Why Indian Men are so lonely?
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
- Loneliness is a silent disease, which is even more injurious than smoking. It is spreading across India and men are specially suffering from loneliness. Why is loneliness so scary and why is it rising among Indian men? In this video I explain the stages of loneliness and some solutions that may help you to solve it.
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Kaisa laga video? ❤
This video is such a good explanation my situation
भाई ये क्या बात हुई? अकेलेपन की समस्या है तो लोगों से घुल-मिल जाओ और घूमने-फिरने लग जाओ? हमें क्या पहले से नहीं पता ये सब? ये कोई निराकरण नहीं है, ये सब नहीं करना या नहीं कर पाते इसीलिए तो अकेलापन आया है। आपको ये बताना चाहिए था कि इस अकेलेपन के होते हुए भी अपने जीवन को सहजता के साथ कैसे जीएँ। या फिर ये बताना चाहिए था कि लोगों के ना होते हुए भी अकेलेपन से कैसे छुटकारा पाएँ।
Make a video about Modi Ji's UAE visit ❤
Amazing video thank you so much!!! So much love for you bro. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@avilsinghyou are very young brother. Give yourself few more years time don’t try to get anyone right now. Discover yourself first. Then try to find a partner when you are 21-22…
People needs to understand that Loneliness and being Aloneness is a very different thing. One is harmful but other is the way of life.
I was going to comment the same ❤❤
man i love bieng alone
@@darkvader125 same
This has been said by Osho
True, it's like a bike if you know how to ride it you will become expert of it
Loneliness?
I'm single, have no friends,
But I'm committed to build my career as an army officer or want to serve my millions of Indian brothers and sisters what they deserve,so I just don't feel anything. I exercise daily, my diet is good, I live healthy life, And top of that I have my parents 😊
🙌 Respect
Same
My agniveer vayu intake exam is coming nearer
Big respect from Bengal ❤❤
You r leading a healthy life bro.
I wish you success 😀
Jai Hind Sahab 🇮🇳 (in advance)
Make Krishna your friend, you will never feel lonely
Same
God is punishing me for crimes i never did. Why me?
@@BoysinBlue-zn5db its your past karma
@@KrishParekh-g7d Kuch bhi
@@bhagyajitdas1498Kuch galat kaha kya?
So i stay in Bangalore by myself in a flat and I am not very close with parents, like i am having a good relationship with them but not that I like to share everything with them because as you mentioned I don't feel close to them. So from past 1 year loneliness was hitting me really hard and to cope with it I went back to my home as I had the liberty to take work from home. I know a lot of people don't have this privilege but i really feel bad for them.
So last month I was just lying in my room and thinking just by staying at I am not going to fix my loneliness and this I took the step to come back to Bangalore and this with a better motivation... I joined gym and started working out regularly where I became quite friendly with my trainer, I joined a violin class which I wanted to learn and also started going to socializing events where people like me who are newer to the city came around.
So in conclusion it's just basically trying my self to push out of the comfort zone and I would definitely say I am feeling much better ❤. Good know that I am not the only person going through this
❤️
Btw Ram or Allah ?
What kind of social events you go in? I am also trying to socialize more and come out of this.
@@rotbolt yah like you know you can go to some standup comedy show or I am into web3 technology so I prefer going to such events where i find more like minded people
Same same. Yahi kaafi hai ki .. main akeli nahi jhel rahi ye issues. Sabko hain ..
The only way to eliminate loneliness is to have a bigger purpose in life and to keep working towards it throughout the day.
I think you're wrong. Mr Ratan tata who had a great purpose in life, lived a very successful life, still feels lonely now. Infact sir said that he regrets working so hard for his career and not giving enough time in other areas
@@crazydrifter13 bro, most of the physically, mentally and financially drained people I have ever seen in my life are all married.
Most of the lonely people I have come across are all married or are in a sort of companionship
@@kshitijkumarsingh3304 I've also observed the same. Marriage can make you lonely and cut you off from your connections while other marriages can also do the opposite.
