Asexual TikToks Because Ace Awareness Week Is A Thing

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  • @teacherdemon
    @teacherdemon  3 роки тому +3866

    You are valid and you are not broken

  • @0etum
    @0etum 3 роки тому +1955

    Asexual: valid
    Aromantic: valid
    Demisexual: valid
    Demiromantic: valid
    Grey asexual: valid
    Grey romantic: valid

    • @semiver2932
      @semiver2932 3 роки тому +83

      im grey asexual and grey aromantic pan and nobody even ppl in lgbt understand what i mean when i put grey infront of aromantic and asexual o_O

    • @0etum
      @0etum 3 роки тому +38

      @@semiver2932 yikes, sorry to hear . youre still valid tho!!

    • @yalikejazz4747
      @yalikejazz4747 3 роки тому +47

      Im grey asexual and today actually my friend called me a boring lgbtqia and i just sat there but then my other bi Friend told me i wasn't boring but valid

    • @0etum
      @0etum 3 роки тому +20

      @@yalikejazz4747 dont let anyone ever invalidate you! Hooray for your bi friend

    • @yalikejazz4747
      @yalikejazz4747 3 роки тому +9

      @@0etum Thank you

  • @monochromaticdemondog3170
    @monochromaticdemondog3170 3 роки тому +3601

    **happy asexual noises**

  • @aqua.dot908
    @aqua.dot908 3 роки тому +1722

    I remember I said randomly a few years ago "You know, I think I might be asexual..." and the kid next to be got scared and was like "Wait what-" and then I had to explain to him how I meant the LGBTQ+ version and not the scientific version.
    It was so special-

  • @frankfuatawiaschtl8612
    @frankfuatawiaschtl8612 3 роки тому +3070

    People: " Sex is what makes us human!"
    So... Basically Asexuals aren't humans.
    So I guess I'm an alien
    Or even better...
    I'm a Timelord
    Jep that feels right!

  • @mentallyunstable1926
    @mentallyunstable1926 3 роки тому +1206

    ace boys are great. i will say this again, going against the "all boys are hypers-xual" stereotype is a totally valid thing to do. go live your life

    • @Violets_and_Madness
      @Violets_and_Madness 3 роки тому +137

      Omigod, I remember being friends with an ace aro boy and he looked like one of those jock boys you'd see in movies (blonde, blue eyes, tan, muscles to boot) and I was told "he's gonna try to get you in bed and then leave you hanging" and I couldnt stop laughing everytime someone classified him as a play boy based on looks alone because I swear that kid cringed at the idea of dating people. He gave amazing hugs tho.

    • @mentallyunstable1926
      @mentallyunstable1926 3 роки тому +75

      @@Violets_and_Madness i’m glad he gave some great hugs. nice to see a “playboy” looking type go against that stereotype too

    • @CuteLilEldritch1010
      @CuteLilEldritch1010 3 роки тому +44

      I personally would love to live in a mansion in the woods baking cake and watching cartoons with an ace boy that’s either a soft boy or a sassy boy

    • @Violets_and_Madness
      @Violets_and_Madness 3 роки тому +36

      @@CuteLilEldritch1010
      Why not both? Soft spoken but spits some sweet venom every once in a while

    • @Violets_and_Madness
      @Violets_and_Madness 3 роки тому +19

      @EyepatchBacksoon work it then, boy! Get some of that platonic love!

  • @leafbread1811
    @leafbread1811 3 роки тому +1442

    Once I saw a comment somewhere that said aces aren’t human...
    Guess I’m a piece of bread then

    • @river446
      @river446 3 роки тому +78

      hello slices of bread, i'm a foot-tall dragon

    • @celestia5356
      @celestia5356 3 роки тому +43

      i am a slice of lemon bread

    • @pavender3073
      @pavender3073 3 роки тому +78

      no we aren't human... we are garlic bread gods!!!!!!!

    • @pavender3073
      @pavender3073 3 роки тому +16

      @Ozzy the Bun ok, I won't

    • @yalikejazz4747
      @yalikejazz4747 3 роки тому +27

      Ima *ace* card t-pose

  • @thealiencosmo358
    @thealiencosmo358 3 роки тому +1193

    say it louder for the people in the back: EVERYONE ON THE ASEXUAL SPECTRUM IS VALID
    Edit: I have done some soul-searching and have realized I am ace myself :)

  • @DustyLWithHusk
    @DustyLWithHusk 3 роки тому +1869

    I'm a lesbian but I have met some asexual people and have a few asexual friends and let me tell you HOW FREAKIN SWEET AND FUNNY THEY ARE!!!! 😆❤️

    • @wwusyaname
      @wwusyaname 3 роки тому +57

      I'm pan and I have an ace cousin.Shes so sweet yet she gets bullied because she doesn't want to have sex.
      No worries!I confronted her bully (she had one the other ones were nice to her and respected her decisions).I told him,"She is VALID!She deserves nothing but love and respect,like your face.It's valid and deserves to be loved and respected by MY FIST!" and then I broke his nose 😃.He never bothered her again,and I wasn't allowed on her school grounds anymore but it was worth it and it was a great save because she told me she tried to attempt su!c!de.She was honest to me and always told me how was school because she knows even if i'm not allowed on her school grounds i'll beat anyone's ass.
      I saw the video before the comp was made so I memorized it that way I can use it.

    • @mariafausti3128
      @mariafausti3128 3 роки тому +28

      @@wwusyaname bro you're so sweet :,)

    • @DustyLWithHusk
      @DustyLWithHusk 3 роки тому +16

      @@wwusyaname that's amazing!! 🤩😍

    • @nezukokamado1271
      @nezukokamado1271 3 роки тому +32

      Awww I’m ace myself and I get hate from it... Tysm I love these types of comments🥺

    • @thedragonsunicorn
      @thedragonsunicorn 3 роки тому +14

      im an asexual (specifically demisexual) lesbian! ☺

  • @avevee9708
    @avevee9708 3 роки тому +480

    Oh my god the idea that people wanna legit have sex with celebs is the worst to me. I too thought people just chose them for aesthetic reasons like me. That’s why half my crushes are on vaguely male or male-shaped animated characters.

