Things I discovered after being married to a Nigerian Man | CULTURE SHOCK | Love Beyond Borders Ep.1

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  • @folorunsoclement8190
    @folorunsoclement8190 2 роки тому +35

    Yes, we are loud people, but not because of generator, it's just our nature of displaying happiness and arguments about everything without fighting anyway

  • @NESTG1973
    @NESTG1973 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for this, i m happy you gave the positive side of Nigeria, lots of people who are still minded believes Nigerian are not more than criminals. we love you

  • @olumuyiwaojo3532
    @olumuyiwaojo3532 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you our wife ... God bless you and your family.

  • @ezekieledem9715
    @ezekieledem9715 2 роки тому +11

    We Nigerian are too cultural, and our tradition and diversity also contribute to the loudness and ceremonies in everyday life, keep up the good work my sister

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you for your input brother 🙏🏾🇳🇬

  • @samtislorh8529
    @samtislorh8529 2 роки тому +9

    First time seeing your channel
    Am a Nigerian married to a beautiful Jamaican woman in the Caribbean 🇳🇬🇯🇲🇺🇸🇯🇲🇳🇬😂🇳🇬🇯🇲😅🇺🇸and I must say we are definitely hard to miss in a crowd😅. As Nigerians we are very proud people and are proud of our culture as Africans. Another thing about us is that we don’t pretend especially when we see you as a family. The bottom line is that we are easy go kinda people. And I think we need to intermarried more as Africans Welcome to our Nigerian family

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +3

      I 100% agree with you. May God continue to bless your beautiful union 🙏🏾 thank you for watching 🙏🏾

    • @samtislorh8529
      @samtislorh8529 2 роки тому +2

      @@SerameAndBeyond amen 🙏

    • @cece9604
      @cece9604 Рік тому +2

      My partner is also Nigerian im Jamaican 😂 the best men out there

  • @theamanas
    @theamanas 2 роки тому +7

    You nailed it.I agree with all of them .the party one annoys me😂😂😂I feel like they just like food .

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 they love food

    • @femiakande652
      @femiakande652 2 роки тому +3

      Lolz!!! Party food is seen to be more special to most Nigerians.

  • @ismailakanni484
    @ismailakanni484 2 роки тому +3

    We are loud not bcos of generator. I could remember my mother encourage me to speak up and be bold while interacting with people.

  • @iyamugeorge5835
    @iyamugeorge5835 2 роки тому +12

    We even go to party to celebrate the success of the previous party.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 this is so true...after my brideprice ceremony, they had another party celebrating the success of the ceremony 🤣

    • @dikeledijane8186
      @dikeledijane8186 2 роки тому

      Ha!! You're worse my dear!!

    • @blackoralArt
      @blackoralArt 2 роки тому +3

      Nor mind these people. They are lucky they came to Nigeria when the economy is not so good, 9/10 years ago when the economy was booming, dem for tire for party..😁

    • @samuelsaheed8941
      @samuelsaheed8941 2 роки тому

      That true bro, naija for life

    • @_Ephy1
      @_Ephy1 Рік тому

      😂😂😂

  • @carolkabot
    @carolkabot 2 роки тому +17

    I'm new to your channel and loving the content. It's nice to see proudly married SA women speaking about their marriage to Nigerians and I believe this will enlighten most people. Nigerian men are so loving and open. One is blessed to be married to one. The other day I was like to my husband I want to do a liposuction and he went like my friend I won't support you to go and commit suicide see our former president wife died doing that so my friend you're not doing that and the way he was shouting you'll be scared that neighbors will hear you but hey oh the love we're getting bathong kere bona🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 I actually read that in naija accent 🤣🤣🤣 Nigerians are so funny🥰... I am happy for you Caroline and thank you for watching ❤ 💃🏿 God bless you 🙏🏾

    • @sinentlahlagosa1469
      @sinentlahlagosa1469 2 роки тому +3

      May you stay happy in your marriage

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      @@sinentlahlagosa1469 Thank you so much Sinentlahla... ❤

    • @blackoralArt
      @blackoralArt 2 роки тому +4

      Lol. Once a Nigerian says ' 'my friend', be careful cos it shows he's upset and ready to argue or even fight. 😁

