1 - The Power of Indifference 2 - Building Self-Worth Beyond Relationships 3 - The Perception Shift 4 - Why Women Respect Emotional Fortitude (and Test You) 5 - Living Well Without Her 6 - Why Silence Makes Her Chase You 7 - Mastering Your Ego: Why Emotional Control Wins 8 - Control What You Can Control 9 - Build Yourself Up 10 - Rejection Isn’t the End
I remember a time when I stopped chasing after someone who wasn’t interested, and instead focused on my own growth. Surprisingly, they reached out months later. It made me realize how powerful it is to focus on yourself and let things unfold naturally. Modern stoicism really helped me keep calm and patient through it all.
*The real reason women often come back after rejecting you isn’t about a sudden change in their feelings; rather, it’s the undeniable power of detachment that Stoicism teaches us. When you step back, focus on self-growth, and move forward without bitterness, you project strength and self-respect-qualities that naturally draw people back into your orbit. This shift isn’t about playing games or seeking revenge; it’s about understanding that true attraction stems from inner peace, confidence, and independence. By valuing yourself and not chasing what wasn’t meant to stay, you create a magnetic pull that others can’t ignore. In the end, the power lies in letting go and allowing others to see what they missed out on, without you ever needing to prove your worth.*
Wow, the 'power of indifference' really struck a chord! It’s amazing how shifting focus to self-growth and not needing validation can change everything. Who else found this mind-opening?
I'm so sorry to hear that man, I suggest you check out one of our videos on how to handle Rejection and turn it to your advantage. You will definitely thank me later.💪🔥
Focusing on what you can control is the best way to reduce stress and stay grounded. It helps you navigate life with clarity and peace, knowing that some things are beyond your influence.
Went on a date last week with a girl from the gym. The date went pretty well. Had a lot of things in common. Tried to set something up again and she said yeah but it didn’t happen. I was confused but these videos appeared on my algorithm and helped a lot. Normally I’d hit her up asking what’s up, or did I do something. She probably has a dude or something or idk. The point is I’m just letting it go. Better to just focus on myself. Thanks for these videos! 💪🏾
The idea of building a fulfilling life regardless of others’ opinions is liberating. It’s a reminder that true strength and confidence come from within. Who’s with me in making this a priority?
I never had any who come back though, but its ok. Stoicism also teaches us that there is abundance. If the last one comes back, things would be different from before
Stoicism’s message of self-sufficiency and inner strength shines through in your comment, as you’ve embraced the freedom that comes with not needing others to validate your worth. Whether they return or not, your focus on personal growth and self-respect signals that you are at peace with whatever may come. It’s a powerful reminder that we are complete on our own, and any connections we form only add to, rather than define, our value. Do you think that embracing this perspective on abundance has changed the way you view relationships as a whole?
they only come back if the other guy who was plowing there field dumps them ..then they go back to last place they were treated well..like stray cats you fed..
Women come back after rejecting you because Stoicism teaches self-control and detachment. When you focus on improving yourself, you naturally become more attractive
I'm sure you mean well, but this is a silly, naive view of the REAL dating world. Women do NOT usually pay any attention to you after you part ways in the wake of rejection, as attractive women have A LINE of men waiting to simp for them. She's moved on, Jack! The woman who rejected you will never be aware of your "improvement," and who needs her to anway? I've ghosted MANY women and had no such results, which is far more common-sense than this video suggests. Women have so many options, they just go on to the next guy, period.
I'm sorry to hear that, rejection is one of the most painful feelings anyone can ever go through. I suggest you check out one of my videos on how to handle rejection and turn it to your advantage. Trust me, you will thank me later.💪💯
The last question is a milestone and implies: do you need a woman that could not see/did not want to see the real you when she was playing her game at you? Do you want such "creature" to be with you? Or you want a women that can see through your eyes and feel who you really are and instead of playing games have the courage to expose herself in order to start together the magical dance we call love.
