I dated a cancer. You absolutely right. They are full of drama and sociopaths. Interrogators, nagging, degrading, liars etc. I will never be with one again in a serious relationship.
darth vader speak for yourself. We knew a pathological and compulsive liar who is a cancer. she actually takes pride in how she can lie with a straight face
Grown Man yeah... because every Cancer is exactly the same. Stop blaming the zodiac sign. Yes, our natal chart determines how we may react to things but we CHOOSE what we act on. That person was just a shit person.
@Mermaid Monroe Cancers are the best!! I love how sensitive they are. I can't imagine surviving in this world as a sensitive person but you wonderful people manage to do it and make it look easy. You are so strong. I respect you so so much and I dont say that often. I love you guys. Thanks for making this world a better place. ❤😁 (These fake bitches talking about how cancers love drama and how silly that is but this dude made a video shitting on this sign. How is that not asking for drama? I'm done here fuck this guy.) - Scorpio
@@mangolcatfish4102 you know i really apprechiate this but- im not that emotional as a cancere myself bc like honestly i dont care about what ppl have to say about us they just end up embarresing themselves and we will be the one ending up laughing
Cancers literally remind me of a person that walks around with a cloud over their head. Their emotions change like the weather and they'll try to trick you in believing you caused it but they've always had that cloud over their head. You are so right about having to constantly reset with them. Its because they cant let anything go. They don't know how to move on and pick up where you left off. They have to start all over.
Right whats wrong with this social path. Hes an aquarius who seeks identity and a personality. In other words he a social path and a stubborn 1 at that
I'm a cancer and I would agree with a lot of your points except the part about us being messy. I personally hate messes and always find myself cleaning up around my house or where ever I am. But none the less, great video brother. Subscribed =)
Cancers pay attention to every thing, unintentionally. Cancers have the brain of an elephant. The most loyal and understanding. They can be Moody. Cancers have too much light and inspiration the lheart of the party and don't even like the spotlight. Very positive people. but just like all people and zodiac there are some darker side and negativity. MOST CANCER DO NOT LIKE DRAMA they are in love with comfort and security (close friends and love ones) :Mike Mad GA :Mike Mad GA
I agree with you on some stuff. What I noticed is the high level of emotional instability and sensitivity in the women. It's almost hypocritical. The dark mood swings and terrible, terrible decision making with dating. The women also seem to dwell in a darkness that they expect you to deal with and then when they perk up, you're supposed to just perk up with them. Can't take critisicm and they live in a fake alternate reality where in their world, they are perfect and it's everyone else fault.
i gotta be honest, I laughed at first when you pointed out your opinion. because it was kind of true, and that is coming from a Cancer. BUT due to all this ´´negative´´ remarks, we do have a big ass reason to be spiteful, passive-agressive, overemotional and moody etc. it just doesn´t come straight out of our asses for no reasons, let´s put it that way. on the flip side, we usually give our best version of ourselves, our true self being helpful, intuitive, caring, nurturing, understanding and loving as well. when someone play with us or not taking us seriously, because we give literally our ALL, then you get what you deserve. the worst side of ourselves. and that´s why we don´t trust life or others. cancer´s if you read this, you know exactly what I mean. i´m proud of being a Cancer, and so should you
But not only cancers are loving caring nurturing and give their all to a loved one, anyone who knows how to love does that. But only cancers don’t trust life itself anymore if their feelings get hurt. That’s a bit dramatic and illogical, but i think it could be that your negative expectations and distrust in everything naturally manifests itself and becomes your reality. Basically you attract your own reality. Idk if that makes sense or helps in any way? But I’m dating a cancer and we try to help each other with our negative/less developed sides since were very different lol So this has actually been helping him to regain trust in life
Thank you! This is Exactly what it has been like for me and my ex-best cancer friend. She always was the victim and drama filled. I always felt bad bc of it but I didn't know why and I honestly had to disconnect bc I wasn't doing anything, even being nice would offend them after we split as friends. She then went super fake nice like I could diabetes from how fake she was to everyone around me but not me. I'd get the stink eye when no one was looking. Like she was judging me or something. I had to walk away to find peace. It was like she wanted me to be and stay miserable. I called her and asked for forgiveness and told her that I forgive her as well and confessed my issues. The drama still lives but I did my best to end it, she can't let it go. Life is too short for all that drama bs. really really! She really made me feel crazy like it was like she was trying it on propose. Crazy Cancers... Stay away from me!!!
LCC Oh you are so on point with being nice can offend them!! I'm currently blocked on all social media by a cancer family member. Her birthday is coming up, thought about sending a happy birthday text then go back to leaving her alone, but her response will probably be" Leave me alone, before I file a restraining order against you"!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😃
LCC I don't understand what God was thinking in creating this Emotionally, Unstable ass sign!! I thought we were made in his image, just born into sin. But some people are born with natural toxic tendencies based on their birth sign and it's not doing this world any dam good at all!!
I understand that cancers can be annoying sometimes.. (I’m a cancer) But that’s just to far man. You can’t just call us unstable ass signs. We have feelings too
This is so true they go through your private things they treat their spouses badly true and they will do nice things to get you comfortable then when they get upset they will strip it leaving you helpless that's not loyalty regardless what you go through you never leave a person helpless so all that kind hearted bull save it dark sided cancers you only do what's beneficial for them
Shantanell Wilder And then when you tell them about themselves, instead of looking at like "maybe there's some things about myself I should change", they see criticism even from love ones like your attacking their character. They're very bratty, they want everyone else to take responsibility for their wrongs and pretend like they have no wrongs or will accuse you of bashing their character when you come to them about something they've done to offend you. They're some manipulative creatures!!
As a cancer man, I agree with a lot of this though some things don't apply to me like the whole drama thing. I try to avoid anything stressful or upsetting as much as possible and have been making attempts to think more positive, but I can understand what you mean at the very least. Thank you for making this video. :)
+Auset McChristion-Thomas I don't have to because I agree with alot of the things you said but the other things aren't true because all cancers aren't the same because zodiac traits are alot deeper than just the sun trait maybe it's just the ones you deal with are the same just saying
+Auset McChristion-Thomas and please don't get all defensive especially when most of the time water and air don't mix especially Aquarius and Cancers it's rare they succeed in a relationship but I'm just stating my facts just like you're stating some of yours
+Brianna Daye Unless you can show this video to your spouse...you are lying yo yourself. I also suggest you watch my other video THE CANCERVERSE and pay attention to 8:30...and also watch WHY I MAKE WHY I HATE YOUR SIGN VIDEOS and pay attention to 14:20.
+Auset McChristion-Thomas I know why you make them but you can't honestly expect to make a video about Cancers but not for Cancers and expect us to not say anything but it's cool im just saying how I feel just like you did thats all
That's pretty rude usually it's the other way around, but that's okay, but I had this friend that betrayed me ever since we met/became friends so it's tough. 😁☹️ (Btw I'm a cancer)
@@Hours-gr9uh they would say little mean comments, gaslight, be players & just say things to charm you but not really mean it . I had one even make fun of me for liking him smh oh & manipulative
No lie I thought I could trust this cancer friend and I told her my bucket list and she did everything on my list... with out me and then repeatedly bragged about it to all our friends. I'm not a crier but I did. She would take what I was good at and do it better than me and then be all sweet about it and brag, and brag on about it. Sorry for venting but everything your saying so US! Where were you like, three years ago. Cancers really do suck the life out of you. I lost interest in my hobbies after that. It was not a good time in my life. Thank you for this vid really really, reallllyy. You've opened my eyes, I'm not crazy. She's just a bitch, two faced and sneaky. What you see is not what you get with a CA.
LCC I feel you this cancer "friend" of mine tries to copy everything I do I've learned to not tell her shit about anything I do 😂 she even tried to get with my ex . Don't let the bragging get to you just roll your eyes at her bitch ass lol they're just really insecure
I'm a cancer some of the stuff is true but I'm definitely not into drama I usually withdrawal from it. even if I'm in a circle of ppl and they start talking shit about someone else, I'm usually the one that doesn't participate. I don't want no part of it.
I agree.. This video isn't even spot on wtf?? All I'm hearing are things that other signs do.. We are known to be a caring sign but fuck us over and you will hear from us!
