If your child doesn't like a man you are dating that is a RED FLAG and a sign to cut him off and run immediately! Children can pick up on things no matter how young they are. This needs to be taken seriously. I hope this guy didn't make an inappropriate pass at her daughter. There are a lot of creeps out here who target single mothers because they are really looking at the underage daughter or son.
I hate to say it...but for a daughter that old to be so hardcore against her mom's live-in boyfriend. I would almost bet he made a pass at the daughter, but the daughter doesn't want to tell her mom about it. I hope this woman is watching and gets out befor she regrets keeping him around.
@@chrissy1448 yep! He either made a pass at the daughter or was verbally or physically abusive to her behind the mother’s back. The daughter probably doesn’t feel safe enough to tell her mother the truth. Some mothers are so lost they claim the daughter is either lying about the abuse.
I got sick to my stomach as soon as he read that letter. I felt like she would realize what she was saying as she was writing it. But she really said, discuss the topic.
@@eileendom5858 a lot of people don't get it until they hear it from someone else. Idk why it's so hard for some to get it but that's how it is. I pray she takes Tony's advice.
Omg I thought I was the only one. I’m over here drinking ginger ale and eating ginger candy because my stomach started to hurt after hearing this nonsense. It felt like my stomach kept dropping and turning after every sentence. Sickening.
@@magnolia2 I feel you. I was just ugggh! Like, after her daughter told her she still moved him in. He could have been giving her creepy looks or some. Like, no ma'am. Just NO!
Sometimes we single ladies just need to stay single. Never ever let a grown man move in with you if you are not married to him and especially if you have kids at home. It's nothing wrong with being single and just living alone and loving and caring for self. Stop fooling yourself with these users out there. Wake up and stop getting used up with these F boys
Amen Doris. I don't have kid, but I have done my share of mistakes. Thank God for Tony Videos. I am learning things, I have never done before. God bless him.
When I was 13 I told my mom I thought something was going on between dad and his female "friend.". She told me he would never hurt us. Month later, everything came out. Children don't miss anything!
Moms hate when we highlight their hypricrosy but its because WE CARE. You tell me I deserve better, so do YOU. Her daughter is wise and she should've listened. PERIOD. and Mom, don't try to use your daughter as your emotional crutch now that its crumbling. Take care of yourself Tony, however that manifests for you!!!
Yeah hurts to see our mothers not value themselves. It’s actually frustrating so I feel this lady’s daughter could have resentment hopefully they can heal their relationship
Yes yes yes ladies yes.,, This mother needs some serious help I pray she gets it and that this man DID NOT touch her daughter inappropriately. How is it she tells her daughter something good but doesn’t practice what she preaches, she must think she doesn’t deserves better. Father GOD please help this mother to love herself and her daughter Amen 🙏🏾
I have to say I've had my share of crap that I dealt with a few clowns but, I always discuss sharing, helping, expenses, being considerate, and on & on. And, also I will get to a point where I will demand something's and if necessary I'll show or teach you! That's before I say enough!! Maybe some have never been told that in a relationship there are basic disciplines, responsibilities, expectations amongst good old fashioned respect! We have to wait on the Lord! The pickins are too slim😁. Stay blessed UA-camrs!!
She can’t go cause he got another woman and taking the other woman wherever he want to go!!! He made a move on the daughter for sure! The daughter got more sense than the mama
Thank you for this Tony. I was that 17 year old. After my parents divorced, my mom met a man like this. I was 12 at the time. They eloped within a year. Meaning..my mom said she was going Christmas shopping. Came back..she was married. I told my mom I didn’t like him. He had three other kids from his first wife. His paychecks were garnished for child support. She didn’t listen to me, my grandparents, or my uncles. He didn’t buy groceries or pay bills. He withdrew all the money out of her account. She took him back over and over again. He left again after my mom found out he was cheating. He was also fired from his job(drugs).He then moved out of state. I had resentment toward my mom for decades. Fortunately, my grandparents lived nearby. I was able to survive high school and college. He was murdered by his third wife five years ago.
Wow...something must've happened to your mom to allow that. It's sad , but she doesn't know her worth. I was very ignorant multiple times..haven't put no guy before my daughter. I would curse a guybout in a min!!! I Don't really trust men fully..But I'm Not losing hope to have God send 1 into my life...I'm glad I'm Spiritually awakened/Using Discernment..
