Awkward Trans Guy Things
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- Опубліковано 25 кві 2017
- Just some of those things that happen when you're a trans guy, they can be awkward, sometimes uncomfortable, but most can be laughed at later!
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My 6 yro little bro said "I thought you were a girl but all this time you were secretly a boy." I love that kid
I love your brother too haha
What a bean.
My little nephew (I'm not old, my stepmom's kids just get pregnant at ungodly ages) called me a boy once,
And my stepmom had the audacity to "correct" him.
Can I meet him? Hahaha
Im a boy undercover
So cute!
when youre feeling dysphoric so you watch other trans guys to feel less dysphoric but it makes you more dysphoric
I know the feels. :(
i feel that
You have infiltrated my mind. Thank you
me right now lol
M o o d
My awkward moment:
Being trans and having anxiety.
*Literally everything is a reason to panic*
Human Zim I cannot like this enough times.
Human Zim Ugh so true! 😓
I wish could give this a hundred likes cause *RELATABLE*
... At the disco (y am I like this)
meeeeee
"It's like a wedgie on your chest"
YES HOLY SHIT THAT'S IT
Stitchfeather YESSSS
A cashier called me ma'am once
I called him ma'am back just to mess with him
Eynder M YOU GO
Sounds like something I would do XD
wow what a legend
Eynder M yessss
300th like
That moment when people are finally calling you he, but you just know the second you open your mouth and say something, your high pitched voice will ruin everything
Alex Watkins EXACTLY!
... Relatable. ;^;
I can not relate any more to that then I do right now.
Nice / awkward moment
Shopping for my prom suit and using the male changing room, one of the shop staff notices me and helps me get all the rest of the stuff I need. He's great, he calls me "pal" and "wee man" (we're Scottish) but then when he goes "he's good with those shoes" my mum goes and goes "she is"
Mother
Why
Even the strangers are getting it now
This wonderful man kept calling me by he pronouns for all the times my mum called me she and I'm so thankful for him but it was also really awkward and embarrassing because my own mum kept saying she
wow that sucks, sorry you had to go through that! weird she 'let' you use the men's changing room? hopefully she'll come around soon
OwlNinja1 that sounds awful
Hoping she'll come around 💜
I don't understand?
Moshi Mushroom what don't you understand?
Nope. Oh i couldn't see the whole message! Sorry'
People incorrectly correcting themselves omg that
Kornel Leśniak any misgendering
Kornel, It is a damn pain in the ass.
True!
when your parents correct them saying you are a girl not a boy.
oml yes that sucks
"The bathroom, not the packer" 😂😂😂
Srk Akai this line was the best!
Srk Akai LMAOOO I DIED😂
i laughed so bloody hard
What's a packer? 😶
It's a prosthesis of a penis which is used by trans guys in order to make a bundle on their trousers. Some of them can be use to pee or even have sex.
Almost passing as male, but failing as soon as you open your mouth and that high pitched voice of yours comes out. I can't lower my voice to save my life. Dx
Omg yes, people have compared my voice to Marzia, it's so embarassing ;-;
Taylor I relate
Always told people to think of me as a 20 yr old squeaker.
FUCKING SAME OMG
Taylor people say i have a low pitched voice but i just don't belive it
When someone says the correct pronouns; then the person with you (who doesn't know) incorrectly-corrects them...... -_-
Margaux McCarthy Even worse when they do know but they still incorrectly correct them
Margaux McCarthy -_-
Margaux McCarthy ooooooh. haven't had that one yet. sounds awful -.-
that happens to me all the friken time
Margaux McCarthy That is the absolute WORST
when you first come out and people tell others "she wants to be a boy now"...even the cisiest cis must know that sentence makes no sense
Charlie Markham Actually no... it's sad but I imagine that, as a 100% cis person, it can be hard to grasp why anyone would change their birth-assigned gender. When you have never experienced disphoria, you just can't relate to it. Obviously not an excuse to keep wording the process of transition that way...
Lilli Jäger yeah, I agree. I'm trans myself so for me dysphoria is the most normal thing in the world because I experience every day, but everyone I tried explaining it to (who wasn't trans ofc) told me how hard it is to understand and fully grasp it.
