Looking at the comments i can see that a lot of member's in the tribe also want a female version - What men think that women should know .....put a like if you think i should do it. I will be discussing this in the next meeting with my youtube and patroen members and get pointers from the men here. Should be a lot of fun ;)
i disagree with this video where freishia tells us 'women discuss their private sex life with her female friends', maybe girls do that, but it is my advice to everybody that private matter is "private" for a reason, no woman or a man should talk about their private sex life/look of their private parts and how their partners look naked with his/her friends as these are the moments when you and your partners are the most vulnerable to each other. So, if you start gossiping with these type of matters, it becomes super disrespectful and they will lose the trust to confide/be vulnerable with you. So it is my request to both boys and girls to stop this bad behavior for your own good !
@@subhankitbasu620 ya i feel that way too. You should discuss your sex life with your partner or a therapist. With friends, it kinda becomes like gossip
your value as a man is increases with time if you r growing in your career n making good money NEVER SETTLE FOR A 28-30 YEAR OLD WOMAN becoz men r supposed to be attracted to youth n beauty (at primal level)and theres nothing wrong with marrying a girl 10 years younger than you NEVER let the societal pressure affect u coz there always has been a gynocentric social order to shame men for marrying 8-10 year younger woman so to pressure them to marry a 28-30 year old to cater to the women's mating strategy just make sure if u r a high value man u deserve your share of youth,fertility n beauty u desire (women r born with value n men must create their value, but women start loosing it around 28-29 n they innately know this that'swhy they get botoxed up n married to a blue pill beta even after body count in double digits n high value men r stupid for accepting such a girl but they r not told this thing n r pressured in all ways by parents freinds teachers etc due to the unknown gynocentric social order).
Don't do all this for women, do it for yourself, invest and work on yourself to be a better individual, getting a women is not the end goal, it is the by-product.
Totally agree with you brother Most of time guys try impress Women or may just like simp She's not a trophy She's a human nothing special I can't just message her all day long instead of that do work on yourself Man !!! There's so much things to learn ND when you apply on yourself It feel so Dem!!good
One critical thing that women rarely put in these relationships advice segments for men, is that if she makes more money than you, you should immediately just look elsewhere, because 9 times out of 10 she's not interested in you. It's not because women are all prostitutes/ that they only care about money, it's just a biological imperative. Just as men pick attractive women, which improves the gene pool, women pick rich successful men, which improves her chances of raising her children well, and generally leading a good life. If you're a poor man, or an ugly woman in this world, and you don't have a lot of options for compensating for that in other ways, you're shit out of luck, and your life is going to be aweful, and the reality is that nobody really gives a shit about that, because you're pretty much worthless to them anyway.
My business partner is a super nice guy, thoughtful and trustworthy. I am always jealous how popular he is among girls and females that come across him. He automatically earns the trust most girls he interacts with. Like you mentioned be trustworthy and someone women feel safe around. The tiny problem is that he is 32 and still a virgin. And NOT because of choice. He told me that when he tries to approach romantic topics with a girl they immediately back away no matter how safe they feel around him. He gives off a brotherly and fatherly vibe. So as good as "Make yourself trustworthy" sounds, practical experience doesn't support it. Sorry to say. Being good looking or having a dominant personality is more crucial than being a Mr. Nice guy. But no one will every say it because it makes them sound shallow.
Great advice. I will definitely not be the nice guy despite my married sister telling me to do the same. Nice guys finish last. I will build muscle, develop skills and gain confidence through my passion or work. That will get me more chances with women than being the nice guy.
So this whole video has been one big ass personal attack 😭. But it's fine trying to be better with every passing day not for some girl but myself. Love for freishia and whack ❤️
@@karanv6277 I don’t know who you are addressing when you say ‘these women’ But ai do agree with you to *some* extent A person doesn’t become a feminist just by saying so but only by their mentality and acts The ppl who are seen taking advantage of being being a woman are NOT feminists They may call themselves one but they actually are Pseudofeminists (fake feminist) in other words - sexist The only point I disagree with is that ‘ first they shd teach ‘ I believe if you are listing such things priority wise then men are the ones who need be taught First Kindly don’t take this otherwise I am a proud feminist and a men’s rights supporter , so peace and respect to all good ppl 💜🙏🏻
@@ananyasingh5721 in India real feminist movement start in early 1915 and died in late 1990, what we seen today is nothing but a bunch of weak a$$ feminist ready to used their women card to harassed some man make them look helpless and get enjoyment from their suffering and u r not so different u going to do exactly what others r doing when u find yourself in such situation and stop saying you care about man rights and their well-being and u r right "men are the ones who need to be taught First" how to treat bunch of weak a$$ feminist.
@@ankurs2315 leave the matter bro kichad pe pathar fekoge kichad uchal Kar muh pr hi aayega, "Facebook ke gawar" memes or kuch UA-camrs se manipulated hue log h kuch nahi keh skte tum 100 sahi baat Kar lo unhe bas unka point of view sahi lagega !
This is actually a personal preference, everyone’s choice is different so it would be unwise to generalise it for everyone. The correct way to proceed is to keep your calm and not act desperate nor like a toxic macho person. No one likes someone who gets into fights on small things But everyone likes a person who stands up for himself and speaks up when they see a wrong act being done
disclaimer: I do not hate women, or have anything against relationships. these are some red pill knowledge i came across, which has worked for me to this day. so here it goes: do not ask women for dating advice. ask men with experience in life and who were successfully able to attract "quality" women. 2:30 if you r not in top 20% of men(on a scale of attraction) in the state. get off tinder, bumble etc. it'll save your time, money and energy. 2:43 ALWAYS be classy and honorable man. not just putting up an "act" in presence of women. dont be a nice guy, if you are being nice to a women just because she's a women, then you are just being a doormat or simp. why do you think "nice guy" is synonym with a creep, simp or doormat. think about it. do not chase women. the moment a person chases, the other person climbs up a pedestal and look down on you from up there. even if a women rejects you, calmly n gracefully let go, with a smile. dont take it as an insult, take it as "juice is not worth the squeeze". 3:20 women in general, talk flirtatiously with everyone. dont get excited, she talks like that with everyone and nice to everyone, not just you. that doesnt mean anything. 4:50 no idea what this is about. but i'd suggest its a bad idea to invite a girl to a bachelor pad. if you have on other options, then at least clean up the room one day before and invite her the next day. that might help, but no guarantees though. 5:35 ABSOLUTELY. if there is one best take away in this video, its this. men, do look into "nofap" and semen retention. if you are not getting attraction, if you feel you are not masculine enough, this one thing can single handedly raise your masculinity. abstain from casual sex aswell, use that masculine energy to achieve meaningful things in life, quality women will be drawn to you. you dont need to do anything at that point. 2:30 you are not special. yeah, this one is a no brainer. fortunately most men i've met are very much aware of this fact. on the contrary, most women i've met do think they are somehow special, in fact they seemed pretty much the same as other women i've met. please dont hate me for sharing my honest observations. 6:34 i knew that for a long time. its not much of a secret really. 7:14 sorry to say, women are just as shallow as men. they never say it out loud, but they care about looks more than they admit. 8:10 again, just as shallow. but guys, never lift for women, lift for your self. workout to get stronger, fitter, athletic, not to impress anyone, especially women. 8:52 agreed. no arguments there. 10:19 absolutely agreed. 10:46 absolutely yes. especially a women who does not acknowledge your efforts. Thank you Freishea for making this video. i can see that you genuinely care for men in general, i really appreciate that. i cannot say the same for most women today unfortunately.
