Lessons on Self Confidence from a Teenager | Reece Doppenberg | TEDxYouth@Langley

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  • @brendavazquez4105
    @brendavazquez4105 6 років тому +130

    More people need to hear what this young man is saying!

  • @mariie5289
    @mariie5289 Рік тому +1

    “Who ever you surround yourself with is who you’ll become”. So much truth in one sentence. This ted talk is fantastic

  • @vaderbuild
    @vaderbuild 3 роки тому +33

    find yourself
    stop caring about what others think of you
    surround yourself with positivity
    self assess your attitude
    be humble

  • @Karamb0t08
    @Karamb0t08 3 роки тому +7

    This guy is better than any therapist he knows, i see him as my idol

  • @epicface1346
    @epicface1346 6 років тому +90

    He is a fantastic speaker, very authentic and genuine.

  • @YourFather1555
    @YourFather1555 4 роки тому +26

    5 Steps to Self-Confidence
    Step 1:"Find Yourself" (2:38)
    Step 2: "Don't care what people think of you" (4:42)
    Step 3: "Surround yourself with encouragement" (7:55)
    Step 4: "Self-Assess your attitude" (8:54)
    Step 5: "Be humble" (10:36)

  • @destinydecember9773
    @destinydecember9773 3 роки тому +8

    i am changing day by day and building new confidence becoz of this guy!

  • @Jellyfishdestroyer
    @Jellyfishdestroyer 2 роки тому +1

    He's so cool already... 😭💕💕✨ The way he speaks with a smile , that's amazing despite of his all hardships in the past .... He's one of the most stable teen I have ever seen ✨💕 ... I'll turn 17 soon, and it's really inspiring for me ... I wanna be like him , the confidence he has

  • @shanarniatrice2560
    @shanarniatrice2560 Рік тому +2

    They need to make more videos this and everybody should hear what this young man is saying

  • @bestiesisters1980
    @bestiesisters1980 4 роки тому +21

    He is such an amazing speaker..

  • @nikiali7051
    @nikiali7051 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing. Shared with my 14 year told daughter. Thank you.

  • @cathvk7862
    @cathvk7862 5 років тому +17

    Brilliantly said Reece, thank you so much for your insight. My 13 year old son and I watched this together and absolutely love the message. It really helps to hear it from a young man who he now looks up to. All the very best for your future :o)

  • @hayley1524
    @hayley1524 4 роки тому +45

    yesssssssssss, you helped me so much. thank you, thank you, thank you!

  • @warishaali5045
    @warishaali5045 3 роки тому +3

    THANK YOU SM! I LEGIT NEEDED THAT SM!

  • @fireflies4214
    @fireflies4214 5 років тому +8

    No one's going to say about how cute it was when he said hi Mom ☺️☺️

  • @kendallmarie1162
    @kendallmarie1162 2 роки тому +3

    teacher made me watch this

  • @julier1276
    @julier1276 6 років тому +40

    Very articulate young man! I'm going to have my teen son watch this. Thank you and God bless you Reece😊

    • @gaminghazard8057
      @gaminghazard8057 5 років тому +1

      lol my mum made me whatch this, not that bad

    • @schqrr
      @schqrr 2 роки тому +1

      @@gaminghazard8057 same lol!

  • @pixelgaming983
    @pixelgaming983 5 років тому +8

    Thia has changed my mind to say I am a good person

  • @nataliazapata9302
    @nataliazapata9302 2 роки тому

    I'm just gonna keep listenting to this till I get it in my head

  • @venugopal-oz1dw
    @venugopal-oz1dw 5 років тому +2

    He just expressed himself and the beauty of discipline and simplicity to create an self confidence....all he said about self love he missed..!! But hes genius when he said respect to urself and reasses of ur attitudd..tats the coreection and perfection

  • @Lucky-bk6pw
    @Lucky-bk6pw 2 роки тому +1

    I love this, sending it to teenagers.

