falling in love with someone you can't have (a playlist)

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  • @dreaminsedits178
    @dreaminsedits178  3 роки тому +13382

    EXTRA EDIT: i will be keeping the vid up!! thank u for your responses! i also wrote a short story down below if u ever feel like reading something while listening ❤
    original comment: if this playlist is doing more harm than good pls let me know. it hurts knowing something i put out is making people cry all around the world. i'm rlly rlly sorry if this playlist made u upset, it definitely was not my intention. pls let me know if you'd like me to keep it up or remove it in the replies. will appreciate any feedback and will delete this playlist if it's really hurting any of you.
    edit: i posted this comment about an hour ago and thank you for all your replies since then, they really helped me put things into perspective. i always read every single comment posted on this video, and have done since it was uploaded, & i know it sounds silly, but I felt, and still do sometimes, really guilty as the playlist seemed to make so many people upset. i wondered if i should just privatise it. but the replies made me reconsider. if this playlist helps you heal in the way i intended it too, or now provides a safe space for you to vent your emotions or tell your stories then i am so so grateful. and it's for those reasons that i will be leaving this video up. thank u for your support and for all of the subscriptions, i will never not be grateful.
    1 more thing. one of my main passions has always been writing. and i know it's super random but after reading your comments and listening to this playlist again it made me feel like telling a story. this is one i wrote when listening, u defo don't have to read it, it just helped me feel less upset.
    POV:
    You lie down. Surrounded by the beautiful scents of wildflowers and lavender. Surrounded by the warm shining sun, soaking up the sweet summer air. Surrounded by them. The one you love. So much. Their soul consumes you. Oh love. How beautiful a feeling.
    They lie next to you. Those gorgeous eyes you’ve come to love and that smile that never fails to make your lips upturn too. They put a flower in your hair, placing it so gently, as if you could break any second. As if this world could. You want to be with them forever. Feel like this forever.
    But alas, everything ends.
    And so you lie down, closing your eyes. And when you open them they’ve gone. The sweet summer air replaced by a heavy patter of rain. The crowds so grey, the flowers wilted.
    Leaving you alone. So alone. Leaving you wondering why they left you, why you weren't enough to make them stay. Leaving you wondering if they were a dream, or if you had just imagined it. But if it were in your head what a feeling that was. How real was your heartbeat, that feeling of love and home. What a feeling.
    And so you cry. As the rain falls more heavily on your face, becoming one with your tears. As the wildflowers lose the colour in which they were so bright. As the day turns into night and all you’re left with is the stars and your own soul, your own thoughts.
    Because they’ve gone. How could you ever be happy now.
    But although they’ve left you still remember how it felt.. That beautiful, wonderful time and emotion that made you feel so alive, so happy. And slowly your tears stop falling and it’s just the rain dripping down your face. Slowly you outstretch your arms, closing your eyes. Slowly you start to breathe, feeling your heart beat again. So loud.
    Without them.
    And as you dance in the rain you laugh even though you’re still in so much pain. Picking up the dropped flowers you smile even though it still hurts so much. You succumb to the world and scream and feel yourself crying again but this time it hurts less. This time you feel more free.
    And so you walk, and lie down. In the same spot. Surrounded by the wildflowers, the weather, the sweet air. And each time it hurts a little less. You lie there, any time you feel like it. Sometimes with company, sometimes alone.
    Because you still remember that feeling in your heart. And while they’re gone that will always remain.
    Love. What a feeling.

    • @fatemehabdi3700
      @fatemehabdi3700 3 роки тому +535

      Sometimes crying and being sad let us think more and find the truth of ourselves.. we all need it

    • @dreaminsedits178
      @dreaminsedits178  3 роки тому +186

      @@fatemehabdi3700 thank u for your response, i really really appreciate it ❤

    • @gamzmakarena
      @gamzmakarena 3 роки тому +256

      Let it up. People need to cry out their emotions. You're helping them release it and feel it. You're helping people tell their stories and know they are not alone. If they are being harmed, it's their own fault, not yours. You just put very good music together in a playlist.

    • @stellap-m4345
      @stellap-m4345 3 роки тому +146

      the breakdowns i have to playlists like this one are more powerful and cathartic than any other, and quite frankly, the inspiration and forward push i get from them afterwards is unmatched. theres nothing quite like scream-crying like you're the main character in a period romance and then getting up and rebuilding your reality the way you want it. thank you for making this.

    • @Jp-hl5pd
      @Jp-hl5pd 3 роки тому +78

      you are being really considerate, but i think its fine, ppl sometimes need that☺️❣️

  • @highonthatzaza
    @highonthatzaza 3 роки тому +10778

    “sometimes cupid runs out of arrows and only shoots one person”

    • @jagritimundhra8078
      @jagritimundhra8078 3 роки тому +134

      Dont mind me stealing this aah

    • @이레인-y9c
      @이레인-y9c 3 роки тому +61

      Saw this on Google before lol, I related to it so much that I kept writing this quote on my notebooks lmfao. 😂

    • @basia9505
      @basia9505 3 роки тому +29

      @@이레인-y9c i also write random quotes that are stuck with me on my notebooks lmfaoo 😭😭

    • @이레인-y9c
      @이레인-y9c 3 роки тому +20

      @@basia9505 lmao I thought I was the only one who does that 😂
      I would always write random quotes, be it sad, inspirational, depressed or whatever, and I also write poems and to make it even weirder, I also write my favourite song's lyrics if the song's lyrics is what I'm feeling at the moment, like damn I don't know why do that lmfao. 😂😂

    • @vanshikaandriyas9094
      @vanshikaandriyas9094 3 роки тому +10

      well that explains why none of my crushes liked me back hmm

  • @fxandra_
    @fxandra_ 3 роки тому +17779

    "out of 7.9 billion beating hearts, i fell for the one that didn't beat for me."

    • @tchalametspeach3026
      @tchalametspeach3026 3 роки тому +127

      I-😭

    • @kam9910
      @kam9910 3 роки тому +79

      I.. 😭😭

    • @kam9910
      @kam9910 3 роки тому +108

      do I send this to my crush ):

    • @Leny321
      @Leny321 3 роки тому +39

      @@kam9910 yesss do it!! 💕

    • @kam9910
      @kam9910 3 роки тому +30

      @@Leny321 I’m scaredd

  • @meology8510
    @meology8510 3 роки тому +16665

    am i the only one who keeps making fake love scenarios in my head? even though i know they will not happen but just imagining them makes me so happy.

    • @nakoharo8617
      @nakoharo8617 3 роки тому +192

      same :(

    • @polinajegorova998
      @polinajegorova998 3 роки тому +485

      Same. I understand you. It is actually even worse when you not only imagine love scenarios...you have to imagine that you have friends too 💔

    • @meology8510
      @meology8510 3 роки тому +46

      @@polinajegorova998 yeah i feel you 🥺

    • @meology8510
      @meology8510 3 роки тому +6

      @@Dwayneff thank you, nicro gaming

    • @zhyrhmencina_0185
      @zhyrhmencina_0185 3 роки тому +4

      Me too

  • @wigglywills4381
    @wigglywills4381 9 місяців тому +2208

    "You were a whole chapter in my book, but I was just a few lines in yours"

    • @bool00
      @bool00 9 місяців тому +46

      Just a word.

    • @cruced645
      @cruced645 5 місяців тому +60

      "You were the whole book"
      And
      "I was a word"

    • @Fuutoux
      @Fuutoux 4 місяці тому +11

      just a quick line describes a mere passing by moment

    • @Guts-ye5gx
      @Guts-ye5gx 4 місяці тому +8

      she said she loved and that she wanted me. 1 hour later she made out with my best friend of 10 years.

    • @ZoyaKhan-pd4zi
      @ZoyaKhan-pd4zi 4 місяці тому +6

      I tried to close that chapter.. But..... I can't 💔

  • @rezacsat
    @rezacsat 3 роки тому +42704

    “You fell in love with a version of a person that you created in your head”

    • @avoineu
      @avoineu 3 роки тому +547

      in my head Stans!!!!!

    • @mjay9086
      @mjay9086 3 роки тому +511

      that you are trying to but cannot fix

    • @okaybutlikelisten
      @okaybutlikelisten 3 роки тому +546

      "Uh, the only thing you can fix is yourself."

