Criminal Lawyer Breaks Down the Case of Gabby Petito (Bodycam Reaction)
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- Criminal Lawyer Bruce Rivers Breaks Down the Killing of Gabby Petito
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I grew up with a dad that spoke very calmly and charasmatically with police 45 minutes after they were called by a neighbor that heard screams coming from my house. He punched me in the stomach, chest, and shoulders until I was unable to breathe. Bruises weren't visible as they were covered by my pajamas. Somehow I, a 9 y/o at the time, was never asked about what happened despite standing right there. Abusers are good manipulators, and his calmness in the body cam footage feels similar.
Cops only care about them making it home and keeping their job not protecting and serving
@@biclighter3854 Very true. Less paperwork, less personal risk if you can sweep it under the carpet!
Young bald men are massive red flags. They always have rage issues. Major Chris Watts vibes...
damn bruh i’m rly sorry that’s fucked up of your dad hope ur all good
@@ryobibattery - Your post is a massive red flag that you are an illogical bigot who draws inane conclusions based on junk observation and zero understanding of statistics.
Growing up in a very abusive household, the reason for taking the blame or downplaying the incident is because we knew that if we didn’t it was gonna be 100x worse when the police left.
100%. I grew up like that as well, and there was no winning. Every option was just a different form of burden. So many times I talked myself out of calling child protective services. As an adult, I’m still battling the trauma.
@@kelly-bo-belly you DO NOT deserve to keep reliving all that ,you deserve to get a professional person ,who FITS YOU ,and unburden yourself so your soul can fly like it’s suppose to !
shoutout bruce rivers for speaking out against domestic violence
Hes like a cool ass dad.
@@outfect6235 bruh Bruce u know I speaking fax
Well to be fair who the fuck wouldn’t speak out about domestic abuse? Given it makes sense to do so
But it does happen to men too though
Going out on a limb there. I'm sure he would admit if he were pro domestic violence
Him taking her keys and threatening to leave her out there is a threat to her liveliness. He's locking her out of her home... Cops dropped the ball here
Yes :/ I can’t believe they overlooked that esp it’s her car
I didn't hear him threaten to leave her there. Seems she was hitting him with her cell phone and he took cover in the van.
They were seemingly mutually abusive.
Regardless, at this point, I don't think he killed her. I'll wait for the evidence.
@@styletea2172 But is it her's or is it registered in both their names?
I'll wait to see the evidence. Had he taken her van & left her there, there would be auto theft charges. There are not. Did he find her dead? Perhaps.
Waiting to see. News is saying all sorts of BS, so I'll wait to see what actually comes out as factual evidence.
@@CarolReidCA She did say he threatened to lock her out of the car
@@CarolReidCA factual evidence is what you see and hear. Gabby was talking. Did you hear her?
Imagine killing someone, everyone knows you did it, and the police give you a one week head start to disappear
Imagine being a democrat and jumping to conclusions without proper evidence
Fuckin' Florida
Bruce @ beginning of vid: presumption of innocence is the foundation of our legal system
Bruce @ the end: this piece of shit probably beat the shit out of her!
@@jacobberman4616 imagine being a conservative and being wrong about about a case all the leftist were right about? Seems strange not understanding reality and seeing what's actually real vs bs huh? Yea... thats about accurate.
More like they gave him 24 hours rather. He must've done something right
“There’s nothing like a good homicide” OKAY BRUCE GET ACTIVE
😂😂😂
say A couple drug dealers where someone needed a good killing lol dudes funny I like him
🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
Why isn't his gun on the table like it usually is ? 🤔 Bruce you ok ?
@@YourFather-dg7pp To be fair it's a lot easier to stomach a case where two drug dealers get into a fight and one of them kills the other than a woman being murdered by her fiancé.
He 100% did it. If you’re girlfriend goes missing on vacation you’re gonna report it right away, not drive across the country back home in HER van without her.
Or at least, if he was gonna go the road of "we went separate ways", at least inform her family or friends.
@@Tamaki742 In HER van?
@@ourcorrectopinions6824 I missed the info that it was her van and not under both their names, my bad.
Or if you were innocent dodge all the interrogation and disappear lol
Remember casey anthony not reporting her child despite missing for 31 days?
I work 911 dispatch and have for 15 years. I get DV and DV related calls all day every day. A lot of the victims that call apologize to me for calling, and I always tell them, "It's not your fault, it's the other person's." The moment Gabby said she distracted him and apologized to the officer, that sealed the deal.
Its so sad that you get DV calls all the time. Why does is seem like its happening more often then in the past....why are these guys like this?
@@racheloberry8562 I think it's always been this way, tbh. I grew up with it, my mom did, her mom did, etc. It's just nowadays, there's more exposure to it. Back in the day, it was commonplace and most victims didn't have the resources as we do in this day and age.
I like this guy. Idk if it's cause he swears but he seems so likeable. Subscribed within 3 minutes
I did too!! I love that he swears like the rest of us! He’s saying exactly what we’re thinking! Subbed yesterday almost instantly 😁👍
“You never put your fucking hands on a woman. Ever” like yes king 👑
I recently found him and instantly subscribed. He’s extremely smart and chill.
I like him too
I like all of you ladies best looking comment section I'd never put my hands you set myself up there
Being a domestic violence survivor, the greatest obstacle I encountered was the "good ole boy" mentality of the cops. One night he beat me (so bad that I was hospitalized for 8 days) in our front yard, witnessed by our children, neighbors, etc but the cops wouldn't do any thing because "they didn't witness any assault". My husband told them I did it to myself, they accepted that explanation and left me laying unconscious on the ground.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. These are the kind of people who shouldn't be in law enforcement.
Fortunately my abusive ex boyfriend never hit me, but he made me so uncomfortable that it's well over a decade later, and I still haven't felt safe enough to date since.
Where I used to live when I was dating him, I got a new job. At a business 1.1 miles (just google mapped it) from the police station. Turns out I took the job of a girl who'd just quit. She was in the process of leaving her abusive ex husband and wasn't able to pay to move home, or maybe was told by her attorney she needed to stay until the case was over. I never got 100% of that detail. What I DID get, though, was that even with a restraining order, somehow he found out where she worked/that she did nights alone, so he came there, she fortunately saw him on the CCTV and called the cops after she locked the doors. Then he bashed the steel doors hard enough that the manager had to use his truck to pull one off the next morning to get in, broke into the business next door (glass storefronts on two sides) and tore it up while thankfully not figuring out how to go through the walls, and just kept attacking it while screaming that he was going to kill her for literally HOURS until it got late enough the next day that he was concerned people going towards work would notice him. Manager got there 7 hours after he had, the police never had (guess that city's got a huge crime rate overnight on Tuesdays. Must be the little old ladies at the bingo halls.) tore the door off, and called the cops to ask why the hell they still weren't there. Then they never arrested the guy because even with the CCTV and him breaking the business next door AND the restraining order, he never answered the door when they went to his place/was never at work when they went by. **shrugs** What? Like they should have made more of an effort or something?
thank you for bringing up that victims of DV will often cover for their abusers! Super frustrating to see people overlook that in this case. amazing stuff Bruce!!!!
Like that court case where the abuser was caught being in the same house as the victim during the trial.
In this case I think it was the incorrect statements. The officer said the person who reported the call said they saw Gabby being abusive then they come up and this man has visible bruises and she has none. Now that we know what the caller actually said, it changes things
It’s clear she was doing that, she said as afraid of what might happen and afraid that something will happen to him.
