The Honesty Diaries : Finally Fighting Back

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  • @Graciiie94
    @Graciiie94 7 місяців тому +196

    "Mental illness doesn't choose its victims based on how worthy or not they are to feel sad" is something so brilliant I had to come back to it after the video. Found this video relatable, soothing, uplifting.❤

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  7 місяців тому +7

      🥹🩷 thank you so much

    • @emilychase9564
      @emilychase9564 7 місяців тому

      Agreed! I’ve just written this in my notes app😊

  • @charlimarieTV
    @charlimarieTV 7 місяців тому +249

    THIS is the kind of brave, real content I wish more UA-camrs would make ❤ thank you for putting this out there Gabbie!

    • @WellWithHels
      @WellWithHels 7 місяців тому +1

      💯🙏

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  7 місяців тому +9

      thank you so much charli 💗

    • @TallulahMorgana
      @TallulahMorgana 7 місяців тому +2

      It is sad because it shouldn't be 'brave' to discuss mental health. It should be natural to discuss it. I'm glad that the younger generations don't treat it as taboo. ❤

  • @jemmaxx3706
    @jemmaxx3706 7 місяців тому +58

    Loved this so much! I’ve had depression and anxiety for 10 years, I’m 28 now. I resonated with everything you said, thank you making me feel less alone 💗

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  7 місяців тому +4

      ❤️ sending you love xx

  • @jeneinstein
    @jeneinstein 7 місяців тому +61

    Thank you for posting this. A lot of us have trouble even getting out of bed every day, and it's helpful to see you pushing through.

  • @Caseofcurls
    @Caseofcurls 7 місяців тому +19

    I don’t usually comment but I appreciate you sharing this. I like how you put it together and found it very relatable ❤

  • @emmabrand4273
    @emmabrand4273 7 місяців тому +9

    This is such a powerful video Gabbie I’ve watched you for years and have found your journey such a comfort ❤ I did the washing up while watching your video and feel a lot better! You deserve nothing but joy and good things in life and you have a lot of love and support behind you, this video will help so many people xx

  • @hayleighb1
    @hayleighb1 7 місяців тому +11

    Gabby, you are a true inspiration! This video is SO brave and it’s really helped me as an anxiety and depression sufferer..I resonated with everything you said, so thank you for this video. You’ve helped me and many others feel less alone with this and please know you’re not alone either! Sending lots of love ❤xx

    • @hayleighb1
      @hayleighb1 7 місяців тому

      Also Gabby, where are your sofa cushions from? They’re gorgeous😍

  • @sophcol
    @sophcol 7 місяців тому +1

    I used to follow you back in the velvetghost days, and coming back to this video felt like seeing an old friend. One thing about you is that you somehow manage to perfectly convey your feelings in a way that really resonates with me - I struggle too with anxiety and depression so I know how difficult it is to push yourself through it and not cancel the things you’re worried about. You’re doing great, being open and honest is the best way to tackle it, in my opinion. Glad to be back ❤️

    • @sophcol
      @sophcol 7 місяців тому

      Also, I remember you getting Nellie and he is as precious as ever. I have my own kitty who I absolutely adore as well!

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому

      gosh, thank you so much 💗

  • @WellWithHels
    @WellWithHels 7 місяців тому +19

    Didn't think I could enjoy your channel more, but THANK YOU for making this video! Your honesty is so brave and so appreciated 🙏 Sending you lots of love ❤ x

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  7 місяців тому +3

      oh my gosh, thank you 💗

  • @amycrawford1743
    @amycrawford1743 7 місяців тому +7

    Gabby I can relate to you so much! You are not alone, I completely get where you are coming from, I am someone who has always been terrified of therapy!! 💕 but I started my first session two weeks ago and it helped me so much so this is just the start of my journey too, I am wishing you all the best with your journey and hope you come out of it a lot stronger!! ❤️ xx

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  7 місяців тому +2

      thats amazing, well done! i know first hand how hard it is to start therapy. it sounds like we're at similar points in our journeys 💗

  • @akashubby
    @akashubby 7 місяців тому +20

    I’ve always been a silent watcher and watched since the velvet ghost days when you still lived in Sheffield. But I just wanted to say thank you for this! I’m really struggling with my anxiety and depression at the moment but I finally plucked up the courage to contact my doctor last week and my medication has changed and this week I planned to just go to work and then stay in bed the rest of the time, but this has encouraged me to push myself and not just let the depression get me. So thank you so much for this! Keep your head high and know you aren’t alone! It’s so lovely to see things finally coming together for you 🤍

