Black Woman SOLO Travels To Italy & Instantly Regrets It!
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
- Black Woman SOLO Travels To Italy & Instantly Regrets It!
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Embark on a compelling journey with an African American woman who, despite her excitement for solo travel, found herself facing a harrowing experience in Italy. In this eye-opening video, witness her candid account of encountering racism, harsh judgments, maltreatment, and overall disrespect during what was meant to be an enriching adventure.
This courageous storyteller unveils the challenges she faced as a woman of color exploring Italy alone. From subtle biases to blatant discrimination, she sheds light on the stark realities that unfolded during her trip. This narrative serves as a poignant reminder of the necessity for women, regardless of their background, to conduct thorough research before venturing into unfamiliar territories.
Throughout the video, the storyteller emphasizes the critical need for cultural awareness and understanding local dynamics. This traumatic experience becomes a compelling example of why women should equip themselves with knowledge about the countries they plan to visit, enabling them to make informed decisions and navigate potential challenges.
Join us in this powerful journey as we explore the lessons learned from adversity, promoting dialogue and awareness. Let this story be a beacon for women worldwide, reinforcing the importance of research, cultural sensitivity, and empowerment when embarking on solo travel adventures. 🌐💪 #InformedTravel #EmpoweredWomen #CulturalAwareness #SoloTravelInsights
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They treater her like trash....but she still wanna gucci bag?
Now you know she has to stunt on her fellow hyenas...
My experience was horrible. I will never go again. It was dangerous being black in Italy. Some do not take to it. Long story, I almost didn't make it there - they didn't want to treat me in there hospital - they kept calling me a drunk black girl - when I was really sick. I had to take an emergency flight back to the states. NEVER WILL GO AGAIN .BE CAREFUL IF YOU GO and you're a person of color
I read through the comments I read Black Men putting down Black Women. I read other races putting down Black Women. All I want to do is travel to Rome see the sights and come home. It cant be this hard.
If we as black people wanted to be treated and perceived better internationally we will have to start caring about our reputation as a group. What you do as an individual reflects on all of us as a group. Black people have a bad reputation in airports, tipping at restaurants, not paying the bill in restaurants, speaking aggressively in social situations. There is a downside to being seen as strong and independent.
Facts. The majority of popular black female entertainment glorifying confrontations/violence, strippers, xes work, & a twisted version of fminism has consequences abroad for Black American women...
I just got home from Italy yesterday. I’m an American black man. The people seemed fine. But I am American, so maybe that affords me preferential treatment to a degree African immigrants don’t get. But I’ll say this, I saw no shortage of non tourist black people in Italy, particularly in Naples. And they appeared to be African immigrants for the most part. They didn’t seem overtly mistreated in noticeable ways. And I also saw many clearly “mixed” people in Italy as well, indicating the races are frequently sexually mixing. I’m sure racism exists, as it does in all cultures, but it didn’t seem any more or less prevalent than anywhere else. If you’re black, go to Italy and enjoy. You’ll be fine.
No, go away. we're not welcome them
I like your statement, we black Americans and blacks from Africa shouldn't have to be put on a you can go here but you can't go here, here and there. I know racism exist living in Kansas City Missouri USA. straight up racist and subtle racism like smile in your face spit in your food kinda racism
Why do we expect everyone to welcome us with loving open arms? Especially when we never do that even to each other. Women should not be traveling alone unless going to a job where someone will meet you and escort you anywhere in the world.
I agree about women shouldn't travel alone abroad ( have as many people with you as possible ) safety in numbers. This alsi goes for males too.
and they're going to slavers and colonist expecting open arms.
Masculine single black women with bull rings, not a welcoming look in any country.
The western countries are the safest for blacks or anyone. Racism is 100x worse in most non-western countries. Asians are racist against other Asians, and westerners, but in regions like Africa there are dozens of conflicts and hatred between tribes and ethnic groups. Any foreigners are scammed and ripped off in most of Africa, Asia, The mIddle East. They charge you double/ttriple for everything. In Islamic countries people are attacked and killed for being from a different religion. A white woman cant travel anywhere in Africa alone. Its even risky for white men. Theres corruption, bandits, wars and tribal militia across Africa, Islamic terrorists are blowing people up. In Africa even the cops shake down tourists for money.
Right now in Iran women are being arrested ,thrashed, and killed for not wearing hijab.
