Chris Rock - Women Don’t Like Nice Guys | REACTION
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Turning a 3 second conversation into a 3 hour one is NOT an art........ it's torture.
Some it's an art form, some it's torture. Depends on the intelligence involved.
"I don't think being married for that long would do that" - young person who has never been married
As a guy who grew up around 5 women I will attest, y’all talk too much
Lol
Maybe y’all don’t talk enough. Ever think about that?
Women are more hardwired to communicate anybody that don't believe they talk more then men are denying biology
@MsAppassionata men are simple creatures, we like peace and quiet
There is an old Celtic ritual called handfasting. It's basically a trial marriage. Handfasting, you're married for one year, and one day. If it's not working, you both mutually part. If you want to stay together, it's for life.
The Celts need to take over man
That must be what they showed on Braveheart. That's a really good idea.
Isnt that just a relationship
I always think of Patrice O'neal's bit about his girl telling him a story.
obviously he's exaggerating...but it is adorable to watch how kind-hearted you are. love your channel.
She plays dumb. Most of the time she acts like shes mindblown and cant comprehend whats going on, after the slightest dirty joke.
Yet she keeps picking dirty comedians to watch, you think shed be used to it by now but no, shes gotta act like a child in every video. Shit aint cute.
@@kiddisley5890 Well it sounds like you aren't a big fan of her reactions. So, what are you still doing here?
@@amphibeingmcshpongletron5026 i can watch what i want. Since when do you have to 100% like everything about someone to watch a video they post. Maybe i just like reaction videos ? Use your head.
@@kiddisley5890 I'm just not sure why you only have critical things to say but continue to watch it. Of course you can watch what you want lol. Enjoy!
@@amphibeingmcshpongletron5026 have you seen any of my nice comments in her other videos ? How would you know if i only got negative things to say after just one comment lmfao.
As much as I want to get married and have a family, the thought of the bad consequences if it goes bad, can be enough to turn me off of it. In the case of a divorce, the system is stacked against men in every aspect with a few extreme exceptions, so I can understand if a man doesnt want to get married. If I do find the right woman, and we do get married and have a family, I only plan on doing it once. Work hard at it and try to make it work, but if it doesnt, thats it. No more.
The success of a marriage is up to what kind of ground work you lay beforehand, ensuring you’re with someone with the same values and goals as you, and the work you put in during.
The main reason divorce is so high is that people are mainly selfish and go into marriage with the wrong ideas.
@@TheArbiterOfTruth You're absolutely right. Which is why I don't rush into things if I meet a woman. That I know that the woman I am with is the woman I want to marry and have kids with. Patience is the key. I don't understand people getting married after a year or two, and when they get married it lasts for a short while before its over. Granted, not everyone has it like that and last for a long time.
@@SpookyFaceGaming you’re not wrong! My wife and I dated for about 3.7ish years before I proposed, and then we were engaged for about 13 months haha. So we were together a full 5 years before we were married, and I was friends with her for about 6 months before we even dated. People were like “why did you wait so long?” Well...you have to really know the person to know if it’s the right move.
@@TheArbiterOfTruth Exactly, and 5 years is a long time to figure things out. I have friends who married after 1 year and they broke up faster than a 2000s boyband.
@@SpookyFaceGaming marriage has literally no purpose anymore, at least for men. It _used_ to serve the purpose of making sure certain social contracts were maintained by both parties, but now they don't even do that. Hell, it's not even _allowed_ to expect wpmen to uphold their half of the contract.
I challenge anyone, have done for years, to tell me something that, as a man, you can get from marriage that you can't get if you _don't_ get married.
Nobody's ever been able to answer that.
Superficial - existing or occurring at or on the surface. This is not negative! It begins with looks; for both men and women. However, men value women more for looks and women value men more for resources.
Awe your laughter is so cute 😊
Always a pleasure to watch your reactions.
Don't do that. Don't be a mean guy. That was sooo cute. :)))
I love listening to stories.
Love this 😊
as men when it comes to talking/story we have a need to make sense
"I always liked nice guys"
Every dude watching this: Yea right, anyway...