What attracts women what ever you say: 70% money,fame,power,etc 10% looks, physical apperance 10% behaviour,intelligence 5% sexual stuffs 5 %other specific things ranging different for every girl
Right. Also guys, look up hypergamy. It will tell you all you need to know about the opposite sex. Choose wisely and choose from women that are choosing you. There is no "the one"
I agree completely……Bro it’s so sad that you have to clarify that you’re not a misogynist as if all these points are not enough to convey that you’re not one…..
Loved your perspective. I usually don't like to generalize opinions, like I don't believe every girl will agree to what you have said but I still loved the points you made. I always see myself as a happily imperfect individual aspiring to be better and that's why I like watching these videos. I am in no way interested in a romantic relationship as I am toooooooo busy in my life with my studies but I always want to be a better person. Thank you ma'am.
your value as a man is increases with time if you r growing in your career n making good money NEVER SETTLE FOR A 28-30 YEAR OLD WOMAN becoz men r supposed to be attracted to youth n beauty (at primal level)and theres nothing wrong with marrying a girl 10 years younger than you NEVER let the societal pressure affect u coz there always has been a gynocentric social order to shame men for marrying 8-10 year younger woman so to pressure them to marry a 28-30 year old to cater to the women's mating strategy just make sure if u r a high value man u deserve your share of youth,fertility n beauty u desire (women r born with value n men must create their value, but women start loosing it around 28-29 n they innately know this that'swhy they get botoxed up n married to a blue pill beta even after body count in double digits n high value men r stupid for accepting such a girl but they r not told this thing n r pressured in all ways by parents freinds teachers etc due to the unknown gynocentric social order).
@*😎* a video done by natak pictures proves my point of overall narrative being of men being socially underway new constructs of being pressured to be putting up with non virgin ho woman even after being successful in career while she cant even bring youth,fertility, beauty and chassity to the table. This is outrageous and nerve biting bs WOMEN WANT MEN WITH A FUTURE AND MEN WANT A WOMAN WITH NO PAST. Period.
@*😎* no its not a man who has his personality right money right and fitness right should understand his value to women and get the hell out of blue pill mindset because the blue pill can turn even the highest alpha into a sub 5 beta simp male lowest of the lowest There are lots of beautiful women and only a few successful men And my frustration is the banning of polygamy for the guys who have it right in life (economic security) upto 4-5 wives should be allowed just choose the women who respect you enough to share you happily.
What attracts women what ever you say: 70% money,fame,power,etc 10% looks, physical apperance 10% behaviour,intelligence 5% sexual stuffs 5 %other specific things ranging different for every girl
My thoughts : Don't make mating😂 your sole goal in life. Just be yourself , just imitating someone , who you are not , might get you a gf for a while , but you'll never be happy !!! These day , a gf/bf has become more like a product that you own , but it's not dude 😑 !!!! In nutshell , just try to be happy , if U're lucky 😌 you might end up with sm1 , who likes you for what you're. If U're exercising , then do it for yourself , not that , you'll score a gf with six packs !!!! You're studying hard , do it for yourself , not bcoz you'll score a girl with a thicc salary 🙂 Last me , kuch nahi huaa toh , mummy to hai hi 😂
I think better advice she could give is that....stop running after woman and build a career then ask your parent to arrange a woman for you. We Indians are lucky to have this system. 😁
Thank you for using your platform to talk about these things! Another thing I would like to add is: Just value women for who they are, nothing more and nothing less. I have seen some men be absolutely rigid around women because they have been taught to be 'respectful' to women. The same men will sometimes happily engage in oppressive behaviour, like judging a woman by what she wears or interfering in the personal affairs of women in their family. On the other end of the spectrum, there are men who jump directly to conversations about sex on the very first date/conversation. Not only is it extremely strange because talking about your sexual experiences is a very intimate subject that many wouldn't want to discuss with virtual strangers, but it also makes the man look shallow. These men come off as people who don't really care about the person sitting in front of them and it seems that whatever conversation they are making is a means to an end. So yeah. Great video!
i have seen many women who directly talk about sex on their very first date.. but the boy have to be extremely handsome for that.. as women only find attractive to the top 5 percent men only thats the reason why women dont ask for sex swiftly... but if they happen to find any of these top chads they ask about sex on their first date, i have heard many chads say this everywhere. in fact women are more powerful on the decision making of sex so yeah they get to pound those chads everytime..
Noone OWES you anything. Get off your high horse. Men should judge Women for wearing provocative clothes because those Wom3n are abusing their S3xual Power against us. You cannot expect to be respected after that.
My Personal Request to every man here please don't use dating App, it's not worth your time unless you're 6ft ; have fair skin ; have a job or studying in Good college (even if you have all of that there is no guarantee to talk to a girl because as she mentioned there are 80% men on dating apps & only 20% women - the Average or below average girls want above average or top guys & girls have huge expectations & entitlement - which is unattainable for most men so better guys you should not waste your time there) Btw she was extremely right about p@rn - it's not healthy for Relationship neither for your mind. And lastly mam please, understand that this casual sex culture or having sex with people is not common at all in normal cities, it maybe be easy to do that in cities like Mumbai or Bangalore. Majority men are Virgin before there marriage if we take whole India into consideration & not only metro cities. Thank You for the video 🙂
Im 5'9, dont have a fair skin even have a skin disorder, was in below average college and I still got tinder. Still went on couple of dates , sure it didn't translate into anything serious or even casual for that matter but my point is those are not necessary things. Women do prefer tall men 100% agree , skin toh is barely a point of consideration and college kon dekhta hai bhai iss sab mein. Although yes , if you're good looking and just tall even you definitely have a huge advantage , but i think you can still land a lot of dates. Gotta be genuine and open to different kind of people.
Just be yourself. You don't need to know anything mentioned here. And being a good person isn't necessary just to get girls or guys but it's a general advice.
I got a huge reality check after watching this video. Damn I did not know that there could be a solution to the problem that I thought I would never be able to get over with. Thank you Freishia for this inspiring video. It was definitely an eye-opener. You might not be the biggest YTer but the content that you give takes some courage and not everyone could match to it ❤️
Guyz please focus on yourself it doesn't matter if you stay virgin upto 30 or 30+ No matter how cool /good looking you are there is always an IIT / IIM or a guy who is well settle in California that your girl will fall for 7:18 OK NOW HE IS CONTENT CREATOR AND HE HIS SPREADING SOME BAD INFORMATION and i completely shut this video after seeing his photo
research says that the average time for men until ejaculation is 5-9 minutes. Most of the time goes in foreplay and Afterplay. while you seem to be against porn your opinions on male sexuality seems to com from porn as well. Mens and womens sexual organs are completely different and function differently. I dont think its fair to use womens orgasming duration as a benchmark. That being said im all for coming into a middle ground regarding sexual intercourse. However i think its best to let the experts advice people about this, plenty of channels in youtube have doctors talking about this.
@@jonsnow1055 excessive porn yes. It can even result in ED. Theres no research talking about moderate usage of porn. And lets be honest almost everyone watches porn , if it was that dangerous everyone would be at the doctors.
@@amitjose3739 the content where people are being objectified, looks like you enjoy it quite a lot. Porn makes men to see women as a object, it's shallows our mind. Porn has like 90% demerits than maybe 10% merit
@@takemichi6870 the objectification argument is pretty dumb. If that’s your view good luck with sexual attraction, because every time you are attracted to someone you are “objectifying” them. As for the other demerits like addiction and ED, I am aware of it, which is why I believe it’s important to do it on moderation.
