It's a red flag whenever a man moves this fast. Let God be your Father sweetheart. Unequally yoked .....leave him alone. Get some time alone and seek counseling.
I can, look at the men they make fathers, the fact they hardly ever marry and the fact they barely cohabitate long enough for their kids to remember a two-parent home with their bio dad present.
Please ladies, listen to what Tony is saying. My first cousin met a man in the military. I am not for sure how long they dated but he eventually got stationed in another area. She up and moved her and her children to where he was stationed. She moved in with him. One day, she left her two young girls with this man to go and run an errand. She thought she really knew him. This man ended up killing her youngest daughter. He got so mad at the daughter that he ended up killing her. The baby was only 4 at the time. This happened in the mid 90's. He ended up being convicted and went to federal prison. About a year ago, he came up for parole and was denied. He is still in prison today! He has been locked up now for over 20 years. Ladies, I have to say this, but he was a brother. Please take this serious! If I told you the guy's name, you can look him up on google and read all about it! This story made headline news! I am only sharing this story because I want you ladies to be careful and PLEASE STOP TAKING YOUR CHILDREN AROUND MEN YOU DON'T KNOW! God bless you all!!!
Wow Rosella. This is so horrible. You are so right. I just seen an article today about a black man the dropped his daughter off at the emergency room and left. She died from severe head injuries. This stop just makes me so upset. This women that wrote in to Tony has lost her mind. But women do this all the time. Smh
Thanks for sharing your cousin’s story. Women with children need to be continually reminded about the dangers of shacking up with the wrong men. No man can ever replace a child. I hope your cousin is doing better, because my heart hurts reading this.
I really wish every single female in the world knew who Tony Gaskins was. This man has taught me so much. The number of toxic, grown boys i have blocked from my life since i started watching Tony Gaskins.. omg. Thank you TONY!!
Good for you beloved. Get this knowledge of the real game. Yeah we all gotta stop listening to our heart and listen to the discernment God gave us as women. Ive been married twice and Im just getting it with a family full of women and men. What the heck happening! I have grandchildren, stepchildren and a biological daughter. Be smart, be better than us, I’m 61. Pour love into you!!! Find God through Jesus Christ, that will keep you grounded!! Wishing you well.
Sis, a real man will take the lead when he truly loves. You won’t have to uproot you’re life or chase after him, which is why you must take you’re time to see any red flags. If you are too willing or over zealous it sends him a message , “oh she desperate.” This is how he knew he could treat you whatever way he wants. He was running game the entire time. You’ll be alright. Ask God before you make any decision with men. Discernment will either tell you yes, no, or wait. Peace will be evident when the right man comes into you’re life. Praying blessings for you and your children.
I beg you women PLEASE STOP HAVING MEN AND WOMEN AROUND YOUR CHILDREN!!!! I prayed today over a teen girl contemplating suicide because of mom's boyfriend. Please stop traumatizing these kids!!
When Tony was on that phone telling them children to shut up 🤣 if he ain't the truth!! That dern Tony smh! somebody send me his cash app, I ain't neva met a man so real and I love his heart. All I see is love in his videos. I see so many people on youtube gifted and talented but the Bible even says you can have all the gifts and talents but if you don't have love, you don't have nothen. The greatest of all is love. God bless you Tony 💯
$TonyGaskins! Bless you Sis! I commented the other day asking for those that can to send Tony an offering for his ministry work on these videos. God has called him to this, but oh man, it ain’t easy. You can see it is is face. Sisters, let’s also pray for Tony and his family. Ask God to put a hedge of protection around them.🙏🏾
It hurts.... To look in the mirror and come to terms with everything you allowed, survived and permitted. It's embarrassing... There will be times of shame, tears and heartbreak. Go through it. On the other side is clarity. Self forgiveness, promises to yourself and your children for better. To do better. To realign yourself for your legacy. Put your all into your children. Practice self care. You'll find peace and help others from your experiences. Blessing to you and yours 💞
Tony this situation saddened the Holy Spirit. That is why tears filled your eyes. The Lord planned better for his daughter (even if she's been living in sin and self hate). Sis: if nobody told today, we love you❤ and so does Jesus🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@PeaceBeStill- @Dikéle Keeping it real with someone is not "belittling" especially if you "haven't had perfect relationships with men" AND learnt something AND grown from it. You can't jolt someone out of a stupor with a massage. Just don't me careless, unkind or hypocritical.
Sister, I suggest not dating for a good while and really, really dive deep into the meaning of self-love, what it is, looks like, feels like, etc. You cannot fathom how much God loves you if you do not love yourself. You must get new knowledge EVERYDAY for at least a year! It’s that serious for your healing! I wouldn’t suggest something that I haven’t done. God Bless!
Sis!!! I’ve been in a long distance relationship. We all make mistakes in the name of love. Out of desperation, insecurity, fear, lust.. etc. So there is no judgement. However.. it’s time to MOVE ON! This person is obviously a grown boy who is extremely toxic!! He needs help. Turn him over to the lord. And like Tony recommended... YOU NEED A LIFE COACH (I say it in love) I’m a coach on My Mentor. One of my topics is Break Ups... I’d love to talk further. We are here as a community to support! We have to do better & it takes a village!! Stay encouraged and choose YOU!!! God Bless!!!!
As they say: You attract what you are. Whether you're conscious of it or not. EDIT: it's interesting that my comment-dropped enroute- aligns with Tony's conclusions.
