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Facts. I'm going through it right now fam. I just need a hug but I'm going get back up. It just suck I went so hard for someone who never liked me but like what I can do for her. I'm woke now
A woman told my bro one time “ I would not date you but I would marry you “. TF is wrong with these chicks. He told her no thanks and moved on same day👌🏽. #realtalk
naldoalex056 simple bro she just sees him as the beta provider type and wouldn’t mind to lock him in for the resources but is clearly not attracted to him sexually. Nothing wrong with her that’s just female nature
I'm 21 and a lightskinned chick red-pilled me too when I was 18 smh. I learned from my mistakes though and you're brave for telling your story dude. Keep up the great work
Ur lucky that broad sent u that article dude. I married my highschool sweetheart and 17yrs later I was flat broke wanting to kill myself. All them yrs I was the nice guy workin 60hr wks while she stayed home with the kids blowin $. Im glad u puttin these videos out. Young men need to realize the truth before its too late. I preach the same shit to my son.
No need for sorry, I allowed it to happen. I was weak but now Im strong. Im thankful for the red pill way of life. And ppl like Stephon that educate young men on how women can play a man. Dont even get me started on family court, and how they help a woman fuck u more. Stay strong and intelligent fellas. Dont follow ur heart. It will make u weak af fr.
I’ll all good brothers. I spent ages 20-25 living with a girl and giving my all and went through the same bullshit as yall. I’m just glad I didn’t marry or impregnate
Did you cheat on her? I wish all the red pills and MGTOW would talk about how men cheated and the infidelity that cause a lot of women to initiate divorce
Crazy that u say that cuz now that I’m over my ex I learned that I was blinded by her beauty and it was really all she had to offer.I learned my lesson though never again.
There’s no such thing as bad women, or good women. There’s only women. Y’all will do anything when the opportunity comes. You can’t teach loyalty, you gotta be in your DNA.
@@mmarcjp5057 loyalty can so be taught, up bringing only influences people personalities all the time. I agree that if opportunities come about women may take upon, but to say men aren’t the same ? Humans in general are. Some can be more than others and some make not risk because they think twice before losing what is worth it to them
@@Femininelovevibes loyalty cannot be taught. You can’t teach someone how to be loyal to you. If they weren’t loyal in the beginning no matter what speech you give them, no matter how you treat them. They will betray you. Unless you willing to buy fake love.
Intellectual brotha I’ve never had a girlfriend to be honest and I know about red pill for months idk why that’s crazy and I’ve never ever been a nice guy ever all been an asshole charisma and everything idk what’s going on
Don't be embarrassed about any mistakes you made especially in your early twenties or teens. You are supposed to make mistakes in those years and learn from them. Nobody is prefect out here.
couldnt have said it better. every level up experience is another pill added. unfotrnuelty the only way to level up is to go through these experiences or completely deflect them.
adrian jennings. I know exactly what your saying. I went through some bad experiences in my past, now I’m on a complete resurgence. Some people don’t even recognize who I am anymore.
It’s easy to smile when you know your slap can send someone to the emergency room. People walk around talking shit like they are bullet proof sometimes. That’s why I respect gangsters and police officers alike; they punish the arrogance.
As a man who went through something similar in High School, I have tremendous respect for this video. As men, we normally don't expose our heartbreaks to the world, and are told to "man up & keep shit inside." Hearing your experience transported me back to my own heartbreak. It was such a dark period of time that I had to stop dating ALL women, so I could get my emotions under control, before I really did something I'd regret. Thanks for sharing.
You taught me so much. I can’t explain my gratitude towards you. Had a woman break my heart just the same, treated her like royalty and made her my world. Cried to me all the time and i was always there for her every time. Crazy love. Later on, me and my parents got into a fight over me helping them out. I was always helping them with money but they were never putting the money to good use so i just stopped sending it. Ended up calling me and telling me that they couldn’t care less if i died anymore and that i shouldn’t show up to their funeral... broke down so hard that day, never would’ve thought my family could say some shit like that. Decided I’d go to her house and talk to her about it since I’ve been there for her so much, right? Went to her house calm, collected, not crying or anything. Knocked on her door, she came out and before i could even tell her that my life just fell appart she goes “Should i call you a taxi or are you gonna go home?” I stood there for a whole minute just dumbfounded. I’ve never so shocked in my life... after helping her financially and supporting her emotionally she dropped me like nothing. Like i was dirt. Went through a whole year or depression and therapy 2 times a week to get over it. Was at the point of killing myself countless times this year. Throughout the last few weeks I’ve been watching a ton of your videos and i want you to know that you just made sense of every single relationship and situation I’ve ever run into with women. I’m a simp and i never knew it, i put way to much value on them and put them on a pedestal. But that ends now. From here on out I’m going to be as cold as ice. People will learn to fucking respect me. Thank you, Steph.
I feel you on dat brother real talk I’m sorry that happened to you having a girl that you genuinely cared for & saw like your own backstab you when you needed them the most hurts. I been there brodie was already goin threw a lot in life & to have that 1 incident happen pushed me into a dark place in my life depression is a real life thing almost lost my life one night but god saved me. life too short only get 1 gotta live it keep the Most High 1st always 🙏 they might’ve left your side by God won’t. I pray that you and anyone reading this heals from all the past traumas & wounds & may the Holy Spirit guide you throughout the journey! 🙏
Ima say this, there is a difference between a nice guy and a good guy. Nice guys don’t know their value and seek validation from women they want to be with, they go above and beyond and blindly see what society tells him “buy flowers” “take her out” “be a gentleman aka sucka shit. A good guy knows his worth and draws the line in the sand and sees a woman for what she is, and had no problem cutting her off and moving on to the next best thing. Good guys can have confidence, and are in tune with who they are. Nice guys are who society wants them to be. You don’t gotta be an asshole really but you don’t have to put up with the bullshit either, cause some guys don’t have it in them to be that way. Be you and set boundary’s no matter how bad the broad is be astute to her behavior, think in abundance and know if one broad is lost you’ll get another one. Thanks Steph for the insight fam. Salute.
