If I’m ever murdered or kidnapped, please don’t make up lies about me. I do not light up a room. Everyone doesn’t want to be my friend. People don’t automatically take notice of me. I have a smart mouth and two friends. Tell 20/20 that.
I didn't really find her that attractive she was definitely a good looking girl but not what they were making her out to be. But she still didn't deserve to die the way she did
surveillance cameras are mostly a part of of bigger system, with many cameras recording at the same time, saved in one hard disk. they save the recordings with less resolutions to save bits and bites. imho.
Wow her mom is brutally honest, she loves her and tells it as it is, not painting her daughter as an angel like what other parents do. My condolences to her loved ones🙏🏿
For someone like myself that has common sense, it’s impossible to paint daughter as “Perfect”. She has “Freeloading” written all over it. Her Stupid Games got Her Stupid Prizes; Death.
@@boogitybear2283 not saying the media doesn’t portray certain genders and races certain ways, they 100% do. What I’m ACTUALLY saying is that saying she was playing “stupid games” and “got her stupid prizes” is a dangerous mindset. You saying that is no different than the media racially profiling and it’s DANGEROUS. I understand anger but blaming a young woman for her death because of the life she lead isn’t ok. You won’t change my mind 🤷♀️
Horrible journalism. If they cut out all the fluff about how "sexy" and "hot" she was and actually stuck to telling the story, this video would be about 30 seconds long.
@@micellea This - had more to do with the fake hair/spray tan/lashes than the color of the hair. Like how Pamela Anderson was a natural beauty when she started on Baywatch, then had the giant fake boobs put in, had other work done and became a monstrosity.
The mother wants to blame her boyfriend for her daughter bad behavior. She humiliated him & he still did more to help her 🤦🏾♀️ that’s why your daughter behaved that way no accountability
I'll never understand businesses that install crappy security cameras. Like seriously what's the point of video surveillance if the resolution is so bad you can't see anyone clearly?
insurance purposes, these businesses don't really care much about the perp being caught. They just need enough evidence to back their insurance claim for something
kO wackO exactly. They think bc someone sees the cameras it would deter them but I’d rather have one where there is a clear resolution but they don’t want to spend the extra money. It’s ridiculous bc those clubs bring in so much money.
You are all wrong. It comes down to storage space. There’s an exponential increase in storage space required as quality increases. i.e. if you double the quality of a video it will require more than twice as much storage space. This is where the issues occur. Of course lower quality cameras are cheaper to buy outright but the difference is negligible, there’s absolutely no difference in the running cost between cameras of different qualities. Although wacko is the most right, security footage in a business typically only exists to satisfy insurance companies.
Like there's nothing wrong with partying and going to the club but be smart about it, if you know you go completely wild if you drink too much, then don't ever drink that much. Like the moment they said she was just downright drunk and started showing her vagina and grabbing everyone's attention I knew before they even said it that she was dead asf.
Robert Gardea Just about everyone comes to the same conclusion that alcohol and drugs including tobacco causes nothing but suffering. Heaven help people in the midst of this abuse/addiction.
Many clubs in Europe open till 7am. It’s not the problem with clubs being open all night long. Make sure you always go with friends and call a taxi before living. There were mistakes made: Kevin as a boyfriend should’ve waited for her outside and also not let her drink till she pass out. Of course there are always bad people who surround us and unfortunately this girl with her behavior attracted one of those. I once got wasted at New Year Party and passed out. Thank God it was at a friends’ house. But I’ve seen many girl pass out on the streets at 12 am by the clubs, and that makes an easy prey for killer.
For the boy friend not waiting for her is a big mistake unforgivable mistake, this story I watched years ago and it really affected me that I quit going clubbing period, especially she was just a girl went out for a night to have a good time, when I watched the story it really got me think that this world has so many psychopaths living around us and we never know who
Miami Beach is very uncomfortable place to visit, I visited 2 times, in 89’s my father took us on vacation to Miami I was 12-13 years old and I didn’t like it , in 2003 I visited Miami and unfortunately I was very uncomfortable and actually cut my trip , for some reason I can’t understand why but it’s the environment I think
My Dad always taught me that nothing good ever happens after midnight. Even if I go clubbing, we leave before midnight and just go to a friend’s place to keep drinking or whatever. Gotta stay safe
@@dootdoot94xo44 as seen in this video.. Fighting with her bf cause he wanted them to leave cause she was showing her 🐱to everyone .. Real classy... rip to her tho
well if she was showing herself like this then...I am sorry but these things happen like this, there are a lot of sick dudes out there and if they see a hot young girl who shows herself like this...It even didnt cross my mind that boyfriend could have done it, "odd because he just left her there" well...what was he supposed to do id she refused to come with him?
I mean, she still had a heart for others. I think she was aware of the split in her persona -vain selfish party girl vs philanthropic loving loving family girl.
Ppl please remember this, predators prey in crowds waiting for a stray!!.. when you go to a place that is socially popular, and you are around strangers If you come with a partner or group, stay in contact with your group. I used to work security at clubs and have never liked the effects of alcohol on myself or others....as it does make you cognitively vulnerable. In this situation, it was probably a sexual assault cover-up by fire done by someone who either worked there or frequented the venue. And they probably did it before so they are in the system already and didn't want a dna match to a prior case. And cities like LA, Vegas and Miami....are social-petri dishes for psychopaths and sociopaths, so when you are in these "fun" places you need to have extra situational awareness and be cautious of ppl you meet... Not everyone is there to party and have fun!!
I'd always keep an eye out for any girls when I was younger going to raves, the amount of times I'd cold approach some creep harassing a girl beggars belief. I'm a pretty tall skin head, covered in scars from fighting, and the situations diffused pretty quickly with the dipshit walking away. Made some good friends over the years from helping out. Wish I was there to save every girl but I know that more suffered than what I could ever possibly save. I stopped clubbing because of all the parasites, and the fact I'd always end up in fights because of them. I've gotten my anger under control these days, right up until I see the next asshole playing possum. There's a reason I keep a shovel in the back of my car!
I can agree with this highly since from time to time. I do come across odd encounters with individuals at night especially with some eyeing me out or sometimes following me to a certain extent before I trail them off in a place well lit and crowded with some other people.
@Lala Sisli This person's account is named after a Red Dead Redemption character and has the character's picture. I'm betting they're actually a woman.
Not even 20 seconds in and i already hear, “walked into a room and turned heads” Im glad i don’t turn heads, light up a room, or am the life of the party.
I respect her mother. It kind of proves even if you have a parent who tries to lead you to be an educated, independent woman who makes safe choices, some women just go their own way. Unfortunately, this beautiful, young woman suffered horrific consequences because she chose a different path. Paula didn't deserve a brutal death for that.Such a sad ending to a beautiful, young life. My heart breaks for the life Paula missed out on, her mothers broken heart and her sister losing her best friend. She was prey for predators because she was intoxicated, vulnerable and alone. So unfair
@@w.kamaranjoku1712 when Paula was 14 an older man began an inappropriate sexual relationship with her, and her mom didn't even try to stop it. Her sister wanted her mom to do something, but she refused. So her sister was the one who called CPS on this man and tried to protect her.
Not an internet detective but, the boyfriend is innocent, & the bouncers know exactly who she left with, which direction she went ect. But she did put herself in that situation by NOT leaving with her man. I’m pissed because 90% of these episodes don’t have any updates. It’s 2020 there’s cameras everywhere nowadays
@Luna EB I got bounced out of a concert once, trying to sneak backstage LOL. I think you guys would have been more diligent im making sure this girl got where she was going safely.
In the entire episode it was stated that Kevin had proposed to her and she told him no and his money game was weak after his business failures if my memory serves me correctly. That's why I am not feeling this edited version. I have always found the claims of Kevin her so called boyfriend sketchy. Bear in mind he was ejected first because "HE" was feeling some kind of way about guys with more money and affluent were checking for her. The entire episode sheds more light and I am convinced he did it.
First mistake right their ' Kevin kicked out for causing a disturbance'...she had no knickers on, lifting her skirt in the club, guys right up against her....Kevin was protecting her!
I thought this case was solved. I heard that her,and her boyfriend got into a augmented. He was kick out the club,she stayed behind. She was drunk,and the bouncer gave her a ride home. He killed her. I thought they caught him? They at least at something connecting him to Paula 's murder.
@@DeadsupraEE3 I thought they got the guy. They had a man on video who followed her out. A person gave police a description ,and they did a sketch of the guy. But they never caught him. Here the sketch www.cbsnews.com/news/paula-sladewski-update-did-this-man-kill-ex-playboy-model-pictures
@Killer Curves , a judgmental idiot? Are you talking about yourself? The poor woman is grieving the loss of her daughter. Have some sympathy! She didn’t approve of her daughter’s lifestyle so she warned her. That is what a good mother is supposed to do. The mother is right. Her daughter’s lifestyle and her character cost her her life.
@Killer Curves Paula would still be alive today if she'd listened to that " bitter judgmental idiot" like u said. You're probably living a lifestyle just like Paula if not worse.
No the murderer cost her her life. The mother comes across as a piece of shit to be honest jealous of her daughter from the very start. No wonder Paula sought attention probably because her mother was so unloving!