    • @_anonymous_creature_
      @_anonymous_creature_ 3 роки тому +4

      SAME

    • @Radiant_Allomancer
      @Radiant_Allomancer 3 роки тому +48

      Oh my god what?? ...well, I guess it’s the same thing as the idea that people could see someone across the street and want to have sex with them. Which apparently they do? I? don’t?? get that at all???

    • @pencilRC1
      @pencilRC1 3 роки тому +23

      I don’t understand how people can see others as attractive. I’ve never felt romantic or sexual attraction and I’m like, “HOW?!”

    • @lcreatesart
      @lcreatesart 3 роки тому +16

      Same, for the longest time I knew there was a difference between sexual and romantic attraction, but I didn't know the definition of sexual attraction, no one had told me, so I thought it was really similar to romantic attraction, and thought I felt sexual attraction, but then I found out the definition, soon as I found out the definition I knew I was ace.

    • @CallmeOzymandias
      @CallmeOzymandias 2 роки тому +4

      I guess that's why I always felt uncomfortable when someone would ask who my celebrity crush was. I never understood the concept at all.

  • @rayofsunshine6300
    @rayofsunshine6300 3 роки тому +877

    Today I read some tik tok comments that made me upset. Said that asexuals aren’t oppressed and aren’t a part of the lgbtqiA+ community. Yeah because the possibility of being assaulted because someone believes they can change your mind about sex, being treated like your sexuality is a mental illness, and being excluded out of the LGBT community which is where you’re supposed to feel safe isn’t oppression :). Anyway thanks for this, I needed the validation.

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 3 роки тому +88

      You are f-cking valid.
      -aroace agender

    • @Tijggie82
      @Tijggie82 3 роки тому +66

      You are valid, please stay safe 💕 - a cis straight sexual person

    • @LittleSprout73
      @LittleSprout73 3 роки тому +49

      As well as calling us broken and "needs to see a doctor about it"

    • @izzyravin9713
      @izzyravin9713 3 роки тому +29

      You are vaild my guy

    • @DespOIcito
      @DespOIcito 3 роки тому +15

      AAA battery

  • @neltonslittlesibling2880
    @neltonslittlesibling2880 3 роки тому +225

    "My sexuality is "I do not know" and here is my flag."
    I really felt that.

    • @ginathecookie
      @ginathecookie 2 роки тому +7

      It's alright, you don't need to have a set label or have yourself figured out when it comes to your sexuality at any period of your life. Just do you (i mean not sexually.. i.. you know what I mean.. ;-;)
      Sincerely, someone who explored a few labels before she found PanDemisexual.

    • @neltonslittlesibling2880
      @neltonslittlesibling2880 2 роки тому +3

      @@ginathecookie Thank you for the support (not just for me but for everyone). :D
      Update: Right now I use aro/ace and non-binary for me. It feels good for now. Maybe one day something else will feel better we'll see. ;)
      Nice user name btw. ^-^

  • @Sarah-dk8je
    @Sarah-dk8je 3 роки тому +743

    No asexuals don't deserve love and respect
    They deserve love , *CAKE* and respect 😉

    • @yalikejazz4747
      @yalikejazz4747 3 роки тому +30

      CAAAAKE

    • @mariafausti3128
      @mariafausti3128 3 роки тому +66

      dont forget garlic bread!

    • @compassthehybrid6590
      @compassthehybrid6590 3 роки тому +31

      * me, an ace who doesn’t like cake * yo I’m just gonna like give this to my friend

    • @yalikejazz4747
      @yalikejazz4747 3 роки тому +15

      @@compassthehybrid6590 hi im a 13 yr old ace and i was wondering what an appropriate age go be considered ace is

    • @compassthehybrid6590
      @compassthehybrid6590 3 роки тому +21

      @@yalikejazz4747 I’m gonna be real, I don’t think there’s an appropriate age other than anything below 10. So- anything above 9, I guess.

  • @samtheperson9008
    @samtheperson9008 3 роки тому +565

    Honestly, it's so dumb that some people say aces aren't a part of the community. Like, they're not heterosexual, so make it make sense. To all my ace peeps, you're valid and we all love you❤🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @cyriswinters5233
      @cyriswinters5233 3 роки тому +43

      People also out heteromantics and anyone on the Asexual Spectrum. Even if it's demi or grey they're still Asexual. Heterosexual as it is includes sexual attraction and all that. If they're demi they don't have sexual attraction until a strong bond with someone if formed therefore it's not 100% heterosexual and is in fact LGBTQIA+ like the rest of Asexuality. Grey Asexuals are basically the same thing except it's only a little sexual attraction. I don't understand why this is so confusing for some people.

    • @samtheperson9008
      @samtheperson9008 3 роки тому +8

      @@cyriswinters5233 P R E A C H

    • @river446
      @river446 3 роки тому +24

      The lgbtq+ community is for sexual and gender minorities, fighting oppression alongside other oppressed groups. Each of these groups experiences oppression in different ways. For example, asexuals have been more dehumanized and ignored than, say, demonized, like gay people.

    • @cyriswinters5233
      @cyriswinters5233 3 роки тому +19

      @@river446 don't forgot the gatekeeping from other LGBTQIA+ people. I think the Asexual Spectrum gets less violence then the others and more verbal oppression but all in all its still oppression (yes I know there's more oppression directed at Asexuals I just see more verbal then anything else)

    • @AridetothemuseumFtknj
      @AridetothemuseumFtknj 3 роки тому +8

      @@cyriswinters5233 p r e a c h. As a greysexual heteroromantic i sometimes feel like im not valid....

  • @dianasofia7315
    @dianasofia7315 3 роки тому +94

    Me: dressing cute
    Family: Going for a date? Is a guy? Please take care and use protection!
    Me: ... I'm just going to a Cafe.

  • @theahb2047
    @theahb2047 3 роки тому +479

    Genderfluid grey-romantic asexual dragon here!

    • @Jadeigital
      @Jadeigital 3 роки тому +13

      Bi-gender panromantic cupio/autochorrisexual(?) hooman here

    • @sukh_seeding_at_art
      @sukh_seeding_at_art 3 роки тому +7

      Demi boi grey ace omnisexual here

    • @LittleIcarus
      @LittleIcarus 3 роки тому +6

      *Marshie_Mellow* What is autochorrisexual?