Acharya Prashant said the same thing as well
@@kshitijkumarsingh3304 u can't generalise, it depends on person to person, I have seen my both married & unmarried friends drained & with white beard appearing. 🤷🏽♂️ 😂
This is the content we need man! Thank you very much. Personally I used to suffer from loneliness after my heartbreak, and distanced myself but after a bit I did exactly what you suggested today, I connected with more people and made active plans! It really helped me and now I am doing so much better everywhere :D
Check out Soch by Mohak Mangal.
That's the best way to fix heart break, also find a job, do whatever u get in hand, even if it's low paying & minial work.
@@FaizanShaikh-pp1kg
No..
Same story my girl sorry a person leave me alone and I feel so lonely everyday that I am always crying while studying after that i have separated myself from people's just because I don't feel that pain another time and still I am in that loop😅😂🤣🥹
@@aniedits_ don't worry brother you'll get through it
मुझे लगता है ये जिंदगी का एक हिस्सा है
Nope. Nahi hai.
It's not normal to feel so lonely.
I am alone but not lonely. I have learnt how to live alone. Trust me it is a bit difficult but very much possible. Try to keep yourself busy in different ways. You can do it.
@Shivadityaar😂😂😂
No, that won’t work. Just accept the fact that you’re lonely and there’s nothing you can do about it. There lies your power to do what you believe to be done without seeking social validation
No
Aloneness is physical. Loneliness is mental
You're in solitude. You're not lonely
Defect for you, but if you find good partner, don’t be rigid.
@@santos8146you do know that everybody is not looking for social validation lol
I have also lonliness problem,
There is no one person with whom I talk because I lost my mother and my father is busy in his works and his health is also not so good.
I live my life with this inspiration that a day in future this problem solved.
I request to everyone who watch this video please talk with everyone because if you talk his stress depression reduces.
Be happy ☺️
May be your father is also feeling loneliness after your mother's death and trying to deal with it by keeping busy, talk to him and try taking care of him, he needs you.
please get married dont be alone
You can erase your loneliness by reading things on Web.
@@rabbi619 I am a student bro.
@@n.7235 So what dosent matter just get married.
Consuming such videos is making me feel lonely. Sometimes I wonder if those thoughts are actually mine, I might have picked it from somewhere.
I'm 24 year old, 5 4' tall men suffering from male pattern baldness since I was 20. I don't have/ make much friends. All was good untill I being watched American pie movie series. After watching these movies I felt like I have missed a lot in life and left a need for having a partner. I haven't tried to approach anyone untill now as I feel I'm not quite there/ dont have anything special currently. Working on myself to be a better person. But then when you consume such content the thoughts come back 😢.
bro I think iam you iam 5'4 23 and sometime suffers from hair loss and yes I also compare myself with those character you're talking about still single but hitting consistently for 2 and half years really hard and now goes for run everyday has shoot my confidence I also visits temple every Monday being devotee to Shiva try this after sometime God will give you direction and take away your anxiety
The best and only way to stop loneliness and be happy is to be detached from the world. Until one seeks satisfaction and happiness from outside be it in the form of career or family or friends or entertainment(time pass), they will never experience true happiness, fullfillment and satisfaction.
This was taught by many Great saints like Gautama Buddha, Osho, etc. Even Shri Krishna taught this in Geeta.
To apply detachment in our life, we need to do one thing and that is meditate everyday.
Meditation will be very hard in the starting as it would be almost impossible to focus on one thing, but with time, it becomes easy.
Ye to same meri story he.. 5'7'Age -25 half bald from front..
Facing mpb / aga / baldness & thinning since teenage
No friends (real friends as I'm introvert)
Jobless / unemployed (sales person ki job kari pr bt due to lack of Confidence I was fired)
Hesitation in talking with girls & even with boys sometimes due to No career & baldness
I stay away from social media & even whatsApp etc. .. Vaha pe bhi mera hesitation & timidness mujhe bandhe rakhta he 😢
PIck up a hobby or an interest and consume less content. I lessened my use of instagram, deleted facebook, watch educational and scientific content on youtube and do my job. As a hobby I picked up astronomy and sketching, this keeps my mind engaged and I dont really feel lonely. Now im 24, but I was in the same situation as you when I was in college.