Even if would be father of her daughter and was using her, she should leave. I had 18 years when my mother decided to go back to my abusive narcissist father. We were from fews days to a friend's house. My father, with whom i stopped talking, constantly used to cheat her, beat her, he was in the army and was like doing exercises of punching using her face and body at home.. Outside home he was charming for all other women. All those women told her how lucky she is with such man. Even her sister insisted to continue this marriage. I told her to not go back and she said she is doing for our "good". In that night i stayed out, i had in morning exam for college..and since college i found work and i told her i go away alone if she don't divorce. Finally she divorced, but so many years of pain, affected her so much that years later she got sick and i lost her.
As a parent , this is so sad ..my mom did this when I was in middle school she jus move a stranger man (bf) in the house without consulting with me and my sisters that live wit her ..long story short he live wit us 8 years and it was pure HELL ..he was very abusive to my mom and me and my sisters saw it wit our own eyes ..I couldn't believe wat I saw and as an adult it still haunts me ..
I am better, stronger and wiser today than I was a year ago. It's all because of you! I was in therapy with 2 therapists and on medication. It wasnt helping me. By the grace of God, I found your videos and your LIVE. It was so hard to hear at first, but I kept listening. Buying your books and keep pushing further. I'm no longer seeing 2 therapist. I want to get off the medication and try some coaching sessions. I'm not sad or feeling sorry anymore. I'm better today because you kept bringing lessons. You are changing my life and possibly....saved it.
@@nessparadis6948 Thank you. When Tony talks about retiring, I always think about how far i've come from a year ago. I've made more progress with Tony and the Blessed Tribe than all the years in therapy put together.
My mom basically moved her bf that she knew for a few months in with me and my little brother when I was 16 . One night Me and my mom got into an argument and he stepped in and put his hands on me & she sent me to live in another state . He left her a few months later & I never got an apology . I’m 22 and still have never been able to look at her the same
She'll only have one daughter and you'll only get one mother 🤞. I pray that you are able to forgive even if you do not receive an apology and it only makes you a stronger individual! People can only guide, protect, and love from their point(wherever they stopped learning or growing). It is not okay but do not let him win even though he is no longer there!!! Thank you so much for sharing.💓🤎💖
I love how tony is so upfront and honest. I had the same situation with my mother and the partner she chose , she gave me to my father at age 11 because she said he was " interested in me " so she shipped me off , and stayed with him , along with verbal and emotional abuse, i left that home a very broken little girl. I hope anyone who reads this who has a daughter or son who doesn't like your partner, please listen !put your kids first, a bad man is not worth your relationship lost and destroyed for a bad man who couldn't care less about any of you !
Tony, l CAN'T BELIEVE this mother. Her letter to you has me SERIOUSLY SPAZ-ZING for the "insanity" daughter specifically warned her Mom against against this savage predator of women setting their selves up royally to live as a Victim of The Year(s), mindlessly dating and/or moving the sorry behind man into their home ruining their sense of peace and emotional/financial worth. Time is precious and fleeting. Know the Warning Sign's to keep it moving. As Mother's we have no right giving our daughter's, especially, a front row seat to "How To Be A Sorry Male Predator's DOORMAT". FIRST LOVE IS SELF LOVE❣️ YES, Tony, your Lesson's are literally life saver's for the women abused by Lucifer-behaving male descendent's. Thank you for using your God-given gift to embolden women who get "hooked like prey" to be dogged beyond recognition only b/c they are horribly relationally challenged and go along for the outrageous "ride". peaceloveblessingdalways blessings
After he finished reading that letter, when I tell yall I laughed so hard... the look on his face. The call out to TMH. The commercial break he took.. I was literally crying. 🤣 ooo Chile.
Tell me the truth. Those scenarios had me laughing and crying. Ladies listen to your kids, one of my daughters save me from going back to a relationship had I not listened my soul most likely would have been in the land of the dead. It was not easy not to go back, but I knew how I raised her, and knew she was looking out for my best interest only.
Lord give Tony the strength cause MY HEAD IS SPINNING. Sisssie? Your child sees what is wrong! Come on Sister, you already knew Before You typed the email. Whew😪
Lmbo!!! 🤣🤣🤣 the look 👀 on Tony’s face! Omg! “Lord give me strength!” Yes, Tony tell us the truth. Sometimes it hurts but we need it. And, sad because we should definitely know and do better! Peace and blessings. P.S. good job 👏🏽 young daughter. Sad she has to be “the mom”.
