Thank you. I just went through everything you described. Unbelievable how accurate you are. I watched 5 of your videos and they really helped me alot. I was feeling exactly like you say but your videos really helped me understand both sides. Thamk You. Thank You
Don't kid yourself,the narcissist knows Exactly what they are deviously doing to you.!!! Fakes through & through. They have multiple pump & dumps....open your eyes to WHO THEY REALLY ARE.😈
I used to be that new supply for almost 6 years and I figured it out 2 yrs prior and lived with the constant mental abuse before leaving him, so it’s so true about the new supply after a number of years, they could very well be getting the emotional abuse.
@@Confessions089 That is a fact. Take the time while they are absent to heal. It is the first line of defense from future abuse/attacks. I have no doubt the narcs removed from my life may return but I will never be the person they first met or knew when I left. I placed my focus on healing myself from every trauma and way of being/thinking I could identify that lowered my defenses and allowed them into my life/kept them in my life for way too long. Abandonment, people pleasing, tolerating bad behavior/enabling to keep the peace, parents teachings, societies norms/expectations, being my worst critic, caring too much how others feel and think about me, dysregulation within my mind and body that was created thru our relationship...... Best to you in building your self defense while being kind patient accepting and understanding to yourself to remove thoughts, patterns/cycles and emotions that are not serving you to become the best version of yourself and leave you vulnerable to others projection and manipulation. You are perfectly enough even when working towards being a better version of yourself. You are worth all the time and energy you put into yourself to create and live your best life. Sorry for being long winded but my heart is telling me someone needs to read this to persue their best interests and have faith in themselves.
I hope the new supply stands up to the Narcissist quicker than I did and really tells him what she thinks of him before walking away! It's a test, and everyone here has come through it, no matter how bruised we feel, we made it and should be proud of ourselves. ❤️🕯️
The longer I’m away from toxic situations the more I never want to experience it. It’s not our job to worry about the new supply(ies), but I did in the beginning of my healing process. We can’t be doing damage control for everyone else while caring for ourselves properly. And we really need to focus on ourselves. It brings so much clarity. Thank you Andrew ❤🙏
I was once the "New Supply." I sensed after the discard, the Narc would do the same to others. A few months after the discard, I got a hoover call, saying: "You are the only one who appreciates Me." Right. EZ read- the new supply(s) picked up on it faster than I did. That's the power of this education , I only "sensed it" and now after all these years, I find there IS a pattern in these narcissistic behaviors. That, and realizing I never fully understood what "manipulation" really meant and the coldness, greed and ruthless exploitation that came with it. I wish everyone safe distance from these types and a healing, that may reward you by becoming a stronger, wiser person than you've ever been. Thanks, Andrew!
@@suesanders1169 Thanks, Family! I read comments from all of you and appreciate them all-- upbeat comments and ones laying it out on the table with sadder tales of abusive encounters . There's newbies who are just beginning to get the message. All of it will help them, as well as those well down the path to healing. Keep posting!
The new supply is in our shoes now. I wouldnt wish it on anybody. Thank you Andrew, as always. We need to practice self care, as we heal from the wounds the relationship inflicted on us and from other past hurts, that may have opened the door to us being in a relationship with one of these toxic individuals.. We will all heal in our own time. Stay strong everyone! 🙏🌸🌸🌸
New supply to my dad after he scuppered off. I felt really sorry for her after I realized everything he was up to (sneaky person), but she did not seem able to believe any of it. Just in general. I did not think it would do any good to tell her, or I would have. I did try to tell her about another family member, but she seemed to just not be able to believe it. I don't blame her, she got hoodwinked. And narcs scope out their new victim really well, having experimented on us first. She needed time. If shed had it, she would have caught on I think.
The new supply is now on the narcissist relationship agenda. They do this with everyone they want. No difference. It will end up horribly. I don't wish this on anyone. Im free and forever grateful for this and that Im safe from this abuse forever because Im a different person now. Still doing the work and always will. Stay strong 💪
New supply knew the narc ex was treating her with lavish gifts and holidays while our children and I were evicted from our home with no money and huge debts he left us. She still married him for her own high maintenance life thinking she would milk him for his money. She played herself. She married a narc.
Absolutely terrifying to me is the poor older woman with whom he has gone on to. I had kick him out of my life/house due to the abuse I had suffered. She had posted a ad for a person to place their live in trailer in exchange for a person to take care of her handicapped son a few nights a week. Imagine the horror this woman and her son have had to endure. 😢 He has been out of my life for over a year and I still haven’t recovered. Probably never will, but best revenge is living a good life, believing in your self worth. Something they will never have.
My Ex also get,I don't know how often he changed new supplies. He's getting older,he found a way to contact me. He want to hoover me as a second new supply. I blocked him and think,did he believe I'm crazy going through that again,knowing there is someone else. The only thing is,I'm sompletely clear,same thing happened to me,as you talled us. No hoover,never ever. Simply hard times for me These days,but I'm moving forward.
To be honest; whatever she is doing, and who ever she is doing it all with now' Is their problem now not mine. One week after changing my phone number now. I still continue to get more clarity and simple understanding and revelations that make me palm slap my face.
I know a lot of us experienced the narcissist’s evil eyes, dead eyes, filled with rage, etc. but I have two distinct memories of a time where when things were really good, and he looked at me with the sweetest look. I think anybody has ever given me, and it was like he was melting and in love with me and I always think back to those times because I had never felt more connected or seen by a person in my life. It was like we were exchanging energy now. Obviously I think it’s possible. He was just sucking the life out of me but I was wondering, did anybody ever have these like intense eye contact moments with their narcissist that were seemingly pleasant and loving?
And yes, there's always an ergetic exchange, that's exactly for what they targeting someone. Sorry, it is chastening, but that's the "nature" of a toxic or narcissistic "relationship" - which is of course no - . Kind regards🫂💐
Yes. I had the long loving looks filled with desire in the early months. He melted my heart, His eyes were so warm and twinkly. As the relationship moved on I also began to see complete indifference in those same eyes that I had seen such love. It’s really tough, but it’s no use reminiscing about the past and early months. That person was all fake. I am still living with my now ex narc, who within 4 weeks was out on dates and staying out. He has zero compassion or respect or any sense of decency. He said I ended it, it’s all on me. I have days where I struggle massively with my own self esteem, but I am watching channels like this and it helps massively, as one day I will be totally free of him and I will put him completely out of my mind and I will go on and have a better life. He meanwhile will end up likely all alone. Karma
I refused the Hoovers. Dinner, movies etc. The narcissist cannot be alone. Therefore, New and recycled supplies. His new supplies are drug addicts and so is he. “Pagan place” Heart breaking! But nothing I can do. I’m glad it’s not me. Have to focus on me and my healing. Thank You Andrew 🙏
Yes, I remember those days. My heart breaks for the "new supply" ...she is about to go on the wildest most destructive ride of her life. Hope she makes it out of there. Blessings to all! ❤
@@flyawaybutterflyhealingchannel Yes, and she has a little daughter ....is going to be very difficult for her...💞 💞Sending prayers on behalf of all the people still being victimized by the "narcs". ♥
@@lysaholly No they wouldn't believe us. The smear campaign took care of that. Thank you for your kind words and you also have a wonderful rest of your day! ♥
@@lysaholly People do not believe us. I told my good girlfriend that the new guy was lying to her and using her and she told me not to be jealous and be happy for her. She learned her lesson. He took her money, cheated on her, etc.