@@alexrose8299 the cops got it right, the cops even said so if you watch the whole video.
The shouvenistic Police ignored her .
Honestly the way that you talk to the guys and tell them not to put their hands on a female..ever, makes me love you even more. Not only do you have class but you have this style to you. You’re a good man.
But if a woman comes at you with a knife? Stfu with that bullshit the vast majority of times nothing good can come from hitting a woman but there is scenarios that can and do happen when a bichh needs laid out to save your own life.
Yes he nice man
Fuck that. Equal rights, equal fights. Or is it only “equality” when it serves women?
My ex hit me and the ONLY reason I didn’t hit her back is because I know courts are biased against men in domestic situations. It’s all bullshit.
The aggression in that *”you never put your fuckin’ hands on a woman!”* was 😍
Yessss Bruce LET IT BE KNOWN!
I agree 100%. However in this situation she put her hands on him multiple times so is it ok for a woman to put her hands on a man? It appears that way because all of the commenters appear to ignore the fact that assaulted him multiple times.
Yes she admittedly did.
However I don’t think we know the facts and I believe some of
those facts are, Gabby scratched and hit back in self defense.
@@skinsfanh88what about the witnesses that called 911 and said Brian was slapping gabby.
When I first saw this videos and from the looks of her already crying with anxiety and apologizing for her mistakes about him, you realized right away that she was emotionally and physically abused.
This case reaffirmed my belief in Johnny depp also , because he always acted like gabby and AH acted like Brain
If my girlfriend went missing on vacation I would not only immediately report it to get the police looking but as soon as I was done getting them looking I would be looking everywhere possible until I physically could not look or she was found.
And the only way I would ever hurt my girlfriend would be getting forced at gunpoint or maybe if I fell off of something with her below me.
100%
No, you dont. That’s looking back with hindsight and claiming “well this sign must have meant x”
No, that’s not how this works. She could genuinely just have been an emotional wreck or someone who’s bipolar, these “signs” are not unambiguously signs of abuse
@@cleobinx yes poor girl
Preach it again LOUDER Bruce, they need to hear it again. I saw this case live and it made me ugly cry when they confirmed her body had been identified.
“You never put your fuckin’ hands on a woman. “ *suscribed*
Me too. Just showed up in my stream tonight. You and I probably hit the "subscribe" button simultaneously.
Glad to know we're not even gonna pretend that's dumb bullshit where no woman is ever violent
And what if she has a weapon or just trynna kill u in general???
Amen
Some of them deserve it
there’s a moment in the body cam footage where the officer tells gabby to get back in the car (she never left the vehicle but her legs were facing out) and as the officer stepped a little closer, she flinched. I noticed that the first time i watched the video and it was a clear sign that he constantly raises his hand at her. My heart aches for her and her loved ones.
Her "loved ones" called his loved ones and threatened them, thus a 911 call from them in reports, as well as her step father's interview. I think Gabby grew up with abuse. Perhaps both families did.
I didn't see bruises or marks on her, but he certainly had some.
Wait for the evidence.
@@CarolReidCA Hits don’t always cause bruises.If she was hitting him back because he hit her first for no reason then that’s not her being abusive that’s her standing up for herself.Also him just returning in her van alone,without her and not even telling anybody what happened to her was a HUGE red flag.I understand her family’s reaction because her fiancé went with her on a trip,came back ALONE without telling anybody what happened
she also FOUGHT BACK w/Brian. Then, I'd like to add-AND NOT 'DEFENDING' BRIAN NOR VILLIFYING GABBY but I think the PUBLIC IS WRONG to immediately 'go to' that because of 'normal human behavior and the gamut OF those depths of emotion we EACH have, DOES NOT DEFINE HIM-OR ANYONE ELSE-AS A NARCISSISTIC MONSTER!!!! They are both young in managing human relationship and the different values and emotions of each other. They each have different values, perspectives and convictions on different things, etc. They've BEEN ON THIS MONTHS LONG TRIP in CLOSE QUARTERS w/ONLY EACH OTHER to interact with and little breaks for 'me time' and or interaction w/anyone else to keep their own balance of selves. THESE DYNAMICS does not mean ANY PERSON in a relationship that perpetrates aggression that escalates to violence IS A NARCISSIST OR 'MONSTER' IMO. WE'VE ALLLLLLLLLLLL experienced gtg escalated to rage and very POTENTIAL of doing the same things ppl DO in relationships. If/that we decide to LABEL that only ONE TYPE of person does these behaviors is DETRIMENTAL to arriving to any analytical solution when we need to at least include 'how to manage your level of emotions in disagreements' etc. !!!! I think it's HORRIBLY WRONG that ppl are at his parents house 'protestinng' WHEN THEY ARE 'HANGING MOBS'!!!! HIS parents, IMO, MUST and, if humans which they are, having a gamut of confusion and emotions towards many facets! How/what THEY DO feel about Gabby, their own son and HIS actions-what to do n how to feel about THAT-their OWN self protection and/or IF they say anything AT THIS TIME WILL ONLY ADD FUEL to the fire(s) bc Public DOES NOT WANT TO HEAR REASON!!! THEY WANT A HEAD! IDK EITHER how 'evil' he is-I DON'T think he is AS EVIL as another human being REACTING to things he cld not handle. DID HE SNAP? Or IS he a sociopathic narcissistic. These 'studies' into his psychy do not evidence this EITHER BC EVEN THAT only evidences him in HIS PROCESS of figuring out WHAT his values and beliefs are. In THOSE, I see of him a person w/backing off in objective perspective and considering the input from the authors he's, at this point found. Anyway, different personalities, the 'isloation' of each other on a trip over looooong time that is, as it turned out to be, REVELATIONARY of each other and how much their differences were. Their relationship was slowly unraveling those things too which does not make him-or her-'EVIL or MONSTERS!!!! IT'S A TRAGEDY FOR EVERYONE CONCERNED AND COULD HAPPEN TO ANYONE! SO, LET'S ARRIVE TO SOLOUTIONS VIA IDENTIFYING REALITIES VS LYNCH MOBS AND LABELING. THE 'PROTESTORS' AT THE PARENTS HOME ARE....WRONG, DANGEROUS, IGNORANT via jumping to these VERY CONCLUSIONS AND NEED TO BE STOPPED!
@Gabriella Roque I noticed her flinch too. That said, I’ve watched several body language experts and psychologists dissect the body cam video of Gabby and Brian, none so far noticed or commented on her slight pullback from the officer as you mention. This is a great observation which tells many tales (how he treated her).
Likely, Brian changed his behavior towards her over time, meaning he gradually morphed into what pushed him over the edge and capable of murder. He’s a true manipulator with low self esteem. Gabby on the other hand wants to see the good in all, she’s a true peace-love-hippie. Peace-love hippies will fight back though and that’s what’s evident by the marks she left on him.
Yes, she should have called it quits with him but sadly that’s not always reality.
There’s a story about him removing her license so she couldn’t go line dancing with a friend, again this displays the subtitles of his growing manipulative behaviors. Couple the long time spent together on this road trip and a recipe for disaster looms overhead. In the truest sense of the word this scenario plays out as a could have, should have but with a very sad ending.
@@CarolReidCA She’s dead and he’s on the run. Is that not enough evidence for you.
