Same I’m sorry that’s happening to you. I get shouted at oft no reason and my mum sticks up for him :( then he’s acting nice to me and I’m called the dramatic one :(
Same he still does to this day even though I'm 16 Everyday to suffer with his words.... He yells on me my sis and mum for no reason at all I want to die
@@hi-hc3ms the line itself doesn't mean much, but the context makes it more complex. this song is about the fallout of growing up with an absent father. "first, i didn't get it" is about the innocence and naivety of a child, because it would seem obvious to the child that the mother should leave, right? "now i understand" reflects their adulthood and true understanding of the mother's circumstances. she stayed because she needed to for her children. essentially, it's about growing up and understanding things one can't understand as a child. believe it or not, sometimes lyrics have meaning beyond the words themselves. hope this helps!
I feel that. Sometimes it really would turn out better for the majority if the mother just takes her leave from the relationship, rather then trying to work it out for the kids, or whatever fucking reason
This song makes me cry. Do people not understand that parental issues of any kind isn't an aesthetic? It's trauma. Anyways this song is perfect for crying to at 3 a.m.🤞🏼
I hope things get better for you, I understand it’s super disappointing when people hear this song and say they want daddy issues for an “aesthetic”, they should learn how harmful these issues are soon bc it’s pretty offensive and I feel like it’s downgrading peoples problems
@@littlefairymands8794 same. even on tiktok when i see a daughter with her dad laughing or something, i cry. i wish my dad was here for me. im sorry we feel the same way and i know how hard it is. ily.
ikr they turn everry mental health issue into and aesthetic like u could literally walk up to any 8 year old trying to follow too many trends at once and say "i have depression, daddy issues, i get panic attacks, im a phsychopath" and they would look u in the eye and without hesitation they would say "omg same"
Translate in parts, traducir (partes). É importante, vai te ajudar muito, não é tempo para descansar espiritualmente, leia: É justamente sobre usar a dor para aprender e evitar queda pior lá na frente, se Deus permitiu tem motivo: Deus permite para que aprendamos com a dor, para que aprendamos e possamos conseguir viver nesse mundo de cabeça levantada. Deus faz de tudo para aliviar nossa dor, nos avisa muito do perigo...só que não vemos, então caimos e as vezes ele nos deixa cair nos nossos erros para que aprendamos e não tenhamos queda pior na frente por causa de nossos atos!! Reconheça seus erros consigo mesmo e com os outros, se ta ruim é porque tem algo errado dos dois lados. Não é para afundar na tristeza! É melhor aprender quando está pendurado no precipicio do que aprender lá em baixo nele."A boa colheita exige suor, não tem como uma planta crescer sem receber água...não tem como a felicidade surgir sem atitude começando por você, a luta dentro de você determina. Não é só Deus quem tem que agir, é você também! Pois a escolha VERDADEIRA parte de você, do fundo do seu coração...não adianta chamar a Deus e tentar, tentar fazer tudo que está escrito na Bíblia de passo em passo, todo mundo erra, mas devemos ser pessoas determinadas a fazer o certo o máximo possivel...pois o que é REALMENTE certo, ajuda o coração do aflito e a vida. De que adianta ganhar o mundo e perder sua própria alma?Falar quando não deve e odiar É como entregar a munição ao seu próprio inimigo; é entregar a faca para satanás dar a alguém para que te mate.Sempre chame a Deus primeiro. Sempre clame a Deus primeiramente. " Ei, sou Jesus Eu nunca irei embora, não sou como as pessoas que vão Juntos vamos concertar seu coração Eu construi um lar, para você, não o jogue fora por causa de alivios desse mundo que não vão te completar de verdade Eu te amei por mais de 10mil anos e te amarei para sempre Eu estou esperando por voce vindo a mim de todo coração e continuarei esperando Venha, antes que seu coração seja destruido de vez por satanás Eu te dei a escolha de escolher satanás ou a mim, porque eu te amo e quem ama não obriga Vocês escolheram ter o mal entre vocês...não posso obrigar voces
To all people with daddy/mommy issues in this comment section, you're strong. You can get through this. I'm not good at giving emotional support but I'm so sorry that people are using this song as an aesthetic. If you stay strong every day, one day there will be a miracle.
When I was about 2 my mother was being hit right in front of me to protect me from my father and they would always fight... Thank god my stepdad came into my life... I'm 12 now and I have so many scars from what my father did... He terrified me.. he's trying to change but I don't feel safe every time I visit him..
@akane hiso put that friend in rice asap plz cuz trust me having both mommy and daddy issues isnt fun at all it just makes things a lot more worse than they already are
@akane hiso excuse me what 😀 please go get them educated about the real meaning of daddy issues and it's not something "quirky" I'd kill to have an actual good relationship with my dad and it sucks not having a good relationship with your parents and even your whole family but besides that yes some people with daddy issues see older male figures as a father figure or "simp" over older (fictional or 3d) men at times to cope with their issues it cant be helped at times but everyone's different tho
I just have this heavy feeling in my chest every time I think of my parents and I don’t know how to make it go away. This song is not just an aesthistic it’s what people actually experience irl
my daughter is almost 5, her dad passed when she was 3. it breaks my heart every day & we miss him so much. I grew up without a father as well and the impacts of it were traumatic. my biggest goal in life is making sure I raise her to not make the same mistakes and poor choices as I did when I was younger due to an absent father. the generational trauma has to end.
I can’t listen to this without crying. I knew about this song for a very long time, but I never took the time to properly understand the lyrics. When I finally understood the lyrics I broke down, the song literally described what happened to me. I never really cared that my father was absent in my childhood, but as I get older it’s slowly getting to me. I never wish this upon anyone and I cannot wait to be the dad that I never had.
Same here. When I was 11 I initially didn’t care that my dad wasn’t there but now I’m turning 18 the absence is starting to hurt a bit more. If I have kids, I’m gonna try and be a better father than he was.
