⛔Warning From Allah⛔ Don’t Do This To Your Wife! - Marriage Problems
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⛔Warning From Allah⛔ Don’t Do This To Your Wife! - Marriage Problems
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@Manie Janie could be nouman Ali Khan
Probably only Muslims watch this and I am =)
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Walaykum salaam
@Madison RayneHello, I can speak english I was just replying to the salaam (btw that is not punjabi or hindustani) please do not get angry . InshAllah you find the true path (I am not assuming you are not muslim) and do good towards Allah
Oh man i just had an argument with my wife and i turned my phone off and decided i won't speak to her the whole day. We live in different country right now due to my work but then this video gets recommended. Oh Allah forgive me and make me and my wife successful in our relationship.
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
Dumb fuck why did you argue? Prevent ..... don't repent ...
@@jaggumuggu not sure what hinduism teaches you but Islam teaches to never stop repenting till the day we die. Allah is most merciful. Have a nice day Jagadeesh and don't be so angry on just a comment.
Always feels proud Alhamdulillah i m a Muslim woman. Alhamdulillah Allah has given so much respect to us.😇😇😇😇😇
Unfortunately lot of sisters didn't realize this fact, so pls tell to our sisters how much ALLAH has love them, pls do this as much u can!
Ha ha ha ha ha
Indeed
True but some men ......
@Asif Redoy Lol! i am not feminist bro, i think alot of them are hypocrites and you look like you are a misogynist 😅
O Allah, give us Jannah without any accountability AMEEN
Hmmm... so we do whatever we want disregarding everything prophet (pbuh) said knowingly and then we want jannah? What's the point of religion then?
Aika Aika narrated from Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “Seventy thousand of my ummah will enter Paradise without being brought to account; they are the ones who did not ask for ruqyah or believe in omens or use cautery and they put their trust in their Lord.”
Al-Bukhaari (6472) and Muslim (220)
@@jrsilverify
Interesting. Whst is cautery? Is it a musical instrument?
Also a lot of Saudis believe they will enter janna without any accountability just because they are the descendants of kuraish. They even narrated some hadith. Wondering if it's the same hadith.
Aika Aika (The Noble Quran, 49:13)" O mankind! We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that ye may know each other. Verily the most honoured of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. And Allah has full knowledge and is well-acquainted.
As you see the honoured person in the sight of Allah is the ’’righteous one’’ not a clan,tribe,or skin colour. We all are the children of Adam and Eve, one love brother
AMEEN
I love how allah is everywhere and listening to it all. That last line of “ you can go back and pretend nothing happened is cool until Judgment day” is slap across all men who think it’s okay to not apologize to their wives after verbally abusing them .
Allah is not everywhere.
@@slave5998 He probably does not mean it that way.
There are verses in the Quran where Allah Himself affirmd that where ever we are, He is we us (I'm paraphrasing).
Just apply the same understanding of the verse to he said and you will see that he actually said nothing wrong. Not everything is to be taken literally.
Even some wifes abuse husbands too..some wife insults , pressurise husbands if they dont have proper jobs. Mistakes can happen from both sides.
i think he meant that the husband and wive can argue and then pretend it never happened and resolve it on their own time without the need to be hurtful and say bad things like "i swear you're like my mother" and all the punishment can be avoided.
in essence you can argue and then pretend it never happened instead of hurting your spouse and do the 60 days punishment.
Allah, do you spell your name with a small letter?
I am a non Muslim. Like anyone i am going through the hard time of my life. Made some big mistakes. These days there is no peace in my mind. I Regret many things. Suddenly i started watching these videos.I found every answer of my life in Allah. I am attracted towards Islam. As I am non Muslim can i get the mercy of Allah. Can I get the forgiveness from Allah for my sins.
Of course bro When a person takes their Shahada all their past sins are forgiven totally except that of which you own money to people pay them back Inshallah all your sins will be forgiven then but stay strong on the deen as The devil will try and bring you off the true path of Islam.I pray to ALLAH that he makes it easy for you to become a Muslim Inshallah.
