Couples Therapy : How to Get Over Breakups
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- Опубліковано 27 бер 2010
- Getting over breakups can be difficult, but it is crucial to embrace friends and family and start doing things you enjoy. Be the best you can be after a breakup with advice from a licensed psychotherapist in this free video on relationships.
Expert: Stan Hyman
Contact: www.AventuraStressRelief.com
Bio: Stan Hyman, SAP, CSW, LCSW, is a licensed psychotherapist and life coach practicing in Aventura, Florida.
Filmmaker: Paul Muller - Навчання та стиль
Who else cried after their breakup?
Roberto Cuautle me
crying right now. falling out of love is god awful.
Courteney Conway ugh me too.
I cried and cried my breakup happened earlier this morning but sometimes you have to let it out and just cry and be able to hand your emotions
yep
I feel so worn out, like something ate my soul and now I’m just carrying my heavy body around.
I wish you the best, I know it's hard.
you are revealing my feelings.... i simplying feeling the same
im on my third month past b/u, im starting to cycle back into the depression stages. i havent broke no contact but im so tempted to do so, hang in there bud its a long road to recovery
I feel like that all the time dude
Keep carrying your heavy body, you'll eventually find your soul back. If something ate your soul, it will come out of that thing butthole and you'll be able to retrieve your soul back. Maybe not in good condition, but at least you have your soul :D (I hope that makes you feel better in a way, even though it was explained in a grody way)
I don’t ever regret dating her. She made me the happiest. It just hurts so much
What's the update? Are you over that person? How long did it take for that
real talk i loved my female and the day she left she took everything. im so lost without her because for six years she was my life i got so used to her and now shes gone i dont know what to do with myself.
Why do I relate so hard 😂 glad I’m not the only one
So me..
Pinhead Larry same I’m cryin rn lol
Please make it stop.. it hurts so bad
cyz sarcastic it hurts so much
cyz sarcastic I KNOW RIGHT OH MY FUCK
Y’all I’m jus sitting here crying
IT WONT LEAVE ME ALONE IT JUST KEEPS COMING BACK AND BACK AND I JUST WANT TO LIVE MY LIFE WITHOUT THAT BITCH
gabriela pulido me too dude
Mine just happened last night and I want to die
chinglidi same bruh
Turtles Are Cool I cry
Same bro, I feel like complete trashb
Same, one second she says she'll never break up with me, it'll be me that breaks up with her, next hour she says it's over, women are cold-hearted.
ThinkGrowSucceed it’s been a week and I still feel like complete trash also brother
There was just a lack of communication and i've done so much with this girl it hurts me that she gave up on us.
The Proper Mask I feel you on that man. I dealt through a lot to be with her and she just plain gave up
Exact same situation guys. Put myself through the ringer and all her shit, just for her to be the one who gave up. Like why could she not fight harder
This is exactly how my relationship was we was almost a year we had been through so much and he would always give up on us and I would always get him back but he always gives up I think it’s time to let go bc he has given up again. But I’m so hurt
@@itsjakaylanevaeh9507 you have to let him go. its obvious that the cycle will never end, and you just keep hurting yourself. My boyfriend told me 3 days ago that he didn't fall in love with me.We were 6 months together.I loved him so much...
The Proper Mask I understand
Its been 2 days since my breakup and i feel so frustrated all i can think about is her
But seeing so many people in the comments going through the same pain as me is making me a little better...makes me think i am not alone
Thank u all and i hope u all can get over it asap
Busy Banny I got broken up with today wanna talk snap: lulbaby.ezllie
Mine was last night
Well... mine is worse me and my now former best friend got into an argument on Monday and I had a test 2 days later and he broke up with me over text on Tuesday before my test so I had an emotional break down and Wednesday I “got over it” I got my ears pierced and dyed my hair purple and blocked him on social media and blocked his number it still hurts but I’m focusing on my career and trying not to think about it and being “strong” instead of weak in front of my family so I think I need some advice from y'all I really need it 😔 I'm still hurting
@@leslievlogs1210 maybe this is why he or she broke up with you lol you just sent your snap to every one on youtube lol
How are you feeling now?