    • @jujumartinet8596
      @jujumartinet8596 3 роки тому +259

      that is being in love with a fairytail i understand

    • @anoliso8738
      @anoliso8738 3 роки тому +257

      "i love you, this gone way to long, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH"

  • @kiracherv
    @kiracherv 3 роки тому +16065

    “loving someone who doesn’t love you back is like hugging a cactus, the tighter you hold on, the more it hurts”

  • @luvlee.u
    @luvlee.u 3 роки тому +10232

    Remember:
    You're the main character of your life. No one can take that

    • @elisabethk4500
      @elisabethk4500 3 роки тому +45

      thx for these words 🥺

    • @Who.Is.Millie
      @Who.Is.Millie 3 роки тому +14

      Thank you :)

    • @lavina9643
      @lavina9643 3 роки тому +6

      yessir

    • @javantgarde
      @javantgarde 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you

    • @davidpff4131
      @davidpff4131 3 роки тому +34

      I believe as the main character it's my duty not to act like I'm the main character because it ruins the experience for everybody else does that make sense ?

  • @SoulEscape6
    @SoulEscape6 19 днів тому +224

    Falling in love is like a warm cup of coffee on a cold day

  • @slushyrolls
    @slushyrolls 3 роки тому +33538

    we always fall in love with the people we know we can’t have.

    • @eamasil
      @eamasil 3 роки тому +122

      ikr ://

    • @ralu4926
      @ralu4926 3 роки тому +974

      That's because we love to complicate everything, it's in our blood to do it. We get bored when life it's too perfect. We don't admit, but somehow we like to suffer, we believe we deserve it, that this is our destiny.

    • @Daggerxflo
      @Daggerxflo 3 роки тому +351

      I always convince myself to believe I don’t deserve to have the person I want

    • @mia-g3h3e
      @mia-g3h3e 3 роки тому +46

      felt.

    • @celynhaf9814
      @celynhaf9814 3 роки тому +73

      @@Daggerxflo but you do!! you deserve the world

  • @novalua
    @novalua 3 роки тому +49254

    Being in love with the idea of love.

    • @dreaminsedits178
      @dreaminsedits178  3 роки тому +1842

      this omg

    • @qieenalubya
      @qieenalubya 3 роки тому +554

      that's beautiful

    • @isabela166
      @isabela166 3 роки тому +433

      Suddenly remember this phrase again, i'm gonna make an art out of it♡

    • @lou8976
      @lou8976 3 роки тому +134

      this is me oh

    • @perlaramirez9819
      @perlaramirez9819 3 роки тому +125

      I know it’s just something so beautiful

  • @kitkatbar6484
    @kitkatbar6484 3 роки тому +13537

    am I the only one that is more in love with the fantasies I created in my head than what I'm supposed to?

  • @_m_646
    @_m_646 Рік тому +1622

    your mind is telling you to stop loving someone..but your heart just can’t let go…

    • @Tokkiii1p
      @Tokkiii1p 11 місяців тому +24

      This is literally me right now and it hurts because i dont to let her go......

    • @nanumurasaki
      @nanumurasaki 11 місяців тому +17

      Me rn oh god pls let this feeling go away

    • @nevillasaiki
      @nevillasaiki 11 місяців тому +17

      Me too 😭 I need help letting him go

    • @Melinda8162
      @Melinda8162 10 місяців тому +6

      ​@@nevillasaikiRight there too....😢

    • @Antarctic_Leader
      @Antarctic_Leader 9 місяців тому +6

      That’s me… and I can’t stop…

  • @suhnflowerrylie2038
    @suhnflowerrylie2038 3 роки тому +3947

    you ever just feel like someone is perfect for you, and you're perfect for them, and you kinda just know something could happen if given the chance. but it's nearly impossible for it to happen, so you just have to force yourself to accept that it will only ever be fantasies and dreams

    • @totallyashley
      @totallyashley 3 роки тому +247

      and holding onto every little thing they say or do because you know thats the most you'll ever get from them

    • @maryn4150
      @maryn4150 3 роки тому +40

      this.
      😔

    • @madisonmclaughlin6598
      @madisonmclaughlin6598 3 роки тому +38

      The truth cuts deep man...

    • @joana9784
      @joana9784 3 роки тому +31

      And that for over three years...

    • @macyng844
      @macyng844 3 роки тому +40

      i resonate so much with this. i know someone who shares a similar personality as i do and honestly would be a perfect person to spend a lifetime with. but alas, she's straight and i'm not. we're good friends but it sucks to think that she's right there, yet i couldn't have her. however much effort, time and love i might put in, i would never be able to ask her out or do anything of that sort. reality is just cruel, i guess.

  • @danatuoran
    @danatuoran 3 роки тому +6768

    I can’t picture someone ever loving me romantically it’s absurd

  • @sofiaarenas1353
    @sofiaarenas1353 3 роки тому +6192

    Falling in love with the idea of someone, and not wanting anything to happen because you know that idea of them isn’t real.

    • @deimos36
      @deimos36 3 роки тому +105

      why tf is being a crush on someone is so complicated

    • @lejua9243
      @lejua9243 3 роки тому +39

      idea of it , just perfect you want something that perfect in your life i can relate

    • @randomacc9940
      @randomacc9940 3 роки тому +25

      it's just COMPLICATED.

    • @alexiscaitlin4736
      @alexiscaitlin4736 3 роки тому +1

      😭❤😭 exactly

    • @dumbledork._.
      @dumbledork._. 3 роки тому +30

      I love this. Didn't realize that this is exactly my problem until I read this comment. Thank you!

  • @Gym_DylanH
    @Gym_DylanH 11 місяців тому +517

    11 years since we broke up, I saw her with her child .. we just smiled and kept walking.

    • @hakunamatataa07
      @hakunamatataa07 11 місяців тому +42

      Maybe that was the best decision both of u took in ur lifes. It taught u many things, it made uh bith who u guys r today.....now you both are two stranger's but with some beautiful, unforgettable memories....

    • @suniannian1623
      @suniannian1623 10 місяців тому +5

      😢😢😢

    • @souhilasellami6531
      @souhilasellami6531 6 місяців тому +14

      Idk why that break my heart 💔😟 im on my bed i can not sleep now

    • @Ap_rockss
      @Ap_rockss 5 місяців тому +10

      Reading this gave me real physical pain near the chest ☺️

    • @Ap_rockss
      @Ap_rockss 5 місяців тому +6

      ​@Heartspeakzz__ i hope nobody ever suffers this 🙂

  • @stray_cat2922
    @stray_cat2922 3 роки тому +6275

    _"I'll forever remember you, and perhaps, that's the only forever we're ever meant to have"_

    • @JLNive
      @JLNive 3 роки тому +48

      Deep

    • @marleenm7674
      @marleenm7674 3 роки тому +104

      that hurt bye

    • @altheaxyrrie
      @altheaxyrrie 3 роки тому +57

      i’m stealing this, thank you.

    • @cristiperez2203
      @cristiperez2203 3 роки тому +9

      Omg where is this from

    • @stray_cat2922
      @stray_cat2922 3 роки тому +9

      @@cristiperez2203 some sentence I heard from someone before

  • @megha9789
    @megha9789 3 роки тому +4769

    *"we accept the love we think we deserve"*

    • @juwariabibikiran1159
      @juwariabibikiran1159 3 роки тому +138

      perks of being a wallflower

    • @megha9789
      @megha9789 3 роки тому +5

      @@juwariabibikiran1159 ;)

    • @beckihouston8625
      @beckihouston8625 3 роки тому +49

      And that’s why No ones ever loved me before

    • @serenajacobson
      @serenajacobson 3 роки тому +11

      @@beckihouston8625
      you'll find someone better than you could ever imagine, i promise.

    • @love.him.forever
      @love.him.forever 3 роки тому +23

      ...deep down i know I'm unworthy of love

  • @lllnnn3456
    @lllnnn3456 3 роки тому +4689

    "We both were in love and we knew it. We just weren't meant to be together."

  • @LoveChillVibes55
    @LoveChillVibes55 Місяць тому +194

    It’s painful to realize the love was for a dream, not the reality.

  • @Jasmine-gw4zc
    @Jasmine-gw4zc 3 роки тому +6429

    Someone said:
    We were
    just friends
    That spoke like lovers
    And that seemed to be
    enough for
    Two teenagers who
    were scared to love
    one another

    • @meowmeowbitch3848
      @meowmeowbitch3848 3 роки тому +14

      Was that from tiktok?

    • @yayeqoo
      @yayeqoo 3 роки тому +113

      I’m actually in this situation and we are both « ok » with it...we’re scared of love and we don’t want to fall deeply in love but we can’t help it but talk and act like lovers...

