It's, to be honest, terrible to see a young girl like her getting bullied over something she said to a person in private 4 years ago. Imagine thinking people don't change in a 4 year time period. Must be terrible to have so many people watching every step and "mistake" you make. On the other note.. I've been addicted to your content lately, keep it up dude!
does saying it in ‘private’ really make it less bad? if you make the choice to send an angry message that is screenshottable and permanent then you’re making the choice to accept the consequences of whatever you say in that message. i just can’t see how anyone can have sympathy for someone who would say such an evil, hateful thing regardless of their age, gender, or the level of ‘privacy’ involved.
I love how this channel tells me about “famous” people on the internet that I’ve never heard of and all their drama that has nothing to do with the not-famous ordinary me
"You said some horrible things, you need to apologise." "I've said some horrible things, and I apologise." "Wow holy hell, how dare you say such a cookie cutter thing. Disgusting."
People like that are deformed in logic and have a low emotional intelligence. Truth is that those who are vulnerable to the wrong crowd often get attacked
@@kingx7745 mf it was 6 years ago. You're acting like she killed someone. Plus, rappers say the n word, yet nothing happens to them. I love how society made a racist term able to be used by only one race... and not just made it frowned upon when being used by ANY race.
@@blocksource4192 you can say what you want to you identical peer group. But regardless, why do you want to say the word Soo bad? - mind of a racist who has a black friend.
@@garygnu8775 I’m confused what you’re saying by this comment. First of all, a racist term no matter it is must not be said by any group. Jews shouldn’t say antisemitic stuff the same way Asians shouldn’t be automatically considered smart. Idk where you got the why do you love saying that word or whatever. I never said i wanted to say I said I wish no race said it. I find it wrong for anyone to say racial terms.
Thank god she seems a lot better now. I watch her and her content is still similar but she is able to ignore bad comments now and has a relatively good following of people, and I haven't seen a bad comment on her youtube channel in a while, so she has definitely redeemed herself.
I'm black and I think the only thing she did wrong was feed the masses and entertained some very inconsiderate Black people, it was embarrassing to watch them repeatedly weaponized the word and directly bully her for something that barely affected them
This has nothing to do with what OnlyJayus did, but people that hate on someone just because they want to get a reaction out of them are horrible people and don't deserve to have a voice on the internet.
people are horrible for doing this to her, like why are you complaining on her getting mad when you literally wanted it to happen by pissing her off. stop messing with people.
Yeah I agree that those messages weren’t ok to send but I don’t understand why they had to be brought up after 4 years. It would make sense for people to do that if it was something she had continued to do. I think what made it worse was how she handled it
She wasn’t emotionally ready for social media which is probably THE MOST IMPORTANT PART of becoming a content creator, once you’re ready to ignore hateful comments you’re ready for the internet.
people don't realize there not ready for something until there in that position. you don't know how hard it is to have millions of people wanting you to lose everything until it happens to you.
It was written that "only a man of color may absolve you white man, for your rAcIsImS." Thus saith the Lord.... Or so the crazy lefties have told me..... So gather round' muh white subjects, kneel upon the ground and beg me, your "Black Jesus," to absolve you of "mUh rAcIsIMs"✝️
The internet is so backwards because if you make a mistake and you are famous the internet will never allow you to live it down. They will ask hou for an apology but when you give the apology they call you fake. You can never make a single mistake on the internet.
he just said he got it from google to cover up the mistakes, while literally copying her video nearly exactly the same, so far to say that his cousin has ADHD. which most likely is false as he is just using this as evidence to gain more followers perhaps.
I agree. Obviously a lot of the criticism is deserved especially for saying racial slurs, but a lot of situations were either overplayed for more clicks or she wasn't in the wrong in them to begin with.
@@chillfrosted2670 exactly!! why did no one mention that he STILL said his relative had asthma when she said it first?? I'm not defending her, but nobody talks about it?
Seems like it’s because Jayus is an easier target compared to Shane Dawson who has more experience dealing with his issues for many years as CC. Which is kinda sad cos it shouldn’t be that way. ://
@@yennefer559 yes but Shane did do blackface countless times, and David almost killed a man and was complacent in a date rape. So safe to say they are a bit worse than Jayus.
Honestly, I hate what society has become now. Just I quote I remember hearing, "All people do now is complain, and not help. Because now, we think complaining is enough". I think that's what this situation is.
@@peggymiller9363 There’s no need to add salt to the wound but that’s exactly what people keep doing in this situation. We seriously have to teach our generation about the dangers and cruelty of the internet or else situations similar to onlyjaysus will become more common.
@@sebastianavila4131 idk bout yall but in middle and highschool they made a big deal out of cyber bullying and the dangers of the internet, and i graduated in 2019. However its almost essential to be on the internet in this day in age, what people need to learn is how to properly handle these situations, bc only jayus basically added fuel to the fire. and cyber bullying will never end bc ppl are creative and as long as they can hide behind a screen theyll do what they can to attack others they dont agree with or feel like an easy target. its why a lot of social media is seemingly in agreement in politcs, bc if anyone dares to disagree, even slightly theyll try (and often succeed) to bully them off the platform.
Absolutely, I'm sick of society as a whole. They act extremely ignorant, they listen to every public opinion and they follow what's mainstream. Oh and corporations are so messed up.
i didn't know that was an ADHD thing. Seriously makes me wonder that some people around me might have ADHD. They are on point when dishing out criticism, but when it's directed at them, they lack all ability to self-reflect and get pissed.
@@DUSKvsDAWN It's not about lacking the ability to self-reflect. ADHD causes a huge problem with impulse control and emotional regulation, criticism can feel like a life ending personal attack.
I'm not on any side here, onlyjayus deserves to get cancelled but not too much. People are taking it too far, give her a chance again and maybe she'll improve. If not they'll definitely bring this to more light
@@kenny_ki frontal cortex doesn't develop in women till at least 25, yes they are not children but they are not full grown adults if you want to speak scientifically and factually. 2 years before she was only 18. A year before she was 19. Nine-teen. So turning 20 instantly gives you life experience that takes decades to aquire?
I think so too. Thats why im so glad i dont have that app anymore. Tiktok is so toxic for the dumbest reasons. Yes she should definitely be held accountable for her actions but leaking her fucking address?? How do people think that's going to help her grow and evolve. That is doxxing, WHICH IS ILLEGAL PEOPLE SO YOU'RE JUST AS BAD AS ONLYJAYUS IS, perhaps even worse you could literally get this girl murdered. Just call yourselves accomplices while you're at it.
@@Weed413 probably the n word carry’s history and cracker was only used for what they call the white man whippin them nun else tile the late 80s were the word was just being thrown out
Yep. If only. This amount of outrage over this girl loses all credibility because it's not at all genuine. It's bandwagoning, clout chasing bullshit over someone who is obviously vulnerable. I find it way more evil, insidious, and scummy than anything she ever did.
I gotta say this despite it’s been a year… I HATE HATE HATE when fans use peoples emotions to get them angered. That just truly shows how much you want to stir drama for you’re own personal gain. The way Sunny worded this was perfect. But seriously Tik Tok is just such a negative place. Hope nothing like this happens to you ❤️❤️❤️
that dude saying it was a "W" that she lost her sponsorship and podcast cemented for me that they just want to destroy her, not actually have social justice
Because people have to learn lessons. You don’t get to say racist things and be rewarded for them. Serves her right. Certain groups of ppl get away w so much hateful antics and mfs really get upset that there are consequences for their actions. Y’all acting like she got arrested or something 😂 She shouldn’t have called someone a n!gger lover in the first place. She will be fine.
This is why you don’t apologize for public backlash, only apologize if you genuinely believe you did something wrong, similar to dream’s case, if you apologize once ppl will demand apology’s for literally everything and anything.
In dream's case, you mean when he was called out for cheating with facts and just doubles down that he didn't only to later admit he did? Nah just say oh fuck I did my bad.
And even if you do apologize- a lot of the time they just won't accept it. These people don't care if the person they're cancelling actually feels sorry, they just want to see the creator vulnerable so they can go: "HA HA NOT SO BIG AND TOUGH NOW ARE YOU!?" All because their feelings got hurt.
Wait, so she used a slur towards a (one) person in PRIVATE messages and internet wanted her to apologize PUBLICLY to WHOLE black community? Make it make sense!
Yes ,and it makes sense, she used a RACIST slur multiple times. She was definitely being racist and this offended a lot of people (in most cases people say it in a song or like once in a less offensive way like Pewdiepie but she said it like she meant it). Saying the N-word comes with a lot of consequences ( even if it was a long time ago) and she had to face them.
@@Tomi-py9uw Oh wow, she said a word, now everyone has gone mad. Ppl should stop crying for a single word and stop living in a pink peppa pig fantasy world. Life can be harsher than just hearing some word. The fact that you get mad for a word makes the word have meaning xD "Saying the nword comes with a lot of consequences" LMAO SUCH A NERD
People say "educate yourself", and then she actually wasted time 'educating' herself. Their response? "I don't believe you educated yourself." You can't win with these people.
@The General I have a hard time collabing with people I like on a smooth work flow. Imagine everyone acting like a bunch of religious zealots from the inquisition calling you evil essentially. Have you ever been through that? Trust me when I say it's hard to get collabs done quickly, VERY hard when you're stressed out, and nearly impossible when *millions* of people hate you overnight and sponsorships are dropped. You try it. But maybe you're a child with zero life experience, so things still seem black and white to you. I don't know, but wait until the mob comes after you, because they *will* . They'll find something to complain about and you'll be begging them for mercy and the same as you are doing right now, they won't care, they won't have a heart, and they won't give any mercy. Godless mentality
Since I left twitter and tiktok, I am so much better. Except youtube, I only use platforms where people need to use their real name, cause they seem to have so much more respect towards others knowing their aren't anonymous and are known as "John Doe" not "@/daddyslittlefuckingwhatever"
11:43 people were laughing at her for this but it’s kind of sad because you can tell she is genuinely stressed out and all this drama is just making it worse.
Yeah she was fucking doxxed. Her own home wasn't even safe for her to be in and she had to move. I'd be yelling at my camera, too. You'd have to be such a p.o.s. to laugh at her then
i’m tired of hearing “she/he didn’t even apologize!” and the second they do it’s “not good enough and crappy” even when they take time away to educated themselves and learn it still isn’t enough for anyone.
exactly nobody owes the public an apology, even if they're famous. humanity is fucked. nobody is actually "educated" enough. everyone just really needs to go their own way and stop giving a fuck (or just continue to do so), it's really the only way.
I mean sometimes an apology isn't good enough for what someone has done. Of course though I am not saying that for this situation because it just seems entirely stupid.
That's because, if people accept the apology and forgive the person, it means they can't give the person shit any more for the mistake they made- and these people don't want to do that because they genuinely enjoy dragging someone through the mud. The "problematic" thing the person did is just an excuse to legitimise their foolishness.
Jayus’s biggest offense is just not being emotionally ready to handle the internet before blowing up. She’s not an evil person and doesn’t deserve to be deplatformed, especially when compared to the far far far more problematic content creators on the internet.
Tiktok afforded groomers access to underaged children that are there for saccharine "cat can smile too" videos. I think it's not a stretch to say that the people picking on a content creator with paper-thin skin then acting surprised when she lashes back in the most hurtful way she can think of (which frankly is far from the worst thing one can say, this seems like the pewdiepie debacle all over again) to regain some semblance of feelijg of control over her online life are being a fair bit focused on themselves rather than actually important shit. Because frankly, the fact they not for a moment consider that she has a similarly bad (if not arguably worse) experience as a neurodivergent in a neurotypical world and only seeing her skin color...yeesh.
No her biggest offence is using Raciest slurs from what i can see. if that isnt on the list of her offenses. I am unsure about what that says about you.
I dislike every party in this scenario. I dislike OnlyJayus' use of racial slurs, her cringe inducing coverup and general attitude to similar content. I dislike people trying to cancel her for something stupid like that. I dislike AuntKaren's narcissism and weaponization of the race card. I dislike the Tiktok and reddit users who try and provoke her and/ or think that they are doing a good thing when they mess up someone's life because of their hero complex.
Everyone involved is a p.o.s. I get trying to hold people accountable for things but constantly adding fuel to the fire is just childish. Whenever I see drama on TT that really is not worth my time, I just block all those involved. These people should learn to do the same.
The way the audience was treating her is the reason i am so glad i dont have tiktok… i know plenty of normal people use tiktok but the amount of full blown idiots on that platform is too much for me to handle.
