What shame they probably wanted her to speak English. Bet you can't even speak African guess you ain't black enough. This the type of shit that gets on my nerves when other races try to gaslight you for not knowing your native tongue but if you don't speak English then you're some foreigner that doesn't belong in this country. Fucking double standards
@girano9 there is a difference between 'not speaking' and 'not knowing'. When English became international language, it started dominating developing countries, and people began using it more than the native language and became used to it. So, they can understand everything but struggle to reply.
@@VoidCosmonautthat’s not ture 😂at all it’s the fact we all have different languages that separate us we spend all this time fighting over stupid things because we don’t understand the other if everyone spoke just one language the world would work much better because everyone would have the same thing understanding language is a barrier
Bro she couldn’t even understand her own language this ain’t heartwarming if anything it proves languages are dying and new generations are forgetting their cultural history on purpose so in a few decades everything will be the same no uniqueness no diversity all one language and one culture from a generation that forgets, sit back and enjoy the destruction buddy
@@michaelwoythaler Similar to "Oh my god" but not mention any specific god or buddha. Trời mean the sky. In this case, it just represent for a godly figgure who rule everything. ANd since everyone could say "Trời ơi" When something unexpected happen (they don't need to believe in any god), it could be translated to "Oh No", Or even "Damn It".
@@jamesbizs Unless I’m reading this wrong, “a state of affairs or an event that seems deliberately contrary to what one expects and is often amusing as a result”. The irony in the situation which the commenters are pointing out is that the Vietnamese girl cannot speak or understand her native language, while a foreigner can. I believe the comment or was referring to that, not what’s quotations. Of course, I can be wrong, but this is what I can understand.
@@JSK3677Surely, not a shame! Every kid develope differently. If kids around 2 years old couldn't talk (even their parents talked to doctors), would you hope them to learn 1 or 2 languages? If you say shame on them, people will say shame on you. There are many different situations and no one needs to tell you about their lives.
@@JSK3677 I get that.. I meant the people who don't live in their native country. Or even people who just learned multiple languages.. my kid is about to turn 15 and she speaks more languages fluent then I do.. 🤣
What @FitFatFit said. Most people in the world are multilingual, and most countries speak several languages. For example, do you know what the second biggest Spanish speaking country in the world is? Yep. The United States.
@@redwolf4611he's teasing. In Southeast Asian culture, even a stranger can tease you as long as it's in good fun. But ofc, it can be seen as rude and crossing boundaries depending on the people involved, or to the onlooker.
@@fie5607 Westerners (regardless of race) getting offended on behalf of other cultures that wouldn't find [the topic] offensive is standard these days lol And I'm British btw, everything is soft and annoying AF these days haha
@@ieyazzu9297 maybe this is an accent, because some Vietnamese pronounce wrong "tr" , so " troi oi" or " choi oi" is the same one, there no rule to pronounce it, i think 😂
@@ieyazzu9297 most southern Vietnamese are too lazy to pronounce the "tr" so they just went with an easier alternative "ch", it also sound a little more intimate Basically you can switch "tr" for a "ch" and no one would complain, just don't switch "ch" with "tr"
This interaction is so genuine and awesome! From her dropping because someone’s talking to her in Vietnamese , to everyone checking up on her as soon as she drops! So wholesome!
For me both of my parents are immigrants and both speak fluent Spanish My dad doesn’t speak English and my mom is bilingual As a full blood Mexican It hurts that I can’t speak Spanish it honestly breaks my pride and whatever is part of me into small pieces😭😭
Maybe coworkers ofc, but I think they're sisters as well. He asks about the parents, and the one that does understand, basically confirmed the other just didn't learn the language from them.
@@capitaldcolon1795 you’re not even paying attention to the videos you’re just talking to talk. She’s asking her sister what’s wrong bc she’s bent down and probably couldn’t tell if she was crying or laughing and the sister wasn’t there for the conversation to begin with so ofc asking what’s wrong is the right question, to understand what lead the sister to react that way. Pay attention especially if you’re going to comment on it!!!
I’m like this with Amharic, Tigrinya, and Oromo. I don’t bother telling ppl im Ethiopian/Eritrean bc I don’t want to explain why I can’t speak it 😅 However, I can speak Arabic fluently
I mean yeah if you grow up hearing your parents speak it you’re going to recognize, also a lot of languages are instantly recognizable, like I do not speak Spanish or French but I can tell when someone is speaking it
@@Julian-Moon Guy with the camera is dining at a Vietnamese restaurant. He then proceeds to speak Vietnamese to one of the workers to see their reaction. However, they happen to be of Vietnamese heritage but cannot speak the language itself. Then they explain it to the other employee and so on
Alllot of children brung up in different languages do understand more than they speak 🗣 so Yh she doesn’t speak Vietnamese, I’m Sure she understands allot of words..
That's just one of the phrases you tend to pick up on if your Vietnamese (or, if you're of Northern ancestry, Giời ơi! would be used instead). Even if you're as whitewashed as I am (I can barely say a couple phrases even after taking a semester of Vietnamese in uni).
I shame my older cousins for not speaking Spanish. It’s funny bc I’m one of the favorites of the family so they can’t do shit to me without getting beat by one my tias
@@NguyenThanh-np2mm I never thought of it that way. I was born in Colombia, but both of my adoptive parents are catholic gringos who deadass think America is the greatest country in the world.
She collapsed because she knew that if she brings home this story to her parents, she will get nothing but lectures of "if a white man can speak vietnamese, why can't you?" The desire to tell her parents was strong, the desire to avoid a lecture equally as strong
Language is the most important thing to connect you to your people. Always teach your children their mother tongue. They can handle it and they will thank you for the rest of their lives they are part of that thing
Worse, her parents would go "did you get the white boy's number!?" A white lad who can speak perfect Vietnamese is like the dream husband candidate for their daughter.