Hi again from New Orleans.. the reactions are as great as your smile!
I enjoyed watching your video today
It's all about timing!!! 😂 Wait for us guys to sit down and chill then bombard us with stories 😂😂
Yes, what he’s said is true.
Chris rock never scared -women happiness
I don’t like marriage because I don’t like the statistics. I’ve dated women. Commitment is not their thing. Lol
In Asia,Africa, divorce rates are much lower.
That’s a gross generalization. There are many who do.
@@MsAppassionata depends on the man, sugar... if he ain't a 9 on your scale you will leave his ass like a burning building as soon as you find a specimen you enjoy more... your statement is a gross generalization too btw, how many does many entail?!?... yeah you can't name 5 happily married couples off the top of your head, can you?
I'm literally nice boy Roy, get at me 😉
Sometimes when you get home , you need some time to decompress. My wife gets that and she asks most of the time
"...in the mood for a good story?"
Find me a woman that can tell a story well, and I'll find you a man that can go down on himself.
We got stories too. My wife is a nurse with a crazy schedule and I work in maintenance with a steady schedule. It’s tough sometimes.
Men have stories that go, "had a hard day at work... Delvin took a sick day so i had to work overtime and im pretty sore"
Women have stories where they add too much filler "had a hard day at work... So you remember Delvin, so yeah, hes been talking about being on a diet and how hes feeling so good but the guy ends up getting sick, that liar, OH! and speaking of Delvin.....hours later"
As a dude i dont care about Delvin and Information that is off topic but somehow related that ive already heard about, can we get to a serious topic like "how you would survive a zombie apocalypse?" you know something i can really get invested in.
Give your man 30 minutes when he comes home. Give him a snack and a drink, let him know what's for dinner, and he'll be ready to talk to you. Men need to know that their home is safe and calm, especially if their work is chaos. 30 minutes of patience, and you'll man will love you and give you what you need.
It isnt just superficial to me the beauty inside is what i look for i just want to be happy and i want who im with to be happy too and i do what i can to keep that going thats what i strive for in a relationship: cooperative happiness lol we do what we gotta do and do our very best. It wont be all sunshine and rainbows all the time but its how you get past those hurdles that define the love you have for eachother and the willingness to make it work to the best of your abilities. 3 things i always keep to heart is loyalty, trust, and communication with love to tie it all together. If one falls the rest follow so you do your best to keep it all together with your partner. Not for them With them its a team effort.
this one was realy good
LMFAO, Chris Rock gets almost to the point of his whole act about women talking too much, and at that point you interupt him to talk... PRICELESS.. Women, gotta love em, apparantly....! ;-)
yes its true
He's 💯 right
4:03 you will not shame and guilt us; we attracted to beauty, nothing wrong with that.
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I was married for 14 years. I stayed married for my two kids. She left. I kept the kids. She was cool at the beginning then she just changed. Both of my kids are adults now.Both doing great. They don't know where their mother is. I refuse to remarry.Once bitten twice shy.
See? This is a perfect example of how to tell a story, ladies. This man just told a 14 year story in 10 seconds.
Women don't want someone to talk TO they want someone to talk AT. Most "conversations" I've had with women, I could just as easily have been replaced with a stuffed animal and a tape recorder playing "uh huh".