Its not really complicated. They are always unhappy, always looking for a better deal, are always selfish and impulsive. And then, they come back to you. No, you're not. Make me laugh.
I’m here again.. in this space, Compelled to listen but strained to hear what I had an idea of already. Not sure if at 33 it’s already too late but the battle of apathy has been a tedious one. Both aspects honestly infuriate me, the humility on both ends is evident.. What do I want now from my life to change from this point on? I’ve ALWAYS been spending my life trying to stabilize mine.
But she cheated, and the guilt forced her to push me away. She wasn't able to hold herself accountable and lied about everything. I'm going to improve, she's going to detonate. She will miss me, but I gotta keep it moving.
Rejection just tells me she’s not the one for me and I move on. I don’t play games so the women that do often times never get a chance with me as I just block them. If I still have to interact with them am respectful but make it clear am not interested. Nothing they can do will change my mind. Once I make up my mind that am done am done. I have met women that don’t play the I don’t want you oh but I really want you. I look for consistency not inconsistency in a woman as life is short. All women play games just women that are consistent play less games and they more test to make sure your right for her not that she doesn’t want you. It’s like ghosting vs running and yes there’s a difference. I go for women that run because they know they want you but they need to Process their feelings and what’s going on.
How to convince a heartbroken woman for relationship and she is afraid of relationship but I know she is loyal she has a really good personality but how I can concern for relationship please show me a way
Give her space and a couple of months to "land on her feet." If she's till acting disoriented, she's a nut and you need to move on. Trust me, I've been there.
Gaining her trust and helping her feel secure again requires a gentle approach, grounded in patience and authenticity. Instead of focusing on convincing her, think of it as creating a safe space for her to open up. Show her, through consistent actions, that she can rely on you without pressure or expectations. Embrace the Stoic principle of focusing on what you can control-your own intentions, patience, and presence-and let her decide the pace. Trust that with time, she’ll come to see the sincerity of your intentions, and that alone can be the bridge she needs to take a step forward. Do you believe there are certain gestures or actions that help rebuild trust more than words ever could?
In a short time she became my bestfriend and love feel started to me and i propose her but she is not interested in love but still she used to talk with me but now she is started ignoring me and she is getting close to another guy ... I just want her i madly in love with her so what should I do now
While it’s natural to want answers, sometimes the most powerful action is to give yourself the space to reflect and focus on your own growth. In allowing her the freedom to make her choices, you also give yourself the opportunity to regain your own power, dignity, and peace. It’s not easy, especially when love feels overwhelming, but remember, your value and happiness shouldn’t hinge on anyone else’s actions. True respect and affection will find their way to you in time. Have you found that focusing on your own journey and personal growth helps create clarity in times like these?
I have a girl in my apartment in Mexico. She leaves, then comes back after a few weeks. She can’t figure out why chads don’t keep her for more than 3 months!
This perspective on controlling what you can and letting go of the rest is powerful, especially in a world so fixated on instant gratification. Love how Stoicism is applied here. Anyone else applying this mindset?
At the beginning stage of picking and seduction process? What does stoicism advices on this...Should a man take initiative to approach and propose her or she should work for me and take the initiative to approach me? Do I have to be like MGTOW?
See my earlier post herein. The video is somewhat silly and over-simplified. The concepts are good, but they do NOT "trigger" the results claimed. Typically, she's just "gone" and that's it, in my experience.
Taking the step to end contact shows immense strength and self-respect, even when it feels like the outcome doesn’t align with what you had hoped for. Sometimes, it’s not about them coming back, but about realizing that you’ve chosen your own peace over the uncertainty of someone else’s intentions. Your story is a powerful reminder that true freedom often means accepting the silence and moving forward with resilience. By choosing to cut ties, you’re valuing your own emotional well-being above all else, and that is a victory in itself. Have you found that this decision to go silent has opened up new perspectives or shifts in your personal growth?
