While I agree, you are on a channel, that broadcasts their feelings all the time, and even more, you made it to the comments to broadcast your feelings. -cant make this up
When that's how you think, it shines through. He probably got the gist of her mindset during the date... Even just the gist is enough to run for the hills.
She started to cry when she said “I thought he didn’t want me only for my body” despite her saying that her body is the table. You can’t make this up🤣🤣🤣🤣
yup and guess women like her with similar mentality will turn to black men and fake play the gentle but ended getting the same treatment from the wrong guy. 🤦🏿♂️
yep they love to do that cause the thing is they only date one kind of guy and don't want to change it. Like the most famous " i don't want to date a bum" or " i don't want to sleep with somebody who doesn't do anything and stays at their parents house Cause those types of guys they mention is the only guys they date. You never hear girls talk about a decent actual good guy do they not and that is a hard no.
We used to just process these thoughts in private or keep a diary. (A diary which we *probably* look back on and cringe). Now the emotional meltdowns are on public display. I feel bad for the social media generation.
Yeah, all my embarrassing meltdowns as a teenager and in my early 20's are somewhere in a diary never to be seen again and I'm grateful lol. Nowadays everyone's embarrassing breakdowns are on social media, aka on the Internet forever
She’s not really crying. She’s addicted to her phone. Her “confidence” is false, she’s overly insecure and struggles daily while trying to brainwash herself.
NAILED IT! Her false confidence is a defense mechanism to her own mind. She admitted as much when she said she has both a god complex and an inferiority complex which is baffling to say the least.
@@chabranigoudouabemousepapa2212 yes I agree with the statement you bring up here. I must say, using the term “brainwash” leaves room for no accountability. This heifer is lying to her self, maybe a bit of cognitive dissonance also.
So, she only brings her body to the table. One looking like 20 pounds of excrement, in a 3 pound bag at that! 100 bucks she would be one to quickly talk ish about us men objectifying women too!
I mean, she said so herself. "He left me on read for six hours and watched my other stuff" Yeah no wonder he just called it quits. 6 hours of that? _Damn_
Yep. She’s full of crap. If she didn’t care, she would have ghosted him, and expected him to “just get over it.” She’s just mad he checked out first. They want the Right of First Refusal.
The ego on some women is crazy. Getting rejected is a part of life, whether it’s a job, a relationship, etc. Either accept the L and move on, or work on yourself to try and make it a W
@@johncam8420 i wouldn’t go that hard on her but her terrible character definitely skews the physical attractiveness downward the same way it would skew it positively with a good personality
It’s only inferiority. The ego is a defense mechanism. If someone is confrontational, it’s usually because they can’t handle anyone confronting them or rejecting them. They would rather people walk on eggshells around them. Their confidence is just a front for their fragility.
It is Orwellian DoubleSpeak basically saying that she suspects she has an undiagnosed Bipolar disorder! Of course I have also met a lot of people that others assumed were Bipolar and in reality they just had a substance abuse problem, usually alchohol because they were too indoctrinated by pop culture all of their lives to see booze as anything other than entirely benign, if not even comical to be a washed up wino. Although to be fair, humor is sometimes the only way to get through the intense withdrawal symptoms of some substances when trying to get sober. It is just the way of the world that delusions are an obstacle on the path to enlightenment and some of us are further along on that path than others, but unfortunately this poor girl seems like she has a LONG way to go...
The irony of narcissism is the pathetic little monster we get to see in this video. It’s a great study in an overblown female personality. I avoid these loud, aggressive extroverted bitches like the plague.
there is a reason i am single. I did not have a strong enough need for a partner to overcome my disgust of the dating scene. How on earth do people sleep with people they barely know? I know it makes me a prude but i have to be in a long term committed relationship before i am comfortable enough to be intimate with someone.
You are not alone. I tried xes with someone I was not attracted to, after not long time of knowing them and I did not liked it. Lowkey knew it, but because I was around people telling me I'm prude, that sleeping with people on first date is fun, I tried it. And I will never do that again. It's not fun for me.
@Maria Andrei if you want a man to value you for more than your looks you don’t sleep with him on the first date. Sorry but no. You gave it all up without even getting to know the person. How can you expect that person to now respect you and look at you for more than your looks afterwards when you were so willing to freely give “your body” away to a stranger.
@@CREEPYKOULWAH a lot of people do the same “I didn’t even fucking LIKE them!” While actively crying about their ex-partner, it’s just that the majority of people stop there, and they don’t film themselves after a breakup. It sounds like the guy in the video was a playboy, and she got played.
I think that's just her ego trying to claw back some pride. The truth is she's online crying about him rejecting her, so she liked him. She's just mad it wasn't mutual.
I wouldn’t want to date her or be friends with her. I hate this trend of having a big ego and outsize confidence when inside you’re a quivering bowl of jello. If you’re soft, act soft! Don’t pretend to be “cool girl” and then get butthurt when people believe that you’re as unbothered as you act.
@@3Demon100 well it depends the guy is pretty smart he has two choices but he probably knew what hes going to do in the first place. maybe she got played
@@3Demon100 I've been through that with a girl, but it was over her instead of just saying "I just wanna have fun" which was obvious she kept trying to make it seem like she was "feeling me" I mean we're both openly speaking on messing around with other people I had no issue just being fuck buddies but I guess cause i had a job and a car and the other dudes didn't she tried to keep me as some rebound, that ain't gonna fly with me, I'm sure that's what went down with her and that dude
@@deecrews8762 If she isn't attracted to those guys then that's her choice but it's also the guys choice to reject her if they aren't feeling it. That's Dating for you.
@@anthonyzullo I know. I hate how certain women will get angry at men for having dating preferences that excludes overweight women, disabled women and/or single mothers. Woman are completely allowed to reject men who are short, overweight or still live with their parents but it's misogyny and nasty if a man rejects a woman for being overweight, disabled or has kids....... how does that work. Why aren't men allowed to have a choice How about people just stop basing their self worth on other people's dating preferences They go on about how they don't care what men think. Yet get Super angry at men having dating preferences... even when it doesn't effect them.
Women: “I bring all of this to the table” Also women: “why does he only want my body” Shordy he just wanted to try out what you brought to the table 🤦♂️
Her:"...Its the disrespect!" He did not disrespect you! Disrespect is him doing you dirty after he sleep w/ you and kick you out. Disrespect is him calling you out of your name or even better....disrespect is how you went on social media calling him an f boy and mediocre WM when you willfully slept w/ him on the 1st day. All he did was go w/ the flow.
YES!!!! Thank you so much for saying this. Just because she was hurt doesn't mean he did something wrong. I don't have any problem with her choice to have sex early on ... many people do, whether they admit it or not. It's just that her expectations need to be aligned with reality. If she gets too attached or has desires for a continuing relationship, then she needs to be cognizant of that and be upfront about it. Instead, she's putting her expectations onto this other person without being clear about what she wants. How is he supposed to know she is having all these requirements for him?
The sad thing is some guys are into that, mostly guys with low self-esteem and self-confidence. After all if they didn't have low self-esteem she wouldn't even be able to get a boyfriend in the first place
Talking about disrespect when you admit to having a one night stand is just the pot calling the kettle black anyway. If you don't respect yourself enough to take your time, why should they?
I remember when I met up with a girl and she said she doesn’t wanna meet again. I liked her so it hurt but later she gave hints that she wanted to meet up again but I didn’t wanna feel that sadness again so I just acted like I didn’t realise. You just have to live with it and move on.
I love how fair y’all are with this assessment. That’s why women need to make men wait a lil. Because there is no guarantee that the connection will still be there after the first date, and why is she so entitled to his affection?!