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +3

      @@blackoralArt 😂😂😂😂

  • @mrslobisag2221
    @mrslobisag2221 2 роки тому +6

    Really enjoyed this video can't wait to enjoy more party after party 🤣🤣

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      😂 😂 😂 Thanks for watching sis ❤️

  • @berthamaoka2519
    @berthamaoka2519 2 роки тому +8

    The loudness, okare they are fighting kgante they're just happy to see each other and jisting

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      Exactly... It's overwhelming if you're not used to them shem 😂

  • @agnesmalesa5577
    @agnesmalesa5577 2 роки тому +5

    The level of loudness😂😂😂overpowering the sound of generators...The hospital visit loudness 😂😂loving you for the bluntness mosadi.!

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      😂 😂 😂 Ke bolela nnete. Ba rasa batho ba yoh 😂

  • @BeCreativeminded1923
    @BeCreativeminded1923 2 роки тому +3

    Generators make a lot of noise 😂😂😂😂😂😂 she finished us.Anyway 🇳🇬❤❤🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬😍😍

  • @victorymulaudzi4412
    @victorymulaudzi4412 2 роки тому +16

    I am venda, married to a Yoruba…
    Totally agree with all those culture shocks but the food preparation takes the cup! I have to prepare myself mentally the day before for that process, and also how much cooking oil is used, yet they dnt gain weight 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +3

      We have alot in common. My second name is Victory...❤🤞🏾
      😂😂😂 Girrrrl it also bugs me how they don't gain weight yet so much oil in their food.

    • @victorymulaudzi4412
      @victorymulaudzi4412 2 роки тому +2

      @@SerameAndBeyond 😂💞💞

    • @Xtjiggzs
      @Xtjiggzs 2 роки тому +1

      Lol. As a Nigerian man I totally agree with the long food process making.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      @@Xtjiggzs 🤣🤣🤣💦 its alot abeg

    • @koredenoir8899
      @koredenoir8899 2 роки тому +1

      Palm oil is one of the healthiest oil that’s why we don’t gain weight

  • @Richardgreatofficial
    @Richardgreatofficial 2 роки тому +4

    I love ur show....... Ur new subscriber from Naija.

  • @samuelwilliams8099
    @samuelwilliams8099 2 роки тому +5

    I am new to your channel. I must say that you are gorgeous. You have earned yourself a new subscriber! One thing I love about my Nigerian people, we are all over Africa and beyond. Wherever we live, we don’t just date the ladies in that country, we married them as well. Talking about loudness, you need to be with Gambian people, you will agree with me that Nigerians are not loud. 😃😃😃😃. Gambians are very, very loud.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much 🙏🏾 so Gambians are louder than Nigerians? Wow. Also being loud is an African thing.
      Thank you for watching 🤝🏾

    • @chrisudoka5420
      @chrisudoka5420 2 роки тому

      @@SerameAndBeyond South Africa are louder than Nigeria.

  • @nsibidiakwaabasi7456
    @nsibidiakwaabasi7456 2 роки тому +6

    Yes, we are very loud our wife. Confirmed!

  • @davidayoko7799
    @davidayoko7799 2 роки тому +3

    Of course, we want the part 2!!!

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      Im currently editing it...will be up next week

  • @NarcSurvivorship
    @NarcSurvivorship Рік тому +1

    Beautiful lady! ❤❤❤. New subscriber!😊

  • @benedictonobrakpeya9635
    @benedictonobrakpeya9635 2 роки тому +3

    Keep up the good work my sister, God bless you and the family real good .