I hope everyone who sees this knows it’s going to be okay and that love is always going to be there as long as you allow it stop crying you’ll get through it❤️🌺
404k Anime thanks a lot.. made my night
I... Wasn't crying?
404k Anime thank you love :(((
It's been 1.5 years tho and I still ain't over it
The most important thing after a break up is to embrace your emotions. At first, the break up will take a toll on you like nothing else. You will cry, not wanna eat, be in a state of denial even. All you will be able to think about is that person, but that is absolutely natural. What I did personally was give myself 2 weeks to grieve. I cried everyday when I missed her, I didn’t want to do a thing but contact her and I just wanted to feel acknowledged by her. After those initial 2 weeks I still felt like shit but next what I did was start to work on things that I enjoyed. Being with friends, running, eating healthy, working out, playing soccer etc. I still thought about it but I had my moments of wow I feel kind of better. Eventually those feelings of good would go away and I’d start to feel bad again. Anyways, it’s been 3 1/2 months now since the break up and I’m still in pain but it’s a different kind of pain. I wouldn’t want that person back anymore, even tho I want them more than anything. I’ll continue to focus on what I can do and what I DO have control over. Remember, you have no control over what your ex will do or whether or not they move on quick or have someone new, but you DO have control over how you react to things. Live and learn. Love is a beautiful thing, it’s what we all desire. In the end, have faith that you will find what it is you’re looking for, and trust me, we’ll all look back and be thankful for the pain. We’re strong. If anyone wants to chat about our experiences, feel free to add me on Instagram @sf.kev_ 🙂
It's different for girls
@@oioliver8490 how
@@Username-hd1co It's just different
@@oioliver8490 you cant tell me how?
Gacha Hailey girls are complicated asf
Mine happened 5 weeks ago. It was such a toxic relationship but i needed him. I miss him everyday and after like 3 weeks I slowly started to get numb but I accidentally found some of our old chats and it feels like it just happened all over again.
Pray that I find someone that could love me like that again.
Leah EG i feel you completely. My relationship was only 9 months but it puts a big heavy weight on you. Mine just happened recently but I understand it all. Everything happens for a reason and I believe we all suffer through this just to grow. I feel like I’ll never find anyone as perfect as this girl again and like she was the best and Ill be sad forever but I learned from this. Im still bawling my eyes out even thought its only been 4 days and Im figuring out how to get my mind off of it but in the mean time talking to people that you trust and are close to about it really helps. I wish you the best in your future and take care of yourself💗
I feel you.... mine was 2 weeks ago today and it’s so hard we were together for almost 3 years a lot of shit happened we hurt each other bad !! But I miss him so fucking much....
Was in a 7 yr relationship that was toxic. Today I think we really said our goodbyes and I feel like my heart is tearing up. I’m just trying to find some peace.
Today it happened about an hour ago this is the 3rd time he’s broke up with me all my friends say he used me I really think he did but I still love him everytime me asks me out again I say yes thinking he’s changed but no he hasn’t I want to be back with him but he’s just gonna break up with me again.
Allie Vele if you really love him I know that there’s nothing you can do about it. But really he sounds like he thinks he can have you and leave you when he wants. Don’t let it be like that. After a little bit you will eventually get over him. Get the pain over with now if he’s not the right one. Don’t keep putting your self in this situation like what I did.
If you’re reading this, it means you just went through a breakup. I’ve been there. 1-2 months ago, I was where you are now. It was terrible. I fell into depression and every second of the day my thoughts were about my ex. I could not move on. I wanted to hurt myself. Couldn’t eat. Couldn’t sleep. Every notification on my phone made my heart jump because I thought it was my ex. I’d constantly replay memories, look at photos and videos, and reread old text messages. I couldn’t stop texting him hate for leaving me helpless. I kept counting days hoping for a better day, but it didn’t come. For about two weeks, I was severely isolated and depressed. I thought I would never get over him.
