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Sometime females do not marry because they see their father as an ideal men loving their wife and hence they also make such criteria and are not able to marry with anyone lacking even one criteria.. how do you see this
Recently I left my job to look after my kids because my in laws were busy looking after my sister in laws kids. My hubby didn't had time. But after leaving my job what I only got to hear is what im a doing whole day im just sitting there is always lots of things to do but a house wife her sacrifices are taken for granted nobody values her time her efforts there is nobody to talk to. In laws come and just sit because they think i have all the time in this world.Being a housewife is more difficult than working.
Sir there r many homemakers who do all household work ....managing without maid also.....including myself....even taking up kids studies upto grade 10th
Please take up your job, you will have your sanity. It is better to keep maids and all to look after the house. After 7 years, the kids will grow up and then you will not get a good job because you were not working Atleast do something part-time and maintain your mental health.
With all due respect sir i feel the root cause of all these problems,irritation and frustration in women is because of lack of appreciation and lack of any further purpose in life
I only agree with one thing you said : being an Indian man’s housewife is a shraap in many cases. There are very few samajdar indian men who value a housewife’s role. I have seen housewives cooking ,cleaning,taking care of children along with judgemental inlaws without a single thanks.i have seen working women doing chores and fulltime job without a single thanks. Indian women should take up hobbies and fitness in their spare time not another job.
I am not a house wife only rather working and earning almost the same salary as my husband. I got married thinking that I know this person and this person knows me so we will have kalesh and the regular problems of married life and families. I clearly told him that I don't know any cooking or household chores so I won't be able to do if he has any expectations. That time he said hum kar lenge. I too didn't think a lot about it coz thinking we both will earn so we will hire some help if required. After marriage I started doing chores for the house be it cooking cleaning washing and what not. But ofcourse with hectic office and stress of office I felt helpless in managing everything. But my so husband is so manly that he refused to keep any cook any bartan dhone wali and told me mere Ghar me main kisi ko nhi aane dunga. As a girl who just got married this is till date so hurtful. And this is not single event there are many such events. So I think even earning education can't get you the love respect equality that you expect. It just depends upon the person. If he is a good human being he will value your role in his life in his family. If he doesnt have the right mind he will not be able to recognise what he has to. True kaleshi
I want to know that since you know him and married him on basis of that, didn't you find he is KALESHI BEFORE MARRIGE . OR HE JUST CHANGED JUST AFTER MARRIGE . IT MEANS WE CANT GUESS HOW PERSON IS IN REAL LIFE , IT DOESNT MATTER HOW MUCH YOU KNOW THEM. THIS IS SO WRONG .DONT ASK HIM TO HIRE , TELL HIM I AM GOING TO HIRE OR YOU DO HOUSEHOOLD CHORES .
@@ninii394 right that's a good option to leverage then . She should have known this man lot more before marrige , i don't know how she did mistake in knowing his real self
Really this is very sad what u r facing. But it's never too late ,u strongly start taking decisions that help u in balancing work & home .Itna to house wife bhi nahi karti jitna aap job k saath kaam kar rahi ho but stop doing that. Sabse bada reason yahi h middle class females ka k wo chahte hue bhi job ya to ker nahi paati ya continue nahi rakh paati becoz husband wife se paise ka support to chahta h but khud ghar k kaam m support nahi karna chahta h
housewives are judged by the state of house. thats why she is obessed by the claeniliness of house. people say housewife hai toh ghar toh saaf rakh sakte ho?
I used to be told as a young girl, 'Look at the house! Anyone who comes will wonder if there is a woman in the house or not." What is the assumption? It is the woman's job to keep the home clean and polished. It does not matter if she is working or a housewife. So obviously she will get upset if the others in the house keep undoing what she has done. Her whole time in the house will only go cooking and cleaning and of course ensuring the children are 'properly brought up' (read disciplined, do their homework etc.) Unless men and children are trained to chip into housework just as the woman has to work outside to bring in some money, she is going to be grumpy. Don't be surprised at that!
I am a guy and I help my mother in keeping the house clean and frankly its side hobby and enjoyable thing in the weekends 😂😂 aur ma'am if you kids buy them gadgets for keeping the home clean like electric mop , robo vacuum etc usko khel khel mein safai krne mein maza ayega
Sir apne housewives ke baare me to bola. Lekin aise bht husbands hain jo wife ki jaan khane aa jaate hain agar unki cheezein jagah pe naa milein, time pe khana naa mile, ya ghar saaf naa mile. Apki baatein sahi hain with the condition that husbands are understanding, which is a very very rare case!! Meri ek friend hai jiski life bilkul aisi hi hai. She has thyroid and PCOS. Her health is pathetic. She is 38 years old. I constantly suggested her to take care of her diet and fitness and look for a job. With my suggestion she slowly started doing everything. But it seems like her husband is a narcissist. He has got problem with the fact that she is taking care of herself. For example, she started soaking almonds for herself. Next day he used to pick up all of them. Then she started soaking in good amount. Still he started picking most of them on daily basis. When she goea to kitchen to prepare something healthy for herself, he starts taunting that you do not cook for me (recently, she hired a cook which was driving him crazy already) but you are able to take out time to cook for yourself. These are just few examples. Once she went out with me at around 11am. We got late and she couldn't reach home before him during lunch. He is in army so he comes home for lunch in afternoon. Food was prepared - chole, poori, chawal, raaita and salad. The only issue was rice was served in a different vessel than usual. And he couldn't find it. So he sent her a long message with pictures saying - see how cook has served the meal. I was really surprised as I cannot imagine someone losing mind on such a trivial matter. I am also married. I didn't even have lunch prepared. I simply called my husband and informed him about me being late. He ate lunch from mess. That made her thinking that this is not a thing for kalesh and its not her mistake. This time she refused to say sorry which otherwise she used to say. Is baat ka itna kalesh hua ki 2-3 mahine chala. Lamba isliye chala ki unhone sorry nahi bola. Aise bhi husbands hote hain. Unpar bhi video banaiye.
@@TechwithLove1 do not have time to search for your comment. And I don't think there was anything to agree or disagree with in my comment. I just told my experience.
@@nirupamasharma4389 Sharma Ji Sahi baat time to kisi ke pass nhi hai lekin nikalna pdhta hai or mai bhi sab women se disagree nhi hu kuch hoti hai, mujhe lgta hai sasural aakr thodi tehjeb honi chahiye apne ghr ka routine or khane ka hisab thodi chlega dusre ghr mai bhii, apne husband ko ATM machine or Robot nhi smjhna chahiye jo bolo khrid lega
@@TechwithLove1 ap larki ke ghar jaake uske ghar ki tehzeeb se rehna pasand karoge??? Ap ek hafta bhi nahi reh paaoge, I can bet on this on a stamp paper. And you expect your wife to do that for life??? That being said, I agree with your atm machine wala point. Women should earn and spend that money on themselves and family also. Should not depend on husband's money. But in that case, in-laws and husband should not expect her to do housework like any homemaker would do. That's just inhuman. Aur jis tehzeeb tameez ki ap baat kar rahe ho, my comment is not about that. I guess you haven't read it.
@@nirupamasharma4389 You won, I know yehi hoga yaha bhi, sach baat bolu I can manage at their home kyunki mere maa baap ne mujhe bahut tehjib sikhai hai lekin kuch logo ko kuch pta nhi hota, mai nhi bool rha ki ladki ko naukrani smjhna chahiye but atleast thoda bahut kaam to krna chahiye, warna Sir bolte hain gudiya laaye hai fir to ghr mai bithao aaram kregi job to krni chahiye no matter choti ho ya bdi apna basic khrcha to khud se nikalna chahiye koi ped thodi lgaa hai husband ke ghr pr waise bhi ajkl husband wife dono ko job krna chahiye force nhi hai wife ke liye but smjh hogi to kregi
When you need a clean house hire a maid, when you need food hire a cook, when you need warmth hire a s** worker, when you need a family support hire a consultant, when you need kids seek adoption, when need any support other than job hire a doormat with a spine belt, when you need a combination of all in one-go all the time get married, Get it FREE !!😅 😅😅 thats economics and gdp for housewives!! And when most of males requirement gets over after certain age.. you can call your lifepartner a housewife as she is not earning !! Then ask her to get some money at home becoz she cant behave well and yes also becoz GDP needs a boost😂😂😂
Sad but 👍 जबरदस्त वैसे, कोई लड़की अपने मां पिता, अपना घर, apna नाम पहचान, अपना Comfort zone छोड़ कर आए ही क्यूं? किसलिए? किस फायदे के लिए वो दूसरे घर की नौकरानी बने? बुरी प्रथाओं को बदलने की जरूरत है। जब लड़के ने घर में काम ही नहीं करना, तो लड़का छोड़े घर। घर जमाई बने। सब घर खुशी खुशी संभल जायेंगे। REJECT THIS PRACTICE, REVOLT.
@@ninanani4085 Paisa bolta hai !! Just imagine to reverse this.. When everything can be hired there is absolute no need for marriage for ladies !! Why only ladies carry shame and burden to bring in next generation, and then all the nonsense and fake narratives of homemaker, caretaker, support function etc etc... !! Lets everyone bring in money only and boost the gdp. Lets everyone become bread earner only !!
@@ninanani4085 Females get offended when they are told by the society that they are not good enuf, and they start taking extra extra burden. However males does not immediately take extra burden even if they see wife suffering or being looked down. Point is jitne burden loge utna burden hoga, and thankless approach of society towards females will gain power. Marriage is a harmful web for females but its best for males !!
Ape ki vajah se hamare Ghar Mai kalesh hota hai ape kya samajete ho house wife kuch nahi karti ...lagta hai ape apna frastion sab per nikalete ho ...apko sunnane se pehleere husband bahut ache the ..but ab vo apki bhasha bolne Lage hai ape ki nazar mai her ek kaeah ki vajah nahi kamane wali wife hai ...ape ke is tarah ke topic se achi khasi life destroy ho Rahi hai....agar husband thodi se help kar de to vo noker ho gaya ...kyuki bas husband paise kamata hai to vo king hai ...ape apni soch ko thoda acha kijiye bevajah ke topic per gatiya apne view na de aur kalesh apki wife karti hogi ape pareshan ho apni wife se but hame khush rehne do
@@kiranjain3874 so sorry for you. But keep ur point clear at home. Wo saath nahi dete, to aap bhi unki tarah hafte me do chhuttiyan leni shuru kar do. Unko batao ki full time maid kitna karne wali hain aur kitna karne wali hain. Wo karwa kar dekh lein. Aur wo unko dena pade to unki aadhi tankhwah nikal jayegi. House work bhi monetize hona chahiye. Jis kaam ki izzat nahi mil rahi, wo karna chhod do.
