Childhood Beatings | Conversations with Kanwal | Season 5 | Episode 7
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- Опубліковано 17 кві 2023
- In today's episode Maham talks about facing violence at home as a child but also how slowly things changed for the better as she grew up.
In collaboration with British Council Pakistan.
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My story. Toxic environment of home makes me patient of anxiety and depression . Wish may god give hidayat to toxic fathers.
Society, Financial Stability root cause of middle class Father's to act like this to prepare for injustice, corruption, Nepotism
No parents are Toxic, Situation if Haunting, u don't upbring a Weakling.
When I was only 10 years old.. One night when I was able to sleep I saw my parent's room light was on and out of love I went to see thm was, thinking to sleep or cuddle with my ammi but unfortunately they were doing their deed( se*) without locking the door .. I was, scared seeing them like this and I turn around and ran toward my room but you know what my father came after me and beat me like an animal or boly ja rahy thy ghar sy bhag rahi thi na tu mn 10 sal ki bachi jisy ghark ilawa kuch pata hi nai tha wo roti rahi maar khati rahi or phir yah maar pitayi 20 saal jari rai abhi 3 years pahly I took stand and left that house.. There are so many ups n down but I can't comment or post on soul sister because of so many family members on ssp
Iso wanted to tell my story but can't because LOG KIA KAHAINGY
May u heal fully and no harm ever touch u amen. May I know your father educational background?
@@fatimawaheed-wq9tr he is well educated my mother was also Master's in economics but this maar pitayi was so common in my house even my mom did this million times I have a long long story to tell about how my mother asked my brothers to beat me on such small things
Jazak Allah for your prayers ❤
So sorry to hear your story. May Allah swt. Bless you with all good🤲
Dear feelings very sad for u I'm also facing the same situation plz can u help me what. Should I do ?? If I share some issues
May ALLAh ease all the paths for u Ameen Summa Ameen
I hope ap theek ho aur Allah apko kisi ka bhe kabhi mohtaj na karey Ameen
Maham is so innocent.... I am shattered to listen about her childhood incidents..😭😭More power to you Maham!!!
I relate to her alot, my family was extremely toxic like hers, emotionally and physically that i actually developed anxiety, i took a stand for myself and Alhamdulillah at a better place but scars rarely heal:(
What a journey Maham has had. The trauma she has been through while growing up is devastating enough but she came out of it shining is amazing. As a mother of a 20 year old daughter myself I had goosebumps all over while listening to her struggles with anxiety.
More power to you Maham bachy! You will go very far inshaAllah and wish you the best in everything. 😘❤️
Kanwal I am so proud to be a part of SSP and a witness to the revolution you and your team are bringing to the society. One day inshaAllah we will come to a stage when men will think thousand times before even raising their voices on women because women will not tolerate any of it . ❤️😘
Its important good environment especially home .My ex was used to hit my son brutally and it was Normal for him and his family. That was reason for my break up. Alhamdulillah I never regret my decision.
Proud moment u took steo for ur son ❤
What a mature girl you are at 20! Living and creating change! So humble & so raw. Such an inspiration
This episode is so promising on so many levels 👏🏻 so happy that Maham found her own little support system in her api and later her parents also supported her studies and dreams. ❤
This interview was really impressive but it had made me more curious to meet her cousin, the real tiger of her family.
So proud of Maham and her perseverance in standing up for what she believes in. While she was powerful, women in her life supported her through, and it's a great example of Women supporting Women. I LOVED that about the story. Fly high Maham, this is JUST the beginning. Khush Raho!
My relatives are the same as her from my childhood...but fortunately only my father is the one in the whole family who never listened to their lies about us who never let them beat us or touch us..he only believed in his daughters(us) he always says that I know my daughter's nd I trust them the most❣️
Men of the family have to step up and change the lives of the women of their family. Kudos to your father and your Taya
Loved how the environment changed, making a big shift in everyone's life. ❤
Such a beautiful episode with an overwhelming hay ending!!🥲🥲🥲🥲
I love how confidently she has narrated her story...it is all about her strength that she went on telling us about the painful moments with such ease...this shows how well she has recovered!❤ i m so happy that she received therapy and has shown the positive side of it to everyone! So proud of you dear ❤
Kanwal this is an awesome episode as always👌👍👏
At this day and age to see child abuse so common is really heart-wretching and evil. May she get stronger and wiser ❤
She is such an innocent soul❤️ more power to you girl💞
I tell you Kanwal, these stories, they are so worth sharing. You are doing so great. May you continue to bring these voices to us. Ameen
Wow Inshallah I'll make my daughter just brave like you.hats off to u kanwal
So so so beautiful. She is an amazing girl and may Allah always keep her happy and smiling.
The most refreshing episode!! Mahi is so innocent but also so strong!
The way she’s spoken about mental health is incredible 😢❤ Love you girl ❤❤😢😢
More power to you Maham. Proud of you young lady. Love for you
Beautiful story and I'm so proud of everyone who finds the courage to speak about themselves after every trauma and obstacles in life. Also kudos to you kanwal, and your team for bringing such a beautiful concept and making sure their voices reach everywhere. Please don't let it stop ❤
Splendid episode
Magi you are so cute MashaAllah .
I’m so glad that you made a huge difference in your balochi community, keep it up x
So proud of her. I'm just in awe of her courage.
More power to her! What a lovely innocent soul❤❤
She is so good nd pure hearted 💕 hats off to all the change bringers 🎉
So proud of Maham for her achievements 🥰
Just came here to say that the males in my house are now really positive and are being supportive in every step ❤
Overwhelming 😢 loved the happy ending 🥺♥️
You did it I'm really proud of yew my gurl keep growing 💗
As always I love this. This little girl has my heart ❤️ I wish I could see her someday and give her a hug..I am so sorry kid,you had to suffer so much in this f***ed up world.