I'm an Aqua woman myself, and I've recently found Cancer men coming into my orbit. I'd never had experience with Cancer men, but I've had tense interactions with Cancer women (even Cancer women I'm on good terms with aren't people with whom I'm the most comfortable), so when these men came into my life, I was prepared to hate them. I was pleasantly surprised. I find Cancer men to be deeply empathetic, which, as an unusually sensitive and emotional Aquarian (could be due to the fact that I'm a Capricorn cusper?), is so refreshing. I'm very defensive, but these men have a way of making me feel safe enough to let my guard down. I find that they can be divergent thinkers, often jumping from one random topic to the next, but I enjoy that. I sincerely *like* talking to people and learning about what they think, and so do these men. There's a level of comfort with them that I've never felt with any other man. I don't feel any pressure to impress them. Cancer men could teach other dudes a thing or two about empathy and understanding.
'Said some really intelligent things here. I really like Cancers, but they can be difficult for a Scorpio like me. The ones I've seen tend to disappear when overwhelmed.
+joey hernandez I'm also a Scorpio and yes they do tend to disappear when overwhelmed. Can any Cancers answer why you do this? It's like here today gone tomorrow.
+Aria MyParadise From what? So they don't get hurt? If they like someone they still do this! I get they hate rejection but why not take a chance on someone. My patience is thinning for people like this [only liked one Cancer] and only experienced this with him. I should state we live in two different continents so I guess that doesn't help.
Cancers and Pisces are the best!! I don't understand how you can hate a cancer when they care about everyone, and how you can have problems with Pisces when they are just trying to fit in. At least water signs can relate to you on a spiritual level. Finally ,I don't like the term bi-polar, many people are labeled this by society when they may just be very special (indigos/crystals etc.) Everyone goes through a hard time but there's no reason to hate just because you cannot relate to their problems. (Probably for the best because some people don't deserve their friendship.) EVERYONE NEEDS HELP AT TIMES SO DONT HATE .
In the end all signs run into the light becoming peaceful and loving/caring. I find that water signs have this trait of being sensitive no matter the circumstances (because they are fixed) which is so helpful to others because it allows them to care and nurture everyone and everything. Making the world a better place:) Btw I'm a Scorpio with Scorpio rising and Pisces moon (I know I'm very mysterious XD), and I find other water signs tend to be the nicest people I know.
No, you just need to find the right person whom you are compatible with, someone who appreciates all your good traits and can tolerate the bad ones. In fact, some of the traits some people consider bad (for example clinginess) are relished by some people.
It is important to have self- knowledge, to be able to improve yourself and to be the light for many people in this world. We do need great leaders and nurtures
You spoke so many of my thoughts here my grandma & sister is a Cancer and I dated a Cancer and I stay as far away from them as possible, they're just like their sign a disease (CANCEROUS)& negative and manipulative and they are NOT logical at all, I tried to understand them but they are lyers and just bad spirited to me & always something negative, you really did speak ALOT OF facts here. I've been hurt by my grandma an sister and they hate each other but they are BOTH too of the same kind
To my fellow Cancers. Chill guys, it's cool. He's allowed his opinion. Plus you aren't just your sun sign and you are more than your natal chart my friends (astrology even states this with progressed charts). This is also describing a very basic, immature Cancerian. Love, Cancer sun/Capricorn moon/Leo rising.
Yeah, it's only like 2%, so this is a very surface-level depth. And there are different types of astrology. I'm Gemini, and I follow sidereal astrology. (I know ppl are gonna say"it's not real astrology.. Blah blah", but I was born in Asia, and they use it there. And it's my personal choice what to believe)
+Demi Bauros. Really? Most of the people I meet that follow astrology say that tropical is the only form of astrology. I say to them "we should be allowed to choose which astrology we'll believe. If we all have to follow tropical, it's like saying, you have to be christian, Muslim or a Jew. It's like religion, you can choose your belief"
As a Scorpio it’s making me heart warm that the cancers are actually in the comments admitting how horrible of people they are 😅😊 My boss is a cancer and I worked with her for 4 years . She is literally the worst person I have known in my life . Everything you said was true , we were friends for about a year and she was horrible . I ignored the signs and she scared me so much that I have never forgotten about it , 2 years later . She was very spiteful and resentful towards me when I decided to end our friendship . She was very manipulative and a liar . She was not transparent and was very hard to read .I tried to set her up with some of my husband friends who was genuinely interested in her and they were successful men with good things going on for themselves and not much baggage. She literally would tell me that she only likes toxic men because she had a lot of fcked up shit going on in her life . This made me confused and feel bad for her because she always looked down on herself , she views herself very low , and doesn’t have much self-confidence. As a Scorpio woman we are attracted to people that we feel are way better than us because we are overly confident in our abilities and literally think we are great at everything . She needed to feel important and big up her own ego for dating losers so they can put her on a pedestal . She would be very personal and friendly one day and the next day hop back into a shell . As a Scorpio , I love the chase in the beginning because Scorpios have a thing with having to read the whole room and understanding mentally who people are before we engage with them . She was very mysterious and that attracted me to having to know her and figure her out in friendship type of way. Should have left her ass in shell 🐚 and went on about my life .
“Wallowing in emotional turmoil and volatility “ that is exactly what he would do along with frequently slipping into the victim mentality and/or depression mode. As an Aquarian, I try to help, but when nothing changes on their part by trying to help themself it becomes too emotionally draining. So…you save the savable, the ones that truly want to change or be helped and throw the rest back!
It's funny how an Aqua (cold hearten, robotic weirdo) pick on others! I Do NOT like Aqua (period) you guys r cheat chatter, cheater, talking too much, cant make a point, gossiper, two faced with wandering eyes. I dont consider Aqua man if it is a last one standing on planet of earth.
Agreed. An IMMATURE Cancer most def has these traits but if they can learn how to RESPOND to emotions in constructive ways instead of REACTING in destructive ways, they begin their path of mastery over them.
HollowGram at least be honest and admit the truth. Its a grudge. Lol You can be emotional, but christ, don't be dense and try to say some shit like "we're karma." Lol no. What you are is someone who gets caught up in an emotional wave, and it you're not tended to, like every 5 mins, you begin to think no one cares. Lol You also eat up every charm on a whim and when it all turns out to be something its not, you wrap yourself up in a pathetic emotional blanket. Whats funny is you consider this a strength when its actually a weakness to let pain run your life. What's also funny is how much you can't stand overly emotional people, yet are ridiculously emotional and actually show it. Lol Nope. Fuck you guys. 😂
@Extreme Metal Thiccums Yup, they're nice at first but then after a bit they get moody for no damn reason, they flipout for no reason. I think they're nice at first to analyze your kindness, if they feel they can walk over you they will. Leo's don't have time for that, so we cut them out our lives and they hate that lol.
@@DoveMan-zu9is actually hunny im a cancer and i am emotionally stable honestly idgaf about these opinions bc if i had the chance to i would step on them :)
I respect Cancer-signs because they have compassion and care for those they love and cherish. They are a bit possessive and some others have called them "clingy" but this is not the case. They just want to see their special one be safe and sound at all times which is a good thing because love is what matters. They are very loyal lovers as well, but they have to know that the person is also loyal and faithful as well. All in all they are stable soulmates as they are not into flings. For the record, I am a Gemini with Pisces-moon and Libra-rising. Also I do have Scorpio in my natal chart, so maybe that is why I am also a caring type as well.
I am a cancer, I see some of things you talked about, things I am honestly aware. Unfortunately, we do alot for others, we just want to be acknowledged and be respected. These negative traits is a response based when others don't respect the positive traits and what is shared. That's it. A grown woman perception.
My experiences with Cancers they seem to be very sneaky and like to lie a lot you also have to be careful with them because they are very sensitive you can have a whole conversation with them and say things that they don't like and you won't know until it's too late they also are very downing well really all over the place with their emotions one minute happy next minute mad back and forth I also noticed with them they are very jealous type of people usually family members or close friends but mainly family... They also seem very insecure and never sure of themselves and always thinking their situation is worse than everyone else and being that they like to hide their true feelings about things it can seem like they're fake
Probably cancers doesn’t like you that why you had this experience …. My family love me I’m the support of the family , my friends the real ones last me for years I take care of them , just respect me and my home and my privacy , you will always have respect back ! I love to listen and I understand anybody in any situation .the truth in your face always
if you are a masculine sign which are the firesigns: aries, leo or Sagittarius or airsigns: gemini, libra and aquarius then you will never vibe with a cancer or any of the feminine signs. astrology goes very deep. masculine signs go better with masculine signs. and natal charts play a huge part on astrology the sun sign is just the the tip of the iceberg to a soul
I think you're right. I'm an Aquarius female dealing with a cancer dude. We've been friends for years. There's a vibe there but we can't get on the same page intimately. I can't deal with the manipulation.
exactly I'm Pisces sun but Leo moon and Capricorn rising. I don't really get along with other water signs. I kick it with sagg,aquarius, Aries and Gemini
I totally 💯 percent agree with you ❕👍I was once married to a cancer. And boy was he a crybaby ,drama to the max, a cheater, and a big liar, condescending, love to do a tit for tat . Full of secrets and cheating as hell!! And they always like people to feel pity for them they like empathy and sympathy all the time in every situation... cancer men to me are toxic!🤥👎 everything you said was all true you're the bomb!👍🌹💯😘💝
I have been in not many relationships im a cancer and I don't want to act like any of this, this is why I try to stay happy most times to be different from most cancers
I dated a cancer sex was bomb but the extreme sensitivity and emotionally unstable mood swings and trust issues were too much to deal with. I'm a Gemini
Im an aries female dating a cancer male and i couldnt help but laugh!! This is so true he is very much what you said and it drives me crazy !!!!!!! He does need to feel like hes needs to be needed and likes to 'pinch' to cause an episode so that he can fix it. Everything you have said, i have lived.