Yeah it’s so bad, especially when you’re someone with ADHD. This goes for all people too though. The way TikTok’s algorithm works is that it gives you content you may not like or agree with so you spend longer watching and commenting. And that’s just not good for your mental health to constantly be exposed to so much drama and negativity. I know for myself in 2020 I was completely stuck in TikTok and the whole app was already so toxic and the negativity was REALLY starting to affect me bad. I’m just glad I got off and feel happy for myself that I’m the only one in my friend group not on it. Yes I miss out on the memes they see but I laugh at them surrounding themselves with such a shitty app wasting their life and mental health away.
What I’ve garnered from this is 1) Don’t say racial slurs [easy] 2) Apologize as little as you possibly can, because cancellers won’t care, no matter what, but at least regular people might possibly respect your tenacity. 3) People on social media take literally everything that isn’t disgustingly positive as a negative
She is a perfect case study on how you should never bow down to the outrage mob. These people will never be satisfied with your attempts at apologising so you’re better off just ignoring them.
dude she has ADHD, people with ADHD have severe problems and process different things in various ways, its not easy being like that but the racism was actually a bit too far which had offended a lot of people
Well you should never fight back the outrage mob. If she would had look in their faces and sincerely said sorry once and then leave the case without any comment, this whole drama wouldn’t had become such popular..
@@vincenteliasbaar7760 right. It’s the Camilla Cabello route. Apologize for your racism, do some token activist thing so you can claim to have demonstrated change, then ignore all comments on it. Plenty of white people will immediately forgive you and not care, as is their privilege, and plenty of black people will never forgive you and never forget, as is their right. You’d be fine because you’re not targeting black people anyhow. It’s only when you keep showing your entitlement that the situation worsens. Like of course her apology is going to be shite: she got caught and then had to own up to it, so it’s going to seem forced and inauthentic. Then on top of that the white woman tears are always a bad idea when engaging with black people. But that would have been whatever: we know that ish isn’t aimed at us. It’s everything that came after: she could have done the collab and kept it pushing. But she didn’t, and let this snowball on top of all the other issues she already had. What can anyone say other than that she’s horrid at social media? She should have gone ahead and hired someone to help her deal with this crap. Probably still could.
@@18NakedCowboysInTheShowersAtRR nah fuck that. I was bullied mercilessly by black kids when I was a child because I sucked at sports, and was the only white kid there. If I was in her position, given my history, no fucking way would I apologize. I get that people get hurt about racism but that shit doesn't just magically appear over night. You don't wake up racist. You don't make your coffee, create your toast, and then suddenly think, "yeah fuck these *racist comment here*".
@@madape556 bro grow up. Just because some black kids bullied u ur gonna excuse racism. If a couple of black kids bullying made u racist, u were already racist
It works if ur a small content creator too so people won't be doing as much milking video to bring up a 10 month old drama titled something like "onlyjayus fid something really bad" 'this is why onlyjayus is cancelled" etc, why is no one pointing out all this tea milking channel
If you notice the people attacking her, most all of them have large followings. They aren't interested in her redeeming herself, theyre interested in dragging her down to stir up drama because the longer they drag it out the more clout they get. They're here for views and ad revenue, not social justice.
I hate how people bring up other incidents when arguing. “WHY DID YOU COMMIT A GRAND BANK HEIST” “I didn’t” “Well, it says, 30 years ago, you committed assault” “Yeah?” “SO YOU MUST BE A ROBBER FOR DOING SOMETHING WRONG 3 DECADES AGO!”
This is exactly why I don't use tiktok. The negativity and hate on tiktok is seriously ridiculous, and Jayus's situation proves it. Apparently, she had to literally MOVE APPARTMENTS just because of a mistake she made 4 years ago. And she literally apologized. It doesn't help that some people tried to take advantage of the hate she was receiving to gain more popularity and followers. Tiktok is fucking terrible.
Not only that but “cancel culture” is literally pointless. Like wtf r ppl trying to do when digging up someone’s mistake from six years ago? It was years ago, past is past and it seems like her “enemies” are the only ones that need to fix themselves, not her
why are there so many poeple fucking kissing her ass? It doesnt matter if she said it 4 or five years ago she said some fucked up shit. that apology that she made was faker then travis scotts
As a service dog user, not gonna lie, I did find the joke funny. I'm honestly more mad at the woman at 13:28 who said that no one who uses a service dog would find that funny. Like... let me make my own decisions ma'am.
That lady was a typical warrior mommy who's only personality trait is being the mother of a disabled child. Yikes. Also, pls gib your service doggo pets from me! 🤚🏻🤚🏻
@@dianeaishamonday9125 dont wanna spoil the fun but she is not a typical warrior mommy at all. her tiktok video was very unnecessary yes but still lmao
True dat and even if someone did do what she said she didn't make that decision it's like saying if someone jumped off a bridge u gonna get mad and say hey he's telling ppl to jump off a bridge
Hell yeah I'm a service dog user and that shit was funny as; honestly I'm on her side on this it's not like none of us said the n word in 2015 when it was seen as cool
this should b like the black mirror episode where u use the tag "#DeathTo ______" and then at the end only the ppl who used that hashtag died but obviously not that serious lol. maybe it should b like all the people who sign it get banned from tiktok
If she said any other word nobody would care and the 16 year old girl's life wouldn't have been ruined and filled to the brim with stress. What a society we live in now.
It’s so scary how people feel a NEED to take problems or controversies to the public. Instead of being a decent person and take it to DMs, they crave that social attention and drag the other person thru the dirt just to make themselves feel better about themselves.
It definitely takes more sense to take it to the DM, but I would feel attention hungry if it really felt like everyone was against me, or if more people knowing would back me up. The internet is not a safe space for anyone..
@@bruhvibes5941 People rlly dont understand that other people have a career, a way they make money. Taking to the public is going to help eliminate their career, and just over a word she said
Oh. So an actual murderer gets to be worshiped and admired because "oh but he's hot". Yet she, making a mistake 4+ years ago, gets her address leaked. Wow! I just love humanity!
Who was the murderer that was worshipped cause he was hot? Was it that guy who hit a few people with his car and killed them and some defended him just cause he was attractive
Wow, people can be real shitty. She had her downfalls and issues, but clearly did not deserve the whole shitstorm she’s being dragged through. I’ve never even heard of this girl until this video
I stumbled across her in UA-cam shorts about 4 months ago, and her videos are interesting. I subbed, and her videos are still consistently very good. I feel like people mistakenly believe she's insensitive, because of her loud and hyper nature.
To be fair, even if she didn't feed them, they would get hungrier- this advice would have been far more applicable before cancel culture, but we live in an age where you could be minding your own damn business, streaming from home as you are paid to do, then you get swatted because someone thought it would be funny to have you go through something that could completely traumatize you.
@@akalishroud2365 quite literally none of what you said invalidates my statement that feeding trolls only make them more hungry. It doesn't mean you have to completely ignore every single thing that is said online but when you allow people so much power over your mind they will abuse that power. Thats like the genesis of a troll and attention sustains them indefinitely .
@@ginnygin7141 I wasn't trying to invalidate you, the fact that you immediately felt concerned with that as a priority in this response confuses me. I was simply saying that in the end, if we are being honest, ignoring it probably wouldn't have helped her either. if you don't say anything ever then people will begin to think you don't disagree or have an argument against what they are saying so in their head it must be true, In the end the false truth will spread anyway and continue to make her look worse in the eye of the public. Just because someone doesn't agree with something doesn't mean they are trying to invalidate you, it feels like you have the mindset of those people who are like always trying to find reasons to be upset and see someone elses viewpoint as diminishing or undermining your opinion, I'm not, simply sharing another viewpoint to the saying.
@@akalishroud2365 I think you misunderstand my intention and meaning with what I've said. I don't feel invalidated personally by what you said. What I had intended to convey was that we can both be right in that what you said is relatively correct while what I said is still valid as well, hence your statement not invalidating my statement. I apologize for the confusion I caused with the way I worded my reply
I feel bad for her. There is no rule book of what to do when you’ve reached it. Scrawl through her old messages and delete them and take back every word. It’s a joke, there are literal child predators on TikTok with 20m+ followings who don’t get cancelled. She needs to let things go, like mean comments which is hard.
@@teddycustumz3267 It means to write carelessly, but I'm pretty sure this guy meant it as in she should search through all of her content and take down the things that are gaining attention
@@roslindale I think that’s a bit harsh to entirely blame it on that, however I think it does play a role. I think it’s more on TikTok creators targeting her knowing she’ll respond and give them clout and attention
Now I don't like Jayus myself, but there is no goddamn excuse to leak someone's address. Idc if they're a bad person with bad views, you're actively putting them in danger and not respecting privacy at all. If you're the type of sicko who leaks private information, especially addresses, you can get bent
plus something people that think this is ok as long as they deserve it dont consider that they put people who live with them or who are asociated with them in danger as well
This is one important thing people need to remember: just because they’re in the wrong, you don’t get to witchhunt, dox, and harass them. It’s all fine, until people take it too far. You can dislike a person, without ruining their entire life? People on internet these days have valid reasons, but just take it too far.
@@WinterFoxes22 Before the internet in the 90's we started getting cheap rates for local calls on home phones but a long distance call in the 90s was expensive about $3 a minute and 50km or more was considered long distant, word of mouth travelled slow, a few rich people and criminals had personal pagers that only sent text no emojis. Things were simpler you would never go out of your lane to ruin a person's life that lives on a different continent and you'll never meet just because you believe they are racist or homophobic or vote for the opposite party. No wonder young kids are suffering in the greatest time to be a human
People with ADHD can have rejection sensitivity disorder which can make them very sensitive to any kind of criticism which may be why she reacted poorly to all the criticism.
I have ADHD, I easily lash out at people but I know when to stop and so do others that I know with ADHD, Edit : I KNOW everyone has different severity but if yours is really bad you shouldn’t become an influencer on a toxic platform
I feel for her, she made one tiny misstake in her life, but people blow it out of proportion and then ruin her entire life. As if they never said anything wrong, or made a misstake.
“one tiny mistake” Bro did you read the message? She said she “hopes your parents die of cancer” and that “I hope everybody you love dies”, it doesn’t fucking matter how long ago she said that or how private that conversation was. To tell that to another human being is absolutely disgusting and can’t be forgiven.
@@lifeiscats1337not really. You act as tho you are a saint who never said anything out of pocket. Sure what she said was wild but my guy holding something someone said 4/5 years ago over the head is just dumb.
I actually enjoyed Aunt Karen's videos but when I started discovering how other black creators actually did not like her at all and debunked a lot of things she had talked about and basically said she reaches a lot just to get clout, I couldn't support her anymore.
Ikr? Like, ghosting a collaborator surely is rude and unprofessional but damn girl....... seven videos? And on top of that, campaigning to deplatform them because they ghosted you? Ummm
I'm Black and a smaller TT creator and bro, these people used Jayus for clout. I don't agree with what she said but it's clear people like Aunt Karen are disingenuous grifters.
THANK YOU!!!! It’s clear as day they aren’t actually outraged. They’re using her tendency to reply with emotionally charged responses as a conduit to get more views. The back and forth between them quickly devolved into a “who’s the most victimized” contest. It’s corrosive to our society
@@9ixventity Why is it always the ppl with the anime pfps that pop off on the most unnecessary nonsense. Idgaf what you believe or what you doubt. You don't define my reality. Go do something productive.
(I'm African American) I'm not tryna lighten her load, but she's not lying about ADHD. It is a pain in the ass to get anything done. You simply forget things and remember them at the worse times where it just isn't even worth it anymore. Motivation is simply not there some times either. People say oh I'ma get up and get something done because it needs to be done. We procrastinate. Focus is an issue too. The concentration is simply not there.... As for her racial comments, yes she was wrong. I feel like owning it and saying you'll do better like she has been doing is the right way to go. We humans have to forgive. We can't apply one person to one standard and then not do it to all. If you wouldn't get mad if your best friend said an offensive slur, your family, or anyone you look up to, then don't get mad at the people who aren't that close to you. She also gotta quit with that responding like ol dude said. Expressing emotion regarding it is a no no too. Some people will continuously push when they see weakness.