Bouncers very Suspicious. Were all bouncers accounted for going back into club after 10min following her out? Then it's who ever she caught a ride with.
@Vanessa Marie You've made yourself look so stupid with that comment. Unless you know FOR A FACT that the bouncer (who was not, in fact, "walking her out" but following behind as she was leaving), was indeed the last one to see her alive. In which case you're accusing him of murder. Check yourself before checking others.
@@manashawest Her mother didn’t do anything! She wasn’t too happy with her behavior. It’s not her fault. It was mentioned that her daughter was too obsessed with her looks from a very young age.
@M B no it's not, just because someone has a good up bringing doesn't mean they'll always turn out as great people, just as a person who grows up with horrible parents can be the nicest people you ever meet, parents aren't the only people who raise a child, factors like community, peers, and the algorithm, at what point are people going to take responsibility for they're actions and not blame mommy and daddy? What happened to her wasn't her fault and who she was did make her vulnerable, but who she was isn’t a result of her parents but of her own self
It’s disgusting that you are all victim blaming this woman. She didn’t die because she cared about her looks, or wore revealing clothes, or liked to party, or worked as a stripper. She did not “get herself killed” or “pay the price” of her “behavior”. She died because someone murdered her. You can all fuck right off.
She was playing a game in leagues that never end with a beautiful ending. Unfortunately she made that decision herself and her family suffered her loss. Very sad. Even more when everyone noticed she didn’t have anything under and drunk; she was the perfect victim for any perpetrator watching.
The bouncer that had Kevin removed from club for "causing a disturbance" when he tried to get Paula to leave might have done so for predatory reasons. Separated from her boyfriend and super drunk, it would be much easier to take advantage of her.
Even if he didn't do anything to her personally, his actions put her at risk big time. You do not kick out the only person who knows her like that. You tell them both to leave, then document how they left the establishment. That all gets put in the report at the end of the night. That way if something happens to anyone the police have something to go off of. The bouncer was either A) A COMPLETE MORON....B) VERY INEXPERIENCED or both. Anyone who has worked in venue security knows that woman are a target. You have to pay attention. Also many owners of these types of places just don't care and hire people that never question them. It's rare ownership let's their staff do the right thing.
You guys watch way too many TV shows. My previous post explain that I was a bouncer and what usually happened. He didn't just "grab" her. With guys groping and grabbing at her, he lost it and if he "grabbed" her that would be enough for me to ask him to leave. I would ask the lady if she wanted to go with him or stay and whatever she decided...she was an adult. I'm guessing it was an opportunistic crime form someone hanging around the club. That is what most often happens.
@@markmike7933 "she was an adult" typical bouncer attitude. You gotta go a little further in situations like that. If he was being violent with her and you make a decision that they need to leave separately, then at least get the plate number of the car she leaves in. That way PD has something to go off of if something happens. All those things need to be documented when you're doing venue security. It has nothing to do with watching movies, it's about being thorough.
I love how all these shows tend to paint the victim as some sort of beautiul saint, and then when they start talking about what they actually did it quickly turns out that person was an absolute train wreck waiting to happen. Even her own mother dropped the facade two questions in.
@@HalfInsaneOutdoorGuy why? Because the mother didnt paint her daughter with bright colors? Unlike every other parent that always claim their child was a fkn saint this mother told it just how it was.
No one deserves to be brutally murdered. Unless you’re a child abuser, those people don’t deserve to live. But she wasn’t & absolutely didn’t deserve the end she got.
According to what we heard, she has brain, personality, character and passion to be a nurse, yet she had to focus on her looks and body to make easy money. That's so sad.
When I was old enough to go out my parents and older sister teached me to NEVER EVER leave a party without the friends that I came with. if my friend has to leave the club,it goes without saying that I will follow him and leave too.
In high school the homie picked me up with his sister to go to Chucky Cheese. His sister only came to ride with her best friend who live across the street. We got to CC his pops asked, where's your sister? As he started to say shes riding, pops said, go get her. Told him we will stay any have pizza. So he went back by himself to get her and they were eating with his family too by the time he made it back to tell his pops that they had already left. I was never stupid enough to return without I left with.
@@RBNobody of course, they were drooling for her, they got rid of the boyfriend, gave her a few free drinks lace with something and waited 4 her outside.
The cops are incompetent idiots......they should have solved this case by now......it's been years......who knows how many other women this creep killed after her.
Back when I clubbed often I used to see couples arguing all the time. Either the guy or girl couldn’t control their alcohol or both and it ended bad every time
They said other nice stuff too but yeah I agree, every other complement seemed like an after thought. Truly heart breaking imo. Double oof when you realize that she is only attractive to people in a superficial way and doesn't really have much depth. I almost feel bad for not finding her appealing.
The deceased seems to have taken many poor decisions in her short life---stripper, expensive lifestyle, bad men, playboy magazines or similar bad hobbies. As a woman, her mother saw it coming and she knew that life was going to be very tuff for her child particularly without education...unfortunately there was nothing more the mother could've done since the deceased was no longer a minor.
'His alibi was airtight' 'In the investigation we found everything he was telling us was accurate' Then why have you heavily insinuated that he was the killer for the last 16 minutes??
Totally. It's all artificial drama. Particularly because his alibi relies on so much that is completely falsifiable. Is there a receipt for the taxi? Which taxi driver picked him up? Does that driver recognize him? How about hotel staff? Anyone remember him coming into the lobby that night? Key card used on his door? What towers did his cell phone ping at what times? Where was he, precisely at the time she left the club? What about video surveillance at the hotel or along his entire route? Lots of pieces that could be validated/falsified. This is not your typical, "I was walking along an empty beach all night after my wallet and cell phone were stolen." type alibi. The dude is almost certainly innocent or they would have long since burned him.
I don't think that is how her mom came across, but she did say she told her she didn't approve of her behavior. I certainly would not want the world to think I encouraged this type of behavior in my daughter. All of us know that being so needy of being pretty and getting attention leads to questionable situations - that behavior does not attract the most upstanding people in our communities. The mother is heartbroken that a lifestyle of which she did not approve led to the death of her daughter. I am quite certain she wishes she could have done something years before that would have discouraged her daughter away from that false life. However, often there is no way you can discourage it. Tragically, her daughter's life choices put her in a position where some sick, perverted monster made her the center of his world for a few hours. The victim did not get snatched from her home or walking home from the grocery store. However, her behavior certainly does not give anyone a right to harm her, but she was surely warned many times about getting drunk and flaunting herself the way she was apparently doing.
@@GlennaVan Well said, this is how I was thinking about the situation. Of course no one should have put a hand on her regardless of her poor choices. In this fallen world there are people that will prey on others and her behavior put her in the company of people wanting to harm her. There is a reason why people tell women especially not to get drunk or flaunt in public without someone there to keep an eye on you. It's the world we live in and people can try to ignore this but it is reality. Most of us don't think she deserves it but the reality of the world is there are sick people and her behavior increased her odds she would have a run in with a bad person. Similar to all those travelers that go to dangerous places of the world to prove a point that they should be able to and then end up usually getting raped & murdered. In the perfect world they should be able to travel without harm and women should be able to make poor choices without getting harmed but reality doesn't always end up the way things should happen.
Finally! A mother that actually speaks the damn truth about their child. We always hear "my child was an angel and never did no wrong and everyone loved them blah! Blah! Blah!"
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that her risky behavior invited trouble. A mother knows her own child better than anyone else. Her mother was likely a witness to many behaviors in Paula's life that caused her to worry. Sometimes it's hard for a parent to tell a grown adult child anything. They just won't listen.
I feel for the mom. She knows her daughter had her faults, but she still loved her and was heartbroken that she'd been taken from her in such a diabolical way. I feel for the sister too. Paula was her little bestie. She wanted to protect her little sister, but she couldn't in this case. My heart goes out to both of them and I hope they receive justice one day.
The mom is trash. She was OK with her underage daughter sleeping with adult men, which is statutory rape. Her mom is the source of most of her problems in life. Her sister was more of a mom to her, and was the one who fought for justice in her sister's case, though it is sadly still unsolved. They did release a sketch of the guy they saw her leave with, but can't find the guy.
Absolutely. Her mom was honest and that is refreshing. Many times the Mom's of murder victims are in denial with regards to their babies self-destructive behavior and poor life choices that contributed to their demise. One such Mom is the mom of that Armaud Arbery character. According to his Mom, her angel baby boy "DINDU NUFFIN."
I hope her case gets solved one day. Rest in peace Paula. My condolences to the family. Her mother wearing his ashes is so touching. My friend has a necklace with his grandfather's ashes. And I know how much it means to him so I'm glad her mother has her in her heart.
Why do these shows always focus on "she was a head turner, everyone stared when she walked into the room" blah blah blah. Ugly and average people are killed and missing too ya know!!
Yeah but society doesn't like to look at stories of ugly victims, just ugly perpetrators. Ask all the family members whose daughters just aren't pretty enough to become a media sensation when they go missing. It's the same reason why good looking defendants serve lower sentences. People that study criminal justice and psychological science know this all too well.
@@joshuawood1436 How is your vulgat comment, "reality"? It's a twisted view psychopaths like you have to excuse the horrendous crimes that happen to others. Shame on you for not getting the help you so obviously need.