    • @Chicken.47.
      @Chicken.47. 3 роки тому +46

      Not it saying the situation of me and my friend, GOODBYEEE

    • @4cid863
      @4cid863 3 роки тому +52

      makes me feel better knowing other people are in the same situation

    • @misslonghair98
      @misslonghair98 3 роки тому +7

      Omg. This brings so much nostalgia from my teen memories.

  • @sugarv0id
    @sugarv0id 3 роки тому +1841

    when they're your everything but you're nothing to them- it sucks so bad

    • @lalacatio
      @lalacatio 3 роки тому +14

      This hit me hard👁💧👄💧👁

    • @javantgarde
      @javantgarde 3 роки тому +9

      Makes me numb 😓

    • @Dance.yep19840
      @Dance.yep19840 3 роки тому +19

      It doesn’t suck. It hurts you, you shut down. From happiness to sadness. It’s so easy to shut down. And so hard to be happy, when sad.

    • @KayKayEdits-1
      @KayKayEdits-1 3 місяці тому

      I just want to be charlie’s girlfriend I would do anything. he is the sweetest guy i’ve ever meet and just want to be his gf. idc about long distance sure ill do that I just want his hoodies. cologne. to cuddle. and hang out and watch movies and to tt dances with him I like him so much I just want to be his gf and go to the movies with him but he keeps calling me a friend and idk what to do and I don’t want him to move to oregon I want him to stay here. I wish with everything I said I liked him in the beginning of the year when he liked me just so we could be together now I want him so bad I would do anything. I just was him for him and I just want him so bad I don’t know what to do anymore I am crying just typing this because of how sweet he is and I can’t have him. he never even texts me first I have to be the one to do it and I just want a paragraph from him saying how he likes me or something or anything. I just want him to text me and I want him to be my bf I would love that with every inch of my body I just want him and him only.

    • @KayKayEdits-1
      @KayKayEdits-1 3 місяці тому

      if your reading please take the time to finish and give me advice. my crush is moving across the world should I do long distance? I love them. we are in highschool. i’ve cried over not having him I love him but would I be hurt over long distance? I don’t like anyone else I love him

  • @__-zj3jz
    @__-zj3jz 3 роки тому +4892

    You never realize how much you like someone until you watch them with someone else.

    • @uuser3282
      @uuser3282 3 роки тому +109

      I realized that few months ago. And im living with the pain

    • @__-zj3jz
      @__-zj3jz 3 роки тому +52

      @@uuser3282 yeah.. it hurts alot, I just cant seem to stop overthinking about it.

    • @__-zj3jz
      @__-zj3jz 3 роки тому +25

      @@uuser3282 soon it'll get better, I promise

    • @jennyperez8249
      @jennyperez8249 3 роки тому +9

      realizing how much that will hurt

    • @Galvanicmegamorph
      @Galvanicmegamorph 3 роки тому +15

      Yesterday was a bad day

  • @STAY_4_LIFE_STRAYKIDS
    @STAY_4_LIFE_STRAYKIDS 6 місяців тому +68

    Out of all 8 billion people in the world, my heart had to choose the one I couldn't have.

  • @danny-ih8ux
    @danny-ih8ux 3 роки тому +3494

    i’m in love with the idea of you loving me.

    • @user64557
      @user64557 3 роки тому +35

      It's very philosophical and I like it

    • @fem5916
      @fem5916 3 роки тому +14

      Esa frase no es la que buscaba, pero es la que yo quería.

    • @rayanaltowayan9558
      @rayanaltowayan9558 3 роки тому +8

      Damn.

    • @evem.y
      @evem.y 3 роки тому +15

      Wow this is just.. this is just the thing I was thinking. Thank you.

    • @Sarah_vca
      @Sarah_vca 3 роки тому +5

      This is amazing & soooo true

  • @zean587
    @zean587 3 роки тому +3917

    falling in love with someone I created to make myself entertained, now I'm hurt that he doesn't exist..

    • @katetrcka5928
      @katetrcka5928 3 роки тому +79

      this was worded perfectly

    • @_nothing_9053
      @_nothing_9053 3 роки тому +65

      Have you tried shifting? I heard that there are infinitely many realities and we can "go" to one where everything is as we would like, so there you can be with someone who does not exist in our reality and apparently you really feel like it is real. Unfortunately, not forever, for example for an hour or something like that, but we must remember that in the "new" reality time flies as we would like, so you can read more about it, because it is a very interesting topic

    • @maheenm.k1015
      @maheenm.k1015 3 роки тому +19

      @@_nothing_9053
      Hold on. Never heard of this in my life. Where can learn more about this? Where did you learn about this.

    • @_nothing_9053
      @_nothing_9053 3 роки тому +11

      @@maheenm.k1015 I learned a lot on youtube from Kristeau

    • @maheenm.k1015
      @maheenm.k1015 3 роки тому +2

      @@_nothing_9053 thank you.

  • @alexis-qc9ry
    @alexis-qc9ry 3 роки тому +3112

    he’ll never look at me the way he looks at her

    • @alialsso
      @alialsso 3 роки тому +30

      One day, someone will. No matter if it's him or not ❤️

    • @alicebrancaleoni1422
      @alicebrancaleoni1422 3 роки тому +11

      @Mais El-Saigh that’s so sweet of you

    • @ceriannortiz4398
      @ceriannortiz4398 3 роки тому +24

      he’ll never give me a chance. i’m just another internet person and it’s ironic, cuz i fell in love with the way he uses to express himself.

    • @talkapoopster3691
      @talkapoopster3691 3 роки тому +3

      i know;(

    • @afnanalnaqbi4169
      @afnanalnaqbi4169 3 роки тому +11

      ask yourself do you really deserve this ? you don’t honey you always deserve someone who loves you and look at you at the same way you look at him

  • @thedoglover-zk2ip
    @thedoglover-zk2ip 6 місяців тому +137

    "oh it's just a crush you'll get over it" it's been 2 years...I still love this boy...

  • @nataliagodoroja7953
    @nataliagodoroja7953 3 роки тому +3552

    Mind says: he doesn't love you, just forget him
    Heart: but what if he does?

    • @horowitz8680
      @horowitz8680 3 роки тому +42

      Can relate.

    • @orlyninna
      @orlyninna 3 роки тому +44

      But even if he directly says to you that he does not love you it doesn’t change anything

    • @annalbr2890
      @annalbr2890 3 роки тому +16

      Fear says vs hope. ✨

    • @Anabnormalelf
      @Anabnormalelf 3 роки тому +25

      That tiny bit of hope

    • @moonwalker.1658
      @moonwalker.1658 3 роки тому +7

      very relatable

  • @RebeccaBlink
    @RebeccaBlink 3 роки тому +6760

    WHY IS THIS ON MY RECOMMENDATION

  • @luiscruz4534
    @luiscruz4534 3 роки тому +3383

    You ever fall in love with someone in your dream, but you’ve never actually seen or met that person in your life? Yet you crave to love them..

    • @tianagooray4220
      @tianagooray4220 3 роки тому +74

      well idk if this is true but if you've seen someone in your dreams, you most likely have met them :)

    • @shhhtreasure9896
      @shhhtreasure9896 3 роки тому +25

      I😭,I actually commented my story above I know that and I'm going through that but I'm never going to give up on my love for the GUY WHO COMES IN DREAMS WHY?cause I LOVE HIM😔

    • @haileycallahan23
      @haileycallahan23 3 роки тому +34

      That literally happened to me last night! Idk who they were but I know we were in love. I’ve had to have met him tho bc u can’t dream about anyone u haven’t met?🤔😭

    • @hateithere5584
      @hateithere5584 3 роки тому +71

      I had a whole life in my dream before. From when I was born to when I was old. And let me just tell you, when I woke up... my heart shattered. How was I supposed to meet someone as perfect as the guy in my dream? It felt as though I lived a whole life with him.

    • @missmessyeater4451
      @missmessyeater4451 3 роки тому +30

      Omg yes,i felt soooo attached to this one person,it felt so warm to be next to him but i don't know who it really was....

  • @honeymoonloops
    @honeymoonloops Рік тому +328

    Wanna give the whole comment section a huge hug...you guys deserve all the love❤

  • @bipede
    @bipede 3 роки тому +4388

    the thing is, i'm starting to believe that i'm not actually in love with this person, i'm in love with the idea of loving them and being with them...idk

    • @chahditomolatsatat5728
      @chahditomolatsatat5728 3 роки тому +43

      what does it mean to be in love with the idea of someone

    • @rosesaredead9538
      @rosesaredead9538 3 роки тому +25

      Same i feel like this is me....