I remember a time I was dating this guy and my son told my mom that he didn’t like him and that was the end of that relationship because he turned abusive
I’m sorry to say this woman has a lot of hurt!! Insecurity, has been abused and most likely still is, she is emotionally and mentally unable to break away!! It’s like she is in a cycle of constantly making excuses to keep him. Her father probably did this to her mother or she is sincerely just wanting to not be lonely!! SIS, no amount of money given to a man is worth losing the respect and love if your child! Love yourself pleeeaassse🙏🙏🙏💯💯🥰🤣🥰‼️‼️‼️
I’m sorry but I lost it after the long pause and facial expressions you made after reading the email 😭 this sounded like a strawberry letter. We’ve all played the fool though. I pray she sees the light cause any man that truly cares for you would not show his behind like this
Right we all have. But like a wise woman told me " we've all played the fool...but dont keep being no damn fool". Just like that!! Point blank peridot!!!
Tony ,I listened to this video several times because you totally SPOKE volumes. Keep up the amazing work and please do not retire. TG Lessons and Laughter!!!
Tony, this lady must be new. There’s no way she knows you and doesn’t know your thoughts on this horrible situation! Even the weather in the background is mad lol.
Tony Gaskins, big brother, mentor, you can't retire....I need my weekly dose of encouragement, inspiration, facial expressions, deep sighs, hand movements, and laughter.
Girl mom here! Became a life coach through tonygaskinsacademy! Now I am here and ready to serve! I’m a single parent and I went from broke, busted, and disgusted to healed and made new! Looking for a life coach I am here for you ladies!
Definitely on the side of the daughter. Kids need to be allowed and empowered to speak the truth even when it stings us as adults. The truth just is. It’s not disrespectful especially in the home. She probably seen her mom play a goofy several times before. 🤷🏽♀️
The title it self "Might Retire" says it all. Tony is disappointed with these women! Tony is giving all the wisdom and game away please take heed to his message. Also majority of time a woman know the answer to the questions she ask; that's why God gave us intuition (Holy Spirit) they just want to hear it from a man.
Wow.. this is a lot. So much healing is needed out here. I see why the ones doing the work can feel overwhelmed at times. We’re all needed. Imagine if ALL of us worked on our wholeness & began to walk in our purpose.. 🙏🏽
I really paused...🙄 an went into prayer after I heard Tony read dis here email!!! This is a disaster" This is so painful and sad I, pray she gets Coaching, Counseling and Therapy and next time listen to your daughter. Worth and Value must be set with respect.
Tony you have hollering laughing laid out on the floor. My kids know when I’m crying laughing I’m watching you. The best thing is I ALWAYS learn something about myself. May God continue to bless and keep you, your family and your ministry. Tony I was thinking just like you about him and his boys. The at work scene was hilarious. Please keep being you🤣😂😇
Let's not judge her. I speak from experience when I say that when you're in a situation like that, you can't see or think clearly. My heart truly goes out to her.
I feel so bad for this woman, A LOT of women go through this!!! There's so many women that are being used voluntarily and involuntarily just to have a man. Soooooo many women don't have father figures in their lives, and/or refuse to listen to counsel from the males in their lives, that love them and have their best interests at heart. This guy knows exactly what he's doing and doesn't care, but he will, because you will reap what you sow. What people don't understand is that karma doesn't always come back on you, sometimes it comes back on your kids. I know he wouldn't want this life for his daughter, sister, etc. The bible says that "Be not deceived, God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
OMG! You have topped all of the videos so far. LOL!!! It needed to be said to her and the women who have experienced this situation. I had a similar situation and my sister talked to me just like this. I sent her your video and we both had a laugh. This is serious. Thank you for making it comedic. You are a blessing. Be blessed. P.S. Your VOICES are on point.
Tony please don’t retire. Some of us actually love our selves and our children more than a man.
Yeses...i swear
Omg yessss
@glamrocs makeup we need Tony Gaskins and Bishop RC Blakes to help us get ourselves in order
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If your child doesn't like a man you are dating that is a RED FLAG and a sign to cut him off and run immediately! Children can pick up on things no matter how young they are. This needs to be taken seriously. I hope this guy didn't make an inappropriate pass at her daughter. There are a lot of creeps out here who target single mothers because they are really looking at the underage daughter or son.
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I hate to say it...but for a daughter that old to be so hardcore against her mom's live-in boyfriend. I would almost bet he made a pass at the daughter, but the daughter doesn't want to tell her mom about it.
I hope this woman is watching and gets out befor she regrets keeping him around.
Amen!!
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@@chrissy1448 yep! He either made a pass at the daughter or was verbally or physically abusive to her behind the mother’s back. The daughter probably doesn’t feel safe enough to tell her mother the truth. Some mothers are so lost they claim the daughter is either lying about the abuse.