TWO THINGS, 1. Never leave the woman you love alone in a club. 2. Choose better character people to surround yourself with. (She was an absolute danger to herself and her boyfriend)
Add two more things; don’t break your girlfriend’s nose and don’t threaten to kill her and cut her up into little pieces and put her in bags so no one can find her body.
@@Jdjustsaying And that goes without saying! Horrible story, I just hope young women can use it as an example of what making horrible decisions could end up costing you. Hope it saves a lot of young women.
There was time my best girlfriend and I went to South Beach clubs almost every weekend. But what most didn’t know is we both didn’t “party” aka drink or drugs. We just loved dressing up and dancing. That lasted a few lot months then we stopped going because we realized most people who approach you in those settings never have good intentions and it just wasn’t fun anymore. But I agree with most.... never ever ever EVER leave your friend! Ever!
I would go to club space with friends but we always had a plan of action… come together, leave together. There are no drinks left on a table, no one goes to the bathroom alone! We knew better because Miami had some trashy liars!
I feel for the boyfriend in this story. I’ve been through a couple situations just like this (even down to my gf flashing everyone with no panties on) except my gf didn’t die bc of it but she did end up getting raped the second time it happened. The only difference between my experience and this one is that she purposely got me kicked out bc she was blackout drunk and annoyed that I was “trying to stop her having fun”. I stayed with her after it happened with the condition she went to inpatient rehab and stopped drinking but she only stayed sober about a year then completely lost control, lost her job, lost everything, and died at the age of 32 from alcohol. What kills me about it is she had the world in the palm of her hand and could’ve done anything she wanted; everyone loved her, smart as hell, and was extremely good looking. Stay away from alcohol folks it’s straight up poison and will destroy you.
MY GOD THIS STORY WAS VERY TRAGIC BUT WAS VERY NECESSARY TO TELL PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO NEED TO KNOW HOW DANGEROUS IT CAN BE OUT THERE!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARIN YOUR STORY.
A few things I've learned throughout my time watching true crime videos: 1. Don't light up a room with your smile 2. Never give anyone the shirt off your back 3. It's not a mannequin
Some things I learned from binge watching these damn videos: Anyone can be a killer, assume even the ones that seem least likely a killer, cute babies and sweet grandmas included. Keep cell phone active for digial footprints. Tell my close family/friends that if they dont hear from me at least once a month to check on me.
showing a bunch of drunk males in the club your snatch and then wondering why you ended up kindling in a dumpster cause you didn't give up the snatch. smoothbrain activities
They probably kicked him out because he was trying to get her to stop flashing everyone - which is bad for business if you know what I mean. Club owners like slutty girls, they bring $$ to the club. Sad. She was really beautiful when she was younger. But she valued the wrong things and paid the ultimate price for it. Parents: Don't let your daughters become strippers.
@Ms Bliss yup. bartender was probably paid off. slipped mickey in her drink, then the (probably paid too) security escort woman to "client" taxi.. who paid to have woman drugged. why dont they just look up who paid for the taxi or have camera footage of the car she went in. bleh
No one deserves to be murdered, no one. Also, no one is invisible. Unfortunately for her mother, her little girl was out of control. Yes, someone can come into your house... but there's no reason to tell death to come hither. Women and men both become statistics when they get too drunk, too high, whatever. And also when they are stone cold sober. There is evil out there. Evil people. Stay alert. Be careful.
Lisa Torres........That's a really idiotic thing to say. You sound like you're still living in the time when they used to say every woman who wore a short skirt somehow deserved to be sexually assaulted......when you talk like that you are too stupid to realize you are blaming the victim and making excuses for a killer .......are you that jealous of the way she looks that you blame her for the actions of a cold-blooded murderer.....smh.
@@georgebbb2857 "not a church going person" ??? Do you really think that only a Non-Church going person could be such an insensitive bigoted idiot? LOL ... doesn't your religion teach you that you are ALL Sinners? ... and Sinners do go to your Church, right?
LOL! I was literally about to post the same thing, went from "wow" to ...wtf dgi really? went from 10 to 4 after plastic surgery and bleaching hair...:::
11:32 "he was a suspect cos he was the last person to see her alive"..... but she was at the club for another 30 minutes after he left with random guys all over her...
So sorry they didn't catch the murder & i love how honest her mother was let's not hide the fact that a particular lifestyle can attract sick minds & personalities !
Her mother was very right to be concerned. And she tried to talk to her about serious subjects. I feel sorry for the young victim and her loved ones. What a tragic loss of a young life.
I’m sorry but if I got thrown out of the club and my girlfriend was still in the club I would have stood outside the club until she came out because I knew that she was intoxicated
I'm sorry but I wouldn't have a girlfriend who preferred to dance and show her naked body to random dudes in a club rather than come home with me. So ya, I would have ditched her ass too if my girl acted like that, and would have jumped on the first plane home without her. Of course I wouldn't wish what happened to her to have happened, I would just have ended that relationship before it even got to this point. So I don't blame the boyfriend for leaving, at all. Sucks what happened to her.
My daughter turn 18 she wants to move out already, i put her this video and I talk her , you don’t have ideas how bad is outside, you think go out and party is cool , you don’t know nothing yet , she doesn’t listen to me because she thinks she knows everything.
All u can do is say tell me where you are going and call to say when youre returning home...and if you want to be picked up... that way you at least know where they will be... at little less worry... We parents just want our kids safe...🙏
Return of the Dragon ....how on earth do you know this man did any of the things you accuse him of? ALL of us worry about our children and it’s not because we were abusive and/or used others, but because we know awful people exist in this world and our children may encounter them.
the problem is nothing good happens when a girl is hammered AND wandering around by herself. My gf in college loved partying/drinking with her friends. One night I had a guy’s night at my place on campus while she went to a bar with her friends. Next thing I know her best friend is calling me asking me to pickup my gf. I did and found her passed out on the street near the bar… all i could think was she could’ve been abducted had I not got her
How the hell the boyfriend can be considered the last person to see her alive when he left her inside a bar surrounded by people.... we even have footage of her leaving alone the bar?? How about the bouncer ???
That's whats I'm saying, they then go on to talk about "witnesses" long after his departure from the club. Poorly contrived narrative, to say the least.
Man this happens way to often. Tourists get drunk and disappear. I have a trip coming soon and this was a great reminder to stay even more vigilant in an unknown area. Rip
I don't know, if my spouse made a habit of showing off his jewels in public I'd probably threaten the same thing. Especially if alcohol were involved. But neither apply to my life, but I could see from their perspective. Just a tumultuous relationship all the way around.
That blond bombshell look is so played out, my head would never turn if she walked passed. Some guys love fakeness, but most guys appreciate the everyday chick who looks good in her damn uniform with no makeup on.
Especially near that dead-end street? It's an industrial area, probably lots of cameras around there. Whoever spotted her in the club that night has a connection to that Dead End Street where the dumpster was located.
@@jellyluver22 he told her to stop hoeing around and she didn't listen and she started showing her body and the bf told her to stop and the security kicked hin out for causing a scene so its the girls fault
she looked SOOO much better before she fell into the lifestyle. so natural and beautiful. I wish young girls understood what happens to them when they fall into these dumb traps
@@egidiuspettersson8849 you hope innocent young naive girls get washed up and killed as fast as possible? thats pretty harsh, unless we're misunderstanding each other.
She looking nice but so sad her end.women and girls should always keep in mind there is lot of danger every where for them.specially when they exposing themselves. It mean they are in danger then why they are not caring about themselves. Only dancing and joining club is not life.you are valuable for your family your parents. So be careful every time.i live in east our family always keep check and balance on us.my daughter is now 15 year old she has no cell phone. After evening we not go outside without my husband or my brother. But in day time we are free we go on job.go to shopping go to parties in hotels or weddings functions. We always act upon our society and cultural values.
I'd say flashing people with no underwear on is a little more than flirting. No one deserves anything bad, but if you play in traffic, you might get hit by a car.
@@quarentinedlove2903 It wasn't kinda slutty - it was slutty. Some women conveniently forget that when seeking the attention, often unwanted attention comes with that. Oh well.
You do realize all words are just made up sounds which we had attached what meaning it has. This is why my friends jokes and says LMNOP instead of OK. Should I be up his ass bitching about shit that doesn't matter? A girl is dead. Murdered. And they're trying to blame a black man with no witnesses. That's not LMNOP.
@@shannonjackson2954 she was person and if it was your family member murder how would like it if people talk shit about them . No one is perfect im sure people could find something to talk about with anyone. Get some class .
If I’m ever murdered or kidnapped, please don’t make up lies about me. I do not light up a room. Everyone doesn’t want to be my friend. People don’t automatically take notice of me. I have a smart mouth and two friends. Tell 20/20 that.
KAT please stay safe and try to be aware of your sorroundings
Hahaha. Same.
Same. Add awkward and a little chunky to mine.
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Don't worry, only women who light up a room get murdered :P
“...her drop dead good looks...”
Y'all could've phrased that better
Asil Ahmed yeah they could’ve
Except she ain't that good looking. This biii is basic as can be
True. And she wasn't exactly "drop dead gorgeous", either.