This is the talk my dad should've had with me but he believed in hitting woman, so I had to learn from his mistakes and my mom got us out tho. Shes the strongest woman I know to leave with three kids and take care of us. Hearing this as an adult further enforces my morals.
You're a great man Bruce.
I dont believe in any type of abuse. Male on male or male on female physical or verbal. However women abuse also. My parents taught me not to take a lick from anyone. If they put a hand on you defend yourself. I teach my kids the same. I dont and wont ever have to worry ab anyone abusing or bullying my children as a child or adult.
So what would you do if a woman was chasing you with a knife? Would you let her stab you? What if the girl was psychotic and tied you up and you have to find a way to escape? What if your only option was to take her keys by killing her or making her unconscious?
@@tomohawkcloud self-defense and DV are different.
@@tomohawkcloud if that was the case why did he not just say that with proof of injury on his body instead of disappearing then?
@@josephfast5887 Please don’t think you are done and kids will be safe as adults. Abusive people generally groom a person first with overly affectionate overtures. The abuse doesn’t start until you are “in deep”. Over time it slowly escalates. Not all bruises are physical. My dad taught us the same as you and one of us still found ourselves in that situation. My dad stepped up and pulled his married kid out of the situation. He was so disappointed. He rarely laid a hand on us (I begged for a butt kicking once, I will admit it) and here some outsider came along and treated his “treasures like trash”.
It tears my heart to see her in such distress...Dear God how she suffered
The police could have saved her life..how do they feel when they got the news Gabby was dead...
@@renna912 I'm sure they could care less they've probably murdered a few people in their own lives, not to mention, domestic abuse is highest amongst pigs
The fact that he came home without her, then goes on the run is a huge red flag, Shout-out Blicky Bruce! 🙌💥🔥
Ya think???
I mean it's definitely obvious the boyfriend did it. Did he really think he would just come home without his fiance and nobody would notice?
@@nolifey >a massive probability
lmao
You do know innocence until proven guilty only applies to the courts… we can say and believe he did it… Bc he 99.9% did.
Don't ever serve on a jury, your mind is a place where honesty never enters.
@@nolifey so in your reality, even though the autopsy was completed and was ruled a homicide, what reason did the boyfriend have to return home, then go missing after 10 days? Without trying to tell anyone what happened?
He also got a lawyer before she was even reported missing. Kinda sus
Of course the boyfriend did it. Dude literally disappeared after returning home without her. Then you look into how his parents acted during this. The fact that this is even in question is insane to me. I’ve yet to see a thoughtful explanation that he DIDNT do it.
They _always_ blame the boyfriend with a van.
I want to VERY RESPECTFULLY say that I wish we would not make light of the tragedy of two young lives gone and two families destroyed, regardless of how it all happened. I simply do not understand a comment such as "They always blame the boy with a van." How is thar appropriate? Just my opinion....
@@regenia8738Brian did it, why would he self inflicted himself...if he didn't kill her... you don't kill yourself, if you didn't murder anyone.
@@freshrot420, No they don't. It's an abusive relationship, obviously it's usually the person who is still alive...otherwise, his parents killed her.
You know it’s a Bruce Rivers classic
Ong
He's using the poor girl as clickbait, yes a typical Rivers vid.
@@johnsmith1474 how? The video is about her case. How is it clickbait?
The saddest thing is those cops were not trained very well….. they missed so many red flags😢😢😢
Honestly, you can see the pain in her eyes, if they would’ve gave more effort towards finding out the truth maybe they could’ve saved her…
They are mysoginistic. Of course it was her fault. They interjected "Did he lock you out because you were OCD?" The one cop said you can use the letter of the law or not basically if he's hitting her it will come back up again and it did, he killed her. The other cop was acting like he was his new buddy and giving advice on places to visit. This is all disgusting. They need training on signs of domestic abuse and they need to quit acting like it was a social opportunity to chit chat.
Yeah and yet people want to "defund" the police so they have even less resources to fix these problems
Only things they missed was she hit him and cut him shouldve arrested her
@@goddammitalana it shouldn't take money to be knowledgeable about demostic ........ it's basic human cues you can pick up this isn't like buying technology for them ..... this was an idiotic comment even tho I do agree that the police do not need to be defended
I do NOT know how you came up on my feed today, but holy shit, I love you!!! PERIOD!! From the opening music to, "Let me talk to the guys. You don't ever put your fucking hands on a woman. PERIOD!" YES!
The stark contrast in demeanor between the two of them should have been an obvious tell. The whole situation is unfortunately all too common. The social media factor is a new element and I think its the main reason that this case in a sense has gone "viral"
An obvious tell of what? You want to convict people of criminal activity because they of relative demeanor?
@@eriknervik9003 I'm sorry aren't you like... A year and a half late to this??
Did she not die within 48 hours of this recording? And did he not off himself after confessing?
@@discon_csert
She did not die within 48 hours of this recording. Her murder was about a month after this.
@@eriknervik9003 she died though?
Sorry I forgot. It's been almost 2 years.
“there’s nothing like a good homicide between friends is what I always say” 😂😂
Def the guy I want as my lawyer lol
As someone once told me, friends help you move house. Good friends help you move a body!
@@messrsandersonco5985 gotta be pretty strong to actually move a house I’d say
Gabby was terribly afraid of being abandoned out there. Brian drove the van most of the time, even though it was her's. She was afraid to drive it long distances. He would often take the keys and her phone. If that doesn't send you into a panic out in the middle of no where, I don't know what would. I don't think she was all that confident in her abilities and Brian would solidify that telling her her ideas were stupid, and did not support her in her dream. He was destroying her self worth bit by bit, which is what a narcissist does to their victim. Brian wanted a puppet of a woman to control.
When the cops told her to separate from Brian over night, he in a hotel room and she alone in her van, in an unknown place all night. That was stupid of the police. Poor Gabby was terrified of having to be in the van in the middle of no where by herself.
If she had had more confidence in her self, she should have taken that opportunity to drive home that night to New York where her family lives, leaving Brian behind. She was too close to the situation and couldn't see the bigger picture of how dangerous her situation was becoming. Brian deserved to get ditched!
Brian didn't have any friends... I wonder why. Gabby was the only person who could tolerate him and he thanked her by killing her.
I truly hope her spirit is free and not earth bound wandering the wilderness wondering where she is and what the hell happened.
It’s very common for the abuser, a narcissist especially, to make you think that something is wrong with you. It’s important to note that her family states that she has not been diagnosed with OCD or other mental health issues.
Correct, and obsessive cleanliness is often mistaken for ocd, as it is here. Whether Gabby was mistaken in her own diagnosis or just believed Brian and he didn’t know his ass from his head idk. But liking her van clean is NOT ocd. Police should know that at the bare minimum 🙄
Why didn’t the cops arrest him when she admitted that he hit her ?? Perhaps this whole situation would of turned out differently. Poor girl. God rest her soul.
She hit him and he had physical defense marks. She motioned that he put his hand to her face... defense as he was being hit?
Both these kids were abusive!
