Around 32-33 minutes (the discussion of recognizing narcissists) there was a question posed whether it was weird to introduce a friend mentioning their high school or college claim to fame somewhat. I would posit this is good etiquette practices, particularly, as it was stated this friend in question had gone to a private school. Old fashioned etiquette standards would state when introducing someone you state their name along with an interesting fact
Thank you for making me feel normal. I was double checking my narcism level when Chase was talking about this because I do this naturally… When introducing I will give an interesting fact, or I might tell them of a person/place they both have in common but they don’t know it, or maybe a hobby/interest I know they are both into, or, if I’m going out on a limb, I may mention a notable thing one of them has accomplished…I rarely see others doing this and because I have heard I could be doing this because I’m a major narcissist,like Chase said, I will try to check myself…but, nope I still do this 😁…I like to think I’m helping people to connect, or it’s because I want to celebrate others accolades, not because it would make me look good but because it’s so hard to be human in the first place. 🎉🎉🎉
@@beanyboomer5391 you are good here. It was literally taught as proper etiquette and how to be a good host. A host usually would introduce people in a group to the rest of the group mention something along with their name, as you said, that gives them a talking point…I don’t know how it could be read as narcissistic and I have known some I assure you. Now if it was all about them instead of the person, it would be different.
@@miblitz The thought is I have no accomplishments of my own so I “brag” about another’s so I can feel better about myself. Thing is, I feel great just being me! I have no need to take some else’s thunder. I am genuinely happy for others. And yes, I would introduce Chase as a best seller!!!. After all, he is an expert in his field, and he has so much experience and information to share. I know I would be excited to met an expert like him so I assume others would be too. (My husband says I sometimes “interrogate” people in my excitement of getting to know them 😗😗. I think where people went to high school, what their parents did for a living, and what their Ascending, Sun and Moon sign is fascinating. )
@@beanyboomer5391 I agree I’m the most curious person I know. Favorite color where you grew up favorite subject in school were you close with your older sister oh you like mysteries have you ever read X? I would introduce someone based on who I am introducing them to more than what I personally find most interesting.
I really enjoyed this interview too. You two had a great energy, pace and humor
Thank you. The episode did flow well.
Highly sensitive people naturalally feel and sense other people's energy. And judgement is part of analysis, and analysis is a part of judgement.
Great interview. You have a great sense of humor
Thank you, but the guest is also a significant factor.
@@TysonFranklin he was amazing, not taking anything away from him
Around 32-33 minutes (the discussion of recognizing narcissists) there was a question posed whether it was weird to introduce a friend mentioning their high school or college claim to fame somewhat. I would posit this is good etiquette practices, particularly, as it was stated this friend in question had gone to a private school. Old fashioned etiquette standards would state when introducing someone you state their name along with an interesting fact
I found it odd, but I understand your point of view.
Thank you for making me feel normal. I was double checking my narcism level when Chase was talking about this because I do this naturally…
When introducing I will give an interesting fact, or I might tell them of a person/place they both have in common but they don’t know it, or maybe a hobby/interest I know they are both into, or, if I’m going out on a limb, I may mention a notable thing one of them has accomplished…I rarely see others doing this and because I have heard I could be doing this because I’m a major narcissist,like Chase said, I will try to check myself…but, nope I still do this 😁…I like to think I’m helping people to connect, or it’s because I want to celebrate others accolades, not because it would make me look good but because it’s so hard to be human in the first place. 🎉🎉🎉
@@beanyboomer5391 you are good here. It was literally taught as proper etiquette and how to be a good host. A host usually would introduce people in a group to the rest of the group mention something along with their name, as you said, that gives them a talking point…I don’t know how it could be read as narcissistic and I have known some I assure you. Now if it was all about them instead of the person, it would be different.
@@miblitz The thought is I have no accomplishments of my own so I “brag” about another’s so I can feel better about myself.
Thing is, I feel great just being me! I have no need to take some else’s thunder. I am genuinely happy for others.
And yes, I would introduce Chase as a best seller!!!. After all, he is an expert in his field, and he has so much experience and information to share.
I know I would be excited to met an expert like him so I assume others would be too.
(My husband says I sometimes “interrogate” people in my excitement of getting to know them 😗😗. I think where people went to high school, what their parents did for a living, and what their Ascending, Sun and Moon sign is fascinating. )
@@beanyboomer5391 I agree I’m the most curious person I know. Favorite color where you grew up favorite subject in school were you close with your older sister oh you like mysteries have you ever read X? I would introduce someone based on who I am introducing them to more than what I personally find most interesting.
Oh hell. 😊