Non- western countries dont have any rights at all, and women have no rights. Its important to remember most of the world is not woke, like the anglo-western countries are. They dont buy it. Even most African countries are anti-western liberal values, they are anti-LGBT, anti-feminist and anti-woke.
I've traveled across almost all of western Europe. There are "some" racist people where ever you go, but sweeping cultural racism is NONSENSE. You need to understand the situation when you travel to other countries. You can get away with bad attitudes and disrespect in America but try that in some foreign countries and you'll find out fast. I'd like to see exactly what happened that triggered these "racist incidents" because I bet these people weren't all that innocent to begin with.
I travel in many countries in the world and i see most US black woman who have trouble comming from they loud ghetto combative masculine behaviour.
Totally agree 👍🏾💯
Absolutely! I'm not ignorant to some of the prejudices from Europeans, but I've never had any issues with them in my personal life, which includes Brits, French, Germans, Ukranians, Russians, and others.
Bon Voyage... Adios... Arrividerci... Aloha... Many happy returns. etc etc etc I'll be in my house, investing in Disruptive Technologies..
@@UnexpectedWonderBrits. Man, a good friend of mine is a brit, and a lot of his friends I've met are brits and when he got married his brit family and friends came over for the wedding. Brits are some of the coolest people on EARTH. Not saying that racism doesn't exist in the UK; obviously it does. But Brits as a whole are pretty cool people. (They know how to drink and PARTY like nobody's business! Lord!)
My son traveled to Italy, and his experience was pleasant
why do ya'll think that Europeans that came up with racism are not gonna be racist? you're going to the source
Man, the delusion or the need for acceptance is crazy!
My fiancé and I (both black) have been to Italy twice and didn’t experience anything like this, but we know it’s there and have heard stories. I also think we would’ve had a different experience had we traveled alone. The worst racism I experienced abroad was actually in China when I had to pass through the to get to Japan. Japan itself was fine but the racism and contempt I received from the Chinese I dealt with at the airport was enough to make me not ever want to visit that country for any reason. Not even white people have been that nakedly racist to my face.
It’s astounding how just being black and existing can arouse such visceral disdain in some people; and they don’t even know why they feel that way.
Facts. Some folks are reacting to ideas about you and not you personally
But u went back? And u want sympathy from black people?
Brad worship is a hard addiction to battle with! 😢
I think a lot of bw are influenced by the rhetoric other bw spew about European men loving them
Yep!
Coming from an African who was born in Italy and grew up up in there ,if you are black women and want to date white men then you have higher chance to do that in the US then Italy ,I wouldn’t encourage it btw as an African man I will marry only an African woman .
They love women not bitches sorry not sorry
🎯...delusional. the world is nationalistic and antiblackness is worldwide. One can have a good experience, but it's surface level cordial in my experience
With all do respect. I don't know why so many "American BW" complain everytime they go to another country. I have been to Italy several times and I've never experienced this (allaged) racism.
Her Zaddy dreams did not come true so she cries Raycism!
It's called Brick Gate lies 😂😂
@@IAmRetiredSoonwhen you watch too many Hallmark Movies and WFs Rom-Coms.
I watch soccer I saw how Italians treated Mario ballotelli a Italian soccer player of Ghanaian descent
@@amancalledhawk5575 when they won the WC a few years ago....the players of African descent were immediately labeled "not Italian."
All these comment im seeing of “Im black and Ive been; or my son has been” is no one following that you arent a women. As a black man your experience is going to be different because you are a man duh. People think they will face less consequences with a black woman than man. Not saying I believe the women going to these other countries are angels but NO man especially a man who is not a p.o.c should be commenting on their good experience. It means nothing tbh in comparison. I say this as a black man.
I’ve been Italy multiple times and I’ve never had any issues. Old people stare but that’s about it to be honest. Everyone’s experience is different I guess
I think location also makes a big difference. Also the mentality and the behavior of the individual there. Multiple things to consider
@@ChezChardeNah, I'm beginning to wonder about the attitude of these young Black folks traveling to Italy. I spent 2 1/2 weeks in Italy last year, solo. I traveled around Rome and throughout Sicily -- no problems. I went to Italy because I did a semester abroad when I was in college -- I had no problems then either.