KingJugganaut19 that’s facts man, I agree with Steph and his ideologies. But let’s be real fam, not every man has it in them to do what he does or go red pill. I think you can be a good guy (not a nice guy) but just know your worth and play to your strengths. Simps and nice guys don’t know their worth.
Stephon Clinkscales Not at all bro, I’m just saying most guys don’t have it in them to go down that path. This is years of conditioning some won’t wake up out of. Movies, TV etc. tell us what should be done with women. They treat it like a TV show where you have a dude go for a girl and the girl turns him down right? This all happens in season 1. Then dudes think by season 4 she will come to her senses and realize after bad relationships and getting smashed into oblivion, she will come back they like that shit. Dead ass I got more pussy not taking women out on dates.
Stephon Clinkscales I accept the game for what it is, and it’s not a game for nice guys. Learned that years ago man. But your channel helped me understand that self improvement is the first step. I’m on day 17 of nofap man and had to make that change, I feel hungrier to get in the gym and get shit done. So I’m starting with that first before anything. You have no idea how much these videos help.
I know the feeling of heartbreak all too well. Back at uni in 2009, I met this girl who I thought would be the one. So I asked her if we can spend time together and she seemed interested as we exchanged numbers. But I later realised that she really only wanted me to help her with assignments while she was seeing someone else. I saw her embraced other guy at the clubs, wishing it was me that was with her. I even waited past midnight for her like the simp that I was. I was so heartbroken that I couldn’t even sleep at night and was on the verge of tears. Then I thought to myself, if I really did care about her but she wanted the other guy, then who was I to get in the way. Now that I have taken the red pill, I realised how making a woman your world will leave you as a satellite orbiting around her. Never again, purpose first!
Man, not many people would share their experiences with the world in order to prevent it happening to others. It takes real courage and self confidence. Thanks, my G.
I have seen a bunch of Steph's videos, but never subscribed to him until today. The fact that he displayed his story with such confidence and comfort made me respect him so much more. This is the type of shit many men want to do with women, but they know she will lose attraction or use it against him. This man has grown so much since then and this is what it takes to get there. Respect.
Ayo you real for this bro. I felt this. All the emotional investment just does the opposite of what we’re hoping for. At the end of the day we gotta be grateful for these experiences at these young ages tho cause a lot of dudes don’t be waking up until their first or second divorce. We got the opportunity to milk the game for all its got and we only in the first quarter of this shit. Keep doin ya thing. Salute.
KG you right. Females don't know how fucking with a man emotions is like a time bomb. A man that is truly into a female is 💯 in, he will simp, bend over and do what he can to win her, to prove himself. It's just by nature bruh because you look at courting earlier on in history. Somewhere females switch off this path. Screw over a man that was in 💯 will emotional scare him for life. Females just look for quick fixes, short term, and materialistic. In the end men evolved to red pill and dating is all screw up.
@@mikewill1740 I agree I had a bad experience myself but its best to learn these lessons without being married or having kids. When a man is single and has no responsibilities other than himself we can methamorphis into a total beast.
Steph, I did that crying shit too bro. At this point in my life, I'll tell anybody DO NOT cry in front of no female period! If you gotta cry, man do that shit when you're alone and keep it moving afterwards. I applaud you because you're light years ahead of the game at the age of 21. That's crazy. Is your bday on Aug 5th? I got the same birthday bro
She really put you on the game that you needed fam, that second one. First one just needed to happen to let you know these females be ready for the ham sausage no matter what they say
Damn... that tough. Respect for sharing your stories. It’s unfortunate that people have to go through shit like this, but hopefully it doesn’t prevent you from having someone in your life that provides you with enough value to keep around one day.
Young man, I listen to you daily. Just found you on UA-cam so I'm binge watching to catch up. But I am 42 years old and I'm inspired by your honesty and information about learning how to effectively communicate with women. Thanks bro
I remember when my brother was dating this woman, l was around 13. I told him several times she was a woman of the streets. He didn’t listen and for some stupid reason he continued loving her. I saw through the bull. But men are always in love with looks and no value. He was sorely hurt over her. I just looked at him. I learned just by watching the men in my life make stupid decisions when choosing women. The women l told them to stay with, they broke their hurts, and they were good women. The women who treated them horribly, they loved. I never understood that. But lm grateful that l learned by watching them. 😂😂😂
My big sister did the same thing for me back in high school. Fell in love with a thot after my sister told me she wasn’t the right girl for me. I told her to stay out of my business and that’s exactly what she did😂. Wish I would’ve listened to her till this day!
Shout out to my moms she really put me on game and red pilled me when I was young about the the girls I used to date. I ain’t listen and had to learn the hard way.
10 months ago, a girl and I had a serious relationship. My dumbass was super emotional and all in love with her. One day I question her bout this one guy she be hanging around, and she said she was just a friend. Same night she asking me to break up with her, and im like, "no baby I love youu😭", she forced a break up, and my dumb ass said I would wait for her, next day I wake up, see that she with that guy, that was a so called friend, and now they fucking and shit. I aint never felt my heart feel so heavy in my chest, on that day, I knew I had to change my ways, on that day I became cold asf. I started watching Steph, and learning more and more about female nature, and real talk on how to go from beta to alpha, its been a long and worthwhile painful experience, but here I am 10 months later on my shit, thank god I turned cold 🙏❄at the time of the experience I was 17, I am now 18, glad to have learnt such at a young age. Shout out Steph, Mj get right and fitxfearless, for all the giudance, Yall have changed my life🙏❄
I've been solo dolo for 4 years and after seeing this it gave me flashbacks of my past relationships and they all got me no where but just being cheated on and being treated like shit. After binge-watching all your videos I'm taking your advice day by day piece by piece so I won't have to go through the same mistake again. I'm still gonna do me at the end of day
Goddamn Steph. Looking back on my heart break, it made me realize some ppl take the redpill more brutal then others. It made me appreciate life with the time that we have left, and many so called MGTOW and Redpill dudes don’t pass that black pilled mindset. Damn Steph, no wonder you go so hard on these vids and working out. That bullshit you went through gave you motivation for life. Now it’s one thing to tell the story, but to live it and remember what happened feels so damn unreal after you have took the redpill. By the way, being able to speak on this publicly is not easy for most guys to do. I really wanna shake your hand for this video man. It’s crazy how we’ve been setup to fail. But lucky for some of us, we learned early. The redpill is like a blessing in disguise....
