I don't think romantic love is real or special, and I think romantic relationships are a bad thing. I think humans should just stop being in romantic relationships. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it. Romance seems like an ugly thing. Many fathers and brothers are hoping that their daughters/sisters never date or get married and remain single for their whole life due to the dangers and risks of romantic relationships. The overprotective father/brother thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and that this world would be a much better place without them. If someday that the human race ditches the concept of romance and romantic relationships, and got rid of stuff like dating and marriage, fathers/brothers would be happy about it since they wouldn't ever have to worry about their daughters/sisters ever dating if that ever happened. People (especially women) should avoid being in a romantic relationship and be single for life since romantic relationships are dangerous.
One of the things i learned in a relationship is to be your genuine self from the start. Then if they don’t love you as you love them you have nothing to worry about because you were being yourself the whole time. They just weren’t the one. If you ever think “i have to be more this..” or “i have to be more that…” than you’re straying off the path of authenticity, and you need authenticity for a successful long term relationship.
You can and should unapologetically be yourself. I hate the dating phase and people being what they think you want. Told my husband not to do that while we were dating, but low and behold, he has changed into the man he is today. I still love him.
We got seperated after 2 years of fighting her mother did everything to seperate us😔💭🫂she was my soulmate and i miss her so much, i pray to god🙏 to meet her again and we never leave💭🫂
Yes indeed and i think that she has a sensitive and warm personality, i know someone who 's looking like her. Scientists has found that people who Look similar also have the same personality and that girl who's looking like her has the same way of speaking same body language, warm personality and intelligent too 🙂
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤️
She didn’t say it’s their ‘fault’. But it does still have everything to do with that person. They made the decision not to reciprocate; they set their own standards. So if they don’t like you back, YOU shouldn’t feel insecure about YOURSELF. Their feelings have nothing to do with you.
It hurts so bad 🥺I tried everything but after realizing “True Love ❤️ doesn’t hurt !!! Love 💕 God and Love 💗 on Yourself and God will Heal you Guide you to a Godly Man 👨 that knows your Worth!!! I’m working with God now , you do the same SIS IN GOD WE GOT THIS 🥰
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
Yep! I’m glad I learned this young too. Don’t run after people who say they don’t want to be with you and don’t try to force people into relationships if they say they don’t want one. BOTH people should want to be with each other.
Some people just won’t like you. I think people need to first be secure in themselves before even getting into “love” and all. Just cause you like/love someone doesn’t mean it has to be reciprocated. They may not find you attractive, they may not like your personality, they may prioritise other things in life and they may just not envision a life with you. It’s fine. Not end of life.
I couldnt have said it better! It kinda annoys me she said its has nothing to do with her and it has EVERYTHING to do with them... That is a recepie to never improve yourself.. Learn to love youself and then people can love you and ALLWAYS leave room open for improvment your never perfect and you never will be but the imperfections make you unqiue and sepcial
A lot of what people look for in a partner is really superficial. So she is right that it’s degrading. And it is degrading even if they find you hot because often times they want you just cause of how you look rather than the person you are. So it can be degrading either way
@@neelrl3676Oh plz cut the crap ! Except for personality we need not improve anything if people don't find you pretty enough will you go on and get plastic surgery done on your face? If yes I feel sorry for you. If people can't love us for who we are we don't need such people
I feel this, it hurts even more when you're with that person and you see them treating another woman with more grace and love than they do with you, it used to be a constant "deer in the headlights" situation. The kind where you see their behavior is different from the behavior you get from them but you can't move. Once I took myself out of that environment and could no longer see their actions and betrayal, I was no longer hurting as much and the only pain I could feel were the thoughts/imaginations I created in my own mind. What you can't see, can't hurt you. It's only what you create in your own head that will cause you more pain and suffering.
