨
@@kfuggigjfufufkgi9948 pretty sure experts know more than some crazy, weird horror obsessed troll(you) over the internet.
Exactly
@@muggleintheupsidedown smd
But he’s white 🤭🥴
My daughter went through a very similar experience but we were lucky and got her away from him after he kidnapped her and held her hostage at his mothers house. He tortured her, raped her , burnt her everywhere with a cigarette and lighter and the list goes on. All this happened while his mother was in the same house knowing what was going on in his bedroom. We looked for her for days , his mother telling us she wasn’t there when we were out looking for her. Once we threatened the mother with police being called he finally let her go. But that wasn’t the end, he stalked her , threatened her and us. An AVO was useless , he broke it so many times and was never locked up for it. We ended up having to relocate her to another state for her to feel safe. He went to jail for the kidnapping charge but was only sentenced to 3 months jail because my daughter was too scared to press further charges of the assaults she endured over a 18 month period.
DV is rampant in Australia because the perpetrators know they wont do jail time.
Women allow that stuff to happen to them then they play the victim card cause they make poor choices in men women are easy to manipulate that even there own tricks are not working that's there a bunch of cases like this smdh
@@artemiotorres92 That is the most ignorant, pig-headed, idiotic statement I've ever heard someone make regarding DV. Read some facts please, you are oozing idiocy.
Wow! Blame the victim eh. The parent above said that their daughter was kidnapped and tortured. And this happened while there was another person in that house, the boyfriend’s mother. Why blame the victim, and wash the hands of abusive men of their actions?
It’s actually rampant everywhere...
@@artemiotorres92 You’re so mad. Don’t be mad there’s so many shitty men out there it’s hard for a girl to find a good one. But keep projecting
I don’t get how these generic males with terrible posture and dollar store eye glass frames are able to gaslight these beautiful girls
We will nevrr really know the whole story, True Crime Daily is essentially a mouthpiece for the system not an unbiased news organisation.
@@andrearedburn7345 he was confused for a “bad boy” who is actually just “a boy that is just bad”
@@derekedwards811 he literally abused her and had threatened to run them off the road before. He was facing charges and they have proof of him lying. You actually think this was an accident? Lol
@@derekedwards811 there are just so many things you said that I need to counter but I don’t have the time or patience right now. But I will state that he, at that moment didn’t care if they both died. By some unfortunate divine intervention he was able to step out of that wreck and do what he did. He had many chances to stop what he was doing.
@@andrearedburn7345 women? Nah, the women that like men like this are damaged. Whether they had shiity neglectful parents or no/bad father figures. I wouldn't even date someone who smokes cigarettes. Let alone someone who speeds down the highway. There's nothing attractive about any of them.
I'm sorry but if I hear someone screaming *GET OFF OF ME* best believe I'm helping them out!!
Yea they say the lady heard every word but did nothing either? ...........
Yes!! My stomach turns knowing nobody helped her!
I'm small, but if I heard someone screaming "get off me!" I would lunge and do everything in my power to stop the attacker. I'm not blaming the witnesses, but they should of been smarter than that and helped the poor girl. It's called the bystander effect I believe. That's what happened with the witnesses.
I feel that as a women, if I had heard this...I would be scared for my well being. If there were multiple people hearing this, I wouldn’t feel as much fear. But you just never know.
Exactly
This guy really made my blood boil.
Why doesn't the girl hold any accountability?
@@Lady.B0420 what girl? The victim!! What do you fn mean
@@Lady.B0420 you’re kidding right?
@@lcjones0519 She relapsed. Ask anyone who has dealt with addiction, each relapse carries a risk of death higher than the previous. She was at fault, to a degree. Had she not relapsed, she would've never been in the car.
@@Lady.B0420 She's the victim. Its not that hard to understand
17, man. I wish more people could have done right by this child. Rest in peace Sammi.
~ rest in paradise ~ 😔 🕯
If only the police helped people like they claim they want too. So so so many lives would still be here.
they should not interview this waste of space on the phone, let him rot in jail... rip to poor Samantha
He's disgusting. He's exactly where he deserves to be.
Yes..absolutely..and she was so stupid to connect with that scumbag again
Dude hates women, pos
@@Za7a7aZ she was the victim in all of this, and these predators know how to manipulate them and draw them back. Doesn't make her stupid.
@@Bethany0420 agreed. People who never been in abusive relationships don't get it
@@xPrincessDoomx exactly
I hope young girls are watching & learning: a man/boy that beats his girl *ONLY* gets worse and worse and......
Yes they do. To the point I had a loaded double barreled shotgun pointed at me. That was 40 years ago
@@joycethiery2488 I hope you got out safely and have had a good life.
That my uncle Ben well that’s what we call him
mother should not throw daughter out of house and live 3 months with abusive man
@Christina Sornbutnark, that is so true. My dad beat my mom daily. He would stay out late and come home drunk, any little thing would set him off. I was 11 when she left him. I was the youngest of 4 at the time. She got married again and had my little sister 6 days after my 12th birthday.
My soon to be my ex husband and I got married when I was 21 and he was 23. I told him from day 1 if he ever hit me that I’d be gone. He never hit me, he’s an alcoholic, wasn’t one when we got married. After being married for 35 years I finally left. I couldn’t handle who he turned into when he was drunk. This is my first time living alone. We have two daughters and he was amazing. After I had each one, he would get up when they woke up, told me to stay in bed and stay warm, I breastfeed both girls.
I can honestly say that had he not started drinking, we would still be together.
So, I watched it happen to my mom and said that would never happen to me.
I did talk to my girls about it and I treat their husbands like my own son’s. I’m very proud of how they treat my girls.
After my divorce is finalized, I will never date again. It’s been so long since my first date with my husband and I feel like I wouldn’t know who to trust.