Charlie Markham That's what my mother did. Thanks alot mom
My mum says that. "She wants to be a boy."
My mother in a single sentence^^
I'm in the closet to my family but I told my friends and this is my pet peeves:
• I said "I'm surrounded by girls!" In a joking manner and my friend said "But... you are a girl," and I felt my heart drop. She doesn't know much about being trans and I was really uncertain then so I don't blame her, but it still hurt.
• Having that feeling where you overhear a conversation by the guy group and you want to join in but they wouldn't accept you
• Dad always calling me 'Princess' 'Missy' 'Baby girl' , etc
• "No, I don't really watch *tv show / movie / fandom* on my shirt, I just wore it because it's a guy shirt"
• Having a conversation for ten minutes about binders until realizing that your friend thought you were talking about school binders the whole time
• Wearing a necklace or something and feeling dysphoria the whole day / Wearing a pronoun pin and getting anxiety thinking that people will judge you
• Searching for trans songs to relate to
• "Girl groups / cliques" and everything about them
and much more
Even being a cis girl, I couldn't stand it if my dad called me Barbie girl...
I need some trans songs
I know this is old but I just found it and I've only been non-binary for a few months, so I wanted to say I relate to this. I spent 38 years trying to be a girl and thinking something was wrong with me cause I never fit in anywhere and was uncomfortable in public girl spaces. All, things that bother me:
• I said to someone online, "I'm Agender." and told them my pronouns, and they said, "But... you're still a lady," and I felt my heart drop. He even went on to say my pronouns are made up and that I got my gender from tic tok.
• Never fully fitting in with boys or girls was also hard. I got bullied by both.
• My boyfriend calling me "Baby Girl" and "Mommy" when talking to our pets and using she/her pronouns.
• Me wearing hats and my neighbor saying "Take that hat off, you look like a boy!"
• Wearing a pronoun pin/shirt and getting anxiety thinking that people will judge me
• Searching for Agender/Non-binary songs to relate to
• "Girl groups / cliques" and everything about them
@@d_art_s9632 It’s not necessarily a “trans song”, but do you know This Is Home by Cavetown?
@@Evija3000 lmao
When you're not out and kids ask "are you a boy or a girl?"
And you want to say boy but your not out so you have to say girl.
Or when someone uses your correct pronouns and a family member or friend says "you mean she, she's a girl."
Well for the second one, it's really awkward. And now for the most people that I just met, I say that I'm a boy. Let's just hope they won't meet my friends or family..
@chasing rainbows OH god... Fighting, Bro! :/
the last one :(
awkward moment for me at work
Parent: "give your things to the lady"
Kid: "thats not a lady its a man"
Parent: :O "No its a lady!"
me in my head: "the kid is right"
That exact situation happened to me at work lol
Happened to me at the mall ...
ChemicalScence aw damn. the children are the future 💗
sorry that happened
hugs 💜
literally my everyday as a cashier... the kid always looks so confused too
boy juice same, I have also been called "it" many times as well
My auntie once asked "what should I call you?" so I said nephew, and she turned to the nearest person and said " *she's* my nephew!" Got an incredibly weird look from them.
My mum's friend, after seeing my coming out post on Facebook, messaged me to tell me what a brave *girl* I was.
I know they're not doing it on purpose, but some people just...miss the entire point.
Oh my God, I'm so sorry. It made me laugh a little though. "She's my nephew" is just like that trans meme of the girl yelling "his pronouns are she and her!" Like I think you're trying but you're just not getting it! Oof. Hope you're doing well and people are getting the hang of it now
@@jazwhoaskedforthis ikr, my boyfriend told his cousin " *Bev* just came out as Agender. *Her* pronouns are they/them now" and I just cringed...
@@DinosaurNick ‘her pronouns are they/them’ ohhhh no I’ve gotten exactly that
"People incorrectly correcting themselves"
This happened to me at a Newbury Comics a few months ago. I had my head down and I was wearing a beanie and a really big jacket I had stolen from my brother and an employee had walked up to me and said, "Can I help you sir?". I looked up and he then said, "Oh! Sorry ma'am." I then started to panic because this was the FIRST TIME I was recognize as a guy in public. So I then said, "N-no! You were right the first time!" It was awkward...