We love who we love, don't waste a single breath on those who reject you, they spend their whole life rejecting people and in the end they are alone, breathe with the people who want to breathe with you, smile with you and love life with you❤❤
I needed this when I was in a relationship. Now it’s over and I feel happier now. Knowing that I no longer have to worry about if he still loves me, because I loved him a lot. And I was I think draining myself thinking about this person that no longer is apart of my life and I’m happy about it.
i'm loving my girl but she doesn't love me back like she used to before i don't know what problem is i'm asking her that if she is okay she says 'm okay but she's always gives cold and short responses
The truth is that usually there are signs when someone is emotionally available. You are responsible to guard your heart and make sure that you don’t give it away easily or to the wrong person. Unfortunately you can have reasonable and fair judgement and still end up getting your heart broken or being misled. More often than not however I see people overlooking red flags and then facing the consequences later.
It’s best to leave and find someone that’s interested in you and is willing to treat you with love and respect you don’t need to be prettier or more interesting a guy that appreciates you for who you are and already sees how pretty, amazing, and interesting you already are
No one is forced to feel what the other feels, but starting a relationship with someone without liking the person enough for that is such a toxic behavior, affective responsibility is very important, those who are not aware of this end up making a lot of people suffer for someone who doesn't deserve it.
I think what she is referring to, is being in a relationship with someone who doesn’t love you as much as you should be loved or you think you should be loved. You tend to put the blame on yourself and think that you are the reason they don’t love you to the extent that they should or as much as you love them.
This is exactly how I feel, but I use it to better myself, whenever something doesn’t go right, it’s because I wasn’t good enough and I need to be better.
Don’t ever try to change who you are for anyone else you just need to be you be confident in who you are what you are what you like what you do. And if the other person does not see you fully and doesn’t want to see you fully then they’re not for you move on, yes it is
Sometimes that person has hurt you a lot ,its just you are afraid of the betrayal again and keep your guards up to a point where you can’t be the same person as you were before to them.That doesn’t mean that the person doesn’t love her anymore .Its just a terrible position to be in.Its a suffering for both of them.
And the fact that they don’t feel the same way should be respected and accepted. Trying to force that individual into a relationship because of how you feel only perpetuates self-hatred and despair because inevitably you will not extract for them what you so desire.
I’ll say this, the other person didn’t just decide one day they don’t love you the same way they’ve been showing you that the entire time. That doesn’t mean something’s wrong with them or wrong with you it just means you’re not a match and its important to spot that as early as possible and part ways amicably and look for someone were those feelings are mutual. The issue at its core is that people hold onto people or things way too long and need to learn to let things go and move forward without holding animosity toward them
If you wanna hear it from a guys perspective. There’s so much pressure on us, there always has been but now it’s worse than ever. Some guys just become detached from it all and just don’t care anymore. That doesn’t mean it’s your fault. Or that he doesn’t actually love you. He’s just lost.
i think for a guy a true relationship is like a job interview where the guy gets so exhausted trying to keep the girl happy that eventually he gives up the chase.
It hurts to hear, I've had 9 rejections in two years and have been so lost obviously to see and feel that. But I'm now trying to embrace my flaws and break loose hopefully :)
Maybe just don't confess to every single person you have a crush on before you even spend a lot of time with them. How do you even like 9 different people in the span of two years?
Gimme a break ok 😭@@Allyfyn Well, I just kinda move on whenever my heart tells me… Indeed it seems that my reputation is ruined but once I reach uni Ill make sure no one knows of my past and only the true ones who care Abt me will know and accept.
"DEGRADING" that is 100 💯% the most accurate spot on word, to describe how that feels. it really is degrading to love someone and they only reject you s d .ndd ñ
“BUT GOD YOU COULDNT CARE LESS ABOUT SOMEONE WHO LOVED YOU MORE, I’D SAY YOU BROKE MY HEART, BUT YOU BROKE MUCH MORE THAN THAT! NOW I DON’T WANT YOUR SYMPATHY I JUST WANT MY SELF BACK!” -enough for you Olivia Rodrigo
Have peace within yourself first, because most people don’t, be great, don’t settle for someone feeding you scraps, feed yourself, with good, beautiful things.