  • @moharvjo
    @moharvjo 7 місяців тому +1

    I love the way you filmed this, it so so different and real, I teared up when you started talking about your mum and how it is a dream that she only wants what's best for you. You and Jane are so close, and it really shows!
    I have struggled with depression and severe anxiety for over a decade, and this past year has been especially tough. This video was exactly what I needed to start getting back on my feet and set some more realistic goals for myself!
    I would love to see more videos like this from you, I have been a viewer since you first moved out of your mum's and it is so refreshing to see another side of you. I feel like you are my friend

  • @leahbeth97
    @leahbeth97 7 місяців тому +4

    Gabs this video is so bloody honest, can’t thankyou enough for showing what it’s actually like to have certain thought processes. ALSO OMG your voice is beautiful xxxx

  • @samiragauci
    @samiragauci 7 місяців тому +1

    Just when I thought I couldn't relate more to you. You were one of the first youtubers I started watching back when I was 14. I am now 23, almost a decade of following your life and watching you grow. I also had my first depressive episode when I was 14, and I just realised this recently. It never made sense for me to struggle with depression, because I too have my dream life and am extremely blessed. Watching this video made me tear up. Thank you for speaking out, for growing into such a beautiful person helping countless people online. I am obsessed with watching you fight depression back, helping me do the same. Sending so much love (& serotonin) ❤

  • @elizabethrose8599
    @elizabethrose8599 7 місяців тому +20

    Gabby I literally cannot tell you how much I relate to you. I’ve also had a gastric sleeve + loose skin removal + other accompanying surgeries. I’m 25 rn and the last year was the worst of my life, after struggling with depressive tendencies from my early teens that reached a peak last year. I took a hiatus from work, and was honestly at the lowest of the low. I am still going through it now, in therapy once a week and everyday is a struggle. Thank you so much for this video, I am also in Brighton and have always hoped to meet you. Sending lots of love to you, from someone who seriously knows how you feel 💚

  • @miasantagata
    @miasantagata 7 місяців тому

    I relate to this so so much. It was so helpful so see someone also “have it all” and be so grateful yet struggle with their mental health. I have been experiencing the same feelings and it makes me feel guilty for feeling the way I do and like I just need to fake happiness because I “have nothing to be upset about”. This video just shows that the little achievements and small wins when you’re struggling really add up ❤️ I’ll be watching this multiple times especially when I need to know I’m not alone!

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому

      💜 im sorry you've been struggling too. sending you love x

  • @jennascott9852
    @jennascott9852 7 місяців тому

    This is exactly what I needed to watch. I've never struggled with depression but since having my two wonderful children (twins) I suffered quite severely with post natal depression. This video has just given me that little bit of lift....if I get a little bit of a lift I take that as a win. Thank you for making my day brighter. I love your vlogs but this hit home and I not only loved it I appreciated the time and effort this must have taken. You're a beautiful soul. X

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому

      💗 gosh, i can't imagine how hard that must have been. sending you so much love x

  • @yvonne7470
    @yvonne7470 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for this video 💜 I've been dealing with my depression lately too and have been putting things off especially around the house. When you said cleaning the kitchen helped, I decided to pause the video and go clean my kitchen, which had started to get dishes piled up, and it definitely helped and made me feel a little better. Sometimes you forget that you can do everything a little at a time and it can help💜

  • @AraRomero
    @AraRomero 7 місяців тому

    I'm going through a rough patch as well. I can understand you so much. I know what it feels like to be anxious, to only lay in bed, having your notifs off, not wanting to know about the world or let the world know about you thinking that the only safe space is your bedroom and bed. I've
    been following you since you first launched your fruity phone case and used your Bourjois Healthy Serum Foundation and you have been the only creator that I have kept up with. I cannot thank you enough for this video! If you ever decide to take this community into the next step I will keep supporting you. Lots of love Gabi!