Of course you can bro, in our religion when you convert to Islam all your past sins are forgiven. we just have to do our best to not commit the same sins again, and even if we do commit those same sins again, we are to sincerely repent to Allah alone. The beauty about Islam is that we don’t believe that someone had to sacrifice their life for the sins of mankind to be forgiven, we believe that if we sincerely regret our sin all we have to do is call out to God for forgiveness and to try your best to not commit the same sins again.🥰 Here are some Islamic videos I linked for you about repentance and forgiveness for sins in Islam:
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If u have understood the Islam then first surrender to Allah swt whole heartedly and follow the sunnah of Muhammad SAW,no doubt u will be free from all tensions
Convert to Islam Allah will clear all your sins in the list
Allah swt does not do any of his servants wrong, whether Muslim or non-muslim.
SUBHAN ALLAH, Islam is a religion of peace and ease
Truth*
And swords.
@@bilbobaginz1601 You wouldn't wrote that statement if *God* doesn't allow *You* to do it..There are no opposites *There is Only One*
@@user-rm2lq4eo1w indeed there is only one ... and when he returns every knee shall bow and every tongue confess, both living and dead, including the deceiver, Mohammed, that Jesus Christ is LORD.
@@bilbobaginz1601 What If you were born in a Muslim Family or in a Hindu Famil,Buddhist Family,etc....Will you say the same Thing?..Don't say nothing about God if you don't understand what God is..You cannot say you understand God unless God comes to *You* ...Yes Jesus is the Proof Of God because *He* is *God* !! BUT you will never understand what it means unless you Surrender *Everything* including your existence..There is *no* You,Me,Us,Him,Jesus,He,She,Muhammad,We and *everything else* because *we* actually doesn't exist but We exist because of *God* .." when it is Allah Who created *you* and *whatever* you *do* ?”(37:96) " "I" understand God because of God *Alone* not because of *me* .. "I" exist because of God.. *You* prayed to God not because of *You* it is because God made you pray to God...Before there is a Creation God even Forgive your sins before God even create your actions and existence...You *were never Born* unless God made *You* in different Forms but ULTIMATELY *You* are Him...Again, *There is no You,We,Me,etc* because God is *the Only* thing that exist..Everything Is an Illusion(Distinctions/Opposite) because of *God* .. *God* said Humans are his best creation is because *God* knows that *We* have the *Potential* to know him because *Only God can Know Himself* and *We* all can Because of *God* ..God create Mankind through his Image...What Image?? *HIS IMAGE ALONE* that creates all the Illusions of Existence and The Only Thing that Truly exist Is *HIM*..That is Why Jesus can Born through Mary while she never were touched by any men Because *He* actually were created By *God* and Everything can happen through *God* and it still Happening until *Right Now* Jesus is The image God,The Holy spirit Is the Image Of God and *Everything else* are The Image of God because ULTIMATELY Everything Is *One*...To say that there is Trinity is actually *False* because You are creating a Seperation which is *Limited* even though I can clearly see *The Truth* in It because In order For Limited to exist The Unlimited (Unity,Oneness, *Absolute Truth* ) needs to Exist..So All is ONE not Three In One...From God you *All* Exist and To God you *All* will Return...My message to you is don't take everything as a dogma *even* if you are born in a Muslim family or any other religion families because *The Truth* Can only comes to you If *The Truth* wants to come to *You* not because *You* desire it..P/S Whatever you heard Bad stuff about Islam from a person just ignore it because firstly the Truth doesn't come to that person yet not because the person is not born in a Muslim Family and Secondly Because the Person is Dogmatic because of The Indoctrination of the Society and Finally obviously *He* doesn't understand The core meaning of Islam and Other core Meaning of other Religions even his or her religion because The intention is Hate and Hate is the only thing that person will *Perceives* because that person unconsciously think that he or she exist without a God because..(blank) I'll leave it to you to find out for yourself by surrendering Fully not to an imaginary God Of course!! Because God comes prior to anything including Imagination *Wink* *wink*
I become muslim 2 years ago ,exactly 1 year ago I meet my husband who swear to me every day who disrespect me every single day ,who make my life to he'll .Many times I heard I am his sister.He abusing me mentally and financial. Before marriage I hade very nice job ,home ....Yesterday we gone separate and I am so stresful without nothing 😥Please make dua for me to heal my heart and find job to get back my life😭May Allah forgive him....