My father was a cancer. I didnt talk to him for years, and refused to talk to him in his last hours. He was TOXIC in every aspects. I wish my mother got rid of him in time....
+hello world ...Yeah, but my experience has been horrific. And my Moon is actually Aquarius btw (I just wanted to clear my previous post up lol). It would be nice for me if my opinion could be changed about Cancers 😟 I have just been around some pretty f'd up Cancers. And the consensus on this post showed me I wasn't alone.
+Lizzie Martin ...I can respect your honesty 😊 I appreciate honesty because I really don't have a shock factor and I don't tell others' business either. It's just disappointing to know that even the sign Im supposed to be compatible with can be inclined to lying. But I guess it's not a sign thing...it's an individual person to person thing 😊
my heart was crushed by cancer man I really cared about him and love him and you just push me away you're hurting me that's why I don't never want to fall in love or get attached to anyone
Same ..a cancer man .. I trusted 120% , loved with a pure love , spoiled him rotten ! Said i was " moody " ...lol ..no shit ...working 60 hrs , running a home , teenagers , his mom , his brother ..taking care of them .. He said " he couldnt do it anymore .. Lol .. I did everything ..lol .. So he left me for my friend ..just gone ...a pisces ..lol I love karma 😂
I'm a cancer sun and moon...truly a cancer at heart and some things were spot on and other things I didn't agree with but good video. Even though these were all negative traits about a cancer there are definitely more positive traits about us that out weigh the bad.
Thanks a million for this video! Both my parents are Cancers and my long term boyfriends is one also. My life philosophy became "anything you say or do WILL be used against you". But after watching this, i realise understanding each other is the key to making things work... or giving up on things that are toxic.
Im an Aquarius man dating a Cancer woman. I swear im about to leave her. They come across as weak or meek, but once you realize how they move. You'll realize they are the opposite of weak, they use their emotions to dominate situations. There is no growth with this sign. The emotions wont let them grow into one with you. They add confusion to every little thing, unnecessarily. Its tiresome and time consuming.
My advice don’t deal with cancers at all , I’m a Pisces and they say cancers get along with Pisces hell no . They are actors who want everyone to be there for them . I pushed a cancer and thought he was going downstairs to just cool off or make the situation more calm , minutes later he set me up and got me arrested luckily I got the charges dropped but they are will never take accountability and they will never say sorry for anything
same bro I'm Scorpio they are biggest mamas boys they always asking there mom for Christmas gifts they beg there mom to celebrate for them on holidays my brother cancer he was begging my mom if she was gonna celebrate Thanksgiving for him when you don't expect them to come and than they show up outta no where to start irritating you they are super annoying i notice about cancers they have this emotional voice like they was crying or something like they got there feelings hurt when you speak to them they talk with feminine voice
@@AfroPick82 I agree this zodiac stuff is a joke lol I'm a cancer woman and I'm a beautiful person we all have flaws and is not perfect soo..but it's still interesting to know what you could work on about yourself much love to my cancer family keep being you 🥰
I'm a Cancer woman w/ Scorpio moon. This was about 90% true for me. I can definitely stay on the same emotional ride for days. It's exhausting but i feel like i need it for processing and learning. And the clutter thing, omg lol. Clutter never stays away long for me. But i've learned the great wisdom of how clearing your environment is tied to emotional release. This video definitely gave me some insight on my experiences in past friendships and what the other person might have been seeing with me.
I had a cancer business partner and I did a lot for the greater scheme of the business which he misconstrued as me doing it for him only - so he basically started to sabotage work projects and became angry with me (ironic how bruh was angry with me while he was the one destroying projects).. terrible people if you’re interested in work and growth. If you like to stay in the same place forever than yea go be friends with a Cancer.. because the moment you do anything that doesn’t involve them, you’re hurting them to the core. Truly toxic individual
omg, that comment about having to keep starting over, ive just experienced that! like everything we discussed & experienced the past month has been forgotten!! It's like a multi personality disorder, thank u for explaining 😊
Coming from a Sag man that keeps it real . You Cancers drive me absolutely insane . The emotions and the unsureness of a cancer towards others makes me go crazy . The neediness to be loved yet the emotional shutdowns confuse me. You are often very unpredictable when it comes to certain situations. As a Sag, i need to know the truth and I've noticed from dating one, you cant really get that all the time from cancers (especially when they feel threatened by confrontation) . They tend to keep their guard up at very random times (for their own personal reasons). despite all of that You guys are an amazing sign . You amaze me BECAUSE you are very unpredictable sign truly , I've noticed a lot of people don't expect much from cancers because they come off as needy and too emotional sometimes, but ive noticed if you treat them right they will treat you better than any other sign in the zodiac wheel . Truly unlike any other sign.
This doesn't describe me at ALL....I'm extremely neat and absolutely hate clutter. I'm very independent and self sufficient and want a partner who is equally so. I'm very competitive and far from boring.
+Tyeshia Ferguson-Goshine Good for you! Seriously, you give hope to all Cancers in the world to be capable of independence and self-sufficiency. Keep it up!
I dated a cancer for a short time and I ended it because you are right they basically the sweetest at first then turn on you over nothing. They get upset and run then want to come back as if it’s nothing expected you to still want them I was like get out and stay out of my life since I got mad turned the tables on them in a direct way then decided to test then how they like it then if I tried to contact them then after few days He has not contacted me since and ignored me. So now we on the same page at least. Neither now is budging. I feel if he truly cared as much as he said he will be the one now to need to stop the games and act right Yet nothing so far. Yet his friends say directly and indirectly he’s in love with me and don’t want none of them pursuing me lol
Not to speak badly of anyone dead or anything, but that's literally just her on the surface that we all know and love. Most of her fans never even actually knew her personally (because she was a celebrity after all) so you can't really judge him to be wrong. Then again, astronomy is just generalizing anyway, which is typically what he's doing. Not everyone with the same sign acts the exact same.
Kung Blao Just remember all 7 female signs do variations of this lol.... my recommendation if you are serious about keeping the good aspects of some [like Taurus persistence and patience ] while not having the stubbornness, greed, rigid mind, needless grudges is to recognize this truth... and cleanse yourself from that shit internally and externally [meaning you yourself can't do it.. otherwise you are being a hypocrite lol ] and have no right to complain about that shit My grandmother is a Scorpio sun, Capricorn moon and she says "in life you have to be a hypocrite" I'm like lol what... I would never say / think / be that at all lol
You are very observant...what you said here is 100% true...my best friend right now is a Taurus...and he has helped keep me grounded..,however I didn't fall into his negative traits. You have a very keen sense of understanding.
Just wanted to say this is one of the best breakdowns of cancers I have heard before especially the examples. Im a cancer my first wife was a cancer and now my current wife is a cancer and to top it off my dad, mom, and bestfriend are leos lol
I love Cancers!! They are very nurturing, intuitive, compassionate and loyal. You will see negative traits when people try to bullshit them. They are picked on alot due to the sensitive nature which makes it easy for bullying. Since Cancer are less likely to confront issues they are often make a scapegoat. The advice I give is don't fuck with Cancers and you won't have any problem with them.
I agree with several things u said. with personal experience cancer men are a real trip, a roller coaster ride like never before constant heartbreak ect...more negative than positive.. in dealing with them brings nothing but a life of depression and confusion..can be very passionate, but in a whole ur dealing with to much mental and emotional pain
I know this is old but I'm a Pisces and my last experience with a Cancer man was terrible. The constant "woe is me" attitude got old fast. When he didn't get what he wanted manipulation came out.