If something can be said in 3 seconds, most men will not want to sit and listen for 3 hours. Maybe 3 minutes, definitely not 3 hours. But, There are always exceptions to the rules.;)
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@LFR Niah I had to "log in" to respond to something that you said. (saw your video while I was signed out) Anyway, "Everyone is always growing"...................... is what you said. And that's where the problem comes in for a lot of people, especially ME... "Everyone" is not always growing! I have experienced the "you've heard everything this person has to say" in the first few months! Sometimes, weeks! Some women (men are like this too) are very content with this exact spot that they reside in. And that's not age specific. From 20's on up to 50's, I've met women that are just content on this person that they are right now. No plans to take care of their body or get in better shape. No plans to enrich their mind and learn something out of their comfort zone. In the same position, 15 years in, at the job they hate with no desire to move up. Go to the same church and just sit in the audience. No plans to evolve as a person or try/experience new things. Hell, I've met a ton of women that meet this exact criteria. So this "state" limits all growth and opportunity for anything NEW to be said. The only thing NEW that comes up is whatever happened on "Ratchet TV/Social media" today! In my experience, this is a very easy place to arrive at for most people. Life's challenges push a lot a people to play it safe or be CONTENT where things are FAMILIAR. This is why most people will only ever be WORKER BEE'S. Because reaching for more will cost you something. An people don't like to lose. But then there is that small group that just desires MORE! YOU must be a part of that breed, and if so, please tell me where to find y'all, because I'm looking for your type for sure! Y'all a RARE indeed! I understand what you're trying to say here, but in practice, its much less common to find the kind of woman that bucks that trend and is ALWAYS evolving. Or even open to evolving. That makes you/y'all hard to find! Kind of the way that people think that "common sense" is everywhere, when in reality, its very "uncommon". Anyway, that's my 2 cents.
I’ve been with the same man since 17. It’s hard but not hard. The things that are hard are unexpected when you get together that young. You have to grow together. Your goals have to align as you get older. You have to learn to communicate with someone as you are changing as a person. That exercise is the hardest and requires empathy. You won’t have that problem. But it shouldn’t be hard to like that person. My husband has made me laugh for all 11 years as we have changed together. We have remained friends. That is important to me. I need to dedicate time to help us remain friends. That’s hard but not the time we spend together. That is easy. If you are truly miserable with the person don’t settle.
Yes. Yes men are like that.
Its not that men are superficial, its just that if we say our girl is ugly, she will be mad as hell at us, and the we wont get any
ANYTHING 4 LIFE PROMOTES LAZINESS 😂🤣 #Fact💯
True. I've never been able to pull off the asshole moves, like I know women want. I'm unfailingly nice. Nice to a fault. Take me home to meet your mom nice. Make your mom tell you to marry me within 10 minutes of meeting me nice.
And you guessed it........I'm gonna die alone. It's just FACTS. Being ugly isn't helping, but I've seen women with guys uglier than I am, so whatever. Niceness is a relationship CANCER. If a man is nice, the relationship is terminal and will not last.
-the coming home from work thing, ***if*** the wife has been at home w/ kids (or for some reason hasn't socialized in the day), realistically what's likely going on is she wants some adult convo (vs. the kids) but the dude has been at work all day already and his brain needs to decompress from adult convo for a minute. I don't think it's simply women talk more, some studies have shown that men talk just as much, just in different contexts.
- ~403, men who don't care what their woman looks like are probably even less common than women who don't want to be told they're pretty (societal or not, it's not even, the percentage of women who need to hear "you look good" and men who feel this need are two very different numbers - most men I've ever met would absolutely choose a beautiful wife who never complimented their husband's looks over an average one who praised their looks frequently.. It's nice sometimes but most men don't care too much). Also, imagine being a married man: how many times do you want to hear "do I look good in ___?" and how comfortable are you with lying or sugarcoating? The more honest the man, the more likely he might wait for a beautiful wife, *partly* to avoid that tension and cognitive dissonance of having to say one thing for his wife's sake (vs. maybe sleeping on the couch) while knowing something else. It truly bothers people of more sensitive conscience more than the "average dude" I imagine.
These are all stereotypes and not true of 100% of people by any means, but stereotypes do exist often for a reason (that they're often true of more people than they aren't true of, within a group and/or they're more often true than any other characteristic, i.e. might only be true 30% of the time for some stereotypes but maybe no other competing idea passes 15% or whatever, broken into more than just 2 opposing options i.e. false dichotomy sometimes to compare a stereotype to just the opposite state).
I would love to hear a good story. Problem is women don't tell "good" stories. There just long winded and have pointless detours that go nowhere.
To one of your early questions, ‘unfortunately, yes’. However, for an alternative point of view, as they say, please check out Jimmy Souls’ 1963 hit ‘If you wanna be happy’. They could get away this with on the radio back then.