Not trying to judge. But a real relationship is needed with God. Not a form of Godliness. I think she needs to master being alone and enjoying her children first, then your true Man of God will find you ma’am. I agree with Tony this is a grown boy but you appear to be a grown girl. Sis love yourself and your children. Take your mind off a Man. I’m single with four children and still praying and waiting on God to send me the Man for me. It’s not easy but I know it will be well worth it. Btw my children are teenagers and young adults. So sis renew your mindset and get a new focus. Love you! ❤️💯
Amen!! Be encouraged! Encourage yourself! Read God's word. Embrace his love letter! Don't give any energy to the clown who creeped in!! It does not determine your worth, define you! You have a now & a future!! Thank heaven he's revealed he's not qualified to be a candidate for a child of God! These wicked individuals have not grown up. Don't desire to really live life honestly, purely, with contentment in the Lord! Peace, joy, self control, love, (Galatians 5:22,23)and all 9 fruit of the spirit come from the Lord, from within and a relationship with the creator of who you were meant to be in the earth! Pray, cry and move forward women, especially mom's with precious little children! Watch daddy's little girls. The women of Brewster Place? Not sure of this title; also, No Good deed!!!! Tragic but true stories for many😔. Pray against the murderous spirits! Wake up 💎 all and stay woke!! The sex, games, deception, lies, drama, nor STDs are not worth the time wasted!! Nothing is. Accept what is revealed. Lesson learned😇. Much, much love🧸.
Tony...I grew up as Jehovah's witness. They do not celebrate any holiday holidays except for Easter. But they aren't supposed to even date outside their religion and sex outside of marriage will get you disfellowshiped..so this guy is definitely sus on all levels...keep giving that knowledge!
Jehovah's Witnesses do not celebrate Easter, they celebrate the memorial of Jesus Christ's death. It's not the same thing even though it's around the same time period.
I see alot of women allowing guys to come around their kids and barely know them. I know a woman that gave keys to her place after 45days and she has two daughters. 🤦🏽♀️
I believe what you’re feeling is compassion from the Holy Spirit, regardless of the scenario. Just confirmation this is your ministry right here. If a minister lacks compassion, he/she has no business being in ministry. This was great to see in all honesty. I love seeing servants of God moved by the Holy Spirit because it shows the goodness of God, the very heart of the Father. You are truly called and a blessing to us all, brother. God bless. 🙏🏽
A dude told me he wanted a pic of me to show my future mama law. I said dang at least buy me dinner first and cut his behind off. Wasn't finna have me hanging from the highest tree.
I feel so bad for the kids, they are the innocent ones in all of this. Women have to wisen up and put your kids first period! They rely on you to be stable in mind not adjust your life based on the whims of a man or your emotions.
Tony I can feel your emotions reading this. I know it's hard to keep seeing ladies getting used and abused. I just pray she heeds your advice. God open her eyes. Amen
Too soon to move your kids in with a man. I knew a man 2 full years before I realized he was as crazy. These women be soooo quick and thirsty to want a man. She done threw all caution to the side. Smh
I have a friend that loves online dating. I swear every other week she’s telling me she thinks she’s found the one. The desperation is real. She’s makes great money and if only she could put that same energy into traveling and loving herself she would be okay.
Girl me too I’ll talk to every 2 weeks and it’s a different man, she also the one who likes to shoot her shot , she is look challenged. Doesn’t work just online all day everyday looking for a man.
I sense a huge lack of self-esteem and yearning for love from a man that she never got from her dad. So sad! Focus on yourself sis! You need to deal with your unresolved trauma so you can be better to yourself and for your children before you even think about bringing another man in the mix. No man near or far can save you, you need to save yourself!
Speaking as someone who was raised a Witness (no longer though): if that man claims that faith and is trying to have sex before marriage, he could get dis-fellowshipped. If you're a serious Witness fornication is big no.
They already had sex hence why she threatened him with pregnancy & child-support. The guy was just playing. He is everything & nothing all at once! 🙂 Obviously, he never wanted to marry her or could easily have said he was also a Christian. What he didn't bargain for was that she didn't care 'bout all that!
Okay this is a lot and being an empath, I can feel her pain. The disturbing part is that she was love bombed by a flaming Narcissist. Sis work on healing and yourself worth. 3 months was way to brief to uproot yourself for a man that has no actual relationship with you let alone your children. Cut him off, this is a form of control and abuse! Forgive yourself and reset.
@@aliciag946 exactly plus she already has 3 kids. I guess she love that single mother life she about to repeat that cycle again if she marry this fool.
You find some woman like to rush into a relationship, some don't care if he is still married or not. But once she start loving herself first, I believe she will make better decisions. Awesome video. Stay Bless and Safe.
There has to be balanced - moving too fast can only make you a stuck victim of love bombing. Let the honeymoon phase wear off before you make heavy commitments 💯
Tony, I know you joke about retiring from life coaching because of some of the questions you get. But this situation right here is why God called you to do this. I know it's frustrating. But people need you. It's hard to see outside of a situation when you're in it. I thank God for you. Please keep up the work God called you to do.
If you are looking for loving advice, please do not read this comment because you will not find it here I also receive these types of letters and they blow my mind. It never ceases to amaze the depths some women will sink to in order to keep a trifling, broke man. You want to know why so many black kids are screwed up these days? Look at their (mostly single) mothers. This woman moved her kids to live with a man they had never met, a man she only knew for a hot minute. He could have been a child molester, but protecting them clearly never crossed her mind. She's an unfit mother who is selfish, desperate, delusional and has no self esteem. I would have called DCFS on her too! When I do this kind of coaching, I'm like Tony. I can only be so sympathetic to women like this. How can you have such disregard for the lives and well being of your children? This woman DESPERATELY needs counseling.