I just don't know where to begin. All the "tips" herein are true, but the promised "results" (her coming back and chasing you, or whatever) are NONSENESE. I've spent my life doing ALL of the recommended things in this video, but have almost never had the women come back. I'm not complaining; I didn't expect them to. So, while the ideas presented are good ones, they help you with your journey, NOTHING MORE. I've ghosted many women when I knew they were about to reject me, saving me headaches, but virtually NEVER creating all the "responses" this video suggests. It's as though the author(s) have never dated in the real world! Hell, who wants a woman who rejects you to come back into your life anyway? You'll always have to question her REAL motives, which would never be to your benefit anyway!
You’re absolutely right; the goal isn’t to make someone chase you but to cultivate a mindset that allows you to move forward with dignity and purpose, regardless of the outcome. And you raise a profound point: inviting someone back who didn’t value you initially is rarely in our best interest. Your words encourage us to think deeply about our motivations and to realize that the ultimate reward lies in the strength we gain, not in someone else's response. Do you feel that shifting our focus from others’ reactions to our own self-worth changes how we navigate relationships overall?
This strategy is very stupid. Unfortunately, by the time she comeback she will be old and ugly. I'm against of this games. Chasing and pay attention to a girl or woman that you love to bring smile on her face and make her feel bappy with you are two different things. Instant of wait weeks wait max 3 days send her a txt but not emotional. Just try to control your emotions that's the key.
It’s not a mind game if your move on naturally. IT IS if you reluctantly deny talking to someone you wanted in your life (never trying to reconnect or seek closure). I have a friend that constantly chases women when he thinks they have “ checked out “. They usually end up leaving sooner (breaking up, cheating, whatever pushes the guy away). Woman don’t like beggars and guys that worship them like that. Basically men who can’t find happiness outside of them. It’s too much pressure or just unappealing: most will walk. I think the video would’ve been better received just saying “ you have to be okay with understanding people come and go throughout our lives - those that are meant for you will choose to stay without convincing “.
I clicked with a girl slept with her but i know other guys are in picture she rkns she busy for few weeks moving and we can catch up after that but she takes ages reply. So think im just going to back away i dont think her interest level is there even though we had a good time
You were just her last resort and back up guy leave her and dont ever take her back she may come back just too test you once again and if you submit too her bidding and wants or needs you lose! Discard her like yesterday's trash 🗑 and do exactly 💯 % too her like she did too you as she is just playing ▶️ you like a fiddle 🎻 and now she is putting you through her hoops and hurdles of lies and manipulation and now she is putting you through her devaluation process and gaslighting you don't fall for her narcissistic 2 faced gasliighting web🕸of deception and toxicity do unto her as she did too you and make her do things on your terms if you decide too see her again and dont tolerate malarkey from her at all whatsoever and hold your ground against her and if she is not submissive then reject her forevermore! However I advise you get rid of her all together and move on with your life as trash 🗑 like her is not worth losing your sanity and mind over!
1 - The Power of Indifference
2 - Building Self-Worth Beyond Relationships
3 - The Perception Shift
4 - Why Women Respect Emotional Fortitude (and Test You)
5 - Living Well Without Her
6 - Why Silence Makes Her Chase You
7 - Mastering Your Ego: Why Emotional Control Wins
8 - Control What You Can Control
9 - Build Yourself Up
10 - Rejection Isn’t the End
I remember a time when I stopped chasing after someone who wasn’t interested, and instead focused on my own growth. Surprisingly, they reached out months later. It made me realize how powerful it is to focus on yourself and let things unfold naturally. Modern stoicism really helped me keep calm and patient through it all.
*The real reason women often come back after rejecting you isn’t about a sudden change in their feelings; rather, it’s the undeniable power of detachment that Stoicism teaches us. When you step back, focus on self-growth, and move forward without bitterness, you project strength and self-respect-qualities that naturally draw people back into your orbit. This shift isn’t about playing games or seeking revenge; it’s about understanding that true attraction stems from inner peace, confidence, and independence. By valuing yourself and not chasing what wasn’t meant to stay, you create a magnetic pull that others can’t ignore. In the end, the power lies in letting go and allowing others to see what they missed out on, without you ever needing to prove your worth.*
Wow, the 'power of indifference' really struck a chord! It’s amazing how shifting focus to self-growth and not needing validation can change everything. Who else found this mind-opening?