Yeah man, She ugly but she sure can cook!
There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy, just don't be that stupid guy!
Great reaction I wanna see you react to Kevin Bridges just to see if you can understand the Scottish accent 😂 Do It 👍
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There was a time when it was said..."A woman should be seen and not heard"
This time period is known as "The good 'ol days" ....8^P
its ok, you seem to have an actual heart.. your ok niah
Men can be nice or an asshole..but the one thing a man can't be is boring.
Getting home after work 15 minutes of quiet would be nice
Nice guys don't finish last. We finish single with a bunch of money in the bank.
Some men actually believe everything comedians say about women. So this video presents a good example on how to test it.
If you, like lots of us, don't feel ashamed to tell people you love a girl they might consider ugly, then use the same logic to understand that not all women like bad guys.
Now you can go back and enjoy the JOKES.
There's a reason why there is a saying that nice guys finish last. Cause it's true. At least in the early days of dating. In HS/College,,, girls go for the bad boys, the fun boys, the adventurous boys. They'll come around later, but by then they're usually broken and damaged.
Chile please...
Ask Patrice how good yall are at storytelling.
4:01
Granted this was in '96 but just look around you lol. You're a teacher right? Without answering where do you think the funny looking kids come from? They parents gotta look like something 😂
And to answer the man's half, just look at social media; how many times have you yourself seen a handsome dude get blasted on a platform by a busted up baby mama about not paying child support or not coming over?
This is very true, just look at your next Zoom class or social media pages 😂😂😂👌🏾
Maybe this is slightly different for me because my wife is trans (take that as you will, I was just extending a difference to this conversation): I talk far more than she does but she can chide me for it and then I can return the favor. We spend a lot of conversation joking about language. It's one of the key aspects of our marriage.
The problem with telling a story is that men's and women's brains work differently. Most (not all, but most) men think more logically and structurally, so we want the story to be to the point - who, where, what, why. We don't need to know all the excessive unnecessary details that don't really benefit the story itself. But because women think differently (more conceptually and "visually"), they think that all these details - like the background of every person and situation involved, all the feelings involved - are absolutely necessary for the story to be better understood, while to men most of it is just empty talk. The way I see it, we just need to settle on some sort of common ground, a compromise.
I wish I wasn't a nice guy I hate being alone
Niah, vanilla or chocolate? :)
Good at making long stories , but not good storys , telling a story is an art
Absolutely, filling up 20 minutes with random, unnecessary details will not keep my attention.
@@madcracker84 agreed
we're pretty shallow us men
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Tbh I agree most and I know mooost girls and women love bad boys and jerks cuz they usually are the most self centered and Confident too confident but I think you Nia are definitely different I wanna say you're actually smart enough to fall for a Gentleman who's well put and will show u he loves u not just tell you he does so yeah you're an Exception for sure btw you are soooooo beautiful always shit not gonna lie I'm crushing hard on ya girl yous a real black queen not like these nasty loud Ratchet girls from my area just eww no. I love me a classy black woman like you :)
Also I I been praying for your family fr ever since I saw ur dads video of the bad news I'm so sorry you good people are going through this I Hope God blesses yall and helps pull yall through this Pain love you so much
Sincerely Jay ;)
A lot of people are deciding not to get married and just hang out because marriage seems to force two people together even when there done with each other. My parents broke up numerous times over the years but stuck together cuz... well... we married... might as well.
« Personally I like nice guy... » 😏
Sometimes it’s good to be a little mean, especially when people try to disrespect you. There is a limit where we have to let go of our pride and be more understanding. I’ve gained respect from women by not falling for their tricks or letting them disrespect me; but when they warm up to me, they’re usually too intimidated make an approach. I’m too proud to court a woman that has tried to disrespect me. I don’t believe I’m wrong for that. I give 100%, and if I know I’m not getting at least half of that 🙅🏽♂️
If a man loves a less than physically attractive woman he doesn't notice that part about her + not give a f*@k what people say shut those down who dare disrespect
'You're always growing' That's if you are. Some people just don't, those are the boring ones. Stale, lifeless and uninteresting. So always keep growing people! don't turn to 'autopilot', it is worse than death, for your relationship's as well as everything else :)
You will
Never know - nobody hiding you lol
Marriage requiers work. And that hard work makes love go on and gives meaning to life.