Inshallah sister ameen 🤲🏼
@@aliasfan6424 what a loser! Awful human being you are!
Inshallah everything has worked out for the better for you since you wrote this. May Allah have Mercy upon you!
May Allah have forgiveness upon us all and bless us all to the straight path that pleases Allah best. Ameen
We pray Allah(swt) bless every couple with best hidaya, emotional maturity, ability to understand their chosen spouses..
May you be blessed with immense courage n ability to withstand, ignore fight off.. the negativity you are facing in your life.. may he send for you the support
you so badly need in these hard times in life - that you're going through.. Please be steadfast in your iman, pray real hard to stay protected from saitan.. you will soon find sunshine @ the end of dark tunnel!! Don't give up... ask Almighty for courage to stand tall n not get defeated
Good luck to you..
Wallah I cried when Allah SWT responded to her 😢
You didn't cry when mohmad rapped 9 years old Ayesha didn't your allah revealed any verse why fooling yourself
Truth Will set you free wtf u talking about explain
Truth Will set you free yea it’s sad that u are not part of this beautiful religion only if U know how beautiful this religion is u wouldn’t say anything about bad about our beloved prophet Mohamed only if u know ho much we love him
@@truthwillsetyoufree8590 First of all, be cautious of what words you are using, marrying a person does not mean "raped", second of all, unlike you people who are not married, just have boyfriend/girlfriend, sell your thing out, without consent or knowledge of parents, or a parent lacks knowledge of this person, cuz clearly they don't give a damn about their child, is worse than marrying with consent. You people marry random people and follow the "love blind" thingy, go to clubs and get drunk, and horrific stuff occurs, is worse, what did you benefit? In our religion, marrying or having boyfriend or girlfriend is forbidden... you pathetic human. I can write an article just for you if you want.
Sister plz pray for me Allah give me strong iman ,faith and yaqeen in my heart and fill my heart with his love,mercy ,Quran and propheys love ameen.
i dont know why or how this pop out to my youtube screen out of my gaming daily videos channels i used to watch, and now i want to see more.. 🧐🤔
Watch more of his videos. They are very good
I also recommend the channels: merciful servant and i love you allah
@@nassipnapso420 thanks. very helpful. i guess its time for me to wake up 👍
@@bushraliaqat4628 the videos are very useful and very easy to understand. thanks
@@ryandasuki8027 good luck. May allah bless you and your family and give you strong iman (faith). I recently started practicing more because videos like this widened my knowledge and strengthened my iman. I am now memorising the Qur'an!
after i watch this,i message my wife and i say a really solid I LOVE YOU to her...
Your wife is lucky
Aww .that's cute and beautiful. Mashallah
Awwww u know I wish someone says they love me but u know god didn’t do that for me so l just have to move on and just be thankful that l can live
BlackPearl Captain
You are the man
I respect ✊🏻 You
I am proud of you
No matter who you are
Be good to your wife♥️♥️♥️
@@koko..56 whats the problem you dont have a wife or what else
If this story is true, another thing to note is that even The Prophet admitted not knowing by saying 'I don't know' compared to some Muslim scholars nowadays who are too arrogant to say 'I don't know' and made up their own fatwa.
prophet does not know until ALLAH TELL HIM , AND ON DAY WHEN QURAN WAS COMPLETED THAT DAY PROPHET S.A.W.W KNOWLEDGE BECAUSE MORE GREATER THAN OCEAN BECAUSE ALLAH SAYS IF THERE ARE 7 SEAS OCEAN MAKE INK AND ALL FOREST CUT AND MAKE PEN U CANT WRITE WHAT IS IN QURAN SO QURAN KNOWLEDGE IS LIKE UNLIMITED
SO ALLAH PERFECTED PROPHET KNOWLEDGE WITH QURAN WHEN QURAN WAS FINALIZED PROPHET KNOWLEDGE WAS PERFECTED TOO
AS ALLAH SAYS IN QURAN ALLAH HAVE TEACH PROPHET QURAN SO
PROPHET LEARNED AND KNOWN QURAN COMPLETLY . SO WHEN QURAN COMPLETED PROPHET KNEW EVERYTHING ALLAH TEACH HIM FROM QURANA ND DIRECT WAHI TOO .
