Here’s the ‘hideous’ and the ‘handsome’ timeline of changes in 100 days of celibacy.
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Can confirm everything said here. 130 days here, you need a very strong purpose for this guys.
"He who has a strong why, can bear almost any how"
what is your purpose?
@@jay2blessful06 To help animals by giving charity to shelters and vets, and help young kids who are getting bullied. I will create a club for this purpose in Germany within 2 years.
I went 83 days start of this year. Started kickboxing around 45 days and doubled my income around 80 days.
Went from making 2k a month to now 10-20k a month from going full celibate 2 years and every time I copulated with a woman my income for that month was slashed in half. FYI I’m in sales.
My guy doubled his salary on day 80 celebrated on day 83😂😂 fair enough👊
I'm currently in my 1 year and 4 months but sooner i'm reaching another month. This month the flesh try the best to bring me down, but thats when i noticed that when i completed another month something happen 3 days later, every single time hurts but next day, i'm soaring higher.
In a week i will be preaching in church. The Spirit is willing but, the flesh is weak. Walk in the Spirit my brothers. God bless all.
This man has a different aura. He speaks with power and authority.
Yet calm and soothing like how late great Bob Ross use to speak.
150+ day's... Am much more calm.. not fazed by anything...
Really hoping for a breakthrough in life.. Ive given my best before... this time i really need it to work.. Made a vow to focus every energy in me.. 💪🏾
Wish me well guys🙏🏾
Sanctify it with prayer and seek Jesus lest your work will be useless
Become a Muslim and you’ll upgrade, undeniably
im turning 24, currently on 40+ days sr post breakup. gonna do it for the next 10 years and find out wtf happens
40 days+?
Stop it.
If you keep doing that throughout the years, probably prostate cancer, "hurting" your testicles and sperm, possible inflammation and then Epididymitis...then you'll know what true pain is.
You'll wish for death and pray to whatever deity hears you everyday.
Believe me, you don't want that.
NoFap is ret4rded stupidity from braindead fools.
lol
You end up shaving the top of your head and wear a bald bull-cut while wearing dark, brown robes. And then the Vikings arrive…
It’s not the purpose of your journey but by experience, she’s coming back stronger than ever.
Hey, when you make it to ten years come bk here and share your experience with us.
August 3rd will be 13 months my life has tranformed in days I never thought was possible there is no looking back for me
Examples?
Sometime on this journey,your interests shift,you start to philosphy,maybe even start loosing envy,shame,anxiety etc.
your mind should change for the better and you desire battle,healthily accept defeat and dont mind forgiving and admiting mistakes,you dont take everyything personal,and i think its because we are somwhat and some part entering Gods will.
So,praise God.
dogshit grammar
I found myself improving my speech. Not using vulgar words all the time. I'm at the point where I stop myself in the process but then have that sudden pause as I shift my frame of mind.
Indeed friend. Praise God.
I have been practicing SR for about 3 years on and off now. Longest streak was 7 months. In my experience SR has been at the crux of all the major changes I have made in my character and in my life. It is the fuel for the engine, but also note that an engine can lose its proper function if not cycled/driven for long enough. This cycling and integration of ones fuel/energy through breathing and exercise (specifically lower body) becomes increasingly important as SR streaks increase in length.
Excellently said. Proper insight. Thank you Chief
Could you point me in the direction of whomever you learned such breathing techniques from? I've been practicing but I would love to find a resource for this specifically and goes a bit more in depth into the practices. Based on what I've been doing now it's been very beneficial but I know there's more to learn considering it's a practice done for thousands of years
What do you mean? Your penis will stop working if you don’t ejaculate?
Nearly 5 years now,I’m like a nuclear reactor
💪🏾
Congratulations
@@lozza8882 you havnt bust a nutt in 5 years ?
lies.
Lmao love this.
“Young whipper snapper” 😂 love it brother. Keep up the good work
Awesome video brother, I enjoyed the dynamic energy throughout the video. I came across your channel 2 years ago. I've been practising SR since 2020, and had been consistent since January 2024. I've found what helped me control my aggression was strength training paired with combat sports, mindful walks in nature, and fixing my relationship with God. Keep doing God's work. Kings will rise.