True... the real reason Delilah returned to Samson was because she wanted to discover why his strength never failed
By the time they come back, it's too late. These mind games they play are so stupid. 😕
READY! JUST GOT REJECTED WEEK AGO
I'm so sorry to hear that man, I suggest you check out one of our videos on how to handle Rejection and turn it to your advantage. You will definitely thank me later.💪🔥
Just drop it and move on. Thinking about the past is a fool's errand. Good luck!
Focusing on what you can control is the best way to reduce stress and stay grounded. It helps you navigate life with clarity and peace, knowing that some things are beyond your influence.
Went on a date last week with a girl from the gym. The date went pretty well. Had a lot of things in common. Tried to set something up again and she said yeah but it didn’t happen. I was confused but these videos appeared on my algorithm and helped a lot. Normally I’d hit her up asking what’s up, or did I do something. She probably has a dude or something or idk. The point is I’m just letting it go. Better to just focus on myself. Thanks for these videos! 💪🏾
You're welcome man, I'm glad you found this channel and are implementing these powerful lessons 🔥🔥
Yeah, bail, and just move on to other opportunities. She's not serious enough, obviously.
@@ceejay9663 appreciate it champ!
The idea of building a fulfilling life regardless of others’ opinions is liberating. It’s a reminder that true strength and confidence come from within. Who’s with me in making this a priority?
@@StoicQuotes365 👏🏾
I've seen your videos and channel, your doing Good. Keep up the good work!
Thanks, will do
I’m here crying over a girl and waiting but no more, focus on me job and became what I want
That's the spirit 💪🔥
No single woman is worth it. Just move on.........
I never had any who come back though, but its ok. Stoicism also teaches us that there is abundance. If the last one comes back, things would be different from before
Stoicism’s message of self-sufficiency and inner strength shines through in your comment, as you’ve embraced the freedom that comes with not needing others to validate your worth. Whether they return or not, your focus on personal growth and self-respect signals that you are at peace with whatever may come. It’s a powerful reminder that we are complete on our own, and any connections we form only add to, rather than define, our value.
Do you think that embracing this perspective on abundance has changed the way you view relationships as a whole?
they only come back if the other guy who was plowing there field dumps them ..then they go back to last place they were treated well..like stray cats you fed..
Women come back after rejecting you because Stoicism teaches self-control and detachment. When you focus on improving yourself, you naturally become more attractive
I'm sure you mean well, but this is a silly, naive view of the REAL dating world. Women do NOT usually pay any attention to you after you part ways in the wake of rejection, as attractive women have A LINE of men waiting to simp for them. She's moved on, Jack! The woman who rejected you will never be aware of your "improvement," and who needs her to anway? I've ghosted MANY women and had no such results, which is far more common-sense than this video suggests. Women have so many options, they just go on to the next guy, period.
Ready! Just got rejected today.
I'm sorry to hear that, rejection is one of the most painful feelings anyone can ever go through. I suggest you check out one of my videos on how to handle rejection and turn it to your advantage. Trust me, you will thank me later.💪💯
@@TheStoicTribe101god bless 🙌
Amen🙏
0:25 "they come back because deep down they hate seeing you thrive without them" unironically eye-opening
Remember, if your love wasn’t good enough for them, your words will never be, either. Walk away.
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I just experienced this while video. It's facts. I'm living my best life😊
The last question is a milestone and implies: do you need a woman that could not see/did not want to see the real you when she was playing her game at you? Do you want such "creature" to be with you? Or you want a women that can see through your eyes and feel who you really are and instead of playing games have the courage to expose herself in order to start together the magical dance we call love.
Its not really complicated. They are always unhappy, always looking for a better deal, are always selfish and impulsive. And then, they come back to you. No, you're not. Make me laugh.