  • @nazariasmith8436
    @nazariasmith8436 3 роки тому +6

    my teacher is making me watch this

  • @stanhashtag8800
    @stanhashtag8800 6 років тому +10

    what he said may seem simple but i can feel his self confidence ,not bad

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 4 роки тому +3

    Great great talk . Be true to thyself. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @lunarcode
    @lunarcode 3 роки тому +6

    We got this as english homework :)
    Anyways this video was awesome.

  • @elliewinnen6089
    @elliewinnen6089 3 роки тому +4

    thank you this really helped me become and stay positive with my surroundings, to myself and to others.

  • @tenten1357
    @tenten1357 4 роки тому +24

    What a positive man! Love this Ted Talk

  • @shellieshimmel9148
    @shellieshimmel9148 5 років тому +11

    How did a 17-year-old from a dysfunctional family become so wise? Just WOW.

  • @marcelferreira3028
    @marcelferreira3028 4 роки тому +2

    Amazing! He´s so young with so much intelligence...Congratulations!!

  • @ignatiusjacob8419
    @ignatiusjacob8419 2 роки тому +3

    Hearty congratulations Reece .A powerful speech delivered with confidence .Parents and caregivers should give our time, space and a good listening ear to our children so that we hear them not only with our ears but with our hearts and souls .Be at their level, be their friends and mentors,. Make them known that they mean a lot to us .The time we spend with our children , in their play and activities is the best investment that we can give. All children are born with some hidden talents It is up to us to dig it out, polish it with love ,care and encouragement and make it shine. Children learn what they live with.

  • @sridharansripriya1499
    @sridharansripriya1499 4 роки тому +6

    I try to be like you brother. This is a big lesson for my life. Thank you so much. And God bless you all..

  • @Ren-wo6wn
    @Ren-wo6wn 4 роки тому +6

    My therapist had me watch this vid but I watched it last minute cuz I completely forgot about it

  • @tinaodili8353
    @tinaodili8353 5 років тому +25

    I couldn't help but say wow wow wow... great talk. keep up your confidence. you are going places

  • @lucerolaura89
    @lucerolaura89 3 роки тому

    I love you Hector my sweet loving son. Sending this to you. Mommy loves you, you are powerful, you are my strength.

  • @jinkxx_
    @jinkxx_ 4 роки тому +8

    DANGIT. This 12 minute video had me to write one page on this on documents. I’m not gonna do all of that. Life is pain right now, and my teacher just made it worse

    • @polar_idkk
      @polar_idkk 4 роки тому +4

      lmao same

    • @thebean3570
      @thebean3570 4 роки тому +4

      Bruh me too. I hate TED talks because when I watch it, that means essay.

    • @jinkxx_
      @jinkxx_ 4 роки тому

      Sara Bashir you had to do five bullet points. Wow

    • @Kingk-mz4jj
      @Kingk-mz4jj 3 роки тому

      Same bro

  • @arsal7959
    @arsal7959 3 роки тому +5

    my therapist told me to watch this :)

  • @helena-pp4rd
    @helena-pp4rd 4 роки тому +4

    Loved this ! Amazing powerful speaker x

  • @danielalmanza6493
    @danielalmanza6493 4 роки тому +5

    Anyone else here from y’all’s therapist?

  • @kelseywhelihan9659
    @kelseywhelihan9659 2 роки тому +1

    Những ca sĩ khác cho mình cảm giác thư giãn khi nghe! Còn ĐP luôn cho mình bị cuốn theo tinh thần bài hát.

  • @Lightning23Lion
    @Lightning23Lion 7 років тому +64

    Sit down, be humble)
    wtf why so many dislikes

    • @jonah3406
      @jonah3406 6 років тому +4

      I know right

    • @gfilip1
      @gfilip1 6 років тому +6

      I think there's a lot of people out there who don't want to acknowledge the truth that this young and wise man is offering and they feel that his wisdom is not worth anything because he is so young and lacks life experience. It's unfortunate if this is the case as this young man's wisdom and advice is rich in useful information; it resonates with me and I"m a 46-year-old woman. :D

    • @theelectronomer2319
      @theelectronomer2319 4 роки тому +1

      @@gfilip1 that is such a meaningful reply there! It makes me think a lot about myself too. I mean, I'm 15 and all I really love to do is teach people about science, specifically astronomy and electricity the most, which is why I was so passionate as to create a UA-cam channel that does just that. The only thing is, I feel like people wouldn't want to listen to a 15 year old teach this kind of stuff, or they'd say "gosh, what does this kid think he's doing? Teaching? He's too young". :(

  • @CurtisW
    @CurtisW 4 роки тому +5

    Very encouraging, Great Talk!

