The good news is when the trends change into more immodest ones, the former modest trends go to the thrift stores, consignment shops and places like TJ Maxx or Ross for stocking up.
Yeah, exactly the same, sis. I wear long sleeve metal tees (I think long sleeve/pants is mandatory but modesty perception is different for everyone..) Not exactly traditional, I wear what I want, but always keep it modest. I think it tells the world that I love and respect myself, but of course, this is different for everyone, not hate to those what feel best showing more skin ✌️
I'm in high school and trying to be more modest by moving away from bikinis and swimwear with revealing bottoms, but it's very difficult to find modest swimsuits that are cute, flattering and not too frumpy. I would love it if you made a video about types of modest swimwear and where to find it!
Albion fit has high quality swimwear that is modest! It’s pricey though. I’ve found a few cute one pieces at old navy. You can find them in regular stores, you just have to keep an eye out. Square/ straight necklines are on trend right now, so that helps!
There is a muslim company that makes less covered styles - capris and 3/4 length sleeves style, not just the ultra modest long pants, long sleeves, and scarf attached style. I think the shorter style and fabrics (the ones I looked at - forgot what company, though) are super cute! But UA-cam comment sections have taught me that one person's cute is another person's frumpy. There are definitely more modest swimwear options in 2022 than even a decade ago, so if capris and 3/4 sleeves is too much covering for you, you are in luck!
People need to stop sexualizing women's bodies. We shouldn't have to change because some random middle aged man is offended by a stomach or a bit of cleavage. We don't choose the way our bodies form. 🤦♀️ it's ok to dress modestly but you literally have “do this, not this” on the cover which insinuates showing parts of our body (that men get to show all the time) is inherently wrong.
I’m very short, yes V necks are always too low on me, ha. I’m def a believer in the undershirt. I’ll have to check out the flesh toned ones, you’re right I didn’t think about cutting off the line of the shirt with another color.
Also with the lengths of dresses, check out the hems on case they are quite full. If they are full enough, you can unpick them and lengthen the dress /skirt
Yay! I love videos like this! I’m a teenage girl so my outfits always look different from my friends who wear like short shorts and crop tops so l value this videos! ❤️💕
@@a.b.2405 same 😂 it surprises me so much what parents let their kids where these days. Obviously they reach a certain age and they can where whatever they want but it's interesting the differences I see between my parents and otherz
A lot of modest dresses can look a little "grandma" if they are long and very loose and high collared. They can instantly look for fashionable and figure flattering simply by adding a belt!
Sameee lol I am not overly enthusiastic about being modest but I like more formal clothing like blouses and I've noticed that I can't find any blouses or other frilly tops that aren't cropped and tbh, even not showing any skin, crops aren't for me so it stinks :,)
I honestly won't lie I saw people making fun of you a lot so just ignored your channel but now actually watching this is very helpful and you are a nice person. 💜💜💜wtf I don't understand the hate 😐
@@Mekaels_Music honestly the hate towards conservatives is terrible. I thought we all respect difference of opinion but apparently not in america. it's sad I believed the hate for so long but now I see the truth
I feel like biker shorts under a shorter flowy dress is a good hack. It might not be the most classic but it is good for when you want to wear a short casual dress but dont want to show everyone your undergarments.
I have been buying cycling shorts, or those shorts that are made out of legging material but shorts, to wear under skirts & dresses, they aren't too bulky but provide a cover up.
This summer I’ve been wearing casual maxi dresses with the same colored high neck tank underneath + a cardigan or long sleeved button up, or with a t-shirt/high neck blouse overtop the dress that I tie in a knot at the waist. If a dress has a high slit, I wear bike shorts or leggings in a coordinating color. For swimwear, a one piece swimsuit under a maxi skirt + long sleeved cover up.
If the top of a dress or shirt is a crossed v-neck that is too low, I will use sew-on metal snaps to keep it closed! They’re less than $5 for a pack at Walmart or other craft stores.
Same here. I live in a tropical country, no central AC in homes and get hot and sweat so easily. If I wear long sleeved shirts or pants for about 9 months out of the year, I'm soaked in my clothes.
I've got a couple shirts I love and as much as I love them if my undershirt is dirty it stays on the hanger till either my mom or me give up and do laundry.