Please don't listen to this garbage content, you are special. Yes, you, you are special. Don't let a man or woman's rejection be the parameter that you use to determine whether it's you who is special or not. Be yourself, groom or exercise if you want to. If not, that's fine too. If you want to sell out and attempt to game the dating system - which this video in no way guarantees, do it. If you don't - that doesn't make you any less special. You are a human, blessed with life and consciousness.
2:57 you are not special. Go tell women(including your mother, sister and daughter) that they get a lot of attention in the dating market before they hit the wall as well. Very important for them to know!!! They are also not that special. The problem of this video is that it tries to make men into charitable beings who are not supposed to have any expectations etc etc. Whereas girls seem to have the freedom to do whatever they want? ridiculous!
I think the reality is that men who are out there DOING THINGS are far better at dating and attracting women than those who spend a lot of time on dating apps. Whining is NEVER seen as attractive in men. Stoicism should be embraced by everyone, including women.
You are chain breaker, you are bold, you are dominating by your thoughts. And you make me fall in ❤ with you. Keep inspiring and keep going. Respect for girls. Thank You.
Most of her teachings is bull shit.. most of d popular boys in early 20s who wastes time after girls later ends jobless ,while d most unpopular one focused in career later in late 20s gets d prettiest girl.
She is trying to say that women can do everything and get away with it and men do everything and don't expect anything in return because end of the day he definitely didn't get anything 🤣
Every such video is about conditioning or grooming men for providing and dancing to the tunes of women i.e patriarchy by the way. Patriarchy benefits women and absolve them from taking any responsibility
First of all, shouldn't it be, What women wish men knew? Instead of "girls", because you girls = younger women, but women is more inclusive. 1. You are not special, this is applicable to everyone, don't gender it, like men. Also, don't say classy, because you are now bringing in class as a metric, which of course needed for dating in these apps, a person from a lower class won't stand out in these apps to get matches. Also, why should anyone talk good about you after rejecting you? The person rejecting you probably won't think of you. This is something of a made up story. Haha, especially in dating apps world. You should advocate more about boundaries than talking about what a man should do or should not do, have boundaries for yourself, for both men and women, and even if someone insults you, you can brush it off and move on. You can't control the thoughts of others. Just focus on what you can control, instead of trying to find faults in people. You can't change people. People have to change for themselves. 2. Be straightforward with your intentions, and that'll be the best thing for you. This advice is kinda iffy, because there are a lot of awkward men out there who don't even know how to talk to women in the 1st place. So yeah, being cool is not everyone's cup of tea. 3. Do you know about foreplay? You probably have a sex life, unlike me, but I'm surprised you didn't mention about foreplay. You are telling men to last for FUCKING 9 MINUTES. Alright. Not all men are the same. 4. Ughhh..you are once again talking about embarrassing situation for men like this? What about period blood? Let's normalize it all. Overall, a decent video, but, this is very preachy in ways I personally don't like. These are just my opinions anyway. And you may or may not like them.
i am being blocked by her team with my comment this was my comment u r old and regressive cringy .update urself this is 2021 stop perpetuating gender roles in this case u r saying that assigned male at birth amab people should do or behave in a certain way to be accepted in society. as long as they or anyone not harming others physically they should be accepted and respected as a fellow human being this is how enlightenment values came to light by fighting regressive views and it strives for a constant update in its views and standards,u seem to be working well for maybe in 2010s youtube era if u were making any content .don't bring ur 2010s ideas in to 2020s . sex is also bimodal not binary ,learn about it. here's one article cadehildreth.com/gender-spectrum/ u seem to be projecting "progressive vibes" according to your surrounding' progressiveness but u r not at all close to being progressive in reality u still hold some kind gender expectation or roles which in this align with your nations or regions prejudices (south asian) this is not hate comment ,this is just a reminder for you to improve urself socially
@@shushunk00 My issue is that, I like Social Justice, but people like you are the reason why many get turned off by the movement. You literally are barking at my face. Don't you think I know what gender and identity is? You probably don't have a job.
Guys please don't get dating advise from a woman on how to get women. Please don't If you want real advise from true alphas below are my suggestions. (UA-cam channels) The Roommates The Fresh and fit Podcast Kevin Samual ( Known as the Godfather for a reason) Rich Cooper and Entrepreneur in a car
I am that type of guy only..which y'all desire...(i believe) ..means i try to think of ladies as they are superior to us boys.. That has resulted me a position in my class among girls..they just repected me.. hahahaha But i never give "bhao" to any girl...i dont like talking to them.... I have seen them to be overly sensitive towards others. So better not start any conversation..just answer in simplest words what they ask... This way i become"conservative"-trying to stay away from girls... But i will have to take at least one tiitle.. Either a simp (among boys) or conservative ( among girls) ..i felt better with the title-conservative . Hahahaha
No bros... Dont take workout too seriously.. Rather take you meals seriously...and play any aggresive game like football.. Its a lot better than those workouts. Which cause cardiac arrests .. later on
You are much much more than your sexual desires and sex. You are a human being. A person. You have life, aspirations, hobbies, interests, creations, relationships, love, laughter, care, and lot of real things to offer to the world and people who love you. Don't forget that. Don't let anybody reduce you to a device for their sexual needs. And don't allow your desire to reduce your actions, thoughts, and motivations to sex either.
My simple advice, stop appeasing women / running after them in 20's and focus on study and career. It will you save you from lot of humiliation, self respect and low self confidence.
Was great to catch up for an enjoyable chat with you Frieshia and the tribe on Patreon last week.👍 Awesome content. I would say a lot of this is useful to men not just in their 20s but even older guys who are single for various reasons but are now actively looking, heck even for guys who are married as well. I know so many couples where they start taking things for granted after marriage forgetting for example to stay fit and keep in shape.
I'm sorry if a men has to do a hell lot this extra things to just to satisfy a women Better invest this time understanding your future ..invest in stocks..markets etc........ develop better skills that helps your future....when the time comes you will meet him/her..well if you wish to hit and try and date for your teenage life and then most probably regret later .. I'm not saying..you shouldn't go for these things.. that's a part of your life but not the most important 👍.. different people priorities are different..but as even in this video the examples given for "alpha male" they have invested their time for their careers to whom you follow they could have also gone in this game of what men want what women want😂 they wouldn't be there right now..that was my point..and maybe that is the reason I'm still single🤣🤣🤣👍
As always completely out of box content. Maybe you're not THE most famous youtuber but in my opinion you're THE smartest😎 really making sense to the Internet. Wish you a Million subscribers 👍
Most of these points seem so self-evident at my age, even if I did learn most of these through experience or study. Also, the quote from Will Smith... wise words. Loved the Kenny Rogers touch too. Nicely done, Freishia! PS: On the topic of handling rejection... perhaps if parents and teachers are more open about 'love' and are able to guide children on how to handle their emotions, maybe this could become just another aspect of life that youngsters can learn to get over and even learn from. It could also (quite probably) help avoid most of the violence we read/hear about related to matters of the heart.
What's up with this change Freishia... You look like a teenager who has been through a breakup glow up! lol JK just wanted to say the new look is good xoxo
May be I'm 2 months late to realize what u said. Study and career hunt kept me busy whole 26 years since birth and tbh I really wanted to. I thought, "Pehle kuch ban jau, phir dekh lenge". This mentality kept me busy with getting ready for my goal which is an advantage, but on the contrary as well I'm cornering myself and keeping me far away from girls, which is a bummer as well I think. *_But, at last thanks Freishia for ur lovely and developmental advice which I'll look into it further._*
You are not alone, all of us from similar backgrounds are in the same situation, spending more time on careers and forgetting that we have needs. Life is designed differently, hope our careers help us with this life.