I am working woman, I was fit and fine before marriage. I used to be ambitious and doing fine in career. In one year of marriage in joint family, I got pcod, weight gain, I became insomniac, developed chronic migraine. It's been four years of marriage now, my health has got down to such extent, I am not able to work now. I am unable to do office work, not even able to do daily basics chores because of daily headaches.
Housewives subah ka kaam khatam karke kuch hobbies ya apne pasand ke activities kar sakte hai, jaise crochet, knitting, stitching embroidery etc, during afternoon hours. Or can take tuition, english classes, yoga, drawing classes , music, dance classes for kids etc. These activities can keep them occupied and bring in money also.
I think husband wife should have separate rooms..becoz everyone wants thier own space and mental peace❤❤😂and husband also take some responsibility to go to kitchen for atleast serve his own food..wife is not in the house to first make food and after that serve also.
True! Serving and eating last is so regressive. I don't mind serving and sitting with everyone to eat. At the end, I'm so tired and they eat slowly, while I'm done eating and have to wrap the kitchen up by cleaning, putting cookware to wash, etc. After struggling, being afraid in my sasural and getting scolded by my mil if I didn't clean the table after all this, I live only with my husband and daughter now and I have made it an unsaid rule that if they finish last, they need to keep the left overs in the fridge and clean the table if I leave.
Probably these issues arise because the housewife struggles alone day in and day out to keep the house in order. Other members don' pitch in. This may be quite a drudgery for her. Also if she is physically not doing the main chores herself, monitoring the help is another battle in itself! Only the wearer knows where the shoe pinches. So instead of fault finding and making a mockery, other members can do their bit in helping her and share responsibilities of the household. Am sure the situation will then ease out.
U hav a very valid point. Others in the home r very insensitive to the lady. I worked for 25 yrs, and also run my home solely. At 69 too as a retired lady, I am doing the same what I did at 35. The husband has retirement , not the wife, huh, not fair sangoji, u r talking bahut upar upar se, instead make a video to sensitize the other members of the family don't be an mcp. Aap ek din saara woh kaam Karen Phir Bolein
@@rekhamukund5419 true, and the example Sangoji gave of undergarments of lady was very distasteful and unbecoming of a gentleman. The way he put his soul into the acting bit and anti lady arguments proves on which side he clearly is! What else can you expect from such a person!
no he also take side of woman he clearly said because of this atitude woman suffering from many diseases,problems etc. he also tell about the attitude of familly members towards house wife. what he try to address is to improve the thought process of house wife so that they will become more independent and able to contribute in familly properly its not 20 century where 1 earning person is enough its 21 century house wife can do lots of things now a days. He just trying to explain things very clearly.@@ushasingh1761
@@rajchinoy8412 even when they do, men still remain grumpy n frustrated n jealous. Not much difference in behaviour as also seen from some comments by ladies.
Few WOW learnings from the video: 1. Dukhi rehna is easy, it is our default state. Khush rehna is the difficult thing. Need to work hard to stay happy 2. A home should look like lived-in. Should look like a place of masti. Do not be too addicted to cleanliness all the times 3. Be a relaxed person. People will always like talking to you if you are a relaxed person 4. Everyone needs a purpose in life. Working and earning money gives you that purpose. More tangible value you add to the lives of other people, more you get paid 5. When husband and wife work together as a happy team, it opens the doors to unlimited success
Namaskar Sir. Indian men are suffering from a deep blood related mindset. What i learned after marriage is that my spouse has deep rooted concern and love only for people who are blood related only - one from whom he was born, the one whom he begot with me, his siblings and thats it. You cannot change this mindset
It appears it's Karma in action for the decades of injustice and inhumane conditions of Indian women.... This is the only explanation why a woman who is programmed genetically to be the caregiver and maintain a home would borderline destroy the sanctity of a home...
Humare ghar main housewife sirf khana banane ke liye hae pura ghar kabad khana bana rehta hae kyunki saare bhai bachpan se aise hi rehte aye hain aur abhi bhi aise hi rehte hain bhai log ghumte hain saath khate hae biwi bas khana banane ke liye hae koi ni puchta. Wo kehte hain humara ghar humare paise hum aise hi rahenge. Its better to have a job then live in someone's house like a servant with no rights.
working hoke , Ghar ka kaam b kro but comparison sirf house wife bahuo se hota hai..who don't even earn a penny .. And those who earn equal to their husbands plus Ghar ka kam plus bacha palna with wfh have no value..that's a bitter truth of today's working women.
@@thetoddlermom99 so what's the use of money they earn?? Nobody will get respect by doing daily chores and taking care of baby. Even a maid can do that. Important is what you bring to the table by being financially independent. That will only get you respect, atleast self-respect.
@@itsvpk11 you got it all wrong..read the first comment again.. and in Indian set ups it's not easy to get separated from a joint family.. whether you are earning or not...
@@thetoddlermom99 i think you're not getting it.. who's asking to get separated? Women can still get their name added in family assets or create new assets. Not necessarily you have to move out. Again you have to earn respect by doing something substantial, Life is not easy. There is no free lunch!
😂mam correct 👍n to b true most of the men's during.. From olden days till 1990.. Or till 1980..mens in this category have treated their wifes only like kaamwali bai.. N women had no choice.. But to b a good sanskari kaamwali bai. Husbands use to insult their wifes..in front of anyone.. N so much more.. In some cases men's wre innocent but in many innocent women.. I have seen..in today's date also these men's still insult their wife in the similar way.
Housewife is a shraap for everyone. Both husband wife should be earning and financially independent so that house work can be outsourced and they have something to do. Mai young ldka hu, work from home mai i got so irritated many times by my family. So I cant even imagine ki housewife ka kya haal hoga with bad inlaws. If inlaws, husband are well behaved then different story.
@@damanraaj3496 Housewife is not a shraap. Her own life is a shraap for her if she is forced to stay at home to do seva of parents in law and to wait on husband and children hand to foot.
This is one sided video along the lines of Chanakya neeti where woman is only there to support his man to become a king. This is the age of equality, no woman should be forced to be a house wife. House hold chores are everyone’s responsibility in the house, not just women’s. Our mothers were never appreciated, forced to tolerate anything and everything with a smile. Yes men did go out and make money, that’s hard too but they are much more appreciated for that in the society, their struggles are acknowledged by each and everyone. Saying Bacche paida krne ka kitne din khaogi is so immature and it’s coming from a man his age is in so bad taste. And only men appreciating this video is a great example why patriarchy runs so deep in Indian households. In this age and time, women should take advice from women leaders, working women, and not from any uncle like him.
Mazaa agaya. We have this mindset of once married, ever married. This worked last 50 years. Now the couples have to realize that marriage is not ever lasting, there should be equal contribution in monetary and help wise. Both of them have to be competent enough for families to survive. Divorces are also not society taboo. No one is keeping track of Divorces or curious to know the reasons of divorce. The wives dont want to be a doormat or be controlled. The men will have to be understanding. Agreed some woman sre toxic. I enjoyed watching this video. Thank you guruji 🙏
The real shraap of being a housewife is that our society doesn't respect or value their efforts and mostly they are taken for granted and expected to be always available for home needs as well as guests coming,they have no way to say no to things and people they don't want,in most of the cases this independence is not there and after a certain age this brings frustration,stress and diseases,it is very tough to adjust to needs of 4,5new people of a family and treat them as your own despite you not getting that love and warmth from them,whereas I feel expectations from working women are comparatively less or they have another place to at least hide away for some time at least
Sir ik aur angle bhi hai bache ko paida karna koi khel mazak nahi ik bar paida karke dekho na apni marji ka kha sakte ho na pehn sakte ho na apni marji ka koi kam kar sakte ho it's a lifelong commitment
@@VivekKumarSingh-cd4wz comment wasn't meant for you first n foremost u will have to be born as a woman to understand this u won't as a man what a woman goes thru while being pregnant infact u didn't understand the coment at all it wasn't about kids at all it was about process of pregnancy n what all it entails
Sooo true even in my med college professor told many women bare labour pain for days before actually giving birth 😢. And what's more painful 😂is I am myself a female. Ignore men's stupid comment this show their iq level ......during pregnancy women restricted having many kinds of food and even medicines when they are sick. Maine dekha h women undergoing labour pain and child birth. Dekhne Mei itna dard feel horha tha 😢real mei Kitni takleef hoti hogi 😢. Being women is real hard
@@VivekKumarSingh-cd4wz ek baar apni maa se poochna unhone shayad ek toxic husband tak ko jeevan bhar dhoya hoga just because of you. Here you are not insulting pregnant mothers or other mothers. You are insulting your own mother shamelessly 😓😓😓
@@fire6915 pata nahi, jo admi apne biwi ke against kuch nahi bolta even when she is wrong sometimes , apne saare safalta ka credit apne biwi ko deta hai . Every man is not toxic but i get ur emotion repurcussion is more on women than vice versa
Admiyo ko bhagavan ne eak hi kaam diya he paise kamane ka , uske liye bhi wo ladies ki taraf dekhte he. house wife ko bhimariya isliye ho ti he kyu ki unke house wife ke kaam ki value nahi hoti he . Working women jo 9 -5 job karti he unme bimariya aur bhi zaada hoti he .
M a housemaker age 47 , but m happy & enjoying my life with my new found freedom .reading book, gossiping with my childhood friends, grooming myself& planning my solo tour to Europe. 6:55
This time uncle ji, you are wrong not fully, but you probably don't realize it. Because you haven't managed a household...or maids. Husbands who know wife has a maid, live in a fantasy world where they think maids do everything. Maids don't do everything. There is a thing called invisible labor....look it up. Who sorts kids clothes if they get small, who shops, who gets their crafts supplies, who makes grocery lists .. agree that a lot of it can be outsourced but still, to get everything done just like the way, which works for the family, you need a manager....so called housewife. Amd everyone needs respect, the real reason for their melancholy is need for respect.