I’m still grieving the loss of my ex, but I assure you that I feel much much better now. It took time, and a lot of journaling. Time helped me the most, and it will help you too. Look up the 5 stages of grief to recognize and understand where you are at right now in your breakup. It helped me. Time heals all.
MJ, life's love, do you want your ex back, i know a powerful man who can help you get your ex back
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just physically felt my heart break... it feels so so bad. hopefully it goes away :(((
Everything happens for a reason....be strong if it is God's will she will be back or you will find someone better
Same
I got broken up with 3 months ago by my ex-girlfriend and just found out that she’s with someone else. I was over her for a while but for some reason finding that out just brought the pain back. This really helps
i feel you bro. my gf broke up barely a week ago and already has a new one. and that after almost 5 years of relationship...
Your girfriends has been in contact with their new bf for quite long while youre still in your relationship. I know coz my bf did that to me.
its so hard Dan, love and respect brother..
@@belle902 0p0p0ppp0p0ppp000p0000000pp0000pp
It's gonna be okay you deserve better ❤
it's hard to move on when you know that she/he cheated on you
i started flirting with this girl when i was in a relationship. when i called off the affair she told my girlfriend at the time and obviously we then broke up. I have never regretted anything more in my life than that, i lost everything. I do not believe once a cheater always a cheater because it took me losing everything to realize what i had, and i wont be making that mistake ever again.
GingerDeadMan ❤️
Am not over come through my past relationship it's affects me...... Not founding any solution to move on.....
@@deepalivashisth2079 i found a solution for my self, so I'm gonna share it with you. always make yourself busy, make some memories with your self, find what's the thing that makes you happy and always do it, since i love learning everything i put some effort in it so that i can forget what hurts me and so i can move on and move forward, just don't look back on what hurt you
@@gingerdeadman6589 man i salutes you for realizing such a thing and i salutes you for not making the same mistakes ever again
It's 3:30 AM, I just dreamed about her, even after a decade. The worst good-bye's are the ones which are never said.
Omg so true
I hope everyone who is watching finds happiness they deserve
I’m just watching this while I’m crying
Same
Same here :(
Same
he left me ☹️ , out of nowhere . he was a big part of my life and now i don't have my life together anymore . i told him i loved him 5 seconds before he left me 💔 .
Same here!😭
I’ll treat u right
NlmbDavis who tfk is u 🤨 ?
Everything happens for a reason....no matter what the situation is....if it is your destination he will come back to you if it is not your destination someone better will comfort you
My girl left me the same way. Im so confused. Im dying inside.
We love each other and care for each other immensely but we both knew it wasn’t going to last long and she decided to end it I love that girl more than anything and not being able to hold her in my arms rips me apart I feel empty like if she took my heart with her it kills me to think that she’s gonna be happy with another man I’m in so much pain right now I can’t even describe it
How are you now bro?
i truly hope you’re alright
Just been a day since my breakup, i have no family, i have an exam to take in less than a month which is the most important exam of my career, my friends are also preparing for the same exam cant disturb them ciz itz a very crucial time fr them as well, coz of the exams i don't even have time to grieve let alone spend it on things that i like to do....this seems so tough....fr me right now....Prayers is all i can afford to do....
Good luck on ur exam
Going thru this now 6years down the drain
Shainy Priyanka Tirkey praying sincerely for you! I pray you did well on your test and are healing daily 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
How did u do. I hope extremely well.
Shainy Priyanka Tirkey Same here I hope you did well, mine was a month ago and had my exam two days after my breakup and I failed mine, was together for 6years, was gonna get married in 3 months 😭. I’m so angry, broken , hurt.