God bless the teenager girls that are starting the dating phase of their lives and keep them safe. ❤️
He intentionally went 120mph with her in the car, that's definitely intent to kill her. This gaslighting narcissist is gonna reap the rewards of more jail time if he gets his appeal. To Sammy's family, I am truly sorry for your loss. This guy has hung around enough inmates that told him a story, and now he's going to manipulate everything to get himself out, but God is on your family's side.
Exactly my thoughts. He is a narcissist who thinks he can talk his way out of jail. He will talk his way into a life sentence without possibility of parole
I don’t think he understands that he could get the correct sentence with this appeal. People that saw this. Get ready..
If there was a “god” then none of this would have happened.
I hope this guy never gets out of prison. He deserves life.
yea it sucks that her parents were too weak too pursue justice for their daughter
@@dootdoot94xo44 I just reported him
@@dootdoot94xo44 he's a freak best ignoring the troll, he's living a very sad lonely life just looking for attention.
No, he's gonna file another appeal using his narcissism as grounds for a retrial.😒
I guarantee what happened was he starts talking to numerous convicts, hearing their lighter sentences (not everyone goes to prison for murder) shared his “story” comparing crimes/sentences, all while maintaining some bullshit narrative like he gave here, probably something to the extent of vehicular homicide/manslaughter downplaying the hell out of it so naturally they're all, “You need to appeal. Yeah you got screwed.” Never hearing the actual truth of what he really did.
It's fine because yk what? The first time people see him out he'll be right back in or dead
Wait. No one got him off of her??? If I’m hearing her say get off me. And watching him sit on her face. I’m not gonna let it happen.
He’s getting his @ss dragged off of her
You got that right
Absolutely. I’m not that strong but I would have done the same.
Same. So frustrating
I didn't get this either. Why did nobody pull him off of her head???
@@FireOpal. because 911 told the caller not to move anyone but the caller didnt tell 911 he was sitting on top of her head
“Doesn’t sound like my character” said from the guy who shared explicit photos of his underage girlfriend to his buddies...yeah you’re a real polished gentlemen, Ben 😑
😭💀
Yes! WTF!!!
And the possibility that that POS may have got her hooked on drugs/alcohol. HE has visible track marks on HIS arm’s, when he’s with her and they are smiling and visible track marks on his arm when the police took a photo of him.
No disrespect meant to the victim. 💜 RIP Sammy 💜
Just something I noticed when looking at HIS ARM’S and pausing the video seeing visible track marks on HIS ARM’S.
@@ms.mojo_risin sorry to ask but what does track in his arm mean? Like doing cocaine or something?
I know 🤬
How can you witness a car crash and see someone sitting on top of a person in need of help and not do anything about it?
I feel so bad for her friend Paige, you can tell she harbors a lot of guilt by cutting off Sam after she found out they got back together again. I hope she forgives herself.
Good
She let her friend down and then she's killed, that friend will feel guilty for life. You can't forgive yourself in those situations...it is sad
@@mraymer6344 naah she doesnt have to hang around someone who keeps going back to their toxic ex, even if it's hard to get out of the abusive relationship. The toxicity of their relationship will spill all over, over time. sad but can't fix someone who isnt willing or unable
@Kristen Hotchkiss I'm pretty sure that your cousin is Myra Hotchkiss is my ex-gf and we had a great long distance relationship.
@Kristen Hotchkiss Pillow Pants ended our relationship and hurt me really bad. Luckily Lister Fiend didn't get to do any permanent damage like pp did. Women....
There’s no way in hell that I’m gonna hear someone screaming “Get Off Of Me” and not help them. Idgaf what the cops are saying.
Right like I'm picking up the nearest heavy object and just swinging
Right!?
Right?????
Well granted the cops didn’t know any of that at the time, they were just following protocol for a car accident. It’s up to the people at the scene ultimately to adjust to any issues like if he was on top of her to move him enough for her to breathe.
I'm with you on this
If this clown "doesn't remember anything", what the heck does he want a trial to 'tell his side of the story' for? According to you, you ain't got no story to tell. You said you don't remember a damn thing! Gross.
Excellent point!
Right?? Amnesia is not a valid defense. At all. What a tool. He needs to spend some time in the law library there in prison. He'll get laughed out of court for that one, right back to his prison cell. Not to mention what you said!!! If you really didn't remember anything during - and for a period of time before and after- the accident, how the hell do you know what you did or didn't do??? This tool has been sitting in prison and between beatdowns been listening to too many jailhouse lawyers, lmao. The D.A. is going to have a field day with his "appeal".
That's why he's request for 2nd trial is automatically denied.
He'll rot in jail.
@@jeby4621 LMAOOOOOO "between beatdowns"???? OH MY GOD
Excellent point.
In other words, by year four he had plenty of time to think of a storyline. He was feeling stir crazy being locked up all the time and wanted to use the daily trips to the court for entertainment and fresh free air. And because she was haunting his dreams and every waking hour, he figures he’d repay the debt by dragging her name and her memory through the mud just because he has nothing else better to do for the next 28 to 56 years.
👏🏼👏🏼
To all the ladies, and especially the young ones: this is coming from a guy. A guy who loves you will not hurt you, both physically, and mentally, and also control your life. A guy who loves you trusts you to make the wise decisions and encourages you to have a life with your friends, while you are her mate for life at the same time. The only time a guy should touch you ladies is to kiss you, just because we love you. To hug you to feel your compassion and embrace and love. Okay.........and for intimacy if you know what I mean.
Please do not think you are, "the one who can tame the beast". Every wild beast shows restraint at first, but even in a cage, his instincts will become evident over time. Even a caged tiger at the circus turns on their owner over time.......