@@CarolReidCA so which one is dead now? Answer quickly! If they’re both at fault here.
bc she ALSO SAID SHE HIT HIM, GRABBED THE STEERING WHEEL N DISTRACTED HIM (so, cld LEAD that's when Brian 'slapped/hit her'. Then, I'd like to add-AND NOT 'DEFENDING' BRIAN NOR VILLIFYING GABBY but I think the PUBLIC IS WRONG to immediately 'go to' that because of 'normal human behavior and the gamut OF those depths of emotion we EACH have, DOES NOT DEFINE HIM-OR ANYONE ELSE-AS A NARCISSISTIC MONSTER!!!! They are both young in managing human relationship and the different values and emotions of each other. They each have different values, perspectives and convictions on different things, etc. They've BEEN ON THIS MONTHS LONG TRIP in CLOSE QUARTERS w/ONLY EACH OTHER to interact with and little breaks for 'me time' and or interaction w/anyone else to keep their own balance of selves. THESE DYNAMICS does not mean ANY PERSON in a relationship that perpetrates aggression that escalates to violence IS A NARCISSIST OR 'MONSTER' IMO. WE'VE ALLLLLLLLLLLL experienced gtg escalated to rage and very POTENTIAL of doing the same things ppl DO in relationships. If/that we decide to LABEL that only ONE TYPE of person does these behaviors is DETRIMENTAL to arriving to any analytical solution when we need to at least include 'how to manage your level of emotions in disagreements' etc. !!!! I think it's HORRIBLY WRONG that ppl are at his parents house 'protestinng' WHEN THEY ARE 'HANGING MOBS'!!!! HIS parents, IMO, MUST and, if humans which they are, having a gamut of confusion and emotions towards many facets! How/what THEY DO feel about Gabby, their own son and HIS actions-what to do n how to feel about THAT-their OWN self protection and/or IF they say anything AT THIS TIME WILL ONLY ADD FUEL to the fire(s) bc Public DOES NOT WANT TO HEAR REASON!!! THEY WANT A HEAD! IDK EITHER how 'evil' he is-I DON'T think he is AS EVIL as another human being REACTING to things he cld not handle. DID HE SNAP? Or IS he a sociopathic narcissistic. These 'studies' into his psychy do not evidence this EITHER BC EVEN THAT only evidences him in HIS PROCESS of figuring out WHAT his values and beliefs are. In THOSE, I see of him a person w/backing off in objective perspective and considering the input from the authors he's, at this point found. Anyway, different personalities, the 'isloation' of each other on a trip over looooong time that is, as it turned out to be, REVELATIONARY of each other and how much their differences were. Their relationship was slowly unraveling those things too which does not make him-or her-'EVIL or MONSTERS!!!! IT'S A TRAGEDY FOR EVERYONE CONCERNED AND COULD HAPPEN TO ANYONE! SO, LET'S ARRIVE TO SOLOUTIONS VIA IDENTIFYING REALITIES VS LYNCH MOBS AND LABELING. THE 'PROTESTORS' AT THE PARENTS HOME ARE....WRONG, DANGEROUS, IGNORANT via jumping to these VERY CONCLUSIONS AND NEED TO BE STOPPED!
Even if they would have put them in custody this could have been prevented. Maybe they could have helped. I'm probably asking for too much but the people who respond to these calls should provide help of some sort.
A witness close to the scene said Gabby was the one who assualted Brian and Gabby also admitted to assaulting Brian. She also admitted to punching while he was driving when the police where right behind the van. This caused him to swerve. Brian may have killed her but she should have been the one arrested that day
The world needs more defense lawyers like you.
During the video of Gabby explaining what happened is so heartbreakingt. I feel so sorry for her. She needed to be taken away from that situation immediately.
Yeah so she couldn't abuse him anymore.
@@Jay_Frankok incel
@@Jay_Frankhuh?
Take into accountability that his parents who they lived with was grooming her! She is/was very young and we have all been naive and she trusted his parents and loved him so they actually groomed her into accepting his behavior! That is how she comes to protect him and defend him as well! It becomes a cycle of emotional psychological physical abuse where at times your own safety and others safety is a concern so they lie- based on experience! Thank God I am still here because not many make it out alive that is a fact!
me myself, I’m happy you made it out alive and I’m sorry you endured DV. Your comment really interested me, as I think they are fully aware of how evil their spawn is. They have probably been covering & pandering to him all his life. They’ve got a lot to answer for, their treatment of the Petitos was/is despicable. Thank you. Cheers.
@@gregoryholstein3033 also, don’t trust his sisters small video! She comes across as oblivious to anything about her brother or what I happening in the news!! Those kind of men are also into their sisters romantically so be careful!!!!! IDK why they have yet to interview them thoroughly but I guess it is their right to their 5th amendment
@@memyself4431 Yes, I agree, the sister is like Shultz “I know nothing “ from Hogans Heroes. Cheers.
100% right 👍
How do you know that about his parents? I haven’t read anything regarding that
That’s what I was thinking, running is the worst thing to do when you’re suspected of a major crime , makes you look guilty as fuck
Damn
Not commenting on his guilt because I don't know but if the whole country thought I murdered my fiance and I was innocent I'd probably consider running, especially if there's already enough circumstantial evidence to make me look guilty.
We all know a lot of innocent people have been convicted of crimes that didn't commit because of circumstantial evidence. That's why I think everyone saying he definitely killed her is wrong, not only because they might be wrong but it also might be the reason he fled, and possibly didn't cooperate initially. I assume being accused of murder is stressful and terrifying; your main goal is stay out of prison and you might make some stupid and possibly suspicious decisions.
Just a thought, as I said most people just assume he's guilty without considering other possibilities, whether they're less likely or not they're still worth considering. For all we know he's also a victim, a grieving husband accused of murder by the public because he made a dumb mistake, possibly out of shock or fear after his fiance disappeared or possibly witnessing her death.
I'll probably get a lot of hate for saying he might be innocent but if you're going to play internet detective then at least try act like a real detective and consider all possibilities, don't get locked on one theory and avoid tunnel vision because that's how innocent people get screwed while the guilty goes free.
Sure you don't have the responsibilities or power of real law enforcement but playing detective, spreading your opinions and accusing people of murder without any real evidence can have tremendous effect on people's lives. Not only that but it can interfere with the investigation; say he is innocent and based on the news coverage, people's opinions on social media, etc someone who might have information now doubts how useful/accurate said info is. For example, they saw Gabby with someone besides Brian at some point but based on social media detectives they're convinced Brian killed her so they either doubt themselves or even worse, don't want to provide that information because they don't want to benefit his defence by providing another possible suspect.
@@waynejohnson1786
Dude came back from a trip without his fiancé. Immediately got a lawyer.
Him and his family ignored texts/calls from the fiancé’s family for 10 days until Gabby’s family realized she was missing.
Then he disappears right before her body is found.
Then it’s discovered that he was using her bank card after her death, hence the FBI arrest warrant.
You’re in denial to think he didn’t murder her. Your “I want extreme evidence that he did it” position is why he almost got away with it.
@@DrDillDough With murder you can never expect to get away with it because there is no statue of limitations. As long as there is some evidence (almost always is.) With some crimes you can get away with stuff as long as there is a statue of limitations.
He clearly did it and it’s only a matter of time before they find his body, he killed himself for sure
Probably waiting until the police fi d him to do it
He seems too narcissistic to do it quietly with no witnesses… he’s either going to do it when he knows he’s on police video footage or will stick it out, stubborn in court
@@sparksflylove i think we already passed the “He/She seems” these people looked like they’ve lived happy lives and look what happened.
Bruce, you gave a very compassionate description of the dynamics between an abuser and a victim Most people don't understand this dynamic which is why abuse often goes unrecognized, as it did by these police.