    • @lovemetilliammeagain4452
      @lovemetilliammeagain4452 3 роки тому +10

      @@chahditomolatsatat5728 same I don't understand it too

    • @blove9258
      @blove9258 3 роки тому +162

      Isn't like seeking for something you know you are not truly ready for....but the excitement makes you want to do it....even tho u know it isn't how you should approach love.

    • @lovemetilliammeagain4452
      @lovemetilliammeagain4452 3 роки тому +1

      @@blove9258 oh

  • @belle3725
    @belle3725 3 роки тому +6626

    im crying
    because the version of you in my head
    isn't real.
    (edit) this was a short poem i wrote a while ago and it got so many likes omg thank u sm

  • @samara2221
    @samara2221 3 роки тому +12149

    is anyone else worried that they'll never find their soulmate?
    update: i found her :) theres hope for everyone guys
    lol nvm she was terrible to me we broke up
    edit: 6 months later i am over her and dgaf anymore LMAOO

    • @Annie-tl5rf
      @Annie-tl5rf 3 роки тому +392

      I believe we found the right person in the right time, you will find him/her when you're ready and when he/she is ready
      Yeah we dated others people until we found them but that's the matter so we can learn lessons and take the consequences of our mistakes.
      But one day you will be so happy with the one and only.

    • @Lilly-bu3ft
      @Lilly-bu3ft 3 роки тому +246

      You will! God has a plan for you, he is finding that perfect person for you! Even if you think that all hope is lost for finding your soulmate, just remember that God has a plan for your life!

    • @RANDOM-pf1ve
      @RANDOM-pf1ve 3 роки тому +233

      There is no soulmate, it's just a bullshit idea to make u feel special bcz u know u are not. No matter how perfect u are u can always be replaced.

    • @Laura-og4dj
      @Laura-og4dj 3 роки тому +63

      I don't think I have one if I'm honest

    • @bellebunny646
      @bellebunny646 3 роки тому +208

      @@RANDOM-pf1ve damn who hurt you...

  • @valerymerenguetta8874
    @valerymerenguetta8874 9 місяців тому +41

    I fall in love with someone so much, I created a reality where they'll eventually love me back.
    But you know that's just a time bomb
    And it hurts so bad

  • @marc1241
    @marc1241 3 роки тому +4494

    It was a relationship of looks.
    He looked at me, I looked at him and we both smiled at each other.
    We never get past that.

  • @lynnsiyfayne9032
    @lynnsiyfayne9032 2 роки тому +7225

    A sad fact: We tend to fall in love with people who don't feel the same way towards us, but we tend to hurt the ones who truly love us..

    • @julius-sumner-miller
      @julius-sumner-miller 2 роки тому +10

      😔😔

    • @whiteowl1137
      @whiteowl1137 2 роки тому +58

      That's the way I always think, and that hurt me a bit more...

    • @chunsungseo3146
      @chunsungseo3146 2 роки тому +1

      omg han sooyeong where's dokja (⁠・⁠o⁠・⁠;⁠)

    • @lynnsiyfayne9032
      @lynnsiyfayne9032 2 роки тому +14

      @@chunsungseo3146 ಠ_ಠ seriously? The universe seems like its laughing at me.

    • @sergeantmajorgross
      @sergeantmajorgross 2 роки тому +31

      Human nature at it's best ;)

  • @dina._.4890
    @dina._.4890 3 роки тому +3849

    "Sehnsucht"
    A german word.
    The deep desire to have something or someone you know you cant have, but you cant stop it.

    • @knownanonymous1691
      @knownanonymous1691 3 роки тому +184

      There's a german word for literally everything. That's amazing

    • @samuelhuttenberger4437
      @samuelhuttenberger4437 3 роки тому +98

      And although you know you will never have it, nothing else makes you happier than longing for it.
      Yes, Sehnsucht is a whole state of mind

    • @abitchbegoingthruit7726
      @abitchbegoingthruit7726 3 роки тому +33

      that word describes me perfectly

    • @dopeboy8920
      @dopeboy8920 3 роки тому +12

      Oh man I felt that deeply

    • @Justme-wj5ic
      @Justme-wj5ic 3 роки тому +55

      As a german I can Tell you That it’s not just about a person, it can also be a place

  • @tomcat9761
    @tomcat9761 7 місяців тому +40

    The thing about Unrequited Love is it attacks you personally. Self-inflicted pain. The most misunderstood kind of Love. No matter how many times that person said you can't be together, you will never ever have a closure emotionally and it's something you must learn to live with it.

  • @cez_da_mex_bean1536
    @cez_da_mex_bean1536 Рік тому +3070

    "I died in the most beautiful way"
    "How?"
    "By loving someone I can't have"

  • @kurtneygarcia319
    @kurtneygarcia319 3 роки тому +1530

    im writing my homework to this and it feels as if im watching myself from an outsiders view. i am the main character nobody can tell me otherwise.

  • @quenkaylaconde4234
    @quenkaylaconde4234 3 роки тому +1487

    It doesn't matter if we are not meant to be, atleast we met.

    • @jasperhbsai7169
      @jasperhbsai7169 3 роки тому +40

      Damn... this made me hurt

    • @Alexa-qg5ls
      @Alexa-qg5ls 3 роки тому +15

      and we didn't even met while i know about his existence and keep loving him while he is just too far from me not knowing about me

    • @xxyakumoxx8759
      @xxyakumoxx8759 3 роки тому +3

      @@Alexa-qg5ls I feel u

    • @bruhandreas1020
      @bruhandreas1020 3 роки тому +19

      wouldve been better if we didnt meet , at least i didn't have to feel this way

    • @flowerpower3011
      @flowerpower3011 3 роки тому +8

      We met. What a gift solely to greet each other within this lifetime.

  • @pinkychatterjee1052
    @pinkychatterjee1052 Рік тому +76

    "Watching the rain makes u feel a little better cuz now you know that the clouds cry too✨"....

  • @taliotogel8333
    @taliotogel8333 3 роки тому +1875

    Guess I'll just admire you from a safe distance .

    • @nellie6490
      @nellie6490 3 роки тому +65

      Yeah. Always close but never too much. 'Cause the closer place is reserved for the chosen ones.

    • @finnlalala
      @finnlalala 3 роки тому +3

      @@nellie6490 🥺

    • @cottono527
      @cottono527 3 роки тому +8

      @@takeahintmrknowitall7038 I know I'm not supposed to be with her, yet my heart only remembers all the good moments. I know I will find someone like her who is for me, yet it is so hard to believe.

    • @thecricketcorner3849
      @thecricketcorner3849 3 роки тому +2

      @@takeahintmrknowitall7038 thats what im scared of .-.

    • @takeahintmrknowitall7038
      @takeahintmrknowitall7038 3 роки тому +2

      @@thecricketcorner3849 same😳

  • @kaylasue2960
    @kaylasue2960 4 роки тому +1532

    everyone in the comments: "being in love with someone who doesn't know you exist"
    me: being in love with someone who doesn't exist
    and thats on being in love with a fictional character

  • @carolinacruz0
    @carolinacruz0 3 роки тому +2196

    For anyone wondering you fall in love with fictional characters because throughout your life you haven’t been loved properly and you are looking for stability for security perhaps comfort and a fictional character can not “hurt you”, you are ok. Nothing is wrong with you. Have a good day love

  • @FreeTime-0
    @FreeTime-0 5 місяців тому +15

    She never made it to the end of my story. She was never ment to. But the chapters...thr chapters she was a part of. Will always... always remain my favourite. Forever.

  • @Michael-ci8eo
    @Michael-ci8eo 3 роки тому +3591

    its like imagining a perfect relationship in my head that never existed.

    • @imeneminji1343
      @imeneminji1343 3 роки тому +7

      right

    • @dei5806
      @dei5806 3 роки тому +5

      :((

    • @deondrelowe5216
      @deondrelowe5216 2 роки тому +26

      I do that everyday, imagine it every night just to be able to fall asleep, for comfort, I imagine being with a certain someone that I am so attached to but he himself could so easily forget me if he wanted to :/

    • @iloveseongmin8775
      @iloveseongmin8775 2 роки тому +1

      Why do I always do that?:,)

    • @MsAddams06
      @MsAddams06 2 роки тому +1

      @@deondrelowe5216 i do that too

  • @vintage.8981
    @vintage.8981 3 роки тому +445

    i hate it when i have him in my dreams but when i wake up, i only have my tears.