If a guy truly loves you, he will change eventually. If you do not see change, it doesn't mean you are the problem: it means you are not the one he wants to change for the better for.
thank you
Well stated!!!!!
Amen...Thank you
💯💯💯. Thank you
Simp
I’m in tears, that she was alive after the accident and he smothered her. Abuse is so sad. Mental abuse can be so much worse then physical. May her family find peace.
I've been through Both! Ex husband was very abusive! My mother was extremely mentally and verbally abusive. However, I survived both who were suppose to love me-THEY DIDN'T.
@@raec.638 makes ya all the more stronger.
Life _With _Pnut I've went through attempted murder and servived it.. Sorry using hubbys channel.. My ex got 10 years in prison he should of got more
My ex manipulated me and abused me mentally and physically. I now have his son and so scared of him to the point I have to put a restraining order on him and need therapy. Anyone els who goes through this or what I did is strong. Keep your head up girly or boy
@@brittanyjagielski7993 proud of you for getting out of that situation, it's so hard to leave often times and takes a lot of courage. I hope your worries get put at ease as time goes on and baby and you have a beautiful life
Imagine seeing someone being sat on screaming for their life and not helping them - there's compliance and then there's just stupidity.
I know flipping bizarre. Yeah I'm telling the dispatcher he's sitting on her face purposely suffocating her, doing the right thing changes that right then and there I couldn't watch that.
That confused me too
I mean 911 literally told him to do nothing lmao
I think people thought at first they were both just stuck like that or something. Who knows
If I seen that he would have ended up with more than a concussion she would be the one telling the story not crime watch
What an evil man...to be so young...he knows exactly what happened...he made that wreck happen on purpose
He just addressed her as "the young woman" wtfffff. Distancing himself, that's what people do when they're guilty as hell.
Be strong for her . You all stand together , family & friends. Let this dum ass. Pay for what he did to a beautiful girl . To the D.A. Get this fool , God Bless y’all 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽.
She gave him keys to her parents house? Can you imagine bumping into this dude at 2am in your hallway?
I sure can and so can my firearm...Pop, pop, pop
@@reeceraur8735 fr go ham
Creepy
He wouldn't be back 🤣
He’d meet my kids, Smith and Wesson!
Confused...if there were people around while dude was sitting on girl, why didn't they do something to help???
I think they assumed he ended up there as the crash happened and then listened to the 911 operator to not move them. I still would’ve done it though. Poor girl
RITE??? Wtf
Heck yes.... like she is literally yelling: “get off of me” and people just sitting there like: “wow... I hope he gets off of her”
They could of prevented her death, so sad.
@@DottieMinerva The witnesses seemed to know what was going on. Woman could hear her saying get off of me and trucker could see dude sitting on her.
She was 15?
That mother should have put a stop to that relationship immediately.
Instead she waits for "hardball" time?
What a moron.
Have you had to raise a daughter? It’s way harder then you know. Have some compassion.
@lisabergman3779 sorry. That mom is a moron. I don't show compassion to morons. Sadly none of the adults in that poor girls life had good sense.
He probably has an abusive boyfriend now.
😂 that made me laugh out loud!
Or maybe he is abusing those people bec he has experience
Lmfao my thoughts exactly
How poetic
@@mmooraj you don't abuse gang members they find out your victim was a child and they will use you to get further up in rank by beating or killing you. He's famous for his crime too
The fact you can hear her screaming in the background is heartbreaking.
That was terrifying
And she was saying get off. How could no one help?
Pay attention to your friends and family!! The fact they noticed changes should be sign number one. Start asking questions
This girl wasn't a adult she was a kid and her mother was doing the job that a loving mother is supposed to do!
I like the aunt’s quote at the end: “He’s not fighting broken people anymore. We’re strong now, so bring it on!” Thankfully his request to withdrawal the plea was denied.
she's adorable
That's good to hear. I hope he rots in jail
How did the witnesses just sit there while the guy sat on her head? WFT?
@@J_West11 I said the same thing! The witness really watched this guy murder her n didn't do anything?
Karma eventually catches up with all of us...you reap what you sow...
Listening to him LIE is so infuriating
He’s a monster. Even blaming his victim and bashing her. He should never get out
He is a psychopath honey. They are always like this. Their blame their victims. He is a real monster and I hate him he is a devil.
He wasn't even in her league
Dude wasn’t even playing the same fucking game
Not even close, poor babe.
Exactly.
Never was, and never will be.
Human demons are real, male and female. The Sucubus and the incubus.
Be careful who the sex is had with. They have no soul and want them. Misery loves company...
self love is the best love.
He was a narcissist that’s in everyone’s league unfortunately.
If I ever noticed any of my children getting into a relationship like this, I would move my whole family across the country
They would do it again. You gotta talk to them as much as you can about abuse and how these people will never change so they can remember that even as an adult
@@Kelly-uw1xr yeah you need to strengthen your children to be wise. They're is shit crazy people everywhere, that lady would have to move every week.
Show them stories like this. I've shown my son and my daughter so they know how to be treated and not, and how to treat other people and not. If anything goes wrong to know they always have me and a house they can hide in away from controlling abusers too (not the house where I live in case a low life came here too). I even told my sister she could stay in our rental when she moved in with a random she didn't even know. Honestly these people who think they own other people OMG there are so many of them conning people with pretty words and fake actions.
Or just dont bring children into this fucked up world.
Sameeeee!!!
My daughter was not allowed to date while she was in high school. I can’t believe her mother took so long to do something.
He intentionally killed Samantha and he knows it. It’s no coincidence she died in the exact manner in which he had threatened her many times. RIP Samantha
This is why I don't let my kids out of my sight and no phones etc. THis country is going to hell. Too many losers roaming around. We need to go back the olden days where kids got corporal punishment in school etc. Too much BS now.