"Don't get Excited when ur in a Circle (or) Don't feel depressed when U are Alone"..Be Normal And feel Good Or Bad Equally..
As an Introvert I prefer to be alone.
It does not mean that the concept of loneliness not applied on me. But I think that introvert people are very less prone to loneliness and less likely to fall in depression and symptoms related to loneliness.
It is because we tend to enjoy our own company more that socializing. We recharge from being alone and are not dependent on people for gratification, knowledge, happiness, etc. but we do care about very small no. of people in our Introverted circle.
💯💪💯
But i disagree with you because I am an introvert who never communicate or mingle with people ,had a attachment with my best friend but sudden due to misunderstanding she stopped talking with me, then I too stopped taking, thought I had few couple of friends around me I was feeling lonely
Same bro 😂
I am gay and in closet and hence it's very obvious i am lonely.. coz it damn difficult to find a true partner in mid of all these stigmas surrounded..also being introvert i find it difficult to make friends.. but i try to escape this alone feeling by chasing big dreams.. don't know about future.. preparing for competitive exams atleast i want to make my career fruitful.. don't know about love life..i know god will be with me always 😅😅
Loneliness is not everytime a bad thing. You sometimes need time alone time to build yourself. 🎉
That's called solitude. It basically means staying/ being lonely by choice. But in case of loneliness, its mostly not by choice.
That's called being ALONE.
They have different meanings
@@ssjblckgohn1569 that's the problem. we are expecting people to cure their loneliness when they don't even know what it is
exactly I love to be alone that increases my productivity and overall if you see loneliness is good
its only good till ur progressing in life building a career but what about when u have acheived everything like bill gates but still then ur wife divorces u and u have no one to share ur day, ur problems and happiness with........ ur just simply waiting to die all alone without the actual feeling of happiness a healthy family gives u......its evolution afterall we are build to be social (atleast most are) being alone only seems cool until u actually are alone and then when u have lost all connections u try to find people online to talk to u which isnt that fulfilling
I am like Mr. Bean.
I enjoy my own company. Its a rare blessing. Those who have this are the luckiest.
Me too exactly ❤
@@shreejalk.c.4630 🤜🤛✌🤝
Bhai mere dost bano ge@@shreejalk.c.4630
8:10 I never cancel any plans, Suppose at first 5 person were there in outing plan and for some reason if 2 other people cancel then whole plan gets cancelled.
what happened with me is 2 person went and not informed me even When I was available and Was willing to go. They don't want to go with me. They will include me only if whole group is going.
Don't worry you will find better friends 😊
There are lot of travel groups , join them. You will get to meet many solo travellers
@@anushap4626 Once you are out of college... you can not make good friends anymore. After that all friendships are very formal & not so strong.
My Tommie posts pictures with all her usa returned friends and then we have tonnes of selfies, but will never post that.
@@rahuld943can you recommend a good travel group
When majority people posting all romantic things , you came up with a topic where men are facing!
Thankful to you 🙏
I am content with living alone. I attempt to become friends with my neighbors. I shared my secrets with them, but they recorded my conversation and made it public on the internet. It was the last time I trusted anyone and will never trust this generation again.
भाई ये क्या बात हुई? अकेलेपन की समस्या है तो लोगों से घुल-मिल जाओ और घूमने-फिरने लग जाओ? हमें क्या पहले से नहीं पता ये सब? ये कोई निराकरण नहीं है, ये सब नहीं करना या नहीं कर पाते इसीलिए तो अकेलापन आया है। आपको ये बताना चाहिए था कि इस अकेलेपन के होते हुए भी अपने जीवन को सहजता के साथ कैसे जीएँ। या फिर ये बताना चाहिए था कि लोगों के ना होते हुए भी अकेलेपन से कैसे छुटकारा पाएँ।
इसक जवाब ताॅ Thanos चाचा को भी नही पता होगा।
Yha kis kis ko khud se baat krne ki adat hai? 🙋
Main sabse zyada khud se baat karta hun aur mujhe usme bahut sukoon sa milta hai aur lagta hai ki Mera Mann bhar gaya 😌😌
Mujhe
14 th February ek deshbhakt k liye Black Day (Pulwama attack)and for this year maine black day and saraswati puja manuanga kyu ki Valentine's day ek foreign culture hai. I love Indian culture 🇮🇳🧡🧡💚💚 .