@@ChezChardeIf she gone to Northern Italy she may had encountered lot more racism then in Southern Italy
@@loriannrichardson7644exactly, I also wanted to say same thing, it depends on the attitude and expectations this BW come in to Italy with, I’m a black lady living in Italy for almost 2years now, have I experienced any racism the answer is NO, is there racism in Italy maybe ofcus you may find someone who doesn’t treat you right, but maybe it’s not for your skin or your race, a lot of BW visit Italy with the mentality of what they have been fed by other people, I will say this, it depends on her attitude towards others as well, her reactions matters a lot, we only heard how she was treated, but not how she treated them . Attitude is everything and attitude has a major role to play in our life, secondly Italy is not an English speaking country you don’t expect everyone to open their arms and welcome you, when there’s a huge language barrier .I think there’s more to the story
@@coreylevine8095 Really? I'd heard Southern Italy was the more racist part, esp Sicily. At least when it comes to blacks. I know the Northern and Southern Italians don't get along.
That's unfortunate for her. My trip to Italy was great. It was very welcoming, & I was well received.
I do think there needs to be context. Location, area, also how you behave, so many diff things to consider.
@@ChezCharde true
We're you st the hotels you tourist
You go to the south of Italy you find out real quick that they don’t like black people. I went to Rome when I was 19 I didn’t experience hate like this young lady so I have to ask the question how was she conducting herself while there. Because Americans who’ve never left their block before act real disrespectful when traveling to other countries . How you treat others matters .
My associate was half Italian and black, and he was born in Italy. He ran as soon as he was 18 to America! He was treated badly as a biracial. He spoke the language and everything, but he was treated badly by Italians.
I met a bl lady who worked in Italy, she had never complained about it. As far as I know she still works there...but she was polite, kind, etc....
I’ve heard this about Italy as well. I don’t know why this is so shocking to people.
@@ZZMJo He found his black family in Atlanta. My relative was in the military and lived their. No problem with him.
I noticed sassy BAW and Zesty Black Guys have issues when traveling abroad.. WHY IS THAT???
They don't play that ish!!!
They both run the same mental software...
You know why, but you are unable to say it because then you will be attacked and given some label of women hater or homophobe.
Some are just looking for microaggressions.
Because they are sassy/zesty/and LOUD.
The problem with Italy is that it is inhabited by Italians. And then they all speak Italian. What is the matter with those people!!??
Lol.
I know, how dare we be indigenous people in our own land. 😂❤
Let some BW tell it, IItaly loves and appreciates BW. They step off the plane and the finest and brightest of Italian men line up to treat them like the Queens they are. Racism no (Kamala voice) this can’t be true.
Dude they think the WM in the states love them. Lol!!
@@Nightrain349Lol. Yeah. I think some black women go over there with magical thinking, and are shocked when their jet isn't welcomed at the airport by the prime minister and a full welcoming band.
I tried to tell em, the image of the loud attitude low class bw is broadcasted all across Europe. Who is to blame for that?Black male experience is totally different especially if you black American 😂😂😂😂
queens, just stop the foolishness, even bm fr America aare gettin passports...lol..
Another thing they' fell to realize..
wp...follow Patriarchy!! despite their
w,claiming to be feminist "!!!
So that's ah double Slap of Reality!!
This is what happen when our sister's travel oversea's.They alway's cry wolf but never tell there side how they treat people around them.I ran into a few A.A.B.W. while on vacation in Jamaica and they were not the best guest to have very rude .
I met 3 last year on the subway...They were loud, they blocked the entrance/exist, I asked them to step aside, they didn't hear it, I asked once again, they didn't move...I went simply through..
Facts! Was in the Bahamas this summer and my 77 year old dad said this “what’s up with all these big mean sisters here?!” Almost ALL the BW we encountered were rude and had attitude. Asking simple questions when ordering or for directions - got a low can’t be bothered mumbled reply or an attitude. It was super annoying.
woo...@@rayzrsharp
They're just too rude @@rayzrsharp
WOW...my baby sister visited Italy about 5 years ago and had a great time and she is black. My son's godparents lived in Italy for years and had a daughter there and loved it and they are black....
I do think location matters, also the environment and how people are acting. Without knowing the full context of where she was, behaviour etc, it's hard to know. I've heard mixed reviews honestly
1) she has a septum ring.
2) Santi (Roma people) have felt the brunt in places like Italy for a long time.
3) even darker skinned Southern Italians have felt the brunt, so what was she expecting?
Zaddy worship is through the roof. And dis she say she used to travel there before the pandemic? 🤔
We know it was a popular place for divestment and divestors. As is now confirmed again.