Just lost my soulmate of 9 years and just praying she comes back. Never take anyone for granted and love them every day and never let them feel like you are not there for them.
I wish her all the luck in the world with the rest of life. She's taught me so much and I don't regret any of it, I'll always love her even if it's a different kind of love now. It hurts now though
Mine just happened 2 days ago... I wanna die so badly, it hurts like hell
Me too. I'm right there with you...
“do things you enjoyed” i enjoyed him.
omg I felt that 😭
i had a break up last night i’ve been crying since then. it feels like someone took my heart and broke a piece from it and i’ll never be able to put it back together again. when i was younger i used to say i would never cry over a boy when he breaks up with me but look at me now i’m crying writing this. it’s hurts like hell now but if your going through the same thing i am i know what you are going through and believe me it will get better i know it doesn’t feel like it will but trust me it will. i’m here for anyone who sees this and needs help. you are so important and whoever broke your heart doesn’t deserve you because even though i probably don’t know you, you deserve the world.
I'm honestly already over my break up but I kinda wanna just watch this just in case.
Hyper Potato Playz mine just happened last night and i wanna die
I’m too dependent in people and he’s literally my only friend and only real friend
I get that. She ended things with me because she wanted to focus her own issues by herself and didn’t want to feel like I depended on her to be happy. I think i didn’t depend on her to be happy, but it sure was a lot easier to be happier with her. I don’t feel how she feels, and it’s hard to accept it and It’s hard to love someone enough to let them go. I wish i didn’t make her think I was dependent, but sadly deep down I think i was.
I hope you’re doing better…
@@plamoretti673 thank you so much for replying I wish you happiness and health. Take care 💜
This is just killing me
Don Omondi same bro
Don Omondi we will be just fine
I feel you guys
When you start to believe that love is there then you proven that what you think is absolutely wrong
Don Omondi big facts. Like I’m steady fucking give up.
hey yall hang in there, this is really rough for me too. it's been almost a year, but I think I need professional help to move forward anymore
Eric Matas Stay strong man I broke up today
did you overcome? as i am suffering from last 3 months. and actually my part wants her :-(
@@marmikpatel258 yes I did, to God be the glory. Hold strong there man
@@EMDNT ok. eric.. thanks for replying and actually i want her back cause she also loves me but family and police make a great wall between us and like i am not able to forget her.
@@marmikpatel258 i feel you bro im sorry, try to keep a level head man. i'm praying for you.
Mine happened today, and I cried for 30 minutes straight.
MoonStone meh too meh a girl he broke me heart :(
this comment section is so sweet. everyone is just trying to help eachother. i love it. i came to watch this video bc i am still feeling the pain. it’s been months since we broke up. i am feeling some comfort bc ik other people are going through it too. everyone keep ur head up. i am praying for you all
I needed to hear this. Especially "the don't rush" part.
I wrote this in the depth of my depression after my break up
“I wake up in the morning and my first thought is always you. And that thought lasts a few hours until the afternoon. By then I would’ve convinced myself that I don’t need you, it’s normal to feel like that after a heartbreak and sooner or later I will stop thinking about you. My day finally gets going late in the afternoon, I do what I need to do. But by night time I start thinking about you again and I don’t stop until I finally get some sleep.
The next day when I wakeup, I go through the same thing again and again and again, day after day .To the point where I regret waking up. Imagine regretting your very existence.
After going through this pain and misery for a whole week, I had one of the darkest thoughts that has ever entered my mind. What if this is forever? What if this is the starting point of depression? And what if this damage is irreversible?. I really don’t know how many more of these days I can take before I start spiralling down the abyss.