Can you also analyse whether guys or girls feel lonelier before marriage. From what I've seen while growing up, a lot more girls around me had romantic partners than boys but boys were doing better at friendships quantitatively and perhaps qualitatively also. So I can't say for sure who felt lonelier.
Being lonely is too addictive.
Lol as an extreme introvert I see this as an absolute win 🏆 🤣. Mujhe akele rahna hi sabse pasand hai😂
Mai bhi tha lekin fir sex sux. Ki killat ho gayi 💀
@@anshumansingh6645bruh🤣🤣
@@anshumansingh6645 Ye sux kaha milega mujhe bhi chahiye 😢😢😢😢😢
@@Redrum99962 ab to college jake hi milega bhai. Neet krack krle(mai bhi koshish kr rha hu)
@@anshumansingh6645 mai upsc ka preparation kr raha hooo aur uske sath bank.etc ki
Even my father was talking to me about the same issue ! he told me that he can make anyone his close friend under few days but that's not the case with this generation. We think we are too cool or we are above his standard for someone who wants to approach for friendship !
Believe or not but this whole problem is due to social media ! We are making friends just to get their help to make our career and not for pure friendship
True
Thankyou so much making this video. People dont talk about such topics. Your videos will highlight these issues more
U fill lonely? Can you be my friends?
Bhai kitna zyada relatable bana diya ye video mere liye 🤧🤧
14th February, what a good day to sleep🛌
Mai to football khelta hu jab lonely feel krta hu, ya koi naya activites. It really helps, those who are dealing with loneliness try to play outdoor games you will make connections with like minded people. Pehle mai v feel krta tha bohut zyada ab sahi hai pehle se
great piece of advice
Nice thumbnail. Took away my loneliness for a moment.
Wise people know that we are born alone, live alone and finally going to die alone.
Wisdom is knowing how to regulate ourselves and live with others with moderation of emotions.
😭 A painful and emotional video.
Bhai kya issue address kiya h thank you bhai hum shyd khud ko bhi kabhi kabhi convince nhi kara pate but shyd we are lonely atleast I am and I know many more people like me around me are lonely and in the age of social media we have stopped meeting people somewhere and probably that's catalysing this problem and also online learning distant learning all these things have contributed to lonliness
Its not about social media ye problem bhut pahle se h
bhai enta akela hu badminton bhi wall ka sath khelta hu
I think that when you love the profession or study(for students), you don't feel loneliness. When I was doing my 12th standard, I used to love the syllabus and used to spend most of the time in study related activities and hardly interact with people. But when I got into degree program, I lost interest in it and started feeling lonely even though I used to interact with a greater number of people than in the previous case. When comparison in between other's and our's performance becomes significant in our mind, we feel lonely. No matter how many people you interact with.
My best friend died 4 months ago on 14th October and he was the one who first time asked me *bhai are you okay* when my time was bad and I confessed everything to him at that time and he understood everything
I feel so sorry for your loss
Be strong, many great things are ahead of you in life. I too lost my grandma with whom I used to share everything with, sometimes such incidents in life make us tough and matured.
False cases against men are also problem..
Woah! You researched & pointed it very well bhai. Just amazing 👏🏼
KeepItUp ✌🏼
You are lonely, I am alone, we are not the same
Baat toh yeh hai ki insaan abb itna materialistic ho chuka hai ki woh friendship, emotions , kindness, gentleness sab kucch bhulta ja raha hai
Me tho Valo khel leta hu randoms ke sath 😢
Because it's intoxicating. More freedom to think , observe, more time for yourself . if you don't fit on your circle you should avoid being forcefully try to fit in it.
Kitni baar kahu, 6:00 Ye koi personal issue NAHI hai!
Log sach me ek dusre ko intentionally thugne ke liye taiyyar rehte hain.