Great timing I was with my ex for 4 years and we did all those first time couple things ,we had it all after not seeing her for 1 year and soon to visit her she cut me out and told me we done cuz she needs to grow🙄 what bs she legit left me with the flight tickets in my hand and in the dust she tryed friend zoning me soon after but I said nah, my heart is in so much pain but I gotta move on if she wanna grow she can, but I'm gonna grow too😁red pill and god helped me more then ever so did your channel, thank you for your vids💯if someone wants to be with you they will no matter what!stay confident and blessed peeps
Damn bro, you always make great content but this one is just next level. Made my heart hurt. Was 17 years old at the time. Remember sending flowers and writing poems to a girl because she thought "It's so romantic." Claimed that she loved nice guys who are polite and that she "didn't mind me being big because I'm open minded." Used to call her 4-5 times a day, text her to say "I miss you" all the typical beta shit. Girl also claimed she was a virgin. Used to have a lot of male friends and said "I just get along better with guys." Would always have me come to her house, would never take the time to come to my place. After realizing I'm getting finessed I say I'm about to break up. She starts roping me back in kissing me and shit. I'm hooked and then she claims " I'm tired. " Even after all this bullshit of being taken for granted and getting shitted on I was still hoping for something magical to happen. I get a video later on from some anonymous dude showing her getting buss down by like 3 dudes. I red pilled immediately.
Man that first girl sound like a super villain, but at the same time its probably the best thing to happen to you so young. Imagine you didn't red-pill until you're in your late 30s? This experience has set you up on the road to multi-millionaire status and mental clarity about your purpose. Respect.
This just goes to show the best of the best/advanced in the game at any area of life once was a beginner. It comes to a point when u realize there's a choice to make whereby in due time you'll progressively become the persona you aspire to be with the right disciplined actions. I always pity people who embody the victim demeanor because their self pity thoughts brings them the same undesirable reality everyday. I'm far from my desired reality, but every single day I feel closer due to working on growth in all areas of my life.
You shouldn’t pity them but understand and hopefully along the way you can uplift them if you can relate. We’ve all been down and out and sometimes it’s deep. But you’re right, you gotta dig within though and pull your self out, that’s the harsh reality and it takes time for some people who are just on their own to gather that strength.
We all been there bro. Just got to used are mistakes to make us stronger and learn. The more you care about them the less they care about you. The less you care the more they care it's straight backwards but women don't make since anyways.
Yeah THIS is the video. Hit me hard cause the woman that broke my heart caused me to turn red pill. It hurt but glad to have experienced that cause I’m a changed man for the better. Steph you cold.
good story bro, knew light skin chicks were nothing but trouble since i was young. Never dated one, but was always aware of the way they rejected and act when guys approached them especially darker skin male. They were mostly interested in light skin guy with same complexion. But the script has turned now, they chase after darker skin men now..
Mixed lightskin girls have identity issues da 1s i encounter either hate theyself or think 2 highly of themself, the lightskin girls that are black ive had no problems with
Oh baby you....you got what I neeeeed, but you say he's just a friend. You say he's just a friend. Damn bro, dont trip. Everybody has a story about being shot through hot grease by some chick. Except me of course. But you back in the game. I see you playa. You got to go through it to get to it mayne! And you definitely went through it.
This story really touched me bro, mad respect for speaking on that g I know a lotta niggas be hiding their past L’s to come across as if they perfect but truth is no human is perfect
I feel you steph i know your pain bro because i remember one time i took this girl out eat at this restaurant and i didn't have enough money to pay for the dinner and i cried to bro so i respect you for being honest about it
A Woman i was seeing, Made a phone call to me that she didnt want to see me again, over a video i made, on my channel talking about female nature! I said "Okay" I never talked to her again... Thanks for your honesty Steph...
Damn bruh I never really had too many experience because I am a virgin but damn this help me a lot to get through things before I really deal with women
Appreciate your honesty! Your exactly right being the "Good Guy or Nice Guy" gets you nowhere in this life! I'm not saying be an "AssHole" but MEN need to learn how to Move and or Operate in this life by being more Selfaware and Conscious of the world we living in when it comes to the opposite sex! The earlier young men learn this the better off they'll BE!
Thank you for being honest and not trying to act hard or like you never went through shit and have always been strong. Really appreciate it. 2019 ain't gon have no cryin. Business only. Get up, dust off and keep it moving.
At least she was real enough to put you on some game with that nice guy article. Most women say one thing and do another. Lmao. Oan. 10.8 is hella fast!!!
@c4zero na i was in a fellowship program she was covering our expense s like food+rent+transportation but her ex is from a wealthy family and he got money.. so she was making more money currently than me...
The things you go through in life with women, Will either make you or break you. I see it as game recognizes game. If you short yourself in any area of your life. It's time to reevaluate your decisions. If she can't add value to your status, cut her loose. Hard Times makes Better Men.
This is this a gem, I didn't laugh at all, this is really sad, I can't imagine how hard it was fam, but I glad I've been learning so much from you brhuuu
This shit real af fam, the fact that you putting it out there...and trust a lot of us niggas been through the same situation if not worst. That’s why we are who we are now 💪🏽
Steph thank you for telling us your story. Sorry that happened to you dude. But I have to say (clapping) congratulations and kudos to you for how far you've come and how much people you help with advice on a daily basis. Respect sent your way man.