She went over there looking to find a Zaddy👈, and found out what time it is🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I bet she gotta Zaddy over here though🤔
I have a female friend that was stationed in Italy in the Army and she loved it there. Maybe one should leave that Black Girl attitude in the states
Your female friend got back what she gave...
Keep your selves where you are welcomed. Problem solved
Brick Gate
lol which is no specific place on earth 😂 there are problems every where
She told us how they treated her. She didn't say anything about how she was treating them.
That's a great point! 👊👊✊✊👏👏👏
Black couples seem to never have this problem! I feel your statement! We've been listening to one side of the story for the last 60 years.
@@MitchMitch77-77Black men don't have this problem when they travel, either.
@@MitchMitch77-77 Absolutely, Brother! The world is designed for Families. Marriage is the ultimate validation for Women socioeconomically, although it historically protects Men. In the West, especially in Amerika, it benefits Women not to marry because of the System.
@@izzo2998 For the most part, no.
I'm a Black male, and I traveled around Italy alone, albeit a couple of decades ago, and had no problems. The people were warm, friendly, and helpful--because I was American. However, I did note that the treatment of African immigrants was a totally different story. I've traveled to Europe several times since, but not to Italy in recent times, so I can't speak to the socio-political environment there these days, but I do notice that quite a few Black women have had a totally different experience from mine.
I recall a black woman in one of those 'traveling to Italy' videos a while back saying that she & her (also bw) friends were mistaken for xes workers by Italians, so maybe that's part of the reason she was mistreated. Same for other bw who recently traveled to Russia & Germany...
I would like to give a different opinion to this video. As a black european, my favorite country in Europe is Italy. I live in France but I have been to Italy 6 times. Everytime I go there, I am treated very well and very respectfully. I'm not saying that racism doesn't exist, but you can't take your personal experience and generalize it to all black people. You also need to look at some details about her experience. I'm going to say something that may hurt some of us but the truth is the truth. Us black people drive some of the stereotypes and negative images we show the world. We are not very good at giving a positive image compared to other ethnicities. Another thing about the lady in the video, she talks about the way people treat her, but she doesn't talk about her appearance. Italy is a conservative country, where people are elegant, dress nice with a conservative appearance. This girl goes to Italy with her bull nose ring and long dreadlocks, I'm not saying she shouldn't, but she shouldn't be surprised in addition to being black, she comes with this look that may not go well with most people there. To be honest, just based on appearance ( not looks), I would never date her, that's a different story but you get my point. It's too easy to point the finger at the way people treat you, but sometimes you have to look at yourself and wonder why you're getting so much negative reactions from people. I know a lot of black people who love Italy and who live in Italy. You can have a good or bad experience anywhere in the world. Same in America, Europe, Africa, Asia.... it doesn't matter. I have faced some type of discrimination on 2 occasions in Spain, but I still like to go there and honestly, 90% of my trips abroad have always been an incredible experience.
This is quite insightful. Not knowing the culture or norms of Italy I understand how someone coming in with certain energy or dress might done Off abrasive. Add to that mannerisms and it’s a wrap. I think there is a lot to consider when Visiting a country. Ultimately you’ll find good and bad wherever you go
I lived in Rome. I lived it. People were so nice to me.
I am so glad you mentioned it. Appearance is everything. Even in the USA it's the same. It is unfair to judge someone by their appearance but who said the world is fair? I travel quite a bit and lived in Croatia, Switzerland and Spain. The black women I see complaining about racism (I'm not saying it doesn't exist because it is truly alive and well) are 200+ Lbs, sloppy dressed or looking like they came out of an Erykah Badu video. There is absolutely nothing wrong with these appearances and personally, I love the fashion and aesthetics of black urban fashion as I am from Brooklyn, but the reality is that it is not perceived well in Europe (nor in the USA frankly). It doesn't come off well and you will be judged. Often times black people go with the "this is me, 200 lbs, wearing shorts, green hair, loud as hell, etc. etc..... and you have to accept me the way I am"....well, no they don't! TBH, it happens in the USA as well but no one every mentions how someones "appearance" brings on negative judgement. The black European women I see and have met, are more conservative and dress more elegant in Europe. They are more put together. I see more urban fashion in London, but not the other countries I have been to. I have been to Italy at least 20 times, and lived in the North Eastern part for 1 year,, and never experienced racism. That said, I am not invalidating someone else's experience but sometimes people draw negative experiences by their appearance alone. Again, I am not saying this is right, just the way the world is.