I still struggle with how to correct people when you're Agender ... I am legit genderless and some things bother me ... some things don't ... and it gets awkward
Trans guy problems: not knowing witch locker room to use during high school for PE
1) use the girl one, but people Will then think you are a girl that looks like boy.
2) use boy one like you want....but boys will ask about your binder
Dinosaur Nerd Say you've got gynecomastia (don't know exactly how to spell it... thats when beoys grow boobs due to some hormonal unbalances and stuff.) when someone asks you about you binder. Works most of the time and it's not even a lie as trans*people tend to have "hormonal imbalances" bevor medically transitioning :)
Dinosaur Nerd it's worse when you pass really well and you fear that people who don't know you will think there's a cis boy in there
Nobody at my school knows i'm trans, they all think im a cis guy, but i change in the bathroom for PE. Honestly i could easily change with the other guys by wearing an undershirt over a binder, and packing, but i still feel incredibly uncomfortable with it.
depending on what kind of binder it is you can just lie and say you have a rare spinal disorder that requires you to wear it for your posture or something. ppl usually feel awkward asking further questions about other ppls health so they'd probably just leave it at that.
I'm such a liar when it's in my favor, that i always think that if someone looks at me weird (that typical face expression saying unconsciously "is it a boy or a girl?"), i would response that i have hormonal problems, and that's why i look like a 11 year old when i'm almost 16.
Tighter than a really tight thing is a great analogy :)
My family knows that I'm transgender, as do most of my friends. They constantly incorrectly correct themselves with pronouns. I'm glad they try but hearing a male pronoun followed by a girl pronoun, then finally following with a "Whatever" is cringy as hell
That actually sounds incredibly rude to follow it up with "whatever"
Makes it sound like they are just humouring you.
My parents do the same thing, and it's so rudely annoying. They're like 'well, he, SHE, *whatever*...'
@@ratemisia thanks for the advice, but i've already tried this out and my parents (specifically on my mom's side) just don't really seem to care at all. thankfully, i've moved out and i don't live in her toxic environment anymore.
I think it's annoying too when my parents call me words I don't like on purpose. After years of thinking about it I was finally like hey can you please call me he? I thought they would be nice about it but they were not. And they still continued to do that just to annoy me. I feel like I'm acting mean to them when I ask to be called a different name/words. And I'm scared that I actually am the one being mean. But it just happens constantly and they don't even try. Am I untitled for thinking that? They're still awesome parents in other ways, and I'm grateful for that. I just think that one thing they do is really annoying.
@@yellow5749 I know it's been quite a while, but they are just insanely disrespectful. You don't call them stupid names or use pronouns for them they feel insanely uncomfortable with. You have never been the one being mean, my guy!!
I'm not trans so I haven't experienced this but last month my trans friend Michael and I were at the school drinking fountains and there was a lady and her child waiting for him to finish. The kid was complaining and the lady said "Wait for the boy to finish sweetie." Michael finished and stood away hiding his smile, but then the lady said "Oh I'm sorry ma'am I didn't know you were a female! I just thought because of your hair." He just awkwardly said "Haha.... It's fine..." Then we walked off and he's just like "I was so happy when she called me a boy, why did she have to "correct" herselffff..." I felt so bad, he was so happy until she incorrectly corrected herself. And the problem was he was with his sister and she isn't too keen on the trans thing so Michael had to "act like he's a girl" and that everything's fine.
When people compare you to a "real boy"
Jackson B. That must be so fucking demoralising. How disrespectful! I'm so sad you have to experience it.
that gets me so mad when people do that. like i get that i was born a female but i m not that different from a "real" cis man
*O H G O D I T H R E W U P I N M Y M O U T H A L I T T L E*
Renada Fortune why do you mean by that?