This video reminded me of a conversation I had with a girl on Tinder. We started getting along, so we moved the conversation on Instagram, where we spoke about previous relationships, and she told me of her former boyfriend, with whom she was not satisfied sexually, mainly because she proposed to try new things, and he was like "yeah sure" but never fulfilled her desires. It got to a point where she publicly humiliated him, telling their common friends how bad he was at sex, that he suffered from premature ejaculation, and so on. I told her "that's fucked up; I can understand your anger, but that's fucked up. If he did the same to you, you'd sue him for defamation." Yet she kept acting as if what she did was ok and I rapidly started ghosting her because, let's face it: if she did it once, she probably going to do it again
Atleast you was smart to ghost her, you dodged a major bullet, don't ever lose self respect, no matter how horned up you get pay attention to the red flags and read between the lines, also if you listen long enough chicks will tell on themselves soon enough
@@MayBlake_Channel Personally I prefer Xbox narcissists to Peanut Butter narcissists. Absolutely adore me some big booty easter egg narcissists though.
@@kevinscott59 im guessing the "easter egg" refers to the booty :P What ate the characteristics of an Xbox and Peanut Butter narcissist, though? I would love to be able to picture them!
When she walked away from the camera to show us what she was bringing to the table, I thought she was leaving the room to get her younger, more attractive sister!!!
She unfortunately has low self esteem and is trying to pretend that she doesn’t. This guy hurt her feelings so she’s calling him mediocre. She’s the one that chose him though.
Truth. It's like someone saying "I'm not pressed" about something, yet they carry on about whatever they weren't pressed about. Just take the L and move on.
I just dont understand why the man wasnt just upfront about wanting sex and thats it. Other then that its on her she shouldnt have had sex with him period.
@@DopeDevastation no I did watch it and I get people change their minds, Do men not know before they have sex "man this women been annoying all damn day"
Girl, it's just rejection. I've been rejected like that too. It's not that deep. Most women I know can handle rejection, this girl is just really intense. If you reject her and she reacts like this, you dodged a bullet.
Being rejected and get ghosted sucks though. My sweet ass was rejected a couple of times and that hurt. The I remember how many men I ghosted and rejected I’m actually embarrassed
I appreciate how honest you guys are and your ability to look at things from different perspectives. If more men and women were able to do that, many things would be better.
If you’re calling someone mediocre, yet you’re crying over them, that says a lot more about you than it does about them. This chick needs to look in a mirror for reasons other than checking herself out.
@@stop.juststop Unhealthy unhealed women. A secure healthy woman would’ve just taken the L and dropped him. Not chase him or go online to cry about it. Next!
I wish people would learn to grieve the loss of something in private and not make a spectacle of themselves over the internet. This video can never be erased and could come back to haunt her.
My thoughts exactly. We're living through the age of overexposure. Nothing is sacred. Nothing. Silence about anything is taboo now. Why? I believe there's a direct line to a conspiracy against silence. A conspiracy in our world against silence.
A lot of stuff needs to be private. I'm tired of seeing people take personal beefs public just for attention and validation. Social media has been the worse thing to happen in human history. We aren't connected in a meaningful way and we are more at each other's throats then ever before.
Absolutely loved the slight delay after she said about ‘bringing this to the table’ and then bursting out laughing .. my initial wtf thought was underlined by them laughing but the slight delay was genius
Exactly. There's nothing wrong with wanting to look good but when the emphasis is mostly on looks, it's going to attract some certain types of people. She might just need to learn to vet her candidates better
I totally agree.... I as a woman just got a headache only by those little clips Aba and Preach showed. Too bad these types of people, like the woman in the videos, have access to the internet.
True, I can't stand watching people like this, the only thing interesting about them is how infuriating they are. Sometimes I can't even watch one of Aba and Preach's vids because the people they are showing are too irritating even broken up by their commentary.
Too many people online generalise an entire race and/or gender based off their own experiences with whoever is from that certain group, every single time. I’m tired of hearing it. How much is it going to take for people to grow up and realise the world doesn’t revolve around their own petty issues
I think people started feeling like the world revolves around them when they began handing out participation trophies. No one feels like they have to work for anything anymore, it should just be given to them because they are there.
@@alteredpenguin2073 ya people keep saying this only happens online, no...its destroying society and making men and Woman hate each other. When are we going to confront and stop this?
She obviously does have a problem with sleeping with someone on the first date because she is in tears over it. When you are mediocre you get mediocre.
I mean, realistically you can make a man wait and if he wanted to leave he still will once you give up the goods. But the important thing here is that’s clearly all she had to offer, she doesn’t have the values or qualities to keep a man around afterwards. That’s what someone needs to tell her stupid ass
“People never think anyone is coming at them with good intention.” YES! This is something I’ve been saying! I think most people do most things with the best intentions.
sadly people with inflated egos tend to fail at associating any blame on themselves, and will just take it out on someone else, never accepting that they are part of the problem.
@@DangerouslyActive sleep with me on the first date, that would get my attention faster to date you IF you have what it takes to keep my attention. Guys we want them on the first date that’s not the problem, she better have napkins plates and the silverware to temp me to drag in my kill if she wants to keep me is the issue.
The problem with having sex on a first date is that it creates a false sense of intimacy. Having sex with a stranger doesn’t mean they aren’t a stranger anymore. It just means you banged a stranger. It’s definitely weird she still thinks it’s an okay thing to do after she got burned by the guy. People really don’t learn anymore, do they?
The problem is how casual she is about it like it’s empowering to her. If she wants to move on from being a fling she needs to make her date work his way up to it.
Exactly. When you go out drinking to get drunk, you already know it's unhealthy and you'll probably end up with a hangover. You've calculated the scenario and don't expect to *not* be drunk after 10 tequila shots because you know exactly what you're doing. It's not water. She slept with a stranger and expected something more? If it happened cool but she really EXPECTED more out of that than what it was? Like, live your life as you please but if you're sleeping with a stranger you better know what you're more than likely signing up for, and it's not a marriage license.
Its funny how it make sense to say an f’boy but not a f’boy. And at the same time if you were to say/spell it out a f***boy makes sense but an f***boy sounds weird
Social media has either ruined people’s self esteem or gassed them up so badly they can’t smell their own farts. Stank ass ppl too busy doing duck faces for IG to realize they ass smell foul.
It’s a self-centred social media driven world. I actively avoid girls just out of not wanting to possibly be stuck in a shitty situation like that from the first damn day.
She said she brought all that to the table and was surprised when it take more than just her body for a relationship cause she missed with 5 guys in a row she's probably the common denominator
To trash him and call him mediocre, shows that she wasn’t really interested in him, she just wanted the first right of refusal. How dare he quit me before I get a chance to quit him first!!!!
Very true, they always want to be the one to dismiss you, when u take away that their ego is damaged & to fix it they try and sleep with tons of guys to feel better
A lot of women don't really want us to approach them or to really be in anything committed with us, they just like the right of first refusal. They do a lot of the things they complain about to men likewise, it's just that they generally have first rights of refusal, it's only a big hurt to the ego when we play the reverse uno card card on them.
Sounds like he did everything right, he took her out, got to know her, got intimate, got to know her a little more then decided he wasn't as into her as much as he initially thought. Not a lot of people go into dating expecting a long relationship and it didn't sound like he said he was looking for one.
Or she lying and she THOUGHT she was more than A. I mean I hookup ALLLLLL the time but nah I'm not gonna throw u down asap unless timeconstraint. Imma talk a few then throw it down chat a few then peace. Then my ppl a little more upfront. Why tinder couldn't be copied EXACTLY like grindr because women don't operate like dudes
@@GH-hl8gu Body count will de-value a women for any man who wants a serious relationship with them. Also, showing yourself as a sex object and giving it out on the first date...he treated her as she projected herself. Women can't date like men, this video, perfect example. good take
Never forget, if you're the protagonist of a story you tell, you will always fluff up your position and degrade the other's position to a certain degree. Take that into account too
This is what happens when you tell women they are perfect and they should be loved unconditionally without returning unconditional love for their whole lives.