I couldn't have said it better my self. A way to stop someone isn't to create a larger enemy, but a person that can understand you and feel as though they don't have to get bullied all the time. Peace is always an option, I think.
hey i have a question cuz I looked at aunt karens tiktoks and she had emails that showed it was over 2 weeks of waiting....I dont have adhd (and by the way you wrote your comment Im assuming you're talking from experience) but would it really leave your mind for that long while all of that was still going on for that long? genuinely asking
@@reapersgaming4180 well that’s not what I’m saying but if they originally reached out through email and was waiting for an email….it kinda shows the opposite of what you’re saying
People don't understand how difficult ADHD is, I have it and the quantity of emails from literally job offers that I missed when I most needed it just bc my adhd was overwhelmingly bad was insane... People have no idea and they keep shaming and not understanding people with mental problems.
I mean your race didn’t get called a derogatory term for YEARS just for the color of your skin did they? Of course not so clearly you wouldn’t understand but I bet if someone were to call you a “karen” or “cr@cker” it’d be a whole different story right?? In situations like this it’s best to keep quiet
Kind of tone deaf considering it’s not just a word . But you know that. You just choose to ignorant. While I don’t agree her entire life should’ve been over from it . Accountability is knowing that what you said was messed up and derogatory/nasty.
I found her annoying, so I avoided her content. Thats it. Thats all that should be done. What is wrong with people... These people just want to bully people.
If you let someone over the internet "bully" you lol why make yourself insane by keep going to where the "bullys" are??😂 UA-cam isn't the only website or platform on the internet younno??
@@mikedmacc709 because its not a website issue, its a human one, what site do you recommend that has no humans? bad 'criticism' can really take a toll on someone, specially if they're not prepared to deal with how despicable people can be
The point where I felt the worst for her was when she got doxxed, that's disgusting. It's illegal, if I were ever doxxed I would be furious and would sue, and force them to pay for my new home.
I was expecting her to do something incredibly heinous that would make me instantly hate her, but after watching it i actually feel bad for her. I think too many people overreacted about pretty much anything she did, and she became the victim of bullying and harassment. I think it's totally unjustified what happened to her.
It’s like sunny pointed out in the video. She played a big role in her own demise by addressing the haters. She’s a whole ass adult complaining about a bunch of strangers calling her annoying online. Why does she need everyone to like her?
@@edgarretana8377 this right here, like she fed the haters, they reacted. period, and aunt Karen, she's a prime example of haters going overboard and aunt Karen herself looked dumb, but she fed into it and it got worse.
@@edgarretana8377 She definitely handled this poorly. But i can't blame her for complaining about people hating on her though. It does sometimes hurt more than it should when people talk negatively about you. And mental disabilities like adhd can make someone more emotional and sensitive despite being 'grown adults'.
I am African American and I don’t speak on Behalf of the whole community just myself . This girl has received so much hate for no reason. Yes she was a hateful person but let her move on from that! Everyone here has made mistakes. We are all human
@@sirbluebeetle2875 Uhmm because it has a history of slavery and getting abused tortured and hit. White people used to call us that hideous words as outcasts. It’s a racial slur and if your white and using this word I hope you know your promoting slavery. Please be mindful of your language. Even myself I do not like saying it at all.
Shes actually touched on the apology video, and it WAS scripted. But it was scripted because she was so scared of accidentally offending someone with the apology itself, and kept overthinking every little detail. Then people bashed her for scripting it
Poor girl learned the first rule of the internet: never apologize. Everyone has said something stupid at some point in our lives, especially when what was considered funny 5 years ago now is labeled “offensive”. Accept it and move on. You can’t change the past, only your future. And if someone is more focused on what you may have done or said forever ago instead of who you are today, then they aren’t worth your time
I definite would’ve scripted it too, because that’s how I would’ve shown how sorry I am. Like I don’t just wanna come up with an apology on the spot, I’d want it to be good if I was yes people to know I am being sincere. But that’s just me.
The only people who don't realize how much you can change in even just 1 year, are the people who will act like teenagers their whole lives. I feel bad for this girl, yeah she did something wrong but anyone else who can't admit they also have made huge mistakes is just lying to themselves and doesn't understand what it is to be a human.
What makes someone sign a petition to remove someone from the internet? You know you could....just.... stop... watching her channel, right? I guess it comes from the need to feel better than someone.
ADHD can cause improper emotion handling/regulation. She is being harassed for having a neurological disorder yet she is the one painted as a bad person. As someone who has ADHD, I am getting sick of people thinking it is just an excuse/joke/content for shitty ADHD tiktoks...
🙏 Thank you for putting this better than I could manage. I also have ADHD, and before I heard her say she had it midway through this video I'd already figured out she probably has it based off her extreme rejection sensitivity. These things hurt us more than you realise people, just because we don't react to something how you and your friends would, doesn't mean it's the sign of a bad person, someone who just needs to try more. ADHD isn't an excuse, but it sure needs to be considered more than it is right now. Look at it as "autism with eye contact" if it helps put things in perspective
Tell me about it, I also have ADHD and I honestly felt so terrible for her. It’s incredibly difficult to be taken seriously by anyone, especially when so many people fake mental illness. Yes, she made some mistakes and should be held accountable. But these people aren’t out to help her improve as a person; they’d rather exploit her social weaknesses to spur on more drama and receive clout for it. It’s so disgusting.
Some of these "creators" are too young, of course they would break under pressure. I am a 32 year old man, I can barely handle social media at times... and I am not in the spotlight. It'd be wise for future content creators to learn from these mistakes. If you cannot take the heat, leave the kitchen. Ps: holy shit, my comment blew up xD PS2: Just in case you misunderstood... no, I am not hiding my face between my palms and dealing with fucking PTSD after a discussion in FB. Please try to understand the nuances of the comment.
these videos would last 5 minutes if only all those social media whores (women and men alike) just shrugged off every politically incorrect thing they happen to do by accident or on purpose, you know, like people who grows up with a spine instead of a twitter account.
The way most people criticizing her look way older than her is concerning, people really need to stop bringing up 4-6 year old screenshots said in private to cancel someone. People aren't perfect and as long as they show they want to change, it's ok to make mistakes. On another note, Jeffrey star is still being racist and STILL has an active platform and a make-up line. Instead of them bashing jayus for it maybe they should end Jeffery star instead since he's, you know... actively problematic.
yes, people are criticizing her because theyre older and more mature. they know whats right and whats wrong. yes, they brought up old screenshots because she needed to be called out for it and talk about it. thats how the internet works. if u dont want it to resurface, then dont say it. why say it in the first place?? and yes, jeffrey star still has a make-up line and platform because he is a way bigger successor than jayus is. hes not a tiktoker and he makes a lot of money. he has a lot more fans and not everyone thinks the way jayus’s watchers do
@@andrea-te2ol it's really funny when 50 yo+ looking people are going after a 20 year old tik toker over stuff that happened 4-6 years ago, do they not have anything better to do other than making more drama? On another note, yes Jeffery has a business and an audience but that doesn't excuse his racism and a lot of other problematic shit he does and keeps doing, Jeffery has no intention to change and doesn't care about his problematic behavior. Meanwhile, jayus does and showed she changed.
@@tiagogomes513 yes people that are older can have a opinion on subjects everyone does and for this to happen 4-6 years ago in the conversation you can see she never apologized so I think her being 20 now I guess she was mature enough to apologize but let’s face it the real problem is that if those messages weren’t linked she would’ve never apologized.
@Nameless no I'm just stating that if this drama is really affecting her at a personal level like some.peoope think it is then she should quit making videos. Never even said the word hated
the fact that she got forced into an apology then got more critism about it just shows how underdeveloped and quick to conclusions our generation is. smh
Right ... We want an inclusive society. But when someone makes a mistake, or make a bad decision we never help them grow and learn.... Where is the world going?
You can’t put all the blame on a singular generation. We were all raised by the previous generation and all our beliefs, customs and courtesies were developed by who raised us and what they allowed. The world is a product of its own undoing.
@@pbpbp wah wah wah. She only apologized because she got caught. She never tried to better herself before that. Bitch is clearly racist if liking black people is the worst thing you can say someone is.
@@derekmtl85 I totally get your point, and really there is no excuse to racism. I'm not well educated on who or what she is, and I have no proof to say she isn't racist because social media is 98% fake. But in general, my comment was referring to cancel culture. People will pounce and not let go till. No apology is ever good enough, even for the smallest inconvenience. I believe in changing people. If someone did something hurtful in their past, it is their duty to step forward, acknowledge it, apology's, and try better. they should be held guilty, and have to suffer all consequences. But they should be allowed to growth, we can't just make them suffer consequences then forever hate them, or they may never learn. Education is a tool like no ever, if we wanna fight the hate, we must teach and use our words to project powerful messages. But my theory, and it doesn't apply to all cases. Thanks for your input, you are very right.
the fact that they basically squished an apology out of her and still got mad and called her out for that apollogy its stupid, they literally took advantage of her inability to comprehend an hate comment and ruined her entire career smh
Dude she literally had to buy a book of how not to be racist, how can someone take a person like her serious. Also if you use internet you would have know that bad apologies are very common, her apology has just another one of them.
@@bgos4727 I don't get the whole situation, but I never understand people trying to ruin other people's lives just because of their previous behaviors or beliefs. She is obviously just trying to make an honest living making videos, I don't ever think its the creator's fault if someone learns something bad from the content or misinterprets a joke. If you don't like it, don't watch it, what is the problem geez.
@@bgos4727 Depends on how you were raised. I was raised in the south by a very racist family and when we moved to a multicultural town I learned quite a few of the words in my basic vocabulary were racist slurs in some way. The n word was obvious bc the media talks about it, but I guess coon is racist. I thought it was short for racoon. One random example. There were many words and stereotypes I had to change bc it was the norm where I grew up in an all white town.
Putting the blame on a person so that you can toy with their short temper and try to get a reaction out of them is borderline psychological torture. How dare they. TikTok truly is an amalgamation of the scum on this Earth.
People dont give to shits bout others anymore. Its sad how someone go on their phone and think "imma ruin somones day lol" is just disgusting. Todays generation is completely F'ed
@@justincase1144 did you not even watch the beginning of the video? She acknowledged hate plaguing her comment section, and all that did was increase the frequency of hurtful comments. She didn't start the troubles, the haters did. Not only that, but someone had the audacity to copy one of her videos word for word, with everyone being against her once more because she herself "copied off" of articles available on the internet (this is how everyone aquires information for their respectful purposes in this day and age, she did nothing wrong). Like Sunny said in the video, was she supposed to go down to the local library and look through essays and volumes for one measly TikTok?) And when she uploads an apology video, no one can take a hint and just let it go. People have to keep pushing someone's already sensitive button just to try to get a reaction from them and be amused.
This is the crowd that picks away at your every word in every private text over what bad they can find in you, then line up to go see Travis Scott in concert with guest singer R Kelly. People on Tiktok are pointless.
@@Rome.s_Greatest_Enemynahh, this is a world where the dumber and stupid u are, u can be more popular. Look at the trends, influencers that didnt care abt wrong always have huge fanbase.
The problem with people is that they try to start controversies for "fun" and ruin someones life for a reaction and it gets worse when someone who started the controversies is something the victim was accused of to go viral
@@stayso4py951 literally every time I'm in convo with someone online I always fact check myself "would I say this to this person's face" answer is almost always yes. But I'm human and Sometimes I feel the power of anonymity but reel myself back in and keep it as respectful as I would in person. A looot og people need that self fact check
Actually running on negativity is Normal for any period really, now its just on a phone and the net. Cancel Culture is just the Hip new form of Lynching. "hey lets scapegoat X for the worlds problems that will fix or end X" is a sentence that exists whatever the time period
And even if you don't do anything wrong, and be careful, some random person will call you out for the smallest thing, and everybody will eventually follow along
This whole drama summarized : Onlyjayus is in the wrong but changed , Internet is overly sensitive and enjoy pressuring certain content creators when they are already down.
i'm black and yes it genuinely hurts that she said the slur over a really stupid situation, but i kinda just pity her tbh. she's just so sensitive and pathetic that i feel more sad for her than i feel offended. she clearly couldn't handle criticism or knew how to differentiate it from trolls which was kinda the leading downfall to her account.
It’s so funny to me that these viewers who seem to hold such a “high moral standard” and feel the need to correct Jayus in everything she does unironically are the most hateful ones out of this situation. All this ganging up and constant harassment on one individual is more pathetic then anything Jayus has actually done
Thats because not all who say "I have high moral standards" are actually moral, need only look at the Reign of Terror where the so called "morally superior" Jacobins killed everyone who complained about the Government and killed Nobles and clergy they imprisoned or the Soviets who Purged people they disliked and conquered sovereign nations while saying "Capitalists are the real Imperialists" completely ignoring the fact they too are Imperialists and even more worse about it. TLDR its the Why do you do this skit.