I am so stunned by your teaching. I remember specifically when he told me about this other woman as he called her. I replied to him.”Tell her that her days are numbered. Not realizing that I was right. I thank God for allowing me to find your channel Andrew. God continue to bless you with wisdom.🙏🏾😊
Great video Andrew! No matter what the new supply is experiencing, nothing ever changes about the narcissist. That's the important part to remember..... Wishing everyone clarity and peace.
That's right. No fear of him changing and treating her better and giving her the things you wanted and needed. No jealousy or hate towards the new supply , just pity and fear for her.
Great video Andrew. Well to be honest I don't care what that person is going through, I mean the day I was discarded I was left in the street alone no place to go no money no friends I was afraid and alone the narcissist called him and he drove up looked at me like I was garbage. My ex narcissist said I'll be right back don't worry. He got in the car with him and he never came back. He ignored all my calls and texts. Imagine how broken I was at that very moment I almost didn't survive. Thank God I survived and I chose to block the narcissist and ignore every attempt he made to try and contact me. So I really don't care about the new supply, right now. The only thing I can say is be careful what you wish for. He can keep him. Thank you Andrew for the video and thank you everyone for your kind words. Stay strong everyone.
"All that glitters isn't gold". The Narcissist is like a child, throwing away his old toy in pursuit of attaining the new toy. But we know, its just another shattered illusion. I am glad, he has a new toy, so I got no hoover and I had time to heal. Thank you Andrew, for this video in the beautiful sunshine. Enjoy the day! ❤🌞🌲
Be careful still as my Hoover came 1.5 years later, thanks to Andrew I was educated and rejected , so he went off to recycle another ex and moved back in with her within a week if her Hoover
Hello everybody, I'm experiencing the hoovering right now and of course i will not answer. Just wanted to say thank you Andrew for your company, it really helps me in these moments of dissonance. Namaste
Remember today Gioblin; If you respond…. Which you wont. Thanks to this community that has your back (the narrcasist never did) You will be responding to and even more. ; feeding a lie on this planet. We are responsibility to remove the toxicity. Not feed it Stay strong. We all love you and know what you are going through. The hovering was non atop for 6 months for me. But here i am Going to work with my two sons who immediately supported my journey. Stay strong. And reach out to any of us pro-veterans on the other side of the fog. You got this. I guarantee you.
I scarcely survived the narcissist that I married. Now he is with a young lady much younger than me, and I feel so sorry her already. She won't be prepared for his mind games, or his lack of empathy.
My new replacement will get what she deserves. She knew we were together. Guess she believed his bullshit. Anyway, they both deserve each other! She has money from embezzling our town, so he's after the money! Haha
Andrew last night I got a text message and it showed the narcissist with her new supply and they were holding hands in the picture at first I was about ready to get angry and call her but then I thought about what you said it's not worth I have to leave it alone live to fight another day I'm so glad I didn't do anything that I would regret
I no longer care what the narcissist is up to, but my heart goes out to the new supply because I know quite well the pain coming his way... maybe today, maybe next year. I still want to see her world come crashing down. He can have her, I don't want her back. I kind of want another hoover so I can reject her the third time. Which mean I still have a little more healing, but I'm well past the pinnacle. She will never hurt me again hoover or not.
I am currently driving across the country. Lucky I had a friend who negotiated me to pay less rent and to take my cats so I don't go back. So I am driving 3000 miles and four 24 hour daya woth two cats and a dog across the country. I am having a good time overalll. It isi a healing drive.
Found out that he moved on after eight weeks after the final discard. We were together for 2,5 years. I am shattered and he doesn't care. He never cared. I should be happy but I feel miserable. Because I know that I was with a person that never really loved me but I loved him.
No mercy from me she is married to the narc brother she has jumped from man to man for years now she is with my x, and that's a narcissus they deserve each other.I could care less what he does or with who he does it with as long as its not me
Looks like a beautiful day Andrew ☀️ To be honest,my husband's next shiny toy (secretary from his work) deserves everything she gets,she knew hes married & he also stomped on OUR wedding vows. I hope she enjoys every moment of BOTH of their toxicity. 2 Narcissist 2 malicious beings😈 Shalom Andrew
Andrew, You're a warm, kind and comforting person to listen to and I'm so glad that I came across your channel..... no coincidence I believe. Thank you so very much. Take care. By the way the weather looks great where you are. ☺️🙏🌞❤️
Devils in Angelic clothing....... luring in SELF SATISFYING SUPPLY! Can't tell you how many times I have read the comments from this community & have felt your pain & cried while lifting you up in prayer. The new supply are innocent just like we were & they need prayer too. Lets not forget where we have been. Blessings 🎀😘
Temper tantrums, throwing things, screaming, guilt tripping, public shaming, sharing private information at parties. I was slapped in the face in front of all my friends for taking a picture of her enjoying herself at a party. I was told later she did that because it triggered a memory of her ex. Now her new husband is a professional photographer. Dude must be covered in bruises. 😂
If you do not share children with your ex narc, it is imperative that you block them on all forms of electronic communication, phone, social media, etc. so that hoovering and/or triggering are not an option.
@@steelesharpensteele6252 If you’re able to, that’s great!! 👍Sometimes, it’s difficult especially if children are minors. Good for you! I literally stopped going to my favorite places for the first 2 years just to avoid running into him.. now 5 years later.. I still have not laid eyes on him in all this time nor spoken to him. 🙌 I just feel bad when I see people say their ex is still negatively communicating.
Yes he quickly gave her everything he denied me; moving in, overseas holidays, engagement, marriage . Plastering it all over social media. He has to keep the mask on indefinitely now because he has his celebrity image to keep up, the wife, the marriage, all of which he'll run from eventually because he's trapped in his fake hell.
My ex is 65 and his new supply is his mother he discarded me for to move in with to match social security checks in an apartment in the ghetto after we lived in my brick home that is paid for. He told me if I closed my business he didn't want to work on that he would support me to retire early with him and then he dumped me for not having any money.