Me too exactly the same
Linara Tyler Hang in there, it really sucks in the beginning but trust me, it gets better after a few weeks. Although I still do think about her, it’s every now and then as opposed to every minute of everyday. As cliche as it sounds, try to go back to your old hobbies or start doing new things, it’ll keep your mind off things and you’ll start to realise that they’re not as special as you once thought they were to you. The way I see, if I just focus on myself and improve my life, whoever they go on to meet will be a downgrade and who knows, you might go on to meet someone even better and who’s good for you. I hope things get better for you and good luck with everything.
Sorry but I can't move on
My wife left me cuz I was overprotective but I cared the most
Everything just feel so heavy and my soul is burning 😢💔
Even i m suffering from rjection but that doesnt mean i wont move on...the burning soul is a process that you are getting used to the pain..human brain in very powerful in letting thimgs go
I don't even hate him , i was the happiest when I was with him :) miss you sj
I thought I was over reacting with the negative thoughts and despair. It’s nice to see I’m not the only one that feels the heavy heart. We will all get through this.
Girls just look for somebody with whom they can relax, they stay happy, they feel motivated and with whom they can share their success and happiness and girls like the person who helps them in becoming a better person each day. Relationship is about moving forward together
Ps: don't be self centered
I remember 20 years ago when I broke up with Ashe
Still the best decision I have ever made
I was with my gf, now ex, for two years, It was my first serious relationship and it hurts so much. It's been a couple weeks since we called it quits but I cant stop thinking about her. So much time and love put into another person and now it's all gone. It was toxic and admittedly my fault for most of it and I regret every single thing I've done. I wish I could take it all back. She was so special and I screwed it all up. If anyone is reading this, if you get that second chance DO NOT screw it up again or else you'll mostly likely regret it for the rest of your life like I will 💔
Zachary Gonzales I very much relate to this, the woman I was with is my everything. I love her unconditionally and the pain of not being able to tell her that now has absolutely torn the will to live out of me. I can’t eat, I can’t sleep, the dreams I have when I do sleep are about her. It’s a pain that so many of us experience, but I couldn’t wish this pain in my worst enemy. I regret so much not showing her how much I love and appreciate her, how amazing and wonderful she is, and I would pay any price it the world to be able to do that again. I’m lucky enough to be on peaceful terms with her currently, and I don’t know what the future holds, but I hope soon enough I will be fortunate enough to be given another chance to show her how special she is to me. But whatever happens, I have to get through this pain somehow. We all do. I’m trying to hang in there just as much as you.
She said she liked someone else and I replied why and she said bye don't ever talk to me again I have been crying for the last 5 to 6 hours and don't feel like living anymore
Fuck her man.
Live for your family man. Don't give up.
What a bitch!
hey i hope you’re doing well now
How are you feeling now?
My boyfriend dumped me and then got with a new girl a couple of days later I honestly feel so bad about myself I feel like I am not good enough and I'm left questioning myself and thinking what is wrong with me
Molly 200 never question your self worth girly 💛😚. If he couldn’t see your worth it’s his lost not yours okay? :)
Read my comment....I understand your pain
I can’t stop thinking ab wen we hugged all the time and I just loved her
Its not lik i didnt see it coming but its the thought that he's gonna marry her in a short while after we've been together for 10 years....it braks my soul cuz all i neede was him.
I broke up last night and i honestly feel so bad. My heart feels so heavy, I feel sick and i can't stop crying. I just miss him so much 💔
Hikari Sakura samee same time and everything. stay strong we’ll get through it and find someone who loves us even more
@@naomilozier4151 yes thank you so much ❤😭
Sucks so many people have to feel this i myself am going through hell memories the way we made love.i left my wife because of constant cheating lieing fighting i just couldn't take it no more and i always kept going back so she kept doing it she thinks ill always come back so why would she ever change this time is different i will not go back to her it hurts so bad but i do not even want to see her she finally stop calling and texting.sometimes people make u the choice for u.hardest part for me is letting go
Number 3 has been working for me. I'm sure this sounds lame but in the past 2 weeks I must have read 6 books. Time is flying and I am about to order 4 more tomorrow.