    • @Jadeigital
      @Jadeigital 3 роки тому +18

      @@LittleIcarus omg youtube stop deleting my comments im sick of finding ways to censor them
      Basically you can get "The feelings" by other people being in 'sEexual" situations but you don't have any interest in being in those situations yourself

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 3 роки тому +16

      AROMANTIC ASEXUAL AGENDER HERE

  • @dawnshade4939
    @dawnshade4939 3 роки тому +328

    This is making my little asexual heart happy.

  • @meowforcats6694
    @meowforcats6694 3 роки тому +345

    I’d probably want someone in a relationship who’s not always asking for sex. Also the top/bottom thing should only be used in sex, not the relationship, as it doesn’t have anything to do with that.

    • @mariafausti3128
      @mariafausti3128 3 роки тому +91

      yeah top and bottom should also be mostly for bunk beds too

    • @meowforcats6694
      @meowforcats6694 3 роки тому +28

      @@mariafausti3128 LMAO yeah

    • @Sunny00002
      @Sunny00002 3 роки тому +4

      Me too.

    • @unchartedraider7547
      @unchartedraider7547 3 роки тому +4

      @@meowforcats6694
      Or who wants to sleep on whom.
      For example in this sense I am a bottom

    • @coolkieyt
      @coolkieyt 3 роки тому

      i’m allergic to cats I want the top :D

  • @DBZ1FAN1GIRL
    @DBZ1FAN1GIRL 3 роки тому +72

    When the doctor asks if you could be pregnant after you just told them you're not sexually active :🤨

  • @chloecranch2292
    @chloecranch2292 3 роки тому +249

    6:14 - omg YESSS i did know sexual attraction was a thing but when i have a "celerity crush" (that i've only had one of) it was either aesthetics or a person i'd want to marry ngl. when i think of relation ships i think "is this a person i would marry" if no, leave 'em if yes than ig its a crush

    • @aqvanii
      @aqvanii 3 роки тому +13

      Mhm i agree! Even though i‘m a trans guy and only into girls, whenever i see girls or female celebrities i‘m just like „omg she‘s so pretty 😳💗 / i wanna marry her!!“
      Dunno i also might be demisexual because i only think about these kind of stuff when i have a strong bond with a girl
      Boys though? Yikes, no thank you 👉🚪

    • @dewdrop3566
      @dewdrop3566 3 роки тому +7

      To this day I am mind boggled by even a celebrity crush. I can't even think would I marry that celebrity because my brain just goes "No, you don't even know them and they don't know you exist". So I have never had a celebrity crush in my life. I think I had a crush once? But that was with a friend I actually talked with.

    • @livaigranger3250
      @livaigranger3250 3 роки тому +14

      wait what I thought it was a joke, do people really want to have sex with their celebrities crushes?? Aren't they just choosing the prettiest?

    • @lenkasustackova4560
      @lenkasustackova4560 3 роки тому +10

      My celebrity crush is/was always "Oh my god they're sooooooo pretty" or "omg their personality is AMAZING" and that's it

  • @morbidfem
    @morbidfem 3 роки тому +316

    Hi, asexuals! Just want to let y'all know that you're all loved and respected and should NOT be forced to have a sexual relationship! Love y'all.
    - Some demisexual lesbian.

    • @rinrxl
      @rinrxl 3 роки тому +3

      Thanks! Btw I love your pfp.

    • @morbidfem
      @morbidfem 3 роки тому +2

      @@rinrxl Thank you!

    • @rinrxl
      @rinrxl 3 роки тому +1

      @@morbidfem No problem

    • @desihirohamada
      @desihirohamada 3 роки тому

      Thanks! ^^

  • @ash-po4bl
    @ash-po4bl 3 роки тому +163

    I'm graysexual and I don't get validated enough for this crap. One of my exes would always ignore the fact that I would get uncomfortable. I eventually ended up breaking up with him

    • @catbatrat1760
      @catbatrat1760 3 роки тому +19

      Well, I'm glad you broke up with him. Ace or not, if something makes you uncomfortable, a decent partner WON'T just ignore it, period.

    • @robintheenby6528
      @robintheenby6528 3 роки тому +8

      aw good for you! i mean the breaking up with him part. im glad you got out of that

    • @random_dude1234
      @random_dude1234 3 роки тому +7

      Good, if they can't respect that then they deserve to be broken up with

  • @lizbetnoble8988
    @lizbetnoble8988 3 роки тому +392

    Man I don't think I've been this early before.
    For me, when I first heard about asexuality, I didn't really go through the questioning phase. I just thought, "Oh yeah, that makes sense, that's me" and that's kind of what it was. I have wondered where exactly I am on the spectrum since, but I'm glad I found out about it before I get to the age of being really pressured to be eager for it.

    • @LittleIcarus
      @LittleIcarus 3 роки тому +5

      Me too :3

    • @creepydorito5185
      @creepydorito5185 3 роки тому +17

      Same except I felt like I was just pretending to be ace because I was told asexuality isn't real and that I'm just too young. Sometimes I still doubt myself but I'm more confident about my asexuality

    • @rebeccak918
      @rebeccak918 3 роки тому +8

      That's exactly what happened to me! I learned about asexuality in middle school and was like "oh, that's me" and moved on. Same thing when I learned about aromantic in high school :)

    • @thottythanos2793
      @thottythanos2793 3 роки тому +7

      Ayyy another Omniromantic Ace!