I really hope that he's rotting in jail and nobody's giving him money in jail because I think people are able to give prisoners money so that they can buy snacks and whatever at a store inside the jail or maybe they order them in I don't know how it works. But I hope this clown has to do without. Or at the very least have to defend himself against bigger men that don't care to hear HIS sob story.
Some sick woman will be his jail gf and keep money on his books.
Why the hell didn’t those bystanders pull him off of her. It would have been obvious what was happening.
I know.. this bugs me to no end
It was a chaotic situation, the 911 operator Said not to move them and most of the time "normal" people can't even conceive that somebody would get up after a car crash and sit on the passengers face to kill them. It's so cruel and horrible they probably didnt even understand what they were seeing
Phil May I would have moved him.
How can someone not notice that someone is sitting on someone’s face. Has that man never seen someone sitting on his face or what
Yeah despite what the operators said, I’d have moved him. There’s no way I could just have stood by):
No offense but I would have stopped him from being on her head... No matter what the 911 operator said or tell them he's sitting on her face suffocating her
191715261426152616% agree!!! I thought that was common sense. And if you see him sitting on her and he looks injured too(pretending), you tell the operator and let them know you have to move him, so she can BREATHE! I don’t get how they just say there, no matter what they were told-.-
Same!!! Amen!
That’s a shame what that young girl went thru. By his conduct he sounds like a narcissist. The dangerous kind. Condolences to her friends and family.
You just nailed it with your comment!🔨
Malignant Narcissist
The bystanders after the intentional crash heard her screaming “GET OFF ME” and didn’t think to tell the 911 dispatcher?! They didn’t say anything and they didn’t do anything to help her. That’s shocking. The dispatcher didn’t say to her her because he didn’t know she needed help!! I hope this tragedy will stay in our minds for the rest of our lives so that if we’re confronted with something like this we’ll all take it seriously and say something AND do something to help someone in need. I’d rather become a victim of the perpetrator than to live the rest of my life knowing that I did nothing to help a person who was being harmed. None of them even thought to tell the dispatchers what they were seeing and hearing? At the very least, say something!!
It is shocking how some people feel detached, like it's not there job or problem. I say they were cowards, it only would of taken one person to run over and help her.
Why didn’t they mention anything to the dispatcher? When did they first mention incriminating details?
Why is the ‘detail’ that he was sitting on her head suffocating her not mentioned by the prosecution now? Was the “asphyxiation” due to internal injuries & only mentioned to make him look more guilty?
I need more answers. These channels are very state, prosecution & police supporting…
I completely agree that we need to take our moral responsibility to other people seriously. I’m disgusted by those who only say or do something later, once it’s often too late!
Cowardly trash. Literally never fails. They literally saw this man sitting on her and did nothing. And these were men. Despicable.
All woman must make a decision to move away from this kind of furious boyfriend, or even after marrying, do not be afraid or shy to divorce him. Or, he must be willing to really change, or see a psychiatrist together. Do not just think nothing bad is ever gonna happen.
That poor friend. I hope she heals completely. That’s traumatic. I pray comfort and healing to the mother and family
I just wanna know why she was smiling so, much while talking about all those bad things. Personally, I never smile when telling people about the sudden, tragic death of my daughter and only child. So it makes no sense to me when I see all these people smile like they do while talking about the bad times their loved ones experienced.
@@JC-11111 Maybe she was nervous.
@@JC-11111 she's trying to act casual and smile because she's super nervous
This guy is pure evil, I don’t believe a word of his excuses.
I agree
He had years to come up with this
I AGREE WITH YOU!!!!
That is inmate listening to his lies and giving advice and everyone SEE the lies!!
Right, there’s literally comments calling him a charming liar. This guy is full of shit
What a nasty piece of work. I lost my daughter in a car accident, her boyfriend let her drive, under the influence of alcohol, because they were celebrating coming to stay by me a week after the accident. I spoke to her 10pm that night, saying we can't wait to be together, I at that time, stayed in another state as her. I will always feel guilty by leaving her, I can just imagine what this family went through 😢 😢 😢
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Oh here he goes, blaming the victim.
In fact, HE'S the victim!
She wasn't forced into the car or relationship. And her family let it be.
@@FirstName-lv8gx she was a minor tf
They shouldn’t call him a boy. He was an adult man.
Wrong his a Monster...
An adult man doesn’t do those things !
The call him a boy because he isn’t no man ! A real man would never do such a thing and there’s much more too it than just that
He should never be called a man.
Ms G82009 He definitely should NEVER have been referred to as a boy. You ppl are missing the point. He was an ADULT she was a minor!
Can we take a minute to honor Sam? She was a beautiful soul who got caught up with the wrong guy... Rest In Peace beautiful ❤️
Not just the wrong guy, but a guy who isn’t fit to be a part of society. He should never be allowed to be around another woman again. I’m so glad he didn’t have a child. I couldn’t even fathom how he would’ve treated a kid. He’s a terrible human being and I’m glad Sam’s family is ready to fight for her. RIP beautiful soul
A beautiful soul, did you actually know her personally? If not STOP. Your comment makes it seem as if you're just trying to get likes and I hope others see it as what it is.
How did the witnesses just sit there while the guy sat on her head? WFT?
@@J_West11 I'm not understanding that
@@unicornmadness6286 A narcissist projecting........
Hurts my heart. I can't imagine your pain,your loss. Sending love to you Mamma
So three different drivers saw him killing her why did none of them stop him.
This is exactly what I thought! The woman who supposedly heard her yelling for help did what, ignore her??? Because she obviously didn't help. Plus the truck driver who saw him sitting on her. What dumbass continues to allow that to happen? Some things just aren't adding up.