The ideal of "real man" itself is so fucked up.
the hunchback problem of trans guys
when we have to wear a t-shirt and we feel like we aren’t flat chested so we become a hunchback lmao
"incorrectly correcting themselves" it's the WORST
Thats annoying 🌚🌚 oneday me and my cousin went to eat some subway food and we went there by a bus and the bus driver was like: Oh, boys are going to hang out to the town? And then my cousins mom started to look at me and laughing becaus she didn't know im trans but i had a short hair and i weared boys clothes. And then the driver was like oh did i say the wrong pronounce ? Are you a girl? and i just said loudly NO YOU SAID EXACTLY THE RIGHT THING AND IM A BOY and then the driver just rolled his eyes an said okeyy.. and i was really mad at my cousins mom becaus she just ruined my happines that i passed🌚 but later that day many other random people that i dont know said he him and his and they didnt think for a second that i might be a "girl" so i pass almost all the time but cousins mom just ruined it the one time🌚
Justine L yes
Lol same stuff happened to me, with my cousin. But it was his father ... and my father ...... xD
my mom did that once i almost slapped her
im nb and my friend is MTF (very early transition. just changed her name months prior) and we were at the fair once, somebody called her ma'am once and she was so happy until the guy saw her face. He started freaking out and apologizing. He actually said "You dress so gay, people will mistake you for a girl!" which was painful for her bc she was wearing skinny jeans and a t shirt (with her breasts forms). here i am, getting called ma'am and just trying to awkwardly correct them and say how they were right the first time. Zoey was panicing and i wanted to make her feel better but then i was dying bc i was being misgendered too. the conversation ended with "bye, girls!" it was awkward.
in conclusion. you dont need to use a gendered greeting.
"Going through puberty 5-10 after people expect you to...". Or 20-25 years later for some people :/
Plenty of people aren't ready or able to transition until later on in life. It can suck to think that maybe you've missed out on those parts of life, but you've still got so much time ahead of you! There's no wrong time to transition.
And some people only go through it a year or so afterwards. Like I’m trying to do
Hooo boy this is facts. 20 years late puberty is awkward as all hell when I was trying to look professional for work. Squeaky voice with the boss is just... awkward.
when youre near a girl/group of girls and someone getting by goes "excuse me ladies" and youre just standing there like :|
fratgoblin oh my god I hate that moment so much. some of my teachers call me evan, but they still use she/her pronouns and I die inside everytime and I just give a look to my friend who just knows how salty I am about that
This happened to me at camp:
So we have this thing every night called senior social, where all the 12-16 year olds get to hang out for an hour from 9 to 10pm. I had made a group of friends, one of which was a guy. The guy, Caden, wasn't there one day, and senior social was over. A counsellor walks by us and goes: "alright ladies, go to your cabins". And I know it's dark but I'm still kinda dying. So I, like the dumbass I am, go: "I'm a dude, but ok". And then I walked away without waiting for an answer. I don't even know who that was.
The End
THIS
How about having been in the transition process for 8 years and still being told that its just a phase or that you dont really know if youre a boy if youve never tried being a girl. Gotta love that one .-.
same. my cousin got told that he is after 3 weeks (2months later he realised it was a phase) and I leaving around like a boy since 2013 and they still say it is a phase -.-
Awkward: the stall doesn't lock or the stall doesn't even exist. And a little boy stares.
You'd think so. I have experienced a non-locking door in the men's, on a ferry, and one time no cubicle (it was in a backwoods place though)
God it’s so funny because last month I was at the dollar tree buying snacks (don’t judge) and one of the employees pointed out to another that I was at the cash register waiting to pay for my stuff, and they were like “Are you gonna take his money?” And then paused and looked back at me and corrected themselves with “I mean her money.” And then I guess they were still trying to figure out if I was a boy or a girl and just went “....the money.” I felt so bad for them but it was actually kinda funny
omg I wish this would happen to me. I'm Agender and I try so hard but 99% of the time I'm called a girl... I'm rarely mistaken as a boy ... and never cause mass confusion. Though I honestly don't care if I'm called Sir or Ma'am. *shrugs*
The feeling when you're visiting a nursing home, and an old stuttering lady who seems to have dementia refers to you as "that boy standing there", but then the nurse all but yells "that GIRL!"
Or the moment when you have to use the women's bathroom, but you are passing well as a guy, and when someone opens the door before you, you use your girliest voice to make it less awkward.
Oh god yess
I’d like this comment, but you’re at 69 and I don’t want to ruin that for you.
