That "lady" is an absolute atrocious person!! She sounds miserable. What comes around goes around. You and the girls take all the time you need to heal. ❤
It sounds like a person that really, really doesn't like herself or her life. She wants to make Kelly and the girls miserable to make herself feel better. She is an emotionally bankrupt human being. I bet she is making up a lot of what she says the ex-husband felt or said too.
You are right. She made it known she was with him secretly because he didn’t want to get a divorce and give up a good woman Even after the divorce he came and seen his ex wife.. It seems like the other woman was being used by guy and he had her fooled. We know the ex wife still had a spot in the ex husband’s heart. He didn’t want to let her go. The other woman can say what she wants but it’s there.
That woman is only doing this because she feels threatened by you, otherwise she couldn't be trying to get to you like this. I would ask your ex for the truth and show him those messages. I bet you'd get a totally different story and a more true story. She sounds more like a narcissist than you.
The relationship between him and that woman can't be that great if she's harassing you. And I definitely wouldn't believe everything she says about him and what he feels. She's obviously jealous of you and trying to hurt you! Personally I wouldn't give her the satisfaction of knowing it bothers you, but we're all different, and you have to do what's best for you. Sometimes the best revenge is letting them see you're happy, moving on and not giving thoughts of them even an inch of space in your wonderful life ❤.
I said there must be trouble in their relationship and she feels the need to harass Kelly so if her ex might want to come back that women is making sure it won’t happen. Kelly should contact her ex and ask if he knows that women is sending these texts to her.
I wouldn't give either the ex or his girlfriend the time of day. She sounds like a narcissist, and he sounds like a total coward. Just makes me so sad how Kelly and the girls were hurt in all this, especially when still dealing with so much grief of losing Ray. I hope the ex and his girlfriend have the life and future they BOTH deserve.
My thoughts exactly. I bet he doesn’t know what that woman is doing to Kelly and the girls. Because if she was happy she wouldn’t bother with Kelly! Kelly should make sure he knows! It might just cause karma to come for that vile woman. Sooner than expected.
Wow what a truly horrible person she is!!! I cant believe your ex would be ok with that behavior. If he is then be grateful hes gone!! Dont believe what she says. The truth is she is jealous of what you have and what you had with your ex because sounds to me like shes not getting what she expected from him. Hes probably cheating on her too. I would block her and just erase her from your life. Say a prayer for her and then give it to God. Truth is you and the girls have a bright future full of adventure. This is a moment in time. Let go and let God!! I love you and your family dont forget how great you all are!!! Strong, Beautiful, intelligent women. Hearts of gold and you shine!!! This is what she hates so you keep being great and let her suffer through it!! Sending Prayers for all of you!!!
Kelly you have every right in the world to discuss whatever you want on your platform. If it helps you or your girls heal in any way, just know you have people who love and are praying for y'all! PS ... give it to God and let Him handle the situation!! Never forget God is close to the broken hearted! ❤
That woman sounds like a malignant psychopath, intentionally vicious and cruel. Frankly, I wouldn’t believe a single word she says. She is playing a sick game. Be glad you are the better person by a mile. And be glad you are rid of your husband, who has made a big mistake and is now stuck with a psychopath.
Kelly, I’m nearly speechless. I’d say there is a special place in H*** for someone who goes out of their way to say or do those things. It says volumes about them not you. Do what you need to do for the 3 of you. We will be here. God bless you and the girls. Praying for you.
You are very sensitive Kelly, just move on and don’t give her the satisfaction of hurting you and your family, betrayal is hard to endure but you are strong women and you can do it, you can build your life, regain your smile and strength, praying for you and your girls and I’m sure you can do it, come out and spill your heart to us and we are more than happy to be there for you, even just by listening 🙏🏻💖✝️
Wow! I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I can see you’re a strong woman, don’t ever let anyone bring you down. I can clearly see that her relationship is not very safe and that’s why she is trying to bring you down. Block her and ignore her. She is not worth it and your ex isn’t either, they both deserve each other
Oh Kelly!! I am so sorry. I have no other words come to mind. I'm stunned. I know it doesn't help but God sees ALL and she will have to answer for what she's done to u and ur family! Praying for u girl!❤❤❤
I wish that I didn't know what you were talking about. I received those messages and phone calls at 24. I am 64 years old now and i wish I could say I am completely healed but if someone blindsides me with talk about him or her it knocks me back. I withdraw for a few moments or a few hours and I am able to move on. She is sick, insecure and evil but she will never trust him because she knows what he did to you and what he is capable of. Sweetie you have a public. One who loves you without ever physically meeting you. You are an inspiration as a mother, a businesswoman, a real woman with standards, integrity and honesty. A huge hug. I am so sorry you hurt dear sister.🦋💕🦋
I'm so sorry you're going thru all of this. So horrible that this woman would think that it's ok to treat y'all this way. I'm just blown away that 1 person can act towards another person like she is with you. She's the one who needs help. Prayers for y'all.