I’m a Pisces too and I hate cancer I pushed a cancer and thought he was gonna go outside and walk and let things cool down minutes later the cops are there and that was the biggest betrayal I ever had witnessed
Wow im just seeing this video right now and everything you said is so true unfortunately. Im learning more about myself everyday you mentioned about us being weak which is true thats why the men focus on physical strength mainly bc without it we feel weak and vulnerable. Great video btw🙏
I'm an Aquarius girl that dated a cancer guy for almost 3 years. It was beyond draining and unhealthy so glad I left him. Til this day he still tries to follow me on social media.
Yo this is on point!! I am a Sagittarius and I at one point fell for a cancer woman and i can tell you she was mad sexy and all but man was she a headake to deal with. It was like walking on egg shells even with the smallest of things. Spent more time stressing than being happy. When it comes to that its just better to walk away trust!
I actually found this entertaining and I'm a cancer. The women don't keep dirty houses because they don't want to look bad to others. Many want to appear perfect however should realize no one is. I think the women are very different than the men. I've always thought the worst thing is a cancer who didn't have a good upbringing as many don't get over it. I know about 30 cancers.
Privacy is for the cheater . I’m a cancer and you’re giving all my traits away. Lol so not fair. My husband is a Capricorn, he keeps me grounded. He says I treat my family better than him . I do it on purpose 😁. He says I’m dark and mean and always sensitive. But he loves me. This video is so accurate it’s scary. The most accurate one thus far .
Cancer man and I agreed to end things this was the second time I dated one and neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr again!!!! Manipulating, over emotional, passive aggressive always want people to compliment them 😩😩😩😩 take things to far you can’t joke laugh or have fun the men tend to have some abusive ways they cannot take constructive criticism at all!!!!!!! They love to flirt and talk to every person they see...
I'm in a current relationship with an Aquarius, and he's super sweet! His birthday is on Valentines Day (Which is my favorite holiday) He would even text me at freaking 3 AM. He had a crush on me for the longest time, maybe its because of my Aquarius moon and Sagittarius Rising - From a Cancer
As an Aquarius ♒️ , I can’t stand their victim mentality; it makes me sick
literallyyyyyyyyyy
I don't play the victim I'm just be sad and yall need to understand are feelings 😊
@@chaliljackson5305feelings is why you suffer so much
Anyone can have victim mentality you dumbass.
Lol
I dated a cancer. You absolutely right. They are full of drama and sociopaths. Interrogators, nagging, degrading, liars etc. I will never be with one again in a serious relationship.
Grown Man we cancers are not liers we will just walkaway I stead of that!
darth vader speak for yourself. We knew a pathological and compulsive liar who is a cancer. she actually takes pride in how she can lie with a straight face
Grown Man yeah... because every Cancer is exactly the same. Stop blaming the zodiac sign. Yes, our natal chart determines how we may react to things but we CHOOSE what we act on. That person was just a shit person.
Grown Man you dated that person because that's who you are
Grown Man Likewise
Cancers are too negative and sad to me. LEO HERE! can't stand it.
Alexis Nicole I feel you too
Not all like that we are more realistic
ou care no one like leo anyway to self centered.
It's ok leos are boring, poor conversationalists with limited depth.
@@promisesmithee943 how are Leo’s boring? This is a first. 😂(well nah I’ve heard them being called boring.)
“They dislike confidence especially in their mates” assurance AF!
I had to cut all ties with Cancers...I don't feel like drowning....
@Mermaid Monroe Cancers are the best!!
I love how sensitive they are. I can't imagine surviving in this world as a sensitive person but you wonderful people manage to do it and make it look easy. You are so strong. I respect you so so much and I dont say that often. I love you guys. Thanks for making this world a better place. ❤😁
(These fake bitches talking about how cancers love drama and how silly that is but this dude made a video shitting on this sign. How is that not asking for drama? I'm done here fuck this guy.)
- Scorpio
Second that
Mangol Catfish love you scorpios too! ♋️
Mangol Catfish 100% agree with you!
@@mangolcatfish4102 you know i really apprechiate this but- im not that emotional as a cancere myself bc like honestly i dont care about what ppl have to say about us they just end up embarresing themselves and we will be the one ending up laughing
Water signs are the most manipulative.
581e fuck that
581e EMOTIONALLY MANIPULATIVE
All day!
Bitch cancer's are the most loyal sign
@@aretmis1000 no theyre not i dumped 5 boyfreinds while catfishing
he never lied when he said " A lot of Cancer men act like females"
AMEN
Facts
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Yes lol
Y’all bitches sound hurt lol
You can't hate without having loved at one point.
We are soo grateful for his strong character and intelligence.
@hello Fr 😭😭
“Cancers typically date people who are losers” 😂🤔 So what the fucc is he if he’s dated “Majority of cancers”
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Cancers literally remind me of a person that walks around with a cloud over their head. Their emotions change like the weather and they'll try to trick you in believing you caused it but they've always had that cloud over their head. You are so right about having to constantly reset with them. Its because they cant let anything go. They don't know how to move on and pick up where you left off. They have to start all over.
I think the way the sign is raised determines the way they act
realest comment
Yes upbringing can help them to get the best out of every sign.
I’m a third generation cancer. Grandma, mom, and me. I was doomed from the start haha.
Right whats wrong with this social path. Hes an aquarius who seeks identity and a personality. In other words he a social path and a stubborn 1 at that
Not to say all aquarius are toxic because i am very close with some female and male aquarius
I'm a cancer and I would agree with a lot of your points except the part about us being messy. I personally hate messes and always find myself cleaning up around my house or where ever I am. But none the less, great video brother. Subscribed =)
yep
So true.
I suffer from OCD cleanliness is not a problem with us. We're cancer the home is our most cherished item never dirty
We are the neatest
amourelie stsurin
I'm a Cancer & tbh almost everything you said here explained me, unfortunately. You really opened my eyes. 😭
+pepsi taylor Me TOO!! FOREAL!!!
Ehh don’t claim that. Aquarius ppl are extremely childish and attention seeking
@@fearchronicles849 YALL ARE THE CHILDISH STOP PROJECTING YOU GUYS USE PETTY INSULTS AND PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE ANYTIME YOU FEEL INSECURE FUCKING CRAZY
This video is the most in depth, precise reading of a cancer that I've ever listened to.
He experienced exactly what I experienced.
+Lynn Lynn thank you! subscribe~!
Auset McChristion-Thomas I sure will.
Lynn Lynn yesss
Lynn Lynn pretty much
Cancers pay attention to every thing, unintentionally. Cancers have the brain of an elephant. The most loyal and understanding. They can be Moody. Cancers have too much light and inspiration the lheart of the party and don't even like the spotlight. Very positive people. but just like all people and zodiac there are some darker side and negativity. MOST CANCER DO NOT LIKE DRAMA they are in love with comfort and security (close friends and love ones)
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So true !!!
Did you just call me an elephant
I am a cancer I always get in drama and now I have no friends
mikemadmusic nah Pisces is most understanding sign but people don’t understand them
I agree with you on some stuff. What I noticed is the high level of emotional instability and sensitivity in the women. It's almost hypocritical. The dark mood swings and terrible, terrible decision making with dating. The women also seem to dwell in a darkness that they expect you to deal with and then when they perk up, you're supposed to just perk up with them. Can't take critisicm and they live in a fake alternate reality where in their world, they are perfect and it's everyone else fault.
Lmaoo
The cancer men are all those things you described and some extra! I can’t!🤦🏻♀️👀
As a water influenced person i'll admit there's some truth to this.
i gotta be honest, I laughed at first when you pointed out your opinion. because it was kind of true, and that is coming from a Cancer. BUT due to all this ´´negative´´ remarks, we do have a big ass reason to be spiteful, passive-agressive, overemotional and moody etc. it just doesn´t come straight out of our asses for no reasons, let´s put it that way. on the flip side, we usually give our best version of ourselves, our true self being helpful, intuitive, caring, nurturing, understanding and loving as well. when someone play with us or not taking us seriously, because we give literally our ALL, then you get what you deserve. the worst side of ourselves. and that´s why we don´t trust life or others. cancer´s if you read this, you know exactly what I mean. i´m proud of being a Cancer, and so should you
Yea true we are generous to a fault we give our all and are often taken advantage of
But not only cancers are loving caring nurturing and give their all to a loved one, anyone who knows how to love does that. But only cancers don’t trust life itself anymore if their feelings get hurt. That’s a bit dramatic and illogical, but i think it could be that your negative expectations and distrust in everything naturally manifests itself and becomes your reality. Basically you attract your own reality. Idk if that makes sense or helps in any way? But I’m dating a cancer and we try to help each other with our negative/less developed sides since were very different lol So this has actually been helping him to regain trust in life
People want cancers to be doormats
Periodt!