I’m so sick of being wanting daddy issues bc it’s “aesthetic” or “cool” you won’t be saying that when you are crying because your family fell apart and you and your siblings are emotionally destroyed
“Little girl” i just realized i was never a normal child. I knew too much of the real world at a young age, my mental health got mistaken to be “maturity”. Kids my age are enjoying their lives and here i am, thinking about how messed up my life is. I didn’t have a child hood. At 2 i was left alone, at 5 i was crying for my mom not to leave me, at 10 i was begging my dad to not kick me out, and now at 14 i want to run away from everyone. My mom, my stepdad, my dad, everyone. At this point, i want to run away from myself. But i can’t. Edit: dont mind me just venting to strangers lol
You are so strong. I can't imagine all those things you wrote here happening to me. Don't give up, because one day, everything will be okay and then, you will be proud at yourself for not giving up.❤ (Sorry if this is boring for you, I just wanted to say this. And sorry for my english :D)
I wont say i understand totally but i also went through some shit in my childhood and damn i know how bad it affects your mental age ..when everyone around you is enjoying their time you keep on questioning yourself and start to blame yourself..well that was my case ..please stay strong and don't let anything let you down you are a star :)
This song is practically explaining a bit of the damage people with daddy issues have from their traumatic experience with their parent so it isn’t a aesthetic to romanticize because the wounds from those wars hurt you know night of feeling guilty and wanting to forgive yet being distant because you feel like you don’t know the man you call dad no matter how many good memories you may have it gets hard this is from personal experience you don’t understand that you have daddy issues until you are older and it fucks you up a lot
I don’t understand why would someone say that this is sexual song just because it’s called “daddy issues “ and why are people romanticising daddy issues when it’s literally about your unhealthy relationship with your dad and not just liking older men. This song is literally so sad .
actually, ppl who love older doesnt mean they have daddy issues but ppl who have daddy issue means they are tend to fall in love w older men bc they can feel safe,... u understand what i mean right?
Hearing this song made me realize how hurt i am, it took me 15 years to realize that I wasn’t treated as a child, they wanted me to be mature, every mistake was hold accountable, every time I try to act As a child (i was 6 years old ) they hated me more, but I just realized that it wasn’t my fault…i was just a child…and they didn’t like that…but it hurt me so much cause I thought that they love me just like how they love my brother… i excused every hurtful, manipulative thing they did to me cause i thought they cared about me…but when i was 14 I realized that i was the hated one… I’m 21 and I’m uncapable of love cause i wasn’t the favorite one, not once..
"I want daddy issues, it's so Aesthetic." When the person who you're supposed to call father is the very same person who told you not to have children because "it's not worth it", you'll quickly realize it's not fun. It's not fun when the person who's supposed to protect you, tells you you're not worth it because you make mistakes. When your father rips you out of your chair at five, beats you and leaves the house, you'll realize it's not fun. It's not fun when the person you called "daddy" slams you against a wall at 10. My issues are not your damn Aesthetic. Edit: Just got yelled at by my dad, told "Get out of my fucking sight!! I don't wanna see you!!" Yeah, I'm loving it. Fucking kill me.
fr... romanticizing abuse, calling it dark aesthetic, thinking they want it.. only people who haven't experienced it think that way believe me, it's not how thhey show it in movies and books and shows one who went through it knows what it really is and believe me, you don't wanna experience it
I don't have daddy issues, but I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of that, and the fact that some have the audacity to want daddy issues Edit: And I admit, I used to be some stupid edgelord who thought trauma was quirky, but it isn't. It's pure hell to live with. I'm so sorry for my insensitivity and ignorance to how horrid it is, I'm grateful I have a good family and of course I thought it was quirky, I didn't experience it
this song made me hate my dad even more, "Daddy cheated on your mom but she never left him, first I didn't get it now I understand. he broke her heart left money in her hand" sometimes I blame myself cause my mom told me she stayed cause she wanted me to grow up with a father figure :) "you know what your, daddy did too, you know what your momma went through"
It feels good to see how long we carried this pressure from our ruined childhood till now and how strong we actually are even tho we think we’re about to give up
this song hits a lot different when you have "daddy issues". I've never had a father figure. I envy those kids who have the best dads. One of my wishes was for my father to change but that never happened.
i hate how my mom stayed with my father because she wanted me to have a fatherly figure. i hate how my mother takes out all the anger out on me even when she doesn't want to. i hate how i cannot hate my mother and instead understand her because god the traumas she has. i hate how i cannot hate my father for what he did to her.
Dude that literally hits a little too close to home...honestly I want to hate her for not standing up to him but I just end up understanding her and it doesn't even stop there. It hurts to watch them go from him yelling and swearing at her to them getting along as a happy loving couple it's like I'm the only one who didn't get over it
@@romamestry7505 hi little angel, i came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, jesus loves you very much and waits for your heart ^-
For all the hugs your father never gave you, Gods arms are big enough to cover all of them. For all the cruel words your mother may have said, God will tell you the truth and tell you how much you mean to Him. You matter. ❤️
"i didn’t cry when you left at first but now that you’re dead it hurts this time I gotta know where did my daddy go? i’m not entirely here half of me has disappeared" that's lyrics hit me hard
that’s okay. it’s within your rights. each and every one of your feelings is valid. if you’re not ready to forgive, don’t. let yourself heal - do what it takes to safely heal.
im literally going through the same thing rn but its my mom instead and she makes me feel like i have to talk to her just cuz shes my mom but i genuinely cant after all that shes done, everyone makes me feel like im over exaggerating.
I had a really toxic relationship with my “dad”. Choose drugs/alcohol over his own family, neglected us, abused us and walked out when I was 10, leaving my mom alone with 4 kids. And 3 years ago he passed away cause of an OD. My mom still held a funeral for him and cried her heart out , I didn’t shed a tear, not once. I’m the oldest, my siblings were young when he walked out, they couldn’t even remember what he looked like. They were lucky enough to find father figures in my uncles and grandpa, but I was too far gone and old enough to understand what was going on and what he did. I can’t look at another man in my family without thinking they’ll do the same. I don’t know how a mans supposed to treat me because the one who was supposed to love me and protect me the most, didn’t and for that I will never forgive him.
I understand, my step dad chose alcohol over family and passed away a few months ago. Mom still cries over him, I did...but now it's hared to because of all the things he's done.
I hate it how people made this a aesthetic. Because they will never feel the real pain of not having a father figure. My dad left when I was a baby. But I started seeing him again when I was around 5 years old. And I loved him when I was little because I didn’t know what he did to my mom and me. But when I was 7, he left again and I didn’t see him for 2 years. And I remember how much I cried during those 2 years. That was the most pain I’ve ever felt. Because he would say he was going to come visit but he never showed up. I would wait at the door almost all night waiting for him, but he never came.