Wow, TikTok is truly disgusting. I am not even talking about Jayus, the only thing that is truly bad about her here is her way of dealing with hate. I am talking about these people who have nothing in their lives so they go out of their way to ruin someone else's life. It's amazing how delusional some people are on that platform. That's all I had to say, the rest was very well covered in this video.
@Jilaga World Seems for me the normal life 4 months ago my friend almost commited suicide because of stress and needed therapy seems for me the normal life
@@imoyabrax450 It absolutely is an issue but the main issue is just how much TikTok overreacts to a lot of things. Yeah she should be held accountable for things that she says or promises, but yeah it’s still just toxic on both sides.
Apologising these days is the worst thing you can do. No one ever believes it is genuine. Maybe it is not genuine but even if it is it does not matter.
Because, apologies are meant to be genuine, so genuine that you're willing to take accountability to the said mistake and that you will improved/educated. And never committed the same mistake ever again. P.s I am sorry if I kinda sounds like I don't make sense nor grammar error
@@eemki Yeah, but people aren't willing to have the patience to see that change. Cancel culture is toxic and holds to the belief that you can never change nor be forgiven no matter how many years go by. It takes a whole lot longer than three days to prove you've learned from your mistakes. That's why the best thing to do, especially in situations where the event in question happened years ago, is to not apologize but also not to defend yourself. You gain a lot of respect by being okay with people hating on you, to an extent, but not caring.
@@eemki Many famous people apologized online after getting cancelled for something they did decades ago yet people don't take their apologies seriously. Even if they're not the same person as they were in the past. You can't win in situations like these.
@@ariaxrose1 Facts, even as a POC myself I can see that he was literally copying her WORD for WORD, no excuses should be made for this man. But let it be the other way around a whole movement, petition, etc. will be started. Like seriously take accountability, this world is so BACKWARDS!
@@NovalieSweet he's kinda knowm for copying other creators and " reacting " to others stories seemingly without their permission. He's been called out mutiple times but him and his fans chalk it up into anyone that calls him out is " racist "
@@Joshsoreal Another racist troll who acts as though he is unaware of his inciteful comments. He knows his comments are going to be challenged but is just amusing himself because he knows that his intent is only to intimidate, incite, and disconcert. Just ignore and report these inciteful comments as hate or bullying. Replying only gives them what they want.
It's, to be honest, terrible to see a young girl like her getting bullied over something she said to a person in private 4 years ago. Imagine thinking people don't change in a 4 year time period. Must be terrible to have so many people watching every step and "mistake" you make. On the other note.. I've been addicted to your content lately, keep it up dude!
At 5:50 you can see Sunny V2 highlights the EDP method of dealing with controversy.
Ok
Actually 5:45 is the EDP method.
does saying it in ‘private’ really make it less bad? if you make the choice to send an angry message that is screenshottable and permanent then you’re making the choice to accept the consequences of whatever you say in that message. i just can’t see how anyone can have sympathy for someone who would say such an evil, hateful thing regardless of their age, gender, or the level of ‘privacy’ involved.
She didn't do anything wrong in the first place.
Cancel culture isn't even about canceling people anymore its about gaining your own clout for being the one to call them out
They loooove the power that comes with it.
Exactly!
Totally agreed.
Always has been.
Wow maybe you guys will realize that cancel culture doesn't exist and whining about not being able to say the N-wors isn't oppression
I love how this channel tells me about “famous” people on the internet that I’ve never heard of and all their drama that has nothing to do with the not-famous ordinary me
I heard his next video is about @jksanrio ?
TikTok "Stars" aren't legitimate celebrities, they're even MORE useless and irrelevant!
"famous" people's downfall.
I have no idea who she is because I dont use tictok.
I agree
This is why I stick to UA-cam, TikTok is just too toxic for me
You think UA-cam is any better?
Right but the bad thing is that tiktok is more entertaining for me
Eh. UA-cam ain't that much better tbh
@@officialdamadmanchannel6513 I don't know about you, I just watch cooking videos so yes it's better.
@@unknownguitarist917but there’s cooking videos on tiktok so that logic doesn’t really make sense
I talked with OnlyJayus back in March when things were going bad. She seemed very stressed out and scared. Life is short
Ey yooo
Thanks for reaching out to her, man. Our community supporting her is the best thing we can do. Everybody makes mistakes.
Hi
ayoo borzah my man
damn when a guy known to smile and be happy has something to say about this, that's when you know the situation is crazy
"You said some horrible things, you need to apologise."
"I've said some horrible things, and I apologise."
"Wow holy hell, how dare you say such a cookie cutter thing. Disgusting."
Cancel culture be like:
stan twitter and tiktok:
Literally every twitter user:
People like that are deformed in logic and have a low emotional intelligence. Truth is that those who are vulnerable to the wrong crowd often get attacked
literally any other person who easily gets offended:
"Social media made y'all way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it"
-Tyson
I don’t know bro saying the n word is kinda bad
@@kingx7745 mf it was 6 years ago. You're acting like she killed someone. Plus, rappers say the n word, yet nothing happens to them. I love how society made a racist term able to be used by only one race... and not just made it frowned upon when being used by ANY race.
@@blocksource4192 Don't u just love facts 😌
But on serious note I honestly think we've come too far to change today's society.
@@blocksource4192 you can say what you want to you identical peer group. But regardless, why do you want to say the word Soo bad? - mind of a racist who has a black friend.
@@garygnu8775 I’m confused what you’re saying by this comment. First of all, a racist term no matter it is must not be said by any group. Jews shouldn’t say antisemitic stuff the same way Asians shouldn’t be automatically considered smart. Idk where you got the why do you love saying that word or whatever. I never said i wanted to say I said I wish no race said it. I find it wrong for anyone to say racial terms.
Thank god she seems a lot better now. I watch her and her content is still similar but she is able to ignore bad comments now and has a relatively good following of people, and I haven't seen a bad comment on her youtube channel in a while, so she has definitely redeemed herself.
I'm black and I think the only thing she did wrong was feed the masses and entertained some very inconsiderate Black people, it was embarrassing to watch them repeatedly weaponized the word and directly bully her for something that barely affected them
@@michaelrichards5340the reason she couldn’t just stop is adhd makes it really hard, i know bc i have adhd too
@@michaelrichards5340 I'm also black and I exactly agree.
I'm not black. I'm orange. I think I ate too many carrots.
@@Themantismaster There have been many cases of people overdosing on carrot juice and dying…
This has nothing to do with what OnlyJayus did, but people that hate on someone just because they want to get a reaction out of them are horrible people and don't deserve to have a voice on the internet.
people are horrible for doing this to her, like why are you complaining on her getting mad when you literally wanted it to happen by pissing her off. stop messing with people.
I'm just disappointed in those people who do those kinds of harmful things on the interent
I agree aci, also nice subnautica vids I enjoy them. lol
Yeah I agree that those messages weren’t ok to send but I don’t understand why they had to be brought up after 4 years. It would make sense for people to do that if it was something she had continued to do. I think what made it worse was how she handled it
Unfortunately welcome to cancel culture everyone
She wasn’t emotionally ready for social media which is probably THE MOST IMPORTANT PART of becoming a content creator, once you’re ready to ignore hateful comments you’re ready for the internet.
Well said
people don't realize there not ready for something until there in that position. you don't know how hard it is to have millions of people wanting you to lose everything until it happens to you.
NO ONE IS EVER EMOTIONALLY READY FOR ME... NO ONE!!!
@@socialmedia5805 aaaaaaaaaa
@@socialmedia5805 you’re too much 😭😭😭
The irony is that everybody slamming her is saying she's a racist, hateful person, as they proceed to hate on her for months straight.
When one person starts hate, another person hates them.
It's an endless cycle, that won't end until someone stops it.
@TERRORDX1 bruh now I'm confused
It was written that "only a man of color may absolve you white man, for your rAcIsImS." Thus saith the Lord.... Or so the crazy lefties have told me.....
So gather round' muh white subjects, kneel upon the ground and beg me, your "Black Jesus," to absolve you of "mUh rAcIsIMs"✝️
With a few basically calling her racist as an easy insult which kinda make it racist on their part
@TERRORDX1 he changed his pfp to c with purple background... It's easy to do though
The internet is so backwards because if you make a mistake and you are famous the internet will never allow you to live it down. They will ask hou for an apology but when you give the apology they call you fake. You can never make a single mistake on the internet.
The fact that a guy can copy her, then say he found it somewhere else to direct hate toward her is just downright hypocritical
he just said he got it from google to cover up the mistakes, while literally copying her video nearly exactly the same, so far to say that his cousin has ADHD. which most likely is false as he is just using this as evidence to gain more followers perhaps.
I agree. Obviously a lot of the criticism is deserved especially for saying racial slurs, but a lot of situations were either overplayed for more clicks or she wasn't in the wrong in them to begin with.
@@ashlabelle she got cancelled because she said a bad word when she was 16
@@chillfrosted2670 exactly!! why did no one mention that he STILL said his relative had asthma when she said it first?? I'm not defending her, but nobody talks about it?
@@lee-lv8zo because, they just dislike onlyjayus. its unfair for her, they just want to use more and more flaws that she has.
The fact that Shane Dawson and David dobrick didn’t get as much hate as she did is concerning
Seems like it’s because Jayus is an easier target compared to Shane Dawson who has more experience dealing with his issues for many years as CC. Which is kinda sad cos it shouldn’t be that way. ://
So what you want is more hate and drama.
What did Doberik do?
because shane and david dobrik didnt call anyone a "ni-ger lover".
@@yennefer559 yes but Shane did do blackface countless times, and David almost killed a man and was complacent in a date rape. So safe to say they are a bit worse than Jayus.
Honestly, I hate what society has become now. Just I quote I remember hearing, "All people do now is complain, and not help. Because now, we think complaining is enough". I think that's what this situation is.
I think you're right, at this point the comments critical of her have hundreds of likes whereas most positive ones are in the low tens.
@@peggymiller9363 There’s no need to add salt to the wound but that’s exactly what people keep doing in this situation. We seriously have to teach our generation about the dangers and cruelty of the internet or else situations similar to onlyjaysus will become more common.
@@sebastianavila4131 idk bout yall but in middle and highschool they made a big deal out of cyber bullying and the dangers of the internet, and i graduated in 2019. However its almost essential to be on the internet in this day in age, what people need to learn is how to properly handle these situations, bc only jayus basically added fuel to the fire.
and cyber bullying will never end bc ppl are creative and as long as they can hide behind a screen theyll do what they can to attack others they dont agree with or feel like an easy target. its why a lot of social media is seemingly in agreement in politcs, bc if anyone dares to disagree, even slightly theyll try (and often succeed) to bully them off the platform.
Absolutely, I'm sick of society as a whole. They act extremely ignorant, they listen to every public opinion and they follow what's mainstream. Oh and corporations are so messed up.
True words
i have adhd and one thing about it is some people with adhd are sensitive when it comes to criticism so onlyjayus not being able to ignore it is valid
i didn't know that was an ADHD thing. Seriously makes me wonder that some people around me might have ADHD. They are on point when dishing out criticism, but when it's directed at them, they lack all ability to self-reflect and get pissed.
@@DUSKvsDAWN It's not about lacking the ability to self-reflect. ADHD causes a huge problem with impulse control and emotional regulation, criticism can feel like a life ending personal attack.
I likely have ADHD then but I probably will keep that to myself unless asked because I would hate to use it to defend something I am called out for
me to I have adhd and its hard not to ignore someone
@@DUSKvsDAWNThat might just be in different cases, it doesn't directly mean they have adhd
I like it when SunnyV2 introduces me to someone I’ve never heard of til now and educates me on their downfall.
ngl, he really does educate us
why are you always in videos
same lol
same
damn, youve never heard onlyjayus, some of their shorts used come up and i just think they have very obscure tips and whatever
this is why being a famous content creator is so difficult. you do something bad or slip up and your life is over.
I know what a shame. It's not like they can quit at any time and work at any media company using their experience on social media.
This is the sad reality of fame
Facts
Good.
True
Imagine having to sleep everyday for the rest of your life thinking about this situation. Too toxic I wouldn’t be smiling. It’s not healthy
I'm not on any side here, onlyjayus deserves to get cancelled but not too much. People are taking it too far, give her a chance again and maybe she'll improve. If not they'll definitely bring this to more light
I agree. The internet is relentless when there's a target on your back. They don't really want to forgive until you're at your rock bottom.