    • @seliniminim5465
      @seliniminim5465 3 роки тому +19

      but it feels great at the same time to see him loving you there, even when its not in real

    • @princessmaypurisima2657
      @princessmaypurisima2657 3 роки тому +1

      @@seliniminim5465 trueeeeee

    • @shelbyalexis6084
      @shelbyalexis6084 3 роки тому +15

      Especially at times where the dream feels so real that you allow yourself to finally let go of the breath you’ve been holding and feel all the happiness, just to wake up right back where you started.

    • @marisof_me6719
      @marisof_me6719 3 роки тому +2

      @@seliniminim5465 the best feeling:(

  • @kaelaosborne445
    @kaelaosborne445 3 роки тому +2591

    you love them,
    you know you cant have them
    but you still love them
    edit: im so sorry for everyone under this comment

    • @humzaalizaandthetwobros3133
      @humzaalizaandthetwobros3133 3 роки тому +37

      @@nixmorris-caputo4251 or someone who you've never even met but your soooo deeply in love with them but you can't ever have them:(

    • @crybxbyella6349
      @crybxbyella6349 3 роки тому +18

      Yk what's sad. Me and him act like a couple. Even kissed. It's painful lmao. This ain't the coming of age movie I wanted

    • @princessramonah21
      @princessramonah21 3 роки тому +15

      When I attended his wedding, I'm happy that he has someone 💜

    • @billybobjob5298
      @billybobjob5298 3 роки тому +7

      fucking story of my life, lmao

    • @yazzy_rl
      @yazzy_rl 3 роки тому +4

      @@crybxbyella6349 oh noo... It's hard to say this but: SAME. 🤧🤧

  • @moonlight444x
    @moonlight444x 10 місяців тому +21

    Hurts way more when the person you’re in love with doesn’t love you back. They’re in love with someone else and oh how you wish you were them. But you’re helpless and have to watch it all in silence when they have no idea you’re in love with them.. I wish my first love loved me back :)

  • @abhiramchowdary7127
    @abhiramchowdary7127 Рік тому +2589

    the right person, the wrong time
    the right script, the wrong line
    the right poem, the wrong rhyme
    AND A PIECE OF YOU,
    THAT WILL NEVER BE MINE.....
    every thing seems well but then in the end it hurts like hell

  • @maderickowiguna8352
    @maderickowiguna8352 3 роки тому +3734

    “They told me that to make her fall in love, I had to make her laugh. But everytime she laughs, I’m the one who falls in love”
    - Chandler Bing
    Damn those likes XD, never been this famous b4🤤

    • @carinatorres6457
      @carinatorres6457 3 роки тому +3

      Very true.

    • @gioomarch
      @gioomarch 3 роки тому +39

      I don't remember him saying that but it's a good quote

    • @maderickowiguna8352
      @maderickowiguna8352 3 роки тому +4

      @@gioomarch he didnt, i found this on insta and it made me depressed and still dont know why :(

    • @octrikhalid7756
      @octrikhalid7756 3 роки тому +18

      -ms chanandler bong*

    • @Rose-zz8wl
      @Rose-zz8wl 3 роки тому +2

      This hurts 🤨

  • @vanessarodriguez6917
    @vanessarodriguez6917 4 роки тому +3112

    he had a girlfriend, so i didn't say anything. i didn't want to put either of them in that awkward spot. so i waited, not for them to break up, but for me to let myself fall out of love. i felt like it was working, but then i'd think about him or see him at school and i was back to square one. i saw him last february, and in June, i decided to tell him after finding out that they'd broken up. i didnt' expect him to have someone else already, but he told me that he was "flattered, and interested, but he was seeing someone else." i swear i didn't know. she wanted him to block me, he didn't. i kind of wish he did bc then i wouldn't have to see all the posts of the two of them together. i could just unfollow him, but my heart doesn't let me. there's a rational part of me that thinks i don't deserve to be with someone who says they're interested in someone else when they're already seeing someone, but i can't bring myself to let him go. not yet. i don't know when, if ever. bc it's been four years already.
    edit: for some unknown reason, this has become my most liked comment. it shocks me that so many people took time out of their day to read it, but i want to clear some things up. when you're in love, it"s hard to do the healthy thing of letting go. i do not want to be with him, but that does not mean that i don't long for him to at least acknowledge me. for me, it's always been more than just about being in love with him. i've explained it before as him being sort of like a safe person for me; if i'm upset or i’m having an anxiety attack or anything like that, the thought of him will calm me and put me at ease. unfollowing him is like letting go of all of that, letting go of the feeling of being safe. we weren’t necessarily "close", but we were friends. i'm not pursuing him, i'm not trying whatsoever for him, as someone replied. as a matter of fact, the last time i talked to him was when HE wished me a happy birthday a couple of months ago. the most interaction we have now is when we like each other's posts.

    • @littleeve
      @littleeve 3 роки тому +91

      Lovely words thanks for sharing remember there is someone out there waiting for you to show up and change their whole lives

    • @chiarasenuri8701
      @chiarasenuri8701 3 роки тому +70

      Mine situation is quite similar too.. I'm so sorry for you. I know what it feels like to love someone for 4 years, even if he has a girlfriend. But listen you'll find someone better that make u feel happy and feel u loved. I don't know when but It'll come. ❤️

    • @edgimosanimations3116
      @edgimosanimations3116 3 роки тому +23

      well if she wants to block you then shes probobly got red flags in the relationship she brings. id say wait again, it might be painful but youve done it before. then again you could just distance yourself and try to move on to focus on yourself. "you have to love yourself in order to love others". if its true love then he will come to you if he chooses. he will be thinking about you and wonder if shes the one i deserve. patience is a virture. best of luck luv

    • @christlnee
      @christlnee 3 роки тому +17

      same situation I’m in, you worded it perfectly

    • @katetrcka5928
      @katetrcka5928 3 роки тому +6

      wow

  • @TaraGamal-y9z
    @TaraGamal-y9z 5 місяців тому +19

    One sided love really hurts
    Which increases by time even knowing that person will never feel the same 🥹😔

  • @vx.cvcv_
    @vx.cvcv_ 3 роки тому +1291

    why is love so scary? i just can’t-

  • @manicmez
    @manicmez 3 роки тому +2045

    falling in love with someone i can’t have because i’ll always be the fat friend who’s “funny” and has a “nice personality”

    • @arthurias7693
      @arthurias7693 3 роки тому +36

      same except im short, not fat

    • @melany1120
      @melany1120 3 роки тому +93

      I really know how it feels to be the fat friend (you're also always seen as dumb for some reason).
      I once loved a guy that i really thought he could've liked me back if i wasn't fat and ugly because everything was just perfect between us but he chose the pretty and skinny one, and i can't even blame him back then i thought that i didn't have the right to love anyone nor anyone can love me because I'm fat.

    • @mariakalamara12
      @mariakalamara12 3 роки тому +36

      Hey, you’re beautiful inside out and someday the right person will appreciate it ❤️

    • @benzenecarson6296
      @benzenecarson6296 3 роки тому +36

      @@melany1120 never ever think that you're not enough. Remember one thing, your "imperfections" don't define you. They define the person who sees you. Whether they see the whole you or they just see the "imperfections". He wasn't good enough for you. He'll never be.

    • @melany1120
      @melany1120 3 роки тому +15

      @@benzenecarson6296 i know he'll never be he's dead anyways. Thank you for your really sweet comment😊💖that only shows how nice person you are 💕. I actually don't think the same way anymore i am recovering from depression and i worked on my mental health, am not that insecure about my self , that was just a period of my life that i think I'm almost aver it. I hope you are also doing well and happy cos you deserve it 😊❤.

  • @MayThuThuHtaw
    @MayThuThuHtaw 3 роки тому +1110

    i know he would have never loved me back, but i just wanted to dream about it for a little while. maybe in a distant parallel universe, you are here with me.

    • @Luniferagirl
      @Luniferagirl 3 роки тому +12

      You're beautiful and can recognize true feelings, one day you'll find someone special who will recognize yours 💕

    • @Corneater47
      @Corneater47 3 роки тому +6

      Jesus loves you, so do i ❤️💓🤍

    • @angelmiranda4088
      @angelmiranda4088 3 роки тому

      same here

    • @putria.syailendra5169
      @putria.syailendra5169 3 роки тому

      Ooh so deep😭❤️

  • @atthewatersedge6681
    @atthewatersedge6681 4 місяці тому +7

    "You were a wonderful experience"
    "And you were...everything.."