I’m here as man bro! I’m changing it’s a long road but I’m becoming a real man . Everything you explain here is so real , wish me luck , may I get her back. I have faith in god
It’s the jehovah witness scene for me. “visualizing Christmas trees, and I was born but don’t have a birthday.”Listen I laughed the whole way through this video. 😂 . But seriously I have been in the Shoes of all these women who write in. But Thank God for Tony’s teaching, I’ve learned all the red flags and games. However, I will keep learning because when you stop learning you stop growing
I pray this woman realizes that she is a Queen and to always put your kids first sis dont ever put a Man before God or your kids. This man is definitely a Grown Boy. My suggestion is to love yourself and put your energy into your kids.
We women need to be wise and not get played but men need to stop promising the moon and stars. And then getting angry when women get caught up in chasing the fantasy. We both need to learn our lessons and do better. I was planning on moving for my boyfriend and then STILL moved AFTER he BROKE UP with me. After a 2 year situationship, lots of stress, confusion and heartbreak, I really hope I've learned my lesson!
Tony I know these stories are sad and help is needed, but I can't help but laugh at your facial expressions LOL. I just choked on my food when you said commercial break!!!! I'm so sorry to the sister that is going through prayers up for you and your kids. you have to take care of yourself and kid, that you have now and definitely no fornication God will not honor that sis. Until you heal from within you will never be able to love someone else or recognize love when it does come. Trust God and remember there are no boyfriends and girlfriends in the Bible, only wives and husbands, set yourself up to be a wife, a great mother and a righteous example to your kids.
Invest in yourself, read books, watch Tony's videos. There are alot of women moving across the country to be with a man... No, no, no please if anything do it for your kids. 🙏
🤦🏻♀️ What is going on here?! 😳 Are women THIS desperate? Bargaining for a wedding because he offered you some word salad in 3 months? Moving with your kids to his city in 1 WEEK after his word salad?! 😳😳😳 “from July to October” 😒😂
When Tony said, "he's Jehovah Witness and I'm Christian",,,GOT TO GO!! What a hot mess we put our selves in! Wow!! That hole in our hearts that we fill with a man, will never do. God our Father is the only one that can fill our empty cisterns. Thank you Tony again for truth!
Sis if he loves you today he will love you in the future. Don't be in a hurry. Remember to keep yourself and your children safe first and foremost. Love yourself and know that you are worth more and you and your children deserve better. Read Tony's books and watch his videos daily! God bless you. God will bring you through! Its not too late to make better choices.
Sis, just take the L, get on your knees and thank our Heavenly Father you dodged that bullet!! God is protecting you and your children..you'll b aight love ❤🙌🏾🙏🏾
@@intentionalhome Things could've went on way longer than they were supposed to and ended way worse. That grown boy already showed his true colors and she knows he dont want her at all so there is nothing to go back to. Hopefully she will take ALL the advice from Tony and everyone else, telling her she needs to love herself and wait on God cuz that one was NOT it
My advice to her, 1. Forgive yourself for making the wrong choices and forgive anyone who has hurt you in the past. 2. Go to therapy(8 session)and get a life coach (12 sessions) 3. Focus on your children ,don't make the mistake of hurting by focusing too much on men. Children know everything and it can effect them for life. 4. Take a break from dating until you have healed and you have fallen in love with yourself again. Take this time to invest in your growth
This heartbreaking Sis. I pray for your mind, body, spirit, and Godly Wisdom. I plead the Blood of Jesus over you and your children. I pray that God place people in your path that will edify your spirit and strengthen your inner man. Bless the fruit of her womb Father. I pray this in Jesus name. A-men.
This started with a cheap man, 😭 Money union and western grams. 😂😂😂😂 💔💔💔💔This man does not like you You got to get that ghetto out you 😟😟😟 You can't act like the bottom and want to be on top, I AIN'T TALKING ABOUT POSITION, 😂😂😂😂 Y'all gotta stop trolling me with these emails. 😏😁😁
Feel like a lot of women are desperate for love. Don’t mean any harm by saying this because I use to be that woman falling for anything and everything..thank God for growth & for your channel Tony. 🙏🏽
Sis make sure you don't put your precious children in potentially harmful situation, Praise GOD nothing happened to you and your children, Go too The Lord and Repent and also forgive yourself. I will be praying for you and your children in the Spirit my heart is heavy towards you 🙏 Blessings to you 🙏❤️
....It's good that you reached out for help, you can recover from this. However, you have to put in the work. Take a few coaching sessions with Tony Gaskins, it will be a great investment in you. For now stay strong and do the " inner" work for your children as well. God bless you sis.
His examples are hilarious..I couldn't stop laughing. He said buy a brake pedal....I can't. Sometimes we don't realize what we're doing while we're in it. But when it's over, we can see clearly. I hope she keeps it moving and heals from this grownboy.
You have to be careful about lying about being pregnant when you are not this can be very dangerous people have lost their lives doing that! Get God in your life let him be your leader, get a coach seek help
Yes!! You couldn’t have said it any better than that. Lot’s of people claim to be one way, but their actions and lifestyle says something totally different.
She dont watch your videos..she don't..how can you listen to Tony and dont know this is toxic and you need out..I listen to half a video and knew what I was about..
Pump your brakes Sister. He smelled your desparation for marriage Get coacbing from Tony Gaskins and READ tbe books POINT BLANK PERIODDDDT. Know your worth.
On a serious note she had unprotected s** with someone she barely knew. Lied about a pregnancy 🤰🏿 to try and make him love her. I do hope she finds herself.
That man that were reading about is bringing reproach on Jehovah's name. Jw is an organization. Christian is lifestyle. And about this letter. Man. Smh you have a point... this is a hard pill to swallow.. we've all been there no matter where we are spiritually. Because we're imperfect. And it's to each a zone about the holidays no matter what religion you are. The world we live in is commercialized. The seasons are beautiful.. but a gift should be given any time from the heart. Ps. Tony please dont block me. I enjoy your videos on the game of men.