Appreciate you fam...only a real OG can show his face and put out his weakest and most beta moments to the world. We all have a story and its sad that most of us have a story just like yours. Anybody reading this, dont blame yourself brother - we were sold a lie...our mothers, sisters, aunties, so called friends - they all jumped on that social narrative and sold us the blue pill game that was one big lie. Im glad i found the truth and luckily even at 34 i have time to make it better, some will never find the truth an some will even refuse it. Most guys find the red pill through a tragic scenario or deep trauma, normally involving a female who they idolised or at the bare minimum had one-itis for and thought 'she could do no wrong'. Like you said as well, you learn more about women by being the side guy vs being the main guy. It was a girl that made me cry that brought me to the red pill - never before in my life had i questioned myself, my principles, my ego....everything. It was a big wake up call but ultimately as much as it hurt im glad it got me to where i am today.
Only a man with true confidence woulda exposed his embarrassing past much respek to this bredrin
Only real men are capable of that
Truss me bro
True
A di genna
Not embarrassing it’s jus mfs literally get lied to by adults about how to approach life
Glad I’m learning this at 15
Damn
you lucky bastard lol best luck to you bro.
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I was 15 when I had my heartbroken I wish I knew this info b4 that u lucky man
17 still in high school learning
The one that breaks you the hardest teaches you the most. I’m thankful
Alex Ward on me
Facts
Facts
Facts
Being thankful is the only way
Real men have heartbreak too, A woman’s Love is never true, she only love the things you can do for her and how you make her feel
True
Facts. I'm going through it right now fam. I just need a hug but I'm going get back up. It just suck I went so hard for someone who never liked me but like what I can do for her. I'm woke now
Hows that true 😂😂😂😂 tfq is wrong with red pill
This is the realest shit I ever heard G
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If you read this I hope you have a great life!
u too g
Likewise dawg
Gd looking playa, likewise!
Peace
Peace kings 👑
I can tell you still hurting from that my g 😂 mad emotions in this vid
The emotions there as a motivation to keep going
Big faxxx yo.
Ofcourse were human .
@Mr. Kool Aid Man man stfu.
@Mr. Kool Aid Man lmao shut up
even tupac was a nice guy so every men including myself been thru it
Tupac was a industry plant sorry to say but its true
Aint got no love 4 these bitches cause they Just wanna play
what do you mean he was?
He started out a simp but developed game later
@@brenegadde1278 Shut your dumb ass up
Once that shit happened to me 6 years ago my mangekyo sharingan opened
Dang, I love that
Ayye I was just about to comment that. How you get your regular sharingan then?
$elfishbeats left on read.
Such a good comment, I love that
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A woman told my bro one time “ I would not date you but I would marry you “. TF is wrong with these chicks. He told her no thanks and moved on same day👌🏽. #realtalk
naldoalex056 simple bro she just sees him as the beta provider type and wouldn’t mind to lock him in for the resources but is clearly not attracted to him sexually. Nothing wrong with her that’s just female nature
Yh bro husband material = beta provider = cleanup man
He should have sleep with her then move on - you don't have to consent to womans damage
Bet she tryna fuck with him now that he showed he wasn’t about to tolerate her bs.
She was goofy dizzy chick smh lol damn just when I thought I heard it all
I'm 21 and a lightskinned chick red-pilled me too when I was 18 smh. I learned from my mistakes though and you're brave for telling your story dude. Keep up the great work
Ur lucky that broad sent u that article dude. I married my highschool sweetheart and 17yrs later I was flat broke wanting to kill myself. All them yrs I was the nice guy workin 60hr wks while she stayed home with the kids blowin $. Im glad u puttin these videos out. Young men need to realize the truth before its too late. I preach the same shit to my son.
Damn homie sorry to hear that i been there too,, not 17 years but im rebuilding now
No need for sorry, I allowed it to happen. I was weak but now Im strong. Im thankful for the red pill way of life. And ppl like Stephon that educate young men on how women can play a man. Dont even get me started on family court, and how they help a woman fuck u more. Stay strong and intelligent fellas. Dont follow ur heart. It will make u weak af fr.
I’ll all good brothers. I spent ages 20-25 living with a girl and giving my all and went through the same bullshit as yall. I’m just glad I didn’t marry or impregnate
Bronson Crampron
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Did you cheat on her? I wish all the red pills and MGTOW would talk about how men cheated and the infidelity that cause a lot of women to initiate divorce
Man I just had flashback in my head about why I’m red pill.
Yeah man you was super simping, their beauty had u caught up. We’ve all been there before.
Zo Pound no cap tho
I can relate ma G
Crazy that u say that cuz now that I’m over my ex I learned that I was blinded by her beauty and it was really all she had to offer.I learned my lesson though never again.
It happens to the best of us
trueeeeeeee
Heart break hurts. It’s sad how bad woman turn nice guys into ego bruised maniacs that want to hurt all woman. Ughh
There’s no such thing as bad women, or good women. There’s only women. Y’all will do anything when the opportunity comes. You can’t teach loyalty, you gotta be in your DNA.
@@mmarcjp5057 loyalty can so be taught, up bringing only influences people personalities all the time. I agree that if opportunities come about women may take upon, but to say men aren’t the same ? Humans in general are. Some can be more than others and some make not risk because they think twice before losing what is worth it to them
virtue signaling 🥴 u r delusional😵 af
Absolutely bruh u cant teach loyalty. Wtf how u gonna take a course on loyalty?
@@Femininelovevibes loyalty cannot be taught. You can’t teach someone how to be loyal to you. If they weren’t loyal in the beginning no matter what speech you give them, no matter how you treat them. They will betray you. Unless you willing to buy fake love.