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому

      im sorry to hear that, sending so much love your way 🤍 we can get through this together! gosh i miss the bourjois foundation so much!! x

  • @basicallyflo5818
    @basicallyflo5818 6 місяців тому

    ow gabbie, this video spoke to me so much. i was getting a bit teary eyed watching because i've been struggling with depression for years aswell now and am also in a long distance relationship. i was relating to your feelings so much. sending you all the strength on this journey of getting better and being kind to yourself. we will get there eventually! thank you so much for being open and honest and sharing these moments with us ❤

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому +1

      im sorry you've been struggling too 💗 we're in this together x

  • @joeyates5018
    @joeyates5018 7 місяців тому

    I’ve watched you for years and love your content. I met you very briefly at the airport once when you were travelling home with your mum, you were both lovely btw. Shoutout to Jane!!
    I now fly as cabin crew, my dream job and despite loving what I do and having what could be said is a “good life” I have had mental health struggles since my childhood. I’m currently in therapy and getting a better understanding of it all.
    What bugs me is when I speak to others about how I’m feeling I’m often met with “oh but you’ve got your dream job you SHOULD be happy” and yes I’m happy that I’m doing what I love, it’s fantastic, I’m very lucky but I’ve worked hard to get where I am both professionally and personally. It’s not perfect but I’m not striving for perfect anymore. It needs to be sustainable within myself and I feel no shame in taking a day for myself when I need to. It’s cliche but you would rest a broken ankle so why don’t we rest our minds when they break?
    Like yourself I’ve been pushing myself to stop shying away from certain situations. I’m still giving myself the grace that it’s okay not to be in situations that negatively impact my wellbeing. Being around certain family members and a handful of others does affect me so that’s my right to back away!
    Thank you for being so real and I wish you the very best with all you do! 🙌🏼

  • @SilverDingo
    @SilverDingo 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for making this kind of content! I also suffer with anxiety and depression and a lot of the time there's nothing particularly wrong with my life. I feel like I don't really allow myself to get help and do the things that make me happy because my mental illnesses are more 'functional' so to everyone else I don't appear to be doing that bad and I have so many things to be grateful for. You've inspired me to do more to fight my issues. We can do this 😄

  • @cadburydragon8469
    @cadburydragon8469 7 місяців тому

    I woke up in a funk this morning (anxiety due to stomach condition) and honestly the shower tip and cleaning tip helped so much. Went on a walk, cleaned up my emails and phone and ended up having the best Tuesday. Thank you for this, you're such a lovely soul xx

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому +1

      💗 thats awesome, well done for powering through x

  • @mollyrundle2908
    @mollyrundle2908 6 місяців тому

    Oh my goddess, I’ve been watching you since I was 12 and when UA-cam was at its peak! This is another level of amazing, so relatable and makes me feel like your bestie again. Thank you. 🤍

  • @tomhoey8816
    @tomhoey8816 7 місяців тому

    This video has really helped me. Thank you for sharing your struggles. It’s so tough, I feel like mental health as a subject is constantly undermined and disregarded. But it is up to us all, as humans to make sure it is talked about and this is a perfect example of it. Thank you Gabby ❤

  • @JessicaGrimley96
    @JessicaGrimley96 7 місяців тому

    I’m so proud of you and I’m sure so are many other people, for fighting back. And tackling one thing at a time is such a great idea. And it’s okay to still have down moments.
    In regards to you getting lessons, I currently have stage fright with my singing and you getting lessons made me think maybe I should because I haven’t sung in awhile.

  • @marcydovale
    @marcydovale 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm kind of going through the same thing, where I have everything in life I could possibly want.. and yet, I am just not feeling happy. I'm having more bouts of depression and anxiety that I ever have before. I have recently changed my medication as well, so here's to hoping that will help me move forward

  • @alaybroccoli
    @alaybroccoli 7 місяців тому

    I’m such an anxious person and the guilt you feel over having people who love you, having a decent job, etc is crazy. It’s so hard because you feel good and then you get a bout of sadness and anxiety and you think that this cycle will never end. thanks for the video ❤

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому

      🤍 it definitely can be really hard but we're fighting through it! xx

  • @SophieMariaxx
    @SophieMariaxx 6 місяців тому

    Really good video. It’s horrible to see you gojng through a dark time with depression but honestly well done for fighting it and also for sharing your journey too! Missed hearing you sing ❤️ you are looking amazing right now! X

  • @MW-sp4jm
    @MW-sp4jm 7 місяців тому

    I needed this video today. Just spent the whole weekend isolating myself and cancelling all my plans. Relate so much ❤️

  • @Littlegiftsco
    @Littlegiftsco 7 місяців тому

    You’re incredible and have always been a favourite to watch. I have suffered with anxiety for 12 years and I’m only now just starting to live. You’re amazing and keep going! Your worth everything and more ❤❤❤

  • @LuciaTepperBeauty
    @LuciaTepperBeauty 7 місяців тому

    This video was a breath of fresh air! I'm in a really good place now but last year was really low. It's so important to talk about this.