Mc Mckentuc
@bo jackson Jesus was from Jewish people, so use Hebrew language. Isa is closer to the Greek spelling, Yeshua, with the silent 'J'. Also, read more on 'Presentism' in historical analysis.
@bo jackson
Quarantine is making you go nuts , I urge you to read some books before you blabber rubbish
IF WE TALKING logically why he use' his own way to explain ? why allah does not know easy way to explain ? quran itst tell us is it a easy bopk to understand for mankind from god . sci give a to a ans for hold mankind .
“Most of us are the worst to our own but the best to everybody else” which is so true, how many people put their best face on outside and in front of their friends but ignite their worst of their personalities in front of their family and loved ones?
It is disgusting that people try to please those who could care less about them, but purposely hurt those who love them the most.
Any harsh words or tones you use with your mother is the most hurtful thing your mother can hear on this earth from anyone, no matter how big or small the words are - because it’s coming from you, her child that she bought up with unconditional love and suffering.
The same could be said about your wife, a woman who had to leave her family to look after you and your family in this already harsh world for women.
Your first sentence, absolutely agree 🙁
Aaris Awwww I’m so grateful that it has impacted you like that. Alhamdulillah 🥺
FS your powerful true words brought tears to my eyes. May Allah guide us all and bring out the best in us.
مشاء الله
Any good advice then?
When you love someone you may end up arguing but never give up on that person whom you choose as your life partner🤗May ALLAH bless you all
if you dont mind i would like to know what religion or faith you follow nowadays
Umar ibn khattab said "remind yourself of Allah as a cure. DO NOT remind yourself of people, for it is a disease."
I am a Christian butvthis has truly blessed me immensely.
and this too Olori “Most of us are the worst to our own but the best to everybody else”
And still there are people who dislikes such fact
Shame 200%
And your Lord is Rich (Free of all needs), full of mercy;… (Surah Al-Anaam, 6:133)
Insha Allah Good Words will upload remaining chapters soon after getting well. Alhamdulillah
Asw my dear brother educate me please when will I recite this great ayah and Rabbi yahfidkum
Insha Allah I will get answer from you bro
My dear brother, may Allah reward you for embracing Islam,inshallah
I'm in shock right on this UA-cam I only watched different video's how this video come on my UA-cam home page?
Now I remember my mother always says if Allah Decided to give you hidaya It happens somehow 😊😊
Same here
@@69Solo 😊😊👍
@@nagmahaq 😁😁👍
@@69Solo hmmmm
@@nagmahaq ummm
MashahAllah. THANK you ALLAH for making Me a MUSLIM . I am so happy my name is UMAIR.
The best of the best fact is that Allah is our Rubb and He swt is the kindest.
Allah loves to forgive & elevate. My Allah Kareem forgive & have mercy on us all.
And only Allah knows best.
Sister plz pray for me Allah give me strong iman ,faith yaqeen in my heart and fill my heart with his love ,Quran and prophets love ameen
How Great are Prophets that Talk Trough God!!!!!🥰
Common sense to prophet
Subhaballah the way he looked at the old lady. Today not many think like this.
I long for the days of real men. Today they are far and few in between.
Istaghfurallah
@j n he meant the respect given to elders in general regardless of your social standing
Men, be grateful that your wife takes care of you and your children emotionally and physically
Women, be grateful that your husband works and makes money for you and your children so he fulfills your needs
Aren't they supposed to take care of their wives? Your wife is not your mother, and her children are your children too?, She didn't get herself pregnant did she?,
These words are like a liquid gold ... thank you God for letting me be part of this🤲 alhamdulillah
I love this as similar happened when my husband said this but said your my sister because his anger was like brutal fire I too asked emam as I had a break down and at that time my i went brain dead he treated it as if it was nothing but to me I was crying ya Allah what has he done was I too learn I too am of no need to this man as others where his weakness emam sahab said sister let him be he can not be changed unless Allah wills today I am left with divorce and he said im his sister because he had relationship with my sister so I was in their way I no longer am his wife but lessons learnt left me saying YA ALLAH THANK YOU FOR ME BEING DEPENDENT ON YOU AND NO ONE ELSE ALHAMDULILLAHI RABIL ALLA MEEN IM DEPENDENT ON ALLAH AN NO OTHER 😭
Infidelity among Muslim men very very common. Nothing to be surprised about.