Thanks Abby! I'm a part time firefighter and employee of another job and I've just given up on my fashion sense. It's hard to dress feminine, you've given some great tips. Thanks.
My mother sews up all the slits on my reformation dresses. 😂😂😂 Yes definitely a hack for modesty. I would also suggest shirt under dress, looks kinda dorky but if the colors go together, it can look cute!
tip #1 was good. i'm a lot older than you but realize how i do feel better when i dress more modestly. i don't want to spend money on a new wardrobe however buying a few flesh tone shirts won't break the bank.
What is your opinion on modest sleeves? As an overweight woman, I feel more comfortable wearing a flowing sleeve, or a blouse that would cover my whole upper arm. What is your opinion on a conservative shirt?
Other hack is looking for the modest version of the current trend., Nowadays some brands do that a lot. Otherwise if you're not into trend fashion, you can look for timeless clothing, usually those are modest and also last more. Buy vintage clothing also helps, specially if you go for 50', 70' and 80' dresses, and you could modify them as your needs and taste. Also helps getting light weight cardigans (if you don't like to show arms and shoulders) and for casual looks using a denim jacket helps a lot, specially if you love maxidresses but is too difficult or expensive for you getting something with sleeves. Learn/ taking sewing lessons.
What about when you're a bustier - my mom would say 'Well-endowed' - and undershirts/tank tops don't necessarily work? (I'm always having to constantly yank them up over my cleavage - it's so annoying)
I have this issue as well. I recommend sizing down on shirts you plan on wearing under stuff so they aren’t lose and rest against the chest. Also try to seek out the undershirts that have adjustable straps to help ensure a fit where the cami/tank not only stays in place when pairing under something but also when you bend down.
I go to the tailor all the time as I usually have to go up a size or two because of the size of my chest with certain dresses! Those dresses will fit my chest but they are way too big in my waist and hips! My tailor is honestly a hero! Love from Italy!
I avoided crop tops for so long because I thought there was no way to wear them modestly. I decided to get a looser fitting one to try with my high waisted leggings and I LOVE it!! It is sooooo flattering because it draws the eye to my natural waist at the thinnest part of my body. I am constantly on the look out for loose cute crop tops now! I haven't been able to find another one yet, but I am keeping my eyes open!
I've found that crop tops with high-waisted shorts or even just tucking my shirt into high-waisted shorts both flatters my figure and makes me look taller. A win-win for hobbit-sized me!
You're videos on clothing especially are super helpful for me! I'm apostlic (skirts that are knee length at least, no more than 2-3 ish inches below the collar bone, covered shoulders) so these will definitely help!
I've always appreciated your modest fashion videos. Thank you for making them! Although I'd hope you'd someday stress the importance for BOTH WOMEN and MEN to dress modestly. Men revealing too much of their skin can be very distracting too.
Nice! I wear cap sleeve modest tees under my tops that are either cut too low or the fabric is too see through. I also wear slip extenders to lengthen my skirts/dresses.
It depends on your body shape though, as somone who has narrow shoulders & small breasts I suit scoop necks or crew necks much better. I do agree with experimenting with different shapes & styles though.
Hi Abby! Thanks for the tip :) This may be a very random comment, but I thought it would be interesting(?) to know what channels you have subscribed to on UA-cam! If you don't mind sharing the information, could you please make a video with this contents? Thanks :)
First of all stop making wishes that’s pagan and pray. Second come to the realization that the only one making influence on this world should be God and repent for wishing that you could make that influence yourself by making yourself God. Two birds with one stone
I love all of your videos but I really hope that you start posting videos of you singing again because out of all of your marvelous contact those are my absolute favorite.
Ack! That thumbnail. The image on the right. I though the top bit was hair and the leg was an arm, and the front of the knee was the back of the elbow and it was a side view of a woman wearing a black smock and no sleeves. Kind of disappointed.
Personally i like to dress modestly, not by religious beliefs or moralistic reasons, Just i like that because is feminine, elegant and comfortable in certain way.
I cannot wear anything without a camisole or “undershirt” .....I feel legit naked lol I have some from American eagle from actual high school. Lol say what you want about AE but their stuff does hold up.