    • @tiandre6159
      @tiandre6159 3 роки тому +1

      @@creepydorito5185 Glad you’re confident💜

  • @ellabutworse
    @ellabutworse 3 роки тому +187

    My friends health teacher was saying "one day everyone will want to get married and you alll will be wonderful parents, etc." And we were just like- um- whats the fastest way to either fire this man or educate him on ace/aromantic people- because that teacher teaches every kid in the school and there could be an invalidated closeted bean there somewhere-

    • @snazzical
      @snazzical 3 роки тому +11

      awh that's really cool!! (that you and your friend were thinking of us aro-aces, not what your teacher said) i also had a health teacher like that back in 5th grade, although then i didn't think i was ace and neither did i really know about other sexualities besides gay and straight lmao so i wasn't really offended. now if someone said that in front of me i'd throw hands 😂 ✋

    • @aru.u
      @aru.u 3 роки тому +10

      If I have a child..
      That kid is going to be 100% adopted, that's it

    • @sydneyashton8921
      @sydneyashton8921 2 роки тому

      I realized I was ace a WEEK after I finished health and man do I wish I could negotiate the curriculum to fit ALL sexualities but no one would probably listen because it “wouldn’t be applicable to me so why should I care”

  • @27ratsinatrenchcoat90
    @27ratsinatrenchcoat90 3 роки тому +107

    My brother thinks hes maybe ace, i agree. He doesn't understand why i think people (especially ✨ women ✨) are "hot", he has never had a crush, and he generally just doesn't understand the concept of crushes. My sister is also pretty sure she's not straight, which would mean my mom has no cishet children. Which is *good*

  • @carbonatedcosmo7665
    @carbonatedcosmo7665 3 роки тому +64

    all this ace positivity is watering my crops and clearing my skin

  • @random6579
    @random6579 3 роки тому +811

    Asexual females knowing damn well their period is useless:
    Me, a lesbian: haha... *same*
    Edit: i dont identify as a lesbian anymore.
    Meet me, a nonbinary pansexual.
    Do yall have any name ideas?
    Edit2: i came out to my mom! I am a trans ftm guy and my name is lucas! I am also omnisexual with a preference for women. Thanks to anyone who recommended me names and i really appreciate all of you for being so supportive.

    • @elizatilsizoglou5946
      @elizatilsizoglou5946 3 роки тому +36

      Alex is a nice one... i'm so happy you found an identity you like❤ stay safe

    • @random6579
      @random6579 3 роки тому +18

      @@elizatilsizoglou5946 i will! stay safe as well and thank you for the name idea and being so nice

    • @everythingz888
      @everythingz888 3 роки тому +14

      Congrats on finding yourself!! You are very valid :)
      I don't have any ideas atm, but anything you want for your name? I might be able to come up with an idea

    • @SCgreat
      @SCgreat 3 роки тому +12

      axel, jaxx, arden, jordan, max, cy, kai? i personally am thinking of using the name rowan. (and im a pan enby too!)

    • @dramafinn2425
      @dramafinn2425 3 роки тому +14

      I’m a non-binary lesbian... I chose the name Finn just because it was really similar to my dead-name. I always liked the name River though. Also you’re valid as heck! You can choose your name and choose whatever makes you feel amazing, because you deserve to feel that way all the time!

  • @sagesharkie
    @sagesharkie 3 роки тому +240

    my best friend is asexual/panromantic, so it was cool to watch these!
    sadly, at one point she brought up asexuality/homosexuality in general to her mom, and she was very homophobic and aphobic.

    • @dovee1
      @dovee1 3 роки тому +12

      Oh that last part's a mood. Tell your friend that they're not alone - there'll always be a place for them in the world and the community. I wish you both the best ♥️
      A fellow panromantic :)

    • @sagesharkie
      @sagesharkie 3 роки тому +5

      @@dovee1 thanks!

    • @satinlucifer7731
      @satinlucifer7731 3 роки тому +5

      @@dovee1 I’m also panromantic asexual :)

    • @dovee1
      @dovee1 3 роки тому +5

      @@satinlucifer7731 Hey! Have a wonderful day you valid human being :) happy ace awareness week.

    • @dovee1
      @dovee1 3 роки тому +5

      @@sloanea.5768 The only reason I can think of it being a sin is the quote from the Bible " go forth and multiply" which most Christians see as their duty. They're doing god's work. So if you're an asexual Christian, then the others may view you as not being able to do your purpose. Anyone else who is also ace would probably be viewed the same too by them. That then might've been demonised to the point where it's viewed as a sin, but I'm not sure on that last part.
      For aromantic, it might be because of the expectation to marry in Christianity. To become "one flesh". Anyone who goes against the norm in a very traditional Christian family would probably have a disproving family. Those who don't get into relationships won't be able to carry out their sacred duty to God I guess, so it'd be like denying that.
      Again, I'm not a Christian myself, but based around their beliefs this may be a reason.

  • @panicked_ghost1578
    @panicked_ghost1578 3 роки тому +398

    Bruh you can't be fixed, sexual stuff is not love and should never be in the factor of love or a healthy relationship like never in the top 10 goals or expectations of a good relationship, at least thats what I think y'all Valid PERIOD

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 3 роки тому +16

      My aroace agender a**: -reads this post-
      My brain: TIME TO THINK ABOUT THAT PLATONIC MARRIAGE FROM YESTERDAYS VISION
      Me: AAAAA

    • @skylertherat
      @skylertherat 3 роки тому +7

      @@The._.Household triple a battery!!!

    • @natalia-vs9lg
      @natalia-vs9lg 3 роки тому +8

      @@The._.Household lmao you took everything and just said ✨N O✨

    • @icicles_wont_kill_you
      @icicles_wont_kill_you 3 роки тому +7

      Hey wait I’m acearo agender too

    • @Hi-vf9wx
      @Hi-vf9wx 3 роки тому +3

      Thank you 💜🖤

  • @lizbetnoble8988
    @lizbetnoble8988 3 роки тому +242

    AHH YOU GUYS ASEXUAL AWARENESS WEEK IS THE 25TH-31ST THIS YEAR!!!

    • @annymus4502
      @annymus4502 3 роки тому +6

      I know!!!!

    • @justaroacethings1701
      @justaroacethings1701 3 роки тому +11

      My birthday is the 29th and I'm aroace.
      Coincidence?
      **I THINK NOT**

    • @annymus4502
      @annymus4502 3 роки тому +3

      @@justaroacethings1701
      My brother’s birthday is the 26th October lol, he’s straight tho
      Also, my friends birthday is the 11th October and that’s coming out day (however they are non binary and bisexual)

    • @LittleIcarus
      @LittleIcarus 3 роки тому +10

      WE ARE THE SPOOKIEST SEXUALITY! WE SCARE BOTH STRAIGHT TIKTOK AND CHRISTIANS WITH OUR POWER!