May Allah give my son the wife he desire
All too often our family members brings out the worse in us. We should not be test for one another.
Satisfying Slime DIY make dua for your sister and keep the door open to her when she reaches out to you. Insha’Allah she doesn’t bring upon some sort of calamity that forces her to change Ameen.
So many abused Muslim women still go through a lot of pain because of their husbands' "bad mood". Oh Allah show our husbands the right path and ease our pain
Thank you for the videos you post ... Me being an Arabic Muslim I find better Islam content in English because like sheikh nouman Ali Khan they explain well and in an easy language ... So thank you so much ... Keep going
I just love how the comment section of these videos are filled with duas ❤️❤️✨ after all this ummah is like one body, and such moments just reminds me of that
May Allah (SWT) guide and protect us at all times . May He forgive us all. May He have mercy on us ameen
Amine
Basically we need to be careful with our words and what we say. Allah is all aware, even though we're alone.
I like the way you narrate history because when you speak, the emotion of every person can be felt through.
In today's time in english, people call their wives mother f****er and leave them. May Allah forgive us.
And women doesn't excuse to stay
How could you know that bro
@@sobeeya You’re right, there’s so many poor woman who are so selfless that would literally stay in an abusive relationship for the sake of their children.
😔😔😔😔😔😔it is true these days
@@Penn.obsessed yes
Im memorising this sura. Allah has put the quraan in your hearts. Its your job to remove the curtains from your ❤. Subhanallah look at the shafkat of my rasoolullah
Amazing Mashallah Alhamdulilah for being Muslims May Allah Guide everybody 🥰 الحمد الله على نعمة الاسلام اللهم ارزقنا حسن الخاتمة
I love this lecture. I learned a small tidbit about this, but nothing like what was explained and the detail and train of thoughts in this video. I really enjoyed learning this.
The term there that he uses. "Allah revealed Quran because of her" Just for the information my brother and sisters. It means that Allah(S.W.T) reveals an entire chapter of the Quran in response to this woman Subhan Allah. It says that
"Allah has heard the plea of that woman that has come to you complaining about her husband and she grieves to Allah. (58:1)
Mashallah how
Much tim
I
Listen
This Hadees I feel happy
Ma sha allah..it touch to my heart
Im proud to be a muslim alhamdulillah..and my allah to provided me a good husband jazakallah khair
Salam 3alaykom . I'll try my best. Everything in Qur3an I'll do it. InshAllah 😊
Ok...this sheikh made my day...may Allah bless you...the way u tell the story is like...wow...I dont want this video to end maashallah
Laa 'hawalaa walaa quwwata illlaaa billahil 'aliyyil 'adheeem
How nice and how fortunate we are to have Muhammad(swt) as prophet. How nicely he(swt) handled is so great.
Alhamdulilah.
Peace and abundant blessings be upon our beloved prophet Muhammad sallalahu alayhi wa sallam
Strong message. It shakes the heart.
I feel like this isn’t just to show men to treat their wives well but also their mother, how Allah stresses the importance of our mothers. May Allah give our mothers ease❤️.
Masha Allah!! The beautiful of the stories for the guidence. May Allah accept your hard work and bless you. Aamin ❤️
M gonna take this seriously.. God has record of everything! Whatever we say and do! So true that we are good outside our family, taking care of each word... defintely not happening inside our family!! Have to work on it!!
Such eloquence from an awesome ustadh. I love watching his tafseers and lectures
Furwa Kazi Mohammed was a stupid, horny, power hungry, adulterous, pedofile, rapist, violent person.... thank God for people like Christian Prince and David wood who have exposed Islam... watch their videos on UA-cam and u will understand how stupid this religion is
Gosh can't say anything harsh to the wife. Jeez may Allah SWT bless us with the patience
Salam akhi ....what does gosh and jeez means ? 😊
hafizul faizal wow had no idea it came from that
Would you like your wife to speak to you the way you might harshly speak to her? Would you want your future son in laws to treat your daughters, if you have any or none, disrespectfully? No. So treat others how you want to be treated, and especially your spouse and parents, because they are more important than any stranger.