Toi easy life has no meaning
My dad had to have 45mins of us kids outta the house and my mother to leave him alone. Rip
4:00 Men will be more reluctant to post their new girl on facebook if she's not the prettiest. Damn near be ready to propose before he shows her off. IF SHE'S PRETTY, she might be revealed within the first 2 weeks. My friend just showed off a bad one he pulled, THEY DIDN'T EVEN LAST A MONTH. So yes men will reveal their girl faster if they're beautiful. They'll keep things more lowkey if they feel like they've slightly underachieved, to keep their options open.
You should have got your dad in on that one!
In my experience it's not that they talk too much. Women just love to talk about things men are not interested in at all. I could care less about what happened at the beauty salon. My poor older daughter is constantly trying to talk to me about female type topics. I can last about 5 minutes before I either tune her out or in a nice way tell her I am not interested in the topic at all. Same for the wife. See but here is the difference. For some reason, most women are able to listen to a man talk about things that don't interest them. But act like it does.
My theory on marriage. Marriage worked when a woman stayed home and kept house. Everyone knew their roles and where happy in them. Once women wanted careers for themselves and no longer stayed home, thats when marriages stopped working. Don't misinterpret what I am saying. In no way do I feel a woman's place is in the home. I feel that if they want a career, just like a man, they should have one. What I am saying is, marriage in the traditional sense can't work with the way modern society is set up. So the rules for marriage need changing to fit our current needs.
You say that in traditional marriages everyone knew their roles and were happy in them. Well, obviously that’s not the truth since women began demanding more rights. Stop looking at the past through rose tinted glasses. Things were never as rosy as you’d like to think they were.
8:56 We are in the mood for a *good* story. There's a slight problem, though...
You can watch the animated version funny af!
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Lol yes it’s that superficial
Oh man if only the stories were good, we wouldn't complain.
A stand up comedian saying someone can run out of things to say is a little f'd up. But still a good bit lol
Girls talk too much, and they complain too much. I came to an understanding with my wife that she can complain to me all she wants about her work as long as she doesn't expect me to listen to it completely. It's just like he said, every once in a while I'm like 'Uh-huh.' 'Oh, really'? 'Yea, that lady is terrible'.
Every man on this planet is certain they have what it takes to date a 10...they don't.
If I am dating someone, I don't care what she looks like, I'd still introduce her to everyone. I'm sapio-sexual. If she can arouse my mind, it's enough for me.
Lol women b like long story short...if u flip it
Lazy because people get comfortable and think that they don’t have to do things to keep a person interested
lol. You listen to a man tell you the EXACT problem and you completely ignore it. Then say... but talking is what keeps things interesting. That's the problem.
I feel like some of this doesn't hold true as much as it did in the 90's -- there's less separation between "girl" things and "boy" things these days, actual communication is more encouraged, and everyone is more 'in touch with their feelings'. Also, Niah seems higher up on the chill scale than a lotta folks.
I think there's more awareness in popular culture of deviations from what's typical among men and women, but men and women themselves haven't really changed all that much in my opinion. We might be a bit more savvy in communicating feelings but those feelings still tend to be the same as they were and have distinctions by gender. There's just more attention drawn to and social acceptance of people who don't fit the molds. The molds are still there though and still typical. We can't just pretend that there's no more differences or separations. That would be foolish. I do think it's a good thing though that people realize that isn't the only way they're "supposed" to be.
I live in a VERY progressive city and despite all the "progress" you see, the differences between men are women are still just as noticeable even here. It just isn't talked about as much by people who want to appear progressive and not "exclude" anyone by making a simple observation about how most average people behave. It's totally cool here to talk about all the other deviations as if they're practically universal though despite them still being the minority lol. Just one of the funnier "overcorrections" you tend to see in places like this. I just go with it like people who didn't fit the mold just put up with hearing about all the stuff the majority talked about that they didn't relate to.