    • @axolotl_luvr4770
      @axolotl_luvr4770 3 роки тому +2

      ME AND MY PEOPLE HAVE A WEEK

  • @ladymirth
    @ladymirth 3 роки тому +24

    Remember also that some aces can still get turned on by watching or reading about sexual acts ESPECIALLY KINK (not that kink has to be sexual either. Getting off =|= attraction to individual bodies). Difference is that aces don't want to actually do any of that stuff themselves in real life. Sexual fantasies have no bearing whatsoever on what a person wants to do in real life, ace or not.

  • @aff77141
    @aff77141 3 роки тому +49

    Society: People and especially women shouldn't be sexual that's bad!!
    Us: I'm asexual but go off I guess
    Society: WAIT THAT'S NOT WHAT I MEANT

  • @lexk6203
    @lexk6203 3 роки тому +28

    "when you find a cool song and you look up the lyrics and the lyrics are all about sex" got me right THERE XD

  • @aleaa8227
    @aleaa8227 3 роки тому +193

    Thanks! For the moment I identify as asexual (even tho I'm okay with the fact that I might be wrong, considering that I'm young, but honestly I don't think it will change), and I think it's great to show that we still can love!
    Wait... I'm aromantic (still questioning tho) and ace. I can't love someone in a romantic way, I can only love them in a platonic way... It was a trap from the start!
    Edit: I'm still ace, but I don't know if I'm aro anymore. I think I might be demi-romantic, and biromantic when I start feeling romantic attraction :')
    I'll just say I'm aro-ace til I know.
    And just leaving that here, do people really have crushes on someone, in a way where they want to have sex with them? I didn't even know that was a thing...

    • @DustyLWithHusk
      @DustyLWithHusk 3 роки тому +9

      Well you are still valid, I myself am a lesbian and we all support you!!! 😁💙✨🏳️‍🌈

    • @lizbetnoble8988
      @lizbetnoble8988 3 роки тому +12

      Just remember, there's so many ways to have love and it doesn't have to be romantic or sexual! You're great for who you are.

    • @annymus4502
      @annymus4502 3 роки тому +5

      Story of my life, ok no
      But my realising that I'm aroace was very similar to yours

    • @_thesunflowerfairy_
      @_thesunflowerfairy_ 3 роки тому +2

      If you identify as aro would you ever consider being in a platonic partnership with someone who has romantic feeling towards you?

    • @annymus4502
      @annymus4502 3 роки тому +7

      @@_thesunflowerfairy_
      That's a tough question
      It depends on many people
      For me personally I would want to be Friend FRIENDS of that person, like commited friendship (if I know them well)
      But not a QPR
      I suggest you watch "Amatonormativity and Arobuds", I relate to that video
      Also, I've rejected one friend before and it sucks, hope you don't feel that way too

  • @critter7531
    @critter7531 3 роки тому +13

    Some person: Sex is what makes us human!
    Asexuals: *IT'S TOUGH TO BE A GOD-*

    • @tacosnek899
      @tacosnek899 2 роки тому

      Same with being a dragon, everybody's terrified alright?

  • @redangelofpreventingharm
    @redangelofpreventingharm 3 роки тому +201

    ACES!!
    Assemble
    Hey, gang! Hope y'all are doing okay. As always, you are so, so valid. I've got some cookies (several options) and some milk, if you want. Lactose free options available, of course. 🍪🥛
    Take care, little aces 💜🖤

  • @scotlandtheseer
    @scotlandtheseer 3 роки тому +19

    Okay but the one where the girl was being 'questioned' on if she would date an ace individual and was just throwing the lack of sex back warmed my heart. I may be aro-ace, but I like seeing other people be happy and that level of open-mindedness restores a grain of faith in humanity for me.

  • @fictional-girl_05
    @fictional-girl_05 3 роки тому +39

    Literally I was about to cry during the one where it was all the people ripping the things people say about asexuals and Scars to Your Beautiful was playing... thanks so much for making this.
    ~A very happy and touched aro-ace

  • @chloecranch2292
    @chloecranch2292 3 роки тому +75

    thank you brother for this video. i myself am an asexual and this is much appreciated. you are excepted into our wee cult.

    • @ginnyjacobs99
      @ginnyjacobs99 3 роки тому

      Are you on AVEN?

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 3 роки тому +1

      I didn’t realize it was a cult as well! This makes my (counts) tenth cult.

    • @chloecranch2292
      @chloecranch2292 3 роки тому

      @@ginnyjacobs99 what's aven?

    • @chloecranch2292
      @chloecranch2292 3 роки тому

      @@The._.Household eh?

    • @ginnyjacobs99
      @ginnyjacobs99 3 роки тому +1

      A website created by david jay for asexuals. It has foarms and a chat room. It's like a social media for aces, aros, and allies.

  • @The._.Household
    @The._.Household 3 роки тому +91

    I stopped my Unus Annus spree to watch my family. I was not disappointed.
    -Rathena Neo, aroace agender

    • @sagesharkie
      @sagesharkie 3 роки тому +5

      hold on an unnus annus spree sounds pretty fun imma go do that

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 3 роки тому +3

      @@sagesharkie I’ve been doing it at 2x speed to try and watch every single video before the end (I’m a very busy person)

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 3 роки тому +4

      @@smallgreenflies It’s a UA-cam channel by Markiplier and Crankgameplays that is going to be deleted in less than a month. It’s name literally means one year (which is when it will be deleted). It’s all about the inevitability of death.

    • @russergee49
      @russergee49 3 роки тому +3

      Eyyyyy fellow aroace Unus Annus fan! I’m like 3 videos behind, still time to catch up...

    • @The._.Household
      @The._.Household 3 роки тому +2

      @@russergee49 I’ve caught up to February 27th at the moment.

  • @Julia-ml9jb
    @Julia-ml9jb 3 роки тому +78

    Im asexual thank you! 🙂

  • @phemegreek6054
    @phemegreek6054 3 роки тому +8

    8:34
    "And I got the SODA'

  • @smolplush7255
    @smolplush7255 3 роки тому +56

    oh my god thank you SO MUCH for doing some asexual tiktoks, it really made my morning! i am indeed asexual and have only come out to two of my close friends, so seeing tiktoks like these really make me feel valid and i cannot thank you enough!!!!!