Bahut achhe topic par video banaya hai aapne. Bhagwan aapko sukhi rakhe🙏
bro today after my JEE result my parents are abusing me and saying you are useless .this is really hurting my inner soul and it is tending bad thought in my mind it is too painful how should i overcome from this🙁😢
Don't worry you are not useless. Prove them wrong.
The most relatable video i have seen ever
Thanks brother for the solutions 😅😅
Much needed video brother...🙌🙌
Koi aye toh welcome... Jaye toh bheedh kam.... STAY STRONG KINGS....
Sri Krishna with always
You feel lonely I feel presence of Krishna
Being a female I also feel lonely. It's not only males who feel lonely. Females also feel lonely. Please include both the genders😢
Great vid last 5 min was awesome nice practical and logical solution 👍
I rely on animals for friendship. I need them. Unfortunately My species is too busy.
Paisa Hai Toh Badi Badi Badi Badi Baten
Paisa Hai Toh Lambi Lambi Lambi Lambi Raten
Paisa Hai Toh Five Star Sari Mulaqaten
Paisa Hai Toh Galiyan Bhi Sare Mang Khate
Paisa Hai Toh Galiyan Bhi Sare Mang Khate, Paisa Hai To!
I have social anxiety, often depression and l'm a loner. I've sick of fake people. There's nothing i feel good about, about 17+ but feel like a burden and worthless of how parents are investing for me. I think there's no such thing like solution for me. Literally I've forgotten to communicate and have low esteem, confidence and i never express my feelings.. I don't know, i think it started from a heart break from a friend but i tried but can't overcome it
17+ ?? I'm 28 and still living alone by myself but I'm facing health issues nowadays. Maybe loneliness is affecting me now. I never had any friends or close friends in school, colleges and when my age was 17, I ditched this agonist socity.
One advice for you- don't make the same mistake I did, you'll regret it later. I wish I could alter my past 11 years.
@@rohitsharma66 genz are so bad.. I don't know how can I explain to you. If you're kind and have a heart made up of gold, they'll disrespect you to look cool. They badmouth you and use you to take advantage and later ditch you. In this world what is even greater than dignity and respect. You're telling your health is deteriorating, maybe meditation and starting a virtual life might make ur mind lighter. At the end of the day, it's still depression and loneliness. Don't worry everything will be okay.
@@sankarkumardas9567 no doubt gen z is one of the worst generation. They don't care about the parents and elders, i daily see them during the commute to my office, home back and forth. The way this current generation behave in front of their teachers, I wish I could give tight slaps! One of my cousins is a teacher by profession and we always have the conversations about the current generation whenever she calls me. Disrespect is an another thing but humiliating your mentors in an inappropriate way is not tolerable.
Meditation and daily exercising can sooth my anxiety. I'm still not sure though whether it is a depression or the emptiness of single soul! I never felt the same until last year, maybe it is just a emotion which i am missing right now. Most people of my age around me, even younger than me , are getting married. I've already decided that I'll live alone for the rest of my life......................
@@sankarkumardas9567 no doubt gen z is one of the worst generation. They don't care about the parents and elders, i daily see them during the commute to my office, home back and forth. The way this current generation behave in front of their teachers, I wish I could give tight slaps! One of my cousins is a teacher by profession and we always have the conversations about the current generation whenever she calls me. Disrespect is an another thing but humiliating your mentors in an inappropriate way is not tolerable.
Meditation and daily exercising can sooth my anxiety. I'm still not sure though whether it is really a depression or the emptiness of single soul! I never felt the same until last year, maybe it is just a emotion which i am missing right now. Most people of my age around me, even younger than me , are getting married. I've already decided that I'll live alone for the rest of my life......................
@@sankarkumardas9567 no doubt gen z is one of the worst generation. They don't care about the parents and elders, i daily see them during the commute to my office, home back and forth. The way this current generation behave in front of their teachers, I wish I could give tight slaps! One of my cousins is a teacher by profession and we always have the conversations about the current generation whenever she calls me. Disrespect is an another thing but humiliating your mentors in an inappropriate way is not tolerable.
