Even in the world people don't date anymore. They just sleep together with no label. Hi my name is Paul, Hi my name is Lucy, same evening the bang and tomorrow they're strangers again. Dating has become the conservative way, shocking enough. I was shocked to find out people sleep together 2-3-5 hours after meeting each other, they don't even know their last names.
+DDC ll I don't blame them. If all of your life, your idea of a relationship comes from everywhere but the bible, how can they possible believe it... so sad that things have gotten to this point.
OneWithLego Exactly like what you people claim God finds a spouse for you. Which is a lie. Where in the Bible does it say God finds a spouses. Again people like you and Paul washer are country club Christians. Look nice in the surface but you don't have to dig deep. All you still marry people you find attractive and don't know what it is like to walk with Jesus. You people turn churches into a family gathering 'look at me I am married God must have found this person for me yet a few years later a divorce.' Because the Bible never promised spouse only salvation through Jesus. I would never preach about these satanic lies. No where in the Bible does it say God finds you a spouse you people who are lucky enough to be attractive, or love by someone think you are chosen cause God found you someone. Stop elevating yourself above the single Christians you liars.
I never had a person tell me about Jesus im about to be 27 march 20th and I'm berly getting to know Him ..Our society is blinded by the filthy devil .. I must confess I am an evil person according to the bible but I accept Jesus as my Savior and I believe He is molding me :)
Well meaning preacher but I think he’s the kind of pastor that would leave a thousand or more people with unwanted singleness for a lifetime without a second thought about it. Preachers like this are with good intentions creating even bigger problems.
What about the longing feelings for wholesome intimacy like huggings, holding hands, and kissing on the cheeks that come naturally from being attracted to our future mate? Is that considered sexual immorality if it comes from a place of pure, honest, kind, and sincere love and attraction for one another? God gives us natural feelings for attraction, so we shouldn't abstain from those gifts because the progression of a relationship is a beautiful thing, but we must remain in God otherwise we will fall into lust and let our flesh take control of this love that God has given us. (10/26/2023)
if the idea of dating is unbiblical until you enter adulthood, and when you can spiritually lead a person, etc, then what are other ways I can get to know the girl if I can't go out and sit down with her one on one, which doesn't mean being alone with her, for a few hours (after I sit down with her father and get his approval of course)? I'm 17, and I know that I'm not mature enough for a girl, so I'm referring to the future here.
lets see now since we cant date cause is not done back then so that same reasoning must be done in other things and not be selective by ones own opinion. so we can therefore eliminate all musical instruments from churches unless they are the same as what they had in the year 700 AD. no pianos, no nothing, no church buildings to meet in cause they did not have them then, can go to war even cause they did not have tanks back them or carriers, this sounds so ridiculous don't it. and so does not dating too. people should teach their kids how to handle relations and not how to avoid them cause if they don't ehn when they do they will totally screw up and then you wonder why. you teach a kid how to handle temptation not how to avoid something that present til the day they die.
ok, so in a group setting where people are on their best behavior and can easily deceive others and then when alone after maybe 6 months the person explodes in rages which you never knew about and now your stuck especially if you married them. plus theres NOT one verse in the entire bible that says if you marry you will always have the same female and not suffer divorce. theres no guarantee, if so what verse.
promaster Is God not able to lead you to the woman He has for you. I disagree that people are on their best behavior in a group setting. people(both the guy an girl) are more likely to be on their best behavior when dating one on one. I call that the cloud 9 phase. About 2 to 3 months into the "relationship" when that cloud dissipates, it's at that point that the real you starts to emerge. The more familiar you become with each other the greater chance to assume an take each other for granted, for disrespect etc. There has to be a willingness to put your faith in and trust in the one who created marriage. Surely He is able to find you a wife.. and she will be the right one.. see(Gen 24:1-66.. note how often the Lord is mentioned as the one who will provide a bride and how often He was worshipped and praised for His faithfulness in providing a bride for Isaac.. vs 7, 12-14, 15-17, 26-27, 42,48,50,52, an Rebekah meets her man and he loved her, vs 61-66. Nothing is impossible with God!