  • @starmoon7442
    @starmoon7442 3 роки тому +1

    that person "is the idea of self confidence"
    me: ah yes the thing i havent had for the past 4 years and i probaly wont ever have again

  • @federicovillani4545
    @federicovillani4545 2 місяці тому

    Am I the only one who was not forced by teachers to watch this?

  • @mayinngyinkhaing6660
    @mayinngyinkhaing6660 4 роки тому +5

    WOW. It's pretty useful for me! Thanks! :)

  • @menahilkhalid3286
    @menahilkhalid3286 6 років тому +8

    They are amazing points...

  • @LM-oz5cw
    @LM-oz5cw 4 роки тому +1

    This video is my son's bed night story.

  • @itsprecious7683
    @itsprecious7683 3 роки тому +9

    sorry guys my teacher bought me here

  • @DrShannanCrawford
    @DrShannanCrawford 2 роки тому

    Great practical applications! Great job 👏🏻

  • @ruthieradtke2067
    @ruthieradtke2067 5 років тому +6

    THANK YOU FOR THISSS

  • @ivyroy2568
    @ivyroy2568 4 роки тому +2

    Wonderful. Want my son to watch this . Past is past we can build our own future . God bless you

  • @walidamaankhan7498
    @walidamaankhan7498 4 роки тому +4

    This kid is amazing only he has not spend more time practicing public speaking ❤

  • @edithcabrera5086
    @edithcabrera5086 7 місяців тому

    Great Video

  • @rachelstephens2186
    @rachelstephens2186 6 років тому +8

    I loved this speech!

  • @kachiiwuafor3100
    @kachiiwuafor3100 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you..🤗🤗🤗

  • @SilYubi
    @SilYubi 7 років тому +16

    This is great. Thank you.

  • @susanmatthews426
    @susanmatthews426 5 років тому +2

    Very good speaker. I will play this for my class!

  • @elkesundermann769
    @elkesundermann769 6 років тому +34

    I love this video and greatly appreciate your story! I write curriculum for students across the country, and I wonder if I could use this video for a specific lesson that I'm writing about self-confidence for teens? Please let me know, I think this would spur some really great discussion and a change in mindset towards a positive attitude in life and goals. Thank you in advance, and I look forward to hearing from you!

    • @elkesundermann769
      @elkesundermann769 6 років тому +2

      @@MrWonder117 Awesome, thank you!

    • @8togreatprogram
      @8togreatprogram Рік тому

      Reece, I also write curriculum for 6-12th grades. May I use your video as well?

  • @ptoo6348
    @ptoo6348 5 років тому +7

    Reece, brilliant talk.

  • @lensam7916
    @lensam7916 8 років тому +40

    God! boy you r very smart to know all these by 17, you are already a man.

    • @jonah3406
      @jonah3406 6 років тому +1

      wow seriously

    • @jessmacdd
      @jessmacdd 5 років тому

      he's the best

    • @theelectronomer2319
      @theelectronomer2319 4 роки тому

      or... woman... but in this case I guess it would be a grown up or one who knows their way in life for their age.
      Ugh I don't even know what I mean by that.

  • @MariaFernanda-ds3wg
    @MariaFernanda-ds3wg 5 років тому +5

    Amazing steps Reece! Keep it up! Sometimes we don´t realize that the obstacle is us and the fear of our insecurities!

  • @Muzletek
    @Muzletek 2 роки тому +1

    Who else is watching this from Ms Melfi

  • @gargithakur762
    @gargithakur762 6 років тому +4

    Great talk...

  • @UnconditionallyInlove99
    @UnconditionallyInlove99 Рік тому

    How to tell your therapist you don't hate yourself your just normal and hate you about yourself???

