Around 32-33 minutes (the discussion of recognizing narcissists) there was a question posed whether it was weird to introduce a friend mentioning their high school or college claim to fame somewhat. I would posit this is good etiquette practices, particularly, as it was stated this friend in question had gone to a private school. Old fashioned etiquette standards would state when introducing someone you state their name along with an interesting fact
Thank you for making me feel normal. I was double checking my narcism level when Chase was talking about this because I do this naturally… When introducing I will give an interesting fact, or I might tell them of a person/place they both have in common but they don’t know it, or maybe a hobby/interest I know they are both into, or, if I’m going out on a limb, I may mention a notable thing one of them has accomplished…I rarely see others doing this and because I have heard I could be doing this because I’m a major narcissist,like Chase said, I will try to check myself…but, nope I still do this 😁…I like to think I’m helping people to connect, or it’s because I want to celebrate others accolades, not because it would make me look good but because it’s so hard to be human in the first place. 🎉🎉🎉
@@beanyboomer5391 you are good here. It was literally taught as proper etiquette and how to be a good host. A host usually would introduce people in a group to the rest of the group mention something along with their name, as you said, that gives them a talking point…I don’t know how it could be read as narcissistic and I have known some I assure you. Now if it was all about them instead of the person, it would be different.
@@miblitz The thought is I have no accomplishments of my own so I “brag” about another’s so I can feel better about myself. Thing is, I feel great just being me! I have no need to take some else’s thunder. I am genuinely happy for others. And yes, I would introduce Chase as a best seller!!!. After all, he is an expert in his field, and he has so much experience and information to share. I know I would be excited to met an expert like him so I assume others would be too. (My husband says I sometimes “interrogate” people in my excitement of getting to know them 😗😗. I think where people went to high school, what their parents did for a living, and what their Ascending, Sun and Moon sign is fascinating. )
@@beanyboomer5391 I agree I’m the most curious person I know. Favorite color where you grew up favorite subject in school were you close with your older sister oh you like mysteries have you ever read X? I would introduce someone based on who I am introducing them to more than what I personally find most interesting.
I really enjoyed this interview too. You two had a great energy, pace and humor
Thank you. The episode did flow well.
Great interview. You have a great sense of humor
Thank you, but the guest is also a significant factor.
@@TysonFranklin he was amazing, not taking anything away from him
Around 32-33 minutes (the discussion of recognizing narcissists) there was a question posed whether it was weird to introduce a friend mentioning their high school or college claim to fame somewhat. I would posit this is good etiquette practices, particularly, as it was stated this friend in question had gone to a private school. Old fashioned etiquette standards would state when introducing someone you state their name along with an interesting fact
I found it odd, but I understand your point of view.
Thank you for making me feel normal. I was double checking my narcism level when Chase was talking about this because I do this naturally…
When introducing I will give an interesting fact, or I might tell them of a person/place they both have in common but they don’t know it, or maybe a hobby/interest I know they are both into, or, if I’m going out on a limb, I may mention a notable thing one of them has accomplished…I rarely see others doing this and because I have heard I could be doing this because I’m a major narcissist,like Chase said, I will try to check myself…but, nope I still do this 😁…I like to think I’m helping people to connect, or it’s because I want to celebrate others accolades, not because it would make me look good but because it’s so hard to be human in the first place. 🎉🎉🎉
@@beanyboomer5391 you are good here. It was literally taught as proper etiquette and how to be a good host. A host usually would introduce people in a group to the rest of the group mention something along with their name, as you said, that gives them a talking point…I don’t know how it could be read as narcissistic and I have known some I assure you. Now if it was all about them instead of the person, it would be different.
@@miblitz The thought is I have no accomplishments of my own so I “brag” about another’s so I can feel better about myself.
Thing is, I feel great just being me! I have no need to take some else’s thunder. I am genuinely happy for others.
And yes, I would introduce Chase as a best seller!!!. After all, he is an expert in his field, and he has so much experience and information to share.
I know I would be excited to met an expert like him so I assume others would be too.
(My husband says I sometimes “interrogate” people in my excitement of getting to know them 😗😗. I think where people went to high school, what their parents did for a living, and what their Ascending, Sun and Moon sign is fascinating. )
@@beanyboomer5391 I agree I’m the most curious person I know. Favorite color where you grew up favorite subject in school were you close with your older sister oh you like mysteries have you ever read X? I would introduce someone based on who I am introducing them to more than what I personally find most interesting.
Highly sensitive people naturalally feel and sense other people's energy. And judgement is part of analysis, and analysis is a part of judgement.
Oh hell. 😊