Quit chasing Chad. He’s never going to “love” you or commit to you. And that’s exactly why you respect him. You girls always waste your youth - and all your best children (eggs) - getting passed around by the local Chads, meanwhile ignoring your perfectly good husband, then taking your perfectly good DNA to your grave with you. There is an incredible Holocaust going on right now: all you dumb chicks are NOT MAKING BABIES
Sorry that he they hurt you whoever that person was will be thinking of you for the rest of their life of the mistakes they made not to see how beautiful you are, your beauty your beautiful voice your very expressive eyes.
You can’t force people to love you, you can try to love yourself and that’s the only thing that should matter, because it’s HARD. Trust me I know, and i think this is what she’s saying too.
Is ok to offer your heart.....and they leave....... need to be strong and let them go this is a true act of love is let them be happy....they have learned from you... something that in the future will remind of you ❤
Agreed. This “it’s always on them and nothing to do with you” mentality is a terrible message that breeds narcissism. It leads people to believe that they are flawless and have no reason to ever self-reflect or hold themselves accountable. The reality is, sometimes it really isn’t about you, but other times, you may very well be the cause of it. If someone doesn’t love you because you exhibit toxic behavior, then it isn’t on them. Very disappointing to see so many impressionable people in comments buying into this crap.
@@windowsVDwell yeah, i think most of the people in the comments are people who have done nothing wrong to that person and only wanted to love them unconditionally, but they simply didn’t feel the same way, i think that’s the people who this video is intended for
No one will love u the way u love. Everyone loves their way. Love is when two ppl accept each other and let be with each other, and where u can openly talk abt ur own feelings w/o a blame, and hear each other.
Want someone that wants you! That’s exactly why I didn’t give certain men that like me a chance because I knew I didn’t feel the same way they did and I respected them too much to waste their time! However, they didn’t respect me and my decision so that says a lot of them! Some people are just meant to be friends and nothing else!
Actually its all on you, for not being prettier & funnier & more interesting. Thats not asking much, and you should be ashamed of yourself for not trying harder. Maybe you should come to terms you deserved whatever treatmenr you got? 😂😅
No one can ever love you the same way that you love them... facts over feelings... Us men care less about your looks then you may think.. Being prettier wont change that person...
If the person doesn't love you the same way then you are only in love with the idea of loving that person. There is a big difference and you have to be able to understand it. It takes two in order to be in love and not one.
I just went thru that and it's just suffocating. And also I still love him but I'm trying to be over him cuz he doesn't deserve my genuine love and also he isn't worth it to lose myself over him. I hope I just get that but idk I just can not do that..
i am in the same exact situation. It's been a month since he left me. No matter what i did to move on, my feelings and love for him still remain the same. It's destroying me.
I will NEVER change for anyone ever again. I will not look passed lies or deceit any longer. If you paint me a picture, there is no more erasing and starting the painting again, you already painted it, you are who you are - that's a YOU problem, not a ME problem, and i know my worth now. Thank you.
Idk, I've been seeing this girl for two months. I love her and she told me she loved me first, I thought everything was going great but now shes pulled away, she doesn't listen to me when I talk, she disrespects me, she started drinking again. She can be so amazing when she wants to; we play video games and read poetry books together, we spend some much time together and don't think she's lost feeling but I can't just sit here waiting for things to go back to normal. I want to walk away but I love her so much and it doesn't feel like she's done enough to just break up with her point blank. But she always brushes it off when I bring shit up and I don't think I can do it anymore. I would love some advice
She is not in love with you, she finds comfort in your company thats it. Love is different you know that too. As soo. As you get out of such situation the better
It’s a good thing. Now he can go find the person he loves and you know he is not your husband and can find who is, cos if he was your husband he will love/want you. 😊
Honestly it takes two to tango
One sided relationships never work out
100% this. People who believe the above will never grow.
@@apollon1 One-sided love is still real love. Just like any other emotion, anger, hate, fear, is real if it's one-sided.
One sided not only love... everything which is one sided doesn't work because...one hand .. only one hand never clap.
@@Vidya_butterfly If you are angry with someone and he is not angry with you, does that mean you are not really angry, because it's one-sided?
@@apollon1 People that only go with people who like them back will never know true love.