@@ninobk196 100%
Here's some truth for you. No one will ever value you more than your own.
Facts.
I can't tell from these comments.
@@reneemichael1574 she was looking for an italian man and got turned down. That's all.
@@reneemichael1574 I wasn't talking to BM because the majority of us know where we stand. I was talking to BW who strongly believe because different men would put it in them they value you. They don't. No race of woman is more valuable to any race of men than their own. Period!!!
When you go somewhere foreign you must adopt their values or leave… No need to cry racism cause they didn’t let you wild out
You don't have to adopt their values, but you do have to "respect" their values.
I have lived in Italy for 10 years without any issues. What did she do to cause any problems during her visit?
How many times were you called ni**erito in those 10 years? Or were you in denial...
Acted like a typical heyena boss chick.
Pinnincchio Lies
@@gubilasco9022 well, surely not by an Italian....You are confusing it with some other language, 🤦♂🤦♂...
More lies, you tell Dylan. I have seen countless videos where Italian people racists to black people. They even showed an Italian teacher being racists to a black student in Italy. Let's stop lying on here. 😅
Hi italian here, just stumbled on this video unfortunately. It was very american of you to try to explain others a coulture that it's not yours and clearly you don't understand, also hinting that we were part of "trades" (Atlantic slave trade) witch is obviously false. We had our part in history with colonialism like every other European nations but just old plain war unlike other countries who still to this day entertain themselves in shady businesses that impact the africans. Now, for everyone that really wants to travel and discover new cultures don't let videos like this stop you, Italy and the whole europe is safe to visit tourists are usually very welcome doesn't matter where you came from or dumb things like your skin tone. Be open minded towards the cultural differences you're gonna encounter and you'll have a great time. Sorry for my broken English and welcome to Italy 😊
Long ago America WAS considered the good guys…that’s long gone and will never change…she went over there and acted out
Black women and their insatiable obsession with Italy and France. SMH. Y’all good????
.....
I have been to Italy several times and have not seen what this person is talking about. Rome, Florence, Milan, and Venice are places I have been, not once have I seen what she is talking about. I will continue to visit and look forward to daily trips to my favorite cafe in Florence.
I visited Italy in Sept ‘23 and had never experienced such unprovoked aggression and open racism. I was physically assaulted from behind in Venice by someone I had no prior interaction with, was ignored by waiters at the Dolce & Gabbana restaurant (DG Martini) in Milan although we had reservations, and experienced more open aggression at the QC Termemilano Spa (by guests, not employees). The only place during that trip that was enjoyable was Lake Como. I didn’t experience this previously when I visited Rome so I’m not sure of this is more common in the North but hard pass on ever spending any more of my hard earned money in that country.
She has not had a negative experience SHE IS the negative experience.
I read her story. She went to Italy looking for an Italian husband. But they let their racism be known. Some Italian guy was trying to hit on her Caucasian friends, but when they turned him down, he turned savage, threw water bottles at her, and told them to take their trash (her) off the beach. Later on, while walking on a sidewalk, some Italian man shielded his wife from her. There was more. But she's wrong about the south. Racism is still pretty bad here. Or did she not know about that judge from my state, who threw black school children into prison, not because they'd done anything wrong, no, she was "protecting" the Caucasian kids by getting black kids out of the schools.
I am german and my husband japanese. We travelled to Italy before corona and had a great time. I dont know how it would be as african. Recently in whole europe the situation regarding immigrants got heated up. Right now, its better to be careful. Inflation and so on makes the people frustrated
We victim blaming now? 😂
You must be gay.
😂
i'm a BM and spent 2 months in Italy...nothing bad happened and i got a lot of puntang
What energy did she display there? I’m a black man. I’ve been to Italy twice in my 20s. Ofcourse there are very few people you could tell weren’t fond my skin color but I can comfortably say that 95% of people were extremely nice and welcoming. Depends on the energy she put out. The SKRONG BW energy is very unappealing in most places outside the U.S.
Is it appealing in the US? Arrogance, combattitude?
Also depending if you were looking for dating or not ,if you just went there for holidays then it is not a bad place to go , but I hope people realise that visiting and living are two different things
@@jackdeniston59 well I feel like it’s part of the culture here and that’s why it’s expected and tolerated
@@omzy8700 nah. Didn’t go for dating. Went for vacation. Spent few weeks
Thanks for what you said.