There's so much to say about this topic. All i have to say is I'm SO glad I removed myself from the 'dating scene'. There's so much bs, I see it all around me, and I've also been thru so much. Now I meet a guy, chat, enjoy the moment, then move on. You're not getting my number no chance 🚫 every time I dodge a bullet, I feel a victory.
It’s honestly really sad. Lady got rejected, and is so socially disliked that they don’t have any friends or family to ground them. Then they throw off nutterbutter ideas in an emotionally reactive moment into the ether in the hopes she finds an echo chamber to call home
Girl, it's okay to feel hurt about being rejected. Just don't pretend that you are so not interested in that dude when it's obvious that you were and that you're hurt. Say "Damn, that hurt me." you can vent about it, but then move on. Rejection happens.
I think Aba and Preach were right, I think it was mostly her ego that was hurt. I don't think she liked him that much, I just think she was offended that he didn't like her. 😂
Why are you treating her like a little child? She's a grown adult, she knows it's ok to be rejected. She's just a toxic, racist, misandrist that wants to put the blame on men instead of her disgusting personality.
Thats really an integrity question, both man and women act nice and thats can come out like you like the other people. Keeping your integrity, being true to yoursefl is the key. Being a people pleaser can mess up people, especially if they don't grow social skills to see the difference between someone likeing you and someone just being nice. They think the date gone well, while for the other it obvious there is no point for a second date.
“A God complex and an inferiority complex” So you have a very inflated and fragile sense of self-worth that comes crashing down anytime something like this happens because it’s mostly just a mask for low self-esteem. Sounds like therapy could be the answer here.
These days it is the fashion to literally hate on white men, we are apparently everything that is wrong with the world. Makes me shake my head that they are screaming that "all white people/men are racist" and don't see the irony/hypocrisy in that statement. /shrug
That was just an excuse, she definitely liked him if she’s wasting all that energy crying about it on Tiktok. It’s just a front to make her seem “unbothered”
I had to come back to this one. I have faced constant rejection for a few years now and it fuckin hurts. Some nights I do get sad and emotional over it. But this just makes me feel just a little bit better knowing that some of these rejections are just people who cant figure out their own shit. This woman just can not see all the different red flags she put up in this video. How many contradictions. It really does feel good knowing that sometimes, it really isnt me.
Her: "I bring this to he table" *Shows off body* Guy: "she gave me this from the table... on the first date." Girl: " why can't I be valued for more than just my body." How sway? How?
@@qianaroyal1096 so weird how women devalue entire races based on one individual. Or how they devalue men based on how tall they are. Seg counts are your responsibility that you chose to do. If you sleep around with lots of men, either many relationships didn't work which is a red flag, or you might not be very loyal to a man if you in a relationship with him.
@@SynterraSteen You can, it's not good. It's typically an example of someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Sociopaths are perfect examples of that dichotomy.
Its called narcissism. The root of narcissism is extremely low self esteem and the need to be accepted. So they overcompensate by creating a false illusion of superiority to mask the horrible pain of inferiority that they really feel.
They were speaking real facts on this vid lmao I actually sat back and just listened not even really watching the vid and absorbed there takes on what she was saying. Fire
Notice how she used politics "Mediocre White Man" to deal with her own insecurity at being rejected? That's a big thing we do in America nowadays, and it's reinforced by social media, sometimes even by therapists. Politics has become a way of avoiding introspection.
"If he'd been honest with me from the get-go..." Girl, no. I know people like you. The moment someone tells you; "nah, I'm not that interested in pursuing this any further", you'll throw a hissyfit.
Tis why fuck bois exists. I had a girl like this; I straight up asked her "Do you want an open relationship? are you a poly?" "No I only want one guy." She was fucking 4 guys a week. It *literally* doesn't compute to them. They're not just hypocrites, they're stupid.
@@swordofbored7018 some women tend to be unable to accurately convene their thoughts through words. I feel like this dependency on empathy and compassion and all those emotions didn't make them learn language properly.
If someone gives me free ice cream but makes listen to their polka music while I eat it , I will come back for another free ice cream , but that doesn’t mean I’m going to go out and buy a polka album.
I love how she complained that she wants a guy to like her for more than just her body but the begging of the video she shows off her body and says “I know what I bring to the table” 🤦🏽♂️
She is a classic example of how contradictory and illogical modern feminist thought about dating is. If you think you can mindlessly sleep around with effbois and expect someone that you want to take you seriously for a long-term committed relationship, let alone marriage, you are delusional and in for a world of hurt. There are exceptions, but most women think they are going to be exceptions and become embittered and blame men. Stop that shit and look in the mirror.
‘This is for all my girlies’ just so cringe….all these 3’s at best with gargantuan ‘street experience’ goin on about how they’re not being treated special like a Princess. Just crazy out there.
I'm just here thinking "I bring THIS to the table" Lady, there are 1000001 girls that look just like you and another 1000001 that look way better than you. There's vanity and then theres thinking ur Hallie Berry & Tira Banks' love child.
She isn't bringing only her body. She also has a whole host of red flags she thinks are cute. "God complex and an inferiority complex" are a hell of a mix. If you meet someone who says they have both and think it's cute is someone you should avoid at all costs. Narcissistic PoS in quirky girl clothing, every time.
This is what mental illness looks like...and because we are insufferable and cruel in nature, we call it "kindness" to permit them to continue to run down the road of madness, rather than simply refusing to entertain this type of insane behavior.
@@berlinperez9433 This is more akin to Histrionic Personality Disorder. Emotionally unstable, dramatic, quickly attached, sexually inappropriate, views relationships as closer than what they are, etc.
She would break the table if she was brought to it. No way she’s serious with all that. This “fat acceptance” movement has gone way too far. Too many 3’s walking around acting like they are 10’s
“I have a god complex and an inferiority complex.”
Honey, that’s called narcissism.
Not really. Narcissists have no inferiority complex. This is a woman of mediocre intelligence who has been suckered into the current culture.
@@stevenhs8821 they do that's why they are narcissistic they hate themselves
@@ld7207 huh?
@@ghadeejahsoeker7801 yes. What I said. Look up narcissistic behaviour
@@stevenhs8821 narcissists usually have low self-esteem. That's why they need constant validation from people no matter who gets hurt in the process.
Her: "I bring my body to the table"
Also Her: "I wish someone values me for more than just my body"
MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!
Truth!!!!!
"body to the table"
shit... didn't know i was a surgeon working on an operating table...
Exactly! I was just about to say that. Backwards logic
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Thats how you know shes crazy.
She's talking as if strangers online are her girlfriends. You don't need to broadcast everything you feel all the time.
Tonnes of women do this on Tik tok
Most people on Social media do that. It baffles me.
While I agree, you are on a channel, that broadcasts their feelings all the time, and even more, you made it to the comments to broadcast your feelings. -cant make this up
@@20DollarGoldPiece Yup, so damn immature…
Yes. THIS comment. You. Don't. Have. To. Share. Ev. Er. Ry. Thing.
The lack of self awareness when she derides someone else as “mediocre” is staggering.
When that's how you think, it shines through. He probably got the gist of her mindset during the date... Even just the gist is enough to run for the hills.
She started to cry when she said “I thought he didn’t want me only for my body” despite her saying that her body is the table. You can’t make this up🤣🤣🤣🤣
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spot on king
It truly is the stuff of legends 😂😂.
It's the inconsistency for me
🤦🏽♂️ 😂
"I'm bringing this to the table"
Bro I'm gonna get up from the table and leave without paying the bill 😂
That höe a dine-n-dash. If I even stick around for the first course. 😝
Dine and dash? Or _not even ordering_ in the first place?