YESS totally
Oop. Me so many times but I'm only passing in my imagination unfortunately
when you trained your voice to be pretty low but then a stranger talks to you and you panic so your voice sounds like a ran over chiwawa
"Somebody the correct pronouns, and then incorrectly correcting themselves." This. So much this. I've had this happen multiple times, and its especially jarring when you're not out yet. Like, somebody walking up to you, looking at you and then going "excuse me s-.... oh, you're a girl! Sorry!" It's just ... no, you were correct. I can't tell you though. But you were correct! ;-;
Ugh idk how you could hold back! Das tuff.. 😔
the ID one sucks. Because people see me as a 12 year old boy, but i'm 19 and I don't want to show them my ID because I don't want them to think i'm a girl.
Whenever I say I'm over 18, they start laughing, because they think i'm joking.
I relate to pretty much all of these. The one that makes me the most sad is when everyone I work with goes swimming at the river because unlike them, I can't take my clothes off.
I AM TRYING TO GET A BINDER AND I TOLD MY MOM IT WAS A "HIGH QUALITY SPORTS BRA"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hahahaha😂 did you get it though?
im 32 and still get asked for ID..also folks pressume my partner is my mom..sad times
i cant wait for the voice cracks
Literally sameee. I use to tease all my friends for there's, but I've secretly have been jealous.
0~0
a year later on T for me. still waiting for voice crack ;_;
Aelius Hollows literally sssssaaammmmeeeee
how about the inability to find a binder that not only fits but that you can wear while you work full time pushing carts and lifting shit is damn near impossible. So instead you subconsciously slouch all the time cuz your brains not cool with the huge utters protruding from ur chest.
worst thing tho is when you think your out about it and then realize that half ur coworkers have no idea. and then trying to figure out who's cool and who's opinion of you changes.
as in someone always calling you him until you tell em and then starts with the her
That is the worse when they "correct" them themselves..... my smile dies
"Sir oh, sorry, Madam" My favorite word, followed by my three least favorite lol
i literally adjusted my binder just as you said that
tmw a student calls you a he and a teacher overhearing it gets him in trouble because you're not out to the school yet ;-;
"Incorrectly correcting themselves" is the BIGGEST MOOD it's like a rollercoaster of "I'm passing! I'm not passing... I was passing!! Was I passing?" it's so FRUSTRATING
and whenever people get it *right* and don't "correct" themselves my mom is always there to "correct" them :')))))
I'm still confused about my gender at the moment so I'm exploring the way I'm leaning towards (which is ftm trans) and your channel definitely puts things into perspective for me. I don't know if it's normal that I've just felt this way now because I know a lot of trans people who knew something was wrong quite young and then there's me who thought I was a girl for 12 years, then a year of undecided and another of complete mess of feelings of definitely not being a girl and I have no idea if that's normal or happened before but I don't know. Your channel helps though! Thank you 😊
Rhisepticpatronus Wood 12 is very usual:) don't worry. I felt comfortable with my body and identifying as female until I was around 16.
That's definitely normal! I was 16 when I first realised I definitely wasn't a girl and didn't want people to see and treat me like one and after that realisation it took a while to realise I'm actually a guy. I was convinced of being female for 16 years without any conscious doubts so if you feel like you identify as ftm then don't let your age give you any doubts, nor the fact that you might not have felt that way for 12 years because it's possible and definitely not unusual!
That is completely normal. I was comfortable with being identified as a girl until I was like 11-12 and then I started to realize it wasn't who I am. There's no need to worry about how long it took you to realize. There's even people that realize later in life that they were supposed to be the opposite gender.
(I also just realized we almost have the exact same icon :p)
Haha thanks for all the nice comments. It makes me feel a bit better.
Hey, virtual hugs for you if you'd like them. I'm 25 and only just realising that a lot of my discomfort through my teens was dysphoria. But I did not "know from a young age." I'm struggling a lot with feeling like I'm 'late' but I wanted to tell you that you're not alone.
Another awkward moment.
Role call:
Teacher: [girl name]!
Me:
Teacher: [girl name], are you here?
Me: *very quietly* yup
Teacher: [girl name], could you stand up so I can see you?