Curious, as a fellow Jew, it just occurred to me that women singing is considered immodest. Do you know if there are any sources for that? Should we be allowed to put singing on UA-cam?
The. nude top underneath the blue one bothers be: why not just choose a top with a smaller neckline? When wearing a solution like this it looks just like a really revealing top from a far
If your arms are flabby or bony it is not a good look to wear sleeveless dresses or tops, especially tank tops. This goes as well for the strapless dresses, especially wedding gowns (which to me look like bathing suits with large skirts). Even if you have a toned, perfect body it is immodest to show that much skin. Covering the shoulders and upper arms with a shorter sleeve (especially a butterfly sleeve) can be flattering at any age. I am in my sixties, so I have had a lot of time to realize this.
Take a shot everytime she says modest
Are you trying to kill people
I laughed ab this comment for 15 minutes omfg
whoa, getting this blitzed isn't modest at all!
@@DonPeyote420 Please refer to the "how to drink like a lady" video which I totally did not take 100 screenshots of and save into a folder
and take a shot every time her brother says hypothetically
Can someone pleeeeeease explain to me why showing skin is “bad” or “immodest” but tight fighting clothes and showing off your figure is “modest” ???
The good news is when the trends change into more immodest ones, the former modest trends go to the thrift stores, consignment shops and places like TJ Maxx or Ross for stocking up.
I’ve always been really modest even though I’m not exactly traditional looking
Same here sis 😂✋
Yeah, exactly the same, sis. I wear long sleeve metal tees (I think long sleeve/pants is mandatory but modesty perception is different for everyone..) Not exactly traditional, I wear what I want, but always keep it modest. I think it tells the world that I love and respect myself, but of course, this is different for everyone, not hate to those what feel best showing more skin ✌️
Girl, same.
I'm in high school and trying to be more modest by moving away from bikinis and swimwear with revealing bottoms, but it's very difficult to find modest swimsuits that are cute, flattering and not too frumpy. I would love it if you made a video about types of modest swimwear and where to find it!
I'm actually releasing a video on this very thing next week! Keep an eye out! (I also have one from last year with modest Amazon options)
Roswe site has some youthful modest swimwear IMO
Albion fit has high quality swimwear that is modest! It’s pricey though. I’ve found a few cute one pieces at old navy. You can find them in regular stores, you just have to keep an eye out. Square/ straight necklines are on trend right now, so that helps!
Check out Geode swimwear! Lots of cute, modest options, and pretty affordable too!
There is a muslim company that makes less covered styles - capris and 3/4 length sleeves style, not just the ultra modest long pants, long sleeves, and scarf attached style. I think the shorter style and fabrics (the ones I looked at - forgot what company, though) are super cute! But UA-cam comment sections have taught me that one person's cute is another person's frumpy.
There are definitely more modest swimwear options in 2022 than even a decade ago, so if capris and 3/4 sleeves is too much covering for you, you are in luck!
Your blouse is absolutely gorgeous
and modest
@@DonPeyote420 isn’t that her 1800s point
I really enjoyed this, especially the flesh tone undershirts for tops that are a little lower
People need to stop sexualizing women's bodies. We shouldn't have to change because some random middle aged man is offended by a stomach or a bit of cleavage. We don't choose the way our bodies form. 🤦♀️ it's ok to dress modestly but you literally have “do this, not this” on the cover which insinuates showing parts of our body (that men get to show all the time) is inherently wrong.
I’m very short, yes V necks are always too low on me, ha. I’m def a believer in the undershirt. I’ll have to check out the flesh toned ones, you’re right I didn’t think about cutting off the line of the shirt with another color.
I’m not the only one who is very annoyed by her but still watches them 🙋♀️
You're a larry hi besti 👀
@@suparnananda4864 lmao hi
Lol how funny! Omg that bye was awfully annoying 😂
Yep, because you have no life, like most of her detractors.
I watch her just to dislike her videos🙂
Also with the lengths of dresses, check out the hems on case they are quite full. If they are full enough, you can unpick them and lengthen the dress /skirt
Yay! I love videos like this! I’m a teenage girl so my outfits always look different from my friends who wear like short shorts and crop tops so l value this videos! ❤️💕
My parents would not allow me to wear that when I was a teenager!