For the first time in life I am proud of myself, made it to 5 months and going strong. I am 36 and want to experience this power before I expire as a man.
15 years old here, 5 months celibate probably more months than that but im just sure it was at least 5 months, 152 days strong praise god✝️✝️✝️
Once you're eighteen that testosterone will skyrocket.
My friend you are blessed to have discovered Sr at that age, keep fighting and you will be someone who will succeed in life not exaggerating
@user-tw7mn7sl8x the only major obstacles I'm overcoming in life is building a relationship with Jesus and mental strength from horse stance squat
Wish you the best brothers. Change the world like you want it to be
God bless, all praise be to the Lord
Joseph, you be saying stuff with such a level of calm it be spot on but funny asf sometimes.
You are the only reason why i use UA-cam ❤
90 days in I had some girl look at me with shock in her eyes and said my aura was like that of a god... Every one would comment about my glow, it got so insane that my glow was visible even in the dark...
Your point is valid but quite embellished.
the woman looks at you sexually, blushing, pupils dilated, ask her out immediately and enjoy. no lights, the woman is just aroused.😂
Hell yeah 🤙🏽
You officially became a cia ni***r
I feel like the glow in the dark was too much. The rest seems believable. This one time I had gone a month on SR, and we had a big party with a lot of family members and random friends and normally Idgaf about socializing (I’m 17 then and I only talk to like 3 ppl at school lowkey), I don’t talk to girls really or anything just to give an idea. This party though, for some reason I just wanted to dance. I started off by asking some of the moms out for a dance, to build some confidence, then worked to the daughters. I didn’t even dance good but I was dancing a lot and had a ton of energy and confidence that after a few dances I had women practically fighting each other because they wanted to dance with me, “can I dance with you again?”, “me next” etc. (while we were dancing we were obviously close and touching each others hands and hips). Anyways party ends. Didn’t think much of it, I had fun. Next morning I wake up with the biggest wood of my life. I almost always measure myself with my phone or hand and I know what my length is, which is just under 6in, this day though I was 7 freaking inches. Never in my life have I been that long and I didn’t even take anything. I go to school and wtf. Every girl is staring at me. In this one class I had like 11/14 girls staring like into my soul, and I thought the one next to me was seriously going to grab my pp (it’s happened before) because she was literally drooling just broken neck fixated on me like I was a juicy steak (think of Alex from Madagascar). During the whole class my heart was racing so hard and I was also so hard. By the second to last period (other class) I was literally leaking, I was leaking like precum fr. And I was so horny that I wanted to f this fat chick (she was the only girl in this class). I felt so disgusted in myself cuz I fr wanted to ask this fat girl if she was dtf and I was a virgin. I stop myself go to the bathroom and bust at the school like a pig cuz I was leaking too much. That class with all the girls staring at me was intense, I felt like we were gonna melt and become one (I’ve never done drugs, but it felt like what are described effects of drugs, like something controlling and hallucinatory, but euphoric at the same time, like if they had broken the tension by touching me It felt like I was going to die, like waiting for something to happen it was so bizarre).
I think it had to do with sr and dancing with all those females (non relatives), getting their sweat and touch, eye contact, like a mating ritual almost, because I do SR all the time and it doesn’t give me the same incredible boost as this one time.
I don’t remember if I was on SR this other time but I had a girl tell me that she got wet just because I made eye contact with her, she was weird but not ugly so idk if she was making it up.
You are on a fantastic journey of mental ascension bro! Just found your channel.
I look forward to seeing your continued growth.
After a month of no porn, I relapsed. After relapsing, I just picked myself up and continued to move forward with no porn.
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What I admire about this relapse was this sense of empathy that I had for the people in the video. I realized I can no longer watch porn the same after a month without, and now it feels even easier to let it go.
Getting back on SR
I understand. I completed the 30 days of NNN in 2022, but had to intentionally relapse a few days following to see how I felt. And as you experienced, It was way easier to decide to move forward with SR. Currently at about 580 days.
@@KodeStreet I take that I am on the normal and bumpy path to SR 🙏 I am on my way there now with even more strength. Thank you for relating and sharing your experience with me.