Amen. When someone doesn't love you the same way, it's crippling. You just need to realise it's ok. They just weren't for you. ❤
They were for you, otherwise you wouldn't love them. You weren't for them.
If it keep happening then who is meant for you
❤🔥💪
What if every love interest you have is one sided? 😊
I don't think romantic love is real or special, and I think romantic relationships are a bad thing. I think humans should just stop being in romantic relationships. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it. Romance seems like an ugly thing.
Many fathers and brothers are hoping that their daughters/sisters never date or get married and remain single for their whole life due to the dangers and risks of romantic relationships.
The overprotective father/brother thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and that this world would be a much better place without them. If someday that the human race ditches the concept of romance and romantic relationships, and got rid of stuff like dating and marriage, fathers/brothers would be happy about it since they wouldn't ever have to worry about their daughters/sisters ever dating if that ever happened.
People (especially women) should avoid being in a romantic relationship and be single for life since romantic relationships are dangerous.
One of the things i learned in a relationship is to be your genuine self from the start. Then if they don’t love you as you love them you have nothing to worry about because you were being yourself the whole time. They just weren’t the one. If you ever think “i have to be more this..” or “i have to be more that…” than you’re straying off the path of authenticity, and you need authenticity for a successful long term relationship.
Yes, you gotta be as Authentic as the 2020 Kentucky Derby winner!
I agree but compromising is key. Being genuine is one thing but we all have qualities that can be adjusted a bit for the next person
Define "the one".
You can and should unapologetically be yourself. I hate the dating phase and people being what they think you want. Told my husband not to do that while we were dating, but low and behold, he has changed into the man he is today. I still love him.
She's gorgeous and is going to age so gracefully calling it now
Olivia, you are gorgeous in every way. ❤
We got seperated after 2 years of fighting her mother did everything to seperate us😔💭🫂she was my soulmate and i miss her so much, i pray to god🙏 to meet her again and we never leave💭🫂
Agreed
@@mladenovskitvpraying is what makes things workout, best of luck
@@Alexnormia taking action is what makes things work out. Prayer alone is pretty much just wishing for a good outcome
I needed to hear this!!!
I didn't know how much i needed this 😔
@@nia91281 same girl same 🙌🏼
@@nia91281ikrr
same
same
The truth is life is short and we all need to be more grateful for the moments we have
Idk why you don’t have enough likes…
How do you know when you're having a "moment"?
@@thomasdequincey5811 never do. Just always live life to the fullest. Just always push. It will get easier
@@thomasdequincey5811you can breathe
What moments?
she is gorgeous
Yes indeed and i think that she has a sensitive and warm personality, i know someone who 's looking like her. Scientists has found that people who Look similar also have the same personality and that girl who's looking like her has the same way of speaking same body language, warm personality and intelligent too 🙂
You’ll never be enough for the wrong person ❤
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤️
Actually, it's not the person's fault too. You can both be amazing. They just aren't attracted to you and that's fine.
that's not what she's talking about 🙈
She didn’t say it’s their ‘fault’. But it does still have everything to do with that person. They made the decision not to reciprocate; they set their own standards. So if they don’t like you back, YOU shouldn’t feel insecure about YOURSELF. Their feelings have nothing to do with you.
@@jamiek2086you don’t decide to reciprocate love, it’s a feeling not a decision
Yup
@@coopa2002it’s a feeling but also a decision, love is subjective tbh
It hurts so bad 🥺I tried everything but after realizing “True Love ❤️ doesn’t hurt !!! Love 💕 God and Love 💗 on Yourself and God will Heal you Guide you to a Godly Man 👨 that knows your Worth!!! I’m working with God now , you do the same SIS IN GOD WE GOT THIS 🥰
Broken people are incapable of loving others completely.
This‼️🥺
@@annabella_duhh Jesus is coming back. Please repent.
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I'II quickly search for him online. Thank you.
I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.
I promise you will not regret it.
I just searched for Father Akunna online. impressive thank you so much one again ❤
Lifes too short for what ifs !
Live, love and embrace your own self peace until a true genuine love comes along!
Define genuine love.