I value these vids a lot too, I float between different styles but modesty has always been a big thing for me.
@@a.b.2405 same 😂 it surprises me so much what parents let their kids where these days. Obviously they reach a certain age and they can where whatever they want but it's interesting the differences I see between my parents and otherz
I posted a cool shorts shorts hack above
*wear I promise I know how to spell😂
Thank you for sharing dear heart!!!
If a dress doesn’t go past my knees I wear pants or jeans with it and it turns into a tunic :)
Lots of awesome ideas Abby!
A lot of modest dresses can look a little "grandma" if they are long and very loose and high collared. They can instantly look for fashionable and figure flattering simply by adding a belt!
*thumbs up* Little 90s prints that looked "grandma" back then are having their day in the sun again and it's not helping. XD
Sameee lol I am not overly enthusiastic about being modest but I like more formal clothing like blouses and I've noticed that I can't find any blouses or other frilly tops that aren't cropped and tbh, even not showing any skin, crops aren't for me so it stinks :,)
Yes! I appreciate this video, super helpful ❤️
I’ve been buying cropped camis for some of my dresses so I can cover up my cleavage, but I won’t get the weird seam at the hip.
I honestly won't lie I saw people making fun of you a lot so just ignored your channel but now actually watching this is very helpful and you are a nice person. 💜💜💜wtf I don't understand the hate 😐
Tho I’m a fan of Abby, she made an ad coming out as a conservative. And people would come to hate watch. Which is quite sad
@@Mekaels_Music honestly the hate towards conservatives is terrible. I thought we all respect difference of opinion but apparently not in america. it's sad I believed the hate for so long but now I see the truth
I think they don't like her simply because she's more conservative which is a very sad attitude for them to have on their part :/
Hey Abby, AMAZING video as always! And loving that hairstyle!!
Your hair is awesome. I knew The trick with the skin toned underwear already.
4:10 It might be better to shop right after the modest trends, that way you can get discounted clothes.
I feel like biker shorts under a shorter flowy dress is a good hack. It might not be the most classic but it is good for when you want to wear a short casual dress but dont want to show everyone your undergarments.
Yessss! The lacy or faux leather ones or cutting a pair of opaque winter tights (below the knee because they will roll up) gives the look!
I like to do that as well, biker shorts or leggings.
I have been buying cycling shorts, or those shorts that are made out of legging material but shorts, to wear under skirts & dresses, they aren't too bulky but provide a cover up.
This summer I’ve been wearing casual maxi dresses with the same colored high neck tank underneath + a cardigan or long sleeved button up, or with a t-shirt/high neck blouse overtop the dress that I tie in a knot at the waist. If a dress has a high slit, I wear bike shorts or leggings in a coordinating color. For swimwear, a one piece swimsuit under a maxi skirt + long sleeved cover up.
If the top of a dress or shirt is a crossed v-neck that is too low, I will use sew-on metal snaps to keep it closed! They’re less than $5 for a pack at Walmart or other craft stores.
I would love to look more modest but I suffer from overheating and so find it hard to stay covered but cool...
Same here. I live in a tropical country, no central AC in homes and get hot and sweat so easily. If I wear long sleeved shirts or pants for about 9 months out of the year, I'm soaked in my clothes.
I've got a couple shirts I love and as much as I love them if my undershirt is dirty it stays on the hanger till either my mom or me give up and do laundry.
Thanks Abby! I'm a part time firefighter and employee of another job and I've just given up on my fashion sense. It's hard to dress feminine, you've given some great tips. Thanks.
Love that flowy top, so cute!
Love the tip on the flesh tone undershirts 🌺🌷
@ClassicallyAbby you should check out skirt extenders. They are super cute and add a few inches to the bottom of any skirt or dress
Do not underestimate the power of collarbone fetish
My mother sews up all the slits on my reformation dresses. 😂😂😂 Yes definitely a hack for modesty. I would also suggest shirt under dress, looks kinda dorky but if the colors go together, it can look cute!
tip #1 was good. i'm a lot older than you but realize how i do feel better when i dress more modestly. i don't want to spend money on a new wardrobe however buying a few flesh tone shirts won't break the bank.