  • @rayneebranch9690
    @rayneebranch9690 7 місяців тому

    Gabby, I can totally relate with your depression. I battle with most of the same things when struggling.
    I am SO proud of you! I know how dang difficult it is to do anything when in the trenches of depression.
    Huge hugs my friend!

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому +1

      im sorry to hear that, sending you so much love 💜

    • @rayneebranch9690
      @rayneebranch9690 6 місяців тому

      @@velvetgh0st Thank you doll

  • @ameliaglasgow9153
    @ameliaglasgow9153 7 місяців тому +15

    Gabby, I’ve been watching you since you started quite literally. I know no matter what anyone says, depression knows no bounds. I struggle with this myself and people like you who have always uplifted my mood when I’m lonely & playing videos like this when I’m cleaning are what get me through. They motivate me to get up and do something even the tiniest of impossible task. You’re doing an amazing job, life is hard no matter what opportunities and blessings we have. I hope making videos & chatting about your journey through this will help in the future ❤

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  7 місяців тому +2

      im sorry you struggle too - sending you so much love! im glad this video helped motivate you 💗

  • @emster0808
    @emster0808 7 місяців тому

    I’m so proud of you ❤ I have so much more that I want to say but I can’t find the words and honestly you remind me so much of myself that it would feel like I’m projecting. I admire your strength and resilience so much, I always have. Something I’ve learned from a lifetime of depression and anxiety is that its always cyclical - things will be bad until they aren’t and then things will be good until its time for them to be bad again. Knowing that my next period of feeling at peace in on the other side of whatever depression hole I’m in always helps me to push through. Things will get better because they have to.
    I hope that this rough period doesn’t last much longer for you. I have faith that your willingness to be vulnerable and push through the discomfort of doing things that you know are good for you even when everything in you tells you to stop will help bring the brighter days back to you soon. Thank you for sharing, I’m sending you so much love ❤

  • @Jennifer-bv4ku
    @Jennifer-bv4ku 6 місяців тому

    Absolutely loved that video. Your courage and honesty are admirable. Thank you so much for sharing.
    I myself struggle as well, have been since becoming a mum 2 and a half years ago. I love my son but motherhood has been tough. I often feel negative and anxious about different things which lead to unhappiness. But then I feel guilty and ashamed to feel like this because from the outside it seems I have everything I need to be happy. I sometimes wonder if something is wrong with me.
    I am also doing therapy and hope to get better and find tips to cope better.
    I wish you the best, you're doing great ❤

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому +1

      im sorry you've been struggling too - please try not to feel guilty 💗 i hope therapy brings you some clarity xx

  • @beaucrawley1191
    @beaucrawley1191 6 місяців тому

    I’ve followed you since the very beginning and always related to you! I’m 32 and I was diagnosed with ADHD life changing, now time to find out who I really am and let her out ❤🎉

  • @tokkidays
    @tokkidays 7 місяців тому

    thank you gabbie for the upload!! i may of cried a couple of times bc you explained how i feel daily too. you're so inspiring and i've been wanting to find a real video like this with showing how difficult it is for people living with depression and you smashed it. thank you for not making me feel alone and showing me that i can also do it too 💓💓

  • @charlottetdondon.4013
    @charlottetdondon.4013 7 місяців тому +45

    Gabby this video really helped me. I’ve been having a rough time at work this academic year (I work in education) and I truly resonate with everything you’ve said here. You’ve got this! Keep your head high girlie, you’re brilliant💕

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  7 місяців тому +3

      💗 im so sorry. i hope things start looking up for you soon. thank you! x

    • @marissa3488
      @marissa3488 7 місяців тому

      I work in education too! It's been a horrible year! You are definitely not alone. I'm looking to transition out of the profession, it's just that toxic for me.