Most of this is bullshit ,career is very important..people who r involved too much in sexual activities later regrets in their late 20s in marriage market ,also almost 90%of boys knows basic cooking ,its so easy ,what's d big deal in that to be taught as a great virtue
Strange coincidence. I was just going to ask a very good friend of mine about virtues she finds charming. (After watching the video,) This was something more than expected, thanks a lot😄 it's indeed a very good friendship day gift.
I don't want to workout and I don't expect women to workout either. Shape doesn't matter to me and I'm going to find someone for whom shape doesn't matter too. And if such woman doesn't exist, no problem.
The reason I subscribed your Channel, for your originality and how for the truth you show... Love your work.. Keep it up.. Some day I start making a steady income, I'll become your patreon
I think it’s imp to strike the right balance . I see a lot of people commenting that you shouldn’t engage with women it’s a distraction . I don’t agree ...I personally have a lot of school and college male friends who have gone on to have extremely successful careers. How about approaching it as a way to have healthy relationships, a way to become a better version of you .
My only pain point is that I do not have any lady of my choice in my destiny, which I understand very well because a. I have no job. b. I am pot bellied. c. My kind of lady will never ever marry me as she has to be very beautiful or sensuous or attractive or a pretty faced woman. How can I get such a woman. That is the only factor of pain or sorrow in my life. I am never depressed with anything else as I get depressed when I do not get any woman, which I will never get in my present lifetime. I am almost 38 and I have not talked with any lady of my choice or any girl for once. Therefore, you can imagine if somebody wants anything very dearly and ALMIGHTY GOD does not approve that particular person that too for 38 long years, then living life becomes extremely difficult. That's my only pain. I believe that a man should only focus on women or his lady love; in my case extreme exotic beauty. I am sharing my perception with you because you spoke lucid & pure TRUTH. TRUTH is SHIVSHAKTI. THANK YOU MADAM FREISHIA. Subhangam Dev 🔶️
I'll admit, coming in I expected this to be yet another one of those "women fails at giving practical dating advice to men and just ends up being condescending" videos, but it turned out to be less icky than I thought. It's a well rounded video, however I feel some point still needed a touch of different perspective that Freisha probably lacked being a woman herself. 1. 2:50 You can NEVER control what a girl will say about you behind your back. Girls can be assholes and you can be the nicest bloke around and a spiteful girl will try to spread rumours about you especially if you reject HER social advances. So don't be 'classy' for the sake of your reputation in the womanosphere, do it for yourself because, well it's the classy thing to do. 2. 3:31 This advice has a dark side and frankly pretty terrible. If you are into someone romantically and you clearly see no sign of reciprocation, it is NEVER a good idea to stick around, especially for something as remote as the off-chance of her introducing you to her friends group. This is one of the biggest things I've seen my friends (and I've done it myself too) do to screw their own mental health. Take your mental health seriously guys, especially in these times of isolation. Your mental health is too important to compromise over some girl, period! Also, it's amusing to see how the only advice that was actually empowering, taking responsibility of your own happiness, Freisha directed to BOTH men and women (even though this is supposed to be a video specifically targeted to men), and all the other advices of 'being better', 'accepting humility' she reserved for men. This is exactly the condescending tone why I stay apprehensive of these 'women advising men' videos, and she managed to deliver I guess. Lol. With all that being aside most of the content is useful, and I hope I'll be able to follow them in my life as well.
Looking at the comments i can see that a lot of member's in the tribe also want a female version - What men think that women should know .....put a like if you think i should do it. I will be discussing this in the next meeting with my youtube and patroen members and get pointers from the men here. Should be a lot of fun ;)
Yes please
i disagree with this video where freishia tells us 'women discuss their private sex life with her female friends', maybe girls do that, but it is my advice to everybody that private matter is "private" for a reason, no woman or a man should talk about their private sex life/look of their private parts and how their partners look naked with his/her friends as these are the moments when you and your partners are the most vulnerable to each other. So, if you start gossiping with these type of matters, it becomes super disrespectful and they will lose the trust to confide/be vulnerable with you. So it is my request to both boys and girls to stop this bad behavior for your own good !
@@subhankitbasu620 ya i feel that way too. You should discuss your sex life with your partner or a therapist. With friends, it kinda becomes like gossip
your value as a man is increases with time if you r growing in your career n making good money NEVER SETTLE FOR A 28-30 YEAR OLD WOMAN becoz men r supposed to be attracted to youth n beauty (at primal level)and theres nothing wrong with marrying a girl 10 years younger than you NEVER let the societal pressure affect u coz there always has been a gynocentric social order to shame men for marrying 8-10 year younger woman so to pressure them to marry a 28-30 year old to cater to the women's mating strategy just make sure if u r a high value man u deserve your share of youth,fertility n beauty u desire (women r born with value n men must create their value, but women start loosing it around 28-29 n they innately know this that'swhy they get botoxed up n married to a blue pill beta even after body count in double digits n high value men r stupid for accepting such a girl but they r not told this thing n r pressured in all ways by parents freinds teachers etc due to the unknown gynocentric social order).
Watch rollo tomassi fresh and fit boys its gonna be the religion of 21st century
Don't do all this for women, do it for yourself, invest and work on yourself to be a better individual, getting a women is not the end goal, it is the by-product.
Totally agree with you brother
Most of time guys try impress
Women or may just like simp
She's not a trophy
She's a human nothing special
I can't just message her all day long instead of that do work on yourself
Man !!! There's so much things to learn ND when you apply on yourself
It feel so Dem!!good
I stopped watching this video after reading your comment why should I watch such video....
This is the best comment on here!
Thank You Freishia for being sincere and diligent in your informative content.
Awesome, cool strategies. 👍
Please make some videos on OSHO and express your opinion on him
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This channel is underrated and deserves millions of subscribers. Good work, Whack team.
Wow, she is eloquent. Didn't know about all this. This is hot 👍
Very useful video. Very informative
Thanks for this video
This is good content on UA-cam 👌
Good stuff... !! Keep Rocking...👍👍
Love ur content ✨💓
Step 1: reach your genetic potential wrt to physical attractiveness
Step 2 : be confident
Step 3 : enjoy
One critical thing that women rarely put in these relationships advice segments for men, is that if she makes more money than you, you should immediately just look elsewhere, because 9 times out of 10 she's not interested in you.
It's not because women are all prostitutes/ that they only care about money, it's just a biological imperative. Just as men pick attractive women, which improves the gene pool, women pick rich successful men, which improves her chances of raising her children well, and generally leading a good life.
If you're a poor man, or an ugly woman in this world, and you don't have a lot of options for compensating for that in other ways, you're shit out of luck, and your life is going to be aweful, and the reality is that nobody really gives a shit about that, because you're pretty much worthless to them anyway.
W* men are selfish creature, needless to say more on this. Tate was right about them
Freishia I'm here
My business partner is a super nice guy, thoughtful and trustworthy. I am always jealous how popular he is among girls and females that come across him. He automatically earns the trust most girls he interacts with. Like you mentioned be trustworthy and someone women feel safe around. The tiny problem is that he is 32 and still a virgin. And NOT because of choice. He told me that when he tries to approach romantic topics with a girl they immediately back away no matter how safe they feel around him. He gives off a brotherly and fatherly vibe. So as good as "Make yourself trustworthy" sounds, practical experience doesn't support it. Sorry to say. Being good looking or having a dominant personality is more crucial than being a Mr. Nice guy. But no one will every say it because it makes them sound shallow.