god can do what ever he likes without anyones approval but my contention is that it is not a sin or wrong for a male to go out with a female and have a nice dinner and talk and be friends and so on. but preachers like this always think the male a on his mind to get laid and nothing else, that's cause that's what THEY would do. plus its OK to learn how to be with the opposite sex and be sociable. dating is not trying out the merchandise as this preacher says. sorry people are usually on their best when in group settings its natural to wanna be that way. when one on one you always let your guard down and then things show up you would not see in a group setting. anyway this preacher is wrong on salvation and that makes anything else he says meaningless. hes a preacher who believes in lordship salvation and that's not biblical salvation but damnation. oh yes, I dated my wife now for maybe 2 months and then ask her to get married. we did and its been 16 years so far and we did not meet in church or start out in a group setting as some churches promote. you can do as you think but my kids were allowed to date and learn how to be around females and be sociable and they never once did anything wrong or got into trouble caused they were raised right not cause they were sheltered from this wonderful world we live in as this preacher would like to have people do. dating is not wrong but the motive behind things no matter what one does. this preacher also acts as though its also wrong to have feelings and think the female is beautiful physically and desire he to be cute. he labels all men the same when they are not.
Even in the world people don't date anymore. They just sleep together with no label. Hi my name is Paul, Hi my name is Lucy, same evening the bang and tomorrow they're strangers again. Dating has become the conservative way, shocking enough. I was shocked to find out people sleep together 2-3-5 hours after meeting each other, they don't even know their last names.
Such needed word for us youngsters in this ignorant culture.
+OneWithLego agree. I told my friends this, and they think it's bs
+DDC ll I don't blame them. If all of your life, your idea of a relationship comes from everywhere but the bible, how can they possible believe it... so sad that things have gotten to this point.
OneWithLego Exactly like what you people claim God finds a spouse for you. Which is a lie. Where in the Bible does it say God finds a spouses. Again people like you and Paul washer are country club Christians. Look nice in the surface but you don't have to dig deep. All you still marry people you find attractive and don't know what it is like to walk with Jesus. You people turn churches into a family gathering 'look at me I am married God must have found this person for me yet a few years later a divorce.' Because the Bible never promised spouse only salvation through Jesus. I would never preach about these satanic lies. No where in the Bible does it say God finds you a spouse you people who are lucky enough to be attractive, or love by someone think you are chosen cause God found you someone. Stop elevating yourself above the single Christians you liars.
DDC ll it’s almost impossible to do these stuff what he said in these days. But I still believe god can do everything
Amen!
The youth group is a joke. That’s so true. We are lost...
I FOUND IT I FOUND IT haha! Sermon audio glitched and gave me this instead of the biblical manhood series, but i found it.
i really liked the 'Becoming Esther' article
I never had a person tell me about Jesus im about to be 27 march 20th and I'm berly getting to know Him ..Our society is blinded by the filthy devil .. I must confess I am an evil person according to the bible but I accept Jesus as my Savior and I believe He is molding me :)
This needs to get circulated
Well meaning preacher but I think he’s the kind of pastor that would leave a thousand or more people with unwanted singleness for a lifetime without a second thought about it. Preachers like this are with good intentions creating even bigger problems.
is there a video of this preaching?
What can I do if I've had 5 relationships with men and want to be married.
I don't want the restof them to be in my head spirit of my marriage.
