@@LMCorvinus I'm so tired that "let me rub your feet" will be accepted. And then i will have the strength to create the next battle plan. The dishes don't do themselves.
Reminds me of when I had my first child. She was Large and almost an entire month late when they finally induced me. My labor lasted FOR-EVER (about 36 hours) it wasn’t bad at all until my water broke and then it was ON. My Ex made the mistake of telling me ‘just don’t think about it, the pain is all in your mind’
My last pregnancy I was miserable toward the end. I kept saying that I never felt that bad with our first and my husband had the audacity to tell me it was because I was older this time around. Turns out, my uterus was ruptured and I was leaking fluid into my abdominal cavity for weeks. Mercifully, baby and I were OK. (husband also survived somehow)
"You're fine" is a great thing to say if someone is scared because they think a situation is worse than it is. "You're fine" is NOT what you say to someone who is ACTIVELY SUFFERING.
I love my husband but he once told me that the pain and discomfort of pregnancy and labor couldn’t be THAT bad since it’s a natural process. I had to walk away for his safety
This reminds me of how I had a friend thank me for saying “god that sounds like it sucks” when he had a chronic pain flare up, because he was sick of people telling him he was fine and okay 😭 a little validation goes a long way! Sometimes a person feels fucking miserable and they just wanna have that recognized!
Men most of the time don't understand this. They think we want a solution and than ask "What should or can I do? Why do you tell me this when I literally can't take your pain away." When we just want empathy and compassion. Just some form of recognition and understanding that it is in fact hard or painful. Nothing more or less. It's scientifically proven that mens first instinct is to solve problems that's why their reaction don't go the way us women would go to. Ofc there are always exceptions.
Those fucking lightening zaps didn't stop at the labia. Mine would start exterior and zap right up into the canal to the cervix. It fucking MURDERED me everytime
@@emeraldfire413 I get them, too. My gyno said that non-pregnancy related reasons are during UTIs, endometriosis, cervical cramps (like during periods), ovarian cysts, ovarian torsion, ovulation, IUD irritation, or even nerve disorders. She said that as long as they're short-lived and sporadic, then it's generally nothing concerning. So, if you're concerned, visit your gyno! Gave me a lot of relief when serious reasons were ruled out.
My darling husband wasn't dumb enough to tell me things like that. Heck he was more telling me that he would like me to restore and not do so much. But I did have man foolishly risk life and limb by cutting in front of me at the corner store when I was 38 weeks pregnant. I cleared my throat and told him that there was a line. He turned around saying "What are you going to...." It was at that point he saw my absolutely massive pregnant belly. (Mind you this was mid June in San Antonio, TX. We were already hitting triple digits.) He just looked at my clearly not having any of his nonsense expression, then at the clerk, who had a "you done screwed up" smirk, and the three people behind me that he also cut in front of, and just slunk to the back.
Swift kick to the nuts and then a “you’re fine. Walk it off” as I walked away 😂 Edit: I’m terrible at paying attention to notifications, but thank you for all the likes 😅❤️
My man saw me give birth, which compared to many was actually an easy birth and even so he was like, "yeah never mind, were not having more kids, that was horrible, It was horrible to watch you and be useless." 🤣
Man, that last 6 weeks or so before my son was born was roooooough. I was so miserable. Everything hurt. I was constantly out of breath. I went back and forth between having searing heartburn and diarrhea, constantly. I was so swollen that it hurt to bend my fingers and elbows. I had my baby at 39 weeks, and I believe my final weight gain was 34 lbs. I was just so so so swollen. I had lost all but 12 lbs of it within 2 months, so I think it was mostly water retention.