I’m tell her I’m finna go too the bathroom 🚽 and leave out the back door 🚪
Lol she tucks that hanger of a gut into those sad jeans and I’m supposed to be impressed
😅😅
It's honestly repulsive to hear how this woman merely generalizes an entire race based on one individual.
yup and guess women like her with similar mentality will turn to black men and fake play the gentle but ended getting the same treatment from the wrong guy. 🤦🏿♂️
Although not all women do that, many women tend to generalise the entire male gender based on one or a few bad experiences with men
yep they love to do that cause the thing is they only date one kind of guy and don't want to change it. Like the most famous " i don't want to date a bum" or " i don't want to sleep with somebody who doesn't do anything and stays at their parents house
Cause those types of guys they mention is the only guys they date. You never hear girls talk about a decent actual good guy do they not and that is a hard no.
@@justyusaf very true unfortunately
and the dude sounds awesome from what i heard
We used to just process these thoughts in private or keep a diary. (A diary which we *probably* look back on and cringe).
Now the emotional meltdowns are on public display. I feel bad for the social media generation.
I feel great! Free drama to laugh at.
They're only on public display by her own choice. Not everyone is this stupid.
100% agreed
I think more and more people now do that out of a need for validation or sympathy
Yeah, all my embarrassing meltdowns as a teenager and in my early 20's are somewhere in a diary never to be seen again and I'm grateful lol. Nowadays everyone's embarrassing breakdowns are on social media, aka on the Internet forever
She’s not really crying. She’s addicted to her phone. Her “confidence” is false, she’s overly insecure and struggles daily while trying to brainwash herself.
Brainwash is the strong word i would say lie to herself
NAILED IT! Her false confidence is a defense mechanism to her own mind. She admitted as much when she said she has both a god complex and an inferiority complex which is baffling to say the least.
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@@chabranigoudouabemousepapa2212 yes I agree with the statement you bring up here. I must say, using the term “brainwash” leaves room for no accountability. This heifer is lying to her self, maybe a bit of cognitive dissonance also.
Don't forget to mention the echo chamber of lies she subjects herself to.
" I bring this to the tableeeeeeee"
She got me spinning around looking for what she brought lmfaoooo 😆😆😆
200+ lbs of whining and entitlement
STAAAAAAUUUUUUPPPPP 😂😂😂 *wall slides*
'Beetus. She brought diabetes to the table Marc.
Back fat 🤣
So, she only brings her body to the table. One looking like 20 pounds of excrement, in a 3 pound bag at that! 100 bucks she would be one to quickly talk ish about us men objectifying women too!
Maybe they saw her social media and saw her videos of her venting on the internet like a psycho and decided it wasn't worth the headache
I mean, she said so herself. "He left me on read for six hours and watched my other stuff"
Yeah no wonder he just called it quits. 6 hours of that? _Damn_
A man of culture i see.
Totally agree with you.
She slept with a mediocre dude, what does that make you itch?
@@email7362 what
Broo literallyyy, I can't tell you how much time and headache this right here has saved me
"You see, Meg, you're what they call a practice girl."
😂😂😂
This comment wins 😂
She claims she “didn’t even like” the guy because she’s fantasizing he’ll see this. Otherwise she wouldn’t even care. She’s delusional…
This is the type of woman that are becoming more common that are turning men into Misogynists lol.
Yep. She’s full of crap. If she didn’t care, she would have ghosted him, and expected him to “just get over it.” She’s just mad he checked out first. They want the Right of First Refusal.
Women can easily leave men unread for months she really liked him an expected him to put up with her he didn’t like the table I don’t blame him
@@keonkla nobody can turn someone into a misogynist but themselves. You just already hate women
@@Alecexo vvomen are the biggest misogynist.
they hate themselves and each other.
it tells a lot🙂
The fact that she was willing to go online and act like this, she proved the guy who rejected her made the correct decision
Preach sir!
👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾
👏👏👏
Lololol brooooooooo
💯
The ego on some women is crazy. Getting rejected is a part of life, whether it’s a job, a relationship, etc. Either accept the L and move on, or work on yourself to try and make it a W
@Queen JT exactly, at the end we are still living after that...thats why self care is important.
Facts.
because women are not use to get rejected like most men do
@@leman0232 That's also TRUE 🤣👍
Right. The world revolves around no one.
So many people need friends instead of needing a romantic relationship. This girl is definitely an example
She needs to find God first so she's equipped to form healthy relationships.
@@BlueAviansThis. She doesn't need friends, she needs some moral character & God.
@@NoInfoNecessarydon’t forget therapy too
“I’m bringing this to the table” but clearly doesn’t comprehend that attraction and preferences vary, person to person
her personality and way of speaking is why she’s single 🤣
It varies but she's not particularly attractive to the majority of men
Tbf she is below average lmao, so you arent exactly "bringing looks to the table" either.
I have a table not a workbench so "that" is not an asset.
@@johncam8420 i wouldn’t go that hard on her but her terrible character definitely skews the physical attractiveness downward the same way it would skew it positively with a good personality
She said she had a God Complex and an Inferiority Complex. This was never going to end on a good note.
I also don’t understand. This makes makes no sense.
I think she’s the only person in life with this
It’s only inferiority. The ego is a defense mechanism. If someone is confrontational, it’s usually because they can’t handle anyone confronting them or rejecting them. They would rather people walk on eggshells around them. Their confidence is just a front for their fragility.
@CryptoKing NYC Simply put, she's a confused individual.
I assume she's never heard of narcissism?
It is Orwellian DoubleSpeak basically saying that she suspects she has an undiagnosed Bipolar disorder! Of course I have also met a lot of people that others assumed were Bipolar and in reality they just had a substance abuse problem, usually alchohol because they were too indoctrinated by pop culture all of their lives to see booze as anything other than entirely benign, if not even comical to be a washed up wino. Although to be fair, humor is sometimes the only way to get through the intense withdrawal symptoms of some substances when trying to get sober. It is just the way of the world that delusions are an obstacle on the path to enlightenment and some of us are further along on that path than others, but unfortunately this poor girl seems like she has a LONG way to go...
“This is for all my girlies like me who have a god complex”
So we’re just broadcasting our narcissism with no shame now? … ok
The irony of narcissism is the pathetic little monster we get to see in this video. It’s a great study in an overblown female personality. I avoid these loud, aggressive extroverted bitches like the plague.
@@dolphin069 nope not here. Not here either. It’s not over there. Damn I just cannot find where you lied
They don’t see it as shame or narcissism because they only believe men can be those things.
@@dolphin069 a monster ? Did she kill your family? Get over it people can be born this way just ignore them without calling them names
@@agirloncrack4413 Rip responsibility
there is a reason i am single. I did not have a strong enough need for a partner to overcome my disgust of the dating scene. How on earth do people sleep with people they barely know? I know it makes me a prude but i have to be in a long term committed relationship before i am comfortable enough to be intimate with someone.
You are not alone. I tried xes with someone I was not attracted to, after not long time of knowing them and I did not liked it. Lowkey knew it, but because I was around people telling me I'm prude, that sleeping with people on first date is fun, I tried it. And I will never do that again. It's not fun for me.
It s super gross🤮🤮
It’s not prudish. In my opinion, that’s totally normal.
“Someone wanted me for more than just my body…” and yet, she’s putting all her self value in her looks. Kills me every time.
Lol. Not much value there.
well , few dolla on her clothes tags.
that's all
Or... The person is only saying that to her to get into her pants
Yeah she literally started off the vid by pointing out how her body is what she brings to a relationship
She looking like a soup sandwich, bag of dirty laundry 🤣
“I slept with him on the first date.” “I thought I found someone who valued me instead of just my body”. She is a walking contradiction.
RIIIIGGHHHTT!?!?! What did she expect!?! 🤦♀
@Maria Andrei if you want a man to value you for more than your looks you don’t sleep with him on the first date. Sorry but no. You gave it all up without even getting to know the person. How can you expect that person to now respect you and look at you for more than your looks afterwards when you were so willing to freely give “your body” away to a stranger.
But sex shouldn’t we weaponised
In other words, we shouldn’t give you guys what you say you want? 🤔
@@terry9238 It's why they call it a game.