What is your opinion on modest sleeves? As an overweight woman, I feel more comfortable wearing a flowing sleeve, or a blouse that would cover my whole upper arm. What is your opinion on a conservative shirt?
Other hack is looking for the modest version of the current trend., Nowadays some brands do that a lot.
Otherwise if you're not into trend fashion, you can look for timeless clothing, usually those are modest and also last more.
Buy vintage clothing also helps, specially if you go for 50', 70' and 80' dresses, and you could modify them as your needs and taste.
Also helps getting light weight cardigans (if you don't like to show arms and shoulders) and for casual looks using a denim jacket helps a lot, specially if you love maxidresses but is too difficult or expensive for you getting something with sleeves.
Learn/ taking sewing lessons.
That goodbye was hilarious
What about when you're a bustier - my mom would say 'Well-endowed' - and undershirts/tank tops don't necessarily work? (I'm always having to constantly yank them up over my cleavage - it's so annoying)
I have this issue as well. I recommend sizing down on shirts you plan on wearing under stuff so they aren’t lose and rest against the chest. Also try to seek out the undershirts that have adjustable straps to help ensure a fit where the cami/tank not only stays in place when pairing under something but also when you bend down.
I don’t personally do this but know women that safety pin the cami to their bra straps to keep it from falling down.
The camis with bra cups included usually don’t fall down as much as the ones without the cups since they have some support
lets play a game of: take a shot when she says modest or modesty. i wanna she how drunk you get
I go to the tailor all the time as I usually have to go up a size or two because of the size of my chest with certain dresses! Those dresses will fit my chest but they are way too big in my waist and hips! My tailor is honestly a hero! Love from Italy!
Great suggestions 🌿🌸
I was literally wanting to buy 2 new dresses but the slits went sooooo high up. That is a great idea.
Do you sew? Perhaps you'd do a sewing video? X
I wear undershirts by Kosher Casual. They have great layering shells
good advice abby
I do love my crop tops, but I wear them with high-waisted skirts or shorts/pants.
I avoided crop tops for so long because I thought there was no way to wear them modestly. I decided to get a looser fitting one to try with my high waisted leggings and I LOVE it!! It is sooooo flattering because it draws the eye to my natural waist at the thinnest part of my body. I am constantly on the look out for loose cute crop tops now! I haven't been able to find another one yet, but I am keeping my eyes open!
@@izzieluv I think the key is to having high-waisted bottoms for the look to be classy!
@@izzieluv I wear crop tops, and I consider them modest. Modesty isn't just about covering skin, it's about dressing yourself with respect!!
I've found that crop tops with high-waisted shorts or even just tucking my shirt into high-waisted shorts both flatters my figure and makes me look taller. A win-win for hobbit-sized me!
YESSSS FASHION QUEEN HERE ;O;
Dry cleaners often have tailors that are really cheap!
Love your make up! Can I ask what eye lid color you are wearing?
Thank you for your videos!
I love your videos and tips! A fan, from South Africa 🇿🇦
Same
You're videos on clothing especially are super helpful for me! I'm apostlic (skirts that are knee length at least, no more than 2-3 ish inches below the collar bone, covered shoulders) so these will definitely help!
wait how long should they be if you aren't particularly religious but care about modesty
Great hacks !
Couldn’t have asked for a better upload on my birthday KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK ❤️❤️❤️
Happy birthday!
Happy birthday! 🎁🎂
Why have I never thought of Tip #1? It’s genius!
I know, right?? I am buying one of those ASAP
Shes pretty 💕
Its your choice to be modest! I support that! Be BETTER and SUPPORT other women Abby!
Debate and criticism are a feature of any healthy society. It's not the world's job to kiss your ass 24/7.
Loved this video. I love the clothing line ‘Crown and Ivy’ at Belk. It’s very regal.
I second!!! The kids line is great too.
Interesting tips
💕great video 😁😊💕
Layers are your best friend.
I love all your tips and advice. Thank you for posting these videos!
I've always appreciated your modest fashion videos. Thank you for making them! Although I'd hope you'd someday stress the importance for BOTH WOMEN and MEN to dress modestly. Men revealing too much of their skin can be very distracting too.
Men don't need to be told to dress modesty. Our shorts go down to our knees.
I feel so proud to be the first comment, thank you for more tips!
Nice!