@@goranmilic442she cant
Yep! I’m glad I learned this young too. Don’t run after people who say they don’t want to be with you and don’t try to force people into relationships if they say they don’t want one. BOTH people should want to be with each other.
That should be considered a form of harassment
So it is her fault and stupidity and has nothing to do with him
Its has all to do with her if she feels that way
@@muslimmetalmanexactly
goshhhh she’s so beautiful
People need to have more self love. Once you have self love you realize it doesn’t matter who didn’t choose you because it’s their loss not yours 🤷♀️
People that didn't choose you will not necessarily see that as loss.
Yea... its never about you. Its mostly about themselves. I hope yall have much love
Nope, it’s about you.
@@Continential how?
Who couldn’t love this beautiful woman?
you should know her before saying it, naive
Some people just won’t like you. I think people need to first be secure in themselves before even getting into “love” and all. Just cause you like/love someone doesn’t mean it has to be reciprocated. They may not find you attractive, they may not like your personality, they may prioritise other things in life and they may just not envision a life with you. It’s fine. Not end of life.
I couldnt have said it better!
It kinda annoys me she said its has nothing to do with her and it has EVERYTHING to do with them...
That is a recepie to never improve yourself..
Learn to love youself and then people can love you and ALLWAYS leave room open for improvment your never perfect and you never will be but the imperfections make you unqiue and sepcial
Not just some..most..virtually all..
A lot of what people look for in a partner is really superficial. So she is right that it’s degrading. And it is degrading even if they find you hot because often times they want you just cause of how you look rather than the person you are. So it can be degrading either way
@@neelrl3676Oh plz cut the crap ! Except for personality we need not improve anything if people don't find you pretty enough will you go on and get plastic surgery done on your face? If yes I feel sorry for you. If people can't love us for who we are we don't need such people
@@saloni2244 Exercise.
I feel this, it hurts even more when you're with that person and you see them treating another woman with more grace and love than they do with you, it used to be a constant "deer in the headlights" situation. The kind where you see their behavior is different from the behavior you get from them but you can't move. Once I took myself out of that environment and could no longer see their actions and betrayal, I was no longer hurting as much and the only pain I could feel were the thoughts/imaginations I created in my own mind.
What you can't see, can't hurt you.
It's only what you create in your own head that will cause you more pain and suffering.
Sort of random, but if you ever don’t feel pretty, remember that your face is a combination of hundreds of people who were in love ❤
Wow .... never thought abt it that way
How u know they were in love🤨🤨🤨 what if they got maped🤨🤨🤨🤨
@@ayanoshiba1556 maped 😂😂😂😂😂
@@ayanoshiba15560.000001% of the time you're correct.
@@ayanoshiba1556😂truth
Amazing wisdom from a beautiful woman....
We love who we love, don't waste a single breath on those who reject you, they spend their whole life rejecting people and in the end they are alone, breathe with the people who want to breathe with you, smile with you and love life with you❤❤
lovely sentiment
I needed this when I was in a relationship. Now it’s over and I feel happier now. Knowing that I no longer have to worry about if he still loves me, because I loved him a lot. And I was I think draining myself thinking about this person that no longer is apart of my life and I’m happy about it.
i'm loving my girl but she doesn't love me back like she used to before i don't know what problem is i'm asking her that if she is okay she says 'm okay but she's always gives cold and short responses
and why it's like that when you love someone they don't love you like you do
It’s has everything to do with you because you should know you’re value enough to be with someone who fully recognizes it too ❤️
Loving someone who doesn't love you back is like trying to fly with a broken wing.” “One-sided love is like standing in the rain🙂
The truth is that usually there are signs when someone is emotionally available. You are responsible to guard your heart and make sure that you don’t give it away easily or to the wrong person. Unfortunately you can have reasonable and fair judgement and still end up getting your heart broken or being misled.
More often than not however I see people overlooking red flags and then facing the consequences later.
It’s best to leave and find someone that’s interested in you and is willing to treat you with love and respect you don’t need to be prettier or more interesting a guy that appreciates you for who you are and already sees how pretty, amazing, and interesting you already are
You can't hate a person simply because they're not romantically attracted to you,nor can you put the blame on them.