Dear lady, this is a turning point, if you are smart. Thank God that he didn't hurt your kids first and yourself. Love your self first and pay attention and love to your children. That's is your job. Love yourself.
You can believe in a religion but if u not living the lifestyle u are not a Christian/ Witness. It’s too many people who have put in that work and gave themselves to God for just anyone to be claiming they are Christian or a Witness. You may study it or believe it but it’s the lifestyle and relationship with God. 💯💯💯
Dear lady, this is a turning point, if you are smart. Thank God that he didn't hurt your kids first and yourself. Love your self first and pay attention and love to your children. That's is your job. Love yourself.
I'm screaming, 😂😂😂....Tony: Okay, she from the hood." Wheeeww Chile....that question, plus grammar, was all over the place. I CANNOT!!!!! Why girl, just WHY???!!!
Well, I can fully stamp that a long distance relationship is NOT real. I survived one. Since I'm retired and my time is mine, we agreed I could move versus him relocating his job. He lived closer to the beach; always wanted to live within a mile of a beach. I went to visit for a week and his mask came off. Not only was he trying to force himself inside of me with his vastly utilized community "body," he abused me in other ways.... I lowered my worth. I can do better alone than be with some broken person for the sake of saying that I have a "man." Thank God her children were not physically harmed. I wonder if she's sat down and talked with them about their feelings on that situation?
Maybe she was saying that there was a recent night (perhaps the day before) that she was up at 2 am when it was heavy on her heart, n that lead her to write the email the next day-not wanting to be up late like that another night.
Wow hearing all this stories that woman go through or put their self’s in .. I can really say that we are living in the LAST dayssss my people.. wake up ! The world is getting worst everything is being affected relationships/ family’s/ money etc etc .. the love of many is going “COLDAaa” (Tonis voice)😂
Insecurity will have you doing things for a man that is out of this world. I pray that she gets coaching and start realizing her worth.
Girl you ain't never lied
@@christinewarren8134 Trust me I have been there! Once you regain your worth as a woman you are unstoppable. She can do it !!
@@crystalmarcia2614 🙏 😃
It's a red flag whenever a man moves this fast.
Let God be your Father sweetheart.
Unequally yoked .....leave him alone. Get some time alone and seek counseling.
Same, let's all pray for her.
Her desperation for a man needs to be healed and put in check immediately
Asap
That part 💯💯
Absolutely Lord please HELP her
I don’t mean to sound judgemental but I can’t believe women are this careless with their children.
Believe it sis. Some women do anything for a man. It is SAD
I Can!
I can, look at the men they make fathers, the fact they hardly ever marry and the fact they barely cohabitate long enough for their kids to remember a two-parent home with their bio dad present.
They deserve to be judged sis!!!. It's a shame.
@@RoZzieAwake honestly they do. Hopefully it helps them make better decisions.
Please ladies, listen to what Tony is saying. My first cousin met a man in the military. I am not for sure how long they dated but he eventually got stationed in another area. She up and moved her and her children to where he was stationed. She moved in with him. One day, she left her two young girls with this man to go and run an errand. She thought she really knew him. This man ended up killing her youngest daughter. He got so mad at the daughter that he ended up killing her. The baby was only 4 at the time. This happened in the mid 90's. He ended up being convicted and went to federal prison. About a year ago, he came up for parole and was denied. He is still in prison today! He has been locked up now for over 20 years. Ladies, I have to say this, but he was a brother. Please take this serious! If I told you the guy's name, you can look him up on google and read all about it! This story made headline news! I am only sharing this story because I want you ladies to be careful and PLEASE STOP TAKING YOUR CHILDREN AROUND MEN YOU DON'T KNOW! God bless you all!!!
That is so sad😞
Wow Rosella. This is so horrible. You are so right. I just seen an article today about a black man the dropped his daughter off at the emergency room and left. She died from severe head injuries. This stop just makes me so upset. This women that wrote in to Tony has lost her mind. But women do this all the time. Smh
Thanks for sharing your cousin’s story. Women with children need to be continually reminded about the dangers of shacking up with the wrong men. No man can ever replace a child. I hope your cousin is doing better, because my heart hurts reading this.
@@jussjess2829 I saw this and this clown was the bio father. I just don’t understand.
My granddaughters boyfriend killed her daughter. This thing is REAL.
I'm seeing far too many mothers being much too loose with the safety and well being of their kids 😢
Yes sis I agree wholeheartedly
It's terrifying and disgusting! This is how children get molested in their own homes!
@@PeaceBeStill- facts 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I really wish every single female in the world knew who Tony Gaskins was. This man has taught me so much. The number of toxic, grown boys i have blocked from my life since i started watching Tony Gaskins.. omg. Thank you TONY!!
Good for you beloved. Get this knowledge of the real game. Yeah we all gotta stop listening to our heart and listen to the discernment God gave us as women. Ive been married twice and Im just getting it with a family full of women and men. What the heck happening! I have grandchildren, stepchildren and a biological daughter. Be smart, be better than us, I’m 61. Pour love into you!!! Find God through Jesus Christ, that will keep you grounded!! Wishing you well.
Sis, he liked the idea of being with YOU when it was convenient for HIM, not you and the kids that he never met...
Sis, a real man will take the lead when he truly loves. You won’t have to uproot you’re life or chase after him, which is why you must take you’re time to see any red flags. If you are too willing or over zealous it sends him a message , “oh she desperate.”
This is how he knew he could treat you whatever way he wants. He was running game the entire time. You’ll be alright. Ask God before you make any decision with men. Discernment will either tell you yes, no, or wait. Peace will be evident when the right man comes into you’re life. Praying blessings for you and your children.
She certainly needs a renewing of her mind that only GOD can give as a matter of urgency. Else she may descend to a place where she's lost count!