SO TRUEE
Thank you! This is Exactly what it has been like for me and my ex-best cancer friend. She always was the victim and drama filled. I always felt bad bc of it but I didn't know why and I honestly had to disconnect bc I wasn't doing anything, even being nice would offend them after we split as friends. She then went super fake nice like I could diabetes from how fake she was to everyone around me but not me. I'd get the stink eye when no one was looking. Like she was judging me or something. I had to walk away to find peace. It was like she wanted me to be and stay miserable. I called her and asked for forgiveness and told her that I forgive her as well and confessed my issues. The drama still lives but I did my best to end it, she can't let it go. Life is too short for all that drama bs. really really! She really made me feel crazy like it was like she was trying it on propose. Crazy Cancers... Stay away from me!!!
LCC Oh you are so on point with being nice can offend them!! I'm currently blocked on all social media by a cancer family member. Her birthday is coming up, thought about sending a happy birthday text then go back to leaving her alone, but her response will probably be" Leave me alone, before I file a restraining order against you"!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😃
LCC I don't understand what God was thinking in creating this Emotionally, Unstable ass sign!! I thought we were made in his image, just born into sin. But some people are born with natural toxic tendencies based on their birth sign and it's not doing this world any dam good at all!!
LCC FACTS
I understand that cancers can be annoying sometimes.. (I’m a cancer)
But that’s just to far man. You can’t just call us unstable ass signs. We have feelings too
They are mad weird !
I am a cancer and I will say this is 100% accurate
I'm a cancer and wow you just opened my eyes soooo trueeeee! damn I will definitely be improving my behavior
This is so true they go through your private things they treat their spouses badly true and they will do nice things to get you comfortable then when they get upset they will strip it leaving you helpless that's not loyalty regardless what you go through you never leave a person helpless so all that kind hearted bull save it dark sided cancers you only do what's beneficial for them
Ezybeatz definitely narcissistic
Shantanell Wilder Yes my sister is one. And her loyalty is very fucking conditional!!
Shantanell Wilder And then when you tell them about themselves, instead of looking at like "maybe there's some things about myself I should change", they see criticism even from love ones like your attacking their character. They're very bratty, they want everyone else to take responsibility for their wrongs and pretend like they have no wrongs or will accuse you of bashing their character when you come to them about something they've done to offend you. They're some manipulative creatures!!
Shantanell Wilder right.
This is laughable at best 😂
As a cancer man, I agree with a lot of this though some things don't apply to me like the whole drama thing. I try to avoid anything stressful or upsetting as much as possible and have been making attempts to think more positive, but I can understand what you mean at the very least. Thank you for making this video. :)
Thanks. Subscribe please.
You are who you attract. Sometimes you have to look at yourself first because if you don't that's where the blame game comes in lol
did you show this video to your spouse?
+Auset McChristion-Thomas I don't have to because I agree with alot of the things you said but the other things aren't true because all cancers aren't the same because zodiac traits are alot deeper than just the sun trait maybe it's just the ones you deal with are the same just saying
+Auset McChristion-Thomas and please don't get all defensive especially when most of the time water and air don't mix especially Aquarius and Cancers it's rare they succeed in a relationship but I'm just stating my facts just like you're stating some of yours
+Brianna Daye Unless you can show this video to your spouse...you are lying yo yourself. I also suggest you watch my other video THE CANCERVERSE and pay attention to 8:30...and also watch WHY I MAKE WHY I HATE YOUR SIGN VIDEOS and pay attention to 14:20.
+Auset McChristion-Thomas I know why you make them but you can't honestly expect to make a video about Cancers but not for Cancers and expect us to not say anything but it's cool im just saying how I feel just like you did thats all
You such an amazing astrologer
Cancer has a devil personality, pretending to be someone they not, once person trusts them, they betray.
Superstar Lula yessssssss
That's pretty rude usually it's the other way around, but that's okay, but I had this friend that betrayed me ever since we met/became friends so it's tough. 😁☹️ (Btw I'm a cancer)
Not all cause am not like this
Ya'll some haters😂
Every cancer man I’ve dealt with was toxic and mean spirited.
Really? Can you explain how to me?
@@Hours-gr9uh they would say little mean comments, gaslight, be players & just say things to charm you but not really mean it . I had one even make fun of me for liking him smh oh & manipulative
@@destinyrutherford9209 thank you 😊
Everyone,hi this is real
This why I don’t date my own sign cancer men very different from woman . 💯 Hay we have the same last name is Rutherford
No lie I thought I could trust this cancer friend and I told her my bucket list and she did everything on my list... with out me and then repeatedly bragged about it to all our friends. I'm not a crier but I did. She would take what I was good at and do it better than me and then be all sweet about it and brag, and brag on about it. Sorry for venting but everything your saying so US! Where were you like, three years ago. Cancers really do suck the life out of you. I lost interest in my hobbies after that. It was not a good time in my life. Thank you for this vid really really, reallllyy. You've opened my eyes, I'm not crazy. She's just a bitch, two faced and sneaky. What you see is not what you get with a CA.
Lauren Chronister keeping it real af 💯 sometimes u gota burn bridges if they switch up on you
My sister to a T. We haven't talked in a decade.
Bitch,was a snake not a cancer. Ps. I had an a aqua friend who wants to be a la single black female and the roommate.
LCC I feel you this cancer "friend" of mine tries to copy everything I do I've learned to not tell her shit about anything I do 😂 she even tried to get with my ex . Don't let the bragging get to you just roll your eyes at her bitch ass lol they're just really insecure
LCC 🤣🤣 yep the copy everything and are in denial to the fact that they doing it!!!!
I'm a cancer some of the stuff is true but I'm definitely not into drama I usually withdrawal from it. even if I'm in a circle of ppl and they start talking shit about someone else, I'm usually the one that doesn't participate. I don't want no part of it.
and I'm clean, and I don't mind when my man takes charge too.
I agree.. This video isn't even spot on wtf?? All I'm hearing are things that other signs do.. We are known to be a caring sign but fuck us over and you will hear from us!
Good thing my moon and rising sign balance me out. So a lot of the things he said are incorrect or i've evolved from those behavior.
Likewise👍🏿
thank u i hate drama
I'm an Aqua woman myself, and I've recently found Cancer men coming into my orbit. I'd never had experience with Cancer men, but I've had tense interactions with Cancer women (even Cancer women I'm on good terms with aren't people with whom I'm the most comfortable), so when these men came into my life, I was prepared to hate them. I was pleasantly surprised. I find Cancer men to be deeply empathetic, which, as an unusually sensitive and emotional Aquarian (could be due to the fact that I'm a Capricorn cusper?), is so refreshing. I'm very defensive, but these men have a way of making me feel safe enough to let my guard down. I find that they can be divergent thinkers, often jumping from one random topic to the next, but I enjoy that. I sincerely *like* talking to people and learning about what they think, and so do these men. There's a level of comfort with them that I've never felt with any other man. I don't feel any pressure to impress them. Cancer men could teach other dudes a thing or two about empathy and understanding.
I'm 1/20 What is your birthday
'Said some really intelligent things here. I really like Cancers, but they can be difficult for a Scorpio like me. The ones I've seen tend to disappear when overwhelmed.
+joey hernandez I'm also a Scorpio and yes they do tend to disappear when overwhelmed. Can any Cancers answer why you do this? It's like here today gone tomorrow.
+Captain Coco But, I gotta' say, they're definitely worth it! No other sign can do what they do for me. :)
I think they do that to protect themselves
+Aria MyParadise From what? So they don't get hurt? If they like someone they still do this! I get they hate rejection but why not take a chance on someone. My patience is thinning for people like this [only liked one Cancer] and only experienced this with him. I should state we live in two different continents so I guess that doesn't help.
i'm not really a pro with astrology x) but i'm a cancer and i don't do that. it depends i guess :)
us cancers are mad in the comments cause we know he’s right lmao
No, no he isn't. That guy needs help.
Cancers and Pisces are the best!!
I don't understand how you can hate a cancer when they care about everyone, and how you can have problems with Pisces when they are just trying to fit in.
At least water signs can relate to you on a spiritual level.
Finally ,I don't like the term bi-polar, many people are labeled this by society when they may just be very special (indigos/crystals etc.)