We all been there bro! But because of that our savage mode has been activated.
I had girls that I liked and it never went anywhere. But i never have been heartbroken because I never invested in a chick who didn't like me back.
Intellectual brotha I’ve never had a girlfriend to be honest and I know about red pill for months idk why that’s crazy and I’ve never ever been a nice guy ever all been an asshole charisma and everything idk what’s going on
Darrion Mccombs you have been blessed not to fall into society’s pitfall for men brotha.
That's all it takes fam
@@mac1bc Yup 👌👌👌
Don't be embarrassed about any mistakes you made especially in your early twenties or teens. You are supposed to make mistakes in those years and learn from them. Nobody is prefect out here.
I used to be nice like Groot from Guardians of the Galaxy.
Now I’m arrogant and savage like Thanos. I’m collecting red pills like Infinity Stones.
couldnt have said it better. every level up experience is another pill added. unfotrnuelty the only way to level up is to go through these experiences or completely deflect them.
adrian jennings. I know exactly what your saying. I went through some bad experiences in my past, now I’m on a complete resurgence. Some people don’t even recognize who I am anymore.
Haha!
No I am Thanos
Ayyeeeee
A single mother broke my heart 😿😿😿
Did u not learn nothing from this man G? NEVER FW SINGLE MOMS ONLY USE EM FOR FK PURPOSES
The track story a lot dudes may look over. But that’s how powerful we are when we get on our purpose. We’ve all been there though smh.
Facts my best 110m hurdles times were when I was pissed off or in my feelings it was never when everything was going right
Look up David Goggins 100 mile march
The one that broke me happened this year and I'm 34 damn
honestly better sooner rather than later but at least youre aware man. you can still go out and claim whats yours my g
Same
It takes a BIG MAN to air out something of this magnitude.... I laughed hard as shit all the way thru. Glad you woke now. Shalawam
Marcus what does Shalawam mean bruh?
@@IllDawgable it means peace be unto you in Hebrew, Shalawam my brother
@@IllDawgable Peace
@@mrrealtalk4901 Thank you King. Do you know where online I can learn Hebrew?
@@IllDawgable Shalawam, I'm not to sure about that. I'd say go and google how to learn Paleo Hebrew
I see why he so red pill my man was OD’n on the blue ones 😂
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😂😂😂😂😂
She was playing PARTYNEXTDOOR on you 😭😭😭
Cold blooded
RECOGNIZE
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Is that by Drake???
@@mctow8554 PARTYNEXTDOOR ft Drake
Thanks for sharing! What pisses me off about women like this is they'll want a nice guy once they are a few kids in deep and no walls! foh!
heart break turned me into majin vegeta
His *PRIIIIIIIIIIIIIIDE!!*
Lmao
On god
Lmfaoo me too
It’s easy to smile when you know your slap can send someone to the emergency room.
People walk around talking shit like they are bullet proof sometimes.
That’s why I respect gangsters and police officers alike; they punish the arrogance.
As a man who went through something similar in High School, I have tremendous respect for this video. As men, we normally don't expose our heartbreaks to the world, and are told to "man up & keep shit inside."
Hearing your experience transported me back to my own heartbreak. It was such a dark period of time that I had to stop dating ALL women, so I could get my emotions under control, before I really did something I'd regret.
Thanks for sharing.
Good guys come in last.. this is why i stop been that good guy.. females do not want that good guy no matter what they say..
I learnd the hard way.
Facts
Me too.
Good guys aren't even in the race man, it's just sad facts
@@aurorac9659 fuck that bs lady you dont know us we know female nature though, you women dont give af about us but yourselfs.
You taught me so much. I can’t explain my gratitude towards you. Had a woman break my heart just the same, treated her like royalty and made her my world. Cried to me all the time and i was always there for her every time. Crazy love. Later on, me and my parents got into a fight over me helping them out. I was always helping them with money but they were never putting the money to good use so i just stopped sending it. Ended up calling me and telling me that they couldn’t care less if i died anymore and that i shouldn’t show up to their funeral... broke down so hard that day, never would’ve thought my family could say some shit like that. Decided I’d go to her house and talk to her about it since I’ve been there for her so much, right? Went to her house calm, collected, not crying or anything. Knocked on her door, she came out and before i could even tell her that my life just fell appart she goes “Should i call you a taxi or are you gonna go home?” I stood there for a whole minute just dumbfounded. I’ve never so shocked in my life... after helping her financially and supporting her emotionally she dropped me like nothing. Like i was dirt. Went through a whole year or depression and therapy 2 times a week to get over it. Was at the point of killing myself countless times this year. Throughout the last few weeks I’ve been watching a ton of your videos and i want you to know that you just made sense of every single relationship and situation I’ve ever run into with women. I’m a simp and i never knew it, i put way to much value on them and put them on a pedestal. But that ends now. From here on out I’m going to be as cold as ice. People will learn to fucking respect me. Thank you, Steph.
I feel you on dat brother real talk
I’m sorry that happened to you
having a girl that you genuinely cared for & saw like your own
backstab you when you needed them the most hurts. I been there brodie
was already goin threw a lot in life & to have that 1 incident happen pushed me into a dark place in my life
depression is a real life thing almost
lost my life one night
but god saved me.
life too short only get 1 gotta live it
keep the Most High 1st always 🙏 they might’ve left your side by God won’t.
I pray that you and anyone reading this heals from all the past traumas & wounds
& may the Holy Spirit guide you throughout the journey! 🙏
@@thundercatelgato appreciate your response homie, may god be with you.
hold that brother thats a gospel song I listen too its gd and yh Ik how that feels if u ever need to talk im here God bless brother 🙏❤
Damn bro you shoulda just slapped that bitch and then ran…
Ima say this, there is a difference between a nice guy and a good guy. Nice guys don’t know their value and seek validation from women they want to be with, they go above and beyond and blindly see what society tells him “buy flowers” “take her out” “be a gentleman aka sucka shit. A good guy knows his worth and draws the line in the sand and sees a woman for what she is, and had no problem cutting her off and moving on to the next best thing. Good guys can have confidence, and are in tune with who they are. Nice guys are who society wants them to be. You don’t gotta be an asshole really but you don’t have to put up with the bullshit either, cause some guys don’t have it in them to be that way. Be you and set boundary’s no matter how bad the broad is be astute to her behavior, think in abundance and know if one broad is lost you’ll get another one. Thanks Steph for the insight fam. Salute.