Meditation and daily exercising can sooth my anxiety. I'm still not sure, is it really a depression or the emptiness of single soul! I never felt the same until last year, maybe it is just a emotion which i am missing right now. Most people of my age around me, even younger than me , are getting married. I've already decided that I'll live alone for the rest of my life......................
today i knew that i am facing loneliness since 4 years , which is very dangerous
How🤔
bhai mai 12th me hu, aur 9,10th class me lockdown lag gaya tha aur 11,12th class me dummy leli aur mera koi dost bhi nahi ,aur mai hamesha se lonely hi feel karta hu@@sameeriftekhar4705
Climate change And global warming solutions pe video bnao
Please
I shared this video with myself...
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I think i have high ambitions so i dont feel like to be alone actually for me marriage is fear on unknown. Specially the rise of feminist ideology is most dangerous.
Hi @openletteryt thank you so much for all the suggestions.... I sometimes see my childhood and college friends in my dream and all the fun i had. The feeling of tiredness, headache and a bad mood comes from loneliness..... I want to feel alive again... Thanks for the healthy advice man
The same happens to me thrice a week. I think our mind is reminding us about the glorious days.😢
Introvert hu aur iss jindegi se chukara chata hu 😢😢 kab ka suicide kar liya hota agar mahadev ne mujhe nhi smbhala hota
😂 Why is this video so relatable to me?
if you are alone then use shadow clone jutsu
-Naruto uzumaki
DATTEBAYYO!!!
really brother i can also relate to this and thank you very much for bringing this topic up, Keep doing this work i will always support you !.
Now i am more depressed knowing that after never smoking a cigarette i have been smoking 15 cigarettes a day for 3,4 years😢
Sir.. you can be a best motivational speaker 🔊.
most of your videos in recent times looks like inspired by soch by mohak mangal channel..
Loneliness is not only the worst feeling for men and boys, but it is as worst feeling for women and girls as well bhaiya ji.
Women can't be lonely
Baat ladko ki ho rhi hai toh tumhara number agli video me ayega
@@YuriFromVishwaguru Technically educated women can remain lonely better than men. My fathers friends daughter remained lonely being a professor of a college.
females k pas to hr jgah options available hote h.. attention/validation jrurat se jyda milta rehta.
..fir b lonely😂
@@surojeetchatterji9966 you didn't get my statement
Money is everything hai ❤
Being alone is a skill.. learn it you'll feel better
Being Lonely - Gateway to depression
😂😂😂
You are confusing being lonely with being alone
@@praveen_2853 ohh I edited 😂😂
@@YuriFromVishwaguru my cousin brother remained alone from 90s era leaving Sales Tax govt job started doing English literature tuitions & reading books & listening to music & playing chess with me. That time there was no SM as such. End of the day it depends person to person.
Exactly, I've mastered this ability to such an extent that I don't even have the fear of losing my already close friends. It's like, I've prepared myself to lose em some day by accepting the fact that "no one cares" or by just questioning myself that, "is my absence gonna make any difference in their life at all". Indeed this is a skill that helped me as I've compensated my loneliness with scrolling reels or going to work or college. Even though they might seem silly but still good enough to keep me going.
This is the type of content we want 😊🎉 thank youu brother for covering these important topics Respect +++++
It's similar to this case ! Spupose if you have a 30k Rs android phone after few days of using it, it becomes a regular thing in your life. You will pick it up, call someone, use social media thats it and throw it on your bed !
But for a person who is earing 50 - 100 rs per day, It feels like a luxury !
Money just gives use pleasure for a certain period of time but due to that we lose a lot of things. Like friend circle, Caring relatives etc. ( From personal experience )
I don't agree, loneliness is the best thing, it's a useless study that says loneliness is dangerous, a Yogi who has lived for 100 Plus years lived in forest alone.So it's not right to say so.
That's the state of solitude not lonliness, video poora dekhoge toh samjh aayega.
Yogi is not alone, he has reached siddhi, to him separation between man and nature or man or God is immaterial,how can you call such a person as alone? Normal people haven't reached this level of understanding their minds are too weak to survive with no support.
bhai i am going through this phase of loneliness ,it hurts so much you would never know ,you cry each and every day for hours and hours ,in the end it leads to anxiety overthinking trauma and much more and eventually depression .so stfu if you havent gone through it
Loneliness stems from the need to have someone around us to fill our vaccum that we have created in our mind.