Hits a little harder when the reason you don’t speak it is because they wanted you to be successful without an accent and the whole family intentionally didn’t speak it to you.
@@msabedra1ro if u learn both languages at the same Time you will have no accent… 99% of time it’s just laziness on part of parents/ or the kid doesn’t want to learn language because he is embarrassed of it You learn English in school half the day The other half you learn your native tongue at home How are you going to have an accent? I speak from first hand experience😊
I am half-Vietnamese but my mom hardly ever used Vietnamese at home because she wanted us to pass for "regular" white Americans or something. Pretty much all the Vietnamese I know I learned as an adult staying with relatives in Vietnam and I speak with a heavy American accent that is unintelligible to anyone who isn't accustomed to it. I remember being in Hong Kong airport one time and over-hearing a white guy speaking 100% accent-less southern Vietnamese and being mesmerized and a little jealous.
@@phucpham-yummytoasty4610 This was in the decade after the war so she was used to anti-Vietnamese sentiment and wanted to spare us that. But it was a little short-sighted because it wasn't something we would have faced much of in the 90s onward anyway. So it was a decision she came to regret.
@@MultiSneakerLover lol that's quite an assumption. I speak three languages fluently (English, French, and Spanish), am close to fluent in German, and know enough Japanese and Vietnamese to get by. I just wish my mom had taught me from a young age because I find Vietnamese much more difficult than European languages even though I am Vietnamese.
The standing waitress (Maia?) is cracking me up every time i see this. Her face is like, "yeah shes a disgrace. I cant wait to tell everyone about this"
@@cowsshoulddienooffenceexce1204bh , I ask the same things to ppl from my country who could not understand their native language. It is not an insult, I just genuinely wonder “what happened?” What do they talk to their parents with when when they were born 😂
Thinking about it, bless her, as a primarily English speaker, she was probably sent to his table as a way of being an accomodating host! Nothing disrespectful about anything of it, in-fact a beautiful exchange of language and culture. Great video!
@P4rz1va1 it makes your job a lot easier if you sedn a server that is closer to the person ordering. I worked with litalians, Nepalese and Philippinos and if we noticed someone from their country we would send them over. The customer loved it and ther servers got a chance to talk in their native tounge. So it makes sense for veitnamses, Chinese etc restaurant to do the opposite if most of your clients speak the same language as you. You send the most fluent in English to your English speakers
@@Pigeonsandorangesit’s a Vietnamese restaurant in an English speaking country. So all the waiters speak English. Look at the patrons most of them are white sooo I don’t think that mattered too much here
@@Pigeonsandorangeseveryone of their workers would be able to speak english because it’s in an english speaking country i’m guessing england and also pretty sure this would be a family owned buisness something like that
Im half Korean and half Hispanic. I was raised by my Hispanic side of the family. I speak better spanish than a lot of my relatives my age. Some dont speak it at all. Id love to learn Korean
I’m in a completely different situation seeing I’m not Vietnamese, but there are situations where it’s understandable that kids don’t grow up speaking two languages. My Canadian dad married my Dutch mom, and at one point the government wanted to deport my dad and me and my brother. We hadn’t done anything wrong, but he was only allowed in the country due to marrying my mom. They made the conscious decision to not teach us any English, because they aren’t allowed to deport children that don’t speak their second language and have only ever known Dutch etc. It was really hard for me to understand when I was younger, I hated that I couldn’t communicate with half of my family due to this language barrier. But thankfully, growing up in the age of the internet and satellite tv I taught myself English. Now whenever I go and visit my family, the people we talk to can’t tell I’m not from that area. My cousin loves to make people guess, and furthest they’ve guessed is Newfoundland 😂😂. (My family is from Ontario). Of course learning English on your own vs Vietnamese on your own is not the same. So I definitely don’t blame her, but I’m sure her parents had a good reason not to teach her.
She should’ve made the effort and asked her parents to teach her if she really cared about her heritage. Sick and tired of people claiming they are so proud of their heritage yet they know absolutely nothing about it or even speak the language but hey “their proud”😒😒😒
None of them are happy because this was posted without their consent and they are generally low key people. If possible could you please help us get this taken down or mass report please we'd be grateful
She probably heard that gosh alot growing up because she refused to learn her mother tongue 😂. I've gotten that a couple times at powwows when I don't understand my native tongue Only obviously in ojibwe😂
i love that she always have Maia as a friend she can depend on everytime a fellow viet come and order 😂 Maia seems like that reliable friend you can always trust 😂
My mother spoke her native language to me at home while I was growing up but when we went out she would speak English to me so now as an adult I speak two languages fluently. Thank you mom.
It’s definitely a couple of words she knew before she called her co worker. Hence the collapse of shame. 😂😂😂 I’m certain she understood the word “Vietnamese” and probably others. She’s just not fluent. 🤷
They saw a foreigner??? Everybody eating there is a foreigner! Do you think that this restaurant is in Vietnam, with waitresses who don't speak Vietnamese?
I always think it's a shame when parents dont teach children their own natibe tounge. My kids are both bilingual and i can see the benefits as well it gives them confidence.
@@slylover123 It's so frustrating. I apparently understood my parents and would speak when I was younger. After putting me in nursery, preschool, and ESL in kindergarten, my parents only spoke English to me.
@@lmtt123Bro are you dumb? Did you not see the part where she flipped over all those tables and threw the food into the customers faces to support her?
She thought, damn my ancestors now are pissed.
I knooow 😂
She thought "im vietnamese but cant talk viet, how could u not vietnamese but talk viet, ohmygod how low i am" hahaha
That’s my thoughts exactly😂😂
Especially being a colonizer. Im so sure.
@@uwilberforce4628
Whites take the "Colonizer" slur with pride 👍💪 Dominate other cultures with ease.