I mean imagine you're laundrie and the cops pull you over during a fit of abusive rage, but they end up saying you're the victim. -Must have felt pretty emboldened.
Now imagine you're Gabby and you're scared but maybe the cops will help you or at least maybe the cops will help him seem something that can change/ make him treat you better- but they end up saying you're the aggressor. -Must have felt pretty helpless and more isolated.
It's actually heartbreaking.
I don’t want to victim blame here. I know it’s hard in a DV case but they both claim the swerving was because of her. He had bruises. And for some reason maybe wires were crossed but the police were under the impression that she was reported as the abuser. Women can and have been abusers too.
@@alexrose8299The original 911 dispatch call has the witness AND dispatcher definitively stating and clarify - 3 times - that Brian was hitting/slapping Gabby. I understand there’s another witness report by a guy named Chris, which could’ve confused law enforcement, but I only see that happening IF the manner in which the statement was taken (writing) didn’t, to me, imply that it was post arrival; basically, unless the communication between dispatch and the cop was relayed neglectfully, they should’ve/would’ve gone into this with the understanding of it being a male aggressor, as initially reported.
gotta speak up the cops won’t know anything unless you tell them
1. Gabby DID AND HAS hit Brian, 2. they HAVE to go by WHAT SHE SAID/SAYS-SHE HIT HIM3. HE HAD SCRATCHES, etc. the cops KEEP THE PEACE....NOT PSYCH EVALUATORS! tHEIR GUIDELINES ARE THE LAW. WHAT THEY DID DO was the ONLY and BEST thing they cld do given the dynamics and Facts they were given. Then, I'd like to add-AND NOT 'DEFENDING' BRIAN NOR VILLIFYING GABBY but I think the PUBLIC IS WRONG to immediately 'go to' that because of 'normal human behavior and the gamut OF those depths of emotion we EACH have, DOES NOT DEFINE HIM-OR ANYONE ELSE-AS A NARCISSISTIC MONSTER!!!! They are both young in managing human relationship and the different values and emotions of each other. They each have different values, perspectives and convictions on different things, etc. They've BEEN ON THIS MONTHS LONG TRIP in CLOSE QUARTERS w/ONLY EACH OTHER to interact with and little breaks for 'me time' and or interaction w/anyone else to keep their own balance of selves. THESE DYNAMICS does not mean ANY PERSON in a relationship that perpetrates aggression that escalates to violence IS A NARCISSIST OR 'MONSTER' IMO. WE'VE ALLLLLLLLLLLL experienced gtg escalated to rage and very POTENTIAL of doing the same things ppl DO in relationships. If/that we decide to LABEL that only ONE TYPE of person does these behaviors is DETRIMENTAL to arriving to any analytical solution when we need to at least include 'how to manage your level of emotions in disagreements' etc. !!!! I think it's HORRIBLY WRONG that ppl are at his parents house 'protestinng' WHEN THEY ARE 'HANGING MOBS'!!!! HIS parents, IMO, MUST and, if humans which they are, having a gamut of confusion and emotions towards many facets! How/what THEY DO feel about Gabby, their own son and HIS actions-what to do n how to feel about THAT-their OWN self protection and/or IF they say anything AT THIS TIME WILL ONLY ADD FUEL to the fire(s) bc Public DOES NOT WANT TO HEAR REASON!!! THEY WANT A HEAD! IDK EITHER how 'evil' he is-I DON'T think he is AS EVIL as another human being REACTING to things he cld not handle. DID HE SNAP? Or IS he a sociopathic narcissistic. These 'studies' into his psychy do not evidence this EITHER BC EVEN THAT only evidences him in HIS PROCESS of figuring out WHAT his values and beliefs are. In THOSE, I see of him a person w/backing off in objective perspective and considering the input from the authors he's, at this point found. Anyway, different personalities, the 'isloation' of each other on a trip over looooong time that is, as it turned out to be, REVELATIONARY of each other and how much their differences were. Their relationship was slowly unraveling those things too which does not make him-or her-'EVIL or MONSTERS!!!! IT'S A TRAGEDY FOR EVERYONE CONCERNED AND COULD HAPPEN TO ANYONE! SO, LET'S ARRIVE TO SOLOUTIONS VIA IDENTIFYING REALITIES VS LYNCH MOBS AND LABELING. THE 'PROTESTORS' AT THE PARENTS HOME ARE....WRONG, DANGEROUS, IGNORANT via jumping to these VERY CONCLUSIONS AND NEED TO BE STOPPED!
@@helenpierce-lamoureux3124 nah. cops are trained to read the situation. but they didnt read this right at all. also whats with the random caps?
This is so painful to watch. She's obviously alone in this situation. Her Bo is romancing the cops.
I love how you pepper the best cuss words throughout your narrative.
Well, I should say thanks sir, the points about what the person on the receiving end of an abusive relationship acts like for their abuser kind of opened my eyes about my marriage. Keep being an absolute legend.
I hope you're safe and well
Her body was confirmed...it is her that was found
Probably filmed this few days earlier or even just one day cause it’s been developing case
thank you bruce. So thankful to have someone on the internet brave enough to say "NEVER" when it comes to domestic violence
dude seriously it's like he's the only lawyer I've ever heard react in a totally human way to current events
I hope this Brian guy isn’t “disappeared “
He needs to go to court to get this girl justice.
And then he deserves to be disappeared.
how do you know he did it? what if he’s murdered somewhere also?
@@J.J.Redick I don't think we can try gators for murder... But, hey, we're talking about Florida, so who knows?
Personally I wish we televised "disappearances" so we can all watch him fade away
You mean retired?
Joey Badass he went back to Florida without her tho
It's so refreshing to hear a man's man tell it like it is about protecting us from the predators among their sex. Much obliged.
Well, he called the outcome of Brian almost perfectly. He ded.
You popped into my feed and I'm loving your take on these cases. I immediately subbed 😊
I'm sure he "diagnosed" her with OCD because he needed it to be her fault that he got mad and abusive. Everything this guy says screams that he has been belittling her and beating up her self esteem. My ex used to rip my car keys and phone out of my hands. I got away before he killed us, thankfully. He was extremely controlling and abusive. Just like this guy. I hope Gabbys dad finds him first.
Yes! Exactly what I thought. She probably asked him nicely a million times to just do his part to keep the van tidy and he turned it around on her saying she was OCD. Narcissistic freak.
Prime example of gaslighting
Paralegal and survivor of domestic violence here! Love your work Sir! Thank you for raising awareness on this topic! 👏😁✨
"Theres nothin' like a good homicide between friends I would say"
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Better advice was never given: "Don't put your hands on a woman, doesn't matter for what reason". If, for whatever reason you think you should, just leave. That simple.