Most likely is the "bystander effect."
Bystander effect is a real psychological aspect of human behavior and it happens more often than you would think. A lot of psychological perceptions, decisions, and behaviour takes place in an instance. Factors such as the bystander’s emotional state, the nature of the emergency, and the presence of others can influence his or her ability to realize that something is wrong and that assistance is required. Sometimes their thoughts leads them to believe that if someone is already helping then they might not be needed because they might interfere, or the opposite, that if no one is helping then they question if what they perceive as someone needing help might be the wrong thought. So sometimes when the need for help is unclear, bystanders look to others for guidance and might not find it because others have the same unclear thoughts.
He deserves to be given the death penalty! How horrific for her family and friends. What a lost of a beautiful girl. I can’t imagine what she endured. Stay strong family! He will get his in prison.
That's what I don't understand if they woman hearing get of me she could of go and help her I just don't know
I thought the caller said she was hanging upside down in the car???🤔🤔
A typical narcissist.. leave him behind bars...
Yes thankfully his bid to upturn plea bargain was denied
Yeah....blame the guardrail 😒
Obsoleteoddity! I love your channel!!!
Big fan😍
What ?! Go to hell
Honestly what an insult! He's such a loser
“I didn’t kill her, the knife did!”
She is the kind of person that I like to hang with, she was the type of person that make you laugh and forget your worries for a little while. My condolences and prayers for Sammie's family and friends.🙏
Benjamin Klinger blames the guardrail for Samantha's death. I hope he gets a retrial and he gets life in prison.
Or the death penalty! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think HE should get the guardrail
He's a narcissist and I hope he stays in jail for life.
They deserve to stay in jail forever
I totally agree with you.
People like him
Are becoming the norm now much because of social media..
Daily torturous visits from
Inmates for decades to come I think is adequate punishment in this life..
The parents should’ve never let the 15 yr old move out or be messing with this grown man.
My thinking exactly. Blame Ben yes, but blame the parents (both sides) above all
If an older man was romancing my teenage daughter he'd be warned to back off. I'll gladly make him eat lead if he came onto MY property to try and pull his abusive shit with my kid after that warning.
@@corbinbrier0 THIS
Yeah them parents are trash and they didnt fight in court how pathetic
How did the witnesses just sit there while the guy sat on her head? WFT?
The fact that she was screaming get off of me tells it all. That’s why you should stay away from people who show you they don’t care about you at all. As soon as he saw a opportunity to take her life he took it which is completely disturbing because it shows who he really is and what he’s capable of. He didn’t care about the other woman. He wanted to end his life and hers too but once they lived he took hers then went to the other girl, who he probably emotionally destroyed. He’s obviously a monster in plain sight.
He didn't want to take his own life. No way. He probably planned where he would crash with her in the passenger seat. Might have even had extra protection in the driver's seat. This guy was diabolical...
it’s tragic how she was so blinded by him and knew how violent he was, but still got in the car. I hate that guy.
When you’re only 15, you don’t really know just how evil this world can be, how people who claim to love you can become your worst enemy. Plain naive.
Its a shame. She shoulda left but didnt. Let this be a lesson to all the young ladies in the world. Dont be stupid and stay with an abusive boyfriend/husband. You might end up dead.
Are we going to ignore that the 2 witnesses watched him suffocating the victim and they did nothing? i'm speechless.
Right!?!?!?! Like they literally said he walked around the car and sat on her. There is no way they didn't see that especially if they heard her screaming for him to get off!!!!!!
They are just useless asf,how can you watch someone take a girl life and have the guts to say it in public.
She suffered. This was so cruel. She had no control of her injuries
I hope they hear her screams every night.
He is a damn liar. The way he had her listed in his contacts shows how he had great disdain for Samantha.
How old is he
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Exactly 💯 percent agree with you.
RIP Sam up with all the beautiful angels 👼 ♥️👼 in gods loving care ♥️👼❤️👼♥️🥰😘
If he doesn’t remember, how can he say he didn’t murder her
*** READ THIS: I went to high school with this weirdo and they were dating during the time! He was the kind of kid that made jokes that no one thought was funny, and he talked too much. Sam Heller seemed like a nice girl, she seemed shy unless she was around her friends. Then she would act pretty goofy (in a non annoying or disruptive type of way it was cool). I had a study hall class with her. Ben Klinger was a pill head. Some of us would go over to the park right by LMH (Lancaster Mennonite HS) and sometimes he would just drive over by himself and try to include himself with the "cool kids" (a lot of people usually went over to the park after school). One day, when he was there, my 2 friends and I snuck in to his car and stole his Adderall. He would sell my friends and many other kids his Adderall because he was prescribed to it. Sometimes he would just hand them out for free to make friends. He was the type of person that cared about what everyone thought of him and always wanted to be included. He would make fun of other kids just to act "cool" even though no one thought it was humorous. It was more like, "Why is this dude here who invited him?" That was his type of personality. There was a time towards the very end of senior year (I was a grade above him) where Sam almost kinda stopped interacting with people it seemed like. I didn't really see her around as much as I did before. LMH was a small private school so it wasn't like there were a lot of faces around campus. We had chapel meeting before school some days where the entire school would sit and she usually sat with the same friends in the same spot. One of my best friends from high school was friends with her and they would be talking many times on the way to class because they had a class next to each other, so that's kinda how I know this stuff. Anyways, that Ben Klinger kid can't be trusted for shit and I guarantee he'll do the same to someone else, one day, if or when he gets out of prison. RIP Sam and condolences to her family for their loss.
Growing up in counties like yours and a lot around you- seemed to always produce couple nitwit douches like this- spoiled with lots of freedom to wreck havoc, parents $ bought them cars and whatever else to keep kid busy happy out of their face.