Thank you for opening eyes of all housewives. I totally agree with you. Aap kamayab ho gaya. Maza aa gaya. My kuch karti hoon jugaad .....mere pati ke secretary banuungi....sochti hoon kaise unka help sakti hoon. I liked the idea "husband and wife are a team". Thank you Guruji. 😊
Nice talk but what if wife is handling everything -home, kid, business and husband. No kaleshi. No demands, no arguments. Working together as team . But what about one day she found he husband is taking this as granted and He is cheating for another woman who is not even 10% of her. Most badly husband is so protective for that other woman instead of her own wife. What would you give advice to such woman . What should she do
Leave such a man. I think when a man has no struggle in a relationship he takes it for granted. So either make things difficult for him or just kick him out.
I shared this video to my wife. Aur last 24 hrs se meri to lagi padi hai. Accha hai guru ji uski aawaj aap ko sunai nahi de raha. Aapki to literally le rakhi hai isne 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sir totally correct my mom rants everyday n mom dad fights every single day I don't want to get married because of them even I started hating marriage it's useless concept just to trap n do exploitation of a woman that's it. Nobody's gonna come n buy you Gucci n Prada's bag or your dream car be your own hero work for yourself and enjoy life alone no need to raise any kids n do this sacrifice be selfish and happy 😂 ❤
@@amazing3954 Hubby says he has to preserve me as, as per him he has got rare "kohninoor", given this loving name to me 🤣 I think ppl need to see ppl closely to know n understand couple, who are living happily with mutual respect. This may help many to better their own life. Thank God 😀❤️🙏🙏
The best thing he said and I relate... It's easy to be sad and work to be happy... Literally translates to 'you are the owner of your own happiness' P.S. I am not a housewife... My husband loves your videos and shares them with me... Also I saw our relationship and overall home economy and environment getting better after we started following your videos... 🎉
I m a housewife and mein bhi pehle aise karti thi ki ache bedsheets sambhal k rakhi hei , ache kapde sambhl k rakhti thi lekin kuch time se meine. Sab kuch use karna suru kiya
Hats off to you sir, what amazing data collection, observations, research and analysis. I am a housewife now, but have worked earlier. I can see the signs of ocd etc you mentioned in women who have never worked outside of house. I agree that they need to losen up a bit. Yet i wonder why they are all driven to such extremes? Why the vaccum that you mentioned? Is it easy for women to enter the 'productive' workforce after 14-15 years of gap between studying and raising kids and with no experience? The family gets so used to the customized comfort offered by the mom, they don't co-operate with the women when they try. In any case the women has lost most of her confidence by then. It's a very valid observation, but needs some clarity on what these women should do.
I chose not to be the bitter housewife and have become the secretary. But given a choice i would prefer to be the office going woman. I can't because the family end up in kalesh. I end up being overworked, stretched out thin trying to fulfill all duties, cause i never get a secretary.
@@aartikhare2471same with me.Same case as you. I stay in pune .Ex IT engineer same story. I felt too stressed while working in top IT company but same expectations were there all household work so I chose to quit working in office because I felt I couldn't handle it all and was chid chidi then as to basic expectations of an husband also not met from
Jis aurat ka pati srawan kumar jaisa ho aur jiski saas manthra jaisi kutil mahila ho…wo shadi shuda aurat ka jeevan hi ek shraap hai..chahe wo housewife ho ya so called working women….
Agar house wife se shadi nahi Karni, toh ek cheez jarur Karna, wife ki har kaam mein help Karna. Otherwise working women, end up so burdened by work n expectations at work place and home, that a day comes that they finally decide to let go one thing, which usually is their job, and end up being house wife. Not every woman who is a house wife is one because she wanted to be.
Hm sabhi bhayi-bahno ki parwarish bina ladai-jhagde ke hui..to hme kalesh karna hi nhi aata thaa..sasural mai ghar ke sare aur bahar ke bhi sare Kaam sambhaal liye..paisa aur gaddi bhi aa gayi..to siddhi sadhe achchhe hone ka sharrap mila..pati bhar dusri aurat mai padonnati kar li..bibi ko bahar pagal,murakh,bal buddhi ghoshit kar diya...pure pariwar ne har Galti ke liye mujhe doshi kha..aur piche se galat kaamo mai pati ka sath diya..ab bataiye.. ki mujhe is Vishwasghati pati ke sath kya karna chahiye..ab bataiye ki kaleshi hona shi h ya achchha hona.
संपत्ति को जोड़ा जाता है surname के साथ. और पितृसत्ता ने व्यवस्था बना दी कि लड़की का लड़के में विलीन होकर बदल जायेगा और लड़का ही surname और पारिवारिक खानदानी legacy का वारिस बना रहेगा। इसलिए अब दो चीज़ें बहुत जरूरी हैं, लड़की अपना घर न छोड़े, बेघर होने से इंकार कर दे, और अपना खुद का सरनेम अपने बच्चे के साथ बढ़ाए। किसी और के वंश (industry) के लिए बच्चा पैदा करने की मशीन या खेती बन कर न रह जाए, जिस मशीन को कोई याद ही न रखता हो। REJECT REVOLT
🙏Seriously, sir, thank you... for us women, who are wives, both working or housewife, should watch your video to bring us onto the ground.. to the reality... very great video as always... but this video, I will watch again and again to keep myself not to become like the person who is suffering al the time and spreads suffering to the family. Thank you again to India's One and only Clarity Giver... Social Reformer.
Sir please guide Wife doesn't want to manage his cupboard she has her own work( teaching and private work) But husband is not ready to do his own clothes saying this is wife's work What to do now ?? Please give some hint
I am also feeling so. As he also keeps looking sideways . Listening to his vidoes since beginning and used to relate mostly with many but also felt for these type that it is more of an issue at his home.May be his wife is not working and he is mostly at home so 😋
Sir apne issue bahut sahi raise kiye hain. However thode practical steps as solutions bhi bata dena tha. Yadi bataye bhi hain to video me highlight nahi hue hain
I don’t understand why housewife word is treated as victim 😡😡😡 jitna social media pe housewife housewife hoga.. utna jyda iski value kam hogi … please take it light and stop making videos in the name of housewife .. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Anyone can be happy.. be it housewife or working Anyone can have any disease be it housewife or working Anyone can get respect from other be it housewife or working Anyone can get bad treatment in the house be it housewife or working 🧐🧐🧐 the list goes on….. Think 🙏🏻 Please treat every woman as the normal human being irrespective what she job she does 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Irrelevance aa jaayegi ma'am Hamare yaha kiya the yeh experiment by my aunty end mein machines aa gayi and family uses it now complete alienation ho gaya
MAG AAG I'm 55yrs old house wife having been married since 33yrs. Shaadi k kuchh saal teaching job k thi college m but husband k past life m kaafi vaccum tha jiske kaaran job continue kar nahi paayi ,jabki in- laws saath m bhi nahi rehte the . But bank ke ,market ke aur 10th class tak dono bachchon ko padhana , atleast itna contribute to ker paayi . Mere husband achchhi tarah ye baat samajhte hai k keval unki khushi k liye maine job continue nahi kiya. Us time k hisaab se m highly educated throughout rank holder rahi thi. Ab m chahti hu k kuchh to start karoo . Amitji ne poora video hum jaisi ladies ko samjhane k liye banaya h. M koi excuse nahi dungi apne defence m . Unhone bilkul theek kaha h .
I am not agree with you sir. Everyone should understand everyone's importance of life. They should grateful for everyone's efforts either men or women. Everyone's thinks house management is only women's responsibility and then nobody appreciate women's efforts. If she is sad everyone judge oh she is irritated because of workload no its not true ...she wants appreciation , respect and little understandable. Please help her if she is need then u can see the miracles. Unfortunately women is not supporting other women thats also a issue . We should change our mindset and be kind with everyone. Thats my opinion what I experienced. Thanksc
You are pretending to speak in favor of housewives.. but actually You are speaking in a very demeaning manner.. mind your tone.. i wish you would have gone through the crap a housewife has gone through..
Apne jo baat kahi wo sahi h lekin pls acharya peasant ko criticize na kare unhe samjhe bina wo kehte h galat shaadi karne se acha h saadi mat karo jo bilkul sahi h❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Bhai india me shadi hi ultimate aim hai life ka to koi uske liye thoda alag bolta hai to logo ko lagta hai abb hamari so called sanskriti khatre me pad jayegi
Sir sabse bdi chiz wife ko ptaa hai meri salary 30K hai bolti hai mujhe sabzi pasand nhi hai, daal pasand nhi hai, makeup ka saman, facewash, sabun, mhenge sampoo or pta nhi kitna chahiye, khana bahr ka pasand aata hai, job kr rhi hai to ghar ka kaam almost chood diya hai, apne kapde washing machine mai to khud dhoo skti hai, apnr room mai jhadu poocha to lgaa skti hai, mai nhi bool rha sabkuch krne ko, apna normal thoda bahut kaam to kr skti hai, mai bhi 12, hrs bahr job pr rhta hu ghar aakr thakaan lg jati hai, ghar ka saara kaam meri mom, dad and bhai krte hain, shaadi ko 8 months hue hain, koi help kro yr?
@@FromProfessor I feel it's torture for a man as well to handle everything on our own some women never understand or jaisa sir ne bola ek video mai ek dum sach baat hai after 1992 wali ladkiya koi kaam ki nhi hain sayd koi kr le but almost nikkammi hai or ladko se sabkuch expect krti hai aap khud socho ajkl ke time mai 30K salary kya hoti bilkul normal hai almost sb logo ki hoti hai itni km salary mai hum kaise manage krnege itna kuch bahut demand hain bhai mai to dekh kr hairan ho jata hu mere washroom mai 8 type ke shampoo 4 type ke conditionar or 6 facewash lotion or pta nhi kya hai aisa lgta hai jaise dukan lga rkkhi ho 😀
@@Sambhu65I switched the job and now getting 70K per month and with incentives it will be around 95K mehnat kri hai or bewkoof tum ho jo yaha time waste krne aaye ho apna kaam kro tumhare jaise 100 logo ko mai khreed skta hu itni property hai
Even if wife works ...earns more than husband..takes care of children and home and husband is artist....who does not participate in family...lives in own world. And away from home...pls make video on this and improve family...thanks...