Lady act like he dead. Block and delete him.
I beg you women PLEASE STOP HAVING MEN AND WOMEN AROUND YOUR CHILDREN!!!! I prayed today over a teen girl contemplating suicide because of mom's boyfriend. Please stop traumatizing these kids!!
All in the name of having man?? 😌
I promise. My mother did the same, had me looking at her like 😐 so just fuck your children's safty right 😐? All for the sake of a man 😩 my God.
Yes. Please !!! Having a man is not that serious!!
Our poor lil babies how they suffer at the hand of immature empty aldults. GET HEALED PLEASE!!!
When Tony was on that phone telling them children to shut up 🤣 if he ain't the truth!! That dern Tony smh! somebody send me his cash app, I ain't neva met a man so real and I love his heart. All I see is love in his videos. I see so many people on youtube gifted and talented but the Bible even says you can have all the gifts and talents but if you don't have love, you don't have nothen. The greatest of all is love. God bless you Tony 💯
$TonyGaskins! Bless you Sis! I commented the other day asking for those that can to send Tony an offering for his ministry work on these videos. God has called him to this, but oh man, it ain’t easy. You can see it is is face. Sisters, let’s also pray for Tony and his family. Ask God to put a hedge of protection around them.🙏🏾
It hurts....
To look in the mirror and come to terms with everything you allowed, survived and permitted.
It's embarrassing...
There will be times of shame, tears and heartbreak.
Go through it.
On the other side is clarity. Self forgiveness, promises to yourself and your children for better. To do better. To realign yourself for your legacy. Put your all into your children. Practice self care.
You'll find peace and help others from your experiences.
Blessing to you and yours 💞
So true..it. Beautiful and inspiring what you put in words. Still self-forgiving. I am a survivor. Thank you. I needed your comment.
@@l.campbell1891 God bless you 💯💯💯
That was everything thank you sis.
@@missunderstood3721 you're welcome. I speak from experience. Blessings to you and yours.
Tony this situation saddened the Holy Spirit. That is why tears filled your eyes. The Lord planned better for his daughter (even if she's been living in sin and self hate).
Sis: if nobody told today, we love you❤ and so does Jesus🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen! I loved the way you didn't belittle her, as if any of us have had perfect relationships with men! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Amen
They don't do anything but drink and party at club like we used to do before we got saved.
@@PeaceBeStill-
@Dikéle
Keeping it real with someone is not "belittling" especially if you "haven't had perfect relationships with men" AND learnt something AND grown from it.
You can't jolt someone out of a stupor with a massage.
Just don't me careless, unkind or hypocritical.
Never Inconvenience Your Children For A Man..
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Tony disappears at 6:30 🤣😂
Jimmy doesn’t know his birthday 😶
Don’t do holidays but sure do fornication 💀
😄Good looking out
@@cherh 😂😂😂
🤣😂😆
😂!!
That part took me out! 🤣🤣😂
Tony
This is very disturbing and hope her angels are safe.
I hope she's listening to your much needed information.
Bless you.
Sister, I suggest not dating for a good while and really, really dive deep into the meaning of self-love, what it is, looks like, feels like, etc. You cannot fathom how much God loves you if you do not love yourself. You must get new knowledge EVERYDAY for at least a year! It’s that serious for your healing! I wouldn’t suggest something that I haven’t done. God Bless!
She sounds like the type of woman that will leave her children for a man.
Sis!!! I’ve been in a long distance relationship. We all make mistakes in the name of love. Out of desperation, insecurity, fear, lust.. etc. So there is no judgement. However.. it’s time to MOVE ON! This person is obviously a grown boy who is extremely toxic!! He needs help. Turn him over to the lord. And like Tony recommended... YOU NEED A LIFE COACH (I say it in love) I’m a coach on My Mentor. One of my topics is Break Ups... I’d love to talk further. We are here as a community to support! We have to do better & it takes a village!! Stay encouraged and choose YOU!!! God Bless!!!!
How do I get on. You could help me.
Funny Moment: We he checked the time stamp on the email and said she was lying 😩😅😂👀
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As they say: You attract what you are. Whether you're conscious of it or not.
EDIT: it's interesting that my comment-dropped enroute- aligns with Tony's conclusions.
@@ataboofamily tears 😂😂
Not trying to judge. But a real relationship is needed with God. Not a form of Godliness. I think she needs to master being alone and enjoying her children first, then your true Man of God will find you ma’am. I agree with Tony this is a grown boy but you appear to be a grown girl. Sis love yourself and your children. Take your mind off a Man. I’m single with four children and still praying and waiting on God to send me the Man for me. It’s not easy but I know it will be well worth it. Btw my children are teenagers and young adults. So sis renew your mindset and get a new focus. Love you! ❤️💯
Amen!! Be encouraged! Encourage yourself! Read God's word. Embrace his love letter! Don't give any energy to the clown who creeped in!! It does not determine your worth, define you! You have a now & a future!! Thank heaven he's revealed he's not qualified to be a candidate for a child of God! These wicked individuals have not grown up. Don't desire to really live life honestly, purely, with contentment in the Lord! Peace, joy, self control, love, (Galatians 5:22,23)and all 9 fruit of the spirit come from the Lord, from within and a relationship with the creator of who you were meant to be in the earth! Pray, cry and move forward women, especially mom's with precious little children! Watch daddy's little girls. The women of Brewster Place? Not sure of this title; also, No Good deed!!!! Tragic but true stories for many😔. Pray against the murderous spirits! Wake up 💎 all and stay woke!! The sex, games, deception, lies, drama, nor STDs are not worth the time wasted!! Nothing is. Accept what is revealed. Lesson learned😇. Much, much love🧸.