“I thought we really liked each other…I didn’t even really like him” lol
She is a little crazy.
@@CREEPYKOULWAH a little????
Just a bit delulu
Right!
@@CREEPYKOULWAH a lot of people do the same “I didn’t even fucking LIKE them!” While actively crying about their ex-partner, it’s just that the majority of people stop there, and they don’t film themselves after a breakup.
It sounds like the guy in the video was a playboy, and she got played.
Thank you for speaking about true “intentions”!!! It’s been a thing lately for people to bypass intentions and just go straight to offense
"I didn't even like him!"
Yeah. Well maybe he picked up on that, and decided the sex wasn't worth the BS.
some people might notice,.... hmmm you don't even like me, but you let me do all that? You need better standards then.
Well guess she is not even medicore but low life :D
He's mediocre, yet he still got to smash. Says wonderful things about her. 🐸☕
I think that's just her ego trying to claw back some pride. The truth is she's online crying about him rejecting her, so she liked him. She's just mad it wasn't mutual.
I actually think she did like him. No one who really wasn't interested would have such a strong reaction like this.
I wouldn’t want to date her or be friends with her. I hate this trend of having a big ego and outsize confidence when inside you’re a quivering bowl of jello. If you’re soft, act soft! Don’t pretend to be “cool girl” and then get butthurt when people believe that you’re as unbothered as you act.
Yes yes yes .
Social media is good at inflating people's egos
I so agree with that!!
Fuck yeah. Guys and girls. Love this comment.
Correct
"I slept with him twice!"
"He was a mediocre white man!"
"I didn't even like him!"
She deserved to get played.
The thing is, i dont even think she got played. The guy prolly lost interest and she couldnt handle that.
I agree. If she thought he was mediocre and didn't like him why give herself to him??
@@3Demon100 well it depends the guy is pretty smart he has two choices but he probably knew what hes going to do in the first place. maybe she got played
She's a mediocre woman thinking she's hot stuff because men to get some stank on his fingers. Reality eventually hits
@@3Demon100 I've been through that with a girl, but it was over her instead of just saying "I just wanna have fun" which was obvious she kept trying to make it seem like she was "feeling me"
I mean we're both openly speaking on messing around with other people I had no issue just being fuck buddies but I guess cause i had a job and a car and the other dudes didn't she tried to keep me as some rebound, that ain't gonna fly with me, I'm sure that's what went down with her and that dude
You gave yourself with no commitment to someone you consider “mediocre,” tell me you have no self worth without telling me you have no self worth 🤣😂🤣
Belittling the people who reject you is like saying something you can't afford is garbage. All you are doing is making yourself look worse.
Right, and she won’t dare talk about all the good guys she rejected
It's the hypocrisy of women today that does it for me.
Well guess she is not even medicore but low life :D
@@deecrews8762 If she isn't attracted to those guys then that's her choice but it's also the guys choice to reject her if they aren't feeling it.
That's Dating for you.
@@anthonyzullo I know. I hate how certain women will get angry at men for having dating preferences that excludes overweight women, disabled women and/or single mothers.
Woman are completely allowed to reject men who are short, overweight or still live with their parents but it's misogyny and nasty if a man rejects a woman for being overweight, disabled or has kids....... how does that work. Why aren't men allowed to have a choice
How about people just stop basing their self worth on other people's dating preferences
They go on about how they don't care what men think. Yet get Super angry at men having dating preferences... even when it doesn't effect them.
her: "i want someone who values me for more than just my body"
also her: "im bringing this to the table" shows off her body
Case and point. ☝🏿
It's the only thing she brings.
Table made of milk crates and cardboard.
Lmaoooo
@John Doe It's 11 o'clock. Do they know where all their kids are? (Probably left with their mom, so they can go out and party. lol)
Women: “I bring all of this to the table”
Also women: “why does he only want my body”
Shordy he just wanted to try out what you brought to the table 🤦♂️
Green eggs and ham.
This is a God tier comment
Exactly 💯
That's exactly what I thought!
No no but she is the table and he just got up after he was finished eating
Stumbled apon this channel like 2 weeks ago and I can’t get enough, you guys are spot on👌🏼
Women: "I bring all of THIS to the table"
Also women: "I wish someone valued me for more than just my body"
Lack of self awareness is a disease.
Excatly this!^^
The hypocrisy would be hilarious if it wasn't so pathetically sad.
Plus their narcissism
On point
humanity has that one since birth
@Thoth Ra Dah on god
Her:"...Its the disrespect!"
He did not disrespect you! Disrespect is him doing you dirty after he sleep w/ you and kick you out. Disrespect is him calling you out of your name or even better....disrespect is how you went on social media calling him an f boy and mediocre WM when you willfully slept w/ him on the 1st day. All he did was go w/ the flow.
YEP !!! U ain’t lie
YES!!!! Thank you so much for saying this. Just because she was hurt doesn't mean he did something wrong.
I don't have any problem with her choice to have sex early on ... many people do, whether they admit it or not. It's just that her expectations need to be aligned with reality. If she gets too attached or has desires for a continuing relationship, then she needs to be cognizant of that and be upfront about it. Instead, she's putting her expectations onto this other person without being clear about what she wants. How is he supposed to know she is having all these requirements for him?
The sad thing is some guys are into that, mostly guys with low self-esteem and self-confidence. After all if they didn't have low self-esteem she wouldn't even be able to get a boyfriend in the first place
DaBaby?
Talking about disrespect when you admit to having a one night stand is just the pot calling the kettle black anyway.
If you don't respect yourself enough to take your time, why should they?
I remember when I met up with a girl and she said she doesn’t wanna meet again. I liked her so it hurt but later she gave hints that she wanted to meet up again but I didn’t wanna feel that sadness again so I just acted like I didn’t realise. You just have to live with it and move on.
I bet she hated you for moving on
Girls play games... dating advice 101
can’t ever regret it, but it does hurt. the hurt makes you stronger, give in to the powerrrr.. of the dark sideeee
Good on you, man. Sometimes they do that ish looking for attention when they need it. Proud of you for not being the "fall back guy".
Girl in the video needs to take notes
I love how fair y’all are with this assessment. That’s why women need to make men wait a lil. Because there is no guarantee that the connection will still be there after the first date, and why is she so entitled to his affection?!
This video reminded me of a conversation I had with a girl on Tinder. We started getting along, so we moved the conversation on Instagram, where we spoke about previous relationships, and she told me of her former boyfriend, with whom she was not satisfied sexually, mainly because she proposed to try new things, and he was like "yeah sure" but never fulfilled her desires. It got to a point where she publicly humiliated him, telling their common friends how bad he was at sex, that he suffered from premature ejaculation, and so on. I told her "that's fucked up; I can understand your anger, but that's fucked up. If he did the same to you, you'd sue him for defamation."
Yet she kept acting as if what she did was ok and I rapidly started ghosting her because, let's face it: if she did it once, she probably going to do it again
Back in the day ran into one or 2 of those future Karen's.(*can I get a Ric Flair Wooooooooooooooooooo"dodge a bullet)
Atleast you was smart to ghost her, you dodged a major bullet, don't ever lose self respect, no matter how horned up you get pay attention to the red flags and read between the lines, also if you listen long enough chicks will tell on themselves soon enough
Smart man
**Matrix Bullet Dodge**
Also you done the other guy a solid man. Ain't cool to be disrespecting a brother like that and thinking it's ''OK''.
Yeah that’s red flag behavior
When and how did we get to a point where people record themselves crying and post it for the world to see? What is going on? Just crazy af!
Remember Leave Britney alone?
@@MrRilarios that’s completely different
Maybe attebtion seeking or trying to get sympathy?
Right!?! This chick needs a diary, not the internet. lol
@@lesliedegnan the internet IS her diary. keeping all her receipts for her just in case.
“To all my ladies who have a God complex, but also an inferiority complex.”