Me: *very quietly* kill me
Just nodding you head as a way to reply to any comment when passing because you know your voice would give you away immediately
...I was Excited for a Binder...
NOT ANYMORE
Don't worry, the joy it brings outweighs the bad
but
the bads still pretty freaking annoying so beware.
Diddly Dingo lol, thanks
Squeak Kitty Yo, I've been binding for a year and honestly I've never really experienced discomfort! The only reason I ever take it off is bc I don't want to asphyxiate haha
i liked that and then immediately unliked it cause i love my binder
but also same
and just
hhhhhhhh
@@jameseames9289 probably depends a lot on how much chest one actually has. i'm not trans but have tried binding for cosplay. i just need a sports bra and i'm done. others are not so lucky.
I hate when people say “Ohhh your a girl that WANTS to be a boy!” Ugh we don’t want we are it’s not like we are a phone
there's also being too feminine to pass in public, no matter what I try I still look like a little girl wearing her brothers clothing, yay for me!...
it’s been 4 years any change
Dude the thumbnail pic, your face, I can relate Jamie. Love from the Midwest!!
The Moment when you at the beginning of your transformation and meet with someone you meet on the internet (for example) in real life and everything is fine,this person uses the right pronouns, the right name, don't asks any awkward questions, because this person don't know you are trans, she knows you as the gender you told her you are (the one you prefer)
BUT THEN you run into a person who knows you a long time and don't know jet that you are trans and uses the wrong pronouns, your birth name and asks awkward question.
You just stand there and want to die
Hope Skyline OMG that's horrible
I love you so much! You are super funny and extremely entertaining ♡ Greetings from Germany!
gay nerd YOU'RE FROM GERMANY THEREFORE I LOVE YOU AND I HOPE YOU HAVE A NICE DAY AND THEN SOME :3 xD
Ich stimme voll und ganz zu ;)
I graduated high school in 1984. It was a small private school, so you knew everyone even if they weren’t in your grade. Decades later a lot of us were reunited on Facebook, and we all found out our friend Jaime (birth name; didn’t need changing) had transitioned FTM. This collective group of people in our forties reacted with a collective shrug. “Uh, yeah. That’s the least surprising news ever.” I was really proud of my class. That he was also gay took a minute for some of them to grasp, but overall I think for people born in the 1960’s, we did well.
I don’t know why I’m writing this. I guess just to say people can be pretty supportive if you give them a chance. I think maybe that most people found out online was a good thing, so they could have whatever private reaction they needed to have without Jaime needing to hear it.
I ended up coming out to a teacher when she walked into the restroom and because my friends dragged me in there like 6 of us were inside.
Teacher: ladies and gentleman you can’t be in he-. .. oh well I don’t think there are any gentlemen in here
Me: *raises hand*
Teacher: oh, well then you definitely need to get out, all of you.
My mom still calls me she/her even though I told her multiple times that I'm trans and want to be called male pronouns
Honestly half of these. Can't wait for my voice to start squeaking. Like, my doctor just upped my dosage of T and told me it should drop within three weeks.
I came from the future to ask... your voice droped?
One time lady at my school referred to me as a boy and despite the fact I was uncomfortable (sick) I was very happy. The office lady then corrected her and I got a three minute apology about how she hadn't looked close enough and I looked very much like girl and I was such a pretty girl and I wanted nothing more then to scream at her.
Oooooh I feel you on so many levels bro🤧
at school a sub called me sir when he was walking around taking attendance. he asked for my name and i used my last name since i avoid using my deadname as much as possible. but when he saw it on the sheet he awkwardly went "oh uh,,, ma'am?" and the girls around me, who im closeted to, went "why would he think you're a boy?" trying to make me feel better because they think im a girl. i just felt like crying
Lady at work: excuse me, sir?