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much brother 🙏🏾 God bless 🙌🏾

  • @adeshinaonanuga9136
    @adeshinaonanuga9136 Рік тому

    I am subscribing since you are married to a Yoruba man. We are the best❤

  • @Biobele
    @Biobele 2 роки тому +2

    Your theory is very funny 😄

  • @theamanas
    @theamanas 2 роки тому +6

    I see we are many😂😂😂I’m here for their loudness.I struggled so much with that.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      😂 😂 😂 Girrrrllll I also struggled but now I'm initiated

    • @uzoejekwumadu7731
      @uzoejekwumadu7731 2 роки тому

      Has the baby arrived. Wishing you all the very best 💕💞🥰

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      @@uzoejekwumadu7731 yes baby is here... Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @ismailakanni484
      @ismailakanni484 Рік тому

      @@SerameAndBeyond
      💪💪💪

  • @samuelsaheed8941
    @samuelsaheed8941 2 роки тому +2

    Party's, if u don't come to my party, I will not show up at urs. So u have to always attend every nice and good people party. All u said is true and fact. One love, I think with u, lot of SA people might change and we get to love each other better. Thank dear u got me

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      Oh that's why they always show up at each other's parties.
      Thank you for your input and watching. One Love 🙏🏾

    • @samuelsaheed8941
      @samuelsaheed8941 2 роки тому +1

      @@SerameAndBeyond yeah, come to mine, I will show up at urs lol 😂, I think I need to get a SA LADY too

  • @Precious_T
    @Precious_T 2 роки тому +2

    A part two pleaseee😍😍😍😍

  • @wellingtonuzamere3511
    @wellingtonuzamere3511 2 роки тому +3

    As a Nigerian man the loudness is very accurate. All of my friends tell me they can hear me from around the corner of the hall way 🤣

  • @berthamaoka2519
    @berthamaoka2519 2 роки тому +6

    Any little money, na enjoyment basically LOL

  • @giftedese3104
    @giftedese3104 2 роки тому +4

    When it come to naming ceremony it all Nigeria 7 days before you can name your child

  • @owhighonelson8324
    @owhighonelson8324 2 роки тому +1

    Pls ask that your sister from asaba if she did not miss Nigeria music 🎵

  • @Nell654
    @Nell654 2 роки тому +4

    Nigerians are loud because there are so many people in Nigeria. There are humans and black people everywhere so everyone has to get their voices heard. The happiness in nija is intense.

  • @mphojeanettemosala4360
    @mphojeanettemosala4360 2 роки тому +1

    Ijhooo,😂🤣😂,Makoti ke dinako😂😂😁

  • @halatedzinetshiomvani163
    @halatedzinetshiomvani163 2 роки тому +2

    Hahahaha...ya, yiu dont like long cookimg processes neh!

  • @florencetomi2223
    @florencetomi2223 2 роки тому +3

    The naming is 8 days. By the way do you enjoy pounded yam, Amala, Moimoi and the rest?

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      Oh yes 8days 😊 I enjoy pounded yam and amala but not moi moi

    • @florencetomi2223
      @florencetomi2223 2 роки тому

      @@SerameAndBeyond Moi moli is cool now especially if you eat "elemi meje" Yoruba language lossely translated as moimoi with 7 spirits. Because it has seven ingredients like egg, liver, fish etc inside.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      @@florencetomi2223 I'll ask my husband and try it out

  • @lawrencen947
    @lawrencen947 Місяць тому

    We are loud because we are tasked with speaking for all Africans a lot of whom are unable to speak or too timid

  • @tutonguni529
    @tutonguni529 2 роки тому +2

    No they loud forget the story about the generators

  • @sibongilendlovu7209
    @sibongilendlovu7209 2 роки тому +5

    This was just a sneak peek give us more 😅#part2

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      😂 It's coming lol... Thanks for watching ❤️

  • @michaeltowei4410
    @michaeltowei4410 2 роки тому +2

    What do u mean by we are loud cos of generator ❓na ment or mentor ❓

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      Its a joke...calm down.
      Thanks for watching.

    • @michaeltowei4410
      @michaeltowei4410 2 роки тому

      Buy me pap and mokodu before i will calm down 😃😃

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      @@michaeltowei4410 😂 I'll just cook it

  • @Nessss346
    @Nessss346 2 роки тому

    Finally!!!!!🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @berthamaoka2519
    @berthamaoka2519 2 роки тому +4

    Di pepper soup, di red stew, di jollof, di pounded yam - they're all really good but the time investment is quite heavy. I think that's probably why I haven't really tried to learn how to make any dishes :|

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      😂 😂 😂 😂 Pounded yam. Heyiii you'll pound and pound my sister 😂 it's alot

  • @Njoofene
    @Njoofene Рік тому +1

    They are rude. However, I agree with your other points.