  • @nenehbuswell
    @nenehbuswell 7 місяців тому

    Well I needed this video today. I'm in a real slump at the moment and helped me realised what I should be grateful for, even the little things. It was a struggle to get out of bed this morning but it's nice to feel you're never alone ❤

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому +1

      💜 sending so much love to you x

    • @nenehbuswell
      @nenehbuswell 6 місяців тому

      Back at you Gabbie ❤

  • @katiepalmer5715
    @katiepalmer5715 7 місяців тому

    Hey gabi, i have terrible anxiety too. I find being at home in bed makes my anxiety worse. Getting out there 100 percent helps x

  • @skooma_moon
    @skooma_moon 7 місяців тому

    OMG thank you so much for bringing up these topics! I have a few mental disorders, struggled with my weight my whole life, and could not figure out my sexuality til my 30s. So this video is hitting all kinds of points for me

  • @amelie5702
    @amelie5702 7 місяців тому

    currently relapsing into a depressive episode too, (which tooke me a while to accept) and this video is making me feel so seen, and understood, it's also very helpgul, thanks Gabbie ♡

  • @sophiehollins8412
    @sophiehollins8412 7 місяців тому

    This has been the most inspirational, refreshing video I have seen on UA-cam in a very long time 🩷 I really hope there’s lots more to come in this series, not only for the benefits of your own mental health but for all of the people you’re unknowingly inspiring to fight back 🩷 I’ve been watching you for years, back in the day I owned every single thing from your primark collections, and I just wanted to say I have NEVER been more proud of you, keep going you beautiful soul 🩷

  • @hannahbrockbank4992
    @hannahbrockbank4992 7 місяців тому

    Really enjoyed this video, Gabbie - the honesty, and 'realness', and the focus on your passion and goals... Well done for taking the time and stepping out of your comfort zone, you've done amazing!

  • @bequietbambi
    @bequietbambi 5 місяців тому +1

    hey gabriella, i’ve been subbed from practically the very beginning, and this is the first vid i’ve watched in years. i might be overstepping the mark on this one and i’m so sorry if so buuut… have you ever looked into neurodivergence (adhd, autism etc) or sought out an assessment? from what you’re describing sounds a lot like my own experiences and i’m currently on the waitlist to be tested for both. again, massive apologies if this is overstepping, but if someone had pointed this out to me sooner than i realised myself, i would be so so so grateful. learning about it has helped me understand myself (and be kinder to myself!) in every single aspect of my life.
    as a fellow queer girlie from sheffield i’m sending loads of love, you got this 💪 xxxx

  • @Fruttipistachio
    @Fruttipistachio 7 місяців тому

    I appreciate these kinds of videos so much. People as you are making a difference in the world. ❤

  • @veronicacanaveira1068
    @veronicacanaveira1068 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for posting this! 🤍 It’s so lovely to see a realistic video of an actual relatable person, who isn’t afraid to show their struggles as well as their wins, so thank you. I just wanna say that I think you’re doing amazingly and you’re extremely brave and stronger than you know or give yourself credit for. Sending you lots of love! 🤍

  • @kristymartin6464
    @kristymartin6464 7 місяців тому +4

    Gabby, this video had me in tears. Your honestly and vulnerability is what sets you apart from every other UA-camr I watch. I always find myself watching your videos when I’m struggling because you show life in a real way. So thank you, if all of your past could only be seen how I see you, as an amazing person with a kind heart and a vibrant soul! ❤ xx

  • @marta-3574
    @marta-3574 7 місяців тому

    This is so amazing Gabby!
    Thank you for being brave enough to share this, it’s such important content and you did so well with your goals! Keep going, we know you can do it ❤❤

  • @luriemu1
    @luriemu1 7 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this incredible video/talk.
    And can I just say how absolutely insane you are at singing. Holy shit honestly

  • @seanajohnson6776
    @seanajohnson6776 7 місяців тому +15

    This is absolutely by far no shadow of a doubt the BEST video of all your UA-cam career, the honesty is well appreciated and so much needed in the current times, well done gab x

  • @claudiavecchio7812
    @claudiavecchio7812 6 місяців тому +1

    This video diary broke my heart 🥹 my daughter suffers really bad with anxiety and depression she’s 24 has a good job “great” life I could not really understand her problems but watching this told me , you made me aware of how she feels when having bad weeks so thank you ❤I hope you are good xxxxx

  • @martig9382
    @martig9382 7 місяців тому +5

    This is going to help so many people, we often think we’re alone in our depression and anxiety. It’s good to know other people understand and relate ❤

  • @sofiajls
    @sofiajls 7 місяців тому

    Loved loved loved this video Gabbie! I relate so much to this! 🤍

  • @laurahuczko1533
    @laurahuczko1533 7 місяців тому +1

    I don't watch youtube anymore, I saw the trailer on the Instagram, knew every clip that appeared in the video (if it has beedn published before), and I will be back on youtube, waiting only for news from Gabbie ❤

  • @abigailfenner
    @abigailfenner 7 місяців тому +2

    Never related more to a video, you got this.