U should do and share what u need to do or share. U could be helping others ignore those downers. Alot of us love your honesty good and sad. We all need to know u r real. One day at a time. U got this. Keep doing what is good for u💕
Prayers for you and your daughters. Every day I have to tell myself "I can do all things through God who strengthens me." You are one of the strongest person I have come across. Love on your daughters and your precious pups. ❤
Thank you for keeping it real. Sharing with others helps those who are going through similar situations. Oh my gosh, that woman is terrible. The fact that she knew he had a wife and family, and got involved with him, shows the kind of person she is. She is very hateful. You are a wonderful person. Don’t let anyone make you feel less. I pray God helps you and your family through all the trauma you have been through. I’m so sorry for what you have been through and all you are going through now. We all care about you and are here for you, so you come on whenever you want and let out what your feeling . Big hugs.
Grief is hard, fluid, unpredictable at best. Anniversaries are something, they can take the breath out of your soul. You’ve suffered a lot and shared your truth, which I think is brave. I hope you’ll eventually be able to channel your creativity as you learn to balance your grief and the emotions that come with it. Holidays are hard without putting grief on top of it. Love and hugs to you and your girls.
You make me feel like I am not alone. I am tired of pretending to be OK. I have been a widow for 2 yrs 11 months & it seems like he passed 2 weeks ago. I am so sorry that you’re going thru this. It’s horrible & heart breaking! I wish I could remove it for you. God is with you & always will be. Stay strong for yourself & your girls. I respect you for your honesty.❤️
She said all that to you which is hateful, vindictive and cruel, but have you spoken to your ex husband to confirm it was the truth? Sounds like this woman is very jealous of you and maybe fearful he still has feelings for you? I don’t know, but I’d definitely want to hear the truth from him, even though it will hurt you so much and feel that your whole life with him was a lie but if he confirms it, then I’d be done with him for good.
Grief does that: it is a difficult part of your journey and painfully normal. You will treasure anyone who understands the process and supports you through it. ❤😢❤❤❤❤ I am horrified that anyone would write such hateful garbage and send it to the sweet person we know you to be. You have so many reasons to grieve, so take your time and grieve well. We love you and will be here whenever you have the energy to share your life, your feelings, and your talents. I pray for you whenever I think you you. I am proud of you and how far you have come through this astronomically hatd journey.
I lost my son almost 5years ago and it’s still difficult for me to let his clothes and other items go! I am so glad you are in such a great therapy, you have got to have some deep deep pain and some emotions that you never expected. I wish I could give you and your girls a HUGE HUG! So much hurt in your heart! I will follow you on UA-cam and I will be praying and cheering you on in every way I can!🤗💖🤗💖
I'm so very sorry to hear you've gone through all this. That the girls had to go through it. My heart breaks for you all. No one deserves to be treated that way. How cruel those two are! I'm glad to hear you are working through it. That you are able to work through it. I will keep you and the girls in my prayers. May your lives turn into joy one day. Much love to you all. ❤️
That kind of pain breaks you. I hope you find the peace you deserve, and it will be a gift of understanding & strength that no one will ever be able to take away from you.
I'm going through my husband of 44 years taking his life and the betrayal trauma that was dumped on top of that at the same time. Talking about it helps me, I feel. You keep telling your story. That woman is a despicable human being.
So glad to see you, def been missing you! This is sickening and I am so sorry such insecure, vile, and miserable people are trying to rain on your and the children's lives. Your rainbow is coming, Stay you❤️🙏🏾🌈
Kelly, he’s doing that to you because you’re letting him do that to you. I’m not trying to be mean at all. You need to put him behind you and go on and enjoy your life because Ray would want that for you. Your ex-husband and his lowlife girlfriend are surely watching you suffer through your videos. Don’t give them that satisfaction. I have a lot I could say to you that would probably make sense but I have no way to tell you, so I’ll just leave it at that for now. Again, just don’t allow them to hurt you. Put them behind you and move forward because hurt hurting you is obviously what they want. Sending you love and hugs, Kelly. You’re a strong person and you will get through this. Praying for you and your girls.🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
When I lost my daughter I was devastated and I lost my mom 6 months after that and that resulted ptsd so you do what you have to do I for one am going to support you all I can love you Kelly you stay strong
I can relate to what you are going through Kelly. All I can say is time heals ALL THINGS. Give all of this to God let it ALL GO . Prayers for you and your girls. Big Hugs. 🙏🤗🙏💓💕💞
Oh Kelly , I am so sorry for your loss of your son and betrayal of your ex. May you continue your journey of healing. You are so strong and loved by many. Prayers ❤ Thank you for sharing your journey and giving hope to those who are struggling with similar circumstances. God bless you.