She instantly felt the shame her parents were trying to tell her about 😅
Her ancestral spirit jumped out of her body
What shame they probably wanted her to speak English. Bet you can't even speak African guess you ain't black enough. This the type of shit that gets on my nerves when other races try to gaslight you for not knowing your native tongue but if you don't speak English then you're some foreigner that doesn't belong in this country. Fucking double standards
😂😂😂😂
Nah, many people don’t care to learn often it’s best because there’s tons of people have nothing good to say in communities and Fcking rude old people
@girano9 there is a difference between 'not speaking' and 'not knowing'. When English became international language, it started dominating developing countries, and people began using it more than the native language and became used to it. So, they can understand everything but struggle to reply.
It breaks my heart how little I've been aware how important it is for people to hear their own language. Never gets old
Language is the sole most important thing that happened to mankind. Without language we'd still be apes.
@@VoidCosmonautthat’s not ture 😂at all it’s the fact we all have different languages that separate us we spend all this time fighting over stupid things because we don’t understand the other if everyone spoke just one language the world would work much better because everyone would have the same thing understanding language is a barrier
Good thing I kept my native language
Bro she couldn’t even understand her own language this ain’t heartwarming if anything it proves languages are dying and new generations are forgetting their cultural history on purpose so in a few decades everything will be the same no uniqueness no diversity all one language and one culture from a generation that forgets, sit back and enjoy the destruction buddy
@@sagisdoodleverse9696not enough people do to keep it alive soon languages will be the thing of the past
"Troi oi" got her 😂😂😂
She probably hears that a lot
What does 'troi oi' mean?
@@michaelwoythaler similar to omg
@tomrake3264 thx Tom 👍
@@michaelwoythaler Similar to "Oh my god" but not mention any specific god or buddha. Trời mean the sky. In this case, it just represent for a godly figgure who rule everything. ANd since everyone could say "Trời ơi" When something unexpected happen (they don't need to believe in any god), it could be translated to "Oh No", Or even "Damn It".
"how ironic" she is so real for that 😭😭😭
"this is very ironic"....🤣😂🤣
😅😅
she sounded british when she said that lol
@@bankfishingislife5484because she is? This is in the UK
And an actually correct use of ironic as well😅😅
she might not speak it but she definitely understands it
Some of it
I don't really speak Spanish but boy my ancestors were made sure know how to understand it
Im haitian, i can understand haitian creole more than i can speak it.
@@colinbarrett3132same
She knows he's speaking it because she's heard it a lot. Doesn't mean she understands it.
"I've been out Vietnamese'd" The irony in that was pure gold. Love her reaction.
Indeed
I will never be out-vietnamese'd again! 🤣
Do you know what irony means? Do any of you UA-cam commenters know lol.
@@jamesbizs is that when you have a wrinkle in your shirt and need to fix it? 😂😂
@@jamesbizs Unless I’m reading this wrong, “a state of affairs or an event that seems deliberately contrary to what one expects and is often amusing as a result”. The irony in the situation which the commenters are pointing out is that the Vietnamese girl cannot speak or understand her native language, while a foreigner can. I believe the comment or was referring to that, not what’s quotations. Of course, I can be wrong, but this is what I can understand.
Damn she felt embarrassed, but she felt appreciated.
Its so wholesome to speak to someone in their mother language, it makes you feel seen
She understood enough to know she needs to get it together 😂😂😂 she's too cute!
He's got good taste.
@@Nobody-df4isweirdo comment
Lol that disapproving "Gosh" at the end hit her hard.
@@Nobody-df4isWhat...?
@samsinghr.539 No. Clearly she is, what's your problem?
She felt her family disowning her.
Haha, disowned by parents , at least 😅
Maybe they should have taught her Vietnamese then…
She feel uh vurry dishonoruhburr
the same family that didn’t teach her the language 😭?
Thank god nobody has ever tried to speak Gaelic or Irish to me.
The “gosh” killed her.
That’s probably one thing she’s heard her parents say a lot, and knew exactly the kinda mood it carries 😂
Exactly what I thought hahaha if her parents saw him speaking Vietnamese I bet they’d turn to her and say the same thing 🤣
Lol
TRỜI ƠI
Yeah, I’m not even Vietnamese but I have a couple of friends that are and that’s the only term I know lol.
It sounds like uncle Roger saying "Haiyya"
Always teach your kids your language... knowing extra languages is always a plus
Yes if Done like that yes
I would agree with you, but sadly that isn't always the case for some people. It's a shame really...
@@JSK3677Surely, not a shame!
Every kid develope differently. If kids around 2 years old couldn't talk (even their parents talked to doctors), would you hope them to learn 1 or 2 languages?
If you say shame on them, people will say shame on you.
There are many different situations and no one needs to tell you about their lives.
@MVcapka I think you misunderstood what i meant but i'll let this slide…
@@JSK3677 I get that.. I meant the people who don't live in their native country. Or even people who just learned multiple languages.. my kid is about to turn 15 and she speaks more languages fluent then I do.. 🤣
The way the coworker said “how ironic” 😭😭😭 that shade was PERSONAL.
has to be a sibling or sumn LOLL
...but statement so apt.
I was definitely getting bigger sister vibes.
Somewhere, Alanis is going "Oh, that's what ironic means...oops."
that ‘goosh’
Being able to speak several languages is a literal superpower.
Just for Americans 😂 most Europeans speak few languages
@@FitFatFityeah because your countries are so jam packed together It
Would be weird if you didnt
What @FitFatFit said. Most people in the world are multilingual, and most countries speak several languages.
For example, do you know what the second biggest Spanish speaking country in the world is? Yep. The United States.
@@zweaqtea6466 Not really. Countries in asia are also jam packed together and they rarely speak eachothers language.