She chose a man over her daughter. And she let him move in! Taking trips YOU can't go on! This is ridiculous! This makes me sick to my stomach. Ugh
I got sick to my stomach as soon as he read that letter. I felt like she would realize what she was saying as she was writing it. But she really said, discuss the topic.
@@eileendom5858 a lot of people don't get it until they hear it from someone else. Idk why it's so hard for some to get it but that's how it is. I pray she takes Tony's advice.
Omg I thought I was the only one. I’m over here drinking ginger ale and eating ginger candy because my stomach started to hurt after hearing this nonsense. It felt like my stomach kept dropping and turning after every sentence. Sickening.
@@magnolia2 I feel you. I was just ugggh! Like, after her daughter told her she still moved him in. He could have been giving her creepy looks or some. Like, no ma'am. Just NO!
Cher H......wowww , we should never choose a man over our children EVERRRRRRRR.
Your facial expression after reading the letter was hilarious.
I swear 😩😅
He cracks me up! I can’t take it!
He is a wise mess 🤣😂😂🙏🏽
IKR I’m over here cracking up for real
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Sometimes we single ladies just need to stay single. Never ever let a grown man move in with you if you are not married to him and especially if you have kids at home. It's nothing wrong with being single and just living alone and loving and caring for self. Stop fooling yourself with these users out there. Wake up and stop getting used up with these F boys
This the one!
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Amen Doris. I don't have kid, but I have done my share of mistakes. Thank God for Tony Videos. I am learning things, I have never done before. God bless him.
The blank stare after he read the email 😩😶
Yessss😂😂😂 he so funny lmbo
😂😂😂 That stare into the camera takes me out every time!!!
@@juliaking9989 😆
@@juliaking9989 I be crying 😆😅😂
@@helenabailey40 hilarious girl 😅
U would be suprised on how many women are completely taking care of a men
No I actually wouldn't be. Too many smh
My mother took care of my father...they were divorced.
Yep..The real sad part is how they go out of their way to pretend that their dude has a job..when he's just another unemployed lazy bum.
Just to say they have one...yup. smh
Then these women pity the single women that CHOOSE not to put themselves in such a place.
When I was 13 I told my mom I thought something was going on between dad and his female "friend.". She told me he would never hurt us. Month later, everything came out. Children don't miss anything!
NOT A BEAT!
Please don’t retire. Every time you give that “look” to the camera I bust out laughing.
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Yessss 😭😭😭
Tony has me hollering.... he is hilarious.
Am I the only one who replayed just to see Tony's reaction lol
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I replayed it twice!! 😂
😂😂😂😂 Tony is the GOAT 🐐 ....his reactions and facial expressions are THEE BEST!!
Sis I did the same thing!
Lol had to replay it! This is a sad situation but surely Needed a good laugh🤣🤣
I can’t believe this was even a question 😳
Right. It’s the fact that she was brave enough to send this email because to be honest, just reading the email out loud, is just crazy. 😳
Chile!!!!🤣🤣🤣
She needs to watch EVERY one of Tony’s videos.
EVERY ONE OF THEM.
IMMEDIATELY!!!😔
TWICE
Every👏🏾 last 👏🏾one 👏🏾of 👏🏾them! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
And about 2 coaching sessions😩🤣
Moms hate when we highlight their hypricrosy but its because WE CARE. You tell me I deserve better, so do YOU. Her daughter is wise and she should've listened. PERIOD. and Mom, don't try to use your daughter as your emotional crutch now that its crumbling. Take care of yourself Tony, however that manifests for you!!!
Yeah hurts to see our mothers not value themselves. It’s actually frustrating so I feel this lady’s daughter could have resentment hopefully they can heal their relationship
@@karlaarteaga4117 i am her in many ways. best thing us daughters can do is heal ourselves and pray for our moms...
T u r 2much I just love ur teaching 🥰
Crickets!!!! That look, the sigh, Jesus take the wheel
Lol lol lol...I HOLLERED!
Lol ikr that pause was priceless!
The blank stare directly at the camera with no words.
Yes yes yes ladies yes.,, This mother needs some serious help I pray she gets it and that this man DID NOT touch her daughter inappropriately. How is it she tells her daughter something good but doesn’t practice what she preaches, she must think she doesn’t deserves better. Father GOD please help this mother to love herself and her daughter Amen 🙏🏾
This is what happens when you are desperate for a relationship/companion that you ignore all the red flags that were in your face .