I don't have daddy issues, but this songs makes me think. Whenever I'm sad or feeling disappointed, I feel like I can listen to this song and cry. For anyone who does have daddy issues, I hope you're doing better. Please remember YOU'RE LOVED. I love you, and someday, you'll have someone to hug and let it all out to. Stay strong, remember that it's GOING TO BE ALRIGHT. Don't end your life. It's not worth it. You have a future, you have a future career, people care about you, future children, future wife/husband, a future. I love you.
"Daddy stuck around but he wasn't present, cheated on your mom but she never left him" felt that, he was just present to make me cry and just basically bulling me for who I am and my sexuality.
Honestly same. my stepdad cheated and we can barley afford anything we cant even afford food some weeks. my stepdad is only here for my moms money and because he is lazy. he quit his job so he could lay down on the couch all day. We cant afford to move out. My mom said the only reason shes here is because of me and my sister :/.
@@Hrts4nwjns hi little angel, i came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, jesus loves you very much and waits for your heart ^-
@@abdia5044 nah this actually has a reasoning so far i know. I could be wrong but i’m pretty sure it’s because a lot of people who grew up without a father figure in their childhood will have the need to have someone who’s like a father figure later when they’re older aka a person who’s older than them - so they’ll be attracted to seniors. I can kinda relate to this cuz as a person who grew up without a father i have had a concerning amount of crushes on teachers and i’m always attracted to older actors and such so like the term daddy issues is often related to having no father and to being attracted to older men but those two are related too so like- ya know what i mean
I grew up without a dad, because i can´t see him. And if i ever did when I´m older i would be arrested because the court said i can never see him. Not even if I´m like 70. I saw him when i was 10, no one knew but then i didn´t see him ever again.. All i was told that he was a bad man. But thats all i remeber with him.
"Daddy stuck around but was never present." Or maybe when he was, he always had that straight face that kills. Never was happy for me. Never felt that he was there for me.
every time i listen to this song slowed down, i always go to this headspace where i’m in an apartment in new york while it’s raining outside and i’m laying near a big window on the floor and crying and wondering why my father wasn’t capable of loving me. thank you for listening to my ted talk 💕
when it says "go ahead and cry little girl i know how much it matters to you" hits because i always have to hide to cry and feel like i cant tell anyone or nobody deserves to care for me when i cry
3:22 the lyrics here.. "im not entirely here, half of me had disappeared" its not like i fully relate to them but its just... the immense pain i feel and understand in these lines... it must hurt for you guys
Thank you grandpa for making my dad a horrible person. I wanted a dad to look up to, a dad to take care of his family, a dad to do fun things like play in the snow and build sandcastles with and I wanted to be proud when someone said im like my father but no, that’s not how it is. I got an abusive and manipulative father that did drugs and smoked instead. I’ll never get to know him and I don’t even know if I want to or not.
It’s ok people go through this and even worst than that but at least you have a dad and no one should go through something like this you are worth it and god bless you and your family and remember your loved and smart don’t let anyone get to you or hurt you you are worth it remember have a good life
vent: i’m so done with all the flashbacks. broken arms, screaming, crying, hitting, yelling, fighting, hiding. it hurts so bad. i just wanna disappear and leave the world. and now people wanna make it an aesthetic. i just want to run away forever. i wanna run from the memories, the name calling, the flashbacks. everything. im so done.
I hope things get better for you. You deserve to be loved unconditionally and respected. I'm sorry you have experienced what you have, I believe in you.
As a person that hot mentally abused sexually abused and physically abused by their dad this song really helps calm me and understand that I'm not alone
I really don't like how people made daddy issues an aesthetic. It's emotionally devestating and you should be happy that you don't have them. ILY HAVE A NICE DAY
Having daddy issues is not an aesthetic, it’s trauma it’s hurts everytime I see a father and daughter/son laughing or bonding I just want to cry sometimes I wish it was me, even mummy issues as well it’s the same it sucks. Now I’m here with them both and trust issues, anger issues (80hd) depression, anxiety, PTSD. If anyone reading this or just listening to this song I want say that I’m proud of you and I love sm, and I hope everything will be okay
@@lin3711 hi little angel, i came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, jesus loves you very much and waits for your heart :)
I used to think how funny it was how one person can destroy your little innocent mind like it's nothing when anyone else hears the word "daddy issue" it's always an aesthetic or something sexual to them but to a person whose childhood was destroyed by their parents, it's a literal trauma. I hope all these innocent child's who were destroyed when they didn't deserve to can heal from all the pain and live in a beauty that they can embrace ♥️♥️
me crying over how shitty my childhood is and how abusive my parents are and thinking of just ending it all also me:opensanother tab and searches how to make perfect poached eggs
Take you like a drug I taste you on my tongue You ask me what I'm thinking about I tell you that I'm thinking about Whatever you're thinking about Tell me something that I'll forget And you might have to tell me again It's crazy what you'll do for a friend Go ahead and cry, little girl Nobody does it like you do I know how much it matters to you I know that you got daddy issues And if you were my little girl I'd do whatever I could do I'd run away and hide with you I love that she's got daddy issues, and I do too I tried to write your name in the rain But the rain never came So I made with the sun The shade Always comes at the worst time You ask me what I'm thinking about I tell you that I'm thinking about Whatever you're thinking about Tell me something that I'll forget And you might have to tell me again It's crazy what you'll do for a friend Go ahead and cry, little girl Nobody does it like you do I know how much it matters to you I know that you got daddy issues And if you were my little girl I'd do whatever I could do I'd run away and hide with you I love that she's got daddy issues I keep on trying to let you go I'm dying to let you know How I'm getting on I didn't cry when you left at first But now that you're dead it hurts This time I gotta know Where did my daddy go? I'm not entirely here Half of me has disappeared Go ahead and cry, little boy You know that your daddy did too You know what your mama went through You gotta let it out soon, just let it out Go ahead and cry, little girl Nobody does it like you do I know how much it matters to you I know that you got daddy issues And if you were my little girl I'd do whatever I could do I'd run away and hide with you I love that she's got daddy issues, and I do too If you were my little girl I'd do whatever I could do I'd run away and hide with you I love that she's got daddy issues, and I do too Türkçe diline çevir
hi! sorry to interrupt you scrolling, but i just wanted to remind you that you are very loved, needed and appreciated. there is so much waiting for you in the future, so hang in there! be proud of yourself, you went through every type of pain, family issues, trust issues, heartbreak, insecurities, depression, etc. You went through it all alone, but never gave up
This honestly reminds me of middle school, my dad and mom divorced and he left the first time. When my classmates found out I got made fun of a lot. One time a class mate told me “you should just k*** yourself” I was heavily suicidal at that time so I was seriously considering it, even to the point of self harm. I still carry these feelings everyday but there is something that keeps me alive now.