@@c4cubey931 "onlyjayus deserves to get cancelled, but not too much"
I don't think you know what "getting cancelled" means
@@saptaccrvima3563 yeah but like... You get the point
Edit: WAIT IS OP ACTUALLY BORZAH?
@@kingpeedorah yeah, I do. But, he worded it poorly. You either cancelled or you don't.
So people on the internet want to see and believe the worst about others, regardless of intent or context.
“Welcome to the internet.” - Bo Burnham.
the fact that someone had to leak her ADDRESS is pathetic. She is slowly getting her life in danger by her 'fans.'
Lol she is a literal kid. They shouldnt be allowed to post shit on social media especially stuff like history, philosophy etc involving black people
@@cuddlemuffin.9545 I think there’s worse things people should put their attention to ,’:l
@@cuddlemuffin.9545 good point
@@cuddlemuffin.9545 a 22 year old is far from a child
@@kenny_ki frontal cortex doesn't develop in women till at least 25, yes they are not children but they are not full grown adults if you want to speak scientifically and factually. 2 years before she was only 18. A year before she was 19. Nine-teen. So turning 20 instantly gives you life experience that takes decades to aquire?
Let’s be honest, they don’t want her to “better herself”. They only want to tear her down, and they are enjoying every second of it.
Cancel culture in a nutshell
I think so too. Thats why im so glad i dont have that app anymore. Tiktok is so toxic for the dumbest reasons. Yes she should definitely be held accountable for her actions but leaking her fucking address?? How do people think that's going to help her grow and evolve. That is doxxing, WHICH IS ILLEGAL PEOPLE SO YOU'RE JUST AS BAD AS ONLYJAYUS IS, perhaps even worse you could literally get this girl murdered. Just call yourselves accomplices while you're at it.
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@@Weed413 probably the n word carry’s history and cracker was only used for what they call the white man whippin them nun else tile the late 80s were the word was just being thrown out
Typical phony outrage. When their inner circle says the same hurtful BS, crickets.
If only this level of outrage was shown for groomers, which Tiktok is FILLED WITH
Yep. If only. This amount of outrage over this girl loses all credibility because it's not at all genuine. It's bandwagoning, clout chasing bullshit over someone who is obviously vulnerable. I find it way more evil, insidious, and scummy than anything she ever did.
Is it really? I haven’t paid that much attention, is there any big ones I need to go and try to report?
scary thing is, it’s not just tiktok. many other social media sites have groomers and pedos
Literally filled
@@spacesbetweenwalls Yeah and not to mention drug dealers and terrorists and people doing and promoting risky harmful shit in general.
I gotta say this despite it’s been a year…
I HATE HATE HATE when fans use peoples emotions to get them angered. That just truly shows how much you want to stir drama for you’re own personal gain. The way Sunny worded this was perfect. But seriously Tik
Tok is just such a negative place. Hope nothing like this happens to you ❤️❤️❤️
Being the *most hated person* on the cesspit that is TiKTok is honestly an achievement in itself.
Her or sienna Mae lmao we love to hate
More hated than EDP?
I thought it was vegan teacher
@@AG-yc7vt probably not
@@IkeReviews was that bitch
that dude saying it was a "W" that she lost her sponsorship and podcast cemented for me that they just want to destroy her, not actually have social justice
Because people have to learn lessons. You don’t get to say racist things and be rewarded for them. Serves her right. Certain groups of ppl get away w so much hateful antics and mfs really get upset that there are consequences for their actions. Y’all acting like she got arrested or something 😂 She shouldn’t have called someone a n!gger lover in the first place. She will be fine.
Exactly
People just pick sides
and he's talking about a saviour complex... ironic
that's only one dude
This is why you don’t apologize for public backlash, only apologize if you genuinely believe you did something wrong, similar to dream’s case, if you apologize once ppl will demand apology’s for literally everything and anything.
In dream's case, you mean when he was called out for cheating with facts and just doubles down that he didn't only to later admit he did? Nah just say oh fuck I did my bad.
Yeah, but nowadays people have no moral compass or foundation, so the crowd determines what is right and wrong.
Except OnlyJayus is trash
@Sheko You saying that just shows you have no actual knowledge on that case.
And even if you do apologize- a lot of the time they just won't accept it. These people don't care if the person they're cancelling actually feels sorry, they just want to see the creator vulnerable so they can go: "HA HA NOT SO BIG AND TOUGH NOW ARE YOU!?" All because their feelings got hurt.
Wait, so she used a slur towards a (one) person in PRIVATE messages and internet wanted her to apologize PUBLICLY to WHOLE black community? Make it make sense!
Yes ,and it makes sense, she used a RACIST slur multiple times. She was definitely being racist and this offended a lot of people (in most cases people say it in a song or like once in a less offensive way like Pewdiepie but she said it like she meant it). Saying the N-word comes with a lot of consequences ( even if it was a long time ago) and she had to face them.
@@Tomi-py9uwfax but i dont think she should be banned, she obviously changed and has apologized. Just let it go already
@@Tomi-py9uw Oh wow, she said a word, now everyone has gone mad. Ppl should stop crying for a single word and stop living in a pink peppa pig fantasy world. Life can be harsher than just hearing some word. The fact that you get mad for a word makes the word have meaning xD "Saying the nword comes with a lot of consequences" LMAO SUCH A NERD
@@Tomi-py9uwwhat consequences I say it all the time where are the consequences?
Ikr liberal black ppl are so fkin sensitive !
Imagine being told to apologize only to be criticized even more, man I hate social media
Yeah, some ppl are like that. Nothing's good for this type of internet user
This is TikTok, not quite as toxic as Twitter but pretty senseless toxic ppl
Cancel culture man. People expect an apology but then would bash on it anyway saying it’s not sincere enough
@@lunarialoonatic that isn't cancel culture, it's just called shitty behaviour.
UA-cam is social media
People say "educate yourself", and then she actually wasted time 'educating' herself.
Their response? "I don't believe you educated yourself."
You can't win with these people.
exactly. do not appease the mob.
@The General I have a hard time collabing with people I like on a smooth work flow. Imagine everyone acting like a bunch of religious zealots from the inquisition calling you evil essentially. Have you ever been through that? Trust me when I say it's hard to get collabs done quickly, VERY hard when you're stressed out, and nearly impossible when *millions* of people hate you overnight and sponsorships are dropped. You try it. But maybe you're a child with zero life experience, so things still seem black and white to you. I don't know, but wait until the mob comes after you, because they *will* . They'll find something to complain about and you'll be begging them for mercy and the same as you are doing right now, they won't care, they won't have a heart, and they won't give any mercy. Godless mentality
No matter what you do, people will always criticize
Fuck are you talking about she was literally saying racial slurs to people
Because she didn’t educate herself
Moral Of The Story: Never Ever Join/Use Twitter
yup
Well... this video is on TikTok, not Twitter. So it should be "never use Twitter and TikTok"
@@looniemoonie5955 nah it’s twitter’s fault trust💀
@@looniemoonie5955 dumbfounder people existed because twitter,soo
Since I left twitter and tiktok, I am so much better. Except youtube, I only use platforms where people need to use their real name, cause they seem to have so much more respect towards others knowing their aren't anonymous and are known as "John Doe" not "@/daddyslittlefuckingwhatever"
11:43 people were laughing at her for this but it’s kind of sad because you can tell she is genuinely stressed out and all this drama is just making it worse.
Yeah she was fucking doxxed. Her own home wasn't even safe for her to be in and she had to move. I'd be yelling at my camera, too. You'd have to be such a p.o.s. to laugh at her then
Womp womp
@@partypartyyeah303 🤡
@@partypartyyeah303please please go touch grass
@@partypartyyeah303not rn bro this isnt funny
Can we criticize the audience as well? Why do people feel the need to relentlessly cyberbully people?
These are the same ppl who drank benadryl as trend, they have brain damage
bc they enjoy seen other people suffer some will say it others not
It’s funny
person above me was dropped on their head twice
@@Red_1911 fatherless child
i’m tired of hearing “she/he didn’t even apologize!” and the second they do it’s “not good enough and crappy” even when they take time away to educated themselves and learn it still isn’t enough for anyone.
exactly
nobody owes the public an apology, even if they're famous. humanity is fucked. nobody is actually "educated" enough. everyone just really needs to go their own way and stop giving a fuck (or just continue to do so), it's really the only way.
never apologise, if you give an inch they will demand to take a mile
I mean sometimes an apology isn't good enough for what someone has done. Of course though I am not saying that for this situation because it just seems entirely stupid.
That's because, if people accept the apology and forgive the person, it means they can't give the person shit any more for the mistake they made- and these people don't want to do that because they genuinely enjoy dragging someone through the mud. The "problematic" thing the person did is just an excuse to legitimise their foolishness.
@@bananamanchester4156 people really do thrive on being hateful. It’s so sad.
Jayus’s biggest offense is just not being emotionally ready to handle the internet before blowing up. She’s not an evil person and doesn’t deserve to be deplatformed, especially when compared to the far far far more problematic content creators on the internet.
Tiktok afforded groomers access to underaged children that are there for saccharine "cat can smile too" videos. I think it's not a stretch to say that the people picking on a content creator with paper-thin skin then acting surprised when she lashes back in the most hurtful way she can think of (which frankly is far from the worst thing one can say, this seems like the pewdiepie debacle all over again) to regain some semblance of feelijg of control over her online life are being a fair bit focused on themselves rather than actually important shit. Because frankly, the fact they not for a moment consider that she has a similarly bad (if not arguably worse) experience as a neurodivergent in a neurotypical world and only seeing her skin color...yeesh.
SERIOUSLY LIKE…DID YALL FORGET ABOUT SHANE DAWSON
No her biggest offence is using Raciest slurs from what i can see. if that isnt on the list of her offenses. I am unsure about what that says about you.
@@overthier nope, they're talking about lately, not 4-6 year sago.
fr, he did say something that was racist but its was 4 years ago?! then people start putting little things on him and making a huge idea about it.
"A strange game; the only winning move is not to play" - Joshua AI
I dislike every party in this scenario. I dislike OnlyJayus' use of racial slurs, her cringe inducing coverup and general attitude to similar content. I dislike people trying to cancel her for something stupid like that. I dislike AuntKaren's narcissism and weaponization of the race card. I dislike the Tiktok and reddit users who try and provoke her and/ or think that they are doing a good thing when they mess up someone's life because of their hero complex.
Same!
I hate everything
Everyone involved is a p.o.s. I get trying to hold people accountable for things but constantly adding fuel to the fire is just childish. Whenever I see drama on TT that really is not worth my time, I just block all those involved. These people should learn to do the same.
Amen
@@sillyfegart5455 sigma
The way the audience was treating her is the reason i am so glad i dont have tiktok… i know plenty of normal people use tiktok but the amount of full blown idiots on that platform is too much for me to handle.
Huh...that's actually the exact reason I deleted it
@@fatimahmakgatho8968 same
Yep, that's why I don't have a TikTok and I will never get one.
theres so many kids who get recommended political and social justice stuff and listen but have no idea how to tackle either issue
Yeah it’s so bad, especially when you’re someone with ADHD. This goes for all people too though. The way TikTok’s algorithm works is that it gives you content you may not like or agree with so you spend longer watching and commenting. And that’s just not good for your mental health to constantly be exposed to so much drama and negativity.
I know for myself in 2020 I was completely stuck in TikTok and the whole app was already so toxic and the negativity was REALLY starting to affect me bad. I’m just glad I got off and feel happy for myself that I’m the only one in my friend group not on it. Yes I miss out on the memes they see but I laugh at them surrounding themselves with such a shitty app wasting their life and mental health away.
What I’ve garnered from this is
1) Don’t say racial slurs [easy]
2) Apologize as little as you possibly can, because cancellers won’t care, no matter what, but at least regular people might possibly respect your tenacity.
3) People on social media take literally everything that isn’t disgustingly positive as a negative
Don't apologize at all. Jschlatt and Twomad are cancelled every month but it has no effect on their following because they don't even acknowledge it.
Agree with no 2 no one really care about your apologize..your fans?maybe but other people?nope.
@@linux_fox who
@@kanoaikawach asked
1) is not easy at all dude wtf??