@@HuHWhat-yi8cp He played the sick card and quickly quit his job after we met. Being empathetic, I played a savior for 8 of those 10 years both financially and with his health completely stood by him. In anticipation of his social security, he ask me to close the business and depend on him. But then he left me for dead because my resources were depleted compared to his mother who needs a savior from the nursing home. He sold me out to be a pathetic "scrub" son-husband. She's baiting him with a life insurance policy she more than likely doesn't even have (narcissistic family dynamic). It's pathetic and totally not what I signed up for and 10 years gone... I just went back in business tho & look especially forward to relocating soon. I think she will outlive him cause he's drinking and drugging now too with that heart disease that I now realize came from drugs in the first place. I even found out he's got 2 kids he abandoned and the second wife was much older and he abandoned her when she got sick. He caused me to break my foot right before he abandoned me while I couldn't even walk. "Ya picked a fine time to leave me Lucille." --Kenny Rogers
... Yes, every word is absolutely true 🙏 just one piece I wanted to mention: A narcissistic Individuum in the euphoric stage makes a snapshot of you. They improve that (real you) as long as you fit in their own created fake world (shared phantasy). They now begin to "communicate" with that introject they've created. At the end they're dissapointed, because you seem not to be that painting they've created in their minds... They think there must be a perfect "object" out there that matches to my perfect created painting... Guess what? Can that created person, painted in a brain of/from a dysfunctional individuum really exist for longer term? 🧐
I did it all fell in love people pleaser, honest with him, I was beside his side through the up and down. The new supply seen his mask come the week she started coming around. He controlling her for money to his money in his pocket and to buy his drugs but I started catching on to his game he didn't like that I call him out on stuff he was doing around me and I question what he doing what his money hate me for that about me. So he got one she not going to ask any question are she will see the ugly side of him and I'm certainly she already had.
Spot on! I warned her he was a predator when I caught them but it happened anyway. I wouldn't wish what I went through on anyone but at least she was warned unlike myself. Oh well....
🎉 beautiful spot you have there 🎉👹Wow poor woman coping it like i did . Not that I can help her in anyway she wouldn't believe me . The devaluation stage is so crap all of the stages are crap . For me getting discarded was a blessing in disguise. My life actually has improved 💯 being left dumped sqrewed up thrown out like a piece of paper. Is actually now down my road the best thing that ever happen to me🐕🌈🦄😊
I actually feel sorry for the new supply. I spent time worrying and talked to my therapist about what should I do about it. She told me it was not any of my business which I took to heart and do not care anymore but do not like seeing people hurt. Watching your old videos was hard on me. ( I leave it at that. )
They hoover for supply. He can't do that anymore. She takes. I know he is not happy He must be out of his mind. He hurts more than i did. Mine ended. His never will.
Andrew I have been attacked again tried to use grey rock it didnt help ,tried to speak not much and really get worse i am not alowed yet no contact untill i see with the law if this is possible.God keep you all safe from this creatures ,nobody deserve to suffer
I have Stockholm Syndrome. I was trapped in the states. I had no money ot phone. There were no cabs to get to the airport. That three day rule kept me trapped He was violent daily and sexuelly abused me daily. The windows were boarded up.anf not allowed to leave to house. He took my identity completely
I am so grateful God gave me the strength to leave. My focus is on optimal health. I could never go back to psychological abuse. My mistake was not trusting my gut. Trust how you feel. You don't have to be reactive to your feelings. Step back and feel how you feel, then make your moves. No contact was is my only option. The Trauma Bond is real. Not a healthy place to be. Unhealthy, Unstable Relationship where they don't care about you. I'm so grateful for all the knowledge Andrew brings. He is spot on!!!!
Everyday is another moment of realization of how long the manipulation went on . The dots are connecting the destruction was planned ALL ALONG your right ! They planned everything in perfect timing to cause the most damage. Im so glad to have found your channel and community. It’s nice to know other people feel the way i do . The location is beautiful so peaceful 🌸Thank you Andrew
Some people have great difficulty in reconciling the wisdom of going no contact but are held back by let's say spiritual considerations ,this has been an issue for me with a close family member but you opened my eyes 2 years ago with the' Dark night of soul ' video and I have finally got to end of road which is to accept the situation is hopeless and I now need to go no contact in the way that not even counselling to try to repair things is on the table from my side. Thank you for all you do to help the present 'victims' and the future ones
Guys, trust your gut feelings! If you experience that you need to give too much in order to receive something back, just back away, it is not worth it! I kinda more and more acknowledge that everything needs to be effortless and easy going.
In my experience when the narctriss decided to drop the mask in a rage of absurdity it is a shock. It catches you off guard and you try to reason it out. Yet inquiry to whats wrong is only word salad regurgitation. The narctriss always double booked supply. Maybe more. The more you accommodate their erratic schedule the more you are put on hold...you'll be back right ? Meanwhile the late supply offer is given priority. Lesson learned well is never, but ever, be someone's second choice. Exclusivity in narc definition is only while you are with them. Phone rings.....a sudden change of plans. Even then, the deception leaves a bitter taste of being used. Drink no more toxic Kool Aid.
Wow 🤯 such a smart, detailed and true comment / description 🧐 amazing... (like you were a "hidden witness" or a fly during the whole narcissistic abusive cycle) Thank you and have a nice evening 🌅🙋
@elkebanhart7045 I can remember having to listen to videos twice to penatrate the fog. It was like my brain couldn't process it fast enough because I was always amazed how identical experiences were. Those days are gone. Once you know, you cant unknow.
Andrew this talk is SO POWERFUL! Thank you! Cut to the chase with Andrew! This talk has so many layers and you articulated it so profoundly! Stay Positive Study self-love , knowing thy self - consciousness and you will enjoy the art of letting go....to find Peace, Peace, Peace Now!🎯🌊💧💧
Good bye to them and good luck to to the unsuspecting. Don't forget to wear a a cross around your neck in order to ward off the evil narc vampires that roam amongst us.
The new element the new supply provided, apart from all the healing circles, netwoks, psychedelics and dances is "polyamory". Hes hooked. Thinks this will provide endless supply through devaluing them and triangulating...by making feel inferior one after another so he stays on top. I have parkinsons and unfortunately i live in his building, beside him, as a tenant. Wanting so badly out. Conscious of my trauma bonding. Theres a housing crisis. Bit by bit im packing my stuff, waiting to accompany my aging dog in his last days/ months and get out of here if needed to a womsns refuge or a nursing home. Anywhere where hopefully i can recover the sovereignty of my mind he has taken residence in. The new suppy is nothing but another substitute with enough elements of the old to be manipulated. She saw what wss going on and chose to believe him and "save' him from me. I can only feel pity for her. I just want my freedom and i cant have it while im in his territory.
God doesn't make any garbage! You are a pearl of 👉great worth no matter about anyone else. We are all 1 of a kind originals. It stings so bad right now, I know. I've spent the last several months recovering from being discarded after a 40-year marriage! All we can do is learn all we can to prevent any more injury from these warped people. I try to do something, no matter how small, to move forward towards my best life daily. Forward is forward even if small increments! Sending you ❤
Yes it really hurts at the moment but keep finding something every day to be thankful for, even the smallest thing. It helps to practice gratitude. I'm dealing with being discarded last year after 32 years of marriage. He walked away causing so much chaos, hurt and pain. Hang in there, keep coming back to the channel and getting the wisdom. You are not alone and God is with us. There is light around you now and you will see it as you move along the healing path. God bless you.