Lmao there’s a clinical term for that
Vulnerable Narcissism
Well, narcissism. Not necessarily vulnerable. That describes grandiose pretty damn well. Probably also communal narcissists
@@MayBlake_Channel
Personally I prefer Xbox narcissists to Peanut Butter narcissists.
Absolutely adore me some big booty easter egg narcissists though.
@@kevinscott59 im guessing the "easter egg" refers to the booty :P What ate the characteristics of an Xbox and Peanut Butter narcissist, though? I would love to be able to picture them!
holy shit you fucking killed her dude
When she walked away from the camera to show us what she was bringing to the table, I thought she was leaving the room to get her younger, more attractive sister!!!
Get off the Internet get a journal!!! 🤦🏾♀️
Her: "I know, this is what I bring to the table."
Also her: "I just wish someone would value me for more than my body Wahhhhh."
That’s just to show us what level of IQ women who followed her on IG social media
Her body mid too 😬😂
The second they have that mindset, I'm already done lol
@@R3DXZZZ mediocre AF
You can't make this shit up
She unfortunately has low self esteem and is trying to pretend that she doesn’t. This guy hurt her feelings so she’s calling him mediocre. She’s the one that chose him though.
Truth.
It's like someone saying "I'm not pressed" about something, yet they carry on about whatever they weren't pressed about.
Just take the L and move on.
Exactly
I just dont understand why the man wasnt just upfront about wanting sex and thats it. Other then that its on her she shouldnt have had sex with him period.
@@sunflowerrayne6026 Cleary u ain't watch the video, people change there mind
@@DopeDevastation no I did watch it and I get people change their minds, Do men not know before they have sex "man this women been annoying all damn day"
Girl, it's just rejection. I've been rejected like that too. It's not that deep. Most women I know can handle rejection, this girl is just really intense. If you reject her and she reacts like this, you dodged a bullet.
facts
Haaaa haaa ha... REJECTION ! 🎶
Being rejected and get ghosted sucks though. My sweet ass was rejected a couple of times and that hurt. The I remember how many men I ghosted and rejected I’m actually embarrassed
No women can’t handle rejection
@@EarlyBirdCraft Well when you take pictures of your sweet ass, like your profile picture, men tend to stray away.
I appreciate how honest you guys are and your ability to look at things from different perspectives. If more men and women were able to do that, many things would be better.
If you’re calling someone mediocre, yet you’re crying over them, that says a lot more about you than it does about them. This chick needs to look in a mirror for reasons other than checking herself out.
What? Introspective thought? That might take away the spectacle!
@@dustinlerch9272 I fear she wouldn't. Disillusion would kick in. 😂
He clearly sees her as mediocre too, he just has more respect for himself than to blast it over social media and put a whole gender into one box
The more he started ignoring her, made her like him even more lol just shows how toxic she is.
This is a pretty standard reaction from a lot of women.
@@stop.juststop Unhealthy unhealed women. A secure healthy woman would’ve just taken the L and dropped him. Not chase him or go online to cry about it. Next!
@@FM-zg5hz secure and healthy....😂
@@frostkid08 Sounds like you have some unresolved resentment. Not sure who hurt you but hope you get that sorted out in therapy. Good luck.
@@FM-zg5hz Most women aren’t really secure though, that’s why guys can insult each other’s looks but not women’s.
I wish people would learn to grieve the loss of something in private and not make a spectacle of themselves over the internet. This video can never be erased and could come back to haunt her.
My thoughts exactly. We're living through the age of overexposure. Nothing is sacred. Nothing. Silence about anything is taboo now. Why? I believe there's a direct line to a conspiracy against silence. A conspiracy in our world against silence.
A lot of stuff needs to be private. I'm tired of seeing people take personal beefs public just for attention and validation. Social media has been the worse thing to happen in human history. We aren't connected in a meaningful way and we are more at each other's throats then ever before.
Nah its good she showcased this now people can see her for what she is before they step into that dumpster fire
@@onepunchflan3071 😂😂😂😂😂.. I wonder if her fam or friends will advise to take it down as you look foolish
I learnt that the hard way lol 😂
Absolutely loved the slight delay after she said about ‘bringing this to the table’ and then bursting out laughing .. my initial wtf thought was underlined by them laughing but the slight delay was genius
I can't imagine why any man would use her for her body when that's all she brings to the table...💅
but her face and body don't even look that great though ( audience laughs)
Exactly. There's nothing wrong with wanting to look good but when the emphasis is mostly on looks, it's going to attract some certain types of people. She might just need to learn to vet her candidates better
Practicing his aim.
Yep.
My thoughts exactly!
She doesn't get called out by other women, because the type of women who would call her out aren't watching her channel, they are watching yours!
I totally agree.... I as a woman just got a headache only by those little clips Aba and Preach showed. Too bad these types of people, like the woman in the videos, have access to the internet.
True, I can't stand watching people like this, the only thing interesting about them is how infuriating they are.
Sometimes I can't even watch one of Aba and Preach's vids because the people they are showing are too irritating even broken up by their commentary.
Yeah I had a friend in college that let her titties hang out like that and would get mad that guys would only use her for sex.
hahaha damn you got a point
"thought someone would want me for more than my body"
*LITERALLY only talks about her physical appearance for what she offers in the tiktok*
Preach my brotha!!!
Aba my brotha!!!
"I bring THIS to the table."
Cries when talking about the only mentioned asset.
And her appearance isn’t really giving like that
I am thankful this showed up on my FYP just before Valentines day, this is good shit!
Too many people online generalise an entire race and/or gender based off their own experiences with whoever is from that certain group, every single time. I’m tired of hearing it. How much is it going to take for people to grow up and realise the world doesn’t revolve around their own petty issues
Online???? This happens in real time real life. Online is just a platform for them to expose their prejudices and bias.
I think people started feeling like the world revolves around them when they began handing out participation trophies. No one feels like they have to work for anything anymore, it should just be given to them because they are there.
Thats why I keep trying to tell all my 30yr old friends/Marvel fans when they say the movies are for kids.
No shit!
That is good. We need to generalize more.
@@alteredpenguin2073 ya people keep saying this only happens online, no...its destroying society and making men and Woman hate each other.
When are we going to confront and stop this?
She obviously does have a problem with sleeping with someone on the first date because she is in tears over it. When you are mediocre you get mediocre.
She should probably stop fking guys on the first date if she wants a husband.
Then why did she to it 10 times
Yea like one cannot sleep with a dude on the first night and catch feelings later like wtf.
🔥
I mean, realistically you can make a man wait and if he wanted to leave he still will once you give up the goods. But the important thing here is that’s clearly all she had to offer, she doesn’t have the values or qualities to keep a man around afterwards. That’s what someone needs to tell her stupid ass
Is he really mediocre if he's out here dodging bullets like Neo?
He flew away right after that, superman style 🤣
What’s he doing?
He’s beginning to believe…
lol true
More like an rpg
😂😂😂
“People never think anyone is coming at them with good intention.” YES! This is something I’ve been saying! I think most people do most things with the best intentions.
When you think too highly of yourself it's a rude awakening when reality hits
sadly people with inflated egos tend to fail at associating any blame on themselves, and will just take it out on someone else, never accepting that they are part of the problem.
💯💯
This is a woman crumbling under the thought that she isn't even mediocre by her own standards, according to the type of men rejecting her.
Hit as hard as that guys post nut clarity
Cat's 😺😺 See lots of them in her future
"we slept together on the first date"
"why does he only value me for my body??!!"
🤦♀️
For real, most guys are not gonna commit to a girl if she’s giving up sex right away
1st date 15th date... doesnt matter
Yep...lol
@@DangerouslyActive sleep with me on the first date, that would get my attention faster to date you IF you have what it takes to keep my attention. Guys we want them on the first date that’s not the problem, she better have napkins plates and the silverware to temp me to drag in my kill if she wants to keep me is the issue.