Don’t retire on us Tony 😅 the real ones love the wisdom ! God bless you 🙏🏽
😂😂😂 he tied of this
“You won’t even go out there and cut them people grass” 🤣
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I have to say I've had my share of crap that I dealt with a few clowns but, I always discuss sharing, helping, expenses, being considerate, and on & on. And, also I will get to a point where I will demand something's and if necessary I'll show or teach you! That's before I say enough!! Maybe some have never been told that in a relationship there are basic disciplines, responsibilities, expectations amongst good old fashioned respect! We have to wait on the Lord! The pickins are too slim😁. Stay blessed UA-camrs!!
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She can’t go cause he got another woman and taking the other woman wherever he want to go!!! He made a move on the daughter for sure! The daughter got more sense than the mama
Sister I felt the same way smh
This is a LIKELY reason. Unfortunately she NEEDS therapy.
Another woman... he has other women I'm sure.
@@anointedstilettos
.or Men ( DL man).
That part!
When tony start the video with a looooooonnng stare, you KNOW he''s trying to compose himself! Amen!
Listening to this made me think of the stupid things I've done. Not the same but we've all done something stupid. Thank God for growth!!
Yes. Thank God for growth!!
Tony I feel you on this being painful.. This is blatant using and disrespectful.
Yup! And she is SO low in self-worth that she has NO boundaries.
No he didn’t with SPONGEBOB commentator voice “ 3 hours later” 😂🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️😭Tony is too funny but so true !!!
You have reached the voicemail of......BIG LOSER 🤣🤣
Thank you for this Tony.
I was that 17 year old. After my parents divorced, my mom met a man like this. I was 12 at the time.
They eloped within a year. Meaning..my mom said she was going Christmas shopping. Came back..she was married.
I told my mom I didn’t like him. He had three other kids from his first wife. His paychecks were garnished for child support. She didn’t listen to me, my grandparents, or my uncles. He didn’t buy groceries or pay bills. He withdrew all the money out of her account. She took him back over and over again. He left again after my mom found out he was cheating.
He was also fired from his job(drugs).He then moved out of state.
I had resentment toward my mom for decades. Fortunately, my grandparents lived nearby. I was able to survive high school and college.
He was murdered by his third wife five years ago.
Wow...something must've happened to your mom to allow that. It's sad , but she doesn't know her worth. I was very ignorant multiple times..haven't put no guy before my daughter. I would curse a guybout in a min!!! I Don't really trust men fully..But I'm Not losing hope to have God send 1 into my life...I'm glad I'm Spiritually awakened/Using Discernment..
Wow....wow.
@@eerynessential that was my mom’s second relationship. She and my dad married right after college graduation. More naivety I guess on her end.
That last woman was tired of his ish 😕
Even if would be father of her daughter and was using her, she should leave. I had 18 years when my mother decided to go back to my abusive narcissist father. We were from fews days to a friend's house. My father, with whom i stopped talking, constantly used to cheat her, beat her, he was in the army and was like doing exercises of punching using her face and body at home.. Outside home he was charming for all other women. All those women told her how lucky she is with such man. Even her sister insisted to continue this marriage. I told her to not go back and she said she is doing for our "good". In that night i stayed out, i had in morning exam for college..and since college i found work and i told her i go away alone if she don't divorce. Finally she divorced, but so many years of pain, affected her so much that years later she got sick and i lost her.
As a parent , this is so sad ..my mom did this when I was in middle school she jus move a stranger man (bf) in the house without consulting with me and my sisters that live wit her ..long story short he live wit us 8 years and it was pure HELL ..he was very abusive to my mom and me and my sisters saw it wit our own eyes ..I couldn't believe wat I saw and as an adult it still haunts me ..
Thanks for sharing. Women need to be reminded that this type of situation is serious and it affects their children.
I understand this pain
I am better, stronger and wiser today than I was a year ago. It's all because of you! I was in therapy with 2 therapists and on medication. It wasnt helping me. By the grace of God, I found your videos and your LIVE. It was so hard to hear at first, but I kept listening. Buying your books and keep pushing further. I'm no longer seeing 2 therapist. I want to get off the medication and try some coaching sessions. I'm not sad or feeling sorry anymore. I'm better today because you kept bringing lessons. You are changing my life and possibly....saved it.
Wow! What a testimony!
@@nessparadis6948 Thank you. When Tony talks about retiring, I always think about how far i've come from a year ago. I've made more progress with Tony and the Blessed Tribe than all the years in therapy put together.
Amen 🙏🏾 Such a wonderful testimony
This is beautiful. God Bless !