@@SK-hd1yk so true. If you treat her harsh, then you want her to treat you nicely especially when you sick?
Lol sabbrrrr bro
I loved the video. Everything in this video was new to me. Love the way the speaker interpreted it.
Thank you for such amazing content! May Allah bless you for these amazing and well made videos, truly a great reminder and is so knowledgeable for all of us to become better muslims. JazakAllah.
SUBHANAALLAH ALLAHU AKBAR ALLAHU AKBAR ALLAHU AKBAR
MashaAllah amazing story.
May Allah bless all our muslim sisters all over the world
Mashallah Allahu taala is always great.. n this narration is really very interesting
Eye opening message to every human being to treat their partners or their families right. May Allah bless us the patience and knowledge to love our families. May Allah reward you for sharing such a nice information. shukran
This moved me so much.
@Mathius S Hope you joking. I am married btw
SUBHAN ALLAH ! No doubt ALLAH ALMIGHTY listens to the prayers.
...good informative video, thanks for uploading!
A Very important sura 58 read this every morning
A beautiful story
I really cried a lot, allah is great !
Marshallah so beautiful speech,right on point to fight the verbal and emotional abuse.I can not find a better religion than Islam that protects women's rights.This speech has to be saved and sent to the departments of the women’s rights all around the world...Marshallah may Almighty Allah reward you for these beautiful lectures!
MY name is Khaula and every time when I pray , I argue, I cry infront of Allah to give me that right which my parents never gave me.. I hope He Almighty listens one day and my life will be easier. :')
May Allah bless U with happiness and prosperity...Ameen..!
i believe the woman sahabiyah was also named khoula. correct me if I'm wrong.
@@ObaidahNaseer yeah , surah Ahzab has linked with her . If you can research about zuhar terms
Subhanallah... 💚❤💙
Subhanallah! Amazing thank you so much
So beautiful just the versus translation touched my heart and my heart is at peace
Sister plz pray for me Allah give me strong iman ,faith ,yaqeen in my heart and fill my heart with his love ,mercy ,Quran and prophets love ameen.
Jazaakallahu Khairan
Jazakallah khair
Brilliant great inputs you gave me👍👌💚💖 get on keep it up 👌
how beautiful Islam is.
She did not really argue with The Messenger of Allah. She just express Her sadness To The Holy Messenger Of Allah (Darood) in an emotional manner. And she did not get upset At The Holy Messenger Of Allah (Salawat) at the moment when she was discussing her problems With Him (Salawat) , as explained in this video . Insted she was getting more and more upset at her husband thinking about what and why he(husband) told her .
it sounds to me like she was frustrated with the Prophet for not having an answer that didn't devastate her as she argued with him that he did not say divorce and clearly she wanted to keep her family intact. - it's better we say things we don't know and just stick to what Allah has allowed to be preserved.
If you are correct I assume this was done to tell a good story
@@OwnGrid I don't really understand what you mean brother, but we should try to understand people's emotion, situation, and "Emotional Intelligence". When we discuss our family problems with Someone we trust and respect (For Example, our Mentor, or Friend, or Another Family Member) in a emotional manner, we often be sad, shout,scream,cry etc. But we are not yelling or getting upset at The Person we are having the discussion with, but instead at the person who have caused us that pain. This is The Point what I have tried to explain. Hopefully you understand my brother.
@@faheemtarwath5565 I didn’t really get what you just, but being in control of your emotions is very much a virtue especially for men it take a lot of strength to reach that point
@@OwnGrid Yes but the person who lost control over her emotion was a Nobel Woman who got unexpected behaviour from her Husband, and came to discuss her problems With The Holy Messenger of Allah (Salawat) and got emotional which caused her arguing (here I used the word 'yelling' before which was my mistake, I changed it into 'arguing' by editing this comment).
Brother, I humbly request you to try to understand my point that she was expressing her sadness.
What surah is this!? I have been smiling out of such beautiful words ya allah he is the most merciful ❤️
Juz 28, Qad sami'a
Mujadilat
Obey your husband and get a obedient son and a place in hereafter.
Masha Allah. The Prohet (SAW) and His Caliphs are shining source of inspiration to us till date. Imagine Umar getting lectured and he was patient with her out of respect.