I was the new supply at a point in my life when I lost my Mom, Dad, and our next door neighbors of 30 years all within 5 hours, 9 days before Christmas. This narcissist pounced on my vulnerability while trying to deal with the grieving process. Everything that was explained in this video was true and on point about a narcissist! Educate yourself as I did with the numerous videos that are out. I've watched countless hours of videos to try and learn as much as I can to draw me out of and away from the clutches of the narcissist. The narcissist is on a constant mission to seek and destroy with no empathy, Believe Me!
The best thing since sliced bread is the invention of education on narcissism.. this video is reassuring because it’s always difficult to picture a narc happy with someone else and picturing someone else getting the best of the narc.. it’s a reminder that any new supply will also experience what we do/did eventually .. spot on about new supplies also being betrayed.. I’m pretty sure when I was new supply.. he likely groomed others behind my back too.. pretty sure he’s doing this right now.. a great video yet again, thank you.
I'm just watching what my ex-husband's wife, who is a narcissist, is doing to her daughter-in-law and to young granddaughters, and I can't do anything about it 😢. I can't warn her.
@@suesanders1169 I just want someone to stop that woman.. She has already ruined so many lives. Her son tried to kill himself (he isn't narcissist). Now he's in a coma and don't wake up, and now she's turned on his wife and her two daughters.
“The ageing narcissist is not a pretty sight to see.” Yes!! Brilliantly said! I can vouch for this with the narc who targeted me years ago. They really age like milk! 😂 Excellent video Andrew! 🙌🙌
I have recovered from this toxic relationship and have been free 19 months now. Your video Andrew, just showed up on my feed and I just wanted to share a small portion of my story. Firstly I will say there is light at the end of the tunnel and you can recover with Andrews help, he helped me immensely when I was in my darkest days. My replacement was with the narcissist for a while during my relationship with him and after. I thought she had got the wisdom and left, which fir a while I think she did. A few months ago I saw her arranging to meet with the narcissist the following day, she was all smiles and thought she had got back the best thing that happened to her, i knew exactly what he was doing he needed her help and was using her again. She on the other hand did not know this, she looked awful (as did the narcissist), I knew he had done this to her and yet she still went back for more, sadly as we all have done. I no longer care about the toxic person I know I am now fully healed but just wanted to come on here and share and also to thank you Andrew from the bottom of my heart without you I’m not sure I would be in this good place now. 🙏🏼
God bless you. I didn't understand at all. I had no idea what really was going on, so; I lived in a world of terrible pain. I understand now. Thank you.
Thanks the the knowledge and awareness you bring to those that have no clue their partner is a narcissist. You are helping people looking for answers tremendously.
It’s so true! The initial meeting was too good to be true ! She got mad because she was trying to get pregnant & blamed me for not being able to fertilize her! Dodged a bullet!
Thank you. I just went through everything you described. Unbelievable how accurate you are. I watched 5 of your videos and they really helped me alot. I was feeling exactly like you say but your videos really helped me understand both sides. Thamk You. Thank You
Welcome..😌🙏💜
The new supply is finding out the narcissist is jealous, offended by everyone, and double minded.
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And greedy as hell.
My understanding is that the new supply dumped him because of his jealousy. He might have gotten her back, but he will wipe her out if she did
Don't kid yourself,the narcissist knows Exactly what they are deviously doing to you.!!!
Fakes through & through.
They have multiple pump & dumps....open your eyes to WHO THEY REALLY ARE.😈
I used to be that new supply for almost 6 years and I figured it out 2 yrs prior and lived with the constant mental abuse before leaving him, so it’s so true about the new supply after a number of years, they could very well be getting the emotional abuse.
Anyone that keeps the narc occupied and away from me is my hero. Sending them super powers to survive.
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Well, that doesn't always work because even if you leave them alone and you think they've left you alone, it's not always true.
@@Confessions089 That is a fact. Take the time while they are absent to heal. It is the first line of defense from future abuse/attacks. I have no doubt the narcs removed from my life may return but I will never be the person they first met or knew when I left. I placed my focus on healing myself from every trauma and way of being/thinking I could identify that lowered my defenses and allowed them into my life/kept them in my life for way too long. Abandonment, people pleasing, tolerating bad behavior/enabling to keep the peace, parents teachings, societies norms/expectations, being my worst critic, caring too much how others feel and think about me, dysregulation within my mind and body that was created thru our relationship...... Best to you in building your self defense while being kind patient accepting and understanding to yourself to remove thoughts, patterns/cycles and emotions that are not serving you to become the best version of yourself and leave you vulnerable to others projection and manipulation. You are perfectly enough even when working towards being a better version of yourself. You are worth all the time and energy you put into yourself to create and live your best life. Sorry for being long winded but my heart is telling me someone needs to read this to persue their best interests and have faith in themselves.
Absolutely, I am grateful she isn’t trying to mess with me.
Me too! I’m praying the new supply keeps him😊
The new supply is getting gaslit and cheated on from day one!
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Indeed I know for a fact!
I hope the new supply stands up to the Narcissist quicker than I did and really tells him what she thinks of him before walking away! It's a test, and everyone here has come through it, no matter how bruised we feel, we made it and should be proud of ourselves. ❤️🕯️
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What happens when a narcissist is dating a narcissist? The trouble has began.
The longer I’m away from toxic situations the more I never want to experience it. It’s not our job to worry about the new supply(ies), but I did in the beginning of my healing process. We can’t be doing damage control for everyone else while caring for ourselves properly. And we really need to focus on ourselves. It brings so much clarity. Thank you Andrew ❤🙏
Welcome 💯🙏🙌😌
I'm at the beginning of my healing journey. Trying hard to remain distant, and going no contact with the narcissist.
@@AylerProductions 🙏 thank you for sharing
@@heiresswithjesus 🙏 it’s a very difficult process, but you are in the right place here for education and support. Remain here if you’re able.
Hear, hear! 💯❤
I am a chosen one. The narc came to stop me from my true purpose. I recognized the demon. Got rid of him fast!
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The best revenge is not telling the new supply what you know.
Good luck, Buddy.
Yes! I know this guy and he likes to rub it in my face his days are coming.
I was once the "New Supply." I sensed after the discard, the Narc would do the same to others. A few months after the discard, I got a hoover call, saying: "You are the only one who appreciates Me." Right. EZ read- the new supply(s) picked up on it faster than I did. That's the power of this education , I only "sensed it" and now after all these years, I find there IS a pattern in these narcissistic behaviors. That, and realizing I never fully understood what "manipulation" really meant and the coldness, greed and ruthless exploitation that came with it.
I wish everyone safe distance from these types and a healing, that may reward you by becoming a stronger, wiser person than you've ever been. Thanks, Andrew!