Why won't make so much efforts to clean home, because husbands and husband's relatives complain and degrade her all the time for one and other thing. If a housewife do 35 things a day instead of appreciating husband complaint for 36th small thing that she didn't do. I had realised this thing. I was trying to make my husband happy and satisfied by working morning 5 am to 12 pm. When I decided to end tasks by 8pm and finished all major tasks cleaning, moping, washing, cooking by 8pm. I decided to give 9 pm to 10 pm to myself. My husband got insecure and started making fuss over small issues. He got insecure k isko meri zarurat na rahi to, kahin ye independent ho gayi to main ise dabaunga kaise?
Mene at 50 phir se teaching job start kr di.....bht khush hu..bache bahar rete hn for job n padai...apne bacho ko achi trh bda kr dia ab dusre aur bacho ko kr ri hu.....my son's respect me....apne paiso se apne buzurg parents k lie jb gifts bhejti hu to aanand se bhr jati hu
Har koi aurat ka Mazak hi banate hai.....Apne bhi bana Liya.....waise Kai Ghar mein iska Ulta bhi hai jaha pati kaleshi hote hai.....Khair is baare mein koi interested nahi hai..... women is a soft target so anyone can make fun of 😢
@@pratapthakur8056 so you are saying just for telling my opinion I need to have my own channel...... I am a working woman and do all the house chores. Have a family with kids. I don't have any time left so it's not possible. But I will again say it's the men who make their wife behave in a certain way in most of the cases. Why should there be a comparison from other women, she has to go through his parents tantrums, most of the responsibility's..... of course with time she will get irritated...... that's my opinion.....and not a generalized statement.
@@PreetiSri REJECT REVOLT कोई लड़की अपने मां पिता, अपना घर, apna नाम पहचान, अपना Comfort zone छोड़ कर आए ही क्यूं? किसलिए? किस फायदे के लिए वो दूसरे घर की नौकरानी बने? बुरी प्रथाओं को बदलने की जरूरत है। जब लड़के ने घर में काम ही नहीं करना, तो लड़का छोड़े घर। घर जमाई बने। सब घर खुशी खुशी संभल जायेंगे। और फिर देखेंगे साढ़ू लोग आपस में कितना हंसी खुशी, मिलजुल कर रहते है।
C 😂😂😂 waise baat to sahi h meri MIL suffers from severe OCD. When I asked my FIL why didn't you get her treated and his reply was the doctor said the medicine would make her sleep for the whole day !! Now the situation is so bad that she tries to control each and every aspect of our lives. She doesn't let us touch anything in home. Keeps a track of each sound made in the house to know who touch what. You have to wash hands even if you touch the main door and she has to supervise to know you washed properly. She is frustrated on everyone and keeps shouting and fighting. We cannot even take water or go inside kitchen as we would make it impure. Kids are not allowed to flush and an adult has to go and flush for them. Now everyone avoids going to he home and living with her because of these things.
Sir aap vo case bata rhe ho jo ki 1 out of 100 hota hai in middle class 50/100 housewife suffers a lot , their narcissist husband or family just make their life hell
Children will be traumatized if mother doesn't give time to them because father's think there only responsibility is to earn and fight with wife if she wants to take out sometime for changing her ordinary life. Men r always insecure
Few children r sensitive in their teens and need validation for the same which always mothers give and understand. No educated women wants to play ghar ghar ... for their children they do lot of things which promotes their children.
😂 spot on! I really enjoyed this one. Some women are so precious about their self perceived importance in the lives of their children and spouse. Maza aa gaya😂
Naukri toh corporate de nahi Raha 40s mein...flex working options in work bhi Kam Hain....koi latakna nahi chahta..kisko paise pasand nahi...but lack of opportunities of women of this age is driving them anxious...we also intend St example of our young girls that they can pursue career and manage home together, but I personally have faced interviews where I feel reluctance on hiring because of age and gap in career
U r only focusing on frustrated housewives... Glorification of housewives r not needed... But satisfaction of housewives is needed... Agor wo bolti rehti hai about her importance of work in home it means c is vry dissatisfied with her surroundings.. C needs someone who understands her... Sometimes c herself don't know how to keep herself happy satisfied n busy... It's vry important to keep urself busy n occupied ur thoughts with constructive n productive thinking. . Sir plz try to feel the homemakers tht their job is worthy... Don't create confusions n feeling of dissatisfaction in already dissatisfied women... It's vry important to keep our children and our homes in safe hands... Husbands r doing good duties at ofice bcos there is someone who is taking care of his whole family... Woman faces mood swings so often..not only the menopause...So plz mention that also
Sir aap sara kadva sach duniya k samne rakhte ho. Jo ki bahut bhadiya h👌. Mujhe bhi aapse bahut kuch sikhne ko mila esliye dhanyawad🙏 aapke jaise Intellectual logo ki aaj k samaaj ko bahut jrurat hai. Mai unme se ek banne ka pura prayas karungi🙏
I like your videos a lot. You always say straight forward harsh truth. Currently I am a house wife and Thank you so much sir inspiring from your video I started to learn a foreign language for job perspective at the age of 33. And now onwards I want to make my own identity. 🙏🙏
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really very helpful video
Sometime females do not marry because they see their father as an ideal men loving their wife and hence they also make such criteria and are not able to marry with anyone lacking even one criteria.. how do you see this
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Recently I left my job to look after my kids because my in laws were busy looking after my sister in laws kids. My hubby didn't had time. But after leaving my job what I only got to hear is what im a doing whole day im just sitting there is always lots of things to do but a house wife her sacrifices are taken for granted nobody values her time her efforts there is nobody to talk to. In laws come and just sit because they think i have all the time in this world.Being a housewife is more difficult than working.
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Sir there r many homemakers who do all household work ....managing without maid also.....including myself....even taking up kids studies upto grade 10th
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Please take up your job, you will have your sanity.
It is better to keep maids and all to look after the house.
After 7 years, the kids will grow up and then you will not get a good job because you were not working
Atleast do something part-time and maintain your mental health.
Totally agree same mere sath bhi yehi
With all due respect sir i feel the root cause of all these problems,irritation and frustration in women is because of lack of appreciation and lack of any further purpose in life
Very well said n very much true
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I only agree with one thing you said : being an Indian man’s housewife is a shraap in many cases. There are very few samajdar indian men who value a housewife’s role. I have seen housewives cooking ,cleaning,taking care of children along with judgemental inlaws without a single thanks.i have seen working women doing chores and fulltime job without a single thanks. Indian women should take up hobbies and fitness in their spare time not another job.
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I agree 👍👍
Those few samjdhar men will remain single in future.
Husband tak ki baat ho to bhi thik hai..but in laws n their relatives...itna kaun karega
I am not a house wife only rather working and earning almost the same salary as my husband. I got married thinking that I know this person and this person knows me so we will have kalesh and the regular problems of married life and families.
I clearly told him that I don't know any cooking or household chores so I won't be able to do if he has any expectations. That time he said hum kar lenge.
I too didn't think a lot about it coz thinking we both will earn so we will hire some help if required.
After marriage I started doing chores for the house be it cooking cleaning washing and what not.
But ofcourse with hectic office and stress of office I felt helpless in managing everything.
But my so husband is so manly that he refused to keep any cook any bartan dhone wali and told me mere Ghar me main kisi ko nhi aane dunga.
As a girl who just got married this is till date so hurtful. And this is not single event there are many such events. So I think even earning education can't get you the love respect equality that you expect. It just depends upon the person. If he is a good human being he will value your role in his life in his family. If he doesnt have the right mind he will not be able to recognise what he has to.
True kaleshi
I want to know that since you know him and married him on basis of that, didn't you find he is KALESHI BEFORE MARRIGE . OR HE JUST CHANGED JUST AFTER MARRIGE .
IT MEANS WE CANT GUESS HOW PERSON IS IN REAL LIFE , IT DOESNT MATTER HOW MUCH YOU KNOW THEM.
THIS IS SO WRONG .DONT ASK HIM TO HIRE , TELL HIM I AM GOING TO HIRE OR YOU DO HOUSEHOOLD CHORES .
Do you give your salary to him or use for yourself ? If you contribute then don't !! If he is behaving like this then you behave like this too
@@ninii394 right that's a good option to leverage then .
She should have known this man lot more before marrige , i don't know how she did mistake in knowing his real self
@@shaangaming350 agree
Really this is very sad what u r facing. But it's never too late ,u strongly start taking decisions that help u in balancing work & home .Itna to house wife bhi nahi karti jitna aap job k saath kaam kar rahi ho but stop doing that. Sabse bada reason yahi h middle class females ka k wo chahte hue bhi job ya to ker nahi paati ya continue nahi rakh paati becoz husband wife se paise ka support to chahta h but khud ghar k kaam m support nahi karna chahta h
housewives are judged by the state of house. thats why she is obessed by the claeniliness of house. people say housewife hai toh ghar toh saaf rakh sakte ho?
I used to be told as a young girl, 'Look at the house! Anyone who comes will wonder if there is a woman in the house or not." What is the assumption? It is the woman's job to keep the home clean and polished. It does not matter if she is working or a housewife. So obviously she will get upset if the others in the house keep undoing what she has done. Her whole time in the house will only go cooking and cleaning and of course ensuring the children are 'properly brought up' (read disciplined, do their homework etc.) Unless men and children are trained to chip into housework just as the woman has to work outside to bring in some money, she is going to be grumpy. Don't be surprised at that!
I am a guy and I help my mother in keeping the house clean and frankly its side hobby and enjoyable thing in the weekends 😂😂 aur ma'am if you kids buy them gadgets for keeping the home clean like electric mop , robo vacuum etc usko khel khel mein safai krne mein maza ayega
Some how Indian man loves respect and are so emotional about their kaleshi maa. But they are just against their wives even if she is not kaleshi.