  • @rozieredz
    @rozieredz 3 роки тому +28

    15:51 My first appt with a gynecologist, I told her I was asexual and she said I shouldn't hurry to identify myself, and to this day I'm unsure whether she was being encouraging by saying "take your time, there's no rush" or if she was being rude and saying "it's just a phase, don't declare anything you'll regret"

  • @maxskellington910
    @maxskellington910 3 роки тому +24

    Reminder that asexuals can still have sex, and even enjoy sex, it's just that they don't experience sexual attractions, though there are a lot of sexually repulsed aces
    Also you can be sexually repulsed and still not be ace, I'm bi and mlm and am sex repulsed, there's a lot more to being asexual than just hating sex

  • @julianfranciscocastaneda
    @julianfranciscocastaneda 3 роки тому +40

    This is really awesome! I'm non binary aromantic asexual, not everything needs to be romantic ❤️ or sexual.... Platonic relationship are important too
    Thank You so much for this 🖤⚪🌚💜 we're not broken and of course we're not going anywhere

  • @N0tMune
    @N0tMune 3 роки тому +49

    Ace tiktoks at 1:30 am, lets goooooo

    • @fish7860
      @fish7860 3 роки тому +1

      I'm watching this at 1:30 too lol.

    • @DustyLWithHusk
      @DustyLWithHusk 3 роки тому +1

      2:35 am UwU

    • @N0tMune
      @N0tMune 3 роки тому +1

      @@fish7860 Am or pm?

    • @fish7860
      @fish7860 3 роки тому +1

      @@N0tMune Am

    • @N0tMune
      @N0tMune 3 роки тому +1

      @@fish7860 We have the same timezone, thats cool

  • @ombreflowers6871
    @ombreflowers6871 3 роки тому +59

    The fanfiction reading one probably happened to me
    I read a pjo smut fanfic when I was like 9, and now Im asexual
    coincidence? maybe, but I think not

    • @blueghost4769
      @blueghost4769 3 роки тому +14

      I hate it when fanfictions don't have a warning before a sexual scene. I was already like 15 when i read them but it still made me uncomfortable, and it still does to this day.

    • @blueghost4769
      @blueghost4769 3 роки тому +1

      @Jaycee i already knew i was ace but i recently read a fanfic where my favorite character (who i headcanon as ace) came out and i started crying out of happiness, it's so hard to find representation

    • @roopabrungi4958
      @roopabrungi4958 3 роки тому +5

      Can you be ace and you know like smut FIcs... I'll Prolly delete this comment later but I actually like reading those type of FIcs for some ungodly reason...
      I mean I can imagine ppl having it but I can't imagine myself

    • @blueghost4769
      @blueghost4769 3 роки тому +2

      ​@@roopabrungi4958 yeah it's completely fine to like them, you're still ace

  • @worldkitemuseum
    @worldkitemuseum 3 роки тому +7

    My mom told me once that people in a healthy relationship have sex once a month or more, and that just made me sick to my stomach. I am definitely not asexual but I hate that even my mother told me that the key to a happy relationship is sex. Asexuals in relationships prove that you can be in a happy healthy relationship and still not have sex. When I start dating my first thought is never going to be: “What is she like in bed?” It’s weird that people say we’re to young to know about this yet it’s constantly being shoved down our throats.

    • @kaishapage3675
      @kaishapage3675 7 місяців тому

      I agree with you 100%. My aunt keeps assuming imma spread my legs for some dude who I barely know. Especially when she forced me to take pictures with Dwayne johnson on the walls of the Nike store. I never had a crush on him at all, FYI. Please let me be in the friend zone and let me live my asexual Christian life In peace.😒

  • @achicken21
    @achicken21 3 роки тому +7

    DAMN WHY 2:10 SO ON POINT THO during my questioning phase I remember literally thinking "wait but I've read sm*tty fics since I was 12 I can't be asexual" lmaoooo

    • @nicedragon2934
      @nicedragon2934 3 роки тому

      Wait... Is that a common thing for asexual people? I don‘t mean to offend anyone but I‘m just interested. Do a lot of asexual people enjoy reading porn? Or is it just a thing you do to explore your sexuality?

  • @sparklepool101
    @sparklepool101 3 роки тому +114

    Y’all, just to let you know, the Aces officially own Halloween now :P
    (Jk lol)

    • @Nakia11798
      @Nakia11798 3 роки тому +5

      Can we though? I love Halloween and think sexy costumes are ridiculous.

    • @aru.u
      @aru.u 3 роки тому +1

      I'm not gonna complain. Cosplay is my hobby and I love Halloween
      *Stonks*

    • @aluminium7499
      @aluminium7499 2 роки тому +1

      Funny thing is I’m ace and was born on Halloween

    • @zoesbabyalives5615
      @zoesbabyalives5615 2 роки тому

      @@aluminium7499 you were destined to be ace! /joking (slightly)

    • @aluminium7499
      @aluminium7499 2 роки тому

      @@zoesbabyalives5615 haha, true. And my best friend is also ace and he was born on april 6th (ace day!) baha

  • @VampiricMedicc
    @VampiricMedicc 3 роки тому +13

    i told my friend i was asexual, then a lil while later i told him i liked him. then he said "i thought you were asexual" and i had to explain it to him.

  • @caroledwards1182
    @caroledwards1182 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for this compilation. I am 63 and just discovered the term asexuality and realized that I fit into this category. It was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders knowing my disinterest in sex was not because there is something wrong with me (which I have been thinking for the past 40+ years). It also helps knowing there is a whole asexual community out there (though I didn't know until now we had a flag).

  • @dewdrop3566
    @dewdrop3566 3 роки тому +63

    Me: I should wear the black ring to show I am asexual since I ain't allowed to have flags because of my family
    Also me: Too much work. I don't even like wearing rings.