Kelly your and your children are very loving and special people, don't let people like that bring you and your girls down. Some people need to be mean to try to make themselves feel special Karma is such a wonderful thing. Remember if he can do that to you he most certainly do it to her!!! I have been there. Sending you and your girls lots of love and light❤
Kelly, I am so sorry for what you are going through! It’s ok and it’s good for you to share and let your viewers know what you are going through! I send love and prayers to you and your girls! I can’t believe what kind of man could do that to you! You need so much healing my dear, it’s so unimaginable hearing that about your ex. My heart and soul go out to you and your daughters! God be with you and heal you from all the hurt you’ve been through.💔🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Kelly, I went through the same thing. I was left a single mom of three beautiful girls. I also went to a dark place. It was only by the grace of God that brought me to the other side. I thought I was walking alone but I was not. I didn’t know I was capable of so much strength. I had to pull myself out of that deep depression for my girls sake. They are now three beautiful amazing women and I have the Lord to thank for that. You will do the same because you are a strong and beautiful lady, not to mention a wonderful mom. Prayers for strength within you💐🙏🏼
This must have been so incredibly painful to share. Thank you for your courage. There are countless others who will see this and realize that they are not alone. Emotional Trauma makes us feel so alone & isolated. When you’re in the midst of it it’s hard to realize and accept that just because someone spews their hatred in your direction doesn’t make their words become truth. Those who cause the trauma try to play with the emotions of their victims. So thankful that you & your precious daughters have each other to lean on. Most of all, I pray that you will feel & know that the Lord Jesus is there with and for each of you. May you feel His peace & strength day by day. ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I'm so sorry you're going through this. You and the girls are in my prayers. You deserve so much and I pray 2025 brings nothing but joy to you and your family. I'll be here whenever you're ready to come back. Just take care of yourself. Sending love.
Wow we all have different trials in life that in time make us stonger for gods army. Its not easy I am so sorry for all you been through but that is so sick what your ex and his whatever she is did to yall. Cut ties and get a restraining order and dont check any contact from him or her block them if you can. This gives you power to go on. I have had to do this. It works. I pray for you and the girls. I miss you and will wait for your crafts and was so happy to see you were back. Dont give them your time or power and you and the girls will be stronger and in control a little more. Prayers love and god bless yall ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I'm beyond heartsick for you and the girls. A betrayal by a spouse, family, or someone you considered a friend is a pain deep in our soul. Remember you and the girls are the victims. This women needs to watch out Ms. Karma is watching her and your X. It may seem like there is no light at the end of this tunnel. I can speak from experience there is light at the end of any dark wilderness no matter how painful it is for us to wade through. You are a very strong, wise, caring and loving mother and woman. I quote my Pastor," If you can look up you can get up." My prayers are with you and the girls. Gods love, mercy and grace be with you my friend.
I haven't even listened to the whole thing yet! ... but know you are human. Your watchers should be supportive of whatever you are going through because you are an actual human
Kelly i am so so very sorry for all your have experienced!! I was married for 30 years and had 8 children with my husband. One horrible day he said to me that I was fat and he wasn't in love with me and never should have married me. He said I was nothing and never would be and that my kids are never going to amount to anything . That day he left me crying standing on the curb infront of our home crying as he drove away. That was the same day that oldest daughter got married, we filed bankruptcy and his father went into hospice care. All in one day. God will be with you, he will be your comforter and your strength.! Yes I found out he had someone else. I had been a stay at home mom of 8. I afk him what I was going to do. He replied don't care standbon a street corner for all i care. Yes HURT!!!
Thanks for sharing Kelly! It's so hard. My husband left me when my son was 2 weeks old. I feel for you and the girls. God bless you and your girls and sending hugs and❤.
It’s your channel and yo can do whatever you want on it. If no one likes it, then they don’t need to watch. You do whatever you need for you and your girls in order to heal. Your testimony can help others why may be going through the same thing. Sending you all love, hugs and prayers. ❤❤❤
Oh Kelly, I wish I were with you now to wrap my arms around you and hug you until your pain goes away. I know your pain and it is truly a nightmare. I'm sending many prayers and cyber hugs to help you and the girls on your road to recovery. You will all come out on the other side of it all & be much better people for having survived! Wishing you all the best on your difficult journey. You are a strong woman, but even strong women need a break. You take all the time that you need. We'll be here for you when you are ready!! 😢😢❤🩹❤🩹🙏🙏
Kelly I am a senior citizen I recently lost my mother and I simply wish I had the guts to do exactly what you do. Please don't ever stop being you as you are amazing
Kelly that is absolutely unacceptable. You are so strong. This is your channel and if you want to share your experiences good or bad that is your choice. ❤
Kelly, consider the source! As long as your ex and his girlfriend draw breath, they will have to live with the knowledge of what they have done to you and your girls. Hold tight to each other. Better days are ahead.
I admire someone that can share something that's so personal and painful. It's not easy to be so open and I do think it helps others. What miserable people they must be. Praying for healing and for joy to return to your life.
I know exactly what betrayal trauma is. I had to go thru a devastating nightmare with my husband of 30 yrs. It took years to come out the other side. You will, it takes time but you will be better and know how to be happy again. The x & his low life gf will reap what they sow. Take time to get thru this. Thank you for sharing your story, people need to know, and you are helping someone else's trauma. ❤
Kelly, with you sharing your trauma is confirmation that I am not alone. Unfortunately I too feel as though a large portion of my life was a lie. It’s absolutely horrific and though it gets easier once again you can’t forget. But you can heal and live again only this time do it for yourself and your girls. Stay strong lovely lady
Dear Kelly and your girls; I will be praying for you all! I would block those phone numbers and never look back. It is unimaginable what your ex has done to you and your family!!! That woman will reap what she sows. I am sending all my love to your household. I will pray that you have great renters that will take care of Ray's house. I am grateful that you have honored the friendship that those of us on your channel feel toward you by sharing your pain so we can pray you through your tough times. That is what friends do. If you don't share we don't know you need prayer. I am sure there are an army of prayer warriors who visit your channel and would count it a high honor to carry our friend and her girls in prayer before the throne of Almighty God. Take all the time you need to heal before you worry about DIY content. Give each other a big hug from me.