I wear cap sleeve modest tees under my tops that are either cut too low or the fabric is too see through. I also wear slip extenders to lengthen my skirts/dresses.
Even simple tailoring costs an arm and a leg in my area. Might as well buy a new outfit for the costs of tailoring here.
Let me just say something you didn’t mention is square necklines they are so flattering
It depends on your body shape though, as somone who has narrow shoulders & small breasts I suit scoop necks or crew necks much better. I do agree with experimenting with different shapes & styles though.
I love this video! Thank you so much for the content and the tips😁❤️
Hi Abby! Thanks for the tip :) This may be a very random comment, but I thought it would be interesting(?) to know what channels you have subscribed to on UA-cam! If you don't mind sharing the information, could you please make a video with this contents? Thanks :)
Wow, my high school teachers would love you. They're obsessed with girls' skirt hems lmao
You’re unbelievably gorgeous! ❤️
I wish I could influence 200 people
First of all stop making wishes that’s pagan and pray.
Second come to the realization that the only one making influence on this world should be God and repent for wishing that you could make that influence yourself by making yourself God.
Two birds with one stone
@@Lootoodle Well I did honestly not know that thank you I did not know that this common section would have this much faith in Elohim
@@Lootoodle God doesn't exist
0:08 this scared me..
High slits on skirts also seem like they'd be a hazard, it's much easier for them to get tangled or caught then either low or no slits.
I love all of your videos but I really hope that you start posting videos of you singing again because out of all of your marvelous contact those are my absolute favorite.
Basically, women's bodies are beautiful and natural AS LONG AS THEYRE COVERED
I love her voice along with her brothers 😂 They have such a nice twang to their voices 💖
I always wear tops underneath but i never even considered a flesh toned one 🙄 I NEED
Ack! That thumbnail. The image on the right. I though the top bit was hair and the leg was an arm, and the front of the knee was the back of the elbow and it was a side view of a woman wearing a black smock and no sleeves. Kind of disappointed.
Uh-oh, here come people who don't dress modestly to get offended and think you are forcing modesty on them!!!
Personally i like to dress modestly, not by religious beliefs or moralistic reasons, Just i like that because is feminine, elegant and comfortable in certain way.
Where
im modest for u ❤️❤️❤️
Cami secrets are my best friends 😍
I cannot wear anything without a camisole or “undershirt” .....I feel legit naked lol I have some from American eagle from actual high school. Lol say what you want about AE but their stuff does hold up.
Excellent video. Quality information and presentation.
Curious, as a fellow Jew, it just occurred to me that women singing is considered immodest. Do you know if there are any sources for that? Should we be allowed to put singing on UA-cam?
The. nude top underneath the blue one bothers be: why not just choose a top with a smaller neckline? When wearing a solution like this it looks just like a really revealing top from a far
Beautiful voice
Brows on fleek 👌
You know what?..... this video is acceptabel.
If your arms are flabby or bony it is not a good look to wear sleeveless dresses or tops, especially tank tops. This goes as well for the strapless dresses, especially wedding gowns (which to me look like bathing suits with large skirts). Even if you have a toned, perfect body it is immodest to show that much skin. Covering the shoulders and upper arms with a shorter sleeve (especially a butterfly sleeve) can be flattering at any age. I am in my sixties, so I have had a lot of time to realize this.
Tznius is always in style 🙏
What if you dont have a nice feminine figure because you're overweight?
lets not talk about the men who stare at women but force women to dress modestly. ok
She's not forcing women to dress modestly.
@@ashtona3416 she's only shaming for women who are not dressing modestly. she should try living in hawaii and see how it goes
She's not forcing anything, just giving her opinion, princess. Besides, this whole channel is targeted at women.
am i surprised that the cami she linked to has one single nude shade and no darker nudes? no. no i am not
I believe they have more colors in stores! I was surprised by their limited color selection online as well 😕
I’ve seen many darker nudes in Banana Republic stores.
Would you ever get lip injections?
cool this is kinda recent
booba
She’s the type of woman to preach modesty and dressing conservatively but then hate and shame Muslim women who want to wear hijabs lol
Hijab >>>>
More likely you are the opposite.
i love you
Nice！
Luckily you don't get to decide what's modest