Then, I'd like to add-AND NOT 'DEFENDING' BRIAN NOR VILLIFYING GABBY but I think the PUBLIC IS WRONG to immediately 'go to' that because of 'normal human behavior and the gamut OF those depths of emotion we EACH have, DOES NOT DEFINE HIM-OR ANYONE ELSE-AS A NARCISSISTIC MONSTER!!!! They are both young in managing human relationship and the different values and emotions of each other. They each have different values, perspectives and convictions on different things, etc. They've BEEN ON THIS MONTHS LONG TRIP in CLOSE QUARTERS w/ONLY EACH OTHER to interact with and little breaks for 'me time' and or interaction w/anyone else to keep their own balance of selves. THESE DYNAMICS does not mean ANY PERSON in a relationship that perpetrates aggression that escalates to violence IS A NARCISSIST OR 'MONSTER' IMO. WE'VE ALLLLLLLLLLLL experienced gtg escalated to rage and very POTENTIAL of doing the same things ppl DO in relationships. If/that we decide to LABEL that only ONE TYPE of person does these behaviors is DETRIMENTAL to arriving to any analytical solution when we need to at least include 'how to manage your level of emotions in disagreements' etc. !!!! I think it's HORRIBLY WRONG that ppl are at his parents house 'protestinng' WHEN THEY ARE 'HANGING MOBS'!!!! HIS parents, IMO, MUST and, if humans which they are, having a gamut of confusion and emotions towards many facets! How/what THEY DO feel about Gabby, their own son and HIS actions-what to do n how to feel about THAT-their OWN self protection and/or IF they say anything AT THIS TIME WILL ONLY ADD FUEL to the fire(s) bc Public DOES NOT WANT TO HEAR REASON!!! THEY WANT A HEAD! IDK EITHER how 'evil' he is-I DON'T think he is AS EVIL as another human being REACTING to things he cld not handle. DID HE SNAP? Or IS he a sociopathic narcissistic. These 'studies' into his psychy do not evidence this EITHER BC EVEN THAT only evidences him in HIS PROCESS of figuring out WHAT his values and beliefs are. In THOSE, I see of him a person w/backing off in objective perspective and considering the input from the authors he's, at this point found. Anyway, different personalities, the 'isloation' of each other on a trip over looooong time that is, as it turned out to be, REVELATIONARY of each other and how much their differences were. Their relationship was slowly unraveling those things too which does not make him-or her-'EVIL or MONSTERS!!!! IT'S A TRAGEDY FOR EVERYONE CONCERNED AND COULD HAPPEN TO ANYONE! SO, LET'S ARRIVE TO SOLOUTIONS VIA IDENTIFYING REALITIES VS LYNCH MOBS AND LABELING. THE 'PROTESTORS' AT THE PARENTS HOME ARE....WRONG, DANGEROUS, IGNORANT via jumping to these VERY CONCLUSIONS AND NEED TO BE STOPPED!
Are you single? Lol just kidding 🤣
Just dont fight with ppl, if someone disagrees with u just leave and try to relax
13:22-13:37...I thought that the first time I saw this footage, but haven't seen anyone else call it out until now. Thank you!
Could you do an update on this case…lots of weird stuff that went on with the parents, and is still going on… Would appreciate your take on it, because you’re a real straight-talking lawyer and you say what you think and give reasons for it. Very refreshing.
Thanks
Exactly why they need domestic violence experts and mental health experts at the scene. A domestic violence expert would have seen the many red flags and intervened. Gabby would very possibly be alive today.
You wanted to defund the police? Who's going to pay for them?
@@messrsandersonco5985 I think you misunderstand. He meant that in addition to the police we should have mental health experts involved in cases just like this. If a mental health expert had been on the scene when Brian and Gabby were stopped, they would have seen the red flags of domestic violence. Our police forces aren't trained to understand the signs of DV.
Sure mental health expert, WITH police, NOT instead of!
As if this bus practicable! The police need better training they have literally none on DV
@@messrsandersonco5985 OK, so _"DEFUND"_ does not mean _"DISBAND"_ (or as some people say, _"abolish")._ The phrase "defund the police" means to divert & redirect some of the resources wasted on police - especially stuff they aren't actually trained nor intended to address anyway. (And btw, train them better! Omg!) Put those resources toward various specialists who could help with non-criminal crisis/emergencies (mental health, etc.), as police mostly just fuck it up. (Just see this very video.) Y'know, the _very much a lot_ of stuff that can't be fixed by a self-righteous pr/ck with a gun. Idk why the USA doesn't have this already...
(No, I do, but I don't want to argue with anyone. I'm editorialising a bit, but was just intending on clarifying that initial point, re: maybe understand what the idea even means _before_ freaking out about it. Seems... obvious...)
Certified suburb classic
Lmao
@@CLRBruceRivers thanks for the heart I really enjoy your content
@@CLRBruceRivers how the hell did he reply to the comment before it was posted???
@@LilKenuthia discord mod powers
That's actually fucked up but true lmaooo
Wasn’t even 5 minutes in the video and I loved what you were saying!!! It doesn’t hurt for ppl to be good to each other in general and to compromise and respect each other! So devastating! Ty for sharing and for keeping it so real... #justiceforGabby
“There’s also never ever ever ever a time when something is so bad that you have to kill somebody
that you love, in a domestic way”
Lmao
that was a good one
“Then they try to cover it up and it never never never works”
OJ SIMPSON: AM I INVISIBLE TO YOU?!?
OJ only got off because the city of LA couldn’t afford another race riot after Rodney King.
@@jayclark1551 OJ got off because the dipshit cops planted evidence and ruined their own case.
“ a couple drug dealers and someone needed a good killin’ “ 😂😂😂 this guy is great
I know it shouldn't matter, but seeing how happy and friendly she looks in all the photos breaks my heart even more. She looks so *completely* harmless.
And seeing her being in so much distress in these clips... It really is heartbreaking. Poor girl. 💔
I think one of the things I liked really quickly about Bruce was he seems to be genuinely compassionate.
The police seemed focused on finding a way around doing an domestic arrest and ignored everything else.
Gabby was the one who should have been arrested that day. She might be still alive if she was arrested
“I’m a bored criminal lawyer” never gets old
mate it's board certified CL but now that you said it... bored blicky bruce ftw
@@tnguyen9969 speccy bam spotted
@@imsorryyoutube6774 chewsday innit fucked up teeth detected
Lmao are you serious or making a joke? It's board not bored
😂😂😂
Thank you for your straightforward and educated comments about physical abuse against this young woman, and others. This is exactly the kind of life advice every single young woman should get before she completes high school, or even earlier. Very Important. Thank You.
I am re-watching the video of Gabby and the cops, it saddens me. The anxiety from her voice; it’s as if she had had enough and was holding on a string. She was trying to keep things normal and make him happy, while at the same time belittling herself in order to make him shine. She seemed to be very humble and caring.
Btw, I love the intro song.
She says in the video, “I slapped him to get him to stop telling me to calm down.” To you, is what she described a legal act or domestic violence?
@@skinsfanh88I have not recalled her saying that in the video. However, even if she did, it shows consciousness and responsibility for her own actions. She took the blame for what she did, she acknowledged it, and she showed remorse for it.
According to other witnesses, and a 911 call, Brian was physically abusive to her.
It could be possible that she was exhausted by the many dramas that occurred, and she was tired, and lost control of her actions. In the video, she seemed frantic and scared. This is speculation. The outcome of all of this is death, hence, analysis of behaviours, data on domestic violence, body language, etc… can all attempt to explain what she might have gone through and why she re-acted the way that she did.
Hence, all of this can attest for the probability that her death was as a result of domestic violence, and Brian as the culprit. This is just speculation…
@@cookingwiththehaitiantwist She said that @14:28
@@skinsfanh88 thank you
This case is so upsetting. I live near the park where Brian's remains were found. Practically the entire State of Florida was flooded out for almost a month and a half could have been more. It was just a very strange case. Especially since his remains were found by his parents.
I feel so bad for her. I just wanted to hug her while she was crying
Domestic abuse calls are one of the most dangerous for police to be involved in. Both partners in the end will defend each other and turn on the police.