I didn't really find her that attractive she was definitely a good looking girl but not what they were making her out to be. But she still didn't deserve to die the way she did
ahahha
I love how a speeding Roller Coaster can get a perfectly clear picture but surveillance videos are always grainy AF.
the are better quality because they can make money from those roller coaster pictures I Guess
surveillance cameras are mostly a part of of bigger system, with many cameras recording at the same time, saved in one hard disk. they save the recordings with less resolutions to save bits and bites. imho.
@@fly89 good info. I had no idea but always wondered about the crappy quality of most.
So true !
OMG never thought of that. WOw
The mother was very honest about her daughter but heart broking of loosing her😢
"He was the last person to see her alive" no he wasn't. The bouncer that escorted her out was.
Have u watched the whole video. In the 14th min about they said that he wasnt the last one to see Paula.
Actually it was the murderer.
That crazy Russian blogger should be a suspect! He attacked another woman in Miami last month!
😅🤣🤣😅
abbreviation of time or that ‘shadowy’ figure on the poor quality mono colour video
Wow her mom is brutally honest, she loves her and tells it as it is, not painting her daughter as an angel like what other parents do. My condolences to her loved ones🙏🏿
For someone like myself that has common sense, it’s impossible to paint daughter as “Perfect”. She has “Freeloading” written all over it. Her Stupid Games got Her Stupid Prizes; Death.
@@boogitybear2283 “stupid games” (whatever that means 😏) doesn’t give someone a reason to kill you. This kind of thinking is SO dangerous.
@@JellybeanHair She reaped what she sow. She’s about as Unattractive as they come. I love how the Media portrays certain genders and races.
@@boogitybear2283 not saying the media doesn’t portray certain genders and races certain ways, they 100% do. What I’m ACTUALLY saying is that saying she was playing “stupid games” and “got her stupid prizes” is a dangerous mindset. You saying that is no different than the media racially profiling and it’s DANGEROUS. I understand anger but blaming a young woman for her death because of the life she lead isn’t ok. You won’t change my mind 🤷♀️
@@boogitybear2283 and actually MOST people would say she’s beautiful...I certainly would.
I feel the mom is being very realistic. Not sugarcoating the situation.
I think the authorities are not doing a good job in investigating this case.
@@onixalagao5732 - Is your first name Sherlock per chance? Perhaps you should be the lead investigator...
@@lopezmt5
Think theres nothing we could do for you.A guy whos been living with bitterness and sarcasm all his life.
@@lopezmt5
Youre hopeless kid.ha ha ha.
@@lopezmt5 you mom went to The University of Phoenix and didn’t graduate good Terry
I love how genuine the mom is. I hope she finds out who did this to her daughter.
It's not just for her mom, but many of us are keenly waiting to see the conclusion of this case. I remembered firstly watching it on FBI
Horrible journalism. If they cut out all the fluff about how "sexy" and "hot" she was and actually stuck to telling the story, this video would be about 30 seconds long.
SNL Fan actually there's a documentary from the boyfriends perspective that's a lot more in depth than this. There's a lot that wasn't mentioned here.
@@DarkAngel71180 Nice, I'll have to check it out
Exactly what I was thinking like okay we get it she was cute
Goes to show you that even though you may look good in the end, nobody cares
Dude, your comments are making me floppy! ⛔️🍆‼️
Those photos in the magazine and her photos with blonde hair can be mistaken as two different person.
shing villarias *people (trying to help not being a dick)
SHe looked much better as a brunette...in my opinion.
@@tutorjulslee2357 of course cause that was her natural color.
It looks like she had a bit of unneeded work done.
@@micellea This - had more to do with the fake hair/spray tan/lashes than the color of the hair. Like how Pamela Anderson was a natural beauty when she started on Baywatch, then had the giant fake boobs put in, had other work done and became a monstrosity.
How are surveillance cameras so crappy in this day and age 😳
Right
Tina Goebel this is old. Early 2000s
This happened in January 2010.
They do it intentionally, I bet inside by the registers is top notch.
2010
The mother wants to blame her boyfriend for her daughter bad behavior. She humiliated him & he still did more to help her 🤦🏾♀️ that’s why your daughter behaved that way no accountability
So many people going to die by partying tonight, not me I'll stay at home for UA-cam marathon.
Me, too!!! Screw going out.
lovely armdrz9407 😂😂
@@lovelyarmdrz chances exponentially increased when you're out n about.
I'm safe on my couch. I just hope people don't start shooting their guns in the air. You know where does bullet land.
misaki stalker ...I hear you...! Play it safe....have a fantastic New Year ! 2020 ...
I'll never understand businesses that install crappy security cameras. Like seriously what's the point of video surveillance if the resolution is so bad you can't see anyone clearly?
insurance purposes, these businesses don't really care much about the perp being caught. They just need enough evidence to back their insurance claim for something
kO wackO exactly. They think bc someone sees the cameras it would deter them but I’d rather have one where there is a clear resolution but they don’t want to spend the extra money. It’s ridiculous bc those clubs bring in so much money.
It costs a lot to have HD camera going for hours on end so they use cheaper quality so they can just save it on tapes. (Or so I’ve heard)
they are legally reqired to have security tapes, and no business wants to spend 1000 on each camera for a good quality picture during the night
You are all wrong.
It comes down to storage space.
There’s an exponential increase in storage space required as quality increases. i.e. if you double the quality of a video it will require more than twice as much storage space.
This is where the issues occur. Of course lower quality cameras are cheaper to buy outright but the difference is negligible, there’s absolutely no difference in the running cost between cameras of different qualities.
Although wacko is the most right, security footage in a business typically only exists to satisfy insurance companies.
NOTHING good EVER happens at 2 am in the morning at a bar or a club. Nothing.
Nothing good ever happens by drinking too much...or drinking at all.
I’m inclined to agree. I wanted to argue against it (bc I’m an ass), but I can’t find a good-enough personal experience to do so😂
Like there's nothing wrong with partying and going to the club but be smart about it, if you know you go completely wild if you drink too much, then don't ever drink that much. Like the moment they said she was just downright drunk and started showing her vagina and grabbing everyone's attention I knew before they even said it that she was dead asf.
Yep thats about the time u get rubbed out lol
Robert Gardea Just about everyone comes to the same conclusion that alcohol and drugs including tobacco causes nothing but suffering. Heaven help people in the midst of this abuse/addiction.
Many clubs in Europe open till 7am. It’s not the problem with clubs being open all night long. Make sure you always go with friends and call a taxi before living. There were mistakes made: Kevin as a boyfriend should’ve waited for her outside and also not let her drink till she pass out. Of course there are always bad people who surround us and unfortunately this girl with her behavior attracted one of those. I once got wasted at New Year Party and passed out. Thank God it was at a friends’ house. But I’ve seen many girl pass out on the streets at 12 am by the clubs, and that makes an easy prey for killer.
Yes many gals
Many European countries are just all-around better areas to live.
She was flashing her vagina & flirting with other men..grounds for dumping her right there😡let the other men drooling over her be responsible 🙄
For the boy friend not waiting for her is a big mistake unforgivable mistake, this story I watched years ago and it really affected me that I quit going clubbing period, especially she was just a girl went out for a night to have a good time, when I watched the story it really got me think that this world has so many psychopaths living around us and we never know who
Miami Beach is very uncomfortable place to visit, I visited 2 times, in 89’s my father took us on vacation to Miami I was 12-13 years old and I didn’t like it , in 2003 I visited Miami and unfortunately I was very uncomfortable and actually cut my trip , for some reason I can’t understand why but it’s the environment I think
Imagine you die and this is what’s on the Internet. A story about you lifting up your skirt in the club...
No problem.. Dead people are conscious of nothing at all
Brielle Bardot exactly
Her choices...
If she did it its really on her, theyre just telling the facts.
Learn from this girls
My Dad always taught me that nothing good ever happens after midnight. Even if I go clubbing, we leave before midnight and just go to a friend’s place to keep drinking or whatever. Gotta stay safe
So true. I don't even like being out of my house after midnight.
@@dootdoot94xo44 as seen in this video.. Fighting with her bf cause he wanted them to leave cause she was showing her 🐱to everyone .. Real classy... rip to her tho
Feel the same way ,girls!!!🙏
"Nothing good happens after midnight" means go to bed not stay up drinking at a friends place
@@dootdoot94xo44 literally garbage collectors
The boyfriend was not the last person to see her alive - the person who escorted her out of the club was.
This is a novelty, you should call the investigators....
@@GospelTatiana lol
Right. As stated at 14:43
well if she was showing herself like this then...I am sorry but these things happen like this, there are a lot of sick dudes out there and if they see a hot young girl who shows herself like this...It even didnt cross my mind that boyfriend could have done it, "odd because he just left her there" well...what was he supposed to do id she refused to come with him?
Hailey Q 202 and the blame the victim ideology is still kicking around, huh?
i wanna give the mom a hug for her honesty
Mom is pretty honest..."She loved being the center of attention. It was all about her."
Sadly being the center makes you a target :(
I mean, she still had a heart for others. I think she was aware of the split in her persona -vain selfish party girl vs philanthropic loving loving family girl.