  • @vico1130
    @vico1130 Рік тому

    The 8 days is for naming ceremony while after 2 or 3 months you can go and do baby dedication in church.
    This is the Christian practice in Nigeria. We follow the scripture standard.

  • @BoituS93
    @BoituS93 4 місяці тому

    Did you get married in SA or in nigeria?

  • @akeemsalami1764
    @akeemsalami1764 2 роки тому +3

    Not true,we aren't loud cos of generator, we are just loud....no specific reasons for that.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      Thank you for watching.
      That was a joke btw 🤝🏾

  • @adeyemikolapo2158
    @adeyemikolapo2158 2 роки тому +1

    Generator bawo🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sophymamkwena7540
    @sophymamkwena7540 2 роки тому +1

    Sesi Serame,where you born in winter?akere Serame ke go tonya

  • @abiodunoyeniyi3940
    @abiodunoyeniyi3940 2 роки тому +5

    I'm from Nigeria, I disagree with that generator you were talking about.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +2

      Issa joke...its not that deep Abiodun.
      Thank you for watching 🙏🏾

  • @jeremiah7494
    @jeremiah7494 2 роки тому +2

    O na le liver my gal

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      😆😆😆 Why do you say that? 🤣

    • @jeremiah7494
      @jeremiah7494 2 роки тому +1

      Wa tloha waya Nigeria vele? 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jeremiah7494
      @jeremiah7494 2 роки тому

      @@SerameAndBeyond o ne o sa tshabe ho monyala ausi Serame? 😳😳🤣🤣

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      @@jeremiah7494 ke tshaba eng exactly abuti Jeremiah?

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      @@jeremiah7494 🤣 eya... kgante bothatha bo kae abuti?

  • @NokulilaNgcongolo
    @NokulilaNgcongolo 2 роки тому +3

    I'm not happy, you didn't pay the plantain much attention. How dare you just give it a 5second s/o. The party loving 😂😂😂😂 I want more please.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      😂 😂 😂 I knew you'd fight me...part 2 loading hahaha

  • @bennethamobi
    @bennethamobi 2 роки тому +3

    POINT OF CORRECTION..MY DEAR SISTER FROM SOUTH AFRICA..HOWEVER..NIGERIAN'S AREN'T LOUD BECAUSE OF THE ISSUE OF GENERATORS..THAT'S UNTRUE..NIGERIAN'S ARE NATURALLY LOUD PEOPLE..REMEMBER..EVERY COUNTRY HAS HIS OWN UNIQUE WAY OF RECOGNITION..AND..ALSO..NIGERIAN'S VERY SOCIAL AND WELCOMING ASWELL..REGARDLESS OF OUR CULTURAL DIFFERENCES?

  • @kpqhibi1835
    @kpqhibi1835 2 роки тому +3

    But even in our SAn culture we don't call elders by their names.

  • @bennethamobi
    @bennethamobi 2 роки тому +4

    THE MINDSET OF AFRICANS ATLARGE NEEDS TO CHANGE TOWARDS EACH ORDER..BEFORE.WE CAN BA ABLE TO MOVE AHEAD AS ONE UNITED PEOPLE..AND..IT'S ONLY AFRICAN PEOPLE CAN CHANGE AFRICAN CONCEPT OF MINDS BOTH CULTURALLY, POLITICALLY, AND SOCIALLY!
    AND..I URGE EVERY AFRICAN UA-camR AROUND THE AFRICAN CONTINENT TO ASWELL BE THE CHANGE..WE ALL INTEND TO SEE IN AFRICA..BY..CHANGING THE NEGATIVE NARRATIVES OF AFRICA..WHICH..THE WESTERN IMPERIALISM MEDIA HAVE PAINTED US TO BE FOR SO LONG..SO..WE REALLY NEED TO START CREATING A POSITIVE AWARENESS ACROSS THE ENTIRE AFRICAN COUNTRIES AS AN AFRICAN FIRST..
    AND..SEE HOW EXTENT THAT CAN GO..BEFORE..WE START BLAMING OR SAYING NEGATIVE THINGS ABOUT OURSELVES!
    AND..ONCE AGAIN..YOU LADIES SHOULD ASWELL REMEMBER..THAT..IN EVERY AFRICAN CULTURE..WE BOTH HAVE ARE OWN UNIQUE WAY OF CELEBRATION..ACCORDING..TO EVERY CULTURE IN AFRICA..SO..NOT ONLY IN NIGERIAN CULTURE ALONE..PLS..BEAR THAT IN MIND..REGARDLESS OF OUR INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES?
    #ONEAFRICA4LIFE❤❤❤❤