Tony...I grew up as Jehovah's witness. They do not celebrate any holiday holidays except for Easter. But they aren't supposed to even date outside their religion and sex outside of marriage will get you disfellowshiped..so this guy is definitely sus on all levels...keep giving that knowledge!
Jehovah's Witnesses do not celebrate Easter, they celebrate the memorial of Jesus Christ's death. It's not the same thing even though it's around the same time period.
OMG! She uprooted her kids for a man :(. Let's pray that she leaves and she learns her lesson!
I see alot of women allowing guys to come around their kids and barely know them. I know a woman that gave keys to her place after 45days and she has two daughters. 🤦🏽♀️
The daughters will end up in therapy as adults.
They don’t care. They are lonely. Especially since COVID-19. Ppl are moving in fast
@@AllThingsTiffanyTV This was in 2016 and I still see it in 2020. 😔
I believe what you’re feeling is compassion from the Holy Spirit, regardless of the scenario. Just confirmation this is your ministry right here. If a minister lacks compassion, he/she has no business being in ministry. This was great to see in all honesty. I love seeing servants of God moved by the Holy Spirit because it shows the goodness of God, the very heart of the Father. You are truly called and a blessing to us all, brother. God bless. 🙏🏽
A dude told me he wanted a pic of me to show my future mama law. I said dang at least buy me dinner first and cut his behind off. Wasn't finna have me hanging from the highest tree.
I feel so bad for the kids, they are the innocent ones in all of this. Women have to wisen up and put your kids first period! They rely on you to be stable in mind not adjust your life based on the whims of a man or your emotions.
Tony I can feel your emotions reading this. I know it's hard to keep seeing ladies getting used and abused. I just pray she heeds your advice. God open her eyes. Amen
Amen
Amen
Too soon to move your kids in with a man. I knew a man 2 full years before I realized he was as crazy. These women be soooo quick and thirsty to want a man. She done threw all caution to the side. Smh
Aquarius ♒️❤️
I have a friend that loves online dating. I swear every other week she’s telling me she thinks she’s found the one. The desperation is real. She’s makes great money and if only she could put that same energy into traveling and loving herself she would be okay.
Girl me too I’ll talk to every 2 weeks and it’s a different man, she also the one who likes to shoot her shot , she is look challenged. Doesn’t work just online all day everyday looking for a man.
“You lying 😒” 😂 that look was hilarious.
I sense a huge lack of self-esteem and yearning for love from a man that she never got from her dad. So sad! Focus on yourself sis! You need to deal with your unresolved trauma so you can be better to yourself and for your children before you even think about bringing another man in the mix. No man near or far can save you, you need to save yourself!
💎Come through DRIP!💎 That's my Brotha right there!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 It's okay to flex a lil bit.💪🏾 Only jealous & insecure folks gon' hate.
Tony told the whole truth on this one. The woman is going to be crying in the car.
Not me I did that one time I will not do it again.
Speaking as someone who was raised a Witness (no longer though): if that man claims that faith and is trying to have sex before marriage, he could get dis-fellowshipped. If you're a serious Witness fornication is big no.
So tru!
They already had sex hence why she threatened him with pregnancy & child-support.
The guy was just playing.
He is everything & nothing all at once! 🙂
Obviously, he never wanted to marry her or could easily have said he was also a Christian.
What he didn't bargain for was that she didn't care 'bout all that!
Exactly.
She really moved way too fast and he could have been a serial killer. She put herself and her children in potential harm.
Okay this is a lot and being an empath, I can feel her pain. The disturbing part is that she was love bombed by a flaming Narcissist. Sis work on healing and yourself worth. 3 months was way to brief to uproot yourself for a man that has no actual relationship with you let alone your children. Cut him off, this is a form of control and abuse! Forgive yourself and reset.
And I'm ONLY saying that bc I WAS PLAYED for 27 years.......DO NOT wait that long!!!! Please!!!!!!
Waymint...July 2020-October 2020? Maybe that’s a typo😱😱 Moving & trusting too fast Sis
lol! i love how you spelled wait a minute. we say it like that in the south
... And planned a baby in that time 😳
@@aliciag946 exactly plus she already has 3 kids. I guess she love that single mother life she about to repeat that cycle again if she marry this fool.
You find some woman like to rush into a relationship, some don't care if he is still married or not. But once she start loving herself first, I believe she will make better decisions. Awesome video. Stay Bless and Safe.
There has to be balanced - moving too fast can only make you a stuck victim of love bombing. Let the honeymoon phase wear off before you make heavy commitments 💯
😂😂😂Tony said a cheap man started jehova witness...They say they're waiting till they go to paradise to celebrate.
That! 😅😅😅😅😅
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Lmao 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
"Marriage is not going to save you".........such a revelation. Thanks Tony!!!!!!
Tony, I know you joke about retiring from life coaching because of some of the questions you get. But this situation right here is why God called you to do this. I know it's frustrating. But people need you. It's hard to see outside of a situation when you're in it. I thank God for you. Please keep up the work God called you to do.
If you are looking for loving advice, please do not read this comment because you will not find it here I also receive these types of letters and they blow my mind. It never ceases to amaze the depths some women will sink to in order to keep a trifling, broke man. You want to know why so many black kids are screwed up these days? Look at their (mostly single) mothers. This woman moved her kids to live with a man they had never met, a man she only knew for a hot minute. He could have been a child molester, but protecting them clearly never crossed her mind. She's an unfit mother who is selfish, desperate, delusional and has no self esteem. I would have called DCFS on her too! When I do this kind of coaching, I'm like Tony. I can only be so sympathetic to women like this. How can you have such disregard for the lives and well being of your children? This woman DESPERATELY needs counseling.
Sis this was loving advice! The truth is always loving whether it hurts or not!
