Respond vs. React: A Simple, Powerful Tool to Stop Arguments

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  • Опубліковано 30 гру 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 36

  • @shelleycharlesworth5177
    @shelleycharlesworth5177 5 місяців тому +2

    GREAT video-MY emotional well-being is more important than anyone else's bad behavior!

  • @Relationships-Communication
    @Relationships-Communication  2 роки тому +13

    If you can, please take the time to use a notebook to write out what the video suggests as doing so patterns it more deeply than only hearing it. Thanks!

  • @englishinthebag
    @englishinthebag 10 місяців тому +2

    Simple analysis which allows actionable plans.Great contribution to alleviate human pain.Greetings from Morocco.

    • @Relationships-Communication
      @Relationships-Communication  10 місяців тому

      Thank you for your kind comment! Glad you found it helpful. I appreciate the greeting from Morocco!

  • @jonfrederick6008
    @jonfrederick6008 2 роки тому +7

    Awesome. Brilliant. And so simple and straightforward. Thanks!

  • @linalindbladh8529
    @linalindbladh8529 Рік тому +4

    Amazing. Protecting your future! SO good

    • @Relationships-Communication
      @Relationships-Communication  Рік тому +1

      Yes. Too often our emotions convince us that this moment when we are emotionally activated is the vital time frame. But in hindsight, that usually is not the case. You are correct in noticing that protection our futures is usually more important than how we feel in the moment. Thanks for commenting!

  • @balajib785
    @balajib785 10 місяців тому +1

    Dear sir,
    Really you are such great divine analysistor but l am very ordinary man. Vibraratinng my complete body without my knowledge. But l am sure all are making great effort to resolve the......❤

  • @davidmorrison1086
    @davidmorrison1086 Рік тому +4

    Never knew the difference. Awesome! Many Thanks 👍

    • @strategicleadershipconsult7329
      @strategicleadershipconsult7329 Рік тому

      You are very welcome, David! Glad the difference between reacting and responding 😁was an insight for you!

    • @Relationships-Communication
      @Relationships-Communication  Рік тому

      You are very welcome, David! Glad the difference between reacting and responding 😁was an insight for you!

  • @MaggieWebster-o4r
    @MaggieWebster-o4r Рік тому +3

    This makes so much more sense than some vides I’ve listened to. It’s plain and simple no nonsense language that anyone and everyone can understand. Thank you ❤

    • @Relationships-Communication
      @Relationships-Communication  Рік тому

      Thank you, @user-kj1nf2ki6p , for your kind comment. I appreciate hearing that the ways of responding rather than reacting made good sense to you. I hope you also find a few other videos on my channel that can help you or the people in your life have better relationships and communication.

    • @MasteryJourneys
      @MasteryJourneys 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for commenting. I'm glad the video helped.

  • @JoJo-xo6fh
    @JoJo-xo6fh Рік тому +4

    Thank you Sweet man🙏❤️

  • @kateowen6035
    @kateowen6035 Рік тому +1

    Great advice, thanks!

    • @Relationships-Communication
      @Relationships-Communication  Рік тому

      I'm glade, Kate, that you found the information helpful in learning how to respond creatively to situations rather than to react. Thanks for commenting!

  • @meenakumari362
    @meenakumari362 8 місяців тому +2

    It doesn't matter, it's the same because you're energizing the situation. You may take revenge days or years after which brings bad karma.

    • @richardjchandler
      @richardjchandler 8 місяців тому

      And creating bad karma is a likely consequence of reacting rather than responding. I appreciate your comment. Thanks!

    • @meenakumari362
      @meenakumari362 8 місяців тому +1

      @@richardjchandler You can respond in a negative way or take time to plan revenge. Whatever thoughts or energy you put out, you get back regardless respond or react.

    • @richardjchandler
      @richardjchandler 8 місяців тому

      @@meenakumari362 Yes. That certainly is true!

    • @CastleHassall
      @CastleHassall 5 місяців тому

      your points make no sense.. if a person is rational in a discussion that does not mean they are putting bad energy into it
      and also it's wise to fight sometimes, unless you don't value protecting the innocent from abuse etc

    • @meenakumari362
      @meenakumari362 5 місяців тому

      @@CastleHassall
      What is Revenge What Karma, Revenge & Justice Have to Do w/ Reality Transurfing ua-cam.com/video/9DtAcaAG8vE/v-deo.html

  • @reallifelove
    @reallifelove Рік тому +2

    Very helpful, thank you

    • @strategicleadershipconsult7329
      @strategicleadershipconsult7329 Рік тому +2

      I appreciate your kind comment. I'm glad the idea of taking a pause to respond was of help to you.

    • @Relationships-Communication
      @Relationships-Communication  Рік тому

      Glad it was helpful! Taking a few more moments to pause to respond and not react can really pay off. Thanks for commenting!

  • @shannaypeterkin3567
    @shannaypeterkin3567 4 місяці тому +1

    Needed this

  • @RawKnee1111
    @RawKnee1111 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you ~

  • @CastleHassall
    @CastleHassall 5 місяців тому

    but the trouble is that many people we have conflict with are NOT interested in rational points that we make at all and our attempts to rationally discuss issues just leads to them gaslighting or getting abusive if we are rational and considerate