Tell me how to quit porn
Any tips would be helpful
@@V.E.D.A.N.G occupy your time with productive things to do. You’re less likely to relapse if you’re not thinking about it as much. Discipline and Time my friend!
Felt the same here, I felt utterly disgusted
My spiritual mentor informed me that wet dreams are good for a celibate mans mental health and are more nourishing to the soul than fantasies or porn. He basically implied that they are healthy and necessary... my understanding is that the dreams vividly simulate intimacy and can satiate ones need for it. Dreams are so surreal they do a better job of filling that need than masturbation or porn ever could.
180 days...life's tough...but real
Squeeze your eyebrows, it makes the masculine feel come alive and make SR more easier! This… is one of the secrets! Good luck to my brothers pursuing SR. The eyebrows thing is something of a posture you adopt when youre angry automatically, so remember aggression is always a masculine trait, use it to fuel your SR practice! Joseph… I love you brother ❤
What?
Bro stop yapping
Self control is a masculine trait*
Miyamoto Musashi won over 60 duels, always staring intensely into his opponents spirit with his furrowed brows.
I'm at the 9th month on my SR journey and every ounce of information within this channel has been spot on with the +/-'s.
Thank you ever so much for this ongoing content my man. It's worth it's weight in gold. :)
its been half a decade brudda im enlightened. 😌
Yo Joseph I make background music feel free to use any of my stuff if you vibe with any of it!
Good editing, enjoyed this one!
Worth the wait ✅
I think you've done a great job of explaining the biological and emotional transformation. Of course the social aspects are more metaphorical. I would add only the caveat that men vary, particularly as to timing, even though what you present is a good general timeline. Your use of the English language is splendid, and it's a pleasure to listen to you talk about anything.
Time lines are cool but it's still person to person age, diet, genetics, activity level, and mind/body/spirit connection all have something to do with this.
Some progress quicker some slower but it's okay and all love as long as it's done for the right reasons.
It's also okay if done for wrong reasons because it can potentially make a person evolve into the right reasons.
Relapsed 2 weeks ago after 4 months of retention. Felt very down and . Although this time around i am determined to go for a longer streak. Goal is a year.
currently one month in, Im experiencing pain in solar plexus for the 3-rd day in row for no particular reason
Hey bro, this is normal, it’s suppressed emotion that’s been awakened by the sexual energy that is now rising. It’s Kundalini energy, yes what I am saying is very occult and spiritual but it’s the truth. Make sure you are moving that energy with breath work and doing inner child work emotional release work. It’s your body purging old stuck energy.
This was the coolest video I ever saw so far 😎👍🏻 absolutely best
Life gets better :)
Amazing video
Favorite video / most informative IMO on SR benefits - great overview
after being single whole my life , i decide to marry with the right woman, lets see how it will impact my sr journey, i will keep this journey nomatter what.
Great video!
Knowing that you are an avid reader and researcher I want to recommend the work of Arnold Krum-Heller (Huiracoacha).
Wet dreams ARE a break in my opinion. That’s not a bad thing since we are ALSO trying to heal our astral body as well. We must be thorough and honest about this if we are to complete this process.
Iam having trouble solving that problem. I meditate and going to gym but still after 30 or 60 or 90 days I relapse through wet dream
A wet dream is not a relapse, it's natural and part of the journey!
So please don't beat yourself up about it :)
It might also be correlated to sexual phantasies you might be having throughout the day.
@@sebastianmuenzberg4197 thank you for am calmer about that now
Relapses are part of the process brotha
Based on this video - and the person's review/results @ 13:35; it would suggest that there is a balance. Clearly there are benefits, but if the person was quoting having wet dreams and getting 'resetting' type results, this would suggest - if not a complete reset - possibly a pushback due to the body's way of wanting a natural release. This would suggest that you should not have to/nor is it necessary to have a continuous 'celibacy' (i.e. complete 100% semen retention streak).
This video discusses 100 days of celibacy; yet there are several comments from this video that suggest many more days than this (some into the years) without release.
From my experience of practicing (max 1 month for me at this stage) - especially if you DO have a partner - I am not sure there is enough factual proof to show that the benefits are highly distinctive after a certain point in time.