Boredom, too much vacant time, empty roads/ valleys / parks-
Idiots all over the place thinking consequences are other peoples problems.
In his call from prison you can just hear how manipulative he is it’s crazy
I do not understand how the witnesses could not intervene when they heard her screaming and saying "get off me." I cannot even comprehend hearing that and not helping her. That poor poor girl. She was failed by so many adults.
It would appear she made some very poor decisions for herself being unwilling to listen to the adults around her who where wanting to protect her.
@@helengormlie966 I agree but we also have to understand that at her age she lacked the reasoning and as a teenager when she started this relationship she was 15 years old. Teenagers have more synaptic connections than adults which make them impressionable as they’re building synapses which lead her to make unreasonable and poor decisions. Adults needed to take the reins as the same can be said to his parents/adults in his life.
@@helengormlie966 Be forreal, Helen. The girl was 17 and in an abusive relationship. Don't fucking blame her.
Because it’s not their daughter
I guess you didn't hear the parts about this nearly-adult _child_ refusing to listen to anyone. She knew what was "best" for herself. She was _wrong_ and the price was very high. _Take notes, angelina._ Your life is in your hands at all times.@@angelina-aisha
When people show you who they really are believe them
So true
Yes! Please don't think you can change them!
I've watched this case MANY times and find it very sad every time I watch it, no matter how many times I watch it. i understand this young girl. I was in a narcissistic relationship for six years and he ruined my life. stay safe and watch after your children.
If he doesn’t remember hours before and days after the crash then how does he know he didn’t commit premeditated murder?
What a tragic case, another young lady loses her life, and for what!? There's always signs, ladies. Please love yourselves, know that you don't need some loser to give you validation. Listen to your gut, and pay attention to the red flags. Don't allow anyone to put hands on you, nor mentally abuse you. You are worthy of happiness! This also goes for men, don't allow women to abuse you. You all deserve to be loved and respected.
But stripping is an acceptable form of validation?
@@datura_boof stripping can make you bank so why not ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@@dibel3669 your self respect should be worth more than dollars. You can make lots of money doing jobs that don't degrade you. And you might not want to think its degrading, but it is, so..
@@datura_boof wtf are u even talking about?
Big facts luv never let a man control u at all .
Sometimes daughters need to listen to your mothers, fathers and friends. You think that they don't understand, but they do. Your the one that doesn't understand because of your emotions.
Very true, sadly those who love us most we end up hurting the most.
Goes for boys aswell
Preach 🙏🏻
Sometimes sons need to just not be psychopaths. That’s so much easier
@@kime6706 Not really. Too many variables. They are never going to go away. Are they taught or are they born to be a psychopath? They don't "feel" the way you or I do. Not all psychopath's kill. Some are indifferent to our social values and to anyone who stands in their way. Girl's need to be taught what a healthy relationship looks like and that they can't change someone just because they love them. First sign of cruelty, get out and leave them. It is that simple.
This girl had no chance. Where was her dad? The adults in her life failed her. This happens to many kids from broken homes. They end up with psychopaths and in toxic relationships.
I’ll bet HIS father isn’t in the picture either…
@@MsAdventure531 I'd be surprised if he was around.
My ex fiancé did this with me in car…drove into the oncoming lane. One of the scariest moments of my life. The feeling of helplessness is impossible to explain. Thankfully, I’m OK, and he got fat and lost most of his hair lol. Total psychopath. Married my husband last year, and we have a great life with our dogs. 💜 Ladies, you can’t fix them. When you see those red flags, RUN.
This happened to me too. The most helpless feeling because you literally can't fight back in any way. You have to try to stay calm.
“He’s fat and lost most of his har” 🤣🤣🤣 I hope you made a good life for yourself!!
*I’d EPAR (read backwards) this lil’ CUTIE 😍!*
*You know, hold her down using brute force and put it in her anigaV (read backwards). Give it to her AGAINST her will 😈. Give it to her like a REAL man should.*
Good job getting away! So many become another statistic. I wish u many blessings and a happy life with ur husband. ❤️
Or jump out
Bystanders see that he's sitting on her head and they don't do anything?!
Let me tell you something most people are cowards. You think people will help you and step in when they see something wrong happening. Nope most people won't!! Its extremely sad and makes me angry that the bystander didn't even try to stop it.
@@frenchvanilla7109 Bingo.
Ikr, I was thinking why didn't someone render aid? Yeah they say dont move her, but I would take the chance rather than watching her die?? Wth
@@frenchvanilla7109 the bystander was on the phone with 911 and asked if he should move them and the operator said don't move them before could explain
I understand that 911 told the people not to do anything...and I am not blaming them at all...but if you heard her screaming and saw what they saw - I just don't understand, I guess. Maybe they were nervous it would burst into flames? I can't speak for them, but even in the call, you can tell those screams were more than just the accident.
I'm honestly surprised that the truck driver didn't rip him off of the girl.
He didn't know what was going on, obviously
@@johnnyflannigan136 I don't mean that as ill will towards the driver by any means, I just mean it as, it really is surprising he didn't see what was happening, guy literally on top of her.
@@HannahMattox right, & hearing her scream "GET OFF OF ME!"
@@HannahMattox They said he appeared unconscious. And the dispatcher told him not to move her. Pulling someone off her definitely would've moved her from his weight and the force of pulling. People have been paralyzed due to being moved after accidents by untrained individuals, that's precisely why they tell you not to move them. I can understand not wanting to be responsible for essentially ruining someone's entire life. Plus she was screaming so it's safe to assume she can breathe. Almost every person would assume you're all good if you can scream like that. I would just assume she's in pain and screaming what any person would scream if someone or something was on them.