A yogi even between a group of people doesn't need them.
That's why Krishna is often called Maha yogi jo sansar mein rehkar bi sansar ke saath attached nahi.
I guess there's nothing more better than talking to yourself and laughing at your own silly jokes and making weird faces in camera. It kind of helps me to be weird and just show my weirdness to myself which keeps me motivated and busy.
I also talk to myself 😂 people think I'm mad but fine this is how life goes on
90% loneliness toh social meida ko wajah se feel hoti hai..har second mein har tarah ke emotion's wali reels dekhna.. negative effect karti hai mind pe...itne sare emotions ek bar mein mind jhel ni pata...fir mental burnout hots hai mental fatigue hota hai
I am the situation where i can feel no one is happy with me, as a friend or as a partner. I feel lonelyness is mental disorder and it can recoverd by your self just thinking some postive things.
Some times a small solo tour is great to get free from this anxiety, and 2ndly busy with your favourite work it is the main therapy to become happy
Some times it can thought that a marriage will do good everything but its a very worng decision, if someone is not happy with lonley the marriage and girlfriend will provide him any good vibes its more dengerous,
So be happy lonely and feel happy with lovely, feel great as a human in 21st century its a very good chance no one will feel you happy if you not feel happy
Ae sab kuch faltu ki bate hein.... Kaam pe dhyan dooo guy's
U got my heart bhaiya ❤ ...I had few of the things you mentioned in video(it's fine now)....aap ek chiz batana bhul Gaye... solutions mei...jo bahut log use bhi karte hai...krishn...like krishn aur radhe...unke sath hona..it is also a solution
Matlab?
we also miss other points like government while focusing on women empowerment they have become blind towards mens right. I believe we must encourage women empowerment but it should not come at cost of men's basic rights
I think loneliness and depression will going to become world most biggest problem as like global warming i am in class 10 at present and trust me i am at the age when i feel most loneliness, depression,self doubt,and lazyness last year i am starting my UA-cam channel and i am very happy with creating videos on yt but in class 10 i have to leave it because of board exam 😢i am very sad in these days and trust me friend sometime i feel i will end everything but i can't do it because of my mother i am only person for her in the world i don't know what is happening in future but i ensure that "I never give up" "i fought at last moment"
Thank you so much sir
Mai introvert hu lekin ab mai isme sudhar karunga 🙏🙏❤
14 feb. - Matri pitri pujan diwas
*Thanks bro it helped me a lot*
I'm feeling so loneliness
You missed reading Bhagwat Geeta , it will be definitely helpful while fighting with loneliness.. it’s my personal experience
Bhai sirf paisa kamao Or fit raho 😊😊😊😊 baki sab bhad mein jy
Bhai mai sach bol raha hu mujhe from start till end I feel this video is specially made for me.....❤❤❤❤❤
"Why Indian men are so lonely?"
Introduction:
The video delves into the phenomenon of loneliness, exploring the experiences of public figures like Shahrukh Khan and Elon Musk. It emphasizes that loneliness is not solely tied to external factors like migration or old age but is deeply rooted in emotional struggles. The discussion also references a recent declaration by Duo, labeling loneliness as a global public health concern equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
Body:
1. Loneliness Despite Success:
- Shahrukh Khan's case illustrates that even immense success and popularity do not guarantee freedom from loneliness.
- Elon Musk, the world's richest person, also experiences loneliness despite having wealth and a large family.
2. Emotional Journey of Loneliness:
- Loneliness is defined as lacking deep connections and the feeling of being understood.
- The emotional journey behind loneliness is often unexplored, with many individuals feeling isolated due to reasons beyond external factors.
3. Impact of Loneliness:
- Loneliness is equated to the harm caused by smoking 15 cigarettes a day, affecting mental and physical health.
- Lack of strong social connections increases the risk of stroke, anxiety, dementia, and depression.