@@FitFatFit me as a latino (south america) living in europe speaking many languages that I learned on my own: *confusion*
“I’m being out-Vietnamese’d “ 😂😂 that girl funny
That was her wake up call to learn it lol
Being out-Vietnamese'd by a non-Vietnamese as a Vietnamese gotta be the ultimate shame
@@imHIM112There's no shame in not knowing a language
@@ethenstokes7608 yes let's just grunt and make hand gestures
@@ethenstokes7608yes it is, it’s embarrassing
sweet lady asking her if shes ok.❤
Her coworker threw shade so fast 😂
ikr, it's funny but at the same time dude was being fairly rude.
@@redwolf4611he's teasing. In Southeast Asian culture, even a stranger can tease you as long as it's in good fun. But ofc, it can be seen as rude and crossing boundaries depending on the people involved, or to the onlooker.
@@redwolf4611lots of people get teased when they don't speak their native language. I think it's meant in good fun
HONESTLY YEAH 😂😂
@@fie5607 Westerners (regardless of race) getting offended on behalf of other cultures that wouldn't find [the topic] offensive is standard these days lol
And I'm British btw, everything is soft and annoying AF these days haha
That “how ironic” was hella personal 😂
I think she's just dry as hell. I fw it tho.
@@Dommy11of course you do she was fine as hell lmao
Tell me you are "asian american" without telling me you are "asian american"
But as I am a Javanese, live in Java. But I cant speak Javanese😢 only fluent in Indonesia and English, how horrible I am
@@hamidbarnabusthey sound American to you??
As a Vietnamese that “trời ơi” was personal 💀💀
I caught that, she's like "You don't get she can't understand? Damn!"
Yes based on her reaction too😂
Why do I hear the 'tr' as 'c'. It sounded like 'choi oi'. Is there any rule to pronounce it?
@@ieyazzu9297 maybe this is an accent, because some Vietnamese pronounce wrong "tr" , so " troi oi" or " choi oi" is the same one, there no rule to pronounce it, i think 😂
@@ieyazzu9297 most southern Vietnamese are too lazy to pronounce the "tr" so they just went with an easier alternative "ch", it also sound a little more intimate
Basically you can switch "tr" for a "ch" and no one would complain, just don't switch "ch" with "tr"
This interaction is so genuine and awesome! From her dropping because someone’s talking to her in Vietnamese , to everyone checking up on her as soon as she drops! So wholesome!
The trauma in that drop 😂 Poor girl was feeling the ancestors and fams judgment in a split second
Phams*
For me both of my parents are immigrants and both speak fluent Spanish
My dad doesn’t speak English and my mom is bilingual
As a full blood Mexican
It hurts that I can’t speak Spanish it honestly breaks my pride and whatever is part of me into small pieces😭😭
@@Carpets_are_nice556L learn Spanish dumby
@@Carpets_are_nice556Póngase a aprender español pues
If that is so bad, how come you all in the US don't speak Spanish, French, German etc.?
The friend is the star here, because “that’s ironic” had perfect comedic timing. 10/10 👏🏾
That's her sister.
Facts 😂
The ironic part here is that the man speaking Viet is a western person 😂
@@huzaifaarsalanwho tf cares like why comment that
@@GR-iz4rh you do apparently.
She might not speak Vietnamese but she definitely understood that “Gosh” 😂
Because her parents speak it, she hear it at home but can't speak it herself. The generation.
@@jamesjackson9606relatives probably tell her that too lol
@@jamesjackson9606 Woah no shit thanks for the breakdown Euclid
@@jamesjackson9606 s o c i e t y
My thinking too.
I hope my kids will get to understand my mother tongue someday.
That's adorable.She stayed down there the whole conversation😂
The "How ironic" was expertly timed and delivered, along with the disappointed facial expression haha
😂😂😂😂😂
I love how she understood that "gosh". She felt the disappointment all over again 😂😭
I know lowkey was the funniest part😂
Holy fuck you live 5000ft under the ground
So much shade in that how ironic 😂😂
Her coworker looked so disappointed in her when she said, ”How ironic.” 😂😂😂
Her coworker has a very attractive voice underrated***!! feature iMO
@@ulisesgonzalez8968I hope you mean underrated 😅
@@ulisesgonzalez8968bruh said underage features wtf
@@ulisesgonzalez8968🧐📸📸📸
@@ulisesgonzalez8968Bro what
I like how her coworker immediately came to see if she was okay 😊
Maybe coworkers ofc, but I think they're sisters as well. He asks about the parents, and the one that does understand, basically confirmed the other just didn't learn the language from them.
They're family
she called her
How is that something good?
Dude speaks Vietnamese and she instantly assumes something is wrong?
How is that good?
@@capitaldcolon1795 you’re not even paying attention to the videos you’re just talking to talk. She’s asking her sister what’s wrong bc she’s bent down and probably couldn’t tell if she was crying or laughing and the sister wasn’t there for the conversation to begin with so ofc asking what’s wrong is the right question, to understand what lead the sister to react that way. Pay attention especially if you’re going to comment on it!!!
dawg love how you put every thing in chapters!! It makes the whole series feel more connected
She can’t speak it but she recognized it IMMEDIATELY! 😂
I’m like this with Amharic, Tigrinya, and Oromo. I don’t bother telling ppl im Ethiopian/Eritrean bc I don’t want to explain why I can’t speak it 😅 However, I can speak Arabic fluently
I mean yeah if you grow up hearing your parents speak it you’re going to recognize, also a lot of languages are instantly recognizable, like I do not speak Spanish or French but I can tell when someone is speaking it
@@ladiibug3318Where are you from? I’m from Eritrea but I can’t speak Tigrinya unfortunately. I can only speak fluent English.
I don't speak a foreign language but recognize them just Luke features I can read your bloodline ancestorsial or land you came from...
She probably understands everything but doesn't speak it. Believe it or not understanding a language and speaking it can be very different things.