25:27 "you don't do holidays but you do fornication, ohh uhh..." yep, that's hypocrisy right there
I’m here as man bro! I’m changing it’s a long road but I’m becoming a real man . Everything you explain here is so real , wish me luck , may I get her back. I have faith in god
Awesome. Be blessed.🙏
It’s the jehovah witness scene for me. “visualizing Christmas trees, and I was born but don’t have a birthday.”Listen I laughed the whole way through this video. 😂 . But seriously I have been in the Shoes of all these women who write in. But Thank God for Tony’s teaching, I’ve learned all the red flags and games. However, I will keep learning because when you stop learning you stop growing
He said” When’s your birthday? I don’t know. How old is everybody in the class?” Took me out! 🤣🤣🤣
Me toooo I was dying.. up at 1230 laughing loud in the house 😂😂😂
Man I'm in my car with tears in my eyes crying at tony..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣he is hilarious..
I pray this woman realizes that she is a Queen and to always put your kids first sis dont ever put a Man before God or your kids. This man is definitely a Grown Boy. My suggestion is to love yourself and put your energy into your kids.
15:45 I am in tears 😂😂😂😂 Put that brake petal in your purse sis 😭😭
For me it was call DCF on yourself 😭
Both of those, plus find and fine yourself😅😂🤣😆!!!
I was on the FLO😂😂😂😂😂
Hahah one of my favorites!😆😅🤣😂
That part!! 😂😂😩
We women need to be wise and not get played but men need to stop promising the moon and stars. And then getting angry when women get caught up in chasing the fantasy. We both need to learn our lessons and do better.
I was planning on moving for my boyfriend and then STILL moved AFTER he BROKE UP with me. After a 2 year situationship, lots of stress, confusion and heartbreak, I really hope I've learned my lesson!
Facts
"Desperation"" Is Never the Way!!! SLOW YOUR ROLE ...NO SEX PERIOD...
Tony I know these stories are sad and help is needed, but I can't help but laugh at your facial expressions LOL. I just choked on my food when you said commercial break!!!! I'm so sorry to the sister that is going through prayers up for you and your kids. you have to take care of yourself and kid, that you have now and definitely no fornication God will not honor that sis. Until you heal from within you will never be able to love someone else or recognize love when it does come. Trust God and remember there are no boyfriends and girlfriends in the Bible, only wives and husbands, set yourself up to be a wife, a great mother and a righteous example to your kids.
Righttt me too His facial expression killssss mee .Tony is a clown
Lol. Ikr. I had to check my phone to make sure my video hadn't stopped.
Invest in yourself, read books, watch Tony's videos. There are alot of women moving across the country to be with a man... No, no, no please if anything do it for your kids. 🙏
🤦🏻♀️ What is going on here?! 😳 Are women THIS desperate? Bargaining for a wedding because he offered you some word salad in 3 months? Moving with your kids to his city in 1 WEEK after his word salad?! 😳😳😳 “from July to October” 😒😂
When Tony said, "he's Jehovah Witness and I'm Christian",,,GOT TO GO!!
What a hot mess we put our selves in! Wow!! That hole in our hearts that we fill with a man, will never do. God our Father is the only one that can fill our empty cisterns. Thank you Tony again for truth!
Exactly. God is giving her all the reasons to leave.
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Sis if he loves you today he will love you in the future. Don't be in a hurry. Remember to keep yourself and your children safe first and foremost.
Love yourself and know that you are worth more and you and your children deserve better. Read Tony's books and watch his videos daily! God bless you. God will bring you through! Its not too late to make better choices.
She lost me after “he is jehovah witness , I’m christian” 🤦🏽♀️
Unequally yoked 💆🏾♀️ she should have known at least that part..
Me too!
@@walkbyfaith8557 yes!
Whew not judging but lawd
Girl, I was struggling but still hanging on until she moved herself & KIDS to be with a virtual stranger.
And I was done.
Oh lawd! I clicked so fast because I did this nonsense...Cost me so much and what I walked into was not kosher... Whew. I'll post again at the end.
Sis, just take the L, get on your knees and thank our Heavenly Father you dodged that bullet!! God is protecting you and your children..you'll b aight love ❤🙌🏾🙏🏾
Sad thing is she didn't dodge it. No matter what Tony has told her she too desperate she would ignore all the signs and still marry that fool.
@@intentionalhome Things could've went on way longer than they were supposed to and ended way worse. That grown boy already showed his true colors and she knows he dont want her at all so there is nothing to go back to. Hopefully she will take ALL the advice from Tony and everyone else, telling her she needs to love herself and wait on God cuz that one was NOT it
My advice to her,
1. Forgive yourself for making the wrong choices and forgive anyone who has hurt you in the past.
2. Go to therapy(8 session)and get a life coach (12 sessions)
3. Focus on your children ,don't make the mistake of hurting by focusing too much on men. Children know everything and it can effect them for life.
4. Take a break from dating until you have healed and you have fallen in love with yourself again. Take this time to invest in your growth
This heartbreaking Sis. I pray for your mind, body, spirit, and Godly Wisdom. I plead the Blood of Jesus over you and your children. I pray that God place people in your path that will edify your spirit and strengthen your inner man. Bless the fruit of her womb Father. I pray this in Jesus name. A-men.
You have the gift of saying the Harsh Truth and being hilarious at the same Time ! 😆😆😆 Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Greetings from France 🇫🇷
Prayed for you sweet girl you deserve better
This started with a cheap man, 😭
Money union and western grams. 😂😂😂😂
💔💔💔💔This man does not like you
You got to get that ghetto out you 😟😟😟
You can't act like the bottom and want to be on top, I AIN'T TALKING ABOUT POSITION, 😂😂😂😂
Y'all gotta stop trolling me with these emails. 😏😁😁
Once I see a man is cheap, broke or not financially stable I bow out quickly
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Feel like a lot of women are desperate for love. Don’t mean any harm by saying this because I use to be that woman falling for anything and everything..thank God for growth & for your channel Tony. 🙏🏽
He is truly a blessing 🙏🏽
You are absolutely right. Desperation for love gets a lot of us in trouble.