Good job.... soon you can be an author.
Friends, I know this is gonna sound cliche but it will get better. Focus on yourself and learn to love yourself. You’re amazing and are gonna make a man/woman incredibly happy. They will love and cherish you the way you deserve to be. I love all of y’all!!! We’re in this together ❤️
this was SO helpful,i can't thank this guy enough
8 years then it disappears, its painful.
Hey. How are you doing now?
11 years for me she left me 4 days ago i cant take the pain
13 years and it really hurts. He left me on Christmas
After all this years and she left! She wasnt gonna be that person to fill your heart. That person is out there. Take care of yourself, build your confidence back and start dating again, but with a cautious mind
Been a year now. Seein her with other dudes now. Killin me
its coming up for a year for me too, and unfortunatley those things are inevitable eventually. im looking to move to another town inthe summer, to start over - we were together just over 5 years. i dunno what your living situation is like, but maybe a fresh start elsewhere might do you good... just som friendly (but potentially useless) advice. hope you take care, and that goes for everyone else on here. do stuff that makes you feel good about yourself. easier said than done i know.
I really want to forget him but i miss him so much because ive been with him since the very first day of college and he’s been my main source of happiness. I went everywhere with him. Now I’m sick and i miss the old him that would take care of me. But you know, i dont wanna get hurt over and over again.
me too girl. I got broken up 4 days ago and it hurts because he said he wasn’t happy and called me selfish. He told me to never leave him and he can’t imagen his life without me but he’s the one who left me. I looks fine and it hurts. I just don’t know who he is anymore.
I went through a break up today and it’s hard and I miss him so badly and this is kinda helping..
Yessss, looking for youtube help comes a long way. I hope and wish you happiness because you deserve to feel happy! Remember hardship is the key to success and success has qualities of happiness. It's difficult to get over a heartbreak, but the reward, in the end, will be making yourself happy. Work hard for your own happiness.
Michelle Vong yeah and I’m getting over him and thank you :)
THAT IS REALLY GOOD TO HEAR! And thanks for reading my message Audrie :D
I feel my relationship is over now. I know it will end soon.
prophecy end up fulfilling itself?
And?
I broke up with my ex a couple months ago and I don’t know how to move on. I’m just kind of emotionally torn and I know I should leave her alone and give her space, but sometimes when I reach out to her shes just leaving me on read. I just don’t know how to react to this because I feel like I should move on but I feel like there’s still something between us. It’s just confusing because it was my first love and I don’t know how to handle relationships like this. I’m trying to move on and give her space but it’s just really painful to. 😞
Go out, have fun. I know its hard but life must go on......
Bruh same here we broke up 2 days ago
PILITIN MO MagExercise ka everyday if possible it Really Help subok ko na. You need a friend na pwede mo sabihin lahat ng feelings mo. Always think na kung may nawala may mas Higit na kapalit. DONT EVER LOOK BACK, ALWAYS MOVE FORWARD.
Kaya nga eX mona sta db indi Check kc MALI nga Tinama mo nun naghiwalay kyo, Learn from your Mistakes para next Relationship will be Much Better.
Hey Splashonthebeat! Thank you for sharing, you may not know how to move on or maybe you have it's been a month ago since you wrote this, but I want to let you know and others know that watching this video and expressing how you feel is the right move to getting better. I see from this comment that you have a lot of hopeful thoughts being back with your ex and that is great, but you need to have faith (not religiously thinking). If you give her space and let life take the course, you will find out if she was meant to be with you. I think if you change your perspective in giving her time to experience what she needs to experience and maybe she will come to a realization that you were the one and later down the road, you guys are both single and still friends, that means you guys are meant to be together. If she doesn't come to a realization later down the road, it means that it was not meant to be and that's okay. By that time you probably found someone else who was meant to be with you. So, remember to be in the present because your future is a mystery. :)
Thanks for the advice, just broke up with someone I thought I had a future with, I'll pray for strength too.