  • @anflr
    @anflr 3 роки тому +1897

    The fact that i’m thinking about one single person while reading this and all the comments at 1 am... repressing, fkn depressing

  • @shahedmohamed6076
    @shahedmohamed6076 2 роки тому +4681

    The worst thing about one sided love is when you keep making scenarios/dreams about them in your head and that third person comes and recreate all of these scenarios and dreams with them instead of you…

    • @wendyhutchinson457
      @wendyhutchinson457 2 роки тому +32

      A deep agonizing pain in my heart. 💔😞

    • @akayk1928
      @akayk1928 2 роки тому +14

      yeah i feel tht

    • @akshita7028
      @akshita7028 2 роки тому +67

      Now imagine u help the 3rd person to do so

    • @SK-zx1wt
      @SK-zx1wt 2 роки тому +6

      Uffffff thatss so soo true...
      Its justt sooo painful huhh

    • @demonvillain959
      @demonvillain959 2 роки тому +18

      @@akshita7028 ouch ..

  • @hikarunoha2053
    @hikarunoha2053 3 роки тому +1618

    We're both in love, the only difference is that it's not me that you're in love with.

    • @mika636
      @mika636 3 роки тому +19

      o u c h

    • @emylia7025
      @emylia7025 3 роки тому +3

      Wooow💔

    • @whthza
      @whthza 3 роки тому +1

      😢

    • @chunara17
      @chunara17 3 роки тому +14

      Our situations are same, the only difference is that yours is in love with someone, but mine is married.

    • @juliask18
      @juliask18 3 роки тому +1

      It's about it

  • @Infinity4ever414
    @Infinity4ever414 Рік тому +398

    timestamps:
    0:00 - Je te lasserai des mots
    2:45 - La Valse d'Amélie
    5:35 - Dance For Me Wallis
    8:50 - Prelude in E-Minor
    11:35 - The Departure
    13:00 - Beginning of the End Movement V

    • @brixenlang3207
      @brixenlang3207 Рік тому +4

      Prelude in E minor by Chopin

    • @KayKayEdits-1
      @KayKayEdits-1 3 місяці тому

      if your reading please take the time to finish and give me advice. my crush is moving across the world should I do long distance? I love them. we are in highschool. i’ve cried over not having him I love him but would I be hurt over long distance? I don’t like anyone else I love him

    • @alxlxr_music
      @alxlxr_music Місяць тому

      ​@@KayKayEdits-1 take the time to really think about it, I think you're the only one who has the answer to this question

  • @dolphquad7140
    @dolphquad7140 3 роки тому +3449

    Has anyone ever fallen in love so much that they can't even be just friends with the person anymore? It hurts alot

    • @sadiqabbaszade4789
      @sadiqabbaszade4789 3 роки тому +43

      I wish we were just friends but she didn't want to.

    • @d09_ma
      @d09_ma 3 роки тому +79

      It hurts to love, honestly. It so unexplainable and unpredictable. Everytime I see them I feel as though I'm imploding? I guess is the way to say it.

    • @sadiqabbaszade4789
      @sadiqabbaszade4789 3 роки тому +36

      @@d09_ma Butterflies can hurt people afterall...

    • @rana2475-t9n
      @rana2475-t9n 3 роки тому +23

      we never talked before but I feel for him we''ve only glanced each other but I wish to know him more.

    • @CRTV_C
      @CRTV_C 3 роки тому +12

      That was the plan.. until she started dating her “friend” that I figured I shouldn’t have worried about.. Always have trust but don’t trust too much.

  • @Valen_111
    @Valen_111 3 роки тому +2086

    I don’t like anyone, I’m not in love with anyone but the idea of being loved by someone is so comforting I want to be loved I want to be cared for, I want to be understood, I want someone to look through my eyes and see all the pain im going through all the struggles, all the emotions of solidarity of loneliness inside of me , I want someone to understand , someone that cares enough because everyone seems to care just not enough, everyone seems to love me but not the way I want to, everyone seems to be there but they aren’t I just really want someone that loves me, someone that would care for me the way I try so hard to care for everyone, I want someone’s that has the same idea of love that I do, but why is it so hard, why does it seem that my vision of love is so beautiful yet so impossible because there’s nothing I could do for someone to be so in love with me like I am with the idea of love…

    • @jaokaykk1195
      @jaokaykk1195 3 роки тому +113

      The way you just perfectly described how I feel, I thought I was the only one who thinks and feels like that, the idea of love truly is comforting but it feels like it will always just be that an Idea, because these days the understanding of love for a lot of people seems so meaningless like they just don’t care even if they act like they do. It feels like you could never be loved by someone like you love and care for others.

    • @aubs9244
      @aubs9244 3 роки тому +10

      SAME

    • @adry91226
      @adry91226 3 роки тому +5

      ME

    • @youniversalbeyoutifull2843
      @youniversalbeyoutifull2843 3 роки тому +12

      It would be so nice to be loved the same way you love.

    • @uranooos11
      @uranooos11 3 роки тому +12

      You wrote what in my heart and mind💔

  • @djamilamessaoud5760
    @djamilamessaoud5760 3 роки тому +862

    All the ppl here need a hug 😭
    Am sending a virtual hug to u all ✨

    • @what.theegg
      @what.theegg 3 роки тому +4

      Thank you

    • @djamilamessaoud5760
      @djamilamessaoud5760 3 роки тому +1

      @@what.theegg ✨❤️😭

    • @ee9269
      @ee9269 3 роки тому +2

      Thing is, we used to send these silly "virtual hugs" to eachother... Seems cringy now but my god I miss her so much...

    • @ee9269
      @ee9269 3 роки тому +1

      @Jack Thanks you so much man, I teared up reading that :) I'll be alright, I just need time. Maybe another few years. Have an amazing life :D

    • @ee9269
      @ee9269 3 роки тому +2

      @Jack I appreciate that so much, thank you :)) Cya :D

  • @hannya88
    @hannya88 Рік тому +28

    if only she sees the way i see her in my eyes, there's too many words to describe on how special this one girl is to me. leaving such a huge impact, a love that made me feel alive, she gave me the reason to keep going and yet she's the reason why now i'm learning to love myself and move forward
    I love you Y, it's always has been you, and it will forever be ❤️

  • @alissa4625
    @alissa4625 3 роки тому +684

    "You speak to me in words while I look at you with feelings"
    -Leo Tolstoy

  • @jaderay6528
    @jaderay6528 3 роки тому +826

    You know the playlist is going to be good when it starts with “je te laisserai les mots”

  • @florencesmith3173
    @florencesmith3173 3 роки тому +1328

    "Being in love with someone you can't have, hurts more than a breakup."

    • @CloverVines
      @CloverVines 2 роки тому +12

      My crush is my friend so it's either tell her and she likes you back or tell her and she doesn't like you back Wich then ruins the friendship, and last option is to just keep that urge to be more inside you😕

    • @shahedmohamed6076
      @shahedmohamed6076 2 роки тому +15

      I agree. I was in love with someone for 5 years. I watched him dating 4 different girls and every time it hurt me more than the other

    • @lana9901
      @lana9901 2 роки тому +1

      @@shahedmohamed6076 wow dude lemme hug u🥺😭 but I felt u

    • @stylenistea279
      @stylenistea279 2 роки тому

      True

    • @unkn0wn259
      @unkn0wn259 2 роки тому

      @@CloverVines I told her and it went badly

  • @gurleenkaursaini6909
    @gurleenkaursaini6909 Рік тому +23

    I know i will never have him but i still keep falling for him i can't help it's his eyes like an ocean i get lost in or his smile which is like the full moon or maybe his soft lips or maybe his voice which i can hear for the rest of my life or it's just him.. he is so kind , handsome , has a really decent behaviour... how can i move on when he's imperfectly perfect.. when he's all i need..when he gives me hopes that we can be together..when he smiles at me whenever we see each other... when he cares about me....when he makes me smile..makes me the happiest person..tell me how can i move on

    • @irav1555
      @irav1555 Рік тому +1

      Tell about your feelings! Have courage, it'll feel empowering. Otherwise you'll be stuck and unable to move on.

    • @gurleenkaursaini6909
      @gurleenkaursaini6909 Рік тому +1

      @@irav1555 i told him from the very beginning we had smthing i can't explain... anyways i moved on and i am much better

  • @user-fm6ml1hl8q
    @user-fm6ml1hl8q 3 роки тому +1233

    This hits different when u listen to it at night.