If they're in a relationship with you, they should be romantically attracted to you. That's what she's talking about.
No one is forced to feel what the other feels, but starting a relationship with someone without liking the person enough for that is such a toxic behavior, affective responsibility is very important, those who are not aware of this end up making a lot of people suffer for someone who doesn't deserve it.
Thats not what shes referring to. Its not okay if your partner treats you like trash and makes you feel less than.
I think what she is referring to, is being in a relationship with someone who doesn’t love you as much as you should be loved or you think you should be loved. You tend to put the blame on yourself and think that you are the reason they don’t love you to the extent that they should or as much as you love them.
how did you miss the point so badly 😅
This is exactly how I feel, but I use it to better myself, whenever something doesn’t go right, it’s because I wasn’t good enough and I need to be better.
And it shows through her music what she’s been through and the journey she’s gone to get where she is now. Very wise beyond her years
Don’t ever try to change who you are for anyone else you just need to be you be confident in who you are what you are what you like what you do. And if the other person does not see you fully and doesn’t want to see you fully then they’re not for you move on, yes it is
Sometimes that person has hurt you a lot ,its just you are afraid of the betrayal again and keep your guards up to a point where you can’t be the same person as you were before to them.That doesn’t mean that the person doesn’t love her anymore .Its just a terrible position to be in.Its a suffering for both of them.
I know that feeling Olivia that's why I stay single
And the fact that they don’t feel the same way should be respected and accepted. Trying to force that individual into a relationship because of how you feel only perpetuates self-hatred and despair because inevitably you will not extract for them what you so desire.
Thank you to my girl Olivia for the advice I seriously needed rn!❤😢
The other person cant change the way they feel. Sometimes its not ment to be, accept that instead of blaming others
I’ll say this, the other person didn’t just decide one day they don’t love you the same way they’ve been showing you that the entire time. That doesn’t mean something’s wrong with them or wrong with you it just means you’re not a match and its important to spot that as early as possible and part ways amicably and look for someone were those feelings are mutual. The issue at its core is that people hold onto people or things way too long and need to learn to let things go and move forward without holding animosity toward them
This is why I love her(as an idol)she says kind things and reminds you that you are perfect
Oh wow, many people said this what she said
I think the point I'd thst your good enough not 'perfect'
Only God can give you perfect love no where else can it be found fully
You should never idolize anyone on earth The Father said idolatry is a sin
She believes in murdering babies. Also, why would idolize anyone?
If you wanna hear it from a guys perspective. There’s so much pressure on us, there always has been but now it’s worse than ever. Some guys just become detached from it all and just don’t care anymore. That doesn’t mean it’s your fault. Or that he doesn’t actually love you. He’s just lost.
i think for a guy a true relationship is like a job interview where the guy gets so exhausted trying to keep the girl happy that eventually he gives up the chase.
You keep putting pressure on women to be hot, get married at 18, and we're ugly & needed to be traded in by 30, 40. Now you know how we feel.
Well men don't have to get into relationships. No one's holding a gun to their heads.
@@nutech1810Close your mouth and open your legs more! 😉
@@MmmmkaaayMy comment applies to you as well... 🤫
It hurts to hear, I've had 9 rejections in two years and have been so lost obviously to see and feel that. But I'm now trying to embrace my flaws and break loose hopefully :)
You crying about 9 rejections??? we get them like every other week😭😭😭
Ok? Well that aint true love if u love one every week but I feel you@@ayanoshiba1556
Maybe just don't confess to every single person you have a crush on before you even spend a lot of time with them.
How do you even like 9 different people in the span of two years?
Gimme a break ok 😭@@Allyfyn Well, I just kinda move on whenever my heart tells me… Indeed it seems that my reputation is ruined but once I reach uni Ill make sure no one knows of my past and only the true ones who care Abt me will know and accept.
But this I was pretty stupid I did take at least a month of talking anyway before I confess
@@Allyfyn
Sometimes a person can be beautiful on our side but not so nice inside ,Then the love vanishes
Keep telling yourself that, but the truth is sometimes you need to looking within and find personal growth.