I had wicked constipation and I don’t know if I’d prefer diarrhea 😅. Unclogging a toilet with a special rotating tool, or changing my crapped pants 🧐 Freakin’ rough. Next time I’m gonna take better stuff for that 😅
@@nosender2399 I've crapped my pants more as an adult than a kid 💀 The diarrhea hits different post partum (3rd degree episiotomy too). It's always one thing or another 😅 Praying for poop, or praying for it to stop 💀🤣
& then you have my man, not even to my 3rd trimester & if I make the slightest sound of discomfort "are you okay? What do you need? What can I do?" He's an angel ❤
@@Bmac7961 Mine said he wished he could take over for me, I laughed so hard because a "man cold" they act like they're dying, could you imagine them actually having to do this all?! 😆
@zubsies just listening to what they say they "would do" while pregnant is enough to make me see WHY we're the ones that have to deal with it. The human race would have died out CENTURIES ago
When someone tells me they are in pain no matter how minor it might seem I never minimize it cause what’s just uncomfortable for one person can be I’m about to faint to another. Pain tolerance varies wildly from person to person.
ive never understood "youre fine" as a response to complaining. they are clearly desperate to just say "shut the fuck up" and i wish they would just say that instead of pretending to care
Oh god, and there was nothing you could do to relieve it, like no body part you could rub to lessen the sensation, you just had to double over and wait
As a father of 2, it does help to go "yes it'll be tough, though we know what's a ahead, are prepared, I'm right here with you taking care of x/y/z, and you have the strength in you to make this work". Where prepared means to talk about food, clothes, massages, driving, how to spend time waiting, opinions on medical interventions, possible complications, music, preferred distance, place of birth (hospital, birthing center, home), people around after, who to call after, how to meet siblings, ... and the possibility that she may want something completely different than discussed in the moment and to be supportive of that. In every prep course I've been there was some dad asking "what am I supposed to even do" or stating "you can basically only stand by the bed and hold the mom's hand", lol For our second, my wife had her screaming "I can't do this" moment minutes before the baby was born, but we'd talked about that unavoidable mental state beforehand so I was able to honestly and truthfully comfort her that she was doing great and it worked out perfectly.
Once, when I was 9 months pregnant I sneezed and experienced a muscle spasm in my ribs that was so severe all I could do was cry. No hot compress could soothe the unreachable corner of my body that was experiencing searing pain. Not fine
I caught a cold at 8 months. Sneezed so hard I peed myself and then went into a coughing fit. Coughed an umbilical hernia..... My innie turned into an outie and grew a lump in a second. And my doctor? Said it would be a fairly simple fix after I had the baby but might lead to a C-section. I innocently asked if both surgeries could be done at the same time. He looked genuinely shocked by the very idea and told me I'd be fine..... Grrrrr!
"My nose is spreading across my face"! 😂 I had six kids, and my nose grew comically larger during each subsequent pregnancy. I have photographic proof.
The rage of the last couple weeks of pregnancy I experienced was off the charts crazy. My husband still talks about how mad (not at my friend, at my own body) I was a friend of ours had her baby 10 days before us after I walked around for weeks dilated to 3cm and still had to be induced. 😂
I kept saying that I felt her practicing martial arts within me, and that her kicks really hurt. When she was born, you wouldn’t believe the size of her feet lol it’s on us for being both really tall
Hey guys, just a little tip. Validation, every pregnant lady is going through somthing you will NEVER be able to even imagine. A little validation goes a long way. "Wow hun that sounds really really unpleasant." The baby grows . . . But our bodies dont grow, they stretch. My husnad was so good at being supportive. He also told me all the time how gratful he was for me going through pregnancy to give us such a beautiful gift. That also helped lol
I loose my shit everytime someone tells me im fine wen im pregnant...im pregnant with baby #4 right now and i didnt no expectto feel every and i mean EVERY lil change that happens...