  • @vivianavaldes9262
    @vivianavaldes9262 3 роки тому +1277

    “We don’t read and write poetry because it’s cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race, and the human race is full of passion. And, medicine, law, business, engineering, these are all noble pursuit and necessary to sustain life, but poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for.” -Dead Poets Society

  • @gamercliz3519
    @gamercliz3519 2 роки тому +2205

    There's a difference between being In love and loving the idea of being in love.

    • @no_name9077
      @no_name9077 2 роки тому +35

      Yea, and that's when the doubt arises of which one of the two is it...?

    • @highlight_creation
      @highlight_creation 2 роки тому +27

      I guess I'm just really loving the idea of being in love?

    • @RED_STAR8
      @RED_STAR8 2 роки тому +8

      I think I fall into second

    • @gamercliz3519
      @gamercliz3519 2 роки тому +2

      @@no_name9077 idk thats the part we have to figure out

    • @gamercliz3519
      @gamercliz3519 2 роки тому +2

      @@RED_STAR8 i catch feelings in a heartbeat

  • @Peachismad-gi4jh
    @Peachismad-gi4jh 7 місяців тому +9

    It all started 3 years ago, on October, the two of us alone in the classroom. You, who saw me struggling with cleaning the whiteboard, helped me clean the whiteboard and my stupid past self felt butterflies. Here I am, 3 years later, tomorrow’s going to be the last time that I can see your face at school. Thank you for all of the wonderful memories, I wish u the best In your relationship. Just know that, there will always be a space for you in my heart.

  • @0SunnyDays0
    @0SunnyDays0 3 роки тому +960

    I want someone to look at me and just fall head over heels in love with me, someone who gets me and knows how to be with me not around me. I want someone who knows when I’m lying and knows how to comfort me, I simply don’t want to be alone in this world

    • @shine-uy5fq
      @shine-uy5fq 3 роки тому +20

      And I assume you will do the same thing for them? Who you just described is someone that has turned in their love, respect, and trust for you. Can you promise that you will do the same tho? Easy to say.

    • @user-rawi
      @user-rawi 3 роки тому +1

      🥺I too wanted such a person I guess that person will never come

  • @vb5604
    @vb5604 3 роки тому +1815

    so i stick to fictional characters, because fictional characters can't hurt me the way any of them ever did or could.

    • @Who.Is.Millie
      @Who.Is.Millie 3 роки тому +2

      Yup

    • @Bri_016
      @Bri_016 3 роки тому +1

      Yes🥺

    • @teopapa2782
      @teopapa2782 3 роки тому +30

      No, dont be content with not having what you deserve, thats not living
      Go out there, try again and again, thats where the magic lies, being able to do it just because one day you will get someone that understands you, that gets you, that gives you everything you need and everything you ever wanted. Not everyone can give you that. Thats why it is so beautiful. So special.

    • @vb5604
      @vb5604 3 роки тому

      @@teopapa2782 thank you. you just made my day :)

    • @rijustine576
      @rijustine576 3 роки тому +7

      yeah same:) but the thought of them not being real just hurts so bad:

  • @maudcapdeville8092
    @maudcapdeville8092 3 роки тому +1795

    I am in love with my best friend who passed away 2 yrs ago.
    He loved me and I loved him we just figured we were going to have the rest of our life to be together so we did't want to rush it. I wasn't clear abt what I wanted and how I loved him. And now I can say that I truly loved him I was just too young. Since he died I can't seem to find anyone that reach my expectations because I have very high standards because of him. I feel like I will never love someone as much as I loved him and I am stuck. But most of all I miss him

    • @samaabbas291
      @samaabbas291 3 роки тому +83

      I'm so sorry for your loss, hope one day you will find happiness

    • @imAbsoluteGod
      @imAbsoluteGod 3 роки тому +62

      Hope you two meet one day in heaven and live your dreams , do what you always wanted to do together.

    • @hb5203
      @hb5203 3 роки тому +37

      I am so sorry for your lose. you will never find someone who is exactly like him but I can assure you will find someone just as amazing as he was and you will find love again.

    • @sinziria07
      @sinziria07 3 роки тому +7

      Aw man, I'm so sorry for your loss 😞

    • @a3dna_yeet..282
      @a3dna_yeet..282 3 роки тому +16

      I m very sorry to hear about your loss, I understand why you would have high expectations, the feeling that you will never find someone again is terrorizing and I get it. Your best friend seems like such a great guy, but I am sure that when you are ready, when you search and find someone that fits your standards and loves you so much as did your friend, just know that it will be okay. I am sure he would only want the best for you, of course do not settle for less in relationships, but you will find someone, someday who will warm your harm and make your friend happy that you found someone. Thank you for sharing your story, I hope you have a lovely day/night.

  • @tomcat9761
    @tomcat9761 10 місяців тому +12

    You are so busy counting my flaws yet I'm so busy overlooking yours.

  • @SiggiASMR
    @SiggiASMR 4 роки тому +2385

    i have never felt love but yet my heart still breaks from the longing for it, when can i just get a break

    • @Sathyamurali117
      @Sathyamurali117 3 роки тому +6

      Same here😑

    • @reyregidormd
      @reyregidormd 3 роки тому +31

      You'll find that right person who will steal your heart and will love you the way you want amd deserve to be loved. Juat have a little more faith. :-)

    • @kylagreco2865
      @kylagreco2865 3 роки тому

      same:/

    • @nene8653
      @nene8653 3 роки тому +8

      you're inlove with the idea of love

    • @sabrinagurung7418
      @sabrinagurung7418 3 роки тому

      :( 🤍

  • @jello3935
    @jello3935 3 роки тому +230

    the way everyone can relate to each other in this comment section 😭

  • @shimlogs
    @shimlogs 3 роки тому +747

    falling in love with someone we can't have hurts so much, i can't even explain this

    • @democorgi1739
      @democorgi1739 3 роки тому

      fr he has a girlfriend :( and idk if he loves her or not bc she kinda cheated and he knows

  • @tomcat9761
    @tomcat9761 Рік тому +10

    Unrequited Love - the cruelest feeling ever because people often invalidates it and you sound so insane when you talk about it even with close friends. It is often misinterpreted with "Unrequited Crush". The pain of Unrequited Love is deeper and immeasurable. It usually happens when you fell in love with a friend.

  • @philipeprovot3595
    @philipeprovot3595 2 роки тому +2992

    The worst is when you see that everybody around you is in love with someone while you're still dreaming about a relationship you will never have with somebody that doesn't even know how you feel.

    • @alinajurma2545
      @alinajurma2545 2 роки тому +7

      true words

    • @amandarodriguez4142
      @amandarodriguez4142 2 роки тому +6

      This is exactly how I feel about Austin Butler. Because he's been in a 9 year relationship with Vanessa Hudgens, who LITERALLY bragged about him getting the role of Elvis Presley, instead of supporting him and loving him. His love for her was a total lie. He was just too blind to notice.
      And the same thing was happening to him and Kaia Gerber, who's LITERALLY known to use guys, date them for a year and then dumps them afterwards. And she always calls the paparazzi 24/7 whenever they're spotted together because her clueless mother used to do them all the time. And whenever they kiss or show affection, it always comes out as fake and the fact that whenever Austin kissed Kaia at Cannes or wherever they were spotted, it felt like he was kissing Cindy in a way and it's gross.
      And the person who has a UA-cam channel, is the same person who fat shamed me and bullied me on Twitter, causing them to kick me out of the website for 24 hours, just because I said something rude, but they didn't read her the riot act when she fat shamed me and bullied me. She should be getting the same harsh treatment too. Why is it only me? Probably because they're racist or something and always pick favorites. UA-cam should do the same thing.