I needed to hear this to finally be able to let go💕
"DEGRADING" that is 100 💯% the most accurate spot on word, to describe how that feels. it really is degrading to love someone and they only reject you s d
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You're stunning Olivia!
“BUT GOD YOU COULDNT CARE LESS ABOUT SOMEONE WHO LOVED YOU MORE, I’D SAY YOU BROKE MY HEART, BUT YOU BROKE MUCH MORE THAN THAT! NOW I DON’T WANT YOUR SYMPATHY I JUST WANT MY SELF BACK!” -enough for you Olivia Rodrigo
Have peace within yourself first, because most people don’t, be great, don’t settle for someone feeding you scraps, feed yourself, with good, beautiful things.
I needed to hear this
Quit chasing Chad. He’s never going to “love” you or commit to you. And that’s exactly why you respect him.
You girls always waste your youth - and all your best children (eggs) - getting passed around by the local Chads, meanwhile ignoring your perfectly good husband, then taking your perfectly good DNA to your grave with you.
There is an incredible Holocaust going on right now: all you dumb chicks are NOT MAKING BABIES
*me watching this over and over just to hear her voice*
This was so helpful cause i just got rejected by a guy
It’s because you’re dating the same top 5% of men
Rejected or saved from some bs you really couldn't see yet
@@RR-et6zpmaybe but u don’t know that
@@madbuddhist6620just rejected. Maybe saved from a lot of trouble. Maybe lost the love of her life, who knows?
@@madbuddhist6620what if he his a good guy but doesn't like her, guys can say NO too
Keep telling yourself that sis!
Girl you are stunning they probably don't even realize you likd them.
Its a vibe. An energy.
That's true the more a person looks happy sounds happy, is confident and has a calm and peaceful vibe the more they are attractive 🙂
@@didierbaudot people should laugh when they feel like laughing don't be a people pleaser
Sorry that he they hurt you whoever that person was will be thinking of you for the rest of their life of the mistakes they made not to see how beautiful you are, your beauty your beautiful voice your very expressive eyes.
You can’t force people to love you, you can try to love yourself and that’s the only thing that should matter, because it’s HARD.
Trust me I know, and i think this is what she’s saying too.
Is ok to offer your heart.....and they leave....... need to be strong and let them go this is a true act of love is let them be happy....they have learned from you... something that in the future will remind of you ❤
If it doesn’t fit, it doesn’t fit. Keep moving forward.
Sometimes, sometimes has to do with you, sometimes with them, sometimes both and sometimes everything is good and things just don't work
Agreed. This “it’s always on them and nothing to do with you” mentality is a terrible message that breeds narcissism. It leads people to believe that they are flawless and have no reason to ever self-reflect or hold themselves accountable. The reality is, sometimes it really isn’t about you, but other times, you may very well be the cause of it. If someone doesn’t love you because you exhibit toxic behavior, then it isn’t on them. Very disappointing to see so many impressionable people in comments buying into this crap.
@@windowsVDwell yeah, i think most of the people in the comments are people who have done nothing wrong to that person and only wanted to love them unconditionally, but they simply didn’t feel the same way, i think that’s the people who this video is intended for
I need to hear this when I was in highschool. 😢
No one will love u the way u love. Everyone loves their way. Love is when two ppl accept each other and let be with each other, and where u can openly talk abt ur own feelings w/o a blame, and hear each other.
You will never be good enough for the wrong person
Want someone that wants you! That’s exactly why I didn’t give certain men that like me a chance because I knew I didn’t feel the same way they did and I respected them too much to waste their time! However, they didn’t respect me and my decision so that says a lot of them! Some people are just meant to be friends and nothing else!
I needed this so much
It can definitely have something to do with you. Sometimes you just start valuable enough to get the person that you want.
i agree with this💕
It’s because you’re dating the same top 5% of men
Sometimes, it's about us, too. They can smell if you are an advocate of chaos or peace. Just live life with integrity. It's a life changer.❤
Sometimes you're not the kind of person the other wants too. It can have everything to do with you, so it's important to see reality as it is.
i needed to hear this! liv just somehow gets how us girls feel and shes been thru the same thing ❤️
Actually its all on you, for not being prettier & funnier & more interesting.