It's almost seen to be "in vogue" to not talk about "heteronormativity" still being pretty normal even though the majority of the population is still like that to a large extent. The culture here has just changed to be somewhat centered around the awareness of other styles. Which again, that's cool. It's just kind of funny how I see some people pretending as if 85% of people here are no longer relevant or "their time to shine is over" or something. As if acknowledging that most people are still straight, cis-gendered, and largely heteronormative and that that's OKAY is somehow seen as injurious to anyone who doesn't identify that way. I think it'll balance out eventually.
I understand the "overcorrection" for exposure's sake. It's a reaction to suppression that I think is was necessary will end up being somewhat temporary (the OVERcorrection, that is). I still catch myself chuckling though at the hoops some people will jump through to pretend something like "heteronormative" behavior is somehow a thing of the past even if they themselves fit that description more than anything else. They're just terrified of being seen as "phobic" of any other styles because that's social suicide over here. While I agree that people shouldn't be phobic of other styles, it's a little too easy to come across that way to many people here. Their always on guard looking for it and can end up assuming quite a lot of unsavory things from pretty innocuous things.
Straight women here are typically still attracted to more "masculine" men, but it's almost like they pretend that isn't the case for fear of being seen as supporting anything even slightly resembling "toxic" forms of masculinity. They'll weakly feign disapproval in public at men behaving in ways they actually find attractive because they think they'll be judged if they don't. People are actually far less sexually liberated here overall than they'd like to think. As someone who moved here from out of town but who's still open minded and accepting, I accept everyone but sort of get a kick out of how careful and fearful people are of appearing to say or do the wrong thing here. I come from a place where the average day to day interactions of normal people would trigger the hell out of many people here. The difference makes me laugh.
All that self-indulgent rambling aside, Nia is definitely high up on the chill scale lol.
@@amphibeingmcshpongletron5026 Well said.
I don't mind having a good conversation with a lady. Chris Rock is right, ladies don't want conversation they what to tell you a story, and stories are inherently one sided. Even that is okay for the most part, but ladies you can't hit us with it as soon as we walk though the door, you got to give us at least a half hour to unwind, feel the comfort of home. You will find us way more respective once our shields are down.
Getting married for a man is like buying a lottery ticket where the grand prize is he loses 50% of his stuff and might have to pay a monthly salary to someone else. and the odds of winning this lottery are much greater.
But educated women make more than their husbands if you are a millennial and keep the kids. So we aren’t giving money up, and aren’t worried about your 50%.
@@ArmchairFootballers and yet it still happens every day
LOL...love the comments. However, "Art" to a lady is "Torture" to a guy. Unless your story includes gunfire, zombies or pillow fights with your cute friends anything more than 1 minute puts men into catatonic states. :)
Ive been married;not a fan....but if YOU wanted to be married......idk
Well as a man I'm even shocked about some of he stuff that Chris Rock is saying. Even though what he's talking about may not relate to the majority of men the fact that he talks about it means that it happens more often then we think.
Let me also answer your question about marriage. Since men are more logical we think about the pros and cons but for men the pros has never changed position but the cons have and in most men's minds the cons have surpassed the pros.
I think your comment about men being more logical is sexist. More logical about what? You’re not very logical when it comes to getting into violent confrontations with other men over dumb shit.
I'm 50 and my friends still pick dirtbags!
Yeah but you’re a quality girl, with a good heart. This probably does not apply to you...
I know this video is old but im 20 im a nice guy but im also mean when I need to be but most girls want guys that are rude all the time and im handsome got a good ass personality and I can listen to a girl talk all day a girl broke up with me she said I was too nice and she like her niggas mean
opposites attract and attractions impose.. human nature can be defined by statistics... but the way your raised cannot be judged by statistics that society gave to the original stats of society... makes sense?? lol... most people dont get this
I ain't saying shit...