@@minxymoo2325 I get that, and I know that part, but wasn't the guy, like... Sitting up? You'd think if he was sitting up, he was probably okay to just kinda scoot him off her face or whatever. It's been a while since watching this video so I'm a little fuzzy on all the details, but I mean, dang. He suffocated her because trying to kill her with the weight of a vehicle didn't "do the job" for him.
You can't blame yourself for walking away and not letting the bad decisions of another drag you into the nightmare they have created. My brother went down the rabbit hole of drugs and alcohol and was a violent, raging monster. The coroner believes that he took his own life. You can't help those who don't want to make better decisions for their lives. I miss the brother he was before the addictions but I have no guilt, only sorrow that he wasn't able to climb out of the hell his life had become.
"It doesn't sound like my character."
Well, according to _literally everyone else_ who knows you, that sounds exactly like your character.
He was always a bully and mean person. I can't believe I stumbled on this video, I went so school with them both, even rode on the same bus as him. Hes a predator. Always has been. I hope he never gets out.
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I had the exact same thought. She definitely deserved so much more. I hope she RIP!
Who the hell goes up to a wreck and just stares at a girl being suffocated while doing nothing...
Exactly he could have easily prevented her death
Yes that's what I was wondering. Just watch and hear it and do nothing!?!?! Should get charged for not helping!
@@TinFoilCat90 why would he get charged for following the dispatch rules...???? He could actually get charged for ignoring them.
@@TinFoilCat90 I don’t think the people should’ve been charged BUT it’s incredibly stupid of them not to get him off of her. She’s literally screaming get off me and her face is in the ground with a grown ass man on her head ... why would common sense not tell you to get him off ? If he made it clear that Ben was on her head they most likely would’ve told him to get him off her head.
I want to believe he didn't see it cuz why wouldn't he stop it. Craziness.
what did she see in him? he’s ugly and his personality sounds ugly too. I hope her family will find peace and heal from this grief with time.
Yeah, exactly. This chick had seem severe issues to begin with to even start dating a dude like that. He's nasty.
@@blakeb9964 Dumb, beauty is subjective and she stated he was a great person to her initially but it fell apart over time. I don’t really think he’s ugly but I’ve dated uglier coz I thought they were good people lmao
I don't want to sound rude but it's not like she was beautiful tho...people always call someone who did something wrong ugly. I'm not defending him hell no what he did was fucked up but still i bet if he didn't do it no one would say a thing if he is ugly or not. He wasn't handsome and she wasn't beautiful just a normal looking girl.
@@Bettersucksaul i’m asking what did she see in him even after she saw his true colours. after all the emotional abuse.
@@Isus24-s8e there’s no reason for people to comment on people’s appearance if they did nothing wrong. So yes nobody would even say he’s ugly or handsome if he had not fucked up. What is your point that you are trying to make i’m quite lost there.
It is good that everyone else was sober and can remember for him
Why didn’t the bystanders tell the operator that he was sitting on her head?!!!!
Omg I know... it's so weird to think anyone would just stand back and watch...
Exactly my thoughts. I understand people can’t think when they are in shock, but it’s so insane to just watch someone dying like that.
I mean 911 literally told him to do nothing lmao
@@rarebreednoel id be getting charged for not listening to 911 than cuz no way am I going to be able to sleep soundly knowing I simply stood by and allowed a person to be killed... Shame on every one of those by standers and I invite anyone who was there thst nite to counter my argument...something tells me thst social media and other media outlets would blow the shit up out of me saving someone's life despite a 911 dispatchers orders... SMH 🤬🤬
Not at u hon smh at the bystanders
Exactly
Now he cant do this to another woman. Let's pray he never will ever again!!!
He could actually. He will be let out at some point! Hell no, I would go for the death sentence. He’s a POS.
He’s such a tool. Not even good looking. Looks so shady
Parents, PRESS Charges and FOLLOW thru when your minor children are involved in an inappropriate relationship. Do whatever it takes to remove your child from the situation. Kicking your child will only make things worse.
Ben: I was ejected on top of her!
Also Ben: I have zero memory of the accident
yea, his memory is fresh when he has to defence, and when they compare with what bystander says, he did not remember anything. So convenient!
How did the witnesses just sit there while the guy sat on her head? WFT?
All of a sudden "he can't remember."
Murderer logic...
Yeah. We all heard it
Omg I can’t believe people stood by at an accident scene and did absolutely nothing to stop this guy sitting on the girl 🤬🤬🤦🏻♀️ seriously wtf. Come on this guy on the phone was a trucker why the hell would you watch him sit on this girls head. Omg listening to him on the phone makes me so angry ….. people have to understand that this guy had 4yrs sitting in prison to work on this story🤬🤬
Guardrails don't suffocate people.
This guy intentionally killed this poor girl. He drove at a high rate of speed and drove towards that guard rail which impaled her side of the vehicle....he knew what he was doing. The fact that he was able to walk around to her side of the car and sit on her head is a sure sign that he had a plan. He was wearing a seatbelt and basically made sure he’d walk away and she wouldn’t. Life in prison without the possibility of parole is what I’d see fit for this guy. Or the death penalty. And let’s not forget what he had saved in his phone in place of her name. May Samantha Rest In Peace and know she is loved and thought of each day by her family and friends and those of us that have heard her tragic story - let’s all remember what a sweet, fun young lady she was.
Stinks the murderer wasn't killed
Suffocating her with an afterthought when he realized she wasn't dead.
I grew up with this girl in high school. She was sweet and always hanging out with friends. She always tried to see the best in everyone. Some days I think about her and I am surprised how this story blew up to this day.