I am starting to see the possibility that - depending on the age range - suggests a time frame between releases of semen (e.g. 1-2 weeks for 30-40 year olds / 3-4 weeks 40+ y/o /etc).
Noticeably; I do find the first few days after any release are not great at all. However, I have had equally bad days after a streak of retention, which increased the frustration further.
I am not sure why there seems to be a complete sea of independent fact findings from all different areas, whereas no one has tried to properly investigate this phenomenon on a mass scale to derive a definitive answer; however, I cannot see the point in simply pushing one's self (pressured by more videos such as this) to demonise themselves whenever the do 'relapse'.
We argue in this day and age that apparently people are able to summon abundance with a higher retention level; however, if we look back to prehistoric days (e.g. cavemen/gladiators/etc) - we know that these alphas were of great strength/abundance - and still engaged in sexual activity (i.e. Charles Darwin - fittest offspring surviving, etc).
I would say that - especially when seeking a relationship (male or female), the increase in social media and internet presence leads to more toxicity between sexes, and increase competition - that may not otherwise have been there decades ago - meaning that people were not always complimented with immense options; so due to the less options there were, this means loyalty and integrity between people were greater. This meant less games were played, which means holding a relationship would have been much easier - leaving one to focus more on other areas (i.e. health and wealth) than have anxiety increase due to the nature of being exposed to a wider competitive market (as we are today on a potentially global scale).
But then - looking at all the comments, I can see that the creator of this channel doesn't respond or comment on anyone else's feedback/comments. They clearly just want the engagement - which is why I won't subscribe to this channel.
Wet dreams come from overflow a great reference is brahmacharya : Celibacy
it does have a lot of good benefits. I have more energy. My longest streak was 51 days. It gave me mental clarity my skin my hair and my eyes looked better. Most importantly it does not attract women or I don’t really know about that and usually I feel much more aggressive as well on this journey. I have so much aggression.
You not attractive
Yes i heavily fantasize while sleeping which has become a bad habit of mine for some quite time
God give me power to get rid of them
It’s a life style not a practice
11:16 even tho it is not a mentally chosen reset it is effectively reseting your celibacy counter to zero as the body will have to replenish the lost fluid. Please enlighten me me if I have missed something? pre load should be clear but semen will look like it so at least one should know right.
for my experience i ve been in this semen retention for a long time and stop counting long time ago (confidence; pepole respect) but for the negative side i attract a lot of bugs; and i manifest a lot of farts
Wet dreams are akin to user dreams. Where recovering addicts dream about using drugs. It’s all part of the process
How effective is this if you're 27, already withhold from masturbation, but haven't had sex more than a handful of times and still deal with unfulfilled desires since high school?
Focus on becoming the person you want. The person your dream woman would have as a dream man. I wouldn't focus on it, but do what you want with her and save it for her later on, focus on becoming better yourself, on everything and you'll get there
Same place here, also 27 and similar situation.
My perspective now is that I hold it until I find the right woman. In the meantime I transmite the sexual energy to motivate myself to become powerful beyond measure
@@fazemac5824if I can encourage you, waiting for the right woman is well worth it. I waited til I found someone I was comfortable with. I don’t regret it and it gave me the lessons I needed to learn to reach my SR journey
Been practicing for about 5 months and I noticed most of what you said, although I am going through a rough patch rn, my motivation has gone down a bit and I can be quite rude sometimes 😅 hoping i can come back to equilibrium to better manifest my dreams
Do breathwork to release negative emotions, sometimes exercise and goals alone doesn't transmute the energy correctly, it's still trapped in your lower chakras... it's a spiritual journey for sure, physical benefits are just a side bonus.
@@tomhill61 thanks for the response 🙏🏿 and yes i do breathwork, definitely feel the difference on the days I don't
Coach red pill Cinematics, I see you there
Coiled serpent on your arm !
Interesting 🤔
@@BeefTaco60 Have you read it!?
@@olalekanallade3703 no
Be wary of this guy
Bah! What the hell are you people struggling with?¿
There is a Hadith! (Quote by the Prophet of Islam).