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KingJugganaut19 that’s facts man, I agree with Steph and his ideologies. But let’s be real fam, not every man has it in them to do what he does or go red pill. I think you can be a good guy (not a nice guy) but just know your worth and play to your strengths. Simps and nice guys don’t know their worth.
The red pill isn’t bad
Stephon Clinkscales Not at all bro, I’m just saying most guys don’t have it in them to go down that path. This is years of conditioning some won’t wake up out of. Movies, TV etc. tell us what should be done with women. They treat it like a TV show where you have a dude go for a girl and the girl turns him down right? This all happens in season 1. Then dudes think by season 4 she will come to her senses and realize after bad relationships and getting smashed into oblivion, she will come back they like that shit. Dead ass I got more pussy not taking women out on dates.
Stephon Clinkscales I accept the game for what it is, and it’s not a game for nice guys. Learned that years ago man. But your channel helped me understand that self improvement is the first step. I’m on day 17 of nofap man and had to make that change, I feel hungrier to get in the gym and get shit done. So I’m starting with that first before anything. You have no idea how much these videos help.
I know the feeling of heartbreak all too well. Back at uni in 2009, I met this girl who I thought would be the one. So I asked her if we can spend time together and she seemed interested as we exchanged numbers. But I later realised that she really only wanted me to help her with assignments while she was seeing someone else. I saw her embraced other guy at the clubs, wishing it was me that was with her. I even waited past midnight for her like the simp that I was. I was so heartbroken that I couldn’t even sleep at night and was on the verge of tears. Then I thought to myself, if I really did care about her but she wanted the other guy, then who was I to get in the way. Now that I have taken the red pill, I realised how making a woman your world will leave you as a satellite orbiting around her. Never again, purpose first!
Its usually the trail blazers who suffer tremendous hardships.. if u ain't at the top, u haven't suffered enough.
So they going 4-1?
@@canival317isback huh?
RudeBoii Don Dada lmao pun intended, blazers game 2 tonight 🤣🤣
@@canival317isback duhhh 🤣 damn.. shit went str8 ovr my head bro, I gotcha nw
Yeah,dame and cj ain’t winning a chip anytime soon...especially since the warriors finished them 4-1
"I got traded" lool🤣 ball is life, appreciate you bro
Man, not many people would share their experiences with the world in order to prevent it happening to others. It takes real courage and self confidence. Thanks, my G.
I have seen a bunch of Steph's videos, but never subscribed to him until today. The fact that he displayed his story with such confidence and comfort made me respect him so much more. This is the type of shit many men want to do with women, but they know she will lose attraction or use it against him. This man has grown so much since then and this is what it takes to get there. Respect.
Ayo you real for this bro. I felt this. All the emotional investment just does the opposite of what we’re hoping for. At the end of the day we gotta be grateful for these experiences at these young ages tho cause a lot of dudes don’t be waking up until their first or second divorce. We got the opportunity to milk the game for all its got and we only in the first quarter of this shit. Keep doin ya thing. Salute.
KG you right. Females don't know how fucking with a man emotions is like a time bomb. A man that is truly into a female is 💯 in, he will simp, bend over and do what he can to win her, to prove himself. It's just by nature bruh because you look at courting earlier on in history. Somewhere females switch off this path. Screw over a man that was in 💯 will emotional scare him for life. Females just look for quick fixes, short term, and materialistic. In the end men evolved to red pill and dating is all screw up.
@@mikewill1740 I agree I had a bad experience myself but its best to learn these lessons without being married or having kids. When a man is single and has no responsibilities other than himself we can methamorphis into a total beast.
KG dude so true way to put a positive experience on it
I can’t even cry anymore.
Same haven’t cried in half a year
@@aparsa-mit yeah and I also get tears from the cold
Steph, I did that crying shit too bro. At this point in my life, I'll tell anybody DO NOT cry in front of no female period! If you gotta cry, man do that shit when you're alone and keep it moving afterwards. I applaud you because you're light years ahead of the game at the age of 21. That's crazy. Is your bday on Aug 5th? I got the same birthday bro
Yup, never cry or share secrets with a girl you don't really know that well.
Found out she cheated on me Saturday. I broke up and moved out Sunday. I’m hurt. I needed to hear this
Everyone has had their heartbroken, but it’s the reason how we all found the red pill.
Good to hear your story.
@Mr. Kool Aid Man Exactly 😂 You’re the only one in the comments who I can relate to
Thanks for sharing your story, I can relate so much especially when I was younger. Now, I'm a reformed "nice guy"
She really put you on the game that you needed fam, that second one. First one just needed to happen to let you know these females be ready for the ham sausage no matter what they say
Damn... that tough. Respect for sharing your stories. It’s unfortunate that people have to go through shit like this, but hopefully it doesn’t prevent you from having someone in your life that provides you with enough value to keep around one day.
yep
From a simp to a Alpha 💯ima do the same
Crazy how much that word has really blew up since then
Young man, I listen to you daily. Just found you on UA-cam so I'm binge watching to catch up. But I am 42 years old and I'm inspired by your honesty and information about learning how to effectively communicate with women. Thanks bro
“I had some wins, some losses. That’s what the life of a God damn boss is.” - Kanye West
I don't recognize that line which song was that from?
i feel the same way about certain songs...it brings back an unwanted nostalgia.