To everybody in this comment section, whether you have daddy issues, mommy issues or family issues, or even if you don't have it, you deserve to be loved and cared for. you deserve to be in an environment where u feel safe. You deserve to LIVE. And yes, whatever happened, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT. and a virtual hug to every one of you. Stay safe
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@@bannywalten3626 hi!!
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It's not dark aesthetics, it's called anxiety and depression.
This.
Fr this song always get in those dark aesthetics playlist😦
yes.
yeah
It’s actually not I think this song is about past experiences and trauma the lyrics say it all.
when your dad didn't physically abuse you but did a lot emotionally
Same I’m sorry that’s happening to you. I get shouted at oft no reason and my mum sticks up for him :( then he’s acting nice to me and I’m called the dramatic one :(
Same he still does to this day even though I'm 16
Everyday to suffer with his words....
He yells on me my sis and mum for no reason at all
I want to die
@@maciemoobag4675 sameeee :""(
@@tariqc1 hey just to let you know you’re not alone my dad is like this too:/
Both my parents do
"First i didn't get it now i understand."
This line hit hard.
Fr
Agreed
nah, it isn't that deep. oh so, at first i didn't understand how to solve a specific math problem, but now i do?? that sounds right.
@@hi-hc3ms the line itself doesn't mean much, but the context makes it more complex. this song is about the fallout of growing up with an absent father. "first, i didn't get it" is about the innocence and naivety of a child, because it would seem obvious to the child that the mother should leave, right? "now i understand" reflects their adulthood and true understanding of the mother's circumstances. she stayed because she needed to for her children. essentially, it's about growing up and understanding things one can't understand as a child. believe it or not, sometimes lyrics have meaning beyond the words themselves. hope this helps!
@@nic_777 You explained it so well
"Daddy stuck around but he wasnt present"
"cheated on your mom but she never left him" this line hit me hard.
I feel that. Sometimes it really would turn out better for the majority if the mother just takes her leave from the relationship, rather then trying to work it out for the kids, or whatever fucking reason
real
thats crazy
This song makes me cry. Do people not understand that parental issues of any kind isn't an aesthetic? It's trauma. Anyways this song is perfect for crying to at 3 a.m.🤞🏼
I hope things get better for you, I understand it’s super disappointing when people hear this song and say they want daddy issues for an “aesthetic”, they should learn how harmful these issues are soon bc it’s pretty offensive and I feel like it’s downgrading peoples problems
honestly everytime I see a father in public bonding with there kid I just want to cry
fr tho
Fr.
@@littlefairymands8794 same. even on tiktok when i see a daughter with her dad laughing or something, i cry. i wish my dad was here for me. im sorry we feel the same way and i know how hard it is. ily.
some people rlly said having daddy issues is an aesthetic like babe you don't even wanna know how it feels to have daddy and mommy issues
IKR
ikr they turn everry mental health issue into and aesthetic like u could literally walk up to any 8 year old trying to follow too many trends at once and say "i have depression, daddy issues, i get panic attacks, im a phsychopath" and they would look u in the eye and without hesitation they would say "omg same"
Hell, daddy and mommy issues? why u gotta call me out like that-
I have mommy issues but I love this song
Yea.
"Go ahead and cry, little girl. Nobody does it like you do.," that hit-
I’m going to make sure that my child never has to listen to these lyrics and feel every word of it like I did.
That's what we call good parenting
Translate in parts, traducir (partes). É importante, vai te ajudar muito, não é tempo para descansar espiritualmente, leia: É justamente sobre usar a dor para aprender e evitar queda pior lá na frente, se Deus permitiu tem motivo: Deus permite para que aprendamos com a dor, para que aprendamos e possamos conseguir viver nesse mundo de cabeça levantada. Deus faz de tudo para aliviar nossa dor, nos avisa muito do perigo...só que não vemos, então caimos e as vezes ele nos deixa cair nos nossos erros para que aprendamos e não tenhamos queda pior na frente por causa de nossos atos!! Reconheça seus erros consigo mesmo e com os outros, se ta ruim é porque tem algo errado dos dois lados. Não é para afundar na tristeza! É melhor aprender quando está pendurado no precipicio do que aprender lá em baixo nele."A boa colheita exige suor, não tem como uma planta crescer sem receber água...não tem como a felicidade surgir sem atitude começando por você, a luta dentro de você determina. Não é só Deus quem tem que agir, é você também! Pois a escolha VERDADEIRA parte de você, do fundo do seu coração...não adianta chamar a Deus e tentar, tentar fazer tudo que está escrito na Bíblia de passo em passo, todo mundo erra, mas devemos ser pessoas determinadas a fazer o certo o máximo possivel...pois o que é REALMENTE certo, ajuda o coração do aflito e a vida. De que adianta ganhar o mundo e perder sua própria alma?Falar quando não deve e odiar É como entregar a munição ao seu próprio inimigo; é entregar a faca para satanás dar a alguém para que te mate.Sempre chame a Deus primeiro. Sempre clame a Deus primeiramente. " Ei, sou Jesus
Eu nunca irei embora, não sou como as pessoas que vão
Juntos vamos concertar seu coração
Eu construi um lar, para você, não o jogue fora por causa de alivios desse mundo que não vão te completar de verdade
Eu te amei por mais de 10mil anos e te amarei para sempre
Eu estou esperando por voce vindo a mim de todo coração e continuarei esperando
Venha, antes que seu coração seja destruido de vez por satanás
Eu te dei a escolha de escolher satanás ou a mim, porque eu te amo e quem ama não obriga
Vocês escolheram ter o mal entre vocês...não posso obrigar voces
I can't let my children relate to this...
fr...
"She made sure you and your brother had way more than she ever had had growing up."
This part of the song hits a little to close to home
@@adriii8930 fr fr
It’s hurts singing this part but I love the pain:,)
that hit hard
Hits hard dude
"Daddy stuck around but he wasn't present" literally every single sentence I can relate to
hi little angel, i came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, jesus loves you very much and waits for your heart ^_^
same.
I wish that he stuck around at least..