I’m here again.. in this space, Compelled to listen but strained to hear what I had an idea of already. Not sure if at 33 it’s already too late but the battle of apathy has been a tedious one.
Both aspects honestly infuriate me, the humility on both ends is evident.. What do I want now from my life to change from this point on?
I’ve ALWAYS been spending my life trying to stabilize mine.
So true! Women don't want the 'nice guy' anymore; they crave men who show confidence and control.
Discipline and distance create attraction, be your best self to be most attractive.
“No matter how good she was or how beautiful she were, once she cheat and play on me.. I ain’t gonna take that shit back
I’m moving on.. God is great
All the time🙏🔥
But she cheated, and the guilt forced her to push me away. She wasn't able to hold herself accountable and lied about everything. I'm going to improve, she's going to detonate. She will miss me, but I gotta keep it moving.
Rejection just tells me she’s not the one for me and I move on. I don’t play games so the women that do often times never get a chance with me as I just block them. If I still have to interact with them am respectful but make it clear am not interested. Nothing they can do will change my mind. Once I make up my mind that am done am done. I have met women that don’t play the I don’t want you oh but I really want you. I look for consistency not inconsistency in a woman as life is short. All women play games just women that are consistent play less games and they more test to make sure your right for her not that she doesn’t want you. It’s like ghosting vs running and yes there’s a difference. I go for women that run because they know they want you but they need to Process their feelings and what’s going on.
I love this video!
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These childish games are for kids ...u love me i love you and live life ,simple!
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How to convince a heartbroken woman for relationship and she is afraid of relationship but I know she is loyal she has a really good personality but how I can concern for relationship please show me a way
Give her space and a couple of months to "land on her feet." If she's till acting disoriented, she's a nut and you need to move on. Trust me, I've been there.
Gaining her trust and helping her feel secure again requires a gentle approach, grounded in patience and authenticity. Instead of focusing on convincing her, think of it as creating a safe space for her to open up. Show her, through consistent actions, that she can rely on you without pressure or expectations. Embrace the Stoic principle of focusing on what you can control-your own intentions, patience, and presence-and let her decide the pace. Trust that with time, she’ll come to see the sincerity of your intentions, and that alone can be the bridge she needs to take a step forward.
Do you believe there are certain gestures or actions that help rebuild trust more than words ever could?
The lost has become huge benifit
In a short time she became my bestfriend and love feel started to me and i propose her but she is not interested in love but still she used to talk with me but now she is started ignoring me and she is getting close to another guy ... I just want her i madly in love with her so what should I do now
You KNOW what to do, but you don't wish to face it. It's time for you to move on and seek someone who values YOU for who you are. Good luck!
While it’s natural to want answers, sometimes the most powerful action is to give yourself the space to reflect and focus on your own growth. In allowing her the freedom to make her choices, you also give yourself the opportunity to regain your own power, dignity, and peace. It’s not easy, especially when love feels overwhelming, but remember, your value and happiness shouldn’t hinge on anyone else’s actions. True respect and affection will find their way to you in time.
Have you found that focusing on your own journey and personal growth helps create clarity in times like these?
I have a girl in my apartment in Mexico. She leaves, then comes back after a few weeks. She can’t figure out why chads don’t keep her for more than 3 months!
This perspective on controlling what you can and letting go of the rest is powerful, especially in a world so fixated on instant gratification. Love how Stoicism is applied here. Anyone else applying this mindset?
It works
At the beginning stage of picking and seduction process? What does stoicism advices on this...Should a man take initiative to approach and propose her or she should work for me and take the initiative to approach me? Do I have to be like MGTOW?
I stopped contact all together. Still no comeback. I dont believe this.
She got someone better
@@semamboabdallah6291thats my thought too.
See my earlier post herein. The video is somewhat silly and over-simplified. The concepts are good, but they do NOT "trigger" the results claimed. Typically, she's just "gone" and that's it, in my experience.