Maybe it’s time for a move, get away from all the negativity and start over maybe near family! You have had a rough few years and I send prayers and heartfelt thoughts. He will always be with you just in a different way.❤️
I watched my Mother face sonethings similar to what you are facing. And the woman who hurt my Mother didn't live very long. My Mom carried on and she came out victorious. She kept her faith in God and in the end came out the winner. Please Kelly, don't let this woman bother you. Hold your head up. You are a much kinder person than she is and she will pay for what she is doing to you and your girls. My heart aches for y'all. Remember that God is on your side. I'm praying for y'all!❤ 🙏
Wow. I am so sorry to hear this. I’m so glad you are actively trying to heal and move forward in spite of this realization. Much love to you and your girls.
This person will reap what she sows I also lost my son in 2016 different circumstances my son was murdered he was only 34 and has 3 beautiful sons but no matter how you lose your child the grief never goes away the pain hurt and anger are always there just know you are stronger than you think you are and it will get easier to face the days ❤
Kelly You are a Beautiful, Courgeos, Woman. God Bless You for Speaking The Truth Praying for you … In The Name of King JESUS I Speak Healing & Peace Over You & Your Girls. 🙏🏻 👸🏼 ♥️ 🕊️
So sorry you had to go through all of these events. I can see and feel you will be coming out stronger. Keep up you efforts, you and your girls will need it. Ray will always be at your side and in your hearts.❤
Kelly, I am so sorry that all of this has happened to you and your girls. Keeping you ladies in my prayers. 🙏❤️💯 Oddly, so many things that you have talked about, I went through with my ex-husband. Take all the time that you need, talking as much as you want to, because healing doesn't have a time span. Cyber hugs, support and understanding are being sent to you and your girls.
Kelly, it’s hard to hear things like this, and even harder to let go of. But, over time you will heal. However, while you were talking, I was wondering if you have thought of moving. Get away from all the toxic things and people around you and start a new life for you and your girls. It’s just a thought.
That "lady" is an absolute atrocious person!! She sounds miserable. What comes around goes around. You and the girls take all the time you need to heal. ❤
It sounds like a person that really, really doesn't like herself or her life. She wants to make Kelly and the girls miserable to make herself feel better. She is an emotionally bankrupt human being. I bet she is making up a lot of what she says the ex-husband felt or said too.
@@stacycardinale8081 yes for sure 👍🏽
You are right. She made it known she was with him secretly because he didn’t want to get a divorce and give up a good woman Even after the divorce he came and seen his ex wife.. It seems like the other woman was being used by guy and he had her fooled. We know the ex wife still had a spot in the ex husband’s heart. He didn’t want to let her go. The other woman can say what she wants but it’s there.
She is no “lady”
That woman is only doing this because she feels threatened by you, otherwise she couldn't be trying to get to you like this.
I would ask your ex for the truth and show him those messages. I bet you'd get a totally different story and a more true story.
She sounds more like a narcissist than you.
I've noticed that people who hurt others are jealous and insecure. They are miserable within themselves. Stay strong ❤ God has this ❤
THIS!!! 🙌💪💯
Hurt people will hurt others
The relationship between him and that woman can't be that great if she's harassing you. And I definitely wouldn't believe everything she says about him and what he feels. She's obviously jealous of you and trying to hurt you! Personally I wouldn't give her the satisfaction of knowing it bothers you, but we're all different, and you have to do what's best for you.
Sometimes the best revenge is letting them see you're happy, moving on and not giving thoughts of them even an inch of space in your wonderful life ❤.
I said there must be trouble in their relationship and she feels the need to harass Kelly so if her ex might want to come back that women is making sure it won’t happen.
Kelly should contact her ex and ask if he knows that women is sending these texts to her.
I wouldn't give either the ex or his girlfriend the time of day. She sounds like a narcissist, and he sounds like a total coward. Just makes me so sad how Kelly and the girls were hurt in all this, especially when still dealing with so much grief of losing Ray. I hope the ex and his girlfriend have the life and future they BOTH deserve.
I hear that
Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯💯
My thoughts exactly. I bet he doesn’t know what that woman is doing to Kelly and the girls. Because if she was happy she wouldn’t bother with Kelly! Kelly should make sure he knows! It might just cause karma to come for that vile woman. Sooner than expected.
Wow what a truly horrible person she is!!! I cant believe your ex would be ok with that behavior. If he is then be grateful hes gone!! Dont believe what she says. The truth is she is jealous of what you have and what you had with your ex because sounds to me like shes not getting what she expected from him. Hes probably cheating on her too. I would block her and just erase her from your life. Say a prayer for her and then give it to God. Truth is you and the girls have a bright future full of adventure. This is a moment in time. Let go and let God!! I love you and your family dont forget how great you all are!!! Strong, Beautiful, intelligent women. Hearts of gold and you shine!!! This is what she hates so you keep being great and let her suffer through it!! Sending Prayers for all of you!!!