Fr
Same I'm sorry you had to go through that
I want to give a big hug to people who've been through enough bad things to listen to this song:)
i would appreciate that :(
@@taintedriver :/
hugging back
@@emmacielicki214
To all people with daddy/mommy issues in this comment section, you're strong. You can get through this. I'm not good at giving emotional support but I'm so sorry that people are using this song as an aesthetic. If you stay strong every day, one day there will be a miracle.
When I was about 2 my mother was being hit right in front of me to protect me from my father and they would always fight... Thank god my stepdad came into my life... I'm 12 now and I have so many scars from what my father did... He terrified me.. he's trying to change but I don't feel safe every time I visit him..
i hate how people made daddy issues an aesthetic
@akane hiso ikr
@akane hiso put that friend in rice asap plz cuz trust me having both mommy and daddy issues isnt fun at all it just makes things a lot more worse than they already are
yeah tiktok literally made people think that daddy issues are just liking older men
@@kirkor420 this.
@akane hiso excuse me what 😀 please go get them educated about the real meaning of daddy issues and it's not something "quirky" I'd kill to have an actual good relationship with my dad and it sucks not having a good relationship with your parents and even your whole family but besides that yes some people with daddy issues see older male figures as a father figure or "simp" over older (fictional or 3d) men at times to cope with their issues it cant be helped at times but everyone's different tho
When you got daddy issues, mommy issues, family issues, anger issues, trust issues and anxiety
Are we the same person??
@@unknown-iy9ty apparently so... ;)
I guess I'm not the only messed up one
@@Euridceriddle Sure... Just know that you're not alone
@@unknown-iy9ty thanks bro
Same 😞
I just have this heavy feeling in my chest every time I think of my parents and I don’t know how to make it go away. This song is not just an aesthistic it’s what people actually experience irl
that discomfort. like something's REALLY wrong. but you can't tell other adults, cause they'll just defend them.
my daughter is almost 5, her dad passed when she was 3. it breaks my heart every day & we miss him so much. I grew up without a father as well and the impacts of it were traumatic. my biggest goal in life is making sure I raise her to not make the same mistakes and poor choices as I did when I was younger due to an absent father. the generational trauma has to end.
I hope you and your daughter happy
it’s hard being the oldest sibling. experiencing everything.
Same I’m so sorry
BRUH YES my other siblings are toddlers so they don't understand what I have to go through
Same...
same im also sorry
It is
listening to this while crying, haven’t cried like this in forever. felt nice to finally let it out.
Ily
Same 🥺
God I need to cry lmaoo
you are beautiful ^^ JESUS LOVE'S YOU
Same
listening to this song at 3am and crying is something crazy. remember everything about my family hurts me so deep that I can't even breath.
I can’t listen to this without crying. I knew about this song for a very long time, but I never took the time to properly understand the lyrics. When I finally understood the lyrics I broke down, the song literally described what happened to me. I never really cared that my father was absent in my childhood, but as I get older it’s slowly getting to me. I never wish this upon anyone and I cannot wait to be the dad that I never had.
Same here. When I was 11 I initially didn’t care that my dad wasn’t there but now I’m turning 18 the absence is starting to hurt a bit more. If I have kids, I’m gonna try and be a better father than he was.
same, so weird how normal it felt as a kid and life just went on.
I wish I could have you as my dad and we could be dad and daughter in my next life rather than my dad
I’m so sick of being wanting daddy issues bc it’s “aesthetic” or “cool” you won’t be saying that when you are crying because your family fell apart and you and your siblings are emotionally destroyed
Exactly.
Why the hell you have to make so much sense 😑😔
Right.
its not even that tbh the part where you and your own dad want each other dead is worse..
@@asmrw0rlds851 when i don’t wanna go to my dads house he says ‘what if i die” ‘i will die for you” it will be fun i promise’
“Little girl” i just realized i was never a normal child. I knew too much of the real world at a young age, my mental health got mistaken to be “maturity”. Kids my age are enjoying their lives and here i am, thinking about how messed up my life is. I didn’t have a child hood. At 2 i was left alone, at 5 i was crying for my mom not to leave me, at 10 i was begging my dad to not kick me out, and now at 14 i want to run away from everyone. My mom, my stepdad, my dad, everyone. At this point, i want to run away from myself. But i can’t.
Edit: dont mind me just venting to strangers lol
You are so strong. I can't imagine all those things you wrote here happening to me. Don't give up, because one day, everything will be okay and then, you will be proud at yourself for not giving up.❤
(Sorry if this is boring for you, I just wanted to say this. And sorry for my english :D)
I love you.
You're so strong. Please be mindful of your actions ❤️
I wont say i understand totally but i also went through some shit in my childhood and damn i know how bad it affects your mental age ..when everyone around you is enjoying their time you keep on questioning yourself and start to blame yourself..well that was my case ..please stay strong and don't let anything let you down you are a star :)
Need anyone to talk to Im here I’ve been though practically the same. My discord is mary#1503
This song is weirdly comforting, especially as a person who has dealt with traumatic problems. This song also feels like talking to the old you
This song is practically explaining a bit of the damage people with daddy issues have from their traumatic experience with their parent so it isn’t a aesthetic to romanticize because the wounds from those wars hurt you know night of feeling guilty and wanting to forgive yet being distant because you feel like you don’t know the man you call dad no matter how many good memories you may have it gets hard this is from personal experience you don’t understand that you have daddy issues until you are older and it fucks you up a lot
I don’t understand why would someone say that this is sexual song just because it’s called “daddy issues “ and why are people romanticising daddy issues when it’s literally about your unhealthy relationship with your dad and not just liking older men. This song is literally so sad .
ikr , ppl always thought of the attraction to older men , but never the unhealthy relationship
actually, ppl who love older doesnt mean they have daddy issues but ppl who have daddy issue means they are tend to fall in love w older men bc they can feel safe,... u understand what i mean right?
@@linhphuong5398 yes
Fr
IKRRR
this song makes me feel something I have never felt before...
SAME
can't like bc 222
exactly
samee
Same ;-;!! I think it’s called a friendly hug thru music that tells your horrible truth ???
Hearing this song made me realize how hurt i am, it took me 15 years to realize that I wasn’t treated as a child, they wanted me to be mature, every mistake was hold accountable, every time I try to act As a child (i was 6 years old ) they hated me more, but I just realized that it wasn’t my fault…i was just a child…and they didn’t like that…but it hurt me so much cause I thought that they love me just like how they love my brother… i excused every hurtful, manipulative thing they did to me cause i thought they cared about me…but when i was 14 I realized that i was the hated one…
I’m 21 and I’m uncapable of love cause i wasn’t the favorite one, not once..