Same here. I had a break up on 9th October. Feels so empty and shallow. God knows why this hope doesn't die even when I know the truth that he will never change. You give your everything to someone and that person just breaks your heart like it's nothing. Please pray that we all get the strength to overcome this period. We will..for sure..god does this to us to test how strong we are..and we must show his our strength. It's not a matter of fee days..it may take months for few.. but we have to be positive in our approach to get out of this mess and fresh start
Going through a breakup now, been with this girl for 7 years. We did everything together!!! Never in a million years would I of thought she would leave. Hurts so bad, can’t sleep or eat. Lost 13 lbs in 5 days
I dont want anyone to talk to me or mess with me in anyway shape or form i feel like everyone can jus forget me and leave me alone
20 minutes ago I got out of a 2 year relationship and it feels like my heart was ripped out, stabbed and put back to bleed out
Im in so much pain
im so sorry bro😔 mine happened just now
junior vargas I wish you the best man, and hope the pain goes away soon because I know how awful it feels. Stay strong ❤️
Deniz G ive been talking to my ex girl and it seems complicated, i want to just not communicate with her bc that’s wha most people have told me to do, then she’ll come back to me. but it’s hard😔
junior vargas I havent talked to my ex in almost 4 days and its driving me insane but as time goes by im starting to understand that sometimes you have to let go to see if she ever actually belonged to you in the first place
Thank you for these tips.
Thank you. It hurts not being with the woman I loved for years but I have to be the best I can be for myself like you said.
he heart broke me again
RED flags! Keep being strong for yourself. :)
i lost my smile again😔
Wow thanks alot this helped me get over my break up.
Wow .. The most amazing insight and NSS advise
God it hurts...god it hurts so bad
Thanks it just happened tonight and I can't speak
DareGaming how are you today?
It hurts but have an amazing day you're amazing this helped so much
To all those who experienced break ups and now in the process of feeling the pain all ay once, just hold on a little bit longer, everything's going to be fine. Just feel the pain. Like what my most fav line of John Green, he quoted, "Pain demands to be felt". So it's okay peeps. It going to hurt so bad, but it's not going to hurt forever. Don't try to mask the pain, face it. Tell it. Express it either through your trustful friend or writing or whatever you prefer. And when you decide that you should get over him/her, mean it. Block him/her from all of your social media account, and never dare to be tempted to stalk him/her to know what's going on to his/her life anymore. Just accept things of what they are now. We have to accept that they are not part of our life anymore and we have no choice but to move on and keep forward for us to see the beauty of this life, even alone. One thing I've learned about my past relationship, was acceptance. To accept that some good things are not meant for me because I deserve better. And that applies to you too :)) Hold on to faith lads, I'm praying for y'all. You can all do it. We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us!! ❤
Mine happend today and I wanna kms
Mine happened just now ...
Cupcakeangel plays Mine happened around the same times as yours
ivy martinez ☹️
I feel like someone really took my soul
This just made me cry more.first video too,,
I keep getting used and it’s damaging me...
Same here girl 💔 I had to let him but it's the hardest thing.
I know it hurts but he/she is not your whole world.
It's very hard. The memories just chained me in from letting go. Thought this thing was simple as forgoting something, i was wrong.
It’s been a year and a half I still miss her everyday someone please help
Louis Maurice you got this man you have to move on
This made feel like trash
Gacha Lover same
me too
My roblox gf brokeup with me and I'm sad 😂
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I choose to shut everyone out than love. Love can be stupid, but it can also be beautiful. What I do isn't the best but it works.