Not her coworker coming for her without a single second of hesitation, she was ready and had that one clocked 😂
And she came with the attitude too, "what's going on here 🤨"
Trouble solver at it's finest 🙌🏼💕
I mean she looked at her coworker and said her name twice…
Co workee is fine as fuck in that tight little turtle neck with the glasses 😍
Probably been wanting to address the subject since the first day they met. 😂😂
Said it like a sister
That immediate “are you ok?” is what makes this video great.
Please can you explain to me what’s going on!? I’m a bit confused 😮
@@Julian-Moon A waitress fell like she has a heart attack and people are not ignorant and quickly react by checking if she’s ok.
Right
@@ViTAR30What?
@@Julian-Moon Guy with the camera is dining at a Vietnamese restaurant. He then proceeds to speak Vietnamese to one of the workers to see their reaction. However, they happen to be of Vietnamese heritage but cannot speak the language itself. Then they explain it to the other employee and so on
It's incredible and unique in the world that there are people who speak and understand a language other than their mother tongue.
the way she was suffering after each sentence he spoke in Vietnamese 😂😂
She was dealt psychic damage
It was like a vine boom each time
He spokes VERY WEIRD VIETNAMESE. TERRIBLE ACCENT, SORRY I CAN"T MAKE OUT what he is saying. FROM A VIETNAMESE PERSON.
@@claudeloiThe girl's Viatnamese was EVEN WEIRDER! Her accent was COMPLETELY SILENT. I couldn't hear a SINGLE WORD, and she's A VIETNAMESE PERSON!
@@claudeloiim vietnamese and i understand all what he was saying 😆
I love the fact that she used "ironic" more accurately than 90% of people that speak English as a FIRST language.
Generally speaking it's become quite the occasion to encounter people actually understanding the concept of irony
Palpatine taught me how to use it correctly LOL
Ehhh. Pedants ignore the existence of cosmic irony. Which changes the meaning.
Id assume english is her first language
I believe English is her first language.
I love how she understood the exclamation of disappointment at the end. She’s definitely heard that disapproving sound before to have that reaction 😂
Hahahahaha I had the exact same thought. Too funny
Alllot of children brung up in different languages do understand more than they speak 🗣 so Yh she doesn’t speak Vietnamese, I’m
Sure she understands allot of words..
Even the tone you just knew it was disappointment 😂
That's just one of the phrases you tend to pick up on if your Vietnamese (or, if you're of Northern ancestry, Giời ơi! would be used instead).
Even if you're as whitewashed as I am (I can barely say a couple phrases even after taking a semester of Vietnamese in uni).
@@zainabstewartstewart9585 that’s exactly how my Vietnamese friend is, he understands his parents word for word but has no clue how to speak it
You can see the exact moment that " you are not vietnamese" caused extreme emotional damage 😂
The big sis shaming, that’s true sibling relationship right there 😂😂
Who says they're sisters?
I shame my older cousins for not speaking Spanish. It’s funny bc I’m one of the favorites of the family so they can’t do shit to me without getting beat by one my tias
@@popepimpleromg you’re like super cool
Bro assuming they siblings cause they both Asian lol wild
@@popepimplerwoah, you're awesome.
The second girl is one of those dry humour friends that is funny as hell but never laughs 😂
"You are Vietnamese". 😅
Like all the CSI male leads 😜
Sometimes that's me
People forget their roots, which is American assimilation.
@@NguyenThanh-np2mm I never thought of it that way. I was born in Colombia, but both of my adoptive parents are catholic gringos who deadass think America is the greatest country in the world.
“ive been out vietnamesed”😭
I never realized that was a thing until now.
@@ganghielit never was but it is now
That shitz funny lol
Ive beeen out 'named
I will never be outvit again
“How ironic” something tells me she’s been clowned for this before
Big sis was shaming her 😂
No, that guy was language-shaming her, Big Sis stepped in to help, as she obviously was stressed out. Shame on him for posting this.
@fiyalka interesting take
@@SuperAmericanismseriously delusional
@@fiyalka how the fuck was that language shaming?
@@fiyalka "language shaming"??? Do you even know what that means or do you just throw around random terms around wherever you want?
The lady's "How ironic" with a straight face just makes my day. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nail salon treatment is turning tables.
@@yayvey Yeah! 🤣🤣🤣
Aubrey Plaza Energy
She's judging her co-worker for not knowing her mother tongue, it's very Asian lol
It's the reason I watched it twice. Got some good laughs from that bit.
She collapsed because she knew that if she brings home this story to her parents, she will get nothing but lectures of "if a white man can speak vietnamese, why can't you?"
The desire to tell her parents was strong, the desire to avoid a lecture equally as strong
She doesn’t speak Vietnamese because her parents didn’t speak it to her!!!!!
Language is the most important thing to connect you to your people. Always teach your children their mother tongue. They can handle it and they will thank you for the rest of their lives they are part of that thing
Worse, her parents would go "did you get the white boy's number!?"
A white lad who can speak perfect Vietnamese is like the dream husband candidate for their daughter.
@@matasa7463😂😂😂that's sad
they always act like that but they never even bothered teaching me either
I need her as a friend 😂 1st se was concerned about her but after understanding then proceeded with the "How ironic..." 😂
She definitely understood the last part 🤣🤣
Yes she understood enough to make her feel like she missed a golden opportunity 😅
Well its the tone, not hard
I mean every vietnamese person should know what Ối Trời Ơi means even if you can't speak it.
Something like Chinese haaya
"I'm being out-Vietnamesed" has me dead 😂💀
I didnt catch that until I read that lol lol
@thaongothi1302i think you need to flip them sentences so they make sense.
😂😂😂😂😂 her soul left her body lol
@@Stevesndkayla218dude😂
You KNOW she heard that last one a lot growing up 😂 literally floored her
As a Filipino dude raised in Singapore I can relate 💀
I think he had her weak in the knees in different ways 😏
i’m chinese but don’t speak mandarin but i literally understand the phrase “she doesn’t understand?” 😭
Her shame was pulling her down hahaha.