"I want daddy issues, it's so Aesthetic." When the person who you're supposed to call father is the very same person who told you not to have children because "it's not worth it", you'll quickly realize it's not fun. It's not fun when the person who's supposed to protect you, tells you you're not worth it because you make mistakes. When your father rips you out of your chair at five, beats you and leaves the house, you'll realize it's not fun. It's not fun when the person you called "daddy" slams you against a wall at 10. My issues are not your damn Aesthetic.
Edit: Just got yelled at by my dad, told "Get out of my fucking sight!! I don't wanna see you!!" Yeah, I'm loving it. Fucking kill me.
fr... romanticizing abuse, calling it dark aesthetic, thinking they want it..
only people who haven't experienced it think that way
believe me, it's not how thhey show it in movies and books and shows
one who went through it knows what it really is
and believe me, you don't wanna experience it
I’m sorry, I hope things will get better for you.
I love u be strong
I don't have daddy issues, but I'm so sorry you have to deal with all of that, and the fact that some have the audacity to want daddy issues
Edit: And I admit, I used to be some stupid edgelord who thought trauma was quirky, but it isn't. It's pure hell to live with. I'm so sorry for my insensitivity and ignorance to how horrid it is, I'm grateful I have a good family and of course I thought it was quirky, I didn't experience it
Can you feel being replaced and ur hobbies to huh?.. it hurts
this song made me hate my dad even more,
"Daddy cheated on your mom but she never left him, first I didn't get it now I understand. he broke her heart left money in her hand"
sometimes I blame myself cause my mom told me she stayed cause she wanted me to grow up with a father figure :)
"you know what your, daddy did too, you know what your momma went through"
its never your fault do not blame yourself and you have a wonderful mother
My mom says that too and she also loves him
i couldn't agree more.
@@v4mpiredlust literally
@@coconut7971 my parents say they love eachother, but it isn't love.
“Daddy stuck around but he wasn’t present”
This.
Cheated on youre mom but she’s never left it
@@slayqueen3591 first I didn’t get it now I understand
So true.
This song makes me remember what my parents had put me thru, no child deserves parental trauma.
Stray strong, I love you❤️
It feels good to see how long we carried this pressure from our ruined childhood till now and how strong we actually are even tho we think we’re about to give up
Pov: your mom said that you're slowly becoming like ur dad
that’s my worst fear. being like my dad.
My biggest fear
Yeah she literally says stuffs like “ you’re acting like your father “ or “ you sound like your dad “. Like don’t compare me to him.
That's the same with me but the opposite parent. It sucks too 😔
My worst fear 😭
Bruhhh this is too specific and accurate its scary. It’s like the story of my life. Me and this song have a love hate relationship-
same-
same.
this song hits a lot different when you have "daddy issues". I've never had a father figure. I envy those kids who have the best dads. One of my wishes was for my father to change but that never happened.
dude the part thats like "cheated on your mom but she never left him" that literally happened to me
bruises. lost of myself. virginity took at 5. tears. pain. self harm.
You are beautiful and strong and I love you
@@kellyanne8113 i love you too
awww bb i hope you're ok. you're a gorgeous queen and it'll get better
you're so strong girl...
@@perkarific0608 ok (: tysm💙
i hate how my mom stayed with my father because she wanted me to have a fatherly figure. i hate how my mother takes out all the anger out on me even when she doesn't want to. i hate how i cannot hate my mother and instead understand her because god the traumas she has. i hate how i cannot hate my father for what he did to her.
Dude that literally hits a little too close to home...honestly I want to hate her for not standing up to him but I just end up understanding her and it doesn't even stop there. It hurts to watch them go from him yelling and swearing at her to them getting along as a happy loving couple it's like I'm the only one who didn't get over it
hi little angel, i came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, jesus loves you very much and waits for your heart ^-
@@romamestry7505 hi little angel, i came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, jesus loves you very much and waits for your heart ^-
hi little angel, i came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, jesus loves you very much and waits for your heart ^-
@@cloud-hl1kt uh thanks I gues
For all the hugs your father never gave you, Gods arms are big enough to cover all of them. For all the cruel words your mother may have said, God will tell you the truth and tell you how much you mean to Him. You matter. ❤️
"i didn’t cry when you left at first
but now that you’re dead it hurts
this time I gotta know
where did my daddy go?
i’m not entirely here
half of me has disappeared"
that's lyrics hit me hard
tik tok ruined the meaning of this song and this song in general
@@maciemoobag4675 yeah same.. i have mommy issues and this song hurts so much it makes me cry
@@wirednear I’m sorry about that :((
im so sorry you guys have to go through that :((
@@km1507 it’s alright thank you tho :)
This is why I don’t have tt
I hate how I want to forgive my dad and forget about all bad things he did but I just can’t?!? It’s like I don’t want to move on for some reason.
that’s okay. it’s within your rights. each and every one of your feelings is valid. if you’re not ready to forgive, don’t. let yourself heal - do what it takes to safely heal.
omg same
exactly. I just feel like I can’t move on and I’m just over exaggerating
im literally going through the same thing rn but its my mom instead and she makes me feel like i have to talk to her just cuz shes my mom but i genuinely cant after all that shes done, everyone makes me feel like im over exaggerating.
This hit different
"I'm not entirely here. Half of me had disappeared..."
That line hit me hard.
the fact i was crying about life while listening to this song at 11 years old.
Same but I was 13 now I’m 15
I had a really toxic relationship with my “dad”. Choose drugs/alcohol over his own family, neglected us, abused us and walked out when I was 10, leaving my mom alone with 4 kids. And 3 years ago he passed away cause of an OD. My mom still held a funeral for him and cried her heart out , I didn’t shed a tear, not once. I’m the oldest, my siblings were young when he walked out, they couldn’t even remember what he looked like. They were lucky enough to find father figures in my uncles and grandpa, but I was too far gone and old enough to understand what was going on and what he did. I can’t look at another man in my family without thinking they’ll do the same. I don’t know how a mans supposed to treat me because the one who was supposed to love me and protect me the most, didn’t and for that I will never forgive him.
you have the right to forgive and not. you don't have to. let yourself heal. and if you still don't want to forgive him them so be it.
also hang on a little longer
Wow this really hit hard I’m so sorry for what you had to go through
I'm really sorry you had to go thru that
I understand, my step dad chose alcohol over family and passed away a few months ago. Mom still cries over him, I did...but now it's hared to because of all the things he's done.
i hate how everyone thinks having daddy and mommy issues are cool. like it ain't a flex
ikr my trauma is not "aesthetic"
Like I hate mine I want to have a normal life
Ikr.