Reason is ladke Maa ke laadle hote hain bachpan se hi unhe bhagwan ki trah treat kiya jata hai to khud ko superior samjhte hain
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Some mothers are toxic .. they make their sons toxic too by endlessly ranting about bahu
Maja aa gaya
Sir apne housewives ke baare me to bola. Lekin aise bht husbands hain jo wife ki jaan khane aa jaate hain agar unki cheezein jagah pe naa milein, time pe khana naa mile, ya ghar saaf naa mile. Apki baatein sahi hain with the condition that husbands are understanding, which is a very very rare case!!
Meri ek friend hai jiski life bilkul aisi hi hai. She has thyroid and PCOS. Her health is pathetic. She is 38 years old. I constantly suggested her to take care of her diet and fitness and look for a job. With my suggestion she slowly started doing everything. But it seems like her husband is a narcissist. He has got problem with the fact that she is taking care of herself. For example, she started soaking almonds for herself. Next day he used to pick up all of them. Then she started soaking in good amount. Still he started picking most of them on daily basis. When she goea to kitchen to prepare something healthy for herself, he starts taunting that you do not cook for me (recently, she hired a cook which was driving him crazy already) but you are able to take out time to cook for yourself. These are just few examples.
Once she went out with me at around 11am. We got late and she couldn't reach home before him during lunch. He is in army so he comes home for lunch in afternoon. Food was prepared - chole, poori, chawal, raaita and salad. The only issue was rice was served in a different vessel than usual. And he couldn't find it. So he sent her a long message with pictures saying - see how cook has served the meal. I was really surprised as I cannot imagine someone losing mind on such a trivial matter. I am also married. I didn't even have lunch prepared. I simply called my husband and informed him about me being late. He ate lunch from mess. That made her thinking that this is not a thing for kalesh and its not her mistake. This time she refused to say sorry which otherwise she used to say. Is baat ka itna kalesh hua ki 2-3 mahine chala. Lamba isliye chala ki unhone sorry nahi bola.
Aise bhi husbands hote hain. Unpar bhi video banaiye.
Didn't agree, mera reply pdho bahr comment section mai pta chlega
@@TechwithLove1 do not have time to search for your comment.
And I don't think there was anything to agree or disagree with in my comment. I just told my experience.
@@nirupamasharma4389 Sharma Ji Sahi baat time to kisi ke pass nhi hai lekin nikalna pdhta hai or mai bhi sab women se disagree nhi hu kuch hoti hai, mujhe lgta hai sasural aakr thodi tehjeb honi chahiye apne ghr ka routine or khane ka hisab thodi chlega dusre ghr mai bhii, apne husband ko ATM machine or Robot nhi smjhna chahiye jo bolo khrid lega
@@TechwithLove1 ap larki ke ghar jaake uske ghar ki tehzeeb se rehna pasand karoge??? Ap ek hafta bhi nahi reh paaoge, I can bet on this on a stamp paper. And you expect your wife to do that for life???
That being said, I agree with your atm machine wala point. Women should earn and spend that money on themselves and family also. Should not depend on husband's money. But in that case, in-laws and husband should not expect her to do housework like any homemaker would do. That's just inhuman.
Aur jis tehzeeb tameez ki ap baat kar rahe ho, my comment is not about that. I guess you haven't read it.
@@nirupamasharma4389 You won, I know yehi hoga yaha bhi, sach baat bolu I can manage at their home kyunki mere maa baap ne mujhe bahut tehjib sikhai hai lekin kuch logo ko kuch pta nhi hota, mai nhi bool rha ki ladki ko naukrani smjhna chahiye but atleast thoda bahut kaam to krna chahiye, warna Sir bolte hain gudiya laaye hai fir to ghr mai bithao aaram kregi job to krni chahiye no matter choti ho ya bdi apna basic khrcha to khud se nikalna chahiye koi ped thodi lgaa hai husband ke ghr pr waise bhi ajkl husband wife dono ko job krna chahiye force nhi hai wife ke liye but smjh hogi to kregi
When you need a clean house hire a maid, when you need food hire a cook, when you need warmth hire a s** worker, when you need a family support hire a consultant, when you need kids seek adoption, when need any support other than job hire a doormat with a spine belt, when you need a combination of all in one-go all the time get married, Get it FREE !!😅
😅😅 thats economics and gdp for housewives!!
And when most of males requirement gets over after certain age.. you can call your lifepartner a housewife as she is not earning !!
Then ask her to get some money at home becoz she cant behave well and yes also becoz GDP needs a boost😂😂😂
Sad but 👍 जबरदस्त
वैसे,
कोई लड़की अपने मां पिता, अपना घर, apna नाम पहचान, अपना Comfort zone छोड़ कर आए ही क्यूं? किसलिए? किस फायदे के लिए वो दूसरे घर की नौकरानी बने?
बुरी प्रथाओं को बदलने की जरूरत है।
जब लड़के ने घर में काम ही नहीं करना, तो लड़का छोड़े घर। घर जमाई बने। सब घर खुशी खुशी संभल जायेंगे।
REJECT THIS PRACTICE, REVOLT.
@@ninanani4085 Paisa bolta hai !!
Just imagine to reverse this.. When everything can be hired there is absolute no need for marriage for ladies !!
Why only ladies carry shame and burden to bring in next generation, and then all the nonsense and fake narratives of homemaker, caretaker, support function etc etc... !!
Lets everyone bring in money only and boost the gdp. Lets everyone become bread earner only !!
@@ninanani4085 Females get offended when they are told by the society that they are not good enuf, and they start taking extra extra burden. However males does not immediately take extra burden even if they see wife suffering or being looked down.
Point is jitne burden loge utna burden hoga, and thankless approach of society towards females will gain power. Marriage is a harmful web for females but its best for males !!
Ape ki vajah se hamare Ghar Mai kalesh hota hai ape kya samajete ho house wife kuch nahi karti ...lagta hai ape apna frastion sab per nikalete ho ...apko sunnane se pehleere husband bahut ache the ..but ab vo apki bhasha bolne Lage hai ape ki nazar mai her ek kaeah ki vajah nahi kamane wali wife hai ...ape ke is tarah ke topic se achi khasi life destroy ho Rahi hai....agar husband thodi se help kar de to vo noker ho gaya ...kyuki bas husband paise kamata hai to vo king hai ...ape apni soch ko thoda acha kijiye bevajah ke topic per gatiya apne view na de aur kalesh apki wife karti hogi ape pareshan ho apni wife se but hame khush rehne do
@@kiranjain3874 so sorry for you. But keep ur point clear at home. Wo saath nahi dete, to aap bhi unki tarah hafte me do chhuttiyan leni shuru kar do. Unko batao ki full time maid kitna karne wali hain aur kitna karne wali hain. Wo karwa kar dekh lein. Aur wo unko dena pade to unki aadhi tankhwah nikal jayegi.
House work bhi monetize hona chahiye.
Jis kaam ki izzat nahi mil rahi, wo karna chhod do.
I am working woman, I was fit and fine before marriage. I used to be ambitious and doing fine in career. In one year of marriage in joint family, I got pcod, weight gain, I became insomniac, developed chronic migraine. It's been four years of marriage now, my health has got down to such extent, I am not able to work now. I am unable to do office work, not even able to do daily basics chores because of daily headaches.
Sister plz start doing meditation and taking counselling.. Always remember ur Health is ur biggest Asset and nothing else..
Don't take your household work seriously just do what you can. And avoid all types of carbs and sweets for 3 months
Leave that environment. Get a rented house and move out. U will get better in 2 months.. toxicity is killing u.
@@sandysan177 don't give her wronge advice .living alone for women is not an easy task.
@@farzanayasmean3586 living with toxicity is way more difficult
Housewives subah ka kaam khatam karke kuch hobbies ya apne pasand ke activities kar sakte hai, jaise crochet, knitting, stitching embroidery etc, during afternoon hours. Or can take tuition, english classes, yoga, drawing classes , music, dance classes for kids etc. These activities can keep them occupied and bring in money also.
I think husband wife should have separate rooms..becoz everyone wants thier own space and mental peace❤❤😂and husband also take some responsibility to go to kitchen for atleast serve his own food..wife is not in the house to first make food and after that serve also.
True! Serving and eating last is so regressive. I don't mind serving and sitting with everyone to eat. At the end, I'm so tired and they eat slowly, while I'm done eating and have to wrap the kitchen up by cleaning, putting cookware to wash, etc. After struggling, being afraid in my sasural and getting scolded by my mil if I didn't clean the table after all this, I live only with my husband and daughter now and I have made it an unsaid rule that if they finish last, they need to keep the left overs in the fridge and clean the table if I leave.
We do. N it's still not working bcoz my husband has stopped sleeping wid me.
@@deeptirao5982 where is your in laws now
@@seeker7090 In their house. We moved out because of space constraints and jobs.
Sabse Pehle Husband se Paise Lena Band hona chahiye
Probably these issues arise because the housewife struggles alone day in and day out to keep the house in order. Other members don' pitch in. This may be quite a drudgery for her. Also if she is physically not doing the main chores herself, monitoring the help is another battle in itself! Only the wearer knows where the shoe pinches. So instead of fault finding and making a mockery, other members can do their bit in helping her and share responsibilities of the household. Am sure the situation will then ease out.
U hav a very valid point. Others in the home r very insensitive to the lady. I worked for 25 yrs, and also run my home solely. At 69 too as a retired lady, I am doing the same what I did at 35. The husband has retirement , not the wife, huh, not fair sangoji, u r talking bahut upar upar se, instead make a video to sensitize the other members of the family don't be an mcp. Aap ek din saara woh kaam Karen Phir Bolein
@@rekhamukund5419 true, and the example Sangoji gave of undergarments of lady was very distasteful and unbecoming of a gentleman. The way he put his soul into the acting bit and anti lady arguments proves on which side he clearly is! What else can you expect from such a person!
no he also take side of woman he clearly said because of this atitude woman suffering from many diseases,problems etc. he also tell about the attitude of familly members towards house wife. what he try to address is to improve the thought process of house wife so that they will become more independent and able to contribute in familly properly its not 20 century where 1 earning person is enough its 21 century house wife can do lots of things now a days. He just trying to explain things very clearly.@@ushasingh1761
Women should also equally step in to earn money and run the household instead of burdening husband for finances
@@rajchinoy8412 even when they do, men still remain grumpy n frustrated n jealous. Not much difference in behaviour as also seen from some comments by ladies.