And she got that attention by doing things like wearing no patties and lifting her skirt in a nightclub. Apparently she got the wrong attention.
Kind of hard to ignore 😉
and that is what got her killed
Ppl please remember this, predators prey in crowds waiting for a stray!!..
when you go to a place that is socially popular, and you are around strangers
If you come with a partner or group, stay in contact with your group.
I used to work security at clubs and have never liked the effects of alcohol on myself or others....as it does make you cognitively vulnerable.
In this situation, it was probably a sexual assault cover-up by fire done by someone who either worked there or frequented the venue.
And they probably did it before so they are in the system already and didn't want a dna match to a prior case.
And cities like LA, Vegas and Miami....are social-petri dishes for psychopaths and sociopaths, so when you are in these "fun" places you need to have extra situational awareness and be cautious of ppl you meet...
Not everyone is there to party and have fun!!
I'd always keep an eye out for any girls when I was younger going to raves, the amount of times I'd cold approach some creep harassing a girl beggars belief. I'm a pretty tall skin head, covered in scars from fighting, and the situations diffused pretty quickly with the dipshit walking away. Made some good friends over the years from helping out. Wish I was there to save every girl but I know that more suffered than what I could ever possibly save. I stopped clubbing because of all the parasites, and the fact I'd always end up in fights because of them. I've gotten my anger under control these days, right up until I see the next asshole playing possum. There's a reason I keep a shovel in the back of my car!
I can agree with this highly since from time to time. I do come across odd encounters with individuals at night especially with some eyeing me out or sometimes following me to a certain extent before I trail them off in a place well lit and crowded with some other people.
@@----.__ I'd imagine clubs/bars are creepos main hunting grounds, doesn't sound surprising.
@Lala Sisli This person's account is named after a Red Dead Redemption character and has the character's picture. I'm betting they're actually a woman.
Wow! Thanks I'll be extra careful henceforth.
Not even 20 seconds in and i already hear, “walked into a room and turned heads”
Im glad i don’t turn heads, light up a room, or am the life of the party.
flxwercxrpse I know for me they would be like we loved her but she argued with everyone,had the mouth of a sailor, and cried to much😂🙌🏼
Lol
You turned my head
It's just a tad bit of victim blaming.
Too funny
I respect her mother. It kind of proves even if you have a parent who tries to lead you to be an educated, independent woman who makes safe choices, some women just go their own way. Unfortunately, this beautiful, young woman suffered horrific consequences because she chose a different path. Paula didn't deserve a brutal death for that.Such a sad ending to a beautiful, young life. My heart breaks for the life Paula missed out on, her mothers broken heart and her sister losing her best friend. She was prey for predators because she was intoxicated, vulnerable and alone. So unfair
another victim of liberalism and feminism
Sounded like she also needed a father figure in her life. Going to the club and stripping for male attention is not healthy.
I totally respect Mom's honesty .
The mom has no place for her "honesty" when she is the reason her daughter did the things she did. Her mom is a narcissistic ahole.
@@belladonna5904 care to explain
She’s a narcissist for telling the truth?
@@w.kamaranjoku1712 when Paula was 14 an older man began an inappropriate sexual relationship with her, and her mom didn't even try to stop it. Her sister wanted her mom to do something, but she refused. So her sister was the one who called CPS on this man and tried to protect her.
Your not blessed as a child if your obsessed with your looks, it's a curse.
Hell yeah!
@voodoo star They're saying being vain like she was is bad.
Absolutely right
Her mother encouraged her behavior;maybe even lived vicariously through her. That’s dangerous.
It really can be. Thats why the devil's most favorite sin is vanity.
11:33 How was the boyfriend the last person to see her alive when he left the club waayyy before she did?
Hi There Last person she knew I guess?
cause after that nobody else came forward i guess so the case ended
She looks way too old for her age. I guess all that substance abuse shows. She really aged prematurely.
Who "escorted" her out of the Club.... that's the last person that saw her.... I don't believe the boyfriend is guilty.
Paula Leigh
They said he was a bouncer as well.
Paula Leigh I really don’t think it’s the boyfriend either.
Not an internet detective but, the boyfriend is innocent, & the bouncers know exactly who she left with, which direction she went ect. But she did put herself in that situation by NOT leaving with her man. I’m pissed because 90% of these episodes don’t have any updates. It’s 2020 there’s cameras everywhere nowadays
@Luna EB I got bounced out of a concert once, trying to sneak backstage LOL. I think you guys would have been more diligent im making sure this girl got where she was going safely.
In the entire episode it was stated that Kevin had proposed to her and she told him no and his money game was weak after his business failures if my memory serves me correctly. That's why I am not feeling this edited version. I have always found the claims of Kevin her so called boyfriend sketchy. Bear in mind he was ejected first because "HE" was feeling some kind of way about guys with more money and affluent were checking for her. The entire episode sheds more light and I am convinced he did it.
She looked way better as a brunette!
You watch alot of these too lol i saw your comment on a different crime watch daily episode lol
@@amanteheru8572 stop creeping on her weirdo
@@amanteheru8572 Amante that means you watch a lot of these too then.
Agreed. She was much more attractive with her natural hair and look
She looks very fake and plastic and alot older than she is.
First mistake right their ' Kevin kicked out for causing a disturbance'...she had no knickers on, lifting her skirt in the club, guys right up against her....Kevin was protecting her!
Right?!? But hes the one that got kicked out?!?!
@Maurice Labbe for them it's what keeps customers that's all they care about
Or maybe he was jealous...
Rebekah Field KNICKERS?
Knickers are panties...
The blonde hair makes her look about 10 years older.
Plus plucked eyebrows n a very tanned complexion.
Yea, I don't know what about it specifically makes it that way.
She looks way hotter as a blonde
I’m sure she looks worse now
Doesn't matter any more.
Boyfriend wasn't the last to see her alive, the bouncers were.
I thought this case was solved. I heard that her,and her boyfriend got into a augmented. He was kick out the club,she stayed behind. She was drunk,and the bouncer gave her a ride home. He killed her. I thought they caught him? They at least at something connecting him to Paula 's murder.
wait... how do you know that?
@@DeadsupraEE3
I thought they got the guy. They had a man on video who followed her out. A person gave police a description ,and they did a sketch of the guy. But they never caught him. Here the sketch
www.cbsnews.com/news/paula-sladewski-update-did-this-man-kill-ex-playboy-model-pictures
I would guess the killer was.
He could've got jealous at the club
I Notice that her mother is very honest About her, And the way she lived her life
@Killer Curves , a judgmental idiot? Are you talking about yourself? The poor woman is grieving the loss of her daughter. Have some sympathy! She didn’t approve of her daughter’s lifestyle so she warned her. That is what a good mother is supposed to do. The mother is right. Her daughter’s lifestyle and her character cost her her life.
@Killer Curves Paula would still be alive today if she'd listened to that " bitter judgmental idiot" like u said. You're probably living a lifestyle just like Paula if not worse.
No the murderer cost her her life. The mother comes across as a piece of shit to be honest jealous of her daughter from the very start. No wonder Paula sought attention probably because her mother was so unloving!
No Paula would still be alive today if some monster hadn’t murdered her
Yes she tells it how it is
Bouncers very Suspicious. Were all bouncers accounted for going back into club after 10min following her out? Then it's who ever she caught a ride with.
"He was the last person to see her alive" no he wasn't the bouncer walking her out was the last person get it right miami police
Actually wouldn't the murderer be the last person to see her alive?
Her killer was the last person to see her alive.
@Vanessa Marie
You've made yourself look so stupid with that comment. Unless you know FOR A FACT that the bouncer (who was not, in fact, "walking her out" but following behind as she was leaving), was indeed the last one to see her alive. In which case you're accusing him of murder. Check yourself before checking others.
The mother realizes her daughters personality made her a victim which is why she sounds more angry than sad.
Yes! Because she encouraged her behavior and is now paying for it.
@@manashawest she didn’t encourage her behavior. Didn’t you watch the video?
@@manashawest Her mother didn’t do anything! She wasn’t too happy with her behavior. It’s not her fault. It was mentioned that her daughter was too obsessed with her looks from a very young age.
@M B no it's not, just because someone has a good up bringing doesn't mean they'll always turn out as great people, just as a person who grows up with horrible parents can be the nicest people you ever meet, parents aren't the only people who raise a child, factors like community, peers, and the algorithm, at what point are people going to take responsibility for they're actions and not blame mommy and daddy? What happened to her wasn't her fault and who she was did make her vulnerable, but who she was isn’t a result of her parents but of her own self
It’s disgusting that you are all victim blaming this woman. She didn’t die because she cared about her looks, or wore revealing clothes, or liked to party, or worked as a stripper. She did not “get herself killed” or “pay the price” of her “behavior”. She died because someone murdered her. You can all fuck right off.
This mom warned her many times. I feel so bad for Paula’s family. Especially her wonderful mom.
I AGREE WITH YOU 1MILLION PERCENT 🙄
@@thefirstiagree1091 ME TO BUT 100000000000000000000%
Im surprised you don't call her ""A LADY"". Attention wh*res exist; If she respected herself and her BF she would probably be alive today....