❤🎉سلام پیش کرتے ہیں 💐good job, to coup, 💞up
My parents used to beat us badly because this was their way of getting their frustration out , now when we try to talk about it they say " humari Maar ki waja SE hi is level per ho" .
What I learned from their experience is that I will never beat my children just because I have official issues or I have some issues in my marriage . We can learn good things and do good after having a bad experience.
Nasty people .
Some people just shouldn't have kids
CWK has come out with yet another beautiful episode 💕
Good MashAllah proud of all women really woman is hain jo mummy culture Mei bht struggle krti hain really I like it
I am half way through the episode and stopped to comment because I couldn't wait..the way she is talking about mental health and it's harsh reality in society is commendable!! This episode is so so valuable 💗
Pls do share it!
What a beautiful transition from complete introvert to an extrovert personality ❤️❤️ Thankyou Maham for sharing your story and Kanwal for yet another great topic🎉
Wow this made me really happy. This little girl is so innocent ❤️ more powers to you maha
aww Maa'shaa'Allah Maa'shaa'Allah ❤
Kudos to you girls.... You go girl.... You Go!
So proud of you 🥰
Woowwww💕💕
Amamzing lots of love ❤❤❤❤
Meri Malli!❤ I love the woman you are becoming and proud of a sister like you. ❤️❤️
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@@mahiidherhai ❤
Good job sisters, uplift eachother and make world better everyday
Amazing episode❤
Loved hearing about your scooty!!
Really enjoyed this episode 😊
MashaAllah, a genuine, down to earth, strong young woman.
Keep it up, CWK team.
All these stories matter!
#sspsquad
Kanwal, Kudos to you for bringing these stories and topics forward!! They are truly food for thought. Commendable Conversations...♥♥
Her story every word of her each thing that urdu teacher wali bat sb sach lagraha hai jesi meri story ho Ya Allah esa lagraha me he gye hun show me yeh sb kehne yeh story meri life se he relate krrahi hai. Allah pak her bachon ko apne hifz o aman me rakhen aur parents ko khaas hidayat den , parents can be really really toxic and nobody talk about it please normalize that and try to understand that parents can also make the whole environment of the house and especially the kids life miserable
So much love for this lovely girl ❤
Kudos 👏
Such an inspiration
wholesome!!
Love it❤
Such a good girl...studies are very important
Beautiful ❤
More power to you ❤️
Your stand against shaver jaffery post is lit 👌
انسانی حقوق کی پامالی اگر عام ہو جائے تو اخلاقیات و نفسیات کے معیار ہی بدل جاتے ہیں ۔
چاہے ماہم کی طرح سنبھل بھی جائیں لیکن پھر بھی یاد ماضی شدید تلخ یادوں سے بھرا انسان کیساتھ چمٹا ر ہتا ہے۔ یہ انسانی نفسیات کو مستقل طور پر مجروح کرنے کی کہانی ہے یہ
MashaAllah
Waiting for new episodes eagerly
Proud of you Maham!! ❤❤❤
Sooo khooobsurat! Mahi youre soooo sweeet!
Amazing 👏
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Maham you are super cute MA 💞 I'm so proud that you overcame so much at such a tender age and are already an independent and strong young lady. You go girl!
Such a sweet voice😊
How softly she spoke
Need another episode of Maham Appi story and struggles!
Ye lo Mera Dil tum le lo ❤
Maham you are an inspiration❤
Maham grandparents mashaa Allah educated her Taya abbu also a banker her dada also was a banker her aunt is a actress in ptv she did lots of dramas and balochi films also Urdu dramas
Why can't we have Urdu subtitles for the English spoken and English for the Urdu? Why can't we cater to our own audiences as we show off with English intersections and odd phrases? We saw it in the last season. It's a simple fix. Please pay attention to it, so that you can reach a much larger audience and across classes. Thank you
Beautiful story
You have explained in detail
Mahi is so cute, I loved this episode it touched on so many aspects of family life. Just taking one step forward can change so much!
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I wonder when this society will start taking 'aurat' as a human being!!!!!
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My mahammmn❤❤❤❤❤
Maray bhi bht saray shok thy tou parents nay kaha shadi krlo phir sub shok poray krlay ba aur May itni bewaquf ky shadi bhi krli n tht time I m just only 18 😫 aur phir 😢😢
I wish ky kbhi May bhi apni story yaha aakr Sunao 😊
I can identify with this story on so many levels. Not the beatings, but women's suppression at home. Pehlay Aapi jaisi larkion ko maar diya jata tha ta keh baqion ko sabaq hasil ho. Ab cheezian badal rahi hain. Allah ki taraf se hi baap badal rahay hain. Unn k dil badal rahay hain. Zamana badal raha hai. Jo jo izn-e-rabbi ho, usaay koi nahi badal sakta.
I understand 😢💔💔💔💔
True depiction of house where jahalat is prevalent
These incidents are mostly happens in our society 😢
its so easy to play blame game. its been years unfortunately my family is the one creating negative situation n putting blame game...
Same experience .
Nice dp kanwal❤❤❤❤
Who are these family members who were beating her and why wasn’t the father and Taya stopping them?? When the main males of the family were supportive then who were these other members beating the kids!
I thought they themselves were beating them
Trauma is anything that made you feel helpless , afraid, worthless..
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In my family too
We want to see her elder sister as well🥺 currently doing same degree in the same university call her please i want to listen her efforts❤️
I can’t imagine she is 20 & she was beaten in 2010 or 2008 like really ? So so so cruel
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Aurton ke liye halat har jagah same hai chahe pakistan ho yaa hindustan😢
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Bravo 👏💖