The fact that a lot of women don't get that is mind-boggling
The problem with having sex on a first date is that it creates a false sense of intimacy. Having sex with a stranger doesn’t mean they aren’t a stranger anymore. It just means you banged a stranger. It’s definitely weird she still thinks it’s an okay thing to do after she got burned by the guy. People really don’t learn anymore, do they?
it's just a part of their lifestyle
This is good! Very true!
The problem is how casual she is about it like it’s empowering to her. If she wants to move on from being a fling she needs to make her date work his way up to it.
Exactly. When you go out drinking to get drunk, you already know it's unhealthy and you'll probably end up with a hangover. You've calculated the scenario and don't expect to *not* be drunk after 10 tequila shots because you know exactly what you're doing. It's not water. She slept with a stranger and expected something more? If it happened cool but she really EXPECTED more out of that than what it was?
Like, live your life as you please but if you're sleeping with a stranger you better know what you're more than likely signing up for, and it's not a marriage license.
People don’t wanna admit it’s a really bad idea.
As a mediocre white man, I'm happy that she rejects what I am.
She labels him an f'boy and you're surprised when he's a f'boy.
Accountability 0 when it comes to most modern women
It's getting ridiculous now, how true that statement is 😂😂
Being called an f'boy by a skank doesn't sting very bad. Lol
Girls love fboys. They not labeled that until shit goes left though
😆
Its funny how it make sense to say an f’boy but not a f’boy. And at the same time if you were to say/spell it out a f***boy makes sense but an f***boy sounds weird
Social media has either ruined people’s self esteem or gassed them up so badly they can’t smell their own farts.
Stank ass ppl too busy doing duck faces for IG to realize they ass smell foul.
Real talk
Bwhahaha
And that's putting it lightly.
It’s a self-centred social media driven world. I actively avoid girls just out of not wanting to possibly be stuck in a shitty situation like that from the first damn day.
She said she brought all that to the table and was surprised when it take more than just her body for a relationship cause she missed with 5 guys in a row she's probably the common denominator
To trash him and call him mediocre, shows that she wasn’t really interested in him, she just wanted the first right of refusal. How dare he quit me before I get a chance to quit him first!!!!
And the free meal
Never thought about it that way! You're quite right!
Very true, they always want to be the one to dismiss you, when u take away that their ego is damaged & to fix it they try and sleep with tons of guys to feel better
A lot of women don't really want us to approach them or to really be in anything committed with us, they just like the right of first refusal. They do a lot of the things they complain about to men likewise, it's just that they generally have first rights of refusal, it's only a big hurt to the ego when we play the reverse uno card card on them.
@@kylereinhold1386 She paid for her meal, though. Lol
Funny. She states average guys basically don't want her, yet it never crosses her mind that indicates she's below average.
Goofy. You showcased your average cakes as your main selling point, then gave it away on the first link. His mission was accomplished
Hahah. She mad. She is probably good in bed, but who knows...lol
That man came in with a mission accomplished it and then skaddadled
lmao "Mission Passed!"
Man just wanted to git that nut. He nutted and then left the trash. Respeck!
For real 🙄😅
Sounds like he did everything right, he took her out, got to know her, got intimate, got to know her a little more then decided he wasn't as into her as much as he initially thought. Not a lot of people go into dating expecting a long relationship and it didn't sound like he said he was looking for one.
Or she lying and she THOUGHT she was more than A. I mean I hookup ALLLLLL the time but nah I'm not gonna throw u down asap unless timeconstraint. Imma talk a few then throw it down chat a few then peace. Then my ppl a little more upfront. Why tinder couldn't be copied EXACTLY like grindr because women don't operate like dudes
@@GH-hl8gu Body count will de-value a women for any man who wants a serious relationship with them. Also, showing yourself as a sex object and giving it out on the first date...he treated her as she projected herself. Women can't date like men, this video, perfect example. good take
Exactly
@@rickypelletier363 hope u have apply this rule to yourself🤧. No one likes a sexist
Never forget, if you're the protagonist of a story you tell, you will always fluff up your position and degrade the other's position to a certain degree. Take that into account too
This is what happens when you tell women they are perfect and they should be loved unconditionally without returning unconditional love for their whole lives.
It’s called pride always comes before a fall
You're not wrong
The second she gave up the pom pom on the first date she lost.
There's so much to say about this topic. All i have to say is I'm SO glad I removed myself from the 'dating scene'. There's so much bs, I see it all around me, and I've also been thru so much. Now I meet a guy, chat, enjoy the moment, then move on. You're not getting my number no chance 🚫 every time I dodge a bullet, I feel a victory.
It’s honestly really sad. Lady got rejected, and is so socially disliked that they don’t have any friends or family to ground them. Then they throw off nutterbutter ideas in an emotionally reactive moment into the ether in the hopes she finds an echo chamber to call home
Jesus Christ this is so accurate
This is how too many people deal with their issues today.
Damn...
Bingo!
I don't feel bad, it's her fault.
“What Susie says about Sally says more about Susie than it says of Sally.”
One of my favorite mindful quotes.
And boom goes the dynamite.
Where is that quote from? It's great.
Girl, it's okay to feel hurt about being rejected. Just don't pretend that you are so not interested in that dude when it's obvious that you were and that you're hurt.
Say "Damn, that hurt me." you can vent about it, but then move on. Rejection happens.
That's admitting accountability, a foreign concept to them.
I think Aba and Preach were right, I think it was mostly her ego that was hurt. I don't think she liked him that much, I just think she was offended that he didn't like her. 😂
It didn't even sound like he was rejecting her til she went over sensitive about a bunch of nothing
Why are you treating her like a little child?
She's a grown adult, she knows it's ok to be rejected. She's just a toxic, racist, misandrist that wants to put the blame on men instead of her disgusting personality.
but then she wouldn't be a narcisist
Thats really an integrity question, both man and women act nice and thats can come out like you like the other people. Keeping your integrity, being true to yoursefl is the key. Being a people pleaser can mess up people, especially if they don't grow social skills to see the difference between someone likeing you and someone just being nice. They think the date gone well, while for the other it obvious there is no point for a second date.
“A God complex and an inferiority complex”
So you have a very inflated and fragile sense of self-worth that comes crashing down anytime something like this happens because it’s mostly just a mask for low self-esteem. Sounds like therapy could be the answer here.
Hahaha too true!!!!
Sounds like a vulnerable/covert narcissist.
Makes sense human religions worship petty Gods who need constant reassurance that they are Gods to you OR ELSE. 🤣
She'd fit in well at an AA meeting.
Glad you wrote this Lmaooo
I was like how do you have a god complex and a inferiority complex
“People always assume you’ve got fucked up intentions if they’re feeling a fucked up emotion” 💯
Facts
Well guess she is not even medicore but low life :D
i have never been so proud of being "a mediocre white man"
Idk why but I love “mediocre white men”
These days it is the fashion to literally hate on white men, we are apparently everything that is wrong with the world. Makes me shake my head that they are screaming that "all white people/men are racist" and don't see the irony/hypocrisy in that statement. /shrug
I approve of your message and I'm a black guy.
Still not mediocre.
Right on brother. I'm a black dude and my best friends are "mediocre" (exceptional, actually) white men.
watched this video so many times and still couldn't find what she brought to the table. lmao
Funny, she "wasn't really into him away". I guess she wasn't really being honest with him either 🤷♀️
She was into him enough to let him smash though? 🤔
Lol right she looks like a fool
Excellent point
She’s crazy, a Karen in the works. I’ll say that she’s an inch away from the finish line.
@@Maddie9185 she made it with this post.
“I’m bringing this to the table”
“Ma’am, I’d like to talk to the chef”
“Oh you like it that much”
“No, I’d like to tell them to never make this again”
Waiter, there is no fly in this soup. Can I please get a fly dish.
Heh
Gordon Ramsey about to revive Kitchen Nightmares for this gjal.
"It's covered in grease, the thighs are all soggy and WOT THE FOK IS THAAT?"