That is how my first pregnancy went.My ribs and sternum kicked everyday, and constant right hip pain, and everything she says. Plus I finally had her at 9 days overdue. I finally went for a walk and said i wouldnt stop until I went into labor. I finally did go into labor after walking for miles.😮💨
Girl, no one evvvver talks about the restless leg...I had it in my legs and arms...it was so crazy I felt like I was going insane! Dead tired laying in bed, but couldn't sleep because of my limbs betraying me 😂
I hope & pray to experience this uncomfortable pain! What an awesome experience it would be. I’ve only been getting to 8weeks and have a few angel babies. What a miracle pregnancy is💕🍼🫄🏻Stay strong & feel blessed to all the pregnant mommas out there. I wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy and delivery💕🍼🫄🏻
I pray you have a wonderful, healthy pregnancy and baby ❤️ may you look at your little one in a few years with a big smile on your face when he/she is running and playing around 🥰 its the most precious feeling ever
You're GONNA BE fine. That's the big distinction. Remind them how strong they are and be supportive. Remind them that there will be an end to the pain and discomfort. Now, depending on who they are/how they feel, "you are gonna be fine" might not be the wording you exactly wanna use, but the idea is the same. Show them support, but don't deny reality
Why did my nose spread? I also got some sort of growth on the roof of my mouth and my hips felt like they were gonna split off my body. Oh, and I got acne.
All these videos make we want to cry. It’s like she cut out moments of my life. I had extreme ppd, and could not even tell anyone because I didn’t understand. I felt like if I actually told anyone how I felt they’d take my infant. I realize now- that was the ppd increasing my anxiety and paranoia. I was sinking and in full autopilot mode. I felt like I was screaming for help through smiles and tiny comments about needing a little help. “You’re fine. This is normal. Enjoy this time. Sleep when he sleeps.”
When carrying my 1st and nearing my due date, I couldn't drive. Between my sighing and whatever, she says to me 'when you think you can't stand it anymore, you have another week to go'. Marked that day on my calender, and she was dead on. All four times!
I’ve never been pregnant but I will one day, my poor partner has already experienced some of this I get really bad periods from endo, and I will haul over in pain and he will say “it’s okay baby, your fine, your okay” and have I ripped him a new one yes. Do I feel guilt yes, but it’s not fine my uterus is imploding.
My poor aunt had a 11.5 pound and 21 inches long baby, and wouldn't dilate past 6 after 16 hour of labor, refusing pain meds because of her addiction history. She was induced 2 weeks before her due date. We joked that if she had waited he could have drove her home. It was the most intense 16 hours I've ever witnessed. (Yes I got to be there, I was 16 and so excited). When I get scared about birth when I eventually have kids I think about her and say if she could do THAT, I can too.
My wife was very appreciative when i told her she was fine. But then again she worries about everything and it helps her to have an outside perspective on what's worth worrying about and paying attention to it
Validate their experience, tell them you can’t imagine what they’re going through and then if they need anything they can tell you and you will be there to support them
ah pregnancy. i lost it over a snickers bar one time. i had an absolute breakdown. beside myself with grief and misery. i wanted a king size and they only had….. the minis in bags… i sobbed in a gas station. at 1 in the morning. loudly. with witnesses. cried the whole way home and then cried myself to sleep that night. still a little pissy about that one to be honest 😂😂😂
I have chronic pain from a minor pregnancy inconvenience (SPD caused me severe muscular pain including sciatica). I thought i had GERD late in my pregnancy and for the first year post-partum, it was nightly gallbladder attacks! My physio said to me at 37 weeks that i had dropped and I'd probably deliver by the end of the week going on my walk and the way my ligaments felt, i was pregnant for another MONTH after that! The only thing worse than your partner dismissing your pain is the medical staff who are supposed to be supporting you doing it.
I simpathized with women in worse shape than me one day, commenting on the poor placement of this one store's complimentary parent parking, and a man told me to stop sniveling, that I was pregnant, not crippled. I told him I felt very sorry for any and all women in his life.
Not a native speaker here 🙋🏼♀️ English language has always buffeled me in that way. For example I'd go like "This place is weird and give me the creeps, let's leave" and the answer would be "No, you're fine". Like WHAT? Do I not understand smth? I just *told* you I'm not fine, you *can't* tell me that I'm fine, it's not for you to decide. And the list of examples goes on and on and on. Still makes me effing mad. 😡
That man is risking death to tell a pregnant woman she is fine 😂
He even had TWO CHANCES to shut up 😂
2.9
I would have taken a "i love you, how can i help"
@morganseppy5180 that MIGHT have saved him from a knee to the groin, but only IF he tried that BEFORE the last "are you OK?" 😂
@@LMCorvinus I'm so tired that "let me rub your feet" will be accepted.