This Generation being bless with teachers with more and more reminders as new test arrive and go to our locations of being examples to people who don't know
Subhan Allah.
I wonder how this video is on my homepage when i had a worsening situation with my husband a day before. Is this fasting /sadqa same for those husbands who have said "I am fedup and dont wanted to continue my married life " ? please answer me
May Allah swt grant us hidayah and peace in our marriage.
Allah Hu Akbar!
Mashaallah! Great story, wonderful reminder.
Rasulullah always listened and responded appropriately to every woman who questioned even confronted him for certain things without ever mentioning women should not be actively stating their arguments and also never mentioned that women should just be passive with whatever their husbands did to them. Why in our moslems society it seems to be portrayed otherwise? Umar bin Khattab was also known as a man who absolutely gave a full honor and respect to his wife since she was the one who gave birth and raised his kids as well as taking care of his daily needs. Then he never complained whenever his wife was being upset of something and instead he tried to understand how tired she was with her roles as a wife and a mother. Rasulullah always gave the example of doing chores by himself while he was also the provider. Why in our moslems society mostly pronounced that a wife's main job is just stay at home then do the rest of the chores? Until a lot of working women who actively contribute to our civilization are being insulted for not being stay home wives. While lots of them work not only for the sake of money, but helping other people as teachers, doctors, nurses, and many more. Should not we realize that active moslem women in society are absolutely needed for the well-being of ummah? We can't deny that there are many other women who work not for the best intention, but can we stop harassing the women who actively work and not being the full home stay wives and mothers? How do we blame feminism while the actual examples from Rasulullah SAW and shahabah are not being emphasized enough compares to the hard pressure that seems to be given to the female moslems? I believe that Allah SWT brought Rasulullah SAW to marry Khadijah RA to break the old social norm which pushed women to be passive in society. Allah SWT didn't give the role to Rasulullah SAW as the rich man who married a passive sweet girl because he had the money and he would like to have a candy-arm wife since he felt insecure of his masculinity if he was with a successful woman. NOT AT ALL!!! If Khadijah were still alive until the end of his life, he would never marry other women anymore. Never he felt insecure or threatened by Khadijah's success. I believe that Allah SWT wants to show to us that women are also the active contributors for the society in many ways and can be internally in family or directly to the society. I hope that Rasulullah SAW's and shahabah examples of how they treated women in general and their wives specifically will be more promoted so the world can see how Islam honors women.
I only read the first sentence, and seemed your suffering from woke disease I hope you recover
My husband is oppressing me so much because if polygamy marriage, I'm so upset and hurt by the way he is treating me, his oppressing me so much that I'm ill and sick. I cry so much, he never proved for me! Allah is great. I've been so good to him. Ya Allah stop this oppression ameen
Be patient dear...Allah will be always with you..
@@girlonfire8433 That’s the dumbest advice ever, please never advise anyone whose suffering.
Why don’t you divorce him? Or, you can reach out to someone from your family that truly cares about you they can help you to file a divorce.
@Shivkumar Kumbar You’re definitely another Hindu. Y’all are so obsessed with Islam.🥱
Divorce him
Is this the same for those husbands who scold their wives and say; “don’t be my mother, I know what I am doing.”?
nah nah that's different. That's like they're tryna say not to rule em or try to make em do things like as of you're their mother
Look up their video “Most important thing men need to hear from their wife”. They cover this topic exactly.
O what a lovely Deen what a lovely history we Muslims have.
Alhamdulillah i was searching for this story. Jazakallah khair
May Allah forgive me and my daughter and my deaceasd father n adopted mom all our sins big n small in past and in future and enter us in jannatul firdus without questioning and tortoring us and with the company of Rasul Allah ♥(S.A.W)and his compions and the rest of the prophets and heal all my scars in my body and all deformities in my body Ameen thuma ameen Allahuma ameen ya Rabbulalamin
Thum Aameen
Ameen
@@worshipthecreator9081 may Allah make you the sucessful in this world n in hereafter and may Allah protect you from all evil and may ur iman the strongest May Allah u enter jannatul firdus without any sorts of questioning and may Allah make u pass the bridge of as_srat in a blink of an eye ameen thuma ameen Allahuma ameen ya Rabbulalamin
@@peacethrujusticeonly5929 may Allah protect you from all evil and make yr iman the strongest and may bless you with all his blessing and may u enter in jannatul firdus without any accountability of anything May Allah make you make the bridge of as_srat in a snap of a finger Ameen Allahuma ameen ya Rabbulalamin
@@wejakena6389 Jazak Allah khair & the same to you.