Few WOW learnings from the video:
1. Dukhi rehna is easy, it is our default state. Khush rehna is the difficult thing. Need to work hard to stay happy
2. A home should look like lived-in. Should look like a place of masti. Do not be too addicted to cleanliness all the times
3. Be a relaxed person. People will always like talking to you if you are a relaxed person
4. Everyone needs a purpose in life. Working and earning money gives you that purpose. More tangible value you add to the lives of other people, more you get paid
5. When husband and wife work together as a happy team, it opens the doors to unlimited success
Thank you for summarising, as it is easy to make notes.
Agar gharwale appreciate kare to itni frustration na ho aurto ko it's a thankless job that no one wants to do
Moreover time has changed....it is important for every woman to be financially independent... it gives a lot of confidence to women apart from money
appreciate a frustrated woman?
@@rajchinoy8412 who has frustrated this woman n who needs to appreciate ask yourself 🙏
@@rajchinoy8412do you help your wife in all household chores, or /and including cooking?
@@gemkd No.
Namaskar Sir.
Indian men are suffering from a deep blood related mindset. What i learned after marriage is that my spouse has deep rooted concern and love only for people who are blood related only - one from whom he was born, the one whom he begot with me, his siblings and thats it.
You cannot change this mindset
It appears it's Karma in action for the decades of injustice and inhumane conditions of Indian women.... This is the only explanation why a woman who is programmed genetically to be the caregiver and maintain a home would borderline destroy the sanctity of a home...
Humare ghar main housewife sirf khana banane ke liye hae pura ghar kabad khana bana rehta hae kyunki saare bhai bachpan se aise hi rehte aye hain aur abhi bhi aise hi rehte hain bhai log ghumte hain saath khate hae biwi bas khana banane ke liye hae koi ni puchta. Wo kehte hain humara ghar humare paise hum aise hi rahenge. Its better to have a job then live in someone's house like a servant with no rights.
That’s a very toxic set up. Just leave it
working hoke , Ghar ka kaam b kro but comparison sirf house wife bahuo se hota hai..who don't even earn a penny ..
And those who earn equal to their husbands plus Ghar ka kam plus bacha palna with wfh have no value..that's a bitter truth of today's working women.
Ye tabhi hota hai jab lady ka khudka Ghar na ho.. meaning you're not mentioned as 1st or 2nd owner of the house. Nahi to kiski majal hai..
@@itsvpk11 obviously such women are not the owners of the house..
@@thetoddlermom99 so what's the use of money they earn?? Nobody will get respect by doing daily chores and taking care of baby. Even a maid can do that. Important is what you bring to the table by being financially independent. That will only get you respect, atleast self-respect.
@@itsvpk11 you got it all wrong..read the first comment again.. and in Indian set ups it's not easy to get separated from a joint family.. whether you are earning or not...
@@thetoddlermom99 i think you're not getting it.. who's asking to get separated? Women can still get their name added in family assets or create new assets. Not necessarily you have to move out. Again you have to earn respect by doing something substantial, Life is not easy. There is no free lunch!
It's always a pleasure to hear you .
Baba ji ka keertan sunne jane sai acha ki pati patni dono aapki video dekh lee ek hafta repeat , toh sab Ghar k har kalesh door ho jaye .
😂😂😂
lakhon ki baat bol di ye toh
Sahi kaha
Yeh sun ke lagta hai ke middle class housewife is the shrap for the husband and children, though the title gives the opposite impression!
😂mam correct 👍n to b true most of the men's during..
From olden days till 1990..
Or till 1980..mens in this category have treated their wifes only like kaamwali bai..
N women had no choice.. But to b a good sanskari kaamwali bai. Husbands use to insult their wifes..in front of anyone..
N so much more..
In some cases men's wre innocent but in many innocent women..
I have seen..in today's date also these men's still insult their wife in the similar way.
Housewife is a shraap for everyone. Both husband wife should be earning and financially independent so that house work can be outsourced and they have something to do.
Mai young ldka hu, work from home mai i got so irritated many times by my family. So I cant even imagine ki housewife ka kya haal hoga with bad inlaws.
If inlaws, husband are well behaved then different story.
@@damanraaj3496 Housewife is not a shraap. Her own life is a shraap for her if she is forced to stay at home to do seva of parents in law and to wait on husband and children hand to foot.
This is one sided video along the lines of Chanakya neeti where woman is only there to support his man to become a king. This is the age of equality, no woman should be forced to be a house wife. House hold chores are everyone’s responsibility in the house, not just women’s. Our mothers were never appreciated, forced to tolerate anything and everything with a smile. Yes men did go out and make money, that’s hard too but they are much more appreciated for that in the society, their struggles are acknowledged by each and everyone. Saying Bacche paida krne ka kitne din khaogi is so immature and it’s coming from a man his age is in so bad taste. And only men appreciating this video is a great example why patriarchy runs so deep in Indian households. In this age and time, women should take advice from women leaders, working women, and not from any uncle like him.
Mazaa agaya. We have this mindset of once married, ever married. This worked last 50 years. Now the couples have to realize that marriage is not ever lasting, there should be equal contribution in monetary and help wise. Both of them have to be competent enough for families to survive. Divorces are also not society taboo. No one is keeping track of Divorces or curious to know the reasons of divorce. The wives dont want to be a doormat or be controlled. The men will have to be understanding. Agreed some woman sre toxic. I enjoyed watching this video. Thank you guruji 🙏
The real shraap of being a housewife is that our society doesn't respect or value their efforts and mostly they are taken for granted and expected to be always available for home needs as well as guests coming,they have no way to say no to things and people they don't want,in most of the cases this independence is not there and after a certain age this brings frustration,stress and diseases,it is very tough to adjust to needs of 4,5new people of a family and treat them as your own despite you not getting that love and warmth from them,whereas I feel expectations from working women are comparatively less or they have another place to at least hide away for some time at least
Sir ik aur angle bhi hai bache ko paida karna koi khel mazak nahi ik bar paida karke dekho na apni marji ka kha sakte ho na pehn sakte ho na apni marji ka koi kam kar sakte ho it's a lifelong commitment
Apni marji ka khaane aur pehenne se bacho ne roka thaa? Aisi baato se hi bache traumatize hote hai
@@VivekKumarSingh-cd4wz comment wasn't meant for you first n foremost u will have to be born as a woman to understand this u won't as a man what a woman goes thru while being pregnant infact u didn't understand the coment at all it wasn't about kids at all it was about process of pregnancy n what all it entails
Sooo true even in my med college professor told many women bare labour pain for days before actually giving birth 😢.
And what's more painful 😂is I am myself a female. Ignore men's stupid comment this show their iq level ......during pregnancy women restricted having many kinds of food and even medicines when they are sick.
Maine dekha h women undergoing labour pain and child birth.
Dekhne Mei itna dard feel horha tha 😢real mei Kitni takleef hoti hogi 😢.
Being women is real hard
@@VivekKumarSingh-cd4wz ek baar apni maa se poochna unhone shayad ek toxic husband tak ko jeevan bhar dhoya hoga just because of you.
Here you are not insulting pregnant mothers or other mothers. You are insulting your own mother shamelessly 😓😓😓
@@fire6915 pata nahi, jo admi apne biwi ke against kuch nahi bolta even when she is wrong sometimes , apne saare safalta ka credit apne biwi ko deta hai . Every man is not toxic but i get ur emotion repurcussion is more on women than vice versa
Admiyo ko bhagavan ne eak hi kaam diya he paise kamane ka , uske liye bhi wo ladies ki taraf dekhte he. house wife ko bhimariya isliye ho ti he kyu ki unke house wife ke kaam ki value nahi hoti he . Working women jo 9 -5 job karti he unme bimariya aur bhi zaada hoti he .
Sir family and relation pe aapko bharat ratna na mil jaaye ek din😂😂😂
M a housemaker age 47 , but m happy & enjoying my life with my new found freedom .reading book, gossiping with my childhood friends, grooming myself& planning my solo tour to Europe. 6:55
U r not middle class then u r from rich husband family
This time uncle ji, you are wrong not fully, but you probably don't realize it. Because you haven't managed a household...or maids. Husbands who know wife has a maid, live in a fantasy world where they think maids do everything. Maids don't do everything. There is a thing called invisible labor....look it up. Who sorts kids clothes if they get small, who shops, who gets their crafts supplies, who makes grocery lists
.. agree that a lot of it can be outsourced but still, to get everything done just like the way, which works for the family, you need a manager....so called housewife. Amd everyone needs respect, the real reason for their melancholy is need for respect.
Agreed
Waao said so true . Keeping track of things /managing house is a task
Thank you for opening eyes of all housewives. I totally agree with you. Aap kamayab ho gaya. Maza aa gaya. My kuch karti hoon jugaad .....mere pati ke secretary banuungi....sochti hoon kaise unka help sakti hoon. I liked the idea "husband and wife are a team". Thank you Guruji. 😊
Husband and wife are pole opposite can never be a team .just some tolerate and patience honesty and hard work is needed.mainly honesty
I'm seeing my ex mother inlaw. 😅😅😅😅. Seriously I was so angry on her. Bt as I'm aging I understand her 😂😂😂😂😂
We live in a judgmental country. Only thing housewives or otherwise have to learn is how to ignore unnecessary judgement. Rest all will fall in place.
Nice talk but what if wife is handling everything -home, kid, business and husband. No kaleshi. No demands, no arguments. Working together as team . But what about one day she found he husband is taking this as granted and He is cheating for another woman who is not even 10% of her. Most badly husband is so protective for that other woman instead of her own wife.
What would you give advice to such woman . What should she do
Leave such a man, no infidelity acceptable
Leave such a man. I think when a man has no struggle in a relationship he takes it for granted. So either make things difficult for him or just kick him out.