She was playing a game in leagues that never end with a beautiful ending. Unfortunately she made that decision herself and her family suffered her loss. Very sad. Even more when everyone noticed she didn’t have anything under and drunk; she was the perfect victim for any perpetrator watching.
another victim of liberalism and feminism
The bouncer that had Kevin removed from club for "causing a disturbance" when he tried to get Paula to leave might have done so for predatory reasons. Separated from her boyfriend and super drunk, it would be much easier to take advantage of her.
My thoughts exactly
Even if he didn't do anything to her personally, his actions put her at risk big time. You do not kick out the only person who knows her like that. You tell them both to leave, then document how they left the establishment. That all gets put in the report at the end of the night. That way if something happens to anyone the police have something to go off of. The bouncer was either A) A COMPLETE MORON....B) VERY INEXPERIENCED or both. Anyone who has worked in venue security knows that woman are a target. You have to pay attention. Also many owners of these types of places just don't care and hire people that never question them. It's rare ownership let's their staff do the right thing.
You guys watch way too many TV shows. My previous post explain that I was a bouncer and what usually happened. He didn't just "grab" her. With guys groping and grabbing at her, he lost it and if he "grabbed" her that would be enough for me to ask him to leave. I would ask the lady if she wanted to go with him or stay and whatever she decided...she was an adult.
I'm guessing it was an opportunistic crime form someone hanging around the club.
That is what most often happens.
@@markmike7933 "she was an adult" typical bouncer attitude. You gotta go a little further in situations like that. If he was being violent with her and you make a decision that they need to leave separately, then at least get the plate number of the car she leaves in. That way PD has something to go off of if something happens. All those things need to be documented when you're doing venue security. It has nothing to do with watching movies, it's about being thorough.
Miami is very sketchy and clubs do many things under the table like this so you are not wrong for assuming this
Is getting drunk/high in a room full of strangers ever a good idea.
you can't tell anyone anything.....I would never put my self in a situation like that...Even with friends, the loss of control gets really scary...
It's not worth it 😭 Sad
It’s always a great idea
Mike Milly Hi, Paula’s Ghost
Hell no
I love how all these shows tend to paint the victim as some sort of beautiul saint, and then when they start talking about what they actually did it quickly turns out that person was an absolute train wreck waiting to happen. Even her own mother dropped the facade two questions in.
No one is perfect.
I mean...she still didn't deserve to die
I don't think this one did paint her as a saint,even her mother said she made bad decisions but they usually do try and make them look perfect.
@@HalfInsaneOutdoorGuy why? Because the mother didnt paint her daughter with bright colors? Unlike every other parent that always claim their child was a fkn saint this mother told it just how it was.
No one deserves to be brutally murdered. Unless you’re a child abuser, those people don’t deserve to live. But she wasn’t & absolutely didn’t deserve the end she got.
According to what we heard, she has brain, personality, character and passion to be a nurse, yet she had to focus on her looks and body to make easy money. That's so sad.
You mean so dumb. She chose which path to choose
It's beautiful when one can manage to use their talents and God-Given Gifts to the full, which Paula seemed to be doing💐
What's wrong with making extra money?
When I was old enough to go out my parents and older sister teached me to NEVER EVER leave a party without the friends that I came with.
if my friend has to leave the club,it goes without saying that I will follow him and leave too.
In high school the homie picked me up with his sister to go to Chucky Cheese. His sister only came to ride with her best friend who live across the street. We got to CC his pops asked, where's your sister? As he started to say shes riding, pops said, go get her. Told him we will stay any have pizza. So he went back by himself to get her and they were eating with his family too by the time he made it back to tell his pops that they had already left. I was never stupid enough to return without I left with.
Agreed. When I was young and partied, my bf that we always went together made a pact we left together. We kept it.
@Jan Michael Vincent or they kept telling me. Maybe teaching is the wring wird here,Im nit a native speaker,sorry
@Jan Michael Vincent I know right I could be the fact am British but the word TAUGHT makes more sense lol
true because people who know you care about you, and for others you are just disposable
When are they going to find out who did it??? The bouncers know more than what they're saying.
oceana forrest AGREED !! I think the bouncers did it
@@RBNobody of course, they were drooling for her, they got rid of the boyfriend, gave her a few free drinks lace with something and waited 4 her outside.
Thats the word in the streets
The cops are incompetent idiots......they should have solved this
case by now......it's been years......who knows how many other women
this creep killed after her.
@@kellymccain3403 facts
Back when I clubbed often I used to see couples arguing all the time. Either the guy or girl couldn’t control their alcohol or both and it ended bad every time
It's pretty sad when you're murdered and all your family really has to say about you is, "She was pretty".
They said other nice stuff too but yeah I agree, every other complement seemed like an after thought. Truly heart breaking imo. Double oof when you realize that she is only attractive to people in a superficial way and doesn't really have much depth. I almost feel bad for not finding her appealing.
Very telling.
Natalie Hoogerwerf so sad
And she isnt even pretty, looks fake.
@@LittleRainGames she looked fine as a brunette, but she transformed into a slightly less coked up Courtney Love with that horrible blonde dye.
My sister told me the other day that i “light up the room” and now ive been watching my back everywhere i go.
Just under do yourself! Make yourselves frumpy...and you will be alright!
Banged Minsoo....no worries, she lied....
Lmaooooo
@@branon6565 hahahahahaahhaah!!! 👍
@banged minsoo u mean ur the guy switching the lights of the room?
If she would of went to Vegas she'd be alive, not something you hear often.
Yeah the opposite they said about Pac
@XWriter100 HARD TO SAY BUT IS .........TRUE.
Nah there are sick people in Vegas too
lolol
LOL!
The deceased seems to have taken many poor decisions in her short life---stripper, expensive lifestyle, bad men, playboy magazines or similar bad hobbies. As a woman, her mother saw it coming and she knew that life was going to be very tuff for her child particularly without education...unfortunately there was nothing more the mother could've done since the deceased was no longer a minor.
💯
Met her once and I remember how high she was. I mean she was shaking from drugs. It was a scary sight
'His alibi was airtight'
'In the investigation we found everything he was telling us was accurate'
Then why have you heavily insinuated that he was the killer for the last 16 minutes??
Right!
Totally. It's all artificial drama. Particularly because his alibi relies on so much that is completely falsifiable. Is there a receipt for the taxi? Which taxi driver picked him up? Does that driver recognize him? How about hotel staff? Anyone remember him coming into the lobby that night? Key card used on his door? What towers did his cell phone ping at what times? Where was he, precisely at the time she left the club? What about video surveillance at the hotel or along his entire route? Lots of pieces that could be validated/falsified. This is not your typical, "I was walking along an empty beach all night after my wallet and cell phone were stolen." type alibi. The dude is almost certainly innocent or they would have long since burned him.
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I was thinking the same thing! Like wtf. I though we were leading up to him being the killer but it lead up to nothing!!!
And said “crime of passion” and interviewed him for 12 hours straight...
Her mom has a more “you brought this on yourself” kind of attitude, like she knew something like this was going to happen
I don't think that is how her mom came across, but she did say she told her she didn't approve of her behavior. I certainly would not want the world to think I encouraged this type of behavior in my daughter. All of us know that being so needy of being pretty and getting attention leads to questionable situations - that behavior does not attract the most upstanding people in our communities.
The mother is heartbroken that a lifestyle of which she did not approve led to the death of her daughter. I am quite certain she wishes she could have done something years before that would have discouraged her daughter away from that false life. However, often there is no way you can discourage it. Tragically, her daughter's life choices put her in a position where some sick, perverted monster made her the center of his world for a few hours. The victim did not get snatched from her home or walking home from the grocery store. However, her behavior certainly does not give anyone a right to harm her, but she was surely warned many times about getting drunk and flaunting herself the way she was apparently doing.
Glenna Rose Thank you for pointing that out! I definitely agree with you, makes sense. 👍🏽👍🏽
@@GlennaVan Well said, this is how I was thinking about the situation. Of course no one should have put a hand on her regardless of her poor choices. In this fallen world there are people that will prey on others and her behavior put her in the company of people wanting to harm her. There is a reason why people tell women especially not to get drunk or flaunt in public without someone there to keep an eye on you. It's the world we live in and people can try to ignore this but it is reality. Most of us don't think she deserves it but the reality of the world is there are sick people and her behavior increased her odds she would have a run in with a bad person. Similar to all those travelers that go to dangerous places of the world to prove a point that they should be able to and then end up usually getting raped & murdered. In the perfect world they should be able to travel without harm and women should be able to make poor choices without getting harmed but reality doesn't always end up the way things should happen.
Finally! A mother that actually speaks the damn truth about their child. We always hear "my child was an angel and never did no wrong and everyone loved them blah! Blah! Blah!"
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that her risky behavior invited trouble. A mother knows her own child better than anyone else. Her mother was likely a witness to many behaviors in Paula's life that caused her to worry. Sometimes it's hard for a parent to tell a grown adult child anything. They just won't listen.
I feel for the mom. She knows her daughter had her faults, but she still loved her and was heartbroken that she'd been taken from her in such a diabolical way. I feel for the sister too. Paula was her little bestie. She wanted to protect her little sister, but she couldn't in this case. My heart goes out to both of them and I hope they receive justice one day.