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Good job, Joe!🎉
Bingo...you got it Joe! 👍
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@jhavajoe3792 Wisdom received 😊
Go Joe!!! 🙂 FREEDOM!!! 🙂
@@suesanders1169 Thanks, Family! I read comments from all of you and appreciate them all-- upbeat comments and ones laying it out on the table with sadder tales of abusive encounters . There's newbies who are just beginning to get the message. All of it will help them, as well as those well
down the path to healing. Keep posting!
They are never happy with anyone, not even themselves if they were honest for once
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Moldy sliced bread. She can have him.😂
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A lot of 'em are perves too !
And so stale rock 🪨 hard
When I met mine I thought he was everything that I ever wanted
Turns out the mask came off
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Unicorns and rainbows until that mask falls off. Then they are pure scary
The new supply is in our shoes now. I wouldnt wish it on anybody. Thank you Andrew, as always. We need to practice self care, as we heal from the wounds the relationship inflicted on us and from other past hurts, that may have opened the door to us being in a relationship with one of these toxic individuals.. We will all heal in our own time. Stay strong everyone! 🙏🌸🌸🌸
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I do wish it to her. She knew he is married. She destroyed a family. Now she shall deal with Mr Hyde. Enjoy it and thanks for taking out the trash. 😂
New supply to my dad after he scuppered off. I felt really sorry for her after I realized everything he was up to (sneaky person), but she did not seem able to believe any of it.
Just in general. I did not think it would do any good to tell her, or I would have. I did try to tell her about another family member, but she seemed to just not be able to believe it.
I don't blame her, she got hoodwinked. And narcs scope out their new victim really well, having experimented on us first. She needed time. If shed had it, she would have caught on I think.
I’m hoping that his new supply opens her eyes or has already opened her eyes and gets away….
The new supply is now on the narcissist relationship agenda. They do this with everyone they want. No difference. It will end up horribly. I don't wish this on anyone. Im free and forever grateful for this and that Im safe from this abuse forever because Im a different person now. Still doing the work and always will. Stay strong 💪
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New supply knew the narc ex was treating her with lavish gifts and holidays while our children and I were evicted from our home with no money and huge debts he left us. She still married him for her own high maintenance life thinking she would milk him for his money.
She played herself. She married a narc.
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Absolutely terrifying to me is the poor older woman with whom he has gone on to. I had kick him out of my life/house due to the abuse I had suffered. She had posted a ad for a person to place their live in trailer in exchange for a person to take care of her handicapped son a few nights a week. Imagine the horror this woman and her son have had to endure. 😢 He has been out of my life for over a year and I still haven’t recovered. Probably never will, but best revenge is living a good life, believing in your self worth. Something they will never have.
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So sad!😢
Wow....how scary,
God sees all.
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My Ex also get,I don't know how often he changed new supplies. He's getting older,he found a way to contact me. He want to hoover me as a second new supply. I blocked him and think,did he believe I'm crazy going through that again,knowing there is someone else. The only thing is,I'm sompletely clear,same thing happened to me,as you talled us. No hoover,never ever. Simply hard times for me These days,but I'm moving forward.
To be honest; whatever she is doing, and who ever she is doing it all with now' Is their problem now not mine. One week after changing my phone number now. I still continue to get more clarity and simple understanding and revelations that make me palm slap my face.
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You are absolutely right!
Baptist Billy, I hope that you have learnt from your spell in the Wilderness and wont wish to dip a toe back in there again with her or anyone else. 🙏
Amen! lol I hope so too @@TheSeekeroftruth1
She knows he is married, she (thinks she) knows exactly what she's doing. She deserves everything she gets.
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I just think about how they thought they got some prize. Now, they are dealing with all we did.
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Yes..
I know a lot of us experienced the narcissist’s evil eyes, dead eyes, filled with rage, etc. but I have two distinct memories of a time where when things were really good, and he looked at me with the sweetest look. I think anybody has ever given me, and it was like he was melting and in love with me and I always think back to those times because I had never felt more connected or seen by a person in my life. It was like we were exchanging energy now. Obviously I think it’s possible. He was just sucking the life out of me but I was wondering, did anybody ever have these like intense eye contact moments with their narcissist that were seemingly pleasant and loving?
Oh yes, I've experienced the narcissistic stare (and the scanning of everyone around him/us... and there were always many ppl around) 🙋
And yes, there's always an ergetic exchange, that's exactly for what they targeting someone. Sorry, it is chastening, but that's the "nature" of a toxic or narcissistic "relationship" - which is of course no - . Kind regards🫂💐
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Yes. I had the long loving looks filled with desire in the early months. He melted my heart, His eyes were so warm and twinkly. As the relationship moved on I also began to see complete indifference in those same eyes that I had seen such love. It’s really tough, but it’s no use reminiscing about the past and early months. That person was all fake. I am still living with my now ex narc, who within 4 weeks was out on dates and staying out. He has zero compassion or respect or any sense of decency. He said I ended it, it’s all on me. I have days where I struggle massively with my own self esteem, but I am watching channels like this and it helps massively, as one day I will be totally free of him and I will put him completely out of my mind and I will go on and have a better life. He meanwhile will end up likely all alone. Karma
I refused the Hoovers. Dinner, movies etc. The narcissist cannot be alone. Therefore, New and recycled supplies. His new supplies are drug addicts and so is he. “Pagan place” Heart breaking! But nothing I can do. I’m glad it’s not me. Have to focus on me and my healing. Thank You Andrew 🙏
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Yes, I remember those days. My heart breaks for the "new supply" ...she is about to go on the wildest most destructive ride of her life. Hope she makes it out of there. Blessings to all! ❤
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Hope she makes it out is right. Poor girl
@@flyawaybutterflyhealingchannel Yes, and she has a little daughter ....is going to be very difficult for her...💞
💞Sending prayers on behalf of all the people still being victimized by the "narcs". ♥
@@lysaholly No they wouldn't believe us. The smear campaign took care of that. Thank you for your kind words and you also have a wonderful rest of your day! ♥
@@lysaholly People do not believe us. I told my good girlfriend that the new guy was lying to her and using her and she told me not to be jealous and be happy for her. She learned her lesson. He took her money, cheated on her, etc.
I am so stunned by your teaching. I remember specifically when he told me about this other woman as he called her. I replied to him.”Tell her that her days are numbered. Not realizing that I was right. I thank God for allowing me to find your channel Andrew. God continue to bless you with wisdom.🙏🏾😊
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Great video Andrew!
No matter what the new supply is experiencing, nothing ever changes about the narcissist.
That's the important part to remember.....
Wishing everyone clarity and peace.
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Very true! Thank you!♥
That's right. No fear of him changing and treating her better and giving her the things you wanted and needed. No jealousy or hate towards the new supply , just pity and fear for her.