Eileen M , praise God! Tony is doing the lord’s blessings and causing side splitting laughter while he’s at it.
Lordt, he stressing...don't leave TG. It's sooo many need you.
I need the prayer warriors on the main line. Lord give Tony strength that surpasses his understanding.
My God! Some of the letters I cannot believe are actual letters from real grown women. Not like high school young women.
@@Glamrocs Amen! I'm in line with my baby powder...
@@Glamrocs the way they were brought up. That's what they saw in the household
$3,000 a month is a lot of cash!! That means she paying BIG bills
Gurl I been there and I got rid of too!!! With the quickness....if you ain’t helping me you hindering me!!💯💯facts
Right! 🤦🏽♀️ Wow! 3,000 a month and he couldn’t help her out at all???
Janica Cheatham And yet he had to move in with her? 🤔
@@LadyAngela678 right he shouldn’t have had to move his butt in. He can definitely afford his own place smh Lord Jesus
@@LadyAngela678 He didn't have to. He knew he would be able to do exactly what he's doing with her.
My mom basically moved her bf that she knew for a few months in with me and my little brother when I was 16 . One night Me and my mom got into an argument and he stepped in and put his hands on me & she sent me to live in another state . He left her a few months later & I never got an apology . I’m 22 and still have never been able to look at her the same
She'll only have one daughter and you'll only get one mother 🤞. I pray that you are able to forgive even if you do not receive an apology and it only makes you a stronger individual! People can only guide, protect, and love from their point(wherever they stopped learning or growing). It is not okay but do not let him win even though he is no longer there!!! Thank you so much for sharing.💓🤎💖
@@aura5944 thank you !
I love how tony is so upfront and honest. I had the same situation with my mother and the partner she chose , she gave me to my father at age 11 because she said he was " interested in me " so she shipped me off , and stayed with him , along with verbal and emotional abuse, i left that home a very broken little girl.
I hope anyone who reads this who has a daughter or son who doesn't like your partner, please listen !put your kids first, a bad man is not worth your relationship lost and destroyed for a bad man who couldn't care less about any of you !
💓💓 I pray for your healing, thank you for sharing!
I am very good now thank you! Thanks to God , he found me picked me up and healed me 💗🙏
Tony’s purpose is coming all out of him during this video! He can barely stay in his seat!!
Yes!
Absolutely😌
@@JoyBunni girl!!!! I can hardly watch
Yess!!
$3,000 a month × 12 months = $36,000 a year worth a salary.
If continue for 3 years:
$36,000 × 3 years = $108,000 --> that's a six figured income.
You can’t blame him for her stupidity.. the daughter warned her
This is the truth. At the same time he is still wrong, so therefore he is NOT off the hook. He knows EXACTLY what he is doing.
Amen Thank you
Tony, l CAN'T BELIEVE this mother. Her letter to you has me SERIOUSLY SPAZ-ZING for the "insanity" daughter specifically warned her Mom against against this savage predator of women setting their selves up royally to live as a Victim of The Year(s), mindlessly dating and/or moving the sorry behind man into their home ruining their sense of peace and emotional/financial worth. Time is precious and fleeting. Know the Warning Sign's to keep it moving. As Mother's we have no right giving our daughter's, especially, a front row seat to "How To Be A Sorry Male Predator's DOORMAT". FIRST LOVE IS SELF LOVE❣️ YES, Tony, your Lesson's are literally life saver's for the women abused by Lucifer-behaving male descendent's. Thank you for using your God-given gift to embolden women who get "hooked like prey" to be dogged beyond recognition only b/c they are horribly relationally challenged and go along for the outrageous "ride". peaceloveblessingdalways blessings
Renee Paulette Marshall amen. I busted out laughing at “Lucifer behaving male descendants” but oh my that is a good way to describe them. 😂😂😂
@@reneepaulettemarshall8000 Well done & well said!
I will not compromise my children for my social life!
I never have. Mine is in college now.
"the truth will hurt help and heal" that was profound!!!!!
Are these questions real?? Tony has so many videos to help us. I don't understand why women are still confused and acting crazy! Just wow!!
They don’t watch the videos. They send in questions hoping Tony will say he’s a good man.
@@Glamrocs probably right babe 😭
😳😱 I might retire‼️‼️ 😳😱
I clicked SO FAST and started PRAYING TG is playing!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Please don’t retire Tony!! God give him strength ❤️🙏🏽
I listened twice. I'm convicted, and that was not even my letter. Lord knows I've done stupid stuff. Truth hurts. Thank you for speaking the truth.