I couldn’t say it better. I agree.
Kelly you have every right in the world to discuss whatever you want on your platform. If it helps you or your girls heal in any way, just know you have people who love and are praying for y'all! PS ... give it to God and let Him handle the situation!! Never forget God is close to the broken hearted! ❤
Hang in there Kelly, you are a strong woman! Turn it all over to God!!! God Bless you and your girls!
That woman sounds like a malignant psychopath, intentionally vicious and cruel. Frankly, I wouldn’t believe a single word she says. She is playing a sick game. Be glad you are the better person by a mile. And be glad you are rid of your husband, who has made a big mistake and is now stuck with a psychopath.
I agree!! You just worry about you and your girls and have no communication with him unless absolutely necessary pertaining to the girls!!
I agree!! You just worry about you and your girls and have no communication with him unless absolutely necessary pertaining to the girls!!
Kelly, I’m nearly speechless. I’d say there is a special place in H*** for someone who goes out of their way to say or do those things. It says volumes about them not you. Do what you need to do for the 3 of you. We will be here. God bless you and the girls. Praying for you.
You are very sensitive Kelly, just move on and don’t give her the satisfaction of hurting you and your family, betrayal is hard to endure but you are strong women and you can do it, you can build your life, regain your smile and strength, praying for you and your girls and I’m sure you can do it, come out and spill your heart to us and we are more than happy to be there for you, even just by listening 🙏🏻💖✝️
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Wow! I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I can see you’re a strong woman, don’t ever let anyone bring you down. I can clearly see that her relationship is not very safe and that’s why she is trying to bring you down. Block her and ignore her. She is not worth it and your ex isn’t either, they both deserve each other
Oh Kelly!! I am so sorry. I have no other words come to mind. I'm stunned. I know it doesn't help but God sees ALL and she will have to answer for what she's done to u and ur family! Praying for u girl!❤❤❤
I wish that I didn't know what you were talking about. I received those messages and phone calls at 24. I am 64 years old now and i wish I could say I am completely healed but if someone blindsides me with talk about him or her it knocks me back. I withdraw for a few moments or a few hours and I am able to move on. She is sick, insecure and evil but she will never trust him because she knows what he did to you and what he is capable of. Sweetie you have a public. One who loves you without ever physically meeting you. You are an inspiration as a mother, a businesswoman, a real woman with standards, integrity and honesty. A huge hug. I am so sorry you hurt dear sister.🦋💕🦋
Oh, Kelly, don't give this woman the time of day. Do what you need to do to heal. Prayers for you and your girls.
Turn to God. He’s faithful! ❤️❤️
If those people dont want to listen then they dont have to.
Dont change who you are or your truth. We love you..Take care.
Exactly 💯
I'm so sorry you're going thru all of this. So horrible that this woman would think that it's ok to treat y'all this way. I'm just blown away that 1 person can act towards another person like she is with you. She's the one who needs help. Prayers for y'all.
U should do and share what u need to do or share. U could be helping others ignore those downers. Alot of us love your honesty good and sad. We all need to know u r real. One day at a time. U got this. Keep doing what is good for u💕
Very well said ditto ❤
That woman is threatened by you. She wouldn't go this hard after you if she wasn't.
Prayers for you and your daughters. Every day I have to tell myself "I can do all things through God who strengthens me." You are one of the strongest person I have come across. Love on your daughters and your precious pups. ❤
You 3 are going to be ok, Kelly. God sees and hears all. The wicked will not go unpunished. Love yourself and your girls everyday is my best advice.
You take all the time you need. Thank you for letting us know how you are doing. God bless you
Please continue to fight because I believe that greater is He that is in you than he who is in the world . ❤❤❤ Your joy is coming!
Thank you for keeping it real. Sharing with others helps those who are going through similar situations. Oh my gosh, that woman is terrible. The fact that she knew he had a wife and family, and got involved with him, shows the kind of person she is. She is very hateful. You are a wonderful person. Don’t let anyone make you feel less. I pray God helps you and your family through all the trauma you have been through. I’m so sorry for what you have been through and all you are going through now. We all care about you and are here for you, so you come on whenever you want and let out what your feeling . Big hugs.
Block her on everything, you don’t need to listen to this hateful woman any longer.
Please do this, and him too
Exactly
@@pamgodwin5017 very good advice.
I agree! Just block her don’t give her the time of day. She doesn’t deserve it.
I agree! Just block her. don’t give her the time of day. She doesn’t deserve it.
Grief is hard, fluid, unpredictable at best. Anniversaries are something, they can take the breath out of your soul. You’ve suffered a lot and shared your truth, which I think is brave. I hope you’ll eventually be able to channel your creativity as you learn to balance your grief and the emotions that come with it. Holidays are hard without putting grief on top of it. Love and hugs to you and your girls.