  • @Loooooux
    @Loooooux 7 місяців тому +2

    You know what’s crazy? You look SO GOOD that I thought you were obviously in a really good place. It’s scary how much can be hidden behind a fake smile. Sending love x

  • @aaloka7611
    @aaloka7611 6 місяців тому +1

    thank you for this, i am so glad this came on my page after years of not watching your genre of content. it helped me get off my ass. the right video at the right time ❤

  • @kelann89
    @kelann89 7 місяців тому

    You’re human! You are allowed to experience emotions even living your dream life. 🥰 also just want to send all the hugs your way when you feel sad.😊

  • @crystal9301
    @crystal9301 7 місяців тому +3

    Only 2 minutes into the video and I already know this is exactly what I needed to watch right now to know we’re not alone.
    I’m nearly 29 with crippling anxiety, today was the first day recording for my new podcast and we had to rearrange for tomorrow. I feel like I’ve missed out on sooo much due to my anxiety and mental health but I will keep on trying!

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  7 місяців тому +2

      im so sorry to hear that you're struggling too - sending you all the love in the world. things will get easier, don't blame yourself for having bad days 💗

  • @karencurtis6141
    @karencurtis6141 7 місяців тому

    Yep .. I understand most of what as a depressive person we do to get through a single day to get the win . But yes there is a but , when I socialise 😂🤭 well let’s not go crazy when I invite my neighbour around for a coffee, or go to see my Mum in law or nipping to a shop 😳.
    Only doing one of these things, even though I put a face on , smile chat……… it’s awful.
    I get so stressed , I was my healthiest when lockdown was in full swing, nobody asking me to go out anymore, I thrive on my own space
    My epilepsy was calming down and my anxiety fits also calmed down , I found swimming is my only safe space outside the home .
    You are doing great and yes I listen regularly to your songs , and always will.
    Take care xxx

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому +1

      im so sorry you've been struggling too, sending so much love 💗

  • @daisiemae22
    @daisiemae22 7 місяців тому +5

    You are such an inspiration, I resonated so much with so much of what you said! You are incredible💕

  • @larenafiandes8057
    @larenafiandes8057 7 місяців тому +1

    So very proud of you gab. I have suffered for about 30 years (I'm 42) and everything you said resonated with me.
    I'm also disabled and have chronic pain issues so it's always hanging over me, and it's hard but what you say is inspiring.
    We love you gabbie and we are here for you ❤

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  7 місяців тому +1

      im so sorry to hear that. i hope things start looking up for you 💗

    • @larenafiandes8057
      @larenafiandes8057 7 місяців тому

      @@velvetgh0st 💜💜💜

  • @mackenzievlogs
    @mackenzievlogs 7 місяців тому +1

    I deal with social anxiety and depression in waves (summer is typically really bad for me) so I totally understand cancelling things.. it's one of my worst habits. It got to a point where I was cancelling all of my work meetings during the day and not leaving my house. There's a podcast episode by Brittany Hoopes (Destination Manifestation podcast) called The 2 Step Process for Making Decision I Wish I Knew Sooner and it was a game changer for me. It's all about aligning your thoughts and actions once you've made a quick decision on something (ie going to a singing lesson, appointments, etc.). It's allowed me to start new things like a dance class and I've been going into my office more to see co-workers. And from there, I was able to create a routine so these things have become a habit instead of a huge obstacle every day/week. Wishing you all the best

  • @SlackAlice
    @SlackAlice 6 місяців тому

    Kudos to you for not making this a better help sponsorship!

  • @jazzaling
    @jazzaling 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much for this video! I’ve been a silent watcher for many years and never commented, but I loved this video, both the content and the way you put it together. Such an important topic and I loved your perspective on it 🥰
    Re: singing, just wanted to say you have SUCH a beautiful voice, and a few weeks ago I literally searched for an old singing video of yours because I remembered how stunning your singing is when I was watching another one of your videos. You can do it! 🥰

  • @CaitlinBuckley
    @CaitlinBuckley 6 місяців тому

    This is the best video you've ever made.

  • @AikateriniK-kd4wf
    @AikateriniK-kd4wf 7 місяців тому

    The key for everything is to be humble. You are free to do what ever you like, but not everything is good for your well being. Take care of yourself, I wish you find the way.
    p.s Translated through Google Translater. Sorry if there is a mistake in it. English is not my native language.