😂😂😂
👏👏👏
" I am crying over the man i didn't even like" - women 2021. WHAT THE ACTUAL F...
That was just an excuse, she definitely liked him if she’s wasting all that energy crying about it on Tiktok. It’s just a front to make her seem “unbothered”
🤣🤣😂
@@Symora Yeah she definitely wouldnt make it in the acting business!!
White women are like that too I rejected one and they start crying like crazy.
No no no that woman 2021
I had to come back to this one. I have faced constant rejection for a few years now and it fuckin hurts. Some nights I do get sad and emotional over it. But this just makes me feel just a little bit better knowing that some of these rejections are just people who cant figure out their own shit. This woman just can not see all the different red flags she put up in this video. How many contradictions. It really does feel good knowing that sometimes, it really isnt me.
Her: "I bring this to he table"
*Shows off body*
Guy: "she gave me this from the table... on the first date."
Girl: " why can't I be valued for more than just my body."
How sway? How?
Irony is beautiful but honestly confused she hasn’t noticed
She brings her spaniel ears and hamster cheeks and there are no buyers? Shocking.
This comment was exactly what I was thinking.
So weird how men devalue women cuz of their segg count👁👁
@@qianaroyal1096 so weird how women devalue entire races based on one individual. Or how they devalue men based on how tall they are. Seg counts are your responsibility that you chose to do. If you sleep around with lots of men, either many relationships didn't work which is a red flag, or you might not be very loyal to a man if you in a relationship with him.
"I have a God complex and an inferiority complex."
So....mental instability?
I'm not making fun, I'm the same way. But let's call a duck a duck.
I didn’t know you could have both, simultaneously
Yeah it's like you have all these expectations of success and they aren't met
@@SynterraSteen You can, it's not good. It's typically an example of someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Sociopaths are perfect examples of that dichotomy.
Its called narcissism. The root of narcissism is extremely low self esteem and the need to be accepted. So they overcompensate by creating a false illusion of superiority to mask the horrible pain of inferiority that they really feel.
@@SynterraSteen yeah , be confident in yourself but not in what you think others think if you… it’s quite common
It warms my heart to think a mediocre white man can still get an average white woman at least twice.
😂
Lol
💀
@black guy 🧢🙄🤡
Seriously! It’s so funny to me that a white girl who is a 6 at best is gonna shit on average white men. The lack of self awareness is astounding
They were speaking real facts on this vid lmao I actually sat back and just listened not even really watching the vid and absorbed there takes on what she was saying. Fire
Notice how she used politics "Mediocre White Man" to deal with her own insecurity at being rejected?
That's a big thing we do in America nowadays, and it's reinforced by social media, sometimes even by therapists.
Politics has become a way of avoiding introspection.
Dave chapelle has a point
If you call “black men mediocre” would it be called politics?
@@michael7144 No need. America has already ascribed most of its ills to Black men. You must be new here.
@@michael7144 stfu Micheal were not talking about racism rn
@@oRuTRa45 not always, but the fact that the race of the guy is used as a shield from looking at your flaws is disgusting
"If he'd been honest with me from the get-go..."
Girl, no. I know people like you. The moment someone tells you; "nah, I'm not that interested in pursuing this any further", you'll throw a hissyfit.
😂🤦🏾♂️
Tis why fuck bois exists. I had a girl like this; I straight up asked her "Do you want an open relationship? are you a poly?" "No I only want one guy." She was fucking 4 guys a week. It *literally* doesn't compute to them. They're not just hypocrites, they're stupid.
@@swordofbored7018 some women tend to be unable to accurately convene their thoughts through words. I feel like this dependency on empathy and compassion and all those emotions didn't make them learn language properly.
@@swordofbored7018 she's a hypersexual sociopath
@@kuja5809 You're not wrong, she already has a body count. By that I mean kill count. I'm thankful I learned to swerve before I joined it.
As a "mediocre white man", I fully support Aba & Preach! Two men who speak truth.
Why did you rejected her tho
😂
PREACH BROTHER
Mediocre white man here and this girl doesn't even qualify for me.
defenitally
If someone gives me free ice cream but makes listen to their polka music while I eat it , I will come back for another free ice cream , but that doesn’t mean I’m going to go out and buy a polka album.
As a white fella I find this truly humorous.
White fellas are the best, in my opinion.
@@SuperMel81-j5l That sentence could easily be taken out of context xD
@@SamienBB *very* easily
@@SuperMel81-j5l hold up
Yes yes we do
I love how she complained that she wants a guy to like her for more than just her body but the begging of the video she shows off her body and says “I know what I bring to the table” 🤦🏽♂️
She brings potatoes to the table. She's already thinking about making him dinner because she damn sure built like a potato.
She is a classic example of how contradictory and illogical modern feminist thought about dating is. If you think you can mindlessly sleep around with effbois and expect someone that you want to take you seriously for a long-term committed relationship, let alone marriage, you are delusional and in for a world of hurt. There are exceptions, but most women think they are going to be exceptions and become embittered and blame men. Stop that shit and look in the mirror.
Lmao Fr my face was like this 😒 the whole time
Literally what I was thinking 😂
@@giornogiovanni5655 **mainstream feminism.
“…you haven’t been checked by life enough to humble yourself”
No truer words have ever been spoken, that so desperately needs to fall into her ears.
‘This is for all my girlies’ just so cringe….all these 3’s at best with gargantuan ‘street experience’ goin on about how they’re not being treated special like a Princess. Just crazy out there.
I'm just here thinking
"I bring THIS to the table"
Lady, there are 1000001 girls that look just like you and another 1000001 that look way better than you.
There's vanity and then theres thinking ur Hallie Berry & Tira Banks' love child.
everything that are over or less are bad thing should be balanced acordingly
Women: CONSENT IS FLUID!!! I'M ALLOWED TO CHANGE MY MIND.
Man: Changes his mind and say so politely.
Woman: HOW DARE YOU NOT PREPARE ME FOR THIS?!
Her " are you Just Looking for something casual"
Him" sniper out now on all digital plataforms bruv "
hilarious...
He cold clocked her faster then, sniper out now on all digital platforms.
Looooooooooool
hehehehehe
Why don't you value me for my body. Gives it up on the first date. yikes!!!!!!
Him: I gotta go, sniper out out on all digital platforms brvh!
Friendly fire will not be tolerated
😂😂😂😂
“I’m bringing this to the table.”
Bish, you showed up empty-handed.
You bring ONLY your body "to the table," and expect you're bringing a unicorn? 😂
It’s a shame she kind of cute and curvy. Oh well, what do I care.
@@eliarevalo ay homie, you can probably hit her up on whatever it is. She seems willing though to try again!
She isn't bringing only her body. She also has a whole host of red flags she thinks are cute. "God complex and an inferiority complex" are a hell of a mix. If you meet someone who says they have both and think it's cute is someone you should avoid at all costs. Narcissistic PoS in quirky girl clothing, every time.
@@JoeFailTank Careful with women who complain about a crappy dating history. That's a major red flag.
Right? There are a lot of women out here.
This is what mental illness looks like...and because we are insufferable and cruel in nature, we call it "kindness" to permit them to continue to run down the road of madness, rather than simply refusing to entertain this type of insane behavior.
Na this is narcissism. MH is a whole different thing then what ever her post was.
I think what you are trying to say is insanity.
@@berlinperez9433 Either way she ain't the one you want to marry or have kids with
@@berlinperez9433 This is more akin to Histrionic Personality Disorder. Emotionally unstable, dramatic, quickly attached, sexually inappropriate, views relationships as closer than what they are, etc.
And have you noticed mentally ill people have the power and all the jobs these days and u can’t defend yourself in any possible lawfull way?
@@berlinperez9433 MH?
She would break the table if she was brought to it. No way she’s serious with all that. This “fat acceptance” movement has gone way too far. Too many 3’s walking around acting like they are 10’s