Me: *turns around*
Lady: oh sorry, ma'am
Me: (goddamnit)
oh I hate taking my binder off just to have to put it back on.
gosh I had the worst experience with someone using the right pronouns (kind of) and then "correcting" themselves :/ I was at the bus stop and there was a lady there as well and when I sat down she was like "oh I totally thought you were a guy haha like you don't look like a guy but yeah haha :))" and i honest to gods almost cried
One time at an art show, my grandmother and I were walking around and looking at some sculptures. I had just recently come out as ftm and we're walking around, commenting on the art, meeting the artists; and we pass this one metal sculpture of what appears to be a woman hold her breasts (which were made with two springs.) In a way that could be seen as her pulling her spring boobs out. my grandma looks at it a minute, turns to me and in a mortifyingly loud voice says "huh, I guess she doesn't want her boobs anymore than you want yours." I got weird looks the rest of the show.
This channel.....God I love it. You and the people around you are flippin' ACE Jamie ❤️ Keep up the great work x
Oh gawd! I died "The bathroom not the packer"
I hated getting my female hormones at the pharmaceutical, I am 7 months in my transition from male to female. My doctor was nice and now the pharmacy ships my hormones by mail monthly. My voice is going from butch to little girl lol, also I notice I am getting boobs, and body hair is going away.
I am a cis female and I think that I need a stands to pee device. That sounds fantastic!
GoGirl! is a product to use if you don't want to sit, when camping, etc. :)
faeriesmak I'm a transguy and i already can stand to pee. I've used urinals before
@@jamesthewatcher3932 power move! XD
@@jamesthewatcher3932 wait how
Thank you Jammi you’re awesome. I am not trans but I love your videos. They are full of humour and deep wisdom, and also very informative. Keep up the good work!
Thank you for making these Videos. It has helped me a lot today and has given me confidence
Im 17 and want to start transitioning next year
Binders suck honestly, especially when sitting. Can't breath 😂
They're a blessing and a curse.
How about when you already wore your binder for 8 hours, but dysphoria is so bad that you have to keep it on. Even though it hurts your ribs.
I’ve done that so often now that it’s completely stretched. Like, I wear it for about 12 hours a day, and have slept in it (usually only car naps) and it doesn’t affect my breathing or anything anymore. It’s too stretched. I have a love-hate relationship with that
If you can’t wear a binder but your dysphoria is still bad, it’s better to wear something else that will hide your chest. Wear a baggy hoodie or something like that. Don’t wear a binder for too long, you could end up with broken ribs.
I usually say "oh, you had it right the first time" to the incorrect corrections one
I wish I could. Since I'm Agender, I never know what to say
please make more videos like this one, very interesting and funny! I love the way you're making viedos, keep going on. good luck man :)
"no, i'm not gonna tell you how i have sex"
the first time i was with my friend and someone called him a boy he actually screeched and hugged me and i was jumping around because yaaaaay it was a big moment
and then she "corrected" herself.
w h y .
I love this channel so much!!!
My gosh, I'm new to your channel. I couldn't recognise the person in the Bowie (cracking choice) shirt as you - had to rewind. Great video.
Me and my binder are tighter than bark on a tree
Even as a Non binary person I can relate 😂
Being androgynous presenting, walking into the women's bathroom - old lady "wrong bathroom, love". Walking into the men's bathroom - bald guy "wrong bathroom, love". Enby's just can't win. (Oh and the face/noise he made for the dreaded monthly occurrence is spot on).
So relatable, thankyou for your visibility!
So I'm twelve
But a couple weeks ago I was like okay fuck this I'm young but I'm not a girl I need to do something about this
And I talked to my significant other about it and they helped me sort everything out and I said I wanted to change my name to Jamie
Then I found this UA-cam channel today and have been binge watching all the trans related videos and I think Jamie is me in the future because he has my want to be name and his whole transition is like what I want to do
But like hey I'm twelve how do I convince my parents
Guin Wagstaff, you could talk to them about your feelings, though it might be easier to write them a letter so you can get your thoughts all sorted out.
Maybe show them a video explaining what it means to be transgender.
You could also request to see a doctor and/or therapist so you can talk about your feelings and see what steps to take next.
Ask your parents if you can buy different clothes or cut your hair differently (if that's something you want).
I'm not sure how transgender medical care is handled in your country, but since you're so young you have the opportunity to get on hormone blockers and basically go through a normal puberty as a boy. Your transition will be much easier since you'll enter adulthood as a man, physically, socially, and legally.