I’m sorry for your loss, from your description she seemed like a sweet girl. So sad
She and her mom sound quite trashy. A minor dating an adult and the mom knows about it? The daughter giving out house keys to a house that isn't even hers? The daughter supposedly getting pregnant? Thinking you're pregnant, as a teenager, for a guy you aren't even with? This just all screams trailer park trash even if they lived in a house.
She was Gullible
Sorry for your loss 😔 my nephews nickname I gave him is Coco beans
@@TomikaKelly what the heck os wrong with you?! I dont care if they lived in a cardboard box, that mother lost her daughter! Nobody deserves that.
Kudos to the District Attorney for calling out this lying manipulating evil person. #fight
He points the blame on everyone else and refuses to own his responsibility for her death.
Abusers rarely take responsibility for their actions. If they did, they would realize their POS.
You never drive recklessly even when you are alone. Driving recklessly indicates that you have no regard for life or else you're just an immature idiot. Even that is not an excuse. With Every Breath You Take I hope you remember that precious girl Sam. She never got the chance to fulfill her god-given dreams because of a hot-tempered idiot. Live with it Benjamin. I hope it haunts you everyday....💩
He's a narcissist. "Personality qualities include thinking very highly of oneself, needing admiration, believing others are inferior, and lacking empathy for others."
@@kirbzmom Narcissists are bullies also. When you find out someone is a narcissist, leave them no matter how much you love them. They are predators.
He has the audacity to call her a liar when he's the reason she isn't alive to refute those accusations.
That is what a narcissist does
People heard her screaming and no one went over to help?
Wow...this is unbelievable
I don't even know what to say, just shaking my head in disbelief
I thought the same. You'd think if they heard her screaming they'd go to her side to comfort her and they'd definitely see him on her and they could've stopped it.
I wish we could've gotten more details from the witnesses. What did they think was happening, were they scared?
Typical shameful bystander effect 😒.
I agree cause I'm telling you right now if I would have seen him setting on her and I can see she's hurt I would have went down there seriously
@@ronaldmitchell2645 I am like that too ..helping her NO matter what ..
People are taught to avoid involvement at accident scenes, as they may face a lawsuit, etc. But this is at a whole different level. A guy sits on top of a young women's face and people on scene do NOTHING! What a world!
My 20 year old daughter is in a toxic relationship right now. I've done everything I can think of to get her away from him. She'll leave him for a few days and then go back. My heart aches for this mother, I'm scared this very well could be me. What do you do? Everytime I hear these stories I picture it happening to my daughter.
I went through something similar, this is what we did. Get family counseling & counseling for her independently with a counselor that specializes in abusive relationships & trauma bonding (likely the reason she keeps going back to him). If possible, move the whole family away or send her to relatives out of the area, a college in another state opposite side of country or even a inpatient mental health treatment facility to get couseling & recover from the abuse & take time for her to reset her mind & heal. Change all phone numbers & and emails. Go dark on social media accounts or delete them, even sites like LinkedIn, its too easy for him to access friends list, then cross reference friends' posts to find out where she is or follow you home from work. If you work for a company that has emoloyee profiles online, request they be removed for safety reasons. If she's working she needs to quit & find another job so he can't find her there to weasel is way back into her life. Forward all mail to a POB. Do not give out the new physical address to anyone; not even utility companies, banks, DMV, employers, old neighbors, etc. so the address doesn't end up listed online where he can find it. Anyone who gets the new phone or emails make sure they know exactly what is happening so they protect the information & don't fall for any sob story or threats he may make to make to get contact with her. Having to tell friends family emoloyers neighbors & it's a bit embarrassing to do but it has to be done. The more people that know the more people will keep eye out for anything suspicious & protect her. Also, changing vehicles it makes it harder for him to follow anyone in the family to keep tabs on her. Harder it is for him to find her, the more likely he will give up trying to find her. There's also several companies that continuously remove online data about you that was very convenient; it's been years & we still use that service. Also, enroll her in self-defense classes. Those classes will uplift her confidence that she can protect herself & teach her better awareness of her surroundings. You could even go with her activities together will enforce your bond with her & keep her mind & and body occupied so she isn't dwelling on the toxic relationship.
Hopefully, that helps you & your daughter. I wish you the best, it's a long, arduous journey.
@@dp2677 Thank you!
He’s got an excuse for EVERYTHING he’s listening to jailhouse lawyers who are telling him he could’ve got off LET HER RIP I hope he fights it and gets LIFE
his got an excuse for an excuse
It's crazy man 😭😭
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That is exactly what he is doing. He going to trick himself into a life sentence
If people saw him sitting on her why didn’t they do something about it 😡I would have knock his lights out 😡😡😡😡🇬🇧
My thoughts exactly
I was thinking this, too! Maybe he was acting like he was injured as well while sitting on her, that's why the onlookers didn't dare move him/them.
The truck driver said he saw him sitting on her head and heard her screaming, a women who stopped heard her screaming "get off me" and said she saw him sitting on her head also and both stood there doing nothing while she suffocated to death. They didn't say to the 911 operator that one person was sitting on the others face suffocating them or I think the 911 might of gave different instructions. Its frustratingly horrifying.
@@Alisha8596 I agree
@Sam Antha they literally say they saw him sitting on her and one girl could hear the victim. Did you not listen😂
He couldn't remember anything but he sure remembered his other girlfriend s phone number .
Exactly! And also if he can't remember how does he know he did not murder her.
@@goldenwidow9426 my thoughts exactly!
Yes! And he sure remembered a whole lot about that guardrail!! What an evil idiot.
21:45 *”As u can see in the photos, she wasnt afraid of me”* …yah bud, classic case of *DV!* All couples look happy in photos, but photos dont tell any “stories” & can be quite deceiving 🤦🏼♂️