    • @beatm6948
      @beatm6948 3 роки тому +5

      Since my parents don't know what the flag is, I can use the color combination EVERYWHERE MWAHAHAHAHAH

    • @dewdrop3566
      @dewdrop3566 3 роки тому +4

      @@beatm6948 My parents don't know what the flag colour is but they are far too good to technology so it isn't hard for them to search up what the flag represents. Especially my dad who loves flags. So as long as I don't have an actual flag I can use the colour combination. :)

    • @dewdrop3566
      @dewdrop3566 3 роки тому

      @Emma Todd I am blessed to have the reverse. My parents would also question me wearing jewelry when I don't regularly wear it, especially rings. But my parents actually tend to ask me to leave places by myself more often....but I don't feel too comfortable being alone in crowds unless I absolutely have to. Don't know if it helps. But my parents always gave me the chance to wander around the same shop they were at as they needed to buy something else etc. Perhaps there is an opportunity for something like that? If it's a mall they would allow me to go out and check certain shops while they shop at others albeit me telling them which shop I needed to check out.
      Either way, I hope you get the chance to wear one soon. Not for anyone else put you. :)

    • @dewdrop3566
      @dewdrop3566 3 роки тому

      @Emma Todd Will be cheering you on across the interweb!

    • @duskdragon_5546
      @duskdragon_5546 3 роки тому

      I literally just asked my mom for a ring, which is jewelry I never wear, and she’s asking why I wanted a ring all of the sudden and I have no idea what to say.

  • @nuttButta
    @nuttButta 3 роки тому +6

    I’m agender and asexual, and I struggle with my sexuality a lot because of my mental health and lack of people who support me. These tiktoks always make my day and I’m so glad that there are always people out there who do these things, it really means the world to us. You’re valid, I love you!
    -Sammy :)

    • @mysticalsoybean9369
      @mysticalsoybean9369 3 роки тому

      i’m questioning if i’m agender
      us double a’s have to stick together D:

  • @katherinehoward3950
    @katherinehoward3950 3 роки тому +16

    14:05
    Me: *screeching in Death Note fan*

  • @macc7300
    @macc7300 3 роки тому +7

    14:00 when my dude pulled out the death note I bout died! Seriously it's so lovely to see this video in my recommended, thank you for making this and I wish you all the best💜

  • @teacherdemon
    @teacherdemon  3 роки тому +77

    It's 2 AM UwU. BRING THE BRAND BACK

  • @enjjuuu1464
    @enjjuuu1464 3 роки тому +25

    me and my best friend are asexual, and its funny to think that when we first met, we didnt know we were ace lol
    when i came out of the closet to him, he was like "oh i think i might be ace too"

    • @reagan4888
      @reagan4888 3 роки тому

      lmao that happened to me too (except I was the friend lol)

  • @Saturnaous
    @Saturnaous 3 роки тому +21

    I’m not Ace, but I really like them. I dunno, I find this nice, cause you can’t find many Aro tiktok things(that I know of) so this is probably the closest I can get. I dunno, but please, keep making stuff like this!

  • @Malakai__WeLoveYouMafumafu
    @Malakai__WeLoveYouMafumafu 3 роки тому +6

    9:32 the fact that they included Luffy and Saiki made my weeb heart soar because I love them both so much-

  • @zephyrtheone774
    @zephyrtheone774 3 роки тому +7

    I’m an artist and I identify as an asexual . I don’t understand why People say I can’t draw barley suggestive things. I just find the human body fascinating and I want to draw my pretty girls!

  • @mochibabi2267
    @mochibabi2267 3 роки тому +38

    Well I’m one of the A’s. I’m agender😂and also omnisexual. All asexuals are valid, I can respect/understand that even tho I’m a very uhhh....yea😅anyways
    Everyone’s valid!!! Love y’all!!❤️🏳️‍🌈

  • @mysoulisanabyss814
    @mysoulisanabyss814 3 роки тому +18

    If sex is what makes us human, then I guess us asexual pals aren't human...
    *I always knew I was destined to be a lamp shade*
    Though, seriously: You are valid and we love you just the way you are.

    • @chrisamies2141
      @chrisamies2141 2 роки тому

      Sex doesn't make us human. Anything from a bluegreen alga up reproduces sexually. Birds and mammals experience love. Cetaceans and birds have language. No, what makes us human is cooking. Only humans cook their food.

    • @tacosnek899
      @tacosnek899 2 роки тому

      Hello lamp shade, I'm a dragon

  • @meowforcats6694
    @meowforcats6694 3 роки тому +26

    Me who wants to cuddle and watch Pokémon instead of Nemo: 👁👄👁

  • @cloudly_cane1534
    @cloudly_cane1534 3 роки тому +3

    That one dude who just whipped out his deathnote after you said some acephobic shit tho-

  • @ivyclaw8263
    @ivyclaw8263 3 роки тому +6

    People: ”Asexuals aren’t humans”
    Me: I am...
    Garlic bread

  • @justanonion5126
    @justanonion5126 3 роки тому +6

    These comps have made me feel so loved 😌 I have been questioning my validity, being as I'm a heteroromantic cisgender asexual, but watching these comps make me feel valid.

  • @littleskeletondudeman50
    @littleskeletondudeman50 3 роки тому +4

    4:26 oh yeah ace self defense kitty

  • @RA-uy9jp
    @RA-uy9jp 3 роки тому +13

    HAPPY ASEXUAL AWARENESS WEEK TO MY FELLOW ASPEC PEEPS!! I LOVE YALL AND HOPE YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY!!!

  • @victoritochip3452
    @victoritochip3452 3 роки тому +5

    If my crush was ace I would definitely say "What can I say except AAAAAAAAAAA-" and then be super embarrassed and sad of the thought of never cuddling. Anyone who says aces aren't valid can meet in the back of the Denny's parking lot.

  • @Alexa-rg7dd
    @Alexa-rg7dd 3 роки тому +12

    Mom: one day dear... you’ll find somebody special... just not now okay?
    My asexual ass: uhm mom-

  • @allybratz
    @allybratz 3 роки тому +5

    2:01 why ya gotta call me out like this?In front of my salad?!