The mom is trash. She was OK with her underage daughter sleeping with adult men, which is statutory rape. Her mom is the source of most of her problems in life. Her sister was more of a mom to her, and was the one who fought for justice in her sister's case, though it is sadly still unsolved. They did release a sketch of the guy they saw her leave with, but can't find the guy.
Typical crazy hysteric narcissist that probably deserved it
Amen
😂😂😂 "had jer faults but still loved her"😂😂😂
Absolutely. Her mom was honest and that is refreshing. Many times the Mom's of murder victims are in denial with regards to their babies self-destructive behavior and poor life choices that contributed to their demise. One such Mom is the mom of that Armaud Arbery character. According to his Mom, her angel baby boy "DINDU NUFFIN."
I hope her case gets solved one day. Rest in peace Paula. My condolences to the family. Her mother wearing his ashes is so touching. My friend has a necklace with his grandfather's ashes. And I know how much it means to him so I'm glad her mother has her in her heart.
Why do these shows always focus on "she was a head turner, everyone stared when she walked into the room" blah blah blah. Ugly and average people are killed and missing too ya know!!
It's like you can see it coming. Accountability and responsibility is like kryptonite to women.
Yeah but society doesn't like to look at stories of ugly victims, just ugly perpetrators. Ask all the family members whose daughters just aren't pretty enough to become a media sensation when they go missing. It's the same reason why good looking defendants serve lower sentences. People that study criminal justice and psychological science know this all too well.
@Alex Blaze Dude, not cool. Victim shaming is not very respectful.
@@gaaraxnaru Neither is denial of reality. Sham on you for trying to teach others to become victims too.
@@joshuawood1436 How is your vulgat comment, "reality"? It's a twisted view psychopaths like you have to excuse the horrendous crimes that happen to others. Shame on you for not getting the help you so obviously need.
TWO THINGS,
1. Never leave the woman you love alone in a club.
2. Choose better character people to surround yourself with. (She was an absolute danger to herself and her boyfriend)
Your right, I wouldn't have blamed him tho to have left her there!!, lifting up her skirt to men with no knickers on etc .
also ...dont let them kick out the man your love from the club?!!! and if he gets kicked out go with him?!!
3. As an adult, make better decisions for yourself.
Add two more things; don’t break your girlfriend’s nose and don’t threaten to kill her and cut her up into little pieces and put her in bags so no one can find her body.
@@Jdjustsaying And that goes without saying! Horrible story, I just hope young women can use it as an example of what making horrible decisions could end up costing you. Hope it saves a lot of young women.
If you at a club and your man says "let's go...." it's time to go 🤨🤔
Andrea Manning Exactly
omg, Andrea, in what year are you stuck in 1950?
@Hokum Doodie exactly.....
I do the same thing....
You definitely have never been drunk
@@CAPDCJR I never get that drunk.
My heart goes out to this mom..I have two daughters too..and i can't imagine what she is going thru.
Also If I got kicked out of a club and my girlfriend decided to stay in the club without me... very high chance she will no longer be my girlfriend
100%
Dtb dump that b
1 million billion percent facts brotha!
Damn right
Truth be known, she had many "boyfriends." He had the title that particular night...
There was time my best girlfriend and I went to South Beach clubs almost every weekend. But what most didn’t know is we both didn’t “party” aka drink or drugs. We just loved dressing up and dancing. That lasted a few lot months then we stopped going because we realized most people who approach you in those settings never have good intentions and it just wasn’t fun anymore. But I agree with most.... never ever ever EVER leave your friend! Ever!
I would go to club space with friends but we always had a plan of action… come together, leave together. There are no drinks left on a table, no one goes to the bathroom alone! We knew better because Miami had some trashy liars!
I feel for the boyfriend in this story. I’ve been through a couple situations just like this (even down to my gf flashing everyone with no panties on) except my gf didn’t die bc of it but she did end up getting raped the second time it happened. The only difference between my experience and this one is that she purposely got me kicked out bc she was blackout drunk and annoyed that I was “trying to stop her having fun”. I stayed with her after it happened with the condition she went to inpatient rehab and stopped drinking but she only stayed sober about a year then completely lost control, lost her job, lost everything, and died at the age of 32 from alcohol. What kills me about it is she had the world in the palm of her hand and could’ve done anything she wanted; everyone loved her, smart as hell, and was extremely good looking. Stay away from alcohol folks it’s straight up poison and will destroy you.
I'm so sorry to hear that and thank you for sharing your experience. I'm glad to hear that you tried to stop and protect her. You did your best.
I am so terribly sorry to hear that. May God heal your heart friend Again I am so sorry. You did your best. 🙏🙏🙏
MY GOD THIS STORY WAS VERY TRAGIC BUT WAS VERY NECESSARY TO TELL PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO NEED TO KNOW HOW DANGEROUS IT CAN BE OUT THERE!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARIN YOUR STORY.
that is so sad.
May her soul rest in peace
One of the many reasons why I don’t drink alcohol 😔😔
no hammer time?
Happens to sober people all the time.
A few things I've learned throughout my time watching true crime videos:
1. Don't light up a room with your smile
2. Never give anyone the shirt off your back
3. It's not a mannequin
@devi too late ur already so damn beautiful 😊
Then you really haven't learned much, have you?
SA3 read the first three words again
Some things I learned from binge watching these damn videos: Anyone can be a killer, assume even the ones that seem least likely a killer, cute babies and sweet grandmas included.
Keep cell phone active for digial footprints.
Tell my close family/friends that if they dont hear from me at least once a month to check on me.
😆😂😆😂😆 to the third line
The thought of partying for 2 days makes me exhausted
showing a bunch of drunk males in the club your snatch and then wondering why you ended up kindling in a dumpster cause you didn't give up the snatch. smoothbrain activities
💯
Um, I know if I was kicked out of a club, and my gf didnt follow me out, that would be our last date...no matter how long we were together.
It really was
yeah she should follow her boyfriend
Facts
They probably kicked him out because he was trying to get her to stop flashing everyone - which is bad for business if you know what I mean. Club owners like slutty girls, they bring $$ to the club. Sad. She was really beautiful when she was younger. But she valued the wrong things and paid the ultimate price for it. Parents: Don't let your daughters become strippers.
Scorch428 So you behave badly and it’s your GF’s fault ? Any guy embarrassed me by acting like a twat in a club, I’d dump him first 😂
No one should suffer a death like this. But woman please realize your surroundings!
So the fact that all 3 bouncers immediately followed her, once she when out of camera, doesn't raise any eyebrows?
Big time
Exactly! Why weren't they looked at as suspects?!!!!
People in the crime watch youtube comment section make better detectives than the actual detectives 😒
@Ms Bliss yup. bartender was probably paid off. slipped mickey in her drink, then the (probably paid too) security escort woman to "client" taxi.. who paid to have woman drugged. why dont they just look up who paid for the taxi or have camera footage of the car she went in. bleh
Why didn't they put her in a cab?
When you live that type of lifestyle, nothing good ever comes out of it in the end....
Well said!
Lisa Torres ...I would strongly agree !!
No one deserves to be murdered, no one. Also, no one is invisible. Unfortunately for her mother, her little girl was out of control. Yes, someone can come into your house... but there's no reason to tell death to come hither. Women and men both become statistics when they get too drunk, too high, whatever. And also when they are stone cold sober. There is evil out there. Evil people. Stay alert. Be careful.
Lisa Torres........That's a really idiotic thing to say. You sound like you're still
living in the time when they used to say every woman who wore a short skirt
somehow deserved to be sexually assaulted......when you talk like that you are
too stupid to realize you are blaming the victim and making excuses for a killer
.......are you that jealous of the way she looks that you blame her for the actions of a
cold-blooded murderer.....smh.
That's not at all true. Most people don't get murdered, regardless of how they live. Don't let your obsession with these stories skew your world view.
I “light up a room” every time I walk into my kitchen at midnight to make a sandwich. Am I at risk?
😂😂😂
Good one! Cholesterol is around the corner to get you! careful
Yeah you're at risk those chips will get yo ass
🍿🍿
😂😂
The photos of her as a brunette and all the rest of her photos are like photos of two completely different women!
The old guy at the start when he said "she wore a sexy dress" idk I cringed so bad ew
Meeee tooo!
Yeah he was unprofessional about that
“very sexy outfit”
Me too...he looked too turned on...sounded pervy.
@ no that would be a stomach turner too
As a brunette she looked like a natural beauty. *🙂
(Edited)
*And becomes a **#DUMB** blonde after all that!*
@@georgebbb2857 "not a church going person" ??? Do you really think that only a Non-Church going person could be such an insensitive bigoted idiot? LOL ... doesn't your religion teach you that you are ALL Sinners? ... and Sinners do go to your Church, right?
LOL! I was literally about to post the same thing, went from "wow" to ...wtf dgi really? went from 10 to 4 after plastic surgery and bleaching hair...:::
My first thought was "wow look at that early Megan Fox natural,pretty,sexy next door girl" and then BANG - you got every single playboy bimbo
@@georgebbb2857 HOW TF DID YOU GET SO STUPID OR YOU WERE JUST BORN THIS WAY
11:32 "he was a suspect cos he was the last person to see her alive"..... but she was at the club for another 30 minutes after he left with random guys all over her...