Well, that friend of yours and myself share some common characteristics!
@@pradipta9345 story of millions brother. 😔
hes not atrractive, he needs to approach women of his own league.
@@amitjose3739 you said it and I feel it
Great advice. I will definitely not be the nice guy despite my married sister telling me to do the same. Nice guys finish last. I will build muscle, develop skills and gain confidence through my passion or work. That will get me more chances with women than being the nice guy.
So this whole video has been one big ass personal attack 😭.
But it's fine trying to be better with every passing day not for some girl but myself. Love for freishia and whack ❤️
these women should teach their so called feminist first how to act in public or with a man
@@karanv6277 I don’t know who you are addressing when you say ‘these women’
But ai do agree with you to *some* extent
A person doesn’t become a feminist just by saying so but only by their mentality and acts
The ppl who are seen taking advantage of being being a woman are NOT feminists
They may call themselves one but they actually are Pseudofeminists (fake feminist) in other words - sexist
The only point I disagree with is that ‘ first they shd teach ‘
I believe if you are listing such things priority wise then men are the ones who need be taught First
Kindly don’t take this otherwise
I am a proud feminist and a men’s rights supporter , so peace and respect to all good ppl 💜🙏🏻
@@ananyasingh5721 in India real feminist movement start in early 1915 and died in late 1990, what we seen today is nothing but a bunch of weak a$$ feminist ready to used their women card to harassed some man make them look helpless and get enjoyment from their suffering and u r not so different u going to do exactly what others r doing when u find yourself in such situation and stop saying you care about man rights and their well-being and u r right "men are the ones who need to be taught First" how to treat bunch of weak a$$ feminist.
@@karanv6277 so successful females in today's india according to you are not real feminist ?? What is feminist acc. to you ??
@@ankurs2315 leave the matter bro kichad pe pathar fekoge kichad uchal Kar muh pr hi aayega, "Facebook ke gawar" memes or kuch UA-camrs se manipulated hue log h kuch nahi keh skte tum 100 sahi baat Kar lo unhe bas unka point of view sahi lagega !
I have one more to add, women are more likely to adore men who can keep the nerves. The ones who are calm and can keep their cool very well.
Nope. That's false. Women like hotheads.
This is actually a personal preference, everyone’s choice is different so it would be unwise to generalise it for everyone.
The correct way to proceed is to keep your calm and not act desperate nor like a toxic macho person.
No one likes someone who gets into fights on small things
But everyone likes a person who stands up for himself and speaks up when they see a wrong act being done
@@TheFourthWinchester 40% likes money.
women want drama
Even animals love an alpha master whose calm and composed
disclaimer: I do not hate women, or have anything against relationships. these are some red pill knowledge i came across, which has worked for me to this day.
so here it goes:
do not ask women for dating advice. ask men with experience in life and who were successfully able to attract "quality" women.
2:30 if you r not in top 20% of men(on a scale of attraction) in the state. get off tinder, bumble etc. it'll save your time, money and energy.
2:43 ALWAYS be classy and honorable man. not just putting up an "act" in presence of women. dont be a nice guy, if you are being nice to a women just because she's a women, then you are just being a doormat or simp. why do you think "nice guy" is synonym with a creep, simp or doormat. think about it.
do not chase women. the moment a person chases, the other person climbs up a pedestal and look down on you from up there.
even if a women rejects you, calmly n gracefully let go, with a smile. dont take it as an insult, take it as "juice is not worth the squeeze".
3:20 women in general, talk flirtatiously with everyone. dont get excited, she talks like that with everyone and nice to everyone, not just you. that doesnt mean anything.
4:50 no idea what this is about. but i'd suggest its a bad idea to invite a girl to a bachelor pad. if you have on other options, then at least clean up the room one day before and invite her the next day. that might help, but no guarantees though.
5:35 ABSOLUTELY. if there is one best take away in this video, its this. men, do look into "nofap" and semen retention. if you are not getting attraction, if you feel you are not masculine enough, this one thing can single handedly raise your masculinity. abstain from casual sex aswell, use that masculine energy to achieve meaningful things in life, quality women will be drawn to you. you dont need to do anything at that point.
2:30 you are not special. yeah, this one is a no brainer. fortunately most men i've met are very much aware of this fact. on the contrary, most women i've met do think they are somehow special, in fact they seemed pretty much the same as other women i've met. please dont hate me for sharing my honest observations.
6:34 i knew that for a long time. its not much of a secret really.
7:14 sorry to say, women are just as shallow as men. they never say it out loud, but they care about looks more than they admit.
8:10 again, just as shallow. but guys, never lift for women, lift for your self. workout to get stronger, fitter, athletic, not to impress anyone, especially women.
8:52 agreed. no arguments there.
10:19 absolutely agreed.
10:46 absolutely yes. especially a women who does not acknowledge your efforts.
Thank you Freishea for making this video. i can see that you genuinely care for men in general, i really appreciate that. i cannot say the same for most women today unfortunately.
What attracts women what ever you say:
70% money,fame,power,etc
10% looks, physical apperance
10% behaviour,intelligence
5% sexual stuffs
5 %other specific things ranging different for every girl
Right. Also guys, look up hypergamy. It will tell you all you need to know about the opposite sex. Choose wisely and choose from women that are choosing you. There is no "the one"
@@somebodynobody300 well, i cannot really say your wrong bro
I agree completely……Bro it’s so sad that you have to clarify that you’re not a misogynist as if all these points are not enough to convey that you’re not one…..
Golden advice. I am 21 and I will follow this. Hope I succeed.
" Only women, children & pets get the unconditional love and a man gets love only when he provides. "
Loved your perspective. I usually don't like to generalize opinions, like I don't believe every girl will agree to what you have said but I still loved the points you made. I always see myself as a happily imperfect individual aspiring to be better and that's why I like watching these videos. I am in no way interested in a romantic relationship as I am toooooooo busy in my life with my studies but I always want to be a better person. Thank you ma'am.
Thank you for getting what this was all about.
your value as a man is increases with time if you r growing in your career n making good money NEVER SETTLE FOR A 28-30 YEAR OLD WOMAN becoz men r supposed to be attracted to youth n beauty (at primal level)and theres nothing wrong with marrying a girl 10 years younger than you NEVER let the societal pressure affect u coz there always has been a gynocentric social order to shame men for marrying 8-10 year younger woman so to pressure them to marry a 28-30 year old to cater to the women's mating strategy just make sure if u r a high value man u deserve your share of youth,fertility n beauty u desire (women r born with value n men must create their value, but women start loosing it around 28-29 n they innately know this that'swhy they get botoxed up n married to a blue pill beta even after body count in double digits n high value men r stupid for accepting such a girl but they r not told this thing n r pressured in all ways by parents freinds teachers etc due to the unknown gynocentric social order).
Watch fresh n fit n rollo tomassi
@*😎* a video done by natak pictures proves my point of overall narrative being of men being socially underway new constructs of being pressured to be putting up with non virgin ho woman even after being successful in career while she cant even bring youth,fertility, beauty and chassity to the table. This is outrageous and nerve biting bs WOMEN WANT MEN WITH A FUTURE AND MEN WANT A WOMAN WITH NO PAST. Period.