As someone who’s been diagnosed with severe adhd, I absolutely *_HATE_* when someone makes ADHD their go-to excuse. It’s horrible.
whatever, onlyjayus said it like 4 years before , excuse her
She is a perfect case study on how you should never bow down to the outrage mob. These people will never be satisfied with your attempts at apologising so you’re better off just ignoring them.
dude she has ADHD, people with ADHD have severe problems and process different things in various ways, its not easy being like that but the racism was actually a bit too far which had offended a lot of people
Well you should never fight back the outrage mob. If she would had look in their faces and sincerely said sorry once and then leave the case without any comment, this whole drama wouldn’t had become such popular..
@@vincenteliasbaar7760 right. It’s the Camilla Cabello route. Apologize for your racism, do some token activist thing so you can claim to have demonstrated change, then ignore all comments on it.
Plenty of white people will immediately forgive you and not care, as is their privilege, and plenty of black people will never forgive you and never forget, as is their right. You’d be fine because you’re not targeting black people anyhow.
It’s only when you keep showing your entitlement that the situation worsens. Like of course her apology is going to be shite: she got caught and then had to own up to it, so it’s going to seem forced and inauthentic. Then on top of that the white woman tears are always a bad idea when engaging with black people. But that would have been whatever: we know that ish isn’t aimed at us. It’s everything that came after: she could have done the collab and kept it pushing. But she didn’t, and let this snowball on top of all the other issues she already had.
What can anyone say other than that she’s horrid at social media? She should have gone ahead and hired someone to help her deal with this crap. Probably still could.
@@18NakedCowboysInTheShowersAtRR nah fuck that. I was bullied mercilessly by black kids when I was a child because I sucked at sports, and was the only white kid there. If I was in her position, given my history, no fucking way would I apologize.
I get that people get hurt about racism but that shit doesn't just magically appear over night. You don't wake up racist. You don't make your coffee, create your toast, and then suddenly think, "yeah fuck these *racist comment here*".
@@madape556 bro grow up. Just because some black kids bullied u ur gonna excuse racism. If a couple of black kids bullying made u racist, u were already racist
The only winning move is not to play. Innocent or guilty, the best way to apologize is to ignore it, the internet forgets quick if you dont bite
Until people damn you for not doing anything at all? This happens too.
It works if ur a small content creator too so people won't be doing as much milking video to bring up a 10 month old drama titled something like "onlyjayus fid something really bad" 'this is why onlyjayus is cancelled" etc, why is no one pointing out all this tea milking channel
If you did nothing wrong, don't apologise.
Probably the best way to put it.
Nice. Kevin Flynn quote.
If you notice the people attacking her, most all of them have large followings. They aren't interested in her redeeming herself, theyre interested in dragging her down to stir up drama because the longer they drag it out the more clout they get. They're here for views and ad revenue, not social justice.
If you notice all the people defending her, most all of them are white. I wonder why....
Good point, since im not in tik tok I didnt thought about that, lots of creators of yt do the same by creating drama or sayimg hateful stuff.
AGREED
Welcome to cancel culture.
This is why these big creators should never apologize for anything, even if they are sorry. It just stirs up a mob, paradoxically.
I hate how people bring up other incidents when arguing.
“WHY DID YOU COMMIT A GRAND BANK HEIST”
“I didn’t”
“Well, it says, 30 years ago, you committed assault”
“Yeah?”
“SO YOU MUST BE A ROBBER FOR DOING SOMETHING WRONG 3 DECADES AGO!”
This is exactly why I don't use tiktok. The negativity and hate on tiktok is seriously ridiculous, and Jayus's situation proves it. Apparently, she had to literally MOVE APPARTMENTS just because of
a mistake she made 4 years ago. And she literally apologized. It doesn't help that some people tried to take advantage of the hate she was receiving to gain more popularity and followers. Tiktok is fucking terrible.
People of colour, beige and brown! :D
Not only that but “cancel culture” is literally pointless. Like wtf r ppl trying to do when digging up someone’s mistake from six years ago? It was years ago, past is past and it seems like her “enemies” are the only ones that need to fix themselves, not her
@@wyv_3rn When cancel culture does something right is the same time when the world is about to explode
@Bzake fr bro
why are there so many poeple fucking kissing her ass? It doesnt matter if she said it 4 or five years ago she said some fucked up shit. that apology that she made was faker then travis scotts
As a service dog user, not gonna lie, I did find the joke funny. I'm honestly more mad at the woman at 13:28 who said that no one who uses a service dog would find that funny. Like... let me make my own decisions ma'am.
That lady was a typical warrior mommy who's only personality trait is being the mother of a disabled child. Yikes.
Also, pls gib your service doggo pets from me! 🤚🏻🤚🏻
@@dianeaishamonday9125 dont wanna spoil the fun but she is not a typical warrior mommy at all. her tiktok video was very unnecessary yes but still lmao
Mf probably uses his disabled child for content
True dat and even if someone did do what she said she didn't make that decision it's like saying if someone jumped off a bridge u gonna get mad and say hey he's telling ppl to jump off a bridge
Hell yeah I'm a service dog user and that shit was funny as; honestly I'm on her side on this it's not like none of us said the n word in 2015 when it was seen as cool
Just imagine this being such a problem in your life that you signed a petition over it... absolutely insane.
Right she said a word and everyone wants to ruin her
this should b like the black mirror episode where u use the tag "#DeathTo ______" and then at the end only the ppl who used that hashtag died but obviously not that serious lol. maybe it should b like all the people who sign it get banned from tiktok
@@vortor2728 great idea
I know right
Right
If she said any other word nobody would care and the 16 year old girl's life wouldn't have been ruined and filled to the brim with stress. What a society we live in now.
Imagine being forced to apologize, then getting EVEN MORE hate,
Cancel culture is something else
Some people genuinely have no lives lmao
@@rd101 same thing goes for most people caring about the hate.
Why do we care?
Celebrities are for entertainment
@@buddybrax Real
It shows weakness and they just milk the controversy further.
Tbh she was stuck in a damned if you do damned if you dont no-win scenario its a shitty position to be in.
The moral of the story is: NEVER apologise if you don’t think you’ve done anything wrong.
it was wrong tho :/
especially in private convos.
yea
Don't apologize even if you've offended someone. They will never forgive you anyways. There's a thing called freedom of speech.
@@idiot4177 saying the n word 4 years ago ?
It’s so scary how people feel a NEED to take problems or controversies to the public. Instead of being a decent person and take it to DMs, they crave that social attention and drag the other person thru the dirt just to make themselves feel better about themselves.
It definitely takes more sense to take it to the DM, but I would feel attention hungry if it really felt like everyone was against me, or if more people knowing would back me up. The internet is not a safe space for anyone..
@@bruhvibes5941 People rlly dont understand that other people have a career, a way they make money. Taking to the public is going to help eliminate their career, and just over a word she said
I won't miss her, or her femcel comments.
Onlyracist supporter cope
yknow I never really understood that
if it is a personal problem, aren't you mfs supposed to be doing that in private???
like, what happened man wtf
Oh. So an actual murderer gets to be worshiped and admired because "oh but he's hot". Yet she, making a mistake 4+ years ago, gets her address leaked. Wow! I just love humanity!
Who was the murderer that was worshipped cause he was hot?
Was it that guy who hit a few people with his car and killed them and some defended him just cause he was attractive
@@hidan407mmm i can think of more than a few rappers that fit this bill
@@hidan407the one who killed a baby and mother?
@@NotAashihere Yeah I believe so. People defended him just cause he was attractive. Yeah No you killed a family
Wow, people can be real shitty. She had her downfalls and issues, but clearly did not deserve the whole shitstorm she’s being dragged through. I’ve never even heard of this girl until this video
ye
I stumbled across her in UA-cam shorts about 4 months ago, and her videos are interesting. I subbed, and her videos are still consistently very good. I feel like people mistakenly believe she's insensitive, because of her loud and hyper nature.
She's probably the same sort of person screaming to have Donald trump canceled and that whites are oppressive blah blah blah. Don't even care.
Racist
People are blaming her for being over sensitive and stuff, but what the he11 she supposed to do about that. You can’t change that
"Don't feed the trolls" is really actual life advice jayus!! The more you feed them the hungrier they get!
To be fair, even if she didn't feed them, they would get hungrier- this advice would have been far more applicable before cancel culture, but we live in an age where you could be minding your own damn business, streaming from home as you are paid to do, then you get swatted because someone thought it would be funny to have you go through something that could completely traumatize you.
@@akalishroud2365 quite literally none of what you said invalidates my statement that feeding trolls only make them more hungry. It doesn't mean you have to completely ignore every single thing that is said online but when you allow people so much power over your mind they will abuse that power. Thats like the genesis of a troll and attention sustains them indefinitely .
@@ginnygin7141 I wasn't trying to invalidate you, the fact that you immediately felt concerned with that as a priority in this response confuses me. I was simply saying that in the end, if we are being honest, ignoring it probably wouldn't have helped her either. if you don't say anything ever then people will begin to think you don't disagree or have an argument against what they are saying so in their head it must be true, In the end the false truth will spread anyway and continue to make her look worse in the eye of the public. Just because someone doesn't agree with something doesn't mean they are trying to invalidate you, it feels like you have the mindset of those people who are like always trying to find reasons to be upset and see someone elses viewpoint as diminishing or undermining your opinion, I'm not, simply sharing another viewpoint to the saying.
@@akalishroud2365 I think you misunderstand my intention and meaning with what I've said. I don't feel invalidated personally by what you said. What I had intended to convey was that we can both be right in that what you said is relatively correct while what I said is still valid as well, hence your statement not invalidating my statement. I apologize for the confusion I caused with the way I worded my reply
To clarify; feeding the trolls is any activity, good or bad, that acknowledges that they exist including, but not limited to, replying "OK".
I feel bad for her. There is no rule book of what to do when you’ve reached it.
Scrawl through her old messages and delete them and take back every word. It’s a joke, there are literal child predators on TikTok with 20m+ followings who don’t get cancelled.
She needs to let things go, like mean comments which is hard.
What’s scrawl?
@@teddycustumz3267 It means to write carelessly, but I'm pretty sure this guy meant it as in she should search through all of her content and take down the things that are gaining attention
@@roslindale feminist alert!
@@roslindale I think that’s a bit harsh to entirely blame it on that, however I think it does play a role. I think it’s more on TikTok creators targeting her knowing she’ll respond and give them clout and attention
@@roslindale literally a brain dead comment
"mr president, the second onlyjayus video has uploaded"
Now I don't like Jayus myself, but there is no goddamn excuse to leak someone's address. Idc if they're a bad person with bad views, you're actively putting them in danger and not respecting privacy at all. If you're the type of sicko who leaks private information, especially addresses, you can get bent
That’s full blown stalker at that point
Based
plus something people that think this is ok as long as they deserve it dont consider that they put people who live with them or who are asociated with them in danger as well
Hm. Sounds like social consequences that happen to just about everyone who pisses someone else off on the internet.
@@elsamena7976 so you think its right? what is that supposed to mean
This is one important thing people need to remember: just because they’re in the wrong, you don’t get to witchhunt, dox, and harass them. It’s all fine, until people take it too far. You can dislike a person, without ruining their entire life? People on internet these days have valid reasons, but just take it too far.
I've been doxed before and it sucks. People need to get a life.
So well said! So many peoples lives ruined over mistakes. Ones they apologized for! Why is the internet so ruthless?
@@WinterFoxes22 Before the internet in the 90's we started getting cheap rates for local calls on home phones but a long distance call in the 90s was expensive about $3 a minute and 50km or more was considered long distant, word of mouth travelled slow, a few rich people and criminals had personal pagers that only sent text no emojis. Things were simpler you would never go out of your lane to ruin a person's life that lives on a different continent and you'll never meet just because you believe they are racist or homophobic or vote for the opposite party. No wonder young kids are suffering in the greatest time to be a human
@@stpaulimdog doxxing means to link ones home address right?
for some reason i only find it on tiktok and twitter and rarely on other places like wtf and people fr do need to get a life and not ruin others
People with ADHD can have rejection sensitivity disorder which can make them very sensitive to any kind of criticism which may be why she reacted poorly to all the criticism.
Forreeal
I have ADHD, I easily lash out at people but I know when to stop and so do others that I know with ADHD,
Edit : I KNOW everyone has different severity but if yours is really bad you shouldn’t become an influencer on a toxic platform
But that’s not an excuse to act like an asshole. You reacting poorly to criticism isn’t on the people criticizing you, it’s on you.
Ok so that might explain my temper. Any tips for controlling it? 😭
just dont use tiktok.its more easy
I feel for her, she made one tiny misstake in her life, but people blow it out of proportion and then ruin her entire life. As if they never said anything wrong, or made a misstake.