And then i will have the strength to create the next battle plan. The dishes don't do themselves.
When I was pregnant I was completely irrational at times and if my ex had said I was fine that many times I would have punched him in the face lol
That is completely rational 😂😂😂
repeatedly, until he looked as miserable as I felt at that point
Hell, my husband wouldn't have dared say it the second time. He liked breathing
I was thinking the same! 😂
Reminds me of when I had my first child. She was Large and almost an entire month late when they finally induced me. My labor lasted FOR-EVER (about 36 hours) it wasn’t bad at all until my water broke and then it was ON. My Ex made the mistake of telling me ‘just don’t think about it, the pain is all in your mind’
My cousin asked his uncle how to help a pregnant woman. His uncle said just shut up and get her whatever she ask for immediately
Now that sounds like a good man!
😊😅😅
Mines did that he learned from his mom n r friends lol
@@jessicawilde4530"experoence is the best teacher" some ppl can't accept recieblved knowledge and need 1st hand experience.
Smart man.
My last pregnancy I was miserable toward the end. I kept saying that I never felt that bad with our first and my husband had the audacity to tell me it was because I was older this time around. Turns out, my uterus was ruptured and I was leaking fluid into my abdominal cavity for weeks. Mercifully, baby and I were OK. (husband also survived somehow)
He is very lucky ... 😅
Oh, Sis! I’m so sorry!
Next time, when a man has heart attak symptoms we should said: „you need to see a therapist“
How dare your husband not be psychic! How dare he point out that advanced maternal age makes pregnancy harder??? The audacity!
@@marywynne7931 I don't think it's about him not being psychic. It's about him dismissing her concerns without hearing her out
"You're fine" is a great thing to say if someone is scared because they think a situation is worse than it is.
"You're fine" is NOT what you say to someone who is ACTIVELY SUFFERING.
That’s a great way to put it
The way men literally have the audacity to even talk to us sometimes
Just because they know we can reach their crotch with our knee "you're fiiiiiiiiine!"
😂😂😂😂
Word I would really love to understand this phenomenon
Frrrrr I'm in the middle of my crime documentary at the best part and EVERYYYYYY goddamn timeeeeeee he interrupts me
They say this, and then claim they are dying of a cold 😂
I love my husband but he once told me that the pain and discomfort of pregnancy and labor couldn’t be THAT bad since it’s a natural process. I had to walk away for his safety
You better than me, coz i would walk and never come back... Can't get over people that invalidate my pain and discomfort
It's literally the .most radical thing a human body can do "naturally"
And yet those Bible thumpers are all on about how pain in labor I s a divine punishment. They must have been on something, eh?
Get a better partner, jesus
Bashing his face is a natural hormonal side effect of pregnancy as well ❤
This reminds me of how I had a friend thank me for saying “god that sounds like it sucks” when he had a chronic pain flare up, because he was sick of people telling him he was fine and okay 😭 a little validation goes a long way! Sometimes a person feels fucking miserable and they just wanna have that recognized!
Men most of the time don't understand this. They think we want a solution and than ask "What should or can I do? Why do you tell me this when I literally can't take your pain away."
When we just want empathy and compassion. Just some form of recognition and understanding that it is in fact hard or painful. Nothing more or less.
It's scientifically proven that mens first instinct is to solve problems that's why their reaction don't go the way us women would go to. Ofc there are always exceptions.
Those fucking lightening zaps didn't stop at the labia. Mine would start exterior and zap right up into the canal to the cervix. It fucking MURDERED me everytime
I get this without pregnancy. Don't know why but it's happened randomly since I became pubescent
@emeraldfire413 you need to see a specialist about that.
Mine hit me in the clitoris. It was...awful.
@@emeraldfire413 I get them, too. My gyno said that non-pregnancy related reasons are during UTIs, endometriosis, cervical cramps (like during periods), ovarian cysts, ovarian torsion, ovulation, IUD irritation, or even nerve disorders.