@*😎* no its not a man who has his personality right money right and fitness right should understand his value to women and get the hell out of blue pill mindset because the blue pill can turn even the highest alpha into a sub 5 beta simp male lowest of the lowest
There are lots of beautiful women and only a few successful men
And my frustration is the banning of polygamy for the guys who have it right in life (economic security) upto 4-5 wives should be allowed just choose the women who respect you enough to share you happily.
I just wasted my 12 min on this
don't take dating advice from a wahmen period.
I was looking for this comment. True
Don't take advice from a fish on 'how to catch a fish', ask a fisherman.💯
true
What attracts women what ever you say:
70% money,fame,power,etc
10% looks, physical apperance
10% behaviour,intelligence
5% sexual stuffs
5 %other specific things ranging different for every girl
lol thats the stupidiest stats
@@gsiya4023 how?
True
@@gsiya4023 triggered
Forget this video. This is the key thing you need to work on.
Pro tip for men : Never take advice from a woman
absolutely! men should learn to be more alpha.
@@sampuspitakumarajiva8930 for sure
My thoughts : Don't make mating😂 your sole goal in life. Just be yourself , just imitating someone , who you are not , might get you a gf for a while , but you'll never be happy !!! These day , a gf/bf has become more like a product that you own , but it's not dude 😑 !!!!
In nutshell , just try to be happy , if U're lucky 😌 you might end up with sm1 , who likes you for what you're.
If U're exercising , then do it for yourself , not that , you'll score a gf with six packs !!!! You're studying hard , do it for yourself , not bcoz you'll score a girl with a thicc salary 🙂
Last me , kuch nahi huaa toh , mummy to hai hi 😂
I think better advice she could give is that....stop running after woman and build a career then ask your parent to arrange a woman for you. We Indians are lucky to have this system. 😁
💯💯
Thank you for using your platform to talk about these things!
Another thing I would like to add is: Just value women for who they are, nothing more and nothing less.
I have seen some men be absolutely rigid around women because they have been taught to be 'respectful' to women. The same men will sometimes happily engage in oppressive behaviour, like judging a woman by what she wears or interfering in the personal affairs of women in their family.
On the other end of the spectrum, there are men who jump directly to conversations about sex on the very first date/conversation. Not only is it extremely strange because talking about your sexual experiences is a very intimate subject that many wouldn't want to discuss with virtual strangers, but it also makes the man look shallow. These men come off as people who don't really care about the person sitting in front of them and it seems that whatever conversation they are making is a means to an end.
So yeah. Great video!
The first line ruined everything
i have seen many women who directly talk about sex on their very first date.. but the boy have to be extremely handsome for that.. as women only find attractive to the top 5 percent men only thats the reason why women dont ask for sex swiftly... but if they happen to find any of these top chads they ask about sex on their first date, i have heard many chads say this everywhere. in fact women are more powerful on the decision making of sex so yeah they get to pound those chads everytime..
Noone OWES you anything. Get off your high horse.
Men should judge Women for wearing provocative clothes because those Wom3n are abusing their S3xual Power against us. You cannot expect to be respected after that.
My Personal Request to every man here please don't use dating App, it's not worth your time unless you're 6ft ; have fair skin ; have a job or studying in Good college (even if you have all of that there is no guarantee to talk to a girl because as she mentioned there are 80% men on dating apps & only 20% women - the Average or below average girls want above average or top guys & girls have huge expectations & entitlement - which is unattainable for most men so better guys you should not waste your time there)
Btw she was extremely right about p@rn - it's not healthy for Relationship neither for your mind.
And lastly mam please, understand that this casual sex culture or having sex with people is not common at all in normal cities, it maybe be easy to do that in cities like Mumbai or Bangalore.
Majority men are Virgin before there marriage if we take whole India into consideration & not only metro cities.
Thank You for the video 🙂
Im 5'9, dont have a fair skin even have a skin disorder, was in below average college and I still got tinder. Still went on couple of dates , sure it didn't translate into anything serious or even casual for that matter but my point is those are not necessary things. Women do prefer tall men 100% agree , skin toh is barely a point of consideration and college kon dekhta hai bhai iss sab mein. Although yes , if you're good looking and just tall even you definitely have a huge advantage , but i think you can still land a lot of dates. Gotta be genuine and open to different kind of people.
@@dhruv1906 5'9" ..... that's your answer
Just be yourself. You don't need to know anything mentioned here. And being a good person isn't necessary just to get girls or guys but it's a general advice.
I got a huge reality check after watching this video. Damn I did not know that there could be a solution to the problem that I thought I would never be able to get over with. Thank you Freishia for this inspiring video. It was definitely an eye-opener. You might not be the biggest YTer but the content that you give takes some courage and not everyone could match to it ❤️
Like what all did you get from this video?
@@stankssmile5865 how to be a simp
Guyz please focus on yourself it doesn't matter if you stay virgin upto 30 or 30+
No matter how cool /good looking you are there is always an IIT / IIM or a guy who is well settle in California that your girl will fall for
7:18 OK NOW HE IS CONTENT CREATOR AND HE HIS SPREADING SOME BAD INFORMATION and i completely shut this video after seeing his photo
research says that the average time for men until ejaculation is 5-9 minutes. Most of the time goes in foreplay and Afterplay. while you seem to be against porn your opinions on male sexuality seems to com from porn as well. Mens and womens sexual organs are completely different and function differently. I dont think its fair to use womens orgasming duration as a benchmark. That being said im all for coming into a middle ground regarding sexual intercourse. However i think its best to let the experts advice people about this, plenty of channels in youtube have doctors talking about this.
Porn is unhealthy. Proven by research.
@@jonsnow1055 excessive porn yes. It can even result in ED. Theres no research talking about moderate usage of porn. And lets be honest almost everyone watches porn , if it was that dangerous everyone would be at the doctors.
@@amitjose3739 the content where people are being objectified, looks like you enjoy it quite a lot.
Porn makes men to see women as a object, it's shallows our mind.
Porn has like 90% demerits than maybe 10% merit
@@takemichi6870 the objectification argument is pretty dumb. If that’s your view good luck with sexual attraction, because every time you are attracted to someone you are “objectifying” them. As for the other demerits like addiction and ED, I am aware of it, which is why I believe it’s important to do it on moderation.
@@takemichi6870 men are naked in those videos too. Wonder why you don’t think women see men as objects there.
Please don't listen to this garbage content, you are special. Yes, you, you are special. Don't let a man or woman's rejection be the parameter that you use to determine whether it's you who is special or not. Be yourself, groom or exercise if you want to. If not, that's fine too. If you want to sell out and attempt to game the dating system - which this video in no way guarantees, do it. If you don't - that doesn't make you any less special. You are a human, blessed with life and consciousness.
Swami vivekananda had everything opposite to what this lady said....
What this lady said is a crowd mentality
Whole video seems " A biological female following the Darwin theory for better male"
2:57 you are not special. Go tell women(including your mother, sister and daughter) that they get a lot of attention in the dating market before they hit the wall as well. Very important for them to know!!! They are also not that special. The problem of this video is that it tries to make men into charitable beings who are not supposed to have any expectations etc etc. Whereas girls seem to have the freedom to do whatever they want? ridiculous!
This video is not for men its for Beta men and simps
@@supersagarsagar i felt that 99% of time, except for being fit, everything else seems a simp guidebook
I think the reality is that men who are out there DOING THINGS are far better at dating and attracting women than those who spend a lot of time on dating apps.
Whining is NEVER seen as attractive in men. Stoicism should be embraced by everyone, including women.
You are chain breaker, you are bold, you are dominating by your thoughts. And you make me fall in ❤ with you. Keep inspiring and keep going. Respect for girls. Thank You.