Taking the step to end contact shows immense strength and self-respect, even when it feels like the outcome doesn’t align with what you had hoped for. Sometimes, it’s not about them coming back, but about realizing that you’ve chosen your own peace over the uncertainty of someone else’s intentions. Your story is a powerful reminder that true freedom often means accepting the silence and moving forward with resilience. By choosing to cut ties, you’re valuing your own emotional well-being above all else, and that is a victory in itself.
Have you found that this decision to go silent has opened up new perspectives or shifts in your personal growth?
Same here but they said if she stays gone she’s not what you want anyway I feel you man just live and it be if not who gives a fuc😊
Women come back because they realize they were wrong and they are helpless about it
They keep coming back because they need money!
I just don't know where to begin. All the "tips" herein are true, but the promised "results" (her coming back and chasing you, or whatever) are NONSENESE. I've spent my life doing ALL of the recommended things in this video, but have almost never had the women come back. I'm not complaining; I didn't expect them to. So, while the ideas presented are good ones, they help you with your journey, NOTHING MORE. I've ghosted many women when I knew they were about to reject me, saving me headaches, but virtually NEVER creating all the "responses" this video suggests. It's as though the author(s) have never dated in the real world! Hell, who wants a woman who rejects you to come back into your life anyway? You'll always have to question her REAL motives, which would never be to your benefit anyway!
You’re absolutely right; the goal isn’t to make someone chase you but to cultivate a mindset that allows you to move forward with dignity and purpose, regardless of the outcome. And you raise a profound point: inviting someone back who didn’t value you initially is rarely in our best interest. Your words encourage us to think deeply about our motivations and to realize that the ultimate reward lies in the strength we gain, not in someone else's response.
Do you feel that shifting our focus from others’ reactions to our own self-worth changes how we navigate relationships overall?
Lifeandscars said just because the btch come back dont mean she care about you but it means nobody caring about that btch game is game
Some of this stuffs are incorrect
We know that Eve came to Adam, not Adam to Eve.
This strategy is very stupid. Unfortunately, by the time she comeback she will be old and ugly. I'm against of this games. Chasing and pay attention to a girl or woman that you love to bring smile on her face and make her feel bappy with you are two different things. Instant of wait weeks wait max 3 days send her a txt but not emotional. Just try to control your emotions that's the key.
If u have children with her and she lives u
Mind games Bye
It’s not a mind game if your move on naturally. IT IS if you reluctantly deny talking to someone you wanted in your life (never trying to reconnect or seek closure).
I have a friend that constantly chases women when he thinks they have “ checked out “. They usually end up leaving sooner (breaking up, cheating, whatever pushes the guy away). Woman don’t like beggars and guys that worship them like that. Basically men who can’t find happiness outside of them. It’s too much pressure or just unappealing: most will walk. I think the video would’ve been better received just saying “ you have to be okay with understanding people come and go throughout our lives - those that are meant for you will choose to stay without convincing “.
I clicked with a girl slept with her but i know other guys are in picture she rkns she busy for few weeks moving and we can catch up after that but she takes ages reply. So think im just going to back away i dont think her interest level is there even though we had a good time
You were just her last resort and back up guy leave her and dont ever take her back she may come back just too test you once again and if you submit too her bidding and wants or needs you lose! Discard her like yesterday's trash 🗑 and do exactly 💯 % too her like she did too you as she is just playing ▶️ you like a fiddle 🎻 and now she is putting you through her hoops and hurdles of lies and manipulation and now she is putting you through her devaluation process and gaslighting you don't fall for her narcissistic 2 faced gasliighting web🕸of deception and toxicity do unto her as she did too you and make her do things on your terms if you decide too see her again and dont tolerate malarkey from her at all whatsoever and hold your ground against her and if she is not submissive then reject her forevermore! However I advise you get rid of her all together and move on with your life as trash 🗑 like her is not worth losing your sanity and mind over!
They are removing my comments utube is bs
If you wish to avoid diseases, move on to someone else! She's trouble, obviously.
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