She said that as long as they're short-lived and sporadic, then it's generally nothing concerning. So, if you're concerned, visit your gyno! Gave me a lot of relief when serious reasons were ruled out.
Zaps in the bootie hole and through your crotch and you can feel it in your cervix!
My darling husband wasn't dumb enough to tell me things like that. Heck he was more telling me that he would like me to restore and not do so much. But I did have man foolishly risk life and limb by cutting in front of me at the corner store when I was 38 weeks pregnant. I cleared my throat and told him that there was a line. He turned around saying "What are you going to...." It was at that point he saw my absolutely massive pregnant belly. (Mind you this was mid June in San Antonio, TX. We were already hitting triple digits.) He just looked at my clearly not having any of his nonsense expression, then at the clerk, who had a "you done screwed up" smirk, and the three people behind me that he also cut in front of, and just slunk to the back.
Damn my man never said you are fine. Just told me to lay down on my pillows and rubbed my back until i felt fine. He made sure i was fine ❤😊
❤awww
That's how it's done!
Aw!!!
Swift kick to the nuts and then a “you’re fine. Walk it off” as I walked away 😂
Edit: I’m terrible at paying attention to notifications, but thank you for all the likes 😅❤️
I was waiting for something to happen to him, lol.
That is the only logical response I can think of.
Exactly
So physical abuse 😂
@deziiluv but it's OK, because they can both be "fine" together 😂
The sarcastic retaliation "oh I'm fiiiiinnne" 😂😂
As a mom of 3.... ILL SHOW YOU FINE!!!! 🤣😂🤣😂👏
My man saw me give birth, which compared to many was actually an easy birth and even so he was like, "yeah never mind, were not having more kids, that was horrible, It was horrible to watch you and be useless." 🤣
Hey that's a keeper. It means he cares about what you're going through. Bless him.
Man, that last 6 weeks or so before my son was born was roooooough. I was so miserable. Everything hurt. I was constantly out of breath. I went back and forth between having searing heartburn and diarrhea, constantly. I was so swollen that it hurt to bend my fingers and elbows. I had my baby at 39 weeks, and I believe my final weight gain was 34 lbs. I was just so so so swollen. I had lost all but 12 lbs of it within 2 months, so I think it was mostly water retention.
I had wicked constipation and I don’t know if I’d prefer diarrhea 😅. Unclogging a toilet with a special rotating tool, or changing my crapped pants 🧐
Freakin’ rough. Next time I’m gonna take better stuff for that 😅
@@SheWhoWalksSilently stttooppp😅😅😫😫😫 I remember the feeling well, and it's no laughin matter, but your description sent me 😂😂😂
@@nosender2399 I've crapped my pants more as an adult than a kid 💀
The diarrhea hits different post partum (3rd degree episiotomy too).
It's always one thing or another 😅
Praying for poop, or praying for it to stop 💀🤣
@@SheWhoWalksSilently I swear to god, some people don't appreciate us enough 😫😫😅😅 Stay strong, mama
Sounds like you may have had preenclampsia
The "Do you know how he gets out of here 🤨" sent meeee!!! Omg 😂😂💀
& then you have my man, not even to my 3rd trimester & if I make the slightest sound of discomfort "are you okay? What do you need? What can I do?"
He's an angel ❤
warms my heart to hear stories like that. hope he’s spoiling you good
My response to my husband, at 9 months, is that I need you to take over. There's nothing you can do. It's your turn now. Etc
@@Bmac7961 Mine said he wished he could take over for me, I laughed so hard because a "man cold" they act like they're dying, could you imagine them actually having to do this all?! 😆
@zubsies just listening to what they say they "would do" while pregnant is enough to make me see WHY we're the ones that have to deal with it.
The human race would have died out CENTURIES ago
@@Bmac7961 Yesss! Exactly lmao
"ohhhh but im fineEEEeE" 😂😂😂 sarcasm is a must in these situations 👏🏻👏🏻😩😩🤣🤣🤣
Sometimes people thing they are helping but we just need to be validated not gaslit!