I don't want to deny that there are some racist Italians, but they are a minority. Unfortunately racism exists all over the world (and we Italians know something about it)
Generally Italians are kind and friendly people, especially towards tourists.
Clearly if you visit a small Tuscan town you will not find a dynamic society like in London or New York, but you will hardly find people with racist attitudes.
If a foreigner comes to our country with respect and education I am sure he will make many friends
She said "micro aggressions".
That immediately disqualifies her, from any serious conversation on the subject.
Let's normalize black folk speaking for themselves. What may or may not happen to you is your issue not mine.
I can appreciate individuals experiences while looking at trends. There is a trend of discrimination towards Black folks in Italy. Doesn’t mean it’s everywhere with everyone and all the time. But it’s ok to acknowledge that a trend exists while also acknowledging black people who have beautiful experiences in Italy
@@ChezCharde It's generational. Folks born after 1990 see racism in EVERYTHING. It's annoying and I no longer have sympathy or empathy for the sensitivities of Black AMERICANS.
It's really not how the world sees you.. But it's unbelievable how horrible people can be
As a BM I travelled to Italy alone and met up with friends. I experienced ZERO racism whatsoever. Because I know BW so well, I’m almost 99% certain it was her and how she carried herself. Italians can be very direct when they don’t know you but when they get to know you - they treat you like family. My experience in Italy was one of the best experiences of my life. Travelled all around Lake Como. Treated completely normal.
Pretty simple rule of thumb - the more you look like the people in a region, the fewer issues you will have. It's not hard and fast, but it holds for the most part. I used to hang out in Caribbean clubs, and nobody knew I was American until I opened my mouth, because I just looked like another black man.
America PANDERS to black women. The WORLD shows you REALITY, SIS!
As a Black American man, I been to Italy several times and had a great time and met some wonderful people. Are there people who are racist? Of course, unfortunately it's a part of life you have to deal with.
There is a lot of racism toward African migrated in Italy, because some people can be xenophobia. But if you are a Black American people aren't going to care as much, you also need to have thick skin and not allow yourself to be easily offended, if you can't do that you're going to have a hard time wherever you go.
OWN THE IMAGE BW MADE FOR YOURSELVES ///U Can't BLAME TWERK On WP Or BM
Some black women have been putting Italian men on a pedestal for a long time. I’ve been hearing “Italians love black women” since I was a kid and black women never combat that statement. They will combat the statement “black men love black women” in a heartbeat tho 😂
as a BW she‘s not lying. I also experienced being discriminated by italians in rome 🤷🏾♀️
Oprah Winfrey told a similar story - nobody listened to her
If you travel to the EU, regardless of race, just be respectful, not loud, and dress appropriately. If you do, you’ll have an amazing time.
If you are loud, brash or rude, you be treated badly.
I’m guessing the disgruntled woman was not obeying the basic rules of being a good visitor in a foreign country.
Quite possible. It’s hard to know without context. Learning and Respecting the culture is so important
Septic Ring theory. Just saying
Passport sis don't get no love in other countries cause they know they rude and disrespectful.
I loved living in Rome. Best time of my life. Sorry she went through that.
Yes I've heard mixed reviews. Im glad you had a good time!
She went out there expecting to come back with a mixed kid, but instead got a wake up call.
I was literally JUST in Naples, Italy, Madrid, Spain, and then Istanbul, Turkiye and I had the most exuberant experience of a lifetime! The ppl were so welcoming and the men were such gentleman and quite flirtatious. This was not my first time in Europe and everytime I travel there I get treated with the utmost respect and kindness. It's no secret that European men have an affinity for attractive, feminine blk women, which is why I saw several of them with African women. If I were single, I could've easily found love in Italy, like many BW have already. I challenge you to experience it for yourself. Nice try though beautiful ❤
Nice delusional story
@@princeinyang6257 Lol, I could tell she was lying when I saw her username.
Why would a European man want a Black American women? you have nothing to offer that will help a man. Why do you think American Black don't want you?
Wake up Alice, you're in wonderland
I have been to over 25 countries in the last ten years. You just paid attention to those European men with African women because it fascinates you, or is a secret fetish. Those men are a very small minority and most European families would be unhappy if a son brought home an African woman.
Where ever you go, your still you.
Your energy and attitude will attract the same back.
That mouth and neck rolling is a turn off to men.
I'm glad they going to Europe so they can get level set
Who was rolling their neck?
@@cloudsenpai9258 most sistas, got too much sass and mouth and neck movement
After seeing these black chicks in Dubai and how they behaved, I'm suspicious of this woman's story.