  • @user-io5hr9iq1x
    @user-io5hr9iq1x 3 роки тому +11

    me running around as a aceassin and bi-pirate: AHHHHHHH

  • @xeoney
    @xeoney 3 роки тому +5

    Recently found out I was asexual (but still romantically attracted to women, because have you seen how amazing women are?) and I've been obsessed with videos and posts on asexuality ever since. I feel so accepted and happy, even if I can't come out and probably won't be able to soon

  • @CRR2111
    @CRR2111 3 роки тому +5

    2:32 got me. The echo was just- perfect

  • @karkatandsolluxmutant4317
    @karkatandsolluxmutant4317 3 роки тому +11

    13:31 made me cry-
    That's the kind of stuff us ace's need to hear right now.
    To everyone that's ace, you are amazing, respected and valid as all hell. Dont let society try to make you feel bad for the way that you show your love. You are amazing.

  • @nicolevanisher_1289
    @nicolevanisher_1289 3 роки тому +27

    As an asexual, Thank you Thank you! I love seeing Ace compilations!🥰

  • @iKozmic
    @iKozmic 3 роки тому +2

    6:14 Oh damn you aint gotta call me out like that

  • @sparklefairykitten
    @sparklefairykitten 3 роки тому +5

    15:17 This is exactly why I don't tell doctors I'm ace unless I have to.

  • @At0mic_Asteroid
    @At0mic_Asteroid 3 роки тому +4

    I love the tiktok near the end where everyone is tearing apart terrible messages.
    *And then you have the one dude with the death note*

  • @darthcarrots2581
    @darthcarrots2581 3 роки тому +5

    Recently went through a breakup that came about due to my partner being a very sexual person and being unable to accept my asexuality. It was mutual, but it has left me feeling like...i was just a body? In the relationship? Like, I understand and respect sexuality in all forms, but when the only issue was a sexual one in the relationship it doesn’t leave much for me to think about. Makes me feel like I’ll never find a partner who can accept me and my love without having a sexual aspect. I appreciate this compilation so much

  • @ghostmoran3227
    @ghostmoran3227 3 роки тому +2

    As a wise man once said: Sex is great, but you ever had a pie?

  • @aceofspades7629
    @aceofspades7629 3 роки тому +5

    2:18
    I feel so called out rn
    edit: ... I feel called out the whole time tho,, yeah, maybe I *am* asexual

  • @chalk869
    @chalk869 3 роки тому +9

    13:32 absolutely beautiful 🥺🥺🥺

  • @Jessica-rz7zw
    @Jessica-rz7zw 3 роки тому +13

    Guys I’m going to my friends house this week and making a ton of garlic bread like a whole loaf worth

  • @oatmilkzombie
    @oatmilkzombie 3 роки тому +14

    Yes, yes it is and I also forget so...Hello my fellow acespecs all across the globe, just a reminder that you are loved, you are awesome, keep eating cake and have a good day :D

  • @ollow_is_sad5373
    @ollow_is_sad5373 3 роки тому +4

    2:50
    This TikTok, this TikTok right here was everything I needed to hear. I've found put who I am. I am an Asexual.
    And I may or may not be wanting to find a way to bind my chest so people aren't sexualy attracted to me. Plus it's easier to cosplay that way.

  • @yunagamerz7336
    @yunagamerz7336 3 роки тому +5

    6:40
    Wait, people want- people feel that with celebrities? That's what celebrity crushes mean? I just thought it ment you like their personality and maybe how they look aesthically-

    • @jan-pi-ala-suli
      @jan-pi-ala-suli 4 місяці тому +1

      SAME MY CELEB CRUSH WAS ARIANA BECAUSE LOOK AT HER AHFHEVF

  • @Ratohnhaketongf2006
    @Ratohnhaketongf2006 3 роки тому +3

    12:46
    As an ace girl and an assassin's creed fan i loved that part uwu
    (Sorry for my bad english ;-;)

  • @rys_undr1328
    @rys_undr1328 3 роки тому +2

    Today I came out as asexual to my brother. I was so nervous that that I can't even talk, so I just show him a lot of videos and articles.
    I was thinking that he wouldn't understand but he was really supportive and I'm so happy rn!

  • @dreadfuIdoII
    @dreadfuIdoII 3 роки тому +5

    Aroace dude here- TY FOR THIS I FEEL SO VALIDATED :))). Keep up the great work bro!!

  • @pLanetstarBerry
    @pLanetstarBerry 3 роки тому +9

    Don't mind me, I'm just a bi person doing the Will Smith pose to all the aces who read this. Y'all are valid and belong in the community.

  • @sstta4rr
    @sstta4rr 3 роки тому +3

    6:30 i just thought that it was the same thing as romantic attraction, and my dumbass when i found out said "I'm gonna need to get to know them first to feel anything" but didn't know that would already put me on the ace spectrum o.o

  • @starrsynth
    @starrsynth 3 роки тому +4

    As an ace person, it took me *years* to realize the song Cake by the Ocean wasn't about eating an entire cake on the beach (-_Q)

  • @weirdassfnaffan9994
    @weirdassfnaffan9994 3 роки тому +47

    Me : **Being a supportive non-binary pansexual**
    Asexuals : **Are a thing**
    Me : "Yes I am a 10 year old a I support you and ya'll are cute why can't you just be old enough to date me" **Quietly sobs**

  • @areafire1
    @areafire1 3 роки тому +3

    15:35 Oh gods! Fuck! I wasn't expecting to be hit with the "should'a known I was ace when" like this. I've had that look from doctor's. The "wait, your how old and haven't had sex" look is so weird. Like, yeah, I'm not interested! Please stop asking!

  • @NoxAtlas
    @NoxAtlas 3 роки тому +5

    Aphobes: Sex and love is what makes us human
    Me (aroace): OK, then I want to be Explosion Murder God Dynamite, muahahaha

  • @erickasilva4709
    @erickasilva4709 3 роки тому +1

    The one where they ripped the papers with Asexual-phobic (?) statements was very beautiful for me. Especially the guy who opened up the death note😂

  • @stephaniaworthington4129
    @stephaniaworthington4129 3 роки тому +2

    12:06 well the is a “how to sex 2”, which burned in lava (;-;). “how to sex 1” is not allowed on stream, and “how to sex 3” is currently being written