4. Causes of Loneliness:
- Loneliness may stem from familial disapproval, feeling misunderstood, or being a misfit in social circles.
- Migration, work-related relocations, or studying abroad can exacerbate feelings of loneliness.
5. Fear of Abandonment:
- Forming attachments may lead to increased expectations, and the fear of abandonment can hinder genuine connections.
6. Emotional Dysregulation:
- Some individuals may reject connections and adopt an extreme self-reliant attitude, possibly leading to emotion dysregulation.
- This stage is associated with the fear of vulnerability and self-doubt.
7. Solitude vs. Loneliness:
- Solitude implies contentment with oneself, while loneliness involves a desire for companionship despite external appearances.
8. Solutions for Loneliness:
- Practical solutions include not canceling plans, engaging in activities, and finding distractions.
- Attend events or try new activities to meet like-minded people.
- Consider owning a pet, especially a dog, to provide companionship.
- Encourages self-talk and recording thoughts to alleviate loneliness.
Conclusion:
The video explores the multifaceted nature of loneliness, transcending external circumstances. It highlights the emotional journey behind loneliness and provides practical solutions for individuals experiencing it. The impact on mental and physical health is underscored, emphasizing the need for genuine connections. The summary encapsulates the video's main points; however, for detailed understanding, watch the entire video.
Mostly I am solitude only because I have bad habit of self joking making ownself laugh in hard days I really forget my problems most of the time I try to make my friends laugh with same jokes but I guess everyone is busy nowdays so I keep talk to myself ❤ it really helps alot if you have a bad day just complain and forget if right a way don't keep it in your mind for long
Let me tell you about an incident that happened to me recently. Through a matrimonial site i got connected with a man, while conversing with him he was always acting stern. Showing zero effort towards the prospect of something between us. I thought he might have had some bad experiences and might not want to open up easily. So, I took the initiative and tried to pull out conversations with him, I praised something about him saying,"Wow that's impressive!" He suddenly reacted in a weird way, and was like "I don't impress anyone, I don't need to, whoever has to come into my life will come at random". That line broke my patience, I disconnected with him.
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Emotional damaged. 🤷🏽♂️ 😂
Jaa teri😂😂😂.
He's an idiot lol, even if there's no prospect of a relationship. It's good to connect with someone and to get a new perspective.
People need to stop being so cold with each other.
@@ToThoseWhoGotHurtByMeIAMSORRY This is an era of Ego & arrogance & pride due to technology. No emotions. This will happen u can't stop it.
Ladki lyf me ati loneliness chali jaati dosto se jada bandi k saath time spend hota hai or dosto ki doti kam hone lagti hai
Or phir bandi kisi or bande k saath kuch jada guli guli karleti hai ab ye secret kise bolega dosto se share karega toh mazak banjayega uska mom dad ko ase bate batate nhi aadhe Indians 😢
i relate to each and every point of this video
for all the fellow lonely people ,just talk to your friends on phone calls and start going with them out for plans , this is the best thing i could do to get out of this vicious cycle of death
I don't feel comfortable with others...going out with them does not solve the issue
@@dgs327 you might with be comfortable with your older friends , try contacting them and if they are busy open up to them , they would definitely help you
Mery pass sab kuch hai Alhumdullilah
Acha freelance career
Achy dost
Achi partner
Phr bhi my adhoora feel krta ho😢
Why?
alhumdullilaah ke wajah se
Are you Muslim?
😢
I can feel it...even though I'm not Man.
Guys, there is no loneliness. You are just lazy. Play sports. Get a new hobby. And you will make friends. That's it. If you are just sitting alone in your room and not doing anything and only scrolling Instagram Reels, you will surely ruin your life.
After 6 months I feel this chapter 😣
Them i started living a family & hear 2 child now I am happy 😊
Pics ❤😊
6:13 bhai ham aise hi hai or sari ladkiya paiso ke pecha bhag ti ha i decided mai single rhene ka faisla le leiya permanent
I like being single and lonely.
Loneliness is becoming common nowadays because of social media materialism towards younger generation 🙂
Thank you for speaking on a silent killer which very few are talking about. 👍