How was she behaving?
Another black woman's terrible experience traveling to Italy and yet they keep going over there.
I lived in Italy for two years (Trieste and Milano), enough time to become reasonably fluent with "il bel lingua."
Italians stare out of curiosity, but being an African American of a darker hue of color and 6'9". I was both used and indifferent to it. And while the Italians down south were not as welcoming as the ones in the north, they warm up to you once you speak to them in Italiano, and once they knew you were from the U.S.
My advice would be to, as soon as you can, befriend an Italian and have them guide you around their culture. It's a form of authentication for the other Italians.
I went to a local football game in town, asked if I could play. Within 6 months I made more friends than I had in the states. I've done this in 4 countries, hasn't failed yet.
@@migueljonz3901 Ed'io sono stato un giocatore di pallacanestro (basketball) in italia, ed io ho ancora degli amici italiani dopo quasi venti anni. Non ho mai avuto nessun problema del genere.
Who raised these people? Why is an adult black person surprised by racism?
Yeah you went out there lookin for zaddy…
That's what I think it is.
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It's just the attitude with American lol😂
I think it's about social class and economic standing more than racism.
I know a girl from my tiny 5000 people hometown who studied abroad in paris and she seems to love it and while I’ve never been Paris seems too cold and it’s just not my vibe. I have a vision board of where I wanna go and on a cruise I would love to see marsaille and they have little villages you can visit and it’s near the ocean. I’d also like to see Cannes. Anywhere but Paris for me
Black dude here. Traveled extensively and Paris was AMAZING. Fantastic, welcoming city and people. If you don't like big cities, though, you won't like it.
You're not black, so I'm wondering how this effects you?
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I NEVER go anywhere without praying to Jesus first especially because im a minority in Europe born in England however try to stay in Roma Italia near the Vatican near Christians or just go to Paris and London. Ask God first before travelling don't just Travel. Caribbean South America Europe doesn't matter
Yea, well! "It is what it is" Lessons will be learnt. Eventually! 💯🔥🔥🔥
This is the problem with flat blackness. What's not being said is why? It's because they thought she was a west African migrant not just because she was "black".
That's exactly what happened! In fact she might have been raised in the south but she looks African. I wonder if her parents are African immigrants🤔🤔🤔. All the black Americans I know love Italy. One dude got arrested because they thought he was Nigerian. Once they realized he wasn't they let him go. They need to stop flattening blackness especially globally
My point is, even if Black people make distinctions among themselves culturally, non Black people rarely go through the trouble of making the distinctions and that impacts everyone whether we agree or not
@@ChezCharde they don't know initially but once they realize you are black
American and not African you are treated differently a lot of times.
@ChezCharde I understand, but they do make the distinction, you look different from this woman, she looks west African. I'm positive they think she's an African migrant and she knows that, that's what's triggering her because she was probably born and raised in the US and resents being mistaken for them.
@@ceemee4269 exactly! 👏👏👏👏. Africans and so called African Americans don't look alike at all. Look at Meghan good and look at lupita nyongo. You can tell whose African and whose so called African Americans just by looking at them
I have been and had 0 issues
That’s great
I doubt it's racism. I suspect its hostility to black American woman type entitlement. I never heard a legal African migrant complain about Italy this way. Probably thought she could be impolite. No culture with self-esteem tolerates that.
The African immigrants complain about it a lot. Real heavy. They also compare how black American women travelers or expats are treated differently than them because of passport and nationality privilege. Italy has an immigrant issue and there's major hostility. Nice try though. Black American women don't have that reputation that you're trying to to place on them in Europe or other places abroad. Especially when most are traveling for cultural, education, teaching English in Japan or Korea or relocating. Propaganda from blackistan is sickening.
I’m black man who’s travelled with a black woman to Italy, Germany, France, Dubai, The UK, Nigeria, South Africa, South Korea and I shielded her from any problems.
It's complex. I lived there continuously for 5 years and still return to visit with my children who are Italian. I owned an albergo there with my ex-husband. Italians are ok. I fit in well with the Sephardic Jewish community there. Most of my friends were irish expats. However, italians are ethnocentric and can be xenophobic. Anyone Eastern European-looking, Nigerian looking or Brazillian-looking is going to suffer being discriminated against due to the rampant sex trafficking. There are a lot of prostitutes from the aforementioned categories. I'm fortunate enough to have a very distinctive look, so I'm not easy to place. Many years ago, I held an art meetup and many black American women came. Some of them were treated with pure disdain; one woman who is Carribean, dark and had braids had her credit card thrown at her by the restaurant downstairs. The other woman did not. In general, you will be crowned with the stereotypes of those you resemble most. So for the dummy black American men, rushing in to blame black women for their attitudes, it's not that simple. And lord knows you don't want to know how they feel about you.