Introspection is the most perfect guide a man can have in his life. Bless Up lil bro
Bless up big bro
Two alpha's in here
"You know nothing about her".. very true and you have the answers..🙌🙌
I remember when my brother was dating this woman, l was around 13. I told him several times she was a woman of the streets. He didn’t listen and for some stupid reason he continued loving her. I saw through the bull. But men are always in love with looks and no value. He was sorely hurt over her. I just looked at him. I learned just by watching the men in my life make stupid decisions when choosing women. The women l told them to stay with, they broke their hurts, and they were good women. The women who treated them horribly, they loved. I never understood that. But lm grateful that l learned by watching them. 😂😂😂
My big sister did the same thing for me back in high school. Fell in love with a thot after my sister told me she wasn’t the right girl for me. I told her to stay out of my business and that’s exactly what she did😂. Wish I would’ve listened to her till this day!
@@SupremeBeing_Lol
Shout out to my moms she really put me on game and red pilled me when I was young about the the girls I used to date. I ain’t listen and had to learn the hard way.
10 months ago, a girl and I had a serious relationship. My dumbass was super emotional and all in love with her. One day I question her bout this one guy she be hanging around, and she said she was just a friend. Same night she asking me to break up with her, and im like, "no baby I love youu😭", she forced a break up, and my dumb ass said I would wait for her, next day I wake up, see that she with that guy, that was a so called friend, and now they fucking and shit. I aint never felt my heart feel so heavy in my chest, on that day, I knew I had to change my ways, on that day I became cold asf. I started watching Steph, and learning more and more about female nature, and real talk on how to go from beta to alpha, its been a long and worthwhile painful experience, but here I am 10 months later on my shit, thank god I turned cold 🙏❄at the time of the experience I was 17, I am now 18, glad to have learnt such at a young age. Shout out Steph, Mj get right and fitxfearless, for all the giudance, Yall have changed my life🙏❄
I've been solo dolo for 4 years and after seeing this it gave me flashbacks of my past relationships and they all got me no where but just being cheated on and being treated like shit. After binge-watching all your videos I'm taking your advice day by day piece by piece so I won't have to go through the same mistake again. I'm still gonna do me at the end of day
5 years later this message still hit hard 💯
Goddamn Steph. Looking back on my heart break, it made me realize some ppl take the redpill more brutal then others. It made me appreciate life with the time that we have left, and many so called MGTOW and Redpill dudes don’t pass that black pilled mindset. Damn Steph, no wonder you go so hard on these vids and working out. That bullshit you went through gave you motivation for life. Now it’s one thing to tell the story, but to live it and remember what happened feels so damn unreal after you have took the redpill. By the way, being able to speak on this publicly is not easy for most guys to do. I really wanna shake your hand for this video man. It’s crazy how we’ve been setup to fail. But lucky for some of us, we learned early. The redpill is like a blessing in disguise....
Joshua Shelton
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Real ass comment 💯💯🤣
This video is like your supervillain origin story 😂
FACTS lmao. I randomly came back to this today.
Great timing I was with my ex for 4 years and we did all those first time couple things ,we had it all after not seeing her for 1 year and soon to visit her she cut me out and told me we done cuz she needs to grow🙄 what bs she legit left me with the flight tickets in my hand and in the dust she tryed friend zoning me soon after but I said nah, my heart is in so much pain but I gotta move on if she wanna grow she can, but I'm gonna grow too😁red pill and god helped me more then ever so did your channel, thank you for your vids💯if someone wants to be with you they will no matter what!stay confident and blessed peeps
This woke me up it all starts today thank you stephiscold for bringing me to the light.
great video FAM a lot of young brothers need to hear this. my nephew is a young simp he's 21 I'm sharing this with him and his friends
Man, you might save their lives. Props.
Lmfaoooooo
Damn bro, you always make great content but this one is just next level. Made my heart hurt. Was 17 years old at the time.
Remember sending flowers and writing poems to a girl because she thought "It's so romantic." Claimed that she loved nice guys who are polite and that she "didn't mind me being big because I'm open minded." Used to call her 4-5 times a day, text her to say "I miss you" all the typical beta shit.
Girl also claimed she was a virgin. Used to have a lot of male friends and said "I just get along better with guys." Would always have me come to her house, would never take the time to come to my place.
After realizing I'm getting finessed I say I'm about to break up. She starts roping me back in kissing me and shit. I'm hooked and then she claims " I'm tired. "
Even after all this bullshit of being taken for granted and getting shitted on I was still hoping for something magical to happen. I get a video later on from some anonymous dude showing her getting buss down by like 3 dudes. I red pilled immediately.
I can relate, this shit happens to us all; I have my own stories and I am sure most men do. The most important thing is you became Red-Pill-Aware !
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Man that first girl sound like a super villain, but at the same time its probably the best thing to happen to you so young. Imagine you didn't red-pill until you're in your late 30s? This experience has set you up on the road to multi-millionaire status and mental clarity about your purpose. Respect.
This just goes to show the best of the best/advanced in the game at any area of life once was a beginner. It comes to a point when u realize there's a choice to make whereby in due time you'll progressively become the persona you aspire to be with the right disciplined actions.
I always pity people who embody the victim demeanor because their self pity thoughts brings them the same undesirable reality everyday. I'm far from my desired reality, but every single day I feel closer due to working on growth in all areas of my life.
You shouldn’t pity them but understand and hopefully along the way you can uplift them if you can relate. We’ve all been down and out and sometimes it’s deep. But you’re right, you gotta dig within though and pull your self out, that’s the harsh reality and it takes time for some people who are just on their own to gather that strength.
We all been there bro. Just got to used are mistakes to make us stronger and learn. The more you care about them the less they care about you. The less you care the more they care it's straight backwards but women don't make since anyways.
This channel gone blow... promise u that
This channel is more real than AMS
my ex(first love)broke up with me a year ago-went through the same shit
Nothing wrong with using women. Women use men all the time.