LOL!!!! NO TONY!!! Don't leave us!! Over here dying laughing (Blank stare)
Same!!!!!!
After he finished reading that letter, when I tell yall I laughed so hard... the look on his face. The call out to TMH. The commercial break he took.. I was literally crying. 🤣 ooo Chile.
Me too 😂😂
😂😂😂💀I just started watching and I’m already laughing but please don’t give up on us🤦🏽♀️
Tell me the truth. Those scenarios had me laughing and crying.
Ladies listen to your kids, one of my daughters save me from going back to a relationship had I not listened my soul most likely would have been in the land of the dead. It was not easy not to go back, but I knew how I raised her, and knew she was looking out for my best interest only.
Lord give Tony the strength cause MY HEAD IS SPINNING.
Sisssie? Your child sees what is wrong!
Come on Sister, you already knew Before You typed the email.
Whew😪
These grown boys are something wicked!🙏
Lmbo!!! 🤣🤣🤣 the look 👀 on Tony’s face! Omg! “Lord give me strength!” Yes, Tony tell us the truth. Sometimes it hurts but we need it. And, sad because we should definitely know and do better! Peace and blessings. P.S. good job 👏🏽 young daughter. Sad she has to be “the mom”.
This is VERY common.
Praying for this lady. Seriously!
I felt that emotion when tony said “stupid” lol it hurt me for some reason
Maybe because you have been stupid in your life when dealing with the opposite sex.
@@jaybae7315 you right though
Yea that was sharp. She needed to hear it like that though.
I remember a time I was dating this guy and my son told my mom that he didn’t like him and that was the end of that relationship because he turned abusive
I’m sorry to say this woman has a lot of hurt!! Insecurity, has been abused and most likely still is, she is emotionally and mentally unable to break away!! It’s like she is in a cycle of constantly making excuses to keep him. Her father probably did this to her mother or she is sincerely just wanting to not be lonely!!
SIS, no amount of money given to a man is worth losing the respect and love if your child! Love yourself pleeeaassse🙏🙏🙏💯💯🥰🤣🥰‼️‼️‼️
@@deemac8231 the boyfriend response??
The batting eyes and heavy breathing before the need to regroup was hilarious!
I’m sorry but I lost it after the long pause and facial expressions you made after reading the email 😭 this sounded like a strawberry letter. We’ve all played the fool though. I pray she sees the light cause any man that truly cares for you would not show his behind like this
I appreciate you for not acting holy than thou because this woman is clearly inept to some degree like all of us.
Right we all have. But like a wise woman told me " we've all played the fool...but dont keep being no damn fool". Just like that!! Point blank peridot!!!
I’m watching this for entertainment purposes only. Toni don’t give up on us!
He said STUPID
...if you ain’t helping me you hindering me!!💯‼️
Lord I know Tony be tired of the foolishness....smh😆😆🤭
On a serious note: Women have got to wake up!!!
Straight Foolishness
Tony ,I listened to this video several times because you totally SPOKE volumes. Keep up the amazing work and please do not retire. TG Lessons and Laughter!!!
Tony, this lady must be new. There’s no way she knows you and doesn’t know your thoughts on this horrible situation!
Even the weather in the background is mad lol.
Tony Gaskins, big brother, mentor, you can't retire....I need my weekly dose of encouragement, inspiration, facial expressions, deep sighs, hand movements, and laughter.
That face said it all.
Yep 😂😂😂😂😂
If it were a crime, there will be no room in the jailhouses.
Girl mom here! Became a life coach through tonygaskinsacademy! Now I am here and ready to serve! I’m a single parent and I went from broke, busted, and disgusted to healed and made new! Looking for a life coach I am here for you ladies!
“The man probably don’t use
Toilet paper 🧻 “ 😩😂😂😂 I hollered !
That was the funniest part 😭😭😭
I wasn’t ready 😂
When all Bro Tony got is huffs and puffs and just speechless Lawd!!! The struggle is real!!!😭😭😭🤣😂😆🥰 Lord Bless Him!!! It’s Rough Out Here!
Definitely on the side of the daughter. Kids need to be allowed and empowered to speak the truth even when it stings us as adults. The truth just is. It’s not disrespectful especially in the home. She probably seen her mom play a goofy several times before. 🤷🏽♀️
The title it self "Might Retire" says it all. Tony is disappointed with these women! Tony is giving all the wisdom and game away please take heed to his message. Also majority of time a woman know the answer to the questions she ask; that's why God gave us intuition (Holy Spirit) they just want to hear it from a man.