When someone tells me they are in pain no matter how minor it might seem I never minimize it cause what’s just uncomfortable for one person can be I’m about to faint to another. Pain tolerance varies wildly from person to person.
ive never understood "youre fine" as a response to complaining. they are clearly desperate to just say "shut the fuck up" and i wish they would just say that instead of pretending to care
I felt that hormonal huff. 😂
Glad to see I wasn’t the only one that would’ve unalived that man 😅😂
Mommas are superheros
WTF is with the zapping?! Ive had three children and called it the fish hook..like the baby had the line and would tug on it now and then! 😂😂
Feeling zapping is a symptom of nerve pain/damage
Lighting crotch
It's called lightning crotch, and it feels like randomly getting tazed on the low setting, but in ur crotch.
All these years and I thought it was just me 😊
Oh god, and there was nothing you could do to relieve it, like no body part you could rub to lessen the sensation, you just had to double over and wait
As a father of 2, it does help to go "yes it'll be tough, though we know what's a ahead, are prepared, I'm right here with you taking care of x/y/z, and you have the strength in you to make this work".
Where prepared means to talk about food, clothes, massages, driving, how to spend time waiting, opinions on medical interventions, possible complications, music, preferred distance, place of birth (hospital, birthing center, home), people around after, who to call after, how to meet siblings, ... and the possibility that she may want something completely different than discussed in the moment and to be supportive of that.
In every prep course I've been there was some dad asking "what am I supposed to even do" or stating "you can basically only stand by the bed and hold the mom's hand", lol
For our second, my wife had her screaming "I can't do this" moment minutes before the baby was born, but we'd talked about that unavoidable mental state beforehand so I was able to honestly and truthfully comfort her that she was doing great and it worked out perfectly.
When in doubt bring snacks!
Once, when I was 9 months pregnant I sneezed and experienced a muscle spasm in my ribs that was so severe all I could do was cry. No hot compress could soothe the unreachable corner of my body that was experiencing searing pain. Not fine
I caught a cold at 8 months. Sneezed so hard I peed myself and then went into a coughing fit. Coughed an umbilical hernia..... My innie turned into an outie and grew a lump in a second. And my doctor? Said it would be a fairly simple fix after I had the baby but might lead to a C-section. I innocently asked if both surgeries could be done at the same time. He looked genuinely shocked by the very idea and told me I'd be fine..... Grrrrr!
Sometimes trying to explain it only gives them a window to deny you more with more excuses.
"My nose is spreading across my face"! 😂 I had six kids, and my nose grew comically larger during each subsequent pregnancy. I have photographic proof.
Not to mention how much harder it is to breath and having to pee every 5 minutes
And after having the baby still not being able to hold pee.😢
The rage of the last couple weeks of pregnancy I experienced was off the charts crazy. My husband still talks about how mad (not at my friend, at my own body) I was a friend of ours had her baby 10 days before us after I walked around for weeks dilated to 3cm and still had to be induced. 😂
I kept saying that I felt her practicing martial arts within me, and that her kicks really hurt. When she was born, you wouldn’t believe the size of her feet lol it’s on us for being both really tall
I’m a day past my due date and this has my dyinggggg 😂😂😂😂
The last 3 weeks of my pregnancy were worse than the entire previous 9 months 😂 it was so overwhelming! My labor was a piece of cake after that lol
Hey guys, just a little tip. Validation, every pregnant lady is going through somthing you will NEVER be able to even imagine. A little validation goes a long way. "Wow hun that sounds really really unpleasant." The baby grows . . . But our bodies dont grow, they stretch. My husnad was so good at being supportive. He also told me all the time how gratful he was for me going through pregnancy to give us such a beautiful gift. That also helped lol
I loose my shit everytime someone tells me im fine wen im pregnant...im pregnant with baby #4 right now and i didnt no expectto feel every and i mean EVERY lil change that happens...