The bouncers should have kicked them out together.
So sorry they didn't catch the murder & i love how honest her mother was let's not hide the fact that a particular lifestyle can attract sick minds & personalities !
Wow, the mom 💔 my heart goes out to her
What about the sister!?
Everyone forgets about the siblings.
you literally say this on every single video? starting to sound like crap.
I totally feel you👧She seems such a great lady!!!👧@Bernadetteteaches
@@aidawoodard722 it's not about them. She got murdered.
Her mother was very right to be concerned. And she tried to talk to her about serious subjects.
I feel sorry for the young victim and her loved ones. What a tragic loss of a young life.
I’m sorry but if I got thrown out of the club and my girlfriend was still in the club I would have stood outside the club until she came out because I knew that she was intoxicated
Exactly who leaves their girlfriend in the club alone?
@@moderngeaisha5113 yea but he was also intoxicated, he probably couldn't even think straight
Because you're a nice person and caring for your gf.
Apparently she didn't want him there. He might have been mad at the way she was acting and left after being kicked out.
I'm sorry but I wouldn't have a girlfriend who preferred to dance and show her naked body to random dudes in a club rather than come home with me. So ya, I would have ditched her ass too if my girl acted like that, and would have jumped on the first plane home without her. Of course I wouldn't wish what happened to her to have happened, I would just have ended that relationship before it even got to this point. So I don't blame the boyfriend for leaving, at all. Sucks what happened to her.
" he looked way older" she looked a lot older lol
She really disliked him. They look about the same age in photos.
@Kylie Richardson it was the brows for me
She looks older and sleazy, not pretty
Cause she f up her eyebrows and probably too much parting ..
She looked way better with brown hair and a regular skin color not overly tanned with huge implants
My heart hurts for this mother in pain. What a horrendous murder. They wanted to get rid of all evidence.
My daughter turn 18 she wants to move out already, i put her this video and I talk her , you don’t have ideas how bad is outside, you think go out and party is cool , you don’t know nothing yet , she doesn’t listen to me because she thinks she knows everything.
All u can do is say tell me where you are going and call to say when youre returning home...and if you want to be picked up... that way you at least know where they will be... at little less worry...
We parents just want our kids safe...🙏
They think they are invincible.
Return of the Dragon ....how on earth do you know this man did any of the things you accuse him of? ALL of us worry about our children and it’s not because we were abusive and/or used others, but because we know awful people exist in this world and our children may encounter them.
Netty Rock ... she sounds like my daughter... for some reason they think we are the ones that knows nothing 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Be.you.tifully Made .... well said!!! Thanks for that!
I'll never understand how drinking and clubbing all night is considered fun!!!
Okay? Different strokes for different folks.
@@RuminatingRaptor True
Try it out.
going into nature, hiking and bushwalking is more fun, try it people
Lyn Phan yeah “more” fun for you.. it’s all about preference
Just once, I would like to see a security camera that doesn't look like someone came on the lens
the problem is nothing good happens when a girl is hammered AND wandering around by herself. My gf in college loved partying/drinking with her friends. One night I had a guy’s night at my place on campus while she went to a bar with her friends. Next thing I know her best friend is calling me asking me to pickup my gf. I did and found her passed out on the street near the bar… all i could think was she could’ve been abducted had I not got her
Y'all addicted to Crime Watch too?
Hell yeah lol
Lol at least I ain't the only one
Otumiseng Tumi yessir
Yesss!
Otumiseng Tumi yes..very
It's so sad when the only value a person has for themselves is how they look and their ideal appearance is nothing real.
@JD absolutely true!!!
That seems to be the picture that's being painted, but there isn't any indication this poor woman, victim, felt that way.
Society does that while were young. They brainwash us into believing what they define beautiful to be.
How the hell the boyfriend can be considered the last person to see her alive when he left her inside a bar surrounded by people.... we even have footage of her leaving alone the bar??
How about the bouncer ???
That's whats I'm saying, they then go on to talk about "witnesses" long after his departure from the club. Poorly contrived narrative, to say the least.
Yeah, them bouncers know more. They were all looking at her
Man this happens way to often. Tourists get drunk and disappear. I have a trip coming soon and this was a great reminder to stay even more vigilant in an unknown area. Rip
I think the mother was lying about her daughter telling her that her boyfriend threatened to kill her.
I agree looked like bad acting
Agreed thought that too
Same
I don't know, if my spouse made a habit of showing off his jewels in public I'd probably threaten the same thing. Especially if alcohol were involved. But neither apply to my life, but I could see from their perspective. Just a tumultuous relationship all the way around.
It might be part of therapy for her🤷🏻♀️lying makes her feel better
I swear people see a blonde and automatically say she’s hot af.... also what does that even have to do with her being murdered 🤦🏽♀️
exactly, all this talk about her beauty, Im like I just see a trashy blonde that has no self respect and aging faster than her years.
@@user-eu2me4bp7j lol
That blond bombshell look is so played out, my head would never turn if she walked passed. Some guys love fakeness, but most guys appreciate the everyday chick who looks good in her damn uniform with no makeup on.
@@rebelliussoul3645 right 👍🏻
Rebell i Us Soul, you tell them girl!! 💅🏻
Not one camera in sight in all of Miami huh?
Especially near that dead-end street? It's an industrial area, probably lots of cameras around there. Whoever spotted her in the club that night has a connection to that Dead End Street where the dumpster was located.
This was in 2010...
@@Oscar-fi1ev surveillance has been widespread seen the 80’s
Well she had a crazy lifestyle and I like that the mom don’t sugar coat it
If she would have just left with her boyfriend.....
If her boyfriend hadn't encouraged her to go to Vegas instead of the Lady Gaga concert...
@@minxymoo2325 ofc a female would comment this and blame the male
@@jellyluver22 he told her to stop hoeing around and she didn't listen and she started showing her body and the bf told her to stop and the security kicked hin out for causing a scene so its the girls fault
@@jellyluver22 man i drink as well and get high but i ain't that stupid "oh its bcz ur a boy"
@@jellyluver22 nobody forced her to drink as well
she looked SOOO much better before she fell into the lifestyle. so natural and beautiful. I wish young girls understood what happens to them when they fall into these dumb traps
i don't, I hope they get washed-up as fast as possible
@@egidiuspettersson8849 you hope innocent young naive girls get washed up and killed as fast as possible? thats pretty harsh, unless we're misunderstanding each other.
She looking nice but so sad her end.women and girls should always keep in mind there is lot of danger every where for them.specially when they exposing themselves. It mean they are in danger then why they are not caring about themselves. Only dancing and joining club is not life.you are valuable for your family your parents. So be careful every time.i live in east our family always keep check and balance on us.my daughter is now 15 year old she has no cell phone. After evening we not go outside without my husband or my brother. But in day time we are free we go on job.go to shopping go to parties in hotels or weddings functions. We always act upon our society and cultural values.
The photos of her as a brunette and all the rest of her photos are like pictures of two completely different women.
@@egidiuspettersson8849 Trying to be edgy, huh? I smell an incel.
I'd say flashing people with no underwear on is a little more than flirting. No one deserves anything bad, but if you play in traffic, you might get hit by a car.
Wowww, really?!?
@@quarentinedlove2903 It wasn't kinda slutty - it was slutty. Some women conveniently forget that when seeking the attention, often unwanted attention comes with that. Oh well.
@@stacyjaye6350 I agree 100%.
Exactly
Exactly.
The detective should find out which cab drivers were working that night in that area and interview them. Someone has got to know something.
Most large cities have "gypsy cabs," sort of proto Uber, cruise and take cash only.
Did you not listen? The PI did.
Sad and tragic. It looks like she had lots of work done -- eyes, nose, mouth, lips -- she looks very different from her as a child.
Bernadette
And mostly....
Breast
I think what's sad and tragic is her murder, not speculative plastic surgery. WTH?
Boobs
She didnt have her nose done and if she did the surgeon was terribe.
Attention isn't always a good thing.
Colonel Reb I can attest to this. Don’t know how many crazy guys has followed me. It’s scary.
@@xmochix604 always watch your back and be aware of the your surroundings.
@@xmochix604 Pics or I'm calling lies 😋
@@xmochix604 it's a fucking curse to be beautiful in this world
Especially when you're flashing people your beaver in public.
It's a live and die lifestyle every parent discourages their daughter from for a reason.
Miss Beecher are you 23-35?
ok KATHY
I dont think her style was glamorous, more like fake. Sad that women chase after this look. Very sad what happened to her.
“Center of attraction” is not a saying. Center of attention.
Same thing. Now she's a dead fake blond bimbo.
Shannon Jackson You’re a vile, disgusting human being. The lowest of the low. I hope you never know peace
You do realize all words are just made up sounds which we had attached what meaning it has. This is why my friends jokes and says LMNOP instead of OK. Should I be up his ass bitching about shit that doesn't matter? A girl is dead. Murdered. And they're trying to blame a black man with no witnesses. That's not LMNOP.
@@shannonjackson2954 she was person and if it was your family member murder how would like it if people talk shit about them . No one is perfect im sure people could find something to talk about with anyone. Get some class .
@@carlaleonard6220 ok