Great video Andrew. Well to be honest I don't care what that person is going through, I mean the day I was discarded I was left in the street alone no place to go no money no friends I was afraid and alone the narcissist called him and he drove up looked at me like I was garbage. My ex narcissist said I'll be right back don't worry. He got in the car with him and he never came back. He ignored all my calls and texts. Imagine how broken I was at that very moment I almost didn't survive. Thank God I survived and I chose to block the narcissist and ignore every attempt he made to try and contact me. So I really don't care about the new supply, right now. The only thing I can say is be careful what you wish for. He can keep him. Thank you Andrew for the video and thank you everyone for your kind words. Stay strong everyone.
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You are a treasure, Carlos! Someone will recognize it and appreciate you!☀️
Thanks for being here.
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I wish them well. Don't come around here. I'm perfectly happy in my peaceful home and new friends. 2:12
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"All that glitters isn't gold".
The Narcissist is like a child, throwing away his old toy in pursuit of attaining the new toy.
But we know, its just another shattered illusion.
I am glad, he has a new toy, so I got no hoover and I had time to heal.
Thank you Andrew, for this video in the beautiful sunshine. Enjoy the day! ❤🌞🌲
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Be careful still as my Hoover came 1.5 years later, thanks to Andrew I was educated and rejected , so he went off to recycle another ex and moved back in with her within a week if her Hoover
Hello everybody, I'm experiencing the hoovering right now and of course i will not answer.
Just wanted to say thank you Andrew for your company, it really helps me in these moments of dissonance. Namaste
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Stay strong 💪
Whatever it takes, do not respond to a hoover. Is just more pain. Be strong, you deserve the best. Be your OWN BEST FRIEND. Blessings to you!♥
Good job, goblin! You can do it!!!💪🏻🌈☀️
Remember today Gioblin;
If you respond…. Which you wont.
Thanks to this community that has your back (the narrcasist never did)
You will be responding to and even more. ; feeding a lie on this planet.
We are responsibility to remove the toxicity.
Not feed it
Stay strong. We all love you and know what you are going through.
The hovering was non atop for 6 months for me.
But here i am
Going to work with my two sons who immediately supported my journey.
Stay strong.
And reach out to any of us pro-veterans on the other side of the fog.
You got this.
I guarantee you.
The new supply is 21 , he is 54 . I worried about her until I realized that it's none of my business . I wish her the best
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She is Gen Z. They are hip to narcissism. She is milking him. .
I scarcely survived the narcissist that I married. Now he is with a young lady much younger than me, and I feel so sorry her already. She won't be prepared for his mind games, or his lack of empathy.
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Same here.
Hello to all warriors,hi ANDREW,👉🥇🥈🥉❤️❤️❤️❤️✨🙏
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Hello flower power! 🌞 🪷🌺🌻🌷🪻⚘️🌹💪
We are totally fierce warriors
Good day to you FlowerPower ❤
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My new replacement will get what she deserves. She knew we were together. Guess she believed his bullshit. Anyway, they both deserve each other! She has money from embezzling our town, so he's after the money! Haha
Andrew last night I got a text message and it showed the narcissist with her new supply and they were holding hands in the picture at first I was about ready to get angry and call her but then I thought about what you said it's not worth I have to leave it alone live to fight another day I'm so glad I didn't do anything that I would regret
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Great resilience
You did the right thing! Make sure to block her phone number!
Delete. Good for you.
Block and forget, my friend
I no longer care what the narcissist is up to, but my heart goes out to the new supply because I know quite well the pain coming his way... maybe today, maybe next year. I still want to see her world come crashing down. He can have her, I don't want her back. I kind of want another hoover so I can reject her the third time. Which mean I still have a little more healing, but I'm well past the pinnacle. She will never hurt me again hoover or not.
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I am currently driving across the country. Lucky I had a friend who negotiated me to pay less rent and to take my cats so I don't go back. So I am driving 3000 miles and four 24 hour daya woth two cats and a dog across the country. I am having a good time overalll. It isi a healing drive.
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Sounds fun!
Awesome!!! 👍👍👍👍👍
Continued Blessings
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I feel sorry for a new supply. Good Luck😂😂💯😅🤚❤️
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Found out that he moved on after eight weeks after the final discard. We were together for 2,5 years. I am shattered and he doesn't care. He never cared. I should be happy but I feel miserable. Because I know that I was with a person that never really loved me but I loved him.
Who CARES!!!!
At least, it’s not me!
I know! Everyone here is so nice! I was going to say, "Suckers!!!" but decided that was too mean.😅😂
Facts
I think the new supply just called me under a private number😂😂… I answered, she said hello, then froze…
I wanted to tell her to “RUN” 😬
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Wow this was spot on! Insane that these demons all have the same agenda!
The more knowledge on this the better. Good day and thankyou Andrew.
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No mercy from me she is married to the narc brother she has jumped from man to man for years now she is with my x, and that's a narcissus they deserve each other.I could care less what he does or with who he does it with as long as its not me
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They act like the new supply is Gold I been through this I got discard a few times it's hard to go no contact 😢😢😢
@@MR.MOSTHIGH5379 I feel sorry for her little girl
@@hannastrack4310 which little girl
I appreciate all your messages and the fact that you are working on deprogramming subconscious messages by saying words of LIGHT
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I dont know who the new supply is, but I feel terrible for her/him/them. I wish them the best.
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Amen 👍
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You make my day when you do the face and look.😂
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Spot on I suffered for 4 years andrew your a life saver
Looks like a beautiful day Andrew ☀️
To be honest,my husband's next shiny toy (secretary from his work) deserves everything she gets,she knew hes married & he also stomped on OUR wedding vows. I hope she enjoys every moment of BOTH of their toxicity. 2 Narcissist 2 malicious beings😈
Shalom Andrew
Andrew, You're a warm, kind and comforting person to listen to and I'm so glad that I came across your channel..... no coincidence I believe. Thank you so very much. Take care. By the way the weather looks great where you are. ☺️🙏🌞❤️
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Devils in Angelic clothing....... luring in SELF SATISFYING SUPPLY!
Can't tell you how many times I have read the comments from this community & have felt your pain & cried while lifting you up in prayer. The new supply are innocent just like we were & they need prayer too. Lets not forget where we have been. Blessings 🎀😘
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Temper tantrums, throwing things, screaming, guilt tripping, public shaming, sharing private information at parties. I was slapped in the face in front of all my friends for taking a picture of her enjoying herself at a party. I was told later she did that because it triggered a memory of her ex. Now her new husband is a professional photographer. Dude must be covered in bruises. 😂
Lol,best laugh I had all week😂😂
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Thank God you're out & gone.
Blessings
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God Bless you. You got out.
He once showed me a picture of him.....l noticed he had hundreds of just himself. I realised he use's these for all the dating apps. Creepy
If you do not share children with your ex narc, it is imperative that you block them on all forms of electronic communication, phone, social media, etc. so that hoovering and/or triggering are not an option.