Yes but it seems that this case happened out in the public I would have had an officer go to wherever they were bc the 911 caller said it was by a place of business or something maybe you can see if there is any video footage you could get your hands on real fast to prove he was hitting her but that's just my opinion..... or maybe arrest her and see if maybe you can help her in some way ..... it's better to be safe than sorry I think they could have taken it way more serious than they did
I mean she's crying he's calm as can be so something isn't adding up in my eyes if I'm those officers not gonna be too mean to then bc I'm sure they feel terrible but let that be a lesson that you can always try to do more without causing them harm
I’ve been In a similar situation to her where I was truly indoctrinated and would’ve said the craziest things to take blame even when it would’ve been physically impossible for me to sustain certain injuries if they were self inflicted. This whole scene is extremely triggering because almost the same thing happened when my mom tried to run in front of a truck after hours and hours of my parents fighting behind closed doors and in front of us in the car. A plainclothes police officer was behind us on the highway off ramp, and talked to my dad (not that much to my mom who was in shock thinking her kids would be taken away if she told the truth about her actions). They just let us all drive off, knowing it was like 400miles back to our house with that much highway and that much time until anyone might even suspect something was wrong again.
I get that legally cops only have so much they can do in particular situations, but it’s just so sad how much pain and harm could be prevented if they had the ability to act sooner rather than act after the fact.
I wonder if a female cop would’ve responded if this would be a different story with how the stop was handled.
I honestly do think they would respond differently. They would understand from a female perspective. I think that one guy cop who talked to her and said he’s been in a toxic relationship was trying to empathize w her, but they definitely could’ve done more :/
that Female stood in front of the Van. She never pulled Gabby to the Side and Asked her wat really Happened or I'm going to Arrest you to Scare her to tell the Truth.
I was thinking the same. I'm pretty sure if they were female officers the outcome would have been different.
NOT NECESSARILY!!!! The dynamics SCREAM these two were STRESSED via their BACK STORY-LONG TRIP, close quarter, MAYBE TALK of breaking up, etc. IF not knnowing the end result, *I* wld've thought and prob done the SAME THING the male policeman did-diffuse the situation, create space, give ultimatum's etc. He DIDN'T cite Gabby for 'the guilt' as he prob DID READ it as best he could...they were CIRCUMSTANTIALLY STRESSED etc and no REAL criminality evidenced...not even that he was or IS 'a narcissist'! His behavior, body moves, expressions COULD HAVE MEANT SEVERAL THINGS AND NOT any sociopathy whatsoever. Cops are PEACEKEEPERS; NOT IN THE MOMENT PSYCHIATRIST AND HAVE TO GO BY BEST JUDGEMENT. NO REAL CRIME HAD BEEN COMMITTED AND IF THEY HAD 'TYPECASTED BRIAN, THEN THERES THAT PUBLIC SOCIETY ARMCHAIR SELF-RIGHTEOUS CRITICS THAT WLD HAVE DICED THAT UP N THROWN AT THEM!!!!
This adds absolutely nothing to the conversation, but the way her voice sounds EXACTLY like my sister in law is absolutely haunting. It's tripping me out.
What do you mean?
Just came across this vid. This event is so shocking. Blind Freddy in the street can see what's happening here. Yet how many cops are there? cops that should be a bit savvy to this situation. Then let them go .. Wow, such a shame.
I think the most despicable part about this from an outsider's perspective was all the people turning this into a race thing. It was truly disgusting how so many didn't care that she's missing or that she was found dead or that Brian fled or that his parents tried to cover for him, instead during an active missing persons case and then an active homicide investigation people for some reason felt the need to say "Well if she was black..." or variations of that.
That part always stuck out to me. Not just the argument but the amount of people saying it. "If she was black then no one would care", "The only reason it became a national news story is because she's a white woman". Of course they're oblivious to the fact that they were disproving their argument by doing exactly what they tried to criticize.
Sorry for the rant but this has pissed me off when going back to the case.
Thank you Bruce Rivers for a very real and raw breakdown of the body cam footage which ultimately ended in tragedy.
Never would have known about you had I not stumbled across this video. After watching this and your other videos I now know some things are really meant to be. You have opened my eyes to things currently going on in my own life that now make sense. Huge regards!
"You never put your fuckin hands on a woman. EVER"
WE. STAN. 💖
Bruce Rivers criminal lawyer 2021:"Theres nothing like a good homicide, you know what I'm saying?"
My abusive ex would frame any time he put his hands on a woman (all his exes, the myself) as him trying to subdue a “hysterical” woman. I.e. “she was upset and acting crazy so I took her keys/bear hugged her/held her down/pushed her away.” People need to realize that these actions are abuse and abusers will code it this way because OF COURSE no one is going to incriminate themselves on purpose.
In this specific situation, she admitted physically assaulting him multiple times and slapping him to get him to stop telling her to calm down. Is her slapping him legal? Do you believe domestic violence from a woman to a man is right? I personally believe nobody should assault anyone. It appears you disagree as you completely ignored her assaulting him multiple times.
@@skinsfanh88 look at the difference in size and muscle mass in these two people. Do you honestly think she could inflict serious injury by slapping him? What about the reverse situation? ( In case you don't want to answer that, it resulted in her death).
@@katella So, as long as a person is weaker than another person physically they should be allowed and authorized to physically assault the other person with no consequences. Great point! 👍
I arrived here because of the Heard/Depp trial and now I am hopelessly binging on this Channel. Bruce is so eloquent I feel like Jamie in "A fish called Wanda"...
8:24 it's so horrible when you put it in to perspective like that. So sad she died hopefully they put him away for the rest of his life.
shouldnt defend your abusers lol
@@coveredinherintestines666 I’d do more research. The psychological damage of being love bombed, then abused, with it constantly escalating. Your mind is practically trained to bend to their abusers every wish and need. The victim full fills a role. Does Gabby have some to blame for her situation? Absolutely, but her actions for defending him is justified. We have no idea what he would do to her after he was released from being detained. He’s already proven to be dangerous.
@@emilyqaqish9823 I dont care, she got what she had coming for defending that PoS, she won the ultimate game for bending over for a mega loser
@@coveredinherintestines666 bait
@@coveredinherintestines666 And I am telling you now, I don’t care how correct, you think you are. This is my final message.
In my eyes you will always be in the wrong and someone who will never understand abusive circumstances.
You don’t give a shit? Good for you one less thing to worry about in your life.
Now move on with you careless life. You can’t change my opinion, nor can I change yours.
I guess you weren’t the big loser and didn’t die in this scenario but we both will be dead at one point or another. Humans are so flawed we can’t live forever.
In the end we all losers because we live in a broken society and laugh at those who get tricked into abuse, yet we do nothing about it.
Don’t worry you’ll end up dead just like her, maybe not just from abuse. And yes everyone will forget both us. Hope your ready, good luck fellow loser. No one cares and perhaps that’s a relief to you.
It breaks my heart seeing her cry and keep apologizing. If I was able to help her that day, I would have taken her wifh me.
I’m so surprised that these officers didn’t see that she was in a very abusive relationship
That whole scene gonna make the cops regret their entire career/lives for the rest of their lives. Gonna wish they handled everything different if they had the correct training to respond to domestic / narcissistic / mental health. I hope all officers use this as a some sort of training video on what not to do to prevent future problems
they probably wont even remember it, you give em too much credit. Theyve seen worse cases more than likely
Seriously we really need a way to identify narcissists and keep them away from people until there is a cure for their BS. All they know how to do is create misery and pain.