Their attitudes stem from entitlement and jealousy. BM got tired of their BS. Get over yourself
You are no different, which is why you felt so entitled to respond to something that doesn't concern you.@@robertcortez3526
That same understanding that your asking parents to make their kids aware of, has a way of pigeonholing many of us. We're bombarded with all of this negativity and not given a proper balance, (ie. when you hear about Civil Rights, it's rare that you hear about the many occasions where white allies were punished physically, instead we turn it around and refer to them as having a white savior complex). The teaching/awareness has got to be done a lot better if you want a change or for things to work. Seeing yourself as a target, victim and undesirable often does more harm than good.
Hard on the eyes heavy on the hearts and minds
I’m sorry you experienced that but I have been to Italy and I never experienced that everyone was just warm nice and respectful to me
I had a great time in Italy 🤷🏿♂️
Hell, you don't need to go to Italy to experience racism or prejudice. Heck, you don't even need to live in the South. Just go to Salt Lake City, UT. I spent 4 mons there for military training. It sucked monkeyballs! I remember go to the local Walmart in and out of uniform. It was a totally different experience each time. I was barely tolerated in uniform and flat-out treated like shit out of uniform. Sorry she had to go to another country to experience 😔 that nonsense.
These Folks dont have Street smarts. I get it now, I get the importance of street smarts now.
Folks travel to other places think its like suburbs.
Most of the world is like the North side of Saint Louis, or Washington Park illnois
If you can survive there you can survive anywhere.
The other parts of the world is like the Projects or the Black Ghettos
She should've maybe visited Sicily region. Sicilians have the blood of African Moors in them. Guaranteed she would have a better experience there.
Yes Tunisia
Lol 😆 it seems like the darker Europeans so call white are the most racist like an Italian that looks like an Arab or a Mexican or Latino (Sicilian) are more racist because I guess they have to prove they are not apart of Africa or black in a way like most people from India it seems most racist are the dark skinned ones
am not italiano but I'am Born in Italy i'am 28 years old belive me or not Italy Is more and worst than that women Is saying .they treat you like shit they judge you without knowing you (bulling in group) and convince you that Is because of you. my goodness i started to hate It really bad i can't trust no One . In other counties you can find good or bad peaple i am Sorry here you cannot find good ones i Guess It Is their cultuer and every One saying that Is not Italy is Just a liar
Agggh..these men dont want you. China Italy Wall is Undefeated 😂
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Like people always say, if you hate the US, you need to go outside and see what the world is like
She should see how the men of Egypt will treat her 😊
Our captivity is ending AHAYAH has redeemed Jacob
Racism is territorial. Where ever the majority lays, that’s where racism will be. The majority will always express racism because you are different from them.
A lot of places,its about "taking the hint". They will never change. Especially the part about high end products. They market to a certain groups and they aren't intetested in selling to anyone else. Money doesn't matter to them.
When trynna swirl goes wrong.
Congratulations on what bm go through since birth ms
I really don't like the woman that she put in this video She annoys me.
Believe me if your wealthy color is not an issue
Naw naw, but i thought they luuuuhhh black women naw
- in my Charleston white voice
The Sassy Trucker ring a bell... Dubai
I am an black woman from the United States who lived in Italy while stationed in the military. On weekends and on holiday I did a great deal of solo traveling and was treated very well. I noticed that Italians treat foreigners better when they are polite and respect their culture. One summer, my parents even came to visit me and they had a fantastic time. My mother was an invalid who had mobility issues but she was treated like royalty. In my opinion, Italy is not as racist as the United States. I did notice that Italians dress better than most Americans. I was definitely treated better when I was well dressed. I also respected Italian culture and customs. I know Americans who were stationed in Italy in the past and have recently returned. These people all say that Italy is very welcoming to black people.
It’s NOT because your black and depends on where ! I’m Italian-American with an Italian passport ! They do the same to us ! Depends on where and what you were doing ??
What were the specifics of the racism, exhibit A o Z? Without readingNew York Times? You need more.