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I have 2kids n i still went no contact n will conti ue to do so till my casket BWAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH
@@steelesharpensteele6252 If you’re able to, that’s great!! 👍Sometimes, it’s difficult especially if children are minors. Good for you! I literally stopped going to my favorite places for the first 2 years just to avoid running into him.. now 5 years later.. I still have not laid eyes on him in all this time nor spoken to him. 🙌 I just feel bad when I see people say their ex is still negatively communicating.
@@steelesharpensteele6252Do you have ANY relationship with your children?
Yes he quickly gave her everything he denied me; moving in, overseas holidays, engagement, marriage . Plastering it all over social media. He has to keep the mask on indefinitely now because he has his celebrity image to keep up, the wife, the marriage, all of which he'll run from eventually because he's trapped in his fake hell.
🕊💫 it’s so evil using children as parents in their game.
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Andrew the new supp was my best friend, i was shocked 😮
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My ex is 65 and his new supply is his mother he discarded me for to move in with to match social security checks in an apartment in the ghetto after we lived in my brick home that is paid for. He told me if I closed my business he didn't want to work on that he would support me to retire early with him and then he dumped me for not having any money.
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@sub. It's always bad when they are able to run home to relatives - no responsibility - just an adult version of a bedwetter ! 🤸♂🤸♀🤸🦨
@@HuHWhat-yi8cp He played the sick card and quickly quit his job after we met. Being empathetic, I played a savior for 8 of those 10 years both financially and with his health completely stood by him. In anticipation of his social security, he ask me to close the business and depend on him. But then he left me for dead because my resources were depleted compared to his mother who needs a savior from the nursing home. He sold me out to be a pathetic "scrub" son-husband. She's baiting him with a life insurance policy she more than likely doesn't even have (narcissistic family dynamic). It's pathetic and totally not what I signed up for and 10 years gone... I just went back in business tho & look especially forward to relocating soon. I think she will outlive him cause he's drinking and drugging now too with that heart disease that I now realize came from drugs in the first place. I even found out he's got 2 kids he abandoned and the second wife was much older and he abandoned her when she got sick. He caused me to break my foot right before he abandoned me while I couldn't even walk. "Ya picked a fine time to leave me Lucille." --Kenny Rogers
... Yes, every word is absolutely true 🙏 just one piece I wanted to mention: A narcissistic Individuum in the euphoric stage makes a snapshot of you. They improve that (real you) as long as you fit in their own created fake world (shared phantasy). They now begin to "communicate" with that introject they've created. At the end they're dissapointed, because you seem not to be that painting they've created in their minds... They think there must be a perfect "object" out there that matches to my perfect created painting... Guess what? Can that created person, painted in a brain of/from a dysfunctional individuum really exist for longer term? 🧐
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Thank you for reaffirming my pain. Its a horrible nightmare. I feel violated and I'm a dude
Hi, Andrew! I continue to learn about these monsters! Thank you for your wisdom! 💕
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I did it all fell in love people pleaser, honest with him, I was beside his side through the up and down. The new supply seen his mask come the week she started coming around. He controlling her for money to his money in his pocket and to buy his drugs but I started catching on to his game he didn't like that I call him out on stuff he was doing around me and I question what he doing what his money hate me for that about me. So he got one she not going to ask any question are she will see the ugly side of him and I'm certainly she already had.
My ex Narc made a fool out of me. I had no idea what I was up against.
I accept the narc and new supply for what they are and moving on. I wish them luck and feel like everything is how it should be.
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Spot on! I warned her he was a predator when I caught them but it happened anyway. I wouldn't wish what I went through on anyone but at least she was warned unlike myself. Oh well....
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Thanks, Andrew! The discard is awful! Slowly healing right now.
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🎉 beautiful spot you have there 🎉👹Wow poor woman coping it like i did . Not that I can help her in anyway she wouldn't believe me . The devaluation stage is so crap all of the stages are crap . For me getting discarded was a blessing in disguise. My life actually has improved 💯 being left dumped sqrewed up thrown out like a piece of paper. Is actually now down my road the best thing that ever happen to me🐕🌈🦄😊
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I actually feel sorry for the new supply. I spent time worrying and talked to my therapist about what should I do about it. She told me it was not any of my business which I took to heart and do not care anymore but do not like seeing people hurt. Watching your old videos was hard on me. ( I leave it at that. )
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Life is difficult when you have a big heart, Jarmilla!❤
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I was 23, naive, and thought I needed "love" from a loveless freak!
Glad to be old and wiser now.❣️
In my case, the new supply tries to rub it in my face. I just laugh because it's only the beginning for him. She's a whack job. Good luck to him
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Thank you Andrew and community, love you all ❤🙏
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Back at you! 👍
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They hoover for supply.
He can't do that anymore.
She takes.
I know he is not happy
He must be out of his mind.
He hurts more than i did.
Mine ended. His never will.
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Andrew I have been attacked again tried to use grey rock it didnt help ,tried to speak not much and really get worse i am not alowed yet no contact untill i see with the law if this is possible.God keep you all safe from this creatures ,nobody deserve to suffer
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God bless you, Laura!🕊️
Blessings & safety to you as well!
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I have Stockholm Syndrome. I was trapped in the states. I had no money ot phone. There were no cabs to get to the airport. That three day rule kept me trapped
He was violent daily and sexuelly abused me daily. The windows were boarded up.anf not allowed to leave to house. He took my identity completely
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I am so grateful God gave me the strength to leave. My focus is on optimal health. I could never go back to psychological abuse. My mistake was not trusting my gut. Trust how you feel. You don't have to be reactive to your feelings. Step back and feel how you feel, then make your moves. No contact was is my only option. The Trauma Bond is real. Not a healthy place to be. Unhealthy, Unstable Relationship where they don't care about you. I'm so grateful for all the knowledge Andrew brings. He is spot on!!!!
Everyday is another moment of realization of how long the manipulation went on . The dots are connecting the destruction was planned ALL ALONG your right ! They planned everything in perfect timing to cause the most damage. Im so glad to have found your channel and community. It’s nice to know other people feel the way i do . The location is beautiful so peaceful 🌸Thank you Andrew
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You are not alone!🌹
It truly is a blessing to find those who understand. It really helps in the healing!!!
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@@marieeakin8534 Yes i appreciate the supportive community !
@@emilywilson7308 Thank you 🥰
Knew about them long time ago
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Some people have great difficulty in reconciling the wisdom of going no contact but are held back by let's say spiritual considerations ,this has been an issue for me with a close family member but you opened my eyes 2 years ago with the' Dark night of soul ' video and I have finally got to end of road which is to accept the situation is hopeless and I now need to go no contact in the way that not even counselling to try to repair things is on the table from my side. Thank you for all you do to help the present 'victims' and the future ones
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Guys, trust your gut feelings! If you experience that you need to give too much in order to receive something back, just back away, it is not worth it!
I kinda more and more acknowledge that everything needs to be effortless and easy going.