As an asian who grew up/raised in russia this hits too hard 😭
The "Gosh" sent her. She definetly heard that before from her parents LMAO
Nah she definitely understood the “trời ơi” 😂😂
😂😂
Got em! - master viet
I can hear uncle roger saying that
dang i thought it was a bad world my whole life....
Her grand parents probably say that to her 😂
There is a certain amount of pain you feel not being able to speak your parents native language
Hits a little harder when the reason you don’t speak it is because they wanted you to be successful without an accent and the whole family intentionally didn’t speak it to you.
Unfortunately my grandmother didn't want any of us to speak Japanese when she left. "We American now"
@@msabedra1ro if u learn both languages at the same Time you will have no accent…
99% of time it’s just laziness on part of parents/ or the kid doesn’t want to learn language because he is embarrassed of it
You learn English in school half the day
The other half you learn your native tongue at home
How are you going to have an accent?
I speak from first hand experience😊
@@MegaJohn334i second this! I spoke Spanish at home and French in school and now I have no accent in either
@@msabedra1ive never heard that once in my life.
The fact homegirl literally said “I’ve been out vietnamessed” 💀💀
Right? 😅
She called Maia like 😭
Yes😂
Her fams be like "how ironic?!?" 😂
And I’ll never be outvietnamesed again 😂
I wish it were possible to speak, and understand all languages. It would unite us. But there is respect knowing someone studied it.
She just balled right up lol
I knooow lol
She damn squat like a Vietnamese
I wish I could solve my life problems like that 😂
she's not Vietnamese, she identifies as a pangolin.
@@kamoteph273🤣
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and she was on duolingo the next day "
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂LMAO
Do they teach bbl drizzy in viet?
I'm literally doing that with Spanish my fam's Hispanic but I'm struggling to learn I'm getting there though
@@RebeccaMuniz Duolingo is cool. I have practiced lots of Spanish on there but also use other apps.
@@RebeccaMuniz your not the only one I'm in a desert and that's the only language here and it's the main language here.
I am half-Vietnamese but my mom hardly ever used Vietnamese at home because she wanted us to pass for "regular" white Americans or something. Pretty much all the Vietnamese I know I learned as an adult staying with relatives in Vietnam and I speak with a heavy American accent that is unintelligible to anyone who isn't accustomed to it. I remember being in Hong Kong airport one time and over-hearing a white guy speaking 100% accent-less southern Vietnamese and being mesmerized and a little jealous.
Your mom... i dont mean any hate but she seems narrow-minded for not speaking viet for that reason.
@@phucpham-yummytoasty4610 This was in
the decade after the war so she was used to anti-Vietnamese sentiment and wanted to spare us that. But it was a little short-sighted because it wasn't something we would have faced much of in the 90s onward anyway. So it was a decision she came to regret.
What a smart mom now you are just a classic american that only speaks english💀
My brothers are half Vietnamese as well but my stepdad never taught them or my mom anything so they don't know any of the language either
@@MultiSneakerLover lol that's quite an assumption. I speak three languages fluently (English, French, and Spanish), am close to fluent in German, and know enough Japanese and Vietnamese to get by. I just wish my mom had taught me from a young age because I find Vietnamese much more difficult than European languages even though I am Vietnamese.
theyre both very pretty
The standing waitress (Maia?) is cracking me up every time i see this. Her face is like, "yeah shes a disgrace. I cant wait to tell everyone about this"
lol dead ass
妈呀 thats Chinese。 so she’s maybe chinese
"Maia" is "oh god" or "goodness gracious" type feels.
@@aolilee845 ... doubt it. seems obvious she failed her Vietnamese parents.
hahaha
I love how the other girl calmly explained it in Vietnamese again. Her face is like "apparently you don't understand English so lemme say it again."
true just realized he was not listening to her at all 😂
@@wingomadeitdidnt he ask abt the parents in viet not the girl which he alr knew?
@@wingomadeithe was really impressed with himself
Fr
@@cowsshoulddienooffenceexce1204bh , I ask the same things to ppl from my country who could not understand their native language. It is not an insult, I just genuinely wonder “what happened?” What do they talk to their parents with when when they were born 😂
I love how the both of them dissed her in front of her 🤣 that’s asian love right there ❤️🔥
I'm dying lol
He's a white guy.
And she can't even tell what they're saying bcs they're dissing her in Vietnamese 💀
The person recording is a fellow white man.
@@inigochicanoI think she knows the gist of what's being said.
as a vietnamese, you made me smile 😂
I UNDERSTAND HER SO WELL. MY PARENTS ARE VIETNAMESE BUT I DON’T SPEAK IT😭
I have Vietnamese friends here in Australia and there grown up children don't speak Vietnamese.
@@aaaaaaaa-gu1mdthat’s why you’re grandpa was trying to teach you Japanese , do you would understand it as you grew older.
how whyyy :'((
SAMEEE- IM VIETNAMESE BUT I DONT SPEAK OR UNDERSTAND A SINGLE THING. ONLY THE FOOD 😭
Same. I understand more then I can speak.. I have to say in English.. lol
Thinking about it, bless her, as a primarily English speaker, she was probably sent to his table as a way of being an accomodating host! Nothing disrespectful about anything of it, in-fact a beautiful exchange of language and culture. Great video!
She was probably sent to his table to get his order. I don't think they were ratially profiling her.
Fake white washed asian. Should be ashamed of herself.