*_Subhanallah-_*
Please write always write . ALLAH IN CAPITAL PLEASE
Allahu Akbar, I love Sura Al mujadila I just learned why it was revealed 😅. May Allah grant us deeper understanding of our Deen.
Maa Shaa ALLAH!
Jazaakumu'LLAH Khairan !
WHAT A BEAUTIFUL INCIDENT SUBHAN ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLAH , my moslm brothers and sisters remember real life begins after death so prepare yourself for that and always fulfill duties of 5 pillars of islam , Salah , FASTING , zakat , Hajj and one more most important thing to start doing dawah to non muslims like dr zakir naik do if you dont know how to do that you can contact me and i can teach you that insha a ALLAH
Subhanallah
Jazak Allah khair
Assalam alakium my brothers and sister in Islam, please I ask of you to make dua for me and my husband, I don’t think we are going to make it, but I’m hopeful because Allah can turn any bad situation to good. Please ask Allah to save my marriage. I pray for all of you too, I pray Allah allows all of you to have husbands/wives that are good for you. Jazakallah Kheir
May Almighty Allah choose for you both the best path for you that would be good for you in this world and in the Hereafter.
Mashallah Islam is so beautiful
Beautiful story, but the speaker was speaking far too fast!
It’s okay it’s still very strong
ALHAMDULILLAH I DONT NEED ANY MEN TO BE MY HUSBAND AS I HAVE ALLAH SUBHANAHU WA TA'ALA AS MY GOD , MY CREATOR AND ALLAH IS THE ONE WHO GIVES ME EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD AND THE HEREAFTER .
ALL I NEED IS THE LOVES OF MY ALLAH , MY RABBANA , MY WADUDU IN MY LIFE IS ENOUGH AS LONG AS THERE IS ALLAH WHEREVER I AM .
🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲
ALLAHU AKHBAR 3X .
Marriage is encouraged in Islam dear. You can still be married and make Allah your number one.
@@faizasaeed1000 Its true sister but its different when we are the chosen servants , Allah's loves towards us is different from loves to all the servants we cant love Allah 100% if we have spouses . It's the same as if a man married 2 ,3 or 4 wives he cant loves all wives with the same love , so how to make Allah our our number 1 ???
ALLAHU AKHBAR 3X .
Marriage is strongly encouraged in Islam.，so much so that the prophet PBUH said it fulfils 1/2 your deen.
There us a hadith which says that he is not one of us if he doesnt get married. Applies to women equally.
Prophets got married and no one can be closer to Allah than them. So how u can justify that marriage will somehow stop u from getting close to your lord.
Only nuns do this. And that is a mistake as Allah expects you to get married. he created man and woman to live together via marriage.
without marriage you cannot be a mother or wife and all the rewards that these things bring
@@SultanOxford Thank you brother for your care , concern and advises but no worries as Allah knew what is good for me .
Nobody knows how close am l to Allah and his Angels knew too well how close are we although Allah is our God and nobody can love me like Allah. I am very happy only when Allah is with me , l really hope to spend the rest of my life till Hereafter ONLY WITH ALLAH SUBHANAHU WA TA'ALA . AAMIIN .
ALLAHU AKHBAR 3X .
@@SultanOxford Yes, marriage is encouraged however it’s not mandatory. Not everyone wants to get married. I’d rather be alone for the rest of my life than be with one who God knows if he’ll treat me right. It’s not haram to be single and or even die single. Some of us even fear marriage, just the thought of it gives me anxiety.
You are great Preacher Nouman.. JazakAllahu khair
SubhanAllah.. Goose bumps. 😇
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Asalama alekum... Me and my husband we live in extended family I make break fast evry day,they don't help me am so exosted
shadia Mohammed speak up, you have the right to
Pray to Allah to make this easier for you and insha'Allah your sufferings will ease
Thank you from my heart for this video. May Allah bless you, ameen.