Such strong words of wisdom 🤎
You make me feel like I am not alone. I am tired of pretending to be OK. I have been a widow for 2 yrs 11 months & it seems like he passed 2 weeks ago. I am so sorry that you’re going thru this. It’s horrible & heart breaking! I wish I could remove it for you. God is with you & always will be. Stay strong for yourself & your girls. I respect you for your honesty.❤️
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She said all that to you which is hateful, vindictive and cruel, but have you spoken to your ex husband to confirm it was the truth? Sounds like this woman is very jealous of you and maybe fearful he still has feelings for you? I don’t know, but I’d definitely want to hear the truth from him, even though it will hurt you so much and feel that your whole life with him was a lie but if he confirms it, then I’d be done with him for good.
@@janetsinnott737 That is exactly what I just wrote! Kelly - be strong!!!
@@sweetpea0424 I’m so sorry, I didn’t see your comment. I promise I didn’t copy it.
@@janetsinnott737 he was sitting right there on speakerphone when she told us the truth about our lives and admitted it was true to Kayla and I
you all do what you need to heal.. bless all 3 of you... stay strong
Grief does that: it is a difficult part of your journey and painfully normal. You will treasure anyone who understands the process and supports you through it. ❤😢❤❤❤❤ I am horrified that anyone would write such hateful garbage and send it to the sweet person we know you to be. You have so many reasons to grieve, so take your time and grieve well. We love you and will be here whenever you have the energy to share your life, your feelings, and your talents. I pray for you whenever I think you you. I am proud of you and how far you have come through this astronomically hatd journey.
There's healing & helping others in sharing your truth! Sending prayers for healing, strength & peace🙏🏼🪽🫶🏼☮️☯️❤️
I lost my son almost 5years ago and it’s still difficult for me to let his clothes and other items go!
I am so glad you are in such a great therapy, you have got to have some deep deep pain and some emotions that you never expected. I wish I could give you and your girls a HUGE HUG! So much hurt in your heart! I will follow you on UA-cam and I will be praying and cheering you on in every way I can!🤗💖🤗💖
I'm so sorry for your loss! 😢
I'm so very sorry to hear you've gone through all this. That the girls had to go through it. My heart breaks for you all. No one deserves to be treated that way. How cruel those two are! I'm glad to hear you are working through it. That you are able to work through it. I will keep you and the girls in my prayers. May your lives turn into joy one day. Much love to you all. ❤️
That kind of pain breaks you. I hope you find the peace you deserve, and it will be a gift of understanding & strength that no one will ever be able to take away from you.
Ohhhh precious Kelly. I wish I could come and give you the biggest hug. Please know that I’m keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers 🙏
I'm so sorry, Kelly. It's hard to imagine that anyone would be so cruel. Praying for you and the girls. ❤❤🙏🙏🙏
I’m so very sorry. That woman is evil. KARMA
I’d say she’s psychotic & that’s my profession opinion.
Prayers for the three of you. Please continue to heal. ❤🙏
Praying for you and the girls, that you may heal and move forward..God bless
I'm going through my husband of 44 years taking his life and the betrayal trauma that was dumped on top of that at the same time. Talking about it helps me, I feel. You keep telling your story. That woman is a despicable human being.
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I’m so sorry, 😞 🫂
So sorry for your loss
My heart goes out to you and your family. Sending prayers.
So glad to see you, def been missing you! This is sickening and I am so sorry such insecure, vile, and miserable people are trying to rain on your and the children's lives. Your rainbow is coming, Stay you❤️🙏🏾🌈
Kelly, he’s doing that to you because you’re letting him do that to you. I’m not trying to be mean at all. You need to put him behind you and go on and enjoy your life because Ray would want that for you. Your ex-husband and his lowlife girlfriend are surely watching you suffer through your videos. Don’t give them that satisfaction. I have a lot I could say to you that would probably make sense but I have no way to tell you, so I’ll just leave it at that for now. Again, just don’t allow them to hurt you. Put them behind you and move forward because hurt hurting you is obviously what they want.
Sending you love and hugs, Kelly. You’re a strong person and you will get through this. Praying for you and your girls.🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
Kelly you’ve been through so much. Talk about it when you want or don’t talk. It’s your life.
When I lost my daughter I was devastated and I lost my mom 6 months after that and that resulted ptsd so you do what you have to do I for one am going to support you all I can love you Kelly you stay strong
I'm so sorry for your loss! 😢
If I don’t want to listen I go on. Don’t worry about other people.
My motto is: you do you!
Oh my Kelly😢😢. My heart 💕 goes out to you and the girls. 😢😢😢😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏
Praying for you and your girls strength, healing and peace. ❤
27 years of betrayal for me.I do understand how you feel. Healing is coming dear believe me. 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
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I can relate to what you are going through Kelly. All I can say is time heals ALL THINGS. Give all of this to God let it ALL GO . Prayers for you and your girls. Big Hugs. 🙏🤗🙏💓💕💞
Oh Kelly , I am so sorry for your loss of your son and betrayal of your ex. May you continue your journey of healing. You are so strong and loved by many. Prayers ❤ Thank you for sharing your journey and giving hope to those who are struggling with similar circumstances. God bless you.