I am so happy and grateful for your hard work, dedication, and spiritual endurance!
In my experience when the narctriss decided to drop the mask in a rage of absurdity it is a shock. It catches you off guard and you try to reason it out. Yet inquiry to whats wrong is only word salad regurgitation. The narctriss always double booked supply. Maybe more. The more you accommodate their erratic schedule the more you are put on hold...you'll be back right ? Meanwhile the late supply offer is given priority. Lesson learned well is never, but ever, be someone's second choice. Exclusivity in narc definition is only while you are with them. Phone rings.....a sudden change of plans. Even then, the deception leaves a bitter taste of being used. Drink no more toxic Kool Aid.
Wow 🤯 such a smart, detailed and true comment / description 🧐 amazing... (like you were a "hidden witness" or a fly during the whole narcissistic abusive cycle) Thank you and have a nice evening 🌅🙋
P. S. I was watching Andrew's episode twice (in every break and after work at home) 🧐🤯
@elkebanhart7045 I can remember having to listen to videos twice to penatrate the fog. It was like my brain couldn't process it fast enough because I was always amazed how identical experiences were. Those days are gone. Once you know, you cant unknow.
Thank you for walking alongside us in this 🤗🤗🤗
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Andrew this talk is SO POWERFUL! Thank you! Cut to the chase with Andrew! This talk has so many layers and you articulated it so profoundly!
Stay Positive Study self-love , knowing thy self - consciousness and you will enjoy the art of letting go....to find Peace, Peace, Peace Now!🎯🌊💧💧
Good bye to them and good luck to to the unsuspecting. Don't forget to wear a a cross around your neck in order to ward off the evil narc vampires that roam amongst us.
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When narcissists wear a cross its a fake little game to make you think they're "ok", honest, trustworthy and genuine. WATCH OUT.
Great wisdom. All true. Going through it now. Thanks for the help!
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The new element the new supply provided, apart from all the healing circles, netwoks, psychedelics and dances is "polyamory". Hes hooked. Thinks this will provide endless supply through devaluing them and triangulating...by making feel inferior one after another so he stays on top. I have parkinsons and unfortunately i live in his building, beside him, as a tenant. Wanting so badly out. Conscious of my trauma bonding. Theres a housing crisis. Bit by bit im packing my stuff, waiting to accompany my aging dog in his last days/ months and get out of here if needed to a womsns refuge or a nursing home. Anywhere where hopefully i can recover the sovereignty of my mind he has taken residence in. The new suppy is nothing but another substitute with enough elements of the old to be manipulated. She saw what wss going on and chose to believe him and "save' him from me. I can only feel pity for her. I just want my freedom and i cant have it while im in his territory.
I miss him so bad. I'm emotionally depleted, gutted. Apparent garbage. 💔😞
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God doesn't make any garbage! You are a pearl of
👉great worth no matter about anyone else. We are all 1 of a kind originals. It stings so bad right now, I know. I've spent the last several months recovering from being discarded after a 40-year marriage! All we can do is learn all we can to prevent any more injury from these warped people. I try to do something, no matter how small, to move forward towards my best life daily. Forward is forward even if small increments! Sending you ❤
@@patjones2082 Its a Big game & it is spiritual !
Yes it really hurts at the moment but keep finding something every day to be thankful for, even the smallest thing. It helps to practice gratitude. I'm dealing with being discarded last year after 32 years of marriage. He walked away causing so much chaos, hurt and pain. Hang in there, keep coming back to the channel and getting the wisdom. You are not alone and God is with us. There is light around you now and you will see it as you move along the healing path. God bless you.
I was the new supply at a point in my life when I lost my Mom, Dad, and our next door neighbors of 30 years all within 5 hours, 9 days before Christmas. This narcissist pounced on my vulnerability while trying to deal with the grieving process. Everything that was explained in this video was true and on point about a narcissist! Educate yourself as I did with the numerous videos that are out. I've watched countless hours of videos to try and learn as much as I can to draw me out of and away from the clutches of the narcissist. The narcissist is on a constant mission to seek and destroy with no empathy, Believe Me!
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The leaves are falling steadily around you Andrew. Up north here too. Raked and did gutters today in the sunshine. Thanks for the message.
Puppies and Rainbows and Unicorns and Butterflies! Have you been spying on me? 😂
An this is exactly what happens 💯 ty Andrew
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Hello Andrew. These topics are really excellent. So pivotal for me personally. Ty I so appreciate you
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The best thing since sliced bread is the invention of education on narcissism.. this video is reassuring because it’s always difficult to picture a narc happy with someone else and picturing someone else getting the best of the narc.. it’s a reminder that any new supply will also experience what we do/did eventually .. spot on about new supplies also being betrayed.. I’m pretty sure when I was new supply.. he likely groomed others behind my back too.. pretty sure he’s doing this right now.. a great video yet again, thank you.
I'm just watching what my ex-husband's wife, who is a narcissist, is doing to her daughter-in-law and to young granddaughters, and I can't do anything about it 😢. I can't warn her.
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Yes, it is painful to know ( especially watch ) people being devalued. 😔
I have found it best to walk away and 🙏🙏🙏 for them. 🙂
@@suesanders1169 I will do it.
@@suesanders1169 I just want someone to stop that woman.. She has already ruined so many lives. Her son tried to kill himself (he isn't narcissist). Now he's in a coma and don't wake up, and now she's turned on his wife and her two daughters.
“The ageing narcissist is not a pretty sight to see.”
Yes!! Brilliantly said! I can vouch for this with the narc who targeted me years ago. They really age like milk! 😂
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Spot on
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This is so on point. You know what you’re talking about
I have recovered from this toxic relationship and have been free 19 months now. Your video Andrew, just showed up on my feed and I just wanted to share a small portion of my story. Firstly I will say there is light at the end of the tunnel and you can recover with Andrews help, he helped me immensely when I was in my darkest days.
My replacement was with the narcissist for a while during my relationship with him and after. I thought she had got the wisdom and left, which fir a while I think she did. A few months ago I saw her arranging to meet with the narcissist the following day, she was all smiles and thought she had got back the best thing that happened to her, i knew exactly what he was doing he needed her help and was using her again. She on the other hand did not know this, she looked awful (as did the narcissist), I knew he had done this to her and yet she still went back for more, sadly as we all have done.
I no longer care about the toxic person I know I am now fully healed but just wanted to come on here and share and also to thank you Andrew from the bottom of my heart without you I’m not sure I would be in this good place now. 🙏🏼
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God bless you. I didn't understand at all. I had no idea what really was going on, so; I lived in a world of terrible pain.
I understand now. Thank you.
Thanks the the knowledge and awareness you bring to those that have no clue their partner is a narcissist. You are helping people looking for answers tremendously.
It’s so true! The initial meeting was too good to be true ! She got mad because she was trying to get pregnant & blamed me for not being able to fertilize her! Dodged a bullet!
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