“You have reach the voicemail for big loser”😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭Tony you should be a comedian!
He’s SO funny, and he doesn’t even try hard. That’s what amazes me.
@@nessparadis6948 I agree lol!!
It’s the blank stare fa me!! I can’t take it 😩😩😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“Lawd gimme the strength... why you called me to this?! 😐”
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
When brother started speaking Spanglish!!!!😆😆😆🥴🥴🥴🙃🙃🤣🤣🤣😂😆🤣
Tony, we appreciate you so much. God called you to this work, I pray He give you the grace and patience to endure.
If he can save 3,000 a month he can definitely afford his own place.
That’s what I said too. But he wanted her taking care of him.
Wow.. this is a lot. So much healing is needed out here. I see why the ones doing the work can feel overwhelmed at times. We’re all needed. Imagine if ALL of us worked on our wholeness & began to walk in our purpose.. 🙏🏽
It's honestly sad how many women only live and work their life for a "man". Not themselves or even their children.
Tony’s expressions in the video image be killing me 🤣😂🤣😂
Lord have Mercy!
"I want your microphone, and I'm going to sing on it........🤣🤣🤣
I really paused...🙄 an went into prayer after I heard Tony read dis here email!!! This is a disaster" This is so painful and sad I, pray she gets Coaching, Counseling and Therapy and next time listen to your daughter. Worth and Value must be set with respect.
He will have a daughter or son one day and get the FAVOR back 😱🤔😩
When he did the accent of the women being impressed by that man's ring in other countries.... that almost took me 6ft under.😂
I feel like you wanted to cuss Tony, after you read the letter 🤣🤣🤣
Lol lol lol lol @ caniptions, is that a word? That long sigh and pause, I. HOLLERED!!!!
I know I’m hollering and crying!
It’s a word in the black community. Not sure if it’s a word outside though 🤣. But we have a way of influencing the mainstream.
It is a word. The correct spelling is conniption. It means a fit of rage or hysterics. Lol!!
Lord give him the strength for these questions 😂😂
I’m convinced you were an actor in your past life Tony 🤣 I am laughing so hard!!!
Tony there are a lot of us in that kind of relationship. Talk to them. Love your talk.
This was hilarious but the advice was golden lol
We need you Tony! You're the best!! You have helped me and other ladies so much! You're a God send 💓💓💓
Dirty Dangler!! I Am Done!! LMBO 🤣🤣🤣
I’m praying for Tony strength Lord please don’t let him retire so many women need his help
Tony you have hollering laughing laid out on the floor. My kids know when I’m crying laughing I’m watching you. The best thing is I ALWAYS learn something about myself. May God continue to bless and keep you, your family and your ministry. Tony I was thinking just like you about him and his boys. The at work scene was hilarious. Please keep being you🤣😂😇
The “COMMERCIAL BREAKS”😂😂😂
Soon as I read (I might retire) I knew it was finna be some foolishness 😂😂
Let's not judge her. I speak from experience when I say that when you're in a situation like that, you can't see or think clearly. My heart truly goes out to her.
Yes I am praying for her and her daughter.
I feel so bad for this woman, A LOT of women go through this!!! There's so many women that are being used voluntarily and involuntarily just to have a man. Soooooo many women don't have father figures in their lives, and/or refuse to listen to counsel from the males in their lives, that love them and have their best interests at heart. This guy knows exactly what he's doing and doesn't care, but he will, because you will reap what you sow. What people don't understand is that karma doesn't always come back on you, sometimes it comes back on your kids. I know he wouldn't want this life for his daughter, sister, etc. The bible says that "Be not deceived, God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
Bruhhhh, this one here is soo real and hilarious! Go off Tony! Sis please take heed, don't just feel hit. God bless
You have reached the voicemail of.....”BIG LOSER”... 😩😭😭
SICK....SAD.....and SORRY! No disrespect, we gotta do better.....bless you sis.....
When my son and brothers say no. they got to go!!
OMG! You have topped all of the videos so far. LOL!!! It needed to be said to her and the women who have experienced this situation. I had a similar situation and my sister talked to me just like this. I sent her your video and we both had a laugh. This is serious. Thank you for making it comedic. You are a blessing. Be blessed. P.S. Your VOICES are on point.
If Mr. Gaskins pause any longer.... and that blink 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I am literally crying laughing 🤣😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
Tony!! You are hilarious. Great message! 👏🏾😂
Ooh Lord. My daughter saved me from this! I thought she was just mad, but her discernment was on point!