I like ur username
for I don't understand this generation like the think is cool like they don't even know how bd it is (well for me)
I hate it how people made this a aesthetic. Because they will never feel the real pain of not having a father figure. My dad left when I was a baby. But I started seeing him again when I was around 5 years old. And I loved him when I was little because I didn’t know what he did to my mom and me. But when I was 7, he left again and I didn’t see him for 2 years. And I remember how much I cried during those 2 years. That was the most pain I’ve ever felt. Because he would say he was going to come visit but he never showed up. I would wait at the door almost all night waiting for him, but he never came.
I don't have daddy issues, but this songs makes me think. Whenever I'm sad or feeling disappointed, I feel like I can listen to this song and cry. For anyone who does have daddy issues, I hope you're doing better. Please remember YOU'RE LOVED. I love you, and someday, you'll have someone to hug and let it all out to. Stay strong, remember that it's GOING TO BE ALRIGHT. Don't end your life. It's not worth it. You have a future, you have a future career, people care about you, future children, future wife/husband, a future. I love you.
Same
"Daddy stuck around but he wasn't present, cheated on your mom but she never left him" felt that, he was just present to make me cry and just basically bulling me for who I am and my sexuality.
And many more but I wont say...
Honestly same. my stepdad cheated and we can barley afford anything we cant even afford food some weeks. my stepdad is only here for my moms money and because he is lazy. he quit his job so he could lay down on the couch all day. We cant afford to move out. My mom said the only reason shes here is because of me and my sister :/.
For all of you, things will get better. Maybe tomorrow, next year or in 10 years. I promise
hi little angel, i came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, jesus loves you very much and waits for your heart ^-
@@Hrts4nwjns hi little angel, i came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, jesus loves you very much and waits for your heart ^-
1:51 hits different.
The lyrics were a little too precise
Fr
My dad cheated 3 times, she never left him even when he went back to his ex twice
“left a bad taste on your tongue..” i relate to that sm because it hurts to talk about it
literally yes. i've been going through a really rough time and listening to this song full volume with headphones is the best felling ever
i literally hate people that say oh yea i have ‘daddy issues🤪’ when they get into ome fight with their father
Ikr like stfu already
or when he cares too much. like bro i wish i had your daddy issues then.
It's honestly revolting. I hope ppl who do have daddy issues know how strong they are
@@abdia5044 nah this actually has a reasoning so far i know. I could be wrong but i’m pretty sure it’s because a lot of people who grew up without a father figure in their childhood will have the need to have someone who’s like a father figure later when they’re older aka a person who’s older than them - so they’ll be attracted to seniors. I can kinda relate to this cuz as a person who grew up without a father i have had a concerning amount of crushes on teachers and i’m always attracted to older actors and such so like the term daddy issues is often related to having no father and to being attracted to older men but those two are related too so like- ya know what i mean
Exactly
I feel so bad for the ones who can’t see or never grew up with their dad it breaks my heart truely..💔
I grew up without a dad, because i can´t see him. And if i ever did when I´m older i would be arrested because the court said i can never see him. Not even if I´m like 70. I saw him when i was 10, no one knew but then i didn´t see him ever again.. All i was told that he was a bad man. But thats all i remeber with him.
@@drxiners7562 awh ilysm stay strong❤️❤️❤️
@@nelly-fw3qc Aww tysm ilyt :)❤️
when he leaves because of you.... just me....?
He left when I was 2 months old. And came when I was 9. I was so used to him being gone, it was normal
This song gave me goosebumps it just makes me wanna cry,
Cada vez que la escucho terribles recuerdos vuelven a mi y llorando me hacen sentir menos presionada pero siguen ahí
"Daddy stuck around but was never present."
Or maybe when he was, he always had that straight face that kills. Never was happy for me. Never felt that he was there for me.
same. my dad has rarely ever congratulated me or my siblings for anything. he doesn't give a fuck.
every time i listen to this song slowed down, i always go to this headspace where i’m in an apartment in new york while it’s raining outside and i’m laying near a big window on the floor and crying and wondering why my father wasn’t capable of loving me.
thank you for listening to my ted talk 💕
Im not to sure why people make "daddy issues" an aesthetic, its trauma. but this song is amazing and recommend crying to it at 3am
when it says "go ahead and cry little girl i know how much it matters to you" hits because i always have to hide to cry and feel like i cant tell anyone or nobody deserves to care for me when i cry
"go ahead and cry little girl" this hurts...
ouch
3:22 the lyrics here.. "im not entirely here, half of me had disappeared"
its not like i fully relate to them but its just... the immense pain i feel and understand in these lines... it must hurt for you guys
every time I see a son having a good time with his father I try not to cry and wish that I could’ve had that time with my father.
I'm so lucky i don't have daddy issues I cry when I hear this song it's so sad what ppl go through
Why must people have to go through this. Why do you guys have to suffer.. it pains my heart. I want to hug all of yall, honestly
hi little angel, i came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, jesus loves you very much and waits for your heart ^_^
@@cloud-hl1kt thank u sweet dear :) He's slowly coming back into my life and im grateful for it. i love you too❤
Thank you grandpa for making my dad a horrible person. I wanted a dad to look up to, a dad to take care of his family, a dad to do fun things like play in the snow and build sandcastles with and I wanted to be proud when someone said im like my father but no, that’s not how it is. I got an abusive and manipulative father that did drugs and smoked instead. I’ll never get to know him and I don’t even know if I want to or not.
Don’t worry luv it will get better ❤️
@@Randomperson-lb5dp thank you.
Same my dad is just like my grandad
I hate them
ily
It’s ok people go through this and even worst than that but at least you have a dad and no one should go through something like this you are worth it and god bless you and your family and remember your loved and smart don’t let anyone get to you or hurt you you are worth it remember have a good life
Please never delete this it’s the only version of the song that makes me cry it’s perfectly slowed
“when you told me the whole story I felt like throwing up” that hit so bad
I cry to this song almost every night and can't get that bad feeling out at all..
are you doing any better?