You're fiiiine.
sending love 🫶
@@CarysGMRIP
That is how my first pregnancy went.My ribs and sternum kicked everyday, and constant right hip pain, and everything she says. Plus I finally had her at 9 days overdue. I finally went for a walk and said i wouldnt stop until I went into labor. I finally did go into labor after walking for miles.😮💨
Add the restless leg syndrome and reflux and you’ve just about lost your mind 😂
Girl, no one evvvver talks about the restless leg...I had it in my legs and arms...it was so crazy I felt like I was going insane! Dead tired laying in bed, but couldn't sleep because of my limbs betraying me 😂
Im 30 weeks with our 3rd. I feel this so hard right now 😂
Big mistake to tell a pregnant woman she is fine and walk it off.
I'm at that point.So ready to be done
I hope & pray to experience this uncomfortable pain! What an awesome experience it would be. I’ve only been getting to 8weeks and have a few angel babies. What a miracle pregnancy is💕🍼🫄🏻Stay strong & feel blessed to all the pregnant mommas out there. I wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy and delivery💕🍼🫄🏻
I pray you have a wonderful, healthy pregnancy and baby ❤️ may you look at your little one in a few years with a big smile on your face when he/she is running and playing around 🥰 its the most precious feeling ever
You're GONNA BE fine. That's the big distinction. Remind them how strong they are and be supportive. Remind them that there will be an end to the pain and discomfort.
Now, depending on who they are/how they feel, "you are gonna be fine" might not be the wording you exactly wanna use, but the idea is the same. Show them support, but don't deny reality
I watched this so many times I’m literally crying 😂
Zapping labia.....😂 so true!
He kicked my hip so hard...it hurt for an hour. I consoled myself knowing he is strong ASF😂
Why did my nose spread? I also got some sort of growth on the roof of my mouth and my hips felt like they were gonna split off my body. Oh, and I got acne.
I completely forgot the absolutely brain melting experience of looking in the mirror and seeing my nose spreading.
All these videos make we want to cry. It’s like she cut out moments of my life. I had extreme ppd, and could not even tell anyone because I didn’t understand. I felt like if I actually told anyone how I felt they’d take my infant. I realize now- that was the ppd increasing my anxiety and paranoia. I was sinking and in full autopilot mode. I felt like I was screaming for help through smiles and tiny comments about needing a little help. “You’re fine. This is normal. Enjoy this time. Sleep when he sleeps.”
The ending killed me, lol. The amount of sarcasm XD
Wow your eyes are Soo pretty.. like blue green 😊
This got me dying laughing 😂😂😂
When carrying my 1st and nearing my due date, I couldn't drive. Between my sighing and whatever, she says to me 'when you think you can't stand it anymore, you have another week to go'. Marked that day on my calender, and she was dead on.
All four times!
My feed going from John finally defending you to Barb and Jen, then to this was a little jarring🤣🤣🤣
I’ve never been pregnant but I will one day, my poor partner has already experienced some of this I get really bad periods from endo, and I will haul over in pain and he will say “it’s okay baby, your fine, your okay” and have I ripped him a new one yes. Do I feel guilt yes, but it’s not fine my uterus is imploding.
Right… don’t tell me I’m fine. Tell me you’re sorry
I love your videos! Im so glad I found your channel!
That last comment tho!!!! "Oh! I'm fiiiiinnneeee!!!!!" Hahahaha!!!!
I used to get so mad when my husband would say I was OK. Like bish, feel what I'm feeling and tell me ur ok.
Oh my gosh girl you're scaring me 😂 but this is pure gold 👏🏻🤣👏🏻🤣
Pregnant wife: so you have chosen death!!!
My husband never would tell me this. He just tells me to go lay down and brings me snacks, lol. Only 8 weeks left until baby #4 arrives!
I love this so much that I let it go on loop intentionally
Masterful. I love how well upi do the expressions!
My first kept kicking my rib and sliding his foot down. Home birth. Next was Leg in breech, 8.5 lb baby. My back never recovered. I got you girl!😂😁❤️
My poor aunt had a 11.5 pound and 21 inches long baby, and wouldn't dilate past 6 after 16 hour of labor, refusing pain meds because of her addiction history. She was induced 2 weeks before her due date. We joked that if she had waited he could have drove her home. It was the most intense 16 hours I've ever witnessed. (Yes I got to be there, I was 16 and so excited). When I get scared about birth when I eventually have kids I think about her and say if she could do THAT, I can too.