@P4rz1va1 it makes your job a lot easier if you sedn a server that is closer to the person ordering. I worked with litalians, Nepalese and Philippinos and if we noticed someone from their country we would send them over. The customer loved it and ther servers got a chance to talk in their native tounge. So it makes sense for veitnamses, Chinese etc restaurant to do the opposite if most of your clients speak the same language as you. You send the most fluent in English to your English speakers
@@Pigeonsandorangesit’s a Vietnamese restaurant in an English speaking country. So all the waiters speak English. Look at the patrons most of them are white sooo I don’t think that mattered too much here
@@Pigeonsandorangeseveryone of their workers would be able to speak english because it’s in an english speaking country i’m guessing england and also pretty sure this would be a family owned buisness something like that
I like how her coworker was ready to take him down if he was causing problems 😂
I thought they were sisters
That's how they do in 'nam
She’s a Real One.
I thought that was her mother
Shiver me timbers
This is cute as hell. Bless her heart she was so embarrassed. ♥️
LMFAOOO I love that chick she said “how ironic” without missing a beat!!
I'm wondering if that was her mom. Lol she looks pretty young tho
Nah. Watched again. Probably a big sister. Lol
Shameefuurr displaayy
@@kma12389definitely her mom. Asian moms have kids young if they get married young and they look young too.
Congrats, I'm your 1,000th like.
that was the cutest panic attack i've seen in a while.
Bro chill
@@danielstellwag3081bro responds to a 1 month old comment
@@fondbeebboop9705I've seen responses to 10 year old comments. Crazy, no?
@@fondbeebboop9705 there's no time limit, it's UA-cam......chill bro
Ayyyy
The “how ironic” killed me
😂😂😂 she through some sass on it for sure
SAME HAHAHAHHA
Hahah me too, some undertones of shade thrown in there
I think I fell in love just from her saying that 🤣🤣🤣
Im half Korean and half Hispanic. I was raised by my Hispanic side of the family. I speak better spanish than a lot of my relatives my age. Some dont speak it at all. Id love to learn Korean
Most wholesome interaction ever. Thx for that, made my day after a f... hard one 😃
Well if her parents speak Vietnamese and didn’t teach her, can’t really blame her. It’s a hard language to learn on your own…
I can’t argue with that 💯
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I’m in a completely different situation seeing I’m not Vietnamese, but there are situations where it’s understandable that kids don’t grow up speaking two languages. My Canadian dad married my Dutch mom, and at one point the government wanted to deport my dad and me and my brother. We hadn’t done anything wrong, but he was only allowed in the country due to marrying my mom. They made the conscious decision to not teach us any English, because they aren’t allowed to deport children that don’t speak their second language and have only ever known Dutch etc. It was really hard for me to understand when I was younger, I hated that I couldn’t communicate with half of my family due to this language barrier. But thankfully, growing up in the age of the internet and satellite tv I taught myself English. Now whenever I go and visit my family, the people we talk to can’t tell I’m not from that area. My cousin loves to make people guess, and furthest they’ve guessed is Newfoundland 😂😂. (My family is from Ontario). Of course learning English on your own vs Vietnamese on your own is not the same. So I definitely don’t blame her, but I’m sure her parents had a good reason not to teach her.
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She should’ve made the effort and asked her parents to teach her if she really cared about her heritage. Sick and tired of people claiming they are so proud of their heritage yet they know absolutely nothing about it or even speak the language but hey “their proud”😒😒😒
"trời ơi" *hits the chair in Vietnamese*
She heard her parents in that one... lmao
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I died 😂
@@narhi551 người gốc việt nhma ko biết nói tiếng việt, it's simple
@@narhi551 anh chàng người Mỹ nói tiếng Việt với cố gái gốc việt ko biết tiếng Việt. cố gái người việt sốc khi nghe tiếng Việt
The "trời ơi" at the end, i confirm you speak Vietnamese very fluently
As a foreigner.. it’s one of the first things you learn haha
@@son_o_daymeaning?
What does it mean?
@@AlchemistOfNirnroot It's like omg!
@@AlchemistOfNirnroot it's mean ''Oh damn'' or''Oh god''
I'm glad some people can still laugh about this and not be offended.
I know it’s only a small thing but I love how her colleague immediately asks if she’s ok!
I mean she did drop to her knees and call her name 😂 im pretty sure anyone would think something is wrong
Omg get a hold of yourself
None of them are happy because this was posted without their consent and they are generally low key people. If possible could you please help us get this taken down or mass report please we'd be grateful
@@shancxkai Yes we are low key. Please delete video and many thanks.
@@shancxkaido you know them?
That "GOSH" in Vietnamese and her reaction....😭😂 Made my day.
Shoyooyyyy 😂
She probably heard that gosh alot growing up because she refused to learn her mother tongue 😂. I've gotten that a couple times at powwows when I don't understand my native tongue Only obviously in ojibwe😂
The sounds of disappointment 😂
His reaction is actually “Oh Heavens”
if the guy wasn’t white her reaction would be totally different . Just neutral i’d say
The way she just melted 😂
Felt her Asian mom's disappointment all the way from Vietnam
😂
And the second girl didn’t give a fuck lol
So cute
that's what us dinosaurs call: embarrassment ;)
私は福岡出身で大学時代からアジアの海外の友人が多くて大学時代は中国、台湾に留学しました。大学卒業してからは5年東京で働きました。東京に住んだ時は国際シェアハウスに住んでたので、色んな国の人とたくさん関わってきました。
ゆなさんが言ってること、何か上っ面て言葉わかりすぎて笑いがでました😅
今はベトナムで働いています。英語も中国語も話しますが、個人的な感覚ですが中華圏の人は人と気軽に議論したり熱い話するのにら慣れてると感じます。私がそれが大好きです。
日本の人は普通あまりオープンにすぐには話さないから、特に東京は大都市だし距離感あるのはたぶんしょうがないですね！笑
なので私は絶対東京には住みません😅
小さい都市のが合ってるのかもですね！
福岡結構オープンですよ！アジアの玄関口ですし👍ぜひ一時的にでも住んでみてください〜
The panic of calling for Maia as if to ask an adult for help and Maia just reacting like a knowing mom like " Yeah, I knew thisd happen"
That reaction is gross lol
"Thisd" is the funniest thing I've read in a while
@@Rizziculous huh
@@Rizziculousthe fuck are you on about
That side eye from the coworker as she said “HOW IRONIC” 😂😂
That coworker is 100% her sister 😂 I have no doubts
They are sisters
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Such a beautiful language
The way she smile
If you talk about vietnames so nahh its not :))
@@mynamejeff4656Languages are all beyond beauty, don't disrespect what you don't know.