I hope your doing better even if it's just a little
@@nerrahh Mhm!! Thanks for asking
@@hellriotz Thanks :D
@@kiwi2101 thats good to hear (ˇ∀ˇ )
vent: i’m so done with all the flashbacks. broken arms, screaming, crying, hitting, yelling, fighting, hiding. it hurts so bad. i just wanna disappear and leave the world. and now people wanna make it an aesthetic. i just want to run away forever. i wanna run from the memories, the name calling, the flashbacks. everything. im so done.
i may not know what you’re going throw but you’re very strong don’t give up
Same tbh people don’t understand b
I hope things get better for you. You deserve to be loved unconditionally and respected. I'm sorry you have experienced what you have, I believe in you.
I’m sorry to everyone U dont deserve this im sorry im so sorry
Jesus is the truth .
This song literally describes my whole issues in 5 minutes.
I've listened to this song many times, but it sounds better every time.
Wtf why is this song Predicted my some of life......amounts everything right
I cry every single time I hear this song.
As a person that hot mentally abused sexually abused and physically abused by their dad this song really helps calm me and understand that I'm not alone
The song didn’t even start and I saved it🥳 lol
SAME AHAHA
I really don't like how people made daddy issues an aesthetic. It's emotionally devestating and you should be happy that you don't have them. ILY HAVE A NICE DAY
True
I love u too ! 💗
Have an awesome day/night
Having daddy issues is not an aesthetic, it’s trauma it’s hurts everytime I see a father and daughter/son laughing or bonding I just want to cry sometimes I wish it was me, even mummy issues as well it’s the same it sucks. Now I’m here with them both and trust issues, anger issues (80hd) depression, anxiety, PTSD. If anyone reading this or just listening to this song I want say that I’m proud of you and I love sm, and I hope everything will be okay
“but now that you’re dead it hurts”
Hit's a little too close to home, almost perfectly describes my home life.
I believe in you, you got this
hi little angel, i came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, jesus loves you very much and waits for your heart :)
@@lin3711 hi little angel, i came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, jesus loves you very much and waits for your heart :)
it’s been like 6 seconds in and I can tell this is gonna be amazing
Period
Yeahhh Dude, this song is rockin
gives me goosebumps...
This song hits hard at 3am man. 🥴🙏
"And when you told me the hole story I felt like throwing up" That's deep...
i can't listen to this song without at least tearing up
I used to think how funny it was how one person can destroy your little innocent mind like it's nothing when anyone else hears the word "daddy issue" it's always an aesthetic or something sexual to them but to a person whose childhood was destroyed by their parents, it's a literal trauma. I hope all these innocent child's who were destroyed when they didn't deserve to can heal from all the pain and live in a beauty that they can embrace ♥️♥️
its hit different when you really have a daddy issues ..
me crying over how shitty my childhood is and how abusive my parents are and thinking of just ending it all
also me:opensanother tab and searches how to make perfect poached eggs
make sure they're nicely cooked
@@ka879 i did they turned out really good
@@somethingstill7767 can i have some please?
@@ka879 sure here have some(oﾟvﾟ)ノ🥚
i hope you're doing better, ily. here if you need me - :)
All Lustry reverbs are a vibe
Perfect song when u feel like crying
i love this song!
this song hits different knowing my dad is cheating on my mom.
i’m so sorry, if u wanna talk i’m always here
i'm so sorry stay strong:(
same it hurts.
I’m sorry
Take you like a drug
I taste you on my tongue
You ask me what I'm thinking about
I tell you that I'm thinking about
Whatever you're thinking about
Tell me something that I'll forget
And you might have to tell me again
It's crazy what you'll do for a friend
Go ahead and cry, little girl
Nobody does it like you do
I know how much it matters to you
I know that you got daddy issues
And if you were my little girl
I'd do whatever I could do
I'd run away and hide with you
I love that she's got daddy issues, and I do too
I tried to write your name in the rain
But the rain never came
So I made with the sun
The shade
Always comes at the worst time
You ask me what I'm thinking about
I tell you that I'm thinking about
Whatever you're thinking about
Tell me something that I'll forget
And you might have to tell me again
It's crazy what you'll do for a friend
Go ahead and cry, little girl
Nobody does it like you do
I know how much it matters to you
I know that you got daddy issues
And if you were my little girl
I'd do whatever I could do
I'd run away and hide with you
I love that she's got daddy issues
I keep on trying to let you go
I'm dying to let you know
How I'm getting on
I didn't cry when you left at first
But now that you're dead it hurts
This time I gotta know
Where did my daddy go?
I'm not entirely here
Half of me has disappeared
Go ahead and cry, little boy
You know that your daddy did too
You know what your mama went through
You gotta let it out soon, just let it out
Go ahead and cry, little girl
Nobody does it like you do
I know how much it matters to you
I know that you got daddy issues
And if you were my little girl
I'd do whatever I could do
I'd run away and hide with you
I love that she's got daddy issues, and I do too
If you were my little girl
I'd do whatever I could do
I'd run away and hide with you
I love that she's got daddy issues, and I do too
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not people thinking daddy issues is an aesthetic💀
chase atlantic 💜
literally..
WHAT REALLY HQGWYQUA BAHAHHAA
I have daddy issues but people think it is💀💀
Fr
hi! sorry to interrupt you scrolling, but i just wanted to remind you that you are very loved, needed and appreciated. there is so much waiting for you in the future, so hang in there! be proud of yourself, you went through every type of pain, family issues, trust issues, heartbreak, insecurities, depression, etc. You went through it all alone, but never gave up
This honestly reminds me of middle school, my dad and mom divorced and he left the first time. When my classmates found out I got made fun of a lot. One time a class mate told me “you should just k*** yourself” I was heavily suicidal at that time so I was seriously considering it, even to the point of self harm. I still carry these feelings everyday but there is something that keeps me alive now.
Are you okay ? Please be strong
I honestly have a whole AU to this song, and I cry
Good pfp 🤌🏼 I sorry U sad
@@igorimpala889 thanks
i tear up subconsciously whenever this song pops up. Even if I'm not listening to the lyrics, the pain overflows
I sleep every night listening to this song. This song describes how I really feel.
To everybody in this comment section, whether you have daddy issues, mommy issues or family issues, or even if you don't have it,
you deserve to be loved and cared for.
you deserve to be in an environment where u feel safe.
You deserve to LIVE.
And yes, whatever happened, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT.
and a virtual hug to every one of you. Stay safe