Guruji being a woman I totally Agree to all that you said all true
So true, I'm living this life now.
AAG Amit Ji blockbuster video hai ye playlist mein save karke rakhne waali. Ye video library mein rakhni waali video hai.
I shared this video to my wife. Aur last 24 hrs se meri to lagi padi hai. Accha hai guru ji uski aawaj aap ko sunai nahi de raha. Aapki to literally le rakhi hai isne 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Kisi youtuber chahe kitna hi guru ji kyu na ho ki wajah se biwi se kalesh mat karo. At the end he also has his agenda.
Sir totally correct my mom rants everyday n mom dad fights every single day I don't want to get married because of them even I started hating marriage it's useless concept just to trap n do exploitation of a woman that's it. Nobody's gonna come n buy you Gucci n Prada's bag or your dream car be your own hero work for yourself and enjoy life alone no need to raise any kids n do this sacrifice be selfish and happy 😂 ❤
This is one of the most enlightening video sir n much needed topic👍👍
Was housewife made efforts passed few exams got govt teacher job thanks to u🙏🙏🙏🤗🤗
Congratulations
🙏 this is nothing but a curse to be born a daughter in the Bhaarath. 🇮🇳.
Especially higher castes...
True. Half of life spoiled by egoist father, irrelevant mother.
Luckily met a great person, husband. Now finding my true potential.
@@ninanani4085 preserve it
Atleast lucky if husband is good
Sometimes it’s our karmic debt to pay
Retired husband ke liye bhi chahiye ek video please sangwan ji
@@amazing3954 Hubby says he has to preserve me as, as per him he has got rare "kohninoor", given this loving name to me 🤣
I think ppl need to see ppl closely to know n understand couple, who are living happily with mutual respect.
This may help many to better their own life.
Thank God 😀❤️🙏🙏
I really wanna listen your wife comments now what kind of patti are you how she perceives you and how you live in your home 😅
Same here
I am his regular listener, since initial days but still want to know this and it feels like it's his personal experience too
Since he understands all this emotion I think he must be a better husband, a better father, a better head of the family than others.
Everything is correct what you said.. but give the solution too
That will be given in a webinar. This video is the trailer and preview.
The best thing he said and I relate... It's easy to be sad and work to be happy... Literally translates to 'you are the owner of your own happiness'
P.S. I am not a housewife... My husband loves your videos and shares them with me... Also I saw our relationship and overall home economy and environment getting better after we started following your videos... 🎉
I m a housewife and mein bhi pehle aise karti thi ki ache bedsheets sambhal k rakhi hei , ache kapde sambhl k rakhti thi lekin kuch time se meine. Sab kuch use karna suru kiya
Hats off to you sir, what amazing data collection, observations, research and analysis. I am a housewife now, but have worked earlier. I can see the signs of ocd etc you mentioned in women who have never worked outside of house. I agree that they need to losen up a bit. Yet i wonder why they are all driven to such extremes? Why the vaccum that you mentioned? Is it easy for women to enter the 'productive' workforce after 14-15 years of gap between studying and raising kids and with no experience? The family gets so used to the customized comfort offered by the mom, they don't co-operate with the women when they try. In any case the women has lost most of her confidence by then. It's a very valid observation, but needs some clarity on what these women should do.
I chose not to be the bitter housewife and have become the secretary. But given a choice i would prefer to be the office going woman. I can't because the family end up in kalesh. I end up being overworked, stretched out thin trying to fulfill all duties, cause i never get a secretary.
@@aartikhare2471same with me.Same case as you. I stay in pune .Ex IT engineer same story. I felt too stressed while working in top IT company but same expectations were there all household work so I chose to quit working in office because I felt I couldn't handle it all and was chid chidi then as to basic expectations of an husband also not met from
Actually I disagree with Mr Sangwaan on this . I am 40 years old. May be his wife is not working and so he knows and feels this side of story
Jis aurat ka pati srawan kumar jaisa ho aur jiski saas manthra jaisi kutil mahila ho…wo shadi shuda aurat ka jeevan hi ek shraap hai..chahe wo housewife ho ya so called working women….
Sir bhagwan apko 200 saal ki umar de. 180 ki age me bhi apko same energy dey de.
U r genius sir....
Love u sir from the first day i got link.
Thanks for kind words
No one can remain happy all the time understand this!
Sir kabhi kabhi aisa lagta hai akele rahe koi nahi chahiye
Excellent.
Your thoughts make us retrospect.
Thankyou
Maja aagaya 😂😂 Mai toh house wife se shaadi nahi karunga 😝🤭
Agar house wife se shadi nahi Karni, toh ek cheez jarur Karna, wife ki har kaam mein help Karna. Otherwise working women, end up so burdened by work n expectations at work place and home, that a day comes that they finally decide to let go one thing, which usually is their job, and end up being house wife. Not every woman who is a house wife is one because she wanted to be.
Hm sabhi bhayi-bahno ki parwarish bina ladai-jhagde ke hui..to hme kalesh karna hi nhi aata thaa..sasural mai ghar ke sare aur bahar ke bhi sare Kaam sambhaal liye..paisa aur gaddi bhi aa gayi..to siddhi sadhe achchhe hone ka sharrap mila..pati bhar dusri aurat mai padonnati kar li..bibi ko bahar pagal,murakh,bal buddhi ghoshit kar diya...pure pariwar ne har Galti ke liye mujhe doshi kha..aur piche se galat kaamo mai pati ka sath diya..ab bataiye.. ki mujhe is Vishwasghati pati ke sath kya karna chahiye..ab bataiye ki kaleshi hona shi h ya achchha hona.
संपत्ति को जोड़ा जाता है surname के साथ. और पितृसत्ता ने व्यवस्था बना दी कि लड़की का लड़के में विलीन होकर बदल जायेगा और लड़का ही surname और पारिवारिक खानदानी legacy का वारिस बना रहेगा।
इसलिए अब दो चीज़ें बहुत जरूरी हैं, लड़की अपना घर न छोड़े, बेघर होने से इंकार कर दे, और अपना खुद का सरनेम अपने बच्चे के साथ बढ़ाए। किसी और के वंश (industry) के लिए बच्चा पैदा करने की मशीन या खेती बन कर न रह जाए, जिस मशीन को कोई याद ही न रखता हो।
REJECT REVOLT
Ye bhi to admi hai inka bhi IQ kam lag raha
🙏Seriously, sir, thank you... for us women, who are wives, both working or housewife, should watch your video to bring us onto the ground.. to the reality... very great video as always... but this video, I will watch again and again to keep myself not to become like the person who is suffering al the time and spreads suffering to the family. Thank you again to India's One and only Clarity Giver... Social Reformer.
Yes sir you told the truth no one dates to speak.
I can relate with many of your story.
Sir please guide
Wife doesn't want to manage his cupboard she has her own work( teaching and private work)
But husband is not ready to do his own clothes saying this is wife's work
What to do now ??
Please give some hint
Trust me he is frustrated from both his life and wife ....he needs help 😅
I am also feeling so. As he also keeps looking sideways . Listening to his vidoes since beginning and used to relate mostly with many but also felt for these type that it is more of an issue at his home.May be his wife is not working and he is mostly at home so 😋
Correct abhi Ghar Mai usko nahi dekna hai
AAG!!
Modi is also retiring in few years and I think you are right sir someone else will come and continue his legacy!!!
Women is soft target anyone can make fun of....
Sir apne issue bahut sahi raise kiye hain. However thode practical steps as solutions bhi bata dena tha. Yadi bataye bhi hain to video me highlight nahi hue hain
He said in short be a secretary to your husband doing every work like pay bills, buy groceries, look after kids etc yourself
I don’t understand why housewife word is treated as victim 😡😡😡 jitna social media pe housewife housewife hoga.. utna jyda iski value kam hogi … please take it light and stop making videos in the name of housewife .. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Anyone can be happy.. be it housewife or working
Anyone can have any disease be it housewife or working
Anyone can get respect from other be it housewife or working
Anyone can get bad treatment in the house be it housewife or working 🧐🧐🧐
the list goes on…..
Think 🙏🏻
Please treat every woman as the normal human being irrespective what she job she does 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Pls stop calling them house wives and call them house manager’s instead u will change your point of view and b respectful
He didn't disrespect anywhere, you are disturbed with that term coz in your heart you know that being a housewife can never earn respect!
Wives - wake up one day say I am not doing house work for a week, manage yourself . Then you see the respect and help you get from the family.
Irrelevance aa jaayegi ma'am
Hamare yaha kiya the yeh experiment by my aunty end mein machines aa gayi and family uses it now complete alienation ho gaya
Sir superb tq so much. Iam learning
This was one of your funniest video with dark reality.
A dark comedy....
Sir ji...menopause 10 years hota hai starts from 38 yrs to 45 years. Ye sab hormonal changes hote hain...but thank you for the video
MAG
AAG
I'm 55yrs old house wife having been married since 33yrs. Shaadi k kuchh saal teaching job k thi college m but husband k past life m kaafi vaccum tha jiske kaaran job continue kar nahi paayi ,jabki in- laws saath m bhi nahi rehte the . But bank ke ,market ke aur 10th class tak dono bachchon ko padhana , atleast itna contribute to ker paayi . Mere husband achchhi tarah ye baat samajhte hai k keval unki khushi k liye maine job continue nahi kiya. Us time k hisaab se m highly educated throughout rank holder rahi thi. Ab m chahti hu k kuchh to start karoo . Amitji ne poora video hum jaisi ladies ko samjhane k liye banaya h. M koi excuse nahi dungi apne defence m . Unhone bilkul theek kaha h .
I am not agree with you sir. Everyone should understand everyone's importance of life. They should grateful for everyone's efforts either men or women. Everyone's thinks house management is only women's responsibility and then nobody appreciate women's efforts. If she is sad everyone judge oh she is irritated because of workload no its not true ...she wants appreciation , respect and little understandable. Please help her if she is need then u can see the miracles. Unfortunately women is not supporting other women thats also a issue . We should change our mindset and be kind with everyone. Thats my opinion what I experienced. Thanksc
You are pretending to speak in favor of housewives.. but actually You are speaking in a very demeaning manner.. mind your tone.. i wish you would have gone through the crap a housewife has gone through..