Everyone goes through a hard time but there's no reason to hate just because you cannot relate to their problems. (Probably for the best because some people don't deserve their friendship.)
EVERYONE NEEDS HELP AT TIMES SO DONT HATE .
cuz pisces and cancer are quality and other signs are quantity especially AQUARIUS
it all depends. ...there's dark sided pisces out there n cancers-
Lais Oliveira of curse i'm speaking about this dark sided aquarian no offence to you or anybody O:)
Zeeshan Sohail 👏👏👍
In the end all signs run into the light becoming peaceful and loving/caring.
I find that water signs have this trait of being sensitive no matter the circumstances (because they are fixed) which is so helpful to others because it allows them to care and nurture everyone and everything. Making the world a better place:)
Btw I'm a Scorpio with Scorpio rising and Pisces moon (I know I'm very mysterious XD), and I find other water signs tend to be the nicest people I know.
I am a cancer girl and unfortunately you are damn right! I know I have some things to work on!
No, you just need to find the right person whom you are compatible with, someone who appreciates all your good traits and can tolerate the bad ones. In fact, some of the traits some people consider bad (for example clinginess) are relished by some people.
It is important to have self- knowledge, to be able to improve yourself and to be the light for many people in this world. We do need great leaders and nurtures
@@JCre37 if you find out you're an alcoholic wouldn't correct that, why are you telling her not to correct herself
You spoke so many of my thoughts here my grandma & sister is a Cancer and I dated a Cancer and I stay as far away from them as possible, they're just like their sign a disease (CANCEROUS)& negative and manipulative and they are NOT logical at all, I tried to understand them but they are lyers and just bad spirited to me & always something negative, you really did speak ALOT OF facts here. I've been hurt by my grandma an sister and they hate each other but they are BOTH too of the same kind
I find that too most cancers cant deal with other cancers because they act alike but will deny it ....quite delusional
To my fellow Cancers. Chill guys, it's cool. He's allowed his opinion. Plus you aren't just your sun sign and you are more than your natal chart my friends (astrology even states this with progressed charts). This is also describing a very basic, immature Cancerian. Love, Cancer sun/Capricorn moon/Leo rising.
Thank You.
cancer sun, libra moon, sag ASC
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Yeah, it's only like 2%, so this is a very surface-level depth. And there are different types of astrology. I'm Gemini, and I follow sidereal astrology. (I know ppl are gonna say"it's not real astrology.. Blah blah", but I was born in Asia, and they use it there. And it's my personal choice what to believe)
Faith Ward you don't have to justify your beliefs! 😄 I know of a lot of credited astrologers who use sidereal 😊
+Demi Bauros. Really? Most of the people I meet that follow astrology say that tropical is the only form of astrology. I say to them "we should be allowed to choose which astrology we'll believe. If we all have to follow tropical, it's like saying, you have to be christian, Muslim or a Jew. It's like religion, you can choose your belief"
Im a sag and i dated a cancer man... OMG it was the worst relationship i ever had 😂😂😂
Cancer men aren't real men
@@thiccredgyal3404 yes we are we just don't pay
@@nellyegb1033 They overlook if a Cancer man has a bunch of internal BS to deal with this = very lil patience or room for other ppls bs.
As a Scorpio it’s making me heart warm that the cancers are actually in the comments admitting how horrible of people they are 😅😊 My boss is a cancer and I worked with her for 4 years . She is literally the worst person I have known in my life . Everything you said was true , we were friends for about a year and she was horrible . I ignored the signs and she scared me so much that I have never forgotten about it , 2 years later . She was very spiteful and resentful towards me when I decided to end our friendship . She was very manipulative and a liar . She was not transparent and was very hard to read .I tried to set her up with some of my husband friends who was genuinely interested in her and they were successful men with good things going on for themselves and not much baggage. She literally would tell me that she only likes toxic men because she had a lot of fcked up shit going on in her life . This made me confused and feel bad for her because she always looked down on herself , she views herself very low , and doesn’t have much self-confidence. As a Scorpio woman we are attracted to people that we feel are way better than us because we are overly confident in our abilities and literally think we are great at everything . She needed to feel important and big up her own ego for dating losers so they can put her on a pedestal . She would be very personal and friendly one day and the next day hop back into a shell . As a Scorpio , I love the chase in the beginning because Scorpios have a thing with having to read the whole room and understanding mentally who people are before we engage with them . She was very mysterious and that attracted me to having to know her and figure her out in friendship type of way. Should have left her ass in shell 🐚 and went on about my life .
“Wallowing in emotional turmoil and volatility “ that is exactly what he would do along with frequently slipping into the victim mentality and/or depression mode. As an Aquarian, I try to help, but when nothing changes on their part by trying to help themself it becomes too emotionally draining. So…you save the savable, the ones that truly want to change or be helped and throw the rest back!
the truth is real omg. the manipulation from a cancer i know was too much! i'ma pisces dealing with a cancer and this is her i swear -_-
You never lied.
jokes on you i have been besties with a pisces for 5+ years now so
The men play too many mind games
They act like women that's why
You described my grandmother and I lived with her for 7 long years. Longest years of my life.
It's funny how an Aqua (cold hearten, robotic weirdo) pick on others!
I Do NOT like Aqua (period) you guys r cheat chatter, cheater, talking too much, cant make a point, gossiper, two faced with wandering eyes. I dont consider Aqua man if it is a last one standing on planet of earth.
im an aqua and just want to say dont lower you level everybody is unique!!!
defintly agree with that opinion tho
we love you too😄
Im cancer
#Aquarius
Agreed. An IMMATURE Cancer most def has these traits but if they can learn how to RESPOND to emotions in constructive ways instead of REACTING in destructive ways, they begin their path of mastery over them.
hmmm, we hold grudges you say... no we are just karma, we give you what you get
Mizu Tayanama some of you guys hold grudges.
Mizu Tayanama well said. We reflect what we are shown. Like the moon reflects the suns light!
Ohh shit, yes gurl
HollowGram at least be honest and admit the truth. Its a grudge. Lol
You can be emotional, but christ, don't be dense and try to say some shit like "we're karma." Lol no. What you are is someone who gets caught up in an emotional wave, and it you're not tended to, like every 5 mins, you begin to think no one cares. Lol You also eat up every charm on a whim and when it all turns out to be something its not, you wrap yourself up in a pathetic emotional blanket. Whats funny is you consider this a strength when its actually a weakness to let pain run your life. What's also funny is how much you can't stand overly emotional people, yet are ridiculously emotional and actually show it. Lol
Nope. Fuck you guys. 😂
HollowGram Correct☝
On point! They will drain your entire life force energy!!!
I avoid them, I call them energy vampires. I avoid my co workers because they're Cancers.
@Extreme Metal Thiccums Yup, they're nice at first but then after a bit they get moody for no damn reason, they flipout for no reason. I think they're nice at first to analyze your kindness, if they feel they can walk over you they will. Leo's don't have time for that, so we cut them out our lives and they hate that lol.
@Extreme Metal Thiccums Spot on. 🤣 yup. I think us leos are easy to get along with, just respect us and be loyal and your good.
Yup
@@DoveMan-zu9is actually hunny im a cancer and i am emotionally stable honestly idgaf about these opinions bc if i had the chance to i would step on them :)
I hate them too, their such jealous moody shady people.
Shut up
I respect Cancer-signs because they have compassion and care for those they love and cherish. They are a bit possessive and some others have called them "clingy" but this is not the case. They just want to see their special one be safe and sound at all times which is a good thing because love is what matters. They are very loyal lovers as well, but they have to know that the person is also loyal and faithful as well. All in all they are stable soulmates as they are not into flings. For the record, I am a Gemini with Pisces-moon and Libra-rising. Also I do have Scorpio in my natal chart, so maybe that is why I am also a caring type as well.
I am a cancer, I see some of things you talked about, things I am honestly aware. Unfortunately, we do alot for others, we just want to be acknowledged and be respected. These negative traits is a response based when others don't respect the positive traits and what is shared. That's it. A grown woman perception.
Totally agree.
You do things for others because you want to, not to be acknowledged.
Y'all demons, you don't do things for nothing you do something for a reason behind.
Now,I doing this for a reason and my claws is up. Fuck you! Now, back to my cozy home in my shell and chill.
Had a cancer he drain the shit out of me to damn emotion always moody I had to bounce on him couldn’t take it no more
Actually it's called bpd. Borderline personality disorder.
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I have Borderline Personality Disorder, so no it isn't. BPD is way different than this. I'm a Libra and my toxic little brother is a Cancer.