I also had an 8.5. Lb. Home birth. My husband wanted to go make his mother tea. Useless.
Oh goodness! This video is the best 😅 I’m a mom of 2 and 1 was a c-section. Every video I’ve seen is so relatable, it’s like you were in my head! Lol
The last "im fine" kills me 😂
My mom explained birth like this "Imagine a watermelon, coming out of a grape". I shivered and didn't need further explanation.
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Oh the zaps, that was weird.
I love when women make these types of videos.Ppl , especially men need to know what goes on with pregnant women......You're a goddess ❤
Not the zaps to the labia! Lol, too real
“Do you know how he gets out of here?” 😂
The “I’m fine” at the end was the cherry on the sundae 😅
I never got the lightning crotch thing?! I was so confused about that until I read some peoples experiences
“You’re fine, babe” gets tasered.
The oh I’m fine at the end 😮💨👏🏼
Seeing the first days before a channel really blows up and just KNOWING they will be HUGE!
My daughter kicked up into my ribs and took my breath away.
My wife was very appreciative when i told her she was fine. But then again she worries about everything and it helps her to have an outside perspective on what's worth worrying about and paying attention to it
Validate their experience, tell them you can’t imagine what they’re going through and then if they need anything they can tell you and you will be there to support them
Youre fine is the equivalent of Calm Down 😂
I relate to this so hard 😂
Every time someone tells us we’re fine, we should be allowed to cause them the same thing we’re feeling.
that knot in the t-shirt is doing a lot of work
Lmao that last sarcastic "I'm fine" , had me rolling!😂😂😂
This one is really funny 😂😂😂❤
My husband always tells me I’m fine.. and to drink water and I’ll be alright💀💀💀💀
"Im sorry. It sucks. What can I do for you." Is an acceptable response
I am in stitches here!! 😂😅😊🤣😄😀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ah pregnancy. i lost it over a snickers bar one time. i had an absolute breakdown. beside myself with grief and misery. i wanted a king size and they only had….. the minis in bags… i sobbed in a gas station. at 1 in the morning. loudly. with witnesses. cried the whole way home and then cried myself to sleep that night. still a little pissy about that one to be honest
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I have chronic pain from a minor pregnancy inconvenience (SPD caused me severe muscular pain including sciatica). I thought i had GERD late in my pregnancy and for the first year post-partum, it was nightly gallbladder attacks! My physio said to me at 37 weeks that i had dropped and I'd probably deliver by the end of the week going on my walk and the way my ligaments felt, i was pregnant for another MONTH after that! The only thing worse than your partner dismissing your pain is the medical staff who are supposed to be supporting you doing it.
I hate that gaslighting in general. Just give a hug sometimes, my goodness. 🙄😄
I simpathized with women in worse shape than me one day, commenting on the poor placement of this one store's complimentary parent parking, and a man told me to stop sniveling, that I was pregnant, not crippled. I told him I felt very sorry for any and all women in his life.
Not a native speaker here 🙋🏼♀️
English language has always buffeled me in that way. For example I'd go like "This place is weird and give me the creeps, let's leave" and the answer would be "No, you're fine". Like WHAT? Do I not understand smth? I just *told* you I'm not fine, you *can't* tell me that I'm fine, it's not for you to decide. And the list of examples goes on and on and on. Still makes me effing mad. 😡
My sister's like this even when not pregnant 😂 yeah, its "you're gonna be okay" "do u need help or to rant" all day every day😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love you!! 🥰🥰
I say this to our dramatic cats, and have to make sure I don’t say to our kids one day lmao
My husband always apologises for putting me in these situations 😂😂
I'm glad my hubby never said "you're fine" 😂 he said things likes "it's ok baby"
My husband told me that witnessing the birth of our son gave him a kind of respect for me and all mothers that he never knew was possible.