Most of her teachings is bull shit..
most of d popular boys in early 20s who wastes time after girls later ends jobless ,while d most unpopular one focused in career later in late 20s gets d prettiest girl.
@@rajeevborah143 💯 Never chase anyone. Focus on your career and love your family (Reminding myself too.)
Nahi degi
@@rajeevborah143 don't generalize
Please make something on what men want... We have had enough lecturing on what girls need 🙏🏼
Also women are replaceable too... And women should stop bit ching... For god's sake... Let's be simple and loving
Also learn fishing from the fisherman, not fish!
Also ask women to be courageous and ask the men they love out... Don't just lecture men and allow girls and women to play mind games!
Spittin facts.. now they will reply you with men ego shit.. ah i hate this society
You're such an Inspiration @freishia, more and more power to you 🤩🤩🤩🤩, it's so amazing watching videos like these on UA-cam 🤩❤️❤️
She is trying to say that women can do everything and get away with it and men do everything and don't expect anything in return because end of the day he definitely didn't get anything 🤣
Every such video is about conditioning or grooming men for providing and dancing to the tunes of women i.e patriarchy by the way. Patriarchy benefits women and absolve them from taking any responsibility
What a Drag
First of all, shouldn't it be, What women wish men knew? Instead of "girls", because you girls = younger women, but women is more inclusive.
1. You are not special, this is applicable to everyone, don't gender it, like men. Also, don't say classy, because you are now bringing in class as a metric, which of course needed for dating in these apps, a person from a lower class won't stand out in these apps to get matches.
Also, why should anyone talk good about you after rejecting you? The person rejecting you probably won't think of you. This is something of a made up story. Haha, especially in dating apps world. You should advocate more about boundaries than talking about what a man should do or should not do, have boundaries for yourself, for both men and women, and even if someone insults you, you can brush it off and move on. You can't control the thoughts of others. Just focus on what you can control, instead of trying to find faults in people. You can't change people. People have to change for themselves.
2. Be straightforward with your intentions, and that'll be the best thing for you. This advice is kinda iffy, because there are a lot of awkward men out there who don't even know how to talk to women in the 1st place. So yeah, being cool is not everyone's cup of tea.
3. Do you know about foreplay? You probably have a sex life, unlike me, but I'm surprised you didn't mention about foreplay. You are telling men to last for FUCKING 9 MINUTES. Alright. Not all men are the same.
4. Ughhh..you are once again talking about embarrassing situation for men like this? What about period blood? Let's normalize it all.
Overall, a decent video, but, this is very preachy in ways I personally don't like. These are just my opinions anyway. And you may or may not like them.
i am being blocked by her team with my comment this was my comment
u r old and regressive cringy .update urself this is 2021 stop perpetuating gender roles in this case u r saying that assigned male at birth amab people should do or behave in a certain way to be accepted in society.
as long as they or anyone not harming others physically they should be accepted and respected as a fellow human being this is how enlightenment values came to light by fighting regressive views and it strives for a constant update in its views and standards,u seem to be working well for maybe in 2010s youtube era if u were making any content .don't bring ur 2010s ideas in to 2020s .
sex is also bimodal not binary ,learn about it. here's one article cadehildreth.com/gender-spectrum/
u seem to be projecting "progressive vibes" according to your surrounding' progressiveness but u r not at all close to being progressive in reality u still hold some kind gender expectation or roles which in this align with your nations or regions prejudices (south asian)
this is not hate comment ,this is just a reminder for you to improve urself socially
@@shushunk00 What you wrote is just screaming SJW. Wtf did you just write? Shut up will you?
@@shushunk00 I slightly agree with you, not fully but slightly.
@@alienkishorekumar u r saying to be sjw is bad thats ur problem man its bigotry from ur side to sjw not me .so deal with ur issues
@@shushunk00 My issue is that, I like Social Justice, but people like you are the reason why many get turned off by the movement. You literally are barking at my face. Don't you think I know what gender and identity is? You probably don't have a job.
Guys please don't get dating advise from a woman on how to get women. Please don't
If you want real advise from true alphas below are my suggestions. (UA-cam channels)
The Roommates
The Fresh and fit Podcast
Kevin Samual ( Known as the Godfather for a reason)
Rich Cooper and Entrepreneur in a car
Most single guys watching this: "Gajab bezzati hai" 😂😂😂
I am that type of guy only..which y'all desire...(i believe) ..means i try to think of ladies as they are superior to us boys..
That has resulted me a position in my class among girls..they just repected me.. hahahaha
But i never give "bhao" to any girl...i dont like talking to them....
I have seen them to be overly sensitive towards others.
So better not start any conversation..just answer in simplest words what they ask...
This way i become"conservative"-trying to stay away from girls...
But i will have to take at least one tiitle..
Either a simp (among boys) or conservative ( among girls) ..i felt better with the title-conservative .
Hahahaha
Hi frieshia!! I am ur new viewer from Pakistan!! You have amazing English and useful content!!
No bros...
Dont take workout too seriously..
Rather take you meals seriously...and play any aggresive game like football..
Its a lot better than those workouts.
Which cause cardiac arrests .. later on
Hahahaha....
I dont want a "market value" of mine among girls as..."he is good in bed"
😛😛😛😛😁😁😁😁
You are much much more than your sexual desires and sex. You are a human being. A person. You have life, aspirations, hobbies, interests, creations, relationships, love, laughter, care, and lot of real things
to offer to the world and people who love you. Don't forget that. Don't let anybody reduce you to a device for their sexual needs. And don't allow your desire to
reduce your actions, thoughts, and motivations to sex either.
For those men who are reading the comments, get a copy of "The Rational Male"
Yep it's a blessing by rollo Tomasi , now I can see nonsense in this video
Red Pill Brother Found.
My simple advice, stop appeasing women / running after them in 20's and focus on study and career. It will you save you from lot of humiliation, self respect and low self confidence.
Was great to catch up for an enjoyable chat with you Frieshia and the tribe on Patreon last week.👍 Awesome content. I would say a lot of this is useful to men not just in their 20s but even older guys who are single for various reasons but are now actively looking, heck even for guys who are married as well. I know so many couples where they start taking things for granted after marriage forgetting for example to stay fit and keep in shape.
I'm sorry if a men has to do a hell lot this extra things to just to satisfy a women Better invest this time understanding your future ..invest in stocks..markets etc........ develop better skills that helps your future....when the time comes you will meet him/her..well if you wish to hit and try and date for your teenage life and then most probably regret later .. I'm not saying..you shouldn't go for these things.. that's a part of your life but not the most important 👍.. different people priorities are different..but as even in this video the examples given for "alpha male" they have invested their time for their careers to whom you follow they could have also gone in this game of what men want what women want😂 they wouldn't be there right now..that was my point..and maybe that is the reason I'm still single🤣🤣🤣👍
What men shouldn't know and not waste time listening. It DOESN'T work that way.
Your content is out of box, only a few have the calibre to understand it. So just go on with whatever content you bring we all love it ❤️😊
i'm a woman and i found parts of this very useful. especially what Will Smith said.
Will Smith has no respect for himself that's why his wife's goes around and fks some young guy who is half her age.
Guys learn stocks ,crypto,bitcoin ...its gives you alot of money
She: teaching about how to hide a bone....
My 10 year of experience which made me an expert: OK..
Yes i agree with you 😄
Next video should be on what boys in there twenties want girls to know
What do you mean by man's ego? I didn't find this word in the dictionary?