  • @nics5848
    @nics5848 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for being so honest and brave. Truly inspiring. I’m currently battling post natal depression, anxiety and PTSD and your video is making me want to clean the tip that is my home and mind. Thank you x

  • @sophielouisehall1
    @sophielouisehall1 6 місяців тому +1

    This was a very brave video to make. I remember once a close family member said to me ‘why are you depressed you’ve got nothing to be depressed about’ and in that moment I shut myself away from everyone and never spoke about it, which in turn made my mental health the worst it ever was. You’ve got this 💪🏼 xxx

  • @justso9418
    @justso9418 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for this❤

  • @laura86866
    @laura86866 6 місяців тому

    Honestly I feel like I was listening to myself the whole video 🥺

  • @maisiemoo1234
    @maisiemoo1234 7 місяців тому +2

    Ive been going through depression and anxiety since i was 13, im 27 now and the past few weeks I've been just struggling so bad and it's been so helpful and comforting to watch this video. I didn't realise how much it would affect me until the clip with you talking to cam made me cry because it was so relatable. And I'm just so grateful that you spoke about this and shown this really vulnerable side. Just honestly thank you gabby 💕

  • @user-vq9lx6zq4k
    @user-vq9lx6zq4k 7 місяців тому +1

    18:27 yes yes yes!! Other types of intelligence besides academic are not given enough credit!

  • @soraia180593
    @soraia180593 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for being so vulnerable and share this with us, theres so many people who are affected by mental health and its so important to talk about it so you don't feel like you're alone and you are definitely not alone Gabi ❤not being able to explain why you feel a certain way is definitely one if the hardest things, especially for people who have never been affected by mental health it's a feeling you just can't put into words ❤️ you're doing amazing

  • @LisMoelller
    @LisMoelller 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much for this video. You make so genuine and honest content. And you're doing so good! Depression is so so hard to live with. I had a hot long shower and did my skincare (I rarely do my skincare, it's one of those big "depression obstacles" for me) today, right before I watched this video, and started smiling when you talked about how much it can help. I instantly feel better after a shower, it's just so hard to get in. I really hope this turn into a series, but of course I would rather see you depressionfree. Lots of love

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому +1

      💗 ugh a hot shower can truly do wonders. sending so much love to you x

  • @JackieMeadow
    @JackieMeadow 6 місяців тому

    Really really REALLY resonated with this video. It's absolutely beautiful to see how much you've grown throughout the years Gabby, and don't worry about past opportunities having passed. You've got plenty of time and are doing amazing! What's meant for you will find you all at the right time. Keep going!!

  • @XwomanWonder
    @XwomanWonder 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your journey, Gabby. Your honesty and vulnerability make your content incredibly relatable. It's comforting to know that even someone I've admired for years faces similar struggles. Your authenticity creates a real sense of community, and it feels like we're all navigating this together. Remember, you're not alone, and your openness is helping so many others, myself included. Sending love and strength to you and everyone in this amazing community. 💙

  • @bec470
    @bec470 6 місяців тому

    I don’t normally comment but this was just a truly amazing video! You should be so proud of yourself for battling through and seeing things that will help but also sharing it here as well! You will have helped others without a doubt! ❤

  • @Jenaklcheung
    @Jenaklcheung 7 місяців тому +1

    One of the best videos on YT. This is content which is so blinking important and especially now. In the world we live in where other people's lives are what we hope or want to be like, it's important to know even though on the outside your life looks incredible but you are still a human and can still struggle. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @talie234
    @talie234 7 місяців тому +1

    I loved this video! I'm currently struggling with post natal depression, a lot of what you said really resonated with me 💗

  • @KorneliaRajewska
    @KorneliaRajewska 7 місяців тому +1

    I loved this video so much ❤ I am struggling in life right now after getting out of a long-term bad relationship that changed me and made me kind of forget who I am, and eventhough I do also have things to be grateful for in life, it's tough right now. This video really motivated me to let go of the past and at least try to take baby steps to move forward and improve my life to feel happier. Sending so much love to you and thank you for this video 🫶🏽🥹

  • @jenn31090
    @jenn31090 7 місяців тому

    It really takes courage to admit it to yourself. Just a thought and in no way dismissing what your going through, have you consider ADHD? It has different categories and some of it masks as depression and anxiety. Women are always late to be diagnosed with ADHD as we are very good in masking. Healing ADD by Dr Daniel Amen is very good and explains why certain medication like antidepressants, doesn't work for ADHD. Lots of love and every day is hard but sometimes we have to do what we don't want to do. ❤❤❤

  • @kimberleygriffiths1310
    @kimberleygriffiths1310 3 місяці тому

    I am tearful as I relate so much, I have so much to be grateful and thankful for but my mental health destroys me and I struggle so much (especially with the circumstances we are dealing with now, myself, my husband and 2 kids). I'm literally crying at the screen, needed to hear some of this so much and as the viewer said below ''mental illness doesn't choose it's victims on how worthy or not they are to feel sad'' that's something I will be keeping in mind. (by that I mean writing in my journal as a reminder) I look up to you so much and have been following you for years. You're an amazing person and deserve so much. I hope things get easier or are at least manageable for you on your bad days.