"O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
People need to do water fasts for days. I have water fasted and ate absolutely nothing for 64 days (following proper care and information on safety) and have completely cleansed my entire body. It also completely erased my porn addiction, to which i had an extremely unhealthy relationship with. Be mindful people, the answer always exists.
Can you do a video on frequencies and if they can influence us for the better
Of course bro everything vibrates on a specific frequency. Your dream life is a frequency for example. Please note we humans are like 70% made of water. Water also responds to frequencies. I would suggest you to listen to 432hz music and feel the difference
i really agree with that, Sr will make you feel bad feelings at first because you acostummed your body and your mind to a costant artificial release, normally the flat line or negative emotions men should not feel them, but, because if you where 5 years or more on pmo you will be miserable at first, its like a witdrawal when someone cutts of some drug like weed, crack or something like that, You will FEEL BAD, but after you dopamine is healed and your body is acostummed to a new reality you will be happy (meaning a reality when you only realease if you are with a girl or if you conciusly decide to release if its with the purpose of reproduction).
1 year and 2 months.
So is it ok to stay on SR and celibacy forever or you need to break from time to time?
You want it but you dont need it. Our bodies always ask what we want but spiritually we dont need it. If you have a wife for example then go ahead. If you dont, stay on SR and enjoy the journey.
@@wonders8561it doesn’t really matter that much in the grand scheme of things. Try searching up some Alan watts lectures on “self improvement”. SR and all other forms asceticism are just a form of this in my eyes. That doesn’t mean I won’t partake. But sometimes it’s ok to feel pleasure in this world. What’s the point of living life if never to experience the carnal pleasures. We are the universe experiencing itself in the form of flesh. Why deny the very essence of our being? Ultimately it’s all some form of your personal Karma you have to go through. Go through the hedonic life to realize the answer isn’t there, go through asceticism to realize it’s not there either. Then you realize they are one and the same ultimately.
I'm day 34 but was edging (with use of 🌽) for a while this morning and got like 2 hours sleep cause of the urges/pent up energy, eyes are more tired and red and overall little more tired (obviously that's going to be the result of it though) didn't finish but did have a decent amount of prec*m come out but was practicing kegals when close also, my question is does that count as a full on relapse yes or no because I didn't release and still have energy and know ill be back to feeling the way I did+better before I edged after a refeed and good night's rest for maybe a day or 2
No, it doesn't, but part of this journey is to avoid lusting and looking at porn in the first place. Porn is the worst part of all of this for you, you really need to work on quitting that before you can tackle any serious SR goals.
I used to do this and I found myself hanging out in a lustful vibration which no longer felt good for my spirit or growth. So I decided to stop edging all together and avoided all sexual content. My life has been far better now
edging really is the worst, it totally fries your brain
I'm doing a really good transmutation meditation, but can't figure out that where to move my energy, to the pineal gland or to the crown chakra?(because someone tell me to move this energy to the head)
Please tell me if someone is experienced in these things?
To the Christ Center between the eyebrows…🙏
Yes exactly your pineal and then crown. Highly recommend Joe dispenzas guided meditations. He does exactly that with consciously moving energy to the top. Do this enough and you’ll notice you feel lighter. I can physically feel when my energy shifts if I get lustful at all
absoluty Facts bro👌🙂
Is anyone from Buffalo NY here??? Or do you know where I could find people in my area???
Bro please add time codes
Anyone know what this would do to a woman? And then obviously it wouldn't be SR, but just being more pure and putting that as a priority. I heard somewhere it takes 40 days for a man to clean out and heal from having intercourse with someone else and sharing souls and being one with another but that it takes 7 years for a woman to fully heal and for the body to become fully rid of that person. (May have to do with the DNA storing and those things as well, as studies suggest that possibility in twin women studies where at the age in the US where women on average started losing their virginity correlated with a huge rise in more male DNA in their brains), that wasn't able to be linked to any other cause, like the other ones mentioned in studies, (miscarriage of a boy or a brother prior to daughter and with her receiving that from her mother in the period where the mother and child interchange DNA with eachother.)