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      Noted. Thanks for your input. Stay blessed 🙌🏾

  • @flowluna
    @flowluna 2 роки тому +1

    That your Generator theory as the reason for our loudness is wrong o..... Its just who we are... Amongst the ethnic groups, the loudness is different for us. We can tell who or which of the ethnic groups are the loudest but yes we are loud but not because of the Generator please.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      Thanks for watching and sharing your view.
      Noted 🤝🏾

  • @petergyang9784
    @petergyang9784 2 роки тому +5

    That Generator theory thing is not true is just a away of insulting Nigeria about the low electricity supply

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      It surely can't be an insult if it's true?

    • @petergyang9784
      @petergyang9784 2 роки тому +1

      @@SerameAndBeyond
      Have you been to Evey where in Nigeria and find out that there no light , please do your findings dont just use the only place you ve been to to generalised, like you said people are are generalising that South Africans are are xenophobic
      In my state and other part of Nigeria we have light 24/7 we dont even have load shading you can do your findings

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      @@petergyang9784 Oh really... Now I know. I genuinely didn't know. Every Nigerian youtuber I follow complain about Nepa. So I assumed its a nationwide problem as youtubers I follow are from different parts of Nigeria.

    • @gabg4501
      @gabg4501 2 роки тому

      It’s a negativity that originated from Nigeria’s detractors. Nigerian are boisterous especially when they in community of friends & family. The crack jokes in pidgin English & their diverse communication modes just stimulate laughter & conversation. May Nigeria are ordinarily soft -spoken, and would often be quiet if they are in unfamiliar company …. So it’s totally untrue that ‘Nigerian are always loud ‘… If they are in a party 🎉 environment, yes they very loud in expressing themselves , nothing about the electricity bullshit all…,

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      @@gabg4501 Relax😂...don't crack a nerve. Im basing off my views on the Nigerians I'm exposed to here in SA. They're all very loud. ALL OF THEM!!! especially when they're together.

  • @nursetinalouise
    @nursetinalouise Рік тому

    Oh the yelling!

  • @Maddogs27
    @Maddogs27 2 роки тому +5

    You are a little off with the cultural mannerisms. Nigeria has three main tribes with completely different cultures. The loudness and party spirit that you described are common with the Yorubas from South Western Nigeria which is where your husband is from. The Igbos from the South East are reserved(not loud) and more business minded, and rarely party except it be weddings. The Hausas in the North are also not loud not party alot.

    • @flowluna
      @flowluna 2 роки тому +3

      Igbos reserved????? Haba nau...lol

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      Noted 🤝🏾 thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts

    • @Nell654
      @Nell654 2 роки тому +2

      Igbos are very loud what are you talking about?

    • @ruthmoya8586
      @ruthmoya8586 2 роки тому +2

      Igbos are the loudest..Yu shame!

    • @wahabodusola6484
      @wahabodusola6484 2 роки тому +1

      You still managed to bring tribalism into this lovely video. So sad! Talking about Igbos are not loud. Are you having a laugh? What planet are you living on?? Tribal bigot!!

  • @anthonyebube1449
    @anthonyebube1449 2 роки тому +6

    I think seriously that you are very much wring with your loudness theory. As you consider nigerians loud so do nigerians consider other afrucans very loud due to how they use the vowels and pronunciation of words. Nigerians are extremely assertive, they insist on their rights and never give up. If that is taken to be loud to be shouting then it is wrong perception. Carry out your theory more indept than merely premised on Power Generator and the urge to speak on top their voice in order to be heard. This theory is false. But it is good you our wive today and you soon understand nigerians and you will never want to return to South Africa. Welcome home.