My experiences with Cancers they seem to be very sneaky and like to lie a lot you also have to be careful with them because they are very sensitive you can have a whole conversation with them and say things that they don't like and you won't know until it's too late they also are very downing well really all over the place with their emotions one minute happy next minute mad back and forth
I also noticed with them they are very jealous type of people usually family members or close friends but mainly family... They also seem very insecure and never sure of themselves and always thinking their situation is worse than everyone else and being that they like to hide their true feelings about things it can seem like they're fake
Probably cancers doesn’t like you that why you had this experience …. My family love me I’m the support of the family , my friends the real ones last me for years I take care of them , just respect me and my home and my privacy , you will always have respect back ! I love to listen and I understand anybody in any situation .the truth in your face always
@@Jhonsmithandy Look how defensive you got and made it about you personally. That's exactly why people cant stand you cancers. Its all about you
My best guy friend is a Cancer, dated one. They are too emotional for me.
Wants to be the hero but too dark to be the hero. Dont trust you because they don't trust life in general.
Well I'll admit thats for damn sure!
Agreed)
Cancer and I agree
if you are a masculine sign which are the firesigns: aries, leo or Sagittarius or airsigns: gemini, libra and aquarius then you will never vibe with a cancer or any of the feminine signs. astrology goes very deep. masculine signs go better with masculine signs. and natal charts play a huge part on astrology the sun sign is just the the tip of the iceberg to a soul
I think you're right. I'm an Aquarius female dealing with a cancer dude. We've been friends for years. There's a vibe there but we can't get on the same page intimately. I can't deal with the manipulation.
I'm a pisces and my best friend since 6th grade is Aries... sureeee
I'm a virgo I get along with aires and leo and sagittarius and I roll with air signs as well but I have alot water and earth in my chart
Julissa: I'm an Air Sign, Totaly Agre with you
exactly I'm Pisces sun but Leo moon and Capricorn rising. I don't really get along with other water signs. I kick it with sagg,aquarius, Aries and Gemini
I'm a cancer and I'm super bubbly and easy going. I am private. I do get emotional, but only because I feel at a level that most don't!
I totally 💯 percent agree with you ❕👍I was once married to a cancer. And boy was he a crybaby ,drama to the max, a cheater, and a big liar, condescending, love to do a tit for tat . Full of secrets and cheating as hell!! And they always like people to feel pity for them they like empathy and sympathy all the time in every situation... cancer men to me are toxic!🤥👎 everything you said was all true you're the bomb!👍🌹💯😘💝
I have been in not many relationships im a cancer and I don't want to act like any of this, this is why I try to stay happy most times to be different from most cancers
This is my brother to a tee
I dated a cancer sex was bomb but the extreme sensitivity and emotionally unstable mood swings and trust issues were too much to deal with. I'm a Gemini
I'm a gemini too n I'm messing with a cancer we not in too deep n I'm already ready to dip it's too much
I'm a cancer Everytime I thought my partner (which is a gemini)was being unfaithful via intuition I was able to prove that with facts Everytime.
Imma cancer dating a Gemini we been pretty good lol
Girl yes !
finally someone get us, thank you, God bless you
I like how you didn't get offended over this lol
Unlike several other cancers in the comments
yes because its good to know your flaws and everyone is different, we should accept opinions 😄♋💜💐💐
Im an aries female dating a cancer male and i couldnt help but laugh!! This is so true he is very much what you said and it drives me crazy !!!!!!! He does need to feel like hes needs to be needed and likes to 'pinch' to cause an episode so that he can fix it. Everything you have said, i have lived.
glad i gave you some laughter about a situation that is actually sad. subscribe! show him this video~!
Cancerians hate being told what to do. They often like to follow their own paths!
My father was a cancer. I didnt talk to him for years, and refused to talk to him in his last hours. He was TOXIC in every aspects. I wish my mother got rid of him in time....
toxic in what ways, thats sad
It's ok bro we cancers don't like either. i think your sign is probably Gemini. furthermore not all cancer are like that
Jacklene Taylor aww so cute...lol
Auset McChristion-Thomas You ain't right for this
Auset McChristion-Thomas You ain't right for this
Jacklene Taylor its ok baby,,,everything is gonna be ok sweetie...daddy's here.
Auset McChristion-Thomas bend over, little boy
OMG! Cancers lie ALL the time! You are so correct...at least in my experience as a Scorpio Sun, Gemini Ascendent, Taurus Moon! 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✊🏾🍷
+Sly Fox Dumb Bunny ...good 4 you
were actually pretty honest most of the time well at least i am
+hello world ...Yeah, but my experience has been horrific. And my Moon is actually Aquarius btw (I just wanted to clear my previous post up lol). It would be nice for me if my opinion could be changed about Cancers 😟 I have just been around some pretty f'd up Cancers. And the consensus on this post showed me I wasn't alone.
We are pretty honest. At least I am. And I'm so honest I'll tell you that I do lie at times. But not often!
+Lizzie Martin ...I can respect your honesty 😊 I appreciate honesty because I really don't have a shock factor and I don't tell others' business either. It's just disappointing to know that even the sign Im supposed to be compatible with can be inclined to lying. But I guess it's not a sign thing...it's an individual person to person thing 😊
my heart was crushed by cancer man I really cared about him and love him and you just push me away you're hurting me that's why I don't never want to fall in love or get attached to anyone
Same ..a cancer man .. I trusted 120% , loved with a pure love , spoiled him rotten ! Said i was " moody " ...lol ..no shit ...working 60 hrs , running a home , teenagers , his mom , his brother ..taking care of them .. He said " he couldnt do it anymore .. Lol .. I did everything ..lol .. So he left me for my friend ..just gone ...a pisces ..lol I love karma 😂
Y'all cheated
I'm a cancer sun and moon...truly a cancer at heart and some things were spot on and other things I didn't agree with but good video. Even though these were all negative traits about a cancer there are definitely more positive traits about us that out weigh the bad.
fff rff thanks! i appreciate it. subscribe
Fr this was extremely negative
I don’t like cancers either
Thanks a million for this video! Both my parents are Cancers and my long term boyfriends is one also. My life philosophy became "anything you say or do WILL be used against you". But after watching this, i realise understanding each other is the key to making things work... or giving up on things that are toxic.
they are very moody
autonomous af. and very attached to loved ones but nobody runs me duh
Shut up
@@ufw9132 exactly moody asf
@@mia0721 what got you mad?
@@patriceanderson8239 It’s not our fault we’re a cancer. Why blame everything on us?
I am a Cancer and th whole video I was like "WHERE'S THE LIE?"
AMAAAZING! This is so true... Every single word is true... It's even so scary
The sad part is that you really think that you're gonna try to change...but you won't.
Auset McChristion-Thomas That's true too though!
I am rising Sagittarius so I think that helps me lots!
@@tenshy94 I'm Cancer sun Sagittarius moon and Aquarius rising so that helps me 🤔😘
@@monica62888 Yeah the moon and rising helps!
Im an Aquarius man dating a Cancer woman. I swear im about to leave her. They come across as weak or meek, but once you realize how they move. You'll realize they are the opposite of weak, they use their emotions to dominate situations. There is no growth with this sign. The emotions wont let them grow into one with you. They add confusion to every little thing, unnecessarily. Its tiresome and time consuming.
My advice don’t deal with cancers at all , I’m a Pisces and they say cancers get along with Pisces hell no . They are actors who want everyone to be there for them . I pushed a cancer and thought he was going downstairs to just cool off or make the situation more calm , minutes later he set me up and got me arrested luckily I got the charges dropped but they are will never take accountability and they will never say sorry for anything
same bro I'm Scorpio they are biggest mamas boys they always asking there mom for Christmas gifts they beg there mom to celebrate for them on holidays my brother cancer he was begging my mom if she was gonna celebrate Thanksgiving for him when you don't expect them to come and than they show up outta no where to start irritating you they are super annoying i notice about cancers they have this emotional voice like they was crying or something like they got there feelings hurt when you speak to them they talk with feminine voice
I'm a cancer, and everything he said is true, omg we suck 😂😅
No, you're speaking for yourself!
Speak for yourself pls
You can't talk for all of us .
Every zodiac sign/energy sucks when they still unevolved or operating on the Darkside of their energy.
@@AfroPick82 I agree this zodiac stuff is a joke lol I'm a cancer woman and I'm a beautiful person we all have flaws and is not perfect soo..but it's still interesting to know what you could work on about yourself much love to my cancer family keep being you 🥰
he's on point.