  • @ehtishamh6116
    @ehtishamh6116 8 років тому +7

    good point and well said..

  • @msisajewel
    @msisajewel 8 років тому +18

    Hey, this is Biblical!

  • @sunitagarg1039
    @sunitagarg1039 5 років тому +1

    😍😍😍so true.....

  • @tonic196
    @tonic196 2 роки тому

    life works worksheet

  • @stacygoodwin3717
    @stacygoodwin3717 5 років тому +2

    Lovely young man

  • @FN_BRICKS
    @FN_BRICKS 4 роки тому +2

    PE teacher made me do this ;-;

  • @AmeliaUnleashed
    @AmeliaUnleashed 8 років тому +6

    Love it!

  • @omallium9658
    @omallium9658 5 років тому +3

    I was very inspird

  • @gargiaryacoach
    @gargiaryacoach 2 роки тому

    you are awesome

  • @NJ-xp4eb
    @NJ-xp4eb 5 років тому +3

    Amazing points for adults, kids and teenagers. Very inspiring and so true, thank you.

  • @ilhamalhalis134
    @ilhamalhalis134 4 роки тому +2

    cool!

  • @kieshaby6765
    @kieshaby6765 2 роки тому

    Idk if i like this or not but i think its a good video

  • @starmoon7442
    @starmoon7442 3 роки тому +1

    8:18 when you perants are the oppiste of that as in making you feel bad about yourself and your friends and your god dam imaginary friends/non bully mind are the ones who make you keep on living (the family before friends is bullcrap we didnt choose to have our perants and siblings in our lives but we did chose our friends tell me wich one makes you more happy cause for me its friends)

    • @reecedoppenberg7447
      @reecedoppenberg7447 3 роки тому

      Sometimes friends can be more like family to us when our family doesn't know how to meet our needs. It's really tough and I've experienced the same thing. Even if you have limited control of who you're surrounded by, doing your best to surround yourself with positivity can help. You can absolutely attain self-confidence because anyone can! Just one step at a time :)

  • @yvette8415
    @yvette8415 5 років тому +1

    beautiful beautiful

  • @eileenmacdougall8945
    @eileenmacdougall8945 6 років тому +8

    Out of the mouth of babes.

  • @taiyanichols9032
    @taiyanichols9032 2 роки тому +1

    What questions does he pose

  • @Spaghetti_WARLORD
    @Spaghetti_WARLORD 4 роки тому +4

    Ted talks? What about John talks!

  • @gerocasali1992
    @gerocasali1992 3 роки тому +1

    Nice

  • @gitalibose176
    @gitalibose176 10 місяців тому

    👏👏👍👍

  • @SoundMediaProductions
    @SoundMediaProductions 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you! I am doing a class for teens on finding your purpose. May I have your permission to show the video?

  • @firedoge7584
    @firedoge7584 4 роки тому +3

    f

  • @CuteGirl-ju6lh
    @CuteGirl-ju6lh 4 роки тому +1

    Hi

  • @Ian-bb7vv
    @Ian-bb7vv 2 роки тому

    Generally a good speech. But frankly speakers have to pretend they are 100% sure what they are sure what they are talking

  • @milicas7600
    @milicas7600 5 років тому +1

    💖👌

  • @misterg7121
    @misterg7121 4 роки тому +2

    Anyone else had to list the 5 things, anyone got answers so i don't have to watch. :)

  • @w1lli4n72
    @w1lli4n72 4 роки тому +1

    🇧🇷

  • @Pooglez-gw4ki
    @Pooglez-gw4ki 3 роки тому +1

    🕳

  • @118penguin
    @118penguin 8 років тому +7

    How to have the biggest ego and think you are always right 101

  • @somerandomfatguy.3384
    @somerandomfatguy.3384 5 років тому +5

    I want to become finest men alive...

  • @laralanconi2739
    @laralanconi2739 4 роки тому +1

    foda-se ?

  • @valkluvsu3217
    @valkluvsu3217 2 роки тому

    i do not care