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      I am basing my perspective from the Nigerians I have met and interacted with here in South Africa, they are indeed very loud when they communicate with each other. The generator theory is ofcourse a joke I read years ago. Thank you for watching

  • @wilsonailen5015
    @wilsonailen5015 2 роки тому +1

    Nigerians were always loud even before the advent of generators

  • @tutonguni529
    @tutonguni529 2 роки тому +2

    I hope that you both live in Nigeria because we, don't want those drug dealers in SA

    • @maduabuchivitalis5909
      @maduabuchivitalis5909 2 роки тому +3

      You are not forced to use drugs, you create craving we support it for you,, I discovered that using drugs is in ur DNA.

    • @tutonguni529
      @tutonguni529 2 роки тому +1

      @@maduabuchivitalis5909 you've all got a short time in our country take your children & go to Nigeria & stay there because we will make them & women like one way or the other this a warning

    • @Robio_scorpio
      @Robio_scorpio 2 роки тому

      Most of the crimes in sa are commited by u lazy lot

    • @tutonguni529
      @tutonguni529 2 роки тому

      Yeah yeah typical but is that you ID because that name isn't Nigerian it's a European name bloody criminals

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂

  • @adachenoah8422
    @adachenoah8422 29 днів тому

    Nigerians consider any woman married to them as their wife. They treat you with respect and will be mad at your husband if he misbehaves with you.

  • @tandiwejuru3896
    @tandiwejuru3896 2 роки тому +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 ❤️ Thank you for watching

  • @patriciaschmidt2618
    @patriciaschmidt2618 2 роки тому

    Nijos

  • @joshuachukwudi6413
    @joshuachukwudi6413 2 роки тому

    And for those always asking you about your marriage especially with the So-Called Nigerian, tell them to mind their business ASAP

  • @suryaniyasin1497
    @suryaniyasin1497 2 роки тому

    Can i talk more about this with you privately?

  • @gaobodiwentong3492
    @gaobodiwentong3492 2 роки тому +1

    South Africans by Nature ,black people 4 that matter, don't call older people by name, we r more Africa than most Africans think.I don't know where this thing of calling elders by name comes from.it is young people's fashion.

  • @ericman2220
    @ericman2220 2 роки тому +3

    Yorubas celebrate a lot.

  • @TeakayOba
    @TeakayOba 2 роки тому +2

    Sorry I would have loved to continue watching, but your first shock wasn't pleasant to me. So bye. Thanks

    • @evansevans8022
      @evansevans8022 2 роки тому +1

      What exactly did she said that was offensive to you ?

    • @TeakayOba
      @TeakayOba 2 роки тому +1

      @@evansevans8022 I am not offended.

  • @felixogungbure413
    @felixogungbure413 Рік тому

    Nigerian had always be loud, they are very exuberant, your theory about generator affecting their voice is total nonsense.

  • @thabangtladi8057
    @thabangtladi8057 2 роки тому

    mxm bogus mariage of obtaining our SA citizenship sis🤮

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂 Thabang hle... and then?

    • @thabangtladi8057
      @thabangtladi8057 2 роки тому

      @@SerameAndBeyond you selling our country to foreigners mxm,there are so many good SAcn men who could have married not a Nigerian man

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +1

      @@thabangtladi8057 My brother how am I selling our country to foreigners?

    • @thabangtladi8057
      @thabangtladi8057 2 роки тому

      @@SerameAndBeyond after you've divorce what are going to do with that citizenship of our country given to your Nigerian man because of your bogus marriage

    • @SerameAndBeyond
      @SerameAndBeyond  2 роки тому +4

      @@thabangtladi8057 Who said we're going to divorce abuti Thabang? That's a very sad reality of marriage you have my brother. Who says he is a citizen or even wants SA citizenship? What are the benefits for a foreign national to have SA citizenship?

  • @lizbetzee7584
    @lizbetzee7584 Рік тому

    I’m offended by this your generator theory 🙄🙄 because of generator that’s why we are loud how does this even make sense ?? Well you said it’s your experience so I guess your husband is loud because of the generators 😂