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Easy to say but too hard to forget and move on .. heartbreaking
It is more painful because we have love him but he cheated on me unexpectedly that makes it harder to forget and move on but I'm praying to God to help and guide me
She just disappeared out of know where
I was like “ok” but now it kills
She was so perfect and now thinking about it I am alone
No one likes me and one person seemed to care
But it’s over
Forever
I’ll be alone forever
I’m watching this while crying
I feel as if my relationship is ending so I'm watching before it happens
That’s how I felt and today I got the worst text of my life
Thanks Doc, although it was short, it was really precise and i think I'm slowly getting back on track in a steady pace
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It's been months since we broke up but there is absolutely NO night I don't cry to sleep.
IDK why I can't get over him. I want to. M trying to.. But the idea of us being together is just way too heart touching.
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honestly, this one hurt so bad, but i think i'm over it. it happened a few days ago and i miss the feeling of being loved, but i don't really miss HIM. i think no matter how emotional you are, you still need to talk to them and ask questions for closure, and if their honest, they'll tell you, if they have a pattern of being dishonest and are stringing you along and giving you hope, i don't know what to say. i asked when he stopped loving me, at first he said he didn't, a few hours later i asked again and he said a month ago and it hurt like hell but it helped me move on.
That's what I'm doing right now try to connect with my friends and family
never thought i would be searching and watching this kind of video, it really hurt idk what to do
I keep trying, but it’s been six months now and I really feel no better. I don’t like who I am without her as much as who I was with her. I still love her and would still go to the end of the universe for her, and I still am bad at coping with not really understanding what and how it all went wrong. I try and move on but I see her everywhere in my mind.
Casper S� I feel yeah man how did you guys break up? If you don’t mind telling
I could never hate her, or even dislike her for that matter. It’s been a month and it certainly has gotten better but I still have dreams.. when I wake up I realize it was all fantasy. I lost trust for her, naturally, you don’t necessarily trust someone who hurt you. She had her reasons, I wanted to make it work and put the effort in but those feelings were not mutal. I drank a lot at first, I drink a lot as it is but this wasn’t for fun anymore. I don’t regret being with her, if it wasn’t for her I wouldn’t know a lot of what I know now.. about myself, about others, how magical and amazing love can actually be. God damn, I miss her, I don’t want to stop caring or missing her but I know it’s for the best. Today I deleted all our pictures and her number. It was refreshing but also incredibly sad, like finally moving out of your childhood home. You become so used to something or someone and more or less as human beings we don’t like change. Change is inevitable though. I hope she’s okay, I hope she’s doing okay, I hope she is happy. That’s the best I can ask for.
Just know, yall are loved. The pain is real and will probably hurt for awhile, but youll be able to move forward. I'm trying to myself and its not easy but I'm doing things that I love again. All of you will too, it just takes time.
It has been over 4 years and shes still the only one i think about... it sucks but hey life goes on. We all have that special person and we will never get over them:(
She played me so badly and used me for my “popularity” and it makes me feel like nothing. Yet I still helped her with my replacement
I came here because I'm in love with my closest friend, who doesn't feel the same way, it's extremely hard to me around him now knowing how he feels and I don't know what to do... I don't want to ruin our friendship but I can't help how I feel and I can't get over him, I feel so powerless and helpless. I don't know what I should do
Today my friends I have lost a part of my soul. But..it was mutual. 3 year relationship ever since we moved in the financial side of things and other small things took a big toll on us. We forgot who we were when we met each other and what we promised each other when we first met each other. Sometimes we need to take some time off to reflect on ourselves and work on ourselves. And that’s okay. I promise everything is going to be okay. In time
Everyone out their this shit sucks.
I’m praying for all of you I feel your pain keep pushing.
I just broke up with my ex boyfriend 2 days ago. I’m constantly anxious, upset, trapped, etc. I’m so upset not only cause I’ll never see him again, but also his family. His family helped me through so much shit. They were also there for me, and his sister was my best friend(and my last friend) I miss them so much..
ArchJasiri The Dakotaraptor I’m sorry to hear that
Thank you sir. ✊
Bring the pain out in a song you sing💔