What I am noticing is that after following Brendon and then following Dean and Tony, Brendon is the kinder, gentler, messenger. It feels so right to be here.
*Most people sit around and wait for inspiration, just some rare people get up and get to work.* *I may not know you personally, but I believe in you that you will succeed!* 🙏
So well said - especially at the end about how the longer you wait to resolve the conflict, the more your stance is calcified and harder to change as opposed to resolving the disagreement in the moment where you’d be more fluid. These skills would’ve been such a blessing to have in my younger years and I’m grateful to be able to teach and share them with others now. 🙏
Out of the three Ted talks I’ve watched on conflict resolution the past few days, this video was a quarter of the length and many times more engaging and effective. Thank you, I learned some great stuff here.
“We need to accept that we won’t always make the right decisions, that we’ll screw up royally sometimes - understanding that failure is not the opposite of success, it’s part of success.”some of us we see failing as failure. Have a delightful day sharing some positivity to your side
There IS a school that teaches Conflict Resolution ... at each developmental level PS through 8th grade. I designed it specifically to address the relevant to life topics and subjects that are not covered in typical schools, and Conflict Resolution is certainly tops on that list for our school. We teach people how to do peopling! *I could not just scroll on through without piping up on that. There is hope, one school at a time! 》》 Woodson Branch Nature School in the mountains of NC ♡♡
People always tell me I am "afraid" of confrontation. I feel that I am just a positive person so I constantly trying to keep it focused on a positive light. I focus on how it is okay to have differences but it doesn't have to be a fight. So people call me a doormat, a push over, I avoid conflict. I just choose to reserve my energy for positive.
Sometimes when you apologize first in a toxic relationship or environment, they can blame you anyway and tag you for trying to find excuses for your mistakes. Maybe that's the parameter for a healthy interaction...when they accept apologies and work together to repair.
If this video had 100 million views and ppl were open to change, this content could change so many negative outcomes in leadership, government and personal relationships
Thanks Brendon! I need to reach out to someone who I had a conflict with long ago. I can use some of this. I appreciate you. Happy to say, my daughter was in a conflict resolution group in elementary school and it was really good for her to learn how to do people-ing.
Thank you, Brendon!; You are succinct and to the point! Continued prosperity, health and never ending blessings to you and your beautiful family full family
What do you do when you come across people who don't apologize? Or, who don't even acknowledge their own mistakes and don't consider they should apologize because they consider they havent done anything wrong.
What to do if ur person keeps repeating the same thing over n over again and keeps breaking his promise everytime. I m referring to thing thts been really damaging to our relationship ....You are bound to get mad that time. How do you resolve such conflict tht time
What I am noticing is that after following Brendon and then following Dean and Tony, Brendon is the kinder, gentler, messenger. It feels so right to be here.
*Most people sit around and wait for inspiration, just some rare people get up and get to work.*
*I may not know you personally, but I believe in you that you will succeed!* 🙏
So well said - especially at the end about how the longer you wait to resolve the conflict, the more your stance is calcified and harder to change as opposed to resolving the disagreement in the moment where you’d be more fluid. These skills would’ve been such a blessing to have in my younger years and I’m grateful to be able to teach and share them with others now. 🙏
Out of the three Ted talks I’ve watched on conflict resolution the past few days, this video was a quarter of the length and many times more engaging and effective.
Thank you, I learned some great stuff here.
“We need to accept that we won’t always make the right decisions, that we’ll screw up royally sometimes - understanding that failure is not the opposite of success, it’s part of success.”some of us we see failing as failure. Have a delightful day sharing some positivity to your side
Conflict resolution is critical and learning to repair is so important. Thanks for sharing!
I don't think I would be able to argue with this guy. He is the skill !
Indeed! It is more rewarding to repair and resolve a conflict than to dissolve a relationship !!
There IS a school that teaches Conflict Resolution ... at each developmental level PS through 8th grade. I designed it specifically to address the relevant to life topics and subjects that are not covered in typical schools, and Conflict Resolution is certainly tops on that list for our school. We teach people how to do peopling! *I could not just scroll on through without piping up on that. There is hope, one school at a time! 》》 Woodson Branch Nature School in the mountains of NC ♡♡
People always tell me I am "afraid" of confrontation. I feel that I am just a positive person so I constantly trying to keep it focused on a positive light. I focus on how it is okay to have differences but it doesn't have to be a fight. So people call me a doormat, a push over, I avoid conflict. I just choose to reserve my energy for positive.
Sometimes when you apologize first in a toxic relationship or environment, they can blame you anyway and tag you for trying to find excuses for your mistakes. Maybe that's the parameter for a healthy interaction...when they accept apologies and work together to repair.
Is it still toxic ?
If this video had 100 million views and ppl were open to change, this content could change so many negative outcomes in leadership, government and personal relationships
Thanks Brendon! I need to reach out to someone who I had a conflict with long ago. I can use some of this. I appreciate you.
Happy to say, my daughter was in a conflict resolution group in elementary school and it was really good for her to learn how to do people-ing.
This man is wonderful. I'm using his videos to learn English. hehe
Thank you, Brendon!; You are succinct and to the point! Continued prosperity, health and never ending blessings to you and your beautiful family full family
Thanks Brendon. I love your show!!!
Awesome advice for all of us…thank you!
You are speaking facts sir!!!
What do you do when you come across people who don't apologize? Or, who don't even acknowledge their own mistakes and don't consider they should apologize because they consider they havent done anything wrong.
What to do if ur person keeps repeating the same thing over n over again and keeps breaking his promise everytime. I m referring to thing thts been really damaging to our relationship ....You are bound to get mad that time. How do you resolve such conflict tht time
Wow, great video!
Some people like conflict
I love you all men need u!
Btilliant
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what are the six techniques now? 😅😒
This man has never been hurt. Trying having a husband that’s a psychopath with baby mother drama.
Hugz🌈💘