What about the longing feelings for wholesome intimacy like huggings, holding hands, and kissing on the cheeks that come naturally from being attracted to our future mate? Is that considered sexual immorality if it comes from a place of pure, honest, kind, and sincere love and attraction for one another? God gives us natural feelings for attraction, so we shouldn't abstain from those gifts because the progression of a relationship is a beautiful thing, but we must remain in God otherwise we will fall into lust and let our flesh take control of this love that God has given us. (10/26/2023)
if the idea of dating is unbiblical until you enter adulthood, and when you can spiritually lead a person, etc, then what are other ways I can get to know the girl if I can't go out and sit down with her one on one, which doesn't mean being alone with her, for a few hours (after I sit down with her father and get his approval of course)? I'm 17, and I know that I'm not mature enough for a girl, so I'm referring to the future here.
DDC ll Once you are mature, you pray about it and seek God to send you a girl that you may marry
Jake Carroll you still date to know them. they guy is a cult
Is having the purity ring talk the correct thing to do when defining the relationship?
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Amen
people the they don't want to hear from the truth inowdays and expect their wrong
lets see now since we cant date cause is not done back then so that same reasoning must be done in other things and not be selective by ones own opinion. so we can therefore eliminate all musical instruments from churches unless they are the same as what they had in the year 700 AD. no pianos, no nothing, no church buildings to meet in cause they did not have them then, can go to war even cause they did not have tanks back them or carriers, this sounds so ridiculous don't it. and so does not dating too. people should teach their kids how to handle relations and not how to avoid them cause if they don't ehn when they do they will totally screw up and then you wonder why. you teach a kid how to handle temptation not how to avoid something that present til the day they die.
Get to know girls in a group setting in a friend way their is a book on courting that explain this idea a lot better called her hand in marriage.
ok, so in a group setting where people are on their best behavior and can easily deceive others and then when alone after maybe 6 months the person explodes in rages which you never knew about and now your stuck especially if you married them. plus theres NOT one verse in the entire bible that says if you marry you will always have the same female and not suffer divorce. theres no guarantee, if so what verse.
promaster Is God not able to lead you to the woman He has for you. I disagree that people are on their best behavior in a group setting. people(both the guy an girl) are more likely to be on their best behavior when dating one on one. I call that the cloud 9 phase. About 2 to 3 months into the "relationship" when that cloud dissipates, it's at that point that the real you starts to emerge. The more familiar you become with each other the greater chance to assume an take each other for granted, for disrespect etc. There has to be a willingness to put your faith in and trust in the one who created marriage. Surely He is able to find you a wife.. and she will be the right one.. see(Gen 24:1-66.. note how often the Lord is mentioned as the one who will provide a bride and how often He was worshipped and praised for His faithfulness in providing a bride for Isaac.. vs 7, 12-14, 15-17, 26-27, 42,48,50,52, an Rebekah meets her man and he loved her, vs 61-66. Nothing is impossible with God!
god can do what ever he likes without anyones approval but my contention is that it is not a sin or wrong for a male to go out with a female and have a nice dinner and talk and be friends and so on. but preachers like this always think the male a on his mind to get laid and nothing else, that's cause that's what THEY would do. plus its OK to learn how to be with the opposite sex and be sociable. dating is not trying out the merchandise as this preacher says. sorry people are usually on their best when in group settings its natural to wanna be that way. when one on one you always let your guard down and then things show up you would not see in a group setting. anyway this preacher is wrong on salvation and that makes anything else he says meaningless. hes a preacher who believes in lordship salvation and that's not biblical salvation but damnation. oh yes, I dated my wife now for maybe 2 months and then ask her to get married. we did and its been 16 years so far and we did not meet in church or start out in a group setting as some churches promote. you can do as you think but my kids were allowed to date and learn how to be around females and be sociable and they never once did anything wrong or got into trouble caused they were raised right not cause they were sheltered from this wonderful world we live in as this preacher would like to have people do. dating is not wrong but the motive behind things no matter what one does. this preacher also acts as though its also wrong to have feelings and think the female is beautiful physically and desire he to be cute. he labels all men the same when they are not.
cringe wow. terrible exegesis and advice from loon Mr washer
what was so crazy?