Kelly your and your children are very loving and special people, don't let people like that bring you and your girls down. Some people need to be mean to try to make themselves feel special Karma is such a wonderful thing. Remember if he can do that to you he most certainly do it to her!!! I have been there. Sending you and your girls lots of love and light❤
Kelly, I am so sorry for what you are going through! It’s ok and it’s good for you to share and let your viewers know what you are going through! I send love and prayers to you and your girls! I can’t believe what kind of man could do that to you! You need so much healing my dear, it’s so unimaginable hearing that about your ex. My heart and soul go out to you and your daughters! God be with you and heal you from all the hurt you’ve been through.💔🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Keep being you....nobody walks in your shoes and alot of us learn from others.
Kelly, I went through the same thing. I was left a single mom of three beautiful girls. I also went to a dark place. It was only by the grace of God that brought me to the other side. I thought I was walking alone but I was not. I didn’t know I was capable of so much strength. I had to pull myself out of that deep depression for my girls sake. They are now three beautiful amazing women and I have the Lord to thank for that. You will do the same because you are a strong and beautiful lady, not to mention a wonderful mom. Prayers for strength within you💐🙏🏼
This must have been so incredibly painful to share. Thank you for your courage. There are countless others who will see this and realize that they are not alone. Emotional Trauma makes us feel so alone & isolated. When you’re in the midst of it it’s hard to realize and accept that just because someone spews their hatred in your direction doesn’t make their words become truth. Those who cause the trauma try to play with the emotions of their victims. So thankful that you & your precious daughters have each other to lean on. Most of all, I pray that you will feel & know that the Lord Jesus is there with and for each of you. May you feel His peace & strength day by day. ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I'm so sorry you're going through this. You and the girls are in my prayers. You deserve so much and I pray 2025 brings nothing but joy to you and your family. I'll be here whenever you're ready to come back. Just take care of yourself. Sending love.
I'm so very sorry for all of you Kelly❤ sending hugs and prayers 🙏🙏❤❤
So very sorry. Prayers for the three of you.
Wow we all have different trials in life that in time make us stonger for gods army. Its not easy I am so sorry for all you been through but that is so sick what your ex and his whatever she is did to yall. Cut ties and get a restraining order and dont check any contact from him or her block them if you can. This gives you power to go on. I have had to do this. It works. I pray for you and the girls. I miss you and will wait for your crafts and was so happy to see you were back. Dont give them your time or power and you and the girls will be stronger and in control a little more. Prayers love and god bless yall ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I think she has a child with him so it's not that simple.
@debbiehale2509 I feel the children are old enough that if they want to deal with them.
She doesnt have to.
Kelly, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Prayers for you and the girls.
I'm sorry to hear that. He doesn't deserve you.
Sending prayers to all of you.
I'm beyond heartsick for you and the girls. A betrayal by a spouse, family, or someone you considered a friend is a pain deep in our soul. Remember you and the girls are the victims. This women needs to watch out Ms. Karma is watching her and your X. It may seem like there is no light at the end of this tunnel. I can speak from experience there is light at the end of any dark wilderness no matter how painful it is for us to wade through. You are a very strong, wise, caring and loving mother and woman. I quote my Pastor," If you can look up you can get up." My prayers are with you and the girls. Gods love, mercy and grace be with you my friend.
I’m so sorry
I haven't even listened to the whole thing yet!
... but know you are human. Your watchers should be supportive of whatever you are going through because you are an actual human
I am sorry for what you and your daughters are going through. You are in my heart and in my prayers.
So very sorry. Something similar happened to me after 38 years of marriage. His behavior is despicable.
Kelly i am so so very sorry for all your have experienced!! I was married for 30 years and had 8 children with my husband. One horrible day he said to me that I was fat and he wasn't in love with me and never should have married me. He said I was nothing and never would be and that my kids are never going to amount to anything . That day he left me crying standing on the curb infront of our home crying as he drove away. That was the same day that oldest daughter got married, we filed bankruptcy and his father went into hospice care. All in one day. God will be with you, he will be your comforter and your strength.! Yes I found out he had someone else. I had been a stay at home mom of 8. I afk him what I was going to do. He replied don't care standbon a street corner for all i care. Yes HURT!!!
Wow, awful! What did you do??
Thanks for sharing Kelly! It's so hard. My husband left me when my son was 2 weeks old. I feel for you and the girls. God bless you and your girls and sending hugs and❤.
Kelly, God will take care of you and help you through this. We all love you and the girls. Ray is watching over you all. Love you for you ❤❤❤
It’s your channel and yo can do whatever you want on it. If no one likes it, then they don’t need to watch. You do whatever you need for you and your girls in order to heal. Your testimony can help others why may be going through the same thing. Sending you all love, hugs and prayers. ❤❤❤
Oh Kelly, I wish I were with you now to wrap my arms around you and hug you until your pain goes away. I know your pain and it is truly a nightmare. I'm sending many prayers and cyber hugs to help you and the girls on your road to recovery. You will all come out on the other side of it all & be much better people for having survived! Wishing you all the best on your difficult journey. You are a strong woman, but even strong women need a break. You take all the time that you need. We'll be here for you when you are ready!! 😢😢❤🩹❤🩹🙏🙏
Kelly I am a senior citizen I recently lost my mother and I simply wish I had the guts to do exactly what you do. Please don't ever stop being you as you are amazing
Praying for you to heal Kelly 🙏🏾❤️
Kelly that is absolutely unacceptable. You are so strong. This is your channel and if you want to share your experiences good or bad that is your choice. ❤
I’m so sorry his loss You are a wonderful woman who deserves a good man who will love you
Kelly, consider the source! As long as your ex and his girlfriend draw breath, they will have to live with the knowledge of what they have done to you and your girls. Hold tight to each other. Better days are ahead.