ALWAYS Remember guys,
if you are trying to catch fish you don't ask the other fish, you ask the fishermen😇
A woman telling men what they should know... LOL
Sigmas, Alphas, Betas, Gammas... every breed will kinda hate this one.
But ACCEPTING the fact is the first step of being one.
That Will Smith take aged horribly 💀
Almost everything in this video is build in a way to create a simp. You're missing her points
As always completely out of box content. Maybe you're not THE most famous youtuber but in my opinion you're THE smartest😎 really making sense to the Internet. Wish you a Million subscribers 👍
"Deflate a pretty embarrassing situation" 😅
'You're not special'
I've been knowing this about myself the day I started to think
If u have a good career girls will chase u like swarm of bees ,if u suck in career nobody will care for u
@@rajeevborah143 plus good physique
Most of these points seem so self-evident at my age, even if I did learn most of these through experience or study. Also, the quote from Will Smith... wise words. Loved the Kenny Rogers touch too. Nicely done, Freishia!
PS: On the topic of handling rejection... perhaps if parents and teachers are more open about 'love' and are able to guide children on how to handle their emotions, maybe this could become just another aspect of life that youngsters can learn to get over and even learn from. It could also (quite probably) help avoid most of the violence we read/hear about related to matters of the heart.
What's up with this change Freishia... You look like a teenager who has been through a breakup glow up! lol JK just wanted to say the new look is good xoxo
Freishia i'm not sure till when can you keep posting the video
but gotta tell you are a gem in UA-cam
power to you
Keep rocking
May be I'm 2 months late to realize what u said. Study and career hunt kept me busy whole 26 years since birth and tbh I really wanted to. I thought, "Pehle kuch ban jau, phir dekh lenge". This mentality kept me busy with getting ready for my goal which is an advantage, but on the contrary as well I'm cornering myself and keeping me far away from girls, which is a bummer as well I think.
*_But, at last thanks Freishia for ur lovely and developmental advice which I'll look into it further._*
You are not alone, all of us from similar backgrounds are in the same situation, spending more time on careers and forgetting that we have needs. Life is designed differently, hope our careers help us with this life.
I liked for the last part of video.. liking first time .. cheers
It's so nice of you that you genuinely care about men's social attitude and giving tips about all the do's and don'ts.
Thank You.🙂
Most of this is bullshit ,career is very important..people who r involved too much in sexual activities later regrets in their late 20s in marriage market ,also almost 90%of boys knows basic cooking ,its so easy ,what's d big deal in that to be taught as a great virtue
@@rajeevborah143 why can a guy not do both? it's a weak man who thinks that to be hard working means being single is necessary.
@@OINKARL It has nothing to do with a man being weak
@@OINKARL It's not being weak , it's being realistic !
This is the type of content i pay my internet bill for
Itna girls girls girls aur kuch topic nahi hain kya
I am here to fulfill wishes of all girls.
😉
Strange coincidence. I was just going to ask a very good friend of mine about virtues she finds charming.
(After watching the video,) This was something more than expected, thanks a lot😄 it's indeed a very good friendship day gift.
Kid
I don't want to workout and I don't expect women to workout either. Shape doesn't matter to me and I'm going to find someone for whom shape doesn't matter too. And if such woman doesn't exist, no problem.
Without courage all virtues are fragile. Correct my grammar if it is not
Instead of wasting all this time, start doing something productive..
And pesa ho toh sab kuch apne aap he ho jayega.. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You can have all the money in the world but if your outlook is not correct you will be penniless
Kudos freishia man.....would love to meet you in person once in my life and take an autograph from you
I hate the sharmaji stereotypes😑
It is a small thing - but the toilet paper and dustbin tip - that is something all men should know. It is a relationship maker :)
I hope some there should be gay version of freishia somewhere who could advise me how to attract other gay guys. 😅😀
Thanks nice video
The reason I subscribed your Channel, for your originality and how for the truth you show... Love your work.. Keep it up.. Some day I start making a steady income, I'll become your patreon
4:44 i wrote " why you need toilet paper and dustbin in washroom for females "
And I got some hygiene stuff?
But I still didn't understand 😶
Maybe for periods
Thank you. Its been a huje help. Keep this unique perspective flowing.
Yet another womansplaination. Nothing to see here.
Why? Are you in a relationship? Is your partner happy in all respect? If yes then you must be a born guru in that respect.
@@VM-ee5hc Bruh, look at the video and say its NOT a simp guidebook, its womensplaining at best
THE WALL DEFEATS EM HOS ALL
its unfortunate that for most guys these days girls have became the highest value!
I think it’s imp to strike the right balance . I see a lot of people commenting that you shouldn’t engage with women it’s a distraction . I don’t agree ...I personally have a lot of school and college male friends who have gone on to have extremely successful careers. How about approaching it as a way to have healthy relationships, a way to become a better version of you .
Harsh but useful.
video starts as 2:00
Something for the girlies tooo
Maybe advice you would give to young girls
My only pain point is that I do not have any lady of my choice in my destiny, which I understand very well because
a. I have no job.
b. I am pot bellied.
c. My kind of lady will never ever marry me as she has to be very beautiful or sensuous or attractive or a pretty faced woman.
How can I get such a woman.
That is the only factor of pain or sorrow in my life.
I am never depressed with anything else as I get depressed when I do not get any woman, which I will never get in my present lifetime.
I am almost 38 and I have not talked with any lady of my choice or any girl for once. Therefore, you can imagine if somebody wants anything very dearly and ALMIGHTY GOD does not approve that particular person that too for 38 long years, then living life becomes extremely difficult.
That's my only pain.
I believe that a man should only focus on women or his lady love; in my case extreme exotic beauty.
I am sharing my perception with you because you spoke lucid & pure TRUTH.
TRUTH is SHIVSHAKTI.
THANK YOU MADAM FREISHIA.
Subhangam Dev 🔶️
A man should focus on his health and wealth. Everything and everyone else should be secondary.
You "WHACKED" all men with "The truth!!" Appreciate your honesty. (subscribed now!)
I'll admit, coming in I expected this to be yet another one of those "women fails at giving practical dating advice to men and just ends up being condescending" videos, but it turned out to be less icky than I thought. It's a well rounded video, however I feel some point still needed a touch of different perspective that Freisha probably lacked being a woman herself.
1. 2:50 You can NEVER control what a girl will say about you behind your back. Girls can be assholes and you can be the nicest bloke around and a spiteful girl will try to spread rumours about you especially if you reject HER social advances. So don't be 'classy' for the sake of your reputation in the womanosphere, do it for yourself because, well it's the classy thing to do.
2. 3:31 This advice has a dark side and frankly pretty terrible. If you are into someone romantically and you clearly see no sign of reciprocation, it is NEVER a good idea to stick around, especially for something as remote as the off-chance of her introducing you to her friends group. This is one of the biggest things I've seen my friends (and I've done it myself too) do to screw their own mental health. Take your mental health seriously guys, especially in these times of isolation. Your mental health is too important to compromise over some girl, period!
Also, it's amusing to see how the only advice that was actually empowering, taking responsibility of your own happiness, Freisha directed to BOTH men and women (even though this is supposed to be a video specifically targeted to men), and all the other advices of 'being better', 'accepting humility' she reserved for men. This is exactly the condescending tone why I stay apprehensive of these 'women advising men' videos, and she managed to deliver I guess. Lol. With all that being aside most of the content is useful, and I hope I'll be able to follow them in my life as well.
you are right this video will turn men into betas . WE WANT REAL ALPHA MEN!
@@sampuspitakumarajiva8930 cringe level over 9000. Pls try again