  • @Cananpx
    @Cananpx 6 місяців тому

    Hey Gabi. Your so brave to show the ups and downs of anxiety and depression but we need these kind of videos to show people they are not alone. Your are doing so well everyday! i found my medication helped with mine but the biggest thing that helped is my cat xD so im glad you have nelly. Xxxx

  • @eliseturin3647
    @eliseturin3647 6 місяців тому

    I loved watching this video ! I loved watching you evolve through the years, you can be proud ♡

  • @TravellingwithMother
    @TravellingwithMother 7 місяців тому

    Seeing your decluttered kitchen made me feel refreshed too! 🤩 and seeing your ups AND downs through the week truly helps me see that the down days DO turn around, I don't know if it benefits you to film them but it really helps me (us?) 🥰😇

  • @podolska10
    @podolska10 7 місяців тому +1

    Gabbie, that it’s such a beautiful and thoughtful video. Good luck on your journey, lots of love. ❤️

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  7 місяців тому

      💗 thank you so much x

  • @LaydeyKatabella
    @LaydeyKatabella 7 місяців тому

    I’ve been in your shoes and thought, what have I got to be depressed about? I have x, y and z in my life. My life is great- and it is, but that’s just not how mental health works which sucks. I found therapy really helped me. Thinking of you and proud of you for posting such a raw and honest video ❤

  • @KaraInnocentCharmsChats
    @KaraInnocentCharmsChats 6 місяців тому

    Wow thank you for sharing this. I am in such a bad place right now and this has reminded me to take it slow and focus xx

  • @user-te9if8xh4c
    @user-te9if8xh4c 7 місяців тому

    I am a silent watcher but you ARE amazing, you will have helped so many people with this video just like all your videos so many look forward to every upload, as we all love a Gabby catch up. You are beautiful, clever, inspirational and everything more. You got this girl, keep smiling ♥️✨

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому +1

      thank you SO much 💗 that means the world

  • @jennylindgren1111
    @jennylindgren1111 7 місяців тому +1

    This was such a nice video!! ❤

  • @Mia-gt1ut
    @Mia-gt1ut 7 місяців тому

    You are so FAB 🌟

  • @Monica_6521
    @Monica_6521 7 місяців тому

    Do you know "One Moment In Time" by Whitney Houston. I'd love to hear you sing that. I've always loved your singing voice🎶🎵🎼

  • @joellis280
    @joellis280 7 місяців тому

    love this video my boyfriend has depression and its sometimes so hard to kmow how to help him...could u do a video on this mayb with cams perspective as your partner

  • @nataliebartlett3457
    @nataliebartlett3457 6 місяців тому

    This video is like watching CBT and is so helpful x I wish I had this when my depression and anxiety was at it worst as it would have been a good visualisation of what I needed to do, keep up the good work Gabby x

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому +1

      thank you so so much 💗 i hope you're okay x

  • @rolfsinkgraven
    @rolfsinkgraven 7 місяців тому

    Believe in yourself and all that you are.
    Know that there is something inside you,
    THAT IS GREATER THAN ANY OBSTACLE!!
    Life matters no matter how shitty it is now.
    You deserve a good life so fight for it.
    There are ppl who help you.
    You can beat it.
    Love you.
    every time you try something it will be better the next time
    You alone can and will fight this battle.
    It took me 3 years too get over it, but it is different for everybody.
    Your singing is beautiful Gabriella. You have proven that already

  • @LucyyWritesVlogs
    @LucyyWritesVlogs 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for always being real Gabby. ❤ Watching this has made me feel a little less alone for feeling this way x

    • @velvetgh0st
      @velvetgh0st  6 місяців тому

      💗💗 thank you, sending love your way x

  • @vicloulin
    @vicloulin 7 місяців тому +1

    Ah please make this a series! X