Thats not asking much, and you should be ashamed of yourself for not trying harder. Maybe you should come to terms you deserved whatever treatmenr you got? 😂😅
The wisdom in your quotes is timeless. I feel like I can apply these lessons to so many areas of my life
She is one of the prettiest girls I've ever seen
It's everything to do with them nothing to do with you. ❤
No one can ever love you the same way that you love them... facts over feelings... Us men care less about your looks then you may think..
Being prettier wont change that person...
What's it then?
She’s so amazing
It’s because you’re dating the same top 5% of men
If the person doesn't love you the same way then you are only in love with the idea of loving that person. There is a big difference and you have to be able to understand it. It takes two in order to be in love and not one.
Thank you. This is soooo true and a Lot of people don't get that
you are right, learning you are nice beautiful and love yourself when the people act like a mirror to you, love conquers everithing❤
I needed this today. I given everything for nothing 💔
I just went thru that and it's just suffocating. And also I still love him but I'm trying to be over him cuz he doesn't deserve my genuine love and also he isn't worth it to lose myself over him. I hope I just get that but idk I just can not do that..
i am in the same exact situation. It's been a month since he left me. No matter what i did to move on, my feelings and love for him still remain the same. It's destroying me.
@@materialgirl1585things happen for a reason I believe it made you a much better person your amazing ❤❤️
1 must learn to love themselves unconditionally before they can do it for others
Now that's a beautiful woman.
She believes in murdering babies. Wouldn’t call that beautiful.
I will NEVER change for anyone ever again. I will not look passed lies or deceit any longer. If you paint me a picture, there is no more erasing and starting the painting again, you already painted it, you are who you are - that's a YOU problem, not a ME problem, and i know my worth now. Thank you.
And time will continue to tick forward.
@futurefunkzone yep. It will. As will life.
When you love someone and they dont love you back, Dont try to convince them, Instead, Love those who are willing to love you first
And if it doesn't work how is that working?? when someone is not your favorite how is it going to be enjoyable to love them
The main reason could be :-
1) they are taken and love somebody else
2) They are into career and They are not in love affairs currently
The main reason literally is just that they are not attracted to you. That’s it.
Idk, I've been seeing this girl for two months. I love her and she told me she loved me first, I thought everything was going great but now shes pulled away, she doesn't listen to me when I talk, she disrespects me, she started drinking again. She can be so amazing when she wants to; we play video games and read poetry books together, we spend some much time together and don't think she's lost feeling but I can't just sit here waiting for things to go back to normal. I want to walk away but I love her so much and it doesn't feel like she's done enough to just break up with her point blank. But she always brushes it off when I bring shit up and I don't think I can do it anymore. I would love some advice
She is not in love with you, she finds comfort in your company thats it. Love is different you know that too. As soo. As you get out of such situation the better
Love yourself first!
I do not listen to pop music whatsoever, but this girl's voice is absolutely wonderful to hear.
Some people are growing faster then others spiritually and it affects others
Very true, and real. Think it's safe to say we've all been there.
Omg I’m literally crying rn😢😭😭
Cuz I like someone and idk if they like me back and it’s so hard 😭😭
Sometimes you fall in love with a person and it feels so good. The other person doesn't even have to know, it's just your feeling ❤❤❤
She’s such a beautiful Filipina !
How could you be prettier or more interesting than Olivia Rodrigo?! Like seriously
She is the blessing for the right man
She couldn’t possibly be prettier
It’s a good thing. Now he can go find the person he loves and you know he is not your husband and can find who is, cos if he was your husband he will love/want you. 😊
There’s no relationships on earth that is 50/50. It’s better to be the one that love more because you get to be with someone you love.
Man I hope you have a happy ending. Someone's gonna get it they can't stop all of us.
Give me an update on your life as of now.
When you find the one, remember, always keep love close to you. She will keep you from falling down alone.
Love is mutual. Infatuation is one sided.
Choose those who choose you, simple.