I'm a Cancer woman w/ Scorpio moon. This was about 90% true for me. I can definitely stay on the same emotional ride for days. It's exhausting but i feel like i need it for processing and learning. And the clutter thing, omg lol. Clutter never stays away long for me. But i've learned the great wisdom of how clearing your environment is tied to emotional release. This video definitely gave me some insight on my experiences in past friendships and what the other person might have been seeing with me.
Everything you said in this video is SPOT ON!!! My mother is a cancer & she is everything you described in this video.
They definitely look for insults. They want to feel hurt so bad. Things could be going perfect and they aren't satisfied with that
We are leaders
1000% true
@@nellyegb1033hell naw y'all are followers
@@TheFadewolf cancer have the greatest leaders out of the zodiac .
Terrible leaders.
I had a cancer business partner and I did a lot for the greater scheme of the business which he misconstrued as me doing it for him only - so he basically started to sabotage work projects and became angry with me (ironic how bruh was angry with me while he was the one destroying projects).. terrible people if you’re interested in work and growth. If you like to stay in the same place forever than yea go be friends with a Cancer.. because the moment you do anything that doesn’t involve them, you’re hurting them to the core. Truly toxic individual
omg, that comment about having to keep starting over, ive just experienced that! like everything we discussed & experienced the past month has been forgotten!! It's like a multi personality disorder, thank u for explaining 😊
Coming from a Sag man that keeps it real . You Cancers drive me absolutely insane . The emotions and the unsureness of a cancer towards others makes me go crazy . The neediness to be loved yet the emotional shutdowns confuse me. You are often very unpredictable when it comes to certain situations. As a Sag, i need to know the truth and I've noticed from dating one, you cant really get that all the time from cancers (especially when they feel threatened by confrontation) . They tend to keep their guard up at very random times (for their own personal reasons). despite all of that You guys are an amazing sign . You amaze me BECAUSE you are very unpredictable sign truly , I've noticed a lot of people don't expect much from cancers because they come off as needy and too emotional sometimes, but ive noticed if you treat them right they will treat you better than any other sign in the zodiac wheel . Truly unlike any other sign.
We’re needy only when we like you that’s actually a good thing we are very cold to ppl we don’t have an interest in 😂
This doesn't describe me at ALL....I'm extremely neat and absolutely hate clutter. I'm very independent and self sufficient and want a partner who is equally so. I'm very competitive and far from boring.
You probably have other dominant signs in your chart. I'm Pisces but I also have a lot of Sagittarius traits.
+Tyeshia Ferguson-Goshine hood-x.ning.com/profiles/blogs/talking-to-the-fish
+Tyeshia Ferguson-Goshine Good for you! Seriously, you give hope to all Cancers in the world to be capable of independence and self-sufficiency. Keep it up!
Same here.
Too exitable i see .. You need a chill 💊
I dated a cancer for a short time and I ended it because you are right they basically the sweetest at first then turn on you over nothing. They get upset and run then want to come back as if it’s nothing expected you to still want them
I was like get out and stay out of my life since I got mad turned the tables on them in a direct way then decided to test then how they like it then if I tried to contact them then after few days
He has not contacted me since and ignored me. So now we on the same page at least. Neither now is budging. I feel if he truly cared as much as he said he will be the one now to need to stop the games and act right
Yet nothing so far. Yet his friends say directly and indirectly he’s in love with me and don’t want none of them pursuing me lol
Princess Diana was a Cancerian one of the most loved women in England nothing like what you've described sounds like you're over analytic and paranoid
Not to speak badly of anyone dead or anything, but that's literally just her on the surface that we all know and love. Most of her fans never even actually knew her personally (because she was a celebrity after all) so you can't really judge him to be wrong. Then again, astronomy is just generalizing anyway, which is typically what he's doing. Not everyone with the same sign acts the exact same.
I'm a Cancer and you just read me from the front page to the back cover.
CossandraCastle not me that's sad
Appreciate your honesty!
Sorry for you, I'm a cancer woman too, and that don't describe me at all.
cancer sounds like a weird version of scorpio xD
I can watch this guy for hours, he's straight up about it all
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Just remember all 7 female signs do variations of this lol.... my recommendation if you are serious about keeping the good aspects of some [like Taurus persistence and patience ] while not having the stubbornness, greed, rigid mind, needless grudges is to recognize this truth... and cleanse yourself from that shit internally and externally [meaning you yourself can't do it.. otherwise you are being a hypocrite lol ] and have no right to complain about that shit
My grandmother is a Scorpio sun, Capricorn moon and she says "in life you have to be a hypocrite" I'm like lol what... I would never say / think / be that at all lol
You are very observant...what you said here is 100% true...my best friend right now is a Taurus...and he has helped keep me grounded..,however I didn't fall into his negative traits. You have a very keen sense of understanding.
I just dumped a cancer man who constantly insulted me.
most water signs are like this they are their own worst enemies
Just wanted to say this is one of the best breakdowns of cancers I have heard before especially the examples. Im a cancer my first wife was a cancer and now my current wife is a cancer and to top it off my dad, mom, and bestfriend are leos lol
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I love Cancers!! They are very nurturing, intuitive, compassionate and loyal. You will see negative traits when people try to bullshit them. They are picked on alot due to the sensitive nature which makes it easy for bullying. Since Cancer are less likely to confront issues they are often make a scapegoat. The advice I give is don't fuck with Cancers and you won't have any problem with them.
I'm a cancerian male and he pretty much summed it up well
I agree with several things u said. with personal experience cancer men are a real trip, a roller coaster ride like never before constant heartbreak ect...more negative than positive.. in dealing with them brings nothing but a life of depression and confusion..can be very passionate, but in a whole ur dealing with to much mental and emotional pain
I know this is old but I'm a Pisces and my last experience with a Cancer man was terrible. The constant "woe is me" attitude got old fast. When he didn't get what he wanted manipulation came out.
I’m a Pisces too and I hate cancer I pushed a cancer and thought he was gonna go outside and walk and let things cool down minutes later the cops are there and that was the biggest betrayal I ever had witnessed
Wow im just seeing this video right now and everything you said is so true unfortunately. Im learning more about myself everyday you mentioned about us being weak which is true thats why the men focus on physical strength mainly bc without it we feel weak and vulnerable. Great video btw🙏
I’m dying over here 💀😂😂🔥👏👏👏👏 anyone who has dealt with cancer knows this is true!
I'm an Aquarius girl that dated a cancer guy for almost 3 years. It was beyond draining and unhealthy so glad I left him. Til this day he still tries to follow me on social media.
j son glad you got rid of him
Oh god cuz u guys. Are un emotional u left him good for u could have told him what he did to u and work on it but noooo
They will do that. Hoovering your life as much as they can. Sucking the life force.
elizabeth njj I did multiple times but he always thought I was joking. Then by the time he was emotionally dead to me I finally broke up with him...
I think your hate of cancers has clouded your judgement. I'm a cancer and what you're saying is just...where did you get that hat?
Lmfaooooo
lmmfao in real life. wow. im blown away. this is some grade a bullshit.
Yo this is on point!! I am a Sagittarius and I at one point fell for a cancer woman and i can tell you she was mad sexy and all but man was she a headake to deal with. It was like walking on egg shells even with the smallest of things. Spent more time stressing than being happy. When it comes to that its just better to walk away trust!
Was she a cheater ???
I actually found this entertaining and I'm a cancer. The women don't keep dirty houses because they don't want to look bad to others. Many want to appear perfect however should realize no one is. I think the women are very different than the men. I've always thought the worst thing is a cancer who didn't have a good upbringing as many don't get over it. I know about 30 cancers.
Privacy is for the cheater . I’m a cancer and you’re giving all my traits away. Lol so not fair. My husband is a Capricorn, he keeps me grounded. He says I treat my family better than him . I do it on purpose 😁. He says I’m dark and mean and always sensitive. But he loves me. This video is so accurate it’s scary. The most accurate one thus far .
I'm not ashamed to say he's spot on.
we have the same name. do u have Facebook!
Cancer man and I agreed to end things this was the second time I dated one and neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr again!!!! Manipulating, over emotional, passive aggressive always want people to compliment them 😩😩😩😩 take things to far you can’t joke laugh or have fun the men tend to have some abusive ways they cannot take constructive criticism at all!!!!!!! They love to flirt and talk to every person they see...
I'm in a current relationship with an Aquarius, and he's super sweet! His birthday is on Valentines Day (Which is my favorite holiday) He would even text me at freaking 3 AM. He had a crush on me for the longest time, maybe its because of my Aquarius moon and Sagittarius Rising - From a Cancer