That sign language he uses for tossing and flipping. Hilarious!
Damn sis, tighten up! Love yourself, God bless 😘❤️
Sis make sure you don't put your precious children in potentially harmful situation, Praise GOD nothing happened to you and your children, Go too The Lord and Repent and also forgive yourself. I will be praying for you and your children in the Spirit my heart is heavy towards you 🙏 Blessings to you 🙏❤️
Ladies get the knowledge long-distance relationships do not work put God first love yourself and don’t be thirsty and desperate for any man🙂
....It's good that you reached out for help, you can recover from this. However, you have to put in the work. Take a few coaching sessions with Tony Gaskins, it will be a great investment in you. For now stay strong and do the " inner" work for your children as well. God bless you sis.
His examples are hilarious..I couldn't stop laughing. He said buy a brake pedal....I can't. Sometimes we don't realize what we're doing while we're in it. But when it's over, we can see clearly. I hope she keeps it moving and heals from this grownboy.
Tony I am wiping my face too, not crying but I am scratching my head🤔.... The commercial break for me 🙈
You have to be careful about lying about being pregnant when you are not this can be very dangerous people have lost their lives doing that! Get God in your life let him be your leader, get a coach seek help
I'm sure if he fornicating he don't have any problems with holidays and birthdays. So that ain't the issue. Doesn't matter what he say he is.
Yes!! You couldn’t have said it any better than that. Lot’s of people claim to be one way, but their actions and lifestyle says something totally different.
She dont watch your videos..she don't..how can you listen to Tony and dont know this is toxic and you need out..I listen to half a video and knew what I was about..
Sister, we love you and support you.
JWs don’t believe in the trinity...so that’s a no for me.
Baby girl... please let this man go. Work on you. Self-healing is key!!
Pump your brakes Sister. He smelled your desparation for marriage Get coacbing from Tony Gaskins and READ tbe books POINT BLANK PERIODDDDT. Know your worth.
Saw title. DANG T, why are you crushing my toes..That use to be me. I was WORST than a dum dum lollipop. lol..I'm listening.
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Wait! They planned a whole baby from July-October and moved in together 😲. 1+1+1+1 or ☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾 I just need help counting.
😅😅😅😅😅 You got answer yet sis? I'm trying to copy from your paper because I'm at zero too 😅😅😅
@@quietstorm1050Sis 🤓 this some hard math. Don’t blame me if we both fail the test 😉.
On a serious note she had unprotected s** with someone she barely knew. Lied about a pregnancy 🤰🏿 to try and make him love her. I do hope she finds herself.
Whew, help Lord 🙏🏾 strength, peace, & self love.
She was chasing love. If it seems to good to be true, it is
Don't bring your toothbrush because you ain't spending the night!!
That man that were reading about is bringing reproach on Jehovah's name. Jw is an organization. Christian is lifestyle.
And about this letter. Man. Smh you have a point... this is a hard pill to swallow.. we've all been there no matter where we are spiritually. Because we're imperfect.
And it's to each a zone about the holidays no matter what religion you are. The world we live in is commercialized. The seasons are beautiful.. but a gift should be given any time from the heart.
Ps. Tony please dont block me. I enjoy your videos on the game of men.
Dear lady, this is a turning point, if you are smart.
Thank God that he didn't hurt your kids first and yourself.
Love your self first and pay attention and love to your children. That's is your job.
Love yourself.
He said F-I-N-D and F-I-N-E yourself 😂😂 lol Tony do too much...beyond dehydrated 🤣
1st 4 min 😳☹
I wish I knew their ages. So much drama. Wow. Wow wow.
You can believe in a religion but if u not living the lifestyle u are not a Christian/ Witness. It’s too many people who have put in that work and gave themselves to God for just anyone to be claiming they are Christian or a Witness. You may study it or believe it but it’s the lifestyle and relationship with God. 💯💯💯
Dear lady, this is a turning point, if you are smart.
Thank God that he didn't hurt your kids first and yourself.
Love your self first and pay attention and love to your children. That's is your job.
Love yourself.
I'm screaming, 😂😂😂....Tony: Okay, she from the hood." Wheeeww Chile....that question, plus grammar, was all over the place. I CANNOT!!!!! Why girl, just WHY???!!!
Well, I can fully stamp that a long distance relationship is NOT real. I survived one. Since I'm retired and my time is mine, we agreed I could move versus him relocating his job. He lived closer to the beach; always wanted to live within a mile of a beach. I went to visit for a week and his mask came off. Not only was he trying to force himself inside of me with his vastly utilized community "body," he abused me in other ways.... I lowered my worth. I can do better alone than be with some broken person for the sake of saying that I have a "man." Thank God her children were not physically harmed. I wonder if she's sat down and talked with them about their feelings on that situation?
Maybe she was saying that there was a recent night (perhaps the day before) that she was up at 2 am when it was heavy on her heart, n that lead her to write the email the next day-not wanting to be up late like that another night.
🤣at no birthday Jimmy
Wow hearing all this stories that woman go through or put their self’s in .. I can really say that we are living in the LAST dayssss my people.. wake up ! The world is getting worst everything is being affected relationships/ family’s/ money etc etc .. the love of many is going “COLDAaa” (Tonis voice)😂
That man was not a real Jehovah's witness. He would NOT be putting her on her back!!
All that guy had was excuses. My God. NEXT
I lost it when Tony said “FIND yourself and FINE yourself” 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