Ikr
“one tiny mistake”
Bro did you read the message? She said she “hopes your parents die of cancer” and that “I hope everybody you love dies”, it doesn’t fucking matter how long ago she said that or how private that conversation was. To tell that to another human being is absolutely disgusting and can’t be forgiven.
shut up@@lifeiscats1337
@@lifeiscats1337not really. You act as tho you are a saint who never said anything out of pocket. Sure what she said was wild but my guy holding something someone said 4/5 years ago over the head is just dumb.
@@lifeiscats1337 what a pathetic mindset. You have some serious growing up to do. People like you are so immature and spineless.
She might have been in the wrong at times but making SEVEN VIDEOS about someone not responding to an email is just obsessed and creepy ☠️
I actually enjoyed Aunt Karen's videos but when I started discovering how other black creators actually did not like her at all and debunked a lot of things she had talked about and basically said she reaches a lot just to get clout, I couldn't support her anymore.
Ikr? Like, ghosting a collaborator surely is rude and unprofessional but damn girl....... seven videos? And on top of that, campaigning to deplatform them because they ghosted you? Ummm
Clout chaser
AGREED, dude tbh if I ever went viral I’d probably be cancelled to my memory can not 💀
Definitely. however they were tik-toks so maybe their was just one intended video taking multiple tik-toks to make.
I'm Black and a smaller TT creator and bro, these people used Jayus for clout.
I don't agree with what she said but it's clear people like Aunt Karen are disingenuous grifters.
Fr
THANK YOU!!!! It’s clear as day they aren’t actually outraged. They’re using her tendency to reply with emotionally charged responses as a conduit to get more views. The back and forth between them quickly devolved into a “who’s the most victimized” contest. It’s corrosive to our society
Aunt Karen is a karen
people of color dont have to tell everyone theyre of color lmao i doubt youre blk now
@@9ixventity Why is it always the ppl with the anime pfps that pop off on the most unnecessary nonsense. Idgaf what you believe or what you doubt. You don't define my reality.
Go do something productive.
(I'm African American) I'm not tryna lighten her load, but she's not lying about ADHD. It is a pain in the ass to get anything done. You simply forget things and remember them at the worse times where it just isn't even worth it anymore. Motivation is simply not there some times either. People say oh I'ma get up and get something done because it needs to be done. We procrastinate. Focus is an issue too. The concentration is simply not there....
As for her racial comments, yes she was wrong. I feel like owning it and saying you'll do better like she has been doing is the right way to go. We humans have to forgive. We can't apply one person to one standard and then not do it to all. If you wouldn't get mad if your best friend said an offensive slur, your family, or anyone you look up to, then don't get mad at the people who aren't that close to you. She also gotta quit with that responding like ol dude said. Expressing emotion regarding it is a no no too. Some people will continuously push when they see weakness.
I couldn't have said it better my self. A way to stop someone isn't to create a larger enemy, but a person that can understand you and feel as though they don't have to get bullied all the time. Peace is always an option, I think.
hey i have a question cuz I looked at aunt karens tiktoks and she had emails that showed it was over 2 weeks of waiting....I dont have adhd (and by the way you wrote your comment Im assuming you're talking from experience) but would it really leave your mind for that long while all of that was still going on for that long? genuinely asking
@@geekieness420 not every one checks there emails
@@reapersgaming4180 well that’s not what I’m saying but if they originally reached out through email and was waiting for an email….it kinda shows the opposite of what you’re saying
People don't understand how difficult ADHD is, I have it and the quantity of emails from literally job offers that I missed when I most needed it just bc my adhd was overwhelmingly bad was insane... People have no idea and they keep shaming and not understanding people with mental problems.
I can’t believe people make such a big deal out of someone saying one word. It’s sad, our society is so off track.
I mean your race didn’t get called a derogatory term for YEARS just for the color of your skin did they? Of course not so clearly you wouldn’t understand but I bet if someone were to call you a “karen” or “cr@cker” it’d be a whole different story right?? In situations like this it’s best to keep quiet
What word?
@@KnockedupNout the nword duh
Ikr😭🙏
Kind of tone deaf considering it’s not just a word . But you know that. You just choose to ignorant. While I don’t agree her entire life should’ve been over from it . Accountability is knowing that what you said was messed up and derogatory/nasty.
I found her annoying, so I avoided her content. Thats it. Thats all that should be done.
What is wrong with people... These people just want to bully people.
Internet.
Bruh I sound like a boomer
If you let someone over the internet "bully" you lol why make yourself insane by keep going to where the "bullys" are??😂 UA-cam isn't the only website or platform on the internet younno??
@@mikedmacc709 because its not a website issue, its a human one, what site do you recommend that has no humans?
bad 'criticism' can really take a toll on someone, specially if they're not prepared to deal with how despicable people can be
I guess you are not a libtard that has their little feelings hurt easily, good for you Ron!
@@brunobruno-c1d thanks, you have a brain.
The point where I felt the worst for her was when she got doxxed, that's disgusting. It's illegal, if I were ever doxxed I would be furious and would sue, and force them to pay for my new home.
Who would you sue? How could you find out who did it? Would you have the time and the money to investigate and litigate?
@@312bigbeanburrito Facts
@@312bigbeanburrito I guess TikTok for not handling any of it.
you have a jelly bean pfp i doubt you can legally sue
@@cushyuu in America, anyone under 18 can sue as long as they can get a licensed attorney to represent them.
I was expecting her to do something incredibly heinous that would make me instantly hate her, but after watching it i actually feel bad for her. I think too many people overreacted about pretty much anything she did, and she became the victim of bullying and harassment. I think it's totally unjustified what happened to her.
Stop feeling bad for a racist annoying brat.
It’s like sunny pointed out in the video. She played a big role in her own demise by addressing the haters. She’s a whole ass adult complaining about a bunch of strangers calling her annoying online. Why does she need everyone to like her?
People reacting to her being racist is unjustified? I bet you own a white cloak and hood...
@@edgarretana8377 this right here, like she fed the haters, they reacted. period, and aunt Karen, she's a prime example of haters going overboard and aunt Karen herself looked dumb, but she fed into it and it got worse.
@@edgarretana8377
She definitely handled this poorly. But i can't blame her for complaining about people hating on her though. It does sometimes hurt more than it should when people talk negatively about you. And mental disabilities like adhd can make someone more emotional and sensitive despite being 'grown adults'.
SunnyV2, your audio, and editing is awesome!!! keep it up.
I am African American and I don’t speak on Behalf of the whole community just myself . This girl has received so much hate for no reason. Yes she was a hateful person but let her move on from that! Everyone here has made mistakes. We are all human
Ok, why are African Americans so sensitive to niggah while they call themselves niggah?
@@sirbluebeetle2875 Uhmm because it has a history of slavery and getting abused tortured and hit. White people used to call us that hideous words as outcasts. It’s a racial slur and if your white and using this word I hope you know your promoting slavery. Please be mindful of your language. Even myself I do not like saying it at all.
@@cateiia8984 it kinda defeats the purpose if African Americans keep saying it. Also, I'm online so my race doesn't matter.
@@sirbluebeetle2875 yikes
@@cara.bella15 what?
Shes actually touched on the apology video, and it WAS scripted. But it was scripted because she was so scared of accidentally offending someone with the apology itself, and kept overthinking every little detail. Then people bashed her for scripting it
Poor girl learned the first rule of the internet: never apologize. Everyone has said something stupid at some point in our lives, especially when what was considered funny 5 years ago now is labeled “offensive”. Accept it and move on. You can’t change the past, only your future. And if someone is more focused on what you may have done or said forever ago instead of who you are today, then they aren’t worth your time
I definite would’ve scripted it too, because that’s how I would’ve shown how sorry I am. Like I don’t just wanna come up with an apology on the spot, I’d want it to be good if I was yes people to know I am being sincere. But that’s just me.
sounds like she could've used some of her own confidence tips..
@@Lawrence_Talbot the amount of times i have said the n word as a joke is unmeasurable
@@J04R is she a minor?
The only people who don't realize how much you can change in even just 1 year, are the people who will act like teenagers their whole lives. I feel bad for this girl, yeah she did something wrong but anyone else who can't admit they also have made huge mistakes is just lying to themselves and doesn't understand what it is to be a human.
Good that this has happened to her
Not everybody deserves this treatment everybody in the internet is a bunch of crybabies
@@michaelreed8047 nah.
You can apologize for your actions that have hurt others whilst still changing your behavior. They aren’t mutually exclusive.
Her fan base is primarily teenagers THO
What makes someone sign a petition to remove someone from the internet?
You know you could....just.... stop... watching her channel, right?
I guess it comes from the need to feel better than someone.
ADHD can cause improper emotion handling/regulation. She is being harassed for having a neurological disorder yet she is the one painted as a bad person. As someone who has ADHD, I am getting sick of people thinking it is just an excuse/joke/content for shitty ADHD tiktoks...
🙏 Thank you for putting this better than I could manage. I also have ADHD, and before I heard her say she had it midway through this video I'd already figured out she probably has it based off her extreme rejection sensitivity.
These things hurt us more than you realise people, just because we don't react to something how you and your friends would, doesn't mean it's the sign of a bad person, someone who just needs to try more. ADHD isn't an excuse, but it sure needs to be considered more than it is right now. Look at it as "autism with eye contact" if it helps put things in perspective
Tell me about it, I also have ADHD and I honestly felt so terrible for her. It’s incredibly difficult to be taken seriously by anyone, especially when so many people fake mental illness. Yes, she made some mistakes and should be held accountable. But these people aren’t out to help her improve as a person; they’d rather exploit her social weaknesses to spur on more drama and receive clout for it. It’s so disgusting.
ah yes but the people who fake these disorders get praised and are babied which is just
jhhhh.. 🤬
Same i also have ADHD people say I'm some sort of monster who can't control their minds and may do anything at anytime
@P C Some people do. But as everything to do with people and our minds, everyone is different
Some of these "creators" are too young, of course they would break under pressure. I am a 32 year old man, I can barely handle social media at times... and I am not in the spotlight. It'd be wise for future content creators to learn from these mistakes. If you cannot take the heat, leave the kitchen.
Ps: holy shit, my comment blew up xD
PS2: Just in case you misunderstood... no, I am not hiding my face between my palms and dealing with fucking PTSD after a discussion in FB. Please try to understand the nuances of the comment.
I'm 40 and videos like this only make me so much more grateful social media wasn't a thing when I was a teen/early 20 something.
Take c4 plastic explosive into the kitchen
Wild replies fr 💀
@@arthurvice503 ofc but the older you are the less you give a shit to anything... you become numb figuratively and literally...
these videos would last 5 minutes if only all those social media whores (women and men alike) just shrugged off every politically incorrect thing they happen to do by accident or on purpose, you know, like people who grows up with a spine instead of a twitter account.
The way most people criticizing her look way older than her is concerning, people really need to stop bringing up 4-6 year old screenshots said in private to cancel someone. People aren't perfect and as long as they show they want to change, it's ok to make mistakes.
On another note, Jeffrey star is still being racist and STILL has an active platform and a make-up line. Instead of them bashing jayus for it maybe they should end Jeffery star instead since he's, you know... actively problematic.
I remember myself saying the N word when i was 9.. im going to get cancelled 😫😱
yes, people are criticizing her because theyre older and more mature. they know whats right and whats wrong. yes, they brought up old screenshots because she needed to be called out for it and talk about it. thats how the internet works. if u dont want it to resurface, then dont say it. why say it in the first place?? and yes, jeffrey star still has a make-up line and platform because he is a way bigger successor than jayus is. hes not a tiktoker and he makes a lot of money. he has a lot more fans and not everyone thinks the way jayus’s watchers do
@@andrea-te2ol it's really funny when 50 yo+ looking people are going after a 20 year old tik toker over stuff that happened 4-6 years ago, do they not have anything better to do other than making more drama?
On another note, yes Jeffery has a business and an audience but that doesn't excuse his racism and a lot of other problematic shit he does and keeps doing, Jeffery has no intention to change and doesn't care about his problematic behavior. Meanwhile, jayus does and showed she changed.
@@joeljanssonhernstrom1819 redonkulous
@@tiagogomes513 yes people that are older can have a opinion on subjects everyone does and for this to happen 4-6 years ago in the conversation you can see she never apologized so I think her being 20 now I guess she was mature enough to apologize but let’s face it the real problem is that if those messages weren’t linked she would’ve never apologized.
Anyone here after a 2nd video about her?