All Hail BlackRam313, Darius M, Rom Wills and of course you sir.
Yup either you use them or they use you
use them? having sex with them is basically giving them pleasure...i dont really see any down side to it for them...they kinda still using us...lol
@@Rawyalty220 facts
Yeah THIS is the video. Hit me hard cause the woman that broke my heart caused me to turn red pill. It hurt but glad to have experienced that cause I’m a changed man for the better. Steph you cold.
good story bro, knew light skin chicks were nothing but trouble since i was young. Never dated one, but was always aware of the way they rejected and act when guys approached them especially darker skin male. They were mostly interested in light skin guy with same complexion.
But the script has turned now, they chase after darker skin men now..
Mixed lightskin girls have identity issues da 1s i encounter either hate theyself or think 2 highly of themself, the lightskin girls that are black ive had no problems with
They all trouble regardless of complexion. My ex wife a brown skinned Jezebel Decepticon
OMGGG!!! SHE SENT U THE ARTICLE!!!🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️....She really did u favor....STEPH....IS COLD..💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
Oh baby you....you got what I neeeeed, but you say he's just a friend. You say he's just a friend. Damn bro, dont trip. Everybody has a story about being shot through hot grease by some chick. Except me of course. But you back in the game. I see you playa. You got to go through it to get to it mayne! And you definitely went through it.
This story really touched me bro, mad respect for speaking on that g I know a lotta niggas be hiding their past L’s to come across as if they perfect but truth is no human is perfect
I feel you steph i know your pain bro because i remember one time i took this girl out eat at this restaurant and i didn't have enough money to pay for the dinner and i cried to bro so i respect you for being honest about it
A Woman i was seeing, Made a phone call to me that she didnt want to see me again, over a video i made, on my channel talking about female nature! I said "Okay"
I never talked to her again...
Thanks for your honesty Steph...
Damn bruh I never really had too many experience because I am a virgin but damn this help me a lot to get through things before I really deal with women
My first heartbreak was also slim thicc, and I swear you just described mine and I thought you were talking about my situation. Damn it still hurts.
Appreciate your honesty! Your exactly right being the "Good Guy or Nice Guy" gets you nowhere in this life! I'm not saying be an "AssHole" but MEN need to learn how to Move and or Operate in this life by being more Selfaware and Conscious of the world we living in when it comes to the opposite sex! The earlier young men learn this the better off they'll BE!
Ppl
Major facts
Thank you for being honest and not trying to act hard or like you never went through shit and have always been strong. Really appreciate it. 2019 ain't gon have no cryin. Business only. Get up, dust off and keep it moving.
At least she was real enough to put you on some game with that nice guy article. Most women say one thing and do another. Lmao. Oan. 10.8 is hella fast!!!
lol mine isn't even as bad as yours thanks for sharing im happy theres someone like you
I have the same imprint as you Steph especially when they're light skin with curly hair and petite.
C4Zero slim thicke
Yup my wife was same prototype... she left me for her ex after we got married
@@DJBenito304 oh damn! Sorry to hear that but now you know female nature. Were you a provider?
@c4zero na i was in a fellowship program she was covering our expense s like food+rent+transportation
but her ex is from a wealthy family and he got money.. so she was making more money currently than me...
Very honest video.....nuff respect to you. We all go through this and THEN LEARN!!!!
Damn she put you on to the red pill
Being able to share this story
and be this transparent and authentic really
shows how much you've grown since all this happened.
The things you go through in life with women, Will either make you or break you. I see it as game recognizes game. If you short yourself in any area of your life. It's time to reevaluate your decisions. If she can't add value to your status, cut her loose. Hard Times makes Better Men.
Damn bro I thought I was the only one who went through shit like this . Mane I had love all fucked up
Bro your wise man can’t believe your 21 keep up the work bro.
Never had a relationship but appreciate this - not in any rush to choose the right one
You have my respect stephon. Shits crazy out there. Yeah man that redpill saves lives
Woah bro. Shiiit mad respect for you bro. You've given me the courage to move on. Shiiit mad bro. Respect!!!!!!!!
Where would I be without stephon / AMS / and rom wills
Jesus M Major facts!
Dr. BOA too
I never had my heart broken. I just had a bad obsession with my ex.
Everyone gets their heart broken at least once. Rather it happen sooner than later.
Black Ram 313.... This Therapeutic Maaaaaan!!!
This is this a gem, I didn't laugh at all, this is really sad, I can't imagine how hard it was fam, but I glad I've been learning so much from you brhuuu
You a cold young brotha! You got the game young you gone get colder as the years go on! Power
My boy was down tremendous 😭
Its Definitely A rights of passage.
This shit real af fam, the fact that you putting it out there...and trust a lot of us niggas been through the same situation if not worst. That’s why we are who we are now 💪🏽
Mad respect for this bro! 👊🏾🙌🏾
Steph thank you for telling us your story. Sorry that happened to you dude. But I have to say (clapping) congratulations and kudos to you for how far you've come and how much people you help with advice on a daily basis. Respect sent your way man.
Appreciate you fam...only a real OG can show his face and put out his weakest and most beta moments to the world. We all have a story and its sad that most of us have a story just like yours. Anybody reading this, dont blame yourself brother - we were sold a lie...our mothers, sisters, aunties, so called friends - they all jumped on that social narrative and sold us the blue pill game that was one big lie. Im glad i found the truth and luckily even at 34 i have time to make it better, some will never find the truth an some will even refuse it. Most guys find the red pill through a tragic scenario or deep trauma, normally involving a female who they idolised or at the bare minimum had one-itis for and thought 'she could do no wrong'. Like you said as well, you learn more about women by being the side guy vs being the main guy. It was a girl that made me cry that brought me to the red pill - never before in my life had i questioned myself, my principles, my ego....everything. It was a big wake up call but ultimately as much as it hurt im glad it got me to where i am today.
Marques xx