Would be interested if you could explore that in another video. Because as a man, and a christian, who have watched content of yours and am focused on being serious and doing things that create good things for me later on, it would be interesting to see how it can change women, and what exactly it does. Because even if i only talk to women that are semi similar because sharing of values is the only thing that actually will be able to hold long term and where you actually can become 1 together, i've noticed that some are different in how pure they are (obviously), but with that how that shapes their thoughts and how fragmented they are, or how locked in they are on the life that they want, if a life of God or similar to mine for example. And obviously that depends on other factors like how she was raised and if her father is in the picture, and to what extent and how she respects him/their relation. But let's say a woman was to be with someone when she is 20, and she then wants to do something at 24 or engage something serious with someone. What impact would something like this have on her then, compared to her wanting to do it when she is 27/28, like old knowledge which i believe to be ayurvedic (that says that 7 years for a woman is the time it takes for her body to fully get rid of the man and clean and get healed from it). Cause if it is an energy shift somewhere there, then where exactly that line is, could be interesting, and also if that energy repells good men, or serious men, then that's one huge thing, and if it creats mess in her life and fragments her in any way before those 7 years, that would also be something very huge.
Obviously some assumptions made in the text, but i don't claim to know it, just observations and thoughts. And while i'm not sure exactly what question would be the best one to answer, i do think a video like that would be a very interesting topic to dive into, even if we're on the masculine side, just to understand women, and ourselves better.
What happens if you start retaining by 17?
You, sir, are in for a life of greatness. If you truly begin this life at such a young age, you will have learnt what many men wish they had learnt earlier in life.
@@swarthhy thank you apart from meditation what else could I add?
@@skylercage1652spirituality. You can combine SR with meditations to transmute your sexual energy to your brain and throughout your body for power.
Research chakras and energy centers
@@skylercage1652meditation is great. I personally did things like gym, reading and other things that interest. My biggest outlet is music. I put all my energy into and it helps me transmute the massive amounts of energy I have. That and dancing 🕺🏽 good luck bud you’re doing great
@@skylercage1652 wow, you are really lucky.
Search about brahmacharya by "Swami Vivekanand".
Although he was always a pure celibate, but i have heard that when someone follows purity in thoughts also along with SR, semen starts getting absorbed back in the body and nutrients rise up and go to the brain, and after 12 years, we gain a nerve through which we know all and understand all, it is a great power
❤
The only reason I would want to attract anyone is to spread the gospel
Jesus had genitals
Hey yo…. Why is that Snake 🐍 tattoo over your arms ???? 🧐 Whats the reason for that are you out of your mind? Humans are scare of snakes as it contains venom & poisonous.
Tell your viewers the reason of that tattoo ASAP
What the hell are you talking about? The man's allowed to have a tattoo, calm down. 😂
@@swarthhy i know man is allowed to have tattoo but im asking this UA-cam guy Why SNAKE 🐍tattoo.Once again hey yo explain your viewers about that tattoo!
Humans are also scared of lions and wolves but we still get tattoos of those animals as well. What’s your point? 💀
Bro has the symbol of Satan on his arm.
@@MDE_never_dies Point to be Noted!
Are you religious
Bruh, stop promoting less sleep. The science is really clear on how important sleep is, even if you sleep less, try to aim for atleast 6 hours. if you can , 7-8. but 6, minimal. Its extremly toxic
He didn't promote any less than 6, he's saying that SR requires you to sleep less than you usually need to. So 6 instead of 8
I did it (nofap ) 130 days, but relapsed 2days before now
FOUND YOUR PRESENTATION OF THIS SUPER BORING I’LL BE REAL 🥱 💤
GOTTA WORK ON EVERYTHING
Never seen a video on seed retention so detailed and to the point like this one...guess it's the high time to practice celibacy now🤍
In İslam fasting is recommended to men unable to merry (have sex).
is it reccommeded as some kind of way to increase chances? or is it just to make you feel content about inability to marry?
You’re on a right track but let me explain, in Islam, you are encouraged to marry a woman if and when you are financially or spiritually ready capable of doing so , if not ready, Allah commands for man to lower their gaze and fast , Allah doesnt state why but when you do fast then you will know to lower their sexual inhibitions.