If your parents are not supportive, don't lose hope. I would highly recommend finding support in places such as online transgender communities, your friends, other family members, potentially your school counselor (if you have one) and a therapist if you can see one
Gabe Wagstaff I still have no idea if you've come out yet to your parents or if you still need advice, but I'm always here to talk. Being a trans guy myself I understand what it's like so if you ever need someone to talk to or just vent... message me or something.
I wonder how you are doing now, I hope well
Taking off a jumper in public because shirts love to move up and you have to either hold it down 'like a girl' or hope that no one sees it
For me, one of the most awkward things is people thinking I am a lesbian. I was waiting at the bus stop the other day when this elderly woman started chatting with me about her granddaughter and how the granddaughter was looking for a girlfriend. I was flattered and uncomfortable at the same time.
love your videos jamie !!!!! ❣❣
hope this suggestion isnt too intrusive, but can you make a video about how you felt about your body, through the years, and how that affected your intimacy. did it take you a long time to get to the point where you felt comfortable having sex or getting naked in front of your s/o. How was that process, was it pre-t? or before surgery. did you guys talk about boundaries and what you guys want and dont want to do before having sex? I feel like this type of video could be helpful to alot of trans people out there, especially if theyre virgins and have to struggle with conflicting thoughts about their bodies, and a desire for intimacy.
TAKING OFF BINDERS! Best feeling
Love your videos! You're the best!
Lmao I’m gonna go through puberty again TWENTY years after the first one. It’s gonna be a hot mess.
Was going on a date with this nice woman. After the date and we were walking home she says; "I cannot stand how you can lie to yourself like this. Sorry I could not live or raise children with a lier. We can still be friends though." A different kind of friendzone... I have not spoken to her since.
That's alarming!
WTF
dammit, I wanna come out to my parents, but i'm scared on how they would react >__
Firstly, I adore these videos. Your sense of humour is quirky and the topics wholesomely relatable.
That said, I have a slight concern.
I dunno if this is a good place to ask about it but... I had my shot today, and I've had a few. I didn't feel the needle at all. I didn't feel the fluid going into my leg. It was swift and painless (the site hurt after but not like normal). It wasn't my usual nurse, and the needle was also quite a bit smaller. Should I... be concerned? If anyone can shed some light, I'd be grateful!
Eren Kemp Nah my dude, especially not since it was a smaller needle. I've had many injections in my life, and I've learned that even just being distracted can make you feel like the shot hasn't been done when it has. The nurse probably knows a better angle/ position to do it, or they just got lucky. If it doesn't really hit any nerves then it doesn't hurt. And the aching after is good, because it means your body has registered it.
When I was at school I had random kids in younger years than me ask me if I was a boy or a girl. And me being the anxiety ridden teen I was just sort of mumbled “oh..um.. this is Awkward” and walked away. Or my friends answered for me.
Ahhh teen years... how I don’t miss it.
100% relate.
YAASS JAMIE XXX
I have been dressing more masculine recently, and I have noticed something I never would have thought would happen. Apparently little kids call guys they don't know who are older than them 'sir'. It is kind of cute and apparently common too(?). I don't know, I asked my dude friends about it.
omg the people who call me by the correct pronounce but incorrectly correct it back is so relatable 😂
As a non binary person which bathroom do I go into
The females bathroom? And get judged
Or the males and get judged?
idk what to do!
just go into the one you feel more comfortable with at that moment!
I just avoid public restrooms altogether. Hold it until I get home. Or run into the nearest unisex bathroom I can find!
I'm a 30 year old cis man and I couldn't grow facial hair to save my life. It's just genetics neither can any of my numerous uncles. I tried "shaving" to make my hair grow in thicker all I get now are whiskers I shave like once a month and it takes 30 seconds. No sexy 5 o'clock shadows for me! Funnily enough other men I tell this to are always jealous because they all have to shave daily. Lol 😂
You can have mine. I'm Agender (AFAB) and I grow facial hair that I don't even want
Hey there! Greetings from a Brazillian who just got to know your channel and already loves it XD
I particularly relate to the binder stuff, and I'm questioning whether facial hair will ever happen... Also, while working for hmv I've had a customer call me sir, only to correct themselves. I remember saying "no, you got it right the first time" - it doesn't seem to happen much anymore thankfully!