    • @inquiryinsights
      @inquiryinsights 2 роки тому +16

      just wait for the right time you will get the right person, nowadays people are so desperate for a relationship and end is not good so just wait for the right moment you will get the one you deserge

    • @LL-ly1jr
      @LL-ly1jr 2 роки тому +1

      This just inspires me to write ideal love stories

    • @MrQuincy27
      @MrQuincy27 Рік тому

      Facts

  • @laylamad
    @laylamad 3 роки тому +265

    A part of me loves the fake scenarios I create in my head just because they make me happy. As long as they make me happy, that’s okay. But then you have to wake up and remember they aren’t real. And that hurts

    • @matt7352
      @matt7352 3 роки тому +3

      Sometimes I dream about them and it’s the strangest thing. It’s like I’m thrown into a moment of their lives and I mostly just observe. I’m quiet and just take them in, enjoy the moment

  • @Anna-kc7co
    @Anna-kc7co 3 роки тому +2206

    Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They're either lonely, they're missing somebody, they're depressed, they're hurt, they're scarred from the past, they're having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn't believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting here reading these words, and I'm writing this for you so you don't feel alone anymore. Always remember, don't be depressed about the past, don't worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today's not so great don't worry! Tomorrow's a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day! ^^

    • @dreaminsedits178
      @dreaminsedits178  3 роки тому +45

      beautiful comment

    • @valla2134
      @valla2134 3 роки тому +16

      i love u

    • @abigailhill9540
      @abigailhill9540 3 роки тому +44

      you literally have no idea how much this means to me. i have had the crappiest day today, and reading this really made me feel better. youre right. tomorrow is a new chance. thank you for helping me remember that

    • @fiha3822
      @fiha3822 3 роки тому +5

      Thank you

    • @prakharlal9909
      @prakharlal9909 3 роки тому +5

      thank you so much
      this helps sooo much

  • @y.martins2860
    @y.martins2860 Рік тому +13

    I keep coming back to this playlist.
    It makes me feel as tho I'm sobbing on the bathroom floor, weeping my heart out for a love who could not bloom.

  • @nowhinymodelspls
    @nowhinymodelspls 4 роки тому +2308

    i am in love with a fictional character. i want to hold him but it's impossible.
    This playlist is exactly what i need right now. Thank you for making this, it's beautiful❣️

    • @dreaminsedits178
      @dreaminsedits178  4 роки тому +49

      This comment is beautiful

    • @Official_MilaRose
      @Official_MilaRose 4 роки тому +38

      I just wanna be with him, but then people say they’re not even real which makes my obsession even worst✋🏼🥺
      Shifting, I’ve tried and still didn’t work I got close though

    • @Official_MilaRose
      @Official_MilaRose 4 роки тому +9

      @@xakeballsubs9551 aww thanks this literally just made my day, we will shift soon!

    • @VividDayDream
      @VividDayDream 4 роки тому +15

      @Runa Orange shifting is where you can switch ur subconscious to another realty! for example many people have shifted to hogwarts. you can look on UA-cam! I suggest checking out shimmy shay if you want more information on shifting. Make sure not to trust tiktok if you want to find info on there bc a lot of people are untrustworthy on there 💖

    • @mojoginger0022
      @mojoginger0022 3 роки тому +5

      This should be called something? Being with characters that don’t exist books, video games, movies/ tv shows etc. maybe crazy? Lol

  • @chloe-roll
    @chloe-roll 3 роки тому +2370

    This gives me:
    Quiet girl sat in the back of class,
    Minding her own business,
    Avoiding social interactions.
    Popular boy sat in the front of class,
    Head held high,
    Smile planted on his face.
    They acted like strangers,
    But they werent.
    He knew she wasnt enough for him,
    But he wished she was.
    Typa vibes.

    • @keishaanna
      @keishaanna 3 роки тому +67

      so a lot of vibe then

    • @ArisLife_muahaha
      @ArisLife_muahaha 3 роки тому +28

      Literally same

    • @len8954
      @len8954 3 роки тому +38

      This comment really said "Kimi ni todoke"

    • @erwancerentio2884
      @erwancerentio2884 3 роки тому +26

      and they are all in slow motion scene

    • @nakoharo8617
      @nakoharo8617 3 роки тому +23

      okay someone gotta make a webtoon out of that

  • @ludovicagiunta3697
    @ludovicagiunta3697 3 роки тому +812

    she’ll always win .
    and he’ll always choose her .

    • @sasafira731
      @sasafira731 3 роки тому +4

      Oh God :(

    • @narinekadah
      @narinekadah 3 роки тому +7

      One day someone will choose you and you'll be happy together bae, just be Patient and don't Think so negative:)

    • @RANDOM-pf1ve
      @RANDOM-pf1ve 3 роки тому

      wtf are talking about?

    • @greyy3976
      @greyy3976 3 роки тому

      @@RANDOM-pf1ve I'm just as confused

    • @sushilsharma4202
      @sushilsharma4202 3 роки тому

      @@RANDOM-pf1ve Bhai emotions aise hi kaam karte hai

  • @abdulazeem7054
    @abdulazeem7054 6 місяців тому +6

    Love the youtube comment family. So Much relatability , warmth, perspectives and inclusiveness ..
    Everybody either sharing their moments of pain, some poetic pieces or just the perspective about love they experienced.
    Wholesome moment reading comments and feeling inclusive amongst the shared community 🫡

  • @lizbeth867
    @lizbeth867 3 роки тому +840

    “ I will love you as misfortune loves orphans, as fire loves innocence and as justice loves to sit and watch everything go wrong”
    -lemony snicket

    • @lia507
      @lia507 3 роки тому +9

      I watched the series of unfortunate events depressing but it gives me the vibes of this playlist :) btw we have the same name! Except mine is spelled with An S instead of a z 😅😂

    • @zeudygamboa472
      @zeudygamboa472 3 роки тому +8

      This gave me such nostalgia, Series of Misfortunate Events is what got me into reading

    • @squigglydiggly853
      @squigglydiggly853 3 роки тому

      Istg if only there were more episodes I rewatched the whole thing a couple times because I love it so much lol

  • @wizzy4301
    @wizzy4301 3 роки тому +172

    My mom once told me "If you love someone set them free, if they come back it was meant to be"

    • @TJ-ml8tt
      @TJ-ml8tt 3 роки тому +1

      God I hope this is true.

  • @이레인-y9c
    @이레인-y9c 3 роки тому +2009

    “Loving you is the most *beautiful* thing I’ve ever done.
    Loving you is the most *painful* thing I’ve ever done.
    Knowing that you will be *kissed* by *someone else,*
    Is like being *immortal,*
    When all you want to do...
    Is to lay down and *die.”*
    - Unrequited Love || K.Roberto

    • @janetbaeza4618
      @janetbaeza4618 3 роки тому +17

      Hey army I just want to say I love you and stay strong 💜

    • @VillainessAO
      @VillainessAO 3 роки тому +2

      Me to Kim Taehyung

    • @marcevu1819
      @marcevu1819 3 роки тому +5

      Oof that shit hurts

    • @kittylitty706
      @kittylitty706 3 роки тому +1

      Army I love you

    • @arta005
      @arta005 3 роки тому +1

      well said my army friend💜i hope all of you are having a good time💜

  • @_lavi
    @_lavi 4 місяці тому +4

    isn’t this amazing how love makes us feel ? There is no hate in this comment section.Very powerful

  • @rodriguezgarciamelissa1577
    @rodriguezgarciamelissa1577 3 роки тому +749

    I'm imagining lots of fake scenarios in my head
    ._.

    • @f.e.8450
      @f.e.8450 3 роки тому +20

      Me too. I’m making myself cry from them also😭😭😭

    • @juliayoffe8798
      @juliayoffe8798 3 роки тому +3

      Same here

    • @eriannahsofia
      @eriannahsofia 3 роки тому +2

      @@f.e.8450 same

    • @noone-qn9st
      @noone-qn9st 3 роки тому +3

      be careful not to fall into maladpative daydreaming ✌️😁

    • @mahmudanoorchaity718
      @mahmudanoorchaity718 3 роки тому +1

      @@noone-qn9st can you please tell me what maladaptive daydreaming is? I'm genuinely curious

  • @Wolfsta
    @Wolfsta Рік тому +4841

    I've felt many pains in my life but oh God nothing compares to the moment when I left the girl who didn't love me back. It was the hardest decision I ever made in my life but this decision changed me completely. My life took a huge turn for the best afterwards because for the first time of my life I was in control of my emotions and did what hurts because it was the right thing to do.

    • @-isabella_lovergirlfan-
      @-isabella_lovergirlfan- Рік тому +12

      It touched my heart too well God decides what is good for us we can't do nothing because we are no the responsable ones that are going to take care of ourselves God is the only one who can do that

    • @-isabella_lovergirlfan-
      @-isabella_lovergirlfan- Рік тому +4

      Well it happened the same but with a boy too

    • @LiNa-cx2qv
      @LiNa-cx2qv Рік тому +2

      Thank you for sharing this ❤

    • @uca7961
      @uca7961 Рік тому +1

      @TiTia-3 ur tongan?

    • @Wolfsta
      @Wolfsta Рік тому

      @TiTia-3 🙏

  • @Anna-dr4kj
    @Anna-dr4kj 3 роки тому +499

    "It's okay to still be sad about what you had with them - even if what you had with them was never given a name."