I'm praying for you and the girls Kelly. 🙂♥️
Sending you & your girls lots of prayers!💜🌻💕🙏🙏🙏
I admire someone that can share something that's so personal and painful. It's not easy to be so open and I do think it helps others. What miserable people they must be. Praying for healing and for joy to return to your life.
I know exactly what betrayal trauma is. I had to go thru a devastating nightmare with my husband of 30 yrs. It took years to come out the other side. You will, it takes time but you will be better and know how to be happy again. The x & his low life gf will reap what they sow. Take time to get thru this. Thank you for sharing your story, people need to know, and you are helping someone else's trauma. ❤
Kelly, with you sharing your trauma is confirmation that I am not alone. Unfortunately I too feel as though a large portion of my life was a lie. It’s absolutely horrific and though it gets easier once again you can’t forget. But you can heal and live again only this time do it for yourself and your girls. Stay strong lovely lady
Kelly, you have a strong support system here! We are all praying for you and the girls.
Kelly, I read something recently that said sometimes we are broken, God meets us there to build us back better. He's with you and your girls❤🙏
You’ve been through a lot. Talking about it helps.
Dear Kelly and your girls; I will be praying for you all! I would block those phone numbers and never look back. It is unimaginable what your ex has done to you and your family!!! That woman will reap what she sows. I am sending all my love to your household. I will pray that you have great renters that will take care of Ray's house. I am grateful that you have honored the friendship that those of us on your channel feel toward you by sharing your pain so we can pray you through your tough times. That is what friends do. If you don't share we don't know you need prayer. I am sure there are an army of prayer warriors who visit your channel and would count it a high honor to carry our friend and her girls in prayer before the throne of Almighty God. Take all the time you need to heal before you worry about DIY content. Give each other a big hug from me.
May you feel better and stronger with each day that passes.
Maybe it’s time for a move, get away from all the negativity and start over maybe near family! You have had a rough few years and I send prayers and heartfelt thoughts. He will always be with you just in a different way.❤️
I watched my Mother face sonethings similar to what you are facing. And the woman who hurt my Mother didn't live very long. My Mom carried on and she came out victorious. She kept her faith in God and in the end came out the winner. Please Kelly, don't let this woman bother you. Hold your head up. You are a much kinder person than she is and she will pay for what she is doing to you and your girls. My heart aches for y'all. Remember that God is on your side. I'm praying for y'all!❤ 🙏
So sorry for all of your family's losses. Praying for healing, peace, and the return of joy to your life.
My prayers are with you and your girls, Your biggest supporter is God and he is with you every step.Just lean onto him!
I’m so sorry you are going through this. Take your time we will all be here when you are ready again.
Wow. I am so sorry to hear this. I’m so glad you are actively trying to heal and move forward in spite of this realization. Much love to you and your girls.
No words but hugs to you. Cruelty is never acceptable.
This person will reap what she sows I also lost my son in 2016 different circumstances my son was murdered he was only 34 and has 3 beautiful sons but no matter how you lose your child the grief never goes away the pain hurt and anger are always there just know you are stronger than you think you are and it will get easier to face the days ❤
Kelly You are a Beautiful, Courgeos, Woman. God Bless You for Speaking The Truth Praying for you … In The Name of King JESUS I Speak Healing & Peace Over You & Your Girls. 🙏🏻 👸🏼 ♥️ 🕊️
Amen! I stand in agreement with you!! In Jesus' Christ's precious and holy name!! ❤🙌
She may think she has won by telling you all that but the same will happen to her. Once a cheater always one. I have been through something similar.
I understand I’ve been there
So sorry you had to go through all of these events. I can see and feel you will be coming out stronger. Keep up you efforts, you and your girls will need it. Ray will always be at your side and in your hearts.❤
💐Peace be with you and your daughters.❤
Kelly, I am so sorry that all of this has happened to you and your girls. Keeping you ladies in my prayers. 🙏❤️💯 Oddly, so many things that you have talked about, I went through with my ex-husband. Take all the time that you need, talking as much as you want to, because healing doesn't have a time span. Cyber hugs, support and understanding are being sent to you and your girls.
Kelly, it’s hard to hear things like this, and even harder to let go of. But, over time you will heal. However, while you were talking, I was wondering if you have thought of moving. Get away from all the toxic things and people around you and start a new life for you and your girls. It’s just a thought.
Sending prayers to you and your daughters for healing,peace and strength.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
sending hugs and positive vibes yalls way
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God bless you and lead you on your healing journey.
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Heal on...❤