Apne jo baat kahi wo sahi h lekin pls acharya peasant ko criticize na kare unhe samjhe bina wo kehte h galat shaadi karne se acha h saadi mat karo jo bilkul sahi h❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Bhai india me shadi hi ultimate aim hai life ka to koi uske liye thoda alag bolta hai to logo ko lagta hai abb hamari so called sanskriti khatre me pad jayegi
I love the comments. ...and fully agree
Sir you have underestimated all housewives😮 being a husband aap housewives ke saath relate nhi kar payenge sir 😑
Sir, please ladkiyo ki, mahilao ki, wrong mindsets par bhi video baniye na sir, please!!
क्या होती है wrong mindset
Sir sabse bdi chiz wife ko ptaa hai meri salary 30K hai bolti hai mujhe sabzi pasand nhi hai, daal pasand nhi hai, makeup ka saman, facewash, sabun, mhenge sampoo or pta nhi kitna chahiye, khana bahr ka pasand aata hai, job kr rhi hai to ghar ka kaam almost chood diya hai, apne kapde washing machine mai to khud dhoo skti hai, apnr room mai jhadu poocha to lgaa skti hai, mai nhi bool rha sabkuch krne ko, apna normal thoda bahut kaam to kr skti hai, mai bhi 12, hrs bahr job pr rhta hu ghar aakr thakaan lg jati hai, ghar ka saara kaam meri mom, dad and bhai krte hain, shaadi ko 8 months hue hain, koi help kro yr?
@@FromProfessor I feel it's torture for a man as well to handle everything on our own some women never understand or jaisa sir ne bola ek video mai ek dum sach baat hai after 1992 wali ladkiya koi kaam ki nhi hain sayd koi kr le but almost nikkammi hai or ladko se sabkuch expect krti hai aap khud socho ajkl ke time mai 30K salary kya hoti bilkul normal hai almost sb logo ki hoti hai itni km salary mai hum kaise manage krnege itna kuch bahut demand hain bhai mai to dekh kr hairan ho jata hu mere washroom mai 8 type ke shampoo 4 type ke conditionar or 6 facewash lotion or pta nhi kya hai aisa lgta hai jaise dukan lga rkkhi ho 😀
Tum Kon se kam bewakoof ho jo itni kam Salary mein Shaadi Kar li? Bachhon ke Kharche uthane mein to tumhein nani Yaad aa jayegi.
@@Sambhu65I switched the job and now getting 70K per month and with incentives it will be around 95K mehnat kri hai or bewkoof tum ho jo yaha time waste krne aaye ho apna kaam kro tumhare jaise 100 logo ko mai khreed skta hu itni property hai
Sad indeed
@@TechwithLove1
Wife ki salary kitni hai ??
Agar itni jyada demand hai to us se bolo ki apne hi paise se apne shauk poore kare.
Even if wife works ...earns more than husband..takes care of children and home and husband is artist....who does not participate in family...lives in own world. And away from home...pls make video on this and improve family...thanks...
Thank you 🙏
Why won't make so much efforts to clean home, because husbands and husband's relatives complain and degrade her all the time for one and other thing. If a housewife do 35 things a day instead of appreciating husband complaint for 36th small thing that she didn't do.
I had realised this thing. I was trying to make my husband happy and satisfied by working morning 5 am to 12 pm. When I decided to end tasks by 8pm and finished all major tasks cleaning, moping, washing, cooking by 8pm. I decided to give 9 pm to 10 pm to myself. My husband got insecure and started making fuss over small issues. He got insecure k isko meri zarurat na rahi to, kahin ye independent ho gayi to main ise dabaunga kaise?
Are Aisa to kuch nai h... Meri mummy housewife nai hoti to m unk itn close nai hoti or na unki utni value kr rh hote hum siblings aaj
Sahi kaha...ye sab aajkal ke nakhre hain..housewife mother ka connection apne bachho se alag hi level ka hota hain..90's kids can understand this.
@@shwetasingh3414 fully agree 💯..
Totally agree
My mother was a working woman I didn't have bond with her at all. Now I have started feeling that uncle measures everything practically nd monetarily
@@hk89426 yes everything cant be measured practically and in monetary terms
Mene at 50 phir se teaching job start kr di.....bht khush hu..bache bahar rete hn for job n padai...apne bacho ko achi trh bda kr dia ab dusre aur bacho ko kr ri hu.....my son's respect me....apne paiso se apne buzurg parents k lie jb gifts bhejti hu to aanand se bhr jati hu
Best of the video till now. Loved the video and damn relateble. Gonna play this again infornt of my family on the tv.
Har koi aurat ka Mazak hi banate hai.....Apne bhi bana Liya.....waise Kai Ghar mein iska Ulta bhi hai jaha pati kaleshi hote hai.....Khair is baare mein koi interested nahi hai..... women is a soft target so anyone can make fun of 😢
Aap bhi apna channel banao ..men ko Target Karo..kisne roka hai
@@pratapthakur8056 so you are saying just for telling my opinion I need to have my own channel...... I am a working woman and do all the house chores. Have a family with kids. I don't have any time left so it's not possible. But I will again say it's the men who make their wife behave in a certain way in most of the cases. Why should there be a comparison from other women, she has to go through his parents tantrums, most of the responsibility's..... of course with time she will get irritated...... that's my opinion.....and not a generalized statement.
@@PreetiSri REJECT REVOLT
कोई लड़की अपने मां पिता, अपना घर, apna नाम पहचान, अपना Comfort zone छोड़ कर आए ही क्यूं? किसलिए? किस फायदे के लिए वो दूसरे घर की नौकरानी बने?
बुरी प्रथाओं को बदलने की जरूरत है।
जब लड़के ने घर में काम ही नहीं करना, तो लड़का छोड़े घर। घर जमाई बने। सब घर खुशी खुशी संभल जायेंगे।
और फिर देखेंगे साढ़ू लोग आपस में कितना हंसी खुशी, मिलजुल कर रहते है।
6:02 pr paadne ki awaz suni kisi ne😂😂
yes 😆😆😆
Absolutely right❤ We are Team
C 😂😂😂 waise baat to sahi h meri MIL suffers from severe OCD. When I asked my FIL why didn't you get her treated and his reply was the doctor said the medicine would make her sleep for the whole day !!
Now the situation is so bad that she tries to control each and every aspect of our lives. She doesn't let us touch anything in home. Keeps a track of each sound made in the house to know who touch what.
You have to wash hands even if you touch the main door and she has to supervise to know you washed properly.
She is frustrated on everyone and keeps shouting and fighting.
We cannot even take water or go inside kitchen as we would make it impure.
Kids are not allowed to flush and an adult has to go and flush for them.
Now everyone avoids going to he home and living with her because of these things.
Same even my MIL keeps track of everything..
And keeps shouting I did this I did that bla bla bla..
I made this home you people are living
Sir Ji aaj to apki gharme dhulai pakki hai 👌👍
Females rakhti hai tabhi ghar thik rehta hai nahi to kabaadkhana ho jata hai
Males earn krte h tabhi ghar kharida jaata h, nahi toh raste pe rehna padta
@@rajchinoy8412😂aab females bhi kharid rahi hai
@@rajchinoy8412 2 rupee ki paise ki dhonsssss 😓😓😓
Excellent speech...so much to reflect upon..❤
Yeh to aisi baat ho jati hain,jaise ek bird k pankh katdo aur phir use udne ki azadi de do ,k ja ud abhi tu ji le apni zindagi
Sir aap vo case bata rhe ho jo ki 1 out of 100 hota hai in middle class
50/100 housewife suffers a lot , their narcissist husband or family just make their life hell
Children will be traumatized if mother doesn't give time to them because father's think there only responsibility is to earn and fight with wife if she wants to take out sometime for changing her ordinary life.
Men r always insecure
Few children r sensitive in their teens and need validation for the same which always mothers give and understand.
No educated women wants to play ghar ghar ... for their children they do lot of things which promotes their children.
😂 spot on! I really enjoyed this one. Some women are so precious about their self perceived importance in the lives of their children and spouse.
Maza aa gaya😂
Anand aa gaya..maza aa gaya..bahut hansi bhi aa gai being female. Disclaimer mein aise nahi hun jaisi video me batai hai
Thank God someone acknowledges the Real problems.
Kya kare plz tell we need ur gyaan
Naukri toh corporate de nahi Raha 40s mein...flex working options in work bhi Kam Hain....koi latakna nahi chahta..kisko paise pasand nahi...but lack of opportunities of women of this age is driving them anxious...we also intend St example of our young girls that they can pursue career and manage home together, but I personally have faced interviews where I feel reluctance on hiring because of age and gap in career
Addressed a very good and actual issue. AAG
You are absolutely right. I completely agree with you 🙏🙏
Sahi hai .really liked from 24:10
U r only focusing on frustrated housewives... Glorification of housewives r not needed... But satisfaction of housewives is needed... Agor wo bolti rehti hai about her importance of work in home it means c is vry dissatisfied with her surroundings.. C needs someone who understands her... Sometimes c herself don't know how to keep herself happy satisfied n busy... It's vry important to keep urself busy n occupied ur thoughts with constructive n productive thinking. . Sir plz try to feel the homemakers tht their job is worthy... Don't create confusions n feeling of dissatisfaction in already dissatisfied women... It's vry important to keep our children and our homes in safe hands... Husbands r doing good duties at ofice bcos there is someone who is taking care of his whole family... Woman faces mood swings so often..not only the menopause...So plz mention that also
Sir aap sara kadva sach duniya k samne rakhte ho. Jo ki bahut bhadiya h👌. Mujhe bhi aapse bahut kuch sikhne ko mila esliye dhanyawad🙏 aapke jaise Intellectual logo ki aaj k samaaj ko bahut jrurat hai. Mai unme se ek banne ka pura prayas karungi🙏
I like your videos a lot. You always say straight forward harsh truth. Currently I am a house wife and Thank you so much sir inspiring from your video I started to learn a foreign language for job perspective at the age of 33. And now onwards I want to make my own identity. 🙏🙏