Let's be completly honest, TikTok runied most of the generations chances to get a job.
Not really, standards have plummeted as well.
I don't have tiktok , and i'm proud of myself. I think that i've made the right decision .
Definately not. Most people aren't posting fucked up shit.
Agreed
@@ThePrinceofallsayain nope
Internet: APOLOGY NOW! Jayus: Okay here. Internet: HOW DARE YOU APOLOGIZE!
Your supporting the clown 🤡
This is what you get when you give phones to monkeys
@@BenchongDyWhat?
Welcome to the internet. This is why you never apologize. It’s like dousing yourself in gasoline while being trapped in a burning building.
@@BenchongDy bro why you gotta be racist like you’re part of the problem rn
She just seems overwhelmed by the pressure and I feel sorry for her. She fell into a hellcircle of hate and critism without the chance to break out.
Here's how she can get out of the hell stop posting videos.
@Nameless no I'm just stating that if this drama is really affecting her at a personal level like some.peoope think it is then she should quit making videos. Never even said the word hated
@Nameless she can go back to retail which is where she came from
@@Not_Always she has a degree in computer science I'm sure you can get a good paying job with it also I'm sure she's set for life
she did that to her self
I absolutely do not condone racism, but there was really no need for people to be so harsh on her. People are ruthless man
the fact that she got forced into an apology then got more critism about it just shows how underdeveloped and quick to conclusions our generation is. smh
Right ... We want an inclusive society. But when someone makes a mistake, or make a bad decision we never help them grow and learn.... Where is the world going?
@@pbpbp down the gutter
You can’t put all the blame on a singular generation. We were all raised by the previous generation and all our beliefs, customs and courtesies were developed by who raised us and what they allowed. The world is a product of its own undoing.
@@pbpbp wah wah wah. She only apologized because she got caught. She never tried to better herself before that. Bitch is clearly racist if liking black people is the worst thing you can say someone is.
@@derekmtl85 I totally get your point, and really there is no excuse to racism. I'm not well educated on who or what she is, and I have no proof to say she isn't racist because social media is 98% fake. But in general, my comment was referring to cancel culture. People will pounce and not let go till. No apology is ever good enough, even for the smallest inconvenience. I believe in changing people. If someone did something hurtful in their past, it is their duty to step forward, acknowledge it, apology's, and try better. they should be held guilty, and have to suffer all consequences. But they should be allowed to growth, we can't just make them suffer consequences then forever hate them, or they may never learn. Education is a tool like no ever, if we wanna fight the hate, we must teach and use our words to project powerful messages. But my theory, and it doesn't apply to all cases. Thanks for your input, you are very right.
the fact that they basically squished an apology out of her and still got mad and called her out for that apollogy its stupid, they literally took advantage of her inability to comprehend an hate comment and ruined her entire career smh
Dude she literally had to buy a book of how not to be racist, how can someone take a person like her serious.
Also if you use internet you would have know that bad apologies are very common, her apology has just another one of them.
Is it really that hard not to be racist, seriously question, i find it easy, but seems like i am a minority
@@bgos4727 I don't get the whole situation, but I never understand people trying to ruin other people's lives just because of their previous behaviors or beliefs. She is obviously just trying to make an honest living making videos, I don't ever think its the creator's fault if someone learns something bad from the content or misinterprets a joke. If you don't like it, don't watch it, what is the problem geez.
She's doing just fine nowadays
@@bgos4727 Depends on how you were raised. I was raised in the south by a very racist family and when we moved to a multicultural town I learned quite a few of the words in my basic vocabulary were racist slurs in some way. The n word was obvious bc the media talks about it, but I guess coon is racist. I thought it was short for racoon. One random example. There were many words and stereotypes I had to change bc it was the norm where I grew up in an all white town.
Putting the blame on a person so that you can toy with their short temper and try to get a reaction out of them is borderline psychological torture. How dare they. TikTok truly is an amalgamation of the scum on this Earth.
I agree 100%
People dont give to shits bout others anymore. Its sad how someone go on their phone and think "imma ruin somones day lol" is just disgusting.
Todays generation is completely F'ed
Of course. You have no problem with her harassing others. She's the victim here
@@justincase1144 did you not even watch the beginning of the video? She acknowledged hate plaguing her comment section, and all that did was increase the frequency of hurtful comments. She didn't start the troubles, the haters did. Not only that, but someone had the audacity to copy one of her videos word for word, with everyone being against her once more because she herself "copied off" of articles available on the internet (this is how everyone aquires information for their respectful purposes in this day and age, she did nothing wrong). Like Sunny said in the video, was she supposed to go down to the local library and look through essays and volumes for one measly TikTok?) And when she uploads an apology video, no one can take a hint and just let it go. People have to keep pushing someone's already sensitive button just to try to get a reaction from them and be amused.
@@KuroHebi What? So, you're just going to brush over the fact that she calls other people the n word? But yeah, I get it, she's the poor victim
This is the crowd that picks away at your every word in every private text over what bad they can find in you, then line up to go see Travis Scott in concert with guest singer R Kelly. People on Tiktok are pointless.
Moral of the story: if you did something bad on the internet, apologize once and act like it never happened
well tbh the trolls would eventually find a way...
@@Rome.s_Greatest_Enemynahh, this is a world where the dumber and stupid u are, u can be more popular. Look at the trends, influencers that didnt care abt wrong always have huge fanbase.
Or just don't apologize and say F u i dont care what you think.
Or ignore it all together till people forget and move on 😂😂😂😂
or do what most infuencers do and disappear off the internet and come back like nothing happened, seems like it works most of the time
The problem with people is that they try to start controversies for "fun" and ruin someones life for a reaction and it gets worse when someone who started the controversies is something the victim was accused of to go viral
Fr some peoples life is so sad they have to take others down for some validation or smt
Bro why y’all acting like she didn’t use the hard ER
"Criticism is easy to write and funny to read." Social media runs on negative emotion and there will always be stuff like this
Most people wouldn’t say what they say to people online to them in person
@@stayso4py951 literally every time I'm in convo with someone online I always fact check myself "would I say this to this person's face" answer is almost always yes. But I'm human and Sometimes I feel the power of anonymity but reel myself back in and keep it as respectful as I would in person. A looot og people need that self fact check
Actually running on negativity is Normal for any period really, now its just on a phone and the net.
Cancel Culture is just the Hip new form of Lynching.
"hey lets scapegoat X for the worlds problems that will fix or end X" is a sentence that exists whatever the time period
SunnyV2 has made a career out of detailing the falls of influencers, what a niche.
I feel like apologising is never an option on the internet
You wont be forgiven
You’ll always do something wrong and get hate for it
And even if you don't do anything wrong, and be careful, some random person will call you out for the smallest thing, and everybody will eventually follow along
@@GioGrandest sometimes its completely photoshopped or faked too
@@spaceinvader9464 And because of these things, doxxing, ruined reputation issues, and even suicide can happen. All because of one mistake.
People seem to get more irritated at the apology but I have always felt that apologizing that you've been caught was always disingenuous.
@@ebonimom6964 You're right. What people should do is confess when they've done something wrong. Don't wait for it to spill.
This whole drama summarized : Onlyjayus is in the wrong but changed , Internet is overly sensitive and enjoy pressuring certain content creators when they are already down.
Exactly. The people being overly sensitive about it are the ones being immature.
@Gabby Gabs ..You know you could just watch other things.. right? those vIbEs arent always for the specific person.
i'm black and yes it genuinely hurts that she said the slur over a really stupid situation, but i kinda just pity her tbh. she's just so sensitive and pathetic that i feel more sad for her than i feel offended. she clearly couldn't handle criticism or knew how to differentiate it from trolls which was kinda the leading downfall to her account.
Now i feel like the black ones are the racist ones on white🤣🤣😂
People reacting strongly to full-blown racism is not being overly sensitive.
This situation is so pathetic. Everyone thinks they are a victim of hate.
yeah i am
@Jaegphh Hcunkelee bruh
Ya. . . .
We all are.
Especially those 14 year old white girls
@Heath Parker that's gonna leave a mark
"Despite having incredibly uncontroversial content..."
Well, this aged badly.
It’s so funny to me that these viewers who seem to hold such a “high moral standard” and feel the need to correct Jayus in everything she does unironically are the most hateful ones out of this situation. All this ganging up and constant harassment on one individual is more pathetic then anything Jayus has actually done
Yes!! I AGREE
Their constant bullying can also be looked at as a lack of morality.
completely agree
Thats because not all who say "I have high moral standards" are actually moral, need only look at the Reign of Terror where the so called "morally superior" Jacobins killed everyone who complained about the Government and killed Nobles and clergy they imprisoned or the Soviets who Purged people they disliked and conquered sovereign nations while saying "Capitalists are the real Imperialists" completely ignoring the fact they too are Imperialists and even more worse about it.
TLDR its the Why do you do this skit.
It made her crack
Wow, TikTok is truly disgusting. I am not even talking about Jayus, the only thing that is truly bad about her here is her way of dealing with hate. I am talking about these people who have nothing in their lives so they go out of their way to ruin someone else's life. It's amazing how delusional some people are on that platform. That's all I had to say, the rest was very well covered in this video.
@Jilaga World cancel culture in the past: literally burning people alive. I'd say we're doing better
@Jilaga World Seems for me the normal life 4 months ago my friend almost commited suicide because of stress and needed therapy seems for me the normal life
@Jilaga World its turned them away from human values and basic human emotions
She called someone a slur that’s not an issue?
@@imoyabrax450 It absolutely is an issue but the main issue is just how much TikTok overreacts to a lot of things. Yeah she should be held accountable for things that she says or promises, but yeah it’s still just toxic on both sides.
Apologising these days is the worst thing you can do. No one ever believes it is genuine. Maybe it is not genuine but even if it is it does not matter.
Because, apologies are meant to be genuine, so genuine that you're willing to take accountability to the said mistake and that you will improved/educated. And never committed the same mistake ever again.
P.s I am sorry if I kinda sounds like I don't make sense nor grammar error
Someone even said why is there no tears like wtf what you want Travis Scott apology type vid?
@@eemki Yeah, but people aren't willing to have the patience to see that change. Cancel culture is toxic and holds to the belief that you can never change nor be forgiven no matter how many years go by. It takes a whole lot longer than three days to prove you've learned from your mistakes. That's why the best thing to do, especially in situations where the event in question happened years ago, is to not apologize but also not to defend yourself. You gain a lot of respect by being okay with people hating on you, to an extent, but not caring.
Saying sorry now is akin to highlighting yourself as a target. Just ignore the bastards and live your life.
@@eemki Many famous people apologized online after getting cancelled for something they did decades ago yet people don't take their apologies seriously. Even if they're not the same person as they were in the past. You can't win in situations like these.
This channel reminds me of how old I really am because I've never heard of majority of the UA-camr's he talks about
The sad part is, this was started because of blatant copying of another content creator, not her fault, it was clear someone did her wrong.
Exactly but if she did it to him she'd be the villain white girl copying black tiktokers
@@ariaxrose1 Facts, even as a POC myself I can see that he was literally copying her WORD for WORD, no excuses should be made for this man. But let it be the other way around a whole movement, petition, etc. will be started. Like seriously take accountability, this world is so BACKWARDS!
@@NovalieSweet he's kinda knowm for copying other creators and " reacting " to others stories seemingly without their permission. He's been called out mutiple times but him and his fans chalk it up into anyone that calls him out is " racist "
@@littlestrawberryfaery wow, ridiculous
Damn seems like all these people haven't done a single wrong thing in their lives. Must be nice being so perfect!
Ya hypocrite people are everywhere on the net.. they think only they are perfect and others are problem.
Yes! Being so perfect makes you able to kick others down, which is a good thing to do, because remember you are perfect, and they are NOT
You’re right but I’ve also never maliciously called anyone a slur
@10Lifer tf is wrong with you?
@@Joshsoreal Another racist troll who acts as though he is unaware of his inciteful comments. He knows his comments are going to be challenged but is just amusing himself because he knows that his intent is only to intimidate, incite, and disconcert. Just ignore and report these inciteful comments as hate or bullying. Replying only gives them what they want.
Damn this is actually sad, cancel culture is so disgusting.
I think she just needs to take a brake from social media otherwise she'll explode.
And I don't use Twitter
*gets held accountable for racist remark*
cAnCeL cUlTuRe Is So ToXiC bRo!
@@privatealtruism5178 yes
@@privatealtruism5178 it is
@@privatealtruism5178 itz was 4 to 5 years ago get iver it
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