WHAT? This language sounds genuinely CLUNKY
@@talornguyen5516well for me languages are just like music, dislike it doesn’t mean anything, you can still appreciate and respect the culture.
Love they guys learning basic and then making videos to show off 😂
Its the fact i struggle to translate what my parents are saying but universally know “gosh” is so relatable 😭
Lol yeah she felt that disappointment 😂😂😂
I can't imagine not being able to understand my own parents 💀
@@morningivyI think it's more like when they get excited or upset and start talking to fast they struggle to keep up.
Well you don’t live in vietnam anymore
@@keyanklupacs6333 im so glad we communicate in English cause at family gatherings I have no idea what they all are saying 😭
i love that she always have Maia as a friend she can depend on everytime a fellow viet come and order 😂 Maia seems like that reliable friend you can always trust 😂
i thought it was her sister
Lol mía came so quick and she had that look like what the mess are you doing to my friend you better leave her alone?
He isn’t Vietnamese. That was one of the whole points of the video
Fr, Miai has her back.
As a Vietnamese guy who doesn't speak Vietnamese, that "how ironic" hurt me to my core and gave me traumatic flashbacks through my entire life
U should learn your native tongue foo
why dont you start learning it? dont be a disgrace to your ancestors
He is right. Ya should be ashamed not to speak your mother tongue
@@HeroInTheSun don't shame us. shame the parents for not teaching us or pushing us into studying it.
@@happypie_08doesn’t neglect that you can learn in now yourself as an individual.
The way she says "How ironic" tickles my brain for no particular reason.
She recognized when he said Gosh tho. She’s definitely heard that before lol
Many Vietnamese children whether they understand the language or not have heard that phrase before 😂
My mother spoke her native language to me at home while I was growing up but when we went out she would speak English to me so now as an adult I speak two languages fluently. Thank you mom.
Your native lingo is .......
That’s how you do it
@@saupin002American probably
Lmao I wish, my parents never spoke to me in their native language but I still found a way to learn 3 languages.. except my parents native language. 😅
I wish my family would have done that and kept their language but my grandmother is embarrassed of being german.
That "gosh" in Vietnamese took her back to her childhood immediately.
It’s never too late to start learning!
She heard the one thing I'm sure she understood at the very end and lost it 😂
Yes!
Done heard that one a million times😂😂😂
the tone they said it didnt help lol
It’s definitely a couple of words she knew before she called her co worker. Hence the collapse of shame. 😂😂😂
I’m certain she understood the word “Vietnamese” and probably others. She’s just not fluent. 🤷
Her reaction was priceless and her co-worker that came to her defense was comedic with how ironic. Priceless the whole seed was.
LMAOOOOO he hit her with the CHOI OIIII
it is troi oi xD wrong ch bro 😂
Yeah, I usually type "choi oi" when chit chat with my friend
@@RyderNguyen it mean different xD
trời ơi !!! *
Mọi người bắt bẻ mà sao bắt bẻ sai thế tội bạn chủ thớt :)))) chời ơi là ngôn ngữ mạng thôi mà :)))))
They're both gorgeous
Biggest respect for people who learn another language or multiple. That’s huge! Making me wanna study languages
Singaporean here. We are all billingual by default and we take on another few dialects too. 😮 5 languages lol
@diablo4343 I have a cousin that speaks 5 different languages. She taught her daughter to speak the same languages by the time she was 6 years old.
No reason everyone speaks English we've conquered the world with our central bank system
Americans don't realize that they are the odd ones out
@@joh1997dude Americans don't care because we run the world and the world revolves around English
They saw a foreigner and sent out their best english speaker only for her to get humbled 😭😭😭
0:17 "I've been out-vietnamesed" 😂
They saw a foreigner???
Everybody eating there is a foreigner! Do you think that this restaurant is in Vietnam, with waitresses who don't speak Vietnamese?
@@allendracabal0819yeah what is bro on she clearly would of understood if this was vietnam
its australia its a fucking english speaking country
@@lleheer752what does Australia have to do with this?
She was thinking “damnnn I don’t even speak vietnamese, and this guy can??” 💀💀💀💀
I always think it's a shame when parents dont teach children their own natibe tounge. My kids are both bilingual and i can see the benefits as well it gives them confidence.
That's how I always feel when a non Hispanic person speaks Spanish I'm like damnit 😭😅
How ironic, right?
She did the absolute most
Every first gen child who doesn’t speak the language relates 😭😭
Yeah I'm tired of people telling me I'm not truly of the culture because I don't speak the culture
@@slylover123They are right.
@@slylover123they are right
@@leredditcommander8208why don’t you teach it to them then?
@@slylover123 It's so frustrating. I apparently understood my parents and would speak when I was younger. After putting me in nursery, preschool, and ESL in kindergarten, my parents only spoke English to me.
I like that her coworker came over immediately to support her.
The girl called out her name and called her over. Nothing philanthropic about it
@@lmtt123 why you so mean, didn't you see how she jumped over all those tables to come to support her?
@@lmtt123Bro are you dumb? Did you not see the part where she flipped over all those tables and threw the food into the customers faces to support her?
@wolimSe How is that mean little snowflake
Yeah she's so sweet. ❤People stop hating cause your jealous lol
After a long time, I am seeing an unstaged video.
Her expressions are pure and cute
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