Most states cops have 6 months training before they are in the field. Maybe if they had proper acadamy education i.e 4 years Then they’d probably get training that would stop this
@@quickschweezy Well, I bet these cops can correctly spell “academy”, so they must have received better training than a expert criminal profiler such as yourself.
They wont. Cops abuse people all the time, and watch the footage with popcorn.
Wow, I’ve only seen clips of this interaction so far, and had never seen the part where she indicates where she had been hit by him! I didn’t fault the police officers before, but now I do. To treat her like the aggressor, when they had a 9-1-1 call saying he’d been hitting HER, and he has marks on his hand? If they’d arrested him, maybe she’d still be alive. Instead, they were on his side, and you can see that it emboldened him. He was laughing with the cops, knowing they thought she was the abuser. Unreal.
Same feathers gather together (Brian and the cop that determinated Gabby as the aggressor where it was all over written in her behavior that she was the victim no the aggressor )
WITNESSES ARE MORE OFTEN WRONG THAN NOT. THEY HAVE TO GO BY WHAT 'SHE SAID'!
@@michaelpalumbo4880what about the 911 call by the witnesses?
Hey, Liverpool UK 🇬🇧 here. New sub. I find you refreshing and the fact you swear is a bonus, too 😁. Not like our stuffy Brit lawyers 😆
Edit - This case is truly heartbreaking, and shoulda woulda coulda might have spared her life. Rest in Peace Gabby. I hope that pos is found alive and brought to justice ⚖️
Dude, Ive worked in British law firms my whole adult life and I have NEVER heard anyone swear the way British lawyers swear around the office... They just dont swear in court.
@@camillagilmore1547 I'm on about swearing on UA-cam.
Down to earth explanation of what going on.
The first time I watched the body cam, I had no idea the police were responding to a call that a witness saw Brian slapping Gabby. So I thought at first they made the right call. Finding out about the witness was infuriating! The police dropped the ball and completely ignored the witness account. They should be aware of abuser/abused dynamics.
Actually they were responding to a call of Gabby assaulting Brian. If you watch the whole video the police officer calls the witness who confirms Gabby was punching Brian. A second witness called who didn't see the whole incident take place and was driving only saw Brian defending himself and didn't see Gabby punching Brian because he was driving
If anything Gabby should have been charged with domestic violence!
@Chris Yanover - Even still, who knows what led up to her hitting him? He may have struck her first & she fought back. No one knows until you separate the pair & really invest in asking the right questions.
The fact that he murdered her, steals all the air out of the room.
On September 19, Petito's remains were found in Wyoming's Bridger-Teton National Forest. An autopsy found that she was killed by manual strangulation. After a month of speculation around Laundrie's whereabouts, and an extended search of the area around his home, his skeletal remains were discovered in Florida's Myakkahatchee Creek Environmental Park on October 20. It was confirmed by an autopsy on November 23 that Laundrie had died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound to the head, and the FBI later announced that he had admitted to killing Petito in his notebook, which was found near his remains.
You're absolutely incorrect if you believe domestic violence never happens against men.
I am a man. I was in a violent relationship. Not only did she scratch, punch me, threw things at me, try to run me over with her car, at one point she threatened me with a knife. I had to literally hold the knife with my bare hands to prevent her from stabbing me. As I did, she pulled it back nearly severing my thumb off. As I laid there bleeding, applying pressure on one hand with the other, unable to call 911, she freaks out and calls the police and tell them "my husband is bleeding... I had a knife, we were arguing." You can immediately hear the 911 operator assume she was being beaten up even after hearing her say this.
This complete bias needs to stop. Women are aggressive towards men. This happens. This happens a lot. Assuming the guy is the automatically the perpetrator of domestic violence is wrong.
Agreed. What you went through sounds horrible. I hope you made it out of that relationship with the least amount of mental and physical damage possible.
Yeah. We just saw that in the Depp trial. She was a violent psycho. But her lies were believed....until she was forced to testify. Sorry you went thru this.
love the elvis cuffs! sad situation about her. prayers to the family!! i lost my daughter a few years ago luckily they caught the killers and they are behind bars. it's heartwrenching to a parent and i can only imagine how they and her family feel and to know he's still on the run karma always comes around!
The first few minutes of this video made me have so much respect for you! You are 100% right, keep your hands off of woman there is no reason for it! I look at my wife and my daughter and can’t believe that things like that happen. No matter what would happen I could never even imagine doing somthing like that. Not only do I love them with all my heart and respect them as woman. Just the physical difference between me and a woman is just so unfair it’s disgusting to picture a man beating up a woman. Please every guy out there respect all woman and if they’re doing something that makes you feel like your going to put your hands on them separate yourself from them and call the cops if needed.
It's so crazy to hear you say, "I wouldn't be surprised if he takes his own life." Called it. It would be interesting to see you react to the lawsuit of the Petitos Vs Laundries in Florida.
Salt on the wound knowing his parents helped him.
To see her cry in such despair it was heartbreaking I can only try to feel the pain her parents experienced watching this . Her one fear was he would leave her alone there and he did he left her alone and dead
Or she was pulling a play from Amber Hurd's book. She admitted to domestic violence, he didn't. He had marks on him, she didn't.
Thank you for talking to the men about this, Bruce. As a DV/SV survivor, I think we (society) really need to do a better job of educating our young men about that. You can ruin two two lives in the blink of an eye.
Roles are reversed often. You should really apply the same standard to women as well. Otherwise it's sexiest.
No hands on a woman, PERIOD. No cap Bruce on that real shit.
I remember an incident in Corona California back in 1993. I lived in an apartment. One Sunday afternoon I heard a woman screaming bloody-murder because her BF was beating the shit out of her. I called the cops. They didn't respond. A few hours later I was walking across the parking lot and a Corona PD cruiser was driving through. I stopped the cop and asked him about that incident and he said they were aware of it. He said they won't do anything about it because the woman sides with the BF everytime they get called out. He said, "... we're just waiting for him to kill her, then we'll take care of it". I figured, OK! I never tried to help her again.
Do Gabby's parents have a shot at a lawsuit against the Moab police? I feel like they ignored all the classic signs of abuse here.
It makes me so glad whenever a man uses his platform to address other men about domestic violence ❤
Eerie feeling watching this video that dude Brian seemed too calm and eager to get on with something so sick
Best analysis available. I’m a business attorney and I learn a lot from Bruce.
A “man” who feels the need to beat his significant other is not a man.
you mean murder
Does a woman beating a man make her a man?
She wasn’t exactly an angel
@@the_real_idoit8166 She was covering for him, isn't that obvious to you?
@@the_real_idoit8166 doesn’t matter. You don’t kill assholes just for being assholes. You walk away.
Your isight of domestic abusive is incredible. I've been in an abusive relationship and agree with everything you said
Bruce Rivers real classy man appreciate your insight. RIP Gabby
Thank you, Bruce, for not dancing around the issue and trying to placate people by saying, "BUT WOMEN DO IT TOO!". We know. But when you have a raging worldwide epidemic, from the beginning of human history, of men sending women to the hospital or to the grave, we should probably deal with that before we tackle the common cold. "With great power comes great responsibility", and no one should leverage their power to prey on the weak. It's just as simple as that.